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| 10 | Why do I seem to stress over losing a plate?It's just human nature man - people want to be liked. The more success you have, the less you'll care. It's the same thing as being at the bar and having a hot girl want your buddy more than you. It happens to everyone - not supposed to feel good, but you just learn to say fuck it. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 04:45 PM |
| 12 | Literally all of them have boyfriendsIt means you're a sensitive pussy who takes to an internet forum for constructive criticism then gets overly defensive when he doesn't like the answers he's being given. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 01:52 PM |
| 12 | Literally all of them have boyfriendsWell you're evidently still incredibly thin-skinned so maybe that's where you can focus your energy. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 01:43 PM |
| 13 | How do you meditate?I use the headspace app - it's an easy way to get started if you're new. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Literally all of them have boyfriendsIf TRP teaches you anything it should be that if your SMV is high enough, it wouldn't matter if they had a boyfriend or not. Your SMV either isn't as high as you think it is, or you have no game. Ways to improve both are in the side bar. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 01:12 PM |
| 6 | less attractive women complaining about men"The more someone talks about money, the less likely it is they have any." Same thing applies here. Less attractive women are talking about men in a public social forum as a means of saying "Hey! Look at me! Men talk to me too! I'm not just a fat whale!" It's self-validating for other eyeballs. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Plate shut down sexual advanceThe reason it's called 'spinning plates' is because some of them fall off and break - you need to be willing and able to pick up new ones and start spinning more. If this girls wants your attention without the sex, you withdraw completely and find someone else. Day 1 shit. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Early 30s, dealing with feelings of unfulfilled potential?No matter how successful you are, there are ways to make yourself feel inadequate by comparing your situation to that of others. The sad reality is that there is a caste system in this country, and the vast majority of us weren't born into the right one. The only way to truly get over these feelings is to be working towards a goal that only you want to achieve. This is your mission. You probably still feel inadequate because the career that you're pursuing is what you're supposed to do not what … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Followup: how can you tell when an average girl-next-door is a secret slut? What clues?At the end of the day you really can't. There are some red flags you can look for (attention seeking behavior, daddy issues, etc) but usually these girls will identify themselves immediately and you don't see them as "the girl next door type." If you go prying, you'll come off as desperate and turn her off - so you can't do that either. This is why we just say to plate a girl until she proves to you over a long enough period of time that she acts trustworthy and doesn't display glaring red flags… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 12:16 PM |
| 10 | Rough sex starts to become predictable need some spiceI chuckle a little bit when I read these.. no offense. You young cats think that balls-to-the-wall jackhammer is the only way to fuck a girl or she'll leave you for someone that can. The reason we stress rough sex here is because you want her to know you're capable of it - even make it the norm from you if that's your style. That doesn't mean, however, that you have to just go harder and faster until you're boxing her vaj like it's Mike Tyson's punch out. Here's a good one for you - you want to … | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Facebook-gameThere is no such thing as Facebook game. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Finding a barber?Look for a place with an Italian name and guys working there that look like they were born in the 1920s. Bonus points for accents. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:54 AM |
| 98 | You Will Never Get Permission To SucceedI like your message, but this reads like a motivational quote on the wall and does fuck-all for providing any real world, tangible application. Here's something tangible from many years in business: People will try to keep you in positions you're currently in because you're more valuable to them there. I'm a sales person and when I told my sales rep about 5 years ago that I wanted to sell, he gave me the old "but you're so good at client services - you really have a future managing that team" bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/17 12:42 AM |
| 23 | The Anger Phase Should Be a Short Pit Stop, Not a Two Year VacationIt depends. The only way to kill the anger phase is with success. For someone who only needs to make a few tweaks it should be a short pit stop. For those raised in childhood-obesity-supporting households with little to no social skills, it will be much longer. I think your post should moreso be titled "don't make the anger phase any longer than it has to be." And the way to guarantee that is to work as hard as possible on success, quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | You Have More In Common With Feminism Than You ThinkYou took the word loser in a vacuum... that's not at all what I said. Losing a pick up basketball game doesn't make you a beta loser - it simply means you aren't playing basketball as well as your opponents. That's what I'm talking about here with the "game" of sexual success. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 03:25 AM |
| 11 | You Have More In Common With Feminism Than You ThinkI am not calling the readers of TRP losers - I'm pointing out that their dissatisfaction with their own results likely drove them here in the first place and to subscribe and learn. So while they're (we're) not "losers" in the literal sense, our lack of initial results comparatively is what drove us to seek a better strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 06:38 PM |
| 13 | What do we do with our daughters as they become adults?Build an unbreakable bond with her. At the end of the day, your daughter is going to experiment sexually (as all human beings do). There's no way around it. My experience is that the girls who go way overboard sexually at a young age and later in life all had some sort of daddy issues - whether it be that you were the wall st exec who wasn't around or the overbearing disciplinarian. Just make sure she knows you love her and support her no matter what - don't freak out when she starts to date boy… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever wonder if trp has made you too cynical about everything?this piece of writing from u/redpillbanana is an all time great on cynicism. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | 18 y/o afraid to go college away from homeI try to live by the motto "the less you want to do something, the more you probably should." Sounds like the case here | /r/askTRP | 14/04/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl with a boyfriend (who I know) is giving me signsEvery time this is posted, it's the OP looking for encouragement to do something shitty. You already know you're going to so just do it. Does it make you a shitty person? Ya, kind of. Don't wait for a pat on the ass from internet strangers. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How can start fishing?Since only homeless people fish off the bridges, I'd say stop in your local bait n tackle shop and ask them verbatim what you just said. Typically the owners are enthusiasts who are eager to get more people into fishing (literally a lifetime of business for them). They may offer to take you or hook you up with some friends who would be willing to let you tag along. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Feeling guilty about plate spinning, thoughts?There are two schools of thought here. The moral high ground is to tell her up front that you're not interested in a relationship with her at any point; if she sticks around it's on her. The second school of thought is to not give her any indication of what you're looking for or not - but to just keep fucking her and withhold your commitment. Essentially - you're letting her think that she's proving herself and there may be a chance for a relationship down the road even when there very well may … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Making friends without alcohol.The true driver of male friendships is shared experience over time. This is why people form the strongest bonds when growing up, in college, in the military, etc. Now that you're older, just playing ball with someone once a week isn't going to get you past the acquaintance stage unless you play on the same team with the same guys for years. To form the type of friendships you want, you have to share a profound experience. I would recommend looking into something like Remote Year, or backpacking … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 12:02 AM |
| 15 | my 'main' plate & i got caught fucking by her bf"If your bitch in my shit, it's your bitch you check nigga" - Dr. Dre | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Not drinking at partiesThis. It's an unfortunate fact, but alcohol has become an integral part of life in America. Typically people who do not drink at all do so for a reason - they cannot control themselves. Otherwise they'd nurse a beer or two throughout the night - the ~120 calories isn't going to give you love handles. I wish I could tell you this gets better with age, but unfortunately it doesn't until you're over 40. In the business world, hearing that someone doesn't drink immediately elicits suspicion from eve… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 08:21 PM |
| 3 | What are the best cities in the USA for men?I find the girls in Chicago to be hot and have that Midwest genuine vibe for the most part. They're also not all out for a Wall St banker which is nice. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm outta here: Asia done and done wellWait, you're telling me that the girl who made this OK Cupid profile isn't a perfect virgin? Sorry to OP but you're a joke. Did you not internalize anything?? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedI can't find the link but there was an old RP post or something from Tomassi along the lines of "Let a girl figure out why she won't fuck you - never do it for her." Assume attraction - your surprise is your downfall. EDIT: Wow. I'm getting old. It's Iron Rule #8 | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Money Will Make You HappyMost accurate response. Success buys time and freedom but if your life is empty from things like friendship and hobbies and activities you won't be happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Job offer60k is a lot less money than you think it is. You should have said something like "I saw 60 was your max but I was looking for 80." | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I too late for yep?In a way you're at an advantage. You're starting from nothing. Late 30s/early 40s women who would sleep with you if you were rich and successful at your age would be looking at you as the beta bux. But now? Any woman who agrees to sleep with you knows that you're starting from nothing again and is in it for you. That's a GOOD thing. Those women won't bite? Go younger. As long as you keep yourself in shape and well groomed you should be fine - if you're having trouble, work on improving your fitn… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Girls Using Boyfriends to Raise SMV?Girls use boyfriends for validation and emotional (of financial) support. It's the classic example of having your cake and eating it too. Boyfriends are the cake they have - they still want to eat alpha cake too. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Having trouble with the "game" aspect of TRPTo me, Game = frame + excitement + logistics | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 06:59 PM |
| 2 | [Part 2 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass ThemI would love a follow up on these for the nagging plate/wife/girlfriend who won't take the brush-off answer. Whether it's who you were texting or how many people you've slept with - some women just will not let it go - what's your response here? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 11:22 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when you get multiple IOIs from a chick but she keeps mentioning her bf?Typically it's a shit test. She is basically saying "I'm attracted to you; don't make a move because I'm weak and don't trust myself." At that point it's your choice - if you want to go for it anyways just disregard completely and continue on. If you're not into fucking chicks with boyfriends then let it go. Saves yourself time too. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What is the most compelling evidence or argument AGAINST the red pill "theories"?In their cases, if they're content, ignorance is bliss. My point is simply that this will be a major source of disproving TRP - the "oh we've been happily married for 30 years" from two socially inept, unattractive people who happened to link up decades ago. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 02:53 AM |
