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"4 year relationship. She's great. " versus "She's going to go camping with an ex boyfriend without me and doesn't see it as inappropriate" One of these is true.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 01:22 AM
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There are lots of guys who are at least this far behind on child support. Interstate child support is extremely complicated. The people who manage it have to navigate a myriad of different conflicting regs
/r/MensRights01/07/17 06:58 PM
1

You don't get to choose who you are attracted to. Don't you think gay men living under Islam would change who they are attracted to if they could? Don't you think pedophiles would change who they are attracted to if they could?
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:03 PM
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5LL would be great if the problem that you were trying to solve was communication. The problem isn't communication. It's lack of desire. It's covert contracts that stem from a lack of desire. It's a woman who doesn't want to leave the stability of her marriage, but doesn't feel attracted to her husband anymore. That gets fixed with lifting and taking care of your shit. That's what speaks to her lizard brain, where desire lives.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 03:22 AM
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I followed 5LL. I did everything I was supposed to do, and my wife divorced me. I spent 2 years in utter confusion as to why, until I found TRP/MRP. Now I follow RP. I'm much happier. When my girlfriend has a meltdown, I know why, and I know what I should do because of RP. (hint: talking about it won't help) So, 5LL will let give you extra information, but it's not a prescription for how to behave, as a man.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 01:15 AM
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Polish up your resume and start the job search. It's not a communist company. It's a capitalist one. They'll pay you the smallest amount they have to. You'll have to justify a pay raise with a hard offer for more money elsewhere.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 02:47 AM
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Statistically he has more than 5 years left. Life expectancy from birth is 80. From 75 it's more like 90.
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 02:10 PM
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It's okay to feel guilty as long as that guilt doesn't drive you to make bad decisions (like getting back together with her)
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:05 AM
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The problem is that the schools overly reward things that girls are better at (organization skills develop faster in girls than boys) and under reward anticipation and insight. If the teacher is trying to teach a concept and you get it before anyone else, there's no reward. The teacher is going to continue along the path until all the kids get it. The real world doesn't work this way. There are large rewards for learning things faster than others. There's a lot more to this, but I'm on my phone.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 01:47 PM
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Her statement says that the passive dread is working. This is a good thing for you! Think nothing more about it.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 02:45 PM
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You said "hey, honey, I want to leave the stability and financial success I've experienced to go find myself among the flowers and trees". She's 32. She has to have babies NOW or never. You've just red-flagged yourself as a babymaker/provider. If I were her, I'd have already moved out. She wants babies because her biological alarm clock just went off. you want to be a baby yourself. This won't work. edit: I had typed out "In her eyes, you want to be a baby yourself." Sorry, totally different mes…
/r/askMRP03/06/17 02:43 PM
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When you genuinely have something to contribute, contribute it. Be short and to the point. You might find that your insight is wrong, and someone corrects you. Learn from it and move on.
/r/askMRP03/06/17 02:10 AM
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So, you're asking what two consenting adults can do in private? I'm confused here. 17 years, 364 days old: You're a fucking pedophile creep and should kill yourself. 18 years 0 days old: You go guy, way to score a young hot chick. Woo hoo.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 03:45 AM
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When you "deal with her bitchy attitude for 48 hours", you put yourself entirely in her frame. Her: "Can we stop and get my loofah quinoa?" You: "No." Her: "What? Why not?" You: "Because I don't want to." It sounds like you don't value your time, and so she doesn't value your time either.
/r/askMRP29/05/17 01:23 AM
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Don't get married. There is NO reason for you to get married. None at all. You can stay with her until the day you die or she does. You can own property together. You can sign papers so that she has power of attorney if you are put into a state where you can't make decisions for yourself. Every single thing that you think you get from marriage can be had in another way. The only reason that you might get married is so that your children have your name. It doesn't matter that people have plane ti…
/r/askMRP27/05/17 02:59 PM
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The more I think about it, the more this is her knowing that she's no longer in control of the relationship. This is a scary place for her to be, but her fears will be assuaged if you prove to be capable of handling everything. She's trying to shame you for not doing some piddly little thing. If you admit to that shame, then you are a small man. If you run away, then you can't handle the role of leader. This is a case of frame. If you respond directly to the threat, then no matter what you do, y…
/r/askMRP26/05/17 06:55 PM
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So, she starts screaming about the counters. She's trying to get you into her frame. Get up and kiss her for 10 seconds. Now she's in yours. I guarantee you that what she's screaming about has nothing to do with the counters. Are you giving her enough sex?
/r/askMRP26/05/17 06:18 PM
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The zipper/tag/non-smooth part of the pillow should be buried at the bottom of the pillowcase. I think that your wife's major butthurt is that if you reject sex from her, then what value does she have? Especially as a SAHM, if you don't want sex, then what is her purpose in life, in the very long term? All of this is silly, but it's at the root of what's going on with her. The next day you comforted her and you should give it no more thought. I can assure you that she has forgotten it except to …
/r/askMRP24/05/17 03:58 PM
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You are in her frame. You are so deep in her frame that you can't see out of it any more. "I don't want to go for a run, but I don't want to be home alone." "Okay." <leave to go for a run>
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 09:04 PM
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The difference isn't how it looks, it's what is actually happening. If you feel like a whiny little bitch, then fake it and pretend you're not. Let the iron of the gym sort out your feelings. If you're feeling like you'd rather be spending time at the gym than with her, then go to the gym and let the iron feel your strength. Either way...
/r/askMRP16/05/17 09:27 PM
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It's perfectly okay to be focused and consumed by your work. At some point, you may find that your work isn't interesting, that it's just one meaningless life-saving procedure after another, one life-changed-for-the-better after another. You may find that you want to do something else with your time. When you get to that point, all I ask is that you not get married and that you budget your money. You'll have enough to last for the rest of your life if you do only these two things.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 08:34 PM
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"I don't want you to see all the nudes that I post of you, so no" "My other girlfriends wouldn't like that."
/r/askMRP16/05/17 05:17 PM
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Losing weight is 90% diet and 10% exercise. Switch to the Keto diet. There's a subreddit for that.
/r/askMRP16/05/17 07:08 AM
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No. You're not a provider. You're a fucking man. So, when we say, "read the sidebar", we don't mean "read the words on the sidebar" we mean, "read the books that the sidebar tells you to read". When did you first come across the red pill?
/r/askMRP16/05/17 06:26 AM
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She needs the emotional roller coaster. It gives her the tingles. When you have an affair, she gets angry, then incredibly jealous, then incredibly possessive, then angry, then sad, then mad, then really really really horny. And that's all in the first 5 minutes.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 01:02 AM
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And there you have it. Your blue pill mentality enabled her psychotic behavior. Ultimately, your situation was entirely in your control. You just didn't know it at the time. (Neither did I, about my marriage!)
/r/askMRP15/05/17 12:18 AM
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You probably try to logical, don't you? You want to help her solve her problem. She wants to experience the full range of human emotion. If you toy with her while she's emotional, it changes her emotional state. It either makes her mad or happy or furious or giddy or grateful and it doesn't matter which, because the goal was to experience the full range of human emotion.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/17 04:22 PM
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The only way to win is not to play
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 11:59 PM
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It doesn't matter if THIS relationship is beyond saving. You are not beyond saving. You can go lift. You can change your diet. You can make yourself better. All these things might save this relationship. They might not. But they'll make you a better version of yourself, and that's the important part.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 11:55 PM
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I was married. I got divorced a few years ago. None of it made any sense when I was going through it. For two years after my divorce none of it made any sense. Then I found the red pill. Now it all makes sense. All of it. One of the first posts I read described my entire relationship, from the time we met to getting married to having a kid to getting divorced. The story might as well have been told by a birdie sitting on my shoulder the whole time. MRP tells you how women behave and why they beh…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 10:33 PM
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MRP accepts that you're in a long term relationship or marriage. It's your ship, and you're the captain, so MRP teaches you to stop making excuses and lead your fucking ship. Almost all the problems in your marriage are caused by you not being a good captain. She's just along for the ride. Once you realize this and behave like a good captain, it's smooth sailing.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 09:42 PM
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If you're using a dating site, your height doesn't match any girl's laundry list of requirements. So it can be a very real reason as to why you don't START with women. But it shouldn't hold you back from succeeding with a woman you've already met. I had a friend that I can only describe as "unfortunate" looking. He was scrawny, hairy in all the wrong places and hairless in all the wrong places. He was getting zero dates based on looks alone. But he was a really cool guy. He had lots of interests…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 08:50 PM
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She's just a woman. She's going to fuck up and you're going to have to fix it. If she drives the car into the garage door, you're going to have to fix it. If she accidentally lets the dogs out, you're probably going to have to go get them. It's good that you're standing up for yourself. But sometimes there's man shit that has to get done, and since you're the man, you're going to have to get it done. When this happens, you're going to get it done quickly and efficiently. You're not going to bitc…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 06:41 PM
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The problem here is that you're letting your in-laws shitty behavior get to you. Was their attempt to set their daughter up with another guy while she was married to you shitty behavior? Hell yeah it was. Should you be pissed about it? Yes and no. If you had been the manly man that you know you could be, then they wouldn't have tried to do that. They were looking out for their daughter, not for you. Can you blame them for this? Yes, it was shitty behavior, but you can take a step back and see wh…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:04 PM
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"You are always so uncompromising" In your mind, is this a compliment or a criticism?
/r/askMRP12/05/17 01:23 PM
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Her invitation to orbit was kind of a shit test. Your attention is valuable. It validates her (that she is worthy of your attention, and not just as a hole to put your dick in). I'm guessing that you're not hooking up with someone else right now 'cause if you were, you wouldn't have time for this girl. Maybe her mindset is a "if he wants me so bad, then he's not worth having sex with". If you were hooking up with someone else, that might be enough preselection to push her over the edge to want y…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:14 AM
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What does this whole interaction tell you about women and the Red Pill?
/r/askTRP12/05/17 02:01 AM
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I don't know what you do on leg press. I've pushed sets of nearly 5x body weight on leg press. It doesn't mean anything. Having strong quads/hamstrings is mostly useless unless you have the core strength to back it up. I'm barely at 1.5 body weight for squats. That means that I could pick up someone 50% heavier than me. That means something. My girl's a big girl. I like big girls. I like 'em sassy. I can lift her because I do squats.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 01:58 AM
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It develops back and core stability. Squats are a complicated lift. You have to have several muscle groups working on coordination and you have to worry about balance at the same time.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 01:54 AM
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"Now get up and go make me a sandwich." So, I'm guessing that you have a bunch of feels tied up in sex. If you don't have it, you feel crappy. That's fine. Most guys experience this. But your wife doesn't want to hear about it. So don't talk to her about it. Lift. Improve your wardrobe. Get a hobby that makes your time more valuable and gets you away from her, out of the house. She can't build up any desire for you because you're always around. She can't spend the day thinking about you and what…
/r/askMRP11/05/17 02:59 PM
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You're changing. It's uncomfortable for her. That means you're actually changing and not talking about it. I thought you did exactly what you should. You didn't defend or explain or engage or try to reason with her.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:26 AM
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Lifting builds muscle. Diet loses fat. Cardio doesn't lose fat unless you're dieting as well. It's easy to eat 1000 calories after you've burned 1000 calories.
/r/askMRP10/05/17 08:51 PM
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It sounds like you're saying, "How do I win this confrontation/situation?" You can't. And you don't want to. By engaging this woman, you are falling into her frame. Her words make no sense to me, because I can't figure out what her goal is with them. I'm guessing that's your thinking too. Is she complimenting you? Is she insulting you? Who cares: By engaging her, you are trying to play chess with a pigeon. You are trying to get in a fight over nothing using words against a pregnant woman. There'…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:03 PM
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Her: "Can you get that big thing from the top shelf and put it in my cart?" You: "Can't your husband help you with that?"
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 01:42 AM
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You struggle with #1.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 03:43 PM
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First, you must accept that EVERYTHING is under your control. Your decisions and follow through are what determines outcome. I recommend that whenever you're unhappy with her you go to the gym and lift. This will solve most of your problems. Most of your relationship problems are not caused by what you think they're caused by.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 03:43 PM
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First off, getting married to her will not fix any of the problems in the relationship. I just want to be most clear about that one point first. Her life is crap because she has no money. If she marries you, then she can leave you and take half your money. That's really all there is to say. I could tell you why she's behaving the way she is, but it really doesn't matter because it doesn't change your goals: lift and move on.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 01:27 AM
1

Bad news: You're in a bad place. Good news: You can fix it. It's going to take a lot of work. Almost all the work will appear to make absolutely no change for the better, and the work itself will be painful and make you uncomfortable. The changes will be so tiny that you won't make any of them. But after a year, you will be in a drastically better place.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 09:02 PM
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She wants money from you. Admit nothing and ghost. Seriously. I know a guy who had a ONS and then got the "I'm pregnant, it's yours" call. The only problem? He's had a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:21 PM
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Denial Anger Bargaining Depression <-- You are here Acceptance
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:40 PM
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My feeling is that this LTR doesn't mean the same thing to you as it does to her. There was a twoX post a while back about a girl who "put her relationship on hold" while she went on a European vacation. After not really finding hot guys to hook up with, she got a message from her landlady that another girl was coming over to her (kinda ex-)boyfriend's apartment while she was gone. The girl lost her mind and was afraid (rightly so) that she had lost her boyfriend just because she wanted to have …
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:58 PM
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If she was still into him, she'd be doing everything she could to get him to come along.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:07 PM
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She wants the full European experience. That means fucking hot guys while she is there. It's up to you what you're going to do about it, if anything. I'd pack up her crap, put it in a storage locker and then go hit the gym. But you do what you want to do.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:05 PM
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When you give her a budget, say, $500/week for food and her discretionary spending, you clearly delineate her sphere of influence. Also, she's not begging you for money.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 12:14 AM
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I would not give her access to your true financial situation. I guarantee that it will NOT go well in the long term. Either you have a dip in earnings and she decides you can't manage the business, or you have a surge and she decides that if she had half your money, she could do whatever she wants without you. I like that you give her an allowance. I would pay all the bills and handle all the finances for the house. Her allowance should cover food shopping (and other household supplies) as well …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 10:35 PM
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The whole point of dread is that words are meaningless, ineffective, and emasculating. If she is taking him for granted, and maybe thinking that she can do better, the first way this manifests is a lack of sexual attraction which quickly leads to a lack of sex. So what can he do to remedy the situation? He can better himself physically by hitting the gym. He can pay more attention to grooming haircut and attire. He can show her, by his actions and the reactions of (especially attractive) women a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 06:04 PM
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Communication with words is less effective and real than communication with actions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 04:39 AM
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The red pill is an understanding of the world as it is. If you, as a red pill aware woman, treat dread as a game, what are you going to do if it ends up as real? What if your man withdraws his attention from you, and you say to yourself, "he's just playing the dread game", and don't change your behavior one bit? What if it's not a game, and because of your behavior, he's no longer interested in you? When a red pill aware man behaves as the red pill tells him to, you are a very happy woman. He kn…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:30 AM
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Right now you don't know why it happened. This is the hardest thing about it. I know why it happened. Not the specifics, but I know it follows the same pattern it's always followed. The good news is that it's all your fault.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 12:34 AM
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The proof is in the pudding. If he's hard with her, but not with the world, then he's just a bully. If he's hard with the world too, then he's a rock she can cling to no matter the storm.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 04:49 AM
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Texting like that with a woman does nothing but remove mystery from who you are. That's a bad thing.
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 01:43 PM
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That phrase is based in the belief that red pillers are woman haters. I would say it's the exact opposite. It's about understanding women. My GF is vastly happier than my ex-wife ever was. When my ex would cry about something, I'd try to commiserate with her and understand her and empathize and sympathize and try to make everything better. She'd be miserable for days, and so would I, then I'd fail and she'd think less of me for it. My GF cries about something. I listen, I tell her I understand, …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:10 AM
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If your only value is sex/being hot, then you're a rapidly depreciating commodity. A 6-7 with a good personality will be someone who will support you when you're down. That's worth more than 1 year of hot sex and a lifetime of hell.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 01:57 PM
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She is now, and will never be, LTR material. She's not even ONS material. You're 15. Why the fuck are you worrying about raising a daughter of your own right now? You're a kid. Go be a kid.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:21 AM
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You are 15 years old, and you're trying to be her white knight, her knight in shining armor, riding in on a white stallion to save her from... what? Herself? Her grandparents call her a slut because she is a slut. There's nothing good (for you) that's going to come of this. You are 15, so I'll give you this one piece of advice, and you must take it to heart. Never, EVER stick your dick in crazy, no matter how hot that crazy is. It will never end well for you, ever.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:20 AM
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You let her express herself. You let her know that you heard every word. And then you lead her towards where she wanted to be. Great job man!
/r/askMRP09/04/17 02:11 PM
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clocks for bombs
/r/PussyPassDenied02/04/17 05:50 PM
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You are a prize. 5'10" @ 170lbs, squatting 225, bench 205, I'm guessing low body fat. You make bank. So, what's not to like? Here's the thing: you can always find someone better than you in some way, shape, or form. I squat 285 5x5, but I'm shorter and fatter than you. My GF has sex with me at the drop of a dime, literally whenever I'm up for it. She cooks, she cleans. It's great. But if tomorrow, she said, "I've found someone who loves me more than you do", I'd say, "Let me help you pack." I li…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 03:26 AM
1

I don't see how the answer to this question is even a little hard.
/r/askMRP29/03/17 04:41 AM
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You don't go hunting a lion in its den. This is the arena where she operates. You are 100% in her frame if you engage her where she operates.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:03 PM
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You're right. It is selfish. But, I mean, look at me. I'm worth it.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 09:29 PM
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Almost everything in the relationship boils down to attraction. If she's attracted to you, then all flaws are overlooked. If she's not, then all flaws are highlighted. It's good to see a man getting results from fixing his flaws. Congrats on 44-> 36 waist!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 12:19 AM
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You knew it was a problem that your wife wasn't able to handle. She asked for your help. You made suggestions and she shot them down. She was left without a solution to the problem. Did you want her to beg? If the light bulb needs to be replaced, do you wait for her to beg you to do it, or do you take care of it?
/r/askMRP22/03/17 07:55 PM
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This wasn't a random interaction. This woman specifically came over to the house to talk to this guy. She wanted to know more about him. For women, information is the only commodity. Did she want to fuck him? She doesn't know enough about him yet. She wouldn't admit openly to it, I'm certain. She probably wouldn't even admit it to herself, but if something happened and she got caught up in the moment, she'd hardly be the one to blame, right? Because of his actions, I'm certain that her curiosity…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:21 PM
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She literally approached him. You're not very good at this game are you?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 08:01 AM
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I have a 7-year-old daughter. She says things. Sometimes she tells me that she's mad at me, but she won't give me a reason. I don't take it too seriously. That's probably most of what TRP means by "treat women like children". Just don't take them too seriously.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:19 AM
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I have been doing these since she was born and I know he'd burn out fast He won't burn out fast from taking care of his child. You are deluding yourself that this is hard. Going to the Salon and clothing stores is expensive and he'd definitely get upset but I need a hair cut and new clothes You're saving up for a house. Buy the house first. You can look pretty later. Who are you trying to look pretty for? Your husband, or a new guy with more money? Your husband already loves you and wants to spe…
/r/RedPillWives16/03/17 12:12 AM
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This is one of the few things that I would 1) die for. 2) willingly go to jail for.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 04:09 PM
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The girl in question was sitting in a sink with her pants around her ankles. The alleged assailant was fingering her pussy at the time. She was a very enthusiastic participant. The judge's comment was a literal one. She was sitting in a sink with her pants around her ankles. Closing her legs to prevent access would have been very easy. In fact, the only way the guy would have access is if she was a VERY willing participant. Feminism LOL has a great youtube video on the details of the situation.
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 04:20 PM
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Your actions (taking care of the kids, directing your wife) were great. Just try it without getting butthurt about it. I think that her mockingly calling you king is actually a good thing, because it's progress towards you actually being king. My ex used to joke that she was the boss, but then that contributed to slowly making it true. (That's why she's my ex and I'm taking the red pill now) She set herself up as the victim. She was the victim of a 4 year old and a 7 year old with ADHD. She know…
/r/askMRP09/03/17 02:56 PM
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You don't value your time, so why should she? She calls you at work: "I'm at work. We'll talk when I get home." She doesn't care what your responsibilities are. She assumes that you are the one managing your time, and if you don't have time to help her, that's a GOOD thing! It means that you're a busy, important man, and your time is valuable. I hope you've learned an important lesson here: don't white knight. Don't swoop in to rescue your girlfriend from her own problem, because that makes you …
/r/askMRP09/03/17 03:32 AM
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They aren't people. Different evolutionary path.
/r/MGTOW06/03/17 07:23 AM
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This is a common myth perpetrated by only assessing IQ between ages 11 and 14, when women have their largest developmental advantage. Men have larger brains. Larger brains = smarter people. Men are smarter than women (on average)
/r/MGTOW05/03/17 08:53 PM
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0) Get a lawyer. 1) Absolutely under no circumstances are you to talk to anyone except your lawyer about this. Anything that you say can and will be used against you in a court of law. Nothing that you say can be used in your defense because it's heresay. I am not a lawyer, but this is the single most important piece of advice you can follow. Don't ever try to "clear your name" to the police. If you are arrested, ask to speak to your lawyer. Nothing that the police ask you is going to be used to…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:15 PM
2

"Honey, I just started a new job, and my finances are low. We aren't going to take a week for vacation like we had planned. Instead we're going to leave on Thursday and get back Sunday. Here's what we're going to do:" Have a plan for the specifics of the vacation before you start the talk. She'll be happy you lead and made a firm decision.
/r/askMRP03/03/17 02:14 AM
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She doesn't want you to play games. She plays games and it's always bad. She wants sex. She wants you to lead. She wants to be told what to do.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 08:06 PM
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She doesn't want an apology. She wants sex. You won the argument by leaving. She came to bed and was cuddling. The argument is now as relevant as the price of tea in China. She bluffed that she was leaving, and you called her bluff. When she came to bed she wanted sex. There's nothing tricky going on here. You're leading. She's following. Just close the deal and go to work the next day.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 08:00 PM
1

Guys also like it when you give them money. Are you asking how to give out money? It's just about as easy to give out as sex is, for a girl under 25, anyway.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:36 AM
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You are missing the point here, and I don't really know what you're looking for. Are you wanting to have sex with lots of different guys or are you wanting to have one quality guy for the rest of your life?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:34 AM
1

You want to be some guy's cheap fuck?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:31 AM
1

He won't.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:30 AM
1

Read the red pill women or red pill wives subreddits. This place is not for you.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:29 AM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:24 AM
1

Not telling your doctor things that you share with random strangers on the internet is a dumb thing to do. Tell your doctor what your problem is or he can't help fix it.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:50 AM
1

I never said that women don't enjoy sex as much as men. I also never said that guys wouldn't fuck anything with a hole, even quality guys. I said they wouldn't commit. You had fun with your girl for a while. But you didn't want to marry her, now did ya! Also, you mention all the fun you had exploring new places sexually with her. Now that she's done all those things with you for the first time (let's just pretend), she can't ever do them with someone else for the first time. She can't form the e…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:35 AM
1

Men like having sex and sluts have sex with anyone (bitches have sex with anyone but you. Old joke, I know). No, men don't want their gf to have had a lot of experience before them. They want to be the one giving her that experience. It's not so much the number of times she's had sex as it is the number of different partners she's had. More is ALWAYS worse. But quality men don't commit to women who are sluts. Just like women don't have any respect for men who will commit to anyone who will have …
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:57 AM
15

The archer needs practice to be good at it. The target doesn't.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:51 AM
1

In reply to your update: "Honey, you can go out drinking with your friends if you want. You can do whatever you want. I will too." There's a really good story about a girl who is going to go on vacation for a couple of months in Europe. She wants to be able to 'fully experience the trip' and tells her boyfriend that she wants to have an open relationship so that if something happens on the trip with her, it won't be cheating. Her boyfriend says 'okay'. A couple of weeks in to the trip, the girl …
/r/askMRP02/03/17 12:36 AM
2

You've been lied to your whole life. Your girlfriend doesn't want an equal partner. She wants someone who is stronger, better, faster and more knowledgeable than she is. When her emotions roll up and down like a rollercoaster, your should be solid as a rock. When she says she's mad at you, don't worry about it. Her: "I'm mad at you for what you told me about the car dealership. blah blah blah" You: "Okay." Her: "That's it? Just 'Okay'? That's all you're going to say?" You: "Yep. Time for me to g…
/r/askMRP02/03/17 12:26 AM
1

Your entire approach to this is wrong. First off, a relationship when you're 26 is one where you exchange your time, attention and money for sex. A long distance relationship is one where you exchange your time, attention and money for ... not a goddamn thing. Why the fuck are you in this relationship? That's the first problem. You should just focus on your career and take all the time you would have spent talking to your friend-without-benefits and go to the gym instead. That's the big-picture …
/r/askMRP02/03/17 12:14 AM
1

I misread your statement as "Or at the very least [it looks strange]" Yes, "She might not be actively having an affair, but she wants to" could be an explanation, but the possibility isn't as likely as that she's currently pursuing her next relationship with her boss.
/r/askMRP21/02/17 08:07 PM
1

Occam's razor says that the simplest explanation is almost always the right explanation. Yes, it could be that she thought it would be awkward to have family around if nobody else was doing it. It could be that she found the opening ceremony uninteresting and all the meetings boring. All of this could be true. It could also be true that the evidence found on facebook that the opening ceremony was VERY cool and all the stuff that's happening is tons of fun is all an elaborate lie. Or, it could be…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 04:01 PM
5

She's having an affair. What's your question?
/r/askMRP21/02/17 06:42 AM
39

That's why, if you meet two girls for the first time, hit on the uglier one. The prettier one will doubt her own self-worth and work hard to get your attention.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 12:28 AM
2

The essence of outcome independence is to own your behavior and actions, and pay the consequences. Let's say you confront the guy and he throws a punch at you. Maybe you hit him back or maybe some stuff in the bar gets broken. The cops are only going to get involved if they have to (and they don't want to). But if he hits you first, he's not calling the cops for you assaulting him. If you pay for any shit that gets broken in the bar, the bar isn't calling the cops either. You can threaten withou…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 01:08 AM
1

The mate guarding that TRP recommends against is the guarding against your mate having any desire for another man. When you forbid her to speak to other men, you are mate guarding. When you punch another guy in the face, or threaten to, to HIM, that's something else. There needs to be a different word for it because it's a vastly different behavior. Let's say some guy is hitting on my date. I get up and confront him, maybe shove him or something. He's 100lbs heavier than me and fit. He knows he …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 01:02 AM
34

This is the opposite of how little boys and girls are treated in school. A boy punches another boy to bully him: he gets suspended. A girl spreads horrible rumors about another girl, making the other girl kill herself: no punishment at all. Bad organization skills because you're a young boy? F for you. Good organization skills, but you're dumb as a rock? A for you!
/r/MensRights17/02/17 03:15 AM
2

Her emotions are her problem, not yours. She doesn't want you to fix her problems with her emotions. She just wants you to listen. Your job is to be an emotional rock. She can experience the highest highs and the lowest lows in a single conversation and she needs to know that she can count on you to be the emotional rock that she can cling to. You don't have the emotional range that she does. THIS IS A GOOD THING. Don't try to ebb and flow with her. It's unmasculine and unattractive.
/r/askMRP16/02/17 12:33 AM
1

red flag, red flag, red flag... Why are you posting here? You've already made the right decision. MOVE ON!
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:55 PM
1

One of the biggest mental shifts for become RP is to stop seeking out others to make decisions for you. Ask questions to gather information, then make the decision yourself. Rather than, "What would you like to eat for dinner tonight?" try "Do you have a desire for something specific for dinner tonight?" or, depending on your situation, maybe "I'm going to make salmon tonight, should I make enough for you too?" She can decide yes or no, but she doesn't have to consult the vast array of informati…
/r/askMRP10/02/17 05:39 PM
1

AA is agree and amplify. AM is amused mastery.
/r/askMRP10/02/17 05:34 PM
1

You can always go in for the quick peck, get to within an inch, and then leave. You go 90% of the way, and when she goes to close the 10%, you back off and smile.
/r/askMRP10/02/17 05:34 PM
0

You are focusing on you because you need to. You are changing who you are. This isn't an easy process and it requires focus, concentration, and constant effort. It doesn't leave a lot of time for other people. So, it's time for you to lead your family, and not just abandon them. Give your wife specific instructions of what you expect of her when you get home. Don't fight about it. If she doesn't do what you ask, ignore it. Don't get into some stupid power struggle over it. For example, let's say…
/r/askMRP10/02/17 05:31 PM
4

What do you get out of her coming with on the family vacation? Seems to me she's just trying to cockblock you from ever moving on, and at the same time denying you sex to drive you crazy. "No, we can't vacation together. I'm moving on."
/r/askMRP07/02/17 07:46 PM
8

I think "poly" is simply a "I know I'll never get a guy to commit who is good enough for me, so I'll just marry one guy and fuck whoever I want while someone else pays all my bills"
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:08 PM
0

She knew the age of consent. She knew that what she was doing was a crime. But she didn't care. How exactly does that make me sexist?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 03:03 AM
31

Pretend that it's a 12 year old girl and her beloved uncle. He rapes her. It's statutory and she doesn't say no. She loves him. She testifies to this in court. But then, when she's 20, she looks back on it and realizes that he emotionally manipulated her. That by abusing his position of power over her, he made her think things that she knew weren't true. That's why the opinions of the child aren't taken into consideration.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 02:54 AM
0

Women brag day in and day out about how they mature faster than boys. By every measure of maturity, girls reach "it" before boys do. That's why there's a different age of consent.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 02:44 AM
-6

We have a line that is drawn. This line is called the age of consent. 1 day younger is too young. 1 day older is old enough. A big issue is emotional maturity. Women mature more quickly than men. So when an older woman propositions an underage boy he has NO power to say no. He's not mature enough to even understand what's happening. They say that rape is more about power than it is about sex. A young man who is offered sex by an older woman doesn't have any frame of reference to say no, and she …
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 02:36 AM
1

"neither of us were really a mystery to each other". There are lies that persist for generations. I guarantee that if you don't explicitly tell her everything, then some things will remain a mystery to her. The most obvious things in the world to you will always remain a mystery to her, unless you explain them to her, as you would a small child.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:34 PM
1

Hurt. Mystery = sexy. No Mystery = boring.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:32 PM
3

I was talking to a guy at a bar. He's in his 40's and very solidly built. Rides a motorcycle and oozes confidence. He's routinely getting attention from mid-20's girls. One night he's with a woman who takes care of herself, but is older than him, and after round one he says, "How 'bout you suck me off to get me ready for round two." She responds by rolling over and patting him on the arm, "Maybe that's something we can work towards." He responds, "Okay, then why don't you go ahead and work towar…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:24 AM
1

You've spoken against Mate Guarding, but it sounds like your mind isn't convinced and your heart doesn't believe it. Look at the 12 levels of Dread. Right now, your wife is 100% confident that you won't cheat on her or leave her. You have to change this. You don't change this with ultimatums. Ultimatums just put her on the defensive to justify her behavior. It directs her hamster to run and run and run and come up with all the reasons for why her behavior isn't cheating. You change this by being…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 03:45 PM
2

