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| 1 | What are proper exercises, stretches, and posture to fix a forward neck? (Pic)I'll check it out, thanks | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Bad Neck Pain - Ruining my day and mood.Thank you. I only have acetaminophen at work but ibuprofen usually helps more. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Bad Neck Pain - Ruining my day and mood.I know I seem like a whiny bitch but this shit is like an intense tooth ache. It's just extremely uncomfortable. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Do you drop or keep low value friends who have nothing going for in life?Best you can do is lead by example. Eventually after being blue balled for months (or years) and finding out that his oneitis who he's been sending "good morning beautiful" texts to every day just raw fucked some stranger last night in a porta-potty, he might approach you for some advice and be a little more open minded. If he's causing you negative emotions and you aren't gaining value from him then there's not reason to completely keep him around. Maybe catch up with him every few months. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Date is set. She still texts...She might be fishing for attention. Either reply short but flirty, or maybe you can try giving her a call. Have a short conversation and use it to build attraction / build interest. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you show intent without looking needy/breaking frame ?Be indirect at first. Locate IOI’s. Kino. Escalate or next. Simple af | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | so, if i lost the shit tests, is there a second chance?You could've approached a 2nd girl for a 50/50 chance or you could've approached the same girl for a 0% chance. You chose the stupid one. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:31 PM |
| -7 | No, shes not speicial.Not sure why this is getting upvoted if there's no question here. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | I think I have deathgrip.. looking for advice..Understandable but unacceptable. Just learn from this and do yourself a favor and read the book. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I never feel like doing anything or going anywhere. How do I change?It sounds like your brain is fucked up. You probably lack proper nutrition or a deficiency in vital vitamins and minerals. Your brain energy is shit which makes you want to be lazy and do nothing and the chemicals in your brain are imbalanced which make you feel like a nihilist pessimist. If your definition of "strict diet" is basic salads and less than 1K calories a day, you're just going to fuck yourself up even more. And trying to lift every day and not giving your body any rest is going to w… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:23 PM |
| 5 | SHOULD I GO FOR THIS WIFEY or LET HER PASS? Would LOVE some WISE GUIDANCE.then don't do it. This is a "don't shit where you eat" situation. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I think I have deathgrip.. looking for advice..Dominance in bed is an act. Opening up and telling her about your performance issues is beta. Don't do this again. Psychological most likely. Your mentality is preventing you from having a good sexual experience. You're probably not feeling the experience. Maybe you're so focused on trying to give this girl an A+ performance that you're not enjoying the experience yourself. You're not immersed. You're not present. Like I said, read SEX GOD METHOD. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 09:12 PM |
| 3 | How do you speak to people who are better than you in your career or talents?Just ask them questions if you're interested. If it's in your career or work, be professional and slightly friendly. If you're interested, just show them you're interested and try and learn from them. If you try to learn something from someone and they reply rudely with, "wow, you don't know what that is?" just hold frame. Don't DEER. Just reply with, "Maybe I've heard of it. Explain it to me." Example: If you see a buff guy at the gym and you ask him what the best workout is for shoulders and h… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Should I push my girl to get on Birth ControlDO NOT do birth control. "Going raw" isn't even that great. You'll need lube, your dick will get sore more often, plus you know, risks of STD's. CONS: - You'll need lube. - your dick will get more sore. - STD's - Her mood and behavior will change. She'll be more unreasonable and have more mood swings. - High possibility that she will gain weight and have other side effects like acne, bloating, etc. - Unless you watch her take her birth control every day like a psych ward patient, you can't trust… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 6 | I think I have deathgrip.. looking for advice..Giving up masturbation is the only solution you will ever find. It's the only cure for death grip. If it takes 3 months it takes 3 months. Sorry, but you can't speed up the process. Going raw with this girl was a stupid mistake and don't ever do that again. There's a few other things you can try. You can try fucking with thinner condoms (although going raw is as "thin" as you can go, I doubt this will help you). Your immersion might be at fault here. You're so worried about being able to cum and… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there hope?Pre workout. Get it. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Do I have unreasonable sex demands?Am I being unreasonable? You're being beta. my EX was super submissive and never refused me So you settled for somebody worse than your ex. Good job. replacing her would take some time. Oneitis, scarce mentality, or both. I can't see how guys can get into an LTR with somebody who they aren't sexually compatible with. Sexual compatibility should be the priority when screening for LTR. You know the answer. Either find a new LTR who matches your sex drive or just spin plates and have multiple optio… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Do some girls actively seek out beta males?The age completely varies. In some Asian cultures your family will disown you if a man does not propose to you in your mid 20's. In western culture, some girls (women at this point) are still riding the CC through their 30's. My sister knows a lot of women like this. One of them has like 4 kids and my sister would tell me that she would leave her kids alone at night to go out with some unemployed drug dealers. They would steal her car and one of them crashed it IIRC. I remember I was trying to h… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How does one keep plates interested without texting or snap chatting them frequently?Good dick | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 05:48 AM |
| 2 | What to say?Me personally, I'd ignore her text. Wait at least a day and then hit her up inviting her to meet up. If she brings up boyfriend again or says she's busy, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are actually making good progress at the gym?I don't even pay for it. It came for free with my family's payment plan which is why I still use it. But I hardly use it. Sometimes I'll be wondering why I even have the app. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Is my ltr doomed because I was beta before I got into itwtf is manual sex. The idea of "shes not yours its just your turn" helped me so much to get over insecurities about guys shes blown. Unless you popped her cherry (blood after sex), I'm 100% sure she's bullshitting you and she had at least 3 of those 4 guys balls deep in her. She is also constantly afraid I am cheating on her after she caught tinder on my phone. didn't see this coming. why do you have tinder? Is my ltr doomed because I was beta before I got into it long story short. You're fucked… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are actually making good progress at the gym?I still enjoy the gym and still prioritize it, but going to the gym less now is even better. I used to struggle getting to the end of my workout. Too many times I'd skip calfs, abs, and forearms because I was too burnt out. And I couldn't even focus on my workouts cause I just didn't have the mental energy for it. I've also chiseled some other things out of my life. I used to always have a show that I'd be watching like Walking Dead or rewatching SOA for the 3rd time but now I've pretty much los… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 11:15 PM |
| 4 | How many of you guys are actually making good progress at the gym?A lot of it depends on your genes and testosterone. This is why you've seen some guys in your high school who are built like trucks and don't even lift. Maybe they do a few pushups at home. I'm not saying to be discouraged, but everybody is different. Beginner lifters are likely to gain good muscle mass or strength gains in the first few weeks. It's called newbie gains. It also depends on what type of lifting you're doing. Are you bodybuilding or strength training? Some guys like you just don't … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I change my clothing style up?Don't feel weird about it. Own it. Start adding little things. Example: I was in your shoes like 2 years ago. I started a new office job and I wanted to dress nice, but didn't know what I'd feel comfortable wearing. I bought some nice dress shoes and wore them around the office. After a few days I got used to them and when I would go out with friends and stuff I would wear them and get a lot of compliments and I'd feel comfortable in them. Even though when I first started wearing them I thought … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Should I change my clothing style up?It's important to be comfortable in your style. If you "try" to dress up but aren't really feeling it, you're going to give off that vibe. You don't need to dress up completely. You can just add a thing or 2. Check out Dustin Dollin. He's a pro skater. He wears button ups and blazers but still has the skater look. Also, just dress for the occasion. If you work at a warehouse unloading trucks, I wouldn't recommend wearing khaki's with a cardigan. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:57 PM |
| 3 | How to demote a fwb?In that situation I would react naturally. Her going out clubbing often with guys would naturally cause me to be less emotionally interested in her. I'll still be physically attracted to her, even if she had a boyfriend or husband. It would just cause me to be emotionally unattracted which will naturally push the relationship down to plate status as I would only have the intentions to fuck and nothing more. I would avoid texting if it wasn't for meeting up and I'd avoid meeting up if sex wasn't … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:49 PM |
| 7 | Is it okay to ask a woman what days she can't do?I like to call a girl and tell her that we're going to play the 3 question game. I ask her a question, she answers, and then she asks a question. 2 of the main questions I ask are, "do you live with roommates?" (I ask this because I want to know that if we end up fucking, can we sometimes go to her place or are we going to be dependent on going to my place all the time) and "Do you work or go to school? What's your schedule like?" (I'm gauging her availability and making sure I schedule our date… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What does trp think of the book Models by Mark Manson?Most people on this sub would suggest it | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | How many of you have moved to better towns and cities and how has it affected your life both dating and non-dating wise?Moved from the west coast to the mid-west and let me tell you, my life has improved tremendously. First of all rent is cheaper and I get more bang for the buck. Currently I pay $450 for rent, all utilities included and I get my own bathroom, laundry and dryer, full amenities. we also have a pool and just a really nice home overall. Before moving, I was living with my mom. I was living in a 3 bedroom condo with 6 other people. Now I live in a 3 bedroom house with 2 other people and the amount of … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Overly loving in LTR?You're leaning too close to the beta side. The only red pill thing I read on this post is that you guys were having casual sex. Yes, you should have a romantic side and yes you should express your love some times, but that is only after you've established a "red pill" relationship. You reward her with affection, attention, and gifts. I think you're just overly beta. You can tell by the fact that you displayed scarcity and oneitis when she said that she wanted to break things off (listen to her a… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:07 PM |
| 5 | How to start the spinning of a plate? Need adviceDon't expect girls to initiate meet-ups with you until you're Chad Thundercock or you've made her eyes roll back far enough in her head during sex. She's not a plate yet. A plate is someone you're having sex with casually. What you have is a potential plate. What you want to do is initiate meet ups for sex. You should still be a bit indirect about them (like your "can I use your restroom" line). What I do is either invite them out again for a drink or something, and then lead back to my place. "… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 08:49 PM |
| 12 | How To Seduce Women With The Power Of Your VoiceI'm not in sales, but the previous company I worked for had us take some online courses on sales. I worked in marketing so learning some sales techniques would help me decide what content to include and maybe what words to use. Anyways, I noticed that there were some red pill gems in the courses. Things like being absolutely certain about what you're selling and the price you're asking for it (holding frame / you are the prize). Also, the importance of body language and voice tonality. This is w… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?Yeah this is something that I just became aware about. This guy Chris Do said that when he was starting his business, he tried juggling work, friends & family, and the gym but he just couldn't hack it so he had to stop going to the gym to make it work. I'm not going to let go of the gym but right now I'm considering just a 3-4 day workout program. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?I have to try it out. My gym has free yoga classes so I should probably take advantage of those. Thanks man! | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?Luckily my career is something that I can freelance from home. My roommate's sister travels around the world. She was living in Columbia for a few months and she was also in Thailand. She only works a few hours a week designing websites. I went to have a network big enough hopefully next year where I can work full time from home. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?I've yet to do some traveling but it's a definite for sure in the near future | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?Good for you! Although I don't like going out to parties / clubs / bars on weekends, I always enjoy a good reggae or music festival. It's fun looking forward to one because I know I'll have a blast so it helps keep me productive the few weeks before because I know that I'm hella gonna let loose. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?That schedule is really tight man. Especially because you work 12 hours. Just don’t burn out, take a vacation soon! | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?Yeah that sounds about the same for me. When I relax, I really indulge into it. Not in an awful way but maybe I'll have a cheat meal, or go out and get ice cream or go to the movies. IMO I feel like it's healthy to plan your cool-off time vs. deciding to just do it out of impulse. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Here in the Red Pill people say to improve your career and get your finances in order. As a 21 year old, how do I do that?You’re good. You’re “investing” right now by going to school towards your future career. Just make sure that when you graduate you put in the work to find a good job. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on here?I told her to not call back. Depends on how you said this but this could've easily been read as you coming off as butthurt. The convo lasted 5 minutes. So I didn’t get around to setting up a date. wtf how. My conversations are 2 minutes max and I get a place and time as well as some quick flirting. I think she's trying to see if you'll chase her right now but that's a wild guess. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Had a fling with a coworker that turned sour how to proceed.Pretty much just damage control. You already fucked up. Best thing you can do is just act stoic and professional. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Should I fuck my Sister's long time friend?The girl is tbh, a dumb hoe. Don't stick your dick in crazy. Last week I worked with her. I escalated a bit and she reciprocated. Don't shit where you eat you stupid idiot. I have warned my sister that her friend is a huge hoe since the beginning but she refuses to see it. Your sister knows. She just doesn't want you to think that she's hanging out with a ho. Not only do you work with her, but she's a family friend. That's a DOUBLE don't shit where you eat. This sounds like a oneitis that has be… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:09 AM |
| 2 | So how does trp feel about paying for dates?It's your judgement. If it's not your idea to buy her a drink, you're being beta bux. If you're feeling good and you just want to be generous, then maybe you can just buy them a drink. Let's say you're chilling, you're having a good time, she makes a pretty good joke and your natural response is to just say, "Hey, that was funny. I'm getting us some shots." | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend added my friend on facebook.Some girlfriends don't like to be seen as "the girl who steals the guy from his friends". They don't like to be seen as bad overall (avoid responsibility and accountability). Maybe she wants to be on good terms with your friends and family. That's good. That's a green flag. Maybe she wants to let your friend hit it raw. I don't know. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Mother cheating on father.Like I said, it's your call. If you feel like exposing your mom will help out overall then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend says I’m disrespecting her by having female friends and giving female coworkers my number?She's poking at your frame. Just say something like, "Why are you getting in the way of work related things?" | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 11:53 PM |
| 14 | Mother cheating on father.That’s your call. You can buy earplugs at your local drug store for a few $$ to help you sleep. Even if you get your mother kicked out, she’s still gonna be the way she is and your dad is still gonna be beta. Remove yourself from that toxic environment asap. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadSounds like you’re tailoring your plans on “if” maybe she’ll hit you up. Just hit her up and set up a meet. If she’s busy and doesn’t counter offer, soft next or hard. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadI would’ve just proposed something. This way you get your answer of if she’s going to make time to fuck you or not. This way you don’t sit around waiting for her to engage you. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 3 | LTR potentially getting a job two hours away.Cut your losses. She doesn’t care about you enough to pass the job. Enjoy the last few days with her and then ghost slowly. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Tips and Advice on moving in with pregnant LTRDNA test for sure. Want to move in together to raise the baby. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/18 10:57 PM |
| -1 | Tips and Advice on moving in with pregnant LTRThanks man. I'm definitely focusing on frame. I only see her when I've handled all my shit and I'm feeling good and want to relax. I don't see her when I'm feeling down or too tired to function. I am very selective about what I say. Overall, she does most of the talking and I just listen and tease / lightly neg to keep attraction. Definitely owning my shit now. Taking more action in the last few weeks than I have in the last few months. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/18 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Tips and Advice on moving in with pregnant LTRSo we should raise a child in separate homes? | /r/askMRP | 11/12/18 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Wife is going to happy hour with some guy friendsYou can't expect respect if you don't respect yourself. You're not owning your shit so your wife is finding some juice in her life by going out with other people. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/18 09:15 PM |
| 3 | LMR even for kissing?No. Sounds like you're hamstering about a rejection. LMR and kissing are not the same thing. It really just sounds like she's not attracted to you and if she's rejected you, I suggest you hard next. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 09:11 PM |
| 4 | How much does good sex matter really?Bedroom domination begins outside the bedroom. Yes. That's something I wanted to point out. For example: let's say you just messed up on a huge order that cost your company a couple thousand dollars. Your boss is pissed. You go home disappointed in yourself. Now, try and dominate a girl with this energy. It's not gonna be there. Maybe you'll pretend and act tough, but right now you feel shame and distracted. Ok, now imagine getting a promotion, and then going to the gym after work and hitting a … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 08:35 PM |
| 2 | How much does good sex matter really?Sex is extremely important. It's very important in marriage, LTR's, and plates. It keeps them coming back for more and it separates you from the other guys. It can make you more attractive than Chad Thundercock if he doesn't know how to provide the sex god experience. With that said, sex isn't the be all, end all. You still need to have a high enough SMV and focus on improving it. If she's just a plate, then good sex is all you really need. Although if you want a FWB or LTR, you're going to need… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 08:24 PM |
| 12 | What to wear on a first date?If you don't want to go to a bar then don't go. If you go because she wants to, you're already in her frame and are already losing before you've even met her. jeans and button down is fine for a bar. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 08:18 PM |
| 5 | When should I stop doing ONS and hookups and look for a LTR?You should use the search bar | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 05:54 PM |
| 7 | When should I stop doing ONS and hookups and look for a LTR?Definitely not for another few years at least. First you have to START doing ONS and plating. You're asking when you should retire from the NBA when you haven't even made the high school jr varsity team. You're wasting your time and mental energy by even thinking about an LTR. Lose your virginity first. Don't ask me how, read the sidebar and use the search bar. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some green flags on a woman?Thanks for your response. I guess I need to explain more on my points. Doesn’t hang out with mostly guys. I meant when you first meet her or when you’re plating her, her main social groups consist of mostly guys. In some cases where she’s the only girl in the friend group. This is a red flag. Has close girl friends. This one is important. If she doesn’t have any close friends, then it’s a red flag. If even her gender can’t be around her, then you’re going to have a bad time. The rest of the poin… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I date someone who is going to die?Fuck her and then decide if you want to keep fucking her or not | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 05:01 AM |
| 16 | If giving a girl too much attention comes off as needy, how can you give her a balanced amount just so she stays attracted to you/doesn't lose interest?Push pull, negging | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Trp changed my lifeNo, I'm sure the numbing is only on the inside of the condom. I've fucked dozens of times with these and have never had the girl notice anything off. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 10:15 PM |
