Sjj631 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	high SMV girls chase me, but low SMV girls dismiss me Women seem to have higher in group preferences, that can sometimes lead to stupid behavior. My take on it is as follows: you may be an objectively high SMV man, but if the woman in question belongs to a racial or ethnic subgroup that would chide her for "betraying" her kind by getting with you, her association with you will result in a drop in social standing. She doesn't even have to feel this way herself, just fear that she would get the stink eye from a critical mass of her friends and family…	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/17 06:06 PM
5	Let’s Talk Female Ratings I also think the presence of the obesity epidemic skews things over time. These days if you manage to limit the intake of cheeseburgers, are of a certain age range, can tastefully apply makeup, and expose a lot of skin to take advantage of male susceptibilities, you can easily arrive at a HB7 ranking. Google pornstars without makeup--judging facial attributes alone, I see a hell of a lot of 6s, rarer 5s and 7s, and extremely rare genuine 8s without makeup.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 07:30 PM
1	(Long) Don't let yourself be blindsided by the lies and deception a woman will feed you to reap what she really wants. Your text with her was fine. I guess it's harsh but she sounds like a terrible person.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/17 11:05 AM
3	Wife had an affair, I have awakened to the RedPill, and now I want to know how do I make my wife go wild sexually? In a sane world the full power of the state would rain down on her and her lover, and this man would be duty bound to divorce her, without expectation of cash and prizes on her part. Instead we have this. His "friend" got what he deserved (or at least in part), but what does she get? A supplicating man who is studying how to increase her sexual satisfaction. Yes many women can be swayed and seduced, but there are red lines they cannot cross without expectation of repercussions.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/17 12:35 PM
1	Early success trying out TRP in my marriage, but struggling to remain a warm person. Is she a homeschooling mom--are the kids in school during the day? After 18 years of marriage are there still very young children around?	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/17 02:15 PM
2	Divorce risk according to various factors. Saw once in a medical organization survey (Medscape) that female physicians have higher divorce rate than male, and that hours worked per week mattered. Above 40 hours, and the risk of divorce increased for women. I want to say that increasing hours actually was helpful for male physicians, but I'm less certain about that detail.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/17 11:11 PM
2	The expectation of their nCount is with high probability close to 100 by the time they are 25. If your average woman by the time she's 24 has slept with near triple digit numbers of men then I call bullshit on the whole 80:20 discrepancy. It's Christmas in July folks. All you'd have to do is walk outside, and your dick would fall inside some random female. I think these are still outlying hoes.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/17 02:10 AM
65	Women graduates 'desperately' freeze eggs over 'lack of men' Get good at working off the books boys. Strangle the welfare state.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 04:35 PM
16	Women graduates 'desperately' freeze eggs over 'lack of men' Exactly. Thing is I've seen articles of this sort for years now. Almost never do they ask the straightforward question: "Why don't these high earning women simply do what men have done for generations: find a decent partner, even if it means dating down the economic ladder?" I understand that the hypergamous tendencies always exist, but these articles don't even pretend to do a good job at offering up any sort of legitimate analysis of the issue.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 04:34 PM
7	An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission". The whole bit about being jealous of some acquaintance who's on her third property is where I completely lost any and all sympathy for her. Like, who the hell EXPECTS that for themselves, at any time, let alone at 26?! Maybe he spotted something in her that made him keep his financial status close to his chest? We don't have his side of the story.	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/17 05:51 PM
6	An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission". No, because if revenge is the only thing that will motivate her to maintain a healthy weight, something is clearly wrong with her.	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/17 05:44 PM
47	An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission". Over on TRP women subreddit (yes, I know) they have a nice little discussion on how modern men don't know how to date. One of the many vices? The unwillingness for many men to pay for everything on the first date. Shows lack of ability to lead or some bullshit. Yeah, bitches, THAT's the reason ... LOL.	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/17 05:34 PM
