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FDS RESCUE MISSIONSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:36 AM
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How-To High ValueSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:05 PM
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LIES MEN TELLSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:36 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:43 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:48 PM
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QUEEN SH*TSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:30 PM
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RANTSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:11 AM
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RANTSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:44 PM
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QUEEN SH*TSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:49 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢SkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:37 PM
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STAY WOKESkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:14 PM
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PICKME CULTURESkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:12 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:38 PM
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SCROTES MADSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:47 PM
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LVM LOGICSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:42 AM
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SCROTES MADSkiesEclipse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:47 PM
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Hun, I had a LVM ex, and I remember when he went to a bachelor party for his best friend. I asked if there were going to be strippers, and he said “what, why? That’s weird as fuck. You’re going to celebrate your eternal love and devotion by having a random stripper rub up on you?” He also said his friend explicitly warned people that he would leave on site if someone surprised him with a stripper, so he told me there was no way it was going to happen. Don’t get me wrong, they spent a lot of mone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:21 AM
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Girl, I don’t know how you did it! I could barely read your story without cringe coming from the depths of my soul. Poor pick meisha has a lot of heart ache coming her way until she learns some self love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:31 AM
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Omg. Thank god she’s ok. I can feel my palms get sweaty as she struggled with the door key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:03 PM
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Omg best comment 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:56 AM
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And? Are you going to offer to pay to spare yourself the embarrassment? No? If you’re not paying, you don’t get an opinion. Ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:16 AM
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I’m going to be 100% real, I find the whole term “dog mom” mildly annoying. It doesn’t warrant a full on meltdown, but in my personal experience people who identify themselves that way talk about their dog non stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:50 PM
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So why the hell did he have kids then? Too many damn men look at families as an extension of themselves. “What do you mean my wife doesn’t want to uproot her career, and the kids would be yanked away from family and their support system?” They want a family, as long as he doesn’t have to actually do any work (not career related) for the family, or make any sacrifices for the family. In other words, they want the benefits of a wife and children without the responsibility that comes with it. Also,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:04 PM
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Sexual liberation is having power and control in your sexuality. That includes saying “no” and meaning it. I was horrified when a bunch of women on a discord I’m on said that they felt they HAD to kiss or have sex on the first date in order to keep a guy they like interested. There’s nothing liberating about doing something you don’t want to for male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:42 PM
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I do enjoy it for the most part in a loving relationship. The only time I haven’t loved it, is when it starts to last too long, or he hasn’t reciprocated in a while. Then it starts to feel like a chore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:27 PM
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They want that fast food pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:57 PM
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It’s all part of the narrative of the patriarchy. I find it funny that men will deny up and down that the patriarchy exists, but instinctively know how to use its narrative to put women down. They know that women’s worth is tied to her relationship status, and use it as a threat to women who dare to have standards. I remember when me and an ex broke up, he would call me sobbing, saying he was scared he was going to die alone, and that he was getting too old to find anyone to marry. Funnily enoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:51 PM
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Geeeez, the reaching. I got my dad’s pasty Irish skin, and my mom’s dark Italian hair. So not only am I really hairy, it also shows up really well on my pale skin! Woohoo! As a kid, boys, not girls, boys, would always make fun of me for having armpit hair, and leg hair. They said I looked like a man. Before I was allowed to shave, I remember sitting outside for hours trying to get a tan, so the darker skin would conceal the hair better. All I got was painful burn after painful burn. On the brigh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:40 PM
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My dates are usually under an hour, because the guys I dated in the past were so incredibly low value, and I was trying to high tail it outta there 😂 So I have the opposite problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:06 PM
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Why are so many dudes obsessed with finding a woman into sports? I get wanting to have mutual interests, but it’s just TV. It’s a passive past time, not a hobby. I mean, have you ever seen a woman put in her bio “must be into the real housewives franchise” as a requirement for their man? I don’t think so. I don’t mind guys that are into sports, but I keep away from guys who specify they need a woman who watches sports with them like the plague. It just tells me they watch sports on TV 24/7, they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:54 PM
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Exactly. I’m not American, and I consider myself more conservative than liberal. Religion has nothing to do with politics here, and social issues don’t really register on the political stage, because the culture is overall very liberal, and people have a live and let live mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:42 PM
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I’d like to think that the reason women do that, is so that they can curtail some of the creepy dms they get from men. But it’s a fools errand, men won’t be deterred by having “wife” in your bio lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:41 PM
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I think one thing you have to think about, is that the patriarchy, and individual men in our lives have gaslit women to become accustomed to certain behaviours. Behaviours that only benefit men, and when women raise their voices in protest, we have been shamed and blamed for wanting a very basic level of respect. Things like a men showing us respect, listening to us, sharing household duties, giving us commitment and monogamy, or having a normal sex life. Compound this by the fact that there are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:32 PM
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It’s so obvious that your therapist is a porn user and took that personally, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:10 PM
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The “females” was just the cherry on top 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:34 PM
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Enough that the ring will last your whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:56 AM
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Girl, why? Why did she pay money to do a photo shoot, get colour non-invitations printed for god knows how many people…for a joke? I’m genuinely trying to understand the thought process here? Any thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:52 AM
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I was a bit too embarrassed to make a post about it, but I successfully used a little bit of FDS vetting in the wild. An insanely good looking guy asked me out the other day, way better looking than the guys I usually pull. He was vegan too, and it’s so freaking hard to find vegan men. But I found out he was 10 years older than me, and “didn’t want to settle down yet.” I’m not gonna lie, it was really hard to turn him down, but I’m so glad I did. The scarcity mindset creeps in sometimes, but I f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:22 PM
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Dude. Even if my black friends gave me a pass to say racial epithets, I still wouldn’t feel comfortable saying them? There’s literally no need to say hateful things, why are white men always itching to be able to say shit like that. It’s almost like their social awareness is completely performative and hiding their true racism. Hmmm 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:12 PM
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“I’ll think about it” LMAO 🤣If men have nothing, they still have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:59 PM
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Truck driver, so low paying and never home Video game addict Frequently embarrassed me in social situations, and was uncouth Porn sick, couldn’t get erection Slept on a mattress on the floor Hated leaving the house for dates Never wanted to leave the country to travel, said it was a waste of money Didn’t “believe” in holidays or birthdays, didn’t care or give gifts Insisted on everything being 50/50 In to BDSM and tried convincing me of threesome Year and a half in, admitted to frequently using …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:56 PM
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From my experience of men who had a “come to Jesus” moment about all I did for them, and how they took me for granted, I’ll give him a week tops before he reverts back to his old ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:08 AM
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Exactly this. In fact, on some dark corners (or not so dark corners) of the internet, there are lots of men who openly admit that women being raped or “destroyed” turns them on. Absolutely disgusting animals, men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:01 AM
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It was Aba and Preach wasn’t it? I saw their reaction video, and I couldn’t watch more than a minute before being so disgusted i had to turned it off. They were gleefully laughing and joking about all the humiliating sex acts she did, as she cried in the background. Truly depraved. The comments were even more sickening. I left a comment saying she was allowed to regret what she did, and that regardless of consent or payment, those sex acts are inherently traumatizing. Got bombarded by man after …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:56 AM
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It’s true. White guys are also the biggest sex tourists, and the amount of white guys who go to foreign countries to get women because they think women will be all over them because they’re white, is staggering. I love it when reality hits them in the face though, and they come home empty handed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:43 PM
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Oh my god. That is fucking insane. The fetishization of women of colour really pisses me off (asian girls are submissive, black girls are promiscuous, Latin girls are “spicy”) and it never ends. I’m a white girl myself, so I don’t experience a lot of this, but I’ve sworn off foreign men who come from patriarchal societies. The amount of times I’ve turned down an Arab, Indian, or Eastern European dude, and was told I was a “western whore” and that I wasn’t “fooling them” by turning them down and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:17 PM
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Girl…it’s so much worse than the porn use. He spent hours in a seedy part of town? And he likes prostitution porn and incest porn? Girl, he either fucks prostitutes, or was looking for a prostituite to act out his incest fantasy. Couples counselling ain’t gonna do shit at this point. I agree with another poster, hire a P.I for proof and throw the man away already. Oh, and don’t let him near your kids, especially not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:50 PM
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Even in my pick me days, I would never compete for a guy. My attraction is shot once it’s clear he plays the field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:50 PM
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When will men realize sitting back and letting the woman run the whole household, infantilizes themselves? No woman wants to feel like her husbands mom, and when they do, they sure as hell don’t want to fuck a man they see as a son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:30 PM
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Engineers- I don’t know why I always go on dates with engineers, but they are the most socially inept bunch. Not just awkward, but downright rude without realizing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:22 PM
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Also Gina: “I am the human embodiment of the 100 emoji.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:14 AM
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I’ve always said, that if I was a gay woman, I’d have the best game ever. I’d be so friendly and a great conversationalist, and put a lot of effort into putting her at ease. I’d be romantic, but respectful. I’ve told this to guys and they always roll their eyes and laugh, but I always say, I’m not anything special, I think the majority of women would be great at approaching other women. When women pick you up, they treat you like a human being, when men pick you up, they treat you like a piece o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:49 AM
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Yes! I remember I was building a bed frame I bought from IKEA, and I was stuck on a certain part near the end. I was reading and rereading the diagrams, trying to figure it out, when my mom asked my uncle who was passing through, to help me out. He didn’t look at the instructions once, and immediately started going in. He was a handy man by trade, and I finally realized where I was stuck, and told him he was doing it wrong. He ignored me, said he knew what he was doing. He put it all together, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:42 PM
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I love cooking, and I’ve been told many times that I should get into catering, but I don’t tell men about my cooking anymore. Without fail, I’ll be talking to a guy and I’ll be telling him about all my interests “painting, piano, learning another language, my solo backpacking camping trips,” and he’ll have a glazed look over his face, but the second I mention I love to cook, he gets all excited and starts asking me a million questions about what I cook. Then he starts making jokes about when I’l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:22 PM
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Meanwhile my ex would run ahead to get the heavy ass door to his apartment, and when I tried to catch up so he could hold it for me, he’d often end up closing it on me, hitting me. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:08 PM
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The only thing I’ll push back on, is the true crime thing. I only recently got into it in the past couple of years, but it taught me a hell of a lot more on safety. Most women in these stories are victims of intimate partner violence, and most times there are some common tell tale signs. For example, before I started watching true crime, I had no issues with going to a guys place so he could “pick up his wallet,” or have him pick me up at my house. Now I don’t let a man know where I live, or go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:59 PM
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Yeah, it sucks because I always liked Katharine Hepburn. She always played the strong fast talking woman, which was different for the time (albeit, she had to be tamed in the end). And her style was very unlike other women at the time. She normalized wearing pants and men’s wear. But being a side piece for 26 years is pretty damn low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:31 PM
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Looks like me the last time I was on OLD. Except it was scrotes as far as the eye could see, and me furiously swiping left lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:22 PM
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I wish I had the problem of gay people flocking to me. I think a lesbian lady would treat me better lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:14 PM
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And this person chose medicine?? The majority of people you treat in the medical field are going to be elderly. They’re going to be saggy and wrinkly, it’s not about admiring anyone’s body, its about healing people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:02 PM
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My mom works with special needs children and their families, and yes, the divorce rate is incredibly high. Which is heartbreaking considering caring for a special needs child is rarely enough for two parents to handle, let alone one. I’m not trying to excuse men who leave, because that isn’t ok, but to be realistic, having special needs children is the biggest test of a relationship, even if the relationship is good. It’s a huge financial burden, a physical burden, and of course a mental burden,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:08 PM
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Yeah, and chased her down when she left the van and hit her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:09 PM
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Oh phew! At first I thought maybe they wouldn’t hire a woman because they hate women. Turns out, it’s just because they think women are incompetent. Glad Quartz got to the bottom of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:39 AM
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I remember my dad telling me a story about how he asked out a woman from online, and he offered to pick her up in his car, and she declined, preferring to get herself there. My dad kept pushing it and offering, and she told him it was a safety issue, because she didn’t know him yet. My dad was so insulted, said he could never be with a woman who saw men as fundamentally evil. I talk to him about True Crime (or as I call it, “murdered women TV”) and he finds it extremely depressing. But I talk to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:42 AM
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Don’t worry, that asshole’s face is plastered all over the country now. He can run, but he can’t hide. They’ll get him. Unfortunately, you can’t detain someone without cause, and police can only hold someone for 12 hours for questioning before they have to let them go. It sucks in this particular instance, but it’s probably good on the whole that police don’t have the power to detain someone if no laws have been broken. I see some people saying that the police should have arrested him, but I’m v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:27 AM
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Even my incredibly sexist dad, when I told him about how he had scratches on his face, and she had no visible marks, so she was deemed the aggressor, said that he wasn’t buying it. He said “you can still hold someone down and not leave a mark, you can grab someone and not leave a mark, you can corner a person and prevent them from leaving without leaving a mark, you can punch someone in the gut and they wouldn’t know. The only time I’ve seen a woman abuse a man is if he was abusing her as well a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:11 AM
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Just think about how incredible sexist the term “hysteria” is. If you look at the etymology of the word, it comes from the Latin “hystericus” which means “of the womb.” It was deemed a condition exclusive to women, where by they would become insane from a dysfunction in the uterus (the removal of the uterus is called a hysterectomy) This one may be a bit more of a stretch, but the term “lunacy” in medieval times referred to a condition by which some people would become crazy at certain phases of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:52 AM
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Seriously. Her friend recently came out and said he was very controlling. Gabby had an app on her phone that shared her location with her friend, and when Brian found out she had it, he made her delete it. This guy is nothing but bad news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:15 PM
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These two were together for years before they went on this trip. Their relationship sounds like it was really toxic however, and it makes me sad that her family didn’t see any issues with their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:20 PM
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Was that the lesbian couple who were found dead near their van while out camping?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:16 PM
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I feel bad for her. She doesn’t think she can do better than be a stripper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:35 AM
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I make my favourite creamy pasta, play some music, spend the evening killing a bottle of wine, and sitting down to watch a movie with all the lights out and a scented candle. I also take myself to the symphony or the ballet on Friday’s pre-COVID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:08 AM
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You can tell this guy makes great decisions 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:36 AM
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🎶beauty and the scrooote…🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:26 AM
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Wow, your husband is a true provider, and protector! It’s funny, because so many men say they want a traditional, feminine woman. They want a woman who takes care of children, cooks, cleans, shops, and organizes his life. But men don’t realize that no woman wants to be a tradwife to a man that isn’t a tradhusband. THIS is the kind of stuff that a traditional husband would do. THIS is the kind of thing my grandfather did for his family, and he was a very old school Italian man. I remember when my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:29 AM
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Oh awesome! I’ll look for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:11 PM
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Jesus. I had a LVM ex who had some HV traits, and I’ll never forget, how I was on my period, and he noticed how quiet and sad I was acting, so he went out to the store to get me my favourite chocolate and drinks, and a fuzzy blanket to boot. I didn’t even have to tell him how I was feeling, he figured it out. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:18 PM
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“Stay away from community dick.” I want that on a T-shirt lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:48 PM
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Someone posted a screenshot of a kid’s social media post of him taking a selfie of his teacher’s butt with the caption “You cannot be walking around with that much ASS, and expect me not to post a selfie for the boys, I’ll see you Monday Ms.Rodriguez” He later makes an update, “Got suspended, but in the conference my teacher was eyeballing me like she wanted it!” And to top it all off? Comment after comment on the subreddit laughing and congratulating the boy for being a “chad” and a “mad lad”. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:38 PM
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Bahahaha 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:08 AM
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That’s too bad, I’m sorry. Unfortunately, a lot of it has to do with this hookup, instant gratification culture. It helps me when I encounter non-committal men, to think about my experiences with other non-committal men I’ve dated. Some of them I ended up being in a relationship with, many of them not, but they all had one thing in common: relationship or not, they all treated me inconsistently, and were never “sure” about us. There’s nothing more hurtful than wasting years of your life on a man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:03 AM
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Some people are naturally more charismatic than others, but charisma doesn’t mean boundary pushing and love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:15 PM
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Yes! I think men who are looking for a future wife, vs. a man just looking for a fling, is going to be a lot more reserved and guarded. He isn’t going to be overly flirtatious because he doesn’t want to lead on someone he’s not sure he has a connection with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:13 PM
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You’re right. I forgot to mention that social sciences are actually MORE well researched and studied than evolutionary psychology, because we can see trends in human behaviour. It’s just that unlike a hard science, you can’t repeat the same tests and get the exact same results because humans aren’t exactly the same, therefore they won’t act exactly the same in the same tests. That doesn’t mean that these tests are useless, because we’ve discovered so much valuable information about humans when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:11 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology is one of my biggest pet peeves because followers believe it is infallible and backed by science. It is considered a social science because it is a completely theoretical discipline and it’s theories cannot be tested like other scientific theories. Because we cannot talk to Neanderthals and the like, we cannot know what was going on in their brains like modern psychology today. All we have is their physical remains. In my opinion, it is crazy to try and guess at what a pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:51 PM
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I’m from a country that bans knives and pepper spray, and I was able to get my hands on “dog spray” on Amazon. You could give that a try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:07 PM
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I love the visual of a cat burrito! 🤣🌯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:34 PM
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Yes and no. I wouldn’t want to break a friends trust by telling an SO. If you could ask without mentioning names, and as long as it wasn’t TOO personal, I’d say go for it. But I’ve had friends I’ve cut off because of the annoying attitude of “we do everything together” or “anything you can say to me, you can tell him!” Like, no. I’m not in a relationship with him, you are. You’re my friend not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:17 PM
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But he picked you!!!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:51 PM
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I have a cat that is very aggressive towards the vet. She’s like a bat out of hell when I take her. When I got her as a kitten, the first vet she went to was a man and told me he “didn’t know how to handle a cat.” And could only get one of her vaccines in before he gave up. Second vet was also a man, and immediately started getting rough with her, even though I warned him as he walked in that she doesn’t like the vet, and she bites. Well she bit, and he ended the meeting. I just recently took he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:33 PM
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We’ve never said we should take away the right to vote for men, or that men should be seen and not heard, or that the state should assign a man for each of us, or pat an FDS member on the back when she goes on a killing spree, or laugh and fantasize about raping men. It’s never happened on this sub…but incels sure say this all the time about women on their forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:52 PM
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I’m so sorry, you were absolutely wronged. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s convinced me to finally bite the bullet and save for the HPV vaccine. It’s $300-550, which is a lot for me right now, but there’s no way in hell I’m ever having sex again without it. Scrotes really be out here ruining our health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:30 PM
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Oof. Get out of my head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:14 PM
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I wasn’t slighting child free ladies on here. That wasn’t my intention at all. I just meant that I’m not sure about whether I wanted children or not, and I appreciate hearing an argument for children, because it helps me weigh the two options. It’s a big decision to have a child, and I think it’s important to be sure you want them, and WHO you have them with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:27 PM
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Not really related, but holy shit, why do they just watch her cry. “Oh no don’t cry,” they say in a flat voice, and just move on from the upset. Like c’mon, hold her hand, give her a hug, validate her experience, do something!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:33 PM
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My favourite comment here. I think I’d like to have children someday, but sometimes this sub skews more child free, so I don’t hear that perspective. I’m glad you debunked his thoughts on his wife’s “disfigured” genitals, because I don’t know a lot about the process of childbirth, and I was wondering “how the hell does it change down there?” Lol. As usual, selfish prick is making it all about him and being a drama Queen about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:15 PM
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I hate it when people use their crafting abilities for evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:56 PM
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I think it’s creepy how obsessed he is with her, and how he’s on a mission to bring her down. I doubt he does this for male fitness influencers. But he’s not exactly wrong when he says Chloe is popular because of her body. I’ve heard several female fitness influencers express the pressure of staying thin and trim, and how their viewership suffers when they aren’t at their peak. And that’s with a mostly female audience. People want to look at a body they aspire to have, and follow what they do in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:43 PM
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After spending time going through all the comments, this guy is the only one pretty much on the post arguing for the husband. He’s commented on practically every comment. Pretty sure he’s the husband lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:20 PM
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Just letting you know I upvoted your very common sense replies, and downvoted the manipulator sympathizer. Now I’m combing through the comments and downvoting all the pornsick gaslighters. Poor girl needs validation from us that she’s right to be mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:49 PM
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He probably thought you’d empathize with his whole “I’m emotionally traumatized” sob story. Bet he thought that was a check mate lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:56 PM
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I am extremely sceptical of an “elegance coach” that tells women not to use “complicated words”. I don’t think they themselves even understand what the word “elegant” means: “gracefully refined and dignified, as in tastes, habits, or literary style.” If being well read and educated and using complex words as a result doesn’t aid in your refinement, I’m dying to know what this person thinks does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:10 PM
14

