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Well for me, some of the deciding factors are her attitude. That's a big one. Is she loud? Obnoxious? Is she bossy? Is she rude? Does she threaten to hit me or actually hit me? Does she act better than others? Does she treat waitstaff good? Does she expect things? Is she grateful when she gets things? How does she act when we're alone? How does she act in public? She is a representation of you when in public. If she's an obnoxious idiot it will reflect on you. For me, having 20 bodies at the age…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 12:15 PM
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So? His money doesn't pay my bills and I don't care if someone "gets pussy". That means nothing to me. But you do your little creepy worship of a sex trafficker.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 12:01 PM
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Yeah it's sad to see these new guys following that clown.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 10:06 PM
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That depends on what you consider LTR material. Is a girl with a high body count ok to you? What about a girl that goes to the clubs? What about a church girl? Or a girl that doesn't have a large social media presence? Basically it's individual. For me a girl with a high body count or that goes out to clubs wouldn't be LTR material. Nor would a girl who isn't inherently submissive. And I mean BDSM submissive not just follows a man's lead. If she doesn't enjoy getting Dominated in and out of bed …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 10:04 PM
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Correct, it's about a man and a woman, and another man, and some other men, freeing society from the hidden truth that machines run a simulation while they harvest energy from humans. It's just a movie. The Red Pill is about disconnecting from the idea that Feminism and Disney Princess movies telling us "go worship that woman and she will be yours!"
/r/TheRedPill18/01/24 08:36 PM
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The Red Pill, in the movie and in real life, are about unplugging from the mass belief system. The system, in real life, of feminism, Disney Princess and similar. It's not about getting married, that's your choice if you want. But even prenups aren't 100% safe. Judges have overruled them. There's zero reason to get married in the US. You can if you want. But you shouldn't if you're a man. Who are you to dictate what TRP is or isn't? You claim that being religious, getting married, having kids, a…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 01:14 PM
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Telling a woman you're not interested in marriage and convincing her that you're not interested in marriage are two different things. "I'll change his mind. He's just not ready yet." etc
/r/TheRedPill01/12/23 04:16 PM
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Sit her down and explain to her that you're not going to get married. Not to her, not to anyone. Let her know that if she wants to end things and find someone who will get married then she's free to do that. But don't string her along, don't cheat on her and don't fuck your coworker. She can claim sexual harassment and then you're out of a job or worse.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 03:40 PM
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If it was a female friend, why wouldn't she text you to let you know that she's ok? Simple answer. She would. But she didn't. Because it wasn't a female friend. Walk away.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 12:48 AM
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Telling her that you think she's lying will make her defensive and she'll start explaining it. Leaving the possibility that she gaslights OP into believing her and taking her back. Better off to just accept it. And end things when she comes back home.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 12:46 AM
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First off. Have you contacted her? More than once? Either way. End it. There's zero reason to keep doing this with her. Move on. Find someone local you can be with who will respect you and will treat you right. Be ready to walk away if she's not treating you right. As for this girl. "This isn't working out. I wish you the best." and that's it. YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE AN EXPLANATION. Reread that until you get it. Do not explain yourself to her. Just walk away. You should go on with your life. IF she…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 04:43 AM
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Mentally ended it with her. With zero response. Don't be mad. Just, in your mind, break up with her. She's already ended it with you. She hasn't contacted you after spending a "girls night" out with some guys. One of whom she probably fucked. if she wanted to be with you she wouldn't have sent that video, wouldn't have joked about you being jealous and would have contacted you the next morning. Just let her go. Only allow women who respect you and want to be with you in your life.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 04:11 AM
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He is not the prize in this relationship. He's not valuable at all. She has all the power and knows he will keep coming back for more.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 04:08 AM
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Move on. She's done with you. Be done with her. Don't be in a long distance relationship. They don't work out. She has many options and when you're not around, you're not one of them. If she cared about you she'd reach out. She hasn't. She doesn't. Time to move on. If she does text you back just tell her "This isn't working out. I wish you the best." and then move on with your life.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 04:04 AM
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I probably won't hit her back up Why? 1 of 3 things will happen. 1. She'll tell you she's not interested. 2. She'll agree to meet sometime and you'll make it happen. 3. She ignores and/or blocks you. 1 and 3 you get your answer and move on. 2 you smash. Why would you automatically put yourself into 1 or 3? Just casually set something up. Either it happens or it doesn't. You can move on if she's not interested. She's not going to chase you. But you have to at least try once if you want to smash.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/23 08:47 PM
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Don't tell a woman how "Sexy, cute, pretty, beautiful" etc she is. hundreds of guys a day tell her that. You can compliment her but make it specific and don't overdo it. once is enough. "I love the color of your eyes" or "That hairstyle looks good on you." That will make her feel incredibly happy. It's specific to her. Also you pushed too hard to fuck the milf. She would not have danced with you if she wasn't interested. But she has kids so that will take up most of her time. Play it by ear but …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/23 09:56 AM
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Sit her down and talk to her, like a man would, and explain that her past is a problem for you. Explain that you are giving her the option of breaking up or being friends with benefits. Whichever she chooses you're fine with.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 07:48 PM
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Betas infiltrated this to try and destroy it from the inside. TRP become known outside the manosphere and idiots like Andrew Tate took the philosophies and corrupted them. (If Andrew Tate is a hero to you, you need help.) Men here need to understand that TRP is a toolbox. Use what you need and don't use what you don't need. For me it's not about seducing women. I've done that. It's about building my life and becoming the best person I can. The best man I can.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 11:07 AM
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What can you do to get yourself out of this situation? Figure that out. Write it down if you need to. Because tomorrow if she kicks you out you're homeless, jobless, broke and fucked. The job market is not fucked. There are jobs out there. Warehouses don't care about a DUI 5 years ago. No they don't pay well but they pay. Do something to get back on your own feet. I was in your shoes. Stuck with a woman I didn't like or respect with no job or options to leave. It fucked me up. But it is somethin…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/23 12:08 AM
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Stop chasing women. If you're as good looking and outgoing and cool as you claim women should be open to you. Pursue your life. Go after your goals. Never make women your goals. They are an accessory. Develop friendships, real, lasting, strong friendships. Hang out with them and you'll meet women easily. But for fucks sake stop making women a priority. IDC how young and horny you are. And your title is the dumbest thing here. "Should I move out of my parents house." Yes. You're a grown up now. G…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 01:44 AM
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You care way too much. If this girl cheated on you or broke up with you it would devastate you. You need to change that. You need to be a "take it or leave it" kind of man. You need to set rules such as "no going to the club" She can either follow them or break them. You can't control her. The bikini thing is dumb. Who cares if a guy looks at her? So what? Are you going to get mad if she wears a skirt in public and some guy checks out her ass? Come on. As long as she's going home with you it doe…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 11:04 AM
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She doesn't sound like a hoe. She sounds like someone who wants to go out and party, a wanna be hoe if you will. But she's willing to back down to OP's demands. The issue is, why is OP so insecure?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 10:55 AM
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and cheat on her imo. IMO cheating is weak. Either don't cheat or break up. But if you cheat on someone you're weak. That's my take. Male or female cheating is weakness.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 10:53 AM
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This is the point that many people new to TRP don't grasp. Live your life for you. Not for seeking out women. Women shouldn't be the point of your life outside of work. Fun and good times should be. Go out, enjoy yourself, enjoy being with your friends. If you're having fun and relaxed and confident you'll be more successful. It's the people that go out specifically to find a woman that struggle more.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/23 06:29 PM
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The RedPill is a toolbox. Use what works for you. This honestly reads like a feminist trying to infiltrate and destroy TRP from the inside.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 03:41 AM
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That depends on where you are meeting women. If they are ghetto then they are not relationship material. No matter their skin color. I've dated good black women and shitty white women. I've dated the reverse too. Skin color, ethnicity etc had nothing to do with it. Mods please remove this, we don't need Admins to have another reason to shut this sub down.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 09:31 PM
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Exactly. I'm not either. My life is too short for that.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 07:16 PM
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Don't go on a friendly date unless you just want to be friends. She's making it clear she has no romantic interest in you. She wants to be friends and nothing more. If you're not ok with that then cancel the dinner unless you both agree to pay. Walk away.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 06:19 PM
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What games? She's saying she wants to be friends. She's not being deceptive.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 06:18 PM
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She's saying "let's be friends" Say "no thanks" and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 06:17 PM
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What do you want? Us to motivate you to get your shit together? Only you can do that. Be the kind of person you want to be. It's not too late. You're 30ish years away from retiring. Lose weight, work out, eat right, find a good career and crush life.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 06:52 PM
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Don't make your life about women. Give your life some purpose and women will come to you. That is the single most important advice Red Pill can give you. Do you think actors, professional athletes etc make their lives about women? No. They make it about their careers. And women flock to them because they are in shape, have a purpose that isn't chasing pussy, and have options outside of them. From other women to hanging out with guys to working out to working on their profession. Get a life outsi…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:21 PM
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You didn't mix business with pleasure. When the next guy breaks her heart do you think he'll still have a job? No. You will.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/22 04:43 PM
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Dump her. She's probably with some other guy sexually. STOP spending money on women. Stop kissing their asses. Pull back, focus on you, work out and eat right, develop an IDGAF attitude and a way hotter woman will come into your life. You sound very insecure, low confidence and stop sharing feelings with women. They expect you to be strong for her. You showed weakness on a daily scale but simping and spending money on her. Lift for you. Live for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/22 04:41 PM
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This sounds whiney. As for the majority of men never reproducing, it's because more men are born then women. Because men are expendable. We die in wars, workplaces and everywhere else and yet the human race still produces tons of people.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 02:32 PM
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Not being sure is beta territory. What? Women give mixed signals. It's possible to not see what they are. Being unsure about a woman's intentions doesn't make you beta. It proves you are thinking about both sides. Betas only see the positive outcome they want. Stop throwing out "Beta" like it's some catchword you're parroting. Saying "Beta" offers no real help to him for his growth. You'd be more helpful saying "Don't do that"
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 01:53 AM
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Picture it from a female's perspective: "Do you want to go to the science fair with me?" "I'm going to the science fair. You're welcome to come with me." Notice how the first one sounds like you're asking her out. The second sounds like "I'm going. You can join me or not." It shows her that you don't depend on her. You live a good life with or without her. She can join you or not. Either way you're doing your thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 01:50 AM
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It sounds like you came across as too needy or desperate to her and she ghosted you. I could be wrong. Keep in mind, and this is for EVERY guy here. WOMEN DO NOT LEAVE THEIR PHONES. If she says "I didn't have my phone on me." or "My phone was charging" or any other excuse including (and I've actually heard women tell me this) "I don't have a phone" They are lying. No woman over the age of 10 doesn't have a smart phone with social media. My mother is 81 and has a smart phone. All women have their…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 01:46 AM
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Personally I say enjoy your time. If you feel like going for sex do it, if not that's fine too. It honestly sounds like you're feeling her more as a friend than a romantic partner but perhaps not.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 01:10 AM
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Keep doing what you're doing. You're mourning the death of a relationship. It takes time to fully get it out of your system. Especially when a woman wears away at your masculinity and makes you beta.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/22 03:27 AM
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Even if he was, which he's clearly not, so what?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 11:51 PM
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She might be. It's still an insult not a joke. At least in the context provided in the post.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 05:46 AM
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They can. Calling a woman fat isn't a joke. it's just an insult.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 05:37 AM
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Is that all you have to offer? Nothing of value?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 02:52 AM
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That summarizes my first impression of him. It's clearly an act and a persona. I mean it's so over the top that it's funny. But I'm willing to listen to someone even if they look like a clown because they may have something to say. But I very much got a "take what he says with a grain of salt" vibe from him from the get go.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:40 PM
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Because he is attempting to educate people about something that is related to or affects the manosphere. Why do you care that he cares?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:38 PM
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See that right there is not something a stupid person would think or say. So you need to know that you aren't stupid. You're smart enough to know to record a crazy chick and protect yourself. That's smart.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 05:44 PM
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Yes she sounds like she's into you. However: about her dad beating her or her uncle trying to sleep with her when she was a kid. Run. Don't date her, don't go on a date with her and don't do anything with her. She is very damaged goods. Protect yourself. Let your boss know in an offhand way that so-and-so might be into you but you're not into her. You don't want to file a sexual harassment charge or anything but that you are letting them know incase something ever comes up in the future. She MIG…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 05:42 PM
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He said he was a skinny white "preppy" type guy. Why go to pay for a chance at pussy or pay for pussy when he can get paid to get girls then end up hooking up later?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:46 AM
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It's his first experience with a girl who is open about having a boyfriend yet heavy into him, since swallowing the pill. Perhaps offer some support, advice or don't bother commenting?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:45 AM
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What about his post sounds like a jerk?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:43 AM
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Yup. The game has always been here. New players come and go. But the game is the game.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 10:56 PM
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There's literally no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 04:06 AM
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For men, anal sex is a taboo. And that makes it desirable. Something they want but can't have. Porn has really skewed men in that area. But if you enjoy it then let your partner know when you're comfortable enough. It's nothing to be ashamed of nor is it to be celebrated.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 04:05 AM
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Some men, not all, but some men will lie to get what they want. Including lie to be in a relationship, hoping they can change your mind about sex, just to get sex. It's incredibly dishonest to not only you but to themselves as well. But it happens a lot more than society is willing to say. It sounds like he was doing this. Placating you to keep you strung along hoping you'd change your mind about sex. He grew to resent you because you wouldn't have sex (which is his fault since you were upfront …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 03:59 AM
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To men, porn is a fantasy. Nothing more. You cannot fulfil the role of porn. Even if you did anything he wanted sexually he'd still find some porn he likes that doesn't include you. It's NOT about you. It's about an unobtainable fantasy. Don't stress. Porn is not real life. It's not an indictment of you. It's not personal for him. It's not a way of saying you're not good enough. Pushing him to stop or lessen it will only lead to resentment. It becomes an issue when he constantly chooses porn ove…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 03:49 AM
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Your mentality needs to change. Stop being afraid to talk to women. They are just people. Here's what worked for me. Say hello or compliment almost every woman you see. An old lady in the supermarket is wearing a big necklace "I like your necklace" and keep walking. See a lady with nice hair "You I like your hairstyle" and keep walking. No risk. She feels good for a while and you have made progress. Start off by just saying hello. Even in passing. Soon it'll become so easy to say something to a …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 01:14 PM
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68% is overweight or obese. I'm just commenting that the US, while it does have a weight problem, isn't as bad as most people make it out to be. Keep in mind that of that 68% only 36% is obese and 32% overweight.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 01:06 PM
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Be the kind of man that women chase.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 03:57 AM
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Just an FYI. The US is 12th in Obesity.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 03:56 AM
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I'm not sure why you'd take a girl to Tennessee. There isn't much there. And depending on where you live it might be difficult to make it there for a date.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 03:09 AM
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OP said to text her 1 hour before the date. So she has 1 hour to get ready and meet you if she forgot.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 03:05 AM
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You cannot be lead on without your consent. You chose to go on 4 dates, spending money on her and not getting what you wanted. That's on you. Not her. But you've learned and are bettering yourself. That's good. time to delete her. Don't need to block her or announce it. Just remove her from your mind and life. She is living in your head rent free.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 03:00 AM
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She probably doesn't even remember you. She certainly won't regret not fucking you two years ago. And she 100% WILL think you're a creep if she ever finds out you've been living your life trying to prove her wrong. You're obsessed with her. Please let her go for your sake.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:57 AM
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I've heard "This sub has gone to shit" for the past 7 years. And it was happening before that. It's just 1 post of someone complaining about a girl he still likes.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:54 AM
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What would be the better outcome or outlook here? Blocking her forever and she never hearing from me again? OR See me succeed and becoming successful? Which one will be more effective, which one will cuase more rage or regret? The fact that a great man leave you or just some random dude? There it is. You're still hung up on her. You WANT her to be hurt that she rejected you. You want her to be upset that she missed out on all the things you became. Well what if she doesn't? What if she sees your…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:53 AM
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Why is she still in your social media? Get rid of her. She brings nothing positive to your life.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:50 AM
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Exactly. In many areas of the south there are few to no black people in the small towns. So the white people were brought up racist because they simply never met a black person. There were no interracial couples. Go a few towns over to a bigger city and you'd see plenty of black and white people, some of who were together. Married, dating, walking together, whatever. It's about the village. We humans do it. In high school you dated or wanted to date who you went to high school with. Because ther…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:47 AM
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You have allowed yourself to be used. No one can use you without your consent. But at least you know it so you can prevent it now. That's good. Stop dwelling on some woman no longer in your life. Live your best life. It's YOUR life. Not someone elses. I'm also 50, childless, never married etc. But it's ok. Just stop comparing yourself to others. Stop wishing "what if". Stop complaining about things and make the life you want. At 50 it's damn hard to get with women younger than 30 unless you're v…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 12:19 PM
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As others have said No one deserves anything. You don't "deserve" food, shelter, clothing, protection, anything. You want food? Go earn it. By either working for the money to buy it or grow it. You want shelter? Earn the money or build it. etc. Neither men nor women are entitled to anything in life. No living creature is entitled to anything. "Deserve" is one of the most selfish words ever.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/22 10:40 PM
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Here in America, society (and largely by Hollywood)has been drilled in men's heads that women are princesses and you should never hit a woman or similar. So when a man chooses to respect himself it's seen as misogynistic.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/22 02:51 AM
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It's about respecting yourself and knowing your worth. For some reason the feminists don't want men to be able to say no to a woman, or don't want us to stand up for ourselves. Could it be because it takes the power over you away from a woman and gives it back to you. Have you ever seen a man afraid of his wife? A man who sleeps on the couch because he upsets his wife/gf? Imagine someone telling you where you can and cannot sleep in your own house? Have you ever seen a woman slap a man? Or yell …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/22 02:48 AM
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Nope. They don't. They think and trust that she doesn't even know. That she is friends with him and some day it'll lead to more. Perhaps when she gets tired of all those "bad boys" and gets with a "nice guy". Source: I used to be one of those nice guy orbiters who would try to weasel in.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 10:32 PM
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So you don't have anything useful to add?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 10:28 PM
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So why do you date us if not for us being 'sly or smart'?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 08:33 PM
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Who is talking about the Red Pill? Why are you associating or hanging around with those who openly talk about the Red Pill? Any PUA can read a book or blog or watch a video about how to pick up girls. If they walk up to a woman and admit they "neg" women or "peacock" then they aren't going to have any success. Why would you? If you admit you use tricks or tactics to try and get laid then you won't. People are trying to explain to you, but you're so dug in, that it isn't completely about getting …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:54 PM
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You sound incredibly immature. I doubt you'll still be around in 6 months. But that's ok. If you try to improve to get laid you're going to have poor results and your entire identity will be wrapped up in your success with women. If you improve you will draw women to you naturally. Be the kind of man that the kind of woman you want to sleep with will find attractive.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:47 PM
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Sarcasm helps get your point across, how? Look if you're telling people about The Red Pill, or Red Pill tactics, or even admitting you are into it, you're not Alpha, you're not at a level that women will respect you. Because you use gimmicks to attract women, and they can see through that. It's not about TRP, it's not about TRP being perceived as misogynist. It's about you talking about TRP. When you don't need to. With who you don't need to. You don't try to convert people. Men find The Red Pil…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:45 PM
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"Red what?" "Oh I don't do much of that online stuff. Check out some fitness forums but that's about it. And the occasional cooking site. You know?" And you do not talk about Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:40 PM
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What do you have to add to this?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/22 06:25 PM
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Excuses. Excuses. Excuses. That's all you're doing. Do you think high value men make excuses? Do you think men with multiple woman as options daily make excuses? No. Stop making excuses. Stop arguing with people giving you advice here. Stop posting and read the side bar. A good start to get over oneitis is to read the Red Pill Toolkit. But read the entire sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/22 12:36 PM
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People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Are you allowing yourself to be talked down to infront of other people? Put a stop to that. You have a reputation among them as someone who is slow to get things. Pull the biggest offender off to the side and explain to them maturely. Do not allow them to push back. It's not a discussion. They are not going to treat you with disrespect and remain in your circle of friends. They can pick one but not both. Honestly it sounds like they've cemented t…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 02:54 PM
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You lost all credibility when you started calling things "gay"
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 10:21 PM
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So you're allowing her to dictate the terms, rather than setting them yourself. You are the one that said she's disrespecting you by talking shit to other people. You've been given advice. Argue with me or don't. Listen to others giving you advice or don't.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 04:36 PM
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First: She invited you into her room, alone, to watch a movie. DUH! That's the sign she wants you to make a move. Her feelings are hurt that you rejected her. Second: Why have you tolerated her disrespecting you for months? Seriously? Sit her down and talk to her. Do not apologize. Make it clear that she needs to treat you with respect or she can find somewhere else to live because you won't tolerate disrespect. Do not fall for her trying to turn things around, etc. THE NUMBER ONE RULE WHEN TALK…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 09:11 PM
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PUA, TRP, MGTOW, Incels all have two subsets. Good and bad I'll use MGTOW/Incels as an example. They started from a base concept. MGTOW: We don't need women. We're perfectly fine without them. Incels: I've done everything women, Hollywood and society told me I'm supposed to to and women still get with bad boys. Then the bad subset broke off from both. MGTOW: Fuck Women! Women are bitches. We don't need them! Incels: It's not fair. I'm a good guy (We all know what that means) I deserve pussy. It'…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 08:14 PM
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What are you, a teenager? You were petting and getting blueballed over and over. Why would you put up with that if you're a quality man?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 02:53 PM
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The first 3 paragraphs are whiney as fuck. "Whaaaa!" Stop making girls your priority. Have you not internalized that yet? Ask yourself this question. What can girls do for me that I can't do for myself? "Get laid?" you have 2 hands. If you're no fap that's fine. Channel that energy into something else. Work out harder. Work on your job harder. ​ It sounds like your libido is resetting itself since you're going no fap. Focus on other things besides girls. Girls should be because you enjoy having …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 02:45 PM
1

Working out has so many benefits beyond just being muscular. It builds self confidence, it builds dedication and kills procrastination, it works on killing your ego. And so many other benefits. ​ What this sub has become now? Granted I've only been here for 5 years so I can't speak to before that, but it's ALWAYS been about LIFTing. Because of the dozens of benefits to a man. ​ If you have health conditions you can work around that and build a program that works for you. If you are in health you…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 02:39 PM
7

Start by reading the side bar. Next begin working out and eating healthy.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 11:55 PM
3

Why?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 11:00 PM
24

Before you start throwing around terms like Liberal, understand that people from all walks of life and thoughts are RP members.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 01:58 AM
1

That's like saying to a black person "As long as you're not breaking the law, the cops won't pull you over." It's not based in reality. Too many men get falsely accused of rape. No one is saying to be paranoid and 100% guarded. No one is saying it WILL happen. All they're saying is be careful because it COULD happen. It HAS happened plenty of times in the past. To other men who felt "I've never raped anyone so I have nothing to fear." ​ And you don't even have to get arrested. An accusation with…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 08:39 PM
24

The Red Pill is a toolbox. If you are working on a car you might need a wrench, socket set, a screwdriver, a few other tools. But you don't need a hammer, a saw, etc. Use the tools you need for the job and don't worry about the others. ​ Also not everyone on TRP is about TRP life. Some are trolls, some are blue pills trying to tear down the sub, some are know-it-alls despite not putting in the work, etc. The Endorsed and above know their shit. It's not just talk with them. ​ I very strongly reco…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 02:23 AM
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Neediness kills attraction in women. Neediness reminds women of children. Children are the opposite of sexual attraction for women. So she stops thinking of you as a man and starts thinking of you as a child. Thus no sexual attraction or interest. ​ How do you stop being needy? You develop a life without her. A life that, if she left, would continue to grow better every day. A life that, if she left, you'd be just fine because you have other interests besides her. ​ Once you stop "needing" her s…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 02:19 AM
2

You've said 'White-knighting" twice in response to this. You're just parroting things you've seen online. You have nothing of value to say. You're noise. We need more signal. You're not it. ​ This subreddit is to help each other. To improve each other. You come here saying stupid things like you're clever and you're not. So it's time you left.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 12:55 AM
6

I assume you mean 10.5? or 15? Because you'd be dead with 1.5% body fat.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 05:24 AM
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You're gonna judge someone trying to help others? Who cares what he calls himself on TRP? Offer something of substance or STFU
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 05:21 AM
7

Unwilling. Not unable. Keep reading and learning. Work on improving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 09:15 PM
6

One thing that helped me is to say something to women you see. Woman in the grocery store? "I like your earrings" and keep going about your day. It'll make them smile and you have zero investment. Do it to old, young, fat, whatever type of women. Even just saying "Hello" or "How are you doing?" and keep going.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 09:13 PM
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Women don't want to know men have problems. To them that's whining. And whining is what kids do. She wants to see you be strong for her. If you had a bad day at work she doesn't want to hear about it. Car troubles? Fix it but don't talk about it. If she's bitching about some problem she has she doesn't want you to tell her about a similar problem. She wants to vent. ​ So yes, "sorry to hear that" or "That sounds tough" is the right answer in some cases.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 05:18 AM
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Women want you to be their rock. Not their therapist. OP did that. He listened, He allowed her to get out what she needed to get out and didn't try to make her feel better or solve her problems.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 04:36 AM
11

Did you have something intelligent to share or just want to act like that?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 06:47 AM
1

"The most idiots of all" ​ ... ​ What?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 12:34 AM
4

Set things up for after quarantine, "or you know if you ever get lonely" They may text you one night asking you to come over 1 on 1. They may not.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 10:45 PM
30

Older women have more responsibilities and more concerns. Jobs/kids/family, etc. So they feel they have more to lose by not being able to work for a couple of weeks.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 08:24 PM
13

Because women wouldn't have the slightest idea how to be an alpha man. Or what a man goes through every day. Or how to attract a woman, as a man. Or what it's like building up the courage to approach a woman only to have her laugh in your face or even turn her back on you.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 10:09 PM
2

Riiiiiiigght. So you're the big bad Alpha?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 05:36 PM
1

Your capslock button is stuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 05:20 PM
24

What do you think women are?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 10:43 AM
59

Get rid of her ASAP! She never brought you that coffee. She can't be trusted. ​ In all seriousness, good job. I might have answered with something along the lines of "Yes, where's my coffee?" with a smile. ​ ​ Plain and simple guys, Be a rock. Be her rock. 100% of the time when she tells you her problems she doesn't want a solution. She wants to be heard. If she asks "what should I do?" or for advice then you can offer it. But otherwise she just wants to vent. So listen and let her know you're l…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 10:42 AM
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You were nervous because of the situation, having to be quiet and sneaky as well as losing your virginity. No big deal. Next time don't put any pressure on yourself. It'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 03:35 AM
1

The clock is ticking on your girlfriend. I'm dead serious. She is going to dump you soon.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 11:56 PM
2

Have you never met a White Knight?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 02:58 AM
24

If you don't think prison makes guys more Dominant than you've never been there, It's a very predatory life. Eat or be eaten.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 08:40 AM
9

You are just parroting the word "boomer" not even realizing that baby boomers were from 1945-1964. What next? Sheeple? Cuck? hmm what catchphrase word will you type next that everyone else uses instead of thinking for yourself?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 08:37 AM
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The whole idea of a controlling woman in comedy goes back at least to the 1940's. Guys joking about going out but "you better ask your wife. haha!" or "my wife won't let me" or "I'll be in the doghouse when I get home" etc. It's probably as old as civilization. Because men accept it. "That's just how she is" The same thing can be said about abusers. And it's a form of emotional abuse. ​ OP is right. Stand up for yourself. Respect yourself. Do not tolerate bad behavior. Correct it politely but fi…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 01:52 AM
2

Anything that lets them know it doesn't phase you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 11:27 PM
5

Why would a man care what impression he leaves on a hoe? And don't blame women for any problems. Look inward and improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 02:51 PM
2

One of the best things you had going for you was he was pursuing her and you weren't. She thought you were more mysterious and aloof. That's catnip to women.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 09:39 PM
5

