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. In the future, please use the report tool if you see someone breaking the rules. It makes our jobs much easier. Thanks! I did report it about an hour before I posted it here, but I understand mods are not perfect and you have a hard job. I'm glad to see the rules were eventually applied equally and fairly :) Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 03:33 AM
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Am I to understand that you are hereby retracting your claim that I have made poor life decisions? Absolutely not. I feel that you are in the situation you are in, and now you must make the best of it. That does not mean I would ever advise anyone else to get into that position. You are in love with a man who will not truly commit to you. Had you vetted him better, you would not be in this position. But you didn't. You jumped into bed with him, fell in love, as we know women often do after sex, …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 03:28 AM
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Thank you, I understand what you are saying. I still feel her strategy is short sighted but like I said, I pointed it out wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 11:17 AM
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I feel that you haven't really answered any of my questions beyond the child part. Ok, you don't want kids. Do you want to own a home? Save for retirement? Purchase vehicles? Etc.? If you get in an accident who will make medical decisions for you? Will you give him your power of attorney so he can? Or do you have plans to have friends fill these roles usually reserved for a spouse? All of these things look small in your 20s and 30s and become very important later in life when your parents are go…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 11:16 AM
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I will not defend my use of the term "dear" in a condescending way anymore. I have apologized to the person I did it to, and it has nothing to do with you. Furhrer the idea that you are upset about it after the way you have spoken to everyone in this thread who disagrees with Whisper is laughable. Further, RPS does not seem to consider disagreeing with the idea women should sleep with men they are very attracted to immediately the "pattern of suspect behavior" that you do.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 10:03 AM
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Well, good. If it's just hyperbole and the woman is actually capable of waiting until she knows the man, then she should do that. It's better strategy for her.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:27 AM
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First of all, I am sorry I was snippy with you. If you felt insulted by the jab, I apologize for that. I could have found a better way to convey that I feel your comments come from... a perspective of youthful optimism that maybe doesn't acknowledge how much more difficult mate acquisition is for women as they age than to make a jab that implied you are naive. Am I to understand you would have me pick option 2? Absolutely not. It sounds like you are happy in the situation you are in, so who am I…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:26 AM
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There's a lot of negative reactions in the comments here, I hope - for their sake- they understand their negative comments are welcome and their critiques important, so they don't think they're taking crazy pills. I appreciate you coming here and weighing in on this. As always, your take is level headed and open minded. It is very hard to believe this, however, when one of my comments was immediately deleted and I was scolded by mods for calling someone 'dear', which I fully admit was snippy and…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:11 AM
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Ok, I won't call anyone 'dear.' Seems like a very small condescension given Whisper is saying people can't read, but I will follow the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 10:40 PM
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Are you going to delete Whisper's comment where he told the other poster I'm beginning to doubt your reading comprehension. Or are the rules just for women around her? Pointing out that she likes Whisper's advice because it validates her past choices is very valid to the discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 10:36 PM
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Do not go through users' posting histories looking for ways to belittle them. I did no such thing! She posted that in this very thread, as proof of her "success" with Whisper's strategy. Pointing out that I don't think that success will be lifelong is very valid if she is using that success as a basis for advising other women to follow her path. Pointing out that she will not be able to get top tier alphas to leave other women for her in her 40s, 50s and 60s is pure fact. Current partner: We met…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 10:34 PM
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And you are in fact, in your thirties and unmarried? With a man who left another woman he was in a committed relationship with because he was more attracted to you? That's sure to work out very well for you. I'm positive you won't be alone in your 40s, 50s and 60s. You're still going to be pulling top tier alphas then :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 09:58 PM
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A are the ones who make her forget all her resolve to say that. The ones she can't say no to. (Tiny group.) This group doesn't exist. It's pure male hamster fantasy to think there is a group of men out there so hot women literally cannot say no to them. Look at any long term study on cheating patterns. Men cheat more than women. This is because women, unlike men, are very capable of saying no even when attracted. Women are not driven by a fundamental, undeniable need for sex like men are. And th…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 09:24 PM
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it's ridiculous. Just as ridiculous as saying he doesn't like free speech laws so he's going to make women stop being attracted to Alpha males. Laws and culture have nothing to do with how sex and relationships work. Those things were coded long, long ago and we cannot change them. TRP is supposed to be about accepting that, and working within that framework.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 09:16 PM
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I think /uWhisper is producing stellar content that does indeed serve women's interests and that we as a sub should be appreciative of his contributions. I'm sure you do, dear. It's a natural tendency to endorse advice that validates our poor life decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 09:14 PM
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It came today! Oh my, it's stunning! I really didn't know a planner could be so beautiful. I can tell I am really going to enjoy using it.