| 3 | How tf to respondDoesn't make sense to me. I'd just ignore | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it always weak/bad to explain yourself?I recently got passed on for a job for not explaining myself. You're taking it too fucking literal. If you fuck up in your job, explain to your boss where the mistake was made and what you will do to prevent it from happening again. they take it as an admission of guilt or wrongdoing and get real bold all of us sudden to start treating me as a guilty party. It's because you're saying this shit with a weak frame. Your explaining yourself because you have a weak frame. They're not giving you shit … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Is nofap overrated?If you're someone who only masturbates occasionally (1-2x a week) and are not addicted to porn or watch hardcore porn, then you won't really feel any different from going nofap. The people who get "superpowers" are the guys who are addicted to hardcore porn and masturbate 3-5x a day. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How tf to respondWhat was your reply? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Soft nextingRead it on your free time, and ignore it because it doesn't offer you any value. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve been dating has admitted to fucking someone elseI just feel a pit in my stomach and leave her place. Sounds like oneitis. Remember, AWALT. ALWAYS assume that she is capable of cheating. Even if she's your LTR. Even if she's your wife! This leads me to ask her if she’s fucked anyone else recently. You really shouldn't give a fuck about this stuff. Just like asking her how many guys she's fucked. I understand you were vetting her, but being emotional about it is a beta move. Is it over with her? No, you just demote her to plate. It seems like s… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Plate keeps making fun of my stutterThat just sounds disrespectful and way past anyone's boundaries. IMO, I hard next anyone who'd disrespect me like that. If she's capable of being so insensitive, it's only going to lead to more shit down the line. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:18 PM |
| 12 | Trp changed my lifeI've used these before. It's good to have some of these in hand as well as some regular ones. Like if you haven't fucked in a while and you want to give her a good time so she comes for more, then you can use the numbing one and just focus on making her cum. These condoms are also good for guys who like the visuals. Because these condoms numb your dick, it doesn't really feel that great, but you're able to focus more on what she looks like when she's riding you or you can look at your dick pound… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | My LTR/girlfriend feels too good to be true - TRP makes it sound like she doesn't even existThe thing about this sub is that the percentage of girls doing a certain thing or being a certain way are so high and so discreet that it's essentially just advised to assume that AWALT. For example: countless times I've seen on this sub a guy describe a girl like your LTR. He then will say that she ended up fucking his roommate or she had a ONS with Tyrone at a party. Shit, I've witnessed it myself! I had a co-worker who was religious and conservative. We went out drinking one night and she got… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with shit tests from girls you’re not interested in?I'd just pass her shit tests, but not give any impression of being attracted or bring up anything sexual. Use her as practice, but passively reject any advancements form her. Seem like you're clueless about her feelings. Play dumb. It's great practice. When I broke up with my LTR and I was trying to game and spin plates, I went on this date with this girl I wasn't attracted to. I didn't have plates yet or any options so I just went along with it for fun. It was an eye opening experience because … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Top plate reveals she likes to be dominant in bed.I think that you misinterpreted what she said, especially since you were having sex while she said it. I don't think she meant that she wanted to put on a leather mask and drip hot candle wax on your back while you screamed uncle. Maybe she wants more variety? If you're doing the dominant thing every single time, believe it or not, it can get bland. oo, what about playing a fantasy? There's the stepmom / stepson fantasy, or the teacher / student fantasy (she'd be the teacher. Consider this. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Did her friend cockblock me?Lol, I had the beginning part of your story happen to me too. I DM'd this girl on IG and tried to game her. She responded with something like, "you're an asshole". Whatever. I deleted the thread and un-followed her. A few weeks later, I added and messaged her again (not knowing it was the same chick, I think I even used the same response lol). She responded positively this time and I got her number and we met up at a park to smoke. During that date, she told me that I'd messaged her before and i… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP to salvage an LTR where I went full betaJesus, what a fucking reply [Insert Drake Clap Meme] | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 10:59 PM |
| 7 | How to tell her what to do in bed?The answers are literally in the book. The dude tells you what to say, when and how to say it. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Ex saw me on Tinder, messaged me and brought back my oneitisBy this time I was playing it like I didn't care, but for whatever reason I feel like shit inside. She knows you care and she knows how you feel inside. Your mistake was interacting with her. You gave her huge validation and attention. You basically gave her everything she needed, while you got less than nothing. This is why you fucking ghost and hard next. Block her on social media if you have to. Maybe she know that you'd improved yourself a bit, and was wondering if you were still the little … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Fwb is telling me indirectly that she wants to get pregnant - Should I bail tf out?I did go raw and I nutted in her. Only after I had her go get checked and she'd shown me proof that she was taking BC daily. I thought I'd covered all my bases but I was unaware that anti-biotics counteracted BC. She knew about it though because her older sister got pregnant the same way. How did it go after she told you she was preg? At first, I was cool with it. I'd read a few posts on the main sub about what to do when you find out you're baby mamma is pregnant. Everyone enforces to stay calm… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Is banging a one block away neighbor, considered as shitting where eating?You're fine. Unless she's part of social group that you care about, I'd say go for it. It works out great since you can literally walk to each other's place. But, like I said, if she's your best friend's sister or your sister's best friend, shit could backfire so just as long as she's not connected to someone important, you're game. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Do women really sleep around as much as trp makes them out to?Ha no, but unfortunately this story, if not worse, has happened to too many men. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Fwb is telling me indirectly that she wants to get pregnant - Should I bail tf out?I would. It sounds like you're hamstering staying with her though. I made the mistake of overlooking this shit with my LTR. She kept saying that her biggest fetish was to get cream-pied. I wouldn't even risk it. I'd use a condom 100% of the time. She said she'd get on birth control and she did. I thought we'd be safe. Boy was I wrong. She was also, like your FWB, making remarks about wanting a baby. Constantly telling me about her co-worker's pregnancy and showing me pictures. A few weeks later,… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Fwb is telling me indirectly that she wants to get pregnant - Should I bail tf out?pregnant at a chipotle. That's about where I'd expect a pregnant chick to be. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Do women really sleep around as much as trp makes them out to?Not all, but most. At least the ones who are fuckable. It's dangerous to assume that this one special girl you're talking to is not like the rest. She's different! ..until 5 years from now she's pegging you right in the asshole with divorce rape, dead bedroom for months, and she also fucked Chad the neighbor and that guy she told you not to worry about but it's ok because it didn't mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why isn't rejecting a girl a suggested strategy here?soft / hard nexting and push / pull are both forms of rejection. If you reject a girl, and then go after her in a week or month or whatever, what would the effects be? Thing is, girls have an abundance of options. A ton more than any of us here. a HB5 could make a new IG profile and post 1 photo showing mild cleavage and she'll get more attention than your Tinder profile that you've had for months. Because of this, girls will forget about you quickly. You'll pop your head up and she'll be like, … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Would getting a Star Wars tattoo look too nerdy/beta?Nowadays, getting tattoos is following the crowd. Regardless of what you get. Shit, even face tattoos have lost their edginess. Get it because YOU want it. Do not expect people to point it out and give you attention. Invest in a good fucking artist. It doesn’t matter if you have the sickest drawing of all time. If your artist doesn’t know what he’s doing, you’re going to get a tattoo that looks like those popsicles with gum ball eyes that are supposed to look like spongebob but come out deformed… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 5 | I got caught shitting where I eatJust stay calm. I’ve been in this situation before where you tell the wrong person that you are thinking of leaving and it ends up reaching the bosses. Basically all they did was threaten me. They told me that they heard I wanted to leave and it basically just tells them that you don’t care about the job and that you’re going to be dragging your feet. Do not confirm, even if they have clear audio. Say something like, “if I do leave, I’ll definitely give a 2 week notice. And I will be performing … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 01:22 PM |
| 5 | What does your life look like in the later stage if you're not having a kid?TRP is not 100% against having kids. It is our main biological mission to spread our seed. Just make sure that you only have a kid when you are absolutely certain you want one and with the proper mother. Keep in mind that when you have a kid, you lose your power. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 12:42 AM |
| 8 | Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever?Plates - Never LTR's - Rarely | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever?Talk to a therapist. Get that shit behind you first before you start throwing up emotions to a girl. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Why do the women in my life treat me with such disrespect?You don't respect yourself. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Can you be a Chad in your 30s?Yep | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck can I stop being so needy.In your case (although I always advice being genuine in your life), you'll have to fake it till you make it. Look up field reports on the main sub and see the state of mind and actions that the OP's develop. One of my favorite's is u/ Heathcliff-- | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | LTR Is in vacationIt sounds like you're trying to front about being this Chad persona but the fact that you're asking this question on this sub and you're expressing how emotional she's been about this trip proves otherwise. If you were really "the dude stealing everyone’s girl when I was single" you wouldn't be worried about this shit. In fact, Chad would be too busy trying not to cheat while his girl was away vs. worrying about her 24/7. It is what it is, and there's nothing you can do right now to prevent her … | /r/askMRP | 03/12/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | My GF keeps asking people if she’s cooler than me?How old is she? You're basically describing my roommates who also always get compliments and are both high SMV. My roommate (31F) is, of course, on the decline. Even though she's still one of the hottest girls in any room, so she's becoming really insecure about what people think of her. Attractive women are accustomed to being treated a certain way, and some are also aware that their looks will fade eventually, so they hope that people will notice their "fun personalities" even though that with… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong for not being able to have sex everyday?If you’re not into it then that may be the issue. I haven’t had problems getting hard in months. Every time me and my gf make out now I get rock hard. And I want to fuck all day. Although when we first started dating, it was different. Her sex drive was higher than mine and multiple times I had to tell her no. Either by dick was sore or I was just tired or not feeling it. Only reason it’s different now is because her placenta was bleeding a little and her doctor told us to avoid sex for a few we… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 10:40 PM |
| 8 | Success in straight-up telling a girl you just want to fuck?I'm reposting from a comment I gave to an askTRP post titled "Ever Get Up and Leave In The Middle of a Date"? My first Tinder date ever. I matched with this chick and got her number. We talked on the phone twice to set up a meet and we flirted a little. I'd invited her over for Mario Kart to which she was down with, but an hour or 2 before our meet up, she asked if we could eat somewhere and that she hadn't ate all day (it was like 3 or 4pm) She was vegan so I asked if Chipotle was cool and she … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever live with a female roommate?Still. Could be SJW Feminist | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Ex-Girlfriend Pregnant....If she does have the kid, make sure that you get a paternity test. In fact, mention it now. Say that you are going to get a paternity test before you ever sign anything. If she agrees, then that means that she didn't get cream-pied by other dudes. If she fights it, that means she's unsure who the baby daddy is. She might even confess that the baby might not even be yours. Some girls will tell you they're pregnant so you'll think it's "ok" to have unprotected sex, and then get pregnant for reals,… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Ex that ghosted me 1 year ago just contacted me.replying "Haha". oh boy. That's worse than anything I could think of. Keep ghosting her. Make her suffer by dating much hotter girls than her. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever live with a female roommate?It could go catastrophic in a number of ways. She could be cold and make remarks like, "oh, what happened with the last girl?" if you bring some new girl over. She could call the girl by a different girl's name and say it was an accident. She could give you a lot of shit, saying that you don't know how to stick with one girl. Make dumb remarks like, "hope you don't catch something!" If the roommate is toxic and especially if she's hit the wall, I don't see this going well at all. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:00 AM |
| 6 | How to have more authority?Push the boundaries little by little. Tell her to call you daddy while you put the tip in and don't insert any more until she screams daddy | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Would you ever live with a female roommate?Too big of a risk IMO. Is she gonna be cool with you bringing plates over? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How to have more authority?It starts in the bedroom. You need a healthy dominant / submissive dynamic in the bedroom. Read Sex God Method. Once you have her calling you daddy and implementing the "father" fantasy during sex, then you can extend the dynamic into your regular lives like having her only call you daddy (at least when you 2 are alone). I have to stress that if your current LTR is not submissive or if you started the relationship before you found TRP, then your chances of having the relationship you dream of is… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | My place makes her unconfortable.Maybe your room smells. Maybe your feet smell when you take off your shoes. Either way, figure it out. A girl feeling uncomfortable is an emotion you don't want to include in the roller coaster. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have experience with Zma supplementation?Funny that I see this post today though as I ran out of ZMA 2 night's ago so last night I had to go to bed without it. I did wake up about 10% more restless, which could be determined by other factors. Either way, I need to buy some tonight! | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have experience with Zma supplementation?ZMA should be an essential for any man. Red pill or blue. Zing and Magnesium are vitamins that help relax the mind and body. You'll hear many reports of people saying that they get better and deeper sleep with ZMA, so take it before bed. ZMA is best absorbed when taken on an empty stomach, so make sure that you don't consume anything 1 hour before and after taking it. ZMA helps improve brain function, and helps promote healthy testosterone production in males. There's an important ingredient in … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | My place makes her unconfortable.Think back and think about anything that made her feel uncomfortable. Back when I lived at home. I used to walk plates up to my room and the girls would awkwardly say hi to my sisters and then feel uncomfortable when they would come back out. I didn't give a fuck at the time but it still affected the way girls felt when I would invite them over. With my ex-LTR, she would feel really uncomfortable because we would head straight to my room and my room was above the dining room and my bed made nois… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Can you teach me a few good kinky things to say during BJ or sex?"Damn baby" "Mm, you like that dick in your mouth baby?" "I know you like that dick in your mouth" "Did you miss sucking my dick baby?" "Yeah baby suck that dick" "Go deeper baby" | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend/Plate asks for break?has some serious family issues, especially with her drug addicted siblings and how they treat her parents. this seems like a red flag. she also has mono this is contagious through saliva. You know that right? Overall, you handled it well. You weren't needy and you gave her her space. This could be a shit test. Just soft next for now and approach new girls. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 09:55 PM |
| 7 | Success in straight-up telling a girl you just want to fuck?There's a post that was posted this week on the main sub called "The Rat". Read it. If you're in the top 10% of men, this might work (numbers game). BUT, the reason I highly advice against it is PSYCHO'S. First dates aren't for you to mumble some words together hoping something clicks in her and she decides to fuck (although most men see it this way). First dates are for you to screen her. Do you really want to invite some stranger over to your house? You want somebody you've never met to know y… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to this hamster if I don't replyNothing will happen because there's zero chemistry between you 2. If you ghost her, she's not missing out on anything and will forget about you in a day. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I train strength or size first?It's your preference. For me, my strength is slightly more important than my muscle mass so I focus a bit more on increasing my weights. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Should I next dis bitch?eh, possibly you showed too much interest. Sending her this means that you were thinking of her enough to maybe look for this and send it to her. It's all minuscule shit and tbh you didn't do anything wrong. Hard next and approach new women. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Is skateboarding perceived as a beta male hobby?Doing and being passionate about anything is an alpha trait. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | A girl I’m dating shows not interest> my country is still somehow fairly strong on religion and values, Then you should ask people from your country for advice IMO. Most of this sub will cater heavily to the American or Western culture. > I guess it’s just my own insecurities... I’ve been improving a lot lately but I still have thoughts like “why the hell would she even go out with me? What’s wrong with her? There’s gotta be a different motive” At least with her I’m faking confidence This is something that you need to fix first be… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Am I the only one who misread this?don't take dating advice from women | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 06:09 PM |
| -1 | Am I the only one who misread this?"I'm taking you to dinner this week! What day are you free?" oof She hasn't responded. I'm sure she's confused with the ex in the picture. lol you dumbass. This is some fine hamstering your brain is doing. My natural friend said she was totally flirting with you... wtf is a "natural friend". Also, don't take dating advice from women! That's like asking a deer how to hunt a deer. It seems like your performance was mediocre during your 1 time hookup so she's decided not to ever pursue anything sex… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | A girl I’m dating shows not interestlater that night she told me she never had a boyfriend or done anything. Most likely lying. Especially if she'll kiss you on the first date. She never texts me or comments on our dates, something like “I had fun last night” or whatever. That's needy as fuck. Men don't expect comments like that. Only females get upset over shit like this. initiates touching during dates but I just kinda feel she’s not into me. Touching is a sign of interest you dumbass. Sex may be tough, she’s a virgin, and a “go… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:52 PM |
| 5 | My Father is a feminine cuck and I just want to beat the shit out of himDon't think that just because you luckily discovered this sub that you're oh so high and mighty and above your dad and brother. Most of the guys on this sub were raised by single mothers. So you're already at an advantage. In fact, only a few of us can give you advice based off of experience because we all wish we had our dad's in our lives to help raise us, even if he's beta. First off, it is what it is. Your dad is how he is and your brother is going to be how he wants to be. Why don't you tak… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Giving wife a book recommended by RedPillWomen?It's based off your own judgement. Some women would burn the book and then tell all of their friends how you're a misogynist pig. Other women would receive the book and say, "Thank you, I know how hard you work to be a good husband to me and I've wanted to reciprocate the effort but I didn't know how, this book will help so much!" Is your woman seeking guidance for how she can improve herself for the sake of her family? If you're just hoping that you can put this book under the Christmas tree an… | /r/askMRP | 30/11/18 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Mistyped my first message, now I feel like I need to do damage controlLater that night, I hit her up on insta, Maybe should've waited just a little longer like next day. I feel like I need to clear things up, Just leave it as is and assume that she understood it was a typo. Don't ever DEER. If she brings it up, just own it. "Oh, I'm surprised you caught my secret message" or some shit. You're highly overthinking it, and by the way you asked her out.. Hey [girl’s name], it was nice meeting you today! You seem pretty like a pretty chill girl :) I’d like to invite yo… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys read non fiction only or some fiction as well?Most books you can learn a thing or 2 from. Even if they're fiction, they sort of widen your scope of reality and just help you think bigger. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys read non fiction only or some fiction as well?I agree it's a good way to start. I remember when I wanted to get back into reading, I hadn't read a book in years. I'd pick up a book and think, "fuck this is weird". It'd been so long. I got back into it by reading the Walking Dead comics. Not the best start, but it got me back into the groove of absorbing the content of a page, and then turning the page and following the story. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Since embracing TRP have you had Alpha altercations?I'm assuming this is just a fact of life that I as an Alpha will have to become accustomed to, lmao, wtf. This is some gay as shit to say haha It's cool to practice your stance and body language, but first of all just saying that you're an alpha already makes you seem like a fucking loser. Your presence and state of mind give off more of an impression to people than your shoulders blades tucked together. You probably think that by walking with your head high you're the king of the jungle, but yo… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Does Gaming at your Gym count as shitting where you're eating?I'd say just approach her indirectly. Don't flat out ask her if she's down to fuck. Be friendly. Go up to her, tell her that you've noticed that she's a regular and that you're curious as to what workout program she's doing or whatever. Be bold, but don't be a creep. See how she responds. I've approached a girl and her body language was submissive. She was crossing her legs and was swaying side to side. It was cute. This other time I was at the gym while it was packed. I saw this girl using a ca… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 10:57 PM |