How many of those guys have actually gone out and tried out the strategies in TRP? In real life, on real women? How many times have you? ​ I promise you that women want and need a man to lead them. I've been in a number of Dom/sub relationships. Many of the women were in positions of leadership at work and didn't want to be in charge or think for themselves. That is what they told me. Trust me if you are strong, in charge and sure of yourself women will find that attractive. Try it for 1 week an…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 04:40 AM
6

The one who cares the least has the most power.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 11:10 PM
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Literally almost anything. She will bring her girlfriends into the bedroom. She'll cancel plans to bring you food in the hopes you'll pay her attention. Shell buy things for you without you asking. She'll do almost anything sexually etc. Name it and she'll probably do it for the right man. The NEED to please the desired Alpha is so strong she'll do anything to be worthy of his time.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 11:07 PM
2

It's like turning on the kitchen light at night and the roaches scurry. All the beta males coming out of the woodwork to say that GLO is beta/insecure/trolling etc. What he's said is true. The example he gave us just that. An example. First off do you think GLO cares if some female gets mad for posting a pic to her Instagram? Do you think he cares if you dislike this post or his example? Did you do what you needed to do today to work towards your goal? I bet not. So before you set fire to your k…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 04:05 AM
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I don't care if a woman finds my lines funny or creepy. I don't care if people like me. I'm enjoying life. If she scowls I smile and walk away with my dignity intact. Because I have no ego. I'm not invested in others opinion of me.v
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:24 AM
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That's like saying feminists are using a political agenda to control sex, which they (the females) possess to control people.... Wait a minute!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 07:17 AM
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Yeah I'm pretty sure TRP isn't invading other countries with militaries, killing millions of people for being a certain type nor conducting experiments, using any method, on people while stealing or destroying treasures. Not literally Nazi Germany.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 07:15 AM
1

Psychology isn't a science?
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:06 AM
1

Pickup lines have been around since at least the 1950's. My guess is for probably 100 years more than that at least. They stay around because they work. ​ There is science behind PUA techniques. The guys who use them are sleazy indeed but they do work done by the right guy.
/r/seduction25/02/20 07:43 AM
1

What's the difference between a PUA line and a pickup line which have been around for decades?
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:22 AM
1

We'll try to survive without you.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:20 AM
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I'm an adult and enjoy making out with persons. So your dour tone and judgemental attitude aren't helping in this post.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:54 PM
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"I can't tell. Let's kiss and I'll tell you." and smile. If she still acts like a bitch laugh and walk away without another word.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:53 PM
1

You offered nothing of value to this. No input on why this is "cringe" other than sounding like a teenager trying to be edgy. What makes it cringe? How should he do it? He said it works for him, What works for you? See those are questions designed to add input to make things better. Not just a pop culture word trying to seem cool.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:52 PM
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No. If you have confidence it helps a lot. That's attractive to people.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:51 PM
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You offered nothing of value to this. No input on why this is "cringe" other than sounding like a teenager trying to be edgy. What makes it cringe? How should he do it? He said it works for him, What works for you? See those are questions designed to add input to make things better. Not just a pop culture word trying to seem cool.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:50 PM
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No. There's nothing wrong with being flirtatious. You're just mad because you don't have the confidence to pull this off and want others to fail like you do.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:49 PM
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I'd bet money that the ones you described at the end about being pleasant-minded are because their husbands were Dominant or Alpha at home. They tolerated no stepping out of line.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:57 PM
4

A unicorn is called a unicorn because it's a mythical creature. Like any country there are exceptions on a case by case basis. But women in China are the same as women in the UK, same as in the US, same as in Saudi Arabia, same as in Brazil etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:56 PM
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Romanian and Ukrainian women are brutal. I stay away from them. But I agree with your assessment. Women are women. No matter where you go. Some cultures just hide it better.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:53 PM
1

Figure out what you're eating that is causing the bloating/over eating feeling that causes vomiting. I doubt it's the diet but instead it's the food itself. Maybe your body is rejecting too much protein at once or too much fiber or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/20 11:08 PM
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Chad is just the personification of an Alpha male. It's not an incel concept. It's just a name and image given to Alpha males. Chad the stereotypical Frat bro who is muscular, good looking, dresses nice, and pulls the hottest pussy. That's all Chad is. ​ Alpha is not a RP concept. It's been around decades longer than RP. RP is Alpha aware. Aware of what women really are, how society and especially media and movies/TV have brainwashed us to fantasize about the Disney princess and about how men me…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 04:56 AM
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Because TV execs give no fucks about the contestants and people who work on the show. It's cheap money for them. It costs very little, easy to get high ratings (which lures advertisers) and they get to do little work for a big payoff. If a contestant kills themselves "meh". They just do another season.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 04:51 AM
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Have a life worth enjoying and living. When you don't need women and have a good career, enjoying your free time doing what you like and have quality friends your life has much more value and enjoyment than some loser. Yes you had to work hard at it but you have an enjoyable life and aren't chasing women. You can approach them with no pressure and if they reject you, which some will, you feel no regret or shame. Because your life has meaning beyond women and sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 04:49 AM
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Physical attraction is necessary to get the meeting but what you bring to the table is what's needed to make the sale. Being 6'+ and muscular with a good looking face will get you opportunities someone like me will never have. That's ok. I work with what I have. I'll never pull a 9 and I'm ok with that. ​ But the average guy can up his looks and SMV to be able to pull and close with attractive women. He just won't get supermodels and movie stars.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 02:46 AM
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Usually I'd agree with that statement but nothing in his post suggested that. He stated that he loves to dance in Techno clubs. That's his reason for going there. He likes the music, the DJ's style (some nights) and the dancing & having fun.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 02:42 AM
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You did a good job and deserve the respect you received.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 02:32 AM
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Except you can't swallow your tongue, it's physically impossible unless it becomes detached. The issue is the person might bite their tongue. Which is why people used to use belts, wallets etc. So basically you did nothing. But the appearance of heroism is more important than the actual heroism.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 05:54 PM
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pretending company without giving me anything sexual in return That's exactly what see she's doing. Are you fucking her? No. But you might in the future... some day... hopefully... perhaps. If she was going to fuck you she would have. She's checking to see if you're branch swinging material maybe. But otherwise no she's using your time. I say drop her and move on to someone more receptive. But you won't listen to us.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 11:23 PM
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I agree. You're orbiting her. Hamster it away all you want but you're putting yourself in a position to be with her often. Instead of her being with you. Let this one go. Backing off will make you more attractive to her. And other women.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 09:48 PM
1

How dare you!? How dare you!!!??? Nah. I get it. On a case by case basis some women are better than men. Look at your average nurse vs Charles Manson etc. But overall yes men are better than woman in modern US society. We work, suffer and sacrifice. Woman bask in the adoration of beta males who thirst for the mere hint of attention from any 3 or better.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 10:00 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but what would happen?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 10:19 PM
3

Keep in mind that the original boyfriend is neither the fiance nor the baby daddy.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 03:18 AM
19

The signs were there but you missed them. You see that now. Also by trying to win her back it makes you look like the bad guy. But you know that now. Obviously you now realize to never put your hands on an angry woman. Learn from your mistakes. Write them down if you have to. Move on from her. Show no emotion about her. Not to anyone Learn from this.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 09:24 PM
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Exactly. Cuffing is simply entering a relationship. Girls cuff guys (especially this time of year so they can get presents and/or bring them home to family for the holidays.) And guys cuff girls.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:12 PM
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I've watched the video previously. His premise is that because the study that originally said that wolves had an Alpha male was debunked that wolves don'thave an alpha male and that humans don't have an alpha male. It's incredibly thin. And the show, Adam Ruins Everything, has been proven to be wrong on several subjects.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 08:32 PM
1

Nice humblebrag. Please make a point when you post.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 09:36 AM
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I'm going to disagree with #4. Answering texts. If I happen to have my phone in my hand and get a text I'll respond then. If not I'll get to it when I get to it. If you're busy and doing things then you won't have to play games. You'll simply be unavailable to respond right then. I get your point. Don't be too available but I don't have time or the patience for games.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 10:37 AM
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The cops will ALWAYS take a female's side. They are some of the biggest and most dangerous white knights. Keep in mind that they deal with a lot of domestic abuse where the man did beat her. So they are biased and rightfully so. But they are never going to be on your side. Even when presented with proof.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 12:15 AM
2

How do you not know this? It's explained to death on the sidebar. Not to mention the fact that women around ages 25-29 start looking for a man to marry and build a family with. Basically she stops clubbing, taking care of her body (except when she's single and looking for a man) etc. She's looking for security not pleasure. That's the wall.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 08:58 PM
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Anything in America that disrupts the notion that women are special and are to be worshipped will be scorned. That is the state of our country. TV/movies/media in all forms, politicians court women voters and beta males, the courts, so on and so forth.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:51 AM
4

Would you now? Perhaps you're familiar with this subreddits rule about this very thing?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 07:29 PM
9

I don't know why these new members are getting lazy and just posting videos but it's annoying. We can do better.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 07:26 PM
1

Op is talking about linguistics in his original post but now it's semantics. Dominance without confidence is a disgusting thing to see. I've seen it. Confidence trumps Dominance every time. Confidence is the opposite of neediness. And as we know neediness is the biggest panty drier out there.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 01:02 AM
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Except your description of woman is off. Men don't like women who are submissive because they are easier to fuck. We like them because for the species, a submissive women is more likely to not only be receptive (as opposed to combative) to a Dominant (Alpha) male but also more willing to raise the family rather than trying to disrupt the family life with her own ideas. For survival it makes more sense for a woman to be submissive and willing to raise the children while the man is out risking his…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 09:30 PM
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But it helps those that are newer to the Red Pill. And it solidifies for those of us who have been here for years. We need more posts like this.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 04:59 PM
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Men prefer submissive women and women prefer Dominant men. It's almost as if The Red Pill called it years ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 04:58 PM
2

So you insult us, then you link to a video on YouTube and what makes it worse is it's a Drake video. Literally nothing about this is Red Pill. Infact it breaks TRPs rule about using an example from fiction.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 02:55 AM
2

Since when has a video with no context or summary been allowed on TRP?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 12:38 PM
18

When I was 22 I met a super religious girl. The day we met I fucked her ass because she was on her period. Religious girls are freaks.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 11:42 AM
2

"I'll see you there." Or no response. You're going one way or another. With or without her.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:54 PM
0

Guys who display that they have their shit together are the opposite of bad boys. Good boys as re bland, boring and get put into the beta bucks category. Being a mystery drives women crazy. The reason they love bad boys is that it kicks in their maternal instinct. They want to fix the bad boy. Mother him. (Which of course is a quick path to dry pussy)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 07:03 PM
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She's clearly not a quality woman. But that's ok for your first time. Next time just act like you know what you're doing. Go for it. Kiss her. Don't ever shake a woman's hand except when you first meet her. (or in business of course) after that go for hugs, kisses, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 02:47 PM
2

Maybe this sub isn't for you? It's about men bettering themselves. All you seem to be doing is trying to win arguments with people on the internet. Now I could be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 02:55 AM
1

So you'll take advice from famous comedians. But you won't take advice from fat guys UNLESS they are famous comedians?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 04:32 AM
2

So you''d never take advice from Patrice O'Neil? Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 01:34 AM
2

I'm sure there are others who can help with your cognitive dissonance better than I. However when I said get her pissed off at you I'm talking about not only getting her so mad she never wants to speak to you, I'm talking about burning your bridge with her. But also getting pissed at her. For whatever reason that is the strongest way for me to end oneitis feelings with a girl. Getting mad at her is how I sometimes force myself to get over her. ​ I don't think getting high and making a fool of yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 12:14 PM
2

That depends on the boundary and what's happened before. Does she use your deodorant after you've told her not to before? You explain to her rationally. I wouldn't end it over that. But if she calls/texts/hangs out with her ex after I've told her not to then it's over. It all depends.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 05:41 AM
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she’s perfection and I’m a nobody You're in Med school, a STEM field and she's doing what exactly? Posting pics on her Instagram? You even acknowledged she isn't that hot. Stop thinking of her as some angel, some impossible person. Go seek her out and start a fight with her. The kind of fight where she never wants to talk to you again. Then you're forced to move on. Years from now you'll be pissed at how foolish you are focusing on her while crushing it in your career. Take her off the pedestal …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 05:39 AM
1

Be happy with the fact you pulled two 7's. And slept with one of them. (Goth girls are my type) ​ Just realize that you're human, you'll desire acceptance and human contact. We all do. You did good. Real good. Just continue to work on improving yourself. Don't beat yourself up. Instead use it as a chance to improve. Get some guy friends and hang out with them during down time. But not if they are losers. Stoners who sit around all day playing video games, etc. You need quality men in your life. …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 02:12 AM
12

Agreed. Women light up when they meet a man who can cook. I'm living in the south so you know women like to cook/eat. Her: "You can cook?" Me: "Damn right! I'm a good cook too." She smiles. ​ Boys today don't know how to do anything other than cook mac & cheese, order pizza or take her to Taco Bell.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 02:24 AM
9

It's a PUA term. Basically it means the flirty touching done between people on a date or hanging out. Say you meet a girl at the bar. You sit and talk, enjoying your drinks, she giggles and you brush hair out of her face, place your hand on her leg, hold her hand, kiss her, etc. All the touching and physical intimacy between people.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 02:21 AM
14

Laugh and say "let me know how that works out for you." Amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 02:19 AM
1

If you're referring to what I think you are the guy basically dashed and dined from restaurants on dates with women over and over, did it with hairstylists and other places. Fraud. ​ Assuming we're both talking about the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 02:13 AM
3

Men and women are not the same. Please explain why men and women are the same. I'm genuinely curious how you plan on proving that. ​ Because my experiences with women of all ages, financial backgrounds and whatever other metric lines up with TRP. Women will always choose the better guy, They love orbiters, they do NOT love the way we men love, and yes women have so many options that they get guys literally throwing money at them so why not get free meals, gifts, bills paid etc?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 02:12 AM
2

Reduced to? Red Pill has always been about outcome independence, among other things. So if OP wants to block women who reject him why does it bother you? How long have you been here that you say "Is this what TRP has been reduced to?" And what are you contributing to make it a better place for men?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 01:41 AM
1

Why can't a person do both?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 05:53 AM
1

So because you enter a LTR you want to watch a woman fuck another man? That's what cucked (from Cuckolding) means.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 05:01 AM
2

Why?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 02:00 AM
3

It sounds like you did good and she's into you. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to escalate. If you feel like touching her, do it. If not don't. Don't worry about feeling like a creep. Make a joke about her being a blonde (even better if her hair isn't blonde) and lift her hair to check her roots. Whisper a secret in her ear. Little things like that get her used to your touch and being intimate. ​ You did good. Don't put pressure on yourself. She might not have been the type to meet and f…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 11:51 AM
2

So let me get this right, because you sound like you have Game all figured out, I'm not allowed to let women approach me, flirt with me and invite me out on a date (casual or intimate) because it's not Alpha/RedPill/Manly etc? So I just make sure to reject any girl that shows the slightest bit of interest in me unless I initiated it? Ok got that I think. Do I also tell her no if she offers to sleep with me or blow me before I bring it up? What if she offers to pay for something or just shows up …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 08:09 PM
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the girl was obviously interested in meeting you ​ I disagree. She was obviously trying to get things for free off OP. Trying to use him like she uses other guys. Her first words were basically "buy me and my friend a drink" aka give me something that costs you money, for free. She was interested in being pampered and using OP. ​ He handled it correctly. He tried being nice and let them know he was no chump. She turned her back on him. So cya later.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 05:59 PM
3

Exactly. If Bill Gates walked into a club in a suit and sat down at a table, 90% of the women wouldn't have a clue who he was or how wealthy he was. Maybe closer to 95-97%. But women would not be throwing pussy at him because of his looks. And probably because he doesn't carry himself with confidence.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 02:46 PM
4

Your mission. ​ Not women, but your mission. Women will come to you when you are on your mission. Yes you'll still have to approach and seduce women of course. But women will find reasons to be near you or talk to you when your SMV improves enough.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 02:44 PM
3

"You better pay me or my pimp will beat you up." ​ "..."
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 02:42 PM
1

It sounds like you are finding a way to control the end of the relationship., You are ending it before she has a chance to by either breaking up with you (after a time of nasty fights) or cheating on you. So you end things. ​ It may be subconscious. And I may very well be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 01:30 AM
2

A couple of years while she gets lazier and fatter and you're in your prime? Go get better women now, not in a couple of years.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 01:28 AM
1

Think about who Chad is. He's a muscular, funny, confident guy who draws women to him with charisma and looks. He dresses nice. He shows off his muscles. His attitude is cocky and funny. Women love it. ​ Chads are most definitely made.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:24 AM
15

I deleted Tinder. All it was is fat single mothers looking for "security" aka Beta Bucks. There were tons of good looking women but those were all bots. This is based off my current area.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:47 AM
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Something that I've had to explain to beta friends who literally whine they can't get hot girls like the gym bunnies I ignore because I'm working out not gawking at some 24 year old girl in brand new spandex. ​ I tell them the truth: To get the kind of girls you want to get you have to be the kind of guy she wants to be with. ​ This is why men claim women only want guys with money. Most women I've encountered want a man with money but not because they are golddiggers. But because a man with mone…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:42 AM
2

Think about this. You applied dread by using Agree and Amplify on her shit test. What did she do? She jumped your bones. You passed that shit test with flying colors. What are you complaining about? That you didn't get a bj? ​ So next time agree and amply again but don't let her ride you or get that good fucking "Not until I get an enthusiastic blowjob from you." or "Worship me with your mouth" Something to let her know that you were in charge and that she was going to start giving you blowjobs.…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 12:48 AM
1

Doesn't it make sense to decide that before the dinner? So she can't use you for free food?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 01:18 AM
15

I'll assume INTJ is a type of autism so I'll explain. Pee pee feels good when it goes inside her vee vee hole.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 01:15 AM
1

This has been on TRP for years and it was silly before and it's silly now. OWN. THAT. SHIT. Simple as that, Own your height. Don't run from it by trying to be taller, Yes we short guys have it harder than naturally 6' tall guys. But that's like saying fat women have it harder than fit women. They do but with confidence, charm and especially humor you can be very attractive. Even to women who would never even give a guy under 6' a second glance. ​ Make her laugh, play off her shit tests, agree an…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 01:08 AM
2

Don't pay attention to trying to be taller. It's silly. Just own that shit. I'm also 5'6" AND I'm post 40. So I understand how it's not easy on us smaller guys. I tell them crazy stuff like "We're both the same height laying down." or "I'll be taller than you when you're on your knees." with a smile. Own. That. Shit. Got a big nose? Own it. Got a fucked up left arm? Own that shit son. ​ Pass on the ones who make it a dealbreaker. And there are many, many of them. It's popular to "only get with g…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 02:48 AM
1

Well TRP is here to educate fellow men about the realities of life and the dating world. So it's knowledge we want to share with those that seek it out. People have to come here and read the posts. They are not posted on Twitter or facebook or other places so people can read it without context. In some ways I disagree with you, as stated just now, in others I agree. As in not telling women or your buddies about it. They might not understand it and many people resist change.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 02:39 AM
2

Damaged goods - A person, in this case a woman, with emotional baggage. Such as ex bf issues, daddy issues, baby daddy issues, BDP, post wall etc. A woman, usually 35+ who is attracted to and often pursues Younger men men (18-29 usually) for casual sex rather than a relationship. IOI is Indication of Interest. It could be her legs facing you during a conversation rather then facing away, playing with her hair, eyes looking at your eyes and or/lips (indication she is thinking about kissing you) o…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 02:35 AM
1

My response to "What do you do for work?" is: "I'm part of a bureau that licenses, monitors and polices...alien activity on the planet Earth." Bonus points if they get the reference.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 04:19 PM
3

"All of them have been women."
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 04:15 PM
1

My personal favorites to the "I have a boyfriend" shit test are : 1. That's ok. He can watch. 2. I don't want his number, I want yours. Both have gotten me shocked laughs every time. After the second rejection I simply say "ok" and move on. "Buy me a drink" 'Why would I do that?' "To be nice." 'Why don't you give me a blowjob? You know to be nice?"
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 04:14 PM
1

I use Reddit Enhancement Suite addon for chrome and it allows me to click a link at the top to enter TRP or any other sub I've favorited.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 09:57 PM
2

Question. When TRP gets banned does that mean all the subscribers get banned too or does it just prevent access to the subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:36 PM
1

I use an app called Pocket. Not only does it work on the browser and the reddit app but you can save them online and even view them offline. I can read Red Pill posts on my phone even if my data is off or if my service is shut off. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:34 PM
3

This is something I'm currently working on as well. Head up, spine straight, chest out, shoulders back. It still feels odd from a lifetime of hunched over and looking at the ground as I walk. But damn if it doesn't feel confident. Once it becomes habit I know I won't have to "Fake it til I make it."
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 10:53 PM
2

How is this not a successful one? You flirted with, and could have slept with at least 1, if not 2, girls. You laughed, had fun, enjoyed yourself. gave no shits, flirted/got flirted with and generally enjoyed a night at a bar with no stress, drama or anxiety. On top of that you learned something that will improve you in the future. That sounds successful to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 11:02 PM
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Actually....The reason they showed up late, they went to the wrong bar, were cold etc is that the tingles were gone. They were drinking, having laughs, flirting, getting flirted with, laughed and flirted with OP etc. They were riding that high. The next day was a date. They had to get ready to go to meet OP, They weren't riding the high of all the laughs and flirting. Tingles. That's why they became flaky OP. At least you know now that you should have closed that night and not the next day. We a…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:59 PM
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I disagree. Most beta male friends will crab bucket you. I've seen far too many guys sabotage another guy when talking to a female. You sound like you've got good friends who are also beta as opposed to having betas who are friends.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 12:12 PM
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Why do children get mad when they are throwing a tantrum and you refuse to give in to their demands?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 02:15 AM
1

I've only ever seen the mods ban people for breaking the rules. And even then they usually don't do it hardhanded. I've seen regular people argue with EC's. No ban. Because they debate was civil and both sides stayed on topic. But if you troll, insult, moralize, etc and are reported then you're probably going to get banned. It's all done in an attempt to create a smaller pool of people who help with poignant advice rather than just get emotional. (signal to noise ratio as the mods put it)
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 02:11 AM
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How about the stalking, telling people they were dating after fucking once, or I don't know bursting into his work with her dad so he could meet the boyfriend? Perhaps it was threatening to wreck his car with a picture of the car? I don't know? How can you not see how crazy that is?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:13 AM
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We don't moralize here. If OP wants to sleep with another man's gf then that's his choice. Her relationship is none of his concern. Afterall she is going to bang someone, it might as well be OP.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:04 AM
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Why? The rest of the post is solid. It gives a nice example of push/pull and he ignores her shit tests which she can't get enough of. Would you care to offer some more info as to why the post isn't helpful or did you just want to share your disagreement with his political choices?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:01 AM
1

I believe in the app it's in the info thing, an i with a circle around it. It should have links there.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 12:55 AM
1

When I walk up he sticks out his hand and says, "Hi I'm Keith, nice to meet you!" with a big smile. "I'm flattered really but I'm with her. Thank you though." Take her hand and walk off with her
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 01:29 AM
1

Think. There HAS to be a better way to end the encounter without fighting.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 01:24 AM
2

See? You're too in your head. Overthinking it. If you keep it up she'll notice it and that will be the end of it with her. Just have fun.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 01:20 AM
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You're WAY too in your head. Stop over thinking it. Just lead her where you want to go and go for it. Can't get fully hard? forget about it and do something else like make up or get blown/eat her pussy. Whatever. But STOP worrying so much. Next time work on keeping the conversation light. Tease her. Don't worry about the "perfect" thing to say. If she asks what you do for a living say something like "I'm a professional dumpster diver." say it with a straight face then 1 second later smile with a…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:39 AM
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Next time you see her in class immediately approach her and talk to her. Don't think about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 07:07 PM
3

Submissive doesn't mean mindless doormat. I've know women who were lawyers, executive assistants, nurses, real estate agents etc who are very submissive. You're finding the wrong women, and you're not vetting well enough, if that's the case. Find a woman who can submit but has her own life and you'll be much happier. When she's around you she should be adoring and obedient. When she's not she should be doing her own thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 11:39 AM
3

I'm glad for you that you're at a point where you're cognizant of this. However don't blame her, or any woman really. It's how society as a whole teaches all of us to behave with women. Society teaches all of us that women are special, feminine, dainty, precious and should be revered and adored. Even though we've all met some horrible, downright shitty women, we are told to praise them and accept their "flaws". Man up! That's right. Take care of another man's children. Because she shouldn't be e…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 07:06 PM
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Hold your head up straight, chest out just a little, shoulders back slightly. Not too much but enough so you feel it. Repeat any number of mantras over and over if you need to "I like myself." "I don't care what anyone thinks of me." "I fucking love myself" Whatever works for you. Don't listen to anyone on TRP who says mantras are BP or stupid or anything like that. Do what works for YOU.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 12:17 PM
0

Can we ban people for using clickbait titles please?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 12:14 PM
3

If you're this easily offended then perhaps TRP isn't for you?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 04:31 PM
2

Once she contacted you about being positive for an STD you should have done 2 things. Get yourself tested, obviously no more fucking her until you're results come back. Dump her. Seriously. Even if you gave her the STD, dump her. Her respect for you is already low because she cheated and she wants to justify that you gave her the STD. So there's no salvaging the relationship. Move on. End things in a pleasant way if possible and if not so be it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 04:22 PM
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We all know what she really means. "I'm not telling you that I'm asking you to commit. Because I don't want to lose you. But I want you to commit."
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 11:54 AM
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This belongs in AskTRP. Having said that, your answer is simple: she doesn't respect you. You need to change that before it's too late. Stop trying to initiate sex. Stop cleaning except your own shit. Show her, DO NOT TELL HER, that you don't NEED her. You might WANT her but you don't NEED her. Show her that through your actions and she will reverse her actions.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:49 PM
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Women are an accessory. They are allowed to join along with us as long as they behave. Nothing more. Internalize that. Yes we're in the birth of the information age and the internet. That has little to do with TRP and nothing to do with women.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 12:46 PM
4

Can we ban people who use clickbait titles? Please mods.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 04:41 PM
4

You're wrong. I've experienced women doing this. The hottest women get complimented hundreds of times. It bores them. A man stating that he does what he wants and she can either come along for the ride or walk away is always the best option for me to. Just because you have never experienced it doesn't mean it's fiction. Stop trying to crab bucket others because you're still trapped in the blue pill lies.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 07:10 PM
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Depends on jurisdiction. In my state it's 1 party consent. Meaning as long as 1 person is aware they are being recorded it's legal. So if I bring a girl home and I'm aware I'm recording then it's legal.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 12:44 AM
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Change it up. "I left my give-a-fuck at home." or "My give-a-fuck is broken" etc. Use what works for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:07 AM
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A: It's Cuckold. B: You're using a word you don't understand, I can tell because you're using it incorrectly.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:04 AM
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Referring to women as "plates" is simply a way to express that she is basically a FWB and/or Fuck buddy. You "spin plates" as in you keep multiple girls in your rotation. Girl A, Girl B, Girl C, etc. If girl B decides she wants a relationship and gives an ultimatum the plate is said to stop spinning and breaks. Think of an old timey circus act with a guy on a unicycle, poles and a dozen or so spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:04 AM
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She's going to leave you and take the kids as soon as she's out of school. I'd put my paycheck on it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:28 PM
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Cracked died last year. The company was taken over by SJW's and the staff was either fired or left before the end of the year. They even fired a handful of people 2 weeks before Christmas.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:22 PM
3

I agree with OP. Asking "Are you ok?" is a sign of insecurity. Insecurity stems from low self confidence. And what is the biggest definer of insecurity and low self confidence? Neediness. What is the ONE thing that dries up a vagina faster than anything else in the universe? Neediness in men.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:24 AM
1

Don't feed the trolls. Report them and move on.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 02:20 PM
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Simply put, she friendzoned you because you let her. She sets the tone of the relationship. You follow it. You deserve better. I tell women that try to friendzone me "no thanks." It blows their mind.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 07:06 PM
2