| 10 | What is the most compelling evidence or argument AGAINST the red pill "theories"?The strongest argument I can think of would come from two relatively unattractive people with lack of better options. I would say most of the guys on TRP want to be in the top 20% or already are - and the women we talk about getting with are top 20% as well. There are plenty of "happily married couples" who will preach your ear off about how true love is possible but in reality most of them are just unattractive or overweight people who have unknowingly accepted settling. Others may point to rel… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Will Caucasians still have the highest SMV in the coming years?I'll just leave this here | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Will Caucasians still have the highest SMV in the coming years?EDIT: I didn't realize I was hitting a nerve here. What's the revelation gents? Seriously? I gave the highest SMV award to swaggy black dudes, but I'd gladly take applicants from the europeon soccer crowd? The NHL crowd? Get the fuck outta here thinking that because you grew up white and priveleged that your SMV is top - it's not. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Can men become more Machiavellian then women?Their entire existence on this planet has been them not being in power trying to figure out how to get it.... | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Will Caucasians still have the highest SMV in the coming years?Caucasians have the highest Market Value period - DO NOT let that fool you into thinking SMV is the same. You already don't have the most. I'd say swaggy jacked black dudes have the most - they're the guys that your girlfriend is having a casual fuck with then running back to you to date. Societal market value and sexual market value are totally different. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Can men become more Machiavellian then women?dude, second post in 20 minutes about Machiavellianism - you clearly were scorned or have something on your mind... ask it and be done with it. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with sjws everywhere/u/gaylubeoil has a prodigy I see | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:39 AM |
| 1 | time to get serious?Throw your computer and your video game system in the garbage and make yourself to go your university library or public library to do work/browse the internet. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:33 AM |
| 6 | How do you respond to a girl asking if you have feelings for her?Agree with sidebar, but also think telling someone to "check the wiki" is basically telling them to fuck off. I don't have anything memorized but I'd make it about the tangible moment and nothing existential. Example: "I love spending time with you" over "I love you." Other dudes here will tell you to say something like "my dick has feelings for you" or "I love fucking you" but once you're out of college, no self-respecting woman is going to let that fly. If they asked me straight up I'd probabl… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Are women more intelligent then men?No, the rules are just laid out more plainly for women: use your pussy to get what you want. They don't have 100+ years of brainwashing telling them to do otherwise like men have. If you were born and your sole duty was to become the manliest man you could be, you'd do pretty fucking well with women. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Post-30 women with snapchat.Probably about the same amount of implications as a mid-20s guy figuring out sexual strategy taking to an online forum of complete strangers to ask if it means anything. In all seriousness though, I know where you're at exactly in your journey. You feel like you've got the answers and now you're overanalyzing every move that every woman in your life makes. Who gives a shit man? Snapchat is pretty fucking big - maybe you can be the guy she's sending nudes to (in all seriousness though, that's a t… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Approaching someone with companyI usually just make a joke out of it and address it head on. "Hey I was waiting for (her, these two, the group, etc) to leave you alone so I could come hit on you but apparently you're attached at the hip so I guess they'll I'll have to run the gauntlet." Keep eye contact with the one you're after, but don't waiver or show any intimidation from the friend or group. Make light banter with them and hold frame - they'll sense the lack of intimidation and like you for it. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Stop Hiding Behind Law 38. It's Your Default Setting.You know, I was actually looking for your reply because I have a tremendous amount of respect for the fact that you're one of the few public Red Pill personalities. I have no clue what a spergie is - but to me, you should hate this post more than everyone in here agreeing with it. Invite the poster and everyone saying the vehemently agree on your next youtube cast to discuss Red Pill issues - I'd be genuinely curious how many show up. I know I wouldn't. Why? Because, while I respect your ability… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/16 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Stop Hiding Behind Law 38. It's Your Default Setting.I can't tell if I agree or disagree with you here. I agree with the fact that you should stick to your guns and not use Law 38 as an excuse to never be vocal about opinions of your own - however I do think the examples used are perfect grounds for its use. We all agree that not talking about TRP is a valid use of the law - why? Because doing so would be self-crucifixion in many social or business settings. I actually do feel the same is true with vocally supporting Trump, depending on your occup… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/16 01:33 AM |
| 11 | Nicole Kidman Reminds Jimmy Fallon He Didn’t Ask Her Out … Twice! ‘You Were So Not Interested’Realizing this made me cringe so much when I first started reading TRP. I just had crippling approach anxiety (if you can even call it that when you already know the girl). Plenty of women put themselves in a position for me to grab my sack and ask them out and I just didn't do it... puke. The advantage is that once you realize it and are comfortable doing it - you're now in a spot that only about 25% of guys play in - the no shame game. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/16 08:24 PM |
| 8 | TRP truths destroyed the concept of love for me, I have yet to recover after 4 years, how to cure this empty feelingYou sound like something is missing from your life - a mission. Learning that women are incapable of love in the movie sense carries with it a heavier truth - that you thought getting this kind of love would make you satisfied and complete when it never will. You need to find a passion - start a business, help sick people, essentially you need to find your reason for living and commit to it. Simply stopping video games and lifting and dressing better aren't the final form. The best advice I ever… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Criteria for a mother/LTR?I'm just copying the replies I've used before but: Strong family relationships (no daddy issues - this is #1). Demonstrated patterns of desirable behavior (leaves parties to hang with you, doesn't get really drunk, prioritizes you over friends/family, etc). Contributes something to society other than looking good. This could be career-oriented, volunteer work, hobbies, etc. Just avoid like the plague the upper-middle class white girls who are in a race to pop out a kid and become a house wife (n… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Any red-pilled TV shows to watch?Shocking no one has posted this yet: Suits. It has gotten shitty over the past few seasons, but the first 2 or three are awesome and Harvey Specter (played by Gabriel Macht) is one of the most red-pilled characters I've ever seen on camera. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Any red-pilled TV shows to watch?Al Harris ... what a damn shame. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Guys in LTR with classy women that don't drink (much) or party, where did you find them?In my office building. EDIT: not a coworker - different company. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Going back to college at 23, what are good business related fields/degrees?Just so you know - I've hired people between the ages of 22 and 32 for quite a while now and I think you'll be at a HUGE advantage when applying for jobs. You'll be more mature, you've already dealt with setbacks and have shown resilience, you're old enough to know that it's a tough world out there and to not take opportunity for granted. Obviously don't mention the video games and procrastination, but say something like "I had medical problems that required full time attention" or "college woul… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 03:41 AM |
| 5 | LTR tacticsOn your flight home I suggest you download the parachute app, open the exit door and test it. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Anybody see the perspective that see, or am I wrong?Can't tell if you're a troll or not but here's a bit of advice either way. It's always better to beg forgiveness than to seek permission. In other words - just man up and post then prepare to get downvoted and shamed to oblivion or people will agree with you, validating your thoughts. But to come here and ask if you should post is bitch shit. P.S. based on the vocab you used above (and I'm college educated) - I have no fucking clue what your post would be about.. might want to dumb down the rhet… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm still a boy.Great advice. I have a personal motto: "the less you want to do something, the more you should probably do it." Do the things your gut makes you feel the MOST uncomfortable about. Go skydiving. Join a muay thai gym. Join a flag football team even if you've never caught a pass in your life. The only way to be someone you've never been is to do things you've never done before. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 03:20 AM |
| 0 | Butt stuff.You know why guys obsess over anal sex? It ain't cause it smells good - it's psychological. If a girl lets you fuck her in the ass, you feel good - like a notch on your belt. You've always got the trump card. I imagine it's the same for women. I wouldn't ever let one do it. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How must I enter monk mode?Read each of the posts listed in this thread individually. Many newcomers forget this exists; they are all written by /u/redpillschool and were focused exactly on this - where to begin. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Turning an interested girl into a plate and not an LTRYou have two options. Option 1: Tell them up front that you're not looking for anything beyond a casual hookup at the moment - maybe you're open to seeing where it goes months down the road but no promises. If they stick around, that's their own choice. Option 2: Depending on how Machiavellian you are - just let them think you're interested in a relationship and keep fucking them but don't ever offer any commitment. They'll get the point eventually and walk. This will burn your bridge, but who c… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 03:43 AM |