| 2 | AudiobooksI just downloaded Audible. I love it as I listen to it when I'm driving which is ~1-1.5 hours a day. Feels good being productive in traffic and not feeling like I'm wasting my time. I think maybe I started off with the wrong book. I'm listening to "The Ultra-Mind Solution" which is a book that informs you on how bad foods, toxins, and nutrition deficiencies can affect our moods, health, and brain function. This book has a ton of new terms regarding vitamins, organs, etc that I'm not familiar wit… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?Guys who are fucking are posting here. Guys who aren't are just observing or are on MGTOW. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 08:12 PM |
| 5 | ex-gf popped up out the blue and tried to scam me, should i fuck with her emotions?Should I buy a pizza and post it on social media to rub it in her face :-D Are you serious? Once I realized she was all about a hustle and no sex, I continued on as if she wasn't there and she left. If this was true, and you are genuinely indifferent about her, then how could you even consider going through the trouble of buying a pizza and posting it? Just to try and maybe upset her? You're actually going to give her what she wants. The attention. She'll know that you're posting the pizza to sp… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.Avoiding all refined or processed sugars seems to be one of the biggest ones. Mercury is a big one. It's in large fish like tuna, and even in your dental fillings. Eat nutritious. Bright colored vegetables, fruits, etc. I like to eat 1/2 a gram of fat per pound of body weight. I've noticed better function and even increased muscle gains. Get these sources from eggs, nuts, avocados, meats, atc. Supplements I take which I find ideal are Omega 3, Vitamin D, ZMA, I take a supplement called AlphaJYM … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.It sounds like your brain is messed up. If your nutrition is shit and you're deficient in vitamins, then no amount of advice or motivation is ever going to fix your problems. Fix yourself first before you try to learn charisma or improve your game. Go back to your roots. What are you putting into your body? Are you taking vitamins? Are you exercising regularly? It sounds like your body is deficient in important nutrients and could be flooded with toxins if your body keeps falling back to routine… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I caught scabiesYou're an idiot | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I caught scabiesone is a girl I've been trying to LTR, went beta on for a minute and just recently am getting back in her good graces..... Sounds like the beginning of a really bad LTR to me | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl cool with me coming but...If she was really DTF, she wouldn't mention her roomies and have it already set up for them to take a hike while you're visiting her. 3 hours away. Only reason I’m going there is because I’m heading by her city while I’m visiting fam and she’s on the way Even if she's on the way, it's still seems like scarce mentality stopping by to see her. What, you don't have any plates in your area? Even if you don't, act like it, by not spending your time with girls that live 3 hours away. She can't even be… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Meditations in an EmergencyI just go in the restroom and do pushups. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 27, 2018Great to see that you are taking maximum action in every aspect with only 1 year on the sub. Question: I've heard of jelqing. What are the sources that got you started on it and have you seen any results? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding Gym CurseLook up a an online fitness program (it'd help if you have to spend money on it like bodybuilding,com or jimstoppani,com) I remember I was looking up this program by Cory Gregory on bodybuilding,com called "Squat Every Day". I learned everything about it. I studied it for a few weeks reading up on the nutrition plan and the workout routine. I went to the grocery store and bought all of the foods that was recommended by the program. I'd mapped out my schedule of what time I was going to wake up, … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Kino Escalation - How To Attract Women With Physical TouchAnother kino move that I do for step 1 is that I point out something that they're wearing or maybe a tattoo. I'll lightly grab their wrist, hand or arm and ask something about her bracelet or ring that she's wearing. A great way to break the touch barrier. Don’t dance with three feet of space between you and the girl to leave room for the holy spirit. lol, this made me chuckle. it’s better to get rejected for a kiss than it is to wonder what might have happened if you made a move. This is 100% t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | If women really are these massive sluts that trp states they are then just how many dudes have they slept with?You’ll never know and it doesn’t matter. Only thing you can look out for are red flags which indicate damaged goods. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Is it a green flag if the girl does NOT want threesomes?Some girls have different fantasies than others. Some girls get turned on by different shit. I wouldn’t consider it a green flag. It’s just a preference. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:29 PM |
| 2 | 1on1 with a model, what did I do wrong?I think with a girl like that, she wants you to go for it. No, you should not go for it for the slight risk of getting charged with sexual assault. She seems like she has a ton of guys in line so she's trying to weed out the weak ones like you. I kept teasing her the whole night about her being a model, One of your fuck ups is that you framed the interaction as her being a model. You put her on a pedestal and it's obvious by how many times you mention that she's a model. So the night ended up wi… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 11:19 PM |
| 13 | Maintaining Frame with Alphasweird flex, but ok. | /r/askMRP | 21/11/18 10:53 PM |
| 7 | How much game do we actually need to date/keep a hot girl?Often times the guy becomes boring because he's in the LTR. He was fun and exciting before, but now he just seems boring because he's comfortable and he feels like he doesn't need to put in the work anymore. IMO, you need to work even harder when you're in an LTR. It's extremely easy to get comfortable and back slide until you end you getting cucked and you finally wake up and realize how lazy you've been. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Whats your guys personal views on alcohol? Does it improve your game or hurt it in the long run?Right now that I'm in an LTR and pretty much monk mode just focusing on my finances and goals. Now that I'm sober, I've realized that going out (bars, clubs, etc.) seems so pointless to me and I only really enjoyed it because I would be drinking. I guess I've become more genuine in the things I actually want to do. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | new ltr chasing another manGame other women and DGAF. You say that she's good for pre-selection but it doesn't look like you're utilizing her to meet other women. What you should've done is talked to so many different girls that night that you don't even realize what she's doing. You've already fucked this up by being butt hurt and jealous. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What kind of things to post to social media to display abundance/not boring life?http://www.christiangreypua.com/basics-of-online-game-part-one/ | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:22 PM |
| 4 | After lifting I attract a lot of women, but the right kind of.The thing is that you're not taking any action (besides lifting) to build attraction. You're just waiting around trying to peacock and get some girl to hopefully approach you. Another reason is because average girls get hit on the most so they have the biggest ego's. They get so much attention and validation that they think they can have any attractive dude they see which is why you get more IOI's from them. If you want a hot girl, go approach her. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I fuck less attractive girls when I have no active plates?You really just need 1 date. Just 1 date could turn into a worthy plate that could drain your cock for months. I want to share this with you just in case you do decide to fuck one of the DTF girls. Last year I broke up with an LTR of 5 years. I had no game. No prospects. I was at ground zero, although I was really excited because I had TRP to help me out. One of the first dates I went on was with this HB4. She had nice big tits and a thick wide ass. Her face was really round though and she had t… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How soon to set up another date?That’s something a friend would do | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Coming up on a 6 month dry spell can not figure out whyThat was me last year. I came out of a 5 year LTR with no experience in game or pick-up. I was dry for 2 months! which seemed like an eternity. Once I got that out of the way though I started spinning plates and had pussy every weekend. I recommend you move to a new city or state. The new environment could do some real good for you. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Advice Needed: Coming up on a 6 month dry spell can not figure out whyI've been told in this time-period by three of my closest friend's girlfriends that they would be trying get with me if they were not dating their significant other. Smells like bullshit. You're telling me that not 1 girl who isn't your friend is interested, but your closest friends girlfriends are all over you? That's bullshit. They probably told you that out of pity. Maybe you're boring. Your post is definitely boring. Maybe you're too boyfriend material and don't know how to spark up attracti… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I fuck less attractive girls when I have no active plates?wait until someone more attractive comes along? You don't mean this literally right? You need to take action towards fucking a HB. Not waiting. I'm sure you were joking. If you're ok being dry for a bit then I'd advice you to go ahead and hold off until you set up some dates with some cute girls. Lowering yourself to some ugly girls can affect your standards and your reputation if others find out. If you absolutely need to fuck something and you can't even think straight because your sexual ener… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Met this girl at gymI know brother, but at least you have this knowledge now and you know that this shit can happen to you. It puts you at an advantage compared to high status Chad who one day is going to be too pushy with the wrong girl and have his life ruined. This is the game and these are the rules. Learn the rules and then get good at the game! | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Met this girl at gymDoesn't seem like you did anything wrong. In fact, not being too pushy and direct is best in this situation because she lives in the same apartments as you so worst case scenario she could start rumors about you being creepy or harassing her and that could potentially get you kicked out of your complex. Just hard next her and reconsider shitting where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm too arrogant: need advice how to smoothen behaviourI mean, you come across as butt hurt in both examples. If you had nexted both of them and didn't want to see them again then your reactions are appropriate, but it sounds like you're getting butt hurt by these girls actions and then you're trying to get them back for it. The thing is that you're making girls feel negative, and not in a emotional roller coaster way. It seems like you hold grudges. It could be an ego thing but I would try meditating if I were you. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Will increasing testosterone increase the production of DHT thus more beard?It could help. IMO body hair is mostly genetics. Try eating .5 grams of carbs per lb of body weight (ex. Eat 100 grams of fats if you weigh 200 lbs). Make sure that you're getting your fats from healthy sources like fish, avocado's, almonds, peanut butter, meats. Fats help your body production. Keep in mind though that your hair will grow faster so more frequent haircuts and your nails will grow quicker too. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:53 PM |
| 7 | Why do many men regress when cohabiting with a woman?Then you need more work. You just aren't ready. Your life should be so fucking happy and you should feel so much fucking love in your heart that all you are able to do is share those feelings with somebody (or everybody). You should have an abundance of happiness and love flowing within you so you can share it with your SO and you do so with no expectation for anything in return. Same applies with your guidance and leadership. Your life is so on check and you have everything under control that y… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How soon to set up another date?Have you escalated? What's the farthest you've kino'd? If you haven't even made a move, then she's most likely gotten bored and assumes you aren't interested or are too much of a chump to make a move so she's nexted you. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:40 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with decrease in facial attractiveness during a bulk?I hope your pasta is 100% whole wheat. Pasta along with other similar carbs are "empty" carbs and can lead to fat storage. IMO bread (even if it's 100% whole grain with fiber or whatever) should be removed from your diet. There's debates about it but after I cut out bread from my diet (even if I'm bulking) I see a drastic decrease in bloatness. I'm not expert on acne, but maybe you're eating too much unhealthy oils. Are you using any face creams? There's other better sources of slow digesting ca… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:37 PM |
| 23 | Why do many men regress when cohabiting with a woman?man loses all sense of responsibility ,woman bitches about him not cleaning or organising dates, this is your own fuck up and even if you didn't live with your LTR or wife, she would sense this on you and lose attraction for you. Getting comfortable and lazy is your own fault and her losing attraction for you is also 100% your fault. trying genuinely to stop it. No you didn't. You got lazy. You got comfortable. You had no ambition or goals in life. The obvious answer is “don’t cohabitate”, The o… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:27 PM |
| 7 | 0 women in my life, should I reach out?Should I reach out to girls I know from before, but havent talked to, seen in years,months? Fuck no. This is a HUGE waste of time. I broke up with an LTR of 5 years and the first thing I did was hit up all the girls from high school that I thought I could fuck. I reached out to dozens of girls. The numbers of girls I fucked. Zero. The number of dates I went on. Zero. I had 0% success from trying to reach out to girls from my past. You know who I did have success with? All the new girls that I ap… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Why won't she initiate meet ups? (advice needed)Hit it off well and we've met a few times Have you fucked? What's the farthest you've escalated with her? she does have high interest (or did) How do you know? And what makes you think that she doesn't anymore? so why do I need to initiate meeting up? Why can't she shoot me a message saying "lets meet tonight" Girls asking out guys is taboo nowadays. It's incorrect according to society for a girl to initiate a meet up or approach. I know it's early days, so she's not invested as of yet, which ma… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Going to college as a 24 year old sophomoreYour age is perfectly fine. If you're going to be insecure about it then just don't mention it. IMO you have a better edge since you're an older male. IMO once you're in your late 20's, you naturally develop an IDGAF attitude which is very attractive. You're closer to that then the other guys in your school. The only thing that will turn people off is the insecurity and doubt you place on yourself based off your post. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women out there who don’t salivate and chase “hot” assholes? Or do they really not existPost wall women seek beta providers | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you remove friends?Soft next | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | All my life I thought moving in with a girl before marriage is a good thing, so I'm confused why TRP says it's badAll my life I was told by my mother Yeah yeah. Your mom also told you to always pay for dinner and to never go in for the kiss, unless the girl says it's okay. Moms don't know shit about how to raise a healthy male. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. I always thought that this is the best way to do the vetting, The "vetting" process happens while you are plating her. It starts as soon as you physically meet her. "Vetting" is you determining if you want to maybe promote her to an LTR. but I can't really … | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 07:26 PM |
| 13 | Girl says we dont talk muchCould be ASD She says you can be a good partner, This sounds like she's hamstering to herself that if she escalates with you, it's only because she's seeking something more with you vs. just a ONS. We were making out, she says I kiss too fast. Since she's the first girl you've kissed, she was probably just teaching you how to kiss properly. You handled it well by not telling her that she was your first, but definitely be more mindful of how what you are doing, just so you can improve. Since you'… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Are women JEALOUS of high SMV men that they missed their chance with?If a girl wanted to fuck you in the past, then she only wants to fuck you more. If a girl didn't want to fuck you in the past, then she still probably doesn't want to fuck you, but she sure as hell might want to seek your attention and validation. Just so she can brag to her friends that [insert famous person] DM'd them. If you are 100% certain that she checks your IG, then maybe it's because she wants to see how your value is doing just so that when she brags about knowing you to her friends, s… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 07:10 PM |
| 36 | Happy International Men's day, brothers!Happy Men's Day! Today we celebrate all the value we bring to this world! | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Is being friends with girls worth it to get into social circles/friends of theirs you can fuck?My roommate (31F) is one of my closest friends. She's very attractive. She modeled in the 20's. She has a bunch of guys who just do shit for her. We have a pool guy who came every weekend over the summer to clean our pool at no cost. He said he did it because he liked that she would offer him coffee. We just had a guy deliver a 10ft x 5ft mirror for free. She had to sneak $40 in his pocket cause he wouldn't take anything in return. Anyways, Now that you get the idea of how hot she is, let me tel… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | LTR hosting birthday party, said no sexThere you go! Das what I’m talking about! | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:07 PM |
| 5 | PeriodLTR? It seems like you let her attitude run past your boundaries. Establish a dynamic. Tell her, “you’re being a brat right now. I’d spank you but I’m afraid you’d like it too much” Lighten the mood, but also get your point across. | /r/askMRP | 17/11/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Tricks To Avoid Having "Sexless" Interactions With Women?It sounds like you know enough knowledge but have not practiced any of it. Go get experience. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 03:47 AM |
| 3 | What to do when you’re sick?My frame is weak when I'm sick because I'm lazy, have no energy, etc. I mostly avoid people and just ghost until I feel better. If you have dates lined up, it's a good opportunity for you to display value by canceling or rescheduling the date. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 12:50 AM |
| 4 | How do you only text a girl to make plans when she likes to text throughout the day? Wouldn't not texting throughout the day just show disinterest? Do y'all get what I'm saying?How much is she texting? Is she like double texting? You can, at the very least, adhere to the golden ratio. Give her 2/3 of what she gives you. If you really are busy then just text back when you can. If you have good text game, then this can be a good opportunity to build attraction before y'all meet. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Randomly got this text from a girls "boyfriend"Don't say anything. If she hits you up and tries to initiate a meet up, then proceed at your own risk. But anything less than that is a hard next. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Inconsistent frame?It does happen. Keeping your T levels up and having a healthy schedule can minimize your bad days. If you lift weights regularly, meditate for at least 5-10 minutes every day, eat nutritious, take necessary supplements, etc. then you minimize your "bad" days. In fact, you may even find that you stop having "bad" days and you either have "normal" days or "good" days. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Which book to give to your best friend?The Rational Male physical copy is difficult to read because of how it's formatted. The chance that your friend will actually read the whole thing are very slim unless he's very open minded and reads anything. I'd suggest NMMNG or Book of Pook. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:58 PM |
| 19 | Don't feel like I'm ready for adult life?I'd say it's normal for someone your age to be worried about life after high school. Everyone your age doesn't know how to do adult shit either. When I was 17 I thought that I could pay off my school and pay rent for my own place with just a part time job. IN CALIFORNIA. The good thing is that you have both of your parents for help. Tell your parents that you want to learn how to use a washing machine and how to do maintenance house stuff. Explain to them that you're going to be on your own one … | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why girls are rude if you have no sexual interest in them?That or they hamster it as you being autistic and respond with shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Should I text her after a really bad sex? Or next?This has happened to me. Were you drinking? Just try again. Don't admit defeat. This happened with my LTR when we first started fucking. I couldn't get fully erect cause I was nervous cause she was the hottest girl I've had in bed in a while. She was kind about it and just asked if I needed a break. Try larger condoms. The free medical clinic ones are too tight for me. A regular Trojan fits me well. Also, try thinner condoms. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Based on some of These messages after I broke up with my boyfriend does it seem like we ever have a chance in the future?Probably not since he's left you. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Based on some of These messages after I broke up with my boyfriend does it seem like we ever have a chance in the future?He wants you as a side piece at most. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | About to hop in a LDR thats open only on my side. Any advice?We live 4 hours away. Gonna see each other every other week. Are you traveling that far just to see her? If so, then stop. No girl is worth that trip. Think about driving 4 hours excited for that blowjob and then you get to her and she says she's on her period, and she asks you why you guys can't just cuddle. She says that she wants more than just sex. You gonna walk out and drive those 4 hours back with your dick in your hand? If she travels the 4 hours to see you, then treat her like a regular… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Working a sorority event. How to go into it with massive frame?I got some IOIs. Be careful as this could be a way of manipulating you. Maybe the attention is in hopes that you'll agree to shoot for free. I would treat this as purely professional. One the bright side, at least now you'll have all these photos of sorority girls and their parties so that can provide huge social value, especially if you don't make a huge deal about it. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls often flake after having sex for a couple of times. Could it be because I am not good enough in bed?Don't be so aggressive the first few times. Make sure that you have proof (texts or audio) of her admitting to having a sexual relationship with you. After that, then you can be more dominant but ALWAYS make sure that she is enjoying it. I would avoid the rape fantasy until you are in an LTR that you can trust. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Girls often flake after having sex for a couple of times. Could it be because I am not good enough in bed?try to be supportive if I feel like they have real problems. This is a beta trait. Even in an LTR, I don't try to figure out my girls problems. I'm her rock when she needs someone to ground her and I'm her breathe of fresh air from life. All you need to do is listen, and tell them that they are ok. The fact that they are telling you their problems means that they see you as a friend. That's no bueno. Maybe its just a coincidence that I'm getting with the wrong girls? Wrong mentality to have. You… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | We’ll seeYour text game needs a lot of work | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop approaching and get a job?Get your shit together and then approach. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:27 PM |