If you want to be a little less confrontational, you could always go with “I need to focus on my workout please.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:12 AM
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I’m eager to try this out, but I have a hunch they would wiggle their way out of it by saying “it’s illegal, and I don’t want to get caught,” or “I’m scared of getting an STD.” But I would die if a guy honestly came back and said “I can’t afford a sex worker.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:06 AM
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I still cannot get over how in high school, my friend’s boyfriend asked her if she got “turned on” when she wore tampons, because she was “penetrated” by the tampon. She dead ass had to explain to him why a tiny piece of cotton used to dry up her vagina during the most uncomfortable time of the month, was not in fact, rocking her world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:50 AM
13

Just tell him you’re bathing in the blood of your enemies. Or you’re a vampire having her midnight feast. He’d probably be able to handle that better than some vagina blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:40 AM
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Like some kind of Tarantino movie 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:34 AM
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Yes, I studied international development in college, and I was horrified to find out that most fathers in poverty stricken places use most of their money on drinking and gambling, and give their families the scraps. It’s the dirty secret of NGOs, and it’s been shown that if you give money directly to women, they not only will spend it on their own family and children, they spend any extra money they have to help out neighbours or community members in need. In fact, micro loans (a type of charity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:57 PM
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The only man there with a shred of dignity. Just looked him up, John Smith went down with his ship helping load women and children into life boats. So he knew he was going to die, but he gave those seats up anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:29 PM
12

What kind of fresh pickmeisha hell is this?! He has to be abusing her right? I refuse to believe anyone but a severely battered woman would put up with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:39 PM
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Why would lifting up one group seem to threaten another group? Why would they gleefully celebrate the oppression of others? Because masculinity in our culture hinges on the oppression of women. Men don’t care if a woman has rights if she’s still “less than” him in his eyes. As long as she earns less, has less friends, speaks less in social settings, has less of a say in relationships, and has less of a say in society in general, they’re happy to pat themselves on the back for “giving” us rights …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:08 PM
94

Men really don’t know about women’s anatomy, do they? I had an ex who was 5 inches on a good day, and if we hadn’t had sex for a long time, and I wasn’t properly prepped, I would bleed. It happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:48 PM
73

You need to contact the bird law! This cannot stand!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:20 PM
107

I remember watching this as a little girl, and thinking how cool her life was. Have a beautiful home, wear beautiful clothes, own as many of the cutest cats you want, go to parties all the time. She’s got it made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:15 PM
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I used to go clubbing a little bit in my early 20s. Every packed club I went to was sexual harassment city. I couldn’t walk through the packed crowds without some creep grabbing my ass or boobs. It would be so packed, even when I whipped around to see who did it, I couldn’t find the culprit. This was the rule, not the exception. I started refusing to go when my friends showed interest, and slowly our group started dropping from club night for the same reasons. My point is, men love the club beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:43 AM
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Girl is in need of a pickmeisha rescue mission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:02 PM
4