3	“Do you suffer from depression? Social anxiety? Are mental health issues keep you back from your full potential?”: Then keep those problems to yourself—unless you want people to think you’re a beta-cuck-loser-herb-bottom. No fucking way man, that's a shitty summary of what I said. I gave myself as an example, and I don't believe I'm bad for having little sympathy for fatties or women on their periods. That's just the way it is. I'm just pointing out the reality, and as far as I can tell I'm not a dark triad male, just a normal person. Listen drawing comparisons is not stating that two situations are equal. But people tend to make exaggerated claims on TRP about how good women have it compared to men--as if women …	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/17 09:12 PM
1	“Do you suffer from depression? Social anxiety? Are mental health issues keep you back from your full potential?”: Then keep those problems to yourself—unless you want people to think you’re a beta-cuck-loser-herb-bottom. I hear you, and I wish you best in improving your life in all areas, particularly your SMV. To be honest, though, it's not like as men we don't have some equivalent issues with women. For most men, it doesn't matter how wonderful a person a given woman is--if she gets very fat, or starts PMSing big time, the desire to sleep with and relate to such a person--at least as a sexual partner, drops considerably. On a pure emotional level, I have ZERO feelings of compassion for women who are PMSing--be…	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/17 06:20 PM
8	“Do you suffer from depression? Social anxiety? Are mental health issues keep you back from your full potential?”: Then keep those problems to yourself—unless you want people to think you’re a beta-cuck-loser-herb-bottom. I agree with this--there is a need to have a balanced perspective. The reason why a person should always seek to do what is within his power to improve his life is because no one is capable of living your life for you. What some random woman thinks is entirely secondary to that. Even if you have people in your life who care about your well being, they cannot live your life for you, and before seeking out assistance from other people it is only fair for you commit to do whatever is in your power …	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/17 05:23 PM
2	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! "We do what works, not what is decent. If you were looking for the morally correct amswer TRP is the wrong place to discuss it." The question posed above was whether he treated her like shit, not did it work, so I answered it. My answer is the correct one, but I wouldn't have offered it, if the question wasn't asked. Because he seemed to care, I offered him an out: try to seek out a different sexual marketplace, which means a more conservative culture or religion--some being more effective than …	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 07:54 PM
6	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! Yeah he's being honest, but I think that qualifies for asshole behavior--calling a person dumb and all. Yeah, definitely asshole. I mean telling some random obese woman that she looks like shit is also being honest, but it's not a decent thing to do. Just don't date her if you think she looks horrible, and if enough men think likewise she'll figure it out. If this sort of talk gives her tingles, I can't fault her for a basic biological response more than I can fault guys for being turned on by w…	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 11:32 PM
10	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! The problem, though, is that before you can be with a girl long term, you have to convince her to be with you in the short run as well-- "temporarily." Ultimately it is on them to regulate how they respond to their desires. It's well within their power to not reward assholes with pussy. But if that's the way a given woman chooses to behave, why would I want to be with her long term?	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 11:13 PM
18	A beautiful example of the decline rears its ugly head. You claim to be Jewish, but you sound like your standard off the rack white supremacist, posing as a Jew to parrot protocols of the elders of zion type propaganda.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 09:56 PM
17	A beautiful example of the decline rears its ugly head. The majority of Jews in this country are secular in their lifestyle, and do not observe the Jewish Sabbath, so your talk about "shabbos goys" is nonsensical. Especially the elites--people like Soros, Zuckerberg, etc are atheists. Most are married to gentile women such that their children are not even techically Jewish (given that Jewish identity is either determined by maternal ancestry, or conversion to the religion). So what you have are gentile trust fund babies benefitting from the weath of …	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 08:59 PM
2	Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work) I agree--I see no point in resorting to name calling, if the goal is to empower the person.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 10:20 PM
3	Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work) Because he's taking a negative emotion and channeling it into something constructive?	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 10:18 PM