| 15 | LTR hosting birthday party, said no sexI'm not really into dancing and partying This mentality already sets you up for mediocrity. If you can't have a good time at the party, don't go to the party. Read these: https://archive.is/6TjKQ https://archive.is/cnxZL | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:18 PM |
| 3 | We can’t keep our hands off each other?I mean, I really can't give any better advice than what you are already displaying. You seem like you know what you're doing, and it gives me the impression that you made this post to humble brag, to which I don't mind because I occasionally enjoy hearing about dudes killing it out there and it makes me reflect on if I am milking the best out of life. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Two years and countingI follow him on IG and I listen to his youtube videos every day. Inspirational and a huge slap to the face. He makes me ask myself if I could spend more time working and less time wasting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/18 08:44 PM |
| 10 | We can’t keep our hands off each other?Escalate to sex as soon as you can. Even riding this high of 3rd base can get boring eventually. The last thing you want is for her to ghost you because you failed to take the home run hit. You'll most likely get LMR because she's a virgin, but keep pushing (legally). IMPORTANT NOTE: Don't LTR her. Not for a while. Give the impression that this fantasy is limited and she has to enjoy it now. If you push for commitment and exclusivity, she'll get bored and the affection will stop, guaranteed. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:05 PM |
| 24 | LTR hosting birthday party, said no sexJust act like you don't give a shit and like not having sex has no influence on you. Have a good time, be friendly, impress her friends (don't visibly hit on them). Later on in the night, you can frame the situation in your favor. "Damn babe, It'd be pretty naughty if we had sex right now. Especially with your dad in the other room." Another one, "I bet you wouldn't be able to keep your mouth shut if we were to fuck right now." Do all this while teasing her physically. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | 2 weeks after dumping Onenitis...Mentally strugglingI didn't either. I was spinning plates and was largely against being in any commitment until I met my LTR. It wasn't oneitis, but she struck every green flag I'd laid out and the relationship just came natural. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Two years and countingWhat would it be? Getting a divorce? Getting a plate? Changing professions? Aiming for the powerlifting competition? Don't know yet. But I will find out at some point. That's entirely up to you. None of us can tell you what dream you should pursue. But, based on what I've read, I have to stress that by taking responsibility for everything in your life, you'll significantly start seeing (more) changes in your life. Vanilla sex? That's your fault for choosing your wife or for not setting the impre… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | 2 weeks after dumping Onenitis...Mentally strugglingOne of the best decisions I've made. I landed a job position that I love. I've met new friends who are driven but also love to have a good time. I've thought of new ideas for some side hustle I'm starting. I even met my new LTR who has all of the qualities I loved about my ex and all of the qualities I wish my ex had. It's like, I'm living the lifestyle I wish I had a year ago. And now that I'm in it, I'm fucking enjoying it but also working towards how I can improve it even more! | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 07:10 PM |
| 21 | What’s a certain behavior/trait about a girl that turns you on?When they stare at you with a large smile and puppy dog eyes. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 06:04 PM |
| 7 | 2 weeks after dumping Onenitis...Mentally strugglingDude you're basically doing everything you could possibly do already. I broke up with an LTR of 5 years and I didn't get to tap some new ass until 8 weeks later. Shit just takes time. Something that helped me the most though is that I moved to a different state. All I brought with me was what fit in my 2 door car. New room. New bed. New environment. New people to meet. etc. Everything was so fresh and new that I didn't even have time to think about ex. I was just so focused in building the lifes… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What was the one thing or situation that brought you to start changing your life from the path you were on? Can be a book that was read, a person that gave you advice...etc, anything.Damn bro, that's wassup. I remember I had a homie in HS who also came back swole from summer break. He was still beta and autistic but damn he had one of the best physical transformations I'd ever seen. I'm pretty convinced he took steroids though cause he had an abnormal amount of acne, especially on his back, even though he was smooth before. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 12:37 AM |
| 4 | What was the one thing or situation that brought you to start changing your life from the path you were on? Can be a book that was read, a person that gave you advice...etc, anything.For me it was just being in a shitty relationship. I was with her for 5 years and I was unhappy for most of it. I didn't realize how bad my relationship was until I found TRP. Before then, I just thought, "Hey all couples fight, at least me and her have never broken up!" or "Wow, she doesn't want to send me a nude photo. She must be a good girl!" I was HELLA salty when I would browse field reports on the sub and I would see all these guys talking about how they got some girl they just met to let… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Sex without a condom?As someone who trusted their LTR to responsibly take her birth control and now we're expecting an uglass noodle head, I'd friendly suggest that you ALWAYS WEAR A FUCKING CONDOM. Try different shit. There's thin condoms out there like Trojan bareskin condoms. Just go to your local CVS, Walmart, or even online and look up thin condoms. Read Sex God Method on learning some tricks on being more present and not so nervous. Personally for me, weed helps a ton. My sexual performance increases by 10x th… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about weeding myself out of the genetic pool, should I?Sounds like low T levels to me | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How to respondShe replied with yes and also how much i talk to her, as she doesnt fancy meeting someone shes barely spoken to Shit test my boii. Respond with, "If you want to talk so bad you can call me in 30 mins." If she calls, have a short flirty conversation, and then say something like, "Hey so I'll be free around the afternoon on Sunday. I'll hit you up in the morning." and then leave it at that. If she doesn't call or initiate a meet up, hard next. Keep your options open. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How do i greet for second date?Long hug IMO. Open the date with a comfortable vibe so you get that out of the way, and then you can escalate with kino and reduce your chances of ASD! | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:27 PM |
| 3 | How to behave to keep GF interested in LTR?• Your bedroom performance has to be top notch. I prefer quality over quantity. I'd rather have a memorable sexual experience than having quickies 3-5x a week. When I fuck my LTR, it's a whole novel. It starts when I order her to be at my place tonight at so & so and wear this with that. She comes over and I have music on and candles lit. Slow making out, etc etc. The whole thing lasts like an hour and at the end, we're both trying to catch our breaths giving each other a high five. Shit like th… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:14 PM |
| 2 | I get flakes on almost every time it’s hilariousJust try different shit. Try calling them instead of texting. Try being more direct. Try being less direct. Be bold. Be more funny. It's complicated and it's a lot of work and energy but this is what it takes to spin plates. Just keep trying. If you ask 20 girls out this week to see you this weekend and only 2-3 agree and show up, that's still 2-3 girls that you could potentially plate. Try Tinder, Try Bumble, learn day game, learn night game. Learn social circle game. Increase your net spread a… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:42 PM |
| 24 | What are some green flags on a woman?You don't demand for her to seek approval or permission. You don't give a fuck what she does but she still checks if it's ok with you. It's more she seeks your approval / opinion. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:33 PM |
| 117 | What are some green flags on a woman?God damn my LTR has all these. A few more I might add: • Doesn't hang out with mostly guys • Has close girl friends • Gets along with her siblings (they don't have to be best friends but as long as they're on speaking terms) • Splits everything with you 50/50 • Is open to new sexual experiences, tries to please you. • All her co-workers and friends know about you (means she's invested). • She's open to try new things for you like go see your type of music or see your favorite movies • Clingy eno… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Weighted dips instead of benchJust do both. Cheat dips hit the bottom pecs. Do incline bench or bench with reverse grip. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/18 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Are mistakes unforgivable?Dating market and LTR's / marriages are different. When you're dating and meeting new women it's enforced to always hold frame and never fuck up because women have so many options that the chance of them losing interest is high, even if you perform flawlessly in some cases. Either way, mistakes ARE bad. Mistakes means that you regret doing something you chose to do. You're going back on your word and it shows that you do not have direction or the back bone to take responsibility for your actions… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Nah I get you. I'm only working out 1 body part a day. And when I say that I'm hitting it harder, I just mean that I'm taking it more serious. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/18 12:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you manage income, savings, and spending in your relationship?In an LTR here and we’re expecting a baby. Before the pregnancy we agreed to 50/50. When we go out she’ll pay or vice versa. Even know with her pregnant the rules still apply and we don’t directly discuss income. We just agree that we are going to split everything 50/50 which works for me. | /r/askMRP | 14/11/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Somedays I feel and carry myseld as Alpha as fuck, somedays I turn into an almost timid, shy little boyThis can literally be anyone! Nowadays I only drink once a month and it’s never excessive. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad game to straight up tell a girl that she’s cute? Too much validation?"You're cute, but I bet it compensates for something" | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Thanks my man. It seems like a needle in a haystack trying to find a healthy RP relationship on these subs. I get a lot of "LOL you're fucked for life". I want a healthy RP lifestyle with my family. I want to be so good at this shit that I teach other expecting fathers. Kind of like Family Alpha. I'm in the bed I made and I'm going to make the best of it. | /r/askMRP | 14/11/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Yeah, understood. I'm preparing myself for the worst. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Tips to reduce soreness after liftingIt just happens. Trust me, after a few months, you're going to miss the soreness. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Solid advice. Thank You | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?She's aware that marriage is not an option for me. This was discussed before we became official. I didn't think about it but yea, now I'm considering a 3 bedroom. I agree and that's exactly what I'm doing. Hitting the gym even harder now, meditating every day, journaling, avoiding any distractions or shit that wastes time like Netflix binging. I'm prepared to learn any skills necessary like general handy man stuff. Right now (during the pregnancy) I'm focusing on building my body, mind, and fund… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?I'm choosing to be a father. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?wtf? She's already pregnant. I'm already on this road. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 08:58 PM |
| 17 | Somedays I feel and carry myseld as Alpha as fuck, somedays I turn into an almost timid, shy little boyMy energy is based on the habits I've been applying. If I've been going to the gym and been lifting big all week, I've meditated for at least 10 days, I've kept my nutrition solid, supplements daily, and have been sleeping 8-9 hours a night, I feel unstoppable. If I've been skipping the gym, no meditation, binge smoking e-cigs in my room while jacking off and eating shit, I'll feel like a complete loser and avoid all social contact. It's crazy how different these 2 lifestyles are to each other. … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Thanks, I'll inform myself of all these details and just prepare as best as I can. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Should I send a text after the first time I have sex with a new girl?It's better than nothing and it costs you nothing. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Thanks, I'm working daily towards that. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Should I send a text after the first time I have sex with a new girl?It's a precaution you can take that costs you nothing. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:13 PM |
| -2 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?There's no real chance, but it is something that we agreed to before she got pregnant. She knows it's just a precaution and that I am not directly accusing her of cheating. I've told her that I know people who've been screwed and that I'd rather be 100% sure. Been dating for a year. You need to revisit your priorities and MAP now that you have found out you are going to be a parent. what do you mean? And what do you suggest? | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?I definitely am. Now more than ever. My greatest fear now is losing custody and having to pay child support so you bet your ass my frame is chiseled like the body I'm building in the gym. Maximizing my income, putting more of my free time into my side hussle, etc. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Is being cool with your gf going to the club blue pill?After we broke up she was pretty quick to bang that dude who was just a friend. Ha! Same here. Like everyone else is saying, it's tricky. You don't want to be a passive chump letting your LTR stay out till the sun comes up with her slut friends, but at the same time, you want to be indifferent to her actions and not trip about what she's up to. In your example, your ex already had other red flags so it wouldn't of been easy to trust her. My current LTR has only gone out like that once. She asked… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 06:22 PM |
| 11 | Should I send a text after the first time I have sex with a new girl?You do what you want but personally I hope to never be accused of rape, and if I do, I will ALWAYS provide proof to back me up. When I fuck a new girl for the first time, I ALWAYS text them after. If they're on their way home I'll say, "I had a great time. Get home safe". If it's the morning after, "Last night was fun. Let's do that again soon". I'll get a reply back like, "I had a good time too!" and I'll screenshot that text and email it to myself. That way if these girls end up getting buyers… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Every girl I soft next ends up hating meTry shortening the time span of the ghosting / withdrawing. Try going for 3-5 days. Them being bitchy sounds like a shit test. Treat it as such and just game and escalate. If you get more resistance or the energy you're putting into it is just not worth it, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:46 PM |
| 9 | How do you guys deal with/relieve stress?Gym for sure. Meditation. Journaling is a big one. On some rare occasions (roughly just 2x a month) if I'm just having the worst day, I'll smoke some weed to help my body relax. Weed also helps me view things from a third person perspective and helps me come to the conclusion that my problems really aren't life threatening and I'm feeling more negative than I should be. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with/relieve stress?Sometimes meditation can be "enlightening". Occasionally when I'm pissed off or there's a negative emotion I just can't shake off, I'll go into meditation and I'll naturally come to the conclusion that I am only hurting myself by feeling negative. I'm increasing the cortisol in my body and there's really no need to feel upset, but I can definitely take action towards avoiding / eliminating the thing that caused the negative emotions. This doesn't happen all the time. Some times I'll go into medi… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | "I would be good with women if it weren't for my ________." How did you overcome this defeatist attitude?My age (24M). It's not a huge deal, but from observing older dudes (30's, 40's), I've come to the realization that our IDGAF attitude comes more naturally the older we get. Although I've done as much as I can to build my frame and construct a DGAF mentality and have improved tremendously the past 2.5 years I've been on this sub, I'm still looking forward to my late 20's - 40's where I know that I'll naturally just gain an edge. Age also just comes with other perks like more body / facial hair (Y… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm not getting any job offers and I'm nearly out of college.Keep trying. Applying for jobs is a numbers game when you first begin, kinda like how pick-up is. Do another review of your resume / application process. Better yet, have somebody else check it like your family or friend. There's been times where people have a misspelling on their resume on an important piece of information like their home city. Whenever I try to look for a new job, I always end up having to apply to dozens of places. Also, I've heard that the end of the year isn't the best time… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your emotions?Meditation naturally helps me feel more neutral throughout the day. My emotions hover around content. I still feel emotions, but I don't let them control my actions. I'll consider them if I need to make a decision, but I always base my choices around logic. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a red flag if a girl doesn't want you to cum in her mouth or on her face?Some girls don't like it. Cum doesn't taste great. As long as they let you tie them up, slap them, call them your slut, etc. you should be ok. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:25 PM |
| 2 | All my friends talk about is women, but I'd rather have conversations about more interesting things. Is there something wrong with me?do you think there's something wrong with me? no Or am I just in the wrong circles? yes How should I handle it? YOU get to choose who YOU spend time with. You're choosing to waste your time being around people who don't pursue the same ideas as you. These guys may have been useful to hang around with in the past, but just not anymore. I get it. You want to maintain your connection with them, you don't want to be left out. You have to put yourself first and if their pursuits aren't aligning with … | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | non-sexual girls?Is this a complete facade Yes. And unfortunately I learned the hard way. There was this new girl who started at the previous company I worked at. Looks-wise she was like a 5, although she was pretty thicc. The thing that attracted me to her was her conservative vibe. She was really religious. Like she wore the long skirts to work and was pretty well covered up. Light makeup. I saw her every day for most of the day so I had created a fantasy where I'd be able to get her to be submissive and freak… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 09:10 PM |
| 0 | How to increase attention spanMeditation and great sleep. & vitamins | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 08:46 PM |
| 12 | How do I handle girls hurting me during sex?Bro this is EASY. tie them up. They can't scratch you if they can't reach you. Pin their arms above their head. If they bite your lip, slap them and then avoid kissing them for the remainder of sex. If they want to kiss you, tell them they'll have to earn it. I had a girl who would bite my lip hard as fuck, even after sex. I'd have to choke her out basically to get her to let go. I told her straight up to stop doing that. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I don't want to become any more masculine than I already am. I really don't. But I also want to plate beautiful women.You're comfortable with who you are and you seem to have a great DGAF attitude. Have you tried approaching and gaming 9's and 10's? If you have good game and a solid frame, then I can predict you having as much success as any other masculine guy. I also want to fuck submissive, feminine women You don't have to be "masculine" to portray this. Be sexual and bold. If you want this, then just be open about it. Girls will pick up on the dominant energy you're emitting. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Should I go for a coffee with my ex?I asked her if she ia seeing anyone and she said no. WHY? Why would you do that? She told you that she doesn't have a boyfriend at the time but she's not going to tell you how many dicks she's riding on the carousal. She also asked me and I told her that neither do I. You answered directly. That's a big no no. Now she knows that you don't have any options. I am confused. Why does she wants to sit and talk? Should I go for it? She's just seeking validation. As soon as you admit to her that you mi… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | getting beat up in front of girlfriendIt is because if a man loses a fight to another man, the women will largely assume that the loser is beta. If he cannot take care of himself then he cannot take care of his woman. If a man wins a fight, he is largely perceived as alpha. Women then will have a high interest in him and even go as far as to pursue a long term relationship with him in hopes that she can change him (shit tests, comfort tests) to fulfill her hypergamous nature. The low quality girls you are referring to step in to the… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 05:31 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle guys intentionally bumping into you?You handled it well. There was this large black guy using like 4 machines. I think I hopped on one of them I’m not 100% sure. After my first set I decided to change the song on my phone while I rested. About 30 seconds passed until this guy goes up the cable I’m using and approaches it like if he’s going to change the grip. All while I’m standing like 3 feet away. I go up to him and tell him I’m using it. He mumbles something with some attitude and walks away. I pull out my earphones and reply w… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 02:18 PM |
