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Wow, looks like the game has messed your head up. Is it really every womans job to try her best to withhold sex? And do you really think that when you bed a woman that she didn't know what was going on? Thats just silly, and what if you decide to forgo the F-close because you like her and I just so happen to catch her on a good night and get her first?
/r/seduction25/04/11 04:16 PM
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Had to look them up but I see what you mean.. good stuff Thanks.
/r/seduction19/04/11 01:08 PM
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They don't come in MagnumXL... not even Magnum :( that sucks
/r/seduction18/04/11 04:58 PM
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Entirely up to you man. There is a chance that if she only wants sex your out of luck if you tell her your a virgin BUT thats only a problem if you only want sex too. If you just want sex, don't tell her because she wants to have sex with you (I think this is wrong btw but I'm on your side) If you want a relationship tell her, but own it she'll respect you for it, might feel special for it, could possibly get scared of it but you know the game and if you own it she doesn't have to be scared.
/r/seduction14/04/11 10:06 PM
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Lol I bet he could get the pussy easier than a free DVD
/r/seduction14/04/11 08:31 PM
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This happened to me last week... twice, two different women both are trying to date me now. Happened to me a month ago... she just called and is coming over at 6. I like this question because I used to apologize too, and know the feelings that make you want to but really when you think about it for what? being a man?, having a sexy friend? As long as you can control yourself the action is respected. The standard of a gentleman still applies, the limits are just a lot higher than you think.
/r/seduction14/04/11 07:06 PM
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Looks good, you got her to qualify, built up a little rapport, made yourself sound like a great guy and are heading for a day 2 with a couple girls who like to flash when they are having a good time. Only advice: Don't get greedy, show one of your wings some love.
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:20 PM
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Your "type" is influenced by your answers which can be influenced by how you feel today.... or much more importantly how you've been affected. I've taken that test more than once over a span of 5 years and I've gotten conflicting results. I would be very curious for someone starting a 'self-help' path to take the test before and again some reasonable time after.
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:11 PM
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Set your own boundaries. You choose whether you want to ask a girl out once or three times before you give up. You also choose whether to wait 5 minutes or 15 if she's late, etc and so on. The biggest mistake you can make if your a soft heart is set your boundaries based on how you you feel, read FR's, ask your friends, or ask here more specifically and I'm sure people will answer. I'll give you an example, I would always ask girls out by saying "Would you like to... " not because I'm a bitch bu…
/r/seduction07/04/11 07:44 PM
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OH. My. Fuckin Goodness.... I have some of these and have never thought to use them this way. What the hell is wrong with me... I have the perfect person in mind too.
/r/seduction07/04/11 07:06 PM
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"Am I old enough to be in you?!.. Listen lady I'm a gentleman! (smile to smirk) lets have dinner at [restaurant] and we'll talk about it" But seriously... AskSeddit is that way ->
/r/seduction30/03/11 09:53 PM
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I was out with a girl on saturday that was literally flirting with every guy that grabbed her even when she was with me. I don't think I would have fought anybody for her if they really took her but I never had to talk to any of those dudes. She's a friend but attracted, we don't know each other too too well but I did want her to come home with me. What I did was let her talk/flirt for a few seconds then if he tried to move her or I felt like she was taking to long I'd go up to her from behind r…
/r/seduction29/03/11 05:15 PM
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I think of myself as a big guy, and I AM depending on who you ask. I grew up in a neighborhood where everybody my color had a six pack and your sole game was how sexual you could be. Being big is as much a handicap as being arrogant or selfish, ours is just on the outside its hard to disregard it because when people judge you on it its obvious. It also becomes easy to associate any negativity you receive to your weight. The only real way to deal with it is ignore it. If you were in shape you wou…
/r/seduction29/03/11 04:28 PM
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And bad boys don't discuss rejection, there's too many to count. On to the next one ->
/r/seduction28/03/11 09:46 PM
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You may just have to start caring less. Its not an easy lesson to learn and there aren't any mantra's that you may be able to get behind but I have this same problem, and I have it with strangers. Sometimes I've had to tell myself "This is normal", "I'm a man", "I'm the gas, shes the brakes". I can befriend most people and i'm not afraid to talk to anyone about anything legitimate, but get bothered for the same reasons you mentioned when it comes to being intimate. Sticking point: You don't want…
/r/seduction28/03/11 09:37 PM
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These are exactly the kind of girls I get one-itis for, I would have played the break up the same way you did. (by the way kids reading this, for this "play" to work you have to mean it) Who knows what could happen now thats she's kept your number. Play on brother, play on.
/r/seduction28/03/11 09:01 PM
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I've only ever had one girlfriend, mainly because I like my partner to be my partner, my teammate, a lot of seduction comes from the adventure of uncovering the unknown and hope. The unknown being the motivations of the person you desire and the hope that you fit in with those motivators, in a good partner you should know these things and when you learn them it eventually leads to a lack of "spark" as your describing. With mine we both started to feel this around the same time. I liked her socia…
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:31 PM
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This has happened to me in general. I was apparently flirting really hard with a good friend's (FwB) cousin. At one point the cousin asks me if I have any more lolipops I said sure but at home. She says lets go get them and me being dumb and really only thinking about lollipops say sure. As we are going to my car the friend and one other girl decide to invite themselves and I don't think one thought about it until the next day. Thats when I find out that if it had just been me and that girl I wo…
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:05 PM
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Same here. Not everyone has the time or patience to be a social hub, but the ones that are arent hard to befriend.
