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I like daily sex as much as the next high libido make guy but I am also pretty reciprosexual. Definitely not into starfish sex. Staying in a marriage just cause starfish sex is granted to you will deplete you. Unfortunately the way women are conditioned that's the best many men can hope for...unless they are 11/10s and going out all the rest of the day to commit felonies while ignoring her...and with a rotation of side chicks so they don't feel off for desiring him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:59 PM
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I am fit and rather good looking, have a degree in mechanical engineering, and despite only recently starting my carreer officialy I am pretty well off for my country's standards. Not rich by any means but I can pick furniture for looks and buy the fancy butter without thinking about it (I still often compare prices though). I have my own house and car and my income is gonna increase even more The woman I am getting married to has no tertiary education, lived with her parents and works at what m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:30 AM
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I am quite attractive. Definitely not a 10/10 in terms of "conventional attractiveness" but I am at least a 7/10 with many complementing qualities in many areas of life. Just as the women I would find extremely attractive don't always fit the 10/10 conventionally attractive criteria, the same applies for the women who find me extremely attractive. It's the little flaws one has that make another person perceive them as that. Might be a dimple, a wrinkle, the angle of a tooth, a slight assymetry, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:33 PM
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Most people at my workplace make less than less than 50$ a day and they can't even afford to cook meat at home everyday...It's the absolute entitlement that drives these men away. Nobody deserves half a month's worth of savings to be spent for them to have a fancy first date. If you want a dinner date be prepared to either a separate check or to give some value in return and makeup cost doesn't add any kind of value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:05 PM
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Nah. That's only the men you're attracted to...It's evident that the rest are simply invisible. Also most women abandon the romantic aspect of a relationship when a real connection starts to build, but still have sexual needs that they will most likely cheat with the category of men you're talking about to have them met...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:02 PM
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Honestly I agree about the part that men created it, by trying to prove themselves to entitled women who weren't even attracted to them in the first place. When dating in same city and socioeconomic group it's gotta be 50/50. Anytime I told a woman I wanted something serious I ended up ghosted or done real dirty (yeah...I used to be a romantic). On the other hand when I told them I wasn't looking for any kind of commitment, they would...ehhmm...swallow their pride (and more) and do whatever they…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:25 PM
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Agree with OP, except as a passport bro who's close to top 15% and has options even here (which made me redpilled and borderline blackpilled to see all the women's claims about their "standards" go to hell when dating me), I will say that 90-95% of WESTERN women are not up to my standards for a relationship. They are sidechick/fwb material at best. I visited my long distance girlfriend in Africa and damn...women are actually women over there. I pressume same with Asia. And I don't even date for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:02 PM
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Love is also a choice, a bond and a commitment. The fleeting feeling you're describing is just excitement mixed with lust
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:27 PM
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Actually true. But once you get into any sort of routine with them that's what's coming next
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:52 PM
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When a man says he is "in love" with a woman it means he can sacrifice everything to keep that person safe and comfortable. But then women start testing how far he would go, but in turn they slowly lose respect for him, which makes their love and attraction go away, cause in reality they are mainly attracted to detached men who don't care for them (which is also why "all their experiences" have been like that) When women say they are in love with someone, they are not refering to the person they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:51 PM
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I used to be 100% truthful, honest and up front with no discounts or double speech or anything. Got ambushed on every corner. Women don't reward any of those at all. In fact they punish them. This is why fuckboys are the norm nowadays. Exceptions are 1:1000 and when you see enough of the modern norm you are too jaded to believe them anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:23 PM
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It really is. I used to be a romantic. Bluepilled af. Looking for the one and all that. Boy did that backfire. Shook me to the core to find out how selfish and opportunistic women can be under the right circumstances...and it's usually not even about anything serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:15 PM
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It's funny that recognizing, accepting and describing women's behavior in terms of dating is called misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:02 PM
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Exactly...the guys who have options and don't need to commit, are the guys you actually interact with, despite them clearly stating they won't commit...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:01 PM
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I think the problem is in the fact that commitment reduces women's attraction, but they rarely if ever say it out loud cause that would threaten the security of their current relationship or it is just perceived to be too harsh to say. Instead they ask the man to be more supportive, do more chores, take care of kids, take up more work, etc etc, which never fixes the loss of attraction, and actually makes him seem even more desperate. Essentially sex becomes a carrot on a stick situation and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:15 PM
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Cause if I may speak on behalf of many men, they don't want to be dragged down and ridiculed on social media for simply asking a woman out, who just happens to be so spoiled with options (read: simps) that she feels entitled to this kind of behavior. And some men (me included) would think it's mildly uncomfortable for some women as well when you try to take things that route
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:09 PM
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For me it was being really really concerned about not crossing any boundaries or making women feel uncomfortable. I was always extremely polite and very casual when it came to interacting with women. Needless to say being polite is not what gets them turned on...I later found out it's quite the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:10 PM