Ya know, I actually don’t hate this guy. How many guys pull shit like this, and blame the woman for not being interested in his low effort attempts? “She only wants a rich guy,” or “I’m just not good looking enough,” or my favourite “I’m just too nice for her.” This guy was able to attract the attention of a high value woman, and he fumbled the ball big time. It’s refreshing to see a woman enacting consequences on a man undervaluing her, and a man understanding that it was his own actions that l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:54 PM
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When it comes to social media, men get so mad that if a woman is gifted with beauty, she can make content with minimal effort of her showing off her beauty. She can get millions of men following her and money as a result. They’re mad because there’s not a lot of work involved. However, it just goes to show how deep their misogyny goes, because who they should REALLY be mad at, is the hordes of men who want to drool over a beautiful woman. She is famous because men look at her, fantasize about he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:50 AM
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LibFem: If a man enjoys humiliating women, stay away from him Scrote: iTs My KiNk LibFem: Oh! Say no more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:38 AM
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If it gives you any hope, my neighbours are in their 50s and are CF. They lead extremely fulfilling and interesting lives, and he seems pretty HV from the outside looking in. It was her dream to move up in the mountains and do art and be self sufficient and be in nature. After her mother and father died in the same year, he decided it was time to try and make her dream happen. It was extremely hard to find chef work for a man of his higher skill set in the middle of the remote area she wanted to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:50 AM
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Pick up artists? No woman has to lift a finger to catch a dick. A more accurate description is quality control. Of all the dicks flying at us on a day to day basis, you’ve got to learn how to fruit ninja the rotten ones outta here. And FDS is like our dojo, the handbook, our sensei.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:41 AM
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Seriously. “Let’s agree to not date, it’ll solve both our problems,” is what I’d say lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:33 AM
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That’s so interesting, what a cool job! You must have so much insight into what makes a marriage work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:02 AM
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I get what you’re saying, but at the same time, a lot of women convince themselves they are into the kink. I was that girl. My very first bf liked to choke me and hit me in the face during sex. At the time, I had no other sexual experience other than him, and I thought it was this intense way of showing his arousal, so I thought it was hot. But as we continued our relationship and I felt more attached to him and secure in our relationship, I couldn’t take the kink anymore. He’d do something, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:39 PM
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Oh god, this is almost exactly like another story I posted on here a month ago. When he tells you who he is, believe him. So when he tells you he wants to murder you, believe him!!!! We joke about pickmeishas, but holy shit stuff like this is so dangerous. It is the most frustrating thing in the world hearing these stories, and being powerless to help. I just want to reach through the screen, shake this girl, and help her pack up her shit and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:23 PM
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The pick me girl is fundamentally suffering from internalized misogyny, even if she thinks of herself as a modern feminist. She secretly believes that her life will not be complete without a man, that she has failed as a woman if she were to be alone. She is desperate, and cannot have peace of mind until she is married and has “locked” down a man. Her issue is that her desperation causes her to be non-discerning. Any man will do. And she needs a man ASAP. Her strategy is to completely endear her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:15 PM
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Name checks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:03 PM
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Yay! I’m so happy for you girl! What a beautiful way to present the ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:10 PM
14

Reading this, it’s like this couple is playing a game of chicken to see who will break up with the other first. Don’t prolong bad relationships to “see how it goes.” Once you find out you have completely different values and goals in life, its ok to leave him. It’s more than ok, it’s the decent thing to do. It’s like they’re both stringing each other along at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:22 AM
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TW: Violence, stabbing I saw a surveillance video of a cafe in Turkey, where a woman was sitting next to her baby, talking to her husband across from her. She turns away from her husband while he was talking so she could comfort her baby, who had begun to cry. He becomes visibly enraged by this, grabs a knife, and walks next to her and starts violently stabbing her. In broad daylight, with a cafe packed with men. Surprise, surprise, the only people who come to her defence are two women at the ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:09 AM
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Hold on, let me get this straight. This scrote thought “what better way to show my intention of a lifelong commitment to the mother of my child, than a disposable ring pop that I picked up at the dollar store.” He’s really trying to drag her expectations to earths crust. My pet peeve in these “cute” non-ring engagements, is that these men aren’t even trying to compensate by planning something romantic. No beautiful speech, no thoughtful gesture, no creativity, not even dinner and a scented candl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:53 AM
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Ahhh, this is bringing me back to some of the fundamentals of FDS. Don’t do wife shit for your boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:36 AM
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They’re mad that modern women would rather die alone than marry a below average man, and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:31 AM
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Yes to everything here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:50 PM
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Listen, I’m empathetic to mental health issues, especially because my social anxiety used to be way worse than it is today. But I didn’t even TOUCH dating until I felt confident doing small things like ordering for myself, making phone calls, and asking for directions in my day to day life. Then I made friends, THEN I tried dating. But the thing is, in order to truly change, you need support, and you need to continuously put yourself in situations outside your comfort zone in order to become acc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:57 PM
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I love the positive mental attitude, and I love to see FDS principles being applied in the wild! No tantrums, no long lectures. Just tell him your boundary and move on with your day. If he doesn’t get it, or he doesn’t want to respect your boundary, than he can’t provide the bare minimum as a partner, and he’s not worth your time anyway. Also, yay to making new friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:11 PM
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Yes, she found out about Camilla BEFORE the marriage and wanted to back out, but her mother had a meeting with her. She basically told her she was being a selfish brat because the wedding was paid for and millions of dollars had been sunk into it, not to mention her face had already been plastered on tea towels and tins all over the country. Everyone in her life tried to convince her it was normal, and the poor girl never had a chance. Of course their marriage was miserable, Diana was gaslit to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:31 PM
162

Dad told my sister she should wear makeup in a video she is sending in to work. She’s never worn makeup in her life. But I already knew he was a NVM decades ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:26 PM
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Do I love to hike? Yes. Will I ever go on a hike with a date? Not even through the park. I can name at least 5 cases off the top of my head of women being murdered by their partner on a hike. What do they always say? Once they get you to a secondary location, your chances of survival are slim to none?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:33 AM
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As awesome as this is, when hit with a “this is why you’ll be single forever,” I like to keep it short and sweet and hit him with a “here’s hoping! 🤞”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:18 AM
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So like, does he whip out his picture book and map at the store, and everyone laughs at him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:14 AM
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Agreed. I can’t stand “I’m not like other girls” rhetoric. But I WILL say, that one thing that always held me back from forming relationships with other women, was that I wasn’t interested in talking about guys. How do I know this? Because later in life when I talked about guys, and my relationship, etc. more often, all of a sudden I had the biggest group of female friends I had ever had in my life. We’d get together, and just talk about all the drama surrounding the men we were seeing/ interest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:02 AM
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The way Meghan Fox was treated by the industry is truly abhorrent. Hell, just Michael Bay himself was bad enough. He blacklisted her in Hollywood after she spoke out against his misogyny, and was a terror to work under. She told a story on Jimmy Kimmel, about how Michael Bay wanted her in a love scene in Bad Boys, but when he found out she was 15 and couldn’t do it, he instead put her in a bikini and had her dance under a waterfall. Knowing what we know now with how sexualized she was as a young…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:03 PM
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I agree, I think Yoko was given a lot more blame than she deserved for the breakup of The Beatles. However…I still don’t think she’s a good person. John made the choice to never see Julian again for almost 10 years after he left Cynthia. That’s 100% on him. But one thing I find interesting, is that when he briefly got with May Pang for a year and a half, she encouraged him to reach out to people in his life and mend all his broken relationships. He quit drinking, and became friends with Paul aga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:12 AM
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My grandma always encouraged education, and stressed the importance of having a good career. I never met my grandfather, because he died young. But she told me how hard it was to survive in the 50s as a single mom once he was gone. They lived on a military base because he was in the airforce, and when he died, he left a wife and 6 young children. In the midst of all her grief, my grandma was given 1 month before they were kicked off the base, and homeless. She found an apartment for them all to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:47 AM
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He may have had the audacity, but he underestimated her pettiness 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:28 AM
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I truly lost it at that point 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:27 AM
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Yes, apparently that song caused a bit of a rift between Paul and John. At the point it was written, John had abandoned Cynthia and Julian, but Paul would continue to visit and check on them. Julian would later say that he had more pictures of him and Paul in their family albums than he had of his father. He could tell that Julian was really struggling with the abandonment, so he wrote “Hey Jude” on the way to visit him, as a way to tell him it wasn’t his fault, and that he had the strength to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:57 AM
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I’m sorry you have to go through this. I haven’t been in a situation like this, but it almost sounds like your mom is either a) a bit ashamed about staying in this situation, but can’t leave because of the idea of “sunk costs”, so she wants to drag you down with her so she doesn’t feel bad about herself AND/OR b) after being in this situation for so long, she’s learned to think of herself as a kind of martyr, as the “bigger person” by staying with your dad, in order to cope with her unhappiness.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:32 AM
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Well this is horrifying to read. And this is a real warning to women out there not to get involved in BDSM AT ALL. The reason being, these women consented to the BDSM, thinking it would be like handcuffs and spanking, only to find out what he had in mind was straight up assault and rape. The immediate danger was that he ignored them when they told him they wanted to leave, but they were bound, and it just turned him on more to inflict pain. Then, after all that is done, if you decide to go to po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:38 AM
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This is the definition of small dick energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:45 PM
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Lmao, I remember Tina Fey in an interview talking about when Mathew McConaughey was on SNL, his B.O was so bad, everyone would slowly leave the room when he walked in. He’s a total narcissist, probably think his sweat smells like flowers 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:27 PM
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I mean, people give birth every day, what do you want a cookie? It can’t be that hard. (him probably, and actual men irl I’ve heard say this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:29 PM
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Wtf is in the water? Is there like some PickMeisha HQ, that’s pumping out these women? When did our societies morals get so ass backward?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:56 AM
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I have…mixed feelings about Pink. She really hurt my mom with her music video for “Stupid Girls”. She plays a Paris Hilton like character that’s dumb and does anything for male attention, and there’s a scene where she makes herself throw up while checking herself out in the mirror. I remember showing my mom the music video because I thought it was so empowering, and she got misty eyed, and said she thought Pink was extremely critical and judgemental, and she didn’t like the messaging about what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:44 AM
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Very good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:33 PM
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I wish women would be a bit more aware about custody matters. Women need to start asking men to legally terminate their parental rights if she wants a clean break from him. If he doesn’t want to be part of his child’s life, and he doesn’t want to pay child support, he needs to prove he’s serious and tie up loose ends. He doesn’t get to waltz into the child’s life whenever he feels like playing dad, and leave when it gets boring or overwhelming. Being a parent is a 24 hour job, and some guy who d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:19 PM
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I remember one time telling an ex, that I could probably make a woman orgasm the very first time I ever slept with a woman, even though I’m not into girls at all, because I know exactly what gets me and most women off. He called bullshit, said that every women has completely different likes and dislikes, and that we don’t have the same physiological response that men do. Said that there’s no way I could ever please a woman without practice and being with the woman a long time. I said that the wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:49 AM
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I’d love to see all the balding men, go try and get a date with a “30 year old woman who’s hit the wall,” and see the reality check wash over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:36 AM
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I’ve noticed lately at weddings, that fewer and fewer women participate in the bouquet toss. The last wedding I was at, the bridesmaids had to beg and drag women onto the dance floor to do the bouquet toss, because the bride was getting upset at how few single women wanted to participate. Funnily enough, I had just spoken an hour earlier with a bunch of my single cousins, and we were all talking about how we don’t like the bouquet toss. Many women find the whole idea of a bunch of single ladies …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:30 AM
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Reminds me of that god awful One Direction song: 🎵You don’t know you’re beautiful, that’s what makes you beautiful🎵 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:14 AM
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These lawsuits rarely end up getting through the legal system in Canada. The bar for proving damages is way higher here. I know it’s scary to get served, but this is most likely going to get thrown out by the judge, and he could even face consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:25 PM
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🎶🎵 Boooooob the builder 🎵🎶 Can we fix him? 🎵🎶 No we can’t! 🎵🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:20 AM
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W-what did he THINK was going to happen? If you don’t commit, you’ve got zero claim on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:16 PM
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I have been livid in my life, but I’ve never once had the thought of violence. I think men have a really hard time wrapping their heads around the fact that most women have never had violent thoughts, and they think we’re lying or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:10 PM
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Love her! Especially loved the one on how setting a boundary may cause pain, but it does not cause harm. Such a mindset shift!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:18 AM
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Reminds me of the Paris Hilton documentary, and her bf was throwing a tantrum before she went on stage because she “ignored him” all morning while she was doing interviews. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:49 PM
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Statistically, step parents are most likely to be abusers in a home, sexual or otherwise. So it makes perfect sense to be extremely wary of who you invite to live in your home and be around your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:38 PM
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I just saw a post in a popular subreddit, where the person posted: “the fact that so many men swarm a woman the second she turns 18, means that people were looking at her sexually before that, and only waited because it was illegal when she was younger. This suggests pedophilia is way more common than we would like to admit.” I scrolled down to the comments, and you know what? Every single comment was some form of “pedophilia is when you look at children under 14 sexually, if she’s 14 or older, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:29 PM
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Wow, I’m so glad I’m not the only one with this view! I’ve always been told I’m a raging asshole, because I believe surrogacy exploits women’s bodies. So little care is given to the surrogate, and in fact, I’ve heard nightmare stories where the mother dictates everything the surrogate eats, drinks, supplements, and how she should behave. Always made me extremely uncomfortable, especially with the wealth power imbalance. This is coming from someone who has fertility issues, and may not be able to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:20 PM
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The only thing I’ll say, is that the “sorry I didn’t mean to ask for personal information or offend you,” kind of makes sense to me, albeit, it was overkill the way he phrased it. People (like myself for example) can have health concerns that require dietary restrictions, but may not be comfortable disclosing that. I’m the same way, I’m diabetic and there’s a lot of stigma around diabetes, so I like to keep it to myself as much as possible. I can’t drink alcohol or eat dessert, or sugary drinks,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:04 PM
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Reminds me a bit of “500 days of summer.” He builds summer up in his head as this perfect woman, and he’s absolutely obsessed with her. When she breaks up with him, he’s convinced no one else will ever do. But as time goes on, and he goes over the relationship in his head, he starts to realize that all these moments in their relationship, he was looking at through rose coloured glasses. In fact, there were several signs it was the beginning of the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:40 PM
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This makes me so ridiculously angry. Why was she filming herself? Because she was trying to document proof of her sexual harassment! Don’t tell me these scrotes would believe her if she didn’t have the video? Why didn’t she leave the gym? Because it’s not fucking fair that women have to be the ones punished and pushed out of their spaces when men show bad behaviour! And why, WHY for the love of god, was she banned from the gym?!!!! Shouldn’t the gym be trying everything in their power to make su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:33 PM
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Ugh, I truly loathe when men act supercilious. As though a more distinguished verbiage should indicate a modicum of superior intellect. In truth, it suggests the man is either a time traveller of the Victorian era, or else a man posturing as an intellectual, also known colloquially as a “neck beard.” But in all seriousness, a true sign of intelligence, is having the ability to distill a complex idea into its base parts. People who are able to use plain English to describe abstract ideas, have th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:52 AM
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I saw her IG post with her horseback riding and doing cartwheels. She looks really happy and excited to taste freedom. I’m rooting for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:38 AM
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Here’s the thing. I don’t condone anyone using any kind of violence for any other reason than self defence. I’m of the mind that the way to solve issues with toxic people in your life is to cut them out and pay them dust. But I am so tired of the false equivalency. They find one example of a woman being violent towards a man and it’s “no one is paying attention to the epidemic of violence against men!” But will immediately jump on a video of a woman getting seriously injured at the hand of a man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:33 AM
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Hey, just want to let you know, as tough as we can be on FDS, you’re allowed to miss him. Give yourself permission to grieve him. We always have high hopes of the men we like, and it always hurts when you find out he wasn’t the man you thought he was. Just remember, there’s a reason you guys aren’t together, and it’s a very important and valid reason. Boundaries protect us, and keep us mentally healthy. But it can be so hard to set out boundaries, because the common response from people is to pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:15 AM
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I don’t know if this is the best move, but if a guy asks for my Snapchat, I usually say “what’s Snapchat?” If he starts to explain what it is, I say “Oh yeah! My sister told me about it! She said it was an app men use so they can send pictures of their dick to unsuspecting women on the internet!” Never fails to get an unmatch😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:04 AM
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Yet “mom bods” are so shamed by society. Moms are the ones who are putting their body through intense changes and gaining weight to support the life of their baby, but men gain weight because now that they have their wife baby locked, they can let themselves go. Tooooootally different contexts. Make it make sense 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:52 AM
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Bahahaha. He was probably hoping they’d all fight over him like some grand prize, but instead he got dumped by three women on the same day. It’s gotta feel bad man 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:47 AM
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Yikes girl, I know when I worked in administration at a doctors office I was always told to “smile more”. Then I worked in administration at a lawyers office, exact opposite lol. The culture is extremely formal, and very serious. Everyone’s always trying to power trip each other, so you’ve got to be very professional, and pretty tough for anyone to respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:42 AM
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I’d just say, “I don’t know, what do YOU think is wrong with me?” Say nothing else and just stare. Most people with half a brain will realize how rude of a question that was, and will back peddle and start showering you with compliments lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:29 AM
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God, this reminds me of the time I was walking on my way to see my boyfriend at the time, and saw some wildflowers along the way. I decide to pick them as I go, and give them to my bf as a little gift. When he sees them, he immediately looks weirded out. He asks me, “why did you get me these?” And I said, “I dunno, I saw them along the way and thought they’d brighten up your apartment!” He rolls his eyes, says he was a dude so he didn’t have a vase or anything for them. I grabbed a cup and put t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:37 AM
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I agree that so many dudes I’ve been with thought normal relationship things were “being clingy” which is just a way for them to unconsciously indicate to you that they aren’t that into you. HOWEVER, I do strongly believe that codependency is a very real issue that FDS women should be aware of. I was codependent with an ex, and it was absolutely terrible. I put all my energy into our relationship. I’m not joking, my grades started to slip because I’d spend every waking moment with him instead of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:45 AM
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Every redditor who sees this video: “tHeY’rE jUsT jOKiNg! cAnCeL cUlTuRe iS tOxIc! nOt AlL mEn!” Tell me what else is on your neckbeard bingo card!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:29 AM
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Further proof that dick is disposable 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:13 PM
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I love that the comments has turned into a critical analysis of Futurama through a FDS lens. I’m HERE FOR IT!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:57 PM
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And yet I’M the asshole when I say dad bods aren’t hot, especially because he didn’t get flabby to feed and nourish a child, he did it because he’s letting loose now that he’s baby trapped you. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:44 AM
2

