I recently started using Hinge about a week ago and have already gone on two dates. So far, I’ve matched with around 85 women, many of whom are quite attractive—easily 7s to 9s. Some of the conversations have been decent too.

Here’s where I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed: I’ve already moved about 20 of these matches to WhatsApp, and I’m trying to set up dates. The process is starting to feel exhausting.

My question is: What do you guys recommend in terms of balancing quality vs. quantity? Should I narrow down my focus to 5 women that I’m really interested in and who seem promising, or should I keep a larger rotation going? I do want to keep a few options open, but I’m new to this and not sure how to best manage things.

Any advice on how to be successful with this approach would be really appreciated!