The grass always looks greener on the other side. That ship, the one where you were in your early 20's, fucking hot babes who were in their early 20's, has sailed. Now what's available is a bunch of worthless skanks or your wife. Your wife treats you well. If you're following RP, then you should be getting sex whenever you want it. You've won the game. If you play again, I guarantee it won't be better.
/r/askMRP30/01/17 11:16 PM
12

Show up anyway. "I identify as a woman"
/r/MensRights30/01/17 09:47 PM
1

Welcome to asktrp. Did you come here from deadbedrooms, justneckbeardthings, or 2x? The advice you give is very popular with most of mainstream America. It's also the wrong advice because it advocates the wrong behavior.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:58 PM
12

I find this hilarious. You're doing everything you should be doing and you're getting every indication that it's the right path. And yet you STILL come here seeking validation? 1) She craves your leadership. It turns her on and completes her life. 2) She craves the borders that you put on her behavior and her life. 3) Your attention validates her existence. If you showed up tomorrow and said "We're going to the courthouse to get married. You have to buy the rings before 1PM." She would be waitin…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:56 PM
2

Yes. You're talking to the lizard brain part of a woman when you cold approach. That shit ain't ever goin' out of style.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:29 AM
11

Reading after the edit. #2 is mate guarding. It's not sexy, it's not hot. She can do whatever the fuck she wants. So can you. He behavior says she's looking to branch swing to a hotter guy. It's time for you to drop her and move on. Let me repeat myself. She can do whatever the fuck she wants to do. SO. CAN. YOU.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:10 PM
3

She has lost her mind, and all of this is one big comfort test. You're offering her no comfort.
/r/askMRP23/01/17 10:39 PM
18

The tracks are all ground-level. Students often use the tracks as a convenient walking path. Also, at 3 AM, some students are drunk, I'm told.
/r/MensRights23/01/17 05:40 PM
64

There was a petition at Indiana University Bloomington to get the train that rode through town to stop blowing its horn at 3 AM. Lots and lots of students signed it, demanding not being disturbed during their study hours. The train responded by blowing its horn from the moment it entered town until the moment it left town.
/r/MensRights23/01/17 02:57 PM
1

If you're interested in her, then she's clearly too hot for you.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 12:42 AM
2

Girls brag about slutty adventures because they think they are judged by the same standards as men. They are trying to win the game by behaving like men. It's like this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IX4I2aX-5U8 He is doing great because of how much weight he's added! They don't understand that every guy they fuck actually lowers their value instead of raising it.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:41 PM
2

Way too much text.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 08:12 PM
1

End scheduled sex. It seems like you've been operating under a scarcity mentality so long that your head is all messed up. Your goal isn't to get your wife to fuck you. Your goal is to become the man that lots of women want to fuck. When you lift, dress better, and handle your business, you become universally attractive. Your wife should feel privileged to be the one who gets to get nailed by you regularly. Part of her feelings are based on your appearance and confidence. Part of her feelings ar…
/r/askMRP17/01/17 11:22 PM
4

Give it a rest for a week. Let her be attracted to you. She is attracted, but she can't get her motor going before you're in the engine room. You've made changes, but they're small, incremental changes every day. These are hard for her to see, since she sees you every day. When you constantly ask her for sex, you're giving her constant validation. You're putting all the power into her hands. She knows that you couldn't possibly be getting attention from another woman, because you're so focused o…
/r/askMRP17/01/17 08:33 PM
-1

How does she bring value to your life? She helps you to feel shitty about the things in your life you already feel shitty about. Doesn't that make you angry? Great. Go lift and shut the f*ck up.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 10:32 PM
2

You're in your mid 20's. You said you won't be available to settle down and start a family for at least 7 more years. So, no kids for you, then?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 09:45 PM
1

if you add two spaces at the end of your line, you'll get a line break. This is without a line break. This is with a line break.
/r/askMRP16/01/17 03:53 PM
0

That's not monk mode. Monk mode is being celibate (and focusing on yourself). Pick different words.
/r/askMRP15/01/17 07:11 PM
0

Don't do this. It's a bad idea. Monk mode when you're married is a stupid power struggle. You don't get into power struggles with your wife. You lead. She follows. This needs to be a clear mindset for you. If you get into a power struggle over sex, you will lose. Even if you win, you will lose because then you're legitimizing sex as a weapon. Focusing on yourself is a great idea, but sex is part of the relationship.
/r/askMRP15/01/17 03:10 PM
2

"a social clumsiness that is one small step above Aspergers." Aspergers can be a big advantage to you. What you lack in general awareness you make up for in focus. Once you identified the problem: "I'm a fat fuck, and not particularly attractive because of it" you figured out how to fix it. You studied fashion as you would any other technical material. What might be trivially obvious to someone else must be a subject of focused study for you, but in the end you'll know more and be better prepare…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:24 PM
0

Congratulations on the progress. You are not co-captains. You're the captain. She is the first mate. She's not capable of being the captain. Keep leading. Be the man.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 03:33 PM
1

You did well. You took a shot and got rejected. She's not in to you. Move on. Make plans with other people, lift or read.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 10:47 PM
2

"That's hot"
/r/askTRP12/01/17 01:59 AM
1

Oh my god no.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 05:05 PM
2

First off, I want you to understand a couple of things. 1) Your wife is the most responsible teenager you'll meet. She's never going to mature beyond where she was at 18. Would you expect an 18 year old to make better decisions than you? 2) The love you feel for your wife is not returned. She can only love her children that way. You are always only loved as much as your value at any one time. Your wife will never, ever, ever love you unconditionally. She can't. If your head was cut off she would…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 09:59 PM
2

Okay. Welcome to the married red pill. There are lots of guys here asking questions about girlfriends and wives or chicks-they-want-to-bang. I'm now guessing you're married. Your problems run much much deeper than this concert. You're asking how to arrange the deck chairs on the Titanic. Your marriage is sinking and you can't see it. I don't think you have a clear vision in your own head of what you want your marriage to look like. It's clear that your soon-to-be-ex wife doesn't respect you at a…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 09:41 PM
5

1) I have no idea what your relationship is to this girl you're writing about. Your GF/Wife? A friend? Someone you want to fuck? 2) You invited her, she accepted, then later rejected you because she had a better offer. You + the free concert tickets isn't a better offer for her than going to see U2 instead. Your Sexual Market Value is very low in her eyes. I hope you see that clearly. 3) You play a sport that women also play. Whatever. 4) You told this girl that her behavior towards you was fine…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 08:40 PM
1

Don't ask the echo chamber if you're in an echo chamber. I'm afraid you're going to have to apply your own critical thinking skills on this one. You're not getting fresh perspectives and coming to your own conclusions with this post. You're trying to get other people to distill their thinking so that you can adopt it as your own. You're actively avoiding thinking for yourself on this one.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:30 PM
3

The first step is recognizing the problem. The task for you now is simple: focus that anger towards working out and spending time on you. When you're angry, think, "What can I do to improve my person? Physical - lifting. Social - clothing. Emotional - frame." Frame is hard to build. It's especially hard trying to do it from within a relationship because your wife is going to test it constantly, and it's going to fail. You're going to have to rebuild your frame over and over again. Good luck on y…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 01:17 PM
3

You're being impatient with yourself for no good reason. In the amount of time it takes for you to change, it'll take her twice as long to notice the change and change her behavior. A long time ago, I was dating this girl, and due to changes in habits, I went from 160 lbs to 130 lbs. She never made a comment, and I don't think she even noticed. Everyone else in my life noticed, and when someone made a comment to her about it, suddenly she noticed too, and showed lots of appreciation for it. Grou…
/r/askMRP09/01/17 07:16 PM
4

I'm glad you found TRP/MRP. Divorce is the nuclear option. It's certainly an option, but I would caution you against it. It's easy to divorce and start over with a new attitude and a new woman/women. It's a lot harder to change out from under the relationship and make things work. What do you think is the thing your wife fears more than anything else? For almost all women, it's being ignored. That being said, the 12 levels of Dread work. They really do. The goal is twofold. First off, it gradual…
/r/askMRP09/01/17 07:10 PM
1

You already said that. Saying it again doesn't strengthen your position.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:26 AM
1

You assert it. There's not really an argument when it doesn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:21 PM
0

Sure, but I don't think that a woman bragging about having sex when she didn't (and didn't want to) is a thing in any century. When a woman cries rape usually the only issue is consent.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:19 PM
3

This particular rule goes back to caveman days, so it can actually still get enforced.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 07:05 PM
5

The current one. http://info.legalzoom.com/can-divorce-wife-not-consumating-marriage-24994.html or https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consummation
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:48 PM
9

The only good thing about it is that if the marriage isn't consummated, that's grounds for annulment: the marriage never happened, so she doesn't get half his stuff.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:26 PM
6

You missed the point he was making. Sending the text at all was a mistake, not the waiting-10-minutes part. I know you post here a lot, but you're really missing it, and by talking so much, you're not learning and growing any more. This benefits no one. Not the other men here, and certainly not you.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 07:39 PM
3

You sound like a man who is making progress and moving in the right direction. | ... But she states "I'm sorry. I don't know what is wrong with me." This is a great sign. She's in your frame and trying to please you. This is the strong indicator that your actions earlier were probably correct. | So I kiss her on the forehead and say I'm going downstairs to read. She comes back with "You're mad at me. Say it.". You don't have to say anything at this point. I would have said, "You're not intereste…
/r/askMRP05/01/17 07:38 PM
2

You don't understand women at all if you're posting crap like this. You just don't. There is nothing alpha at all about being at your woman's beck and call. Her request means you've already begun the slide towards beta, if you're not already there. Have you read NMMNG? WISNIFG?
/r/askMRP05/01/17 02:45 AM
2

Yes. All the time. With my 6-year-old. If my girlfriend did say something like that, I'd just get up and get it myself. I wouldn't argue or complain. I wouldn't bring it up again. I'd just take care of it myself.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 10:47 PM
2

If it was your bro sitting on the couch, and he said, "Can you grab me a beer from the fridge?" Would you do it? Are you getting one for yourself too? I would say that, in her mind, she is queueing up tasks for you to do. She tells you right when she wants it done. She's given herself the reminder to ask you, nicely, right as you are about to walk by the fridge. When you get close, she issues the request. Why the fuck didn't she just do it herself when she first thought of it? Because it's easie…
/r/askMRP04/01/17 09:16 PM
8

I don't think she needed the $1000 to get married to her man who is in the armed forces. I think she needed the $1000 because her dealer is going to beat it out of her/prostitute her.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/17 07:10 PM
3

He had $60k in earnings the previous year. Paul Walker's death had caused some filming delays.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 09:56 PM
2

It's a legal thing. He doesn't ask for it. It's automatically awarded based mostly on parenting time. Whether he chooses to file an enforcement when she doesn't pay is entirely up to him.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 09:54 PM
1

You are thinking of this the wrong way entirely. You're talking like a high school football player who hopes to one day make the NFL. Being captain isn't something that's handed to you. It's something that you take. Many decisions and reactions that people have towards you are entirely subconscious. Some are even lower than that: they are instinct. People react to you differently if you're in good shape. They react differently to you if you are decisive and clear in your actions. They react diff…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 07:27 PM
1

"Anyone struggle with a similar issue or could give me pointers?" Yes. Everyone new to the red pill struggles with what you're struggling with. If we put you on a scale where 0 is that your wife is the one leading the family and 10 is where you are leading the family, you're at a 0. It's okay to live your life like this if you're happy with it. If that is the case, then this is not the place for you. If you're not happy with it then we might need to know more. What are your goals for you and you…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 05:13 PM
1

I'd say that you're overstimulated. You've built up a resistance to the hormones that make your dick hard (from too much porn). Less porn, assuming you don't have testicular cancer, and the problem will go away.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 08:39 AM
1

It's been a fun ride, and it's a shame that you don't get to continue with this relationship, but it's over. It was a fun ride.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 08:35 AM
1

Straight up shit test. She'd like you to commit to her more. This is pure emotional manipulation.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 01:22 AM
5

Your time invested with her wasn't wasted. Don't ever fall for the sunk-cost fallacy. You had some fun and you learned a lot about you and about her. You take that knowledge with you as the relationship ends. You can use it when deciding if and when you're going to get into another relationship, and just how serious you're willing to let that relationship get.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 10:12 PM
9

Do. Not. Get. Married. Tell her that you've changed your mind and you don't think the relationship has a future. The absolute only reason to get married is so that your kids have the chance of having 2 good parents. Since you haven't mentioned your strong desire to have kids, I'm guessing that you're getting married because you think you should. Don't get married. If you think things are bad now, then take half of your stuff, throw it away and plan on paying half of your income over your life to…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 10:08 PM
7

I want you to imagine a 6'6" bronzed god, 240lb with 6% bodyfat. He's the master of his world. Nothing rattles him. How do you think he would respond in the same situation? Is that how you responded? No. It isn't. So, you fucked up. You had left things in your kitchen for a couple of WEEKS. Finally, your wife couldn't take it anymore and so treated you like the child that you were and told you to clean up your mess. I'm guessing that she also told you to clean up your room before you could go ou…
/r/askMRP24/12/16 03:51 AM
0

Dread level 5. What does this mean to you?
/r/askMRP24/12/16 12:07 AM
2

You came across as trying to hold frame the entire time. You didn't yield. This is a good thing. This was an aggressive shit test by your wife because she seriously thought that you were cheating on her. "I'm scared of you. I'm scared that I'm going to do something wrong with the you..." She's in the uncertain place that your new frame has created. She knew how to behave before and now she doesn't. You are taking charge, and what she's now afraid of is that she won't measure up to the new you. S…
/r/askMRP22/12/16 10:17 PM
1

I think you did well. This whole situation is in her head and she LOVES the drama of it. You kept your amused mastery the whole time through. I thought the whole interaction was hilarious, to be honest.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 08:11 PM
3

You're overthinking this.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 05:27 PM
3

There is absolutely nothing of value that she has for you except a warm wet pussy. There's lots of warm wet pussy in the world. Some of it isn't as batshit crazy as this one.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:24 PM
2

You are a beta man, to the core. Do you think that the money you make gets her wet? It does not. This is the trade of the beta man: to provide and provide and provide and service and provide. You are not an alpha man. You want sex? Learn dread. Search for "the 12 levels of dread". Read. Understand. Act. It takes 1 month for every year of beta. You've been married for 5, but your wife has been treating you like a beta for 2. Your judgement. Dress. Lift. Hold frame. Quit your bitching. You do thin…
/r/askMRP21/12/16 07:25 AM
2

I'm not trying to calm her nerves. This isn't a comfort test, it's a shit test. This does a couple of things. First off, it gives her the emotional high and low that she wants. Why do you think she's creating drama over him making plans? She needs to experience the full breadth of human emotion. Second off, it gives her the reassurance that I am the rock she can cling to. Her emotional rollercoaster doesn't rattle me, and neither will anything the world can throw at us. Trust me, when he gets ho…
/r/askMRP20/12/16 06:53 PM
3

I agree with this wholeheartedly. Her: "Now my whole week is controlled and going to be stressful" You (In a tone of voice you'd use for any small child) : "Oh, you poor thing, you have a whole week where everything is planned and taken care of, and all you have to do is enjoy yourself. That's so stressful. You: Honey, everything is taken care of. Just try to relax and enjoy yourself.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 05:41 PM
2

She's just looking for a reason to bitch. She'll bitch because the sun came up early and shined in her eyes as she was trying to sleep. She'll bitch that the rain waters her garden. She'll bitch that grass grows. It doesn't mean anything. I would ignore it. It's just a shit test.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 05:38 PM
1

Well done. If you ever get back on the relationship ride, have fun with it for you. If it's not working for you again, end it.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 03:53 AM
7

You should definitely mate guard. Guard your mate. That always works. If it doesn't, you should talk through your problems. Talking always helps. Talk to the guy who was showing interest in your woman, because jealousy makes you really attractive to her. Or, alternately, you could go read the sidebar and work on yourself.
/r/askMRP19/12/16 07:32 PM
0

Haha. "Well, try buying less useless crap." This will lead to a blowup after she gets back. She'll yell at you, you'll be stoic. When she's exhausted herself yelling at you, you'll get up, give her a hug and a 10 second kiss, and she'll throw herself at you to have sex and feel better.
/r/askMRP19/12/16 03:38 AM
21

She's been doing guys above her SMV for a while now. None of them will commit because she's just another hole for the night, and there are so very many of them that they're indistinguishable. So what she wants is for one of them to commit. hahahahahahahahaha
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 05:16 PM
3

She's describing the unicorn. She writes this as though what she wants is different from what other women want. It's not. It's exactly what every straight woman on the planet wants. Bad news honey: the 1% of guys who would meet your criteria are already married and are going to stay that way.
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 05:13 PM
0

You are EXACTLY where you want to be. Next step: Dread. The 12 steps of dread, excerpted from the sidebar: Level zero: improve yourself, lift, hygiene, wardrobe. Have you improved your wardrobe to match your new lifting body? Level 1: Build Frame. Level 2: Develop your action plan to improve all major areas of your life. Level 3: Join a club Level 4: Withdraw attention from your wife. Be too busy with all your activities. At this stage, you'll initiate with your wife when you get a chance, but i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/16 05:01 PM
4

Oh, look at the high value man, with "values" and "standards" and "a gag reflex that made him blow chunks when he thought of sloppy 5ths". Maybe a neat fifth would work. Probably just the alcohol talking.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:47 AM
45

She made it up when she was slut shamed the next day.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:44 PM
25

It would make national news, and the whole issue would bring a spotlight to the injustices that men in college now face.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:43 PM
22

Would you want to play football at a school where a single false accusation of events that didn't happen at a place where you weren't near would make you unable to play? Stay as far away from that school as you can, young men. Nothing good will ever come of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:42 PM
63

I'd be willing to bet that it was slut shaming by other women that made her change her story from "I had fun with a couple of guys I just met" to "I was gang-raped by the entire fraternity, twice".
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:40 PM
1

From your workout it looks like you spend 3 hours at the gym every day. You need to be doing things to strengthen your abs and back. That's it. You can get strength quickly once you're doing squats (and deadlift, overhead press, bench press, barbell row), but you can't do those with a disc that's trying to explode on you. Keep your back from moving, and do the seated row: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K225yXkDiqo I think this will help you. The back and abs exercises you should do are ones tha…
/r/askMRP15/12/16 11:56 PM
7

I don't know why you're writing here. Maybe just to vent. Your wife is either currently cheating on you, or is going to cheat on you. It's going to be with the guy you both work with, and it's going to suck for you. Be prepared for this outcome. Just give her divorce papers to sign. There are no kids, which is great. Make certain she signs away all rights to your money and house. Kick her out of the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 08:11 AM
2

Buy her the finest cubic zirconia earrings you can find. Are you her beta bucks provider or her alpha fucks man?
/r/askMRP14/12/16 11:41 PM
2

Awesome. Maybe you can understand. Let's compare a video game accomplishment to your art, then. Being great at video games is like doing a paint-by-numbers Van Gogh. It might be complex. It might be intricate. It might be difficult. But you're still following someone else's creation. If you do it perfectly it might be indistinguishable from the original but it is only as valuable as a Xerox copy would be. Doing your own art can be manly. You are creating something from nothing. You have a purpos…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 06:05 PM
1

You seem to be taking pride in being deliberately obtuse. The ability to create and repair things made of metal, wood and stone is inherently masculine. It requires strength, patience, and knowledge. Are these things not manly traits? You don't admire men for their motorcycles. What do you admire men for? It's easy to tear another man down with petty words. So build yourself up. What have you accomplished that you are genuinely proud of?
/r/askMRP14/12/16 10:31 AM
1

When you are playing a video game, you are playing in someone else's data, someone else's creation. You are not following natural laws, like you would if you were working on a motorcycle or chopping wood or lifting iron, you are simply playing someone else's game. It gives you the illusion of accomplishment, though you have accomplished nothing. You finish the quest and it gives you a brief dopamine rush, then emptiness. Better to create and build something of your own; fix something that needs …
/r/askMRP14/12/16 10:10 AM
4

An alpha window situation is one where you have sex and can fool yourself into thinking it's a relationship. Or maybe it IS a relationship, but not one that's going to lead to him meeting your parents. Infatuation is just lust. It may or may not actually result in you having sex. You can't hamster it as a relationship if he didn't ring your bell, and you didn't even exchange numbers. You can be infatuated with lots of guys and it doesn't wreck you as a person. A great example of an alpha widow i…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 11:40 PM
7

We are not here to make your decisions for you. We can tell you how to improve your life, and your relationships(esp. frequency of sex). Negotiating frequency of sex is NEVER going to improve things. That's a dead bedroom way of thinking. It's up to you if you want to stay with her or leave. If you think you're going to change nothing about yourself, and somehow magically find a hotter girl who wants to do you more than your current GF, I wish you luck.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 08:09 PM
2

She talks about her problems to people on the internet instead of her husband because, as a woman, she has better communication skills than her husband.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 09:32 AM
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| Ladies, i know that there are plenty of fishes in the sea bur we're you ever in a situation where you thought "I wil never meet someone as great as him". How did finally turn out? Yes. There is even a phrase for it, because it is so common. "Alpha Widow". Every guy you have sex with before you get married increases your chances that your husband will not measure up. If/when you do get married, you will forever find your husband lacking in some way compared to what you've experienced.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 09:30 AM
1

You're new here, so you're going to take the comments personally as though they are meant to hurt you. They aren't. The goal is for you to wake up and realize that you are a man, and men behave in a certain way.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 03:26 AM
4

First mistake: asking if the soup was to be thrown away. Make your own decision. You can ask specifics, "Do you have plans for this soup?" but don't ask for her to do the thinking for you. It might seem small, but it's not. It's huge. When you ask that question, you are putting her into the leader position, and you into the follower position. Stop doing this and many other problems will evaporate.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 02:46 AM
1

There are two other groups of women who deal with your questions. You should probably look there. You are asking how to manipulate your man into being something different than what he is right now. This is entirely the wrong mindset.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:40 PM
4

I'm saving myself for a perfect 10, 18-year-old virgin. With God, anything is possible.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:38 PM
3

You might be past it, and it might be time for you to find something better.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 04:11 PM
3

Paragraph 2 is the heart of the problem. Your behavior sounds exactly like a 15 year old boy trying to please his mother to get a treat. This is not sexy or hot. She's not angry about the things she's yelling at you about. She's angry that you are such a pussy who doesn't stand up for himself. She can walk all over you, so how are you going to protect her from the world? So, first you gain confidence. You do this through lifting and dressing better. And shutting the fuck up. You say you're going…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 07:49 AM
6

Phase 1: Anger Phase 2: Denial Phase 3: Negotiation Phase 4: Depression <----- You are here Phase 5: Acceptance.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 07:36 AM
2

If she says, "who are you?" then other dudes can white-knight and jump in to protect her.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 11:44 PM
8

By berating him, she's showing that she's higher value than him. If she deleted people, then she would have fewer facebook friends. That's less attention and a bad thing. Why do women wear provocative clothing and then scream at the homeless dude that says "Nice tits"? Women like attention. She's just guarding her SMV by being sure to talk down to low value dudes that pay attention to her. Alpha Fucks> Beta Bucks > Sketchy unemployed dude.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 11:44 PM
6

Okay. While we're spending those two months dating, being celibate, I'm going to be fucking other girls, since sex isn't an integral part of dating. She's breaking up with you.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 01:25 AM
2

If going to the gym makes you 1% better for every month that you do it and sitting on your ass makes you 1% worse for every month that you do it, then going to the gym (even if just for spin/rowing) is a good idea. For me, it's the philosophy of using every day to make yourself better. Either mentally or physically. Can't lift? Read. Need time to digest what you've read before reading more? Go for a walk. It's raining/snowing? Tough, go for a walk anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:33 PM
3

Why are you getting married? What EXACTLY are your reasons for getting married? You say you're aware of the risks and downsides, but I don't believe you are. Please tell me what you think the risks and downsides are.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 11:35 PM
2

You made the decision to confront your wife over her mom staying in the boys' room. But then you said, "starting tomorrow..." Why? Why not tell her to go tell her mother that it's best if she sleep in the guest room? That's what you both agreed to, and your wife sabotaged it. Now she has to fix it. You are treating your wife as though she has equal say in the decisions of the marriage. She does not want this. She wants you to lead. She wants to follow. When she leads, everybody fucks up. Don't y…
/r/askMRP02/12/16 09:13 AM
5

"So that's us up to date. I've fucked the situation royally by offering way too much comfort too soon, so maybe it was always destined to crash" For all your RP acronym savvy, you forgot Outcome Independence. You are a man on a journey. You've encountered a special snowflake with daddy issues. It was a fun ride, but it's time to move the fuck on. You can't mate guard. It's bad for you, bad for her, and will not lead to good outcomes in the relationship. You just can't do it. So when she says she…
/r/askMRP01/12/16 05:57 AM
12

You are missing the point. Two bulls standing on top of the hill are looking down at a herd of cows. The young bull says to the old bull, "Let's run down there and fuck one of those cows!" The old bull replies, "Let's walk down there and fuck all the cows." Your goal is to get yourself put together enough that lots of women find you attractive. Step zero is to lift and to improve your wardrobe. Also improve your hygiene: shower, deodorant, shave or groom your beard. This will give you confidence…
/r/askMRP30/11/16 07:02 AM
1

It has nothing to do with what they believe and what memory they have of what you've said in the past. It's all about how your words make them feel. Right. Now. When a woman says, "I will never leave you", she means "Right now I feel like I will never leave you." In fact, you'd do a lot better to always prepend "Right now, I feel like..." to most everything a woman tells you.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 07:15 AM
3

It was the patriarchy that caused my microaggressions.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:26 AM
2

Fuck. Trigger is my trigger word.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:30 AM
1

Say nothing. Text her when you're back in town.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 05:03 AM
3

Maybe you're of the school that thinks that relationship problems can be solved with more communication. Maybe therapy, where a disinterested third party can pore over the details of your relationship and you can talk about it and everything will be better. Sure, you can tell her, "If you go out clubbing with your girlfriend, and you get drunk, then we're through." You can deliver any ultimatum you want. Then she can feel trapped and manipulated, and she can play the victim and complain to all h…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:31 AM
3

$10 is a low price to pay to support the program. $10 is a low price to pay for anything that you get value from.
/r/askMRP26/11/16 10:44 PM
2

There are a couple of different brands of lifting shoes. I bought addidas' $100-ish shoes with the 0.6" heel lift. The 'real' lifting shoes (that are twice what I paid) have a 3/4" heel lift. The difference between regular cross trainers to the shoes I have is immense. What I've read and seen says that the difference between what I bought and cross trainers is the same as real lifting shoes to what I have. If you're serious about your lifting, then when it comes time to buy shoes, get really nic…
/r/askMRP26/11/16 10:44 PM
1

I love SL5x5. It takes a long time to actually do squats with good form. I went through one round of a couple months of lifting and while I got my squat weight up to about 280, I don't think I ever had good form. This time through I'm going as low as I can, given my leg/torso proportions. My hamstrings are squished against my calves when I'm at the bottom of the lift. I don't think that it's possible for me to go lower. On a side note, I can't actually go as low as I want to unless there's at le…
/r/askMRP26/11/16 10:39 PM
4

Her going to the club indicates that she wants attention from lots of different guys. While she may not admit it to herself, she's looking to branch swing. Regardless of your relative Sexual Market Values, she's going to check to see if she can swing up. If she gets no attention from the hot guys at the club, then she'll come back home knowing that you are the best she can get. Your behavior (ending it) showed her how much it wasn't a risk-free gamble on her part. She was gambling that you would…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:26 PM
13

I think that stating a boundary is mate guarding. Instead his behavior said that she was free to do whatever she wanted to do. He then decided that he didn't want to be with someone who, while in a committed long-term relationship, would go out with her girlfriend to get drunk at a club. If she wants to do that, she's craving lots of attention from strange guys, and is clearly looking for something beyond what he has to offer. He says that's fine, but he doesn't want to be her doormat to return …
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:09 PM
5

I'm at a lot more than 15% bodyfat. Let me assure you that dread isn't useless.
/r/askMRP26/11/16 07:32 PM
3

You've been lifting for 4 months. If you've added positive changes to your diet as well, then I imagine you're looking better. It's probably time to upgrade your wardrobe now. It sounds like you're trying to jump steps in the 12 levels of Dread. Step zero is yourself: lifting, wardrobe, hygiene. If you haven't substantially improved these three things, then you're not really making progress, you're just trying to cheat. If she's upset because your dread is working, then she'll exhibit it by jump…
/r/askMRP26/11/16 07:31 PM
1

I'm going to disagree with you. 1) Men are stronger than women. About 2 standard deviations stronger. An average man is as strong as all but the top 2% of women. A top 2% man is stronger than all women. 2) Men make better leaders than women. Look at successful boardrooms across the country. It's all men. There's a reason for this. If women were better at it, there would be more women than men. Tell me how women are equal to men.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:50 AM
0

Still some solid blue pill thinking there. Congrats on getting jacked physically. Women already know the truth that you deny: women and men are not equal. Women want a man who will lead them and dominate them. It's not complicated at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:48 PM
1

Document and talk to a labor lawyer. You'll probably get a big fat check But don't tell anyone at work about your plans.
/r/MGTOW23/11/16 06:46 PM
3

Your wife has assumed that she has some moral high ground for abandoning you while you were sick. The fucked up part is that if you gave her everything she asked for (passwords to everything, etc.) it would make her lose all respect for you. She would have nothing but contempt for you, and she would leave you. If you take the path that you've already decided on, she is much more likely to want to come with.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 05:15 AM
8

I would lawyer the fuck up and get the kids full time if you can. Once the Lyme disease is kicked, start hitting the gym. I would guess that her accusations that you have a mistress are just a cover so that she can get some on the side (all the while making fun of you to her new hot cock). A woman's currency is information. A woman who wants to find out if you have a mistress would convert to islam if she had to, to find out what she wanted to know. The fact that she hasn't found one is proof th…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 05:12 AM
2

This is not a safe space for women to talk about their relationship concerns. THERE ARE LOTS OF OTHER PLACES FOR THAT. This place is where we talk to men about how to improve themselves and, as a side effect, their relationships. Her post had nothing to do with that.
/r/askMRP21/11/16 12:10 AM
3

This isn't /r/relationships. It isn't /r/TwoXChromosomes. It's married red pill. Please tell me how she's either asking or answering a red pill question.
/r/askMRP20/11/16 06:23 PM
2

We are not here for your feelz. We are here for men. If you send a man here, we'll talk to him. Your posts are not welcome here.
/r/askMRP20/11/16 04:53 PM
2

You have fallen for the fallacy that men and women are equal and should have an equal say in the marriage. This is a lie. Women want men to lead. A woman who has a strong husband who leads her is a VERY happy woman. You are not strong and you do not lead. Until these things change, you marriage will suffer.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 04:37 PM
3

That should definitely be part of the side bar for MRP. It gives the exact steps to go through to save your marriage. There's not a lot of room for confusion or misunderstanding. Sometimes I see people say something like, "I'm up to about dread level 8" and they haven't even really started lifting or dressing better.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 03:49 PM
2

Step zero: lift, improve yourself. Step zero: improve your wardrobe. Step one: read up on the 12 levels of Dread.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 01:45 PM
6

"Love" is an ambiguous term. It means one thing to you, and quite another to her. Prepend everything a woman says with "Right now, I feel that..." You'll be much happier, and experience fewer nasty surprises.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:14 AM
0

That's not dead inside. That's the emotional rock that she can cling to.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 11:42 PM
2