/r/RedPillWives26/04/16 11:59 AM
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Yes what Whisper is trying so hard to push on young women is not even Red Pill! He is saying that because he is upset about the laws Of the land (marriage laws, his point about women ruining the contract) he wants to invalidate natural law. No more will women be the gatekeepers of sex! From now on, men decide when sex and commitment happen..... because of legislation he doesn't like? Good luck with that. Sounds about as likely to happen as a beta bucks guys wife being turned on by his weak behav…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 11:53 AM
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Whisper, you seem to be obsessed with convincing RPW to sleep around more, and I'm beginning to doubt your motives. I agree. He has proved himself invested in the success of men, not women, again and again and should not be allowed to continue abusing this space. He is clearly violating the rule that states men may not give advice intended to advance their own sexual strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 02:39 AM
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Thank you! This is exactly what I was looking for. I went with the Spotty Dotty dalmatian print... So cute! And I'm glad they have the summer-summer ones. Those tend to work a lot better form me than Holiday Season - Holiday Season. Summer is a relaxing time for me to start making serious plans... January is... time to recover from Christmas, lol!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 08:50 AM
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Thanks, Skylar! (and your namesake gets a too-bad rap, btw ;) Haha, yes I get such a kick out of the idea of Skylar White learning to be a RPW :p Heard it here first folks, feminism = your husband will become a drug kingpin, every time. LOL!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 08:46 AM
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That said, fairly often I read on here (or back in the old RPW sub) comments berating/deriding women in their 30s who have yet to marry. Comments are made regularly, both implicity and explicitly, about how it’s tragic to be unmarried at an age like mine, how it's likely “too late.” Sometimes things are said to the contrary, but it can be discouraging. Thank you so much for sharing your story! I've said this before but let me say it again- the reason things look so hard for women in their 30s wh…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/16 10:34 PM
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In this case, Whisper is not an Endorsed RPW contributor, so his contributions should not be considered an official stance of the sub. I understand, thank you. That is good to know.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/16 05:07 AM
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I think it's a bit of a stretch to expect a forum that welcomes both religious and non-religious views to be discussed to cater strictly to only one of those views. Oh yes, of course! Sorry if you felt I was saying the community should change for my religion, I absolutely do not believe that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/16 05:06 AM
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I'm going to make it clear here and now that Whisper's approach is clearly more about asking the questions than it is actionable advice right now, and that as a subreddit we don't have an official position on what he's saying, rather we're welcoming him to continue the discussion so that some answers can be found. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate that. I think I would have more faith in this if he seemed to be listening and adapting his opinion based on what the women in th…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 11:03 PM
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He is saying in order to get a relationship, you must be a plate first. Exactly. He's using his respected position of authority to tell women there is no way for them to avoid being plates, which is promoting male sexual strategy to the detriment of the women here because what he is saying is simply not true. There is no need for logic or rational thinking to refute the claim that all women must be plates to secure a partner, just eyes! There are so many women here, myself included, who have nev…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 05:52 AM
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His language may not have gone over well with people, but I am not comfortable removing stuff based on tone when it is neither a personal insult directed at anyone, nor an insult directed at anyone in the community. The problem with censoring tone is that not only does it remove things that shouldn't be removed, it also causes people to self-censor, because they fear rubbing someone the wrong way. "Lie" is a not a "tone." Whisper presented being a plate as a necessary step to building a relation…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 02:24 AM
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Thank you. I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to consider the issue :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 01:13 AM
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Do not give advice to women which is primarily intended to benefit men, or is based around male desires without considerations for women's desires or goals. Male users will be scrutinized more closely for compliance, but this rule applies to both sexes. Great. So are you going to show us that this is true and we can feel safe in this space and supported by you and the mods by deleting Whisper's comment here, where he tells women they have no choice but to be plates? ('The question isn't the whet…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 12:10 AM
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I'm sorry you deal with that, that's not fair. You do what's best for you and your family and everyone else can go count sheep.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 08:48 AM
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I think this is really valuable input. I am always otherwise distracted. When he begins this behavior when we are engaged in conversation it is always when I am talking, so maybe I am just going on and on... And when it happen when I am otherwise engaged, well, that is obvious. How do you deal with it?
