Hey guys just thought i'd get your input on this, a lot of PUA's believe being the source of good emotions will attract a lot of female attention. Being centred in yourself, confident, knowing what you want and deserve out of life, being unaffected by people's negativity and having the ability to just have fun in just about every circumstance. To me that focuses very much inward and on yourself. Don't get me wrong i definitely agree with some of the principles and being a man of value means you don't actually need girls around you to feel validated and strong, which conveys the message of being attractive and alpha.

But here's the thing, what if you see something you want and you go after her. Showing the confidence that you know what you want out of life and are prepared to take it.

My question is exactly as the title suggests, in your opinion is it better to focus on getting your head in the right space first and then allowing women to enter your reality or do you prefer persuing and chasing after a girl not taking no for an answer (within reason)?

EDIT: spelling