It's perfectly okay for her to feel insecure. You don't have to let her fall, but you can let her dangle a bit. It allows her to experience the full range of human emotion (this is a need for a woman) without actually being in any real danger. If you try to reduce this drama in her life, she will look for it elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 11:20 PM
2

I will tell you that I don't do anything to try to convince my GF that I'm not cheating on her or that I don't look at other women. She sometimes cries, and when she does, I hold her, tell her I understand, and then bang her like a screen door in a hurricane: It's always all better after that. Her insecurities are her problem. It's perfectly okay for her emotions to go up and down like a rollercoaster. That's a normal thing, and you should understand it and be okay with it. Your job isn't to fix…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 11:15 PM
4

It isn't obvious at all. TRP has specific goals for helping you, as a man, deal with the reality that you face on a daily basis. It's the opposite of a safe space. The people that you see posting here do a lot of reading. The fact that you think SJW is for women what TRP is for men says you haven't read anything here and don't really get it. That's why I want your post removed: It adds nothing to the subgroup. You're just a troll who doesn't understand TRP and wants to attack it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 11:01 PM
1

But "triggered" is my trigger word.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 10:58 PM
1

There is nothing safe about this space. I would like this post removed, as it is a troll and doesn't add anything to the Red Pill discussion.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 10:51 PM
14

The keto diet can be really helpful for people who binge-eat. It's a lot harder to binge eat protein and fat 'cause your body makes you stop. It's easy to eat 2000 calories of carbs. It's much much harder to eat 2000 calories of protein and fat.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 10:25 PM
1

"apparently it means that sex matters more to me than she does." Well, if sex isn't that important to you, then I'll go ahead and find someone else to have sex with. Since sex isn't that important, I'm going to go ahead and assume that you're fine with that.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:07 PM
1

It's time to move on. She's not going to get over that pregnancy scare, and since it sounds like you're not ready to have kids, you don't want that either.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:05 PM
5

You're at Dread Level 0. Before you start, you have to get yourself a better body and upgrade your wardrobe. This is before dread begins. You are firmly into step zero. You're moving in the right direction, but you talk like this is the final lap at the Indianapolis 500. It's not. You're still in qualifying.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 04:57 AM
3

You have a lot to learn. DEER: Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. Do not do this. Fewer words are almost always better. You asked her to take care of the kids. Don't do this. Tell her your expectations. Make it clear what she should expect and what she needs to be ready to do: "Honey, tomorrow night is the election, and I'm going to be following it very closely. You're going to have to make dinner and take care of the kids on your own." You have 4 degrees and make 300k a year. Why the fuck is…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 04:54 AM
2

Barack Obama was arguably the finest black man who could have run for office. I don't believe there was a more qualified black man in the country. The same comparison cannot be made about Hillary. I don't believe that Hillary is the best woman to run this country. That is why she lost.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 06:39 PM
4

#firstworldproblems
/r/MGTOW09/11/16 05:03 PM
3

It sounds to me like you're in the acceptance phase. She's a woman. She can't control herself, especially her emotions. She doesn't really know what she's doing, and she follows your lead. You understand what drives her. You understand what drives you. You know how your behavior affects her behavior. Welcome to the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 07:26 PM
2

Are you here to talk or here to listen? Nobody wants to read your stories of how you're fucking up in every possible way. Read the sidebar and GO TO THE FUCKING GYM. Shut the Fuck Up and lift. "Using my limited experience of MTRP techniques I said that I need more sex than we're having" Limited experience? This is NOWHERE in the red pill. nowhere at all. I don't know where you read it, but fucking forget it right now. You haven't understood ANYTHING if you think that "I need more sex than we're …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 10:53 PM
3

My girlfriend gets panicky around 10:30 in the morning if we haven't had sex yet that day. She's freaking out that maybe we're losing that special connection. No, I'm not kidding. Once a fortnight? That's 2 weeks, right? Yikes. Your wife has owned you, emotionally. Does it make you unhappy if your wife is unhappy? If your wife is troubled over something, do you then become troubled over it too? Stop it. She doesn't need you to cycle with her, emotionally. She needs you to be a rock that she can …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 10:51 PM
4

The Love and Logic series helps to put you in the right mindset. I think you're the drill sargeant. It's better than the helicopter parent, but you need to remember, she's just 12 years old. She might be a very mature 12, but she's still just 12. She craves your love and your attention. She craves this more than anything else in the world. If she can't get your attention in positive ways, she will get it in negative ways.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:16 AM
1

There are no simple platitudes to solve your complex situation. She's a SAHM. She can't figure out how to handle her 2-year-old. She is a failure as a mom because of it, and since that's the sum total of her identity, she has no idea what to do. You told her exactly what to accomplish (soothe the terrorist), but she didn't know how to accomplish that goal, so she tried to blame you. Her behavior was intended to make you break frame and fail as well, because that failure would validate her own. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 02:29 PM
-2

It sounds like 1) She's not attracted to you. 2) She's looking for a reason she can point to to end the marriage. She doesn't have a reason yet. You pay the bills, you don't hit her. There's nothing she can point to specifically as a justifiable (to other people) reason to end the relationship. She is a bad wife. She's a good mom because her children matter to her. But she's a bad wife because you don't matter to her. What are you going to do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 07:38 AM
1

You don't argue against emotion with logic. That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works. She is making the decisions in the household because you are not. She's bad at making decisions, because they are based on emotions and perceived dynamic and power between two families and blah blah blah. You need to take control of the situation. Come up with a comprehensive plan for what you want done with the kids. Then implement that plan. Right now, I don't know what you want to do and I…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 11:26 PM
3

|A girl I'm trying to plate doesn't initiate... | |... Is she letting me lead the relationship? Am I being ... You're not in a relationship. You're plating a girl. They're not the same thing. You have to do the work, and it doesn't sound like you have any idea what you're doing.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:04 PM
1

Great job on the gains. Start upgrading your wardrobe now. Make your new clothes fit your new physique.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 07:53 PM
6

You went from zero to understanding faster than most! Welcome to the red pill.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:15 PM
2

This isn't even a covert contract. It's an overt contract. Your wife is a whore. What's her price for a blowjob? Show up, do some babysitting. Babysitters are $10/hour. Your wife is a ten dollar whore. Let that sink in for a minute. You married a ten dollar whore. You committed the rest of your life for something that everyone else gets for $10. Would you commit half of your life's earnings for a burger at Red Robin? 'cause that's what you just did.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:27 PM
2

Where do you live?
/r/MGTOW25/10/16 06:35 PM
2

As far as the two-year-old goes, just spend time with her. Don't cave in to her every demand. Don't try to be her best friend. Do fatherly things, not friendly things. Read to her when she goes to bed. I memorized "Daddy's Lullaby" and read it to my daughter every night as she went to sleep, sometimes more than once. Once it's memorized, you can read it with the lights out. She never cared that she knew the story by heart, and she still doesn't, she just wants to be near me and hear the sound of…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 06:27 PM
2

I would not have paid.
/r/MGTOW25/10/16 06:02 PM
2

My background: I was married 8 years, with a 2 year old girl, when my marriage failed. The 2-year-old first child thing is very real. Many women leave their husbands at this time. This is just an FYI, so you know that this exact path has been followed many many times. A couple of things. 1) Welcome to the married red pill. 2) You're going to have to completely change your viewpoint. You are going to focus on yourself in the next stages of your journey. You are going to start off doing a couple o…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 03:12 PM
2

This is more PUA than MRP. Nice story though.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 12:42 PM
2

2livecrew was a mediocre rap band when they got hit with the banhammer. Instant +500,000 sales with national attention.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 12:11 PM
1

This is the whole point of dread. You're not going to cheat, because you're a good man. But you could, with any number of women hotter than your wife. She needs to be able to see this with her own eyes. This is why going to the gym is a good idea. This is why improving your wardrobe is a good idea. There are steps to Dread for a reason. You don't say "I did 10 pushups and she didn't notice my gainz. That's it, I'm getting a divorce" You first get yourself presentable physically, then you go work…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:21 PM
3

You're never going to leave her, regardless of what she does, so why should she ever change?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:55 AM
4

It sounds like you're working on yourself, physically. "I am 5'10, 190 lbs 12% body fat" This is awesome. Keep up the gym efforts. Next step (in Dread level 0) is to improve your wardrobe and hygiene. You are 46, and I imagine some of your clothes are 10 years old or older. Get rid of them. They aren't doing you any good. Instead buy some clothes with style. Don't blow the whole budget, but don't go cheap, either. The goal here is to look good. Dread is now your friend. You briefly mentioned Dre…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:50 AM
3

When she throws up the shit test and you swat it down like a fly, it gives her the tingles. It confirms in her mind that she made the right choice in choosing you. Shit tests aren't ever going to end. It's like you're getting mad at the dog for getting into the Thanksgiving turkey that you left on the table for 5 hours while you passed out after watching football. It's a dog. They like turkey. Why are you mad? Getting mad at your SO for the shit tests is just getting mad at a woman for being a w…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:51 PM
8

Up until the "Where are we now?" you're going great. But then you completely change the tone of what's going on. She already said that she wants to be dominated, lead, and told what to do. So do those things. You need to be outcome independent here. If things work out with her, great. If not, then there's a hot yoga instructor 15 years younger than you with daddy issues that needs to talk to you. Spend more time worrying about your daughter than about your ex wife. The reason she is still around…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 05:57 PM
1

Nothing. It's her emotional roller coaster. Your job is to be the rock. Girls cry. Crying can be happy, sad, or just emotional.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:42 PM
9

I guess I don't get to travel to California ever again... I can just see the news now: Illinois man wins lottery, woman accuses him of raping her 30 years ago in California!
/r/MGTOW23/10/16 07:28 AM
6

You're handling your own shit. You're entertaining your family. If you want to her to somewhere that she's not going, then LEAD HER. "Honey, we're going to go shopping for gym attire for you. Then we're going to the gym. Today." I don't think cheating would help. From your words, I'd say that your wife is totally lost. She doesn't think you're attracted to her at all, and she has no idea what to do. You've improved yourself, and she's judging what comes next by her own standards and expectations…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 04:23 AM
2

Your job, as Captain, is to run the ship. Just because the decks need to be swabbed doesn't mean you're going to be swabbing them yourself. It seems like you have the situation well in hand. Sometimes you participate in the activity, sometimes you just delegate. Why are you coming here, looking for validation, when you're handling it?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 06:10 PM
1

There was some Survivor show where they separated the men and the women and that's basically what happened. The men made shelter and got towards procuring food and water. The women hung out and did nothing and were in very bad shape very quickly. When there's only women around, trying to manipulate each other, and nobody is willing to do any work, it's very very bad.
/r/MensRights21/10/16 06:08 PM
3

The same men who provided you and your young with protection from an environment that would surely kill you if not for their protection...
/r/MensRights21/10/16 01:07 AM
5

I was talking to another guy in his early 40's who has owned his shit, and is currently enjoying banging as many 24-year-olds-with-daddy-issues as he can. He was with an older woman one night and after the first round, he was lying there, recovering. He said to her, "How about you suck me off to get ready for round 2." She responded, patting him on the chest, "Well, maybe that's something we can work towards." He then told her, "Okay, how about you work towards picking your clothes up and gettin…
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 03:16 PM
6

For every hot, single girl out there, remember one thing: There's a guy who just isn't willing to put up with her bullshit any more.
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 03:10 PM
6

You have all of the wrong instincts. They got you into this mess. They will not get you out of it. Step 1: Shut The Fuck Up.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:46 AM
0

You need to change this, and change it immediately. The fact that you're laughing at how much your wife doesn't respect you shows just how much you have to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 05:24 PM
1

Read, read, read, and read some more.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:17 PM
2

Can you continue to publish and function using only your maiden name? I know lots of female academians who, to keep continuity with publication name, use only their maiden name. I have to ask: why are you getting married?
/r/askMRP18/10/16 08:57 PM
1

Dread works, doesn't it? If it's forced, then it's not dread. She realized that she'd be worse off if she lost you. She wants to make damn sure that doesn't happen. She doesn't know why.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 08:12 PM
1

It sounds like they fall into the not-really-red-pill category. I'm probably using the no-true-scotsman fallacy here to reinforce what I already believe. A stoic man who holds frame garners a great deal of respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 03:04 PM
2

I love reading success stories. I have my own, but I like reading everyone else's A serious question here: does anyone have any red pill failure stories?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 12:30 AM
2

Ahh, I remember the day well. Well, maybe it was a whole week. I got divorced and wanted to know why it happened. I thought I was a nice guy. I listened to my wife and tried hard to please her. But it was never enough for her. So she divorced me. Nobody really had an answer for me as to why it happened, at least not one that made any sense. Then I read the red pill. There it was, in black and white. Someone posted a hypothetical situation. It matched my life story exactly. It explained that I ha…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:04 PM
2

Be outcome independent. Have abundance mentality. By your own words, you are hotter and better put together than you were a year ago. You should be a lot more confident too. So why are you mate guarding? I'm not saying there's not a reason to be suspicious.
/r/askMRP13/10/16 01:55 PM
4

The supermom is a popular myth. Unless you have a nanny to take care of your children, there simply aren't enough hours in the day to do everything that needs to be done, and do it well. You must decide what's most important to you.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 12:34 PM
1

"She's given you enough chances." Um, no. She's not your mom. She's not your boss. I'd like to point out that you haven't told us anything about your side of the conversation. From her reactions I'm going to assume that you apologized for your behavior and told her it wouldn't happen again, and begged her not to go. Am I wrong?
/r/askMRP05/10/16 02:57 PM
1

Fewer words are better.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 04:48 AM
3

Over the next several years, she will shed each one of these requirements, 1 by 1, until she just wants, "someone who won't beat her" You can throw her a pity party when that happens. Put a dollar in the bank now, and by the time the party happens, it will have earned enough interest to pay for the party all by itself.
/r/MGTOW03/10/16 01:32 AM
1

There are 12 levels of dread, not 2. It's not like you go from "I'll be there for you forever, you are the love of my life and my soulmate" to "Get out you horrible harridan, you are not worth the water to even spit on you" in a day. So, read the 12 levels of dread. Quick synopsis: Level 0 is taking care of yourself. (/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/) The problem here is not that she's not attracted to you. The problem is that the relationship is, in h…
/r/askMRP30/09/16 05:57 PM
1

Men can have an internal sense of where they stand in the world. For women, it's all relative. A woman is never certain of how hot she is. She might be a 9, but one rejection from a guy and she feels like a 3. This is why women are furious when a not-so-hot guy approaches them. The implication is that they too are not-so-hot. Same thing if they show interest and it's not returned. Any hambeast 5 can get pumped and dumped by an 8 if he's drunk and horny enough. This makes her feel like she too is…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:31 PM
1

You have a couple of ways to approach it. 1) You got more money, but you're going to do the same job you were going to do otherwise. 2) You're going to earn your pre-raise and make them happy that they held on to you instead of going with someone cheaper. Congrats on the extra $2k. Drinks are on cmiovino tonight boys!
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:49 PM
1

She sounds really abusive. I bet she doesn't realize what damage she's doing. You need to find a way to show her. You also need to fix your grades. If you just go home, do homework, and then go to sleep, you should be on top of everything.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:11 AM
1

Most kids just rebel against their parents when things get this bad.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:59 AM
6

Here's the thing about ED. If you're old and get it, it can be treated with viagra, because everything else is working. If you're young and you get it, you need to change your habits. 1) No porn. Your brain has become so desensitized to what turns it on that you've basically built a resistance to sexual stimulation, in your brain. Do you remember when a lingerie model would get you rock hard? Now if it's not brazilian fart porn, you got nothing? Yeah. Lay off the brazilian fart porn you sick, si…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 01:36 AM
2

This is the same brand of thinking that calls drunken groping "rape".
/r/MensRights27/09/16 10:46 PM
2

I'm going to have to tell you to turn in your man card now. Wondering if you should or should not talk to her and then waiting for validation from the internet is something that a woman would do. It's not something that a man would do. Do you want to text her? Do so! Not feeling like texting her? Don't! It's really not that complicated.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:39 PM
3

You know that you have game. This surprises you. But you don't cheat on your wife. A+
/r/askMRP27/09/16 02:09 PM
2

You're not getting it. She doesn't want to humiliate others, because that would make her a horrible horrible person. She wants YOU to humiliate others. Then she gets to pretend like she's not a horrible horrible person.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:06 PM
2

She's not into you fucking other girls. She's into you humiliating other girls. She's not into it for you to have fun, she's into it so that she gets to control you while you control the other woman. With your attention in two places at once, she gets to have all the power and control. It's sounds pretty fucked up to me. If you're coming here for advice, then you probably don't have the frame to not fuck this up.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:59 PM
0

She uses the most vague, emotional language to describe what she thinks she wants you to do differently. This is a power play on her part. She says that she wants you to care for her emotions. Your description of her is all kinds of fucked up. She's genuinely unhappy that you are improving yourself. It makes her feel that she can't control you. Until she comes around to thinking of you as the leader of the house, things are only going to get worse. It's good that you've been working on yourself.…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 09:49 PM
1

She is looking to upgrade all the time. But that doesn't mean she's going to meet that upgrade any time soon. If she's with you like you describe, then you're the absolute best guy she thinks she can get (right now). There are lots of women who say "I'm not ready to <blah> right now." But if the right <blah> comes around, then she's ready. Are you still working out? Keeping yourself in shape? Job/School going well? That's what you should be worrying about, not whether or not she'll stay with you…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 11:00 PM
4

You're thinking of Tinder.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 10:54 PM
42

You haven't learned the first rule of the red pill. Abundance Mentality.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:39 PM
10

You're thinking the grass is greener on the other side. It isn't. You have a nice yard. That one to the left? It looks greener because it's fake. It looks great from a distance, but up close its plastic. The yard to your right looks green and lush. But it's just been resodded. The owner won't water it and take care of it. In a year it'll be the same crappy brown it was before. The grass always looks greener on the other side. But looks aren't everything.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 10:31 PM
2

It seems she's talking about dating and finding balance in her life with her own activities and dating. She doesn't want to focus her time and energy on her partner. She doesn't want to be lead. She simply wants to pursue her own hobbies, and if there's a guy who wants to come along for the ride, that's fine with her. She's already been a wife and a mom, for 16 years. She's not a wife any longer. It doesn't sound like she wants to be a wife again, and definitely isn't looking for a captain to co…
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 03:01 AM
1

What are you hoping to find here? You're not really wanting to be a red pill wife, are you?
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 02:41 AM
0

Once in awhile i will dress up in nice shoes and a collared shirt for myself. Wife notices it and usually says something as to why I am dressing so nice. This is a great time for a good comment. Your "Oh, these old rags?" is cute, but doesn't accomplish your purpose. "I have a hot date" works a lot better. Do you really have a hot date? No. But for the briefest moment, she might think you're serious. You're not serious are you? It's lighthearted and funny. It gives her something to play off of, …
/r/askMRP18/09/16 12:17 AM
1

I know I can get someone else. I am sure she knows. She has forgotten. Remind her.
/r/askMRP17/09/16 09:46 PM
0

Welcome to the married red pill. Talking about sex doesn't make her want sex more. Her saying that sex on Friday and Saturday sounds good doesn't make her want sex more. You being hot makes her want more sex. If other women find you attractive, that makes her REALLY want more sex from you. This is mostly based on physical appearance and partly based on personality. So you have a couple of things to do. You can start spending more time at the gym. This will help you look better. You can start pay…
/r/askMRP17/09/16 09:46 PM
1

Therapy is all about your wife. It's about making your wife feel good.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 07:26 PM
7

There is absolutely nothing sexual about what he said. She was the one who tried to put some sexual meaning into it.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:19 PM
22

Yeah. Boob job for her = branch swing to a better branch. Have fun with that ass while it's in your court, but don't be surprised when it leaves.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:55 AM
25

He's your captain. Not your child. There isn't a right way to treat your captain like a child.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 11:18 PM
3

With coffee, you're getting nothing directly in return except for the time and attention of the other woman. With sex, you're getting sex. There's a direct return on your time and attention. You're getting something for it.
/r/MGTOW14/09/16 02:22 AM
0

No. Your sister doesn't view you as someone to fuck. Therefore she views you as someone who provides for her. Your mom is the same way. Moms and sisters try to get you to behave how they think they want you to behave. This will not get you laid. Because what women want to fuck is someone who commands respect and takes control. Your mom cleaned your ass when you pooped yourself. Your older sister might have as well. They will never see you as someone who commands respect.
/r/askMRP13/09/16 07:44 PM
25

Here's the real trick to it. Women don't value having sex. Men do. That's why men view the act of sex as cheating, and women don't. But women do consider something like "having coffee" to be cheating. The value is your time and attention. If you're giving that to another woman, that's a problem for her. So, for women in a brothel (like the one OP showed) sex is worth only what some guy will pay for it. The reason that the door charges 65 euros to get in is so that it sets an expectation of price…
/r/MGTOW13/09/16 07:39 PM
2

It explains women's attraction to jewelry too. She doesn't care or know if it's pretty, but the $20,000 price tag says that it is valuable, and so THAT tell her that she wants it. How much does she want it? $20,000 worth!
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 11:54 PM
1

Sometimes simply writing the victim puke is its own reward. The author gets to put all their thoughts down on the subject. Sometimes their thoughts are worth comments, sometimes not. No, I don't think there needs to be something more raw and unpolished than askMRP.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 07:30 PM
1

It's possible that not having a strong supportive dad around has completely messed her up. There's not much you can do to counter biology
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:46 PM
1

You mean a BGTOW
/r/MGTOW06/09/16 06:49 PM
3

Just tell your sister flat out that he has herpes. If he's hot, she still might fuck him. There's not much more that you can do, other than warn her about the herpes.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:19 PM
3

I guess the adage is true. Happy wife happy life. \s
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/16 11:26 PM
4

What advice are you looking for? This situation is completely out of your control. It's a zombie relationship: it's dead, but it doesn't know it. She just wants the other guy. He won't commit. You did. SUCKER! Take all her shit, put it in a storage locker. Pay for the first month of the storage locker. Give her the key to the storage locker.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 07:06 PM
1

I like the flywheel analogy. With a foot pedal flywheel, your timing has to be right to keep it spinning. You have to continue to push correctly. Sometimes the axle can get a little worn, and you'll need to stop for some maintenance. When you have a solid red pill marriage going, all you have to do is keep pushing it in the right way occasionally. Well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 07:01 PM
1

"Our kid needs two lunches?" "I thought you were already doing that." "You're right. Right now I'm kissing you."
/r/askMRP29/08/16 09:14 PM
2

Sometimes you can fake abundance mentality. Sometimes you can't. If and when you get to a place where you're getting the sex you want, I imagine your jealousy will go down all by itself. Good luck regardless.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:10 PM
1

Realize that you can only control you. You can't control her. If she fucks another guy, does it bother you? You have two choices: ignore the evidence that it happened or MOVE ON. Take her shit, put it on the street. Get the locks changed and get your number changed. You're done with her. What can you do about it? Nothing, really. You can lift to make yourself hotter. You can have indomitable frame so that she's more attracted to his power than yours. But these aren't guarantees, they merely make…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:20 PM
2

Practice this phrase: "I request to have my lawyer present"
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:19 AM
2

Being attractive is more than physical. A huge part is maintaining frame and being dominant. If you had told me 3 years ago what would happen if I followed the red pill, I'd have saved my marriage. But then I set it forth in my next relationship. I did a bunch of red pill stuff I had never done before. Now, my girl can't get enough of me. She looks to me for guidance and approval in just about everything. Her one complaint of me? Not enough sex. I'm not as young as I once was, but literally ever…
/r/askMRP25/08/16 12:20 AM
1

Yes, it gets worse before it gets better. You reward the behavior that you want to see more of, and you don't reward the behavior you'd like to see less of. She summoned you, and you didn't respond to her. You discouraged the bad behavior. Now she's behaving like a spoiled brat, and you're trying to discourage that behavior as well. It might be easier if you did something productive with your time instead of just resisting blowing up at her. So, what else could you be doing with your time? Walk …
/r/askMRP18/08/16 07:11 PM
9

I would spend my time lifting and improving something else about me, if I were you. This relationship is on its last legs. She's just trying to find the better branch to swing to.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:42 PM
2

She is totally lost, and her world view has been shaken to its core. She has always had all the power in the relationship because she has the golden pussy. Unfortunately for her, this is no longer the case. You have all the power now, so you can't claim any sort of victim status ("I'm leaving you because you tried to cheat on me and I'm hurt"). So here's what you have to do: Think back to when you got married in the first place and decide if you think this woman is worthy of you. If she had the …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 04:01 PM
8

You do a really good job on your makeup. It draws attention away from your ass.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:22 PM
3

Two lessons: 1) "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." 2) Don't say a fucking word about what happened or didn't happen unless you're in court under the advice of a lawyer. If police show up to ask you questions, or clear up a misunderstanding, don't say a fucking word to them. Don't answer their questions.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:51 AM
5

So she doesn't tell you what she needs, then gets mad because you didn't ask her. Your reaction was to feel bad. Why? It's her fucking problem (literally) that she can't communicate basic wants and needs to you and at the same time, she berates you for not fulfilling them. What a mind-fuck. I bet you don't know which way is up right now, do you?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:10 PM
1

This is good stuff. You are improving yourself, and your shrew of a wife can't help but notice and be jealous. She is playing it like a game, but when the dust settles, your SMV will be much higher. She can come along for the ride, or (she knows!) someone else will. It seems like you're maintaining frame, showing amused mastery at her childish games. She's certain that you are cheating on her (because she knows that you could). You are in the middle of the road to success. Steady as she goes, Ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 04:43 PM
1

She was clear as day: she wanted you to be her orbiter, someone to talk to, maybe someone to solve her problems and help her boyfriend move. I don't see any reason for you to reach out to her.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 03:33 PM
1

You are not a victim unless you let yourself be made a victim. Focus on yourself, and your improvement. Focus on your children, that they will grow up to be people you are proud of. Your wife will follow your lead. The #1 lie you've been told over and over again is that you should defer to your wife at every turn. That she's always right, everything that goes wrong is your fault, while everything good that happens is a credit to her. It is time for you to lead. So Monday morning, when you get up…
/r/MGTOW31/07/16 11:58 PM
7

When the alleged rapist's name is published for all to see, he can lose his job before ever seeing a courtroom. He gets found guilty in the court of public opinion and his life is ruined. No evidence. The only crime that was committed was the false accusation against him.
/r/MGTOW28/07/16 08:34 PM
13

In reality? There are bruises, torn clothes, that sort of thing. In the feminist post-modern, post-reality world? None. It's just he said, she said.
/r/MGTOW28/07/16 12:03 PM
5

Excellent insight into yourself and your motivations. This is one of the few places where I would recommend a therapist to a man. You have some stuff that you need to work through. This stuff has nothing to do with your wife. So you need someone (who isn't your wife, and isn't particularly connected to you) to listen to you and help you to work through your issues. Really. Therapy is almost never the right thing, but it sounds like it might be for you.
/r/askMRP18/07/16 12:17 PM
3

If she doesn't think her friend is as hot as she is, then you flirting with her friend while paying less attention to her will shake the foundations of her existence. She is expecting to get more attention because she thinks she's better looking. When you don't give her that attention, it makes her question whether or not she really is hotter, since maybe she's actually really insecure about her looks.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:13 PM
2

She accepts your leadership. But you aren't leading. You are treating her like a side piece you barely tolerate. To use the captain/first mate metaphor, you're treating her like a deck swabbie rather than the mother of your child and your First Mate. She is really unhappy. You say that sex isn't a problem, so why did you cheat?
/r/askMRP18/07/16 11:30 AM
8

https://youtu.be/pzDue5kdoPY is just the important clip
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/16 11:45 PM
35

You want less sex? I want less relationship.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 08:11 PM
1

Good point.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 02:01 PM
3

"I know about your affair. We are getting divorced." That's it. Nothing more. her: "What affair?" you: "..." Women are better at playing emotional/relationship games than men are. I highly recommend that you don't try any of the "clever" tricks recommended by some of the other posters here. It might seem like a good idea, but it's more likely to blow up in your face. If she's having an affair, or planning one, then she's probably talked to all her girlfriends about it. She's talked about various…
/r/askMRP07/07/16 05:48 PM
11

I think the better answer is, "What size bra do you wear?". Both are largely genetic. They are both primary sexual characteristics.
/r/MGTOW06/07/16 07:31 PM
2

It's very very simple: Cheating is not the same for a man as it is for a woman. She's not having a relationship with the guy, so it's not cheating. That's why she gets pissed if you have a coffee date with another girl: You're doing relationship things, so it's cheating. If it was just sex, then it probably wouldn't matter as much. Unless you bought her lunch beforehand, then it'd be cheating.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:11 PM
1

Women whine and split hairs. You've entirely missed the point of TRP.
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 11:13 AM
1

She'll be back when she realizes your value. If you had changed, she'd have left and never looked back, because you would have lost value.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:44 AM
1

You can't control her actions. You can only control yours. | I just said, "I hear you, but this is crossing the boundaries we set", and put phone down. I'm guessing this wasn't a joint decision, it was your decision, and she went along with it in words to get you to lay off her. You are working on yourself. Keep working on yourself. Depending on the behavior of your wife (when you are not around) for your happiness is a recipe for disaster.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 12:55 PM
5

"And how does that make you feel?" After she's done speaking her mind, follow it up with "okay." She gets to say her piece, you still don't care but you know what's going through her mind, so you're more prepared for stuff that's coming up (even if she doesn't realize it).
/r/askMRP28/06/16 06:36 PM
1

You're looking for problems instead of solutions. Yes, it's possible that my 9 word sentence won't cover all eventualities, but it's a move in the right direction.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:49 AM
2

Gaslighting is just another shit test. A&A is anything but legitimizing. "What did you do with my hair clip? I saw you messing with it earlier." "I added it to my collection. Finders keepers, losers weepers."
/r/askMRP28/06/16 04:47 AM
0

| How can I be expected to go on guys trips with my friends if I bar her from doing it? You can't. You can't bar her from doing anything. You can only control you. You can't control her. You know she's going to sleep with this guy. It's what she wants to do. You can't say anything to convince her otherwise. Confronting her will just make her lie and cheat, instead of just cheating. You can choose to do whatever you want to do, but you can't change her behavior. You can be okay with her behavior.…
/r/askMRP28/06/16 01:59 AM
3

There is nothing weird about his situation. His girl is going to go to another city where she's going to meet a guy who makes her wet, and then things are going to happen. She's made her decision. There's nothing that your friend can directly do to change her mind. He could be a better man and she could realize that if she jumped the dick in a different city that she was throwing away the best thing that had happened to her, but this isn't going to happen. He is who he is and she is who she is. …
/r/askMRP28/06/16 01:53 AM
1

You can't mate-guard. It will just make her lie and cheat on you, instead of just cheating on you. You only have power over you. You don't have power over her. She can do whatever she wants to do, and you can decide what you are going to do. Given that, do you want to stay with her if she's fucking other guys, or do you want to find someone else?
/r/askMRP28/06/16 01:06 AM
3

Do you want to spend the rest of your life in jail (or die early) because of a momentary emotional swing on her part? If she's an HB7 (or higher), she's more likely to be believed by a jury or a white knight with a gun. Why would you think pussy is worth that much?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 12:59 AM
2

It costs nothing for the woman to simply put a name down, but the man is supposed to pony up $1000/hr for his 'team of lawyers'?
/r/MGTOW27/06/16 11:07 AM
2

In many states, the father has to sign the birth certificate to admit he is the father. This is simply so that women don't just put down some rich guy's name.
/r/MGTOW27/06/16 11:04 AM
4