/r/seduction28/03/11 03:23 PM
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This is something I will always believe.... "Guys are the gas and girls are the brakes" Because this is the TRUTH I could never blame a homeboy for fucking a girl if she's fine he was supposed to pursue. Me equally being a man should have done the same or shouldn't be bitching about it. With the case of your friend he already dated and had his chance. I think you became a girl by putting on the brakes for your friend but I respect it. Your friend should work on his issues though, and you should …
/r/seduction28/03/11 03:12 PM
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Good question and great answer.
/r/seduction28/03/11 02:42 PM
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As an observer this has been a very hard thing for me to avoid but its the most crucial aspect of any "failures" I've had. I usually fail in the club or with strangers at social events but its because I'm doing what you just mentioned, I'm value scanning. I feel like i'm just looking for the "eye" but if I'm not amusing myself without treating the scene like a TV show any girl that eyes me is going to see me surveying the crowd NOT having fun. I notice when I'm not looking I have a better time, …
/r/seduction28/03/11 01:56 PM
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Because of seddit I know how to never have this happen to me.
/r/seduction25/03/11 09:31 PM
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I agree with both sides here, but I like thaeds advise the best. If you want to spend time with her go. Yeah you may be sliding into friend zone territory but your not going to do any better without some face time to show your qualities and let her choose. Also, heres one more little secret, you can fuck your friends if you do it right and personally I prefer it that way. Also, when you do go if you feel like its gotten away from you and your stuck in the zone, then come up with a new goal. If y…
/r/seduction22/03/11 07:57 PM
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I took the code mark up out.
/r/seduction07/03/11 08:19 PM
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Re-done maybe its easier to read now?
/r/seduction07/03/11 08:18 PM
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I'm trying to clean it up now actually. I hope it looks better.
/r/seduction07/03/11 05:06 PM
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No advice needed here young man, aside from the liability jokes definitely introduce some light touching and find a way to see her outside of the office. You may not be able to ask until the next computer issue but if she likes you that won't be long, just make sure you do it in private and don't make it sound like a big deal. Think more along the lines of: it would be cool to see you sometime when i'm not fixing your computer or transition the conversation to a more private form of communicatio…
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:33 PM
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You got an AMAZING response! She's either incredibly friendly or your sub-communications were awesomely attractive. Honestly I would have lost my balls after the first "hey", and if not I would have been upset after the first tap... hell if I would have tapped her again it at that point it wouldn't have been to say hi. I'm bringing it up because you still maintained a great frame even though you went straight for the number. I'm going to work on this myself because I'm even worse with missed cal…
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:15 PM
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Thats definitely an acceptance, with an opportunity to reschedule, though I hate the back and forth after a response like that. What is a good way to reschedule quickly? I usually ask whens good for them and rarely throw out a second time to meet but that may not be the right thing. Hopefully someone will have the smooth way to do this.
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:03 PM
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Sounds like fun, don't break frame and keep up the good work. What she knows or not doesn't matter, don't be afraid of it because she's obviously in to you no matter what the reason. I'm always worried about the set-up and the long con too so if thats whats going on in your head just remember that as long as you don't invest there's nothing to lose. As a matter of fact, just to give an anecdote, i'm an extremely honest person about things I shouldn't be honest about and surprisingly since I've b…
/r/seduction03/03/11 04:48 PM
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Wow... talk about really defining the situation I was expecting a talk about connotations in speech and word choice but this idea is just as awesome and an eye opener. I'm sure this applies to body language in much the same way. I learned 2 things: I use indirect speech frequently, and it is probably because i'm not sure of what relationship I'm in or in some cases refuse define it. I value mutual knowledge when it comes to concerns and apprehension... I introduce resistance by talking about cer…
/r/seduction03/03/11 03:15 PM
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Great analysis, I think its spot on and its 100% a routine but you can see he's got all the nuance down and if it weren't a movie you'd bet he'd have a response for almost anything she could say. Couple comments, Have no clue if they are right though. When she say's "life's kinda hard all around" isn't that another shit test or a blowoff? Either way it was something and gives the opportunity for the "Not if you pay attention" Also if the "big IOI" is her prompting him to continue "what would a m…
/r/seduction03/03/11 02:34 PM
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This black guy agree's with the other black guy, though you'll still get caught picking it. Sometimes its just too much to leave it in, sometimes it works, I make sure mine matches (or I use my black power one too), but I usually keep it in my pocket. Though I'm mixed so some people don't immediately think i'm black even with the afro, and I can't pick up the ones with the "black man fantasy" (Man those are so easy... It would be fun to get those) but hey if its a 70's party or its calibrated wi…
/r/seduction03/03/11 02:12 PM