| 3 | a reminder about the first ruleLaw 38 - Think As You Like But Behave Like Others. Couldn't be more relevant to Red Pill Ideology. Tow the party line in public - talk about TRP on TRP forums or with trusted friends only. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Fat and stupid are close kin.With all do respect - no, that's not true. Ketogenic diets recommend 1-1.5grams of protein/lb of body weight - that's a LOT of protein. More than people eat when not dieting. You're right that it may not be the best diet for people looking to bulk, but the science behind keto is that when you stop eating carbs, it forces your body to burn fat for fuel. It has nothing to do with protein and actually you need to increase it or it will burn muscle as fuel as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Fat and stupid are close kin.Fashion is nothing without Fitness. It's the reason every model and mannequin are the ideal body type - it's also the reason no guys approach a fat woman with a Burberry jacket and a Chanel bag. You're wasting money on fashion if you're still 40+lbs overweight. As actionable advice, I'd recommend you get by with the necessities and shop at fast-fashion places (H&M, etc) until you're in shape enough to spring for nice clothes. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Fat and stupid are close kin.Sorry but no - Ketogenic diets are lower in CARBOHYDRATES (less than ~50g/day to start, then less than 20g/day). You need to eat more protein to compensate and not lose muscle mass. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm losing my ability to pair bond.How old are you? I was like you but later in my 20s (I'm 29 now) you just get sick of spinning plates sometimes and lock up a good one while you keep improving yourself. Relationships can be really fulfilling and fun as long as you set the right expectations for yourself - that they will inevitably end and when they do, it will be for the same reasons they always do. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Need a bit of guidance in handling motherWhy is moving out a no go? Because you're not financially independent ant your current lifestyle comfort is more important to you than making actual sacrifices to gain independence? Do you have a night job? With all do respect, it sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it too. "my mom is overpowering and I can't deal, except that I need to live with them because I'm poor and too proud to work a blue collar job to gain financial independence." You're going to have to make a decision at so… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 12:17 AM |
| 2 | party with girl tomorrowBe friendly and say hello - then pay her as little attention as possible. Look like you're having a great time and try to really engage other women. Not necessarily hit on all of them or overdo it, but act like you're having a really engaging conversation with one. DO NOT act butthurt or do a "hey can I talk to you for a minute." Just be aloof, be the life of the party, be polite, and act like you're completely over her. Then bang her. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Food for thought: This is your kingdom.AstTRP is not a practice field for posting in TRP - it's for questions. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Do you see the 1-10 ranking system like this?Ahoy Matey! Let me introduce you to the search bARRRRRR | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Chart of Male-Female Suicide RatesTo be fair, in Russia or former Soviet nations - men are enemies and it's very easy to make a political murder look like a suicide when you control the police. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 03:17 AM |
| 1 | VulnerabilityIt sounds like you actually still give a fuck, you're just pretending you don't. You learn to need to completely let go. They don't like you? Fuck them. Girlfriend leaves you? Other fish in the sea. Only when you TRULY adopt abundance mentality and learn to completely not give a flying fuck will you be free. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | How is Donald Trump better than Hillary Clinton for America and for a mans perspective ?He's a complete asshat but here's my two cents: Modern feminism has turned every woman into a victim. In their minds, they're under constant persecution from males in all aspects of life. It's victim mentality 101 - you repeat shit to yourself so much that you start to believe it. Her being elected is the icing on the cake. It's the feminist rallying cry. It vindicates the movement - which was a fucking bullshit movement to begin with. Feminism is a power grab by a sect of society who realizes t… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Girl didn't respond to text. Any chance here?Probably not a chance with this one, but a valuable learning experience. Learn to tell when you text, not to ask. Instead of saying "when are you free?" or "what day works?" say something like "Let's grab a drink Tuesday at X" She'll either say yes or tell you she's not free and if she's interested she'll tell you when she is, if she isn't she'll be vague and then you've already learned to cut your losses and move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Disrespect from a woman?Absolutely don't do what you thought you should do - that's getting defensive and it shows weakness. You need to learn amused mastery - read the side bar. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Is Everything a Fucking Shit test?Yes, everything's a shit test. And they're all easily passable by either agree & amplify/amused mastery or by holding frame. It's that simple. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Possible Beta/incel who stumbled here and wants to change but also understand things.If you don't mind me asking - where did you learn the lingo? You've stated you're new here but used the following terms in your post: alpha/beta, incel, dark triad, Chad, etc. To me it seems like you've either been lurking for a long time before finally posting, or you've been wallowing away in the sorry depths of the internet (read: 4chan userboards). Which is it? No disrespect, but people who are "new here" usually say something like "my wife proposed letting me watch her fuck an ex boyfriend … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 01:59 AM |
| 4 | After TRP were you ever able to find a 'good' LTR again?Exact same boat | /r/askTRP | 17/10/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | On bars and clubs..You sound like your biggest problem is that you over analyze everything and seem to care way more about how your actions make you look instead of how they make you feel. Constantly Seeking external approval bleeds through into how you act and how others see you. Stop giving a fuck about what other people think. Want to go to the bar alone? Do it. Don't? That's fine too. Do what makes YOU happy - not what you think makes you come off as cool to the opposite sex. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/16 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Is there a distinct rule about 'no hookers' within the Red Pill school of thought? Does it qualify as a blue pill behaviour?I, for one, am A-OK with hookers | /r/askTRP | 16/10/16 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Me [31 M] with my Girlfriend [25 F] 10 mo, we are looking at apartments together, but today she was looking for herselfThe fact that you were discussing puppies and marriage and were considering living together after 10 months shows you why she's over it. You went head over heels all in and became her little beta bitch boy lover. 3 year MINIMUM to date someone before ever living with them. Break up, start self improvement journey, build back abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 4 | You don't need to be a 1% man to just get laid."Sex is like air - it's not important until you're not getting any." | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that after 25 men lose their sex drive/testosterone?I'm 29 and shoot test shots in my own ass once per week | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Can I get some feedback on three mink FR from the past two weeks?If the way your'e explaining things is indicative of how you're acting in person, the problem is clear - you're overthinking shit. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 07:22 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a Tech career as an Alpha Male.OK I'll bite - first of all, your tone is a bit worrying. "they're all feminine greek culture" - you're either super fucking insecure or socially inept - either way pay it no mind. You are in the perfect place. You're the talent. Your job isn't to identify how childish or prudish all of your other coworkers are - your job is to exploit what you know about human nature to put yourself in the best possible position. Stop thinking about testosterone. Stop thinking about previous education. Stop thi… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Should I wait till I get ripped, to practise game?You're making excuses. I've been various body fat %s my whole life and am probably standing at about 20% now - have a hot ass girlfriend and an unbreakable frame and chicks look at me like they'd sail from egypt for me. Frame is more important than all. Lose the weight while you can... If you're scared to talk to chicks now, you'll be scared to talk to chicks when you're skinny. No excuses - approach now. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Losing height from sitting down too much what can I do?Bra you aint "the short guy". I thank god every day that they blessed me with average height - 5'9" - just so I'm not the short dude in every circle. You need to get over this shit in your own head; I have a buddy whos a few inches shorter than me who cleans the fuck up with model type chicks... it's all about social circle. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:55 AM |
| 3 | How passionate are you during sex with your plates?If they're in your head enough so that you post this, you're probably not that good. Just go to town - take liberties you otherwise wouldn't. Sex should be fun - give her a little bend over and eat her out for a bit and finger bang her till you're sure how hard she likes it. The more you over-think it, the worse you'll be in bed | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:50 AM |
| 5 | Why do you find the white girl more physically attractiveHaha it's you again?! You're my favorite poster. I think you're smokin - either let me fuck your mouth or get the f outta here | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle this wellYou, in trying not to care too much, are showing you care too much | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not like drugs?"I don't notice people on it," and "when I whip some out in front of them, they're extremely put off by it" are two totally different things though. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do women not like drugs?I don't know where you're finding your chicks man. When I was in college every hot girl did coke. Now, girls that frequent bars or clubs all do that shit too. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 05:45 PM |
| 2 | The 30 somethings of tomorrow: Bachelor friendly and a lot wilder, think I see a big party coming!You're overlooking one fact - Feminism is fighting tooth and nail to prevent this from happening. That's why, as an older single man, you're constantly shamed with "why aren't you married?", "Isn't it time to settle down," and "he's the creepy older guy." As long as your value is high enough (successful, in shape, attractive, and dare I say humble) you should be fine. Don't, however, overlook the fact that the end game of feminism is to essentially make this lifestyle (the older male in control … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 11:33 AM |
| 7 | On ChinaI want to hear more about Seoul - where it seems like girls are over-westernized but being an American could still give you an advantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 10:56 AM |
| 10 | BBC Fires Guy for Being a White Man - Why Men LoseSerious question - as a young white male with a lot of life left to live, where do you go? It's increasingly likely that the USA will not be a favorable place to live in 50 years - I'm curious where, with the resources to relocate, you'd recommend a white male goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 12:01 PM |
| 2 | What are the most red pill movies?99.9% of RomComs follow the same plot structure: Blue Pill guy falls for beautiful woman who is banging RP guy who treats her like shit - woman "has an epiphany" and falls hopelessly in love with BP guy. Except divorce rates and cheating rates tell us that statistically this has about the same chance of happening as you starring in the movie. James Bond has always been a good Red Pill example. Think about the classic "male" actors and you'll get closer to TRP examples. Steve McQueen, James Dean,… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Why is dating in NYC considered hard for women?Girls are dreamers - and NYC is where dreamers go. It has the "bright lights, big city" adventure draw that all girls crave - and it being the epicenter of the fashion/modeling/entertainment industries (except LA, which is the same in a different way) means that a ton of attractive women move there. As VZ stated above, for every one Joe Wall Street there are 10,000 average Joe's who are barely making ends meet. The combination of lots of attractive women and lack of successful men means guys hav… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 11:11 PM |
| 5 | If you don't program your mind, your mind will be programmed for you.Absolutely agree but one thing to add - THIS APPLIES TO THIS SUB. Use what you learn out in the world to better your situation - don't sit around here reading stories of guys getting cucked by whores all day or it will mentally ruin you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 01:47 PM |