You know what? Even IF he was a genuinely good person and this was all innocent, (ha!) you should never have to explain or justify your boundaries. Own them. You know what they say: “good fences make good neighbours.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:37 AM
80

Toxic masculinity has taught generations of men that if they have a good job and a wife, they’ve ticked all the boxes they need to. In their minds, they confuse doing the bare minimum, with being a good husband. I’ve never been married, but it’s eerie how much gaslighting goes on in the average relationship. Almost every guy I’ve dated has been defensive when I bring up issues in the relationship. They all had this attitude of, “if I’m content in the relationship, and you’re not, it’s because yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:58 PM
21

Wow, this one hit a little closer to home than I thought it would. Her dream is my dream, and yes, it’s very achievable. I know lots of women who work minimum wage and are able to travel all the time. It’s just that it requires a no frills approach to travel. No luxury hotels and dining out everywhere. It pisses me off how dismissive he is about her dream, and chalks it up to her looking at too much Instagram. The way he tells it, she’s made all these sacrifices for him, and now that she’s gradu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:25 PM
56

Wow, this is a whole mindset shift! She’s sooo right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:59 PM
85

Wow, what an open and honest guy! He only waited until they were married, and had moved her entire life to a foreign country for him, to reveal this depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:56 PM
33

I’ve been striking out big time and have given up dating for a while because of men like this who dominate all the conversation. I’m not exaggerating when I say every single guy I’ve been out with lately hasn’t asked me a single question. I wish I was joking. I used to think that men did that on a first date because they felt pressure to “lead the conversation” and “prove their worth to a woman,” but the more I thought about it, it just seems wild to me to spend hours with someone and only know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:11 AM
33

This is reminding me of the time my ex called me and was like “I want nothing more than to be with you, but also, I never want to see or speak to you again.” Like….what? Boy, you’re wasting my phone minutes with your dumb ass riddles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:51 AM
9

Yes, I worked at a law office, and I would screen cases from the portal and look for anything that I thought the lawyers would be interested in/ specialized in. It was…scary how much crime actually takes place in a city. And no one ever hears about it because journalists don’t get wind of it. Sex trafficking cases were not very common, as traffickers are usually not caught, but in all the cases I came across, they used dating apps to lure women. One case I came across, a 19 year old girl met a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:44 AM
11

Honestly, I just think sex is incredibly intimate, and I don’t want to have sex with someone I don’t love. Doesn’t mean that I have a low sex drive, just that I consider my body sacred. Not to mention, no man has ever satisfied a woman in a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:01 AM
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He’s probably the same guy that says women are “princesses” or spoiled or something, and that men are OpPrEsSeD because they have to do everything 🙄 Always remember, you should never give a fuck about a mans opinion, because with all their mental gymnastics, they always come to the same conclusion: ITS ALWAYS THE WOMANS FAULT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:53 PM
87

So true. As a cat person myself, I find that cat people tend to respect that their cat is an individual, and have no problem leaving the cat alone if they don’t feel like socializing. It’s a major red flag if a guy gets pissed because my cat left or retaliated when he tried to force an interaction. No joke, I dated a dude who held a grudge because the first time he saw my cat, she bit him because he kept petting her roughly. For months after she was always affectionate towards him, but he refuse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:53 AM
137

Cooking is a life skill. If you live off McDicks and ramen, you aren’t an adult. Imagine waiting for a woman to come along to save you from malnutrition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:40 AM
162

I walk 10-20km everyday, and I hike on weekends. I do not want to be alone in the woods with some rando.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:37 AM
3

Good call on having an account specifically for FDS. Just a couple days ago, I got a “wellness check” from Reddit. Some scrotes lame idea of “sticking it to me” I guess. I’ve gotten death threats, and a slew of dudes all following me now. Hey guys 👋. I promptly block anyone trying to message me or follow me. They’re probably stalking so they can screen grab something “outrageous” I’ll say and whine about it on some other subreddit. But I don’t care. Once you feel the confidence this subreddit ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:35 AM
4

Haha, I saw this today in a certain subreddit that is notorious for incel-y posts. You better believe I upvoted it, and dropped an FDS inspired comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:01 AM
13

I’m not anti capitalist by any means, but I saw no lies in this post. It really boils down to a simple scrote philosophy: it’s always the woman’s fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:48 AM
11

Naw he was a fan. And it wasn’t even an important game from my understanding. The opening to the season I believe. I don’t like sports, but his dad recently died, so I read Wayne Gretzky’s eulogy to his dad, and when he said that story as a “funny” anecdote about his dad, I cringed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:37 PM
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Whenever you forget your worth, and start to feel yourself trying to prove yourself to a man, remember, women choose the mate. This is how it is in all of nature. Even MGTOW and Incel’s acknowledge this, and it drives them NUTS. Let them be mad. Relationships are higher stakes for women. Females in the animal kingdom risk their lives in childbirth, females are the ones who have to provide for their babies, and females are the ones who have to protect their offspring with their life. Males bust a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:38 AM
21

For real. Love languages was invented to train women to accept less from men. Healthy relationships require it all, not just one language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:27 AM
17

I did the test and my “love language” is gifts. Any dude tries to ask me what my love language is, I’m telling him, I don’t give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:54 AM
30

Ok, let’s play! 🚩Whenever he fucked up, he told you it wasn’t his fault, because you never “cOmUnIcAtEd” that’s what you wanted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:46 AM
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You know what else she could do if she’s looking for companionship, someone to do things with, and help around the house? Find a man who actually does that stuff. Or date a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:38 AM
17

Hope she gave him a gold star for being such a big boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:34 AM
13

Can confirm. Not to mention it will attract hunting or fishing bros. What’s worse than a dick pic? Having some dude sending you a pic of him smiling next to a bloody deer carcass 🤢 I love dropping that I’m vegan to those dudes, and letting the unmatches ensue 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:31 AM
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Same here. Not to mention that gaming dudes tend to start “gate keeping” about what games you’re into, and your skill level, and will invariably try to get you into the games THEY play. Even though gaming is something I enjoy, I’m actively looking for someone who isn’t into it because of this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:27 AM
15

