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SlippyToadsWildRide/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 03:57 AM
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Dated a nurse for a few months, ended amicably (my current LTR is a teacher, FWIW). I have great experiences with nurses. They generally make good LTRs. There are always women in any job that are slutty / not LTR-worthy. Because of the nature of their work, Nurses have lots of opportunities for promiscousness. Dude, women in general have a lot of opportunities for promiscuity. Women gonna women. You can probably rationalize this for any sort of career - finance, law, housewife, Sunday school tea…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:02 PM
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Feminists suck, amirite? BUY MY SHAMPOO Am I the only one who realizes this is just one big ad for "Manpoo" disguised as "Rant/Venting" post? You guys are gullible as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:46 AM
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It's the same with my GF. I bought her a vibrator to use while I fuck her and she cums over and over.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 02:38 PM
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Whenever my LTR makes jokes like these (which is almost never anymore), I always say something along the lines of "Go for it, I'll just get a new girlfriend", like it's no big deal (because it isn't). I say it half-jokingly (like she does), and every time, she immediately backpedals and gets more affectionate with me. The thing is though, you have to appear completely serious when you say that. If you even display a hint of insecurity, or that she got to you, she'll see right through it. With me…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:13 PM
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I do strong lifts and I add assistance at the end with no issues. The stronglifts app even has this built into it. I add weighted dips (3x5) onto workout A, and chinups (3xAMRAP but no more than 10, if you complete 3x10 at BW, then do weighted 3x10) + preacher curls (2x8) on workout B. No issues at all, arms are bigger, and I look great.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:21 PM
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I think people in general shouldn't aspire to be a copy of someone else, because they won't succeed. They should aspire to carve their own path and use other people as inspiration, but nothing more. As for Heff and Bilzerian as inspirations? Eh, I think there are better role models out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 05:23 AM
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I agree with your overall point about Bilzerian, but: Failed poker career Failed SEALs training Who cares? At least he tried. There's nothing wrong with failure, in fact failure is good, because you learn more about yourself and can use what you learned to do better next time. Also, like 99% of people fail SEALs training, so I guess they're manchildren as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 05:20 AM
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The word "your" in the wording of your question "how many of you are with your beta bux?" implies that it's their goal to find a BB, so it's understandable that /u/_wingnut_ thought that's what you meant. I didn't ask of you were about finding a BB. I asked if anyone had done it. Then you should have asked "How many of you have settled down with / dated a beta bux?" Because what you actually asked is different than what you wanted to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 05:05 AM
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Wow, what a sexist thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:02 AM
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I think they have every right to not have kids if they don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:02 AM
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Read this article by Mark Manson called "Vulnerability and Manipulative Women". He explains vulnerability very well in a way that is more like "set boundaries for what is acceptable behavior to you". Very good read, IMO. Vulnerability is not "being weak and needy" like many people seem to think.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 06:04 PM
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I think when people hear "vulnerability" they immediately picture some soft guy pouring his heart out in a needy, pathetic way. In reality, vulnerability is more in line with what you say in the OP and what Manson says in Models. He has a great blog post on the subject (as well as manipulative women) that's worth the read and that I recommend to everyone.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:37 PM
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You're not going to get an honest answer, or at least the answer you're looking for, because anyone with a brain can see that this is a gotcha question and will give you the answer that best avoids the "gotcha!" part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 09:45 PM
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Because we're hard wired to view both genders differently in order to increase our chances of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:22 PM
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Not all bluepills are liberal feminists. But all liberal feminists are bluepills. See also: Fox News - not racist, but most popular with racists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:18 PM
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I was aware, but couldn't verbalize it or explain it. Starting from around puberty it went in the following order: Unaware --> Subconsciously Aware --> Consciously Aware, but can't Verbalize/Explain. Once I read about Evo Psych and some PUA (this is before RP), I became consciously aware. Then RP became more popular, but I was already aware at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:25 PM
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I've never experienced someone in person who actually believes this. I see it only on the internet and I just don't respond to them, similarly to how I don't respond to young earth creationists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:19 PM
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TRPillers believe that the way our society has developed is part of human nature. They reject the effects of cultural and social conditioning... This is wrong. Anyway, to address your main point, I lean red but I'm voting the fuck out of Bernie Sanders. I don't take everything TRP says as dogma. I use what benefits me, and I love evolutionary psychology. Part of evo psych is that culture and society plays a big role in behaviors (but by no way is it the only role, nature is also a big factor).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 03:04 PM
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Yes I think women want sex more frequently, but only with a smaller number of men, aka top tier men, or men they're very attracted to. Men do want a lot of sex, but their standards on who they will fuck are a lot lower, so they pursue more women. But as far as libido goes, under the right circumstance, I think women are the hornier gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:59 PM
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Yes it's perfectly ok, and I think most people are hypocrites already when looking for a partner, eg: "I don't have a stable job, but I want a man who is financially stable." Will you get shamed for it? Depends on what the double standard is. But ultimately, it's your life, fuck what other people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:52 PM
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Because they're mad and want to blame something, and feminism is easy to blame. That being said, I do think that today's "reward women, punish men" culture definitely amplifies natural beta behavior in men, but it also amplifies natural shitty women's behavior. Basically, there are natural aspects to both, but moreso cultural. Also, I don't think that once you're born beta, you will always be beta. There is no genetic predisposition to permanent betaness. Any beta can become alpha under the righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:49 PM
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I started to type out the whole "I don't really care, if he's happy then good for him" thing, but the more I thought about it, the more I DO look down on cuckolds, or men in "poly" relationships where his wife is smoking hot, but in an "I feel bad for you" kind of way. If it's a poly relationship where the wife isn't that hot, then I don't look down on him. Yes that sounds fucked up, but it's my gut reaction and I can't help it. I'll never openly judge somebody for being a cuck, but I'm imaginin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:35 PM
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I'm glad this is the first challenge, because I think it's one of the most, if not THE most important, as it plays a major factor in your T levels. Here are some facts about sleep you may not know: Almost all of your body's testosterone is produced during sleep - Source Conversely, lack of sleep inhibits testosterone production - Source REM sleep episodes are when the quantity of testosterone in your body peaks, and sleep that misses these episodes leads to lower long term testosterone levels - …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:39 PM
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Because we understand and can relate to the anger, since we've had it at one point, or still have it. Because it's one of the very few, if not only, places to discuss such issues that we as men face out in the open, unfiltered, and without judgement. Because nobody else takes us seriously, they dismiss our problems, they give us advice that doesn't work, they tell us we're wrong and to just deal with it. TRP actually listens to us and validates our issues, then encourages us to overcome them and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 04:48 AM
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For the most part, yes. The fictional characters that are marketed to women are usually plain or average women who manage to get the most alpha man to want to commit to her for no reason other than that he's simply attracted to her. See: 50 Shades, Twilight, or most romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 08:24 PM
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Keeping your morals to yourself and not judging others implies that you have morals. Being amoral implies you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:37 PM
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they're proudly against moralization Maybe I haven't read enough RP material, but I don't believe this to be true. Everybody (aside from sociopaths) has morals. What RP says is that sexual strategy is amoral. Meaning that as humans, we can't help who we're attracted to, even if the reasons for it may not consciously make sense. I don't think TRP advocates being a person without morals, it advocates recognizing that men and women are attracted to certain things, despite their upbringing, morals, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 08:28 PM
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FW: FW: FW: FW: FW: FW: FW: Re: FW: a womans love
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 07:43 PM
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I'm not saying you should. Where did I say that? You said that 6s don't get good commitment minded men to pursue them. I said that they do, they're just off your radar because they aren't attractive. And that's totally fine to not be attracted to them. But 7s, 8s, 9s, and 10s experience the exact same thing you do. Because to a 9 woman, a 6 or a 7 man isn't on their radar like he might be for you. So you see these "good, commitment minded men" pursuing 8s and 9s, but all they see is what you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 01:54 PM
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Dude, you should lift more. If you're at the gym lifting more, you won't be on reddit reading all the lifting posts in trp. Problem solved! tl;dr: lift
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 10:59 PM
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You probably pursed 6s, 7s, and 8s, while not even acknowledging the 4s and 5s who would date you in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 10:55 PM
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Also keep in mind that every top [X]% number generalization is implied that it's within a certain mating market (as well as what each woman considers to be high status). So an attractive 28 year old goth artsy guy could be an 9/10 to a late 20s business woman who is into goth artsy guys, a 7/10 to a 23 year old woman in the goth community who hangs around more goth guys and has more options, and a 0/10 to a 19 year old sorority girl at a state college. So the goth guy can be the top 10% of men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 03:17 PM
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I like this description a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 03:06 PM
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Here's a post from an AMA from an evolutionary biologist that is relevent And another from an evolutionary psychologist AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 02:57 PM
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Confirmation Bias 4 words Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 02:51 PM
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So your problem has more to do with people using results that psychologists find as "evidence" for their shitty beliefs, rather than the field of study itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 01:15 PM
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I'd argue you're more "RP" (in the sense that you are constantly working on the best version of yourself possible) than the OP. He sees TRP as a checklist of behaviors to emulate, but it's more about understanding yourself, how people interact with each other, and how to make the best of the hand you were dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 01:52 AM
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My fake personality You're doing it wrong, and high self esteem women are eventually going to see this the longer they're around you, if they haven't avoided you entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 01:48 AM
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Lifting is definitely underrated - both for men, and even more so for women. Just go onto /r/Fitness and look at the transformation posts from both sexes. And that's just the visual benefits of it. It also makes you healthier, and improves your discipline, among many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 01:42 AM
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What's your opinion on evolutionary psychology and evolutionary biology? Most blue pillers I've read dismiss them as "pseudo science." I know your comment is only comparing peer reviewed studies relative to hearsay, but I'm still curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 01:24 AM
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Where does TRP say that? I know men don't care much for a woman's status when it comes to casual sex, but I thought it was pretty well-known that status is definitely a factor when choosing a long term mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 09:17 PM
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First of all, I'm not sure where it was said that no man is after a woman for her money. It does happen. That being said, it could be a number of reasons. It could be racism/stereotyping at play. If guys see a black woman who makes a good salary, they might think "Ok, she probably isn't ghetto." It could also just be as simple as "Ok, she makes good money, she probably won't be a gold digger or a financial leech." Or they could be guys looking for a sugar mama. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 09:13 PM
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15 one night stands over a span of 10 years isn't that high to me (and I do factor in number count when selecting a long term partner). What matters more with that number is the following: Did you make me wait a couple weeks because you "aren't that kind of girl"? Or did we fuck on the first or second date? Did you lie and claim to have only been with a low number of men? Are you an awesome person who I like hanging out with and want to add to my already awesome life, or are you boring, vapid, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 05:12 PM
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But having men to blame makes it easier to avoid confronting the REAL source of their problems - themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 01:23 PM
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I agree with you, but I think that blaming ANYTHING in general for your problems and STILL not doing anything about it is really what gets you nowhere. You can acknowledge and blame something for your problems, while at the same time, take action to work through those problems, despite the handicap it blesses you with. The problem, is that it's way easier for someone to just blame something for all of their problems and call it a day than it is to take action to improve themselves and confront w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 01:22 PM
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In your girlfriend's eyes (and a decent amount of people in general) she isn't working out towards a goal, but working out IS the goal. As long as she's doing something easy that makes it look like she's "doing fitness", that's all that matters. It's the same logic that the DYEL skinnyfat guys you see in the freeweight section doing nothing but dumbell curls have. To be fair though, spin classes can get pretty intense. She may lose weight, but she'll still have a soft body.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:49 AM
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I should have made myself more clear: men aren't more choosy than women for LTRs, they're more choosy for LTRs than they are for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 05:17 PM
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income, compatibility, character, status, loyalty, etc Yes, they weigh these things quite heavily, but there are SO MANY men that possess at least a minimum required amount of the above, therefore she has a large pool of men with these qualities to select from and doesn't need to be as picky as she does with casual sex. EDIT: To clarify my original point: I meant that women are more choosy for casual sex than they are for LTRs, while men are more choosy for LTRs than they are for casual sex. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 05:15 PM
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You don't have to, and your opinion is totally valid. You'll most likely end up as some woman's plan B safe option though. If you're ok with that, then that's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:30 PM
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Women are more choosy than men when it comes to romantic partners. (I actually thought it was the opposite before) It is the opposite, if I'm not mistaken. Women are more choosy when it comes to CASUAL SEX partners than men are, due to it being way more risky for women than men (from an evolutionary perspective). Women are less choosy when it comes to LTRs though. Men are more choosy when it comes to LTRs, since they don't want to risk committing to a woman who will cuckold them (again from an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:22 PM
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I don't even think most porn stars have that many. I'm pretty sure most pornstars are well into the thousands. Yes, 400 is really high. My point was that everyone has a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:11 PM
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I agree. I also think a factor nobody talks about is "did she make me wait a while, and if so, how many guys did she not make wait?" I could see myself maybe LTRing a girl with a slightly higher number count if we started off purely as fuck buddies, and a relationship developed from that. But if a girl with the same "higher number" made me wait, then nope, no LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:52 PM
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What if she didn't want to have sex for the first month of seeing you, and then you later find out she had fucked 400 guys before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:49 PM
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"That's only because you can't make a decision to save your life, so somebody has to!"
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 01:33 PM
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Teasing works better on 8s and 9s, or girls who are confident in their SMV. With insecure girls, you have to tone it back a little. You CAN tease them lightly, once they've gotten a little comfortable with you. If you're just starting to talk to them and you tease them right away, they might misinterpret it as you making fun of them. But if you already have a little rapport, and she feels somewhat comfortable, you can slip the occasional effective tease in and she'll respond positively.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:27 PM
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Because in most of their interactions with men, the men are super nice, agree with everything they say, and try really hard not to piss them off thinking it will get them laid. Women see right through this. The men are basically signaling "your approval is very important to me", which women see as pathetically weak. Now, along comes a guy who playfully teases them. He stands out from the sea of loser men, since men barely ever talk to her like that. On top of that, being able to effectively teas…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 12:57 AM
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Christina Hoff Summers should get her videos on there.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 05:39 PM
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I'm heavily against it. http://i.imgur.com/rczBdqf.gifv
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:22 PM
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I think you have 1 definition of value, when really, you can value different people for different things. In your case, value = resources (not money, but emotional and social resources). I value my guy friends, who I have absolutely no interest in having sex with, far more than I value a random guy I see on the street who (to borrow a TRP phrase) gives me "tingles." Evolutionarily speaking, you're basically saying "I value my guy friends for their beta qualities and I value the guy on the street…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:41 PM
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The Chad/Stacy part was just too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:27 PM
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So basically this law implies that women view sex as transactional? "I made a deal with him - my pussy for access to his money - but the product wasn't as advertised!" This law also implies that women are fragile beings with no agency and need someone to hold their hand to reduce their risk that comes with equality and freedom, because they can't do it on their own. The law is basically saying this: Are you a man who wants freedom and agency? Great! But it comes with a lot of risks that you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:24 PM
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If you sleep with someone, aren't they by definition "in your league"? I think he's referring to league for long term relationships, and not short term hookups. The two are different and reversed for each gender, ie: it's a lot harder for men to have multiple casual sex partners with attractive women than it is for them to get into a long term relationship with 1 woman of equal "quality". Conversely, it's easier for women to have multiple casual sex partners with attractive men, but harder for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:47 AM
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Maybe if there was less slut shaming, some of those 80% might be getting laid more? Seeing as women do the vast majority of slut shaming to other women (who see each other as competition for the top tier men no doubt), I highly doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:37 AM
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typical "PUA" tactics. He didn't neg me, try to make me jealous or anything like that. Those "tactics" you're referring to are over a decade old and aren't what PUAs teach anymore because they're stupid. If you want to see how PUAs are today, check out Real Social Dynamics, or Simple Pickup. You think negging = PUA, but really negging = bad PUA. You can't see the good PUAs, similar to how you don't notice the good toupees.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 04:22 PM
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They thought they could get by on just their looks longer than they actually could, now they're starting to realize that their shitty personalities can't make up for it. I'll bet money that she has no interesting qualities and is a terrible person to be around. She's eventually going to realize that she has to settle for some poor beta and a life of mild comfort, little true happiness, and a lot of anti-depressants. Looks like the chickens hens are coming home to roost.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:30 PM
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That's shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:45 PM
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I sort of agree with the gist of your post, except for this: According to evolution people rarely lived to be past the age of 25 or so You are wrong on several fronts. First, the average life expectancy for paleolithic men was 35 years, not 25 (it was 30 years for women). Second, that statistic factors in infant mortality rates. So if 1 guy lived to be 70, and a baby died at childbirth, the average life expectancy would be 35 years old. Basically, researchers found that if you survived early lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:40 PM
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/r/titlegore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 07:04 PM
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http://thematinggrounds.com/ They have a great podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 04:54 PM
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My first thought was that since women will always have the option of getting a baby, there won't be a point in locking down a provider to get a baby, and as a result, women will only fuck for pleasure, meaning that the top tier of men will be the only men getting laid, leading to a huge population of frustrated betas which will end up in violence. But I thought about it more, and women already have access to this (sperm banks) and yet this isn't happening. I think women still want a provider wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 08:17 PM
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It isn't a big deal [to me] if a woman has a high sexual partner count FTFY. Look, you're talking about personal preferences here. There's nothing wrong with having preferences for the type of woman you want to commit to. Some guys care if their future wife fucked 100 guys before them, some guys don't. If you're a woman who has had miles of dick inside you, find the guys who don't care! Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 01:43 PM
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When it comes to women, not matter what you've been told , most of them want kind man and a gentleman. This is only true when it comes to a long term relationship / marriage / settling down. Most men on TRP are at the age where they're looking for casual sex and women who want casual sex. Women generally put physical attractiveness, status, dominance, etc. above being kind and a gentleman when it comes to one night stands and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 01:20 PM
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Kind of late to this, but hopefully its seen. The tl;dr answer is that it's rooted in evolution with the need to pass on your own genes, as well as the ingrained fear of fathering another man's child. You touched on it in your OP with pregnancy, but then dismissed it because you thought contraception made what we feel deep down obsolete. You have to realize that instincts that culminated in over 100,000+ years of evolution don't just go away because we now have new technology. That innate feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 02:20 PM
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Women are more selective when it comes to casual sex. This is due to the huge risk involved (mainly becoming pregnant). Since the risk of becoming pregnant is the same no matter who she fucks, she isn't going to "waste" a fuck on a low status, undesirable guy unless she knows he'll be around to help her afterward. With casual sex, there's no telling what guy will stick around. So she'll seek out the guy with the best genes / highest status in order to maximize the chance of having healthy offspr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 04:09 PM
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CMV: Hating on TRP is the PRIMARY way it grows. One could argue that hating on TRP only piques peoples' curiosity. It's the actual content that causes people to stick and the community to grow. They're both 2 pieces of the "growth" puzzle and are equally important. You can't have growth without both pieces. Think of it from a marketing perspective: A clickbait ad might get you a lot of people looking at your product, but if you have an inferior product, your conversion rate is going to be shit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:38 PM
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Your question has almost nothing to do with OP's original point (that voicing hatred of TRP = free advertising for TRP), but I'll answer it anyway. Women choose what men to have sex with based off of the relative quality of men they have access to. So let's say a large portion of the male population improves their attraction significantly. Women now have a pool of higher quality men to choose from and will still try and go for the top men in that pool. Men will have to compete even more. So if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:25 PM
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I think UK definition is fine The UK definition specifically excludes men from being raped by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 02:41 PM
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Penetrative sexual contact Just to clarify, this includes "made to penetrate" as well, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 02:40 PM
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Wait, so if one spouse has certain things he/she prefers to do and doesn't like to make long term big decisions for the family, it's not considered equal? What if they both want that dynamic? Is it a bad thing? Is a marriage where one spouse does most of the chores and nurturing, and the other makes the bulk of the income and makes long term decisions and they both want that bad in your eyes? I don't think "equal but different" is weaselly at all if both partners CHOOSE to have that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 11:05 PM
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Men tend to assert (or figure out) their status in groups by verbal sparring and teasing with other men in the group. They saw you had the girl's attention and attempted to assert their dominance over you. They did this because they subconsciously determined that they couldn't display higher status by simply talking to her (because they suck), so their next best strategy was to attempt to bring you down below their status. And here's the thing: The girl subconsciously KNOWS this and was observin…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 10:38 PM
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Not sure where you found the claim that RPers think that men are most attractive in their 30's and 40's, do you have a source? Most psychologists agree that the AVERAGE man has the highest mate value (as they call it) in his mid thirties (I'm looking for a source, but I know I've read it before several times). What this means is that your average guy is going to have the most options in his life in his mid thirties, similarly to how the average woman has the most options in her early twenties. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:19 AM
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You're coming from a scarcity mentality. You give off the vibe that this woman is a rarity for you and that you're trying to hold onto her as long as you can because deep down you think you can't do better. You need to adapt an abundance mentality. You need to signal "yeah I like this girl, but if it doesn't work out there will definitely be others, so I'm not worried. If she does anything to cross boundaries, she isn't worth my time and I'll find someone who is." You adapt this abundance mental…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:27 PM
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I'm surprised there hasn't been a GBP/tendies reference yet.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:42 PM
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Mine's only a 2005, looking to trade up Why are you so hypergamous with sport bikes? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 02:17 PM
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That's like saying "I find it amusing when black people who aren't enslaved, thanks to republicans, decide not to vote republican."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 05:27 AM
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I agree with your point that just experiencing a lot of cocks doesn't lead to resting bitch face, but if that's all you got from that post, I think you missed the point of it. The OP was basically stating that so many women in their 30s and up are bitter and angry because their value is plummeting, since they never bothered to develop any other redeemable qualities other than their looks, and thought they would be just as hot and desired as long as they wanted to be. RPers basically call this "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:09 PM
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A guy in another sub explained this very well: The simple fact about 50 Shades is that its a female power fantasy. Yes, she's "the sub" and he's "the dom" but the entire point of the book is he needs her and he'll do anything for her. This is the essence of female power under the traditional gender roles; the ability to enlist male agency through the power of innate feminine preciousness and specialness. In short; the female power fantasy involves getting the biggest baddest most desirable male …
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:11 PM
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You still need to approach and initiate with women who you're attracted to. Yes by this action alone, it shows that you want something from them (ie: sex at a minimum). But, your behavior basically needs to signal "yeah I think you're attractive and want to pursue you, but if it doesn't work out I honestly don't give a shit because I'm already awesome and know I'll just find someone else". This is the behavior of a high status man. When you work on yourself, you adopt this behavior.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 07:03 PM
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She's doing it because it's the only way she knows how to push your buttons. Getting butthurt is probably the worst thing you can do to her attraction to you. To answer your questions: 1) You need to implement more amused mastery. For example: Her: I love his body, he's sexy. You (nonchalantly without missing a beat): Yeah, I'd fuck him! or Her: The guy who served me coffee today was sooo hot. You (amused, thinking all of this is funny): You guys should totally date! I'll just find a new girlfri…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:57 AM
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No shit? That's like saying "CMV: AA is mostly comprised of life's alcoholics". TRP attracts men who are unattractive and looking to improve themselves and vent in a safe environment to people who will listen and understand them. It also appeals to former incels who have achieved what they want and now want to give guidance to others who are still struggling. Basically, in TRP you have the following: Bitter, pissed off loser guys who want to rant and seek to improve themselves in a space with li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 03:55 PM
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Tucker Max actually did a really good writeup / analysis about this: http://tuckermax.me/karens-owens-and-the-duke-fuck-list/ Excerpt: Karen Owens is not an empowered woman: As a reaction to the negative commentary, there was a wave of people defending her, mainly by calling her “empowered.” The first time I read this I laughed out loud. Surely only a dumb sorority girl looking for justification for all the dicks she sucked last weekend would think that. Then I saw it over and over again...and r…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:28 PM
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Of course you should respect your LTR. Just don't respect her more than you respect yourself or else SHE won't respect you (and why should she respect someone who doesn't respect themselves?).
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:27 PM
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The entire biological drive for men to accomplish as much as possible is rooted in the desire to secure as many resources as possible in order become an attractive mate, stick out from other men, and to preserve our life as long as possible in order to pass on our genes. Society was built off of this biological drive. It's an unconscious motivator most of the time as well. The reason for literally everything we do can be boiled down to our need to pass on our genes. "Let me tell you something: i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 06:14 PM
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Read up on /r/paleo and /r/keto. Natural fat is actually GOOD for you, unlike what you've been told your whole life. She's so thin because her diet is mostly fat and proteins with little carbs. Fat doesn't make you fat.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 02:23 PM
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Generally speaking, if you want to have a chance with 8s and 9s, you need to become an 8 or a 9 yourself. That being said, different factors were at play. Maybe to HER SPECIFICALLY, you had a higher SMV. Maybe she felt like she was a 6 or a 7 that night, even though you saw differently. Maybe because of your position, it elevated you from a 6 to a 7 or 8. Lots of different environmental/mating market factors have an impact on your SMV. If you think you're a 6, that usually means you can be anywh…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 02:31 PM
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I posted this in a TRP thread titled "Why don't women catcall?" a while back explaining why women hate being catcalled and that as a man, cat calling is one of the most unattractive things you can do. I feel like it's relevant for this thread as well: Why don't women catcall? My guess is the same reason they don't usually initiate - they like being pursued and don't want to appear desperate. I can't see why women claim to hate being catcalled. I can think of 4 reasons this is probably the case, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:37 PM
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I disagree. It's very relavent. Humans don't just disregard millions of years of hard wired evolved behavior just because we all of the sudden have infrastructure and modern amenities. The imperative to protect women is still a major player in human behavior. It just looks different today, but it's still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 01:46 PM
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This is an incredible post, but I'm worried a lot of noobs are going to interpret it as "stop approaching women, women will just come to you." For the readers who are thinking this: Sure some might if you just sit back, but as a man you need to approach and initiate with women and this means you will be conveying interest in them. I said this in a reply just now, but you basically need to communicate interest AS WELL AS freedom from outcome. You need to basically signal "yeah I'm attracted to yo…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:07 AM
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Obviously you need to communicate interest in a woman. But you need to do it in a matter that also communicates freedom from outcome. You need to basically signal "yeah I'm attracted to you, but if it doesn't work out I don't give a shit because my life is already awesome and I know I'll find someone else anyway"
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:02 AM
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Original post got deleted, here's the text (Part 2): I've tried calling my ex and asking him if he'd take the kids most or all of the time and he just said "Sure, if you can pay the child support and child care they need for when they get out of school and I'm still at work. This is why I only get my kids weekends. I have a real job and I'm already gutted paying you child support and alimony. I don't have enough to pay for before and after school care on top of it. But if you want to cover the c…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:36 PM
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Original post got deleted, here's the text (Part 1): So long story short I got married at 19 between my freshmen and sophomore year of college because I was young and thought I was in love. During college I gave birth to my daughter but still managed to graduate and get my teaching credential. Had my son three years later. I got divorced 2 years ago because I felt like I bound myself to someone too young too soon and I felt like my husband was holding me back. I never really got to enjoy being s…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:35 PM
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Why don't women catcall? My guess is the same reason they don't usually initiate - they like being pursued and don't want to appear desperate. I can't see why women claim to hate being catcalled. I can think of 4 reasons this is probably the case, and it involves a combination of all of them: 1) Cat calling is low risk, cowardly behavior, and it shifts the burden of having to lead onto her. When you catcall someone, ie: yelling something sexual at her while she's walking by, when you have the op…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:28 AM
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Definitely. In my opinion, two involved parents are always better than one, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 04:35 AM
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Yes, definitely. Although I learned it before it was TRP on Reddit (the general principles and strategies are the same / similar). I used to be a huge doormat, went through a trial and error cringey phase when I was learning, then started internalizing what worked and what didn't. As a result, I had become much more attractive, slept with lots of women, got bored of that, and have been in a fulfilling LTR for about 4 years now. If I hadn't learned this stuff (and it's not 100% TRP, there was def…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 04:29 AM
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Is that really unique to TRP though? No, in fact I'd go so far as to say that nothing in TRP, save for the lingo, is unique to it. You can find nearly everything in TRP out there somewhere. TRP just curates it and makes it easier to understand and digest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 04:17 AM
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Coincidentally, Dr. Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max have a podcast they just released that talks about "nice guys", the friend zone, etc. I think everyone at PPD would find it interesting. http://www.thematinggrounds.com/the-mating-grounds-podcast-episode-23-friends-and-the-friendzone/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 03:29 AM
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I understand your point. Just a few things though: Except many RPers seem to be relatively young (the emphasis on college and going out for an example). True, many red pillers are low-mid 20s, but there is a large RP subset of men who are older and in marriages or have been divorced. RP principles still apply, and you'll find many older RPs attribute what they've learned to saving their marriages. I feel TRP is too much influenced by the mistakes that are made in their youth, which negatively in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:05 PM
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Your BF has mostly "beta" qualities, and that happens to be what you are looking for in a man right now. But more importantly, you seem like a decent person who won't take advantage of his kindness and generosity. This is key, because according to RP theory, most women aren't like you. Sure there are a lot of women who are nice, kind people, but even those women would still take advantage of guys like your BF, or, more commonly, just not be attracted to those guys. This is why communities like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 09:23 AM
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Right, I agree with you. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 06:05 PM
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Sexual objectification of a woman is more or less seeing her as a walking fleshlight without taking into account anything about her personality or humanity. A lot of guys misunderstand what it means when a woman says "don't objectify me!" She isn't saying "don't notice that I have tits, an ass, a nice smile, and a great body." That would be ludicrous, especially if she's showing those qualities off. What she's really saying is "don't notice those things while simultaneously ignoring the fact tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 04:05 AM
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The way I see it, there are 2 types of dread game: passive and active. Both can be employed by any gender, but for this post, I'll assume it's the man employing it. Passive dread is a natural occurrence and result of generally being attractive and desired by people. You don't directly do anything and it's very subtle / plausibly deniable. A lot of times, people don't even know they're doing it. An example is when you're a guy who is out with your GF and you get hit on by other women who are "aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 02:34 PM
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However he is EXTREMELY charismatic, lead singer of a band, was the social secretary of his frat, ridiculously handsome, and was generally 'the guy' everyone knew. I've been described as an '8.7 out of 10' By all accounts what we have SHOULD NOT EXIST per TRP reality. This guy is oozing status (most important quality), has good looks, a charming personality, and you're allegedly a very attractive woman. This is literally Red Pill Theory (more specifically, human mating strategies / evolutionary …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 01:13 AM
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Warning 1: I don't think I'm allowed to post the thread here. So if you want to see it it's in my most recent post history. If you want to post the thread without providing a link to it, just go to redditlog.com, then paste the link of the thread. You'll get a new read-only link. It's the only type of link to other threads that the mods approve of anyway.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:54 PM
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Athol Kay explains it perfectly in The Married Man Sex Life Primer: The Captain and First Officer Model Jennifer is certainly not mindless. She’s not sitting at my feet as I write with a leash and a collar. She doesn’t just sit around and wait for direction. She’s actually one of the most competent people I know. I’m not going to spell out what she does for work, but I can assure you she is extremely talented and a vital resource for her company. She’s a smart lady. I’ve come to understand our p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 12:18 AM
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Is this really RP? The fact that this guy spent so much time trying to make this girl feel like shit just implies that she had that much influence on his life. He should have just dumped her ass, deleted her from his life, never spoke to her again, and moved the fuck on.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 02:52 PM
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FYI, Deimorz's post is the first comment, not the actual thread post.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:41 PM
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For the lazy, the Google definition is: the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 03:33 PM
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While it's true that there are a lot of women who are indifferent to chubby/out of shape men, and some that even prefer it, most studies (no I don't have them in front of me at the moment, sorry) show that women generally prefer a male body type with wide shoulders, thin waist, lean physique, not overly muscular (aka incredible hulk), but with clear definition. Lifting is the easiest way to achieve this body type. In addition, lifting improves your health, increases your testosterone, and genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 02:25 PM
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When you started bragging about all the FWBs you have, you killed anything you had going in that exchange. Even though it was an attempt at a joke, and you weren't serious, it came off as insecure and try-hard. And then you failed her shit test when she asked what you need her for. Even though you were joking about having FWBs left and right, she knew there was a hint of seriousness to what you said, or she was just oblivious to the joke all together, since it's hard to communicate sarcasm via t…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 01:17 AM
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You say this, but just a few hours ago, when /u/alphabetmod said: One other thing... I think you're missing that a lot of the things you linked to are satire/exaggerations/sarcasm that you might be missing. Ex: Pic #20 in the imgur album, 23, 37 etc etc.. That doesn't excuse, and I'm not defending about half of the posts, but the other half or so are obviously not serious. you replied with: Even if they're not serious, it doesn't mean it isn't bigotry. That's like making an obviously racist joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 01:24 AM
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What are some good examples of the useful 'nuggets of truth'? I never used the word "truth", but off the top of my head: Any post under "The Basics" on TheRationalMale.com, eg: There is No ONE | The Cardinal Rule of Relationships | The Desire Dynamic | Schedules of Mating Shit Tests 101 Anything posted by /u/Archwinger is, generally speaking, good info that's well-written The Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/14 10:07 PM
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So you don't want any good advice to permeate through TRP, because more guys will be drawn to the good advice and (by association) the misogyny, right? I see what you're saying, and I agree with you, but until there's an ideal community that becomes just as popular as TRP, I just don't see it happening. There's too big a demand for the good advice, and guys are going to take it any way they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/14 09:52 PM
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While those sites are all high quality, and highly informative, only 1 of those links (the dating coach / PUA) is directly relevant to TRP, and sex/dating advice for men, but yet it doesn't even get down to the core of TRP which is the "why" of everything. Like what /u/fr1ction said. TRP is based on evo psych and evo biology (very loosely, it gets misrepresented and stupid conclusions are drawn from it, but not everything is wrong.) I should have been more clear in my post above. The information…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/14 09:44 PM
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If you identify with TRP but agree that the multitude of examples I just provided indicate that TRP is sexist, how can you dissociate whatever TRP means to you from what the mods, the endorsed contributors, and the lesser known members who are clearly misogynists say it is? What is so unique and redeeming about TRP that makes wading through the hate and the pseudoscience worth it? I'm going to attempt to answer your question as best as I can. I don't identify 100% with TRP, but there are bits of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/14 07:15 PM
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