| 3 | What is your TRP routineSleep is one of my priorities. With not enough sleep I can’t function at my best mentally, physically, or even emotionally. I aim to sleep between 8-9 hours every night. Lifting weights is second. Keeps my confidence and energy up. Also just makes me feel more masculine. Meditation is a close 3rd. I try to meditate at least 5 minutes a day but it’s usually between 10-20 minutes. Helps me keep my frame solid, helps my focus, it even makes me happier and feel more joyous about little shit. Nutriti… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Trouble with gaming wifeJust take necessary actions that direct you towards the end goal. That's what you need to do right now. | /r/askMRP | 09/11/18 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Trouble with gaming wifeI'm no expert, but if you have absolutely 0% drive to want to be happy with your marriage, then you should obviously leave. You're being a coward and a lazy ass by not taking the necessary steps in freeing yourself from this confinement. I know divorce is one of the hardest things to go through, but you KNOW that you have to go down that road. You're putting an ice block in front of yourself. You can keep staying in this life of mediocrity and keep coming up with excuses for the next few years u… | /r/askMRP | 09/11/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Just fucked a girl for the first time in awhile and after i came i noticed the outside of her pussy had a bunch of white shit on it?It’s just her natural lubrication. When it dries up it turns white | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 02:00 PM |
| 3 | “Why don’t you ever message me?”“I actually text you more than I usually text, so feel special” | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to access trp through mobileUse the search bar sir | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone tried reverting back to a dumb phone?It's useful to have a smart phone with you if you know how to handle it RP style. I use my phone for guided meditation, to view my workout plan, listen to my metal at the gym, listen to podcasts while I'm driving. I have "The Way of The Rationale Male" on my phone which I read through on my lunch break or when I'm sitting on the toilet. GPS, reddit of course for new theories on TRP, my emails, weather reports, I can check my bank statements with just my finger print. TBH the only distracting thi… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Applied a bit of dread and my girl is freaking out, help neededShe seems damaged and over emotional. This was a classic case of don't shit where you eat since you seem to be in the same social circle and she's friend with your sister. Unfortunately now you need to deal with the repercussions. If I were you, I'd slowly ghost her. Treat her like how she was treating you. Be cold, but not ice cold. Be acquaintances with her, but definitely not friends. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Job adviceI'd say you take the new job but once you start your new job, start applying to places that pay even more and somewhere where you feel like you could work at for more long term. Make sure that you leave your employer on good terms. Every job that I've left, the employer always tells me that he'll have a position open for me if I ever decide to return. You're 31. You're at an age where you can still take some risks. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Why does texting never work for me?In the case of shit tests she almost never did shit test me, You want girls to shit test you. When they shit test you, they are poking at your frame to see if you truly are what their feels are telling them. I even made sure to post a picture of me and a trophy for this year for her and all the other girls I was talking with to see on snap chat. It seems like you seek validation and attention. Those are beta traits. It also seems like you're new to TRP, based on the responses you give to these g… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Lifting alingside jiu jitsuI'd look up something that only requires you to lift 3x a week. 1 day focuses on squat, 2nd day focuses on deadlift, and 3rd day focuses on bench press. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be bald or under 5'66'5 isn't a negative IMO, but the ideal height for men seems to be between 6'0 - 6'4. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be bald or under 5'6I think that Bald with a beard sometimes looks better than a full head of hair. If I were ever bald, I'd want to bust the Triple H look he currently has. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How does my friend manage to bang HB9s?8 facially If this is accurate, then this statistic alone puts him in the top 5%, just as long as he's not super short. tall There you go. Already top 5% ripped As if he even needs to be. is a fashion photographer Photography is the absolute EASIEST way to approach women and build comfort with them. Girls will get butt naked for any guy who is a "professional" photographer. former club promoter He has social value, social circle game, status. To be honest, if your friend did find TRP, I feel l… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?I'd hard next. Me personally, I look for girls who are extremely submissive to me. Girls who will drop everything to come over. Girls who will surprise me with gifts or food, etc. I look for plates who are FUCK YES about me. Of course, I have to do my part and fuck their brains out and DHV. But.. This vetting process begins as soon as I approach. If they come across as cold for too long or give resistance to meeting up, then I just stop wasting my time and go approach a new girl. If a girl is be… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I Flirt Sexually and make my Intentions Clear without coming on too strong?For her twitter name, say “does your name overcompensate for something” (neg) The best way to come across as interested is through kino and escalation. Also, your friend has the option pull bold shit off like that because he has a ton of options. He dead ass did not give 1 fuck if that girl replied or not. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Best book for body language?"What Every Body Is Saying" is in my queue but I've not gone through it yet. It should cover what you're looking for. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Requesting frame adviceTell her that's it's a busy day today and leave it at that. Take the day to hit the gym, meditate, and even journal your thoughts about the situation. Sometimes if I have something stuck in my head that I just can't get out, I'll write a rant about it. The next day or even a few hours later when I re-read it, I kind of chuckle at myself for being so upset about something minuscule. You need to let that one thing go. Move past it. Write it down and burn the page or type out a letter and then put … | /r/askMRP | 08/11/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Plate found my gear.Damage control. Be unreactive about it and don’t DEER. My LTR cleaned out my gym bag once (?) and found a hair growth product I use as I’m trying to grow a beard. She never mentioned it but I know she saw it and I know that she most likely knows what it is. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Should I Add my old Oneitis to my Social Circle?I'd avoid her as much as possible. IMO, there is always going to some subconscious pull towards her. Even if you're spinning plates and winning at life, you'll probably rationalize to yourself that "now you can get her and now she'll like you" and you'll chase her over again. If you end up around her, it's cool. Be indifferent. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Using music to DMVYou can post videos of you playing on your social media. Be creative with it and make sure you look good. For example, I play guitar. I'll display much higher value if I am sitting by my pool shirtless wearing sunglasses vs. a close up shot of just my hands and torso. Also, when you have a girl over, just start playing. Tell her to sing for you (most girls won't sing, but make sure to tease her about it). I wouldn't use an instrument as a main point of value. Don't show it off. Some times I'll h… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Using music to DMVI read the title and I thought you were wondering if listening to music would help you pass your drivers test. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Are introverts actually a thing or is it all just excusesSame here. I'm typically often on my own. I like to follow a day to day schedule which keeps me happy. Once in a while I will long to socialize with people. I'll call some friends or family or I'll set up some plans. This isn't very often. It's like once every 2 weeks. I just had a party at my house on Saturday and some friends were in town spending the weekend. I was spending time on my own for a few weeks before then so I was excited to socialize and meet new open. Now though I'm back to wanti… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | LTR Deleted our pics together.Meet up if you want. If you don't want to go out of your way, just call her and ask what's up. Be completely indifferent and stoic. her - "I'm breaking up with you" you - "ok. good luck to you" | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:32 PM |
| 3 | To share or not to share the sextape to my gf?Show it to her but don’t share it with her | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Why the fuck am I getting shit tested a ton by everyone recently?Your frame still stinks and you need to keep raising your SMV. Meditate, spin plates, do a strength program at the gym. Any pre-RP friends that you are still hanging out with will continue to shit test you. They'll shit test you even more because they've already categorized your SMV as low so when you increase it, they internalize it, they feel negative about themselves, and then they take it out on you (crab bucket mentality) Also, I recommend avoiding people when your frame is weak. Your frame… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Follow up with yesterday’s post on LTR flaking on plans.Honestly bro, if my LTR did that my mentality would've been, "Woo! yeah! I get Friday night to myself!" An important part of this is (listen to this VERY carefully) doing the shit that YOU want to do. The plans that you made. Were they something you wanted to do or were you tailoring the date for her favor (beta)? Example: Last year I had tickets to go see a reggae rock band. I invited one of my plates and we had the plans set. Tell me why when I was calling her when I was on the way to my car, … | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 04:32 PM |
| 3 | "But were not meeting up"Call and set up a meet. If she doesn't comply, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's better to embrace looking more "intimidating", or trying to go more "pretty boy"?Masculine | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | GF[23] angry coz I wanted her to go halfsies for a summer tripYou have your answer. 100% DUMP HER | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | GF[23] angry coz I wanted her to go halfsies for a summer tripYou're beta bux in the relationship and I don't see any way where you could turn this around. I HIGHLY encourage you to hard next this girl (I'm going to assume that you have more complaints about her. How much does she try and please you in bed?) My LTR goes 50/50 with me on everything. She even paid for both of us at a buffet last week and hasn't even brought it up (I'm already planning on taking her out this weekend and paying for it). This is something that is implied before you begin the re… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Coworker is inviting me and my girlfriend to do things with him and my gf> co-worker > feeling him and his friends will try to AMOG you in front of your LTR > you're not even interested in hanging out with him You have your answer. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR gives me out of the blue random shit test barrage, why?"oh ouch my feelings, you're really pulling out the big guns today, I'd rather be boring than crazy like you" Definitely depends on the context you said this but this could've come across as butt-hurt. I think you need to put more dread into the relationship and give her the impression that you have 1 foot out the door and she better be on her best behavior at all times. Try and go out more and do more fun things. I understand you're busy but living a boring life makes you a boring person. Also,… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Hooking up with exGF's ex-best friend this weekend? Yeesh...She's DTF and you should absa-fucking-lutely NOT feel bad about your ex AT ALL. Be a savage. Have no remorse and NO MERCY. Give nothing, but take from them, everything! If you're "cool with being her friend" then you're cock-blocking yourself and are still very beta even though you've found TRP. What's happened here is pre-selection. The ex-best friend is curious about you and the fact that YOU dumped her best friend gives you some value points. Isolate, escalate, annihilate. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How to behave to a guy who backstabbed me three years ago?Similar situation as me. Last June, I ended things with an LTR of 5 years. I introduced most of my friends to her and both of our friend groups got along so we ended up being a large group of friends. When I ended things, I figured that her friends would stop talking to me, but (I'm not sure if she played the victim card or just talked trash about me) everyone of our friends stopped talking to me. Even the ones that were originally my friends. Not only that but only a few weeks ago I found out t… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Woke up to "wanna fuck?" text from girl that flaked on me 4 months ago.Minimum investment. "Maybe. Come over my place at X" If you wanna play the "who's this" route, call her. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when people say you look both young and old?You probably have a round young looking face but dress your age. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?> Invite her to McDonald's to get treats (ice cream, milkshake, etc.) > Don't chill inside there. Take the food to go and venture around the area. Lead her to a park somewhere similar. > once at the park, you can go on the swing sets or chase her around the playground set. > Isolate her to somewhere a bit more private (I used to take girls to the top of the bleachers) > escalate. Once you get to 1st or 2nd base, bring up some plausible deniability (for her reference) for you to bring her over. I… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Am I coward or wise for not helping my friend getting jumped?In your context, your friend should be understandable about your situation and next time he should be less aggressive about a situation like that. For example, if he really cares about the kids and safety of the public, maybe he can contact the city and see what they can do about it. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 12:25 AM |
| 17 | I Went To The Gym For The First Time In My LifeIt's what newbies do. They get all motivated and riled up about trying to look like Mark Wahlberg. They'll start going to the gym twice a day. They'll be in the gym for 3 hours doing cardio and arms and then in a few weeks they'll get completely burned out and discouraged as to why they aren't making gains. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 12:19 AM |
| 3 | I Went To The Gym For The First Time In My LifeThis ^ My pre-workout shake consists of a banana, protein scoop, peanut butter, greek yogurt, and 1 packet of oatmeal. ~700 calories I've gone to the gym after drinking it and without drinking it and both times I feel the same. In fact, if I go to the gym fasted or without having eaten, I'll get distracted mid workout thinking about food and some times even convince myself to finish early to go eat. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining frame after serious injuryJust do what you can do. Just "handle your shit" as best as possible. You still have your mind and your frame. Learn to accept your situation. It is what it is and from the sounds of it, you're doing everything possible to get yourself back on track. At time point it's just damage control so try to avoid damaging your frame any more. Focus more on your diet and nutrition. Focus now on learning and studying new skills. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/18 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Ever Get Up And Leave in the Middle of a Date?Maybe, but at the same time I saw it as an opportunity to practice holding frame, outcome independence, amused mastery, etc. I didn't want to just quit and then tell myself that I just couldn't handle it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 12:09 AM |
| 22 | Ever Get Up And Leave in the Middle of a Date?My first Tinder date ever. I matched with this chick and got her number. We talked on the phone twice to set up a meet and we flirted a little. I'd invited her over for Mario Kart to which she was down with, but an hour or 2 before our meet up, she asked if we could eat somewhere and that she hadn't ate all day (it was like 3 or 4pm) She was vegan so I asked if Chipotle was cool and she said yeah. We met up and I noticed that she was of course not as attractive as her photos. She had big tits bu… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Girl grinning during sex?Was it like having sex with the Joker? Turn her over next time, or cover her mouth and tell her to shut the fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | How/Should you tell your gf you cheated on herI'd just keep it to yourself and rationalize it to yourself as best you can "she was out of town" "you were drunk", etc. Although, IF she does confront you about it with some proof, I'd suggest you just man up and tell her the complete truth. Not the trickle truth. My roommate is one of the most alpha guys I know. He's one of those guys who will stay out on a weekday getting drink and doing lines of coke, sleep an hour, and then head into to work for his bank job. Not the smartest guy, I know, b… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersAgreed. At minimum I want to have an "ok" enough relationship with her so that she doesn't fight me for custody or child support. I just want to be enough to show her that I will bring a lot of value to her and the baby's life (being a rock, being supportive, being patient, etc.) | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThank You sir. I want to hear every RP father's stories, good or bad, and try and picture an end goal for myself and my family. She's definitely on top of her health. Her mom is a nurse (working towards getting her Masters) so my girlfriend knows a lot about taking care of herself and stuff. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThanks, yeah that's my goal for now. Just being the "rock" I need to be for everyone and be able to provide. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI'm wondering though, should I secure my assets? But yea I agree. I've already stated to her that I do not want to get married. We talked about it before we even became exclusive. If we were to cohabitate, it wouldn't be signing a lease or anything. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI am lzy boi. Lots thx! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersMy girlfriend's sex drive is much higher than mine. I've never had to initiate sex without her reciprocating evenly. This weekend the doctor told her not to have sex since she was having stomach cramps. She gave me a blowjob every day. But yea, this shit could change but hopefully not. We get along very well, but I'm wondering if cohabitation will ruin that. Yes I will continue to lift, meditate, and journal. I want to keep my mentality as sane as possible. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI know. Honestly I feel more scared of having this chick in my life for the next 18 years at least vs. having to raise a baby. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Attn: Red Pill FathersShe works for Wells Fargo where she gets paid full paternity leave for 4 months and she's also offered "bonding" time off which pays but not as much, something like that. But yea she knows I don't make a lot and from the sounds of it so far it don't seem like she's expecting me to cough up a 6 figure salary. I feel like she just wants me to love her and the baby, but you never know. I'm just trying to be prepared for the worst, but hoping for the best. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Attn: Red Pill FathersYeah right now I'm prioritizing my mental health (frame) as much as possible so I can be a rock for both of us. Lifting, meditating, journaling. I know also that when the kid comes I'm going to need a ton of patience so working on my frame and mental health is something I'll need to prioritize from now on. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersIt was a risk I had to take and unfortunately it backfired. It's the only argument I've had with her and it's the only argument I plan on ever having with her. I can always just play it that I was young and scared and didn't have any money. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThank you sir! So focus greatly on my assets and don't turn my back on my friends and family. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find the time?Reading you can squeeze in there somewhere before bed. I'm reading "The Rationale Male" currently on my phone and I pull it up on my lunch breaks or when I'm dropping a log. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Where do you find the time?What more are you trying to squeeze in? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersWould you suggest I cohabitate or not? I want to cohabitate once the baby is born for at least a few months. Up until the baby develops a schedule and doesn't negate sleep so much. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThank you sir for this warning. I'm definitely hoping for things to go smooth and for me and my baby momma to have an ok enough relationship where I don't need to pay child support but still be a provider for my family. Worst case scenario I am preparing myself to pay child support by focusing on my side business where I work on projects under the table. If things begin to look cloudy, I will talk to a lawyer. Would you suggest I cohabitate or not? I want to cohabitate once the baby is born for … | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThanks man. Asides from crying myself to sleep I think I'm doing pretty okay. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThanks a lot sir! Learning about the 5 love languages is a good point. I definitely want to try and make it work with my baby mamma | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI'm not ever going to nut in her again, even if she's on birth control. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:09 PM |
| 38 | If A Girl Ignores You, Should You Just Drop Her or is Calling Her Out an Actual Option?Nah that's beta. You're showing her that her ghosting emotionally affected you which is a beta trait. Hard nexting is showing that you don't give a fuck about her response because there's millions of girls like her or better. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:07 PM |
| -1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI believe the "don't cohabitate" rule is suggested more for dudes in LTR's. Not marriage and kids. Do whatever you want brah. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Attn: Red Pill FathersTHANK YOU. This is exactly what I was looking for. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersIdk about wanting more. Seriously considering getting a vasectomy after the child is born. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI am also hoping for the best but trying to be prepared for the worst. I'm already being mindful of any ammo she can potentially use against me (I tried to convince her of abortion, but made sure it was all verbal and not through text). I do want to be a part of my kids life and I will do what I have to do to make it so. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersThis seems like the route I'm going to take. Probably move in for the first few months that the baby is born. Up until the baby develops a schedule and doesn't negate sleep so much. Then move back to my own place but still spend most of my time with my little noodle head. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Attn: Red Pill FathersYeah I've read a ton of blue pill stories of good relationships going nuclear after our brother decides to move in with his thing. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI've seen a million times here on TRP to never cohabitate. I'm guessing it's because your home is where you 2 are most comfortable so you both learn about each others living habits. Also, having your own place gives a sense of dread. Like she's wondering what you're up to or if you maybe have someone over. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Attn: Red Pill FathersPlz send source | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Attn: Red Pill FathersYeah that's basically what I've been doing so far. My girlfriend hasn't shown any signs that she plans on fighting me for custody or child support. She just wants us to both be happy together and be good parents together which is what I want too. Yeah I'm thinking about having my own place just so I can get a night or 2 to myself. I'd even offer to take the baby for a night or 2 so my girlfriend could get some sleep as well. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI'm not going to get married and she knows this. I think we make the same amount of income right now. I'm definitely 100% in. I am going to be a good father and I see zero reason to not be a part of it's life. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Attn: Red Pill FathersYeah that's what I figured. All my focus right now is on how I can maximize my income and minimize my bills and spending. Besides money, I'm also just trying to "grow up" and try and get rid of any non-healthy habits or hobbies I have. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:26 PM |
