Skeltzjones Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	I don't know what to do.		Skeltzjones	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/22 05:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point. Or maybe he is in a terribly hurtful and difficult time in his life, and he is trying to make sense of it all. You don't have to agree with what he is saying but you also don't have to attack someone in this position.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 05:45 PM
1	I found my ex wife in sexually explicit promotional materials for her job Incredibly well said.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 05:12 PM
2	Why wait to hook up? I think the idea is that it may provide a distraction, which can be good or bad. Only bad if you never process the pain of the divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/25 06:36 PM
1	Round 2 of emptying the house. Two things that work for me are: 1. Saying to yourself, "I'm ok right now." If you are sitting somewhere safe from harm, it's technically true. 2. Look around the room. Notice one thing that is green, one that is blue, etc. Do it for at least five colors. These are little tricks to snap yourself out of spinning and re-grounding yourself. Good luck, and I'm sorry you are going through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/25 01:01 AM
7	The hatred is palpable Good that's so hurtful. At least cut off all noticeable contact with the affair partner until you leave the home of your husband. I'm sorry man.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/25 06:26 PM
7	LinkedIn request from ex Ding ding ding	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/25 03:36 AM
1	Went looking for answers..Rock bottom. This is a great point. All the stuff you are hearing was true for the guy before you.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 06:21 PM
6	A heads up to you older fellas wanting to dip your toes in the online dating pool One criterion; 11 criteria.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/24 02:06 PM
9	I’m the cheater…my story You are putting your family through hell. You've already damaged your kids. Try your best to limit the damage and give them whatever version of you is sustainable.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/24 03:11 AM
9	She filed for divorce, but now wants to call it off Based on what you have written here, you must already know the answer. I wish the best for you, which certainly sounds like finalizing what she started.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/24 03:18 AM
1	Post Divorce ED and dating Yes you do, but this isn't worth our time. Have a good one!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/24 02:08 PM
0	Post Divorce ED and dating Right, that's why you deleted it. Sorry things haven't worked out.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/24 02:04 PM
0	Post Divorce ED and dating Sour grapes is an expression from an old fable. There was a guy named Aesoo who wrote a bunch of them. It means you can't win so you say you didn't want to win anyway. I figured it was simple enough that you would understand the reference. In the US the fable is typically read in elementary school. Sorry if it was confusing!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/24 01:32 PM
4	Post Divorce ED and dating I second this. Anxiety specifically blocks the signal to get a boner, if you'll excuse the medical jargon. Cialis is great because it doesn't just give you a boner no matter what; it helps with the boner-getting when you are turned on. And it lasts for a very long time, so you don't have to worry about popping a pill when you are on a date.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/24 01:26 AM
5	Post Divorce ED and dating You are somehow combining sour grapes with gloating in response to someone being vulnerable, all in a sub about a shared experience that you've never had. You sir are the most pathetic person on the planet.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/24 01:24 AM
6	She's taking half of everything after spending our marriage doing nothing. Well, half a millionaire	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/22 01:21 AM
10	I don't know what to do. Welp, I thought I was done crying until I read this. It means more than you know just to read words of support. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/22 06:06 PM
6	I don't know what to do. Thank you for responding. She's insanely good at keeping the house clean, and can't be happy until it is. I try so, so hard to match her perfectionism but it's simply impossible for me. You are right that I'm beaten down. All I want is to be a good dad and for the approval of my wife. I truly don't care about anything else anymore. I don't know when I became fixated on her approval but it's been like this for a very long time. I've been to a few therapists before in an effort to be a better pers…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/22 05:56 PM
3	CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to women Mainly that the angry, bitter feelings I had turned out to be based in real experience, rather than immature selfishness	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 10:21 PM
4	CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to women I will say that when I went from a very skinny 20 something with acne, to a more "normal" body type with a clear face in my late twenties, I noticed the difference in how women treated me and noticed me before I even noticed the gradual change in my appearance. It's sad to think about because I don't want that to be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 06:14 PM