Exactly. Even no reply with a laugh is better than "NO I'M NAWT!"
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 05:59 PM
4

I'm also 5'6" I usually respond with "We're both the same height laying down." It smashes that shit test and also invokes a sexual nature. Basically anything that implies "I'm cool with my height." "I'm taller in my high heels." is also good too. Just don't take her seriously.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 02:33 PM
1

No. He won't. If she was going to fuck him it would have already happened by now. OP is MUCH better for having moved on. He's building a better life for himself without her.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 09:55 PM
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I disagree. He knows she's with other guys. But it's not his concern because she fulfills arole he needs. OP don't apologise or explain yourself to the guys here. Chad is simply the personification of Alpha. You want to strive for better than Alpha. Red Pill men are enlightened. Chad's are not. Keep doing good OP
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 04:34 PM
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This is one of the most mature things I've read lately here. It's ok to feel feelings for girls. Provided you don't get carried away. It seems like you did everything right. She just ended her turn
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:07 PM
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Miranda ONLY applies in interrogations. Just standing at your door asking questions isn't legal interrogation. Also they can use anything you say during that, even if you haven't been read your Miranda warnings. They may not be able to use your words as testimony in court but they can bring up things you said to gain evidence. As everyone else is saying STFU when dealing with LEO. Period. I'm invoking my right to remain silent/5th amendment right etc I do not consent to any searches. Am I being …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:27 PM
3

1st, you can find almost any book online if you're not lazy. 2nd, that book is well worth the price. Get a physical copy and keep it in the bathroom to read while you shit. It'll keep you off your phone checking social media for validation and you'll grow as a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:12 PM
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You care way too much about this girl. I know you don't have feelings for her but you do care that she isn't with you. And that he swooped in and stole her while you were on stage. You care. Stop caring about her because she doesn't care about you or she would be with you right now. Stop caring about this guy because he wouldn't have done this if he cared about you. Nor would he treat you like shit to this day. Neither of them respect you. So respect yourself and demote him to less (or non) of a…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:22 PM
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Women don't shit test because they are weaker. They shit test because she has 1000 dicks available everyday and has to find the best ones to fuck. If she shit tests you she is interested. When a woman has no interest she'll give no fucks about you. At all. FYI if a girl shit tests you she's rooting for you to pass. She wants you to win.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 07:05 PM
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I struggle with this myself. It's hard to get the conversation flowing if you're nervous or awkward. Step 1: Smile. Smiling makes you happy and you'll relax. Even if it's awkward smile. She may even smile too. Step 2: Talk about common interests. Especially if it's something you're passionate about. For me, my biggest passion right now is Hypnosis. That's hard to talk about because it's scary to some people. But when I discuss taking a class in Hypnotherapy it makes it sound more professional an…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 06:40 PM
5

No. I'm 5'6, over 40, balding, I can still pull girls. Not like I could when I was 25 with a full head of hair. But I was 5'6" then too. Short has shit to do with getting most girls, if you own that shit. "I don't date/fuck short guys." - 'We're both the same height laying down.'
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 06:29 PM
1

Reading the title and the beginning I was sure I knew where this was going. That you hard nexted her. Holy shit OP. How do you not get it? It's over! Drop her and move on. She already has. She's not yours. It's just your turn. And your turn is over.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:39 PM
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He's leaving in 2 months. Changing those plans would be entering her frame. Suppose he stays and in 3 months she meets someone else. She dumps him. Now he's changed all his plans for her and is stuck where he doesn't want to be. He's happy with her, for now. 2 months from now he'll be happy with someone else in a new city. I've made the mistake of bending and breaking my frame for a woman. Don't do it. It's never worth it. I've had to learn that the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 11:12 AM
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Have you ever, in your life, met a woman that doesn't use sex as a weapon? To placate you, or withholding it to punish you etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 02:28 PM
1

lol. No. Hamster is the term for a person, usually a woman's, thought process that makes excuses, thinks irrationally, over-obsesses etc. Her mind is spinning like a hamster on a wheel.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 02:26 PM
1

Mate guarding would be pulling her aside to remind her "you are mine!" as OP did. Simply letting her know how it is would be looking right at him and saying "If you want her, you can have her. There are other girls here." Then look right at her and smile. See what she does. Does her frame break first? Yep. Because she'll get mad or sad. while you're smiling and showing her you can walk she'll be fighting to prove she doesn't want you to.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:39 AM
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At this point, I grab her HARD by the forearm, yank her over to the side, and say, "Do NOT fucking disrespect me like that. Ever." "Do you want me to walk on you?" etc. Wrong! That could have ended with you getting your ass kicked and landing in jail. Don't grab her. Tap her shoulder and motion her over to the side to talk calmly. Talk down to her a little bit. Not too much. But don't grab or yank or yell.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:30 AM
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Step 1: Talk to every woman you pass by. Just say "hello" or "hi" or"I like your hair" "How are you?" ANYTHING. Supermarket, on the street, walking to your car, at work, whatever. Step 2: Start talking to everyone. Males, females. Simple things but personal to them. "I like that necklace" "Nice purse" etc. You can say it and keep walking. One lady was a mid-30's black woman wearing an emerald green shirt. The color looked really good on her skin tone. So I told her "I like that shirt. The color …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 07:09 PM
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Some day you'll learn that hitting women, especially in public places like a bar/nightclub will do 1 thing and 1 thing only. End badly for you. Jail, White Knights fighting you, getting thrown out/banned from the bar, etc. Nothing good comes from it. You need to drop your ego. A woman assaulting you is nothing. Society gives no fucks about you or I.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 05:06 PM
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Compliment her directly. Instead of "you are so good looking" say "You have pretty eyes/cute smile/I like your hair/that eye shadow looks good on you." etc. Make it personal to her. Negging is for PUA and it's a lame, insecure attempt to make those guys feel better about themselves. One compliment is all she gets until she earns more. IMO
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 11:22 AM
1

No. Long con? That's way to invested. You see a girl you're attracted to and have the opportunity? Take it. If she rejects you, move on. Alpha males do not long con. They go after what they want. Want a promotion, go after it. Want a sale? Go after it. Want that female? Go after it. Saying "Hi" every day for weeks seems like you're shy and a bit creepy. Just show confidence and talk to her.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 11:19 AM
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"Hey you're "Girl" right? My name is ILoveReddit32. I know girls hate being asked out at work, you are just here to make money, Stop Explaining yourself. You owe her nothing. You came off as apologetic. "I'm sorry I'm attracted to you." but every time I pass you I keep telling myself I should ask you out because you are so good looking (compliment her). Cheesy one dimentional compliment she hears daily. What do you think about going on a date with me Friday?" "please? Pretty please?" Don't ask. …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 11:14 AM
3

People are starting to toss the word 'cuck' around like it's bread at the local park feeding the ducks.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:38 PM
5

One could argue a lot of things. But I've seen plenty of women I define as very attractive on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:07 PM
4

I don't think it's a case of women on reddit being more intelligent and more a case of ditzy whores needing attention and validation on Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 02:12 AM
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Sure. However food service is full of attractive 20-somethings who are all banging each other. It's not like he can't get the same job elsewhere if things go sour. He way as well enjoy that hot waitresses pussy now.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 08:47 PM
2

Fetlife has tons of people who make their own stuff. Floggers, restraints, collars etc. Etsy has some good makers too but you might find some cheap stuff. Cheap meaning poor quality. I don't know about Reddit. I'm sure they do. the Stockroom is the best site I've found for quality gear. It's expensive. But real leather costs money. But it's very high quality too. Not going to break the first time it's used etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 08:10 PM
1

That's never happened. But IF it did I'd let her go, get off her and back up. I'd assess the situation. I'd NEVER apologize because that's admitting guilt which could be used in court if it ever went that far. If she was crying I'd attempt to talk to her and comfort her. If that wasn't possible I'd dress and leave. If she was yelling at me and pissed I'd try to calm her down and get her to talk. Again if that doesn't work I'd dress and leave. That's what I'D do personally. Now I have no legal ad…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 11:56 AM
1

What head type do you have? I'm lucky enough to have a round head. So I go bald and it looks good on me. I've gotten numerous compliments that my head is the perfect shape for bald shaven. Men and women. Whatever you do, embrace it. Be confident about it. Own that shit!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 01:12 AM
6

Yes. "BDSM 101" by Jay Wiseman is fantastic. "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" is funny and informative. "The Topping Book" is also very good. I'd suggest getting "The Bottoming Book" as well to see things from their side. To anyone starting out on the path of BDSM. Actual BDSM and not just spanking her or tying her wrists to the bedposts and fucking her while calling her "slut". YOU ARE GOING TO FUCK UP. Expect it. Keep rolling. I've knocked candles I was warming up for wax play off the nig…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 11:02 PM
4

Bullshit. I'm 5'6". Nearly every woman I've Dominated has told me I have an "Air of Dominance" to me. It's all how you carry yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 10:51 PM
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As someone who has been doing BDSM for 24 years I agree. BDSM is not for everyone though. However most women on Tinder and other dating apps are already DTF. so making it rough sex is just a bonus. Do NOT get the cheap stuff. If you get some lousy cuff and it pinches a nerve it can cause permanent damage. I've seen what bad rope work can do to a person. It's not pretty. However if you're naturally Dominant (in the bedroom or out) then go for it. Do NOT read or watch 50 Shades. It's total crap. T…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 10:46 AM
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Try to keep up. You're not paying to fuck. You're paying for her to fuck whoever she wants. You might gain some benefit from it. You might not when she goes to fuck another guy who buys her nice clothes all the time. You're paying to improve her but not yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 12:54 AM
0

You know how women's thought process is referred to as hamstering? Explaining themselves and trying to convince others they are not wrong? You're hamstering. You are. If she calls again laugh at her and say "Why would I do that?" Then when she replies with some fucking stupid reason, and she will, respond with "what's in it for me? What do I get out of it?" (say both of those things.) if you want you can even tell her directly. "I'll consider it if you fuck me." What's the worst that happens? Sh…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 12:51 AM
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You can spend your money any way you want. You want to buy her a redbull after she's bought you 6 or 10 or whatever. Do it. It's your money, you can spend it or not spend it as you see fit. However NEVER let the balance swing the other way. You spending more than her. Women don't spend money on men they don't consider high value. If she's keeping track and feels she owes you that's a good thing. You've got a good woman. Keep doing what you're doing. Keep her in line. And if she walks then so be …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 12:41 AM
1

Honestly I've looked into Krav Maga and it looks like the best system, or at least one of the best, for actual hand to hand combat in real situations. (I mean it was obviously designed that way.) If I could I'd take Krav Maga, boxing and BJJ.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 10:33 PM
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He's under no obligation to stay in a situation that makes him uncomfortable. Not even for his daughter. I agree with Uncle Vas. Show up, spend time with your daughter and let her know you are there for her. Leave if things get too uncomfortable. Whatever happens, no matter what is said (even infront of your daughter) don't show them you're upset. Smile if you have to. Let them know they can't get to you. You're bulletproof. Just enjoy your daughter's day and leave if you feel like it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 06:12 AM
2

I agree. Although in most scenarios, martial arts/boxing training can make the difference between life and death. It's not always the case. But obviously you stand a much better chance of coming out on top if you're trained.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 11:44 PM
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For anyone thinking it's a good idea to fight a guy with a knife, let me give you some real deal. No it's not. Why? People in a knife fight are unpredictable. That blade gets you in a major vein or artery and you're in big trouble. But say you hit him first and he goes down, not out cold but to the ground. Do you dive on him and try to choke him out? Knife in the ribs, heart, neck, even the stomach. All bad wounds in the right spot. Put it this way for a more sobering thought. In high school in …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:07 AM
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One of the best tricks that worked for me is to simply say something to nearly everyone you see in public. Say "Hello" to women you pass in the supermarket. On the street. Hold a door open for someone and say "Good morning" or whatever. Just speaking to random strangers with no outcome is fun. You'll progress to "I like your necklace." or "That color looks good on you" and keep walking. Simple as that. You'll be able to walk up to a woman in the bar or anywhere. The instant your mind starts to h…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 05:31 PM
8

The point of "she's not yours, it's just your turn." it to help men understand that she can leave AT ANY TIME. She can walk away from the relationship with no notice at any time no matter what is going on in your life. Or how good/bad things are in yours. They don't think about breaking your heart unless they are a cold, psychotic bitch. They think about themselves. About how they want a different relationship. They never once think about you. At all. You're merely status to them.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 08:58 PM
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"just like your small dick". 'You're right. I bet it wouldn't even hurt if I shoved it in your ass.'(I got this from TRP) 'It fits in my hand.' or anything really that says "I don't care what you say about my dick. It doesn't phase me. (you need to get over that insecurity about it. Barring medical stretching there's nothing you can do that will make it grow. So accept it.)
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:51 AM
1

Hey if the price is right and I can get quantity discounts I'd buy lots of TRP chocolate.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:09 PM
5

How does this comment add anything of value to the sub?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 12:06 AM
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You should have used Amused Mastery. Being more playful and not insulting. Or just stay out of it. As long as she wasn't insulting you or your friend.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 12:05 AM
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Falling back into blue pull habits. This is what every Red Pill man has to fight when learning and growing.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:58 PM
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Hopefully you'll gain some knowledge from my reply. I'm guessing not. He bantered with her. Playfully joking and teasing. She got mad and insulted him. Trying to get him mad. She can then play the victim. OP didn't fall for it. That is what we call "holding frame".
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:41 PM
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Everything in this post spoke to me. Short, skinny, no muscles, weak, etc before I joined the gym (Thanks to TRP). I really started working out at 44 years old. 46 now. I've been having trouble gaining muscle lately. I realized it's due to diet. I've been drinking protein shakes after the gym, eating more when I can. More protein etc. Eat more and you'll grow when you lift.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:16 PM
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You're losing a lot of weight because you don't eat enough calories and especially protein. It's not the job. On break(s) you can eat lots of protein and calories. It's not easy. I know.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:10 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice guy by Dr. Robert Glover.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 12:20 PM
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I disagree about the hard next at the first sign she didn't stick up for OP. She might be used to listening to her family talk shit about her bf's. Think about it. OP sounds better than the trash she lived with before him. So they get jealous. Plus they only hear her side of stories. Give her one talk, give her a chance to understand she is expected to stand up for you if you cannot make a family event. She represents you. If she fails to do that you HARD Next. Absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 12:18 PM
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You sound very young. I'm guessing between 16-22. Life lesson: You CANNOT make a girl choose between her family and you. You'll lose every time unless she's a horrible person or her family is trash. If your girl says: >"I'm going to Vegas for the week with my girlfriends. It's going to be so much fun." What would you do? "I forbid you from going to Vegas! FORBID IT WOMAN!" lol. She'll laugh and go. She'll get as much dick as she can while she's there and KNOW you'll be right there waiting on her…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 12:10 PM
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I get what you're trying to say but it comes off less than stellar. Don’t approach women who are far taller than you Go for any woman you want, even a 6'6" one. If she rejects you, move on. Now I personally prefer short women. But I acknowledge that most women are around my height or even taller. That's fine. And most of us short guys have gotten over any issue with our heights decades ago. I stopped caring in grade school. 30+ years ago. I can't do anything about it. As for body fat on short gu…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 09:47 AM
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There's no gray area to shooting up a school or murdering people. There really isn't. The ability to walk away, allowing you to keep your self respect, is what makes a man Alpha as opposed to beta. Not shooting people. "If you don't want to blow me that's fine. But this doesn't work for me. Take care." and find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 12:23 PM
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It's NOT his place to say something. If you chose to do that with a woman and her husband you can. but it's not anyone's place to say something to the husband just because she's cheating. That's on her and her husband. edit: Also: "Be a real man" is feminist shaming tactics. Don't bring that to this sub. Sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:14 AM
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You know what isn't cool? Abandoning your family and then coming back to your husband and kids and telling them you're lesbian because you don't want to fuck the man you agreed to spend the rest of your life with. The father of your kids. Then running around and fucking other men while your husband takes care of the kids, the home and the family. That's what's not cool. OP isn't ruining anything. She'll fuck someone after OP ends it. She doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 10:06 PM
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The husband would blame OP and forgive his wife for being taken advantage of. He might cause trouble in some way, business, legal, whatever. There's literally no advantage to OP to talking to the husband. On top of that it's not OP's relationship to talk to him about. What they do is their business. OP is just enjoying his time with her.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 10:01 PM
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It's not his fault she is cheating on her husband. That's between her and her husband. He's just enjoying his time with her. Until it ends. It's not beta to enjoy fucking a woman. It's not beta to enjoy fucking a woman who is married. It's simply how OP choses to live his life. So many moralizing guys here on this thread.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 09:59 PM
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You're learning. And that's good. But you didn't really walk away. You got out of her car and walked home, one time. That's not walking away. Also when you did take her back you did NOT dictate the terms of the relationship. You might want to. "This is how it'll be from now on. If you don't wish to follow my terms that's fine. I wish you the best." Pedro is her backup. He'll continue to be her backup. Either accept that or walk away for good. Because she will only work harder to not get caught. …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 01:24 PM
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I don't see your field report. Did I miss it?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 12:03 PM
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Yeah you just have to worry about being murdered by dudes in motorcycle helmets on a daily basis.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 12:28 AM
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Women respond well to "... don't you?" You want me to fuck your brains out, don't you? Yes is consent. You like it when I choke you, don't you? Tell me you do. Etc
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:34 PM
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I use a small program called F.lux for my pc and it works wonders. Automatically softens the screen at dusk. So my eyes are less tired at night.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:26 PM
1

For the right man. You have to include that. Many o' boyfriends can attest that not every girl is a whore. (until they find out that while his bedroom has been dead, hers has been flooded with muscular, confident and not needy cock day and night.)
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 02:01 AM
0

Show me a college girl who won't cheat on her bf if she finds a better guy. I'll wait.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:57 AM
1

Step 1. Lift. Yes it's a mantra. Said over and over again. There are many, many reasons for it. Confidence, genuine self confidence that NO ONE can take from you, as well as having a nice physique. I've recently gotten back into it again after slacking off for 6 months. It's like a drug. But do it for you. Work out. Do pushups if you can't afford the gym. Run. etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:18 PM
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I've had to learn this the hard way. Many, many times. Close female friends, family members, coworkers, girlfriends etc. Women I thought I could trust. Almost every time they either told someone else or used that info to hurt me. So now, between that and what I've learned on TRP, you never show weakness or vulnerability to a woman. Never trust her with a secret or personal info. I'm not saying EVERY woman will use it against you. But if you give a woman that ammo she CAN use it if she gets a hai…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 11:53 AM
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Always be her rock. Her granite foundation. Unbreakable. You can discuss personal things with your closest male friends. But NEVER with a female. Any female. Think about this: Women can, and will, use things against you if she gets mad.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 01:00 PM
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Theory is fine. Practice is better. It takes time to change habits. I'm internalizing that women are emotional teenagers. I understand and know it. But it takes time to internalize it. To really understand it. It's helping. Me to not take them seriously. I'm not there yet. But I'm working on it. My point is, is that it'll take time to get over anger. It's a process.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:13 PM
1

If a girl tells you "I have a cute pussy" guess what? Go ahead...guess.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 08:07 PM
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Why? Why did you need that validation?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 08:03 PM
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You're too needy. It shows throughout this post. You don't respect yourself. At. All. So get your self esteem worked on. Learn to love and respect yourself. Don't accept less than you deserve. If she won't fuck you? That's just fine. Go jerk off. Start spending less time with them. Spend time with yourself or male friends. You NEED these women to validate you through sex. To make you feel worthy. Good enough to fuck. You should already know you're good enough. And if she doesn't get with the pro…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 05:32 PM
1

He clearly defined the boss as a White Knight jumping to the defense of females. No way the boss is Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:56 AM
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The Red Pill takes time to dissolve and absorb. You're changing habits, some of which are life lone ones. That's going to take time. You're going to mess up. We all do. You live, you learn. You did well. You'll do better next time. At least you are able to see where you went wrong and can avoid it next time.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 12:04 AM
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There has been a countdown on this relationship for some time. She'll grow tired of coming to see you and you not coming to see her. She doesn't care that you're saving up for a car. She doesn't care that you're looking for full time work. She cares when you spend time with her. So in your mind end it. Know that it's already over. It just needs to whither and die. In the meantime keep looking for work and save money for a vehicle. If she's still around by that time cool. If not, cool too. She'll…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 02:24 AM
1

What does being confrontational mean in the context of this and/or TRP?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 11:31 PM
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You care WAY too much about this female. You describe her life, her body, her personality all if it in a way that says you've studied her. You need to just treat her and act like she's just another person at work. Stop giving a shit if she thinks you're creepy, or following her or too ugly for her or whatever. Just stop caring about her at all. You're wasting too much brainpower on her. You probably go over things in your head during the day about how it'll go down at the end of work. Stop givin…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:54 PM
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Me personally? Yes I'd have no problem with that.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:46 PM
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You need to decide what is acceptable and what is not. Set that shit in stone in your mind. That is a line that she does not cross. Ever. For me it's dinner/a date,kissing, sex, texting sexual things and similar. Also party trips like "girls week in Vegas". You don't own her. You cannot control her. If you tell her "You can't go" that is mate guarding and she'll resent you for it. But if you tell her "I can't tell you what to do, but if you go to dinner with another man who I know has feelings f…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 01:10 AM
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You do not speak for me. It's possible for a guy to have a female friend who is hot and not try to sleep with her. But it's invaluable to have a hot female friend who can give you good advice on life and especially business.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 04:09 PM
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There are lawsuits for unlawful termination. Saying "proof or not" is a very good reason. That's a baseless accusation and, while I'm no lawyer, if you can get some proof they said that you'd have a strong argument for unlawful termination if they did fire you with no proof. Obviously they aren't going to put that in writing.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:54 PM
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You'll have a much better life when you let go of that anger.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:37 PM
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I'd never consider LR to be B-list. D-list maybe. Also what are some areas of LR to look? I know NLR is hell unless you want some ghetto trash. No matter the race. Any other areas for quality women?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:37 PM
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I'll add another. I will kiss a girl, especially her neck and gently nibble her earlobe. DO NOT stick your tongue in her ear. kiss down from her earlobe to her collarbone, then softly, ever so softly, lick back up to her earlobe and suck/nibble on it. Then kiss/lick back down. I've had women begging me to fuck them in a minute of doing that.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:59 PM
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Almost never. I'm not talking about feeling anger. That's impossible. But displaying it. I'd personally say the only time to display anger is when defending yourself from violence. Now that's easier said than done. But if some woman says some hurtful, hateful, evil shit to you... laugh in her face. Laugh right at that silly teenage girl. Emotionally teenage. Don't take women seriously.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:36 PM
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How is sadistic, a clearly defined word for getting sexual arousal from inflicting pain on others (In my case submissive women who consent to kink play) a trait of narcissism? I'm well aware of what I deserve and don't deserve. I deserve everything I work hard for. I don't deserve anything else in life beyond that. I don't deserve women, a nice job, money, a place to live, fame, fortune, etc. I work hard for all of it and earn it. Even if I work I don't deserve a paycheck. I've earned it. You HA…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:52 AM
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Actually it is important. Keeping her allows doubt, thoughts about the past and feelings or emotions to come out concerning ex's. We're men not robots. We feel things too. It's normal to still care about an ex. Not to still cling to the past or have romantic feelings for them. Keeping them in your life allows all of that baggage to come back up. Something that's not needed by moving on. There's no anger in moving on. You're simply on a new path in life. She's not on that path. And that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:39 AM
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See TRP has taught me this. I've never been friends with any of my ex's. TRP has shown me that part of that reason is, is that I've always left them worse than I found them. IF I ever get into a LTR I'll be sure to allow them to join my journey of personal betterment. And they will become better for it. Similar to what you stated. Leaving them better off than when you found them.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:36 AM
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You say that: Many endorsed contributors claim (and effectively pervert) this fundamental flaw, and instead substitute it with claims that one is simply too stupid to comprehend what it means to be "Red Pilled." Please show me where an EC or Vanguard "perverted" the Red Pill message. Which is using the tools for sexual strategy. Link to a post where GLO, Illimitable Man or others perverted sexual strategy. And you say that for TRP to work we must be "normal, psychologically healthy and sound ind…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:30 AM
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As others have stated it depends on where you live. If you live in Oklahoma then it's good money. If you live in San Francisco you live in a tent.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:16 AM
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When you learn to shut up you'll notice that most people bitch and moan all the time. People I work with for 8 hours a day will bitch about how tired they are. We do the same job. We work the same hours. Yes I'm tired too. But I keep that to myself because no one cares. They just want you to care about their suffering. OP is right. Suffer in Silence
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 08:04 PM
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You've got to stop thinking that women are special. Recognize her attractiveness but remember she's worth just as little as the next woman. There's nothing special about her.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 05:38 PM
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Wait...what? Women don't approach guys? WHAT? I've witnessed women approaching guys and flirting with them. It happens all the time. And my point, which you may be deliberately trying to pervert (based on all your replies to this post) is that women see attractiveness first. That's ALL that matters to them initially. Once they get to know the men then things like confidence and game take over.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:03 PM
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Nice try. That isn't what I said. It has nothing to do with her "trying to game" her way into higher value. It's an overdeveloped ego and sense of attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:00 PM
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That's why when a woman pretends she's hot shit, and she's not, she is using what she thinks we are attracted to (personality, confidence) Actually it's her ego being blown up way out of proportion by an abundance of options. Ugly chicks KNOW they can get laid these days. Losers "like" their social media pics. They make creepy comments. Their ego is inflated to the point of delusion. I've seen disgustingly hairy morbidly obese women say they are a ten. And believed it.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 06:40 AM
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At first? Yes. Absolutely yes. Proven for 100,000 years. The big, strong, masculine man gets the girl over the wimpy, thin guy. Simple. Now over time she'll see how disgusting he is. That could be 1 conversation, a day, a month, whatever. But put two guys together. One who has the face of Brad Pitt and the body of Stallone in his prime vs Jeff Goldblum (face and body) and who do you think the women will approach?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 06:37 AM
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Take a deep breath. Then another and another until you calm down. Remember she is emotionally a teenager. Then laugh internally. She's acting out, pouting, like a kid. For attention. Women are not to be taken seriously. This is something I'm STILL having trouble internalizing myself. But the times I do it makes me laugh at how silly I was to get upset at women for their bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 01:05 PM
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What do you do when the 30+ say I had my tubes tied? Lol Trust her of course. Women would NEVER lie. Especially never lie in an attempt to have a baby. It just doesn't happen. We all know that women are perfect little princesses and should be worshipped like the Goddesses they are. Or you know, use a condom, take it with you when you leave etc. Or be like me and get a V, plus use condoms.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:29 AM
1

You and I define "win" differently.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:16 AM
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Specifically Asperger's Syndrome. Which is a type of Autism. As always GLO is right.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 01:20 AM
2

You want us to validate you. To tell you"it's ok. Go for it!" Well? It's ok. Go for it. Feel better? You already know the correct answer. But it's not what you want to hear. Too bad. Flirt with this girl. But nothing more. She's testing your branch to see if she can swing. You mentioned she is going to break up with him. Did she? If not, guess what? She knows you aren't ready for her. She ONLY wants you because of your status at the bar and because the other girls flirt with you. Social proof. B…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 08:09 PM
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Not replying to their bullshit implies you don't care. Obviously you judge it on a case by case basis but if you don't have a reply then going silent is fine at times. If someone asks you a direct question then going silent is silly.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 06:22 PM
1

So being happy you got a vasectomy makes you a shill?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:56 PM
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You accepted it because you were ready for it. Think about the Matrix. "Some people don't want to be unplugged. And will fight to stay connected."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:40 PM
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You keep throwing AWALT around like it's slang for "oh well" or "lol. It's not. It means all women will be sluts for the right man.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 03:28 AM
1

natties implies natural. i.e. no juice.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:59 AM
2