If they do? All her shit in a box to the left.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 10:30 AM
1

It sounds like you are experiencing the waves along your starboard bow from righting the direction of your ship. You don't worry too much about the waves, but instead keep the order, "steady as she goes." This is exactly what you should be doing. It's work, and it isn't fun, but if you want to save you marriage (and it sounds like you genuinely do), then it's the work that MUST be done. Keep it up. You may have failings and backslidings, but keep your eye on the prize and you will get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/16 08:24 PM
1

Same rules as everyone else: lift, dress well, have good hygiene and a nice haircut.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 06:09 PM
15

It seems scary right now because they accusation has been made. But don't say a fucking word to the police, other than "I request to have my lawyer present." When the police ask you questions, they are NOT trying to determine your innocence. They are trying to find things that you say to confirm your guilt. Absolutely nothing you say can help you, but it can hurt you.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:10 PM
5

"You want me to get you a $2 ice cream and you'll give me sex? So, you're saying you're a $2 whore? I married a $2 whore? Fuck."
/r/askMRP24/06/16 02:47 AM
1

It should be clear in your mind what your mission is with your woman. That doesn't mean you should talk about it. ACT. Don't TALK about acting.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 02:11 AM
1

I think that the point you are making is core to marriedredpill. Yes, the world is unfair. Yes, you have been lied to about the nature of women. Your wife doesn't judge you based on how much of a feminist ally you are, she judges you on your fitness (social, physical, emotional, financial). Yes, you can whine about it. But that doesn't change anything, and it certainly doesn't set you up to win the game. What sets you up to win the game is understanding the actual rules, not the ones you were to…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:06 AM
3

The common theme in current childhood education is to praise effort (when there is success) rather than treating the success as a characteristic. So, a "You really worked hard on this test, and it shows" versus "You're really good at this." The latter shows that the student doesn't have to try any more. In fact, trying would be bad because if they didn't experience the same success, it would show that the effort had transformed them from "good" to "bad". It's a very demotivating thing to be told…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 08:11 PM
3

The first action most drivers take when going into a skid makes all of their other actions irrelevant because they simply lose all control of the car. Since she has separated finances, it sounds like you are in an uncontrolled skid in your marriage. She is already cutting ties and moving on. She doesn't view you as a leader. She views you as someone she can't rely on, someone who can't even handle her mood swings, let alone what the real world throws at the family. If you knew that the marriage …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:41 PM
14

There are lots of answers here with advice on how to handle this girl. You don't want to have anything to do with her. She is only texting you to get you to agree to something, and this is not in your interest at all. My biggest thoughts are either RAPE ALLEGATION or DADDY ALLEGATION. It's possible that it's husband-wants-to-beat-your-ass. This isn't red-flag-relationship stuff, this is red-flag-life stuff. If you respond, you'll probably end up in court and it won't go well for you.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 06:25 PM
2

My original thought was that if she saw the money coming in and the money going out, then she wouldn't harass me to spend money that we didn't really have. This was an incorrect thought. Instead what happened was that she got stressed and thought less of me as a man. Talking to a lot of other long-term-successfully-married men, they all pay all the bills. In one case, the wife writes the checks, but he signs them. She's willing to do the work on the bills, but wants him to make the final decisio…
/r/askMRP20/06/16 06:20 PM
3

I think that one of my biggest mistakes in my marriage was having my wife do the bills. It's not that she couldn't do them, it's that it stressed her out constantly, and made her feel like I wasn't a man that could be relied on.
/r/askMRP20/06/16 05:01 PM
1

"I got this" Learn these three words. She's asking about bills getting paid because she doesn't have confidence in your ability to organize and follow through. You arguing with her doesn't increase her confidence in you, and that's what you need to do. Her: "Did you pay the power bill?" You: "Of course. It's part of the budget. I got this."
/r/askMRP20/06/16 04:59 PM
1

Do I next her? You already did. If you're looking for validation, then yes, you did the right thing. But you already know that.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:57 PM
1

"So, anyway, I’ve started to diet. I’ve cut back calories, but have only been losing a pound every 10 days or so. At a rate of 3 pounds a month, it will take me 20 months to lose this weight." This is a fantastic rate of weight loss. You might be able to prevent the very common yo-yo of your weight if you do this. How long did it take you to gain the weight? 20 months is NOTHING for getting to a target weight if you've let yourself go for a while (and 5'3" at 170lbs means you've let yourself go.…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 02:32 AM
5

I've now read the edit. It doesn't change anything that I've written. It's entirely your choice what you're going to do about it (or not do about it). You should know the truth in order to make the best decision.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:59 AM
4

And that's what all the tears were for. She did something that she knows you will dump her for, and she can't get anyone better (especially if they find out what she did to you). She did it and took pictures. It kinda makes you the chump for staying with her, but do what you want.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:57 AM
2

You don't trust her because of this. As well you shouldn't. The question is what you're going to do now. Knowing that she's a woman (the W in AWALT), does that change how you think about her? For you, cheating is having sex with someone else. For her, cheating is having a relationship with someone else. She's not having a relationship with anyone else, so therefore it's not cheating in her mind (hamsters will run).
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:39 AM
8

I think she probably does find OP as the hottest guy she can get with, but that doesn't mean she can't also have fun elsewhere.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:34 AM
4

She 100% posted stuff she didn't want you to see, and then forgot to change the setting. You haven't found what she posted, but it's probably pretty incriminating. She likes you and doesn't want you to dump her, but if you saw what she blocked you from, then she knows that you WILL dump her. She's 100% lying about what you posted in paragraph 2.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:33 AM
1

You are her orbiter. She fucked you before, and now that gives her the right (in her mind) to call you up and have you validate her whenever she wants.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 04:26 PM
1

Read the side bar. Lift. Try to practice holding frame. Everyone in that place knows you're not running things, even the two dogs.
/r/askMRP12/06/16 02:41 PM
1

I think humans make mistakes of various kinds and sometimes life becomes very complicated I've done some bad things in my life. I don't consider those bad things to be 'mistakes'. I did them because I was a shitty person. There's not really an excuse for the things I did. I'm not going to blame the circumstance and say that things "were complicated". I don't think that men abandon their kids like you think they do. I've seen moms take their kids away from their fathers, then file restraining ord…
/r/askMRP10/06/16 05:06 AM
1

I think that you consider yourself to be a woman of integrity. You made a promise to stay with your husband through thick and thin, for richer or poorer. But here you are, on a random internet forum, saying that you would drop him if you found out he was a serial killer. What if he wasn't a serial killer? What if it was just one person? What if that person was a bad person? Where's your line between honoring your promise and leaving? I'm reminded of the joke: man: "Sleep with me for $10,000,000?…
/r/askMRP10/06/16 05:02 AM
1

I've made and kept promises to men that spanned years and decades. I've had other men make and keep promises to me that have spanned decades. Often keeping the promise isn't in the best interest of the person who made the promise, because situations have changed. I've found that when a situation changes, a woman will easily go back on her promise if it's convenient. I've never seen the same value placed on the word of a woman. Have you?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 03:13 AM
1

I think you're reacting to my comments without really understanding them. You and I both agree as to what makes a good husband and what makes a good wife. Both of those are good to find and hard to find.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 03:10 AM
1

I asked you questions about your spouse, and you responded that your husband is "the head of our household and the primary decision maker". You avoided all of my questions. I'm guessing that's because the answer to all of them was "no". All of the things I mentioned are things that lots of women claim they want in a husband. They are all the things that their ex-husbands used to do for them that they liked. But they are not husband qualities. None of those things fulfill his role as the man of t…
/r/askMRP09/06/16 10:58 PM
1

I had some tasty cheese dish called electric goat once.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/06/16 02:30 PM
1

I'm glad that you think this is BS. Tell me about your spouse? Is he a really really nice guy who always does what you ask? Does he rub your feet when they are sore? Does he do the dishes and laundry and vacuuming after coming home from work? Does he sit and listen to you talk for hours about your horrible workmates, inserting the random "that bitch!" when appropriate? Does he sit around with you, drinking wine and talking about how best to decorate the house?
/r/askMRP08/06/16 10:32 PM
1

Sure, lots of men do lie, but when it gets escalated, they know they're going to get caught and they backpedal. Especially over something as minor as a car crash.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/16 09:15 PM
4

You cannot control her behavior. If you don't like it, then leave. Just pack up your shit and leave. If it's your place, then pack her shit up and leave it on the lawn. You don't have to tell her that her behavior is unacceptable to you. You don't have to demand that she change. But you don't have to be with her if you don't want to be. That is the extent of your power and control. Exercise it.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:13 PM
0

I disagree. A man would know that it was his fault and take the blame for it before talking to the media. He would know just how bad it would go for him for the rest of his life if he lied and got caught so publically. A woman wouldn't be held accountable for the rest of her life for one little mistake.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/16 08:57 PM
2

But somehow Elon Musk knew this would happen, so they have the car record everything. Too bad the computer record shows you were lying, ma'am, do you want to change your testimony, or should we go ahead and add felony obstruction of justice and perjury to the charges?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/16 08:54 PM
1

This is a great metaphor. Make no mistake, for women, marriage is a business contract wherein they get paid if things go badly. If they "give up their career" to chase a guy, they want to be certain that they won't be left destitute with children when he decides to start banging his secretary. So, as a man, you should approach it as a purely business contract as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:34 PM
1

Lifting is a great path towards generating your own self confidence and showing it visibly to the world. But what makes OP sexy is the confidence and competence he shows and proves. It's not that he says, "I'll take care of it." It's that after saying that, he actually does it. The OI here is that he knows there are lots of people with whom he can do business, and if one falls through, there will be others lined up out the door for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 03:59 PM
1

I'm not, I'm just speaking of the very real likely outcomes of the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 04:20 PM
1

What does he get from you if the relationship ends? Why should your financial well being be his responsibility if the relationship is over? Blame is often very hard to assign. Some relationships end because one person starts being crappy towards the other person to the point where the other person ends the relationship. Who is to blame there? This is a place where divorce lawyers make a lot of money, endlessly discussing (at $500+/hour) sordid details of who did what, where and when. There are a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 03:23 PM
1

"If it's his fault" This is a HORRIBLE clause in any contract. You might as well just write your lawyer a check for all your money. It's clear that you are thinking about marriage as a contract that gets you paid in the case that things go bad with the relationship. What does he get if you decide the relationship is over? This is why men of quality absolutely refuse to get married.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 10:00 AM
1

"However, if we had some life event that required me to quit my dream job and move across the country or world and my ability to financially take care of myself was hindered and I am completely dependent on him, then yeah - I want something in writing that says if it’s his fault this union can’t go on, I need a safety net. It would be monumentally stupid for me to put myself in a situation where I’d end up with nothing, far from home. And I completely understand the fear of divorce rape, so I’m …
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 04:21 AM
1

Men and women don't love the same way. You pointed this out in your original post. A low n-count woman might come close. Probably not, but might. A high n-count woman never could. You say you wouldn't want to be a forever girlfriend, that there's something special about a marriage. What if you found a great guy who was tall, handsome, had money and personality and was in love with you? Could you be with him without a marriage contract? What specific right does the contract convey that you want? …
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 02:44 AM
1

Pair Bonding: The first time you fall in love, there's nothing like it in the world. That person becomes your everything and you give your all to them. When that love is returned, it's truly glorious. That's a pair bond. Guess what? You can never fall in love for the first time again. If that bond is broken, you can never form one as strong as it again. It shouldn't be much of a stretch to see that a woman who has fucked a different guy every week since she turned 18 can't ever form that pair bo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 12:48 AM
3

Just enjoy it for what it is. It could be that nobody has pulled her off the market because they couldn't offer her enough. Maybe you can, maybe you can't. Maybe you pull her off the market, and things go south. You're heartbroken and she now has half your stuff, and worse: half your income as well. I'm not saying that it will go that way. I'm saying that you should enjoy the time you have with her, if it's a month or 100 years. Don't expect that it will continue forever, because if you falter, …
/r/askMRP04/06/16 12:14 PM
0

There's a checkbox that says "Use subreddit style". Uncheck it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 01:25 PM
56

She's an alpha widow anyway. She dumped him because she thought she could do better. And maybe, when she was younger (and she always envisions herself as when she was 5+ years younger) she could have. But unfortunately for her, she believed all the feminist lies and judged her future prospects by her past successes. Let's all throw her a pity party, shall we.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 11:44 PM
21

The go-to allegation of ANY women getting a divorce and wanting to get something out of it (money, custody time, etc) is "he abused me" or "I don't think the kids are safe with him." Every. Single. One. The good news is that judges are fully aware of this, and don't generally believe any of it.
/r/MGTOW28/05/16 10:40 PM
1

Troll.
/r/askMRP27/05/16 08:33 PM
1

"Planning for the future. My millions aren't going to make themselves."
/r/askMRP25/05/16 05:25 PM
2

Whatever you do, make sure that she fully engages with her anxiety disorder. If she ever does anything unacceptable, just blame it on the anxiety, and don't ever ask her to take responsibility for her actions, because that just wouldn't be fair. In 10 years, when your life also totally revolves around her illness, just be thankful that...blah blah blah. I would have walked away a long time ago.
/r/askMRP24/05/16 03:49 PM
3

Yes
/r/askTRP24/05/16 01:54 AM
2

I would argue that he fundamentally misunderstands women if he thinks they'll stick by him when he voluntarily undertakes a risky financial move. She sees the downside: if it fails, she'll be paying all the bills, but if it succeeds, she doesn't get a phat paycheck from it. It's a shitty move for her to bail on him while he's sick, no doubt. Some women are just shitty.
/r/MGTOW20/05/16 11:15 PM
11

I would say that his post confirms rather than refutes the claim. He wasn't alpha enough. He was physically sick and at a low point SMV-wise. Women aren't looking at where the future might take you. They're looking at where you are RIGHT NOW. Why? Because they know that since they'd leave you in a heartbeat, you'd leave them in a heartbeat as well, so there's no point in investing time now for some future vague payoff.
/r/MGTOW20/05/16 02:09 PM
3

This is the crux of the red pill: women don't love like men do. Women don't make promises like men do. When a man does something for another man, there's a debt that must be repaid. When a man does something for a woman, she can forget about it the next day. It's all about feelings in the moment. Marriage vows are forever, and yet divorce still happens. There's a piece of advice I heard here once. Whenever a woman makes a big statement or promise, just silently append the phrase "right now" to t…
/r/askMRP20/05/16 01:26 AM
3

Do you think that she would stand by her promises to you for one minute if a better man came along and gave her a better offer than what she has now?
/r/askMRP19/05/16 08:31 AM
1

no no no.
/r/askMRP18/05/16 02:16 AM
1

Don't try to change her. Change you. Read the 12 rules of dread for a clear roadmap. This isn't about your current relationship. It's about you.
/r/askMRP17/05/16 09:21 PM
1

amused mastery. Think about a small child telling you you have to do something. Would you argue with the child with any degree of seriousness? Or would you engage them in an amused way? You are a master of the situation, and the child's behavior amuses you. Hence, Amused Mastery. (AA is agree and amplify)
/r/askMRP17/05/16 04:56 PM
-1

The "old and ugly" is a comfort test. Just hold her and kiss her.
/r/askMRP17/05/16 01:31 PM
6

If she wasn't attracted to you, she'd call you creepy, or annoying. But since she's having sex with you, she needs to come up with a different totally vague shaming word. "Emotionally abusive" is a nice negative catch all. She wants you to commit to her, but you haven't, so she's trying to shame you in to it. Next she'll tell you to man up, or grow up.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:48 AM
2

/r/Redpillwives /r/redpillwomen
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 11:38 PM
5

Sure they can! You, as the man of the house can have a woman who makes lots of money. You can have a woman who makes you great meals. You can have a woman who has fantastic sex with you whenever you want. You can have a woman who is great with your kids. Just don't let any of those women meet each other!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 07:25 PM
2

You can't mate-block, and that's what you're doing. She wanted to spend time with Chad and you weren't okay with that. Guess what? She just wants him more now. You've taken up the role of father-shes-going-to-rebel-against. She's better at lying than you are at catching her. If you try to catch her, she'll just play the victim card and some white knight will block your attempts. JUST MOVE ON. Take all her shit, put it in a box to the left, go to the gym and pound the fucking iron. Try not to tea…
/r/askMRP10/05/16 09:36 PM
4

This was the HARDEST change for me to make moving on from my divorce. I was such the supplicating beta, "What would you like to do? What are you in the mood for? What can I do to help?" Now I make statements or ask for specific factual information. "When are you finished with your obligations tonight? Great. I'll pick you up 30 minutes after that. Wear something nice." Guess which approach gets her panties wet?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 07:04 PM
1

And this is exactly what she wants. She wants you to lead. She wants to follow. She doesn't want to have to worry about all the details of the plan. She just wants to follow the plan. Great field report.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 07:01 PM
4

Lift. Get Sexy. It's not her, it's you. If Brad Pitt walked in the room, would she suddenly be in the mood?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 11:20 PM
2

I find her paragraph to be a great example of olympic-athlete hamster training. She has given YOU commitment? No. She hasn't. If you were having sex all the time, then maybe she could argue that, but the fact is that you are getting nothing from the relationship. She doesn't have interesting things to talk about. She doesn't pay the bills. She doesn't drop to her knees when you're in need. I'm on your side. But what should you do? I'm guessing you came here because you're not ready to end this t…
/r/askMRP05/05/16 01:02 AM
1

Wow.
/r/MGTOW05/05/16 12:47 AM
1

Don't overthink this.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 09:32 PM
1

This is a great plan, especially the pacing. Lots of guys try to rush things. "I just read TRP an hour ago, I did 6 push ups, and my wife didn't change. Hard next on my 16 year marriage?" I have a friend who was heavy and got into a relationship with a girl who was heavy. He decided he wanted to adopt a vegan diet. He's a class A geek (I mean this in a good way), but he's very beta. His fat girlfriend nee wife said she wanted to have kids, he said they couldn't afford to have one yet, so she fou…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 07:06 PM
2

Her behavior says she is moving on. Your choice at this point is what's going to happen after the relationship ends. I'd recommend hitting the gym a lot now, so that when it does end, your next is hotter than your last.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 12:41 AM
1

It sucks when your guy actually believes the feminist manifesto.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 04:15 AM
1

Welcome. So, you said something mean to your wife and now she thinks that you think she's just dumb. This makes her angry. Was your behavior correct, or did you really cross the line? You decide. If it was playful banter, then tell her that it was playful banter, and she needs to get over it. If you think you crossed the line, then say, "Sorry for what I said" and move on. Don't try to get a response from her. Let her work through what she needs to work through. If you're really worried about it…
/r/askMRP24/04/16 12:15 AM
5

That's way too much to read. There's no format to it or anything. try re-formatting it.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 12:10 AM
1

So, your physical sexual market value is high, but your actual smv isn't. You don't hold frame. The house operates on her say so. This means she has to run her shit while she's at work, and then worry about everything around the house when she gets home. She doesn't want to do this. She wants to be told what to do. It's going to take a while to get to this good place. My advice is to read the side bar of material (and focus on holding and maintaining frame), and go slow. Lifting always helps. Ev…
/r/askMRP23/04/16 02:15 AM
1

This reminds me of a post somewhere else a while back. The post was from a girl talking about how unhappy she was in her marriage. One evening she had made dinner and she was absolutely furious that her husband was coming home late from work. She was putting him in the doghouse! Fast forward to now, and she's happier with her marriage because she's stopped trying to try her husband like a dog. Your GF may be treating you like a dog, and she may think that that's what she wants. But if she finds …
/r/askMRP22/04/16 10:29 PM
1

I'd say don't worry about it. Mate-guarding is beta behavior. That being said, YOU have to be okay with her behavior. If you're really not okay with it, then it might be time to end the relationship and move on.
/r/askMRP22/04/16 09:29 PM
1

You have classic oneitis. You are trying to win the affection of one woman. This will not lead to long term success. It may win back the current girl for a little bit, right up until Chad comes along. Chad isn't beta. Chad does what he wants. He also takes care of himself and looks good. You need to focus on you. Not for the goal of winning back this one girl, but for the goal of making yourself more attractive in general. You'd like to think that this one girl really liked you, and you should f…
/r/askMRP22/04/16 08:48 PM
1

I don't think this is true. When presented with the ideal, I think all men basically want the same thing, and I think all women basically want the same thing, physically. But usually it's not worth making the sacrifices to get that ('cause the minds behind the bodies aren't worth the the hotbod).
/r/askTRP22/04/16 08:14 PM
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TL/DR: It's good for her to miss you when you're not around. I used to do lots of things to give my wife attention whenever she wanted it. That marriage ended in divorce. I never knew why. Then I encountered the red pill. Now I know why. Your ltr doesn't think you're jumping fast enough when she texts you? That's just fine. It makes her feel disconnected from the relationship, and then she needs to reconnect with you more when she actually gets to see you. This accomplishes several things, satis…
/r/askMRP21/04/16 12:41 AM
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This is a lose-the-battle-win-the-war kind of thing. I don't know the details of your protective order. If you can text or send some other message, tell your daughter happy birthday. And then rake your wife over the coals in court.
/r/MensRights20/04/16 06:48 PM
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You have got to be fucking kidding me. What are you feeding your hamster? Gummy bears wrapped in a fruit rollup? You're going for your black belt test. It's a big deal for you, but it's not a big deal for everyone else. It just isn't. You worrying about hurting everyone's feelings tells me you are not anywhere close to being the alpha you think you are. Not. Even. Close. Invite everyone. Tell the moms to behave if you want. Don't discuss it with them, just tell them.
/r/askMRP20/04/16 12:42 AM
1

There's TONS of women who want nothing more than to be stay-at-home moms. It's a STRONG driving biological force. Find a 28 year old who isn't married and doesn't have kids and isn't in some career that requires advanced degrees or computer science.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 09:04 PM
1

Never mind that there are far more opportunities for women to get into college now, with lots and lots of women-only scholarships.
/r/MGTOW19/04/16 03:31 PM
2

How tall do you think Arnold Schwarzenegger is? If you focus on your flaws, you'll always be held back by them. Focus instead on your strengths. Fitness always helps.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 11:52 AM
7

The second sentence of advice made me not read the rest of it. "Even though you feel like time is running out, it's not". Actually, honey, it IS running out. You probably have a checklist of shit you have to have in any guy you date. Unfortunately, this checklist is FUCKING IDENTICAL to EVERY OTHER GIRL'S CHECKLIST. That's right, you're looking for the exact same guy that every other girl is looking for: over 6' tall, makes 6 figures at least, college degree+MBA, good looking, in shape. That's n…
/r/MGTOW18/04/16 11:24 AM
1

A couple of things: It takes men working on it tirelessly a year to really get it, understand it, not be angry about it, accept it. The Red Pill isn't an easy swallow. Second: It's funny that he brings up the Jian Ghomeshi trial. Feminism LOL has a great series of videos about this, but the gist is this: the women fabricated the ENTIRE thing. All three of them had never actually slept with Ghomeshi. This was their way to get back at him. The author of the article describes it as "The accusers re…
/r/askMRP14/04/16 09:08 PM
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This is really my feeling about equality and trying to push more women to go in to STEM fields (which is where it usually comes up in my social circles). Men and women are different. Different strengths and weaknesses. That's a good thing.
/r/MGTOW14/04/16 04:48 PM
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Solid reply. There's nothing to be sad about. She wants you to commit to her, but just because you haven't yet doesn't mean you never will (she hopes!)
/r/askTRP14/04/16 05:16 AM
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Here's the thing about behavior: lots of people will judge you without ever talking to you about it. They will choose to associate with you or not based on those judgements. You will never be questioned directly about those behaviors. If you are never given a reason as to why you aren't hired or why someone suddenly stops talking to you, there's very little you can do about it. Working in porn can and will affect the rest of your life, whether you think it's fair or not.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/16 11:15 PM
2

I wrote it and read it as well. What part makes you think that it's slut shaming? There are consequences for actions. That's all. If I said that I was an atheist, there would be repercussions to me doing so. Is it slut shaming to talk about that too?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/16 10:31 PM
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What makes you think this is slut shaming?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/16 09:36 PM
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You are 19. You are an unfinished project. 1) Keep lifting. No matter what, keep lifting. 2) Right now you have women on a pedestal. They are perfect and flawless in your mind. This is not how women actually are. You're going to make a lot of mistakes. It's okay. Fear of failure shouldn't stop you. Go out, try, fail, learn and succeed!
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:18 AM
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Let's try two pieces of advice, and one nice thing to say, and we'll see how far I get through your post. "How to respond to wife when she's triggered..." First off, don't use the word "triggered" and don't even think it. You are automatically falling into her frame when you do this. The word takes the blame off the person who is offended and puts it on some event or idea or situation (that is usually common). When she says, "work is triggering me" she's taking zero responsibility for the situat…
/r/askMRP07/04/16 09:47 PM
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You and I should hang out. I'll let you pay for everything. I'll put out just as much as the women you date too.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 08:45 PM
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Not at all. I simply believe that actions have consequences.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/04/16 11:13 PM
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Absolutely it belongs here. The idea that "I'm a woman, and I can do anything I want with no repercussions" is strongly refuted here. Yes, you can do what you want. BUT. There are repercussions, and those repercussions might last for the rest of your life. Considering that this video feels like a PSA to 18-year-old girls, them understanding that choices they make at 18 might last far beyond the amount of time they've already lived on this planet is important. For guys who just enjoy the "you got…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/04/16 08:58 PM
2

"Thanks for the drink" and turn away and ignore.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:09 PM
6

You-your lawyer-her lawyer-her. No problems
/r/MensRights31/03/16 12:09 AM
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I think hambeast thinks you're flirting with her. Just ignore. Let the uncomfortable silence sit. Stare at her when she says crap like this, and say nothing at all. Let the disgust show on your face.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:50 PM
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I was going to suggest that you make substantive changes to who you are just so that you improve, but also be fully aware that your soon-to-be-ex-wife is a self-centered POS and not worth who you will become. Best of luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 08:00 PM
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From the list of what you have said so far, it sounds like you are in a horrible marriage. If it were me, I would get divorced immediately. Really. You've described the horror that men feel after having been married for 30 years to a person with whom they share a deep, meaningful hatred. You are 30 and in shape with a job? There are a MILLION single women out there who desperately want to meet you and get married and have lots and lots of sex and kids. For you to do this you probably should get …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 06:25 PM
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John Taylor Gatto's The Underground History of American Education is also a good resource.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 09:50 AM
1

Talking dirty and being a little rough are two things that you can't really pull off in a halfhearted safe way. They have to come naturally to you. Best of luck
/r/askMRP21/03/16 12:05 AM
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You're in High School. Your girlfriend just broke up with you, on your birthday. It happens. Her move, coming over to your place, was just a natural thing for her. She is trying to turn you into an orbiter. Or, as she puts it, she'd "like to remain friends". The only reason to stay on good terms with her is because high school girls talk, and more importantly, they lie. If she decides that she wants to, she'll spread lots of lies about you. You live in a small world, in high school, so beware.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:03 AM
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Sex God Method has shown good results for a lot of men. It could be that you're doing fine except for the sex. I don't mean that you're bad, just that what she wants is a no-holds-barred domination that has her orgasming uncontrollably. I don't know, just mentioning it.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 10:43 PM
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It seems to me like you are doing a lot of things to get through to this one girl. But I don't see you doing the things that would help you get through to all girls. 1) Do you even lift bro. "going to the gym" makes it sound like you're doing pilates. I'm not saying that being flexible is a bad thing, but it's not what all women find attractive. Muscle mass is attractive. 2) You are giving her all the attention she wants. You are firmly in her frame. You're having sex and she's trying to run the…
/r/askMRP20/03/16 08:57 PM
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After the string of accusations, you woke up and said, "I was asleep." She says, "I don't believe you." You can engage the hamster, which you did, adding fuel to make it run faster. Or you can ignore it and redirect her energies. She wanted drama around your not replying to her texts, and you indulged her. What else could you have said? Nothing. Simply ignore, let her hamster run itself out and get exhausted. "Do you want to come over and talk about it, right now?" If she's not near you, then yo…
/r/askMRP20/03/16 09:26 AM
2

Here's the thing you're not getting (aside from her being crazy): She wants you to be the rock that she can cling to when she's going crazy. Instead of being that rock, you let your emotional response to her cycle with hers. She's crazy, and you're probably best just hard nexting her. This is advice for a future plate. If you want to keep her as a plate, just be the rock.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 03:07 AM
1

Stay the course. It sounds like she's unsure if this is a phase you're going through or the real deal.
/r/askMRP14/03/16 11:27 PM
1

I disagree. There are merits to both philosophies
/r/MGTOW14/03/16 07:40 PM
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I tried to direct the guy here, since he seemed more MGTOW than Red Pill to me. My comment was autoremoved for linking to here.
/r/MGTOW14/03/16 05:57 PM
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Her next suicide attempt might include a not given to the police department saying that her husband is trying to kill her. Don't stick your dick in crazy. Don't marry crazy.
/r/askMRP13/03/16 11:31 PM
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1) Call an ambulance and get her out of your place. She's suicidal and you don't want to deal with this. 2) Move all of her stuff into boxes and then to a storage facility. Give the key to her mom, or some other relative. 3) Move. Or at least change the locks. 4) Welcome to the Red Pill. There are things you're going to have to do to help this from not happening again. This isn't an easy journey, and there are no shortcuts to success. It's going to start with you lifting weights and reading all …
/r/askMRP13/03/16 09:09 PM
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Giant Douche in '16! "At least I'm not a Shit Sandwich!"
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:56 PM
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The nature of the discourse here is one of "Here's what I've discovered, here's what I've tried, here's how it's working so far." Sometimes the last bit is "Help, I don't know what I did wrong." Your question is much more of a "How do I make my guy do what I want him to?" question. If you would like to send your guy here, we might be able to talk to him and get him sorted out. But this process isn't for you, it's for him.
/r/askMRP13/03/16 05:41 PM
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Why are you suddenly jumping to the placated doll's defense? Do you think she needs you? Married Red Pill is for men. Not women. There are other places where they can be women and be accepted. This is not a place where accommodations will be made just because she's a woman.
/r/askMRP13/03/16 06:27 AM
1

So he's supposed to change his tone just because it's a woman (who shouldn't be here) talking? Why?
/r/askMRP13/03/16 06:26 AM
1

Why do you think the red pill has anything to do with you? You talk about your needs, over and over again. How are you meeting his needs? Are you fucking him daily and nightly and ever-so-rightly? Of course your love language is quality time. Every woman wants time with her man. Just hanging out, talking. Of course you think his love language is words of affirmation. Because you project that on to him. What he really wants is physical touch, including sex. So if you're not giving that to him, th…
/r/askMRP13/03/16 06:24 AM
2

I don't enjoy lifting. But I go anyway because I enjoy the results of lifting.
/r/askMRP11/03/16 10:52 PM
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People notice results, not progress. Ever see a 250lb guy with 25% body fat and say "Wow, that's some...progress!" Maybe he started his journey at 400lbs. You are fixing a lifetime of bad information. It's going to take time. What are you going to do with that year instead? Try to plug back in?
/r/askTRP10/03/16 07:08 PM
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"You're not humble anymore". "I can't treat you like a doormat any more."
/r/askTRP10/03/16 06:50 PM
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Like many large worldview-changing ideas, it doesn't come without some consequences. The anger does fade. 6 months to a year isn't out of the ordinary.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 06:50 PM
2