| 101 | Bride gets caught kissing another guy at her hen party... dumb cuck forgives her, marriage still onOn vacation in Mexico, drunk and obviously loose enough morally to make out with a stranger in public at your bachelorette? No chance they didn't fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | TRP on rich mode?Almost 30 | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 11:46 AM |
| 1 | TRP on rich mode?I work for a company. I'm obviously not going to give out any specifics. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 2 | TRP on rich mode?Digital ad sales for lack of a better description. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 07:32 PM |
| 2 | ltr and going outYou're overthinking it - it's not that big of a deal. Just make sure you're not a blind follower - if you don't want to go or would prefer to go somewhere else, say so. Try a "not tonight babe - let's go to XX instead," see how she reacts. I wish I had this fucking problem - my girlfriend looks like she's about to break down in tears every time I ask her input on something like this. It's like her head explodes or something and I always get a "I could go for anything" or "I really just don't kno… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | TRP on rich mode?I don't make anywhere close to 7 figures but I do make pretty good money (~250 - 500k depending on the year). The biggest inconvenience is girls not putting out immediately because they want to date you and don't want to come off as a slut. I'm in an LTR now but when i was single I'd either next them or take them out twice before sealing the deal if they were worth it. Sometimes girls hated the fact that I told them I wasn't looking for a relationship. You do need to be a little more machiavelli… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 3 | A bit of a rant about women these days. Anyone been in this position?Respect is earned. If you were of higher value the whole place would have been singing along with you - including them. Improve yourself and stop whining. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Confidence with EDCall me the bad guy - buy some fucking Viagra or Cialis and stop worrying about it. There are people every day at /r/steroidsourcetalk who will just tell you to get some bitcoin and give you a year's worth in the mail.. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:12 AM |
| 2 | any good autobiographies or books written by historical alphas?Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. On The Road by Jack Karouak. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why I feel guilty because of a cheating? How to stop feeling like this?Fuck her and fuck them. You're going to have people try to manipulate you your whole life - you need to learn how to cope with it now. If someone isn't helping you, they're hurting you. You need to learn to ditch the guilt of giving someone the cold shoulder now. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Getting back out there, and connecting with people while on a budgetStart chatting up everyone. Your cab drivers, your baristas, your elevator chronies - literally everyone. Don't force it. You've got to start being natural in interactions with everyone - eventually they will be girls and it will feel natural to just say "hey let's grab a drink sometime." | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Going abroad to gain sexual experience?You sound like you could benefit from talking to a therapist. This "bitter undercurrent" isn't something natural - it could just be the anger phase but if you don't address it, that's how school shooters are born. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Need some serious on living with BP roommate and female roommateBy talking to them face to face about it and telling them that if you don't get some help, you're moving out. Then back up your words if shit doesn't change. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 01:06 PM |
| 5 | Tips for a me in a new job.Join a sports league as a free agent if you don't have friends to join with - you'll meet some cool people who usually go get drinks afterwards. Find a bar that shows your hometown football team (if that's your thing) and go watch on Sundays - even if you're alone. Great way to meet other guys who share interests. Once you have met some people and have plans on fridays/saturdays you will meet women through them. Otherwise fire up Tinder/Bumble and see what you got - between the two you shouldn't… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Everytime i get a girl number and we start talking via message i get bored of her after 3/4 responsesSimple - stop texting. It should be used as a means to arrange in-person meetups and that's it. Just don't respond to anything else and they'll stop texting you all that shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Marni the Wing Girl says Jorma Taccone is hot... is he?My thoughts are both that show and that blog are complete garbage and are a total waste of time. Be better. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 01:21 PM |
| 2 | How can I exploit TRP truths while being ugly and 'less skilled'?Came here to say this. Looks (for guys) really don't matter - take a look at some of the heavyweight UFC fighters or someone like Wayne Rooney - all "ugly" by conventional standards but probably pull hotter ass on the reg than I will ever touch. Why? Status. They've mastered an a skill that women see as desirable and they've gained wealth and fame from it. Improve your skills, get a good haircut and some clothes that fit well and understand that all things in life take time. Time is going to pas… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything like TheRedPill but less focused on sex and romantic relationships?TRP is, at it's core, a sexual strategy. Check out blogs like wall street playboys if you're looking for this type of hard-truth life advice that's not specifically related to sex. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Hot fit milfs with short hairDude - you've got some sort of serious MILF complex going on. Not that it's a bad thing - to each their own - but seriously bro your post history leads me to think that you've got some sort of borderline personality disorder and you're obviously obsessive. Just go fuck a MILF and get it over with. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 12:54 PM |
| 1 | went out to a bar/nightclub yesterday in BostonYou'll find this a lot in Boston. I used to live there. One of the most unfortunate cities on the planet in terms of guy-to-hot-girl ratio. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Finding quality people to be around.I have the utmost respect for those who serve, please don't take this the wrong way - but 90% of the military is filled with self-proclaimed tough guy goons who are really pawns in the society we live in. I'd urge you to use the skills you're being taught towards a career outside of the military else you'll always be at the mercy of government spending in a job where it's actually illegal to dissent from your boss. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How easy/difficult is it to be faithful in a relationship ?I think you're wrong - typical westernized, "princess complex," middle class upbringing, white women don't do this. I don't think it's common, but it can certainly be negotiated up front. My bigger question for u/vandaalen is how you respond to the inevitable "well then I'm going to do the same with other men" response - because that shit is 100%. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 12:50 PM |
| 3 | What are the best gems you've learned since you've been on TRP?I always link this post because I think the answer by u/redpillbanana is such a perfect summation of what TRP opens your eyes to. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 12:42 PM |
| 2 | One pump monsterUse Condom's that have a desensitizing agent. I'd say the opposite of no fap, no porn. Start actually jerking off more and training yourself to last longer. Have some drinks before you're about to hook up (no joke, before Tinder dates I used to rip 2 or 3 tequila shots by myself before going). Get some Cialis or Viagra so that even if you do bust quick, you can get it right back up and go again. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 12:59 PM |
| 1 | My current level is: "Practice. Practice. Practice." Should I befriend women who are not gonna have sex with me?As long as you don't replace male friends with female ones. Having female friends is fine - just don't let them use you, and definitely don't be guy who hangs out with all chicks all the time. That's a really bad sign because it means real men don't consider you one of their own. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women?Little long here but bear with me - I think once you open your eyes to the concept of plating things will make a lot more sense to you. Before finding TRP I would pretty much only be looking for women with the same social upbringing as me - basically working professionals, went to college, living in the city, etc etc. With plates, you're not going to date them so who gives a fuck? It will open your eyes to how large the pool of women out there really is. Now I see a cute barista? I'll go in a co… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone in here realize that they have the best sex with "dirty" girls that aren't conventionally attractive?All Hispanic women seem to be much better at sex than white girls. And amazing head. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone in here realize that they have the best sex with "dirty" girls that aren't conventionally attractive?Yes - because with these girls you're probably closer to their Alpha and therefore they'll do more shit with you. The hotter girls are good notches on the belt but they can still probably hook up with guys that are way above you in the pecking order and hence you get vanilla sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 12:41 PM |
| 1 | "Grow up" : Guys (even on here) who judge and attack guys their age trying to live the partying/hedonistic lifestyle are not that different than post wall women who want men in their prime to settle down.The real issue at hand here is self control. I don't believe anyone, myself included, looks down on drinking/partying from time to time. It's fun as hell - especially when you're high value. The real issue is that a shitton of people can't control the balance between doing it sparingly enough to maintain that value and getting caught up in the scene to where it really starts to impact you. Look I have struggled with it at times in my own past - so I'm no preacher - but I do realize that too much… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 12:31 PM |
| 1 | It's time to talk about probable red pill truths concerning getting older that guys on here might not be comfortable with.TRP is about being unplugged and moving forward from that time and place. Would I love to have been unplugged at age 18? Sure! Sky's the limit, fellas. But I wasn't ready and there's a reason I wasn't unplugged until I turned 27. Plant a stick in the ground at now and commit to making every aspect of you life better from here on out. Whether that's 16, 36, or 66 - it shouldn't matter. "What If's" will eat you alive inside. Just keep working and improving and be thankful that you've still got som… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 12:06 PM |
| 2 | living on own vs living with parents?What's "don't have the resources?" You should live with them until you've saved enough money so that if shit hits the fan you won't need to borrow from someone (at your age, think like $5,000 - $10,000 depending on location). Then you should see if any friends have an extra room they'd let you get on the cheap. Don't try to be a baller and get a solo pad downtown - living alone is much more expensive than people realize. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [Business] Reaching out to professional acquaintances after a long time with no contactOK. First and foremost, ditch idea number 2 immediately. Now that we've gotten that out of the way - the way to go about this is to be super casual about it - you don't want to come off as desperate in any way. Just let them know you've started a business and wanted to get the word out to all of your old professional acquaintances. Example: "Hey Jack - how goes? It's been quite a while since we last spoke. I'm reaching out to all of my professional contacts from yesteryear to let them know about… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 02:23 AM |