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Even as a redpill high libido chad who's jaded about the possibilities of a lifetime partner in the modern world I was allegedly both for my ex, and while she was neither the most attractive nor the best sex I had (and we had quite a mismatch when it came to sex drive) she was possibly the best partner I had despite the freqeunt drama, although she ended up messing things up big time, when she realized I wasn't even looking around. Now I look wherever I am seen regardless. It is not nearly as fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:05 PM
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You fell for the imitation chad then...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:56 PM
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Sadly true, cause the moment a woman can sniff out that her partner has genuine desire for her she is gone, only to come back and try to ruin what's left of your soul
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:54 PM
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Nah, we make remarks about looks but they are often followed by things such as "she's a nice person though" or "she's very polite" and stuff, BUT when an unattractive woman is not any of those things and is being a nuisance her looks will be most likely included in the whatever someone might hurdle. I never seen a man totally diminish all qualities of a woman just cause of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:47 PM
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My last casual partner would drive 60km each way and even pay tolls. In 3 months of meeting every week we went out 3 times, out of which the first time we split, the 2nd time I bought her a burger and the 3rd some beef patties. Both times I paid for her I had bought way more stuff so her things were insignificant...but I also have the good D so it makes sense 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:43 PM
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We don't, but maybe it feels that way if your entire character is based on your looks. Of course some men will ignore a shitty personality if a woman is sufficiently attractive, but if you have both an ugly personality and appearance you will basically be treated like a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:00 PM
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As a woman you don't have a roster...you are just in many men's roster
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:26 PM
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Marriage satisfaction also decreases the higher number of past partners is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:23 PM
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Exactly. At least male insults based on attractiveness stay at the level of attractiveness...We wouldn't do a character assasination based on a woman's looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 12:09 PM
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Women call unattractive men creeps all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:17 PM
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Nah...even they feel entitled to the same 5% of men the other women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:20 PM
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If the tits are firm and you aren't getting nagged about a woman's age related insecurities all day ED is no issue...even guys past 60 or even 80 can get it up just fine. Same with a 25 yo man. He has his whole life ahead. Why should his life stop at the woman's menopause?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:23 AM
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She actively went after the men that would do that kind of thing...and literally asked for it in other contexts as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:21 AM
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No but I was talking with a very liberal girl which was hellbent on "dismantling the patriarchy" who allegedly got beaten by both her exes and wanted me to slap her too...What I am saying is some women are literally asking for it, as long as the guy is attractive enough. All the claims about personality and hygiene and being empathetic and caring are just background noise if you observe women's actions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:44 PM
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Exactly. ED develops around the time breasts start sagging
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:38 PM
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Aka "all women compete for the top few percent of men even if they are serial killers"...yeah...we noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:23 PM
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As someone put it, the ideal age to get married as a man is 40yo with a 25ish yo woman, so you don't come home to sagging tits when you're 50yo. A man is usually at his peak in life around that age, and so is a woman, which makes it fair for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:35 PM
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I agree...Women should be conscripted as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:32 PM
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Adam is a grifter. He prays on lonely people. I know cause I was one and listening to his advice ended up breaking me. You shouldn't build an emotional connection with someone when there isn't enough physical attraction both ways. That's how you end up getting used, manipulated and having your boundaries crossed, cause you have already given everything and got nothing in return
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:33 AM
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All I'm saying is that the vast majority of women are too shallow with very few exceptions. It's not just me. I have spoken with dozens of men of different ages and backgrounds who also fell at the same trap. Most never find that unicorn woman, and those who do realize it's only some glimpses of depth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:29 PM
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I disagree. I had a lot of emotional depth for years and wanted to find a decent woman to build an emotional connection with after I spent most of my 20s building myself into someone my children could look up to as a role model and I achieved the second part but never found such a woman. Well...actually I did but she screwed it up cause she took me for granted cause I wasn't playing games. Then I became shallow by choice and emotionally unavailable and boom...3 girls in my rotation. I still want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:09 AM
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Women deny this but as a contextual chad myself at some point I had 3 girls lined up and all except one knew about the others...they would claim they wouldn't be a sidechick but whenever I told them to come over they did with no hesitation, driving long distances or even flying to a different country to do so, and they did everything sexually with no limits whenever they came. Keep in mind I am 31yo, pretty lean and fit, rather good looking and well kept, have a great stable career, considered "…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:33 AM