"Even the lightest dread, when use with a pregnant wife, can result in divorce." Sounds like maybe treat the shit tests more like comfort tests then. Your call!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 06:28 PM
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Let her worry about you cheating. You don't have to worry about it at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 06:30 AM
1

Mostly beta first years and such You mean, like you?
/r/askTRP10/03/16 05:27 AM
2

Sure, you'd be happy to tutor her. Go over to her place and pour drinks. "We'll get to tutoring in a little bit."
/r/askTRP10/03/16 05:26 AM
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The only reason is because it takes all of the power in the relationship away from the woman. Then again, If you're the woman, you get an awesome guy who has everything taken care of to run around with.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 12:57 AM
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You're not her dad. You're her husband. If she's tired, then a good drilling always helps. Too depressed? Sex is the universal cure.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 10:10 PM
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The last paragraph has some understanding and at the same time a total lack of understanding. "To keep her mood swings from affecting me." This is a good thing. Her mood can be a source of information for you, but it shouldn't affect your emotional state. SHE DOESN'T WANT YOUR MOOD TO SWING LIKE HERS. She wants a rock to cling to when everything else in her world is upset and crazy. When she rants and raves, if you can listen and understand, that's great. You don't have to offer suggestions. She…
/r/askMRP09/03/16 10:07 PM
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You don't tell your First Mate all your plans as Captain. You tell your First Mate enough to give them direction on their duties and responsibilities. You are asking permission to talk to your wife about MRP so that she can help you with your journey, and understand what's going on. She cannot help you with your journey. It is a path that you MUST walk alone. You've been given an incorrect model of behavior, the model of the beta: do what you're supposed to do, ask permission, seek approval and …
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:59 PM
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Her: I dont like your bad comments You are not positive and I fucking hate it that you never want me to do excersise that i not have my own plans ever all you want me to think is about your plans i do think about your plans if you are not gonna give me positive comments dont comment at all You: ... Don't say a fucking thing at this point. Let her be mad or do whatever she's going to do. When a woman says something playfully, she's serious about it, but is trying to test the waters without it sou…
/r/askMRP09/03/16 05:21 AM
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So, you're kicking ass in every aspect of your life where the red pill has been your guide. But in this one area (you're cheating on me!), you've decided to be more blue pill (Honey, I would never cheat on you. I'm committed to this relationship. You gotta believe me babe. Please?), and it's a never ending stream of crap you have to deal with. What does that tell you? Be more directing towards her. Tell her what she should do with the evening "Take a goddamn bath with some mother-fucking candles…
/r/askMRP08/03/16 08:15 PM
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I think you did just fine. This is a good start with maintaining frame. She chose not to enter your frame, and that's okay. Don't act butthurt. After you're done in your office, I'd go out and ask her if she's okay. What you did was playful and fun and she treated it like a power struggle, like she was entitled to your undivided attention whenever she even came into your presence. So, keep it light, and don't worry about it. Do you even lift, bro? A big chunk of MRP starts with you improving you…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 10:03 PM
2

Manly choreplay is shit like fixing the garage door or replacing shingles or rehanging the front door because the house shifted. But it's not done in the hopes that you'll get sex. It's done 'cause it needs to get done. The sex also needs to get done. Actually, we should probably take care of the sex now, because I'll be covered in debris later, and it's good to get the blood flowing early.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 05:48 PM
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She's not projecting from her own failed relationships at all!
/r/MGTOW07/03/16 08:07 AM
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Sure babe. I know you'd stay with me if I got fat and lost my job and just sat around the house all day playing video games. 'cause we're SOULMATES.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 08:06 AM
2

Found the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrwimK2vfeM&t=16m0s
/r/askMRP07/03/16 07:23 AM
2

Is a dog evil for grabbing a turkey leg that's been sitting on the table unattended for an hour? No. It's just a dog. When a woman is given lots of opportunity to cheat with a guy she thinks is hotter than her current guy, she probably will. She won't tell her guy about it unless she has some reason to do so. Women routinely remove their own agency from the situation. They were just there and it happened.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:35 AM
1

I have a friend who works for the government. This friend has to find fathers when single moms come looking for state aid. There was a woman who came in a few days ago. friend: "Okay, what can you tell me about the father of your child?" single mom: "Oh, I don't much about him. I'm just a side chick." f:"A side chick?" sm:"Yeah. When he wants a blow job he calls me up and I go take care of him." f:"What's his name?" sm:"I don't know his last name. I'm just a side chick." I want you to let this i…
/r/askMRP07/03/16 05:31 AM
2

So she gets what she wants and you don't. If this were a business deal, would you stay in the game?
/r/askTRP07/03/16 02:24 AM
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You seem to think that her calling you an asshole is somehow a bad thing. It really just means that she respects you more.
/r/MGTOW06/03/16 10:37 AM
2

This is one of the final understandings you can come to after swallowing the red pill: acceptance. She is not like you and she never will be. Live the difference. Love the difference. You "win the battle" for dominance with your wife BECAUSE you love her and you want what's best for her. Have you see children who are dominant over their parents? They're fucking miserable all the time. It's the same way with women who are dominant over their men. They're really not happy with it. It's soooo much …
/r/askMRP06/03/16 08:36 AM
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It's subtle, and it's a game that women play from the time they are very little. It's the manipulation game. There are a couple of good videos, by women, that explain how women think and what they do. I can't find the exact part that I'm remembering. I think it was from feminism lol. The gist of it is a little girl playing with dolls. One of the dolls asks another doll if she wants to be friends. The other doll says "sure". Then the first doll says, "come to my house for a party". The second dol…
/r/askMRP06/03/16 03:59 AM
2

Maintaining frame is really important. This means that she stays in your world view, seeing things your way, following your lead. When you come home and are afraid of her leaving, you're probably falling into her frame. You are the rock that she has to be confident enough to hang on to. This is what shit tests are all about: She wants to know that you can handle the petty shit she throws at you. She expects you to be able to handle it, and when you DON'T, it makes her uncertain that you are a fi…
/r/askMRP05/03/16 08:13 AM
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Keep lifting. You're not as hot as you could be. Lots and lots and lots of couples break up when their first child turns 2. Probably a combination of hormones and looking at the world differently. Maybe she could handle your weaknesses when it was just her, but now she has a child to care for too. None of this is particularly logical, but it is what it is. She needs to have confidence in you that you can handle all the shit that you're going to have to handle to keep the family safe. You lifting…
/r/askMRP05/03/16 07:53 AM
1

It can get SO much worse than this. False rape charges are the teeny tiniest tip of the don't-stick-your-dick-in-crazy iceberg
/r/MensRights05/03/16 03:52 AM
2

Sparknote is probably just fine. She's not a gifted wordsmith. She has ideas that were strongly influenced by the horrors of Russian communism, and she's strongly anti-government because of that.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 04:02 AM
1

Your height is a turn on for like 90% of women. There's a psychological factor that kicks in when her head inclines. It's instinct.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 04:00 AM
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At 6'8" and 190, you're not a 6. I don't know what's kept your self-esteem so low, but there are a million girls out there who say "I don't care what you look like, as long as you're tall." Keep lifting. I'd say that for you, Dread game is about getting your wife to lose weight rather than have sex with you. Best of luck! (read the 12 levels of dread, if you haven't already)
/r/askMRP03/03/16 12:40 AM
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An ultimatum ties you to the outcome. If you want kids right now, and she's not ready for it, and it's not a negotiable thing for you, then pack up your shit and leave. Go find someone else to impregnate. It seems you're coming here to force her to have a child against her wishes. This just isn't going to happen. I'll tell you that if she says "no" at 31, it's just never going to change. Maybe she doesn't feel secure enough financially. Maybe she doesn't think you're hot enough to be the father …
/r/askMRP02/03/16 09:58 PM
1

Sounds like you were outcome independent. I think she was trying to draw you into her frame with her comments. Your ignoring them and going on with your day meant that you weren't falling into her frame.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:52 PM
7

You are right that it wasn't worth it. She chose to get a head wound over some shoes and a shirt.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/16 06:17 AM
2

The officer clearly used force, but I think anyone will say that he used only necessary force. At any point the woman could have simply done what he asked and she'd have not gotten hurt. Without the body camera evidence, who knows what would come of pictures of a woman, half his weight, bleeding from a head would because he slammed her down to the concrete. It might go a lot worse for the arresting officer.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/16 06:13 AM
1

If you don't give up any information, then she will always be curious and want to know more. If you tell her everything, even if it's good, then there's nothing more to know and therefore less interest.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 05:05 AM
1

Saving money is nice and all, but if you don't feel that your home is a sanctuary, something needs to change. I'd tell him to get the fuck out. The slow escalation that your wife is advocating (You can't use our stuff) isn't going to lead to an improvement, it's going to make things worse.
/r/askMRP01/03/16 06:31 PM
2

the onion
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:57 PM
2

I'm getting back into my program, stronglifts 5x5, as well. I've noticed more back pain than before, so I focus hard on my form constantly. I stretch a lot more and focus on increasing my range of motion whenever possible. You don't sound like you need a lot of advice, so I'm just sharing my own experiences. You're not at the gym to impress anyone there, you are at the gym to improve your fitness. If your lifts are aggravating an injury then you're probably not improving your fitness.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 11:42 PM
1

I wouldn't worry too much about the plateau. It sounds like you've built yourself to be solid, but there's no point in pushing yourself to break joints lifting. You're not going to get back the quickness and agility of your youth, but you can stay a rock for 20-30 years if you don't give in to the gains goblins. I like your insight into anal. She probably thought that she'd never do that kind of kinky stuff ever, but when you lead her there, she followed. You're the leader, and it scares her bec…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 11:37 PM
2

He should probably wear a spiked collar or something, to scare off the homosexuals. Maybe growl at them if the come by, or flex his muscles so they are intimidated. Is that what you're saying?
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:22 PM
2

"I didn't spend so long in the closet to not be this well dressed!" "Man, what is up with that question?!?! My boyfriend asked me that this morning when I pulled my dick out of his mouth."
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:20 PM
3

You should be engaged in your children's lives. What kind of adults do you wish your children to become? Do you want them to sit around playing video games? Do you want them to be creative? active? leaders? thinkers? What kinds of activities do you think will lead to them growing as human beings? Your wife's job is to care for them day in and day out. It's your job to lead. Don't think of weekend activities as time-wasters, think of them as opportunities for growth. Your children will grow to lo…
/r/askMRP27/02/16 09:04 PM
5

You're a horrible boss. Why the fuck did you give her the spending authority on 60,000? How did you not know what she had spent after 1 month?
/r/MGTOW27/02/16 04:35 AM
3

It sounds like she's the deck swabbie and what you need is a First Mate. You're going to have to lead her to be what you want her to be. She might just rise to the challenge, if you do it right.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 04:20 AM
3

Your current cash position should have very little to do with your budget for activities, assuming you have money in your accounts. Do you think Warren Buffett goes out and splurges on furniture just because he made an extra billion last year? He does not.
/r/askMRP27/02/16 02:34 AM
1

"There's no room in the budget for you to go on a trip by yourself to Paris."
/r/askMRP27/02/16 02:32 AM
1

It seems like she just wants more from you and you're not willing to give her more. You didn't mention anything about the sex in the relationship so I don't know why you're here.
/r/askMRP26/02/16 08:44 AM
2

Take your lead from him, NOT a faceless group on the internet.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:28 AM
0

The fact that you're bringing it up says you do care about it. How can you quit your job and have kids if he's not making bank?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 03:00 AM
1

Every woman wants her man to succeed, right? So you're thinking, "What can I do to push him and control him and make him succeed?" How 'bout you let him worry about him and you worry about you? You'd like to offer him advice on how to behave because you've seen a lot of successful guys and you know how they behave and why can't YOUR guy just do those things? You love him? So love him. Don't control him, don't mother him, not because he doesn't need those things but because if you do those things…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 01:22 AM
7

Postpartum depression is a very real thing, no doubt.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 07:22 PM
60

I would trust a lie detector over the words of a mom fighting for custody. A mom fighting for custody would stage a murder scene if she thought it would help. Fuck, she might just kill someone if she thought she could get away with it, and it would help.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 05:01 AM
1

Thanks. I had seen the acronym come up two or three times very recently, and didn't know what exactly it meant. Agreed. If you're defending, explaining, rationalizing, then you're losing! (And probably missing the point too.)
/r/askMRP23/02/16 10:41 PM
6

There are 12 levels to dread. I'm going to say it sounds like you've made great progress on weight and appearance. Good for you (70 lbs? awesome). Aside from the reading, you're probably up to about level 7. Maybe your wife just doesn't know how good you can have it elsewhere. Hello level 8. Have you read MMSL and the Mindful Attraction Plan? She's seeking attention elsewhere, and that tells me that she's checking out of the marriage already. She continues to text this guy who emotionally valida…
/r/askMRP23/02/16 09:49 PM
1

This is going to be an easy change for you. All you're going to have to do is lose a lot of weight, and everything will flow from there. If you change your diet to only foods that are nutrient rich (i.e. no empty calories, no sugar-based foods, no fat-based foods), and get a little exercise, you'll shed pounds fast. Eat lots of fruits and veggies.
/r/becomeaman23/02/16 08:44 PM
1

DEERing What's this?
/r/askMRP23/02/16 06:24 PM
17

"I failed and failed and failed some more. " I love this. Changing who you are, as a person, is hard. There are so many patterns that are easy to fall back to. Failure is the hardest thing to accept and move on from. The emotional hit is discouraging, but you keep at it. Great field report.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:03 PM
9

You're living in her home, which she pays for, and she's the child? Grow The Fuck Up
/r/askTRP22/02/16 08:28 AM
1

TRP might be seen as anti-marriage, but that's just because marriage is a bad institution for almost every man. You can be in a relationship and have children and never get married. But if you have a falling out with your girlfriend, and you're married, then she can get permanent, lifetime support from you. What kind of sense does that make? Why shouldn't she be the one paying you for the rest of your life? Let's say you had sex with her 300 times over the course of your marriage and then you en…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:28 PM
1

TRP isn't "lone ranger" thinking. That's MGTOW.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:19 PM
3

The first step is admitting you have a problem.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:36 PM
8

There's definitely an anger phase to swallowing the red pill. It's okay. You're going to go through it too. It will pass eventually. No, there's nothing you can do to avoid it. My only suggestion would be to get a gym membership and take out your anger on the weights.
/r/askMRP20/02/16 03:02 AM
3

I agree with everything except the third sentence. He isn't going to have to learn how to negotiate better with his wife. And puking his feelings all over her is NOT the way to do it.
/r/askMRP19/02/16 10:21 PM
3

Don't puke your emotional guts all over your wife. It will not work out well for you. If she asks, "Are you ok?" You can say, "No." You don't have to lie. But don't think that that means you are somehow justified in dumping your emotional state all over your wife. It's your job to be the emotional rock in your relationship.
/r/askMRP19/02/16 09:07 PM
3

Shut The Fuck Up You're three days in to a process that will probably take a year or more. Shut the fuck up about it. Don't tell her what you're going to do and what your emotional rollercoaster is going to be. You have to work on you, and you have a lot of work to do.
/r/askMRP19/02/16 09:01 PM
2

You started packing up your stuff in a rush. Now there's no rush. Find another place to live, pack your things and move out. Tell her that you are still okay with seeing her, but that it's probably best if you don't live together. You don't want to come home one night to find all your stuff out on the front lawn in the rain. Next up: finding a new plate!
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:30 PM
1

What have you done? What was your plan? What goals did you set for yourself?
/r/becomeaman19/02/16 07:21 PM
2

Pick your favorite hot guy. Your wife'll get wet for 'em and that whole "low libido" argument will go out the window. Yes, I think it always applies.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 03:32 AM
1

There are a couple of videos I've watched on the mechanics of squatting dependent on body proportions. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Av3LO2GwpAk is one of them. I found that getting lifting shoes helped a LOT. Amazon.com has great ones. I bought the cheapest I could, so they give me a .6" heel lift. Many of them give .75" heel lift. This can make a huge difference. Stretch a lot on your off days. Do yoga or other things.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 02:28 AM
1

Sounds like you're generally moving in the right direction and have a good bead on what you need to fix. The coffee situation kinda sounded to me like "Can you bring me coffee and fuck my brains out" rather than a shit test. Excellent move with taking your kid to the gym. Good A&A to her "Is there someone else?". You often get a knee-jerk response that's pouty when you A&A, but in many stories I've read here it's followed up by her hamstering for a few hours then jumping you when you're not expe…
/r/askMRP17/02/16 08:19 PM
1

SL 5x5 is designed the way it is so that you build all the small muscles that will be needed later. Also so that you work on form and don't end up doing everything wrong and breaking yourself. I would expect the first month of lifting to be not too challenging.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:04 PM
2

Ask yourself this: If it was Brad Pitt in the room, would she be complaining about his "high sex drive"?
/r/askMRP17/02/16 06:34 PM
2

You are still not getting it. You're in the gym 5-6 days a week and you're at the dojo 2 hours a night, 4 days a week. How are you not ripped like Terry Crews right now? What exactly are you doing every day? Nevermind, I don't really care, but the phrase "It's not the hours you put in, it's what you put in the hours." comes to mind. I don't know what to think of what you've written. "Since April 2015, I've lost 100 pounds" And "this whole process of mine is over weeks not just a couple days". Is…
/r/askMRP17/02/16 06:31 PM
2

If you're done with the relationship, then you're done, and that's okay. Get a lawyer, get a divorce, and move on with your life. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long You're about at level 1 or level 2. If you just want a divorce, then get a divorce. If you want your current wife to try to suck your soul out through your dick/milk you dry with her pussy nightly, then start on the dread. She probably really likes having you around and j…
/r/askMRP17/02/16 02:23 AM
2

Great start. Step 0 is to increase your SMV. There are 12 levels to dread, though, and divorce is the nuclear option. You've lost weight. GREAT! How's your muscle tone/mass? Are you hitting the gym a lot? When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you say "DAMN I look fine!"? How's your haircut? How's your wardrobe? If you're fine on these points, then it's time to start applying dread.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 02:14 AM
10

Your story isn't one of you applying dread. It's you explicitly making her think that you're cheating on her. The point of dread isn't to cheat, or to set up cheating. It's to make it clear that you COULD cheat, because you are so desirable. Instead, you go out for a drink with some girl you met at the gym in order to give her diet advice. You've got to be fucking kidding me. You were giving this advice away for free, I assume? Were the drinks also free then? Guess what? That's a date. You were …
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:14 AM
2

TL;DR NO.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:20 PM
1

This is why there are 12 levels of dread: so you don't go from abstinence to divorce in one step. So go follow the 12 steps of dread. Reading the other comments, it sounds like you're lifting and losing weight, which is great. Next step would be to upgrade your wardrobe and haircut. You talk about kicking ass at work: she doesn't see this. She doesn't want to fuck your job, she wants to want to fuck you, but you're not doing it for her. Your awesome job makes you more beta bucks, not more alpha …
/r/askMRP11/02/16 08:24 AM
1

"Your honor, I plead not guilty to all of the charges." If she actually presents a case with evidence, then you can defend yourself against the specific evidence. All a lawyer really gives you is a disinterested 3rd party that costs a lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:48 AM
2

It's never too late to swallow the red pill. We are not pick up artists. We are not Men Going There Own Way. You are here to learn that you've been lied to about the nature of women for your whole life. You've been lied to about how you should act as a man, what behaviors will be rewarded.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:44 PM
1

Welcome to The Red Pill. Blue Pill says you should be faithful to your wife and never talk to any other women. It says you shouldn't do anything that might hurt your wife's feelings, and that you should be meek and supplicative in all that you do. Now go to work and make her more money, ya little bitch. But that's not what your wife wants. She wants a man who is strong, a man who leads, a man who masters every situation. She wants a man that other women want to fuck, but who is coming home to he…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:24 PM
2

Cut him some slack. His third sentence was "Still got a long way to go". This sounds like his first actual success, let him revel in it.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:20 PM
3

This is PERFECT dread. "We should frame that." Your wife is really proud of the fact that HER man is so hot that bartenders are giving him their number without him even asking for it. Dread isn't foreplay to cheating. Dread is your wife knowing, to the core of her being and worldview, that you can fuck other women if you want to. She's not jealous. Jealous would be if you had an hour long conversation with this girl and your wife was left sitting at the table with nobody paying attention to her.…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:18 PM
2

You've already answered your own question: don't respond.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 05:51 PM
2

Because of all the horrible stuff that she said he did to her (that he probably didn't do).
/r/MGTOW08/02/16 06:55 PM
2

She's a plate. They fall and break. Maybe they fall for your friend and he wants to GF 'em. Oh well. Time to get a new plate.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 08:55 AM
2

For men or for women?
/r/askMRP07/02/16 07:10 AM
0

What does this have to do with you? Are you actively trying to abandon your frame and fall in to hers? 'cause that's what it sounds like. The really dumb part of this is that when she melts down, you will too, so she'll know that you're not someone she can rely on. idiot
/r/askMRP06/02/16 09:37 PM
2

The issue wasn't anything that she could tell him. The phrase, "I want you to be the man in this relationship" has no meaning if you've grown up with the modern feminist ideal of a man. This is what Married Red Pill is all about. You've been lied to about what your wife actually wants from you. Here's what your wife really wants. If you want to be happy (and have her be happy too, in the long run), here's what you do.
/r/askMRP06/02/16 12:19 AM
1

Would you believe that he got divorced because he was blue pill, through and through? This article reads exactly like my divorce. I didn't handle my shit like a man and so she divorced me.
/r/askMRP06/02/16 12:14 AM
12

I absolutely love the "I lost my job..." comment. That's going to turn off lots and lots of girls, 'specially the gold diggers!
/r/askTRP05/02/16 12:02 AM
2

YOU HAVE COME TO THE RIGHT PLACE. This problem is entirely fixable. The good news about the fix is that if, for some reason, it doesn't work with your wife, then it WILL work with someone else, and very soon. Your first step, losing weight, is a great place to start. Next up is building muscle. The program I recommend is the Stronglifts 5x5. It's simple and easy to follow. There's a free app you can get to help track everything. (If you want to spend the extra $10 on it, it'll do lots of extra t…
/r/askMRP04/02/16 11:39 PM
1

Baby steps are better than no steps at all. Swallowing even a single red pill while you're still gulping down the blue ones can be hard. Keep struggling, keep fighting, keep understanding.
/r/askMRP04/02/16 09:45 AM
0

You're talking about something completely different. The Red Pill here doesn't have that connotation. I'm sure you've noticed that, but I'm stating it for clarification. Money represents value. It isn't value, but it represents value. The people in America and around the world agree that it represents value, and so it can be traded and used in exchange for actual value. If you build me a chair, perhaps I could drive you around or teach your children mathematics as compensation for that chair. Bu…
/r/MGTOW04/02/16 09:42 AM
1

You sound clinically depressed. You should probably seek out a therapist.
/r/askMRP03/02/16 09:18 PM
2

You're having girl problems? I feel bad for you, son. I got 99 problems but being a bitch ain't one. It sound like you need a different line of work. Trying to get through the work day so that you don't "let your gf down" is the worst possible motivation. You're trying to anchor your ship to a wave that moves with the tide. You have to find an anchor in yourself. I lift so that I like how I look and feel more confident. It's has the ancillary benefit of my gf being more attracted to me, but that…
/r/askMRP03/02/16 07:07 PM
0

You haven't shown me anything. You've merely made assertions.
/r/MGTOW03/02/16 07:02 PM
1

Yeah, um, she's fucking other guys. The fact that you're not fucking other girls lowers you in her eyes.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:27 PM
0

I disagree with almost everything you've written. Perhaps you're just too old and have seen too much.
/r/MGTOW03/02/16 05:18 PM
2

Your post wasn't cringeworthy. If this stuff was easy, then everyone would do it all the time. But it's not. You're changing all sorts of programming. It looks like you're rocking the physical SMV changes and the only thing that's lagging behind is your confidence. The fact that your girl wore what you told her to wear, and got ready for you says that what you're doing is working, you just didn't realize how well it was working. You were wanting to smash something, and that really turned her on.…
/r/askMRP02/02/16 08:07 PM
1

I'd say that you know the answer to your question already and there's no way someone on the internet could judge your situation better than you do. I would give you one piece of advice: Handle the finances for the major things yourself (house, car) and give her a budget for the rest of the household expenses to dispose of as she sees fit. You said she's selling handicrafts and is doing "quite well". What exactly does that mean? Is she making so much profit that she can pay the mortgage and other…
/r/askMRP02/02/16 04:51 PM
5

You're doing the 'fake it til you make it' routine, but the only person who sees that you haven't made it is you! She's recognizing the gains. Her "I'm out of commission" was just a shit test, and you batted it down with your strong "I'm not." So she responded! She put on that sexy pink outfit. You didn't realize it. But you won. Then, like the Cleveland Browns, you snatched defeat from the jaws of victory, rubbed one out and drank too much gin. Don't worry about it. Let your own view of yoursel…
/r/askMRP02/02/16 04:35 PM
0

I disagree.
/r/MGTOW02/02/16 01:51 PM
1

The Red Pill is the exact opposite of what you say. There are lots of readers and posters who haven't really unplugged. So while you can definitely say that many of the people who subscribe to TRP do put pussy on a pedestal, that's not an end goal of it. The biggest first step of TRP is simply to understand the hypergamous nature of all women.
/r/MGTOW02/02/16 01:48 PM
6

YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE ATTRACTION Seriously? You're playing sex board games? What the fuck do you think you've learned here at /r/marriedredpill ?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 02:15 AM
4

If you are genuinely in good shape and work is going well and you're making good money, then it's time to implement Dread. Read the 12 Levels of Dread. link Looks like level 3 is where you should start.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 02:11 AM
-7

Does putting down people who you don't understand make you feel better about yourself?
/r/MGTOW01/02/16 09:17 PM
9

The Red Pill is not MGTOW is not PUA. The Red Pill is for men who desire to have women in their life. It's strategies for achieving that end in the best way possible. MGTOW is for men who do not. PUA is for men who think that they can get women because of a pick up line or a game or a trick. TRP differs because it seems women as not worthy of being on a pedestal, that true change comes from within, and that like OP, being hot is the best way to have 'success' with women.
/r/MGTOW01/02/16 09:15 PM
-2

He's only doing 38 on a moped man. Mow your damn lawn and chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:01 PM
1

You are experiencing the natural consequences of your actions. You made a choice in how to behave (withdrawing attention when she refuses sex), and as of last weekend this has resulted in sex with blow jobs four days in a row. So, was your decision a good one or a bad one? Do you think you've made a tactical error somewhere? Perhaps your error caused your wife to accidentally slip and fall, but fortunately she caught her fall by landing on your dick. With her mouth. Repeatedly. This is what I me…
/r/askMRP01/02/16 06:58 PM
3

I think it's incredibly sexist that women think all shapes of women should be considered beautiful and desirable and only one shape of man should be.
/r/MGTOW01/02/16 12:26 PM
1

I can't tell you how many men I've met who were married for 40+ years and miserable. If they only had The Red Pill, they would have been so much happier (and so would their wives!). Great Field Report. This post probably belongs in /r/marriedredpill, since you're not really asking a question. You shouldn't be seeking external validation because you're already getting massive internal-to-the-marriage validation in the form of daily sex. That's your benchmark for success, not what random internet …
/r/askMRP01/02/16 12:14 PM
0

Joke about it. "Honey, all the ladies at work were ALL over me today." You aren't serious. She knows you're not serious. You can't be serious. You aren't serious, are you? Actually, you are looking pretty good. Maybe you're serious? No, you couldn't be serious. No. Just no. Okay, maybe.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 05:36 AM
1

This is a great comment. "Oh, your love language is back rubs? Mine is blowjobs." She takes you for granted (your backrubs) and gives you nothing in return (nothing that you want, e.g. blowjobs). She is never thinking of how she can please you and what she needs to do do keep you happy. She has no fear whatsoever that you might leave her because she isn't holding up her end of the bargain.
/r/askMRP01/02/16 03:33 AM
5

First comes denial. Then comes negotiation. Then comes anger. Then depression. <--- you are here. Finally acceptance.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 06:57 PM
2

I got divorced a few years ago. I wanted to know why it happened, and I never really felt I knew until I found the red pill. Now I know. The hardest transition for me was going from asking questions to making decisions. So I met this new girl online, and wanted to figure out where we could meet up. Normally, I would ask the question, "Would you like to go somewhere to eat?" But I was trying out new ideas. So instead the question was "Do you have a favorite restaurant near you?" She answered. "Gr…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 09:08 PM
5

You don't understand anything about the Captain/First Mate model if you think that this was an example of it not working. In the first place, she's just the robot that's following your instructions. You are the captain (looking at the navigation aid) while she is the one steering. You're making the decisions, she's just following your instructions. How do you not see yourself as the captain here? Second situation: You have a drunk in the crow's nest feeding you shitty information, so you, as the…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 08:14 PM
2

"I can't have you getting all the attention, babe. I have to look good too!" said with a smile.
/r/askMRP30/01/16 04:36 PM
1

You sound like you don't need a lot of advice with your situation, really. The only difference between /r/marriedredpill and /r/theredpill is comfort-tests being different than shit-tests. You handled this like a shit test, and it sounds like you handled it like a champ. But it was a comfort test instead. Many of the same rules apply: listen to the actual message, not the words. She's not really unhappy about the sailing, but she is unhappy about feeling like she's #2 to a hobby. So don't make e…
/r/askMRP30/01/16 03:58 PM
3

maybe some cervix
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:50 AM
1

It doesn't add to your Social Market Value, usually, but I wouldn't say it's beta all by itself. You could be making better use of your time, but some hobbies are like that.
/r/askMRP30/01/16 08:57 AM
1

"After all, I've done this since I was 11, not about to change now." Her being pissed is her problem, not yours. You have continued to do what you've always done (and always would do). I would say that you probably need to be leading your family more. If and when you decide you're not sailing on a weekend, tell her, "Honey, we're going to have a family weekend this weekend. Pack the kids up, we're driving to Brisbane." I don't know where the fuck Brisbane is, or if you'd really like to drive the…
/r/askMRP30/01/16 03:59 AM
2

Something that might help you is to ask yourself the question, "Would Chad Thundercock have to put up with this?" Do you think she would make Chad Thundercock wait until Thursday if he wanted his dick wet on Monday morning? No, she'd be asking him which hole.
/r/askMRP30/01/16 12:11 AM
1

You had me laughing out loud when I read this.
/r/askMRP30/01/16 12:00 AM
1

You are changing the course of your ship. So I'd say "Steady as she goes, Cap'n." I have a 6 year old daughter. She and I differ on opinion on many things. She thinks that potato chips make a great healthy meal. I do not. We don't "fight" over this topic. I make dinner and we both eat it. She can voice her preferences for a bowl of sugar with a cherry on top, but we are having chicken with rice instead. My daughter respects me and accepts what I decide. Fighting with my daughter, even if I win, …
/r/askMRP28/01/16 05:41 PM
3

In the red pill lens, this makes total sense. Her husband is having a relationship with another woman. The wife has to give him sex to get the relationship, and here this other woman is getting the relationship, and she doesn't have to. If her husband was having sex with the other woman, it wouldn't make things any better or worse for the wife, because he's already giving away the valuable thing. As a guy, if your girl is just hanging out with another guy, and you 100% know there's nothing sexua…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:34 PM
14

And this is really the only reason this is a story: This girl is cute and a doctor. If she were a little skanky and poor, nobody would have noticed.
/r/MGTOW27/01/16 06:42 PM
5

