I'm not a virgin and I pack an above average size, but I've found that I have a lot of trouble in bed thanks to erectile dysfunction. I've tried using pills, but they don't have any impact on me. ED has caused bad effects for both me and partners; some girls think I'm not attracted at all to them and that's what causes it, and they get upset or bitchy. Others think my flaccid length is my full length and get disappointed. Obviously, this hurts my confidence either way. My doctor's told me that it's likely rooted in performance anxiety and is more of a mental than physical issue. However, I have no idea how exactly to be more confident. I can usually get an erection easily, but I can't maintain it for very long at all, even with pills. Sometimes I'm totally ready to go, but it's always the thought that I'll lose the erection that makes me lose it. Other times I just can't get hard at all. Definitely not good. I can't find any tips or tricks online that aren't your stereotypical penis enlargement scams, and while my doctor's helpful, he's not a psychiatrist, and can't give me much more than a pill and a pat on the back. That brings me to my question. Do any of you suffer from ED, whether it's rooted physically or mentally? How do you control it and regularly satisfy women despite it?