with my ltr whenever we go out she always has places in mind to go. this is not me saying "I don't know, where do you want to go" and making her pick, but rather she knows places she wants to go with me.

my question is, is this bad in the long run? I don't care about deciding where to go but she has a list of places she wants to go to. I also feel if I "plan" out a day it looks needy as fuck. any advice?