Do not give this woman any more attention.
/r/MGTOW27/01/16 06:40 PM
20

And when she replies "no way, you creep!" You respond "then you're worse than a whore."
/r/askTRP26/01/16 10:34 PM
1

She's following you, but you're not leading. So she doesn't know what to do. Fucking lead, douchebag. You're the one who made the decision to be with her. She hasn't done anything wrong, and you literally have no one but yourself to blame. You have to figure out what you want her to do and how to get her there. She's going to do what you tell her to do, and she'll be more happy for the direction. It's not going to be easy for you.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 08:01 AM
7

I'm guessing he's not 5'3" with a beer gut. He's the kind of guy whose beta personality was the only thing standing between him and success. It no longer is.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 07:58 AM
37

Sure, and the Broncos winning their playoff game was inevitable. No, it's never a guarantee. She might have been DTF from the start, but that could easily have collapsed and he'd have been going home alone. But he played it great. She's not thinking "is he good enough for me?" She's thinking "What can I do to be good enough for him."
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:14 AM
1

The red pill isn't just in your mind, it's how you present yourself, and how others see you. This is a really important thing for you to understand. How you present yourself is important. Do you think those neckbeards think of themselves as fat and unattractive? No, they think they are ROCKIN the fedora. You think you're fine in trashy clothes? You're wrong. Better clothes present a different image to the world. I was a teacher once, and I always wore a shirt and tie. Once there was an after sch…
/r/askMRP26/01/16 04:04 AM
1

no.
/r/askMRP25/01/16 04:57 AM
3

Paragraph 1: Random observations about random people. Paragraph 2: Why everything isn't my fault. Paragraph 3: People I don't know do things that don't matter. Paragraph 4: More irrelevant facts about people I don't know or care about. ugh. What the fuck is this post even about? Is there a main idea? Main characters? Paragraph 5: The OP is mad that stupid people did stupid things. Paragraph 6: ? Paragraph 7: OP has a plan for tomorrow and wants validation. Paragraph 8: Use of RP words. I don't t…
/r/askMRP25/01/16 03:53 AM
8

Get a Lawyer. One who you are paying, not the court appointed one. Stop worrying about "it looks like" and start worrying about "It proves that." They have a story. You need to have a counter story. You need to have evidence that your counter story is the truth. You need to have a jury of 12 reasonable people look at your story, look at their story and decide whether there's any doubt that you committed the crime you're accused of committing. I've served on a jury. The defendant had a court appo…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 07:13 PM
2

It depends on what your goals are. If you want to have more muscle, just do SL5x5. If you want more self-confidence from MMA, then do that. Stronglifts 5x5 is enough of a workout, once you get going with it. Your body needs time to rebuild the muscle that was broken down with your weightlifting. There's a reason it's only 5 sets of 5 and only 3 exercises. That's enough. Sure, you can add additional exercises, but it won't help. Day 1: Squat, bench, row. Day 2: Rest. Day 3: Squat, overhead press,…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:58 PM
1

Why are you trying to justify your actions to an internet stranger? Are you seeking validation, like a woman? There was a reason you wanted to do what you did. You only have to justify your actions to one person: you. You did it. Own it.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 05:16 PM
1

Sometimes my daughter asks me for some sugary snack. I tell her "no." Then she'll ask again. I say "no. But ask again. Maybe the answer will change next time!". So she says, "Daddy, can I have a piece of candy?". And I say, "no." Do you want to condition your GF to nag you and nag you regardless of your initial response, or do you want her to respect your answer? It's all up to you.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 05:14 PM
1

You opened your old FB account. Your current LTR is now jealous and has confronted you. You are now trying to figure out how to justify your actions to your girlfriend. Why do you need to justify your actions to her? If you must respond, then that response should invalidate her implied accusation. Why beat around the bush about what she's really asking? "To make you jealous, babe. Or maybe it's to stay connected to friends. You pick."
/r/askMRP24/01/16 05:10 PM
2

What you're seeking is one of the single most abundant resources on the planet. More than half the people in the world have what you want, and more and more of it is become available every day. One of the purposes of the red pill is to get you to see this. Read the sidebar material and you will understand how women think. All that crap you've heard about women being a total mystery? Yeah, that's a lie. Women are actually really easy to understand. You think they want someone who connects with th…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:22 AM
2

Pick up one different hobby: weightlifting.
/r/askMRP23/01/16 03:39 PM
2

"You had me at 'hello'". She's made her decision based on looks and feels. Words can just fuck that up.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 03:05 PM
2

The anger phase does pass, and with it comes acceptance. If you put in the work, it does get better. "I am lucky to get more than a chicken peck. She's all about snugglz, but any attempt to get more than that rains down a hailstorm of accusations about me just wanting her for sex. " Step one: it's okay to want sex from your wife. You have to be okay with this. But you came here because "Have sex with me or we're getting divorced" isn't going to get you anything but divorced, and you're not willi…
/r/askMRP23/01/16 03:52 AM
6

Did you really just come to the internet to complain about your ego getting hurt because your wife spoke to you forcefully? Were you raised by a pack of feral maidens?
/r/askMRP21/01/16 03:18 AM
6

She doesn't think she has to do anything to keep you around. You need to start sending the signals that this is not the case. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long Dread level 1 is in order. Start slowly. I was one of the people who said she's not attracted to you. You say there's nothing missing in your fitness level, income, or looks, in which case Dread level 1 is definitely in order.
/r/askMRP21/01/16 01:46 AM
2

hah hah hah hah hah "okay, we can still date." hah hah hah hah hah
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:30 PM
1

You made the right move. Next step: lift!
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:42 AM
2

You are pissed because you've fallen completely into her frame and have none of your own. You need to lead more.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 07:39 AM
1

Responding that way, "thanks for reminding me..." would be a way of holding frame, for you. You're accepting her comment not as a command or a criticism, but merely as information. Does your answer change any if you re-read my post and see the "...like I told you to" ending to her comment? When I wrote it I was thinking that she was speaking in the annoying harridan voice.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 03:02 AM
2

He's not suing for hurt feelings, you moron. He's suing because she's publicly spreading false information about him. You can sue for defamation of character, and that's what he would be doing.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:41 PM
1

Attention from someone unattractive is never a commodity. He needs to physically improve. There is no game here. He's not attractive, and it's gotten so bad that she doesn't even want him to touch her.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 11:11 PM
1

Attention from someone unattractive is never a commodity. He needs to physically improve.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 11:10 PM
1

She's done with you, but hasn't figured out how to go through with divorcing you. She's hoping things will get better. Get your ass to the gym and stop eating so much fucking ice cream.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 11:09 PM
1

It's good that you are focusing on yourself. But you're not running the ship, she is. In her mind, you're a good errand boy/handyman. She is behaving like a teenager who gets to tell you what to do. This sounds like a fucking nightmare existence to me. If I was running the house like this and wasn't getting sex daily, nightly and ever so rightly, I'd be unhappy with her. It sounds like you're handling self-improvement just fine. You need to deliver the message to her that she is missing somethin…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 11:02 PM
2

Mocking her frame is a great way to stay in yours.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 10:47 PM
1

Frame is your world view. What belongs, what doesn't, and how people should behave towards each other. If she says something to you, how do you react or respond? Her: "You didn't take out the garbage this morning like I told you to." You: "I'm sorry honey, I'll load the garbage into my car and drive it straight to the dump right now." Do you see that you've immediately fallen into her frame? She's set herself up as the person who gives you orders in your own house. You accepted this implicitly, …
/r/askMRP19/01/16 10:46 PM
2

"And we were doing so well. Lost frame with wife from a shit test while trying to console a crying infant. I retaliate with a petty remark. It devolves when she attacks me on a personal level, I hit the nuclear option." Do you know what these words mean? There's more to the red pill than being able to repeat some jargon. You didn't lose frame because you never had frame to begin with. You got angry over something your wife said. This isn't a shit test. I don't know what you actually said or did,…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 10:39 PM
5

This is good advice. Don't be angry about it, just get the problem taken care of.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:32 PM
1

"Band-Aids don't fix bullet holes." You've got a big problem and you're asking for a quick fix. See you in divorce court!
/r/askMRP19/01/16 05:31 PM
1

I'm a 12.
/r/MGTOW19/01/16 04:47 PM
1

She's arguing from emotion, not from logic. If you try to use logic against it, you will lose. When she's asking you why you didn't call her last night, you have lots of different ways to respond. If I list them, then I fear you will simply glance over the list and not really engage your own mind in thinking this through, so I want you to come up with three different ways you could respond to the question/accusation, "Why didn't you call me last night?"
/r/askMRP19/01/16 05:38 AM
2

Her: I'm mad at you because you didn't call me last night. You: Come here babe. Her: No, I'm not coming over there for you to start putting me in the mood for sex. I'm mad at you. You: Sure you are, so come over here and show me just how mad you are. Her: Fuck you. You: Now that's what I'm talking about. Her, walking over to you, and sitting down in your lap: It made me feel like you don't care about me. You, rubbing her back: Of course I care about you, babe. I was busy last night. But I'm not …
/r/askMRP19/01/16 03:22 AM
1

Opinion on what? What you should do from here? Read the side bar. You've done everything wrong, and you haven't understood ANY of the red pill. Step zero: You can't negotiate attraction. I have no idea how you didn't get served with divorce papers already. Some thoughts off the top of my head: 1) I don't care if your new job scares you. Fucking handle it. You're not in middle school with a paper route, you're a man with a job. Handle your fucking job. Figure out what you have to do to be success…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 02:36 AM
2

The first time you say something like that it's going to piss her off. That's okay. It's how you handle her being pissed off that matters. In short: it doesn't matter to you that she's pissed. My GF tested me the other day: Her: I'm mad at you Me: No you're not. Her: Yes I am. Me: Not buyin' it. Her: I am too mad at you! Me: Oh, sorry, is this like a knock-knock joke? You say "I'm mad at you." and I'm supposed to respond, "Gee, Honey, I'm sorry. What did I do wrong? How can I fix it?" Her: You g…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 01:37 AM
1

"used to, and uses it to start fights and arguments" Here's the problem: not with her behavior, but with yours, so this is what we'll focus on. How exactly does she start fights and arguments? What does she say or do? What do you say or do?
/r/askMRP18/01/16 11:08 PM
3

TL/DR: just read the second-to-last paragraph. There are lots of competing factors here, as you know. You don't trust her, and you shouldn't, but you know that truly all women are like that. Just as a man can always fall into beta, he can always rise into alpha again. So ask yourself, why do you want to get back together with your children's mother. Is it just for the kids? Or do you have oneitis for her? If it's oneitis, then her moving back in is going to be bad bad bad. You're going to drop i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 04:50 AM
1

She's 22 and you're not physically present in her life. What do you think she's going to do once she's tired of replacing the batteries on her vibrator?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 05:54 PM
10

It sounds like she lacks some basic skills that you assumed everyone had. She doesn't understand steaks. Explain to her what kind of steak you like, and how to distinguish between a good one and a bad one. Think of the hunter-gatherer model here. She wants to pick out the right kind of steak, but she doesn't know what constitutes good and bad. She can probably pick out good and bad bread and fruits and vegetables, so sit down and educate her on steaks. Set her up for success by explaining how to…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 08:19 PM
3

You start by slightly expanding things that she makes autonomous decisions about. So, for instance, finances. It's in your domain to handle decisions about what big money should be spent on: which car, house, etc. But there are things you don't want to be worrying about, like food and other grocery items, so give her a budget for a week's worth of groceries (food, toilet paper, paper towels, dish soap, laundry detergent, etc.), and have her go shopping for these things. Is she a stay-at-home-mom…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:58 PM
9

You're the captain, she's the first mate. She's not a deck swabbie, she's the first mate. There are decisions that are in her domain, so take those decisions and put them in her domain. Make it clear where the line is: what decisions, you will handle and which ones she should handle. Support her in those decisions; praise her when she's made good one and help her to see alternatives when her decision was bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:37 PM
1

Sounds like some preselection or dread level 1 is in order. You've noticed the change in your appearance, but has anyone else? A long time ago, I went from a chubby 160 to a fit 135. My GF at the time didn't notice at all. Or if she noticed, she didn't say anything. Keep up the personal growth. If you're thinking about divorce, then start with level 1 dread first. Make it a smooth progression. Don't just jump of the emotional cliff before taking baby steps.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 06:55 AM
8

Don't be so sure.
/r/MGTOW14/01/16 05:24 PM
1

Awesome. SL5x5 is s good program. There isn't any official RP endorsed parenting guide, but I would highly recommend Love & Logic. It has lead me to a place where I have a happy 6 year old.
/r/askMRP14/01/16 03:05 PM
1

Parenting with Love and Logic is a 5-star course for how to develop a child that will make good decisions.
/r/askMRP14/01/16 02:36 AM
1

Awesome. Amused Mastery is definitely the way to go with a small daughter. My daughter sometimes tries to act mad to see if I will try to console her (I don't). AM all the way.
/r/askMRP14/01/16 02:35 AM
1

Do you even lift, bro? Focus on the quality of time you spend with your 2 year old daughter, not the quantity of time. Are you following the Love and Logic parenting program, or something else? I have an almost 6 year old. When she was two, she was poking at a piece of electronics, and I told her not to. I got down on the floor where she was standing, and pointed to the DVD player and said "no, you can't touch that, it's not a toy." She looked at me straight in the eye and then reached out and t…
/r/askMRP14/01/16 02:33 AM
4

A totally vague emoji works well. You feed the hamster with 'em
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:34 PM
1

When she texts, she's just talking. She wants you to pay attention to her. It doesn't mean that she wants to hear what you have to say. She wants a listener, not a talker. So, for most texts, say nothing, or maybe a 1 word answer. She sends you a nude? "Hot". She tells you that she's thinking about you? nothing. Don't overthink this. You're not a chick.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:32 PM
3

I don't live solely to please my daughter, but if I'm running my ship right, then she's happy. If she cries because she wanted me to buy her a toy at the store and I didn't, then I probably need to get her down for a nap, not buy her the toy.
/r/askMRP13/01/16 02:06 PM
4

She's moved on. It's time for you too as well. This wasn't a relationship for the ages, it was just something that worked for a while.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 02:07 AM
0

I disagree about the "happy wife happy life" being wrong. But I 100% agree with the next sentence. The Blue Pill way of thinking says "make her happy by doing anything and everything she tells you to do" and this makes about as much sense as giving your kid ice cream for breakfast.
/r/askMRP12/01/16 09:24 PM
2

If she does sue for back payments, make a significant (like 50%) payment of what's owed the day before court. The courts will likely say "That's good enough to not take action" and then move on with your life.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 05:16 AM
2

When I got divorced, my ex had been making more than me for the past couple of years. But I didn't go after her for spousal maintenance. The reason? If I don't go after her, then she can NEVER (NEVER!) go after me, no matter what changes happen in the future. A couple grand of "lost" income up front (plus I'm not on the line for her student loans) means I don't have to worry about anything but a small child support payment (which I don't mind, much love for the father daughter bond, I don't want…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 05:13 AM
2

1) Bring some popcorn and maintain your outcome independence. 2) This isn't really your problem. They're plates, not spouses in different houses. 3) If they both decide that you're a jerk and they don't want to keep enjoying your body, then this will send a signal to the other women that you're now available. It might be a good idea to have business cards with your phone number printed in advance, maybe have your schedule handy so you can pencil 'em in.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:06 PM
2

It's just a shit test. Agree and Amplify.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 12:20 AM
2

Bringing up a couple of replies to a single 0-voted post from 11 months ago to prove a point? Go waste time elsewhere.
/r/askMRP10/01/16 11:40 PM
8

Don't get married. You've been with her for 10 years, and she's going to drop you over a web site? Do you really want to be married to her that much? There are lots of women in the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 08:28 PM
1

I entered a new ultimate league a while back. Mentally evaluating the players as I played with them and watched them play. I noticed one guy had good throws, so after playing I told him "Hey, you have really good throws!" He said "Thanks." and nothing more. I found out later that he was the best player in the league. BPP has been around a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 07:22 PM
2

Take it slowly. I think you picked the right response when you didn't know what to do: do nothing at all. But since you've had more time to think about it, can you think of a better response?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:57 AM
1

The core of TRP is that if your wife is denying you sex you should probably start by improving yourself. Her desire can't be negotiated.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:52 AM
3

I think that Love & Logic is very red pill. Both require that you be the leader (parent or husband) and that you have direction in where you lead. I view misbehavior from my daughter as a failing in my leadership. I lead her to behave the way she does. I pay attention to her but I don't control her. I view negative behavior from my significant other as a failing in my leadership. I think of what I should be doing differently. Perhaps she's misbehaving because she doesn't know what she should be …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:51 AM
2

I disagree with you. Shit tests are a form of testing that respect that she's supposed to have for you. The techniques from Love and Logic are designed for you to NOT have power struggles with your children. Same applies for wives. If you're in a power struggle with your wife or child, you've kind of fucked up already. The only way to salvage the situation is to win the power struggle, and then set yourself up to not have it come up again. One of the core principle of L&L is that you, as the par…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:46 AM
1

Get out now. Seriously, get out of this relationship now. For where you are in life, you're doing great career wise. Your life will get a lot better and she will get to marry a senior partner at her law firm, stop working and start pushing out babies. I have a question for you that you should answer very seriously. Why do you want to get married?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 04:07 PM
38

I call BS. It's not that she doesn't have lots and lots of dates, it's that she's EXTREMELY picky. Self made millionaire by 34? She'll only be interested in a guy who has done it by 30. And he's interested in other things. He's not looking for a woman he can compete with (and crush, since she's selecting ONLY men who are more successful than her), he's looking for something fun and physical or something permanent and familial. When is this ambitious woman going to have time to sit down with her …
/r/MGTOW05/01/16 11:19 PM
0

Everyone judges others to be like themselves. Some see the great in others. Some see only the small.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:39 AM
-1

Great people talk about ideas. Regular people talk about events. Small people talk about people.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 09:28 PM
6

You are missing something larger: You don't have to acknowledge or respond to her comments. You don't have to justify your behavior. Sex is not a reward that you get for being such a good boy (as in "Who's a good doggie? You are!") Sex is something that she craves from you. My sister often talks about how children try to get more freedom, but more freedom is actually pretty terrifying. Kids who are given too much freedom too early on really struggle with good decision making, especially when tha…
/r/askMRP02/01/16 04:35 PM
10

This is a very winnable war. When you have cited claims and then get removed, look for more citations for your claims. Don't get angry about it, and don't worry about any individual edit being removed. There was a similar complaint about the Elliot Rodgers wikipedia article linking him to red pill/mgtow. So I edited the article, removing those links. I questioned the credibility of the citations for the sentences that linked him to TRP/MGTOW since they were three citations, but two of them just …
/r/MGTOW29/12/15 10:01 PM
1

Understand that while she may be on an emotional rollercoaster from one moment to the next, you don't have to ride that ride with her. You're both much better off if you're the emotional rock that she can cling to. RP is still on, but you have to scale back the dread.
/r/askMRP27/12/15 03:36 AM
0

What she's saying is that you're making her wet and she'd like you to be a nice guy and do something about it now.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 10:06 PM
2

You're getting an up vote because you are coming to the right place for advice. But you're still a drunk captain. Would you let your 18 year old daughter make financial decisions for you? If she wrecked two cars, would you buy her a third one? But here you are, letting the most mature teenager in the room make decisions that are beyond her scope even when she has proven herself incapable. Why did she get fillings for baby teeth? Because the doctor told her she should, and you weren't there to ma…
/r/askMRP23/12/15 01:34 PM
7

You are falling into the trap. This is why we call it the Red Pill and the Blue Pill. The Blue Pill is that everything you were raised with, everything you were told about women being kind and gentle and wanting someone kind and gentle to take care of them is the truth, is reality. The Red Pill tells us that this is not the case. If you've been an Alpha with her so far, and she's into you, why would you ever think that being a Beta would help you seal the deal for a long term relationship? You'r…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:26 PM
67

It's been my experience that when a woman does something shitty and gets caught, she immediately tries to play the victim card because of all the people being mean to her (for the shitty thing she just did).
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/15 01:16 AM
1

And the really crazy thing is that actual domestic violence, actual abuse, actual overt misogyny isn't talked about at all. I think that what the author of the article must really want is to be manhandled and dominated, maybe have her hair pulled a little by a man who is focused on being a man. Then she can be a woman.
/r/MensRights21/12/15 11:01 AM
2

1) Tell the woman that she's not welcome in the house, but don't physically block her entry. 2) Call 911. Make it clear that you are calling 911.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 06:48 PM
38

You're 16 and wired to respect the authority of your elders, especially women who claim to be family members. You did the best you could do in the situation.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 06:46 PM
14

The kid calling the police means that HE is the petitioner, not the defender. This at least starts them off on his side. I drive a taxi. I had a woman refuse to leave my car. I opened her door and told her to get out. I already had 911 on the phone. She said that if I touched her, she was calling the police. I told her that I had no intention of touching her, and that I already had the police on the phone. I then directed my speech towards the 911 dispatcher. Imagine just how quickly this woman …
/r/MensRights20/12/15 06:44 PM
12

...and then strut around the board like she won the game.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 09:24 PM
1

Step 1: Be your own validation. If you're coming here for validation after a year, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:57 PM
7

So, first off, you did the right thing in the short term for dealing with the hard "no". Lots of MRP is about laying the groundwork for success. To get the sex you want, you have to do a couple of things to make yourself more attractive to your wife. 1) Lift. Make time in your schedule to get to the gym for an hour 3 times a week. Stronglifts 5x5 is a great program to start with. If you never get past it, that's okay. 2) Dread game. Your wife needs to know that other women find you attractive. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 05:57 PM
43

Arguing with a woman is like wrestling in the mud with pigs. You get real dirty and the pigs love it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 02:43 PM
-1

Kegles are the solution, but I have no fucking advice on how to broach that subject. I face the exact same problem.
/r/askMRP16/12/15 10:13 PM
1

Men and women aren't the same. You shouldn't judge them by the same standards, as their motivations and goals, abilities and interests are different.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:15 PM
0

Try lifting. Repeatedly. They'll magically be more interested in you.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:32 PM
5

I couldn't stomach reading the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:49 PM
27

His comment about government employees irritated me. There are two kinds of folks in the government offices I've seen: rocks and rock stars. There are some people who work really hard and keep things organized and stay on top of regulations and make sure everyone is playing by the same rules so that we have clean water and clean air and no toxic crap dumped next to playgrounds. And there are some that just sit there, pushing paper.
/r/MensRights07/12/15 06:03 PM
1

If you have to put it down to heal, then put it down for a while. It'll be waiting patiently for your return.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 04:46 PM
2

There are still rerolls, but the best of them are nowhere near as good as ones that she used to reject out of hand.
/r/MensRights07/12/15 02:43 AM
10

I love starting with that phrase: "I'm not a racist, but the Cleveland Browns really do suck. And Brock Osweiler is turning out to be a great quarterback for the Denver Broncos." "Wait, how is that racist?" "It's not. I said I wasn't"
/r/MensRights07/12/15 02:21 AM
3

I used to play an online roleplaying game. When you created your character, it would randomly generate some numbers. You could then decide if you wanted to keep the character and give it a name or roll again. After 7 rolls, the randomly generated numbers started to get smaller. You would have to restart the character creation process to reset the roller. Girls in their early 20's are having fun rolling up new dates. They get as many rerolls as they want. They can play with each character for a w…
/r/MensRights07/12/15 02:17 AM
2

This is the core of red pill: When you let women run the relationSHIP, everybody loses.
/r/MensRights07/12/15 02:11 AM
2

It sounds like your standard grade c shit test. You're knocking them out of the park.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 05:08 AM
3

I love it.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 11:28 PM
2

You're not missing out on a lot, unless you're just not getting anywhere. She forms a picture of who you are in her mind. If it's already a positive image, then text game can do nothing for you but reduce that. If you're aloof and mysterious, then she can fill in the gaps with her own imagination. This is to your advantage. It doesn't matter what happens over text. What matters is what happens when you meet up in real life.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 07:10 PM
4

You're just victim blaming now.
/r/MensRights04/12/15 09:55 PM
14

If it's simply a matter of "feeling threatened" then it seems highly subjective. It's not illegal for me to look around while I'm out in public. This sign seems to impinge on that.
/r/MensRights04/12/15 09:54 PM
1

I like the absurdity response: "Patiently waiting by the phone, crying, hoping you'll call." Followed by, "Just kidding. I'm sorry, who is this?"
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:38 PM
101

How fast would this whole program get scrapped if men just started hammering the button. "That woman was leering at me." 10-20 times an hour. The security operations would be scampering back and forth doing nothing at all.
/r/MensRights04/12/15 05:12 PM
3

Rejection is an opportunity to sharpen your game. It's often more about them than it is about you. If you're really pissed and don't have any comeback, take that anger and go lift.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 09:52 PM
6

This is a fantastic question, but let's generalize it. We all have weaknesses. We all have strengths. If we focus on our strengths, we get stronger. We feel better about ourselves. Do you know (or care) how tall Gary Kasparov was? No. All you know is that he was a world champion chess player. Do you know whether Jonas Salk was bald or fat? No. You know he invented the first Polio vaccine, saving millions (or billions) from untold lifelong suffering and early death. So why are you focused on your…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:49 PM
5

This post has been made many times. Regardless, welcome brother. We are happy every time a man becomes enlightened.
/r/askMRP30/11/15 10:24 PM
1

You're taking the entirely wrong approach here. This is about YOU proving to yourself that you're the MAN. What the fuck? Texting? Seriously? How can she have hot apology sex with you afterwards if you're testing?
/r/askTRP29/11/15 12:28 AM
8

The key to being the true red pill man is to be outcome independent in situations where you might strongly want something that's just not going to happen. You might be surprised. If they each are only with you because they think you've given them the relationship, then they're not really plates. You're just cheating on each of them. You're not actually a red pill man, you're a cunning liar, and you just got caught, so you're not as cunning as you thought. If you tell them each, "Yes, I'm sleepin…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 12:26 AM
1

I am misinformed. Deleting...
/r/MensRights28/11/15 06:24 AM
11

You were outcome independent. The outcome wasn't what you were hoping for. Moving right along, nothing to see here. A response you could have had to the "I knew you weren't taking this seriously" comment is "I was taking this very seriously, but you've made it clear that was a mistake". But really, no response is required.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:25 AM
2

Response to the oysters comment: "Do you like it?" Not said in an actual questioning way, but instead in an assertive way. You're the one running the show. You know it's a good show, and you're not looking for validation. You don't have to justify your actions to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:26 PM
2

It might have helped if you had actually remembered some tenets of MRP: The woman is the most responsible teenager in the room. She had an idea and wanted you to go explore her idea. My daughter, who is 5, often thinks that it would be a good idea to eat brownies for dinner. So, text #1: Would you mind driving by [location C] on your way home?... Your response: We're not changing anything right now. Don't give a reason for it. She can think of a million reasons on her own. Your attempt at logic …
/r/askMRP24/11/15 12:52 PM
4

It seems clear that she wanted to end the relationship, but was trying to make it his fault. I don't think she thought he'd realistically turn down a job at Google just to stay with his girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:38 AM
1

It's always good to work on yourself. It's also good to practice the different aspects of TRP. You've focused here on dread. So, practice dread. See how it works out for you. If it fails and the relationship ends, you're no worse off than you were before. If it succeeds, but you decide you don't want the relationship anymore, then you will have learned something.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 09:36 PM
48

Probably the most damning comment that she made was where she was looking for someone to be a "father to my child." Your kid has a father, and you should do your best to foster a healthy relationship with that actual father. In fact, someone you date should not meet your kid AT ALL unless you're getting very serious. Little kids bond with adults easily. Forming that bond and then breaking it, over and over again, is HORRIBLE for the kid.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:57 AM
3

In all seriousness, would you want a child that's biologically yours, or biologically someone else's? Be honest here. I'm going to say that 100 out of 100 men would rather it was biologically their own kid. If you're one of those 100, then by raising someone else's kid, you are settling.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:48 AM
6

Her frame is that she's still doing you a favor by consenting to be with you. She's letting you in her life. She's doing YOU a favor. I especially like this sentence from the last paragraph: "Every day that you wait, is another day closer to someone else coming along. " She's still clearly the special snowflake, so unique. She's not like all those other single moms out there who got knocked up at 20, had the kid, ditched the guy, and started looking for something better.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:28 AM
2

This is fine. If you had a date that failed because you made a bad decision, you can use that information to make a better decision next time. If you had a date that failed because you didn't make a decision, then you're no better off than when you started.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 02:57 AM
2

This was my biggest fundamental transition from blue pill thinking to red pill thinking: Don't foist the responsibility for decision making off on the other person. Gather information and then make the decision yourself. Instead of "When would you like to go out next week?" use "Do you have any time commitments next week?". I had a friend I did this with. He responded, "No", but then when I said "Okay, I'll pick you up at 7 on Tuesday", he said, "Oh, I have my daughter that night." I repeated th…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 02:55 AM
5

"Anything for you, babe" This is a great phrase. In a kind of test with my current GF, she said something like "Why do we have to have sex every time we see each other?" She had phrased it as a complaint. I responded, "Well, I give you sex only when you want it." And magically, that became true. She fell into the frame of my statement, and really started to think of sex as something that SHE needs and something that SHE can ask for whenever she wants it. I'm not going to reject her or call her a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 02:04 AM
6

Just as the only cause of death is birth.
/r/MGTOW18/11/15 09:26 PM
5

If you have the marriage ceremony, then you are presenting yourselves as a married couple to the world. Hello Common Law. You're married, even without the paperwork.
/r/MGTOW18/11/15 09:25 PM
1

I've encountered guns that weren't loaded. I haven't encountered a woman for whom The Red Pill doesn't apply.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:14 PM
1

The whole point of being here is for you to not divorce your wife, but instead fix it. There's a lot that you need to understand. You've been lied to you your whole life about how women think and what motivates them. You've been doing what you were told to do, and you are suffering because of it. There's a sidebar for you to read. It'll take you a while. There's a lot to absorb and internalize. Welcome to the Red Pill.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 07:05 PM
1

You are the dick behind glass. When something goes wrong in her relationship, she'll break the glass and come running to you. You're in orbit, but it's not the "use for help moving" orbit. It's the "next potential fuckbuddy" orbit.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:12 PM
2

Don't think of it as punishment. Think of it as consequence. You have people you like spending time with. You have good conversations about interesting things. Their ideas spur new ideas of your own. You seek out their company. Your wife chooses to be a bitch. She chooses to shit all over you and not respect you. You respond by spending less time with her, giving her less attention. Does that help?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 09:42 PM
1

You're not "talking". You're telling. This information could be sent in a text just as easily. You're taking the high road. You're not engaging her in this. Her behavior is indefensible, and you're showing her to be the child she is. That's why I liked your no-response when your kid was around. It's the right behavior, just like not arguing with your kid while you're in the supermarket is the right behavior.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 04:00 PM
1

Yes, I understood that her behavior is shitty. I'm not talking about her behavior, I'm talking about OP's behavior. She said something shitty and inappropriate, he didn't respond and she left. Her: Shitty behavior. Him: ... Her: I'm sorry. He did what he was supposed to do, hence, "I don't see the problem" with his behavior. In terms of dealing with this problem on the short term, he can choose the appropriate level of response: Mild: Talk to her about her behavior: "I don't care what feelings y…
/r/askMRP10/11/15 01:57 PM
-2

I don't see what the problem is.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 12:00 AM
3