| 9 | Attn: Red Pill FathersI am going to stay with the mother. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:25 PM |
| 8 | How would you spot a virgin male?The more beta traits, the higher the chance that they’re virgins | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Attn: Red Pill FathersMy girlfriend lives only 5 minutes away and I would spend most of my time with her anyways. I’m 100% going to be there for my child. I’m just asking if it’s best to have my own place so I can have like a night or 2 on my own. It seems a bit selfish leaving her with the baby for a night or 2 but the last thing I want is to have a toxic relationship with the mother which I’m thinking could be caused by 100% living together. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?Personally I would just take responsibility for the unfortunate outcome in a observing neutral way. Like I would review the date and analyze how I could improve myself so that if I am in that situation again, I'll be better prepared. If your main concern is that you were bored, then study up on outcome independence and practice "having more fun" throughout every second of your day. Even if you're at work or at church, try and practice outcome independence. If you feel like your life is boring, t… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?Said not worry about it. Had a good time and acknowledged that there were awkward silences. That I’m the type that needs to warm to someone and I would look forward to getting know her more. Way too much text for a reply. You should've waited a few days and then hit her up again. She seems like one of those girls who all they do is focus on their looks and instagram page. They even have a schedule for themselves that's pretty boring (like us guys). She's looking for someone to take her by the ha… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Is Tinder Plus or Gold worth it?Can't hurt to try it out for a month right? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Girls says that “I’d be attractive if I wasn’t a dick”There's a different between being an asshole / dick vs. being a fuckboii / douchebag. Avoid being a fuckboii or a douchebag. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | know anything that you can share that will make pornography unappealing?Nah I was on NoFap hard mode. Me and my ex had sex at least once a week which was enough release for me. After we broke up I was dry for 2 months. I'll go for about a week before I feel like I need to ejaculate and if I do, I'll do "healthy" masturbation which is basically just "feeling" yourself. Paying attention to the sensations you feel without watching or thinking about anything. This way it also helps you last longer because you're more in tune with the sensations of your dick. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 11:52 PM |
| 2 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?There's a good chance that she'll kiss you on the 2nd attempt. If you're denying yourself that chance then you're denying yourself some major pussy. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Infamous N-CountAnything higher than 8 is unable to bond Anything under 8 guys is underage brah xD | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Infamous N-CountMy LTR says 5. So 15 guys doesn't seem too bad. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Infamous N-CountIt shouldn't matter to you how many guys she's slept with. What's important here are red flags. If she's damaged or has been alpha widowed, the red flags WILL show. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | know anything that you can share that will make pornography unappealing?It worked for me for the beginning. I had oneitis for my exLTR and just the thought of her being with someone else made my blood boil. I would get an urge to watch porn > picture my LTR being fucked by someone else > get angry and try and find something healthy to release my anger. It was a nuclear option for me but I was watching porn every day for years and was cold turkeying it so I had to get extreme with my thought process. I'd be careful though, imagining your LTR getting fucked by some ot… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?Just act like nothing happened, react from a place of abundance (think "eh, I don't care. I have a HB9 coming over after this date anyways"). Do some more kino and try again in a few. If she denies again, then just excuse yourself from the date and hard next her. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | "I heard you're a man whore" shit test, anyone overcome this reputation with a hesitant girl?Use female talk. "I'm just looking for the right one" | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 08:56 PM |
| 10 | can I invite myself over?The better you are at fucking then the better odds you'll have of her wanting you over. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | know anything that you can share that will make pornography unappealing?When I first quit porn and I had an urge, I would try and picture my OLTR or crush being the girl in the porn video. That thought would piss me off so much that it would propel me to do something to better myself like go to the gym, meditate, read, etc. A less depressing way that you can view it is when you get an urge to want to watch porn (I enjoyed it for the beautiful girls), ask yourself if you want to watch some other dude have his way with this girl you'd so wish to smash, or if you'd rat… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | LTR Got PregnantNo marriage and she knows it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got PregnantDNA test FOR SURE. I already told her I'm not signing anything until DNA test | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got Pregnantthank you brother | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | LTR Got PregnantI'm sorry to hear that. My LTR wants me in her life and she's shown zero signs of wanting to deny me custody. It seems like the ball is in my court if I can learn to be with someone who I will always believe that they probably tricked me into being a father. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got PregnantThank you brother. The 1 thing that has been keeping me going is the "push" I am forced to give myself to be the best man I can possibly be. Like, I've been procrastinating a lot of things that can help me with my future (too many cheat meals, too many hours on facebook, etc). I've just been really lazy these past few months and gotten too comfortable to the okay life I've given myself. But now, it's like I HAVE to do what I have to do, ya know. I simply can not allow myself to waste time or spe… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got PregnantShe's shown me the ultra sound, but your right. I'll be cautious. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got PregnantI see where you're coming from. Thing is, she's only 4 weeks pregnant so I feel like I have a better shot at convincing her (seeing her tonight) to get an abortion now while there's hardly even a fetus formed. I can convince her that it's not "killing it" because it doesn't have a heartbeat yet or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:55 AM |
| 8 | LTR Got PregnantThanks. This seems like the most understanding reply I've gotten. I do like the girl. I vetted her properly and I've been really enjoying this LTR. The only thing is this hunch I have. It just seemed "off" how she got pregnant you know. Like I was okay with everything, but the whole counter acting birth control thing was uneasy with me and based on everybody's comments, I seem to know why | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:47 AM |
| 5 | LTR Got PregnantI've read two posts that were given gold about this. One guy was with a ONS (The post was mainly about fighting for visitation) and the other was more similar to mine where a guy got his LTR pregnant but things didn't work out with his LTR so he just puts up with her to be able to be with the baby | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:44 AM |
| 3 | LTR Got PregnantShe took "phenazopyridine" which says that it may affect birth control | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:59 PM |
| 8 | LTR Got PregnantThanks man | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got PregnantYeah I'm definitely going with the first option. She's only 4 weeks pregnant so I can convince her that the baby doesn't have a heart beat and stuff. Dude, that's fucking cruel. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | LTR Got Pregnanthaha! thanks for the laugh man | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | LTR Got PregnantHaha we might go hiking tomorrow.. do cliffs count? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:37 PM |
| 9 | LTR Got PregnantCuba don't sound too bad.. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:24 PM |
| 2 | LTR Got PregnantTrust me, I've been reading every article today. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 10:55 PM |
| 2 | LTR Got PregnantOkay, I'll bring it up to her again. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 10:52 PM |
| -3 | LTR Got PregnantI brought it up. She's had a miscarriage in the past. Says she can't go through it again. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 10:46 PM |
| 0 | LTR Got PregnantI brought it up. She's had a miscarriage in the past. Says she can't go through it again. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird that I have no interest in and just want to be friends with a girl that most of my friends find attractive and are actively hitting on her?Deadass | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Should I ltr or just keep fucking?How long have you been fucking her? The steps are that you should be vetting her for any red flags and looking for green flags (all while you are spinning other plates [this is important]). SHE should also be pushing for commitment. This is they key. SHE should be working to convince you to be exclusive with her. Once you decide to LTR her, you should give a "We'll try this out for a bit and see how it goes..". You want to commit to her from an abundant state of mind. To this, and she will conti… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Would you apologize or what?Fix your shit first before you decide to do anything. Right now you are coming from a feeling of guilt, and a need for forgiveness. You can not get this from her. You need to forgive yourself (after you fix yourself) and once you are at your peak, then you can decide if you feel like she deserves an apology or not. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Is it weird that I have no interest in and just want to be friends with a girl that most of my friends find attractive and are actively hitting on her?I have the same situation with my HB8 roommate. Even when we were both single (although it's a don't shit where you eat situation), I still didn't feel like I wanted to make a move. She's just a great friend and she provides a ton of value for me. She owns the house I'm renting a room in and she charges me a below average rate. She's decorated the house so nicely that every person that walks in compliments on it, including all my plates I used to bring over (we're both in LTR's now). She's the b… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Picking girls up on igYou seem new AF and you should read the sidebar sir. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Text response help?"She likes to lay on my bed so you'll need to step foot in my room" | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 05:33 PM |
| 8 | Working with All WomenAs a creative designer, I've worked with both men & women and (currently) all men. I highly recommend working with as least amount of women as possible, especially in a creative / marketing field, where everything is less technical and more impulsive. If you must make the best out of your situation, I recommend just being as professional as possible. DO NOT get friendly with them. Don't try to practice game with them. If anything, all you should do is apply social skills to them (assertive, pers… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "Do you want to fuck (my friend)?"Depends on what kind of approach you want to give off it. I'd say some goofy shit like, "That depends, does she have a penis?" | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce women without getting in trouble with the law?1 bad Apple out of 10000000000000 positive women out there. You answered your own question | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the N-count question?"You don't need to know" "It's best if I don't say" | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Played dread wrong and told her i havent been speeping woth anyone elseAvoid giving any more of an impression that she's the only girl you're talking to. Slight dread. Contact only to meet up. Don't let her know what you're up to when you 2 aren't hanging out (social media). You can say things like, "I'm grabbing drinks with a friend" or "A friend came over last night". If she asks who, just say, "Just a friend". Just give enough dread so that you give the mysterious vibe to her, and not enough dread that you make her feel like she's done something bad, unless she … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Strange medical ailment just came up, and I have a trip planned with ltrThe answer is in the cosmos | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | weight lifting and losing fat?Try intermittent fasting mixed with a strength program. Learn about macros and adjust them accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Played dread wrong and told her i havent been speeping woth anyone elseIn the moment it possibly was a good thing because you fucked. Some times showing girls that you're a little invested in them or that you have some emotions can make them feel more attached to you. This mostly applies to girls that want to push commitment with you and don't want to be just a plate. In the long run though, it's very likely that it could hurt your value. She's knows now that she's your only source of pussy, and she can easily make you work harder for it. It depends on how you told… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Strange medical ailment just came up, and I have a trip planned with ltrShiiit, just be outcome independent about it and make the best of it. Earth Humans take things very personal, so when we see somebody acting or reacting negatively for any reason, we instinctively assume that it is a reaction to something we did. IOW, if you are visibly in discomfort and pain (which you will be) and you don't tell her about it, she is going to assume that you are acting weird because of her. She's going to see that you're not comfortable and chill around her and she will think y… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you post stories or pictures on Instagram with woman?Do it if they’re HB8+ Bonus: Tag them if they have over 2K followers Source: my roommate is a HB8 and has 15.2K followers | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Should You tell LTR about other girls?Let her discover it on her own. It’ll provide much more value. You’ll be seen like more of a high quality man vs a douchebag fuck boii | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Scared of getting laidApproach and game girls outside of your work / social circle (night game, go on vacation, Tinder). I believe that it's very unlikely that you'll garner a negative sexual reputation. Remember, girls don't like to be labeled as sluts, so they don't openly talk about sexual experiences like you think. Plus, you'll actually gain pre-selection from your situation so more girls will want you = more practice for you. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:58 PM |
| 3 | How to detect a feminist?"feminism is the biggest shit test of them all" Many girls who claim to be feminists are just shit testing and actually want to be dominated by an alpha who blasts through their feminist walls. IMO it's okay to approach these girls and try to f-close. Threat their feminism as a shit test and proceed accordingly. Of course if they are ugly AND feminist, then go ahead avoid them 100%! | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Trouble reconciling It's Just Your Turn with LTR gameKeep your SMV at it's peak, so that if things don't work out with your LTR, you can more easily find some new plates to keep your mind off your ex-LTR. Focus on yourself as much as you can and be as least dependent on your LTR as possible. Build the mentality now that this is YOUR life, and not yourlifewithher. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Sex on her period. How to?If she's saying that Friday she's on her period, but Saturday she can have sex, then she's most likely not even going to be bloody on Friday. She's just being safe. Prepare that there might be some blood. Use a condom so that you don't end up with a red rocket after or if you just have to go raw, then have some wet towels or take a shower right after (consider showering with the lights off and setting up some candles.. enough light so that you don't slip and die but you can't really see any red … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Small penis, loose vaginaYou might be incompatible. I had sex with a girl that had a loose vagina and it was one of the worst sexual experiences I've had. I couldn't get off and she was pretty expressionless. You can introduce her to kegels. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | New car recommendations?Try going to a credit union. Personally I drive a 2015 Honda Accord Coupe V6 which follows all of the preferences that you're looking for. The exterior is semi-sporty but I fell in love with the interior, check it out! | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | How was your life different after lifting? Looking for advice and inspiration.Liquid calories. My pre-workout shake itself is ~700 calories and I just gulp it down in a few seconds. Before the gym I drink: - 1 scoop protein - 1 serving greek yogurt - 2 spoons peanut butter - 1 serving oatmeal - 1 banana I do IF so I need to get a lot of calories in in a short amount of time. I'll have 4-6 protein shakes a day. Just eat when you're not full. Keep yourself full all day. Stay away from foods that make you feel full like fiber and bread. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Gym equipment is always being used by someone else. Any advice?Shit I've been here. I remember I used to fight with my old manager to get him to let me come into work early so I can leave earlier just so I can get to the gym a bit earlier and try to avoid the mass of people that would come in the evening. What is your schedule like? Do you go to school, work? I highly recommend you avoid the hours between 3-10pm on weekdays. IF YOU CAN, go to the gym first thing in the morning. Find a way to go really early. I am at the gym at 7:00am and have no trouble get… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Managing my girlfriendIt doesn't sound like you're off to a great start, and IMO I'd HIGHLY recommend you spin plates for a few more months and explore the sub a bit more (while we still have it). It is VERY important that SHE is / was the one who wanted commitment and throughout the relationship you keep a soft level of dread (manage this accordingly) to maximize the amount of effort and affection you receive from her. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Lingerie shit or comfort testI'd go with "I like them" and then not respond to any other questions or solicitation from her about it. You've stated what, and why, which is all she (should) needs to know. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Eye contactCould be creepy if your SMV is low and some guys could react aggressively. It's okay to make eye contact, but don't make it a habit of trying to eye fuck every person you see. If you really want to practice and be safe with it, explore a night life event or venue where it is more appropriate to eye down girls. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:35 PM |
| 3 | My exgf ruined my life I still lover her (oneitis)Channel your anger and pain into self improving yourself. LIFT, meditate, meal prep, focus on your career / side business, build skills and hobbies, build your social and approach skills. Be BETTER in every possible way. I know how you feel. JUST yesterday I found out that my OLTR has been sleeping with and is now publicly sharing her romantic relationship on social media the guy she told me not to worry about. A guy I trusted and thought of as a friend. I was bitter and angry, but I got my ass … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Perspective - Why Rejection Is Irrelevant*Potential women you could be banging | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring girls I'm attracted to qt workautomatic pick up game mode It hardly seems like you're any good at pick up based on your post, no offense. You're at work. Just be professional. Treat everyone with professional respect, even if you need to pretend for some people. I personally prefer to be more social with the men vs. the women because I take DSWYE very seriously. If you're really trying to make the best of your situation, then just focus on keeping frame when you're around your more attractive co-workers. Observe your body la… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 08:48 PM |
| 9 | Why is it so damn hard to redpill other men?2 reasons: a: TRP is the hard way. TRP takes work. Believing that your "soul mate" is just going to pop up on her own is much easier than believing that there is no one, and that we have to actually try to approach and meet women, plate them, and then maybe LTR them but still know that one day things won't work out and then you move on. People don't want to work for what they want, so if there's any possibility that that want will just fall out of the sky one day, then our brains will choose to … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to fall for my friend. I don’t want to come off as needy so I’ve been trying to get my mind off of her with another girl but it’s not working.You are MUCH better off: Increasing your SMV Meeting a NEW girl AFTER your change. Believe me, once a girl sees you as a beta, she will ALWAYS see you as a beta, no matter how much you improve yourself. Learn from me, I broke up with an LTR of 5 years over a year ago after finding TRP. One of the first things I did was hit up every girl from high school or elsewhere that I wanted to fuck or that I thought wanted to fuck me. I had ZERO results. Not even a date. They all either said no, ghosted me… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 05:15 PM |
| 5 | How do you know if a girl is into you or genuinely being nice to you?If there really is that much pressure of things going nuclear if she rejects you, then I wouldn't pursue her. It's a typical "don't shit where you eat" scenario. I know you want to fuck her, and it sucks that the ones we can't fuck are the ones we want to fuck the most, but use your head for this one and just keep in mind that the negative outcome of this is too big of a risk. Although, IF she pursues you (kino, isolation, escalation) then it's your call if you want to go all the way or not. It'… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Is GF using dread game on me? How to respond?and I confronted her about how it made me feel. You broke frame here and that is probably why she continues to bring up plans that she's setting up, even though she doesn't follow through. She was testing your reaction and you failed. So now every time she wants to shit test you and get some beta points out of you, she'll poke that same hole. Update: I just read your other comments and you are definitely a beta in this relationship. YOU initiated the exclusivity and set up ZERO boundaries. There… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Emotional ltr.It's important to know if she actually is going through some shit or if she's just trying to get attention from you. In general cases, you want to be a rock. You don't need to offer advice or try to make her feel better. Just listen to her, be unemotional, give her a hug, tell her she's going to be okay, and then fuck her brains out or give her space. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR or Solid Job Opportunity?If the LTR is the only thing holding you back, I'd go with the job. In a few months you're going to wonder why you even considered choosing the LTR over the job. Also consider this, in a few months, will you regret not taking this opportunity because you didn't want to lose your LTR? Who's probably dumped you or you've dumped her? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Can i send someone my pics that i put on tinder and that person can tell me if i am uglyI think there's a sub for that. r/rateme ? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | When setting up a date over text, is it better to ask when she’s free or suggest a time and place?It seems like she's DTF imo. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 12:14 AM |
