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1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School	CMV	SkytrackerU	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 01:29 AM

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1	The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and women Some of the techniques work in some cases. But what I meant with "RP stuff" is AFBB or hypergamy. She wants comfort & provisioning with you, but sexually, she prefers other men. It makes me wonder how much these RP guys are actually thinking of another woman than the one they're with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 10:07 PM
1	The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and women But in reality the invisible thread that connects the problem of modern men, of incels and the manosphere is the lack of intimacy and validation from women. Having sex is great but it feels incomplete if you're not having it with someone physically attracted to you I think that this hits the nail on the head. Part of why RP teaching seems so poisonous. It says it'll help you get laid, but instead it just plants doubt that any woman wants you. Even if she's with you, she's secretly wanting to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 05:19 AM
1	Best & Worst of 2022. Mostly Worst Tbh. (FDS PODCAST 95) I wish that I could see this list. It's not on Youtube.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/22 08:47 PM
3	How do they convince people it works? Forget about sexism and misogyny, it is just a stupid strategy. Yep. Plus their resentment just keeps growing. No wonder so many of these men are angry that they can't find enough low self esteem women targets. But I think that their strategy works for sociopaths. Find some woman "mark" with very low self esteem, a need to prove herself, find her buttons and groom into being used to coercion. Don Hennessey's "How he gets into her head" describe the process, but very skilled abusers can entangle …	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/22 05:09 PM
8	My Dad What you shared sounds real, and the damage done to children should be noted more. Personally though, I hope you don't trust his "love". What they call love is something normal people have trouble understanding. Edit: Fix grammar in first sentence	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/22 05:04 PM
2	Why does it seem like attractive people with the personality of an old, wet, dirty paper bag expect to find someone who is more than that? doesn't want or expect to be provided for or catered to because they want to be treated like an equal person instead of a defective half of a person. Where are you finding "defective, half of a person" women? Most woman I know have a job, and aren't looking for a caretaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 08:50 PM
1	Why does it seem like attractive people with the personality of an old, wet, dirty paper bag expect to find someone who is more than that? I've noticed that women are more emblematic than men Let me interject here. The example was that u/DreamsOfWishes got a degree. That's practical, that's essential for career. It's not mere sentiment which is what "emblematic" implies. A degree means she has ambition, will do something with her life, and can support herself well. This isn't a minor point. In a dating situation, ascribing wrong motives to women is a red flag. My first love passes as normal, but he's a good example of how the kind …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 08:44 PM
1	Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself. for a man pretending to be interested and adding in a few things to make the girl feel special does get men laid. I thought that TRP was something else. But yes, making a girl feel special will get you laid. Not always, but often. It'd work on younger, inexperienced women especially. A lot of women are loyal to their man. But if a man makes her feel special, she might think it is some special heart connection, which shouldn't be dismissed. Love is too precious. It'll be harder to fool her after …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/20 03:11 AM
1	Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself. If fake BS gets men laid, fake BS is what women ordered. Too bad that fake BS fails to get men laid. No wonder men get bitter. Everyone just wastes their time on a fake friendship. Fortunately I figured out those guys soon because I had other more interesting friendships, etc...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 05:50 PM
1	Why do you come to PurplePillDebate? I was on the r/Jung subreddit, and got into arguments with Jordan Peterson fans. I looked at other post of some of those posters... Actually, I'm not sure how I ended here, other than clicking links that looked interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 03:16 AM
3	Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself. As a man that is the worst feelings ever. That a woman married me just because the bad boy would be bad for her, you’re not marrying cause you love me you’re marrying me cause I can bring you stability you’re using me. If that were really true, then I'd agree with trp. Yes, absolutely, never marry. Never fall in love with someone who is just using you. If she really desired someone else, and she was lying and just settling for you, then for gods sake run. But that's not true. She desires the man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 02:36 AM
4	Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself. dudes put up with them because they want to get laid. ... How are you not aware of that? Once I figured that out (mid 20's), I stopped talking to most dudes. It saved their time and mine. I still talked to coworkers and in groups with common interests. But no more wasting time on convos where all the shared interests and connections are all fake BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 02:18 AM
1	Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself. which leaves you with just cats. But who can resist cats?? Cats are always a happy ending.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 02:11 AM