So, most political, religious, and business leaders are men. This I'll grant you. But it's not enough that you use the bar of "most". In any contest between two closely skilled opponents, you'll ALWAYS get one person winning more than the other. The thing is, even subtle advantages, when exerted over the very long term, become nearly insurmountable. If there's a 60/40 split for decisions of whether to promote a man or a woman, and say it takes 2 promotions to get to be the leader of an organizat…
/r/MensRights09/11/15 12:48 AM
6

It reminds me of Casablanca, where they know who the guy is who committed the crime, but they round up "the usual suspects" instead. Just because someone called in a complaint doesn't mean you get to go find the closest black man and arrest him.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/11/15 08:24 PM
1

Get your head on right. It sounds like when you're at the party, you're not outcome independent, so you come off as needy. Not only does it drive one girl away, it drives ALL of them away.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:18 PM
1

I'd just roll my eyes at her. "Oh? So you want me to be your boyfriend do you?"
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:17 PM
2

You want to be reading TheRedPill, not MarriedRedPill. The problems we deal with here are not problems that you've had the time in your life to experience.
/r/askMRP07/11/15 06:24 PM
1

Welcome. A great place to start is understanding frame. Frame is your worldview: what's important, what's not, and how everything fits together. When you focus on yourself and ignore her, you are improving your sense of self and improving your self-worth. Your frame revolves around self-improvement. When you try to appease a woman who is unhappy that you aren't meeting her emotional needs, you fall into her frame. This is a bad thing to do. First off, there's probably nothing you can do directly…
/r/askMRP07/11/15 08:07 AM
4

A woman wants the attention of a man whose time and attention is valuable. If you give attention to every little thing she does, she won't like it, because she'll feel like your time isn't valuable and therefore your attention is also worthless. WHO THE FUCK CARES IF SHE WHINES ABOUT HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS? You've learned nothing from TRP. She won't go running to the first asshole who compliments her. She'll go running to the first asshole that puts her in her place. You're new here, aren't you?
/r/askMRP07/11/15 05:00 AM
1

There are problems with your outlook on this. 1) You are not outcome independent. You are trying to find out what to stay so that she'll come out with you, no matter what. You should not do this. 2) You are afraid of losing this one and only chance you'll ever have with the only girl in the whole wide world. Why? You've had a couple of dates, and she seems interested. The question is genuine: do you want to hang out with a third person or not? I think that that would be weird. So, you can say a …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:37 PM
4

Did she also say "come see the violence inherent in the system!" A great Monty Python line.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/15 03:37 PM
3

She used lots and lots of words, but said nothing. What was she trying to say in her defense? If I were organizing events with speakers I would never invite someone as inarticulate as her.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/15 03:35 PM
5

In terms of what a man NEEDS from his wife, if these three are taken care of, he's not going to go looking for something better for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 07:26 PM
5

This is one of the hardest rules for me to follow. When I find something great, I want to share it. I'm learning from my mistakes, slowly. I don't call it The Red Pill. I just talk about the necessity of a man to lead in his relationships. Most of the divorces that I've seen happen because the woman lead the relationship. I've seen a lot of divorces, including my own. When I bring up this single point, I see the light go on in the guy's eyes.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:24 PM
1

You broke frame with that comment. She shouldn't fuck you because you're her husband. She should fuck you because you're incredibly hot. Get to the gym and build some muscles.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 04:54 PM
10

Do you notice how there's never a call to correct gender bias in jobs like garbage collection, sanitation or custodial services? It's only ever jobs that are extremely highly paid and very social in nature. Notice that it's for the job of board member, which is vague in duties, and not analyst, which requires lots of math.
/r/MensRights04/11/15 02:13 PM
1

Get her in a relationship with someone who puts up with her shit. Give her a little stability and BOOM, she'll want kids.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 01:37 AM
1

I like these two: | 17. Socially and fiscally liberal. Isn't greedy with the money he earns. Understands how to share. | 21. Doesn’t want children. Period. So, he's going to pay for everything, and then never want kids, until she turns 30 and suddenly REALLY REALLY REALLY wants kids, like RIGHT NOW.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 01:19 AM
4

Yeah, New York women talking about how it's great to always be single and childless, forever. It's not lonely and sad at all.
/r/MGTOW04/11/15 01:13 AM
9

The most common mistake that many men make is in thinking that when a woman tells you about her problems, she wants you to solve them. She doesn't. She wants you to listen, understand, and support her. You listened to the problem. You understood the problem. You asked her what she was doing to solve the problem (still offering no suggestions), then you supported her in her decisions. Well done! This problem isn't big enough for the Captain of the ship to get involved. This is clearly a First Mat…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 06:08 PM
3

The crazy thing is that I bet your wife is a lot happier now as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 04:35 PM
-4

If she's just flat out refusing, then any past abuse is a red herring. I don't know her situation, nor do I want to. But it's not unheard of for a woman to claim some permanent damage from some past encounter with someone else. Just think of this: If she were in the room with Brad Pitt (in Fight Club shape) would she be talking about her past abuses or would she be on her knees joyfully pleasing him.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 11:44 PM
16

I find that most of the things they say about themselves are false. I would expect you to put your kids first, just like I would expect that you are not a fugitive from the law. Talking about it makes me wonder if it's not true. So pretty much everything she says is false. "I'm not a pushover" ...unless you're an alpha male like the guy who knocked me up was. "If I'm not working, I'm spending time with my son" ...who is in the other room or somewhere else while I look for a replacement daddy onl…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:37 PM
2

AWALT. Don't hate 'em for it. Just accept it and plan accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 06:54 PM
2

This is a great example of holding frame. It wasn't really tested much; you didn't have to fight against her to maintain frame. You let her say the stuff that she wanted to say. You understood all of it, but none of it really required your response. Instead you directed the conversation to things that mattered. Her reaction was to immediately follow your lead. What do you think caused the divorces of her sister, mom and grandmother? Beta husbands. You can't really blame a woman for being a woman…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 06:53 PM
1

Let it go. She flaked then lied about it. She likes your attention and adoration, but that's it.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 05:32 PM
2

Great that you're taking control of the finances. But a Captain doesn't swab the deck. The captain doesn't even tell the swabbies to get swabbin'. That's the First Mate's job. So, she's bad with money. Put her on a budget. If she says it's not enough money to buy (groceries, etc.) then have her show you what money got spent where. Then you can discuss specifics of the decisions she is making. If you set yourself up as the micromanager, it's going to piss her off and exhaust you. Then you're not …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:01 PM
1

Especially when you put it in terms of actual dollars. Advanced degree gets you $4000 per year. Willing to work weekends/holidays gets you $2000 per year. etc. When it comes right down to it, most men are willing to work more for more money whereas most women are not if they have to give up time with their family as long as they have enough money. For instance, you can work a normal 40-hour week, 8-5 every day, and make $50,000. This will pay all your expenses: house, healthcare, car payments fo…
/r/MensRights26/10/15 05:57 PM
2

Her hormones are going NUTS. She's trying to be the strong independent woman who can do everything but she can't and she doesn't know why.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 06:41 AM
8

It sounds like she is just out of her mind with baby brain. She's trying to make life decisions and be the one in control because she thinks this will fix the problems in her mind. What she really wants is for you to be in control and for her to feel safe. She wants to focus on her baby and not worry about anything else. When she says stupid shit to you, don't take any of it personally. She's just talking and lashing out because she's out-of-her-mind-crazy with baby brain right now. I know that …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 10:02 PM
0

Maybe the message she got was that she was worth fighting for and so her marriage is good and strong. Good job man
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 04:12 PM
2

You get me. My past is my past. I have learned from its lessons, both good and bad, and I am righting my ship to a better future. This post is not so much about specific actions but about a mental sea change.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 02:18 AM
1

That's my point. I was handed the game with some pieces out of position, but it's now my responsibility to get them into the right positions.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:52 PM
2

I agree. It sounds like OP's dread game was working more than he realized. She was genuinely afraid that he was divorcing her. His words changed the entire situation for her, so now she's committed to making the relationship do what it's supposed to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:45 PM
2

I think you're setting yourself up for success here. You're making it so that it's a lot more attractive for her to stay (and be your loving wife) than it is to leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:02 PM
2

You've hit on the #1 reason for this sub to exist: We are trying to save your marriage and your life. You've been lied to about what your wife wants. There aren't shortcuts to this happiness. You have to run the show and you have to be good at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:00 PM
1

You're arguing about what color the deck chairs should be on the Titanic. Your ship is sinking! Captain, all hands on deck!
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:28 PM
1

A big part of the Red Pill is understanding that you are the Captain and she is the First Mate. Where to start mopping up? TRP is a sea change for you. You need to fundamentally change your entire outlook. This has nothing to do with your wife owning two cars that you bought her and you owning none. It has everything to do with you letting a teenager run your life.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:27 PM
4

Be MANLY. Pick her up. Carry her to wherever you want to. Grab her and push her back against the wall and kiss her. Smack her butt. Pull her to you. Physically move her around powerfully, roughly. Think of it this way: She wants sex, but you have to do something to trigger that desire. She doesn't want to have to put herself in the mood. Do NOT do things that she would do to entice you (e.g. light candles or put on some Kenny G.) Do MANLY things instead. Hopefully this puts you in the right mind…
/r/askMRP20/10/15 11:57 PM
1

What are you looking for here? Validation for you behavior? If you're still committed to your marriage, then make it work! There are lots of tools here (the sidebar) to make it work. If you're done with your marriage, then divorce your wife and move on. Why are you still married?
/r/askMRP20/10/15 08:05 PM
2

Maybe we can throw out the Title IX abuses that have plagued the system for so long.
/r/MensRights20/10/15 07:54 PM
1

Text logistics for getting together again. She doesn't want to have some ethereal conversation about astronomy via text, she wants to see you again. Make it happen. Go for a walk. Eat food. Some activity where you can interact in a meaningful way. A movie at a movie theatre is no good. Netflix and chill is good.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:05 AM
25

She's not home when she said she would be home and you decide to call her to see what's up. Since she wasn't in a life-threatening situation like a car crash or she was robbed, she's sending you a very clear message: You are not important enough to me to even bother with showing up on time. You're not even important enough to call. Move on. This is a test to see if you're up for being her beta orbiter. If hanging out near her while she fucks other guys isn't your idea of a good time, then MOVE T…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:00 PM
8

Casey's wondering why his vasectomy didn't stop her from having kids, it just changed their skin color.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:01 AM
4

Ignore them. Let the hamster run for a bit. Don't respond to them at all. So, when she texts you "Are you mad? You seem so off?" ignore it. Maybe your next text is something like "Dinner at 7 at Paglia's. Wear the red skirt." or whatever you normally to to her about.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 11:21 PM
2

Using the expanded definition of rape that requires constant positive affirmation.
/r/MGTOW15/10/15 08:16 PM
0

#1: Don't show up early to the date. It sends the message that you don't value your own time, and so she shouldn't either. You're meeting at a starbucks, so why one so far from home? In general, when planning a meeting like this, have a backup plan so your time isn't wasted. To me, it sounds like this girl is just a waste. A good response is "hahahahaha" and then total radio silence no matter what she says.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 08:07 PM
1

"Tax me I don't give a fuck." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuedZ1Y_dU4
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:13 PM
3

If you were in a relationship, you could say something like, "We've grown apart." or "I don't think we're going in the same direction any more." or something like that. But you're not. She's a plate. When you're done with a plate you just stop setting stuff up with her.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:53 PM
0

I don't believe any of this.
/r/askMRP15/10/15 02:02 PM
13

It only takes encountering one and it's bad
/r/MensRights15/10/15 01:52 PM
2

Not a big fan of crossfit, but that discussion is better suited to /r/fitness than here. Stronglifts 5x5 is where serious muscle and serious strength get built. But do what you like.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:37 PM
1

Welcome to MRP. Lots to learn, read the sidebar. Definitely good to be assertive. I'd take her "I already showered" as a simple shit test. Since you re-asserted, I'd say you passed it. Much depends on your state of mind and hers. The vibe I get from you is very much you being the dominant man instructing your woman on what to do. As to the link, I read enough of it to know that it's a pile of crap. Bill Burr's comments on "being a mom is the hardest job there is" come to mind. Sure, honey, it's …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:35 PM
1

Since he's not just demanding sex, he's setting a specific scenario, I'd say that he's being assertive and commanding rather than pleading and whining. There's a huge difference between pushing your woman up against the wall and kissing her and telling her to kiss you. One of them gets her pussy wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:29 PM
8

Guess what? The dread is working. She is seeing your SMV improve, and so now she knows you're hotter than she is: You can do better than her, and if she were in your situation, she WOULD cheat. This is step 1 for fixing your marriage. There's lots of good Agree and Amplify for the "Are you cheating" shit test. Other people have gone over them. I'm not going to repeat. If fact, I'm giving you nothing more than "read the sidebar materials". And a reassuring, "know that you are on the right path." …
/r/askMRP13/10/15 11:21 PM
103

This is a really big deal. If a man makes $500,000/year, and he gives his wife an 'allowance' of $2,000/month to cover her discretionary spending, then this ruling allows him to argue that $2k/month is her standard of living (above and beyond basic needs). This is a very big deal.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 04:11 PM
6

You framed this perfectly.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:09 PM
1

So, his behavior is assault. If he actually lands a blow, it's assault and battery. It's illegal. You press charges after the cops show up, and the cameras in the gym (yes, there are cameras in the gym) verify what happened and he goes to fucking JAIL.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:08 PM
3

That stuff you did is what guys think women want in terms of romance. It isn't. A woman would make the bed, put on sexy lingerie, do the aromatherapy candles and set up mood lighting so that her man would see plainly and obviously that she's in the mood for sex. But this isn't stuff that you should do to put her in the mood. You're a man. Showing off that manliness is what turns her on, especially when it's directed at her. Physically effortlessly picking her up and kissing her, pushing her up a…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 08:35 PM
5

I'm with you 100%. I bet this guy looks good. His money situation is tight. But he's beta as FUCK. Lingerie laid out on the bed and him lying naked next to it isn't seductive. It's obligation sex. "Look what I did for you. Now you have to have sex with me." I bet that even the thought of him manhandling her a little, pushing her up against the wall and kissing her would make her as wet as South Carolina after Joaquin. If he did it, she'd be gagging on his cock in a heartbeat and you couldn't bea…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 08:30 PM
2

You are hamstering around the truth a little. "I've started lifting, but...gaining some muscle would make me look better." combined with her "...gaining some muscle mass would help." You can't negotiate desire. This works both ways. If you gain muscle and lose fat, she's going to desire you more. She can't help it. It sounds like she respects you. If you marriage were to continue on its current path, she'd stay married to you and not cheat on you for the rest of your lives. So you're not talking…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 08:01 PM
1

I wasn't recommending a course of action at all. Why the personal attack on me?
/r/askMRP12/10/15 01:44 PM
0

So now that you've seen it's bad, you have to decide what you are going to do. While I don't recommend breaking down crying, begging for her to not cheat on you, you do have options. Emotionally, are you Outcome Independent? You've been lifting and taking care of yourself. Keep doing this. Double down on this. But what to do about your potentially cheating wife? Personally, I'd go with some teasing from the get go. If she mentions him on facebook, say something like "Oh, is that the guy you're c…
/r/askMRP11/10/15 02:45 PM
6

Travel is expensive. Not just for the direct cost but also for the time cost of being away from work. So I always try to figure out HOW she affords to travel as much as she does. If it isn't clear that she can afford it herself, then I always assume that she gets guys to pay for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 11:50 PM
8

It sounds to me like she's beginning to cheat. She's laying the foundation for something to "just happen". Something that she "just didn't expect". From what you've said, it sounds bad. How does she have time to go out with him, and not you?
/r/askMRP10/10/15 11:39 PM
4

Some bodies look better in clothes. Some bodies look better naked.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 06:02 PM
12

Yes, it is PPD. The entire situation is of her own making. The judge is punishing her for this. She was trying to use the "I'm a survivor of domestic abuse" claim as her get out of jail free card.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/15 05:34 AM
5

| (assuming she was being honest) That's the whole point. She wasn't being honest and didn't show up in court. The judge put her in jail and didn't give her the free "oh, you poor woman, victim of domestic abuse, do whatever you want and screw over everyone else, we'll just believe whatever bullshit story you come up with"
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/15 05:33 AM
49

Yeah, notice how the guy, simply on the accusation, does 16 days in jail. Since the trial can't continue without the victim's appearance, he's just fucked. She gets 3 days in jail. boo hoo. The biggest victims here are the kid and the state. The state has to deal with this trainwreck of a woman. Nobody wins.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/15 05:31 AM
1

Sure. But you're straw-manning here. There's a wrong way to do it, but do you really think a guy who is this successful with women is using such crappy tactics?
/r/askTRP09/10/15 02:54 AM
2

But an unattractive guy who has a hot girl on his hip draws a lot of positive attention to himself. If you saw a guy as average and then saw that the girl on his hip was hot, it would change your assessment of the guy. A hot guy who looks to be alone off by himself will bring up mental questions like, "why is he alone?"
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:29 PM
3

I like the "That might be a good idea" response. her: "Honey, can you clean out the garage today?" him: "That might be a good idea." Fundamentally, the problem is that she's taking on the executive role and you're taking on the subordinate role, so this is already a failed RP situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 09:57 PM
4

That's because the rules for women and men are different. I don't mean something like #patriarchy. I mean that men don't find the fact that a woman has slept with lots of different men to be attractive. We find it unattractive. Very very unattractive. Innocence is sexy in women. It's normal for a woman to be considered attractive to lots of different men. It's assumed that you have lots of different options, even if many of the options available to you aren't ones that you'd accept in any situat…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:32 PM
1

Chalk it up as a failed attempt, learn from it and move on. You're dwelling on it too much, and you're not focusing on what is coming next.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 08:46 PM
5

A guy who attracts many women is seen as attractive by other women. There was a guy who posted about a Tinder date that was going so-so, and the conversation about other Tinder matches came up. He let her see how many girls matched to him, and how hot they were. Her entire demeanor changed immediately, because she suddenly realized that he was going to be her best option for the night. What was the point you were trying to make?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 08:28 PM
5

I'd say that because he posted this here, it's progress for him. If you're planning on cleaning out the garage as soon as you're done with breakfast, and then during breakfast your wife tells you to clean out the garage, what do you do? Do you not do it out of spite? What if your wife asks you instead of tells you? What if she tries to make some overt contract, like, "If you clean out the garage, I'll be more in the mood for sex later."? It seems to him that his wife mentioned dinner, and he tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 08:06 PM
6

Frame matters. He's changing patterns that have formed over a relationship that's long enough to include marriage. Baby steps. Quit shitting on other people's progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:47 PM
6

Welcome to askmrp. She has a rash that prevents vaginal sex. Ok. Does she have it in her mouth too? She could still do lots of things for you, if she wanted to. But she doesn't. This is the serious question: do you want that to change? You are at level 0 of the (married) red pill. There's a lot that you have to learn. If you learn these lessons, and apply yourself to changing certain aspects of who you are, then your marriage will completely turn itself around. If you do not, then it will not, a…
/r/askMRP08/10/15 02:54 PM
2

I had a girlfriend not notice when I dropped 10% of my body weight as fat over the course of a month. Let that sink in. I probably cut my body fat percentage in HALF and she didn't notice.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:39 PM
1

Do you really want to live in a world where there are no strong men to lead and impress? Female sexual strategy would suggest otherwise.
/r/MensRights06/10/15 03:16 PM
37

It irritates me when a woman who is 5'0" tall and 90 lbs of muscle is compared to a man who is 6'4" 240lb and they're looking at something like rope climbing or some other body-movement activity. Look! The girl does just as good as the guy! Sure. Now put her against the 5'6" 150lb guy in the same activity: no comparison. Put 100lbs of gear on the person, no comparison. It's okay that women aren't as strong as men. It really is.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/15 07:20 AM
2

Maybe the fight is inside me, between hate for her and a dream to have a proper family. There is no such thing. I know couples that celebrated their 50th anniversary. There were bumps all along the road. That fairy tale happily-ever-after crap doesn't work with real people. Real men have sexual urges, and if they're not satisfied, there's trouble. Real women have needs that they can't or won't express, but still need met, like maybe she needs to have her hair pulled while you're drilling her dog…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 06:11 AM
1

I'm giving you an upvote because you need help here. You know it already, and that's why you're posting. It doesn't look like you're new to this, but you know you're not getting "it", really.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 05:57 AM
3

You're 22. It's not physical. This is simple performance anxiety. This happens all the time when you're younger. See a doctor, not AskTRP.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:49 AM
2

Great start, man. Lead and she will follow. She wants you to lead because that takes the leadership burden off of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 04:32 PM
1

Just move on. It's been my experience that if something goes wrong with someone the first time you meet them, then something similar is going to go wrong a lot. So who knows what the reason for the poor performance was. Maybe you had performance anxiety, maybe your head thought she was hot, but she didn't really do anything for your dick. Maybe there's something else going on and only years of therapy will get you past it. So you can invest that time and money to get to the root of the problem o…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 02:34 AM
1

You have your weekends planned out weeks in advance?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 02:53 PM
0

bwah hah hah. no.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 02:09 PM
2

And by "work for it" I mean put out regularly. If she's not physically attracted to you, then you're just a paycheck and emotional validation for her. I read somewhere that the whole "low sex drive" thing is mostly false. The fact is that women who are with a guy they find sexy, not just a guy they say is sexy, they'll have a high sex drive. That feeling can change easily.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:54 AM
2

This has been the HARDEST part of the red pill to swallow, for me. I work hard to make myself desirable to her. It's not nearly as much physical as it is SMV. I do it because I like sex. She has to work hard to be sexy for me because she likes being in a relationship. It's REALLY important for her to be in a relationship. She's not really a woman if she's not. You're giving the relationship away for free.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 04:21 AM
2

Sex once a month is probably normal for most couples... in their 70's. I'm in my mid 40's. I have a long distance relationship, which suits me fine because I like focusing on my business and blah blah blah. When I do see my GF, we fuck twice a day. So if I see her for three days, we fuck 6 times. That's 6 months worth of sex for you, and you're the Captain? I'm short and fat. So, TRP talks the truth about many issues. One half has to do with self improvement: lifting, leading, self-discipline. B…
/r/askMRP29/09/15 02:55 AM
3

You are going about this in a complete beta way. Do you think you can negotiate desire with your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 03:05 PM
5

Straight answer: "I'm OK. Why do you ask?" -- You're letting her talk, and it might just be that she noticed something specific and wants to talk about it, so this is her entry point. You're just letting her vent, which may make her feel more connected to you. A&A "You know, I'm really depressed right now, what with my (local sports team) losing, I'm not sure where to find meaning in my life. Maybe I should just end it all. Do you feel that way too?"
/r/askMRP28/09/15 03:03 PM
4

Prenups have been shown to not hold up in court. It's just fucking dumb anyway, to get married.
/r/MGTOW28/09/15 12:04 AM
13

"Don't expect sex." is pure Anti Slut Defense. She wants to claim that she's not a slut, which means she is. Do honest people claim they never lie? No. Only dishonest people do. Because for honest people, it just isn't something they question. I don't go around telling people I don't beat my child, 'cause if I did, you'd wonder why I'd talk about it at all.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 07:02 PM
4

Many of the mid-level managers and executives I interviewed reported that she pushed them to deliver on metrics that were not grounded in reality or data and were not really achievable. Because reality don't real, only feels. She feels those are targets that the company should achieve? well here are the targets, no go work on them. This is why VW's diesel engines claimed to be 'clean'. If you have an executive that's poised to make money on certain metrics and they push their team hard enough to…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:20 PM
8

The problem is she will marry him and then leave him, taking as much of his stuff as she can. This will mean that that great sex ends up costing him 100's of thousands of dollars per session.
/r/MGTOW27/09/15 04:20 PM
3

There's a difference between "last minute" and "a couple of hours before we're supposed to meet". And then telling you when she's free next says she's still interested. Plus, you're already sleeping with her. I'd say dread game is definitely the call. In general, when you make plans with her, at least have a backup plan. If that backup plan can involve a different girl, all the better. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 04:46 PM
3

The focus is not on her. You cannot change her. You cannot change women. They are who they are. The focus is on you. You can change who you are. You can change your appearance. The acne does clear up. Focus on the future, not the present. Lift, so that your muscles are strong and impressive. Eat well so that you get enough protein for those big muscles. Read so that you have interesting things to talk about. Study your fucking ass off so that when you're done with school you get a kick-ass job. …
/r/askTRP26/09/15 09:09 AM
9

You got lots of time. At 16, you're an unfinished product. Lift. Eat well. Lift some more. Physical attraction cannot be negotiated. If you're hitting the gym regularly, there will be lots of women attracted to you. They won't have any control over it. Just like your ex-girlfriend isn't attracted to you right now because her attraction can't be negotiated.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 02:23 AM
2

What the fuck does she offer other than sex? When you react to this statement, you are falling into her frame. Your entire premise is built on what she has set forth. What she's really saying is, "I think you should go to the gym and lift more so that you're hot, make me wetter than a swamp in springtime, and make me want to jump you every time you come home."
/r/askMRP25/09/15 03:57 PM
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TL;DR: Be the man that she adores and relies on. Be the mountain for her whole world. Your job is to be the emotional rock. Don't get riled up about things. Anticipate what's going to happen next and be prepared for it. Take the long view on everything. My background: I too have a 5-year-old. Her mother and I can no longer agree on what day of the week it is. We divorced 3 years ago. They live 7 hours away from me. We had shared parenting time up until September 1, when school started. Now she'l…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:49 PM
10

It sounds like she is a good Christian wife. But for her, life happens to her. What happens in the bedroom is whatever you make happen. So, it's time to turn yourself into a sex god. That means lifting, and lots of it. You're not doing this so that she is submissive to you, because it sounds like she's plenty submissive now. You're doing it so that she craves you. Do you like some nice firm booms in your face? Do you like the feel of a nice ass in your hands? How do you think she feels about big…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 01:30 AM
2

There is no focus to this post. I can't tell if it's about the gym you go to, the possible problems with the gym at home, your great wife or your horrible wife.
/r/askMRP25/09/15 01:10 AM
1

I came here to say this: "Do you have a better offer?"
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:37 PM
1

So, lead with discipline. Maybe right this moment you're not going to lead by example in terms of raw calories, but you can lead by example in quality of food. You're not bulking with doughnuts, are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 06:35 PM
2

Great post. Similar things going on with your wife and your kids: They both crave boundaries and for those boundaries to be enforced. It's not about freedom, it's about security.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 12:38 AM
2

There's nothing to be impressed about. She lies. She's a psychopath. She will say anything to get what she wants. If you try to learn from her, "game recognizes game", you'll be fucked as well. But the difference is that she's a hot woman and knows how to use it to manipulated men in power. You're not. You'll just go to jail.
/r/becomeaman24/09/15 12:19 AM
1

You can lead. Just don't control.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 10:43 PM
1

I love the image. If the goal is for everyone to achieve the same result, you need equity. But if the goal is to give top performers top marks, then we really need equality.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 10:12 PM
1

This isn't bizarre at all. This is standard female behavior. She wants a relationship without sex because she's already getting all the sex she wants.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 02:56 PM
3

You've made it clear what your interest is in her. You aren't going to orbit and hope that by doing her favors she'd grow to like you. I'd say you did the right thing.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 02:40 PM
1

I would expect more comfort tests and fewer shit tests. What was before a shit test might now be a comfort test.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 10:56 PM
1

I don't know what age group you're talking about.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:26 PM
1

I remember one girl from college. "We were married in God's eyes, so it was okay." They did go on to get married.
/r/MGTOW22/09/15 10:24 PM
13

That's like Butters from South Park: "What kind of a team is this anyway?". When Cartman tells him to "take one for the team" when they're in the hotel with the NAMBLA guys. Sounds like she wants to be on the "You get to do shit for me like all my other beta orbiters" team.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:22 PM
5

Her attempt to bend your rules was a shit test, and you passed with flying colors. You didn't get mad and you held frame. Yes, I think you're an asshole, but it doesn't matter. You're not here for validation about not-being-an-asshole, you're here to figure out if you did the right thing by holding firm. You did the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:18 PM
1

I'd talk to my kid and teach him to fight back, whatever the situation. Physical fights, emotional fights, whatever it takes. I'd train with him, teach him to fight back verbally as well as physically. I teach my daughter to be physically resilient. She falls down, she gets up, brushes herself off and moves on. When the emotional bullying starts, I think I can walk her through scenarios where she comes out ahead.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:45 PM
1

This is AWESOME.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:44 PM
1

You have oneitis. The disease where you focus on one person who is probably not worth all your attention. Masculine traits are attractive to feminine dykes, so if that's what you're going for, yes, TRP is a fucking gold mine for you. She wants to be lead. She wants you to make decisions. She wants to be told what to do.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:39 PM
2

No sex before marriage, and she's 30? I call bullshit.
/r/MGTOW22/09/15 08:03 PM
8

You can't do that, because then you'll have less stuff to give her when she divorces you. You misogynist pig, why are you trying to deprive her of her due?
/r/MGTOW22/09/15 08:03 PM
1

Great field report. Were you flawless? No. Does it matter? No.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 02:53 PM
3

So. Many. Fails. First off, you are reacting to stupid shit that your wife does. Reacting. This means that you are following her frame, her world view. You are elevating the stupid shit that she bitches about to the status of things worthy of thought or conversation. You are the one doing this, not her. Her: "Your mom hates me because <insert stupid shit here>" You: "No she doesn't." I'd say that there's definitely a problem in the relationship between your wife and your folks, but I'd say that …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 04:27 PM
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Couple of things that jump out at me. 1) She's fucking her boss. 2) She's a shitty person to you. The sex is great, I hope, but she's a shitty person. This isn't going to get better for you, and it's time to move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:45 PM
1

The first step is recognizing that you have a problem. I'd say your first mistake is trying to calm her down.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:47 PM
3

The whole point of writing down where every dollar went is that she may honestly not realize just how much she spends on crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:32 AM
3

"Honey, I've decided you're spending too much money on stupid crap, so I'm putting you on a budget." Deal with it now. Hold frame, don't budge, but the world changes now.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:31 AM
3

She wanted to play the victim card, but this was the very last guy who would pay attention to her. This is what MGTOW does.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 02:37 AM
4

Fair enough. For him to be removed, there has to be a better candidate, and getting an incumbent out of office is very very difficult when there isn't a credible change of the opposing party winning. Polis' district includes Boulder, CO as its primary population center. Boulder is never going to vote for a Republican, and it's hard to unseat an incumbent from within the party.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 04:27 PM
4

You can't fire an elected representative to congress.
/r/MensRights11/09/15 04:14 PM
2

There's dread, and there's setting-up-to-actually-cheat. If you order coffee and lightly flirt with the barista, and she laughs and responds well, that's dread game for your wife. She sees that other women (hot women) find you interesting enough to respond to you. If she 'puts you in the doghouse' for some stupid perceived slight, she might find you at the barista's house the next morning. But that's not to say that you actually would cheat, it's just to say that you have options. "Woman who put…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:09 PM
2

She actually felt more secure because I didn't give into her or enter her frame. The best part is it all happened in slow motion and it was no longer fake. It has been a long, ongoing process, but I am starting to make it. And this is the whole point of MRP. It's not about dominating your wife so that you are in control. It's about creating a happy marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 03:51 PM
6

This is a woman who is broken to the core. Don't take any greater lesson from it than this: this one woman is broken to the core.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:48 PM
3

