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LEVEL UPSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:35 PM
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NAH, SISSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:11 PM
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STRATEGYSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:32 PM
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BOOK REPORTSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:01 PM
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STRATEGYSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:58 PM
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DISCUSSIONSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:31 PM
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DISCUSSIONSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:48 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:40 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTESlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:38 AM
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NAH, SISSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:14 PM
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NAH, SISSlackLifesentence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:10 PM
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Can I ask how long it took the mask to slip?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:49 AM
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We are not in a committed relationship! He has been my climbing partner for a while we meet up and climb in national parks mostly. We just started getting romantic and I am excited, but still going on dates with others!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:28 PM
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We are not exclusive and not really in a LDR just keeping contact until we can see each other next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:27 PM
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Kinda sad how she has to add lboldaccidentally in the title. SMH as if you need to protect your teenage child’s privacy over protecting them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:27 PM
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I post in R/climbing sometimes when I place a badass piece of gear on a hard route. I usually stay on top of the forum for a couple days but the amount i get trolled is Ridiculous. Men ask me half a dozen times “but is it really rated A5” and then I explain (because most climbers don’t understand ratings for my subset of the sport) and then they always say “hahahaha I was referencing [insert 20+ year old climbing video]” it’s really frustrating and embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:04 PM
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What do they say to those women who look like porn stars themselves and still are against the industry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:54 PM
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I think if you don’t see how these things are problematic without explanation you need to read the handbook again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:39 PM
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Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:47 PM
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She missed it!! It’s PHOTOSHOP!! Some of it is posing, but a surprising amount is digitally altered. Add /r/instagramreality to you feed for some mental armor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:26 AM
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Penis People 😂😂❤️❤️new FDS term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:35 AM
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This is an amazing response! Find a girl or two to share your exciting adventures with…or do them solo!!!!! Somehow doing scary things alone makes you feel BIGGER afterward, get it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:23 PM
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Hiking, boating, artwork, performance, anything that scares you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:18 AM
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Yay! Keep going!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 11:23 PM
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Thanks for the input! might add this to my final article if that’s okay. The sidekick effect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 10:28 PM
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Wow thank You for this. I have spent way too much time having imaginary combos in my head “revealing” my add lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:25 PM
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Okay maybe some input needed. My last ex found out I take adderal about 6 months into our relationship and it became a huge problem. He accused me of dishonesty and later abused me over this prescription. When am I supposed to disclose that I take psych meds? I feel if I had found out his attitude earlier I might have been less attached and able to get out. Please feel free to call me a pick me for not getting out anyway at 6 months when he first found out. I’m scared this will happen again and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:23 PM
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I dated a yoga and meditation teacher who abused me. So soft spoken, so kind at first. He called me Shakti. We had a ritual where I put my foot on his chest like Shakti and Shiva. I left the relationship with ten staples in my scalp….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:53 PM
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I’m a climber and a man who follows me messaged me to send me some free gear. He may have just been being nice, but he may have been seeking my address to know where I live! Watch out girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:15 PM
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Link to article?vI e never seen it outside FDs really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:17 AM
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ThAnk you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:01 AM
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She is one of my three closest friends and my closest climbing partner. Am I not abandoning her the same way I felt my friends abandoned me to my abuse? Maybe I could’ve gotten out sooner. Per the podcast 33; How to level up Pickme friends; She really is worth saving. Smart beautiful successful and kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:10 PM
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🥺🥺In a nightmare scenario I predict that. Please no…..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:07 PM
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I blocked my abusive ex 9 months ago. He sent me to the hospital for trying to leave. I still fucking miss him. It has gotten a little harder the last few weeks but I know if I keep him blocked I’ll get over it AND I won’t give him any more chances to hurt me. It’s not easy, especially if you have been emotionally abused, but I know it’s worth it. Stay strong ladies :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:58 PM
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I call almost ALL men boys, even in my head. Is this acceptable? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:40 PM
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The institution is against us. I dont think one exists… would love to be wrong though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:41 PM
