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As a good fallback, use contextual cues. If you're in a noisy train carriage, make a comment about how much you dislike your commute (she might easily feel the same, then you've got a conversation going...) If you're in a book shop, ask what type of books she's looking to pick up. As long as your question isn't too intrusive - and you need to be the judge of that - you should be fine.
/r/seduction10/09/13 10:39 PM
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You quite possibly did miss out on getting laid, but if you stick to the general attitude you exhibited by not acceding to her demands, you'll have a lot more success with women overall.
/r/seduction10/09/13 10:34 PM
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It's a nice story. The problem is that the farmer's friends are guided by convention, which is there for good reason, and most of us are hardwired to buy into it. But it nicely illustrates that convention does not equate to truth, and that's good advice to remember for anyone putting themselves on the line frequently (i.e. Everyone in this reddit... Hopefully...)
/r/seduction10/09/13 10:26 PM
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In that case, suggest a date activity yourself and bring it up on the date. If you're too scared about losing him as an F-buddy then you shouldn't be asking the question... If you're not, then you've got nothing else to lose by going for it head on and bringing it up.
/r/seduction10/09/13 10:20 PM
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Absolutely 100% not necessary. If a girl is willing to sleep with you the first time she meets you, I would be completely shocked if there was a firm expectation on her part that something serious would develop between you. That may happen if it turns into MORE than a one night stand for some reason, but you definitely cross that bridge when you come to it. Just have strong game and go for it.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:33 AM
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Thanks. I generally just mix it up. I personally think calling is high risk high reward, which is why I've tended to avoid it until now. May switch it up next time, but at the moment I'm mostly sticking to text.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:23 AM
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Yeah, I think texting is probably best for me. Too prone to eff things up on a first call :) Also, I don't like the idea that it might be too high pressure for them to call back (since no one picks up the first time...) Thanks.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:22 AM
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Great news! Let us know how it carries on if you can be bothered :)
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:21 AM
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Thanks, I like that.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:19 AM
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I think it's a fine text to send IF she was as happy about the date as you were. I do agree with another poster, however, that it might have come across as slightly validation-seeking since you had already had the kiss etc. That said, the same poster also said something like this could be pulled around, and I tend to agree. Give it about 3 days, and if she hasn't contacted you, then send another feeler text.
/r/seduction06/09/13 05:22 PM
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Tim Ferriss talks a lot about the Minimum Effective Dose (MED), which is defined simply as: the smallest dose that will produce a desired outcome. Other posters have already suggested this, but to summarise, START SMALL. You do have to have the discipline to do this, however, as people here can only offer support. But go up to a girl tomorrow and just do something really easy, like asking for the time - then thank her and walk away. Next time (ideally, as soon after the first time as you have th…
/r/seduction06/09/13 04:52 PM
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I think you did everything right, other than SLIGHTLY flub the line about what you were going to do. I think you could have afforded to sound more sure of yourself, rather than "I don't know etc." But hey, if she was interested in hanging that night, it probably wouldn't have mattered, so you did exactly what you should have by going for it and dusting yourself off, ready to go again, when it didn't turn out your way... This time.
/r/seduction06/09/13 12:58 PM
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No, but this is why some of them are... http://blog.manism.com/on-bitch-shields/
/r/seduction04/01/12 07:52 PM
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I think the gyst was "be yourself" :) If you're going to give things to women, be creative about it and not do things that just make it look like you're begging for sex.
/r/seduction14/09/11 07:31 AM
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