I think of TRP more like a masculine father and his buddies. Knowledge of how to be a man passed down from father to son, friend to friend. You gleam some knowledge from the crusty old biker. Some from the muscular mechanic. Some from the wise old veteran. Some from your dad who grew up when women were wives and men worked, never complained publicly, never showed weakness and took care of everything, from fixing shit to making money and paying bills, to teaching you how to throw a fastball. Imag…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:52 AM
1

That's not a shit test. Go read the sidebard. You DID read it, didn't you?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:46 AM
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A shit test is a test of your fitness as a man. It is a way of "giving you shit" to see how you compose yourself. Men and women shit test.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 08:06 PM
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Are you kidding? They are ALL like that. Every one. They don't care about your weakness. They care about their own selfish wants.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:00 AM
3

What does "be a gentleman" mean to you? What does "be yourself" mean to you?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:17 PM
1

They are salvageable. They don't want to put in the work because it's hard.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:06 PM
1

No. Money often does signify a man has his shit together. But plenty of dirty, skinny, guys who are musicians with no gigs or a job. They get plenty of pussy. It's about a guy not being needy more than money or status. So saying "women only care about money" is false. Guys without money do fine when they act how they need to.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:04 PM
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I go to a local "fitness club"-type gym. It's modern, small and has everything I need. Plus the customers are friendly but keep to themselves. The staff is available 24/7 for anything I need. Living in a small town helps too. It serves my needs while being affordable while also not being very busy most of the times (except after work 5-7pm, of course) I've never felt anything but welcome there. The first time I stepped in I was nervous because everyone looked muscular while I was short and skinn…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:59 AM
1

Except you don't go on to explain HOW to fire your EGO. All you do is give us a description. What is the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:54 AM
1

FYI it's sentiment not sediment. Also I disagree. If you make a decision stick by it. Clearly you need to think about the decision before you make it. "Has she done enough to violate my rules and thereby end the relationship?" or any hundreds of other things you can say to yourself. But once you agree on the decision stick with it. No one respects a man who goes back on his word. Not even himself.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:19 PM
1

If you ever feel like you should dump a girl, you probably should, even if she does a bunch of stuff to keep you. You just summarized his entire post.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 11:16 PM
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If your health declines she will be gone. If she feels you aren't man enough, masculine enough, a strong enough leader, a rock in the hard times .... she will walk out of your life. Ride rather. Riding another man's dick into the sunset. You cannot change women. You cannot say AWALT but MINE is different. All women. Your girlfriend/fiance is not special. She is not a unicorn. She is subject to biology. You can think like every guy who has ever been divorce raped. "It'll never happen to me. My gi…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:57 AM
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Judging by both these examples she's gone. She was gone before last night. She's just waiting for the right guy to jump to. She shouldn't say "pipe down my boyfriends behind you" Because her next words would be "wait til later and you can shove it all the way in me." Ditch her. Walk away now before she does.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:47 AM
1

You are wrong. I've known men in wheelchairs, missing teeth, with scraggly beards. Fucking fine women. It's all about you and what you do with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:43 AM
1

Where in the post do you see him hating women?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:25 PM
0

Having women doesn't make a man Alpha. It's something Alpha men have. But non-alpha men have women too. I do get your point
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:02 PM
2

One of the most swole guys I know has a baby face. He's masculine, quiet, althetic and takes no shit from women.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:00 PM
4

Both of you need to remember something, Anything a woman says you should mentally put "..right now" after it. As soon as she typed that "...right now"
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 12:28 PM
6

You discovered women like to be Dominated by men more than they like their own sensual little fantasies. Sexually speaking. Biologically speaking they get more aroused by the most masculine man who takes what he wants and uses her. It's a woman's most base desire to be pulled down to the dirt and fucked like an animal by an animal in heat. It's more than the fact she doesn't really know what she wants. She doesn't know what her own body responds to. She thinks she likes a sweet guy. But the guy …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 12:26 PM
1

What? He took a shot the best he could, you are reading into a lot of things, here is a tip if a women like you she likes you, nothing bud light could have really done, Of course there is. He could have been playful with Stella, he could have conversed with her. Hell he could have chatted with some of the guys he knew then called her over to introduce her. All of which would have been better indicators he was into her. But he had zero confidence with women. I never step out of my comfort zone on…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 11:05 PM
16

When it comes to shit tests remember this: She wants you to pass it. She's rooting for you to win.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 07:01 PM
2

Hanging around girls is orbiting. Girls find it very unattractive. It's needy and clingy. Hot girls do not want guys hanging around them unless they bring something to the table like status or some other asset. Also who has time to just 'hang around with girl'? I've got too much going on for that. And too much self-worth.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 12:12 PM
1

This was after we joked about a dinner date. I asked her what she's having for dinner. She told me. I asked "When are you going to cook for me?" that turned into her making plans to make dinner for me and her asking "Is this going to be a date?" "You bet" was my reply. She came up to me the next time we bumped into each other and said she "Was joking about the date thing" because ... "I'm kind of talking to this guy.... etc" I just smiled and said "Give me your number." I've texted her once to p…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 12:07 PM
11

I had a girl tell me yesterday right before she gave me her number: "I'm kind of talking to this guy. We're exclusive but he's not my boyfriend." lol. That hamster was spinning. All I said in response was "Give me your number." She did. "See? I knew you could land a man!" or "I'm not really interested in a 3-some." or anything that shows her you give no shits about her supposed "boyfriend" I once told a girl, with a sincere head tilt of total concern.... "Really? With your personality?" dead fac…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:37 AM
9

You should have moved on when you dropped her off after the first date. She's playing you. Using you for her attention and getting validation from.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:30 AM
1

Since it was a cunty passive-aggressive statement, what would you have said/done in that situation?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 12:30 PM
23

You lost frame. you got mad over some Cheetos which is stupid. Yes I know the point was he invaded your space, took something of yours and flat out disrespected you. But you handled it poorly. You should have walked up to him with the bag and tapped him on the shoulder. Calmly. "I didn't realize you were broke. Please have the rest of my Cheetos since you already took some without asking. You are obviously starving, I feel bad for you man." And walk away smiling.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 08:15 PM
2

He also sexually assaulted Terry Crews. Terry Crews the muscular black guy from the Expendables. Yes that guy. He grabbed his dick. Terry's wife saw it too. But he didn't speak out because Harvey had power. Terry posted a Tweet about it when the story broke. Keep that in mind when discussing Harvey. This isn't just a female thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:43 PM
0

And your comment offers nothing of substance, while this post does.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 06:46 PM
3

When your ego took that hit, did it show on the outside? Which is what counts. My guess is not because the girl you were with fucked you. Also having attractive ex-plates is social validation which helps too.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:12 PM
-2

Cooking for her man ties into her caretaker role. It's when she has to wait on you hand and foot that she has an issue.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:34 PM
1

Yes. It has a question mark at the end. Do keep up.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:11 AM
77

I've met a few who were 100% real lesbians. Never been with a guy etc. My roommate at the time wouldn't even let her gf use a dildo or strap on because it was too much like a dick. Then they had some friends that "used to be straight" even though I was blue pill at the time I still laughed at that. First time I heard two gay guys fighting and calling each other "faggot" was hilarious. Although when they broke up one kept telling me his ex-boyfriend took his anal virginity. I got out of the room …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 10:33 PM
3

Exactly what I thought. He changed the wording at least.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 11:37 AM
1

Why is the waitress enabling her behavior? "a compromise then? Would he like the red wine gravy etc" Simple. She is a fellow woman. At that point he should have stood up for himself and politely called the waitress out. "If she's ordering for me she can pay for me. So your tip comes from her."
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 10:14 PM
3

No. A. he won't believe OP and will resent him even more. B. It's not OP's relationship to involve in. C. Sexual strategy is amoral. He is free to bang married women, dating or single women. If that's what he likes. Me personally, I give no fucks if the girl has a boyfriend, husband, whatever. Not my problem. Not my relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 02:50 AM
3

I wouldn't have either but OP did his own thing. I'm the same. I don't look at anyone else in the gym, and it's a public gym. I'm there for me and me alone. I don't care about some ripped hulk, some gym bunny in tight spandex or the old lady on the cycles. Nope I'm there for the iron.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 02:48 AM
9

Simple solution. Walk away. Only associate with people who add to your life. You'll never change their mind. They'll never change yours. Improve your life. Become better. If they are quality people they will join you. If not do it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 01:24 PM
0

Simple. Women test the strength of men they are attracted to. They are indifferent to men they are not. If a woman tests you she wants you to pass it. She's rooting for you. If she doesn't even look at you for more than the tiniest of glances she is not attracted to you. Simple as that. Had the woman in this case left the gym without ever looking back at OP then he would have known she wasn't attracted to him. He would have continued on his workout/run alone and gone and done his own thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 03:20 AM
94

Exactly. When I was at my most beta I honestly and truly believed that the women I was attracted to were mine. If I flirted with a woman and she flirted back I was obsessed over her. If I saw another guy flirting with her I'd get pissed. Dark fantasies about hurting him, in my mind. I once lost a job because I told a guy who was interested in this girl I talked to at work that she was my girlfriend. Word got back to her, then to her boss and I was gone. 100% deserved too. I was a jealous, stalke…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:17 PM
6

You lost frame. Simple as that. Your best option. Turn around and smile at her. Turn back around and do your work. Forget about her. Simple as that. You wanted to feel morally superior to her. Instead she's going to tell other women what a creepy jerk you are. Always protect your reputation. After you're done you could have went up to her and asked for her number. Or simply walked away. But you had to make an issue out of nothing.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:12 PM
2

I'd love to know how the shit tests are from an educated woman vs a regular woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 11:34 AM
103

Exactly my thoughts. Men don't reject educated women. Men reject bitches. Entitled cunts who feel they are better than others.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 04:36 PM
77

The same way you handle every shit test. Own. Your. Shit. Own it with confidence, unapologetically and a smirk. Winks are great too. He shouldn't have argued with a woman. If he got called out heshould have asked her "why do you care so much? Do you want to join my team?" It shows he gives no fucks about some woman's opinion.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:02 PM
1

Goddamn I wish I'd heeded this advice last night. I gave away my time to a worthless woman. My time. For nothing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 10:27 PM
1

Yes. She was. Girls who aren't interested don't say "No. Don't leave." They are indifferent.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 10:24 PM
7

Nope. I enjoy cuddling after sex or a hard BDSM scene. She does too. There's nothing wrong with caring for a woman. As long as you understand everything that goes along with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 02:56 PM
6

Don't. You can't save any of them. He won't believe you and will drive a wedge between them.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 11:14 PM
3

I didn't say college experience. I said 2 years of college rape cases. There's plenty of evidence to support my claim that all women are capable, perhaps not all are willing, but all are capable (morally) of falsely claiming rape if it benefits them. This is based, in part, by all the numerous college rape claims made in the last 2 years alone that turned out to be false claims.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 01:06 AM
2

How would you react if a guy got mad at you? I'm not talking "Let's fucking step outside!" angry but "you hurt my feelings." angry. You'd laugh, probably walk away thinking "I'm not going to deal with this." What if it was a teenage girl you hardly knew. Some 15 year old daughter of a friend of yours. "OMG you're mean to me!" You're probably going to think "... so?" Women are emotional teenagers. I'm beginning to understand this myself. Taking a good hard close look at women of all ages. They AL…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 01:04 AM
2

Ask yourself this question: "What happens if I make a move/don't make a move?" A. She lets you have your way with her. B. She thinks you're a jerk and tells you to get out! C. She likes it but backs off. (LMR) 2 of those are good things. Or You make no move and A. Don't offend her. B. She thinks you're a pussy or a creep. Either way you lose. You do risk losing the girl. But you should always risk losing the girl. There's others to replace her. And she's not yours. FYI: I sometimes suffer from t…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 12:52 AM
3

Can you support a claim that it's not true? Because just basing this off the past 2 years of college rape claims by females I'm willing to bet that the vast majority turned out to be cases of 'buyers regret'. As I like to call it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:37 AM
2

She gets angry/upset/vindictive. You react by getting angry (wrong!), or apologizing (wrong!), or sulking (wrong!). and she'll see you're not in control of your emotions. She'll think of you as less of a man and more of as a child.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 01:53 AM
2

Also "Bad boys" have confidence and aren't needy. Two things that moisten women's panties.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 01:49 AM
2

That's the anger phase talking. "IT'S NOT FAIR! IT'S NOT RIGHT! THINGS SHOULDN'T BE LIKE THIS!" etc. Unfortunately for you, me, everyone, it is and they are. We can deal with it like men, accepting it and saying ok. I'll deal with it. Or we can whine like women. Clearly you're not whining. You're simply explaining how you feel about what you see. That's fine. I have to accept that women will forever overlook me because I'm short, because I'm in my 40's, because I'm balding, because I have a big …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 01:48 AM
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Spot on. The way it's written it sounds like he interrupted her. Personally I'd have let her continue just to hear the story for a chuckle. But I agree with you totally that interrupting would have been a better option. Demonstrating you don't give a fuck about her story or past fucks.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 02:08 PM
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Every female in America is capable, and more scary WILLING, to do this if it benefits them even slightly. "oh shit! my boyfriend found out I got drunk and banged Chad. RAPE!!"
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 11:26 PM
1

Interesting. Because in my personal experience I've met intelligent people, people with STEM jobs, people of all kinds young and old. Very few that I've met in real life have been unstable or unbalanced. Plenty of people I've talked to online on the other hand were unstable.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 07:07 PM
5

Exactly. Her actions, not her words. I bet if you asked her when she first started dating him if she'd ever treat him that way her answers would be a resounding "No!" just like she did with you. And yet you see it here in the flesh. AWALT indeed. You seem to have internalized that. That's great!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:06 PM
1

So do I. I come up with gems sitting in front of my computer. But in real life I either say nothing because I don't know what to say or I say "Oh yeah?" Which can be said 50 different ways as long as you smirk when you say it. And it buys you time to come up with something.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 10:34 PM
1

Clickbait titles are shit. If he had a decent title he should have used that. It's clearly outlined in the rules. As OP read of course. We all did.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 10:31 PM
8

"I don't want to offend you by this, but are you gay?" "Totally. If you want, when I put it in your ass later, I can call you Roger?" Reminds me of a post not too long ago by an EC. Some girls pretending to be lesbian shit tested him infront of friends. I believe it was about a supposed lisp. His response was similar to "The last time someone said that I hit them with my purse." Agree & Amplify.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:35 AM
2

Do you have anything of quality to add to this or no?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:32 AM
27

Not every FR needs to be about slaying the hottest girl around. Each of us has a journey. Some are further along than others. We all have our own. And because of that each FR can help someone. Now personally being 45 I don't desire to go to bars, clubs etc. Especially alone. I'm too old for that nonsense. However OP is right. Do it because it's uncomfortable. Approaching women is uncomfortable at first. Talking to women any way you feel like is uncomfortable. "You're not supposed to talk to wome…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 10:03 PM
2

So tell me, what is an alpha male? Since you offer the opinion I'd like to know what you qualify as an Alpha male.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 04:31 AM
1

Again and again we go 'round and 'round with "short guys can't get no love" I've been ok with being short since grade school. Even before I entered Jr. High I stopped caring about my height. I knew I was always going to be short. I'm 5'6". So no where near as short as I could be. Stop caring. Accept it. Women can deal with it or they can watch you walk right past them smiling with ya short self.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 12:06 AM
14

OP didn't. A French study did, led by French Scientists. You probably missed that part where he talks about the study and links it at the end. Hard to see from up on your high horse.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:30 PM
4

As Archwinger said in one of the OG best posts on here, "Men are not happy." All I want out of an article like this is to arrive at one simple truth - RPW exists because women are not happy in our society. TRP exists because the needs of men - not just the sexual, but the personal and emotional need for masculine fulfillment - are not being met, and men are not happy. Do you think that, in part, the reason women aren't happy is because there isn't enough Dominant men. Perhaps it's part of the re…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 07:08 PM
13

He's investing in a quality woman. Now he could go out and date women left and right until he found one who may or may not last.... Orrrrr.... He could pay this one to fulfill all his needs. He's using his time effectively.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:07 PM
9

The words "sexual assault" were used by a female. Of course they'd rally to her side.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:59 PM
10

If you're quick on your feet you could have said "so does my grandmother." Or hell even "prove it" . Walk away after she said that. Deny her your validation.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:08 PM
2

I've been here a while. I've literally never seen a single post about whoever she is or anything called "power poses".
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 06:51 PM
3

First off, why are you getting upset? You don't know this person. Say: "Thanks" and continue your conversation. Then if it happens again: "Anyway (person I was talking to) like I was saying 'so and so' " Is MF's Nickname a reverse gender name? Example your buddy John, nickname Jane. Either way calmly make it clear they are intruding on your conversation, calmly. Keep conversing. They want to interrupt and make you mad. So they can play the victim role. "I was trying to correct JediDude about som…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:09 AM
14

She asks how I feel bout this, oneitus set in good by this point so I tell her it sucks because we got along so well had a strong connection etc. I finish the call by dropping the L bomb. She doesn't reciprocate and practises a month or two of silence. She breaks the silence by talking bout her ex and needing advise on how to deal with him being toxic etc. I give her objective advise that anyone she considers toxic should be given distance and cut from her life. This fits with advise her friends…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:54 AM
2

AWALT has nothing to do with it. Beta guys will be beta guys. Insecure. They try to steal a mate that they can't otherwise get because they are jealous of you.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:09 PM
171

(I was tempted to say cause I DONT HAVE TO PAY FOR YOUR BULLSHIT) but I let it go. but I let it go. That right there is one of the hardest things we men have to learn when we work on improving ourselves. Letting go of the bad emotions, the hate, the anger, the resentment. All of it. You sound like you've done well. You'll know you've completely recovered from everything when you feel nothing for her. No anger, no love, neither good nor bad feelings or thoughts. Simply...she exists. Continue to w…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:29 PM
25

Remember guys: Sexual strategy is amoral. You'd better believe that young, attractive women are amoral in their sexual strategy. They'll fuck husbands, boyfriends, their best friend's boyfriend/husband/crush, whatever.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:19 PM
1

What? You said that the Red Pill needs to make changes to be more modern and value equality. I said the world is not equal or fair. There is a game in play. You can play it and be successful or not and be left behind by those that do. Women are the same way, they have rules you have to follow to fuck them. Play the game or don't. It makes no difference to women, to me, to anyone. But it's there. Like it or not. The game is there. Women WILL leave you for a man they perceive as better than you. (…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 10:41 PM
6

I really disagree with the red pill and think it needs to make changes to be more modern, value equality more and so forth. Life is not equal. Red Pill shows you the truth. Women whine about "equality" yet they don't want equality, they want privilege. In America the rich stay rich because they play the Game. The elite, privileged get and stay that way because they are taught and shown how to play the game. There's no place for empathy and equality in the top ranks. There's only ruthlessness and…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 05:58 PM
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NEVER argue with a woman. EVER. There's no point. And she will NOT listen to logic. (women=emotion) (men= logic) Always remember that. Simply change the subject. "Mhmm, what are you doing later tonight?" etc. If she keeps on wanting to argue show her you're above that. "I'm going to read for a while." or anything to get away from her. I suggest you stop thinking about kids until you're much further along the Red Pill path. So you can properly raise them to think critically, teach them about resp…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 11:56 AM
4

I've meet a large number of lesbians. Many I've spent evenings drinking and hanging out with. I too lived with a lesbian couple. My roommates were cute, young and very outgoing. But extremely lesbian. One of them wouldn't even let her girlfriend insert anything inside her because that was too penis-like. They were the real deal. Now I'm sure some can be persuaded or whatever into being with guys. Some are simply lesbians the way some people are completely straight. Also that was the first time I…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:22 AM
9

I'm the same. That's my temple where I go to improve myself. I don't even pay attention to the gym bunnies doing squats while all the other guys drool. I'm there for the iron. I won't change that any time soon. There are other places to approach. The gym is for me and me alone. That's my take on it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:11 AM
2

Just approach many, many women. You WILL get rejected. A lot. That's ok. Talk to women on the street. Talk to them in the supermarket, the gym, anywhere. "Hey! I like your hair." or "Hi, that necklace is interesting," or "Hi. That color looks good on you." even "Hey, how's it going?" As soon as you get rejected say to yourself: "That's ok." Smile and say "ok" or something similar. To show it's no big deal. At first it will sting. You'll feel humiliated, embarrassed, etc. Just keep reminding your…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:03 AM
2

So I shouldn't use self-confidence, strong frame, abundance mentality and the ability to hold a conversation in the professional world? Or did you specifically mean pick up techniques? Either way, if you don't feel that TRP can improve your life in every area you are not using all the tools in the toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 07:05 PM
3

This is quality stuff. Thanks for sharing. For me, I learned/am learning to get over approach anxiety by saying "hello" "hi" or "how are you doing?" To everyone I saw in the supermarket. Soon it was "I like your hair/necklace/that shirt is a nice color on you" etc. I'd keep walking past them as I spoke. Just say hi or compliment and keep going.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 04:38 PM
7

I watched that video this morning. It annoyed me. I like Adam Ruins Everything but that was trash. So overdone.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:11 PM
1

You should not be posting. Go join a gym and work out 3-5 days a week. Let NOTHING stop you from going to the gym. Especially not a woman. And don't work out for them. Do it for you. Read the sidebar. Read everything. Focus on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:06 PM
2

I agree with you. I was trying to help OP understand that she'll choose the guys validating her over him. So he should walk. But fucking her and giving no shits is certainly an option.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 10:59 PM
1

As OP pointed out. It was not his fault she cheated on her bf. That is between Sarah and Jason. OP simply did what was best for him. Can't fault him for that. If you sleep with a girl with a bf or husband it's not your problem. That's their relationship.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 02:48 PM
4

Exactly. Make him look like the bad guy to the group for making too much out of it. Laugh it off and he'll get mad. You go home with the girl, he jerks off mad at you.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 02:26 PM
11

Yes. Simply live a secluded life where you never take risks with anyone. If you intend on sleeping with women then no. Rejection is a part of life. FYI I didn't read that wall of text.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:42 PM
10

Decide if you're ok with her messing exes. If not decide if you are a man. Then explain if she wants to be friends with her exes she can but you won't tolerate that disrespect. She can decide to stop talking to them or you'll walk. Calmly. FYI she won't. She'll just be more careful.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:38 PM
15

You're clearly in the anger stage. Do not take AMOG seriously. Laugh at him. " Do you have a crush on me? Aww how cute." If he keeps it up just keep up the "crush" teasing. Laugh at him. The group will laugh but he'll think they are laughing at him. So he'll break frame first. "What are you, gay?" Why? Do you wanna kiss me? Etc. Never take women or beta males seriously. They are both insecure.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:36 PM
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I'll add to this. Bring a friend you trust with you. That way you have a witness. Both legally and socially. Treat it like you're giving a two weeks notice at work. It's not a big deal but guard your emotion. She WILL cry, she WILL deny everything. She WILL blame you. Etc. Stay emotionless. Like you're playing poker. Good luck and remember"she was not yours it was just your turn." And now your turn is over.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:28 PM
52

This is why I don't buy the whole "The US/West is doomed due to women being Feminists/evil etc" thing. It's whining. Women are women all over the world. Chinese women treat men the same way American women do if the man lets them. Mexican women treat men the same way Indian women do if the man lets them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:09 AM
83

I've found, in my personal observations and from stories told by Indian guys, at how cruel and Dominating Indian woman are towards Indian men. And how submissive Indian men are because they are worn down by the women in their families. It's brutal.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:07 AM
8

I find it funny at all these guys saying things like "you should have fucked her." "you fucked up" "you're beta for not banging her" etc. OP did what HE wanted to do. Namely not indulge an obvious gold-digger trying to make him jealous by mentioning she went out with 2 other guys. Part of the point of TRP is letting others do their own thing. Red Pill men don't judge others for their journey on the path.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:36 AM
2

"I'm busy." You are busy because you're at work. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to answer anything about your personal life. "That's personal." or "I don't discuss personal details" works. Laugh. Laugh at every single shit test. Don't take them seriously. Have you read the sidebar about Amused Mastery, Agree & Amplify and Shit tests?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 09:38 PM
3

This is something I'm working on. When I tell a story I often add so many extra details it takes incredibly long for a short point. Have you ever listened to a child tell a story? You'll lose your mind trying to follow it. As an added effect, women interested in you will offer much more information or confess if you stay silent more. Say or ask something then shut up. Wait. Wait even more. Wait until she just spews info. Gotcha!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 11:23 PM
28

This hit me like a freight train about a month ago. I saw this girl and instantly the beta side thought "Wow! She's beautiful!" Then I paused for a moment and really took a good look at her. It wasn't that she was beautiful. It was that she had really good skin. No visible pores, pale etc. That's all it was. I realized how foolish that moment of weakness was. It's something I've been struggling with for a while. Since realizing how much I pedastalize beauty in women.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:08 PM
2

There was no way for you to fuck her for free unless she decided she wanted you for free sex. That's literally it. You're a potential customer. Plain and simple. Nothing more. Either for escort or stripper/escort purposes. $$$ It's not Beta bucks. Just bucks. Think about that cute waitress that smiles and flirts with you. She knows her flirts add to her tips. She knows what she's doing and is willing to do it to earn more money. Same thing with strippers times 1000. I don't think you got played.…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:38 AM
6

You could agree and amplify. "That was the most amazing meal ever. I'll never be able to eat again because it won't compare. Now put your lips on my balls."
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:39 PM
1

you want to keep an air of mystery. Once you reveal everything there is to know about you there's nothing left for her to discover. No excitement. She gets bored.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 11:58 PM
4

They are endorsed for a reason. They have proven time and time and time again to contribute value to this sub and that in turn helps men become better men. What have you contributed? Also you'd know to respect the "title" as per the sidebar. If you'd read it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 11:11 PM
1

Mind showing me where an Endorsed rationalized being in a LTR and where they showed that they felt their girl was a unicorn? I'm interested to see your evidence.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 10:36 PM
3

Maybe I need to ride the bus more.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 10:34 PM
1

Honestly I haven't seen any posts about "woah poor me I'm black/brown/indian/whatever here in TRP in months. Aside from ones like this calling out people who whine about not being successful due to skin color. I don't go to AskTRP much so it might be there. There WAS a lot before but now I haven't seen any. And that's a good thing. Because there's no reason someone's skin tone should hold them back from being successful.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 11:42 AM
-1

Chosen? You don't let women choose you. You allow them to enjoy your company.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 02:19 AM
22

I had something similar happen today. A coworker tried to play some bullshit and, being that I was rushing out the door to go fishing with some buddies and was tired, I snapped "whatever." half-jokingly. I could have handled it better. I should have handled it better. "sure" just a simple, unemotional "sure" would have been much better in my situation. Like OP said, do not break frame. Do not let your emotions rule over you. Women are damn good at making us men emotional. For better or worse. If…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 01:59 AM
1

You need more self confidence if you feel any woman is an "unlikely sex goddess" Women are not that special. None of them. Not even the hottest ones.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 01:38 AM
1

I've never had one complain after she's been tied up and I used mine on her. When she's screaming as a dildo slams into her at 160 thrusts per minute she's all smiles.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:32 PM
3

The Mods can take care of that. And they do a great job. Just like in real life there will always be people who are angry or who troll others. Just ignore them and enjoy your life. As for your post I'm proud you went out and did what you enjoyed doing. Meeting a cute girl was a nice bonus for you. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 10:22 PM
2

And you would have lost your job and reputation.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:12 PM
1

You hit all the key buzzwords except "alpha" "chad" and "AF/BB" but otherwise solid.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:06 PM
5

Frame. Next time someone tries trolling you realize how cute it is. Laugh at it. You don't have time for that.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 08:41 PM
7

You handled this like a man (Alpha). Not like a man-child (beta) whining or complaining. Just accepting this wasn't going anywhere so you moved on. You were polite but not grovelling or attempting to manipulate her into coming back. I agree that it's best to be polite rather than just ignore her. "Hi." and moving on.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 12:46 AM
16

I've seen a few posts on TRP about protecting yourself from rape claims and most are good. But this is a whole different level. This shows how scary it can be. And damn OP, you provided great step by step instructions (basically) on what you did wrong so others can avoid that. This is amazingly valuable advice and info. Never assume that because truth and facts are on your side that justice will prevail. Especially in today's colleges.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 04:51 PM
1