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 08:48 AM
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Thankfully, none of this rings true for me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 08:09 PM
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Mostly anything mind altering, but degrees of avoidance varies from family to family. So, we do caffeine, but definitely no alcohol, nicotine, and obviously no drugs that aren't medically necessary (so, like we wouldn't take a pill for fun, but if you're in the ER with a broken leg and need pain relief that's different.... Where as Christian Scientists wouldn't even do that.)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 08:08 PM
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I guess this is possible... He just seems to take it so seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 02:28 AM
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You're right, gross is not the right word to use. I think of that sort of butts and farts comedy as gross out humor, as that's what we call it when the kids do it. And we discourage it in them, oddly enough. I'm going to have to think long and hard about how to make him feel like I want to understand without him feeling attacked. He seems to sensitive about the issue, but I think FleetingWish's suggestion to wait until it hasn't been happening for a while then try might help with that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:40 PM
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This is definitely a weird one. The problem for you is you can't respect a man who acts like this. Once you cannot respect a man, your relationship goes down hill. I could see this being the case. I think my respect for his so deep it doesn't "feel" like it makes me respect him less, but it does leave me feeling confused, frustrated, and lost. I think trying to heap verbal praise on him is a good idea! The weird thing is though, his love language is definitely touch. Most of the time, when he's …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:37 PM
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To the best of my knowledge there is no increased stress right now. He just got a promotion that actually allows him to work less hours and earn more. The only stress I can think of is with his parents. His mom breaking her hip has been stressful. I will read up on regression, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:35 PM
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This seems totally possible. It's the only time I've ever seen his mother put a client on hold, and she was on a call on Thanksgiving day, so that should tell you how much she works.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:33 PM
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remember he's already shown you that he is not interested in your thoughts on this matter during the days it's happening. In fact he's not interested in any reaction from you except the one his mom gives him. Personally my response in this situation would be to laugh a tiny bit and then ignore the rest of the behaviors. If he walks away dejected, let him. Hopefully it will click that he can feel respected and happy when he acts normal but when he acts like a five year old he ends up unhappy. Thi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:31 PM
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He has so many! But he doesn't act like this around them. We share a lot of mobile devices, so I end up seeing texts and stuff that come in on them and his humor with his male friends is more... High school. Implying someone likes some weird sexual thing ("We don't have time to pick up a dozen cucumbers and a baby carrot and 67 condoms for you, Tom!"), or political ("I sent you a Hillary 2016 hat for Christmas"), etc. It's definitely not adult, but also not at all.... 5 year old.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:27 PM
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His father is around. His father is definitely very masculine. Lots of masculine hobbies (cars, sail boats, camping, deep sea fishing around the world for exotic fish, and self study come to mind right away.) Although he is usually quite jovial, he's also the type of man who doesn't really suffer bad behavior. For example, I once saw a cousin snit at her husband that he was folding a table cloth wrong. Husband's dad overheard and looked right at the husband and said "Do you like to be criticized…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:24 PM
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Yes we are. His parents are too, although he is an only child, because his mother had major female problems before and during the pregnancy that resulted in a full histo :-( I sometimes wonder if this made her sort of worship him kind of inappropriate levels of praise....