I’m going to be honest, I’ve never really gotten any negative responses when mentioning I like to cook on OLD. The only, I guess, “questionable” response I’ve gotten is “what’s your best dish,” and I usually follow it up by telling them and asking the same question back. Most guys come back going into detail about their special way of cooking something (green flag), and the one guy I got who said he doesn’t really cook/ isn’t a very good cook, I came back with “oh, so you haven’t been living on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:22 AM
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One huge tip I’d give as well is, don’t be negative in your profile or make sweeping statements like “if you don’t pay on the first date, keep it moving.” I know that’s what we’re all looking for, but it comes off as bitter, and that you’re still pissed off about another guy. Even HVM will be turned off. Instead, try to frame your wants in a positive light. For example, “I’m a woman who’s looking for a kind and generous man.” You aren’t specifically telling men you expect them to buy you dinner,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:07 AM
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YES GIRL!! It’s so frustrating when people treat your creative ability like a trade. I can’t just “whip up” a quick piece of art to your specifications. It’s not like I’m building you a custom cabinet or something. Art is personal, and inspiration can be a fickle thing. You follow where your heart takes you. I don’t give a shit about you, and it’s going to show when I try to paint your dumb face on my canvas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:35 AM
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When I hear about the fetishization of Asian women, particularly petite Asian women, it makes me hella depressed. Men are into it, because of the stereotype of Asian women being pure, docile, submissive, and subservient. And it’s such a common fetish for men. I’m sorry for all the shit you must put up with from all the low values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:24 AM
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My moms ex bf brought my grandma a gift basket with all her favourite snacks (which he remembered from the stories she told of her), a bouquet of roses, and treated everyone to dinner, the first time he met her. And he focused all of his energy on getting to know my grandma, and really charmed the pants off her. He also was very upfront with my mom that his intentions were to marry her, and that he needed her mother’s approval if it was ever going to work. Men who are serious about you, understa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:05 AM
26

Wayne Gretzky’s father did the same. Missed the birth of his first child (Wayne) for a hockey game 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:23 PM
6

She was downplaying and defending him in the comments…but I’ve never hoped for something to be fake more than now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:06 PM
5

I’ll just speak for myself and from my own experience, but I have a good friend that has pick me tendencies. She’s really into casual hookups, and has unsatisfying sex, but she also has no feelings for these dudes, and is usually the one ghosting them. However, she also says she never wants to get married or have children because she enjoys her single life and never wants a man to tell her what to do. She also knows how I feel about dating and my approach to it, and respects my opinion. It works…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:11 PM
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Yes! I remember that post! And this girl said in a comment that she cries during sex a lot from the “consensual” pain. If they aren’t the same couple, it’s chilling to think there are multiple men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:53 PM
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Nope, I’m glad you asked. It made me pause and think, hold up, I should probably look more into this. That’s when I looked into her post history more, and it just made me more sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:30 PM
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Looks like she made a throwaway account for this post. Posted the exact same thing in three different subreddits asking for help. No other history. On the subreddit where she got the biggest response, she’s been defending him in the comments. Says that they have a safe word, and that he always immediately stops when she says it and gives her aftercare. She also says that he hurts her a lot during sex, but that it’s ok because it’s consensual. Says that she cries a lot usually when they have sex,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:48 PM
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No ages shown unfortunately, but if I had to guess, she sounds young and naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:29 PM
19

How about ✨no✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:23 AM
16

“Be strong lil buddy” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:20 AM
2

Lmaoooo 😂 Touch my hands get kicked in the glands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:14 AM
22

Eeeehhh, I had an ex who constantly joked about how small his penis was and he had a slightly lower than average penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:00 AM
2

Not that it matters, but to all the male lurkers, I’ll have you know I’m ✨stunning✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:56 AM
6

These bros ain’t loyal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:52 AM
53

Can you imagine the disgust and outrage in the comments if the roles were reversed and some chick dropped her pants and squatted down and wiped her vag with a paper towel? Those same dudes laughing at this would NOT find it funny or cute, they’d probably say she was mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:08 AM
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Reason 5 million of why having an Only Fans isn’t empowering: you can’t control who sees your naked body, and if all your creepy ex’s want to subscribe and jack it to your content, well tough shit, ain’t nothing you can do about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:54 PM
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I love Dr. Kirk Honda, but just keep in mind he doesn’t preach FDS principles. Still enjoy his content, by all means, there’s still a lot of value in it . But he’s a therapist, and therapists generally believe in validating and giving empathy to everyone, even if they’re a horrible human, and generally believe in a lot of liberal feminism. For example, on a recent video he went on a long rant about how there is nothing wrong with age gap relationships, and said people who assume that women are b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:51 PM
5

Man, and I thought male guests who wore polo shirts to weddings were disrespectful...the bar is in earths crust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:40 PM
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Dude, if my partner ever came to me and asked me to wash more because it was causing him some kind of infection over and over, I would be MORTIFIED. I would never have sex again without taking a shower first, and aggressively scrubbing myself. Like, I wouldn’t even have to like the guy, that’s just absolutely embarrassing. The fact that the guy who claimed to love her didn’t give a fuck just further proves that men reaaaaaaally have the fucking audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:37 PM
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YEEEESSSS! Upvote, upvote, upvote! Don’t let the gold diggers take you down! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:32 PM
2

Yeah, I have libfem friend who I desperately want to introduce to this sub, but I know it won’t go over well. Her mother died when she was young, and her NVM father is her only family member. She sleeps with men all the time on OLD, who she admits the sex isn’t even satisfying. In fact she has sex with guys repeatedly who she doesn’t even like, and hates the sex, but continues because she “feels bad for them.” I gently try to instill FDS principles. She concedes that I’m right, but continues bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:36 PM
26

To be fair, fouseytube and other prank channels are usually fake as hell. I know there was a trend where these pranksters would ask out a woman on the street, she’d reject him, and then he’d get into his nearby (rented) expensive car. Then all of a sudden the woman would be interested and would want to go out with him, cue “sick burn” from the prankster about gold diggers, as he drove away into the sunset. It was so obviously scripted, but all the young boys in the comments ate it up. So I’d tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:50 PM
1

Great, now I have a new reason to fear surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:41 PM
7

I’m sorry. Your husband forced you to drop out? Right when you were about to graduate? I hope this is an ex-husband, because girl, that is seriously fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:07 AM
19

What. The. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:30 AM
52

I love me some South Park, but I think they get a bit obsessed with making sure they poke fun at everyone equally. They’ve been accused by both liberals and conservatives of being partial to a particular party or ideology, so I get the sense they consciously try to prove they don’t play favourites. They were pointing their jokes at QAnon conspiracy theorists, who are in fact right wing, and centre their conspiracies around Trump being plotted against, and Trump vanquishing the elites targeting h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:23 AM
6

Of course the men in the comments completely missed the point. She’s not upset because he doesn’t take pictures of her. She mentions that he never does this with her to show that his behaviour in this situation is an anomaly. In short, he’s not someone that goes around offering to take people’s picture all the time. She’s only ever seen him OFFER to take pictures in this moment of his female cousin in a bikini. She doesn’t say she’s jealous. She says she’s “weirded out,” and worried about coming…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:32 AM
9

Sounds like the mom was horrified by the age gap. I hope she sits her down and explains to her why they are so wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:15 AM
50

Me too. Luckily, from my experience I’ve met some amazing girls on online gaming. But I know what you mean about the gate keeping in gaming causing girls to try and “prove” themselves to guys. Thankfully even in my pick me days, I never entertained men online who try and grill you about “what games do you play?” or “you aren’t a REAL gamer if you play x” or “what rank are you?” or my favourite “you only play games to get guys.” It’s because on the whole, most women aren’t interested in gaming on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:03 AM
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I like to game. But I never advertise that I’m a gamer. On OLD, neck beards will flood your inbox with “can you be my anime wifu 🥺uwu?” Sir, you’re 30. I stopped using my mic when I play competitive games, because I’m tired of getting either a) “omg! A GIIRRLLLL” or b) “kll yourself you fcking wh*re!” I actually recently formed an all girl team on one of my games, and it is the most wholesome and relaxing gaming experiences I’ve ever had. Nothing but supportive and sportsmanlike behaviour. No ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:42 AM
35

I see what you did there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:26 AM
20

What I find crazy is that there is this sentiment that I see from men online that if you say you love your partner too much it “cheapens” the word. And if you want your partner to say it more, than you are insecure in your relationship and need constant validation. I tell my mom I love her all the time. Am I cheapening the word? I tell my cat I love her all the time. Am I insecure and in need of validation? Here’s a wild idea, maybe if saying “I love you” to your partner everyday annoys you, you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:20 AM
10

Reminds me of that streamer a few months ago who was streaming with his baby son in his lap. He was playing some competitive game and was screaming at the screen. Baby son starts crying because, duh, he’s scared. He aggressively shoves him onto another chair and screams at the top of his lungs, inches from his face to “SHUT THE FUCK UP!” Luckily he was immediately banned from Twitch, but I doubt he was also immediately put in prison. He knew he was being filmed. Imagine what he does when the cam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:08 AM
18

They did. Conservative YouTube was melting down last year because of some hashtag on Father’s Day. The crux of it was single moms saying that they celebrated Mother’s Day AND Father’s Day because they have to act as both mother and father to their children. Cue “feminists are ruining the nuclear family,” and “fathers are second class citizens in parenting.” Not a single peep of, “hey, why do women have to act as fathers? Where are the men?” Never occurred to them that maybe men aren’t showing up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:53 AM
42

I’m sorry, who exactly is baby trapping who now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:28 AM
21

Let me guess, lurkers on this sub will conveniently skip this post, but will post about how we’re evil bitches because someone said they want a man with a big dick 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:27 AM
86

Further proof that men see sex as something you do TO someone and not something you do WITH someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:00 AM
20

I was reading about Mother’s Day in Edwardian times, and how it was considered one of the most important holidays of the year. Adult children, who would have almost no days off the rest of the year, would take Mother’s Day off, and travel hours to spend the day with their mother. After Christmas and Easter, Mother’s Day was the most popular holiday. What’s his excuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:27 AM
9

Reminds me of another post I saw of a woman who was beaten by her husband, and rather than try and hide her bruises, decided to go downstairs and eat breakfast with her in laws. They flipped out on him, but then followed it up by saying “you are so lucky she’s from your culture, or she would have called the cops.” Where the hell does this mentality come from that it’s permissible to abuse women from your own culture, but that women outside your race are more likely to get you in trouble, so you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:14 AM
6

As low value as my father is, he always makes a big deal out of Mother’s Day. Even though they’re divorced, he always tells her what an amazing mom she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:39 AM
17

“What if I told you...” I read that in Morpheus’ voice. FDS really does feel like breaking out of the matrix sometimes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:45 AM
29

There is a porn subreddit on here that is specifically for women who are in pain during anal. It has 200,000 followers. Truly disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:39 AM
2

Do we...do we have the same dad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:34 AM
32

Poor girl. She probably thought some rando peasant was trying to get at her and she thought “get the fuck off me dude, everyone’s watching and the king has a habit of killing his wives.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:23 AM
3

I don’t know about the rest of you, but as unimpressed as I am with most men, I don’t “treat them like trash.” If I don’t have anything nice to say to a person, I don’t say anything at all. And that’s what I do with men I don’t like, I just don’t talk to them. My time is too valuable, and I’m too tired to be starting beef with some dude I don’t give a shit about. Block, delete, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:13 AM
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Spent an hour on a walk picking wild flowers to surprise him with when he got home, only for him to say it was “really weird” that I did that. Also, continued to sleep with him after he said “your boobs are a solid 8/10.” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:05 AM
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So the men and women’s barracks are separate, and there’s usually only one (sometimes two) so for the most part the women’s unit is a pretty tight knit group. However, she had one woman in her unit who was an absolute bully to the other women (who should have known better because she was 10 years older than most of the women there). My sister is vegan, and basic training doesn’t have many options for dietary restrictions. So my sister just ate fries and broccoli at every single meal. This lady n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:18 AM
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As my sister said after she completed basic training: “half the dudes there are cosplaying as their favourite Call of Duty character. Others didn’t take high school seriously, and military was their only option. A small sliver are actually educated and there for highly technical jobs (eg. Doctor). And at least one dude every year is kicked out for poor trigger discipline. And there’s always one absolute bitch in the female unit who “isn’t like other girls”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:50 AM
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Ok, but you don’t need a penis to give good head, and women give oral twice as much as men do. And the oral men give is usually short, and of poor quality, but they chalk it up to the female orgasm being such an eNiGmA. Boy, I can make myself cum every damn time I want to in 5 minutes, you just don’t give a shit about your partners pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:05 PM
60

Oof. Girl. That was not the “witch” power move you thought it was. He came over because you were ambiguous about needing to talk to him about something serious, and his head was spinning thinking about the possibilities (pregnancy, STDs). All you did was make yourself seem like the crazy ex non-girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:42 AM
26