What was her response to all of this? You saying that it was rare to find a woman like her, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:55 PM
8

Lie detectors are fraudulent pseudo-science. The inventor regretted it. All they do is measure heart rate, blood pressure and a few other things like skin conductivity. Beating it is as simple as remaining calm and keeping your heart rate down.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:18 AM
36

The phone isn't the issue. It's you. Make a point to not check ANY social media on your phone. No games. Only text women who are in your circle of fucking, business people or family. etc. Use it but in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:53 AM
1

What does your country being decimated by heroine have to do with you? Go improve your life.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:52 AM
4

Every time you are about to watch porn, close it immediately. Take that time you would watch porn (for example 10 minutes) and use that time to do something constructive that also makes you feel good. Go read an article on a subject you're passionate about, or watch some tutorial videos to be better at basketball, or anything that replaces porn with something else that feels good.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:46 AM
12

How do you suggest we improve the sub then?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:43 AM
-2

I equate what OP experienced as a young man sitting down with an older Alpha man and the Alpha imparting his wisdom and experience to the younger man. Life lessons. Two guys discussing life, women and many other topics all together with a simple conversation. Myself, if I get to the level of deserving it I'd love to chat with GLO. But I'm not there yet. I'm not ready.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 12:35 AM
2

You held frame. That's good. However you fell into her frame when you allowed yourself to sleep with her. She now knows she can do whatever she wants, justify it however she wants and all she has to do is throw the pussy at you and you'll take her back. As long as her pussy has power over you, she does. When you can walk away from the pussy forever, at any time, then you'll have power over her. Not before.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 12:28 AM
19

As soon as I read that line I laughed.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 12:26 AM
1

What was your response to the WK?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:36 PM
3

Why do you think that is? Is it because he's a sloppy, fat 50 year old? Not a fit (or at least getting there) 50 year old guy who dresses nice, acts confident and shows himself to have his shit together?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:35 PM
6

I want to understand this comment. Does it apply to OP? Are you suggesting that some early 20-something girl sleeping with a late 40-something guy is a whore? Or in some way has less morals than the average early 20-something girl?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:34 PM
1

So much moralizing going on in this comment section.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:05 PM
2

Stop! You would do well to remember Morpheous' line from the Matrix. 'You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it.' You can't save any of them. You can offer advice. They can take it or leave it. You can trickle Red Pill ideas and they can choose to listen or not. But you cannot unplug them. Or even help them. Next time you hang out with your friend look at them. Rea…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:18 PM
8

Why would you care? Why would you stress over something as silly as a female going off to do something? If she's going to fuck other guys there's nothing you can do. It's not like she's yours... It's just ....... I'll let you finish it.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:18 AM
1

The problem with rejection isn't being rejected. It's going out and doing it again. It's so much easier to say "Screw it. Last time I approached a hot girl I stammered like an idiot and she and her friends laughed at me. I'm not going out tonight." But it's far better to go out and face rejection again. And again. And again.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:13 AM
5

Hindsight is 20/20. just a correction.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:11 AM
5

Every younger woman I've been with has told me she liked me over younger guys because I'm "more mature". In other words less needy, less likely to tolerate her bullshit and quicker to put her back in her place.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:54 AM
9

Matty, don't you understand? It WASN'T HER FAULT! She tripped and landed on everybody's dicks. It was an accident.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:40 AM
8

Once you internalize that, you'll no longer be angry about it. Do you get angry because it rains? No you just accept it's a part of life. It's the weather. It's just what the sky does. Women will always find a more exciting guy. You'll accept that it's what women do. Have been doing for 100,000 years. At least you have the knowledge that you can use it to your advantage. And be protected when it happens to you. "she's not yours, it's just your turn."
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:38 AM
2

To me, a douchebag is different from IDGAF. It's all in the way you carry yourself, appear and speak. For example. Walking up to a woman in public and saying "I like your eyes. I'm SirDistic, what's your name?" is different from "Hey you have a nice ass. Wanna come back to my place?" Now that's clearly an extreme example. Rock stars often meet so many hot women they no longer give a fuck. Some Frat boy in a bar trying to impress his buddies when talking to a girl is more like a douchebag. YMMV
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:31 AM
1

It's also psychological. If a person is talking about themselves, telling personal and/or private details then subconsciously they're thinking "Wow! I'm telling this person so much personal info. Therefor I MUST trust them and like them enough." They are letting you into their inner sanctum so they MUST trust you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:24 AM
1

Especially online. That's something I've learned here at TRP. If a woman messages you first, all you have to do is not fuck it up. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:22 AM
1

Only Blue-pilled Betas care about their kidneys! Red Pill men suffer!
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:20 AM
1

If she does it smiling and/or giggling. Especially with her play-slapping/punching you. "You're such a jerk/asshole/jackass!" giggle
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:18 AM
2

I would like to point out 2 observations. Clearly you saw all your faults. You reflected and saw where you screwed up. Things you said and did wrong, from her picking the place (leading you) to your blowing up at the end in a public and embarrassing way for her (easy for the tears to flow and then White Knights come to her aid.) And that's good. Plenty of people are saying "you're not ready" or "you failed by getting upset over your sobriety" etc. And they are right. You did. But at least you no…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:16 AM
1

IMO, you handled this perfectly. You appeared calm and cool and he appeared flustered. Inside you may have been shaking like a leaf and terrified he was about to kick your ass. But to him you were simply not backing down. As for feeling anxious/nervous even almost an hour later, it's ok. You stood up for yourself and your body was flooded with adrenaline, now that adrenaline has gone sour (metaphorically speaking) and your body is reacting. (basically you were flooded with Ad and ready to fight …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:00 AM
1

Please. Enlighten me. Tell me how women will not approach a man they find attractive. Tell me how women operate. I'm genuinely curious to learn more about that.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:33 PM
1

What? In America we have Bodily Autonomy. You can't be forced to give up any part of your body or have any medical procedure you don't consent to. There's exceptions for some life-saving issues.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:44 PM
12

Honestly, despite finding strippers attractive (at least the ones with good bodies) I've never been turned on in a strip club. The most was one time I got a half-chub during a lap dance. I just don't find the idea arousing. Mostly because I know the girl's game. Flirt for $. It's amazing how quickly they become submissive once they meet a Dominant man.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:40 PM
5

Yes that is White-Knighting. He's coming to her rescue! That's exactly what it is. Why should he go out of his way to try and impress some girl who cares nothing for him? I'm talking about OP not the orbiter. She rejected him once. If she cared enough she'd have come talk to him at some point. She hasn't. Thus she doesn't care about OP. so why should he waste his valuable time thinking about or rescuing her? I see no point personally. He was merely in a situation and happened to observe this bet…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:28 PM
7

You can't save any of them. All you can do is offer bits and pieces and hope they find their way here. Suppose you do show him TRP and he's not at a point he's ready to unplug. He'll probably be disgusted with it and you. You could lose a friend. Worse your reputation could suffer by having others know.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:01 PM
2

No. Because by being stoic you're showing them and everyone around that you are unflappable. Your frame is strong. Infact if you laugh it off he starts looking foolish. Saying little but not being silent. "You wanna go?" Go? Like go steady? Wow it's all so sudden. "You wanna fight?" No thanks I already fought today.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:36 PM
1

You did well. Keep it up. As soon as they make eye contact, smile. But hold they contact until they break it off. Also STOP beating yourself up about not talking to them. You don't have to approach women. Maybe you weren't ready. You might have messed it up. Now if you see them again you can. Just have outcome Independence. No real goal. Just talk.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:06 PM
1

There's a difference between being silent and saying as little as necessary.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:30 AM
1

Bartenders are some of the coolest people at a bar to know. They'll make drinks a little stronger for you, charge you less, help you pull girls, even female bartenders, and who knows.. you might take the bartender home some night. You might not so who cares either way? But I agree, talk, joke, meet and just have fun with everyone. Who gives a shit?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:48 AM
1

Dan Bilzerian Who? I've never heard of him. Should I have?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:42 PM
7

OkCupid I don't care for. The matches are pretty low quality. Obese single-moms who talk about "my child(ren) are my life." Plenty of Fish: Has a restriction that guys over 40 can't message girls under 26. > 2. You can only contact people +/- 14 years of your age. There is no reason for a 50 year old man to contact a 18 year old women. The majority of messages sent outside those age ranges are all about hookups. Anyone who tries to get around this rule will get deleted. That's from "Mr. Marcus" …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:41 PM
1

Just a note. Robin Williams had Parkinson's disease as confirmed by his wife. His autopsy revealed he also suffered from Lews Body Dementia. Yes he also had depression but that wasn't 100% of the reason he took his own life. Otherwise a good post.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 03:30 AM
1

The "one cock policy" he mentioned is a suggestion. If you spin plates and don't want your plates fucking other guys set a one cock policy. Yours. She can abide by that or leave. but you do you. Meaning you set your own policy according to how you want to live. Now for me, I'm ok with my plates seeing other guys. I'm ok with sleeping with girls in relationships or even married. That's me. I'm also 45. I like younger girls. That's what I like. Now down the road I will probably implement a "one co…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:52 AM
1

So very true. When women, any women, see you can dance (especially Spanish-style dances) they will practically wet themselves. It's a total turn on. Seeing you move fluidly, leading a woman all around the dance floor. Not just the ones you're dancing with, but all the other women there will notice it. And once you learn it you can do it anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:03 AM
7

Do you have problems avoiding raping someone?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 04:57 AM
3

Exactly, she wants to do it, she wants a reason to do it, but she also wants to know she can back out if she has to to retain her dignity/non-sluttiness. Without the guy getting butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 04:55 AM
5

You are replying as if it's inherently clear in your post. It is not. You're giving good advice in this post. And thank you for that. But you're assuming everyone knows what you know. The newer people might assume that you mean to use that line literally. That's what people are trying to tell you.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 04:51 AM
1

What does it sound like he is then?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 04:46 AM
1

Forget about woman. Women are an accessory not the goal. OP is trying to live the best damn life he can, for himself. And good on him. But no RP man needs to chase women. Sure approaching and fucking them but don't chase women. And don't make women the goal.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:37 PM
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Think about how many stories you've read, or go on Reddit and find them, of women being absolutely disgusted with their men for being or appearing weak. Men dying of fucking cancer despite spending their entire lives worshiping these women and the women are crying on message boards. "It's so hard (on me!) taking care of him with his illness. I almost wish he'd die so I can move on with my life." Me! Me! Me! Women don't want to see you whine about how you're not being treated fairly at work, or h…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:36 AM
1

She wants you to take her side. "You're right in this. She IS being a bitch! Fuck her. You're right and she's wrong!" That's all it is. My suggestion is to reply "That's nice dear." in an ever-so-slightly condescending tone. Just repeat it several times and she'll get the hint. Others might offer some better advice.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:30 AM
2

Does that also apply to her feelings? If you approach her with a smile she'll feel happy and you'll of course leave her feeling good and happy at the end. So does she remember feeling happy and/or positive about the encounter both at the beginning and the end or no?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 01:01 AM
10

"I don't think of you like that." "You're like a sister to me" "Let's just be friends." lol
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:16 PM
2

But as always hindsight is 20/20.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:10 PM
9

I see no benefit for a man to go to couples counselling.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:42 AM
1

Catherine: You caught feels for her. She felt it. You were getting too lovey dovey talking about the future, dogs together etc. You were too invested in her. She probably felt like you were "stalking" her by coming into the shop all the time. (Yeah I know, I know. Women are goofy like that) And felt it may have been awkward had you hooked up/dated. I'm honestly guessing. Women will reject a guy for all sorts of reasons. A month is fine after a boyfriend passes. She probably loved him, maybe she …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 03:18 AM
9

I believe it's more of a willful blindness. They don't want to believe what they see and hear about women. I know I didn't at one time.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:50 AM
2

Men are logical, women are emotional. Women don't think the way men think. So therefore when you try to use logic with a woman she becomes emotional because that's all she knows. Her brain doesn't work like ours does.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:43 AM
5

It's not just that they will lie. They will flip it so it's your fault. It's mind blowing how twisted they are by default.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:42 AM
7

Hindsight is 20/20. Plus you mentioned several times you were exhausted. Focused solely on the work so your head wasn't in the same place as hers. Sounds like you did good. Just make sure you record it next time it happens for your protection.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:21 AM
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Recording it is actually a REALLY good idea. He should have done that. But hindsight and being that tired I can certainly understand and can't fault him for that. But not to show to the fiance, but for his professional protection.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:18 AM
8

There's no reward. Simply show them that their childish ways don't affect you. Hell he could have turned around, blew a kiss at them and kept walking.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:17 PM
14

Just smile and nod at them. Then lean over to one of them and say "Yeah. I bet it wouldn't even hurt if I shoved in your ass." Wink at her and go back to doing what you were doing.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:15 PM
4

What happened was you lost your cool. You allowed yourself to enter their frame. You could have said something witty/funny or just playfully pass their shit test and kept on with your life. "You're an asshole." "You want to lick my asshole? What?" with a smile
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:14 PM
6

True. Also lifting builds genuine self confidence. Something most guys are missing. Plus there's only positive benfits to being strong and healthy. No negative.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 10:28 PM
6

There seems to be some misunderstanding. Chad is the personification of Alpha in relation to males. He's the stereotypical Alpha. He may be the textbook "dude-bro", the pump&dump aloof douche that girls flock to and then cry to their beta orbiters or he may be stoic, fit, has his shit together etc. There are many different kinds of Alphas. However what most of them don't have is what sets The Red Pill apart. Knowledge of WHY the things they do work. We understand WHY women shit test us. We under…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:47 PM
8

One of the many things that serperate Red Pill men from others is being brutally honest with yourself. I'm not happy that this post hits close to home with me, but it does. I will work on exactly what is weak about me and become strong in each and every one.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:36 PM
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I'm 5'6". I can't do anything about my height. I haven't given a shit about it since elementary school. Neither should you. "We're both the same height laying down." Is a good one too.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:35 PM
1

Please tell us more about how to be Alpha. I'd love to learn more from you. Unlike the OP who posted a story many of us can relate to. There's going to be guys who read this and go "holy shit! That's me! I'd do the exact same thing mentally." and this will help them. Anyway OP. Thanks for this. It shows progress on your journey. I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:46 PM
8

I agree with OP. I've been complimented by gay guys and it's kind of flattering. I've had creepy gay guys hit on me and is revolting. Really creepy and aggressive. So I get it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 07:03 PM
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You did well. I'm glad NMMNG helped you. It's a great book. No man becomes Red Pill overnight. It takes time. Keep working on yourself. Be brutally honest with yourself. You'll get there.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:53 AM
8

A great test of your SMV with a girl is the soft next. If she's not showing you the interest you deserve and desire then soft next her. If she chases then good. If not then you know where you stand with her. Hard next and move on to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:49 AM
2

I disagree with you. Marrying her would be of no benefit to him. She'd have still cheated and left him. Only she'd take his money, get him no visitation for his son and just all around fuck his life up.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:39 AM
3

Stocism is your friend right now. Be the Rock your son needs. Don't get mad at her, don't show anger or hatred towards her whenever you have your son. Even if you think he's not around. She'll either talk shit about you or forget about you and work on Harry being his "dad". Either way raise your son to be a Red Pill man. We don't get angry at women. It's her nature to find a better provider. You fucked up because you were not her Alpha, her rock, her leader, the man she needed. Now it was probab…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:33 AM
3

I paid nothing for her. A friend of mine introduced me to her as a set up. We went back to my place and did the deed.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:37 AM
3

By my count you asked her to come home with you 4 times over multiple dates. Getting turned down every time. Wow Also you said "(although it's technically her "round")." and "but i decide to pay both" ok Then: You explain yourself multiple times. For example "I say that's not necessarily my intention." WHAT? Say something like "I was just enjoying staring at your ass. If she gets pissed or offended, who cares? She's already proved she's a greedy bitch. Also it only got awkward when she flirted w…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:34 AM
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Dark Triad Alpha males attract women for a specific reason. They are not needy. Women despise neediness to their very core. They give no fucks, so they don't NEED women. They want them for as long as they want them. Then move on. Women love being wanted but hate being needed. She doesn't want to be your mother, she wants to be your slut in the bedroom and your teenager outside it. Whereas good guys need women. They want them and exist solely to please women. They secretly count how many nice thi…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 02:01 AM
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I once stopped having sex with a girl, mid stroke, because she tried telling me how to have sex. I've been doing it for more than 2 decades. So I bailed. Did the same thing with a woman who was so loose I couldn't even feel it. Gave up after 10 mins. Always be willing to walk.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:35 PM
4

Anyone who tries to save a slut doesn't belong here until they wise up and realize they can't save any of them from themselves. There's a reason the word "dick" is in the word addiction. (Gawd I fucking crack myself up.)
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:07 PM
1

In the video she swings on him and before she can he throws a punch. So calling him a thug is moralizing. He's defending his self. This man is NOT Red Pill. Whoever says he is, is wrong. I agree. He's not even Alpha based on what I saw/read. But he did have a right to defend himself. He feared for his safety and defended that. But you keep moralizing us as you boast your count, etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:51 PM
1

Notice her gloves. Those are gloves for fighting. She's not there to shake hands.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:48 PM
1

What did your lawyer advise you to do? Obviously you've spoken to a lawyer because it would be very dumb to do otherwise. So talk to your lawyer ASAP. Forget thinking : "I can't afford a lawyer" money is nothing compared to your freedom and reputation. Do it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:38 PM
3

I'd probably pee myself laughing if a woman said "you're not feminine enough" before I tossed her out.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 09:00 PM
1

Although I agree with lifting, eating right and all that. I live in the South. Nearly half of every guy here is muscular. Many are muscular and have a gut. The rest are muscular and are lean enough. Football, farming, working out, things like that. They almost all do it. So to stand out you have to be muscular and lean. But as soon as you are, even a bit, you stand out from the gut ones and the dads with muscles but beer bellies.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 08:59 PM
2

Signed into law on 23 June 2003, "Stephanie's Law" prohibits "unlawful surveillance," which is defined as (1) the installation of "an imagining device" with no legitimate purpose other than surreptiously viewing or recording another person in a bedroom, bathroom, changing room, or other specified room; (2) for the purposes of sexual arousal or gratification, the use or installation of an imagining device that surreptiously views a person dressing or undressing when that person has a reasonable e…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:55 PM
5

There was someone on another post this past week who said "owning a dog is bp af!" or similar. Obviously they were downvoted and laughed at.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:16 AM
2

That's part of "keeping or holding frame" You did something that was true to yourself. People gave you shit. You held frame and did your own thing. Their frame broke before yours did. If I'm mistaken I hope someone who has been here for some time will correct me and explain it better.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:14 AM
0

So don't. The Red Pill teaches you to do things for yourself not anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:59 AM
6

So anyone who downvotes you is a cuck? Ok. Also I've had lesbian roommates. Girls who have never dated a guy, would never date a guy and have never desired dick. I knew one who didn't even allow her gf to use a dildo or similar device because it resembled a penis. Both confirmed this to me. I lived with them for more than a year. Meeting dozens of lesbians, gay guys, drag queens, transgendered people etc. I strongly disagree with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:57 AM
13

What makes you think Adam and Eve were married?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:53 AM
13

That was something that blew my mind when I learned it, long before TRP. Women don't want you to solve their problems. They just want you to listen.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:49 AM
1

Incorrect. Sit down with the girl, her lawyer, your lawyer and you. You play the tape. Her lawyer will say it's not admissible but she'll hear herself say she liked it etc. That may be enough for her to drop the charges/not be a witness.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:44 AM
2

Did you take a sterility test after the first one? I've had the V. I think I'd get retested if a girl said she was pregnant. Just to be sure. There is a 5% chance it can reconnect on it's own. Plus having paperwork can be taken to court if she pushes for support.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:40 AM
2

Most laws regarding recording people have language talking about "Reasonable expectation of privacy" or similar. Which is why you can record someone walking down the street, but not discreetly in certain areas without consent.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:33 AM
2

In the US it's scary how easily a woman can destroy a man with a rape claim. Whereas the man has no rights unless he has proof.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:32 AM
3

Would you rather have your name dragged through the mud and be a free man or have your name dragged through the mud and spend a decade, or more, in prison?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:30 AM
1

Cut out video games, or reduce them so they are minimal, same with cartoons or other distractions. Don't blame it on child abuse. Let go of the anger you have towards it. Accept that it happened, acknowledge that it wasn't your fault and you couldn't do anything about it, then let it go. You don't have to forgive them. Just acknowledge it happened and wasn't your fault. Now build confidence, real self confidence. Work out, eat healthy, love yourself. I don't mean "I'm the fucking best!" I mean t…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:56 PM
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Bull. The vast majority of women under 30 LOVE sex. They want it as often as men do. They have been taught by society not to ask for it or act like they want it.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 12:38 PM
3

Women are fully capable and willing to let a guy know she finds him creepy or not interested. She'll let you know. Go for it, touch her. If she's not interested no big deal. There are other women out there who want your touch. As for the last part: Only into her for her looks. Tell me what else she has to offer...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 12:35 PM
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He wouldn't believe OP. Even if he did believe him inwardly, he'd defend Y to the brim. He cannot be told, he has to experience it for himself.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 11:20 PM
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This is absolutely amazing. This is what we all need to hear. It's so true and many of us, myself includes as this post has helped me to realize, are too invested in a woman who isn't invested in us.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 11:30 PM
1

even though I was stroking her back/ face/ neck/ legs pretty much the whole time. She touched me a lot too She was probably trying to be polite/keep you interested enough. You were initiating things and escalating things and she was just going along. I'm speculating but that's my guess.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 11:00 PM
68

Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:36 PM
1

Unfortunately, I entered her frame. "I was trying to establish a secure financial base so we could actually live a happy life together! I was very clear about my intentions; you chose to wait that long! It's not like we were committed! Yet you pitched this entire trip as a chance for us to grow closer, and you run off with some other guy and ignore me the entire time! Who is really in the wrong here?" I'm not clear how this is Blue pill/beta? Perhaps someone with more experience than I in TRP co…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:54 AM
69

I think you forget about musicians.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:38 AM
5

Yes. Even a selection when you report someone.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:35 AM
3

Exactly. Don't try to rationalize why girls say the things they do. They are emotional not logical.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 10:44 PM
8

I simply chose not to be friends with a woman. They offer me no benefit that I can't get from a male friend. With the exception of being preselection if she wingmans for me. Other than that I feel no need for female friendship. Too much drama, don't want to hear about her guys, can't joke with her the way you can with a man, etc. I'll do business with women, hang out with them as acquaintances, hook up with them as plates, etc. But I chose not to do friendships with them. That could change if I …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:29 PM
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"I'm done with u, deleting your #" Followed by more messages And more messages. And more. lol. Watch what they do, not what they say. OP Text her in a few days like nothing happened. "Hey come over." or something equally IDGAF. If she responds, cool. If not, cool.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:37 PM
3

Wow. You took "shooting blanks" to a literal conclusion. No I had a vasectomy done in 2012, still looks exactly the same, feels the same coming out.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:51 AM
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Don't ever confront a woman like this. You apologized all over the place. Disgusting. You don't owe her an explanation for not talking to her. You have your own life. Stop talking to this girl all together. End it for good. Simply stop talking to her. She knows she has you on the hook. She knows she can complain and throw a small tantrum and you come running back to be her "bestie". Don't do that. Don't ever try to be friends with a girl. Work on yourself more. Have guy friends. You can relate t…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:46 AM
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Hi, welcome to the Red Pill. Where we strip away the facade behind society and women, expose it for what it is and teach men how to play by the true rules, not the ones designed to keep the lazy entertained. Feel free to join us or feel free to exit. None of us will miss you.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:28 AM
4

Absolutely! I was like you. I used to believe it was "their nature" and done unconsciously. Nope. They know damn well what they're doing. And experience has taught them it works.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 05:58 PM
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They all manipulate. All of them. And they all know they are doing it. I used to refuse to believe that was true. But I see it every day. 20 year old girls who seems sweet will manipulate guys into picking up heavy items for them. 'look at the heavy box, look around the room, look right at some guy. No smiling.' boom every beta in the room rushes over to help her pick up the heavy box.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:08 AM
4

I didn't feel like I had shown her up. I didn't feel good, like I had gotten the upper hand in some tug of war mind game. I didn't feel bad, like I owed her an explanation and withheld it on purpose to get back at her for some minor indiscretion. I didn't feel anything at all. I sat down at my computer and started working on my music. My life was the same with or without her. This! It's not about revenge. It's not about "showing her up" or any type of evil/anger. It's simply about moving on with…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:25 PM
2

So Dwayne Johnson can't score? Ty Diggs? Isn't GLO black? I bet he does ok with ladies. Point is, STOP FUCKING WHINING. Do something about it or give up. Be the man top tier women want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 02:22 AM
1

I'm working with a guy who is dating a woman. They met 2 months ago, she was 7 months pregnant. She gave birth Friday. He still hasn't had sex with her. So he's taking care of her while she's pregnant with another man's kid and already had a daughter from her marriage. Trust me, worse men exist.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 06:36 PM
20

You do realize that women don't have to put out, AT ALL, to get what they want from thirsty betas, Right? Just keep them orbiting with the slim hope of ever moving forward and they'll be at her beck and call.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 05:52 AM
6

True. But his main concern was his job and reputation. He had to be professional and subtle.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 11:20 PM
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This is exactly what you do. There are rules each man has. She broke OPs. So he demoted her.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 11:09 PM
1

But Brad Pitt told me that self improvement is masturbation. So if I combine them I should be ok, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 03:35 PM
21

I like keeping eye contact while smiling. Then sticking out my tongue. They often giggle. Great way to open them.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:46 PM
7

And grab from near the roots not the tips. Also grab a handful and twist your hand. Do that while spanking her from behind will have her moaning like a pornstar.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:41 PM
3

It's in the glossery on the sidebar. Which obviously you've read. Agree & Amplify.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:27 PM
2

This made me happy to read. Happy that another young man has woken up to the realities of life. Yes there's racism, yes there's gold digging women, yes there's petty "friends", yes people will judge you the instant they see you, etc. No you can't do anything about it, Know what you can do something about? Your life. So make it amazing. Make it the best damn life you can. Go start a mission. Girls are not the mission. (I need to remind myself this as well.) I want a few nice material items, not m…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:23 AM
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Your soon-to-be ex wife's best friend wants to move in with you with her kid. And she needs to "get back on her feet"? Holy fuck! Firmly but politely say "No." She's not your problem. Don't be a chump. Well more of one than you already are. "I'm not interested in you sexually." LOL. Don't do this. Listen to everyone telling you no.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:22 PM
3

Assuming she pays. Otherwise you're on the hook.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:18 PM
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I read most of that. Nothing out of the ordinary for women. But shorten that a lot. Most of the last half wasn't needed.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 09:13 PM
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I read that story the other day. He's wanted by police for a string of these. He's shit not red pill. No Red Pill man would risk his career for some dinner. Or to spite some woman. Completely agree he's a POS.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 09:05 PM
1

Have fun. Treat it as if you were out having fun and she is along for the ride rather than the center of attention. Just pick up where you left off. Be physical and go for sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 11:25 PM
1

I read that before I heard of TRP. So full of TRP truths. Great book.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 05:22 AM
2

He's absolutely right. You've got the date, she's into you, she's probably enjoying yourself. But I'm guessing a lack of either confidence or comfort (probably from less experience here) is showing in your body language. You can't see it but they can. It's almost like the nervousness radiates off you and that pushes them away. Remember she's there at your whim. You came to have fun on the date. You simply brought her along. Think of it that way. Take her to an amusement park, or just the park an…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 11:29 PM
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I don't have control over my coworker who trolls everyone and acts like an ass daily. I don't have control over another coworker who is an angry bipolar autistic. I don't have control over wether or not a girl is attracted to me. I can only control me, my work, my emotions and my life. I can only control my attractiveness and if she isn't attracted I move on.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:57 PM
2

Don't you really think that every woman would do the exact same thing for the right sum of money under those circumstances? I'm not talking about his gf getting pregnant but what was probably a 1-night stand with a waitress. Most if not all would for enough money.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:56 AM
2

