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Ok let’s calibrate and make sure we’re on the same page. Can you give me an example of what you’re talking about? What sort of banter or exchange elicits volatile reactions from that fragile egos?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:10 PM
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About the fragile ego thing. There is a difference between roasting, joking, or giving constructive criticism and straight up disrespecting someone. Many women spitefully straight up attack a guys masculinity or “go straight for the balls” for lack of a better term. That type of disrespect almost guarantees a volatile reaction regardless of which gender it’s coming from and does not mirror typical male to male interpersonal exchanges. Those are fighting words so that’s on you if you decide to tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:20 PM
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Interesting. I’m not gonna lie though I don’t like having to do that though. I am becoming more comfortable with it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:20 AM
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This is interesting though. Anecdotally it seems to appeal to most of the women I meet. In all honesty I don’t like it and wish to find women who don’t like it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:05 AM
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More like. I think they like this better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:56 AM
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Maybe it is my perception. I cut her off and my attitude and tone of voice was like “yeah whatever, hand me that straw.” Personally that would piss me off I’d be like who tf you think you are? So I offer people the same courtesy and manage my tone in that regard. Normally I would be like. “Sorry to interrupt but can you hand me that?” It is hard to illustrate the interaction through text and it was mostly through tone and non-verbal communication. I wasn’t necessarily bullying her but I was beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:55 AM
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By nature I am polite, and treat others with decency and courtesy by default unless they give me a reason not to. You are intentionally misunderstanding me. I was always treating women and men alike with reciprocity. However when I turned up the I’m the shit and you’re lucky to be here attitude I started getting better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:17 AM
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You’re right. That is my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:56 AM
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I didn’t start showing more interest in women. I was always pretty confident and was definitely not a doormat. Whatever you smell is probably your upper lip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:55 AM
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Since I made this adjustment I understand why damn near every woman talks about their toxic exes and can’t find good guys etc etc. So many women in my age group 20-30 like the toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:49 AM
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Basically it wasn’t what I was saying but rather my attitude was just plain dismissive as well as playing hot and cold. Like one time I was out with this girl at a coffee shop and she was talking about her favorite movies. Usually I would show interest and engage and ask questions. Instead I was like “mmmhmm. Hey grab me a straw will you? Let’s go.” My attitude was like yeah whatever, and right when I did that her mouth opened like she was surprised with a smile on her face she looked at me for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:45 AM
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I can’t manipulate attraction though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:18 AM
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You right. It’s bad that I see they already been there done that at the time it was expected. Had their fun and now get to move on to another stage of life with a happy family. I can’t help but feel like a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:40 PM
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Not necessarily teenager but you also missed all the way to 25 or 26
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:37 PM
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As you enter a certain age it seems as if your options fall off by huge chunks. Once you hit 30 you have different expectations from society and trying to make up for that time people in your age group are already married or looking for something serious. Everybody kind of looks at you like ew grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:37 PM
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Please elaborate that’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:44 AM
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That really doesn’t sound so bad I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:08 AM
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What kind of mistakes would a person likely make that would be indicative of inexperience and a dealbreaker as compared to the countless mistakes we could make as humans for literally any reason? P.s: I’m not arguing it trying to be a smartass. This is a genuine question and I am really curious as to what yall think lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:41 PM
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Inshallah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:42 PM
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I understand I’m sorry to hear that man. Thank you for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:38 PM
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Thank you this is great advice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:35 PM
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I’m hearing you. I really don’t want to think like this and for the last two years I’ve been torturing myself idk why. I had a lot of pain surrounding this topic from early trauma to something that happened more recently that just shattered everything. I appreciate your effort. It might sound stupid to you the way i think but if you’d allow me to pm you and we can continue there that would be better. I understand what you’re saying and I rejected this narrative until something happened that conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:33 PM
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Let me put it this way. Let’s turn it down a million notches from pegging. Me for example I don’t like giving head and only did it as a teenager with my first gf cuz we were both virgins and for the immature reason to be able to say i know what it tastes like other than that i never want to do it but there were girls if given the chance I would definitely do it and might even like doing it. Expanding on this I there was a girl I was with when i was much younger that told me she didn’t like to gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:44 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong but it sounds like you believe there is a type of man that is wired for monogamy (I wouldn’t call it soft). Then there are the guys just wired for the streets? If I may ask did you marry your high school girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:16 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:10 PM
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It doesn’t really matter what you’ve seen or who you met. I’m not here to debate about what exists or not because the scenarios I’m talking about are drawn from things I’ve seen in my real life in ways I don’t want to get into online. If you can understand that part and where I’m coming from I value your input but if we can’t start this discussion from the same premise we should end this. It’s a waste of both of our time. Feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:04 PM
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How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:38 PM
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There are countless reasons and circumstances in which a woman might be very sexual and then choose to be more prudish with her husband (or in the search for her husband). You are focusing on a very specific and tragic circumstance. What if she simply decided that the type of guys she likes and would do it for aren’t marriage material? As the pressures of adult life weigh on she makes a more rational business decision and chooses a guy with a more promising future that doesn’t turn her on the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:30 PM
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What is a healthy perspective to reframe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:25 PM
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You’re doing a whole lot of perverting twisting projecting and assuming things I want. Many girls I knew back then took pride in their experience just as guys did. It differentiated people in a positive way for the most part and it was consensual. So chill out with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:22 PM
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Damn 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:00 AM
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Yup good lookin out. Even though you a cornball I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:53 AM
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What sort of books
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:27 AM
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This is interesting. It seems like the unproductive are being selected for and I don’t mean unproductive in mom’s basement type of way. But in the sense that the average construction worker or plumber is way more productive than any musician or athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:26 AM
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I know it was what started the hippie/free love stuff. I didn’t think it was something that the whole society bought into though. I was not aware it changed things so dramatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:12 PM
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Not completely unaware but I’m gonna dive deep
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:08 PM
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That makes sense. Would you say it’s exacerbated now? Or what’s going on now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:55 PM
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Well I guess we have different ideas of what’s boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:36 PM
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I’m gonna use it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:27 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:17 PM
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But seriously lol I’m curious. There was a time like that socially? Like 50s and before? And if so what’s changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:11 PM
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I honestly think this is it. Every girl I’ve dealt with assumes I had an array of other women when we start dating. Truth is I don’t have time or patience to date multiple women at once and if I am I would not let them know of each other out of respect. Each time I felt their respect die as I represented myself as loyal and drama free. Many girlfriends have pushed for a relationship but when i know a little about their past they were once in some guys rotation knowingly and were ok with it. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:08 PM
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I would argue that an aspiring future doctor or astronomer is more creative curious and explorative than the average college athlete or frat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:01 PM
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I said it was anecdotal. Still in my 20s as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:52 PM
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