Not to mention slutty men have incredibly small penis’s. Too much sex means the woman’s strong vaginal muscles crush and whittle down a man’s dick over time. Everyone deserves their big dicked virgin King! Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:25 AM
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“What should I do next?” Cue all the men in the comments telling her to just “cOmMuNIcAtE” that she doesn’t want to be stealthed, and that next time she needs to be more clear about not wanting to get pregnant. And her posting an update about how her poor boyfriend was offended she doesn’t want to have his baby. GIRL, GET OFF REDDIT AND RUUUUUUN!! RUN LIKE THE WIIIIINDD!! 🏃‍♀️💨 💨 💨 💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:13 AM
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I agree. I think turning 18, aka “legal” is overwhelming for young female celebrities. I imagine it would be like having a target on your back. All of a sudden it’s “ok”for all these older men to be lusting after you, and they are fighting amongst each other tooth and nail to be your first sexual encounter. I imagine it can feel overwhelming, but with no experience you just assume it must be normal, and that sexuality is what separates girls from women. You feel like the same person as a legal a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:02 AM
97

I remember when I was a teenager, I thought a guy spanking during sex was really taboo and kinky. God help this generation of teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:37 AM
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I remember another celebrity talked about getting lunch with Mathew Perry, and he paid for the both of them and left a huge tip. But Mathew Perry tried to stop him from leaving such a huge tip and was adamantly trying to convince him it “wasn’t necessary” and was being weird about it and not dropping it. So I’m not exactly surprised he turned to the scrote side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:27 AM
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I’m getting the feeling that she’s going the child star route, and this photo shoot is her way of getting people to see she’s grown up. I get that she would want to be respected as an adult woman, but it bums me out that the way to do that for so many girls is through flaunting their sexuality. I know that part of the reason Billie Eilish always wears baggy clothes is because she was tired of being sexualized by creepy men growing up, and tired of people criticizing her weight and body all the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:20 AM
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This thread is fascinating. I thought I was the only one who had a fucking gross ex getting off on tears. I remember one time, we had an argument, followed by an hours long conversation, that left me tired and emotionally raw. We hugged it out on my bed and he immediately laid me down and started fucking me. I froze, and was confused and started silently crying again. He noticed, immediately stopped and sheepishly apologized. Back then I didn’t express myself, but all I could think of for the ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:51 AM
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I don’t think promiscuity is even empowering for men. They’re conditioned by society to “spread their seed” and shove the feelings down when they feel hollow after another meaningless fling. They call it “post nut clarity,” I call it “your conscience screaming at you to be a better person.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:40 AM
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The amount of times I’ve just been friendly to a guy, and he misinterpreted it as me liking him or hitting on him is insane. It’s because they’re only nice to a girl if they’re attracted to her, so they can’t understand why a girl would be nice unless she likes the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:52 AM
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Fat girl, and can relate. I can’t believe I’m going to say this, but the one thing pick up artists do that is somewhat decent (albeit from a place of manipulation) is to have a wingman. I’m not naive, and I realize when a guy is making conversation with me so he can distract me from my friend. I keep an eye on my friend at all times, and we have a signal if she wants to be bailed out. But from my perspective, having someone trying to make friendly small talk with you is a lot better than the cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:47 AM
58

It kind of makes sense though. The witch turns the prince into a monster so he knows how it feels to be treated horribly for your looks. No one in the world is going to be attracted to him, so he has to rely solely on his “inner beauty” if you will, which he showed himself to be a cold and cruel person. Belle just happens to be an “opportunity” for him to make her fall in love, and later down the line he realizes how horrible he is to keep her prisoner, and releases her, fully expecting that he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:31 AM
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I tried to find a resource online, but I can’t find anything specific on the internet. I learned this in college from a history course I took on economics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:19 AM
71

What Amy did was pretty evil...but I’ll be damned if Nick isn’t one of the most unsympathetic victims ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:13 AM
168

So many men I knew had a vitriolic hate of Skylar from Breaking Bad. A woman who saved her husbands ass from jail, smartly laundered his money, and wanted her husband to stop cooking meth so the family could stay out of danger and live a legitimate life. She is loyal to her husband, but also resents the situation he has put them in. So many men I knew said she was ungrateful, emasculating, arrogant, and “just annoying”. She’s trying to look out for the family, and doesn’t want her husband, and/o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:57 AM
80

The word “economics” in Greek means “home accounts.” In ancient Greece, many scholars wrote books about the importance of the discipline of economics, which at the time meant the running of the home. This was a woman’s domain, and their were many guides on how to run a successful household. This included the managing of servants, managing and contributing to the production of goods for personal use and for sale at market, raising as well as giving children an education, running the accounts of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:31 AM
23

“Selling your body for food is empowering!” Liberal feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:11 AM
169

He had an investigation opened into him years back for the same thing. The head detective felt that he was remorseful, and his parents said they’d take him to therapy, so the cop closed the investigation. They took him to some religious camp, and surprise surprise, he kept doing the same shit. He’s the golden child of the Duggar clan, the parents dote on him despite his repeated perverted crimes. Yet, they disown one of their daughters because she criticized them for the lack of education they g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:21 PM
198

Exactly. I go out to eat with my friends all the time. Not only do I pay for myself, I’ll pay for my friends as well. It’s not a free meal if I feel like barfing it all up after the date 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:02 PM
13

How the fuck do you “iNsPirE” a man to be better? You know damn well if a woman told him specifically what he could be doing to be “better” he’d resent it. He’d say she’s a nag, and that she thinks he’s not good enough. So what he REALLY wants, is for you to constantly inflate his ego so he feels he can do the things he’s not motivated to do on his own. Boy, bye, I’m already busy working on myself, I don’t have time for a full time project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:48 PM
9

My sister is the smartest AND funniest person I know. She’s in a male dominated career, and men don’t cross her, because she has a reputation as the best roaster on her team. Sometimes some of the guys will come up to her and ask to be roasted during slow periods, and will be howling with laughter. The guys with fragile egos usually steer clear. But most people don’t know this about her because she’s a pretty shy and reserved person around people she doesn’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:24 PM
1

If you’re into dirty talk, I would recommend r/audiogonewild. People upload scenarios and first person sexy stories. You can filter by audio of men for women (or women to women). Give it a try if it’s something you might be into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:14 AM
52

Lol, I spoke to my parents about whether they’d babysit for me if I ever had children, and I got a huge hell no. They’re amazing parents, but they are over childhood and want to do adult things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:49 PM
12

Yes. People generally blame his father who was a known sexist, but he abandoned his family when he was 6. It doesn’t account for all those other years. I find it interesting that so many mass killers will have fathers who abandoned them, but end up directing their anger towards women, when it was the mother who stayed and took responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:42 PM
12

Oh my god what the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:27 AM
7

I mean, my parents never gave me a cell phone. If I wanted one, I had to work and pay for it myself. That would be a huge help right there. He won’t be on his phone until he’s at least 16. You could have a family computer with child locked phrases and such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:24 AM
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Sorry, not to disparage your husband because he sounds great, but I started laughing at myself reading your post. I caught myself oohing and aahing reading about the healthy behaviours of your husband, and it made me realize how starved we are for some basic fucking respect lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:21 AM
17

“If a woman wants a high value man, she must herself be a high value woman.” Yes, that’s exactly what FDS preaches. Literally so many posts encouraging women to level up, and her take away is that we say “take it or leave it”. Also saying we’re all cat ladies isn’t the sick burn she thinks it is, literally anything is better than living your days out with a LVM energy vampire. If she wants to lower her standards, she’ll find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:16 AM
19

Very true. I’ve had more women open doors for me in my lifetime than men, and opening a door for a woman is supposed to be the hallmark of gentlemanly behaviour 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:03 AM
63

Absolutely this. I saw a video of two men reacting to a video of a swarm of men sexually harassing a woman in the U.S trying to buy gas. It all started out well, they were calling out the vile behaviour of the men. But then one asked the other, would you step in and say or do something if you saw this in real life, and without skipping a beat he said absolutely not. He said, I have no idea whether these men have a gun, or will beat me up, and besides, they aren’t actually hurting the woman, just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:52 AM
29

Oh my god! I haven’t even heard of this, I’m definitely going to look it up. Absolute savages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:44 AM
22

Oh my god, I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better. It may seem bleak, but all the shitty men in this world brought all of us amazing ladies together on this sub. So there’s that at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:42 AM
20

Your dad knew what was up. Sounds like the space away really helped clear your head. Proud of you sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:02 PM
29

I’m glad you did post this! Work is such a common excuse for men. I had an ex who would never make firm plans more than a couple weeks in advance because his work schedules were made up every 2 weeks. He never spent a single holiday with me, because he made two times more money on a holiday. Later I found out he was able to book off his friends bachelor party months in advance, and didn’t book off my birthday. He would always say, “I’m working so much to earn and save for our future together.” A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:04 PM
4

Thanks, I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:19 PM
74

Even today. There are remarkable women who live today, and oftentimes it takes a female journalist to recognize her greatness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:18 PM
108

The mental gymnastics this man must be doing. The fact that a heavily pregnant woman was sexually assaulted is probably making his monkey brain implode. You mean she wasn’t some drunk, slutty looking young woman, who was obviously asking for it? She was a mother to be, with a giant belly, waddling along? She obviously contributed to it in some way, and I’m not going to explain how. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:08 PM
44

I’m trying to make “Darren” happen. Anytime a guy has an emotional outburst, tantrum, or over the top entitled behaviour, I call him a Darren.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:59 PM
330

One thing you can count on, like the rain in the Amazon, is that men will always inevitably, tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:56 PM
1

When will men realize that them wanting to fuck us is not a compliment. They will literally fuck a grapefruit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:49 PM
9

Speaking in the third person is his narcissistic way of trying to distance himself from his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:35 PM
21

I did the exact same thing when I broke up with my last ex. I thought I was going to have a huge list of pros and a tiny list of cons. Nope. Turns out, I got tired writing all the cons down, and had to come back to it the next day. Needless to say, it was a huge wake up call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:31 PM
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Her perspective: “He has so much potential I can help him realize. I can change him into a better man!” His perspective: “Oh my god, since we got together all she does is nag, nag, nag. She wants to change me, but she doesn’t get that Friday, Saturday, Sunday, is for hot pockets and video games with the boys.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:27 PM
45

Oh noooo he had to explain to his girlfriend that he’s the alpha and she’s the beta, but she just wasn’t getting it. How alpha of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:12 PM
8

I loved the podcast. It made everything we talk about on here all the more real. The real voices, of real women made me feel like I’m not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:59 PM
3

I express my sexuality behind closed doors because my sexuality isn’t a personality trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:32 AM
10

My kink is being respected and loved by a man who listens to my wants and needs. I think my kink is too niche, I can’t even find a guy who’s into it on fetlife!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:23 AM
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Oh god, I’m getting so turned on just thinking about a man who willingly does his share of domestic chores...without me having to ask. It’s so hard to find a man who shares in my kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:19 AM
38

Why is a woman responsible for a man cheating? Let’s say, for arguments sake, that the man is doing everything in his power to make the relationship great, and the woman wants nothing to do with the man, and it’s the woman who is the source of all the problems. STILL not her fault if he cheats, because it’s his responsibility to breakup and leave. But of course, its never this situation is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:54 PM
2

I love it, but the only downside is that it only has 2 settings. The highest setting is almost painful to me, and ideally I’d like to slowly increase the intensity, but it never fails to give me an orgasm. Also, it’s the highest durability toy I’ve ever owned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:32 PM
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Just enjoy it sis, that’s awesome! This is definitely a green flag! We have it drilled in our heads as followers of FDS to always vet, vet, vet, that sometimes we forget to enjoy ourselves when things go right. As long as we don’t let one gesture or one positive trait cloud our judgement if he is showing a pattern of low value behaviour, then it’s fine to bask in the glow of your HVM. After all, this whole approach to dating is so we can weed out the LVM, and find the diamond in the rough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:29 PM
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But why didn’t you cOmMunIcATe though? Didn’t anyone ever teach you that there is no reason under the sun, including sexual harassment, to just ghost someone like that? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:19 PM
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Reminds me of my dad. All through my parents’ marriage, he’d always ask my mom what her favourite flowers were. She loved sunflowers, daffodils, and carnations. What did he give her every single time? A dozen red roses. His logic? They are the most expensive, so they are better. He did the same with jewelry. Would buy her this insanely expensive jewelry for her birthday or Valentine’s Day. Guess who doesn’t wear jewelry? My mom. Then he’d complain that she never wore the jewelry he got her. I’m …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:46 AM
42