I'm more upset that you decided to end the life of an animal that only loves unconditionally. I would have gotten the medication and gave it to the dog myself.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:18 AM
2

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it does.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:16 AM
1

Do it. Let us know how it goes.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 09:41 PM
2

https://youtu.be/T9W_jW4e_uY Perfect way to handle that shit test.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 06:54 PM
3

A better way to put it is a lack of neediness. NOTHING is less attractive to a woman than neediness. Clingy, wanting her attention too much etc. All show neediness and it dries women up. The ability to walk shows you don't NEED her but you want her, for now. It shows her that if she fucks up she'll lose you.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 03:18 AM
2

This seems like new-age feel good talk. I disagree with your point about life ebbing and flowing the way you described it. Everything good and bad in my life has been my fault with a few exceptions out of my control. Every time I've been broke has been from me spending too much and being too lazy. Every time I've struck out with a girl has been from something I said or did, with a minimal amount of exceptions. Life is hard for some and easy for others but for most of us it's average and what we …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 03:12 AM
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Absolutely. Based on your post you come across as needy (the worst possible thing to a woman), desperate and creepy. You should be showing confidence, the ability to walk and being secure in yourself. She was grinding on you to get the attention of other men in the bar. When she rejected your attempts to kiss you should have laughed it off like it was no big deal. Then go find another girl to grind on. Going to her house was wrong. She wasn't into you but you refused to see it. You didn't get cu…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 08:56 AM
1

Why are you moralizing? Obviously you've read the rules. He can do his relationship his way without judgement.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:35 AM
1

Just ask her. "You ever try anal?" And develop from there.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:28 AM
3

This is great. You should consider doing a post about this. It'd help many of us.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:11 AM
1

My name is a mix of Sir and Sadistic. So being submissive is not something I'm interested in. Having said that if any woman I'm with chooses to get dicked down by you instead of me that's fine. She's not mine, it was just my turn. I have others.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 12:19 AM
2

This belongs on adkTRP. Read the sidebar. Yes there are gay men here on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:20 AM
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I'm aware that there are a number of people here who say that but part of being RP is living your life your way. If you want to be submissive and still be Alpha go for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:16 AM
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Explain to me why you can't be a Red Pill man AND be submissive in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:35 AM
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Ma y reasons. I've got shit to do. I'm not feeling it. I'm sick. I'm sick of HER. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:33 AM
5

Stop that shit right now! If you're 6'2" you're capable of pulling women more naturally than I am at 5'6" So your confidence is the issue. Lifting should be helping with that. Keep believing in yourself as the prize. Women will too. STOP fucking fatties. They do nothing for you but pull you down. Proove you're better than that.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:31 AM
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Young military wives are the worst. For the most part. They get bored because hubby is out. So they go dick-hunting and playing the victim while spending his money way beyond their means. That's what I've experienced.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:27 AM
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I disagree. There's nothing wrong with discussing rules and limits with a sub. I've known women who love their asses turned purple but hate humiliation play. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:33 AM
2

It's not. Getting together after work with some guys, watching the game and drinking/chatting is not beta. Nor is watching a game while relaxing. When it consumes your life then yes it's beta. If it replaces something missing it's beta.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:22 AM
2

While I certainly agree that every one of us should learn a discipline, it has been stated MANY times that taking a Martial Art or boxing or MMA etc is of tremendous benefit to a man.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:42 PM
1

Settling and cucked in one. Neat. No. A woman doesn't settle for me. I AM the prize. If she doesn't like it, I'll find someone who does.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:12 AM
3

Did I miss something? Where is the post that said you shouldn't have a smartphone?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 06:57 AM
4

Please don't have sex with your boss while he's firing you. It's super awkward. In all seriousness, that sucks that you lost your job but at least you're still on your feet, and due to hard and smart work, you're in a good place to continue on.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 06:56 AM
3

Except flossing has recently been shown to do nothing of benefit. It's not harmful but it doesn't do what everyone thinks it does.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:28 AM
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Society places such a HUGE emphasis on men getting laid. It's amazing how much we identify with our virginity until we lose it. i.e. "I'm a virgin" Yet once you lose it you realize: "Is that it? Is that all it was? I don't feel different. I don't feel un-like a virgin.I feel the same. It's not even that big of a deal. It's just sex." Once you realize how little sex actually means in the real world you realize how dumb the whole idea of 'being a virgin' is. OP I'm happy for you discovering happin…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:02 PM
2

But isn't saying "cheating is wrong" a moral judgement?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:15 AM
1

Have female room mates. (Don't fuck them.) If you think girls are innocent unicorns that shit rainbows, nothing will convince you otherwise better than living with some. I lived with 2 lesbians. They were a couple. turns out they were cokeheads too. Holy shit I learned quickly about lesbians, gays, transgenders, drag queens, and all the rampant drug use in their community.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 08:22 AM
1

"Be yourself" is foolish (safe) beta thinking. "you're a nice guy. Don't worry. Just be yourself Billy Beta." (HOW DARE YOU TRY TO BREAK OUT OF THE BETA ROLE I PUT YOU IN. GET BACK IN YOUR PLACE.) Don't "be yourself". Be someone who is awesome. Don't fake it, don't pretend to be someone awesome. Be it. Then women will flock to you.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:52 AM
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Since most of us rarely get to meet someone who is naturally Alpha, I for one, would appreciate a write-up of common things you did that make you successful. Real life examples with friends, women, business etc that made you successful.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:32 PM
1

Don't. Revenge is never as sweet or fulfilling as your mind makes it out to be. You'll see her for how she really is and you'll be disgusted by both yourself and her.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 06:59 PM
5

Why would you tell them to fuck off? That just seems like mate guarding to me. Simply smile at them as you put your arm around her, if she's with you. Or simply ignore him. Don't look at him, talk to him whatever. He means less than she does.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 05:41 AM
3

"Here let me show you how to hold your pole." Then stand/sit behind her and hold her hands on the pole. The same as someone helping someone golfing would put their crotch right on her ass and hold the club. Then segue into a "holding pole" joke. "You seem really good at holding poles, you must have a lot of experience." and laugh. Also you can be sitting next to her and lean over to touch her shoulder, pinch her ass "there was a bug on your butt." or something. Be creative and don't be afraid to…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 06:57 PM
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Nothing sadder than a beta orbiter mate-guarding a girl who isn't even with him. I've done it before and it's pathetic. You sound like you handled it well. Good on not giving any fucks.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:58 PM
1

I agree. But the problem is you can't save them. None of them. You can't save any of them. All you can ever hope to do is make it easier and that might not seem a lot but it is.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:27 PM
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As far as the date? Something simple and cheap. Fishing could work because it's relaxed, you don't HAVE to talk and can escalate easily. Bowling and mini golf allow you you to touch her often. "Let me show you how it's done." You need to stop thinking of her as "Hot AF" she's just a woman. Nothing more. Take that pussy off the pedestal. As for sex? Make sure you have several condoms. If possibly jerk off shortly before. You'll last longer when you go in her.. Just make sure YOU keep the used con…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 04:40 PM
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another way to have fun with her shit tests is using Amused Mastery. I like using the phrase "Oh yeah?" as it can be said with a number of different tones to display amusement and poke fun at her. Obviously you use it in context. "You're not hot enough to fuck me." "Oh yeah?" "Yeah!" "OH yeeeaaahhh?" "YES! giggle" etc. Tossing in "oh yeah?" lots of times is fun because it's a simple and easy reply to a shit test that shows you give no fucks. Sounds like you aced her shit tests. Good on you. Reme…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 04:28 PM
14

Many of us have been there. Confessed "love" to a crush only to be shot down with the friendzone. You were in lust not love. But that's ok. Simply hold your head up high and decide "I'm better than this. I deserve better than this." Time to walk away. If she messages you, and don't message her ever again, then simply say: "This isn't the type of friendship or relationship I want. You take care." I guarantee you'll never hear from her again. Showing you how little you mean to her. She fucked/blew…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 05:45 PM
6

Learn Amused Mastery and Agree & Amplify. They work in all areas of life, not just women. School, work, friends, family, whatever.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:35 PM
2

Good post. However there's no follow up. Tell us HOW to become your own personal trainer.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:09 AM
1

Women are fully capable of letting a guy know if contact or his behavior is unacceptable to them. So why not go ahead and have fun but also escalate to push for sex? If the girl shoots you down, leave her and find another. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:06 AM
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I want to believe that these pics look bad because of the pantsuit, the short hair and her being too skinny. But it's not. She's post-wall. What a shame. I think she was smoking hot. Like in a classical 40's-ish pinup style way. She looked like the type of girl Marilyn was at the height of her fame. Now she looks terrible. The same way Madonna and Angelina Jolie crashed hard post-wall. Looking at her pic you can see her facial wrinkles, saggy arms, etc. RIP ScarJo's hotness.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:50 AM
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I think it's more of a "I've been out of the game so long I have no clue how to actually flirt instead of just looking pretty and letting guys flirt with me" thing. Since they are post wall, by a bit, they think that saying "i'm available for sex" as openly as possible saves time and is sexy to a guy. And it works with horny betas of course. Since they go for any pussy available to them. In other words they've never had to work for dick before and now they do and don't have a clue how to do it. …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:17 AM
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There are plenty of post 40 guys on here, some of who are endorsed. But you enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:25 AM
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Remind him that a) high school is nothing like real life. That shit won't matter after graduation and b) to lift for him and not for women. Being healthy is about having a great life, not getting laid/getting revenge on women who spurned you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:32 AM
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I agree. Also women in this echelon have TONS of guys so she'll quickly forget about OP if he ignores her for too long.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:45 AM
2

I bet she didn't even notice it 99% of the time. She was so used to guys staring that it was never even a thought of hers that it wasn't normal.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:42 AM
2

Laugh. Literally just laugh heartily in their faces.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:14 AM
2

Went deep sea fishing 25 miles off the New England coast. Got massively seasick. Spent half the trip at the back of the ship. The guy whose pole was set right next to mine caught a 4 foot wolf shark. The first mate calmly came up on deck, beat it to death with a bat and walked back down again. He was in his 20's probably. I was so jealous because that could have been my shark. Damn seasickness. lol But it was a good experience and I was happy for the guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:34 AM
3

Directly from his blog: Also, I don’t want to hear about some great aunt who fought off cancer by bee-sting therapy or smoking copious amounts of strong marijuana. I know you mean well. I know you want the best for me. But I won’t be taking in alternative therapies that don’t work on statistically large enough numbers.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 05:21 AM
21

Don't talk about a woman's "beauty" to her. She's heard it 10,000 times. It's boring to them. The attractive ones hear it on a daily basis everywhere they go. Instead compliment their looks "You have mysterious eyes." "I like your haircut" etc. Obviously you're very angry about something that happened with a woman. And that's ok. I agree totally and completely about STFU when it comes to women. Chose every word carefully. The less you say the more mysterious you are to them. And the less you say…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 05:16 AM
2

Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but by fucking her she sees "sex=get out jail free card" meaning all she has to do (like every other time she's been caught by every other guy) is have sex and she doesn't have to accept responsibility for her actions. Girl does bad, guy gets mad, she pouts, doesn't work, she takes off clothes and fucks, guys not mad anymore, all good again! You need to show her that she messed up and sex won't make it better, although there will be sex after she's paid for her m…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 05:20 AM
1

I've stopped saying sorry. Try saying "excuse me" instead.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 04:51 PM
0

This is interesting. Would this work for shorter guys? I'm 5'6".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:38 PM
2

Most gun ranges have a variety of guns you can shoot. You can try various calibres and types. Try something you've never shot before, like a revolver, or a smaller calibre gun.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:34 PM
1

I'm curious about their reactions to the bowl when they pointed it out. And how you handled it. It's a pretty amusing thing to me.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:29 PM
5

Funny thing is, I wasn't paranoid. I didn't believe she'd cheat on me. "Why would she cheat on me? If she didn't want to be with me she'd break up." We even discussed it several times and both agreed "I'd rather break up than cheat on someone" I laugh at that now. Jesus, when you're Blue Pill you're so oblivious to 2x4-to-the-head clues.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:05 PM
3

Feel free to critique my advice. ok.... Since I'm going to assume this happened in America there's something you need to know about modern cops. Most of them are Blue Pill White Knights. Some of them are ex military. There's no way that scenario could have ended well had he escalated it. He'd have ended up in jail. Period. Win or lose the fight, even if it was just an argument, they could arrest him for public drunkenness, disturbing the peace, even disorderly conduct. Hell they could have made …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:01 PM
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Lol, CAD used to say, you'll never know. It wasn't until I discovered the Red Pill that my jaw dropped because my ex used to say, multiple times, "You'll never know if a woman is cheating on you. Women can't get caught unless they want to get caught." (Of course my BP mind was like "yeah yeah") I totally agree with you (and CAD)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:48 PM
1

First off pointing out someone's disability isn't alpha, it's being dickhead. But I digress. There's nothing rude about laughing when she suggests you're in a relationship. Or if she's upset simply saying "Are you suggesting I don't get a say in whether or not we're in a mutually exclusive relationship?" or similar is an easy pressure flip. And it's honest. If she wants you at her place and you want to leave, leave. "I'm headed out. I've got some work to take care of. See you later." For me pers…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 08:48 AM
1

You're in her frame because she's pulling you in with talk of commitment. And she knows you'll keep coming back for the pussy. What do you respond with when she acts upset at you having other options? Do you apologize? Brush it off? Flip it? Take charge of YOUR life. You're not responsible for hers and she's not responsible for yours. If you want to see other plates, do it. If she doesn't like it she can fall in line or you can walk. You don't owe her shit. Not an explanation, not a reason, noth…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 07:05 PM
1

There are times when a man can cry. Getting your feelings hurt, being teased, etc are not those times. Anyone who witnesses a man crying at those times, both men and women, will judge that man as weak. It's a basic human instinct. But losing a friend, family member or pet are perfectly reasonable opportunities to shed tears. I've cried in the past because a girl broke my heart. That was weak. I've felt like crying because a woman didn't understand what I wanted her to understand and I tried expl…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 06:40 PM
2

It took me over a decade of being an adult before I was willing to accept personal responsibility. I felt like terrible things always happened to me for no reason. I never owned up to the shit I did. Now I do.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:02 AM
2

To some extent I agree. You could be more obsessed with playing basketball than any human ever has and still not have the talent that Michael Jordan had. Certain things like sports and others require talent to reach the highest levels. I don't care how much you obsess. Now business, your body, and most other aspects of life don't require talent over obsession. But you can succeed with obsession.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 08:44 AM
2

Yeah? Born and raised in New England. I plan on moving back from the south. Let me tell you something. New England is great. Great culture without the New York snobbery. Great history. Everything is not over priced. Yes rent in Boston is outrageous but don't live in Boston if you can't afford it. That's basic common sense. And you're talking about snow? So tell me why people live there if it's so bad? Or in Sweden? Or Norway, Canada, Russia, and dozens of other countries where it snows? i'm sure…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 08:34 AM
1

My guess is that the muscular guys OP is talking about are either fake posers or guys trying too hard. Where as the Dad bods are confident with an IDGAF attitude. i.e. not clingy or needy, self assure, etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:37 PM
10

Check out something called Cuckquean. It's the female version of cuckolding. Basically fuck another girl infront of her, rub it in and watch your gf get wet. Actually don't. This gf is super insecure, jealous and this WILL end badly for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:31 PM
2

and I don't want to ruin a fwb with a 9. That right there is the wrong attitude. You're not willing to walk at any time. She's got you. The one who is least invested and most willing to walk has all the power in ANY relationship. And congrats. You stuck your dick in a vagina. That's great! Also you have low self-confidence "She's probably on paper out of my league". I am no where near top 20% of guys but no woman who has ever existed is "out of my league". She should be working for your dick, no…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:23 PM
15

There are more cam girls now then ever before. They can make good money, some make $10,000 a month (Very top ones only), sitting in front of a cam, undressing and even masturbating.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:18 PM
2

So you're chasing her hard? Got it. She defines the relationship, not you? Got it. You don't like that but still allow it? Got it. She KNOWS she can keep you hooked with pussy and it works every time? Got it. So pretty much she's 100% in control of this relationship. What about your other plates? Do they have this kind of power over you?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 07:05 AM
1

Wow! A super big dick. So you have a slight speech impediment. So what? So you punch a stripper and a bouncer in the face and get 2 felonies over it. That's hilarious. This post is rambling. What are you trying to say? Are you trying to provide a list of how you're screwed? If so putting all of that in is silly since most of it can be changed or worked with just by working out, dressing nice and being confident. And what does treating them like shit accomplish? Just treat them like the spoiled t…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:55 AM
2

How do you know he said something really bad about you? Just based off how his sister and brother acted towards you?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:47 AM
1

Women get told they're "Sexy" "beautiful" etc etc by betas all. the. time. Compliment something about them when they show attraction. "You have nice eyes." "That's a good haircut for you." etc. (The haircut gives you a chance to lightly touch her hair with a laugh)
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 06:20 AM
2

The Red Pill is all about fixing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 12:18 AM
6

A unicorn is a mythological creature. It DOESN'T exist. Nor does the "perfect woman" or "soul mates".
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:42 PM
6

I know right? Can you imagine if EC's started telling stories about how they took some girl home from a bar and got through their LMR and ASD and ended up fucking her? I mean what kind of place would it turn into, with people using real life examples to show others how to improve? Jeeze!
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:47 AM
5

If you are young, building a fantastic life for yourself should be your priority. School, building a solid social circle of friends you can trust, developing skills for work so you can have a good career, working on finances so you'll be set for retirement, and yes working out so you're fit, healthy and muscular (Not only because it attracts people, both men and women, but because the long term health benefits are incredible.) Do not spend your 20's focused on girls. Spend your 20's focused on t…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:09 AM
1

I think you handled it right. Personally I wouldn't want her around because of the 'getting in your face and wanting to fight you' posturing. What kind of girl does that? Anyway your response wasn't being an asshole douchebag. It was confidently passing her shit test. You threw it back in her face and she loved it. But she had to save face in front of her orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:42 AM
5

13: No thanks 14: We're both the same height laying down. 20: All of it. 21: me too.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:15 AM
3

You've entered into her frame. And she fucking knows it. She is loving every second of it. She didn't beat you down, pussy whip you, or otherwise betafy you. YOU LET HER. That's right. it's 100% your fault. Not hers. You allowed yourself to pacify her. Goddamn do I wish I knew this in my last LTR. You allowed her to bully you, cry and whine like a child, and otherwise break down the strength you had as a man. Time to STOP that shit right now. Not tomorrow, not after the wedding. Right this secon…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:17 AM
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There are some people bashing you for being at a party with people below you. But they're missing the point. You opened your eyes and noticed things for how they really are. Good. Don't worry about people not reading your meaning. Just keep improving.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 12:42 AM
1

People like Bruce Willis, Michael Jordan etc all have bald heads. Think they don't do good with women? And sure they are famous celebrities with money, good looks, status etc. But you never see them walking around ashamed of their bald head. It's something else that's the issue. Not your bald head. There's some other reason you're failing with women. Maybe your lack of confidence? Insecure about your bald head so you make an issue out of it when it isn't to them? I don't know.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 06:31 PM
11

He was asking out a 16 year old. And we don't see the note. It could have been some creepy shit. Just because 1 person does some dumb shit and someone over reacts doesn't mean it's Blue Pill or whatever. Also that title is not only wrong but clickbait-ish.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 06:27 PM
1

Obvious to who? And if women aren't digging your bald head then find ones that are. If you're confident and own that shit then so what? Be comfortable with who you are. So you're bald. Big deal. If a woman doesn't like you for being bald then walk away and find another. Simple as that. And "doing ok" to me, means I can find a woman to spend time with or have sex with regularly, if I so choose.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:46 PM
1

But my name isn't Sherlock. That was a fictional character from a series of Detective novels.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:42 PM
1

I get your point. But. It's ok to be happy with yourself. It's not ok to be content. Content breeds stagnation. Happiness is acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:39 PM
1

Because society makes men feel ashamed for being masculine and for not bowing down to women. I'm certainly the furthest from being a "woman hater".
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:37 PM
1

I'm balding. Have been since my 20's. I shave it and have the head for the 'bald look'. I've been complimented many times that my head looks good bald. I'm also short. Guess what. I do ok with women. Whatever you're doing, you're doing something wrong. If you're shredded with abs, etc and bald and still not pulling even half-decent women, you're doing something wrong. Personality, game, jokes too edgy/unfunny, etc. Something's not adding up. Bald ain't got shit to do with attracting women if you…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 04:45 AM
3

Hey there's protein in there.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 04:56 PM
1

I don't see the problem. Granted I'm not from that culture so I don't know the intricacies of it, but it seems like such a small thing. Here in the US, if a girl meets our parents it's a serious step, but at the same time we can end it with her if we get uncomfortable. Just introduce them but hold frame. If she keeps pushing than simply remind her how needy she's acting and how that's a turn off. Then back off from things for a day or two to remind her of her place.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:25 PM
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I get what you're saying, and you're not wrong. But the last sentence could be taken wrong. Women don't owe pussy to men. We men entice them to give it out. If they don't we move on.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:22 PM
3

First off, stop 99% of all contact with her. Don't message her or respond to any messages unless they require a message. You COULD respond with a simple 1 sentence statement asking her if she got the IUD yet. Otherwise go silent on her. Each time you find yourself looking at porn, turn it off and work out. Even if it's just pushups on the floor. Get off the computer. I'm in the same boat. I'm trying to minimize my time online. Games, porn, TRP, etc. There's always something more productive you c…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:18 PM
1

He's not your friend. He's a typical, text-book, beta who wants that girl for himself. You damn well better believe he's talking shit about you to her behind your back. "He's such a dick. Stay away from him" etc. I used to be that weasly guy. It sucks thinking about how slimy and weasley I was. Just pathetic. Be above that shit. Use amused mastery "Oh? Why do you think I've changed? Because this girl likes me. You're not jealous, are you?"
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:08 PM
1

That is amazing. Just amazing. I've recently seen two women in my life like that. Not even fucking them yet they are on my mind way more than they should be. One I asked out and she said "lol no." , and still thought about her/wondered about her even after I blocked her on all social media/hard nexted her. Another was a friend, of sorts, who stopped hanging out. It reinforced that although I AM willing to walk in some instances, I'm not 100% willing to walk in all. Not yet.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 06:23 PM
1

I doubt most states have a limit. I believe it's based on how much the man makes and it's per child. Such as $100/month per child. Or something similar. That's my understanding of it. I knew a guy making around $1200 a week having to pay nearly 3 grand for 2 kids. He basically was broke and starving while working his ass off.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 06:19 PM
5

Except, (A) There are no 10's. Not really. You're talking absolute perfection. (B) She's worth just as little as the next slut. (TY NwTRP) Take her off that pedestal. How is she so much better than the other girls? Because she's MORE attractive? Or MORE Goth (or otherwise meets your standards for beauty in "your type"?) So what? There's hotter girls out there. You dun messed up A-A-Ron. We've all been there. Invite her to dinner some night. "I'm headed to X Friday night at 8pm, meet me there." I…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 06:14 PM
1

Kept your head down, no. Called him out in front of everyone? No. You lost frame. Next time simply put the pressure on him. "Would it bother you if I was?" (wink at her) Get up to go the bathroom and tap him on the shoulder, motion for him to follow you. Or just straight up ask to speak to him privately. Ask if everything is ok. Act concerned for him. Find out why he cares so much. He's either in love with her or jealous of you. Neither of which you're responsible for or is your problem. Just ig…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:07 PM
2

I'd also add "(laughingly) You sure are taking quite the interest in my sex life. Are you trying to get in my pants? Play your cards right and I might just let you."
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:03 PM
1

I have to agree with u/fnordsnord here. Text her the next morning, after she got home, say an hour after she leaves. Something safe that basically gets her acknowledgement it was consensual. "I had fun." or something. The more, and sooner, you get it in text the safer you'll be from a rape charge. And if she's like most women she'll want to meet up again to blow off steam and not seem like a slut to herself.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:00 PM
1

Laugh. Alphas don't mate guard. If she leaves you for another guy then it only reinforces when we say "she's not yours, it's just your turn."
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:55 PM
6

She complains about her boyfriend to you? You want her to get rid of the bf so you can take his place? (FYI she'll talk shit about you behind your back) You have oneitis SO bad for this girl. If you really want to undermine him just ignore him. Don't speak to him unless he asks you a question that deserves a response. Otherwise act like he doesn't exist. But don't do it in an obvious way. Don't act like you're ignoring him. Just like he's not there. You need to find other women besides this one.…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:54 PM
1

There's a difference between acknowledging that height preferences are there and not giving a fuck. Think I care if a woman rejects me for being 5'6"? Hell no. Laugh and move on.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:25 AM
7

Any guy that can flex in a pic at exactly High Noon is ok with me.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:29 PM
20

Congratulations on recovering from that suicide. Very few people who commit suicide get better. (In Seriousness, I get what you meant) Depression is a bitch. It can pull you backwards if you let it. But that's the hard part, getting up and not letting it.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:21 PM
2

Plate her, at best. Anyone who is willing to break up so easily doesn't care if the relationship works. "I'm not sure if I want a relationship right now." translates into "I want to ride every dick in a 50 mile radius as soon as possible then settle down with your sorry ass so you can raise my kids when I'm in my 30's and saggy with 50 more pounds." Don't do that.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:11 PM
3

This. This I like. Not: "She made me into a beta." it's "I allowed her to turn me into something I'm not." Taking personal responsibility. Good on you. Keep doing that, those things like working out, learning to cook, finding other girls who are stable.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:08 PM
4

Personally I'd recommend this: Send 1 final message to her Mother. " I hope she recovers and I wish her the best." Then block on everything and even tell the mom you no longer wish to speak to her ever again, if necessary. Hard Next
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:02 PM
2

Am I the only one who recognizes this is spoof?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 04:58 PM
0

Not true. The entire current population could fit into Texas with a population density of Manhattan.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:54 PM
2

Go to your local YMCA or even a Boys Club. They sometimes teach basic karate or boxing. Or if you have a dojo nearby go train there. Learn a Martial art like BJJ, Krav Maga or others. You could start with YouTube videos if you have no other options nearby.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:27 PM
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lol I had a buddy have something like that happen to him. Before he joined the military he was dating this hot but crazy chick. She'd go to bars with him and start fights with guys then say "My boyfriend will kick your ass." He even told me "After a few times I learned to duck." He eventually dropped her before something really bad happened to him.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 06:37 PM
3

Man, only my true male friends stood with me, everyone else disapproved, i had to listen 30min+ of moralizing from some girl friends, i tried to justify myself but they would not listen. Oh boy, so many people i know came to say i was on the wrong, even if it was him starting it hitting me without a word, i even apologized for people but obviously the damage was already done. Apologizing and trying to explain or justify doesn't work. You were in the right, but that doesn't matter. Especially to …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 06:29 PM
2

You say it appears lifting might be out of the question. What does your doctor say about lifting? Also a part of that is eating right as well. You can tone down with healthy eating. Since you have the money, hire a cute personal trainer (after speaking to a doctor about your limits and what types of things you CAN do) and work out at home with her. If you have a IDGAF attitude your muscles won't matter nearly as much since you have other things like money, a nice home, good friends that'll bolst…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 08:02 AM
5

Don't change your life for women. That'll leave you hollow and empty. Do it for no one but you. Women will be an accessory for you.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 07:56 AM
1

Exactly. "I'm not less of a feminist. I get to fulfil my fantasies." She even said in her post: < Just because hair pulling and spanking turns me on doesn't mean I'm giving up on equality — it's simply what brings me sexual satisfaction. It makes me feel powerful to tell someone my fantasy and have it realized. It is a fantasy after all. Turns ME on. What brings ME sexual satisfaction. Yet she still hamsters that she's a strong feminist outside the bedroom. While she's not shouting about how men…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:23 AM
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Not really. Once you understand them it's laughable how simple they are. Emotional teenagers.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 05:45 AM
2