| 3 | I have this sick feeling in my gut after realizing all the manipulation my ex dished out on me. Wanting to learn from this.Everyone who has found and follows this sub has some memory that they look back on and cringe. A way they courted a woman, how pathetic they were in a relationship, their complete lack of understanding and/or game. This is yours - it will always be there. What I've done (and suggest you do) is be thankful this happened. If you weren't emasculated by this woman - which you were - you'd probably still be chalk full of beta tendencies and unknowingly waiting for your rude awakening in the future. I… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Are other minority women becoming like Asian women. Preferring taller white men?This will change over the next 50 years as we all blend together to create interracial babes. We've still been largely segregated from a marriage perspective but with the huge influx of hispanics and asians it's just not sustainable. It's a temporary phenomenon. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in a dangerous loop.Generally curious what you do at the gym 4 DIFFERENT times a day that you couldn't accomplish by going twice? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Some women won't put out until the 3rd+ date. How do you handle the rejection?I agree - the reality here is that your SMV maxes out at some point until you can make earth-shattering changes that take a very long time (sell a business you started for millions, land a role in a movie, etc). If you're someone who can get laid with ease but some women make you see them multiple times before you get it in, is that really such a bad place to be? Sure, they'd fuck a pro athlete on the first date, but you're not one so just keep improving and the number of women that make you wai… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | HB Rating ScaleI think these ratings need to be for looks alone - as they're already highly subjective. If we try to add personality in too? Holy shit... not to mention that's only relevant for people you want to have a longer term interaction with. I think we talking JUST fucking here. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | HB Rating ScaleIndividually it is so subjective that it doesn't serve a purpose - however collectively I think it could. If there are generally agreed-upon standards I think it will help people writing in this sub be more selective about the language they use and therefore the effect it has on the readers. For example, if there's a story about someone seeing results claiming to have 3 8s in their rotation when in reality they've got three 5s, it will definitely help the reader understand how large a grain of s… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 03:42 PM |
| 2 | HB Rating ScaleI think we tend to have a similar scale. It's always weird to me that litereally every story/FR here starts with someone telling about how they "were with this HB8/9." I highly doubt it but to each their own. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | need advice on getting over my longterm girlfriendStart your own self improvement journey (get in better shape, pick up more interesting hobbies, become a master of something), fuck other women, build abundance mentality. And utilize the search bar because you're the 10,000th person to ask this here. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 01:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you get more sex, from a girl you're in an LTR with?Start putting your own needs before hers. You want me to tag along to that party? No, I'm going to the gym. You want me to pick you up from work because it's raining? No, I've got a class that I can't miss. You need to start putting yourself first. Although it sounds counterintuitive, she will actually respect you more and your newfound semi-rejection will make her hamster start spinning like crazy - leading to her wanting to seduce you more often. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Do women love to travel?Everyone loves to travel - it's vacation. For women in particular it's vacation to a place where their actions will be forever concealed back home so they feel especially liberated - and love the strange. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Ejaculating insideYou took the time to whip out your laptop and ask a forum of anonymous strangers whether it's a good or bad idea to cum inside a girl? As Don King would say, "Only in America!" | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I can't help but feel disgusted by women and the world. TRP showed me the light but robbed me of my happiness.There has been a lot of advice given at this point in your journey to start giving your time back to the community. Volunteer with the homeless to gain some perspective. I share your viewpoint however at some point you have to realize that it's not always "woe is me" - we live in a fucked up world and you have it better than 99.9% of it. Just got to make the most of what you're given. I'd look into traveling solo for a few months as well. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Is everything in NMMNG red pill?Not everything on these forums is TRP either. This is about using the truths your given to make your own informed decisions about the best way to live YOUR life. Don't be a puppet... be a man. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I held frame and got my ass kicked.You're exactly right. Reading an online forum doesn't make you tough. And your friends are obviously huge pussies too if your ass got bodied and none of them stood up. You tried to be a tough guy and you learned the hard way that you aren't. Keep lifting/doing MMA and next time learn the difference between losing with class and attempting to be an "alpha" in every situation. You were an asshole and you learned your lesson. Don't do it next time | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 01:47 AM |
| 2 | RP movement?Would it be an advantage to do so? Look at TRP like a cheat code in Mario kart that no one else knows. I'm content knowing the truth and using what I know to my advantage. Would I love society to wake up? Sure! But that'd create a lot more competition and controversy than I care to deal with. For now I'm content using the cheat code to my advantage and winning every race. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is there such strong opposition on TRP towards partying, drinking, and having a social life as you get older? Just not possible or is TRP's end goal to ensure that men end up being alone?Ya I'll be honest with you - I'm in a line of work where I'm basically required to take clients out and entertain them at minimum 2 nights per week, usually 4. Do I drink too much? Abso fucking lutely. But can I control it to a point where it's not totally fucking up my life? Ya, I can. Basically don't be an addict degenerate and do whatever the fuck you want. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Social anxietyI had the same thing growing up. You care too much about what other people think about you. Try visiting /r/howtonotgiveafuck and just have some confidence in who you really are. Might lose some friends, might make some new ones. It's all for the best | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 01:03 AM |
| 0 | I've been applying what I've learned here, and 9/10 times it works.I think most on here would agree with you - it becomes this overarching outlook that starts to define your life. For me it's in a positive way but for a lot of the newbies it fucks them up for a while until they get used to it. But to say that it's groundbreaking is an understatement. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 10:13 PM |
| 5 | How do I implement No more Mr nice guy mentality and get rid of nice guy behaviors?Start saying no | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 01:49 PM |
| 3 | How do you even compete with better looking/more alpha guys?She was never yours, it was just your turn. Your turn's over. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Woman over 30, single and can't find good men? AwwCouldn't agree more - have an LTR right now but at 29 it's ridiculous how clear women make it that they'd be interested if we ever broke up. Women my age or within ~3 years I could ask to buy me dinner all the time and they'd do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Attempt to build bridges with ex for sake of mutual friends or stick to my guns?If you ever say "or stick to my guns," you already know the answer. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:23 AM |
| 7 | Skills a young man should learn?Good list - but I'll scream it from the rooftops: LEARN PERSONAL FINANCE. Avoid lifestyle inflation at all costs and learn to save and budget. When you're 30, you'll be so fucking happy you did. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 12:58 PM |
| 4 | What do you consider as "baggage" in a woman?Well there's a huge difference between the baggage I'd allow when plating and the baggage I'd allow when dating. Essentially if I think she's not crazy enough to have a total meltdown and/or false rape charge when things end, she's fair game to plate. Dating is a totally different set of standards that will vary for everyone - I personally look for solid family values, demonstration of consistent (what I would consider) desirable behavior (e.g. dips from a friend's house party when I'm not there… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 12:54 PM |
| 7 | Woman over 30, single and can't find good men? AwwAlmost every post-wall or fastly approaching woman who is single that I know has the EXACT same problem: they're overweight and can't come to terms with it. On a different forum a few years back some meathead made a point that has stuck with me for years, despite how simple. "All a woman has to do to avoid being single is not be fat and not be lame - and it's incredible how many of them can't pull it off." | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I do cocaineYa - I say go for t but know that a lot of guys can't get it up. Fuck her first if you do. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/16 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Are there any trans men here?I agree - and not from a persecution perspective but seriously - if someone has a voice in their head that they talk to we call them insane and have them committed. If someone has a voice in their head that tells them to change the sex they were born as we are supposed to tell them how brave they are and give them special treatment and anyone who thinks otherwise is a bigot scumbag. Etc etc | /r/askTRP | 10/09/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Can you physically tell if a girl is a slut?There are probable indicators like u/vasillyzaitzev listed - but really there's no way to tell. I know girls who literally let entire floors of dormitories fuck them in the ass who are now grad students, lawyers, engaged, married, sober, etc. It's probably why I can't ever commit to shit. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/16 01:53 PM |
| 34 | Fuck... am I gay?This "gender fluidity" shit is a social construct meant to confuse you - and it's working. You're fucking a woman who was born a woman - the fact that saying kinky shit or her calling herself a dude turns you on doesn't change the fact that you're a biological man fucking a biological woman. Her cutting her hair doesn't change that. Now if you had a threesome with her and a dude and you found yourself sucking dick or taking it up the ass, you might have some questions to answer. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How can I prepare for the scenario where she cheats on me with a better man?You don't always have to be better than other men, you do, however, always have to be better than her. If you're worried about your LTR being in a situation where she's drunk at bars or clubs and makes a decision like the one you're envisioning, in my opinion you didn't vet her properly before giving her your commitment - because girls that put themselves in those situations aren't high quality women. On the other hand, if she is high quality and you're worried about her cheating on you while so… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Conversational Compliance - Part I: What it is and Why it's importantI seem to be missing something - you're saying the Milton model is better because it doesn't let the imagination run wild (e.g. your bought drinks for a blonde woman)? But then you're saying we only want to live in the Milton model? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/16 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you become a man./r/becomeaman | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Workout Routine QuestionAt 5'9", 135 you're a twig. You need to add weight to your workout routine. Join a gym and start with strong lifts 5x5 and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 12:42 AM |