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 09:15 PM
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It really sounds like something else is going on, the fact that he gets angry when you don't behave how he wants you to behave and the refusing sex around the time. I agree. I did once try to very briefly talk to our Bishop's wife about it (we are friends and I respect her a lot, although I definitely used a LOT of veiled terms because I am weary about betraying his trust by accident if I say a little too much.) She mentioned that he might feel disappointed I don't react with as much jubilation …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 10:00 AM
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Thank you! I'm totally going to try this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 07:06 AM
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OH! I LOVE LOVE COMES SOFTLY! I think it's based on books, and I've considered reading them because I liked the story so much.... I also like When Calls The Heart.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 07:06 AM
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Makes sense! I think I phrased myself poorly-- I didn't really mean to like pretend you totally forgot how to add. Just to be more like, "Hey babe, can you lend me a hand with this? I'm not sure the numbers quite work." But I see your point! I guess I was just after something simple and small you could do easily.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 07:05 AM
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I loooooove Marshmallow Fireside! Just thinking about it makes me want Smores!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 07:03 AM
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Oh, bummer! I'll have to remember that combo doesn't work. What was "off" about it? I actually want to experiment and start trying to find ones for the other seasons. I would love to put together a "spring" combo.... Seems to much healthier to have these in the air than artificial air freshener.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 07:02 AM
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I do love the bath and body works soaps. They were wonderful this Thanksgiving! I have Pear & Brandy in all my bathrooms right now. I like to try to find ones that aren't overly feminine, so they smell good on hubby too.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 06:57 AM
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I'm hoping for a Wusthof Classic Cleaver this year. I adore my knives, take such good care of them... And I hate when I have to dull them on something that's really too big of a job for a Chef's knife.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 09:30 AM
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Am I the only person here who would geek out for a kitchen gadget a million times more than jewelry?! I mean, yeah I like jewelry and treasure the pieces my husband has purchased for me but omg my Vitamix!! Something I wear that is sparkly < something that makes us both a delicious smoothie every single morning.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 09:27 AM
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Honestly, if you want other people (us or the main Red Pill sub) to make a decision about such a fundamental life structure thing for you.... You've got a long way to go before you would be the kind of man I would be interested in. I would imagine others would agree. Figure out what kind of life you want, if you want to be solo and just look after yourself, or if you want a family, then go get that and ignore anyone who tries to judge it. Is that really so hard?
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 09:17 AM
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This is going to sound so dumb, but I would ask for his advice, or find a way to let him teach you something. Even the smallest thing. For example, if he is into fishing but you aren't... Maybe tell him you want to learn about it? Pay attention, listen, and demonstrate learning. If he's good at math? Pretend you're suddenly not sure the numbers in your bank account add up, and you don't want to use a calculator because you really want to understand each line item. Then, have him walk you though …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 09:09 AM
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This sounds like a good problem to have, honestly. My husband's mom is the worst cook. She goes at his poor dad so hard about how he won't eat this and that, but I can't blame him. One year she got frustrated and told me to make dinner, so my husband suggested I make something simple I make at home all the time-- seared ahi with a mustard sauce. He went and got everything from the store, so all I had to worry about was cooking for the family (he's too sweet.) his mom said, "Oh he (husband's dad)…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 09:01 AM
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A big teapot of herbal tea to share with my husband in the morning always makes me feel festive. I love tea. I have a whole array of tea cups I break out depending on my mood. Herbal for breakfast though... That's dedication. We're Mormon and should technically stay away from caffeine but.... a nice strong tea at breakfast has made its way into our lives.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:53 AM
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Do you mind sharing your Peppermint Bark recipe? That sounds really yummy. I love making fudge, but weirdly it's summer thing for me. I make a lot of white chocolate and fruit jelly fudges.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:51 AM
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But this year I live alone and I started embracing my inner x-mas spirit in mid-October, haha. Ugh, I feel that. My husband makes me wait until Dec. 1st, but really it's for the best... It got me to REALLY start embracing Thanksgiving. I now have a full set of Thanksgiving decorations that go up before Christmas and after Halloween. He says it's his favorite Holiday because it's the most family oriented one :0) How could I not embrace that?! Plus the decorations are super cute... A lot of clear …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:51 AM
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We use the Ella Fitgerlad Christmas album in our wedding!! I agree, her voice is like home. So warm and lovely.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:48 AM
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We totally watch Saturday and Sunday Christmas movies too! Have you ever tried the Hallmark ones? I really like those. They are always sweet, and often have a really nice message. They also have a lot of pretty but not "sexy" actresses I like like Candace Camone and Cathrine Bell.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:48 AM
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Wait, like a LIVE tree? That's still alive, or a cut one? I grew up on a big farm and we did LIVE trees in pots, which was amazing because now if you go to the edge of my parents property you can see decades of Christmas trees. I LOVE that idea. But we live in a bigger city so I don't think it will ever be possible for us :0( What do you do with the clove oranges? Sounds yummy. Do you just like put them in a bowl or something?