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Yeah. I had this 8-9/10 fuckbuddy who would tell me things like "you won't see me dating a man unless I rejected him a dozen times and he kept chasing"...yet I never got rejected by her or chased her and she would drive 60km each way and pay tolls just to do the freakiest things she has alegedly ever done with anyone. She said me being "a bad boy" was such a turn on for her, but she got pissed cause I wouldn't commit and had 2 other girls at the same time...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:26 PM
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I have been wrong only for being bluepilled and believing women can experience true love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:47 PM
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Women dgaf about personality. As long as you look decently attractive to them and/or have a high social status in the context of your interactions you can do whatever. I am 31yo, rather fit, keep my haircut fresh and because I am also the director in the company I work for all female hires are flirting with me regardless of my interest or how I engage with them My current situationship started by me asking her to join a threesome with my ex, who in her own words she's dickmatized so she keeps wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:04 PM
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If you start on a 6-7/10 attraction by looks alone being a jerk really puts you higher up....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:53 AM
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You mean have the government as a pimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:48 AM
1

Nah. I'm not being fooled. Women talk about the so called "peasant" always providing everything and being loyal and supportive to his family...like...the peasant might literally die from starvation if it rains at the wrong time and the next crop is ruined. But that's the definition of "invisible". Most of y'all wouldn't even glance at an actual peasant if you as much as thought you could have it any better for even a moment. In fact you even bring down someone middle class as being a peasant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:55 PM
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The real reason I got my passport is because it's easier to find a woman for a threesome/ONS than to find a partner for a stable relationship here The women in so called "third world countries" are feminine and respect men. They are still women, and they are still attracted to men who are above the average of their country, but have no delusions about securing the top 10% of men there and since the culture still has an element of shame they don't keep getting passed around, and they are raised w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:49 AM
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I am attractive enough to have fucked just based on it but agree on the passport thing. I want something long term but I have seen how it goes with western women. If everything goes well I might be married to my African ldr gf soon. Western women can hate but you ain't got none on her fr fr...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:42 PM
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As a man who tried therapy I call bs. I have no time to ponder through endless sessions that lead nowhere. Therapists rarely if ever give any real advice, but more frequently send you in some randon rabbit holes about your past, which doesn't matter. Life coaching gave me the means to focus on the present and my future in short order
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:20 PM
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You are the one implying "physical intimacy" is just about about mitigating dry dick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:06 PM
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This posts is just about dismissing men in terms of intimacy. Is rape a form of physical intimacy? I didn't think so...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:26 PM
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Nah. In fact for me it's the opposite. Even from the get go the more we seem to have in common the worse it seems to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:15 PM
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I just disputed it. Idk what you think it is but I just acknowledge what women want and what they are working for (different things), as well as what I want in a relationship and which women can offer that, so I don't waste my time with women who only demand things...and yeah...past matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:15 PM
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I consider myself pretty red pilled at this point so here's my take: I can be and regularly am vulnerable with my male friends, male coworkers, male boss and they all resepect me, support me and try to help as much as they can Not once in my life have I been vulnerable with a woman without her dismissing it, shutting off, considering it a turnoff, or eventually using it against me to try and win some petty argument Red pill is not about "attacking women". It's about acknowledging female nature t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:13 PM
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Cause of my own life experiences with women. I used to be bluepilled but I realized that expecting a woman who will love me for being me and loving her back is just an easy way to end up taken for a ride, alone and resentful. And since I am still monogamous and don't care for anything casual, one could say I became a passport bro, since western women are not relationship material, so much less marriage material, and I don't have time to keep digging for "the one".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:31 AM
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Idk about that but OP has a point. If the intimacy the marriage was built on is gone then alimony is like getting legally robbed on a monthly basis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:13 PM
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There's a TON of cheating women and wives on dating apps. Also when I was with my ex and got approached but decided I wouldn't cheat on her she pulled back and cheated on me instead...it's like being loyal is an attraction killer for women while being disloyal is an attraction killer for men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:13 PM
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Not dropping the soap is a pretty low bar for competence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:53 PM
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They can still find out that it's impossible their kids is theirs though. Sometimes a simple blood type test can prove that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:35 PM
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People also test when they also need a transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:53 PM
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Everyone is trustworthy till someone needs a transplant and you realize that 30% of children are the result of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:14 PM
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I disagree. I'll pass faster than the wind when I see an entitled disrespectful woman. If she starts of well and shows her true colors later I rather be single than be with her. Realized she will never find a better man afterall and suddenly acts nice again? Nope. That door is closed. I only choose the women that choose me consistently. Not their fantasies, not their fleeting emotions, not their ex who would never commit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:01 PM