7	Preselection is powerful "If what you've said been true - when you enter a nightclub with a girl on your arm she would loose attraction for you as majority of women in the nightclub are not attracted to you when you enter." I don't see how this necessarily contradicts the description of a herd mentality, though. It seems to me that providing those random women in the nightclub aren't show displays of being repulsed by the guy, the woman on your arm will probably not be influenced either way (and just default to preexist…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 03:03 PM
6	In which I share how I've gained more energy in my life and recommend actions so that you may do the same. A good rule of thumb I once read is that if a given form of pleasure you are experiencing (video games, TV, sex) is energizing you, and increasing your satisfaction with life, than that's probably a reasonable quantity to have in your life. If it's sapping your energy, resulting in some sort of feeling of letdown/discontent, afterwards, the pleasure was probably accessed in inappropriate quantities, or in an inappropriate context. I think people probably vary though regarding this internal compa…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 02:48 PM
4	Oneitis - It's just her turn It would be interesting to survey TRP readers on their experiences with oneitis--what percentage consummated that interest in some form of a sexual relationship, and if so how did it pan out (probably a biased sample--how many happily married guys with their oneitis comment on the red pill?). In my experience it never ended up being worth it: mainly because I never got into any sort of relationship with them. OTOH I got likely indicators of interest from 3 of them, including one verbal declarati…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 11:18 PM
4	The story of my friend: Engaged and whipped at age 23 (useful for new guys!) I'll throw out a crazy theory, but the only way I can rationalize this is if this dude is acting on some closet submissiveness/MILF fetishes that are warping his judgment with regard to this woman. Not the type of things dudes talk about, but I wonder if the ubiquity of porn and pedestalization of women in popular culture isn't bringing out some of this extreme white knight behavior. Its just not normal for a young guy to prefer for marriage a soon to be wall victim, over women his own age.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 10:21 PM
8	Oneitis - It's just her turn I think accepting the reality that you are vulnerable to oneitis is fine, but that is a different matter than deliberately cultivating it, or inviting it upon yourself. Oneitis appears to be an Achilles heal for many (most?) men, if they get it, although the tendency to develop it seems to vary between individuals. Part of the difficulty in giving you proper advice is that (1) you need to clarify your goals (are you looking for marriage, LTR, hookups), and (2) how toxic are the women in your soc…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 05:59 PM
0	Guy who used to be one of my best friends is in the final stage of his destruction As far as I can see there are plenty of bitches out there that do not have a hard mental health diagnosis. I think the fallout from dating, or even observing the behavior of these women increases interest in TRP amongst men, and do not imply an explicit fault with them. Besides if the majority of dudes on a forum like this were on the autism spectrum, they would have my sympathy a lot more than unethical women who pursue an AF/BB dynamic, and then detonate their marriages after having kids for c…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 05:22 PM
4	Guy who used to be one of my best friends is in the final stage of his destruction This is potentially a real problem. I think because young men are in a relatively disadvantaged position in the sexual marketplace, and current social trends lead to young women overestimating their own value, you have a situation where young men are brow-beaten into believing they are of lower value than they ultimately are--because no one tells them that their SMV will climb and peak later than women, if they make the right choices. So it produces this "beggars can't be choosers dynamic" where…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 05:10 PM
2	Guy who used to be one of my best friends is in the final stage of his destruction Thomas Sowell, writing about race, wrote the below quote which I think can be adapted here. It describes how a certain way of looking at things, when accepted by the culture, can give off the appearance of a conspiracy, when in reality it is perhaps less top-down or organized than that. I insert "gender relations" in place of race: "There is no subject that is more in need of dispassionate analysis, careful factual research and a fearless and honest discussion than is [gender relations]. Ideally…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 04:47 PM
0	Guy who used to be one of my best friends is in the final stage of his destruction Agreed. Recruiting family may be worthwhile (preferably a male member--brother, cousing, father?). If you communicate with him, I would emphasize that if he is considering marriage, he has to ruthlessly consider who he's going to divorce, and what that will entail: she will likely strap him to indentured servitude if she has even a kid with him by the time he is in his 30s, and he won't be able to jump back into the game at a time in his life when he could potentially be in a more socially domin…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/17 04:26 PM