| 2 | LDR? Is it possible? Do’s and Dont’s?I wouldn't do it ever. End things, say some bullshit like you want to focus in school. Start approaching and spinning some plates. Next year if you end up living close together you can hit her up and try to plate her. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 5 | I will soon become a BDSM Bull to one nerdy couple (already am online) but they are now in different city but they want to "start" already. I was thinking that I could order them to have condomed sex from now on and I get rawdog her. Is this too cruel?This belongs in r/sex or r/bdsm | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:38 PM |
| 8 | Want to win her back but shes's giving me mixed signals. How do I proceed?You're not going to listen to my advice but I would hard next her and avoid all contact. She's never going to give you anything sexual, even when she's drunk she won't kiss you. You're never going to move on because you're going to keep wondering "what if". You're not going to enjoy an emotional connection that could be much greater than what you had with her with anyone because you're going to be stuck chasing her until years from now you realize that you've wasted all this time for nothing. Le… | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | When setting up a date over text, is it better to ask when she’s free or suggest a time and place?I'd suggest texting the girl right after she gets home or the next morning the "I had a good time text" to minimize buyer's remorse or any potential rape accusation. Fucking a girl and then not contacting her for a few days could make her hamster spin unfavorably. Try calling her and setting up the date through voice or, you can say something like, "I'm trying to go bowling on X at Y time. Come with me?" Make her feel like you're inviting her into your life instead of you trying to squeeze into … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is she interestedShe'd have Chad balls deep the day after the break up if he is around. She'll initiate meet ups and escalate herself for Chad. Only way to find out if she will fuck you is to escalate. If she rejects you twice, then hard next. Only way. If you want a girl to text you to hangout, then keep improving yourself in every way possible and approach every girl you can. Eventually you'll be somebody's Chad. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a rejection text?Best thing to do is just not text back. If it ever gets brought up just use woman talk: "I probably forgot", "I thought I replied" | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How to approach Freshman in high school?How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | When A Girl Does Whatever She Wants To Do?There's this one girl... | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | My reputation is in tattersBut the problem is, they're super competitive, Your attitude is the problem here. You're afraid. Figure out how to take risks and push yourself to your edge, or forever be low valued. Clubs don't mean anything. No one gives a fuck. Do them for yourself if you really want to, but none of them are going to provide social value. Maybe speech and debate will help you grow some balls if you really want to join a club. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Is This a Strong IOI?Why aren't you escalating to f-close right now? It's the only way you'll know if she's attracted to you. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:59 PM |
| 3 | What's in a girls mind when she asks for your availability but takes ages to reply back ?Another idea is that she is shielding herself from the fact that I'll be leaving the city soon. absolutely not. You've went out with her once? Girls don't get attached to you until you fuck them really good. She's either not interested in you and keeping you around for validation, or she has other options and she's just rummaging for the best option. I would not hit her up again unless she asks you to meet up. You can either spend these next 3 weeks chasing her like a beta, or you can spend them… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:40 PM |
| 2 | My reputation is in tattersSorry but those are gay sports / activities. I'd consider joining wrestling or football. Do a bit more studying (read RP books and top posts) and take more action. Practice the principles. Learn game and fuck some girls from your school. Most guys in HS aren't getting laid so if you are, you're in the top 10%. Try joining new social circles. In middle school I was very beta. I'd get picked on, rejected, I even got voted most shy in 7th grade. In high school I had a bit of a glow up. I learned gu… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:36 PM |
| 2 | When you raise boundaries to a guy who is talking in a way about your LTR you don't like - is it mateguarding or frame holding?Best thing to do with a guy like that is to avoid him. You want to show him that he ain't shit and that if he wants any sort of respect or attention, he's going to need to earn it. Anyone that starts drama should be avoided. The trick here is if your LTR will continue to talk to him. If she does, then I'd reconsider being exclusive with her. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 7 | Do you keep your plates a secret?IMO I'd drop the 4 or just keep around enough when you really need a needed fuck (~once a month). She might be damaging your reputation and if you are plating a 9, then I don't see why you can't get a 6 or 7. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What would you guys do? Cut, Bulk or Lean Bulk? Pictures inside.I'd say do a "healthy" bulk, or a "clean" bulk. Meaning don't just eat junk to get calories in. Try to increase your weight slowly (~1lb a week) and maintain the same body fat %. When the snow starts melting, start cutting slowly (again, ~1lb a week) so you minimize the amount of muscle mass lost. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls so insanely attracted to Artists (Especially Musicians)?Tingles. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Best Move For After The New Relationship Feels End?Let her randomly see you in the street with a HB9 around your arm. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Is "Bros before hoes" dead?I mean, this dude has never had a girlfriend and now he does? How did you feel with your first girlfriend? Shit, I was so obsessed with my first girlfriend when I was 14 that she broke up with me because of it. Just try to understand your friend and don't take it personal. If he's seeking guidance or advice, then you can lend him a hand, but you can't change him if he doesn't want to change. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Ended it with a girl a while back, just want some opinions.You met other girls and got rid of your oneitis in 3 days? You're not a bad person. People in this world will ghost / ignore / avoid you and most of the time you won't even know why, both men and women. You want to have quality people in your life who are "fuck yes" about you like you're "fuck yes" about them. If somebody isn't providing value in your life, you have every right to ghost them and you don't have to provide an explanation. She's not regained interest. She's just reaching out enough… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:56 PM |
| 2 | What does HB(insert number here) stand for?This IS in the sidebar under "Glossary of Redpill terms" Also, it's important to know that every guys' version of HB could be different. a HB9 for me could be a tall brunette with tattoos and your version of a HB9 could be a petite blonde. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Girls calling me dude and broListen to their actions, not their words. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:57 PM |
| 2 | I always fuck up trying to fuck a girl again after the first date. Help me out.So it's been 2 weeks between when you first fucked her and now? That's a long time. Try waiting less and when you reach out just initiate a meet up. You can also try calling her. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Ltr hasn’t texted me since we got into a fight Saturday?Reacting butthurt and THEN apologizing for being butthurt is very beta and she will lose more respect for you than she already has. Best thing for you to do now is to just give both of you some space and come to a decision if you're okay with her not being able to give you sex or if you're not okay with it. Stay with her and accept it or leave her and find someone without sexual issues. You have to know that you can not make her want to give you sex more. Regardless if it's a physical issue or n… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to proceed?A month? By now she probably assumes that you have no game and don't know how to pick up on signals. ONLY way to find out if a girl is attracted to you or not is to escalate. Have some balls and make a move. Apply kino and keep pushing until you get a hard no. She isolated you which is a HUGE IOI, which you failed. Either hard next her or make a move NOW. I wouldn't hold my breath though since it's been a month. You're never going to fuck anyone if you're scared of rejection. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I increase my low testosterone?ZMA: Zing, Magnesium, Vitamin B6. Take on an empty stomach before bed. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Any advise o how to get my parents to allow me to start lifting?3x a week is more than enough since you are doing swimming, running, and body weight exercises at home. I'd lift if I were you and I wouldn't tell them about it. After you graduate, join a cheap gym (there's like 3 different gym brands in my city that are ~$10 a month). If your parents are still tripping, tell them you like going to use the treadmills or the pool if they have one. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | LTR started dressing more slutty and socialising more, staying out later - how should I respond?If she's not valuable enough for you to label her as LTR then just drop her. You obviously have feelings for her so you should hard next, not demote to plate. You're already applying dread game and you're fucking other girls. If that's not enough for her to want to try to keep you committed then nothing will work. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Different Plates: 'You make me feel like a woman'You're presenting a lot of masculine traits. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:19 PM |
| 17 | How do I increase my low testosterone?Lift heavy. Do very low reps of compound exercises. Squats, Deadlifts, Bench Press. Lower your stress levels by meditating daily and journaling. Take vitamins like ZMA and Vitamin D. Lower your body fat % to low teens. I take AlphaJYM which helps your body produce natural testosterone and helps decrease estrogen levels. Avoid binge fapping. Limit yourself to 1 fap a week or fuck some hot bitches often. Sleep should be one of your priorities. Pick a sleeping schedule and stick to it. If you need … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl regrets sleeping with me?Some of us need to learn the hard way. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, and I've never felt worse.Same train as you last year. Broke up with an LTR of 5 years. I cried hard on the way home and locked myself in my room all day. Things I did and things you should do: • Tell everyone around you that you've ended things. If you don't want to talk about it, tell them you don't want to talk about it. If you really need someone to talk to, talk to someone. Preferably someone you completely trust like your family. I even told my co-workers. I worked in an office where we would shit test each other f… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 08:43 PM |
| 3 | I always lose attraction to my LTRs and end up cheating, dumping, or pushing them away. Why does this happen?Try LTR'ing someone a higher HB. Someone who can keep you at your edge. Or, get into an LTR where she is open to you sleeping with other girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you reward your LTR’s good behavior ?Fuck her good. Give her a good sexual experience. I've been in this situation before with my current LTR. She behaves really well all week and I feel like she deserves something extra. Use your best judgement on how to do that. If you feel like she wants more romance, light some candles, play some chill music, and spend some time kissing her whole body giving her good head. While you're fucking her you can open up a bit and tell her that you appreciate her being a good girl for you all week. If … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Girl regrets sleeping with me?I bet you paid for the hotel right? If she's just a drunk fuck, then just go to her place / invite her to your place, and then go home / get her home. You also have oneitis for her. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys 25 and under, do you feel like social media is a must have when it comes to dating?24YO here. I'd say that having at least an instagram should be necessary. Make sure that you put some investment in it at first. Just watch some youtube videos on how to get some IG followers. If you want to learn the game part of IG, look up "christian gray pua instagram" on google. He lays out what girls find attractive on guys pages. You only need to stay invested in it for a week or 2, then just post a pic every few weeks to keep it fresh. I'd suggest not DM'ing girls on IG. I did that for m… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 07:22 PM |
| 3 | My reputation: I'm gay. Why? I'm nice only to men and don't put up with women's crap. Is this normal?I replied "maybe you gals don't deserve it!" It seems like you're trying too hard. Maybe you're in the anger phase or you're just bitter about women. If other people are noticing that you're being biased towards woman, you're going to be seen as a misogynist or a homosexual. You do not want people to think that you are in a woman haters club. That could get you in trouble with HR. When a woman notices you giving someone more attention than you give them, they're going to rationalize it in their … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to flirt with girls in presence of other girls you're gaming?Well then it seems like you're okay! Be aware / ready for girls trying to start drama. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What time do you all wake up?Omega 3 with Vitamin D, AlphaJYM, ZMA | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Girl from tinder told me she has a rape fetish wants me to act it outI wouldn't go through with it on the first go. Meet her in a public place. Screen her. Look out for red flags. If everything looks good, then you can escalate and bring her over. Do not get aggressive with her on the first night. be vanilla. Record her consent or whatever makes you comfortable. After a few fucks, you can begin to incorporate more "rape" aspects into the experience. If you need a way to frame it in your head, think about it like you're making her work towards what she wants. Make… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl from tinder told me she has a rape fetish wants me to act it outCall her. If she doesn't answer and makes some excuse, then you're most likely getting goldfished | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Sudden interest loss?It's only been a few hours brah! (eye roll) You got oneitis for this chick brah!? You should've stopped replying after "I have a different class" and just hit her up in 24-48 hours with another meet up attempt. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to flirt with girls in presence of other girls you're gaming?You're fine. It's pre-selection. If you're desired enough, these girls will fight for your attention. Just try to be indirect with girls when you're trying to flirt. When people see girls going after you and it looks like you're not even trying, it's serious market points. Although, if you have a low SMV and you just start approaching all these girls, they're just going to think you're a desperate player and they'll start avoiding you. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?I wouldn't reply. I'd call her the next and set up a date through the phone. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with girls who smell bad?If you know she's going to be a bit smelly before you undress her, tell her to take a shower with you. Make it feel romantic and not offensive. Light some candles in there and play music. Light some scented candles in your room. I don't have a huge room so after a few minutes my room has a strong hint of the candle fragrance which hides any other smells. If a girl has bad breath, give them something to wash it down with. Get them some juice (OJ works well). I like to smoke before sex and most of… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Gas money[Ralph from Ed,Edd,n' Eddy looking out the window] Damn foos out here really setting up a date 20 minutes away and making the girls drive them? If she's pushy about the gas, you can tell her to stop by a gas station and put the gas in yourself. Don't give her the money as she'll most likely not use it for gas. If she's just trying to be fair, then offer to buy her some food / ice cream / Michelada / whatever. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I actually did itGet used to rejection because even if you have years of experience and mountains of success in approaching, you'll still get rejected. I've approached HB8's and gotten to 2nd base in public areas, one of whom was married. I've also been rejected by every girl I approached at a concert which took place months after my previous successes with the HB8's. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 3 | As a red piller, what's the goal of pursuing a LTR if there are no unicorns?IMO, with time and patience, you want to eventually find someone who supplements your life in every way. She provides sexual relief, she cooks, cleans, takes care of minor things for you so you can focus on your mission. The "healthiest" way to look for an LTR is to spin plates and vet them for potential commitment. You definitely want to have options at all times and you must will be willing to drop them the first second red flags begin to surface. Never think of any one girl as different or ex… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Can you give her the Tingles without talking?Eye contact, social status, body posture, micro-expressions. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What to expect from women out of my league?You're 100% beta. You have oneitis and are very blue pilled. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to reject a girl without getting #metoo'd?"No thanks" "Let's just be friends" "Thanks but I like someone else" "I don't date my friends" | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic and still give girls stimulating conversations and feels?It's totally possible. Being stoic and being serious are 2 different things. Being stoic means that you don't (visibly) react emotionally to circumstances, meaning that you have a strong frame. Being serious just means that you're taking situations "seriously" or in a very direct matter. It's okay to be serious. If you're in a professional work environment, being in a serious state of mind can help you avoid distractions and help you be more productive. What's good for you (and me, I share the s… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Have girls ever approached you? How does that usually go for you?How are you ever going to fuck a girl if you never approach them? Eye fucking is a good start, but it's just a start. You definitely need to approach. What if you never see this girl again? What if you could've plated her for a few months but now you can't because she's never going to be in your proximity again? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Girl always talks about rapeHave you fucked? If not, then why do you give a fuck? If she's a plate, then I suggest being a bit more aggressive and easing your way into the rape fantasy. Get her comfortable sexually, and if she admits that she's been raped in the past, then I'd hard next. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Does having a threesome in the past with two guys automatically disqualifies a plate for LTR promotion?Probably not depending on your preference. A "sexual master" wouldn't really give a shit. IMO, there might be a few more flags you can dish out. Get her more comfortable with sexually and see if there's some more baggage you can dish out before you decide to LTR. Give it a few more months. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to start seeing results in the SMP?A few months for you to notice and twice as long for other people to notice. I failed more times than you've probably tried. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What time do you all wake up?Find what works for you and take it one step at a time. I was going to the gym before work for a few years before I started to add meditation into my routine and only a few months ago did I add journaling. Take it at your pace. Don't push yourself too hard but make sure you aren't letting yourself slide too much and rationalizing lettings things get put off. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:11 AM |
| 2 | I’ve always heard about guys locking eyes with girls and then waiting for a smile or giving the girl a smile to see if she’s interested in him. I’ve thought about trying this before but I just feel uncomfortable doing it like I’m being a creep or something is this actually a good strategy?This works best if you're out in a nightlife environment and you're trying to decide which girls to approach. If you get a second or more of eye contact, then approach. You can try during night game but it's a bit more creepy so do it sparingly. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Is no reschedule always a next?I'd soft next for a few days and then ask her out again, cause it can't hurt right? If I get another dry response I'll hard next. Try calling them. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Pretend not to be available?I try to live as best of a genuine life as I can. By this, I mean you shouldn't be faking it just so that you can try to make her think that you're out with different girls. Be honest with yourself. Look, if you don't feel like seeing her, then just tell her, "Not tomorrow" if she asks to come over. Why not just set up other dates that way you can actually tell her you're busy and you actually have a date set up. Even if you have some excuse for not being able to pursue other chicks, you should … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring shit tests: Can this be seen as not standing up for yourself and being a doormat?Me personally I would've looked around confused and been like, "Hey I don't know this girl!" or when I got to the cashier I would've said, "Sorry about her. My grandma made me bring her." It depends on the context though. If she was just trying to be annoying, I'd reply as so. If she was seriously trying to argue, then yeah I'd ignore too but I'd probably just drop her off right after. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 07:31 PM |
| 25 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?eventually, one of them gets the girl. Be the guy that gets the girl! To not be the that guy that hits on the girl. Be the social friendly guy. If you're talking to everybody, nobody's going to judge you for talking to some girl, and that girl is going to be more interested in you because she's seeing that you're displaying social value. I went to this party a few months ago. I got invited by this guy who had came to one of my parties. It was his birthday. I show up to the party and although the… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 06:00 PM |
| 2 | question to those who spin platesNo I didn't! I blocked her number and she unmatched me on Tinder. I'm okay not knowing what her deal is. I'm glad I went through that experience though because it's taught me that girls CAN be emotionally damaged / unstable enough to unreasonably give a guy a hard time, just for shits and giggles. Now FOR SURE I make sure I meet girls in public places and that it's always over a drink or something that I can walk away from if I notice red flags in the first 5 minutes. Also, there's this girl I w… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | question to those who spin plateseh, she was like a 5/10 to me. Short, big tits, her eyeliner with her glasses looked kinda hot. She did have a belly that was hard to notice cause she was in a dress. I would've fucked her if she was a decent girl because I was horny with no other options. Now though I'd probably pass. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Is there a risk of showing too little interest?I mean, I get why you would think that showing interest is beta or being desperate. You'll see a ton of posts and replies from guys saying to avoid giving girls attention but you actually have to give them some attention, but only when they deserve it. If they are being reciprocate about your advances, then continue to escalate. If she starts shit testing or pulling back, then you pull back and tease, neg, etc. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | New social circle didn’t invite me to a hangoutDon't hold your breath. I moved to a city that is frequently visited by tourists so a lot of people from high school that I know come down like every other weekend. Whenever I see people on social media visiting, I'll hit them up and let them know that I live in town and to let me know if they want to meet up. They either leave me on read or just don't follow through. I'll just shrug it off or unfollow them. Now, if I were to ask someone that I've met this year to hang out, they'd be excited abo… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 11:57 PM |
