Basically the turning point in my success with the opposite gender is when I started “playing the game”. Which in short means implementing behaviors that communicated that I am better than you, you are beneath me, you should bend over backwards to appease me and earn my approval, and that you are replaceable.

It’s not that I was a sucker or a doormat or somebody that lacked charisma before.I had self esteem and self love but I was genuinely kind and understanding and overall never had a bullying or domineering or manipulative ways. No luck.

But I decided to incorporate some of these behaviors and what do you know it seems like that’s all that was missing. It leads me to believe that these behaviors are a turn on for many women.

Are women really turned on by bullies? And I don’t mean overtly aggressive simple minded brutes; but rather cunning, self obsessed, cheating and manipulative types. Kind of like the most popular guy in school that had everybody kissing their ass and is belittling to people lower than them in the social heirarchy.