| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | How do I stop my self-confidence from being tied to my success with women?Can you explain a bit, or link to a post/article, how this works? I've never meditated before, but I always see it recommended. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop my self-confidence from being tied to my success with women?I think it's because I don't half ass pickup. If I'm trying to improve my dating life, I'll go out a lot and when I'm not out I'll be thinking about going out. During those inevitable times when I don't have any prospects, I feel like I've failed and it's tough to put that much of yourself into something and not succeed. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Deep insecurities about being a virginIf you're really insecure about it, try tinder. A lot of girls on there are at least partly looking to hookup. But you shouldn't feel insecure about being a virgin at 19. A lot of people your age are virgins. As for how to meet women, "Hi, I thought you were cute and I wanted to come meet you. I'm slapchop_wookie." will work wonders. Introduce yourself, talk with her for a bit and then exchanges numbers. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:17 AM |
| 3 | What do you look for in a pick up coach and much would you pay for infield lessons?I don't think anything in the seduction community is worth paying for. All the information you need is available for free on the internet and it's not rocket science, in fact it's been years since I've seen any new material on seddit. All you need is the motivation/discipline to go out and practice. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Could need some advice on textingGot a link? I'll give that a try. | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Could need some advice on textingSend her a picture of a turtle climbing out of a briefcase. Then immediately text her again and say, "Sorry, wrong person." | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 01:19 AM |
| 2 | On a bad date list in Vancouver and it's affecting my game!Um...just don't go back to that restaurant. If you think girls have an underground network where they warn each other of men who aren't worth dating and it spans across a major city, well, you might actually be a bad date, but not because of some list. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 08:51 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/24/15Start going to bars and talk to the girls there. If you don't want to go alone, check the sidebar to see if a lair exists in your city. If there isn't one, start one. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/24/15What's your philosophy on trying to reinitiate contact with a girl after months of not speaking? I never dated the girl I have in mind, but there was a mutual attraction there when we worked together (she quit in April). It would be nice to talk to her, even if it doesn't lead to a date. Any advice for sending a text after a long time? | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 09:18 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/4/15Anyone feel like practicing seduction has hindered their ability to make platonic female friends? It seems like I frame every interaction I have with a woman as a conversation with a potential sexual partner. Even when I try to hang out with a girl as friends I think to myself what she must be thinking because I'm not making a move. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15How long have you been doing this? The reason I ask is because it seems like the better I get at this, the fewer approaches I do. I wish I could do more, but I can generally get at least one set in a night that takes a lot of time. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 02:37 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15A lot of people do this and I can see how it would be beneficial, but if you're going to approach a girl, why not just approach someone you're interested in. I know that, personally, my game isn't as sharp if I'm not interested. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 10:21 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15How many approaches do you do on an average night out? | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 10:19 PM |
| 1 | SleezyPUA's guide to Tinder while travelling.The app I used was just called Fake GPS. You can get it for free on any android device, but I'm sure there's something similar for IPhones. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 09:21 AM |
| 4 | SleezyPUA's guide to Tinder while travelling.It puts too much pressure on the girl to fuck you during the meetup. If you're a creep or you're not as attractive as you are in your pictures, she's not going to want to fuck you but she's going to feel like she has too. To avoid the potential awkwardness, she just flakes. | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 09:53 PM |
| 7 | SleezyPUA's guide to Tinder while travelling.I think you have to pay for it though. | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 09:51 PM |
| 3 | SleezyPUA's guide to Tinder while travelling.I let them know while we're still chatting on the app. | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 09:45 PM |
| 10 | How can I be a good person and use women for sex? Is it possible?There are plenty of women who are only interested in using you for sex. How can you be a good person if you assume that an entire gender is incapable of having sex without wanting a relationship? | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Number of women posting around here latelyI have noticed this, but I'm curious which posts you find objectionable? | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Above the Game - Primer on Who You Will Become Exercise (March 26, 2015)Exactly. The dissatisfaction about my life exceeded my fear of approaching and it was all uphill from there. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Above the Game - Primer on Who You Will Become Exercise (March 26, 2015)Hitting rock bottom was the best thing that ever happened to me. Hopefully it will be for you too. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Keep it interesting!What Star wars line? | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | The forgotten Tshirt (One of my only tricks with 100% success rate)You're 3/3 in sleeping with girls whose house you've already slept at? Teach me your ways, master. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 06:10 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Tried the "wait" line on a first datePost a FR, even if it's short. I got a kick out if this one and I like to see more. Hell, you can just PM me the results if you don't want to post. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Request: Condom EtiquetteWhere do you then put that? I feel like it would be a weird thing to explain on the off chance that she sees it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subThe best ones are from /u/TofuTofu and /u/Bil1y. Check their post histories. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subTagging posts is a great idea. They should even delete the posts that are really bad. I think I stickied FAQ post would be really beneficial as well. I think a lot of recent posts have been coming from guys who aren't regular readers, so they don't realize that their questions are very basic. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Best way to meet girls, excluding bars/clubs.It's hard to set time aside specifically for gaming when there aren't concentrated areas of attractive women, like a college campus or mall, where you have a nearly unlimited number of women to approach. You're probably better off just going about your everyday life, but forcing yourself to approach when you see someone you're into. Just remember that you are always in the field. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Some experiences I would like to share!You might be on to something. I think a lot of advice in this sub is skewed towards guys looking to get laid in a hurry. For them, quick escalation is important. For guys looking for something more serious, slower may be better. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Best way to meet girls, excluding bars/clubs.Don't write off bars. I meet girls at bars, but I rarely drink. But to answer your question, daygame is your best bet. You can meet girls literally anywhere. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Some experiences I would like to share!I'm curious how many dates you've been on? I'm not saying this is bad advice, I'm just wondering how many girls you've tested it on. Since you're young and just got out of a LTR, it makes me think you haven't tried this on enough girls to teach it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | All for confidence, but remember that women can sense what youre doing.Of course women can tell when a guy is trying to pick them up. It probably has a lot to do with me saying, "you're cute and I want to meet you" as my opener. But nothing I do has anything to do with "tricking" women into sleeping with me. Can you clarify what you're advocating we do once we give pickup a rest? Should I just stay at home with my thumb up my ass? This reeks of white knight, "just be yourself" bs. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome my lack of height?What do you mean overcome? There's nothing to overcome. You just don't make a big deal about it. My roommate is 5'6" and girls love him. I think Neil Strauss is around your height too. If you don't want to date a girl taker taller than you, then go after shorter girls. There are plenty of them. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 05:11 PM |
| 14 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subSomething needs to change in this sub. I feel like it needs to be more strictly moderated. There's too much stuff posted that belongs in /r/askseddit or could easily be answered by reading the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How and where to find Sarging buddies?I just created /r/SinCitySeddit and I'm really excited to help it grow. Subscribe and we'll run this town! | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 06:13 AM |
| 2 | 17 year olds living in Miami - trouble picking up girls (Other friend posting now)You can't buy a woman's affection and the fact that you think a nice car, nice house, nice clothes and expensive booze is what gets girls makes me think your personality is probably shit. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 04:28 AM |
| 1 | 17 year olds in Miami, trouble picking up girls.. HELPWhat sticking point? We can't help unless we know more. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 04:05 AM |
| 11 | How do i "request" (not the word im looking for) a kiss from a girl?You can't. You just have to man up and go for it. The excitement and nervousness is part of what makes the first kiss so enjoyable. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | 17 year olds in Miami, trouble picking up girls.. HELPWe need more information in order to give a good answer. Are you running into the same problem with multiple girls? | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Nevada | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Someone help me understand this text messageShe's just not that into you. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Failed to get her number, add her on facebookIf I'm interested in a girl, I'll make sure I ask for her number. If by some chance I don't get the opportunity to ask, then I move on. Sure, you have nothing to lose by adding her on Facebook, but the chances of it working out are slim. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Wingman Aquisition ThreadCheck out the wingman locator thread on the sidebar. I don't know if there's anyone from NH, but there are quite a few comments, so it's going to be your best bet. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 02:40 AM |
| 18 | How does a shy girl go about getting a one night stand?This is partially true, but if she's a HB4 expecting to go home with a quality guy, she's going to be disappointed. There are plenty of guys who like fat chicks, but the majority of guys won't be interested, and that's assuming that weight is her only problem. All I'm saying is it might not be as easy as going to a bar and saying "Hey, What's your name?" | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 01:07 AM |
| 63 | How does a shy girl go about getting a one night stand?No one is asking, but I think it needs to be known: How attractive are you and are you at a healthy weight? Most of the answers are assuming that you are attractive. If that's not the case, it may be more difficult that we are making it sound. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 12:46 AM |
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