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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | Wife filed for divorce | Simple_Bed9312 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 12:50 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Need AdviceYep, false accusations are coming...got one now resorting to that. Document, video tape, protect yourself...take pictures of any of her meds and get any diagnosis you can. Unstable people lie believing themselves. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/25 04:39 AM |
| 7 | How long until you started dating?Dating is the LAST thing that's NOT gonna happen. Period. I have read on Reddit how us men can go back to normal. Enjoying our hobbies, not thinking what she will think about it or worse yet what she'll do about it. Spend more money? Find a hobby herself and make you feel poor for not jumping on board..( literally both ways). Yeah. NO THANKS. Just the little bit of enjoyment i found rarely doing my hobby she kept reminding me and others how bad in every way it was. So check this out.... 1. If yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/25 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Feeling defeatedI want you to listen to me. Don't do it. I posted "wife just filed for divorce"...read it, read comments...I was in a place you are. Its not all about your Son...its about you always having him. I believe things have gotten worse for you and will continue unless you focus on some serious things going on in your life right now. Absolutely no drugs or drinking alcohol. You need someone to talk with...don't give up. Start with little wins. Clean up your car, get your clothes clean. Obviously there'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/25 03:18 AM |
| 10 | I’ve grown accustomed and don’t fucking care anymorePlease listen man...I currently am involved in a divorce. She has hit me, she spits in my face, she plays dress up and goes out and fucks other men and comes home tormenting me. Brother I understand....listen to me...you have got to be a cool customer...if she's gonna bring it up your gonna ring it up...try not to engage her or reply, if you want to get back, ignore her....how?...I filed for temporary custody....court case coming up soon...take your pain and energy into recording it, writing it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Wife filed for divorceShe has turned so nasty, the more I do not communicate with her and request 3rd party mediator through lawyer the more vindictive and hateful she is becoming. I do not text, call or speak to her and just today she took the remaining items of value. She was so "strong" and "focused" and told me she was prepared to live without me...now it seems she is flustered, upset, saddened at times. I also look away from her and silence myself. Court date soon... It seems for someone who's getting what they … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | RantKeep focused like you are...your noticing a change in yourself and that is important. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Help with AnxietyI do breathing techniques. Honestly. Deep breathe in, 5 seconds, exhale slow 5 seconds and repeat 5 times. STAY OFF ALCOHOL AND DRUGS!!! Talk to someone that will listen. Eat something even if your not hungry (if your blood sugar gets low anxiety gets worse). Know that other men like me are going through this also and WE HEAR YOU BROTHER. READ THE REPLIES THAT HELP YOU...which books to read, and try an get a support network going. I will admit since on Reddit I cry less now and I've toughened up… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Wife filed for divorceThank you, I needed this wake up call. Fuck her I'm already starting to accept it better, and Fuck Her if she decides she's made a terrible mistake. Never will I take that her back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Wife filed for divorceReading resources are next after thief inventory, prioritizing my life, kid is my priority. I have to stop treating STBEXW like she cares about me, clearly now she doesn't. I have to lean on friends and family, I have to remove her from my life. These things are gonna take shape for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Wife filed for divorceYour post is coming across the emergency channel and is like a blueprint for me to follow. I understand it takes courage im not sure how i did but I called my counselor, he has 2 people that called me and one guy is coming over to listen and talk with me. I really didn't think people cared because i reached out once before, was hurting like now and was told by her friend that things would be easier if I was not in the picture and just did it. She's a successful professional so I thought maybe sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 05:39 PM |
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