So what you're saying is "always be willing to walk"? I agree. It's the most freeing feeling to know you can and will walk from a girl. From the moment you meet her to years down the line.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 07:40 PM
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Vet her. Make sure she's LTR material. If she is, go for it. Just remember she'll never be yours. It's just your turn.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:58 PM
1

Being whiny doesn't help a man grow. It holds him back. Stop complaining and making excuses. Now, if you're really attractive, confident etc, as you say you are then stop giving a fuck. You're 20! Focus on your future. Keep/Start lifing, work on school and not on making friends. You won't even talk to 99% of them after school anyway. When you have a successful career, muscles that drench a woman's panties, and true confidence you can walk up to anyone and become their friend.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 05:21 PM
2

It definitely sounds healthy and if it works for you two that's great.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 06:36 AM
1

What is your definition of nice guy?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 01:09 AM
2

First. You caught oneitis. Second you let her dictate everything. Third you let yourself care wayyyy too much. She controls you with the promise of sex. A girl doesn't want sex from you? Act cool. "Ok." Then grab your phone and hit Tinder. Don't let her stay the night if she's not fulfilling your needs. Back to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:46 PM
2

She sounds BPD. I'd not really hard next her so much as just never initiate contact. If she texts something of value you can respond if you want. Otherwise just ignore her. That's just what I'd do
/r/askTRP23/11/16 07:28 PM
2

I'm not sure what's going on with me lately. I was developing really good eye contact, now it's dropped to almost zero unless I consciously try. For some reason I'm looking right at their mouths. Men and women. Granted some have crazy teeth, being here in the south, but still I need to focus on the eyes. I know this yet it still happens I'll look at their mouth And I'm working on projecting my voice too as I've always spoken too softly. I think to myself "I must project my voice" and think like …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:09 AM
101

So to have a stress free first date I should start cleaning my apartment hours before the date, pick out a place ahead of time, careful monitor the position of the sun for optimal timing, prepare every detail, make sure I eat but not too much before the date, then eat lightly on the date, then get there 15 minutes early, wait 30 minutes, then if she shows up late I should place condoms all over the restaurant/park/movie theater/bowling alley (jesus how many of these do I need I only have a finit…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 06:59 AM
2

Rewards you? She sounds like a prize.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 03:11 AM
2

So the issue is approach anxiety? No problem. Just start talking to everyone. Literally ever person you see say "hello" or something. I started doing that by saying hi to people I passed in the supermarket. Then complimenting women "I like your necklace" literally as I'm pushing my cart past them. Who cares? Soon you'll be able to talk to anyone.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 12:55 AM
1

Good. Let the hate flow through you. Now channel it into picking up iron plates. Read the sidebar, work on yourself mentally and physically. It's a long process. It'll take years of hard work.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 12:50 AM
1

If either of them send you a text simply reply. "You can have her. Don't contact me again" save all texts. If he's physically waiting for you, call the police.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 12:39 AM
5

Since you want advice here's some: Stop going to bars until you improve your social interactions. When you're out and about, be it on the street or supermarket or whatever, just say "hi" to people, men, women, kids, whatever. Or compliment them. "I like your hair" and walk away. Do it in passing. Soon you'll find it pretty easy to talk to people. Next you need self confidence. Working out does build it. It does. but you also have to love yourself and respect yourself. You have a long, HARD, road…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:35 AM
1

So you've been talking for weeks? You drove 45 minutes to see her, got to kiss her, then drove 45 minutes back. After practically begging her to kiss you. (she saw it as: "you pay me a kiss and I'll come bring you to the border.") all a ride cost her was some time and a kiss. Excited, I then made a bad joke about wanting to take her back to my place but I covered it up with sarcasm about already having taken her to the border. That looks very desperate and unconfident. You gave up everything to …
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:28 AM
1

You did the right thing. Drunk women make worse decisions than sober ones.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:22 AM
1

"ok" then next. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:13 AM
2

Far too many people are plugged in, beta males supplicating women, feminzais raging against "cis-male shitlords" etc. It could be done, but probably not yet. There's not enough men at the tipping point yet. It'll happen. but we're not there yet.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:50 PM
1

Why are you ashamed of them? Just act like it's no big deal. Don't say that exactly but just act like it's nothing special. Are you in a position that you could walk away right now if you chose to?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:13 PM
6

I really hope that was your phones autocorrect.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 12:46 AM
1

Exactly! Men argue logically and women argue emotionally. You'll never win against emotions using logic.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:17 AM
1

No you haven't. You still care too much. About her. About the relationship. The person who cares the least in a relationship is the one with all the power. Be willing and able to walk away. Women know they have options. But they want men to be devastated after the relationship. They don't want you saying "ok this is for the best. Take care." And walking away happy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:09 PM
108

You have to forgive yourself. This post drips with self-hatred. Forgive yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:02 PM
12

Thanks. I'm not proud of how I was. But we're all here to improve as men.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 11:58 PM
45

I told my last girlfriend that I wouldn't break up with her. That if she wanted to end things she'd have to do it. This was well past when the relationship was dead. She ended up doing it a few months later. My beta mind refused to end things. Even though I knew she was toxic and it was over. I wanted to fight for the relationship. It wasn't until TRP that I saw how bad that was for both of us. Now I'll never be in a position that I can't walk away at a moment's notice.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:30 PM
5

Take the time you need to deal with the grief. There's nothing wrong with grieving for a loved one. If you need to go somewhere and cry, do it. If you need to do something else to express yourself, do that.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:36 PM
2

Most of the time other people in the gym will help you out. Just ask someone to help you with form. Spot you. Etc
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 09:16 PM
2

Let her go. Just ghost her not hard next. No there are no unicorns. Not even for you snowflake. Just keep living your life. If she contacts, cool. If not, meh. There's others.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:41 PM
4

You apologized all over that. Saying sorry, explaining yourself etc. Next time act like nothing happened. If she brings it up simply comment and laugh. "Why, are you jealous?" That pressure flips it onto her and shows it means nothing to you. If she continues to be mad about it then walk.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 11:45 PM
1

There's a belief in science that the first person to live to 150 has already been born.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:11 AM
1

Not all Atheists feel that way. Some live by the "live and let live" philosophy. Respect my beliefs and I'll respect yours
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:09 AM
1

For some people, owning a nice house, a nice car, having a loving wife, etc make them happy. And that's ok. That might not be your journey but it's theirs. You live your life to the fullest and happiest it makes you. I'll do the same. I get what you're saying, there really is no "point" to life. Except continuation of the species. Which humans have no problem with currently. So we're good on that. Other than that you just live your life the best you can.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:06 AM
1

Honestly you handled it pretty well. Much better than most people are capable of. Being in that situation, it's tough to just be calm and laugh it off. Pride is a bitch sometimes. Good on you though.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:14 AM
1

as much as I should keep that abundance mindset the reality here is quite the opposite. That right there is the problem. She's got you lined up and you have no options other than her. As far as going RS, just don't text/call etc her, nor respond to hers. Simply wait an amount of time you feel is worthy. 2 weeks? a month? Then contact her. If she pulls that shit again, lean back and don't even try to touch her. If she is like "no we can't" Just laugh and say ok. Then kick back and chill. Better y…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 04:28 PM
-5

There's nothing wrong with dinner on a first date. It's usually quiet and gives you a chance to screen her. Assuming she's being lined up for LTR potential. You can always escalate into drinks "Let's go to this bar around the corner." or back to your/her place.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:22 PM
1

Suppose you did kick his ass? Then what? Suppose you hit him, he fell and hit his head, had hemorrhaging and died? Then what? Don't risk it. Laugh it off. She obviously liked the way you handled it more than you do. Your pride took a tiny hit. So shake it off and go on about your life. Heck you could turn it into an inside joke. "If you ever broke up with me I could get plenty of girls and possibly a few guys in no time."
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:43 AM
1

"We were both just kidding. Here are the real candidates."
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:39 AM
1

True. I was simply giving him another option besides "thanks for my stuff" and slamming the door. But your post is probably better. Best just to be cordial and polite but nothing more.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:38 AM
1

Be calm, do not grovel. Apologize and acknowledge it was in bad taste. Be calm. Do NOT raise your voice, insult her or bring up anything anyone else said "But tony was saying some shit too..." Just be as calm as you can, listen to everything, state your case rationally and hope for the best. Since you're on probation I highly doubt you'll come out with your job. If you do simply act 100% professional around her. Be friendly but do not banter with her or even if there's a chance she's around. Kee…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:32 AM
0

So she breaks up with him, she cries, he takes her back, she yells at him, cries more, repeat. And he's sick of it. He's willing to be FWB with her but not in a committed relationship. Explain to me how he's treating her like shit and she's doing everything right?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:27 AM
6

Nothing about her says "easy pussy"
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:18 AM
-1

taking advantage? She's taking advantage by manipulating him into not having female friends, dumping him, crying until he comes back for more.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:17 AM
1

She cries, breaks up with you, cries and asks you to come over, knowing damn well she can fuck you back into a relationship. Hook line and sinker. Next time you break up, when she cries and calls you back go over fuck her and leave. Show no emotion. Better yet walk away from her crazy, manipulative ass.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:16 AM
3

She was being a textbook cock tease. You slept together naked but didn't fuck. Don't waste your time on her. Back off and she'll either come to you or not. Make your intentions clear. If she doesn't want to ride your dick then fine. That's cool. You'll find someone who will.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:14 AM
8

Either: a) she's coming over to drop off your things because she's moved on or b)she's coming over to drop off your things and see you because she knows you're with other women and is getting a feel for things. Look at this from another point of view: You tried to fix things which betas and women do. That comes across as weak to women which is disgusting to them. She blocked you. Now she wants to give you back your stuff. Don't give a flying fuck about her. She's done. Be done with her. I don't …
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:09 AM
1

I don't understand how I'm supposed to do all of this and still listen to someone talk. If I'm inwardly thinking about every angle of this person and their agenda I'm going to miss every word in the story or what they're telling me. Then I'm standing there looking dumb for having no clue what they said. How do people do that?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 06:54 AM
10

1st rule is read the sidebar. 2nd is lift.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 10:27 PM
3

TL;DR: Read the sidebar, stop pedestalizing women and love yourself. You're the prize. 1st: She's not yours. It's just your turn. Enjoy the ride while it lasts. 2nd: You have oneitis. You need other plates. 3rd: "I'm not ready to jump right into another relationship." is girl talk for "You're my orbiter. Stay put while I look for Chad to pump and dump me then I'll complain to you." 4th: Take the pussy off the pedestal. You worship this girl. You're scared to lose her. Think of every woman you se…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 10:24 PM
1

She's NOT perfect. She's not even yours. It's just your turn. You'll slip up or she'll get bored and move on to another guy. Never forget that.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 07:56 AM
2

Where is your question? This is drama. Men don't deal in drama. Women do.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 07:52 AM
3

Why? Because you're trying to remove her orbiter. That's her decision, not yours (in her eyes) How dare you decide you're better than her!? /sarcasm Next time she speaks disrespectfully to you simply say "I've outgrown you. Take care." and end things. For good.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 07:51 AM
1

Quite simply Next her. Don't contact or anything. She's not worth your time. She'll simply try to use you for money.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:25 AM
1

Most peoples impression of NYC food is fine dining, TV shows/movies etc. I've visited NYC a handful of times and you can find some seriously great meals for cheap. Like full stomach meals for $5-10.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:07 PM
3

I couldn't agree more. I've only bought bottled water on a handful of occasions. Once or twice was for the container. so I could keep it in the fridge for tap water. A couple others were because the tap water was foul, broken or whatever. I drink about a half to a full gallon every day. Tap water. I'm weaning off sugary mixes like Mio and Kool Aid added to it. Water of all kinds tastes gross to me. But I'm cutting out sugar. But yeah paying for bottled water is such a scam. It's overpriced tap w…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:04 PM
13

So you threw water on an oil fire.....? You got lucky that day.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:59 PM
1

You USED to be that guy? You still are. She's crazy, manipulative and just sounds like a pain in the ass. You are too invested in her. You keep asking if she's had sex with other guys. Of course she is. She's riding the carousel. I hope you walk away from her forever. Hard Next
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:40 PM
1

I think being called a "bitch" is worse. But I agree that being called bitch, sissy, or fag are disrespectful enough to end it. I warn them if they tell me "shut up"
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:14 PM
1

"man up" but imagine if you said "woman up".
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:11 PM
1

I had that happen with a girl I run into once or twice a week. We flirted, I made a joke about her being blond and flicked her redish-brown hair. She giggled and looked shyly down when I did it. Next day I saw her as I was leaving I casually asked for her number. She said "No" right as her friend piped up "She's mine!" Now I don't know if they're dating or she was just being a protective mother hen. Doesn't matter because I said "Ok" with a smile and walked off. At the time it felt like it was t…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:31 AM
1

From what I've heard, in Asian cultures black people are considered "dirty" as in their skin is covered in dirt. It is second-hand info so it may not be close to the truth. But that's my understanding of the cultural reasons why most Asians dislike black people.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:59 AM
1

I met, through some friends, a high-end escort out of L.A. a few years back. Basically everything said here matches with what she told me. She was very cultured, educated, had a boyfriend who (she claimed) was a Navy SEAL and spent the majority of her time with clients who were wealthy, successful and looking for conversation as well as sex. I would have taken her up on her offer if I could have afforded the 2k for a night.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:57 AM
1

She stated that she has unhappily married men and single men in their 20's and 30's who are happy. She probably does get some happily married men who want sex their wives won't provide. Like BDSM, Anal, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:51 AM
90

Excellent. The paragraph about not deliberately hurting her is great. There's no reason to be malicious. It's petty beta stuff. Being better than you were before, you're doing it right. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 02:21 AM
2

In the pic with her in a red shirt she's hot. Probably a good 7 or even an 8. But at 29 she's post-wall. Body has gone soft, she looks like late 30's. What a wreck.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:03 AM
2

I agree. Just the thought of being accused of rape or abuse makes me not want to approach some woman on the street. It can happen to anyone. She can punch herself in the face when she's alone after you leave and there's nothing to prove you didn't do it. Things like that are scary.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:44 AM
6

Beta Bux, a non-alpha, mostly blue pill guys, who spend money to win a woman's affection. Usually they'll marry some post-wall woman and raise her kids from a guy she fucked. A total chump that she can use for status (being married in her late 20's/30's/40's) and his money.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:42 AM
1

Everything about this is trying to impress women. Stop that. You should be the prize. Make them come to you. Stop putting on a facade. Everything reads like fake. Someone trying hard to be something he's not. This will backfire. You want 9's? Be the man 9's want to be with. Your bed won't matter.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:30 AM
4

Any hobby that isn't fun isn't much of a hobby. Make it fun or take a break.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:09 AM
6

Why are you focusing on women? Go live your life. Build a career. Become more awesome every day. Allow women worthy enough to join you but cast them aside when they become more hassle then they are worth.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:04 AM
2

Honestly though.....why does no one understand 'frame' on this sub? Do tell us all about Frame since no one else does but you. Anyway, he held frame. He refused to enter her frame by kissing her feet. (a VERY submissive gesture) and held his own frame. A number of times he walked away from her, forcing her to come to him for validation and attention (she entered his frame because he refused to sit there kissing her ass (or feet). In the end he held frame nicely. If his intent was to fuck her he …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:53 PM
1

So true. If you grew up poor it's unbelievable how much you carry that with you into adulthood.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:46 PM
1

More often then not, telling a woman off doesn't accomplish anything. It usually leads to her acting butthurt, which wins her validation and support from friends and betas, or allows her to confirm that she's inside your head. Enough to make you angry/rattle your chains/break your frame. Better to smile and just walk away. She no longer exists to you. They don't care if you walk, or talk to them, or whatever. Because they have dozens of other guys who will.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:42 PM
3

Also "No More Mr. Nice Guy"
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 06:57 AM
3

When she was rude about you being cheap and sweaty you should have laughed it off. "Yeah I'm so cheap. And if you think I'm sweaty now wait til after sex." Who gives a fuck? When you were ordering you should have turned to her and said "we'll split it. I'll pay for mine" And when she texted during the date I would have ended it. "I'm not boring you am I?" With a laugh. Then walk out. Don't let women know you'll take their shit. She broke your frame. You defended yourself to her. "I make good mon…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:42 PM
3

It honestly sounds like he's depressed. Depression can make a man "give up". We stop working out, we play video games so we don't have to think or deal with life, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 10:34 PM
3

Most nice guys fall under the terms used in the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. They have an unspoken but implied contract with the girl. "The nicer I am to her, the more chance I have of dating/fucking her." Rather than have self respect enough to just walk away or lay the cards on the table they fall into line where the girl wants them to.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 08:13 AM
1

"I don't want to break my camera."
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:40 PM
10

I'm reading a lot of comments talking about how you went back on your word. You told her you'd take her out and decided not to. That's the initial reason she got mad. The problem, and I believe most people here are trying to get across is, even if you decided you didn't want to go out to dinner, you didn't give her an alternative. YOU decided you both were eating at home. Now what the correct option would have been, I'm not 100% sure. Possibly "You know I'm tired and don't feel like eating out. …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:33 AM
7

As soon as I saw: "Then she went to Vegas," I smiled. Next her. She's not pursuing you. She's making you persue her as much as she persues you. and that weekend? Free for all, drinking, making out with guys, shit-talking you and laughing with her gfs etc. Next her. You're either the prize or you're not.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:22 AM
3

So she did something you laid out she is not to do, see other guys, obviously since she hid it for a month she knows not to tell you. You get upset because you're overly invested. Fine. She hamsters away what she did because AWALT and you're flabbergasted by it? And yet this took place a month ago and you keep going back to her time and time again, rewarding her bad behavior? One of the best things about being a Red Pill Man is knowing your worth. It's more than being confident, cocky, having an…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 08:17 AM
5

She sounds normal as far as women go, based on the little info OP shared. He made a mistake, but he's seen that and can grow from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 07:08 AM
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I laughed at that too. What girl today doesn't have her phone on her at all times? Or at the very least with her at a party! Right like any girl doesn't keep her phone close. lol
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 07:08 AM
1

Ask them why you're apologizing. Do they want you to apologize when you're not sorry? That's dishonest, are they teaching you to lie to people? Flip the script and make them explain
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:10 PM
1

Suppose you are at a friends house and leave the door open, allowing his dog to get out? You're not going to apologize? Really? I would. Because I'd feel bad. But if some woman gets her feelings her because of a comment I'm not going to apologize for that.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:09 PM
1

Don't apologize for something you didn't do/have control over. And Don't apologize for something you're not truly sorry for. First off it's disingenuous. Second it's insulting to the person being apologized to. Saying "i'm sorry for your loss" when someone dies is acceptable. Even though you have no control over it and probably aren't sorry really. You are offering condolences. Although there are better ways to offer condolences. (If I'm wrong, by all means let me know) But unless you did someth…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:07 PM
9

I'd love to have a drink with a woman who manages a girlybar and can enlighten me on the shit women do to men. Luckily, barring that, The Red Pill does some of the same.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 04:59 AM
1

Just enjoy the sex. When it ends, it ends. So what?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:24 AM
0

I became a beta. I walked around on eggshells, giving in during arguments just to avoid fights, refusing to better myself, withdrawing rather than talking about things, etc. In the end I told her she'd have to break up with me because I refused to do it, wanting to work on things instead. No big surprise she broke up with me a short time after that. So there's your reasons. I allowed her to define who I was and how I acted. Like so many many before and after me.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:23 PM
1

I think you should divorce him. You'd be doing him a favor. You don't want to listen to the advice of these fine ladies here. You want online hugs and to be told it's ok to divorce him. Honestly I think he could do better than a nagging, overbearing women who doesn't respect her man. How about you back off? Let him lead. Ask for help. Work on being the kind of woman he wants to put the effort in for. My last relationship was just like you. I avoided fights at every turn, gave in, stopped caring …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/16 11:22 PM
2

Do you have enough experience in dating single mothers to put together some evidence we can read, about how not all single moms are like that? I've dated and/or fucked a few single moms. Never once did I feel like an equal in the relationship. You date her and her kids. Never once did I feel like I was a priority. Just a fun distraction from the kids. One even wanted me to clean her disgusting house if I wanted to have sex with her. I laughed in her face.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 06:07 PM
1

Flirting means nothing. It's just fun. I flirt with women all the time that I work with. There's no hidden agenda, not trying to sleep with them or get benefits like promotions etc. I just enjoy flirting. My last girlfriend knew I'd flirt with women, I flat out told her I was going to do it, I did it in front of her and she loved it.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:02 PM
1

It sounds like you kept score?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/16 02:53 AM
2

I'm so glad you're not blaming it just on laziness. Depression has and can do things like making you not able/want to work. It can mess you up pretty badly. He needs to either do his self-work quickly or do it while working. He needs to remember that a man is also a provider. He needs a kick in the butt is what I'm saying. Or you need to consider an exit.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 07:19 PM
2

How does one stop self-hamstering?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 03:17 AM
1

Each time she withdraws affection you should be withdrawing what she wants, your time. Go leave her to work out. Go hang with friends. Work on work. etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 05:20 PM
2

Either let go of your feelings for him and think of it strictly as a business arrangement or do not take him as a roommate and go the romantic route. If you do mix business with pleasure it will end badly. Either he'll fall for you, you'll fall for him or both. And if it eventually ends you'll be living together. Which'll make things weird all around. I'd say go with a female roommate. They're more likely to understand things in the apartment living together. Plus it won't feel weird if you do s…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/16 05:18 PM
4

That's something this post, and your comment, made me realize. I haven't been approaching women, not because I'm afraid I'll fail but because I'm afraid I'll succeed.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:13 AM
0

It's not about her showing her nipples. It's about her lack of respect for showing off her body, a married woman's body. I don't believe a word of her story except for getting drunk and being on the beach nude. OP can listen to his wife and trust her. I think it's a huge mistake and he needs to plan his end game now. Before she does and takes all his money.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 06:07 AM
2

This is honestly one of the best things I've ever read.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:52 AM
1

Guidance will not override the laws of physics. You cannot get ripped in 3 months. And doing it for a girl or girls will make you lose motivation. Suppose you DO get ripped, sweet 6-pack etc. And the girl rejects you? What then?
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:47 PM
3

No, I only plate submissives. If they aren't kinky I can't deal with them. I don't do vanilla (Non kinky/BDSM) relationships. I love to Dominate out and in the bedroom. It's who I am. If you're into it then go for it. There are plenty of submissive girls who make good LTR's. Just like any type of women, there are crazies.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:02 PM
1

I'd fuck a hot mom slut when she heals from pooping a kid out. Same with a hot judge. Not 68 years old of course. But I don't worry about getting raped in court or maternity wards. See I'm snipped. But I see what you're getting at. No, I don't love sluts beyond fucking them. No sane man would. That was my point and yours as well. So we're in agreement.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 04:19 PM
2

I'm not sure I understand your comparison. . Are you suggesting I'd love a slut enough to get her pregnant? Or that I would get a slut pregnant?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:13 AM
2

I love sluts. Love 'em with all my dick.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 09:43 PM
3

So two girls in Tinder had sex with you and told you exactly what they needed, and you still couldn't do it? Dominate them. Fuck them hard. Toss them around like a fucking man!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 06:29 PM
2

By your analogy would you say that betas are Anakin? A sad woman-loving weak-willed person looking for the easy way out, filled with potential rage and hate.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 02:19 AM
3

Why do you assume someone might not know more than you just because they look a certain way? And to answer your question, no. You can take advice from anyone. Perhaps you're not holding proper form. Or holding your breath. And some out of shape guy offers the advice to help you. You'd dismiss it?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 11:38 PM
1

Sometimes you come across something in TRP that hits close to home. Sometimes it's so close it stings a little bit. And your immediate knee-jerk reaction is "Nuh uh! Not me! Shut your face!" Other times a post like this comes along and it hits so close to home that it stings but you take a breath and say "Yup. That's me. Damn" I agree that porn is lazy, weak and disgusting to a strong man. It's not a tool of feminists as others have argued in other posts. Considering most porn is made by men for…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:08 PM
10

You can't handle criticism can you?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:57 PM
18

You've got me laughing at work. Your oneitis is so strong right now. You've been verbally warned she plays head games, she's ignored you and you're chasing after her hard, showing butthurt with the ex and the Valentine's day thing, throwing them in her face. Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Dude stop with her right now. Just end it in your mind and walk away. Only treat her professionally. Turn down every request from her. From dinner to anal sex. Stop before you ruin your job and future jobs.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:43 PM
5

Could have invited her over for sex. Sounds like she would have. If sex isn't desirable for you then hard next her. You obviously still have feelings. Bad ones probably, since several of your replies were telling her how much you didn't think about her. You should have left those out. So I would suggest either plating her or either blocking her again or telling her to not contact you again. But be prepared for her to really not.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 02:22 AM
5

Yeah I don't believe you.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:16 AM
3

I respectfully disagree with this: Porn, video games, tv, etc... are all ways of staying within the Blue Pill control system Porn, video games, TV etc are just entertainment. It's how you use them. Drinking a glass of water is healthy. Drinking several gallons in a few hours is dangerous. Overdoing anything is bad. No one messes their life up by jerking off to a single Sasha Grey video, followed by a GoT marathon and a night of Fallout 4. But doing only that day in and day out? Yes. It's a waste…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 11:29 PM
4

You don't want to date her? You don't want to fuck her? So why are you spending this much time and attention on her? Are you upset she didn't fuck you? Are you still wanting to fuck/date her? If you're serious then drop her. We call it Hard Next. Which means she no longer exists.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 08:58 PM
1

Would it send a strong message if he did meet with them but for a short period of time? Say 5-10 minutes instead of whatever is normal. "I have another meeting at 2 but I can squeeze you in at 1:30 for 10 minutes"
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 06:45 PM
1

Everybody loves a good story. Any female celebs come in and making fools of themselves?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 08:33 PM
1

If she can do this to some birds what can she do to you?
/r/askTRP09/06/16 08:16 PM
1

To some extent it is custom and individual. But all women share some traits. Like the desire to be with the best possible mate at any given second. Etc. Also, I agree men and women should be equal. But we're not and never will be. Women want to be Dominated. They only respect strength.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:13 PM
1

She respects you when you fuck her because you Dominate her in bed. Outside of bed you're her beta bitch. Either take back control of your relationship or send her packing. I suggest nexting her/ending it because she's list respect for you. If you really, really, re-he-heeely want to salvage it start right now setting rules. Do not budge on them. "You'll refer to Me as Sir in any and all conversations in and out of bed. Do I make myself clear?" Calmly repeat it until she says yes or yells at you…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:11 PM
3

Ahshahaha! Logic and reasoning?! With a woman?! Women argue using emotions. Men use logic. That's why arguing with a woman is so frustrating. And pointless.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:21 PM
1

There are two types of women in a relationship. The faithful. She won't cheat or leave her partner. The unfaithful. She will cheat or leave her partner. It's not your problem for her to faithful or not. It's hers and her partner. If she chooses to fuck someone else she will. It can be you, or someone else. Why not you?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:32 PM
1

Restaurants are an easy way to show decisiveness. As soon as you walk in decide where you want to sit. If someone seats you tell them "we'd like a booth in the back, thanks." Sit down, decide what you want to drink "Dr. Pepper. Light ice." Are you in the mood for chicken, steak etc. For fun next time you're out with a woman who is willing to let you lead, a plate, your mom (because she is naturally submissive and willing to let a strong man lead) Take the menu from her with a smile and say "Leav…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:41 PM
8

Thank you. I love me some sluts, harlots, tramps, women of loose morals, hoes, and even slam pigs.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 11:08 PM
6

Plate her Just kidding. But next time be more decisive. Decide what you want. Tell her. She'll happily go along since you did good last time. Also try this. "The chicken blah-blah looks good. Get that." A soft handed order. Sir back and marvel.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:26 PM
43

You want advice? Ok here it is: Don't Simple as that. Don't battle her. Just don't because you can't win. She can play the misogyny card and cry. Even if you manage to win, what exactly have you won? Nothing of value. Be above some petty argument with some chick you care nothing about. Or do you? But to help your brother just be a better man and drop hints here and there.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 02:17 AM
4