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That’s why men aren’t supposed to be at baby showers!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:34 PM
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Yay I love this!! ❤️❤️❤️🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:21 AM
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If I could tell my past self ONE thing, it would be to prioritize my girlfriendships, not even just over men but to rank them with family and career goals too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:08 AM
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Nobody talks about radical feminism. Even the books are out of print, try to buy something by Andrea Dworkin that was written before 2000….. you can’t. It’s weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:21 PM
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I see this lady in here pretty frequently and I don’t love her vibe. From being kinda pedantic and obvious to…maybe the beauty filter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:17 PM
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Our husbands need to know we can still leave them ANYTIME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:40 PM
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Hm, disabled and teeny tiny here. Can confirm. I attract abusive types. I have been in two abusive relationships that I barely escaped from. Currently I’m not dating at all because I’m too scared to try again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:57 PM
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Hm, disabled and teeny tiny here. Can confirm. I attract abusive types. I have been in two abusive relationships that I barely escaped from. Currently I’m not dating at all because I’m too scared to try again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:57 PM
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Longtime climber here. My first climbing ex fiancé tried to coerce me into polygamy. My second climber ex (I’ve only dated climbers) abused me…..so let’s not put any subset of men on a HVM pedestal. HVM are everywhere and nowhere. NO group is immune to LVM, the climbing world is chock full of them and they are often just as toxic as gym bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:33 PM
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Thank you for making this post. I needed to hear this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:22 PM
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Please if your partner yells at you, punches a wall, or breaks ANY of your things, leave. I wish I had...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:22 PM
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She does know! I’m not sure if that’s better or worse...she’s a trapped “cool girl”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:28 PM
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Omg yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:42 PM
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Even his anthem “leave the door open” 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:18 PM
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I have been making a similar playlist. Try Donna summer: the four seasons of love album. Spring affair is my favorite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:16 PM
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A man I was waitressing for came back into my restaurant to ask me if I wanted to join him for a drink. I was so nervous but I said I was not interested; no excuse, no lies, just not interested!!!!!!! I feel so empowered! I still had anxious butterflies afterward for a long time, realizing I stood up to a man, but I am so proud of myself for being honest and not sacrificing my integrity for his comfort! Thanks FDS for helping me be a powerful Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:28 PM
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Wow that video is so weird. The song is about being a pick me housewife and the images are all of her like...in the White House lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:38 PM
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I mean look at his body vs his face in pic one, it obviously is, and it’s weird. I love the other photos though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:46 PM
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I am a recovering pickle and I almost got bingo Edit : I meant pick me but I gotta leave pickle as it is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:14 PM
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I’m not into it. Feels like men in our space. Also I would love to highlight more lesbian voices here (they’re women who have rejected male presence in their life, in a way, like Dworkin) I want to hear more from them, keep FDS lesbian friendly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:40 PM
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This makes me miss my ex....I’m gonna go journal now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:00 PM
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Thank you for posting this. This is happening to me too. All I know so far is that defending yourself does not seem to help, it has backfired with at least one girl who really has made it her business to hate me??. mostly the situation just teaches you what friends weren’t really yours to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:04 PM
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Can we find a source?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:34 PM
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Take a deep dive and question your idea of what you want. You’re only 22, just live for a while, without making a house and 2.5 kids the center of your goals. Like what else do you have to achieve for yourself career, education, artistically or athletically? Edit: they call it leveling up here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:33 AM
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They are scared of us. If you think Reddit is bad, you’ll go nuts when you hear that Europeans killed 9 million women during witch hunts in the 15-16th century. Also Asian women had their feet mutilated for a thousand years ! Dworkin links it to a “primal fear of castration” it’s because the need and want us too, I think the inner turmoil is too much for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:27 PM
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I agree! I’m really into the more academic stuff about patriarchy l, but out FDS booklist is really focused on dating and relationships. I wanna read more about how to be my best self and educate myself about the world we live in, but in a less dating-strategy focused way. I think books like “woman hating” are the foundation of a lot of really revolutionary thought that has been washed away in the face of liberal feminism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:23 PM
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I will buy the book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:20 PM
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Mee too!! When she brushed my hair! Mine said “Besuty means no pain”.....patently false
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:04 PM
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Omg thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:03 PM