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It's pretty common. Not just one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:08 PM
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That women are often on some weird mental gymnastics to avoid being present in the moment with men. The same mental gymnastics leading to lesbian bed death in lesbian relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:59 PM
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My ex would only "get in the mood" when other women were flirting on me or when she dreamed that I cheated. As soon as we went long distance she tried to cheat on me, we broke up and she only warmed up to me when I told her I was dating someone else. Tell me about mental gymnastics...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:57 PM
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My ex would only "get in the mood" when other women were flirting on me or when she dreamed that I cheated. As soon as we went long distance she tried to cheat on me, we broke up and she only warmed up to me when I told her I was dating someone else. Tell me about mental gymnastics...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:57 PM
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Many women mainly get into relationships for the attention and resources and view sex as the means to get it, so they will pretend they like it and keep doing it just to maintain access to a man. Imo it's toxic af
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:25 PM
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There was a short period of time when my ex was actively avoiding to have an orgasm when we had sex. In the end she would say stuff like "I won" while smirking. I let it slide for almost a week until I told her that she had to go out of her way to deprive herself of pleasure, while I enjoyed all 3 rounds she's been riding me but she somehow "she won"...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:22 PM
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That's just for women looking for 6 figure guys. My own standards are not having too many single friends, no cheater friends, not seeking external validation, no history of sleeping around, have a dad she respects, no guy friends and no contact with exes. Is it still impossible to get divorced? No, but the chances are way lower
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:35 AM
1

I kinda agree but would you say the same for women in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:23 PM
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I disagree. Chemistry can be built and broken. Standards are there to ensure that there will be a motive to rebuild it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:03 PM
1

So is it better to get cum and dumped within a single night by a nonchalant chad, again and again?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:58 PM
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In a monogamous relationship zero people is just as much of not just one person as multiple partners are. If you are denying sex it's no longer monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:06 PM
-2

I had choices, but guess what. The one that constantly showers you with love and affection usually seems to be the most attractive one. It's all until you have a moment of vulnerability (in my case I told her I missed her) and suddenly she puts a price tag on your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:28 PM
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Not me. I used to smoke weed all day throughout my 20s. Also been alcohol dependent twice. Then when I thought shit couldn't get worse I got crippled and spent 4 years muscle wasting. Enter my 30s, my condition under control, built back more than double the muscle I lost, get regular haircuts at the fancy place, got my career going again and now I am the reason why many girls are trying to monkey branch (I seriously had offers from married women)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:23 PM
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Men do want companionship. We don't care for validation. The thing is women are actually terrible companions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:52 PM
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The only time a woman was emotionally there for me was when she wanted to date me and I kept rejecting her and keeping her in the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:44 PM
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In my last relationship I really appreciated having a hot meal and the water heater on, as well as any small gift, but when I was always the one to initiate sex was withheld for arbitrary reasons (sometimes it was literally just cause "I wanted it too much"), it gives the message that I want you around but only to please me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:39 PM
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I said it's pleasurable and yeah, it's detached from the need for intimacy. I love pleasuring the woman I love and I also love cuddles, hugs, kisses, quality time, hyping her and all that. And I am not even asking for anything from women that I don't feel like cuddling with, and I regularly put the brakes on if a woman I don't love gets sexual with me (which is pretty often)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:30 PM
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This is totally false. Sex is, or at least was, really intimate for me (30M), until my ex weaponized my desire. Bjs are fine but I just don't really feel any desire for PIV with anyone I don't have an emotional connection with. On the flipside when there is a healthy connection my libido is off the charts...problematic even but only to one person, even if I find other women more attractive in terms of appearance. Having seen though how women are "so in love with me", only until they realize I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:04 PM
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Used to be average...would get maybe 1 match per couple of months and would get ignored/ghosted no matter what I said. Then I looksmaxxed and now I get multiple matches per week and quite a few women will keep texting me back and trying to start a conversation even if I straight up disrespect them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:54 AM
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I straight up tell them I don't want X cause Y...
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:40 PM
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Exactly...or they try and fumble it by themselves if you don't budge...the mere attempt speaks volumes to me though
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:39 PM
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Yep...and when she gets sour over her own shit test crumbling and kills verbal intimacy before the 1st date even I am already halfway checking myself out. Dealt with a textbook avoidant girl once avoiding any clear communication and that tore a part of my soul off. Had a great thing brewing with an anxiously attached girl go wrong just because I was honest to her questions on the 1st date and she shared what I told her about myself with people that she trusted who betrayed her trust and she stil…
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:26 PM
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Idk bro....People treat me way better when I got fit and stopped being miserable. Above and beyond basic respect for some random guy they encounter
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:14 PM
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