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:46 AM
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Welcome! Enjoy! The smaller the crock pot the better it works, too. Please do let me know if you find any fun new concoctions. I have heard or people adding cranberries to the mix, but I can never seem to find fresh cranberries.... And I bet pine sprigs added in would be beyond.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:44 AM
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Before my hubby gets home from work, I turn the tree lights on. Ok, is it just me, or are the tree lights super romantic?! I feel like they are such soft, pretty light. I need to get on your Holiday soap game though. I've never thought of that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:42 AM
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I'm really this close to putting a nose and antlers on my car but I don't want to be that person with the reindeer car. What?! Why not?? Doooo it! I honestly just LOVE the holiday spirit. It's the one time of the year when you can talk to people about being giving, and generous, and selfless, and they actually listen and care. And, if you're religious, everyone seems to connect to their religious roots a bit more and if you're not... People still seem to connect to a charitable mood. Do it! Get …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 08:40 AM
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Yep. It was a little... surprising... because I thought that sub was just a joke but I guess it's just a bunch of mean, closed minded people. Learn something new every day. But they are definitely less deserving of my attention than the oatmeal cookies in the oven right now. I LOVE this time of year because you can always make cookies.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 07:28 AM
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I feel like you are coming at this all wrong! It's not your job to try to fix your husband's problems with his mom (which, suggesting he disengage is.) It's just your job to offer him the non-critical love and support he needs as he works through the problem the best way he can. I know you don't mean it, but I feel judgement in your post. When you're going through a very, very difficult emotional issue would you prefer your partner in life critique how you are handling it critically looking for …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:46 AM
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I see that! They twist everything. It feels like you could maybe explain to them because they are so obviously misunderstanding, but then you try and they twist that too! I guess it's really bad to ever even imply you would not like to live in another woman's relationship... Except if it's ours, lol! Oh well.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:41 AM
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It's just so weird! They didn't even read the post to see that it was my husband who said he was glad we're not like them, to reassure me! They think I literally quoted myself as a post title, lol! Ah well. Whatever. It's kind of sad... really.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:25 AM
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Oh, I see, I'm sorry! I will stop. It's pointless anyway. They are just convinced I said something bad about husband's friend's girlfriend. Apparently calling her "very nice" and them a "lovely couple" and saying I admire her achievements so much I felt insecure in the face of them is.... mean to her? I feel like they didn't even read it!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:19 AM
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Ok I'm sorry I'll stop! It's just like they don't understand what I wrote at all? I don't understand how they think I was snarky to my friend's girlfriend. I said all sorts of nice things about her!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:17 AM
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It's against the community rules for me to defend myself over there?
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 12:14 AM
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Exactly!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 11:20 PM
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Haha, I'm glad I missed whatever this was, thanks for cleaning it up! I feel like anywhere someone sees a woman being happy to make her life about family they want to jump in and try to feel superior. As if selling multi-level marketing junk to friends on facebook or being an anonymous number on a payroll to some company is more honorable than raising your kids and taking care of your man. Mind boggling.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 09:07 PM
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went to college because I was afraid I would marry, be divorced and have nothing to fall back on. I live with a bit of fear surrounding this, but as I get older I'm starting to think perhaps unnecessarily. Good women do get left sometimes. We are (thank God) not responsible for controlling our men, and they in turn are not perfect. To try to claim every loyal wife has a loyal husband who stands by her would be as silly as trying to say the reverse (which we all KNOW isn't true), and people can c…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 09:03 PM
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With you picking up the slack of everyday living, he is able to concentrate fully on work and not have to worry about the basics of life. Yes! And I enjoy it. So we both get to do mostly what we really want instead of each of us trying to be and do everything.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 08:54 PM
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It is a privilege to be "just a wife". Exactly. And the people who say that will often talk about needing to feel they have "value" in the world. Like they have more value to whatever company they work in than to their own family? That seems really backwards to me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 08:52 PM
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Nobody else I know is a SAHW (though I know a few SAHMs) so I feel like I have to justify my existence sometimes. My husband keeps reminding me to cut that out. Same! Even in other (religion based) marriage groups I'm in lately there is a STRONG pressure to work outside the home. One thing that helped me get past it was realizing that the women who work and put so much ugliness on the ones who don't are just trying to feel superior. And that usually masks a lot of unhappiness and jealousy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 08:48 PM
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And it seems like most people here are men, talking down to women about how much women and LTRs suck. I couldn't have said it better myself. I'm also a long time lurker/recent poster, so hello :0) I'm so sorry for the men who make bad choices in the women they marry, just like I am for the women who make bad choices in the men they marry, but we're not here to listen to men talk about their issues. There is a whole sub for that! I personally also really don't enjoy listening to men talk about ho…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 02:04 AM