2	Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore? There is evidence that men were outnumbered due to childbirth and female infanticide. Sociologist Rodney Stark proposed that one reason why Christianity spread was because it had an even ratio of genders. Pagan cultures tended to run out of women. Pagan men marrying a Christian woman became common. Christianity invested in children and women, and so had more of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 12:12 AM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School Women in all ages, will gravitate towards 'the most valued' men Unless she is low self-esteem, then she'll gravitate to any man who acts like she matters, or will try to prove her worth by building up a "fixer upper" type man. You might notice this among your female friends in a social circle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 11:38 PM
1	Evolutionary psychology and women's long term mating strategies (crosspost) A natural attraction to emotional maturity would be beneficial in a lot of areas, like what you just listed. I'm just saying that it's not like that she is sitting there thinking about "emotional stability" before she feels attraction. She just notices his "emotional fitness" and finds it attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 08:22 PM
2	Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore? Most people cannot buy a house. I think that's part of the lowered marriage rate. Why get married if you can't afford children? I'm a woman saying this. There are economic disincentives to marry in the new economy. https://www.brookings.edu/blog/jobs/2012/02/03/the-marriage-gap-the-impact-of-economic-and-technological-change-on-marriage-rates/	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 08:19 PM
1	Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore? Is there a book that explains this difference in childbirth survival through the ages, across different cultures? It sounds fascinating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:47 PM
2	Evolutionary psychology and women's long term mating strategies (crosspost) How about women being attracted to men who demonstrate emotional maturity? I don't see EQ or emotional intelligence mentioned on this sub much. But EQ explains women's behavior too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:35 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School to many men, the typical woman is just an enhanced sex toy. Many women prefer vibrators to men, so no blame here. But don't tell her that. :) Actually, if a man has this attitude, any woman he dates will figure him out eventually. She'll have good reason to leave him then. There's a good chance he'll never get that she left because of his disrespect, and then he'll blame hypergamy. The men who advocate AFBB hypergamy do sound biased in their observations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:26 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School Can you give me an example of what you call hypergamous behavior, after high school age is past?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:20 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School My point was that high school behavior isn't enough to base an evolutionary theory on (AFBB). It's a weakness in the case for a scientific theory of evolution. I get that men who just want to lay hot women might not care about scientific truth, but it is still a science fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:18 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School Ha! I wouldn't dream of saying that. But I do think people are more caught up in that during high school. They are more self-aware when older, and are able to break step with that pattern. But what is considered attractive changes from what was cool during high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:12 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School I think individuals of both sexes practice relative hypergamy. It depends on what hypergamy means, but I agree everyone does as best they can for sex or LTR. Maybe hypergamy wasn't the best word for what I meant, the idea that women are mostly attracted to status, no matter what she says. I think your take on LTRs throughout people's lives is correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:09 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School A job pays 60k and it’s the best place to work on earth. Another job pays 75k but it’s the worst, management sucks, employees suck, commute sucks. I'm glad you see that. No amount of status or money or sex can make up for a horrible personality. If a man demeans or belittles her, she'll quit that LTR or avoid dating him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 07:03 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School Men can be sexually attracted to even women who are inferior to them in every single way, although ideally they want to have sex with the most attractive women that they can. It's true that many women aren't attracted to men she doesn't respect. I think that this is one of the differences between the sexes. I used to be confused when men felt betrayed that "when he respected women she didn't sleep with him". Eventually I realized that I had no idea how sexual attraction happens without respect. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 05:04 PM
1	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School Esther Villar book What an eyeful. I learned something new today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 03:03 AM
3	Have you ever been cheated on? The dude who cheated on me was not chad, he was gay. lol. Sure he was. This is freaking hilarious. Thank you /user/Priscacara/ and /user/wekacuck/ for the entertainment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 02:47 AM
4	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School men of all ages want women in their 20s (around 21-23) and no older than that. No argument that men want early twenties. But saying "no older than that" is a stretch because plenty of men are happy with older women. And my point was that higher social status and looks do NOT translate automatically to female desire. But high social status might help you get laid a lot ages 18 -23. But that doesn't make it a universal truth, or any scientific evolutionary explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 02:32 AM