| 0 | How many of you earn 100k or more and do poorly with womenI'm almost 30 and make about $300k, 5'9" and not really in great shape at all and I do better than most guys I know. Frame and social proof work wonders my friend - as does success. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | These are a few of my favorite thingsFavorite idea presented was on cynicism presented by /u/redpillbanana here: Implementation is frame w/o question. Revelation was (similar to what was said below) how girls both shit test you and want you as validation/orbiter and seeing straight through both. The biggest mindset shift was learning that the only person responsible for your own happiness is you and if you ignore that you're fucked and if you embrace it you can totally change your life. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 06:59 PM |
| 18 | In an LTR, with a "great" chick, but I still want to sleep with other girlsBased on your answers below, it looks like you're here for moral support to cheat on your girlfriend. No one can decide if she's worth it to you except you. I've got a girlfriend and think about fucking other women nonstop, but I don't because a) I value what we have more than I value some quick sexual fantasy that would leave you even emptier days later and b) the guilt of cheating on someone and living the lie is more stress than i feel like dealing with. You have three options: deal with it, … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How would this Indian guy do with Asian, latina and black girls?Let me guess... you're Indian and think that's your biggest limiting factor with women and you're insecure about it. Fuck outta here. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything in TRP that doesn't apply in the UK?Ya, your British accent won't automatically have you dripping in pussy like it does here in the states. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Developing your frameFrame is by far my strongest asset but I've always had trouble putting into words what it is made of, so I'm going to try now. I think the most important aspect of real solid frame is just owning everything you do 100%. It's kind of like thinking - "hey look, I'm going to say what I want, do what I want, behave how I want, and I don't give a flying FUCK what you think about it." That's not to say you act like a bozo or an asshole, but it's just absolute loss of all caring what others think about… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 06:38 PM |
| 4 | College adviseI would say this totally depends on your financial situation. If you can manage going to college full time with a night job and without racking up too much debt, I'd say definitely go for the full college experience. If you would be amassing huge debts I would not think it'd be worth it. College is awesome, fun as hell, but graduating with $50-$100k in debt will be a gigantic setback for the next few decades at least. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 02:19 PM |
| 2 | My lady friend has gotten to my headThis is called Oneitis - you can't think of anyone but her. There is a post somewhere about breaking up with your female friends. You are her orbiter and she keeps you wrapped around her for validation. The best way out of this is to completely cut her out of your life. Yes, it will fuck you up for a few weeks then you will be fine. Do not disillusion yourself for a second into believing you'll be hapilly ever after with her. If you really can't do this and you want proof - just straight up tell… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 05:41 PM |
| 2 | In a LTR and she has had a lot of partners? How do I treat her?I think the biggest indicator of how she views you is how open she is sexually with you. A woman with a sexual history that plentiful has done some crazy shit in the sack, no question. If you're getting what we call duty sex a few times per week and it's not adventurous or thrilling (to you at least) then she likely views you as her safe haven provider and, to me, that's a sign of disrespect. Only you can know if you're OK with it or not. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I delete pictures of my ex off of my social media?It depends how recent they are. Pictures of you with other attractive women certainly won't hurt when trying to pull, but if it were within the last few months it may be best to take them down. I'd say leave them for now but unfollow her/defriend her on everything. When you get serious with someone else you should pull them down. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 05:18 PM |
| 5 | What do the red pill men of this sub do for a living??Tech sales | /r/askTRP | 25/08/16 11:21 PM |
| -3 | Guys who wear cologne, do you wear it all day every day, or only when you're going out at night/weekends?Maybe it's just me but the only people I know who still wear cologne are Indian and they all WAYYYY overdo it. I know that's ridiculously stereotypical but that's the first thing that popped into my head. I don't think anyone over 24 should be wearing it, and if you do make sure it's a really small amount. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Please ignore the username, I was young and dumb. I was in the anger stage for 2 years and am finally coming around to acceptance. Need help moving forward in my unusual work environmentYou took a day off work to be productive? Interesting... I'm going to just say this and it may get down voted - you're looking for a shoulder to cry on and with all due respect that isn't what we are here for. You just took 10 paragraphs to basically explain your sob story and ended with "any help is appreciated." Want my honest advice? Throw your headphones on at work and keep your fuckin mouth shut because if you talk half as much there as you do here that's your obvious problem. Then read the… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 12:32 PM |
| 1 | You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.The one exception here is if you're ever (and hopefully you're not) in front of a judge. Then tuck your dick and swear to high heaven how sorry you are and appeal to every positive emotion possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 02:38 PM |
| 9 | [FR] 80% guys have no chance on TinderCompound this with the fact that 80% of the women on Tinder have no intention of sleeping with anyone - it's merely another source of validation and entertainment for them. Then you've got the 20% who are actually looking to fuck who go straight to the dudes with the best 6-pack | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Midget here, TRP destroyed whatever blue hope i had. Though it has made me stronger it has made me depressed.I would say there is a law of proportionality that works for both genders. What you lack, you have to make up by being proportionally better than your competition in other ways. Height is a shitty one because it can't ever be changed. It DOES mean you're going to have to work a LOT harder than your tall or even average sized counterparts to be in great shape, be funny, have rock solid frame, be confident, have a good career etc. But it doesn't mean it's game over for you by any means. You've got… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm 30 and I'd rather jack offWith all do respect, the way this comes off is "I'd rather jack off than put in the effort to bettering myself to a place where it's quite easy to get laid and requires no additional commitment from me." Because if we're being honest, you just don't want to be in the top 10% of men where it's quite easy to get laid by girls you can straight up tell you don't want anything to do with other than sex... | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Did reading TRP really changed you?I would say learning how to hold frame with everyone is paramount. With women, agree and amplify to combat shit tests improved my game tremendously and brutal direct honesty (saying things like "I couldn't ever just be friends with you") helped a ton. I'll try to find some reading on it - otherwise getting in good shape shoudl be #1. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How to be a dark triad conversationist?You're not DT you just want to appear to be. But I'd say "hey, want to do some coke?" is a good place to start | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I help my husband be more happy/alpha/red pill?For many men they have to hit rock bottom before they make it here. If you try to point him here when he's not ready, he'll freak out because in his mind he doesn't see anything wrong. This is not at all what you want to hear, but the only sure-fire way to awaken him to the cold world is to divorce him and destroy his fantasy illusion of a life - then he'll probably make it here. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 03:56 PM |
| 1 | If anyone is willing to be honest about it, how often do you guys just plain lie to people?Lying is a good indication of what you should be spending your time and money on. I think back to times I've lied to get laid and it usually was something like telling a girl I had an interesting hobby (which I didn't have) or that I studied abroad (which I didn't do). I started to realize that instead of making shit up, I should be saving to travel or spending my time learning said hobby. Lying is a great indicator of what you should actually be doing. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Coworkers with annoying habitsThings only bother you if you let them. Either realize how inconsequential shit is affecting your mood and get over it, or don't hang out with him anymore. What I wouldn't do is talk to him about it because you'll burn a bridge. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do we next women who don't give up sex right away. But when they do we label them as plates or not LTR material? (Serious discussion)I couldn't agree with you more. As you get older, your tastes change. Chasing tail at bars gets old - it's fun for a while but so unfulfilling. Having something real with a girl who is intelligent, has ambition, etc is a rewarding thing that I enjoy. I am not niaive to the fact that women have instincts that can't be denied, but just use knowledge to do what you have to do. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 02:28 PM |
| 3 | 10 Unsung Red Pill QuotesIt's funny because while it's a rap song lyric, it's probably the most true quote of all time and 99% of mens' problems could have been avoided if they followed this advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Girl fucks Chad despite having a wealthy boyfriendI think reminders like this are important for newcomers and as a refresher from time to time, but this reads like fantasy writing and is exactly the type of shit that betas come here and obsess over - sitting on their couches reading and writing about without ever making improvements to better themselves. I've said it before and I'll say it again: GO BE CHAD - don't sit here reading about him chuckling like you have been told some secret. Girls fuck alpha males, learning that is 1% of TRP. Becom… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?You learn to become outcome independent. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 12:22 PM |
| 10 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?Do you want it to stop? If you do - shame her on it - "not sure your boyfriend would love you touching me repeatedly." If you don't, just accept it as a small form of flattery that she wants you to want her. She doesn't do that to creeps. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Tips on trying to plate a Social Worker?May of them are also drawn to this profession because of past experiences with social workers which you can easily link to mental problems later in life. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Non Negotiables vs NegotiablesIf more people were interesting, had their shit together and were fit enough to have sex with we wouldn't be here in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Non Negotiables vs NegotiablesMy question is what drove you to TRP or RPW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Non Negotiables vs NegotiablesYou're taking the lunatic fringe language from TRP (e.g. "a raging unicorn") and using it to make your point. I have no point of reference here, but in my experience - women who obsess over this "hate speech" are usually not quite there in terms of the non negotiables. I'm a rational guy - I agree that we're all human beings and people who are young make irrational decisions... it happens. But if you're dissecting shit that much do you mind at least posting a non-face picture of yourself? I only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Non Negotiables vs NegotiablesOn #3 I'm genuinely curious - what's your move? I can't tell if you're playing knit picking devils advocate or if you're actually living the other side - either way I'd love to ask you some questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 03:15 AM |