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Thank you! Men coming in here and explicitly describing sexual acts is one of the things that makes me feel uncomfortable posting sometimes. I don't want to read posts to me from, or talk to, men about their sex lives. I think it's inappropriate. So does my husband. I am really happy to hear women talk about sex from there perspective but there is something more sexual about a man coming to tell a bunch of women what he did in bed. I don't want ANY sexual interactions with other men, and here se…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 01:53 AM
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Idiot. Fucking idiot. I don't know if I would go this far. Women get sold the ~cool girl~ lie like men get sold the ~nice guy~ scam. What's a nice guy? A guy who gives away loyalty and resources freely but wins in the end! What's a cool girl? A girl who can have sex "just like a guy" and gives away sex freely but wins in the end. It's sad. I feel awful for both of them. I'm religious and married as a virgin. My husband was also a virgin. I know TRP would say the latter is not ideal but for us wi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 09:32 AM
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I think ~connections~ have ruined the lives of more women than meth and crack combined.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 09:26 AM
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Good I'm glad you understood what I was trying to say! I felt it was worth being direct if I could spare you my friend's fate. Being grateful is definitely a skill! Try to learn it with small things first. The next time you enjoy something (even something small like a cup of tea!) just take a moment and savor it and think about how lucky you are to have the time/money/energy/access/whatever to have this experience. Acknowledge that everyone doesn't get that. There are plenty of people who don't …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:38 AM
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My husband would be horrified if I did this. I think we've all learned that data can be hacked, so even if you trust your SO implicitly (I do) there is a chance nudes you send could end up... everywhere. No ma'am. I can tell you one thing: my husband would not have married me if there had been pictures of my vagina on the world wide web, no matter how they got there. To me this seems like an unreasonably large risk to take for a young woman that could very well cost you something much more impor…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 09:32 AM
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This might not be helpful but I have a girlfriend who could be you, and she has literally ruined her life. I've known her since elementary school. She's always been beautiful, athletic, witty, intelligent, yet pleasant and feminine. Honestly, I thought between the two of us she would have the much better life and I would watch her rocket off to success, perhaps cling to her coat tails... That's obviously not what happened. Regard this as a cautionary tale, because she is not in her mid-30s, sing…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 09:23 AM
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I agree with others that this does not sound like a very RP way to handle the situation. You're trying to manage your SOs emotions and reactions, and that is quite domineering. It sounds like Berny was being very disrespectful to you and your SO- why were you interested in preventing your SO from making him leave? It seem like the appropriate course of action, and further, if you don't trust your SO to follow the appropriate course of action then you need to reconsider the relationship. It's not…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 10:00 PM
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In my religion we believe there is a calling to take care of nature as God's creation and gift to man. Take what I'm saying with a grain of salt because I'm not sure how well it will apply to secular thought, but... What if you presented it as an extension of nurturing? Positive female nature includes growing your nurturing instincts, so perhaps you're not "living in the woods for months" but you're "sacrificing comfort to care for the planet." Any man who wanted a woman who valued her own frufr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 10:17 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to listen to me clarify myself! This is a good community and I'll continue to hang around and participate when I feel appropriate. I tread very lightly because I don't want to interfere with the community and its standards when my perspective is more religious.... For example, unlike you I never even considered they might not have kids! That makes it a whole different game. But to me... I can't imagine no kids! It's a valid choice for those who make it, but gosh if …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 10:08 PM
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Possibly, there are some funny (not so much entertaining, more along the lines of downright odd) ideas that I see from time to time - and they tend to bounce between two extremes. Oh yes I know what you mean! I lurk this community, I've posted a bit from time to time, but I don't really have the fortitude to navigate it all. Yet, I still lurk because my husband and I are Mormon and believe very strongly in traditional marriages and values. So, there is a ton of good information here that I lurk …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 10:28 PM
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Perhaps it's the term "he decides" that made my post seem more extreme than I intended. I don't literally mean orders come down and you follow them, but if, for example, I wanted to work part time and he wanted me to stay home, I would try very hard to see things from his perspective. Ultimately, I would yield to what he wanted, putting our mutual interest above my own and trusting, just like you say, that he knows that is best for both of us. But, I don't see how I could do that if he had the a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 09:51 PM
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Everyone's relationship is different I suppose, but I absolutely yield to my husband on all important matters like that. That to me is true submission. Are you really telling me an RP woman should go to work even if her captain wants her home with the kids? She should just work anyway? Or if wants to move for a career opportunity she should just overrule him?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 09:31 PM
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I am going to echo the date older men sentiment! College men still need to grow up and they do this by having lots of different experiences, they're not ready to lead until after that, but college women need to be lead! It's that simple IMO.
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