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I LOVE her! If you haven’t read “a woman destroyed” you will totally dig it, fiction about French marriage and mistresses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:10 PM
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I think fiction is a great teaching tool, bring it on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:10 PM
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Omg I spent all night reading it and made a new post with an excerpt! Thank you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:09 PM
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“Pain is an essential part of the grooming process and that is no accident... Plucking the eyebrows, wearing a girdle or, having ones nose fixed...these things hurt. The pain of course teaches an important lesson: no price is too great, no process to repulsive, no operation too painful for the woman who would be beautiful. The toleration of pain, and the romanticization of that tolerance begin here It serves to prepare women for lives of child bearing, self abnegation, and husband pleasing.” And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:02 PM
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OMgnitnis thank you so much! It is a full Pdf!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:36 AM
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Came here for this! What the fuck?? “My husband is abusing my child, how do I confront him about it without hurting his feelings?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:48 AM
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Make a budget. It’s easy write down all your monthly costs (rent,gas, health insurance, cell phone, car insurance, groceries, books ) How much savings and income do you have? That’s all. that’s the whole advice I’m Sorry if I’ve talked down to you. I’m in my thirties and I need reminded of this. Good luck. Your budget is your friend. Keep it, look at it often, update it :) do it on your computer or on fancy paper, whatever. But do it yourself don’t let an app do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:43 AM
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Omg thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:39 AM
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Could you Dm me the name too please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:35 AM
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Hey I’m a lit/philosophy student and I’m building an Anarchist Library of radical feminism and related topics! I looked through our book list and the books are mostly about dating and relationships . When I looked it up I was hoping to find more titles like -Backlash, Susan Faludi -The Feminine Mystique, Betty Freidan -The Beauty Myth, Naomi Watts -Anarchism, Emma Goldman -Anything by Andrea Dworkin but particularly Pornography and Hating Women (these are both expensive out of print books for so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:30 AM
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More of this content PLEASE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:59 AM
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This is something my abusive ex used to do for me every day. He really cared about my health in a controlling way, but I’m skinny and hypoglycemic and I miss my morning eggs. Fuck, it’s been 5 months and I’m starting to have moments of nostalgia for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:22 PM
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Sounds really abusive.....situationally as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:17 PM
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My ex treated me like this shortly before sending me to the hospital with ten staples in my head. My adhd is now treated and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Please get out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:57 PM
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I love Kenneth Branagh too ! 💕💕💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:09 PM
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They can never spell....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:22 AM
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Omg are you me? Yay! I’m 32 and feeling so free in my celibacy too since October!! Honestly I’m not even horny, nice to see someone my age feeling the same! Not worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:02 AM
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I wouldn’t do this WITHOUT the trim so thanks for the share! Bike shorts would be so ugly if someone saw, somehow this seems better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:59 PM
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I think it’s a gen z internet thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:25 PM
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I think the distinction between knowing your relationship is terrible and being trauma bonded doesn’t exist. If you are admitting your relationship is terrible...but still staying, I would argue you ARE trauma bonded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:08 PM
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This video is still not helpful. Women trapped in toxic relationships are not “weak”, they have a lifetime of patriarchal conditioning to overcome. Speaking as someone who left her abusive boyfriend, I struggle with this. I am so “strong” I can’t even admit to my friends what happened. People (young women especially) in my community look up to me, now I have a dark secret literally because of rhetoric like this. Don’t talk to your friends this way ladies! It scars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:14 PM
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Happy cake day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:49 AM
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HELL yes! I just finished “The Beauty Myth” and “ Backlash” and my life is changed, let’s do more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:39 PM
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“Ouch” from your 32 YO sister-Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:24 PM
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Funniest shit is, many of the replies have a man popping up, defending the reason the other guy shouldn’t have been dumped?? Like, no-one asked you! They can’t handle it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:56 PM
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Yes! This and the fact that posting on FDS gets you automatically perma-banned from r/ feminism of all places!! Infuriating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:16 PM
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Success! Have fun leveling up and pampering yourself now!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:05 PM
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Wow thank you for reinforcing that FDS rule I maybe hadn’t internalized yet. “Don’t go over to their house for an early date!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:03 PM
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Hey I super love reading all these “men are scrotes” responses! But could we also, possibly address what an appropriate response to this text might be? Like when this happens to me, in the future, Say I have 2 great dates with no red flags and then this happens.... what is a good way to say no, but not torch the budding relationship? Assuming dates 1 and 2 are really great. Do I do the dumb bunny response? How exactly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:56 PM
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