Skantulsa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	This sub is not what I expected based on its title.	Debate	Skantulsa	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 03:32 AM
1	When my "gay" attire and her "attraction"collide		Skantulsa	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/01/19 06:34 PM
1	Marital conflict: I’m a nude beach enthusiast. She is a prude.		Skantulsa	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 11:18 PM
1	The last unresolved conflict in my marriage: She's a prudist, I'm a partial nudist.		Skantulsa	/r/askTRP	29/11/18 06:10 AM
0	What’s the best of Redpill that you still abide by?		Skantulsa	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/25 01:26 AM
0	Can I change her deeply ingrained thoughts about nudity? I'm a semi-nudist, she is a prudist!		Skantulsa	/r/askTRP	06/12/18 05:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	This sub is not what I expected based on its title. What’s the best of Redpill that you still abide by? Obviously redpill ideologies can be toxic at the extreme. That’s honestly the problem with the internet and even Reddit… it tends to normalize the extremes. Extremism in anything (religion, politics, working out, etc.) can be problematic. But there is some real value in the general red pill lifestyle. What are the red pill philosophies/values you still cherish and have helped your relationships? For me it’s: 1) be decisive. Be very clear and bl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 03:43 AM
2	What’s the best of Redpill that you still abide by? That’s fair. I do agree that more harm than good comes from the mindset especially more extreme takes. I was just trying to find a silver lining. I also agree those skills are not unique to red pill, but I’ve never seen them put together so articulately outside. I relate more to “red pill lite” teaching like Robert Glover’s No More Mr. Nice Guy or Athol Kay’s work. They are somewhat more egalitarian.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/25 06:06 PM
0	What’s the best of Redpill that you still abide by? It means take the best wisdom from both perspectives. I must’ve posted in the wrong sub because I thought this group would be open minded. This is the absolute anti-red pill sub.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/25 04:07 AM
2	What’s the best of Redpill that you still abide by? Not trying to flame but you’re wrong. “Women” is a noun, not an adjective so saying “women companions” is not proper grammar and saying “… without regard for their women” is certainly worse from a misogynistic standpoint.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/25 04:04 AM
2	As a final year medical student, I believe that most people should avoid dating current medical students and residents, due to the personality flaws inherent within the profession and to protect their own health. That’s a pretty narrow minded view. I trained in the hardest surgical residency there is (wish to remain somewhere anonymous) at a time when we laughed at the 80 hour work week restriction. My top was 112 hours. Big deal. I’m no better for it but I have grit. A lot of people work that hard in other fields. And my wife dated me during that time and saw that my career was a priority. She never tried to take that away from me. It added to her attraction to me that I was committed and focused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 01:45 AM
0	As a final year medical student, I believe that most people should avoid dating current medical students and residents, due to the personality flaws inherent within the profession and to protect their own health. Don’t forget the security of having a job in healthcare. Obviously AI is invading everything but no LLM can replace human compassion and judgment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 01:41 AM
1	When my "gay" attire and her "attraction"collide No. I am usually with her. Also I should clarify. I don’t parade around in those trunks among our friends. I wear them at my house pool and in Europe, Miami, etc. where they are less avant- garde.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/01/19 07:23 PM
1	Is frame all that really matters? Frame is confidence objectified. You can practice frame, concentrate to maintain it and even redirect mid stream to regain it. You can’t do the same for confidence. Confidence just exudes from a strong frame. I would say yes frame -> confidence is all that matters.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 11:12 PM
5	How do I stop being so beta and getting feelings for a girl so quickly? I think you got played in every way. Also if you look back you might find that you acted a bit needy, especially when she said “I’m extremely attracted to you.” It’s flattering to hear but can be somewhat of a shit test if you are overly affectionate back in your response. Her ex wasn’t needy. He was likely stoic. Sometimes being a dick (decisive and willing to lose to girl) is more attractive to a girl than being an emotional support who lifts her up. That’s what her girlfriend is for. I used t…	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 11:47 AM
3	How did I handle this shit test? Put her in her place with Amused Mastery. "My house, my rules." said jokingly will defuse her. Or "we'll see...just how good dessert is!" Or when in doubt just use the old STFU. If you acknowledge what she said you validate her. You can't use logic with her. As for the car, she probably felt a bit too slutty and tried to pull back some. Rationalization hamster puts her giving you a hand job something done on her terms.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 03:49 AM
13	How do I stop being so beta and getting feelings for a girl so quickly? You've known this girl 6 weeks at most? Sounds like Oneitis already. You should be dating several girls, plating. "She told me she was extremely attracted to me." - watch their actions, not what they say Don't use your friend as a go-between. That is super beta. Move on. As far as "getting feelings" too quickly, I am sorry to say, but you got played. Let it harden you enough to be resilient. No need to be bitter, just be OI and move on. If she falls that easily again for someone who treated her …	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 03:40 AM
5	Is there much point putting time into women/approach if you have an ‘embarrassing’ job? It’s all about frame. Tell them you work in the transportation industry. Or highlight that you are working on “a startup” but have a stable “boring” job to pay the bills. Always practice and always game. Rejection gets easier with time and as you get more confident rejections comes less. Women smell success and confidence begets success.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 02:28 AM
1	Good jobs for a college student on winter break? You don’t apply. You find someone/some business that has a need and you freelance. 1099 stuff. No hiring. You just tell them your rate and invoice your time. You are self employed contractor. That’s what most small businesses want. No HR department, formal app, etc. What are you good at? Pick a hobby you can monetize.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 01:59 AM
1	How to react to rejection? If you want to be cocky and you have the SMV to back it up say, “sorry you’re not ready for an upgrade”.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 01:04 AM
1	How to go about getting my testosterone levels checked? A buddy of mine is a urologist. He says if you wake up with morning wood you have plenty of testosterone. Free test and fairly accurate. Lifting will increase it. That is why lifting is the best piece of advice on TRP. It is good for you on so many levels, but ironically is the hardest thing to start doing.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 12:52 AM
7	Had a good first date with this chick we Netflix and chilled at my place and she seems pretty interested I assume from implementing some of the TRP way of thinking. But anyways I’m curious how long I should wait until I invite her over again I don’t want to do it too quickly or slow No offense, but that’s hardly a date. Depends what you want. If you are plate spinning, call and invite her over “this weekend”. When she picks a date (Friday or Saturday) say you are “busy that night but how about (the other)?” If she is a high quality woman and you want a real date...Escalate!. It’s not just a PUA move or a tool to get laid. It’s about demonstrating you are a man with a plan for something fun/original and are not just a couch potato hanging out.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 12:39 AM
1	Good jobs for a college student on winter break? Think longer term. Develop a skill you can market and sell while you are studying and work when you want (evenings, summer break, etc.) Use this winter break to Game potential employers. Take your current skill set (photography, social media, marketing, SEO optimization, fitness training, etc.) and expand it in a market that makes you a consultant. Call it an internship on your resume for now then make it a business when you are ready. I knew a bit about computers and started a consulting busine…	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 12:10 AM