| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.I am not even a CEO, there are times / hours where I can't respond. Like 5 people hitting me up while doing something at work. But ya, days not responding is a bit different, just move on.. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:24 AM |
| 6 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeThis man just tried to pretend no conditions exist and everything can be fixed with just do it attitude. What he doesn't understand is what happens when your brain is fighting against you. If only the world were that easy. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:10 PM |
| 5 | I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly (or later) after meeting without much in returnYeah seriously. This guy is talking about spending a lot of money on dates. Bad idea, don't waste your time it is precious. I've found in life and with people, meet people at their energy. If they aren't into it, they aren't into it and there is no point even trying. Better off continuing to search until someone is into it. Don't spend huge amounts of emotional, physical, financial energy on someone you just met or are about to meet and instead of coming in with preconceived notions just see wha… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends?I used to think it is crazy. Now though, I don't think it is crazy. I really think they aren't trying to play with people, they just don't understand what they want themselves. That and feelings change from day to day. So offer them a sample, if they buy they buy if they don't move on. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.This is me, I had it but at this point really trying to justify the effort. So I've stopped trying and ironically things have gotten better, I have been told I give off a non needy vibe. Non needy seems to be pretty attractive. Seems to me the badder you want something the less attractive it is. So show attraction without neediness, however not being needy is the goal not the trick. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:08 AM |
| 3 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Yeah, that's basically what I do. I only do online as a distraction and try to meet them quickly. Basically if you haven't met, there is truly nothing, that is how I feel. Endless texting is not good for a relationship, I think in the future we will understand this format was shit. I am thinking more of an interactive experience with built-in video conferencing would waste less time. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 11:40 PM |
| 10 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)It's also more complicated than that. I have noticed MANY women on only on there to have what I will call an internet relationship. They want all the emotional support with none of the risk or responsibilities. So it's a self perpetuating problem. I have become less patient... So they may think I am trying to rush them, when in reality I don't want them wasting my time and trying to weed them out very quickly. Now I tell them straight up. I don't want a texting relationship, I want to talk to yo… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are bullshitWhy not go hit on her and her mom? I am not even joking, I was in Vegas at a bachelor party. Girl was partying with her mom went over and started talking to them, they were down. I think she just wanted to make sure her daughter was safe. That might even work for you, if you can make her and her mom feel comfortable you would already be in there. It's not even like anything needs to happen, you can just talk to them. This life is complicated. Rules are meant to be broken. in the words of Spike, … | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are bullshitYou said "It's just a source of meeting women just like any other" I don't think it is. The way you meet matters. However, I could be wrong. Most people are miserable on OLD supports me though. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 09:14 PM |
| 13 | Dating apps are bullshitI have to disagree, I am pretty ballsy. I will just ask women out and see what happens. You have to risk shit, they respect you for risking everything. When they see you are unphased by the world. When they see you are honest with yourself and don't expect anything, but are willing to put yourself out there they respect that. They respect you when you call them out on there shit. They respect you when you can treat attractive people like any other person. Forget love, as a man seek respect. I me… | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itYup, really the best advice isn't advice. My advice, none of this advice will help you, basically only trying new shit. Throw shit at the wall and see what sticks. You are a human with the ability to learn new skills and get better, unless you have autism, you may have trouble :(. You will learn and get better as a human, in my experience the hardest experiences taught me the most. If you can learn to be okay with discomfort and pain, you will do well not just with women, but basically everythin… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthLife of the party or so I am told. It really depends on the situation and the person. I am not a big fan of bullies, let's say that. Please go try to bully someone who cares. | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthThat's because you have no idea what I suggested or meant. If you think I don't know that looks matter a lot and how much game matters in making someone comfortable you are talking to the wrong person. So before you say anything, this is the internet and you have no idea who I am or who you are. My Co-worker was a top leader at one of our fraternities. Let's just say, I know where the party spots are. I work somewhere, let's say objectively speaking there are some of the most beautiful people on… | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthI think I see what his problem is. You see, you might be able to get women to have sex with you. However, if this is how you view women, it's no wonder they want nothing to do with him. If you want to just fuck, then yes keep treating the women in your life like this. You know what is funny though? You don't have to trick them, you really don't. If you are honest with them about your intentions and that you are okay either way, that's all man. Why complicate things? Why not just approach her and… | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Masculine Mannerisms/Carrying myselfI would say the main thing is a state of mind. A state of mind that no matter what you will be okay, that even if things go for you or against you, you will be able to deal with it. If you can only grasp onto what you are capable of, we limit ourselves. Before you relied on someone for something, now if you don't get what you want you easily walk away as if it is nothing. You move on until you get what you are looking for. People see that you don't need other people, that you are a source of str… | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirtingI think you are wrong. You are assuming attraction is only looks. Attraction especially for a woman is looks and personality a combination of both. Women are more selective than men and look at the entire package, everything you are. So if everything you are isn't attractive to her then yeah it won't work. However, you are coming from a zero sum game as if you can't be attractive to her. If your game is good, you can make up for things in other areas. However, yes, if you are throwing your best … | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Men, please don't be like this guy at the clubIunno, I think guy is worse than simps. Simps don't usually get violent to the level of this guy. Simps would probably just take it. This guy is straight dangerous and unstable, probably has mental issues. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 11:50 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]You have to be careful with all this "game." You are young still, take any advice you get with a grain of salt, the only advice that matters is your personal experience and what you have learned/experience. Yes, it definitely initially attracts a person, not even just a woman, but other people. They understand you understand your own worth, that is the key of this whole paragraph. You treat yourself with respect and demand others treat you with respect, that is the key to all of this. You won't … | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Woman leaves good husband for co worker, figures out grass isn’t greener on the other side.I worry about the guys in here... It's not good to hate so much. It turns out there are shitty men and women. It also turns out if you are a shit person you attract shit people. So how about instead of blaming all your problems on "women," you take personal responsibility, improve yourself and don't attract shit quality people and guard who you have in your life. There are plenty good people, but with your attitude they won't give you a fucking second and I wouldn't either, so much hate. You are… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/12/19 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Stop Getting So Hyped Up! NO Girl is EVER a For Sure Thing.Yeah this dude needs to self-reflect. He is making some sweeping generalizations not realizing he may be the problem. I would say this to almost all people on this sub, yeah it's probably you. You are the problem, I am the problem, that is the only way to grow as a human. If you think you have figured it out, you haven't. TBH, I also fell into this trap. Acting "cool" thinking it is the right thing to do. I kind of understand it, not wanting to be overbearing. However, you are also showing her t… | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 09:47 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter