Sitting in the car tonight with son. Tone was cordial, or "normal" as the case may be. My son was talking with her about dad playing minecraft with him, something I almost never do, and she told him it was too late in the night for that (10pm work night). My son replied you cant decide that for dad. Then que her response. She said to my son "I don't make decisions for your father" then looked at me and said "he has made that very clear". I treated as a shit test and did A&A by saying "yep, and soon I will issue royal decrees with my seal". Convo went on to other things with the son.

Having a hard time processing what happened here. Tone was not whiny, condescending, or snappy.

EDIT: Context