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Good SHIT my friend! You manned up and did the right thing, I bet your still thinking about those lips though. The only reason I'm glad you shut her down is that paying for it wouldn't have done anything to fix your desire for her to supplicate. Like they say "Its not tricking if you got it" so its not the money that would have made you feel like shit in that deal. Stay on the road your on, keep living well and being nice but alpha with her, she'll need more than a trip to hawaii sooner than you…
/r/seduction02/03/11 06:19 PM
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I can't chase a girl thats in a rush like that unless she's extremely gorgeous and even then, I'd kick myself if i found out she a horrible quality or two. I think I'm stuck up on this one, but hey some people only eat at certain restaurants... shrug. I loved your first approach, your right its more important to swing and miss than not swing at all and unlike another FR that was posted before at least you seem to be a sociable person (people don't think your a creep/perv right away based on subc…
/r/seduction01/03/11 05:05 PM
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I like HW_Plainview's take on the situation, one thing you can never do is tell someone else what they were thinking, but your always free to interpret their actions as you wish and its usually valid. There are some great presuppositions in NLP that come to mind because they speak to this directly: As quoted from http://www.xanatos.com/fsc/NLPresuppositions.html The Meaning of Your Communication is the Response it Elicits. If you compliment someone and they slap you, it is more intelligent to re…
/r/seduction01/03/11 04:19 PM
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These are great points and its awesome to see it from the feminine perspective. I think whats really impressive (if this is true) is the introspection. You let yourself be affected by this guy, realized how you felt about it, then remembered the details that made you feel that way. Even the tone of writing is positive. Honestly, and I don't think I'm alone since I'm among redditors, I wish more people would do this to ME in all things. Maybe its from therapy as a young child but this kind of ana…
/r/seduction01/03/11 03:12 PM
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I got my eyes on the prize this time, i need to get hyped up for this phone call and day 2 to see where I can take things.
/r/seduction26/02/11 01:49 AM
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You NEVER go to a strip club to spend money. Unless you are obscenely rich or incredibly lazy, half naked girls dance at every night club for free and they take tips (drinks) if your going to be a trick. So yeah, but I should drink less if I'm going to be there so often.
/r/seduction26/02/11 01:33 AM
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Proving that chivalry wasn’t dead, Bry immediately pushed twenty bucks into the woman’s hands, saying “Here - you deserve this.” AKA they purchased half an hours worth of sucking up to some girl that was probably barred out or drunk. If he would have offered her some lube I bet she would have left in about 20 seconds..... Or maybe she would have stuck around ;)
/r/seduction26/02/11 01:30 AM
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This is exactly what i'm thinking, I'm kinda intimidated about this day two. I feel like it can go in any direction. The one that it won't go is getting her hooks in me, I think the trick for me will be to not be too defensive if she raises any of my flags (I grew up with girls) along with the other issues i'll be working on. and yeah she was mean for blocking us with the "go make some money line" she knows we don't spend money when we go in there, the rookie girl didn't ;) glad I called her out…
/r/seduction26/02/11 01:26 AM
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Thanks, I'm glad it reads well. I can't wait to meet her in the real world.
/r/seduction25/02/11 10:43 PM
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I've tried to play that question like a shit test ONCE and it backfired. She was genuinely interested and turned cold when I didn't give it to her, I've had the same thing happen with asking my name. I must be missing something in the sub-communications.
/r/seduction18/02/11 03:42 PM
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I don't know really. At the very least you need personal validation, I can't imagine what would happen if everyone thought they were worthless and ugly. But then again what if you DO think your worthless and/or ugly, whether you are or not its going to effect your attitude. And although attitude is everything it is easily swayed by what you think other people think of you. Anyway I think i'm way out of context. In the case of online attention seekers I think your right once again, its clearly se…
/r/seduction08/02/11 08:50 PM
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I normally wouldn't chime in here because your more right then wrong but I did have something worth sharing that might add perspective to the idea of attention whoring, especially online. I have seen this pattern with several women that are my friends. They post online for positive feedback about their looks because they don't receive any in their day to day lives and their personal view of themselves is completely fucked. Its so bad that even negative replies to the pictures are obsessed about.…
/r/seduction08/02/11 06:36 PM
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I thought about this a little bit and I would have to agree only if the following were to occur: First you express that your consent to sex is only under the condition that she is taking birth control. Second, she agrees and affirms that she is in fact on birth control. Thirdly, sex proceeds and somewhere in the middle she admits that she has deceived you, likes it raw and is not on birth control. and Finally, upon hearing this news you try to get her to stop, but because she's on top and your c…
/r/MensRights10/12/10 08:21 PM
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I wasn't with you until you mentioned her new child with the father out of the picture and the unemployment. The things before that could have gone either way, HOWEVER with just this story I can't believe they would still let her raise your children over you! Its an outrage that living in that situation is better on any level than living with you. It seems too common that the courts will take children away from fathers for simple things, something I like to call "Questionable Negligence", but fo…
/r/MensRights23/07/10 08:26 PM
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