5	Hypergamy is a Defective Theory because is Overweighs High School The actual definition of hypergamy -- marrying up -- has been practiced by women for eons. Or her family is... Quite a few of those traditionary cultures have family arranged marriage. manosphere 2.0 has been influenced by these men who want all the spoils of "degenrate western culture" when they benefit from them (like sex without marriage, less pressure to marry early and provision, etc.) but not so much when they don't. That would explain much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 02:10 AM
2	Have you ever been cheated on? Chump Lady's web site is expert on this. Women getting cheated on seems more abundant, but no science league statistics. I'm a woman who never cheated, and as far as I know, none of my male partners cheated on me. But one of my Exes was excessively jealous and accused me of cheating, often. One of my biggest regrets was that I wasted years trying to prove to him otherwise. The Gift of Fear calls that maneuver "Typecasting", getting a woman to disprove an insult. He never acknowledged he was wron…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 12:20 AM
2	TRP is the projection of a depressed feminine side. I also put forth the cure: tell your mom how much you love her and pull her into your life. Congratulations, I laughed. Somehow the rhythm of your post turns that into a punch line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 11:31 PM
1	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? Maybe I just don't know enough about the situation. I've seen too many clueless sorts blame women for what he is doing. Of course, what else can you do but dump the incompatible? I have no problem with that. What doesn't add up is assuming her angry reaction means she is irresponsible about sex. I'd have agreed with you if you'd stopped at "I didn't deserve that". Where I object is you assuming something insulting about her, that her anger means she's irresponsible. There are just too many other…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 10:33 PM
3	CMV: All men are misogynists. Read the full text before posting. I have more success with women when Im mean to them than when I am kind That would be worth exploring. But more reliable observers would be needed. There's a good chance it's another factor, like when ice cream correlated with polio. Ice creme didn't cause polio, but summer heat causes both polio & ice creme sales. Correlation vs causation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 09:57 PM
1	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? You are right to wonder. What you're describing does sound shady. Then again, maybe she has some nightmare family members and she doesn't want her aunt asking embarrassing questions about him being the one. If she doesn't level with him about this that's a red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 09:33 PM
1	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? I’ve met women who took this horribly and I’ve met women who accepted responsibility It still seems like you are dismissing any woman who responded badly as irresponsible without accepting your own responsibility. Unfairness, anger, and being misperceived are just part of the risks of casual dating FOR YOU. You don't seem to realize you are being dismissive and insulting. Why do you deny her the right to be angry with you after you dump her? Why do assume she is irresponsible rather than just hu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 09:28 PM
1	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. We watch how women treat romantic men who value relationships and we watch how you treat men who don’t. We learn that in order to be sexually attractive to you we have to kill our inner romanticism. If he is so romantic and values her, why doesn't he fix his teeth? Or develop social skills? He could use those skills for a lot more than dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 09:14 PM
1	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection So why the fuss about this? Women are not entitled to affection and foreplay, same as men are not entitled to sex. I do not see why the complaining. These kind of questions leave me marveling that men can't tell the difference between manipulated compliance and real attraction. The "freeze out" is training a woman that she must have sex when she wants connection, kindness, or emotional support. So he is making sex a string on emotional connection. My point is that this is a place where TRP loses…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 08:54 PM
1	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? Now she has been with the guy for almost a year, and still hasn't changed her FB profile to say "in relationship". If he doesn't call her his girlfriend then they're not gf/bf. There is relationship to announce, just some entanglement with no clear status. This is why women pursue clarity on "are we dating or is this nothing?" Remember, he has a say in announcing relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 08:15 PM
1	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? It seems women had an almost mythical view of male intent in that men could never change their mind about anyone based on anything and especially because of sexual compatibility reasons. There are a lot of bullshitters. It's almost a horses vs zebras argument. Is he a zebra who changed his mind or more likely part of a legion of liars saying whatever will get him in bed. She'd have to know you for awhile to know whether you were a zebra or a horse. Some environments have a lot more lying horses …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 08:08 PM
