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| 1 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universityIt depends on the context. On dating apps like Tinder, looks matter significantly, especially since many women are just seeking hookups. While being muscular can be a plus, it’s not the main factor for long-term relationships. If you want to get matches, you need to be muscular and have a decent face; otherwise, matches might be from women looking for attention. Social skills also matter, but good looks often lead to better results. I gained 30-35 lbs of muscle, improving my appearance, which cr… | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Hinge burnout , need adviceIf you were muscular with visible abs, you would not struggle to get matches because most men in your age range are in far worse shape than men who are 21-25, so it's not that hard to stand out, you just have to stop being lazy. Gain 30-40 lbs of muscle, or more if you're really tall, take pictures that show off the physique and then proceed to bang every hot single girl in the neighborhood. I know a guy who did just that and he was not a supermodel, he was just jacked. | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universityI hate to break it to you but confidence is cope, you ever see a fat ugly guy get women by being confident? No. It does not matter how confident you are as long as women are not sexually attracted to you. When women are sexually attracted to you, it does not matter if you're shy or introverted, they will make it very easy to sleep with you. Guys talk on and on about game and seduction but the truth is, there are no tricks. If you cold approach a girl, she judges you based on how you look first a… | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universityMuscles matter no matter your height. My oldest cousin is 5'7" and he once told me that getting muscular is like a cheat code to attracting women, because there are such few men out there who are muscular that it makes you stand out and he was right. He used to be in a relationship with fat ugly girl because at the time, he was fat also and had lost his hair but then he got muscular, and met a much better looking girl and today they have 2 kids together and they are very happy. The guys I mentio… | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How do i escape the fuckboy trap?If dates don't work out it's simply because personalities don't match or lifestyles don't match. I went out with a girl a year and a half ago who was friends with my sister and although she was really into me, I was really not into her even though she looked decent, because she was into a very hard party lifestyle and getting drunk and high on a regular basis, as someone who is very sensitive to addiction, I didn't want to risk it. She is not a bad person or a slut or anything like that, she mig… | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 04:24 PM |
| 7 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universityI work out (mostly running, no interest in getting big) That is your main mistake. It took me many years to realize this but eventually I understood that one thing is common among most women. The ones that want to hookup want a muscular guy, preferably one who is tall and has a good looking face, but the muscles are the most important aspect, because it's the most masculine aspect on a man, and highly sexually attractive and it shows that the guy can carry her in his arms and gives the illusion … | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Hinge burnout , need adviceI personally would date each of them, get to know them, and avoid the ones with the biggest red flags. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Hinge burnout , need adviceSeems he said in a previous post he is 31. At that age, women usually are past their prime and so their standards are lower, as long as the guy is in decent shape, even if he does not look like a supermodel, he can get some great success. If he listed a high paying job and assets in his dating profile, that also gives him a huge advantage. I'm 6'4" and a bit muscular (kind of like Brad Pitt in Fight Club or Jared Padalecki in Supernatural) but I'm 26 years old and my competition is a lot higher … | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 7 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universityWork on the basics first (mainly hairstyle, cleanliness, clothes, and so on), then get muscular, then wear clothes that show off that physique as much as possible then try again. Another effective option is building social circles by making lots of friends, inviting those friends to activities, then get invited to private parties, meet girls there, and your competition is automatically a lot lower because you're part of the group so you have their trust. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you think joining toastmasters would help me increase my social skills especially when it comes to talking to women?If you're so shy that it makes you appear creepy, then yes, toastmasters can help you. Otherwise, I'd say it's simply a matter of finding someone you like and seeing if they like you back, and if not, then you repeat again and again until you get a match, just like you would on a dating app. | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 09:03 PM |
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