I'm sitting here discussing it with female co-workers and of course they are cool with it and blaming the guy. It's hilarious to listen to them. "Oh well that's what he gets." Etc. Women do not give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:02 AM
4

Let go of all that anger. It won't do you any good. Use that anger to lift more. If a woman flakes, go pick up a replacement. If she lies go find another one. You even said yourself. "No big deal" clearly it IS a big deal to you. Always be willing to walk. That means no Fucks given when she flakes.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 11:19 PM
1

I'm sorry for your loss. Although I don't know him he sounds like someone who touched people's lives. RIP Noah
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 09:26 PM
1

Aye, T-Swizzle. Lemme smash.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 09:45 PM
1

Cuckquean. There's even a subreddit for it. I love me a good cuckquean.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 04:28 PM
3

I'm 5'6". I don't give a fuck if a woman doesn't like my height. I'll pass her shit tests. If she still doesn't want me she can fuck off. I'll find one who does.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:11 AM
10

AWALT has nothing to do with a girl having mono. Anyone can get that.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:05 AM
1

"show me your butthole" But really, you want nudes but don't want to ask for nudes?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:46 PM
78

Gotta love how it's men's fault these women get pumped and dumped.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:42 PM
22

Why would I try to make anyone insecure? That's beta shit. I'm better than that. I raise others up if they're around me. Leaving women better for having known me. But ok, hawk your blog.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:29 PM
1

I agree except for treating JH er how she treats you. Treat her how you want to irrespective of how she treats you. Keep her around only as long as she treats you how you expect to be treated. Otherwise yes. Live your life.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:28 PM
21

Good job. It sounds like you did great. Handled the situation from start to finish properly. I love cuddling. IDGAF. I'll cuddle after sex. But like you it's just one part of my sexual role. You did really good leading her and rewarding her obedience.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:25 PM
2

Good job on improving yourself. I suggest reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, among other books. I think it'll help you.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 02:20 AM
1

It's tough. Because you want to defend yourself. But doing so will end badly for you. Every time. Police, court, possible white knight guys hitting you etc. Take the higher ground and block it. Then walk away. Keep witnesses.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 02:16 AM
1

Einstein had a contract with his wife that she wasn't to disturb him with sexual interests.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:45 PM
1

They want nothing more than thrills and excitement, they don't give two shits about a relationship unless their time on the CC has come to an end and they're left settling for betas who won't even commit to them because they're so used up. You just proved your title wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:28 PM
9

No. It's a poorly written To Twilight fanfic that is loosely about BDSM from the writers fantasies with no actual knowledge. There's nothing hidden behind it. It's poor crap and abuse.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:23 PM
11

Tease him sexually. A guy is more likely to get adventurous or aggressive when he's extremely horny. Play with him but don't let him fuck you until he's more aggressive. Reward him by telling him how much you liked him taking charge, etc
/r/askTRP29/05/16 11:16 PM
1

If your SMV is high enough to date 8's why do you need to pay for pics with them? Tell them "Let me take a selfie" and pose with them. Or do something like volleyball where they can take pics of you shirtless
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:32 PM
2

Stop hamstering. See what he typed? That's perfect. Set your line in the sand. She can get over it or get lost. Stand your ground.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:29 PM
1

What do YOU want to do? Do you even know? I say dump her or use her for pussy when it's convenient for or you. But do what's best for you.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:27 PM
9

She's not looking for a relationship. She's looking for dick. Give that to her. Go as far as she lets you. Fuck her if she and you are down for it. Her cheating on her fiance isn't your problem. It's hers. Have your fun. If you don't feel cool with it then send her on her way. Turning down pussy or not fucking on the first date doesn't make you less Alpha.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:24 PM
2

Time to let her go. She screwed some other guy. She will make excuses. You're not dumb. You know what the right choice is. But it may be tough to do. Be tougher. Next her.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:41 PM
1

You can turn this to your advantage if played right. Basically make her submit to you. But it sounds like she's crazy so you might want to end it for good.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:32 PM
1

She's too temperamental. I say drop her. She wants you on HER schedule. Sounds like too much work.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 06:56 PM
4

I agree about not showing weakness. Women want the finished product not the work in progress. Besides they want to talk about themselves and do the complaining.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 02:12 AM
2

I'd say that agree and amplify wouldn't work in this because you'd be pointing out her insecurity. Instead ignore it. Escalate, obviously not at work. But set up a date where she won't feel so intimidated. Simple restaurant so you can chat. Sit beside her not opposite. Then suggest she come back to your place. Make some excuse to bypass her ASD. "Let's Netflix and chill" or "let's go back to my place for a drink/coffee etc"
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 02:10 AM
1

she said "let me get through exam week then we will". Also she has said "you are only using me to hook up". "I want to fuck you but I'm not a slut. Totally." Lastly, she has told me she has comittment issues. I've never heard a girl say this only guys usually say this. Next time she says that what should I say? I am looking to date her. If you want to screw this up go ahead and try to date her. She doesn't want to date you. Just hook up with her. FWB type thing. Make sure she knows you'll keep q…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 11:36 PM
1

I agree. His replies vs hers tell a story of her holding all the cards. Time to walk away. She's vastly less invested than you are. The person that's most willing to walk has the power.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:30 PM
1

Wasn't something like this asked a few days ago? I feel like there's some reporters in here trying to get info for articles.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:29 PM
2

Absolutely. There are plenty of Alpha males who submit to women in the bedroom. Just make sure you handle your business outside it. She's got to respect you.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:27 PM
1

She sees you as a boy because you've shown her you've not a man. That needs to change. Withdraw your time and attention from your LTR. Show NO emotion. Explain to her that you won't allow her to disrespect you. And if she continues to do so then you'll find someone else. Don't threaten. simply explain. Like you're telling someone that 2x2=4. Then drop the issue. What exactly is she doing to disrespect you and mistreat you. And what is your immediate response?
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:11 PM
3

What's to stop the next plate from treating you like this LTR is?
/r/askTRP22/05/16 09:17 PM
8

One thing that's helped me a lot is something posted here on TRP a while back that said "talk to everyone." Basically talk to everyone you see. Men, women, guys at the gym, old ladies at the supermarket. Say something. "I like your haircut" "How's it going?" "Do you mind spotting me?" Etc Just saying "hi" to people has helped me out of my shell. I'll compliment women at the mall, the market etc. No big deal because I'll never see them again.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:17 AM
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I'm in agreement with many of the posters here. I love a sexy 18-22 year old but beyond sex there's no conversation or common interests. Just dumb babbling bullshit and drama. There's less 30-40 year old women like that. Older women don't often want your money or a commitment. They want your dick. And not much else. Maybe a nice dinner with quality conversation.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 11:25 PM
1

She's your gf. You decide if it's ok or not. For me personally I'd next her. She's either fucking him or will soon.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:14 AM
1

Are you originally from the Boston area? I am too but have practiced having no noticeable accent. It comes out at times. But for the most part it's not noticeable. Just listen to news anchors. Ones in South Carolina don't sound much different than New York City. They work hard on it. Check out YouTube for videos that might help.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:11 AM
5

Sounds like she wanted you to offer to pay.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:08 AM
6

This is a terrible thing to happen. I feel for you. No pity but I feel for you. When it comes to the wife and especially Frank, hindsight is 20/20. We all have stories that would be very different if we had hindsight.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:41 PM
19

The Red Pill is not easy. It is the truth. Stop trying to date right now. Work out. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy, Models, The Rational Male and check out The Illimitable Man blog. Read the side bar, go monk mode. Work on yourself and let go of the anger.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:58 PM
5

Quit telling people to kill themselves. If you have nothing to offer it's best you don't reply.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:55 PM
3

The entire 4 part post should be required sidebar reading. It's just amazing.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:31 PM
3

Most women don't want to get to know you. They want to talk about themselves. They do want to explore the mystery that is you but they certainly don't want that mystery dispelled by knowing too much.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 01:46 PM
1

But you were in control. You chose to meet the roommate. You could have walked. The "I'm screwed" comment seems odd to me but whatever works.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 01:44 PM
2

Who said anything about being a cheap fuck? Not me. Have you read all the posts about guys who found that by offering to split the check or separate checks so she pays for herself, turns the women on? How about all the posts from women who admit they found the man more attractive if he made her pay? Or how they become less attracted when he didn't? I'm too lazy to look them up.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:09 AM
3

You handled it well. There wasn't much to do.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:14 AM
2

So you'd rather be a betabux to appease her than shutting down her shit tests? Or sending her home if she acts like a child? Ok. I wouldn't. We disagree I guess.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:10 AM
3

"they're just doing there job. Let it go. I'll buy you something else" No. Don't do that unless you enjoy being a provider.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 11:26 PM
1

So he should refuse pussy because you don't agree?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:06 PM
3

Read the sidebar. You need to learn so much.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:51 PM
7

Not necessarily true. The last few months with my ex I hated her so much I didn't get physically horny like I usually do. I got aroused maybe once a week instead of every day. It took a month after we broke up for my sex drive to return. I was so angry and resentful of her that I couldn't even feel turned on by porn or talking with other women.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 08:40 AM
2

Exactly. She tried to pull OP into her frame. OP held frame. She'll either fall into your frame or she can fuck off. Either way you've got options.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:40 AM
10

Although I think I'll want to bang you There ya go. Just don't fuck it up. I can't promise anything ... Anti-slut defense. Cocky but reassuring. "Woah, slow down.You'll have to wine and dine me to get in my pants." Watch her actions.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:37 AM
2

Are you familiar with TRP's concept of Hamstering?
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:33 AM
1

You asked. I answered. No. It's a loss of frame to confront them.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:21 AM
5

Don't share personal info with others except friends you trust. If they betray that trust send them packing. Girls? Nip that shit in the bud with either a witty comeback or A&A. Guys? Same. Send them packing if they disrespect you. If it's some stupid insult laugh at it. Own yourself. "I'm a fag? Yeah. I love dick. Dick all up in my face. Love love love the dick." And laugh. No one will take it seriously.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:19 AM
2

You've got oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:42 PM
4

Don't you think confronting orbiters is mate guarding? It's her job to deal with them. They are insignificant to you. Unless you're insecure.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:40 PM
7

Guys? Girls? Family? Boss? Who's doing the putdowns? What's the nature of the putdowns? Putdowns are a shit test. Agree and amplify. Redirect. Ignore. Etc. You know about shit tests because you read the sidebar, right?
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:39 PM
2

Drop her now before it's too late.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:35 PM
4

No one is suggesting men don't select the best mate either. However many of us came from a position where we had no idea women did this. I knew women went for muscular douchebros. And told me how they got pumped and dump. I gladly waited until she realized what a nice guy I was. We all know how well that works out for us. The point is, AWALT is to educate guys so they can be prepared for it. She's not a unicorn, a special snowflake or a princess. She's a female. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:33 PM
1

I used to be like that. Growing up dirt poor I hated rich people. I learned to stop when I realized they worked for what they had most times. Just take care of yourself and your family. You mentioned privilege but you had both parents, good schooling, and survived gang life without jail, death or even serious injuries. Keep growing and practice stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:40 PM
2

They are shit testing you due to jealousy. Think about that for a second. Pretty cool, huh? I agree with others. Downplay it with simple comments.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 06:31 PM
1

My experience in the workplace is that ALL women, ESPECIALLY BOSSES/SUPERVISORS is a need to act bitchy to get noticed or get ahead. Female bosses are 10x worse then men because they feel they need to prove themselves.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:41 PM
1

If someone brings it up act like it's something you can't even be bothered to discuss. Don't answer. Look at them like you're bored and shrug. Otherwise wipe her from your mind. Don't think about her or talk about her at all to anyone. I suggest you read No. More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:13 AM
1

Sick is time to rest and heal. EVERYONE gets sick. Any girl who thinks less of you for it needs to be put back in check or get sent packing. Think about what you're doing. I've never had a sub see me sick and stop being submissive or submitting. She may be acting bratty but that's ok. But she hasn't lost respect for you for seeing you sick for 5 hours. You're not doing something right.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:29 PM
0

me: what kind of guys do you like? Who gives a fuck what kind of guys she likes? Either she's into you or she can fuck off. Stop trying to qualify yourself. They need to qualify themselves to you.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:23 PM
1

Nah. Just let her go. Who cares? Don't plead. You can't win. Do you have others you're fucking?
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:14 PM
2

What else are you doing to improve your SMV?
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:10 PM
1

Withdraw attention from her. Start spending less time with her. When she gives a good blowjob then throw her a compliment. She'll associate praise with satisfying you.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 06:26 PM
2

I stopped drinking alcohol on New Years Eve 2014. Not because it's "bad" but because I don't like the way it makes me feel anymore. I go from tipsy to drunk way too quick, get violently sick from being drunk and it physically hurts my entire body for days after. Just not for me anymore. I say I quit unofficially because if I went to a bar with some friends I'd probably have a drink. I won't rule it out.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 02:31 PM
1

Don't give her access to any money. Don't co-sign any legal documents with her. Don't buy her anything expensive. If you live in a 1-person consent state you can record her, for example get her on tape agreeing to things like not moving out without paying the last months rent and giving 30 days written notice etc. Others could give you better info.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 02:27 PM
8

Good idea. Do you. Live YOUR life.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 06:15 AM
2

Ask yourself this "How protected am I?" In every way. If she calls the cops and says you beat her? Raped her? If she steals something? If she breaks up and moves out? If she cheats on you? Financially, legally and every other way. How protected are you? Don't think about "Oh she'd never do that to me." Or go ahead and think it. I'm sure that will work out like it did for every other guy fucked over by women. Now I don't hate women, I love them actually. I'm just not going to put myself in a posi…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:12 AM
0

The hamsters in this thread... End your relationship now. She's getting dick in Vegas. Her friend is a slut, so is she when she's with her. Trust me. She WILL fuck a dude there. you just won't ever know about it. But they'll all laugh at you about it.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:12 AM
6

It's because she wants to know what value you bring to her. Now that you are hurt are you useless to her? That's her thinking. She's gone. She's already looking for a healthy guy. The clock is already ticking.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 02:17 AM
2

Everything you read and hear that is to help you should be thought about. Not everything said in TRP is gospel. Many of the ECs have said good things. But I don't agree with everything they or anyone says. Take what is useful to you.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:10 AM
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Mind telling me who is Red Pill? T'm not talking about being successful with women. Or Alpha. I'm talking Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 04:49 AM
3

Don't worry. It's hard to get past that anger that only an ex can ignite. It's been 3 years since my last ex and when I see her I still get angry at her for all she did. And at myself for all I let her do.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 02:16 AM
7

PUA are not Red Pilled. They seduce and nothing more. Red Pill teaches you about the hard realities of life.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:03 AM
4

Very informative post. Thanks What are your thoughts on Stronglifts 5x5?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:39 PM
8

If you want to lay on the couch and cuddle, go for it. Stop caring if people think you're beta. Having said that, you can deny the nature of women all you want. It doesn't change the facts. She wants the best possible mate. She'll trade up. You can be who she trades up FROM or TO. But she will trade up. Just because it hurts/angers you doesn't make it less true. Women are how they are. Hypergamy, AWALT etc.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 11:26 PM
2

A plate. That's what comes between a ONS and LTR. Basically a short term relationship. Fuck, hang out, etc. You sound young. When you get older you'll have less time and energy for anger. Let that shit go.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 09:42 PM
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There's a lot of talk on this sub about post-wall women rushing to make babies and lock down a bb. But I've never met a single woman 30 or older who didn't think she wasn't AT LEAST as hot as she was at 18-22. Not one.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 09:31 PM
2

No because she's the victim in all of this. It's HER friend that died. It's HER heart that's broke. It's HER struggle because of all of this tragedy that happened to HER. Read any Facebook post from a single mother and you'll see this all the time. There was a recent post about it here on TRP. Women are always the victims.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:14 PM
1

Are you going to fuck her? If not let her go. Be polite but nothing more. Let her chase you if she wants to. If not you've got options.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:20 PM
6

Never try to understand women. They're emotional and irrational. " I don't want to fuck you any more!" "Cool" "I'm gonna fuck someone right in front of you." "I hope she's hot." Or "k" or "cool" In fact "cool" to every message she sends no matter what. Just to fuck with her. Or simply say ok and move on. Next chick.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:15 PM
3

Sometimes we need people to tell us what we already know is the answer. I'm the same way sometimes.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:19 PM
2

Stop hanging out with him. If he calls or texts be busy "I'm going to the gym." Etc. Simply remove yourself from his life. Learn to say "No" You owe him nothing. "You can't save any of them."
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:18 PM
3

I've heard it's an incredibly humbling experience.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:10 PM
1

How often do you defer to him? Letting him be the man, making decisions etc?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:05 PM
5

Why do you want to combat a man reclaiming his masculinity? You need to think about that. Red Pill is about men becoming better in every area of his life. Why do you want to combat that? Don't you want your husband happy, masculine, better? Or are you too insecure?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:41 PM
2

I don't even know what to make out of this. Is this a joke? A troll? Are you serious? If you're serious, big IF, then you need to talk to a professional. Also stop talking about Red Pill, Roosh etc with others.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:01 PM
1

She knows she can manipulate you by withholding sex. You need to take that power away from her. I agree with OmLaLa. Dread her. Let her know that her withholding sex doesn't affect you at all. You have other options.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:58 PM
2

A friend told me the most amazing thing. I use it to this day 20 years later. "I pledged to be faithful. Not blind."
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:54 AM
6

Your boss. Your landlord. etc. Anyone that holds power over you.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:50 AM
3

I like when a woman leaves a landing strip on her chest. lol
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:23 AM
3

You can't make her lose weight. Stop trying. Get fit and she'll see the fit girls check you out. She'll get her ass in to a gym. Also don't let her move in. She's too comfortable. Back off.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:21 AM
2

Are you asking is "lol ok" the right response to that? Is that what you're asking? I think so. You don't sound butthurt. "Cool" is my usual response.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:19 AM
3

Just simply tell her you need to do your own thing. Leave out the mushy love stuff.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:17 AM
1

Texting is for logistics. It's too easy to mess things up via text. Keep texting to a minimum.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:15 AM
2

Not at all. Deflect if they bring it up. Never offer it. "How many girls have you slept with?" You mean including you? (Assuming you haven't yet.)
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:05 AM
2

She wants to break up. "Ok." Go bang other girls.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:51 PM
5

You can not joke with women they way you can with men. You just can't. You need to stop having "guys night" with her included. Having guys night is fine. But if she's not providing friendship then she has no place in guys night. If it's just you and him and her then why are you throwing out Red Pill truths? You can't save any of them.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:47 PM
1

Smile at her wordlessly. Like you're thinking "Shut up baby. I know."\ Then fuck her brainless.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 04:44 PM
1

"You are such a cheater. I hate you so much. Fuck you and this rianna chic.....im deleting you so badly.... Im going to make sure EVERYONE KNOWS ... you have no respect etc" "Ok bye" My response is "She's in my group project - I'm not trying to hurt you, I will respect you as you respect me" Her: "LIAR I know you (she doesn't), you baited me, so I would see it" Me: "That was not my intention and I am sorry if you are upset about it. I did not want to provoke you. I really do want you to be happy…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 04:42 PM
4

Next. As in end it. You need to work on yourself. She's not a keeper. She's a woman. Break up and work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:12 PM
1

I don't see anything wrong with comforting after sex. I cuddle after. Comfort. But I agree with others. You were too direct in dealing with talking about punishing her for not coming over. Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 11:51 PM
2

I used to be Mark. Nice to girls, only went after fat beasts, supplicating any women that showed me any attention etc. Now I'm willing to walk from the hottest women out there. Because I love & respect myself enough to do so.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 11:45 PM
5

Read the sidebar. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Lift weights. Improve yourself. For you. Women are simply women. They can't help what they are. Some are aware and some embrace it. But they are what they are.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 11:23 PM
2

Don't ever believe a women who says she's pregnant unless you see a pregnancy test from a doctor. Answer "ok." And nothing more. Do NOT sign a birth certificate if she is pregnant unless a judge orders you.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:00 PM
2

What about your father, son, grandfather, brother and dog? Only girls get saved.. Right?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 06:28 PM
0

Do YOU want them to know? Personally I tell them up front there will be no LTR and I'm only looking for casual. I've had a few walk because of that. That's fine. I don't want those girls.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:21 AM
1

Her words: "We'll never have sex." Her actions: "I hang around with you because I'm attracted to you but don't know if you're worth sex...yet." If she mentions not having sex again act like it was your idea. "Woah slow down. You're already trying to get me into bed." Or even toss in a general comment about her friends. To make it seem like maybe, juuuuust maybe you might not wait for her but get with her friends. Also women sleep with men they are attracted to. Not bored from.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:07 AM
7

Stop talking to him as much as possible. Don't explain yourself. Don't ask permission. Get a good job and Move out. Do it. Go live YOUR life. Not his life full of anger because you might grow up more successful then him. Go be successful. Win. As a man.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 09:21 PM
6

Asshole is just the term betas give to muscular Alphas. Guys who pump and dump their BFFs. Both Alphas and Betas can be assholes in the modern sense of being jerks. But you'll never hear a woman complain that her beta orbiter is an asshole for not calling her.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 09:17 PM
41

And don't sign the birth certificate unless ordered by a judge.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 09:08 PM
26

Abundance mentality provides you the ability to walk from ANY woman. Always be willing to walk.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:01 PM
1

I stopped reading when you capitalized every word.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 11:09 PM
1

I use it solely to keep in touch with family long distance.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 11:19 PM
1

Lived in Memphis for 9 years. With the exception of the occasional 7-8 college girl in Midtown the rest are fat, skanky hoodrats and gangbanger chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 11:17 PM
0

Lived in Memphis for 9 years. With the exception of the occasional 7-8 college girl in Midtown the rest are fat, skanky hoodrats and gangbanger chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:54 PM
1

Lived in Memphis for 9 years. With the exception of the occasional 7-8 college girl in Midtown the rest are fat, skanky hoodrats and gangbanger chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:54 PM
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Lived in Memphis for 9 years. With the exception of the occasional 7-8 college girl in Midtown the rest are fat, skanky hoodrats and gangbanger chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:54 PM
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I was surprised Boston was missing. It's a great city for game. Local hot girls and college cuties from all over the world. Many are blue collar chicks. For a change up you can head to Providence for artsy sluts.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:49 PM
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I found it useful and informative.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 11:19 PM
2

I think you need to read the sidebar. Sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:16 PM
2

Did she do something to deserve integrity? She fucked on the first date, cancelled the second to go to a party, then got mad when you screwed another girl. Where is the integrity?
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:14 PM
2

And if that person is a co-worker with nothing (besides being a co-worker) to offer? Do you just say "ok" and continue on working with them?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 11:45 PM
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If everyone consents there's no problem. However.... If she were to claim rape the next day or later how would you be protected? Think about that and protect yourself now.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 06:31 PM
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Ever heard of the Egyptians? They did ok. Romans too. Mongolians did alright for themselves. None of those are whites.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 04:27 PM
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Why? Why is he a loser? Why is this "cringey to read". I'd like to understand.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 04:23 PM
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Personally I enjoy the occasional LoL match, as well as booty holes and GLO. Not always together. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 04:22 PM
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Don't beat yourself up over this. I'm 44 and have been on this journey for almost a year. So you're light-years ahead if me. Think about how awesome you'll be in 20 years? Financially, physically etc. Having said that, The Red Pill takes time to dissolve. You sound like you've done well and have time to do more. Do you dread your gf? Since she lies, withholds sex and says bad things about you/your relationship. "Since you feel that way perhaps I should start looking for someone else?" And get on…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 11:20 PM
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Be cordial but not friendly. "Hello" with no emotion. It'll show you're not butthurt. If she doesn't return it then you know you're a bigger person. Live an awesome life. For you, never for a girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 09:17 PM
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Yes. The whole part of the Matrix about them not wanting to be unplugged and actively fighting it is very true.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 05:49 AM
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The people benefiting are the rich and the politicians. Neither will allow their system to collapse. They'll squeeze the lower classes harder if they have to. The current government is made up of and supported by Baby Boomers. When they retire or die the Gen Xrs will take over etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 11:32 PM
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I think you handled it very well. The orbiters was humorous. The foot rub seemed beta but if it worked then good on you. All in all good job.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 09:30 PM
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There's a 5% chance of spontaneous reconnection of the tubes. So if she cries preggo get retested and you'll know 100% if you're the Daddy or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 09:18 PM
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but still when it happens to you or someone you know it hurts. So you caught the feels? I actually called her out for being a dumb hoe that takes advantage of chumps for money and she laughed and just continued flirting. ??? talk about irrational But it's different from you getting free fried chicken. Yeah .... irrational.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 06:49 PM
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I've been reading and laughing at the "dick health" and "squirting" posts.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 06:27 PM
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Correct me if I'm mistaken. But isn't she now doing the same things you did? Making admirers orbiters? Not faulting you for it just seems like a pot and kettle.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 06:24 PM
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I've had the V. If she tells me she's pregnant I'll say "ok." Then get retested. Like $35 I think. After that I'll laugh at her.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 11:13 PM
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Everything you stated indicates you act like a beta in front of her. You buy her earrings, she's your "work-wife" aka friendzoned, etc. You ARE beta. You're her orbiter. Face it. Time to pull back and distance yourself from her. If she wanted to fuck you, you'd already know what her pussy tastes like. You are her friend. Not her future boyfriend. Don't believe me? Ask her "What are we?" Hold back the tears when she tells you "we're buddies!" Get over her. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:30 PM
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True but Indy is actually more Alpha. He has young groupies and has a quality job plus gets paid by the Government to do kick ass things.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:21 PM
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I chuckled. Great reference.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:20 PM
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High class escorts are often intelligent and educated. That's why they are high class and not backpage hoes
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:19 PM
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How to be more Alpha, step 1 wear makeup. Look how ridiculous you sound.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 07:00 PM
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Reading your responses is funny. Typical male hamstering. Lift weights. Improve yourself financially. Keep your money separate. Basically, become the man she'd lust after if she was single.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:51 PM
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Honestly if someone is going to use Star Wars to compare beta/Alpha then Empire Strikes Back would be the best examples. Han is cocky even in a life or death situation where C3PO complains every second. Han sees Vader..does he freeze? Run away? No he draws and opens fire in a moment without thinking. Man of action. He doesn't immediately join the rebellion. Instead does his own thing. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:47 PM
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Probably. I upvote those that offer valid or helpful points, to me. Most tend to be ECs. And I do pay special attention to their comments. But I've downvoted, upvoted and ignored ECs. If you go to a bar and see 3 guys complaining about their wives and another talking confidently about how his wife obeys him you're going to listen to the seasoned guy with quality info to share.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:38 PM
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Dread isn't cheating. It's letting her know you have other options if she leaves you.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 02:01 AM
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She's probably disgusted with you. It's over. Sure you can text her but she either won't respond or will decline. Move on. How old are you? You need to be a man. Don't get mad. Just state your position firmly. You can try to date now. But you know this will continue to happen. Talk to others to get some idea of how to deal with it.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 11:38 PM
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My first time was the same. They have it SO wrong. I wanted to set them straight. But then I realized how much of a waste of my time and emotions that would be. They aren't worth it.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 11:11 PM
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Warehouses, factories, temp agencies, ask friends, check all over the Internet and look for any job you can do. Construction, landscaping etc. Get money coming in. Also internships as other have suggested.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 09:08 PM
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You were kicked out for being rude, antagonizing the staff and patrons and generally being a smug, self-entitled jerk. Men take responsibility for their actions. Approaching a stranger with that line is being a dick for no reason. It MAY have worked if your SMV was much higher. But it clearly wasn't. Also don't argue with bouncers. They have power. You do not. Make friends with them. Next time flirt with women in a friendly, playful manner. Honey vs vinegar. Learn your lesson here. Humble yourse…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 06:37 PM
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He stated English wasn't his native language. Also he did well. He took her out under his terms. She failed to follow along so he Nexted her. I say he did well. If you disagree then go into detail and explain.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 06:14 PM
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Men own up to them. Women have no reason to have personal responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 06:03 PM
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