| 17 | "There is nothing I can say to you that will magically make you not a bitch" -GayLubeOilWelp was about to skip the gym for a beer but am walking in as we speak. Thanks for the daily kick in the ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 08:55 PM |
| 3 | When you've been with so many women sex is no longer that great anymore.. What else is there..There is an old saying - "sex is like air; it's not important until you're not getting any". You're learning firsthand that you cannot derive your pleasure in life from sex with women. It has to come from yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?I'll just leave this here | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 04:11 PM |
| 16 | What do you wish someone told you before choosing your first job?Work hard but learn how to play the game. A beer with the boss goes twice as far as two months of working late. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Computer Science Degree"Good Money" will come from your soft skills and network - not from your degree. Example: get a job as an engineer at a tech company and work for a few years. 95% of engineers freeze up in public and can't talk to a room full of people worth a damn. If you can learn how to be a charismatic, client facing leader among them you'll quickly be able to command twice their salary. Other option is to try to get a job on the ops side at a big bank. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | On the third day, he learned how to groomYour scalp and hair have evolved from thousands of years of never being washed or conditioned ever. When you wash it every day, it causes your body to cease production of natural oils and moisturizers that it produces on its own. I'm with the guy in the comment below - you want to wash it twice a week (that's my sweet spot) - that gives it 3-4 days to keep the natural shit up and still get the nasty shit out. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 04:40 AM |
| 1 | RP advice for finding an internship next summer?DM me tomorrow - that "am I screwed and I should give up" shit isn't going to get you anywhere. If you want it - get it - period. I'll ask you a bunch of questions and help you through exactly what you should to do get it. You have shit self-confidence right now which isn't going to get you anywhere. Only a 3.92 GPA? Man.. your life is over. Not to be hard on you but get it the fuck together man. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 03:00 AM |
| 20 | If you want an LTR, you should fuck lots of girls.I agree with everything you said but there is also a cause-and-effect at play by doing this. I fucked a lot of girls for the first 18 months after changing my life through TRP and you know what I found? That it was fun for a while but totally unfulfilling. You almost become disgusted with the type of women who have loose enough values to let you get whatever you want sexually with nothing in return. It's different for everyone - but for me - hooking up with a lot of girls made me realize what I … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/16 01:47 PM |
| 7 | TRP works, even on day 1.As others have stated lifting is huge but I can't stress the differences in quality of life when you learn how to hold frame. Both with women, professionally, with friends, etc. Beginners likely won't know how to make that change for a few months - but focus on learning how to hold frame while lifting early on and you'll be 60% there by your third month. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/16 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The double-edged sword of going RP - struggling at work nowGo into sales for your company - check my post history I wrote a whole piece on it. You'll make more money and grow your network much more quickly. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 01:10 PM |
| 4 | Yahoo: a shining example of female leadership running a company into the ground.The crux of this issue wasn't that she was a crumby boss, it was that they became the token example for female leadership and had to basically turn the other cheek on a lot of bad shit until it was way too late. It's one thing to hire female leadership; it's another to karma-whore your share value through PR stunts pandering to 50% of the population. I'm never against hiring women in business; I'm fully against keeping women in leadership positions because they're women. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Nearly 2 years unplugged. For anyone interested, here is my journey, what I've learned, and what I want to improve.This was basically me - July of 2014 - and I can echo all of the things stated here. 18 months is all it takes to completely flip life upside down. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How you will lose 10 lbs* this weekIf this is true you're either eating more calories or carbs than you think you are. Are you counting the cream in your morning coffee? The sriracha on your eggs? there is sugar/calories in just about everything and you have to be VIGILANT in figuring out where they're coming from. also I usually advise people cut out fruit and cheese all together since they add sugar and heavy caloric fat that's easy to overdo. EDIT: When this was happening for me, it was almost always sauce/dressing that put me… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?overindulgence - I seriously over eat and over drink often which is hampering my progress on many levels. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Take occasional breaks from women or they will suck the absolute life out of you.Actually there's a large subset of women who don't do this: extremely unattractive women. I work with a few wall/post-wall women who are extremely overweight and have essentially learned to fend for themselves at this point without the help of men because they've had to. It's an interesting dynamic - they have shifted from seeking approval through men to seeking approval by becoming more successful than other women. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 01:28 PM |
| 3 | New York, New YorkDon't blame her at all - just alerting brethren to said strategy so they can recognize it when they see it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowThis absolutely applies to law - they even have a term for their best salesmen - Rainmakers. The one's securing large corporate partnerships for law firms (i.e. selling their services) are far and away the most valuable lawyers. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 07:15 PM |
| 1 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowThe corporate world is a system and these are the people who have figured out how to exploit that system to their advantage. Sound familiar? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowOnly get an MBA under 2 circumstances: if you get into a top 10 school, or if someone else is paying for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 03:35 PM |
| 3 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowThis question falls into the social dynamics aspect of sales I mentioned above. Life will be easier for taller people in general - not just in sales - just like it will be for hot chicks. That means you have to overcome your shortcomings and become better in areas like holding frame and physical appearence. Dress nicer, be in better shape, have unshakeable frame. If, at the end of the day, the only difference between two perfect specimens is 7" in height then congratulations - you've both alread… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 11:04 PM |
| 1 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowOnly if you want to sell Google AdWords. See what I'm saying? If you work at a digital ad agency, start figuring out who pitches new business for them and ask to be a part of it. If you're working for another technology provider, or digital website, find out who sells the technology or locks up big deals for ads on that website. In your scenario, you'd only need to learn how to sell Google Adwords if you got an entry level job at Google and that was the path you wanted to take. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:59 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowAs stated above, I have 28 yr old friends who make more than their 40 year old doctors do by selling medical devices. That said - if you want to be a doctor I think you should absolutely pursue that path. If you're pursuing that path for purely financial reasons, I'd abandon that plan. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 09:17 PM |
| 4 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowThere are often two roads to a sales position: Either get a job in an industry for a while and learn it well then transition, or get a foot in the door at a training program/inside sales team somewhere. To do the latter, you'd most likely need a bachelors degree. I would recommend pursuing an industry you find appealing and want to make a career out of then figuring out what's required to sell in that industry. I wouldn't recommend just saying you want a career in "sales". | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Very short story of my life, very long post, lessons learned by a lifelong Red PillerI was never too into believing her and her love for me. Somewhere in the back of my mind I was convince she was full of shit and so I never really swallowed the bull. I would love to see how many men in America this rings true for. I would bet that over 50% of plugged-in guys feel this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Deadlifting As A MetaphorCouldn't agree more. Would have said friend but maybe rookies don't have friends who lift. I would say find someone doing them and ask - 99/100 times they'll help you out. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 03:42 AM |
| 6 | Deadlifting As A MetaphorI don't know if you're trolling or 12. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 03:39 AM |
| 1 | the base specifications of a suitable potential mother for your children.A lot of people will disagree with me here but honestly - just find a girl you really like and explain thoroughly that you can't commit to sex with one woman forever. I know plenty of chicks who didnt' necessarily ride it, but probably stayed single a little longer than they should have. Are they worth my 100% commitment? No. But if you think you could have a badass family with them then go for it. I just personally don't see why monogamy and kids have to go hand in hand. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Conning the Con-Woman, or being an Alpha Agent of Righteous KarmaThis is one of the posts I most agree with in my year + on this sub. It's absolutely true - avoid going to the hottest clubs in town while you're still a piece of moulding clay. There are whole sections of town where wall-hitters and round 2'ers will be hanging out and they're deathly easy to take home. Great advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 12:30 PM |
| 4 | The Danger of Modern Gender DynamicsI am absolutely convinced that Bill Burr is a member of the Red Pill community and - like all of us - maintains anonymity. Bill - if you're out there - love you to death. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 12:07 AM |
| 3 | The Danger of Modern Gender DynamicsThis is hitting on the key point of my post - whether or not you agree or disagree with the ability to "hit" (slap, shove, restrain, not talking about physically kicking the shit out of here) a woman, society has made it such that even talking about doing it will likely land you in prison. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 08:56 PM |
| 6 | The Danger of Modern Gender DynamicsFact or fiction, I'm just using the story as an anecdote for a real life problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 04:48 PM |
| 4 | So why is rape considered almost worse than muder?Just guessing, but I'd say it's because pussy power is a woman's ultimate trump card. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 04:35 PM |
| 3 | So why is rape considered almost worse than muder?I personally think there's danger in this line of thinking but will attempt to answer your question objectively. Murder offers a finality - you took life from someone. Rape causes irreparable mental damage - it's a power thing - and people need to live out the rest of their lives with that on their shoulders. To many the finality of death is more desirable than the continuity of a severely damaged mental state. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Remider That Adopting TRP Doesn't Mean Becoming a ShitheadI definitely see where my post could be interpreted the wrong way, but one click of my name and history will eliminate suspicion of trolling. You're right - people pleasing is the root cause of beta behavior. It's trying too hard. But I guess my point is that people read shit on here and try too hard not to please people. They go from far left to far right. It becomes an attitude where they're worried that a kind gesture or genuine interest is seen as weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 01:54 AM |