I think we all have a deep level of love and care for all women here, which is why we are anti sex work. It’s very rare that women in this line of work aren’t desperate for the money, and even rarer still that women who may love it today, won’t regret it down the line. Even if a ex worker spends her entire career avoiding violence and disease, it is still a career of repeated rape, because she has sex with men she would never want or choose under normal conditions. Once she has accepted money fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:32 AM
49

On the one hand, being single and dying alone. On the other hand, being tied to a vampire that sucks all your energy, time, money, and happiness. Oh no, what a decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:03 AM
9

Is the love and sex from your wife not enough? You need validation from other men that your wife is great in order to feel secure in your relationship and happy with your chosen partner? If that’s not misogyny, I don’t know what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:24 AM
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There is something inherently unattractive about a man who only values beauty and fertility. It’s obviously sexist and a medieval mentality, but furthermore, it tells me that the man lacks any emotional or spiritual depth. Like, really dude? You have a short, finite number of years to walk this earth, don’t you want a strong, caring, kind, moral, intelligent, capable, empathetic person to walk by your side and be in your corner? Don’t you want someone you have a deep bond and soul connection wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:47 AM
21

That response is just chefs kiss 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:33 AM
6

I literally just saw this on YouTube and was about to post this here! You beat me to the punch, but now I don’t have to do the work! It was a great watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:26 AM
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As depressing as this, at least he is an educator, and he is motivated to teach the next generation of men about rape culture and consent. Whether it will be enough to counteract the messaging of our society...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:56 AM
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For some reason they can’t just leave us alone to be “bitter bitches” on our own over here. If we’re so crazy, why are they so pressed to infiltrate a woman’s only subreddit to tell us why we’re wrong? People don’t feel the need to break into a mental ward and tell the patients all their delusions are wrong. It’s because we’re right, and they are so scared that we’re going to “infect” other women with our mindset, and their low effort manipulation tactics aren’t going to get them the sex on tap …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:19 AM
23

The walk in the field date will go down in FDS history. Never forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:21 PM
12

Give him a gold for the mental gymnastics he achieved 🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:50 PM
3

You’d think they’d feel embarrassed that a woman is calling out their creepy leering on camera like that, but nope. They just continue to stand there. And stare. It’s some creepy horror movie shit right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:21 AM
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This is absolute bull shit. Black Lives Matter protests were allowed to take place despite COVID restrictions, but when a woman is killed by a police officer it’s a no go? Make it make sense, they don’t get to pick and choose which protests are “allowed”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:13 AM
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This reminds me of the recent Yorkshire Ripper doc on Netflix. A serial killer was killing women for years, and when the police couldn’t catch him, they told women they should not be walking alone at night, women protested by marching at night. They all had signs like “curfew for men” and “men are the problem”. It actually increased harassment of women, because when women refused strange men’s offers to walk them home at night, men would berate them for refusing and say they were asking for it b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:09 AM
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Yeah, it’s illegal in Canada but you can still get bear spray at Canadian tire. It’s considered a prohibited weapon, so if you’re caught with it for the purpose of personal defence you could be arrested. But you bet my ass I have some even though I live in a big city. If anyone bothers me about it, I camp on the weekends. I’m more likely to get attacked by a man than mauled by a bear, but you’re not allowed to protect yourself from a man, even though most men pose the same level of threat to a w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:55 AM
5

Not all men are murderers. But all murderers are men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:38 AM
17

I watch a lot of true crime, and one thing I find interesting is that men are always saying “why is it that the overwhelming majority of true crime watchers are women? I don’t get it.” My response is always this “for the same reason people watch horror movies. Except the monsters are real, and they don’t have horns and fangs, they look like every other guy. Walking among us. Women watch, because they are looking for any kind of slip ups, or signs the woman ignored, so the same doesn’t happen to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:35 AM
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“The elders” sounds like it is possibly Jehovah’s Witness. I’ve heard countless stories of men coming out about the complete control and subjugation they were forced to bare, I can only imagine what it is like for women in this cult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:12 AM
2

Girl, wait until you hear about Picasso. He wins the prize for NVM artists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:53 AM
5

Just an FYI, you didn’t black out his name or picture on the second slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:32 AM
5

I’d be so insulted. Even a prostitute charges at least a couple hundred dollars per hour. A couple bucks per date is a damn cheap date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:22 AM
25

Honestly, I’m so over politics. I feel politically homeless, so all I want in a partner is someone who isn’t on the 24 hour news cycle grind. It’s not good for your mind or your soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:59 AM
83

I will never understand that. Atheists: We don’t believe in the bible. Christians: Here’s what the bible says about that. I’ve created citations of every time the bible mentions it’s real. Atheists: ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:51 AM
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I can’t with the crazed look on her face.😂 It’s like she’s finally put all the pieces of the misogynistic puzzle together, and her head is exploding from all the bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:39 AM
51

Men who walk way ahead of you without a care for you is LVM behaviour. My father always taught me that a gentleman (HVM) walks closest to the street, so any splashes, dangerous cars, or weirdos talking from their cars can be protected by the man. It’s an old Victorian rule, but my father always took the splashes for me, and I appreciate the little things like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:34 AM
44

Backpage was taken down in my country due to all the human trafficking. Of course sex workers complained and lobbied the government because it took away one of their main income sources, but they were denied. It was spun in the media of “oh no! Think of the poor sex workers! How will they live? How will they remain safe?” I have no empathy for women who would advertise on a platform that extorts others, and would knowingly bring back the exploitation of women and children so they can continue to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:02 PM
353

A little wisdom from Ms. Weaver: “When you are young, there’s so much that you can’t take in. It’s pouring over you like a waterfall. When you’re older, it’s less intense, but you are able to reach out and drink it. I love being older.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:40 PM
305

All the comments, probably: “wow he was just asking, why you got to be so rude about it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:54 AM
55

I love Cody and Noel. I don’t know if they’re always FDS, but they never fail to make me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:39 AM
21

It’s ok, I make lamb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:27 AM
8

I remember my cousin went to a catholic school, and the mandatory female uniform required only skirts. It was reformed because the government required that girls have the option to wear pants. Well surprise, surprise, every girl started wearing pants, and pretty much no skirts. It’s almost like forcing girls to walk around in -10 degree weather with bare legs so that men would find them attractive was really fucking oppressive or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:30 PM
6

My great great grandma was a suffragette and a model. Must have made men hysterical that she didn’t fit into the “old, ugly suffragette” stereotype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:06 PM
1

Sounds trashy as hell. OH WAIT! She’s polyamorous? Never mind, she’s obviously on a different plane of existence than us insecure mortals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:00 PM
7

Omg noooooo I can’t 😂😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:52 AM
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I think you have internalized the messaging of modern hook up culture. How often have we all heard LVM complain that they pay for a date, and get “nothing” in return (aka no sex)? Not to mention all the games men play so that they only pull out their wallet when they feel that they will be guaranteed sex. You are not a prostitute, nor are you a cheap prostitute at that. Men don’t get to pay for a $15 entree and a glass of wine and are then owed sex. Dating should not objectify women, it should n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:44 AM
79

So, sometimes I’ve noticed guys ask questions about your insecurities not because they are looking for ammunition against you, but because they are doing a manipulation tactic called “forced teaming”. People do it consciously or unconsciously, but the principle is that they ask very intimate questions or share very intimate details about themselves early on in the hopes of forcing intimacy and bonding without all the preamble of getting to know each other. In other words, skipping the process of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:10 AM
32

Bahahaha I love him. He didn’t just accept the “thought experiment” he was like why the bloody hell would someone be paying men to beat their woman?! Let’s go beat his ass and see how he likes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:51 AM
7

Noooooo I can’t 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:30 AM
7

It’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:24 AM
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Man: Insults woman’s intelligence Woman: immediately ends call Man: surprised pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:21 AM
103

This is reminding me of that meme “she wanted me to treat her like a princess, so I married her off to a stranger to strengthen our alliance to Poland.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:17 AM
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If my man doesn’t paint beautiful pictures and nurture baby squirrels back to health, I don’t want him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:44 AM
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I remember Wendy Williams always said “don’t marry a man unless he loves you a little bit more” and I always dismissed her because...c’mon, she was married to a serial cheater and mooch. But now I get where that advice is coming from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:21 AM
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I once knew a guy, and when I said women attempt suicide twice as much as men, his response was that men are “even better at suicide” and that women just did it for attention. Suffice to say I don’t know him anymore, and I don’t care to know how he’s doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:16 AM
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Are we seriously still having to argue this in 2021? Not even prostitutes, but porn stars in an industry that is supposedly “regulated” are constantly speaking out on the oppressiveness of the porn industry and how it has ruined their lives. The life expectancy of porn stars is low, and when they die young of stds, overdose, or suicide, they get to be “remembered” for the rest of time with derogatory porn titles being dominated and degraded by a man. What a legacy to leave behind. If anyone actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:07 AM
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Also, he has allegations of sexual assault. An ex-intern of his photography studio, says that he was constantly sexually harassing her and generally acting like a creep while she shadowed him. She says that when they were alone after work, they sat down to eat, and the last thing she remembers is Ed kissing her before blacking out. She woke up in new surroundings, with different clothes on, and Ed told her they had sex. She doesn’t remember it, but she assumes she was drugged and raped by him. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:39 AM
7

That life can be truly kick ass without a man. In fact it improves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:41 AM
12

Don’t marry a guy that views planning a date as a chore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:34 AM
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“Possum guarding its trash” oh my lord this gave me the biggest belly laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:07 AM
29

Just as an FYI, I have the weekends off AND I like to play video games, but I still have time to spend with friends, family AND boyfriend. This guy is just a lazy SOB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:26 AM
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Yep. Had an ex who absolutely hated holidays. Like everything. Even Christmas and his own birthday. Put no effort into any holiday ever when we were together, and it bummed me out to no end. Now I know this is something I want from a potential partner, and I won’t compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:05 AM
3

Awww she gave him a bouquet of women out of his league, how sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:43 AM
10

It’s moments like these that I wish homosexuality was a choice, because us women are sooooo much better at...well everything lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:32 AM
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Awwww. My mom gets us Valentine’s Day gifts every year too, and writes us heartfelt cards, and I absolutely love it. We had a “gal-entines” day today with my mom and sister, and got all dolled up and had a four course, candle light dinner. My sister has been seeing someone for a while, and she turned down plans to be with us because “she doesn’t do Valentine’s Day with people she’s not official with.” I’m so proud of her! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:21 AM
4

Andrew obviously wins the award for #1 LVM, but Dr. Chiu comes in at a close second. Everything he does is to please his parents and stay on the bankroll. He allowed his parents to demean and treat his wife like a second class citizen in their family for their backwards views about “providing an heir”. They blamed and berated her, and he allowed it. And if that wasn’t already awful, they found out it was actually HIS fertility that was holding them back, AND HE LET HIS WIFE TAKE THE BLAME FOR HI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:18 AM
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I agree, and sometimes I worry that women get a little too heated about LVM on this sub. Not that it isn’t justified, just that being angry and fuming that a guy had the AUDACITY is taking up valuable time, energy, and mental peace of mind that could be spent else where. Getting angry and ranting to everyone in your life who will listen, means you were getting invested way too soon. I like the stoic approach to dating. To go in accepting that the majority of men will not meet your standards. It’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:39 PM
11