2	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? I guess I better spell this out more. Explain to me exactly why you think this woman isn't assuming responsibility for her sex life just because she called you a name. To me it sounds like tit for tat rudeness. You ghost her (rude), so she returns the rudeness (user). How did you get from that little spat to "she's not being responsible"? Your conclusion seems like a stretch given the small amount of data. Bad speculation happens everywhere. TRP is notorious for ridiculous conspiracy theories ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 07:08 PM
1	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? I was referring to something you said on the other thread. "I've met a few women who assumed agency and responsibility in these situations". https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hx2ckn/q4women\_how\_shouldwould\_you\_as\_a\_man\_have\_acted/ I misquoted it. You didn't say accountable. But you did say something similar, that the woman wasn't assuming agency or responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 05:34 AM
2	Light at the End of the Tunnel Science fiction & comic cons used to be a great place to get laid (the room parties). Also, drug parties too (or so I hear). The Burning Man festival used to be a great place to get laid. Spiritual meetups are great too. Festivals with camping. Look for apartment complexes with lots of singles, and hang at their hot tubs or single meeting spots. Even oddball guys get lucky there. Be careful of judging yourself a winner or not. Good luck!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 01:47 AM
1	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? Ghosting might be normal, but it's still rude. If someone insults you for being rude (calling you a user), then it's not because women aren't accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 01:40 AM
1	Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality. Yes OLD is bad, but mostly for different reasons than OP states. How can OLD accurately describe the dating market when most women don't use OLD? The OLD sites wouldn't be 70-90% male if a large chunk of women weren't missing from OLD. I haven't seen PPD mention much that a lot of women can't tell if a man is attractive by pics alone. So many women notice that if you meet him in person, and he has an attractive vibe, height, hair, and looks matter less. His humor, kindness, or cool vibe matter m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 01:15 AM
1	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? Twice I was into a guy and lost all attraction suddenly. Once, we were installing a new bookcase for him, and I got a whiff of his BO. With the other guy, he pooped without flushing and it took me awhile to forget the stink in that bathroom. Both times a gross smell obliterated my attraction. But I didn't sleep with either of these men. We were friends in a social circle. I was interested, spending more time with them, but then the attraction faded before anything happened. I might be demisexual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 12:46 AM
7	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash There is an SMV chart that is popular in the manosphere. This chart claims that men experience their SMV peak at around 38 years old, with 35-45 being a man's peak SMV period Whenever I see that chart, I think about how men's peak SMV overlaps with the beginning of peak heart attack risk, age 45. Then I start wondering if this chart predicts a marketing niche in Nursing Home Game. Peak SMV just beforehand makes that drop off into heart attack country extra steep. It's best to be married with a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 11:16 PM
1	Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults? Sounds like you didn’t read history instead. Ha! Cheap shot. You would have have better luck insulting me on a different subject. Instead your blows bounce off one of my strongest areas (reading history). My criticism that TRP is weak on some areas of history is valid. But let's forget that and focus on your favorite bits of the broad subject of history. Have you read ancient historian Polybius' essay "Depopulation of Greece"? It sounds right up your alley. It says something similar to some of y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 06:23 PM
4	Gender roles will soon be reversed I highly doubt women are going to sink so low they start doing work. Try going to a dentist, doctor's office, or even a hospital. Most nurses and medical assistants are female, up to 80% of those working in health care. Nursing was a tough degree, tough lab courses. Women won't degrade themselves to do that. If they have a choice, they won't. But why must relationships be degrading?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 12:08 AM
3	Gender roles will soon be reversed Women will experience extremely low effort which will result in a deserted dating scene. I think this already happened. I know a lot women desert OLD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 12:00 AM
1	Why PPD does not want/like incels, from someone who has been here since it started They mostly learned it from watching how black women act in ghetto environments. Like I said, female nature is more apparent in some environment than others. Maybe that's not actually female nature? That is just local culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 11:51 PM
3	Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults? (I don't get the impression that the anti-porn and anti-prostitution crowd really care too much about gay porn or male and transgender prostitution- they only have a problem if there's females involved and it caters to straight men). Hmm. You might have something there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 11:30 PM
18	Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults? One reason I never cared for TRP was because it's so ignorant of history and the other factors which shape population and reproductive success. The bestselling historian Ian Mortimer wrote a book "Millennium" where he looks for the century with the most change, 10 different centuries from 1000 to 2000. People were much more judgmental about sexuality until the 18th century, after the Agricultural Revolution started reducing the mass starvations where millions/thousands died from famine. Only the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 09:12 PM