You are negotiating a non-negotiable item. You are falling into her frame. You say you have "good sex" but you said that she only gives half-hearted blowjobs and is bad at them. Maybe you and I have a different understanding of the word "good".
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 01:43 AM
1

You have an entire sidebar to read. Welcome to MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 01:41 AM
3

She's not getting any younger. Her years of fertility are quickly disappearing. Yours, however, are not. So, a first step, before the nuclear option, is the dread game. It's great that you are lifting and in much better shape. It's good that things are getting better at home. But compared to where they should be? You're not even close. You need to take control of your family. You need to do it now. From your post, I don't really have a sense of where you are with shit tests, comfort test, mainta…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 01:39 AM
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Perfect. Her behavior is already the entitled wife, and you're not even living together. How bad is it going to get when she has her claws in you legally too.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:37 PM
7

We have a piece of advice to give you here. It starts with "n" and rhymes with "next". End this relationship immediately. Tell her "we need to talk". Meet at a public location and tell her "This isn't working out, I think we are just going in different directions." Let her cry and say whatever she will but hold firm on this. Make arrangements to move out of her place or make her move out of your place. Whatever it takes. But this relationship is over.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:16 PM
8

This appeared in my Facebook feed. My reply: Other things that are not causes of rape: the patriarchy mass media sporting events rape culture It's pretty much just rapists.
/r/MensRights10/09/15 08:58 PM
1

The key is that she wants to be lead. She wants you to direct her in her life. She wants to be part of a winning team. A woman counts her husband's accomplishments as her own. You can hear them gush about it all the time. And there's pride in their voices, more than even their own accomplishments. She has one kid, but she wants to be a stay at home mom. She wants more kids, and for it all to work, you have to be the strong man. For you, it's the work/home balance. Time at home is time spent with…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 06:23 PM
2

I don't feel that it is fair that I have to pay more and struggle How is living in a $3500/month house with most of your expenses paid "struggling"? You want to buy a car? Good for you. You can't afford a car. He can, but he's not buying you a car, and you can't afford it on your own.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:37 PM
2

25000+1800+2400 = 29000/year income. This comes to 2400+ a month. Take the $800/month for rent away, and she still has $1600 a month. I'm guessing that she doesn't have to spend any money on food, and he ALWAYS pays when they go out, which I'm guessing is quite often. So that's basically $1600/month on stupid crap. Drop another $200/month for rent going up, and she's at $1400/month. This is easily doable. But the big red flags are this: She's been dating this guy for 5 years, and he hasn't propo…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:33 PM
1

What's your goal here? To control your wife's behavior when she goes out shopping? Does it really matter, since you've said you're not worried about cheating. If you want to let her know that she's way off on her estimates, then when she returns, say "You said you would be gone an hour, you were gone 3 hours." Don't be mad about it. Don't really even be irritated about it, just state it as simple fact. If she says something, makes an excuse, blabbers on, gets defensive, whatever, just ignore it.…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 11:07 PM
14

The behavior patterns that got you into this mess will not get you out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 10:10 PM
58

If she was making the video for him it would have been, "Hey babe, I was JUST thinking about you. Want to see?"
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:09 PM
2

He's an orbiter. He lavishes her with attention, and since she's not going out to places where she's exposed to a lot of hot guys, it's enough for her.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:49 PM
0

She's making fun of herself, following the stereotype of white girls going to starbucks all the time. Probably wearing yoga pants and Uggs doing it too.
/r/MGTOW09/09/15 01:48 AM
6

All, the old false equivalence fallacy. Hilarious!
/r/MensRights09/09/15 01:36 AM
-1

This is HILARIOUS! "Great, I don't have time to go to Starbucks, and I'm a white girl, so this is a problem!"
/r/MGTOW09/09/15 01:19 AM
1

Absolutely not. You sit with him and take advantage of the father-son time to talk about important things. It's not even a punishment, really, just you handling the situation. You don't get mad at him, you don't have a power struggle with him, because you're the dad, and he's the son.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 01:13 AM
4

I came here to say this. You can't punish a 2-year old for being a 2-year old. Just pick him up and carry him around. Maybe go outside and talk to him. If he's really tired, he might go to sleep. If not, just walk around with him. Don't make a scene. There's nothing at all unusual about this situation. There's nothing here that warrants a MAN getting upset in the slightest. If your kid has just filled his diaper, and was starting to smell, you'd pick him up and take him to the bathroom and take …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 01:10 AM
1

Agree and Amplify. Her: "You only want to fuck me." You: "No. I want you to suck my dick too." Her: "I hate guys who only care about my looks." You: "Baby, I love you for your brains. I'm gonna fuck your brains out tonight."
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:02 AM
17

I like watching Netflix, but I often scroll around for a while looking for something that looks really good before I decide I really don't want to watch anything at all. I think that's how a lot of cute girls treat OKCupid. There are 46 channels on, but nothing really good. Or even if there's 5 good things, she can't decide, and so ends up watching nothing. Her post is just bragging.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 09:57 PM
1

If you're going to disallow sex before marriage, then you have to get married young, otherwise biological urges are going to override whatever laws and prohibitions are put in place.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:00 PM
5

By her own words, "I just put it in my pocket." So, it didn't get bumped there, it didn't fall there, nobody else put it there without her knowledge. This is petty theft, and there's not a lawyer who will take the case for less than one hundred times the penalty that she's facing when she's convicted.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/15 07:42 PM
5

Her attempts to play the victim, "You're pulling on ME!!!" are pussy pass attempts. Especially the overly-false-politeness attempts, "Oh, I'm so sorry, sir, I didn't mean to bump into you."
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/15 06:37 PM
9

As you might have heard the officers state, "In Colorado, you don't have to leave the store for it to be considered shoplifting." Legally, there's nothing shaky about it at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/15 06:34 PM
0

Stage 4 is depression. Stage 5 is acceptance.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 01:43 AM
11

Probably the biggest lie that TRP exposed is the objectification myth. Women make more decisions based on emotions, feelings, and the moment. They have words like "I had a gut feeling" or "It just felt right" or "My female intuition told me to do it." All of these boil down to one thing: The guy is hot. Pretty much everything that hot girls get done for them for nothing, really hot guys do too. A big difference is that for a guy to get hot usually requires a lot of hard work at the gym.
/r/MensRights07/09/15 04:45 PM
3

But you're here posting. The 5 stages of red pill are: Denial, Bargaining, Anger, Depression, Acceptance. Are you here in the depression stage? It will pass.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:42 PM
35

The hilarious part of all this is that there are SO many women, especially in the infinitely fuckable 19-22 range, that behave as they were told to, with subtle flirting, dropping vague hints, etc. They they go bitch that the guys they're interested in just aren't picking it up! They aren't picking up on it because they are legally obligated not to, by the university. Chad, on the other hand, picks up on it, fucks them hard, and they all come back begging for more. Assault is really clear. Reall…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:56 AM
2

You got a man? What'd your man gotta do wit' me?
/r/MensRights06/09/15 01:27 AM
7

The key to this post is "I'm shitty at [hitting on women at bars] and I don't really enjoy it." You have two choices: suck it up, and practice hitting on girls at bars until you DO get good at it, or find a different venue. Maybe you don't like hitting on girls at bars BECAUSE you're not good at it. So just do it until you succeed. Enjoy some rejection, read the sidebar, figure out what you're doing wrong, then get back in there and try it again.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 07:30 PM
7

A woman derives her value from attention and validation. "boring", "plain" Probably "plain" is the worst. There's nothing overly negative about it, but the worst thing for a woman is to be unworthy of attention, either positive OR negative. That fat hambeast on the bus with the purple hair, talking really loudly on the phone? At least she's not plain. She gets plenty of attention, even if a lot of it is negative.
/r/MGTOW05/09/15 06:28 PM
2

The focus is not on what to do today or tomorrow. It's on what goals you are going for. So, what is your goal for your relationship with your wife? What are your goals for your your relationships with your children? A daughter who is disrespectful to you, her father, at 12 will be pregnant at 16 with the first boy who dominates her. Is this what you want? You have to be a man who is commanding of her respect. Her: "Dad, you can't do blah blah blah because I don't want to blah blah blah." <obliga…
/r/askMRP04/09/15 09:27 PM
1

So, you're starting, standing up for yourself. It's not smooth and polished, but it's a start. Good for you. All the people saying that you're all 'butthurt' aren't in the same place you are. I wouldn't say you're butthurt. I'd say you're hurt. You reacted out of hurt and lashed out at her. She probably says shit like this all the time, putting you down in tiny little ways constantly, undermining you and all that you do. So your standing up for yourself is a GREAT thing. Yes, your son is one and…
/r/askMRP04/09/15 07:30 PM
26

She's an alpha widow. That one guy who gave her the 'gina tingles wouldn't commit. You would, so now she's with you. You married her, which might have been a mistake, but that's something you can't change, and getting a divorce doesn't undo the marriage. In many ways it makes it worse. So, first off, welcome to the married red pill. You're new here, and a lot of what you will learn by reading the sidebar will make you angry. It will make you furious. You'll deny it's true, then it will make you …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 07:16 PM
6

I think every single married man should read /r/marriedredpill. Every. Single. One. Let me write a long extended metaphor. In the game of chess, it's often difficult to determine who is ahead at any point in the game. You make a move and its consequences may not be felt for a long time. Sometimes its difficult to know if a particular move is good or bad, especially in the midgame. So, in marriage, men are given many different pieces of advice. Some are good, some are bad. It's difficult to know …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:44 PM
1

There was lots of research done in the 70's about gender formation. They gave Barbie dolls to little boys and tanks to little girls. The boys would throw all of Barbie's clothes away and use her legs and body to make a gun and shoot each other with these guns. The girls would take the tanks and have them gather around for tea parties. This was research from 40 years ago. These SJWs who claim to be so educated and cutting edge have probably not read any of the research are mindlessly repeating hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 07:30 PM
3

Why do you think the room full of men are paying attention to you?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:26 AM
3

That was VASTLY more courtesy and respect than she deserved. Good job, officers!
/r/PussyPassDenied02/09/15 02:51 AM
1

I face the same issues with being in the service industry. How do you provide great service, while still being dominant? The answer: always be the consummate professional. 1) Know what you're doing. You're a student right now, so the dominant thing is to be better at it than the other students. This means a lot of self-sacrifice and self-improvement. It means studying beyond just getting a good grade all the way to getting the best grade. 2) Value YOUR time. If you're working, you're getting pai…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 07:14 PM
2

Don't chat over text. Don't try to do anything with attraction through text. You can't fuck her via text messages, you can only give her validation and attention. If you give her validation and attention without sex, then she won't want to give you sex, since she's already getting attention and validation. Basically, you're asking the wrong question. Kinda like "How much should I pay for dinner on the first date for both of us?" You're focusing on all the wrong things here. Texting extensively i…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 07:14 AM
2

Girl Writes What has a lot of red pill insights. She's probably more anti-feminist than anything else. She's fed up with entitlement without responsibility. So, for instance, the topic of "who pays on a date" came up recently in several different places. Feminists are the first ones who actually require that the man pay, otherwise, "he's not a man". So, women get the entitlement of preferred job placement through a higher education system that rewards them directly (grants, loans and other progr…
/r/askMRP01/09/15 05:44 AM
1

What's your man got to do with me? "I got a man" I'm not tryin' to hear that, see.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 12:03 AM
2

Sounds like you did the right thing. 100% the right thing. This woman is crazy. Don't ever (EVER!) stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:43 PM
15

Bill Burr has a piece about transgender (male to female) 'athletes' who are mediocre 200th in the world before surgery and number one afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:52 PM
14

The high school I went to had a female swimmer who was a 4 time state champ and held individual state records in multiple events. She went on to go to an out of state school on a full ride athletic scholarship for swimming. She wouldn't have been good enough to make men's varsity at our school. JV would have been a struggle.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:49 PM
3

Focus and 3-dimensional modeling are masculine traits.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:40 PM
2

Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance. You're going to go through all of these phases. What you describe is the classical symptoms of stage 4: depression. I was at a bar for the first time in a very long time last night. There were lots of girls around. I didn't see any of them in the same light that I used to. There might have been some interest, for me, but not enough to actually make an effort. There were a couple of girls I cold-approached just to practice. I'm rusty, nothing hap…
/r/askMRP31/08/15 01:25 AM
1

I'm tracking every calorie. I can't always eat the foods I want to be eating, but I log every single gram of protein, fat, and carbohydrates. This has made all the difference. I step on the scale. It's trending down, but sometimes there's an uptick her or there. I don't worry about it because my diet is under control for the first time in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/15 08:50 AM
1

You were absolutely right to leave. What's it going to be next time? An hour? Bitch, respect my time. You'd only stay if you had no other options. A girl doesn't like a guy who has no other options. Do not call her. Do not text her. ...Unless you'd really like to have her as a friend. You know, she'll probably come around after you listen to her sad story about this great guy Chad who was a total asshole to her! Once he mistreats her like that she's sure to come running into your arms! /s
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:42 AM
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Behind every crazy woman is another crazy woman telling her that it's a man's fault.
/r/MGTOW30/08/15 03:46 AM
3

One way to hold frame in a situation like this is to imagine that she's a child who just asked you for gum or money for gum and you said "no". So, laugh it off. It's her pathetic attempt to get under your skin so that you'll give her money. You know it's coming. You know that she's going to poke and prod to get to you, because you've gotten to her. If you must respond, a simple, "Finances are taken care of for September."
/r/askMRP29/08/15 01:54 AM
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She said she was sick, but then asked if you wanted her to come over. So, in order to not sound like a 7th grade girl with your drama, how 'bout you answer "yes" if you want her to come over and "no" if you don't.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:47 PM
3

You are cruising down the highway at 65 mph heading to your destination. It's just up ahead. Do you pull over and change a tire? Maybe take a side road you've never been on? Steady as she goes cap'n.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:28 PM
1

Welcome to the married red pill. Her reaction is based ENTIRELY on her attraction to you. She's not attracted to you any more. You have two paths you can take for yourself, each comes with two paths that she can take in response. 1) Improve your sexual market value. Figure out how to make more money at work. Lift, lose body fat, improve your clothes, etc. She will either improve her attitude or not. If she does, congratulations on a more successful marriage, don't let up on your self-improvement…
/r/askMRP27/08/15 06:08 PM
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When she verbally assaults you, as you know she's going to, you maintain your own frame. Sit quietly, listening to everything she's saying. If you don't absolutely have to say something, don't. Empathize with her feelings but don't accept blame for her emotional state. Don't do some false bullshit like "I'm sorry that you are so butthurt, but I do what I want." I always picture in my mind some hambeast on the bus saying what I'd say. If it's ridiculous coming out of her mouth, it's ridiculous co…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:28 PM
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To maintain frame, treat her as you would any other young child. I taught 7th grade for a while. There was a quote I was given: "Arguing with 7th graders is like wrestling in the mud with pigs. You get really dirty and the pigs LOVE it." (1)Don't get into power struggles with your girl, but if you do, (2)you must win them. You've broken both rules here and fallen completely 100% into her frame. First off, it's ALWAYS easier for her to get sex than it is for you to get sex. So don't make idle dir…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:22 PM
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So, you have acknowledged the problem, and that is the first step. You fell into her frame. You started talking to her about something that you have emotions about, but haven't thought through logically, and you let is escalate to social fucking media. When she says, "by your definition, I should be considered a slut because of all the dick I had before we met", your reaction, after some silence and consideration, is what? I'd argue that the difference between 'nigger' and 'slut' is that you cho…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 08:35 PM
3

Doesn't matter if half of 'em are fat. That means the other half aren't fat. Guess which ones she's picking from.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:06 PM
1

In that case, it's probably better that she get half of what you currently own rather than half of what you are going to own. I was thinking about it this way: Let's say you own a $200,000 house, and it's paid for. She's going to get $100,000 from you, or you sell and get the proceeds, etc. So let's say you carefully save that $100,000 so that you can just pay her without having to deal with the house? Now she gets half the house AND $50,000 cash from you. If you're really fed up with her bullsh…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 05:02 PM
1

The message I'm getting from this is that she would like more from her life than what you're currently giving her. It sounds to me like she's the kind of woman who, if she was dating Christian Grey, would think "My life would be better if he owned a third helicopter" So, when she leaves, find someone who wants nothing more than a quiet life with you. There are lots of women who want a strong stable man. Protect your emotions, get good legal advice so she doesn't just take half of everything you …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 03:52 PM
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I wouldn't do anything. But I would go radio silent on her. Focus on different people for a while. If something develops in the future, great, but don't chase while she's trying to run away.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:05 PM
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You have to have Abundance Mentality and Outcome Independence. Is she the only woman in the universe? No, and if you treat her like she is, she's probably going to find it 'weird', and that's the beginning of the end, if not the end, of the relationship. So, you need to talk to other women than this one who you're texting with. What's the other message here? She has a lot of guys that she's texting with, and they don't give her a lot of attention either. Why? 'cause she's not that great. So, wha…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:49 PM
2

Something changed. She is not as into you as she once was. She just got out of the Navy, and you haven't served in a while. I'm guessing that she's just spent a lot of time around guys who are incredibly fit. Are you still that 100% hardbody? Maybe the time away romanticised her feelings for you, and the reality doesn't match up to what was in her mind. It's not good news, but it sounds like it's time to move on.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:37 PM
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You don't, dumbshit. But you have better things to do than babble on in some stupid text message. That doesn't mean she has anything better to do, though, so let 'er spew.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 11:21 PM
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She doesn't actually care shit about how you're doing. The correct response is "oh, hey. What's up?" or "What're you thinking about?"
/r/askTRP25/08/15 10:21 PM
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I agree 100%. I didn't have time to finish the post: (pick one response, in descending order of classiness) The best response is no response.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:04 AM
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1) Don't react at all. If she hasn't seen it, then how would she know? 2) If you do react, Agree and Amplify. "It's not so much that it's short, it's just that I'm really really tall in comparison." 3) Smash that insult right back at her: "It's probably not in the top 5 of the hundreds that you've had, but you still gag on it when you're blowing me."
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:24 PM
1

She's making you, the client, feel good about yourself. This is customer service 101. Don't think anything beyond it.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 12:17 PM
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If you like her body as it is, I'd say "hell no." She's not doing it for you, she's doing it so that she's attractive for someone other than you. Big "hell no". Aside from your career success, are you still keeping yourself in shape, following a steady Red Pill diet? Approaching? Flirting? Game still sharp? I ask all this because her getting new boobs is going to immediately say, "well, I've gotten a body upgrade, what kind of a relationship upgrade can I get with my new body?" If you're prepare…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/15 03:01 AM
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Got any real questions?
/r/askTRP23/08/15 03:23 AM
1

Don't get married. The things you like about her are things that get worse with time. The things you don't like about her don't get better with time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/15 03:04 AM
1

I shat all over the same post on my FB page. The whole "if you make a girl follow the rules, patriarchy".
/r/MensRights22/08/15 12:24 AM
1

While the value of your home barely outpaces inflation, what you do with it in the meantime can make all the difference in the world. 1) Live in it. Don't pay rent! Just pay property tax and upkeep/upgrades. 2) Rent it out! Pay property tax and upkeep (probably more) and get income from the renters.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 12:27 AM
1

silver hair = distinguished
/r/askTRP21/08/15 12:19 AM
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She's attacking you, and you are trying to see things from her point of view. It seems like you are validating her attacks. But her attacks aren't rooted in anything wrong with you, they are just her attacking you so that you'll relent on the strict budget. This is what we mean by maintaining frame. You hold fast on the budget and she shit tests you with a sideswipe about how you have narcissistic personality disorder. If you had kids, she might accuse you of being a pedophile. Your reaction is …
/r/askMRP20/08/15 10:54 PM
1

Approach dating the same way you did lifting and running: formulate a plan, and then execute that plan. You're frustrated right now because your plan is vague. You don't really have a good sense of exactly what needs to be done, and so you can't execute like you'd like.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:12 PM
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The first thing you need to change is your fucking attitude. I would go so far as to say that if you are here then you are at the lowest point in your sexual market value. First off, you need to finish the foundation on the mansion you're building. FINISH YOUR PhD! Your house is going to be bigger than others', but it's not done yet, and you are comparing your lawn to theirs, when you're still pouring the foundation. Make finishing your PhD your all-consuming passion, and read the red pill in yo…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:59 AM
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If there are other benefits to marriage, please list them here. I'd love to hear what you have to say.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:45 PM
1

If I wanted validation, my post would have been "Look how awesome my relationship is. Please comment in agreement!" And I certainly wouldn't have posted to TRP if I wanted validation. That's exactly what you did.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:30 PM
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"the last place I would have gone for it hahaha!" And that's why you are here. You aren't offering your own viewpoint; you are putting your alternate view out here seeking validation. Do you not understand the meaning of the word "validation"? We aren't having "an intelligent discussion." You are simply denying the truth of the situation. Benefits of marriage: Financially for you to take half his money plus ongoing support, sure. Financially for the tax breaks? Only if you don't have a career an…
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:04 PM
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She's into a different guy who didn't ask her to the dance. So she'll get commitment from you and you won't get sex from her. You are the dictionary definition of an orbiter here. "I'll get go hang out with her so maybe she'll change her mind." Are you going to hold her purse and go buy her tampons too? If you agree to go with her, then you are saying that you are worth less than her and she will never ever change that opinion of you. Ask someone else.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 03:54 PM
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You're not "extremely curious about your guys' opinions on the sort of relationship I have would be." You're looking for validation of the choices you've made. Hey, do what you want. I think it's a bad idea, but you do what you want. The cock carousel is a fun ride. You call him your fiance, which says you have plans to marry him. I think that this is one of the worst decisions he could possibly make. You can't have children, so the slim reason for marriage in the first place is gone. What does …
/r/askTRP19/08/15 09:33 AM
1

She doesn't want you to solve her problems. She just wants you to take her side. "That sucks, honey." "That sounds really hard." It's not about the nail
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:54 AM
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You're not in a relationship. You're just fucking your roommate. What happens if you fuck someone that you really click with better than your boyfriend[sic]? Do you tell your boyfriend that it's over? What if he fucks a girl that really does it for him a lot better than you do, and he decides that he wants to leave you for her? What happens when your biological clock goes off when you turn 30, and you decide you want kids? When you say 'evolved slowly over time' what time period are you talking …
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:00 AM
2

This is what we call the Dunning-Kruger effect. The subject, when presented with a topic they know nothing about, thinks that the topic is trivial and easily understood, therefore not worthy of further study. The less you know about something, the more you think you know about it.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 11:38 PM
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It's EXACTLY like a drug addict. I bet she gets that little serotonin release when she buys something.
/r/askMRP18/08/15 08:18 PM
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Steady as she goes, Captain. If she engages you on this issue, and you choose to respond, which I don't recommend, what are some things you can say? I don't have all the answers. Maybe, "Do you think we should have a specific budget, or should you be able to buy anything whenever you want to?" Steady as she goes, Captain.
/r/askMRP18/08/15 06:46 PM
1

Welcome to the married red pill. It's nice to have a clear path for what you need to do to improve things, isn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/15 03:22 PM
1

If you're 5'3", you're not playing the game on easy mode, to be sure. But different people have different challenges. Focus on your career in a way that doesn't limit you because of your height. There're lots of very successful short men. You're 24 and in good shape. Keep working towards your goals. Focus on making you into the best "you" you can be. I hate that blog post. The only "normal" guy on that show is Jim. Jim is tall, thin, successful with sales, and funny (a 1%'er if there ever was on…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:30 AM
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I think that the simple answer that she was looking for from ms. mgtow was, "MGTOW is a worldwide movement of men going their own way; men not focusing their lives towards marriage and supporting women. The courts have punished men for getting married too many times, and we're done with it." Or something similar. It's really important to explain your acronyms.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:15 AM
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You have to factor in air fare to Reno or wherever else it's legal. Since you're not getting the sex that you've "become accustomed to".
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:01 AM
1

So, step one is to improve your SMV. You can't do anything else until you do that. You can talk all you want, but unless she sees improvement in a massive way, it's over. You said, "... I tell her we are going to fix this, that I’m going to pull out of this funk, and leave work stress at work, and come home with a clear head, and..." Now make it happen. Don't talk about it, just make it happen. Your marriage might be a zombie: it's dead, but it just doesn't know it, and it's still walking around…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/15 03:02 AM
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You had an audition for the part of "beta orbiter" fortunately, you blew the audition. Now you have to see if you can get the part of "fuck buddy". It's all up to you.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 10:33 PM
1

She's looking for validation. She wants your attention. What do you get in return? A&A is good, but really you gotta keep this to three texts max. You're not looking for a pen pal here, you're looking to fuck the girl.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 10:00 PM
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We say AWALT: All Women Are Like This. So when a girl says "You'll find a girl who wants to be with you. You're so nice. (But it's not me!)" What she's really saying is that you should change to be more like all the guys she's banging on a regular basis through Tinder. 99% of all girls are turned on by the exact same things in guys. Sure it helps to be tall, fit and rich, but really they're attracted to a "I don't give a fuck" attitude. IDGAF. So, you meet some freshman hottie. You want to bang …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 08:08 PM
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Who is running this fucking shit show? You have the self-discipline. Your wife clearly doesn't. Why would you continue to let her have discretionary spending? You've had the talk. But she can't walk the walk. I don't know all the details of how you have accounts set up, but you need to have hard limits on what she can and can't spend. It's up to you, the captain of the ship, to set this up.
/r/askMRP17/08/15 03:00 PM
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If your SMV is higher than hers, then it's absolutely time to initiate dread. The simple start is to openly flirt with women (who are attracted to you!) in front of your wife. She needs to see that you have options. If you're hitting on girls who aren't attracted to you, this will not have the intended effect. If you're not finding that women are attracted to you, then you need to keep working on your SMV. It's important to not be too heavy handed about this. It's not about cheating, or setting …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 01:16 AM
1

So, the question is "what do you want from your partner?" You are complete in yourself, but you are married and have made a commitment to another person. So what do you want from her? Are you currently getting it? A big part of MRP is about sexual strategy for the married man. So, what do you want?
/r/askMRP16/08/15 11:13 PM
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I was not disagreeing with you at all.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:24 PM
2

The subtle qualification of 'good woman' is thrown in there. What exactly that means to you might not be what it means to Ayn Rand. From reading Atlas Shrugged, I'd say that a good woman cooks and cleans and in every way possible supports her man. This is not the current feminist definition of a good woman. Angela Merkel is not a 'good woman', but she is a very masculine good leader for her country.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:54 PM
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Talking about partner count brings up a really good point that someone in a different thread mentioned: If you've had sex twice a day for 10 years, but it's only been with a couple of guys, that suits me just fine. But if you've had sex twice with a different guy every day for the past 10 years, that's going to be a very big problem. Here's the thing: I'm no 'catch' physically. I'm working on it, but I recognize where I am right now. There's no fucking way I'm going to settle down with a hottie …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:49 PM
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This is hilarious. "I really want to find someone to settle down with" "Oh, no more Tinder. That's going to be hard." This hamster has three olympic gold medals.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:25 PM
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It's not even going to make the hamster break a sweat: Before the pregnancy, she's just fooling around. Her main man isn't as hot as Chad, but she doesn't want to have to move away from free rent. Then she gets pregnant. Now she's the victim. She has to think of not just her needs, but also the needs of the child (with that hot hunk Chad!). So her fooling her paycheck boyfriend is just her looking out for her child. How selfless of her! After the baby comes, she gets to keep the "get out of rela…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:56 PM
1

I don't want to discourage a newbie from trying, and for some people, they need to write about what they're going through in order to process it. If someone repeatedly posts crap that isn't helping him or anyone else, then you can do various mod things if need be, but I'd think the upvote/downvote button would do most of the work there.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 06:38 PM
2

Those were crappy posts. I don't think I read more than one of them. I ignored the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 06:37 PM
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I have no problems with the upvote/downvote button being used to discourage crap directly. I don't think this is an issue that's worth a mod post. Clearly you do. I don't think it's my personal responsibility to answer every post here. It's reddit, not a technical support job.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 06:36 PM
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1 post a day and I'm not stepping up to the plate to contribute? I don't think you and I see the world in the same way.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 04:54 PM
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I think this is a horrible idea. Different men are in different stages of unplugging and all can get better. For you it might mean learning what frame is. It might be holding frame. It might be learning what it means to be the captain of your ship. It might be getting some suggestions on how to handle the ship through uncommonly rough waters. A post that doesn't interest you takes just a moment to ignore. There are 3,335,000 redditors. 5000 subscribers is fewer than 1 in 600. We aren't reaching …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 03:43 PM
2

She's clearly taking your leadership in all things, including her behavior. You didn't tell her what to do when you went upstairs, you showed her the effect of her behavior. This is a great leadership move. She can then see that she needs to go apologize, etc. You've lead her to good behavior, which is vastly better than telling her. Nice job.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 05:19 PM
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This isn't the first time I've seen this video, but it's the first time I've seen it all the way through. I thought the exchange at the end was funny: "You've both worked very hard, you both get paid the same." The woman just repeated the same point over and over again. Her response to all of his information was a simple "I don't think that's true." and then she would repeat what she had said before, or try to say that it's a social problem that women like to do things other than just work work …
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 02:41 AM
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I think the MRP is a mid life crisis. Some guys buy a Porsche and start banging their secretary. Guys here lift, get in shape, and start banging their wives. Which do you think is the better outcome?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 12:27 AM
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Oh my god. I didn't realize that you hadn't read ANY of the sidebar. out out out. Don't post here any more. Go read the sidebar. There's so much you need to learn. Texting back and forth a whole bunch means you're willing to give her all the validation that she wants and get nothing in return. You are the bluest of blue pills. You need to learn when to keep your mouth shut so she can develop some mystery about you in her mind. "Ooooo, there's this hot guy who I'm going to see tomorrow, let me dw…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 09:08 PM
4

This is so unconstitutional. You can't force someone to get married.
/r/MensRights08/08/15 06:36 PM
3

The sidebar material is really important. It takes a long time to really have it sink in and become who you are. A couple of weeks isn't enough time. But for you, the first step here is abundance mentality. She has it, you don't. She wants sex. You want sex. But she knows there's 100 guys lined up around the block to get sex with her, so she's looking for the absolute best she can get right now. You look around, and there's not 100 girls beating down your door. So you focus on her. This IMMEDIAT…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 06:21 PM
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How long have you been here? It sounds like you're just starting on your journey and need to read a lot. The sidebar is important.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:20 PM
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You're not hot enough for her. If you're hot, then being a dick gets her wet. If you're not, it dries her up. You say she "kept saying no". That tells me that you are NOT applying RP. You don't have abundance mentality. Especially with Tinder, don't get oneitis.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:16 PM
1

"All she said was that it was itchy to shave it." This is just a shit test. You need to swat that away and get what you want. "How 'bout a trim or a wax?" I'd say that by your own admissions, you're not where you want to be, and so you're not the alpha that she wants to do everything to please. Since you're not, your hints are taken more as begging than as you telling her what to do. I don't think I'm telling you anything you don't already know. If you were happy with yourself and had re-establi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 07:38 AM
5

If you're talking to generate interest, great. If you're talking to remove mystery, stop.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 07:05 PM
5

In the time it took you to post this, you could have just answered the question.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 03:41 PM
2

Everyone else there knew what they were doing and seemed competent.
/r/MensRights07/08/15 03:38 PM
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Arnold and those other bodybuilders have no problems pulling tail. I imagine there's plenty of 21 year old with daddy issues who would love the validation of sex with someone they think is famous.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:19 PM
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