“These aren’t people, they’re animals” Amen. I’d like to start a petition for news presenters to refer to garbage like this as “a group of animals assaulted a mother today,” because we need more accurate journalism in this fake news media culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:36 PM
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Wow this post is everything! I remember with an ex I was struggling with my depression. He was always encouraging me to go to therapy, because he had done tons of therapy. I knew I needed to, but I was terrified at the prospect of barring my soul to a stranger. Rather than be supportive and encouraging, he’d berate me for it, and thought my fears were indicative of someone with lower intelligence and critical thinking skills. This coming from a guy who would often brag that he was such a great m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:23 AM
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What....what is a vaginal orgasm? I’ve never felt the inside of my vaginal walls bursting with pleasure, but I’ve definitely felt it on the, ahem, “button”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:37 AM
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Woooow. I never thought of it that way, but this makes SO much sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:59 PM
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Her superpower? Being continually disappointed in bed. 😂😂 The accuracy is TERRIFYING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:37 PM
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I know right? I’ve had this happen to me in bed once, this guy wanted me to tell him when I was cumming. I said sure. I wasn’t cumming, and he was losing steam, and kept saying did you cum? Do you cum? I felt so pressured and just wanted it to be over, so I just faked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:35 PM
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This is SO right, and I’ve never seen this sentiment stated so concisely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:33 PM
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Oh really? I commented early, so I didn’t see those comments. I’m gonna go have a look and laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:00 PM
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Thanks for all this historical background, it’s all very interesting! Creative types can be so genius, yet in their personal lives, such little bitches. I don’t know a lot about writers, but I DO know a lot about artists. Picasso is the biggest LVM of them all. He went through relationship after relationship. He would love them and dedicate paintings to their beauty in the beginning, and then dedicate paintings to them depicting them as monsters, as he grew tired of them and built up resentment.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:42 AM
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Yeah, I liked the quote, but I should have done more research into his personal life. Not only was he not a HVM, he is on another level of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:15 PM
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Big yikes. I was not aware. This is a quote from his book “This Side of Paradise.” It takes some real cognitive dissonance to write about HVM, while being a LVM to the max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:25 PM
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Great. So if a woman does it to you, you can have her charged. Everybody wins, scrotes. (But of course, it’s never happened)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:27 AM
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The only thing I disagree with, is the “I take responsibility for my actions” line. Taking responsibility involves first, understanding and communicating what was done wrong. Then, taking actions to remedy the wrong, and changing future behaviour. Saying you’re responsible is not the same as taking responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:55 AM
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I remember going on a date with this rich guy who was in banking. He picked me up in a beautiful sports car. He took me to a very exclusive restaurant in the city. He then rented out this dessert place just for the two of us. He opened every door for me, took out every chair, and paid for everything. I wasn’t feeling the conversation with him however, and wasn’t really into him. At the end of the night, he leaned in for a kiss and I said no. I left and went home. Next day he blows up my phone, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:11 AM
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I said this to an ex once. He said “I live a Spartan life”. Lol. Ok boy, you wish 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:32 PM
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Once, while holding my breasts in his hands during sex, my ex said “man I love your tits! A solid 8/10. I stopped and said “only 8/10?” He responded with, “you know, because there’s always room for improvement!” I said “no, I don’t know. There is literally nothing I can do to change the size and shape of my boobs. There is no room for improvement.” Anyway, needless to say sex stopped, and we broke up not long after that. Men who rate women, or any attribute of a woman is a HUGE RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:21 PM
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Haha, I saw this post and I couldn’t wait to see it here on FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:11 PM
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Lmao! LOVE the Witcher reference 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:08 PM
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I’ll be sipping my wine and cackling as I scroll through all the angry posts from men and their fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:06 PM
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Lol I hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:04 PM
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Or in my case, I had repeatedly told him what I liked over the two years we were together, and he either didn’t get it and was just that bad, was lazy, or didn’t care what I wanted. And one of his favourite fantasies was that I had left him, and I could never be satisfied with other men. I always fantasized about him, and would run back into his arms. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:01 PM
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I think the old adage, “play stupid games, win stupid prizes,” applies here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:44 PM
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That’s a scary thought. Don’t you develop object permanence by age 1? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:07 PM
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It’s so strange. As a woman, I can make myself orgasm in a few minutes on a consistent basis. But when I get in bed with a man, he’s never made me orgasm. Hmmmm what could this mean? The only reasonable explanation I can come up with, is that men don’t orgasm. That’s why they don’t know how to please us. I’ll have to study this further to be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:05 PM
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Imagine ruining a relationship because you don’t have basic ass hygiene. Not wanting to brush your teeth seems like a real weird hill to die on. But of course he’s going to go cry to everyone that he doesn’t know why he can’t get a girl friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:52 PM
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I’m a big gamer myself, so maybe my bias is showing, but it’s not inherently bad that someone is a gamer. My last boyfriend was mature and cleaned like I’ve never seen a man clean before (he regularly dusted and waxed his floors?) and took me out to dinner 3 times a week, and out of town dates on the weekends. He was porn sick, like so many men today, so that wasn’t going to work, but he was more attentive to me than a lot of non-gamer/ party guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:01 PM
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I’ve had some pretty unprofessional bosses in the past, but this is BEYOND. I’d feel soooo uncomfortable if a coworker let alone a boss started going into their relationship problems. Don’t entertain these conversations anymore. Keep a journal of all events like this (don’t exaggerate in you journal on what happened, to keep your credibility) and be prepared to go to HR. It’s true, what other people are saying, HR is meant to protect the company. But if he tries something more than just inapprop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:53 PM
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As someone who hates texting, and has a hard time feeling engaged in text conversations, this hits home. I have on my OLD profile where I state that I prefer a phone call. Every time I’ve mentioned wanting to call the other person, I get ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:43 PM
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He must be fun at parties. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:50 PM
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Typical scrote. Men literally don’t think sex is sex unless a penis is involved. That’s why they’re so cocky (pun intended) and aren’t concerned their significant other will leave them for the girl. It’s a tale as old as time, and you’d think they’d get wise....but no, they never do. They go from getting REAL excited, to REAL insecure, once they realize the other woman is pleasing his gf better, and he’s just getting in the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:54 PM
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And of course, he doesn’t talk at all about what HE brings to the table. All I know is that he’s a former child, and I don’t think anyone’s broken it to him that he still is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:28 PM
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LVM Logic: My friend is such a simp for having a wife he loves sooooo much, he’d plan AN ENTIRE DAY of activities for us all. And to top it all off, he wants me to record a 5 SECOND VIDEO of me saying happy birthday. Talk about pUsSy WhiPpEd!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:25 PM
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When someone gives me a compliment on my looks, I usually just say “thanks, my parents made me.” Not always, but men with some basic decency and social skills usually pick up on the fact that I’m not impressed by physical compliments, and look for something else to compliment me on once they know me better. It also turns some LVM off, because it humanizes you and reminds them that you’re someone’s daughter, not just some sexual object. But again, scrotes gonna scrote, so you always have to be vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:11 PM
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Hope you don’t mind, but I showed this text exchange to my dad. The conversation went like this: Dad: Hahaha. Actually, she’s really lucky. Me: How do you figure that? Dad: Well he revealed himself to be a dick right off the bat, so she doesn’t have to waste another second of her time on him. He could have lied to her and strung her along for months. Me: Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:53 PM
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Scrotes are so idiotic though. LVM always conflate a fantasy, with wanting to act it out in real life. I’ve had lots of fantasies in my head that I know for a FACT that I would NEVER want to act out. But scrotes think that you’re “sUpPreSsing YoUr sExuAliTy” if you don’t act on every impulse you have, because they think with their tiny head, not their big head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:59 PM
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Scrotes always get super agro because they can be manipulated so easily at the prospect of getting a little sex, but it doesn’t work AT ALL the other way around lol. You’d think they’d be embarrassed that they stoop to such depravity just to appease their primitive caveman brains because they have “nEeDs”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:03 PM
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I love South Park, but I never considered it to have any FDS messages in it. But now that I think of it, the women and girls in the show are the only sane, rational people in the town, and the men act a mess! Now that I think of it, there is a season where Cartman gets a girl friend named Heidi. They fall head over heels for each other, and in the beginning they are attached at the hip, and Cartman does whatever Heidi says and becomes a different person. After they’ve been with each other for a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:09 AM
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I relate to this so hard. But part of me is terrified to do it, because when I’ve been a lower weight, men pursue me and the creeps come out. Being left alone has been peaceful in a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:37 AM
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That’s a rough looking “36” year old. Does he realize who he’s competing against?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:24 AM
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Awww, they shouldn’t be feeling insecure about their looks....they have SO many other things they should be insecure about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:03 AM
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I’m 27, and I’ve been trying very hard to adopt this mindset. Not gonna lie though, I’m having a hard time bucking societal pressure. Especially when I’m one of the last ones in my family and friend group to be single. It’s weird how I gave 0 fucks in my early 20s whether I was dating a boy or not, but as I’ve gotten older I feel the pressure to “get em before they’re gone!” Especially since men looooove to put us down and say we’re spoiled milk after 30. But FDS deprograms me every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:01 AM
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Give me your thoughts ladies. I always felt better about a first date (for someone you haven’t met yet) that was a coffee date over a dinner date. I’ve dipped out of coffee dates in less than 15 minutes if the guy was weird/ not as advertised. But I’ve been stuck in dinner dates for hours with someone I’ve already written off. If you’re doing OLD, than I feel like coffee date is to do an initial vet of a guy. THEN he can take me out to a nice restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:23 AM
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Beat me to it 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:13 AM
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And men say marriage is a trap for them. Most guys give you the ol’ razzle dazzle when you’re dating, and buy you thoughtful gifts, take you out on nice dates, and go on romantic trips together. Then they marry you and all that goes out the window. Now they get to sit on the couch all day while you cook and clean, and take care of their children, and at night you get to have sex with them, oh boy! Talk about false advertising. And yet marriage is a bad deal for men pfft 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:05 AM
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Just a thought. If you’re in an open relationship, and you can’t talk OPENLY about the different people you’re fucking, then maybe you need to re-evaluate how “progressive” non-monogamy is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:54 PM
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“Interesting.🤔I wonder why she’s giving me such mixed signals? An enigma this one is. She must want me to pursue her harder.” Him, probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:42 PM
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Usually I ignore men in “open relationships,” but the petty part of my brain wants to say “sure! Can I just talk to your girl friend and get her approval first?” Then I can sip my tea and enjoy getting ghosted by the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:34 PM
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Lauren and Cameron from the show “Love is Blind”. Horrible way to find a partner, but the way Cameron looks at her and dotes on her, you can tell he does everything in his power to keep such a catch! They have a YouTube channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:15 PM
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I remember when my dad gave me the talk. He was very awkward about it, but it was surprisingly progressive of him. He told me, if you can’t trust your partner to wear a condom, then you should not be having sex with him. He also said, when you do have sex for the first time, make sure it’s because YOU want to, not because some boy is pressuring you. He said “you deserve to have good sex just as much as any man,” and if you don’t feel comfortable, you aren’t going to enjoy it. He said I needed to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:37 PM
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Why is there always that one Karen at every wedding I go to that somehow finds out who all the single ladies are, and corners them and literally DRAGS them on to the dance floor for the bouquet toss? Last wedding I went to, none of the girls wanted to do it, as we all found it degrading. A gang of bridesmaids and the brides family members cornered the single women and berated them, saying “we’d make the bride cry” if we didn’t participate. Look, Meghan’s a nice girl, but she needs to check herse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:52 AM
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Men: “Don’t get married it’s a bum deal, if you get divorced she’ll take half your stuff.” Women: “Right, so let’s pay for our own stuff, and I’ll keep all my assets, savings, and investments in the event of a divorce. And you’ll do the same. Sign here.” Men: Surprised Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:35 AM
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Men: “Don’t get married it’s a bum deal, if you get divorced she’ll take half your stuff.” Women: “Right, so let’s pay for our own stuff, and I’ll keep all my assets, savings, and investments in the event of a divorce. And you’ll do the same. Sign here.” Men: Surprised Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:35 AM
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Can we start a FDS SEAL team to go rescue “pick me’s” from toxic men? Like, she is a CHILD and this scrote is obviously making porn of her without her consent. And she’s sitting here wondering if SHE did something wrong???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:21 PM
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I just wanted to say, that this sub has given me so much fulfillment, and I have never found like minded women like this. In my real life, I have always been surrounded by pickme’s, and LVM all gaslighting me to believe that I needed to sacrifice my life to have a man. It was starting to get me down. But then I found this sub, and it was like the heavens opened. It gave me the strength to level up, to demand respect, and to be non-compromising on what I need. Even more, it gave me the fortitude …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:05 PM
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I used to love her, but then she has said some wild shitty advice at times. I still watch from time to time, but I use my own judgement when she’s giving advice. Sometimes she’s right, sometimes she’s wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:25 AM
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So he’s basically saying that hot women can “get away” with a bad attitude because men find her attractive and she has sex to offer, but an ugly woman is lower value because men don’t want to have sex with her and she should “know her place in society”. So in his mind, women have nothing to offer a man other than sex? That’s HILARIOUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:00 AM
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Seriously. When I was in high school, girls would make fun of me for having “caveman eyebrows” and I wanted to pluck them to be pencil thin like everyone else. My mom wouldn’t let me, and she said I’d thank her later. Now I constantly get women admiring my “Brooke Shields” brows. I’ll enjoy the compliments for now, but when big brows eventually go out of style again, I will be secure enough to know that my body is fine as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:32 AM
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This is hilarious 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:21 AM
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