| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 100 | Tinder hookup fail | Field Report | Silver-Flight8138 | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Can't get second dates? | Fundamentals | Silver-Flight8138 | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Feeling like i'm in a slump | Lifestyle | Silver-Flight8138 | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Texting and a roster | Outer Game | Silver-Flight8138 | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Tinder FR and advice | Field Report | Silver-Flight8138 | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Posts keep getting auto-filtered | Inner Game | Silver-Flight8138 | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 11:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -20 | Tinder hookup failI know i know, work has been crazy 💀 | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 05:06 PM |
| -22 | Tinder hookup failI know i know, work has been crazy 💀 | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 05:06 PM |
| -109 | Tinder hookup failI'm a good kisser w reviews and i brushed my teeth, so prob not Its mostly irritating bc i've been a 5 for 5 streak on girls (granted they were dates not booty calls) Now that i think of it though, i hadn't showered in a few days so maybe my hair/beard smelled | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Tinder hookup failNot as cringy as it sounds. She was talking ab how she got a blowout so it was a casual "can i feel it" | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 03:17 PM |
| 13 | I realized I’m not afraid of approaching girls, the fear is something differentIm the same way, but not even necessarily the rejection, just having people see what im doing. Almost like im ashamed of it | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 11:08 PM |
| 0 | How to go about cold approach when you have a kind of intimidating appearance?I would overcompensate on friendliness. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?When you find out let me know I have dudes telling me all the time that i'm handsome unprompted but i cant seem to get the girls i like to stick around | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 12:54 AM |
| 0 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?I disagree with this Go outside and find a guy you think is objectively really hot. Go follow him around. Girls will still walk past him and ignore him on the street... they aren't smiling at every cute guy they see. Maybe very occasionally. They don't even notice. You really dont know IOIs until you open a conversation. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Wanna start game but have social anxietyAll you can do is go out and try You will feel anxiety in the moment. You'll likely be in your own head. However, in my experience, there will be a moment where your brain shuts off and you go talk to the girl and have a great convo, almost like youre out of your own body. The more you realize you can do that, the more you can bring it to your command | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 06:53 AM |
| 4 | When did you start learning and practicing the gameLooks open the door... but your feet walk you through it | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Date last night [Rant]Same bro. Great date with LTR material. Made out at the end. Made the mistake of sending a text about another date later that night... ugh.... | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteemYes, i call this active cognition. Dunno the real term. But i started doing this a few weeks ago and it has greatly alleviated some depressive symptoms. It takes a lot of mindfulness but basically your thoughts control your mood | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?I understand brother, it can be difficult to build meaningful connections as an adult. I'm not where i want to be but i've gotten better over the past 6 months. Focus on relaxing, having fun, and taking legitimate interest in a person. Dont be afraid to show your personality and humor so the person doesnt feel like theyre talking to a brick wall You probably have close friends, so look at how you talk to them vs strangers and see the difference | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Can't get second dates?Thank you You're correct on date #2 for sure. I should have escalated earlier and had a longer time with a sexual tone to the date. She may have been getting "friend" vibes and the one makeout wasnt enough to fix it. Then when she got home she wasnt thinking ab me or remembering me romantically (or at least not as much as the other dude courting her) | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Can't get second dates?Thanks for the tough love this sounds about right | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Can't get second dates?I can see this I should have been acting more nonchalant about the sex in all scenarios | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Can't get second dates?Ugh it would be stupid if this is the issue | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Can't get second dates?Lol, #1 was definitely wet | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 08:35 PM |
| 29 | Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inactionI'd also emphasize to not extrapolate engagement levels across mediums High interest in person does not mean go home and text with high interest. Mirror, always | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | So tired of having great dates from dating apps and great interactions from cold approach. Just to get ghosted. I hate social circle but It’s my last option before becoming a passport bro. Any tips?What do you define as a great date that youre having? | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Feeling like i'm in a slumpI dont think so. A few people have seen my ex and said that i could do way better, both guys and girls. And i know they're not just being nice because i'm hearing that second hand, its not even being said to my face. I'll also have better looking girls flirt with me in person I agree thinking about leagues is stupid, i was just putting it in terms that could be understood. I'm not concerned with whether these girls are within my league or not, i am simply not attracted to them | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?Lack of interest will not build attraction, just keep it | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 05:02 PM |
| 22 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenYou all have such a weird obsession with the mystical Chad. Stop thinking in internet and start thinking in life. Who is the most attractive dude you know? Who is the most attractive but also awkward as fuck and weird dude you know? Which one gets more women? Thinking about being "chad" is cheap escapism. You think if you lift hard enough, mew long enough, you'll hit a magic point where you can text any women explicitly to fuck. This is comforting to you bc its easy. Mewing and lifting and whate… | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Texting and a rosterIn lieu of other inputs, i'll start. I think based on principles the best method is to text randomly either something funny or something cool I am doing. Maintaining an excitement/mystery as necessary. Alternatively, texting just to catch up. "Hey how was your week" blah blah. Demonstrating caring I've heard sending memes before... that could work once you know them better but prob not early stages. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Texting and a rosterGood idea | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Tinder FR and adviceThank you boss this is sound advice. You think I shouldnt even reach out on sunday? | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 07:09 PM |
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