| 10 | Vague question, but what's generally a good place to meet women at?I like Earth - I find there are a lot of women there. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Girls, If You're Physically Unavailable I'm Emotionally UnavailableWe've seen it here before: either fuck me, or fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | No father/male influence, good resources to start?Your job as a sound engineer - who owns the studio? Who owns the business that contracts your services? Most entrepreneurs are good male role models who got there by being cut throat and knowing how to be a man. Outside of that, join something physical - crossfit, MMA gym, boxing, etc. Find men who can fuck shit up and be humble about not being one of them. If you work hard, they'll teach you. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Other Theories Which Complement TRP?One that's a bit more recent - and since I've said it before on this sub I have to start with a disclaimer that I am in no way involved with this book - but read Millionaire Fastlane. Just like TRP, I read it and thought "wow - I always thought this deep in the back of my mind but have never seen it written out before." | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Hpw to act TRP while clubbing?Couldn't agree more - think of a club as Augusta National. By the time you go, you should be so fucking locked down in every aspect of your life (fitness, money, social circle, interesting stories) that the room just moves to you. I realize it's unavoidable sometimes - in that case I'd say just dance and have fun and don't try to be that guy approaching every group of girls on your own. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Did i handle this shit test alright?"That sucks, if I didn't have friends or family I'd cook us Christmas dinner - how about when I get back?" | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Being RP in a BP worldSelf control is the ultimate alpha quality - remember that. Never overreact to things, learn to laugh them off. Knowing how the world works is far greater than having temporary authority over someone. If someone questions your manhood, your life should be your counter. If you get defensive and feel the need to cause trouble, you're not confident enough in yourself yet. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 03:23 AM |
| 1 | 19 y/o needs some career advice.In the business world it's amazing how little your major ends up representing your value. I'm not in finance, but i would guess this might be an exception to getting a high value internship. Learn how to view things through a lens of "what will make this company more money" and you'll climb quickly. I'd study engineering because it requires the most discipline, but it honestly doesn't matter. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 03:00 AM |
| 11 | How do I carve Turkey like an alpha?With a chainsaw | /r/askTRP | 27/11/14 01:43 PM |
| 9 | If you're still swallowing the red pill, you should be on the sidebar and not in the discussions.I agree - if I may add on, I'd recommend not posting until you're walking the walk. Reading is easy, following through is hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 06:15 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Cockiness, Alcohol & Insecure BoysAgreed there are no more gentlemanly fights... You can get shot or stabbed pretty easily by some shithead with nothing to lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 06:00 AM |
| 3 | What Beta tendencies, if any, do you still struggle with?I hear you man - my number one reason for losing frame is coworkers asking details about my personal life (what I did all weekend, who the girls in my life are) and many of the techniques I use on everything else (agree & amplify, amused mastery) tend to fall apart and I start going into "none of your business" mode. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Finding women for a LTR. If she fucks you on the first couple dates, she's a slut who's not worth your time. If she doesn't fuck you on the first few dates, she's a bitch trying to get a beta orbiter?I can tell you my own beliefs stem from the extreme unlikelihood of this situation. We see how many opportunities a very attractive woman has for sex... I have known exactly 0 who have made every high SMV male wait for a committed relationship before giving it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Moments of ClarityIs there a way I can plant a moment of clarity in someone's mind that leads them here? I think I may need it to save my brother's life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 03:08 AM |
| 8 | Its getting worse latelyBoth a combination of feminist influence growing and the fact that you notice it more and more the deeper ingrained with TRP you become. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 02:14 PM |
| 2 | What makes a guy good looking according to TRP and is it a possibility for a lot of men out there?Someone has to say this - but if you adopt TRP you will absolutely decimate your own ethnic group. While some white chicks may not find you immediately attractive (just human nature) u will clean the fuck up among the hottest of your race. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 02:41 AM |
| 26 | Red Pill Theory Weekend: Friday - Sunday (Sept 26-28)Regarding money - if you haven't read "Millionaire Fastlane" you are doing yourself a disservice. It touches on the fact that we are born and taught that a stable job and increasing salary are the pillars to wealth when they're really not. The book is classic red pill in that it touches on the things necessary to get out there and make it - self improvement, action over thought, and breaking through fucking walls to get there. For as much as we talk about how money doesn't matter with women, it'… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Has anybody else now realized your Dad's actions and banter with your Mother has subtly included dread and other TRP themes all along? AKA How I'm using my upbringing to set rules in relationships and how Women acted better pre-feminismI feel you on this... Love my dad to death but he is the worlds biggest beta | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | what is with all the hate on TRP?Because hot women had the upper hand and they didn't really know why but seeing it written out along with a strategy for flipping the cards upsets them. No one who wields the power wants to see a blueprint of how to overcome said power. That's the women. As for the men - there are two different types. Those who just haven't been fucked over yet and those who think that defending/siding with hot women will win their favor. Someone had a post the other day on how swallowing the pill really is like… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 03:50 AM |
| 3 | How should I treat a girl that wants to hook up with me?Bro she's going to work hard for it obviously just do it. I mean if you really don't want to, don't but it sounds like with that "big lips" comment ur already thinking about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | List of TRP role modelsDan bilzerian tries wayyy too hard. He is cultivating an image for social media - this is not TRP behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 02:31 AM |
| 10 | Need help TRP...calling serious text pros....How did I fuck this up?Acting like you've got other, more important options is your best move. The next time she sees you, she's going to expect you to be into her. Even if you are, blow her off or say you have other plans. If she's interested, that will blow her kid and she'll be texting you later. Edit: lid, not kid. No blowing kids here. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Need help TRP...calling serious text pros....How did I fuck this up?Salvageable if she makes the next move. Definitely don't re engage first. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Need help TRP...calling serious text pros....How did I fuck this up?You lost frame by doing something for her and then saying "not a problem." When she thanked you, you should have said right then "I only accept drinks as a token of thanks. Let's grab one at X later". You're clearly making progress being more direct, but you're still being too nice. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 01:19 AM |
| 8 | The red pill and cursing.I try not to overuse them for the heck of it, but in a situation where cursing is unexpected throwing a good 'fuck' in there really gets the crowd going. Ya.. I'm a sales guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 12:17 AM |
| 6 | The "moral crusade" of Augustus.I bet this was very much like what we see in today's Arab/uber-religious world. It's easy to preach ideals from the top... he was the EMPEROR. Whether it's Kim in North Korea or the Sheikhs in the Arab world - overwhelmingly you find out that behind closed doors, they're fucking whoever they want and doing all sorts of shady (fun) shit. Throughout history, without fail, absolute power corrupts absolutely. Roman emperors had it made more than anyone we could ever imagine... this dude definitely h… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 12:15 AM |
| 3 | This will boil your blood, I wish she was troll.I knew technology was improving, but i was unaware Mack Trucks were now able to carry out unhealthy relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 12:11 AM |
| 8 | A little red pill saved the weekRight? Not 'half your life's earnings' huge... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Feminist "Science": "50 Shades of Grey" Causes Anorexia and Abusive PartnersPSA: ladies, if your man is reading 50 shades of gray, you've got much much bigger problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 01:59 AM |
| 5 | My wife's married friend is dating my brother. Trying to figure this outUnpopular answer but I find the hardest part of swallowing the pill to be seeing the social dynamics affecting those we love. My dad is classic beta bux. My brother is not even close to alpha. The most u can do is try to subtly explain your point of view but in the end the only lives we control are our own. ... Or just kill her | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 01:56 AM |
| 31 | A little red pill saved the weekI really hope this doesn't get down voted - but be careful in the military. They encourage marriage and the pay is higher with wives and kids. You are probably going to catch a lot of shit for being single from a lot of guys who will be divorced this decade. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Is RP theory only true in Western countries?I would say more accurately that men are bred to be men in other places. They don't care about feelings as much - they're defending their property and finding dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Don't know what to call this but not caring saved my life.Block, delete, unfollow... Shit.. Fuckin restraining order if you have to. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How to wake the fuck up early?I think about it in terms of context. Here are a few of the thoughts that go through my head: that navy seal in Afghanistan? He doesn't get to sleep in when he's got to move 6 miles or be tortured. that single dad with 2 kids and no education? He has to be at his 4am shift. that college football player in training camp? I think you see my point. There are countless examples. I tell myself "you're fucking soft in your plush queen sized bed." Then I hop up no matter how shitty I feel and do what I… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else go through a laughter phase?Agreed - laughing at the fucking joke society has created and how pitiful it is - the truth will set you free. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Learn to Embrace Your Own BeautyI was at a conference this week about women in advertising where they handed out awards to all these women in charge of ad campaigns like "embrace your natural beauty etc." All types of feminist rants... Meanwhile every woman clapping in the audience had high heels and highlights... Not to mention the mini skirts and $1000 purses. It's funny because even they know it's a crock of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Vegas day and night game?IMO ur much better off running day game in Vegas or venturing out a little bit from the beaten path. A LOT of girls are looking to party for free so it can be tough to keep up in the hottest spots without a huge bankroll but it CAN BE DONE. Open everything - we all know that positive energy goes so far... With both guys and girls. Be cognizant of who is trying hard to flash cash and make them better. You now have a friend who you're introducing girls to and they will remember that. Remember that… | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:02 AM |
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