| 6 | What time do you all wake up?Weekdays I go to bed 8:30pm-9:00pm and wake up at 5:00am. I take a piss, drink a protein shake, meditate for 10-15 mins, start sipping on my pre-workout, write in my journal for 10 mins, I'll then make a quick shake with a banana, greek yogurt, oatmeal, and peanut butter and I'll drink it down with some Omega-3 w/ Vitamin D and then drive to the gym to do whatever is on schedule for my current strength program. I wake up at 5:00am and my work shift doesn't start until 9:00am. Weekends I get up a… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | A good comeback for lame “shit tests”“come on now” is one of the most beta responses available. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | New social circle didn’t invite me to a hangoutIt's not a new social circle, it's an old one. You were beta in middle school and they still see you as such. I remember there was this dude who always hung out with me and some friends. When we first met him he was chubby, had an afro (he was mexican), and was completely beta / submissive. Through the years, he lost weight, got a decent haircut, and became more aggressive. Although he had worked on himself quite a bit, we still saw him the same and treated him the same. Once someone sees you as… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 11:38 PM |
| 7 | A plate just messaged me"don't you have other girls to mess with?"It's a shit test. I'd probably just ignore or say something like, "My wife is out of town" | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to transform your body from average to a point you start to turn heads ?Yeah, average. I'm 6'3 but I have pretty long arms so I really need to focus on building size in this area, otherwise I just look skinny even though there's a good amount of muscle mass. Get checked by a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 3 | She ask if you're sleeping with other girl..."It'd be easier to count the girls I'm not sleeping with" | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 09:52 PM |
| 8 | How long does it take to transform your body from average to a point you start to turn heads ?2 weeks is nothing. It takes months for your body to show a noticeable difference. There's also "newbie" gains. You'll swell up a bit and drop some water weight during your first few weeks of lifting but then you'll stagnate and slowly make gains (this is for everyone, unless you're taking steroids). Testosterone and quality of your sleep also impact how quickly you can transform your body. If you're a shorter dude, your gains will be more noticeable. You have less length on your limbs so your m… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | is the fact that I have a modest place going to influence my status to woman?She would let Chad fuck her raw on the first date in the back seat of his mom's 2008 Honda Civic. A girl has already decided if she's going to fuck you or not before she sees where you live. Last year when I lived in a small condo with my mom and sisters I would bring girls over to fuck. When I noticed the tension was high enough, I'd invite them over and they'd say yes. I never mentioned who I lived with. Once we got to my front door, I'd say something like, "Oh, my sisters might be up. Just sa… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Is there a risk of showing too little interest?You want to have a good balance of push / pull. You just need to know when to push or when to pull. If you don't show any interest, she's going to think that you don't have any game, or if she has low confidence, she's going to think that you're not into her and she'll go drain attention from someone else. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 4 | question to those who spin platesEspecially Tinder girls! That's when you should be the MOST careful. Meet in public. Set up a date that you can walk away from within 5 minutes and don't give out personal information. Hell, don't even tell her your last name. I still think about my experience and I get the Heebie-jeebies! | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | MeditationGet it on your phone as it's more convenient, and look up the benefits of meditation so that it can motivate you enough to get started. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:07 PM |
| 10 | question to those who spin platesUnless you're top 5% in looks, you're not going to have much luck getting girls to come over alone to a guys house that she's never even met. You're going to get lots of flakes, ghosting, and LMR. Also, why would you want a stranger to come over to your place? Dude what if she's psycho? What if she has a ton of red flags or she's catfishing? You really want to give your address out to strangers? IMO you should always meet up with the girl for at least 15 minutes before you decide if you want to … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:03 PM |
| 2 | "You always look pissed off"Do some research on charisma, I recommend reading "The Charisma Myth". Just because you feel calm or relaxed doesn't mean that you have an approachable presence. When you're out and about, you have to put yourself in an approachable reality. You need to feel friendly, social, open, etc. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to get the girl?Maybe she had somewhere to be, who cares. IMO if she's allowing you to walk with her alone and talk to you, then you should've been more direct and let your intentions be more known. Ask for her number, ask her out on a date, kino, escalate. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop feeling guilty after watching porn?It's all in your mind. You don't have to give up masturbating, but you should give up porn. It'll improve your life a lot more. I believe that porn is the reason why you're "done with women and their bullshit". Porn is brain washing you into not wanting you to put any effort into game / improving yourself. Porn is easy, gaming and fucking a girl is not. Porn is limiting your potential. It's holding you back in areas you know you should be improving. Be honest with yourself. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Does a girl after being rude to you and making excuses to go on date with you and turning her back on you while you approach her at the party...Neither. She's not interested in you, so move on. Stop giving a fuck about how to react to her. It's a hard next. The more time you're spending drooling over this girl, the more time you're wasting not approaching and escalating with other girls who you could actually be fucking. Next time you see her just don't give a fuck. Be friendly enough where it's socially acceptable and so that you don't come off as a butthurt bitch boy, but don't give her any attention that she doesn't deserve. You have… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do You Guys Ever Lose Your Drive After Having Sex?What's your reference? Have you ever had an orgasm without ejaculating? I'm also answering from my own experience. I've trained my PC muscles enough that I can bring myself to orgasm during sex, hold back my ejaculation, and then continue to fuck with a full hard on after only a few seconds of rest (while still inside her). When I don't hold back my ejaculation, I'll fully cum with my orgasm and lose my erection shortly after. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Any ideas on how to compliance test a girl?Dude who cares? If you're fucking her then that's it. Keep fucking her good and enjoy it while it lasts. You're overthinking this shit and overthinking leads to oneitis. Oneitis leads to the sidebar, and the sidebar leads to the dark side. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Virgin says “We went too fast, let’s just be friends”Listen to her actions, not her words! Don't be pushy. Just ask her out again, as friends, and once you 2 are having a good time, escalate again. If she rejects you again, then just hard next. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Meditation15 minutes is more than enough, if you do it every day. And you don't need to do 15 minutes when you start. 5-10 mins is fine. You don't just "sit out", you sound completely ignorant. First, google the benefits so it can get you all nice and hyped up, then youtube some guided meditations or download "headspace" to start. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Need bigger PecsI was replying to a guy who told OP not to do flat benches. I agree that bench presses work fine for chest, and I also gave OP some alternatives. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Need bigger PecsAre you arguing that chest press is the best chest workout? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Should dread game be employed here?No, don't lie. Just tell her where to meet you and what time. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Been on third day in my life. What should I do next time?I know that you're nervous about kissing your first girl, and maybe you feel like she should be the one to kiss you when she's ready, but you're extremely limiting yourself. This girl was giving you IOI's and you could've kissed and escalated to more. You're in a different country! Nobody there knows you. You will never see this girl again so why not just go for it? If she rejects you so what? At least you went for it. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Does a girl after being rude to you and making excuses to go on date with you and turning her back on you while you approach her at the party...Dude. Escalate. If you can fuck, then yes she's interested. If you get rejected, then no she's not interested. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:30 PM |
| 2 | When is being an asshole too much?There's advice on this sub such as so for guys who are completely beta or "nice guys". Basically, if you're way off on the nice scale, it's suggested that you exaggerate the asshole-ness a bit so you could widen your circle of comfort and become less of a good boy. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | When is being an asshole too much?You're hitting the gas too hard. There's the playful asshole that people want to gain approval from, then there's the straight up asshole that people want to stay away from. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Any ideas on how to compliance test a girl?Is she letting you fuck? Good, compliance test passed. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Need bigger PecsFlat bench targets the shoulders and triceps a lot. It's not the best chest workout. If you have no weights, I recommend side to side push ups. There's chest dips, reverse grip chest press or barbell press has been working the best for me, and then the isolation exercises like flyes. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Worried about coming off as creepy or try-hard during night game.You care way too much about what other people think. Your priority in your life right now should be to stop giving a fuck about what other people think. Go home and watch some Youtube videos. Take some notes. Get this fixed. Like, nobody gives a fuck! Some people may notice it, but you are no one in this world for anyone to have a reaction or judgement on what you are doing. Avoid going to a club by yourself. Go with friends. Invite anyone. Co-workers, neighbors, class mates. Just have a friendl… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | New to a workplace where It's all women. I'm still learning and they all give me orders and talk to me in this dumbed-down tone. It frustrates me but I need to learn. What do?I've had these jobs. Working production jobs with women. I highly recommend just getting out of there. A security guard job sounds better than that. Being in that environment can become really toxic. My mom has been working at one of these for like 11 years and when she invites some co-workers over for parties, I'll hear how nasty they talk about the co-workers there, especially the guys. Like, really fucked up names (in spanish). If you need to learn something, ask your supervisor or manager. K… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop feeling guilty after watching porn?For a few minutes, then you have to go through hours or even days of negative effects. Why not just make your sexual fantasies come to life? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 09:08 PM |
| 5 | How do i stop feeling guilty after watching porn?I've been on NoFap for 2.5 years now and I've had a handful of relapses where the itch just gets too itchy and I watch a few vids of porn. I'll rationalize to myself that it's okay and that it won't do any damage but 100% of the time I always feel ashamed and grossed out after. Even the next day I'll feel drained and my mind will be foggy. I have an LTR so I get sex pretty frequent and I'll edge / practice multi-orgasm on my own some times which not only improves my sex life but it also alleviat… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Still dont understand how to make her orgasmEase your way into it. Almost every girl loves it so learn to get comfortable with it. Lightly spank, and then start spanking harder after every session. The same with choking. Bondage doesn't need to be extreme. You can just pull her shirt over her head up until it gets around her wrists and then just hold it down on the bed so she can't move her arms, or just hold her arms down when you're on top. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I just got rejected on my first approach ever fuckDon't ever approach someone you follow on instagram. It comes across as creepy and heavily puts you in her frame. What if you did get her number and she tried to exchange social media, but you already follow her? A bit weird ain't it? Next time be a more indirect and try asking a general question. Say something like, "Hey I'm trying to decide what to eat, what do you recommend?" If she mentions whatever she's eating, say, "Is that why you're eating all by yourself?" Don't discourage yourself. Ju… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Does it even matter what you say on Tinder?Oof, yah that one. Like, JFC, did you read that bio?? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Very mixed signals from a girl, what’s TRP’s thoughts? Don’t really care if she’s into me or not, but want to learn from this unique situationYou know what, you escalated, you made a move, and it didn't go anywhere. At least now you know not to pursue her anymore. Don't text her during your down time, don't give her much attention when you're out salsa dancing. She probably wanted to give you the minimum investment on her part to try and keep your around and make you an orbiter. I wouldn't be surprised if she behaves like this again in a few weeks and tries to follow the same pattern, but that won't happen because she should be a hard… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The Power GameObserve, but don't react. Great post OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Does it even matter what you say on Tinder?It matters slightly. It's mostly looks, but if you're an attractive guy and start replying like 3 messages at once like, "Hey are you there?? Hello???" and just act needy and beta then it can really turn a girl off. Looks + basic game is all you really need to have some success. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 05:22 PM |
| 12 | Does it even matter what you say on Tinder?You ever see the one about a guy who had male model photos, and although he mentioned on his bio that he was a sex offender, girls were still throwing their panties at his feet? It's crazy train. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with dominant girls?It could be a shit test. Remember, any girl will deep throat and fuck raw on the first date for the right Chad. Proceed as a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Sober questionCool man. I like to explore and try new places when I'm setting up new dates. If the date doesn't work out, then at least I tried a new place. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Is this an appropriate soft next?Hard next. I'm pretty certain the rest of your relationship isn't that great either. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Sober questionYup. You're gonna come across as someone who's trying to give up drinking so people are going to react with "so what are you doing here?" or, you're going to come across as cheap, someone who can't afford drinks. You can either not give a fuck, or just not put yourself in this situation and go do something that doesn't involve drinking. Drinking coffee at night could lead to your place to burn off all that energy (wink). Sure you can order an appetizer at a bar or you could google the best place… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:19 PM |
| 0 | Sober questionNo, if you're trying to quit drinking then going to a bar is going to be bad for you. If you just don't drink and aren't tempted to, you're going to come across as weird. You can do coffee / ice cream for the first date, or just a walk around a park / city. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:07 PM |
| 5 | LTR asks "Can I work Saturday?"If she really has money issues I'd say let her work and just move the date to another night. If you've been planning the date for a while / have tickets for something, tell her to pass on the work and enjoy the night with you. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:04 PM |
| 2 | How to be more dynamic and have more energy?Looks like your health is on check. Do you meditate? It'd help a lot if you meditated. The thing is that when you see someone be energetic and full of life, we assume that that is how they are all the time. Nobody is that charismatic all the time. Some times it'll be genuine, and some times they just get good at pretending to be so. IMO the trick is to be genuinely excited and interested to talk to people. If you work somewhere where you don't really get to socialize with many people, you'll fee… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Should I lose virginity to a fatty?I would. Get it out of the way, especially at 21 years old. When you're a virgin you have this exaggerated idea in your head about what it is. You pedestalize it and have this idea that you want to lose it to the right girl. Last year I only had 2 notches on my belt. Every date I'd go on and escalation I'd go through seemed really intense and nerve racking. Now I'm at around 10 notches and although it's not a lot, it's made a huge difference in how I see game and how I approach sex. Instead of i… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Wanting more than sexYeah man. She's probably had some really aggressive sex that she's become desensitized to the regular romantic intercourse that most people have, or she's just slept with so many guys that she doesn't even play LMR anymore. I've been with a girl like this. It was off Bumble. She would keep wanting me to invest in her before we had sex. I'd decline anything that wasn't 50/50 or not in my favor. She was pretty clingy in public and would get all sensitive if I didn't want to kiss her every few seco… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Wanting more than sexShe showed no intensity, energy, or any burst of enthusiasm throughout. The whole ordeal felt robotic, and was one of the least satisfying sexual experiences I’ve had. IMO this is a red flag. It could be a symptom of her riding too many dicks or she's been alpha widowed. It's like "she knows the drill" right? A girl shouldn't be acting like this on the first time. The first time should be exciting and sometimes intense. I think you know that if you do want more intimacy, you're gonna want to sta… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Do You Guys Ever Lose Your Drive After Having Sex?What you're describing is edging. Multi-orgasm is ACTUALLY having a full orgasm, but holding back your ejaculation. If you're comfortable with your plate / LTR, let her know that you're going to multi-orgasm. What's great about multi-orgasm is that you're able to go TWICE, without taking a break. We lose our erection when we ejaculate. If you don't ejaculate, you don't lose your erection. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Where did I go wrong/right? (examples inside)ehh, too much talking, not enough kino / escalation. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:48 AM |
| 14 | What determines a women's attractiveness level?What's your dick telling you? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | What the actual fuckI can picture myself playing the quiet mysterious guy in the back seat as a game plan. Look at you all stirred up. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:17 AM |
| 2 | What the actual fuckGet over it. It happened. Next time, tell your roommate that you're into one of the girls so that he doesn't game her. Just cause he's "shy" doesn't mean he's beta. Maybe he said more with his body language and presence than you did with your social skills. You probably weren't doing as good as you think you were. Especially for you to flip out at the outcome you saw when you came back from the restroom (like, how much could've happened while you went to go pee?) I have a roommate who's also goo… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Do You Guys Ever Lose Your Drive After Having Sex?Edging - Masturbating and coming close to orgasm but preventing yourself from climaxing all the way. Multi Orgasm - orgasm without ejaculation. With practice, you're able to bring yourself to orgasm but hold back your ejaculation so you don't lose your erection and are able to keep having sex. If you're interested just do some research, there's a ton of information to look up. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Do You Guys Ever Lose Your Drive After Having Sex?Try edging / practicing multi orgasms. It takes A LOT of self control to not bring yourself to ejaculate but you'll be able to keep your drive / edge / aggressiveness and it will also help your sex performance a lot by reducing PE. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Should I cut/bulk or just eat clean and lift heavy?Do whatever you'll enjoy the most. Me personally I love doing compound exercises but I HATE cardio. I'll blow my dad before I catch myself on a treadmill. There's times that I have to force myself to take a rest day because I've been lifting every day for like 2 weeks straight. That's just my preference. I have friends that enjoy cardio and don't really like compound lifts. I've been doing Intermittent fasting for months now and I can easily avoid carbs with little to no temptations, but I HATE … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl seems not to be interested at all, still wants to go to a bar after billiard?Some girls are just strange like that. You'll get weird signals and sometimes you'll be unsure of how to approach. In your case, you should've led a little better "We're going to this place, maybe we'll try your place next time if you stop being a brat (smirky voice tone is important here)". If a girl still wants to hangout with you then she's interested enough to want to hang out with you, right? Technically any girl can just walk away from a date so just assume attraction and keep escalating. … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The shitty realityThen stay off Tinder | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | What is happening when initially she can't get enough of you and begs you to commit and then when you do she goes totally cold?Only way to make it work is to make her work for the commitment, and once you reward it to her, you apply soft dread game so that she gets the impression that if she slips up, you’re dumping her. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Social Game: Do you kino attractive female friends?You can try something like that with eye contact, negging, slight push / pull, voice tonality, body language, etc. Anything that doesn't involve kino. If you're in a group setting and everybody sees you kino'ing a girl below your league, you're going to hurt your reputation a bit. People are going to see that you have low standards. Although, if any girl is visibly attracted to you, everybody will see that. If everybody is seeing that a girl is trying to get your attention and you're being aloof… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:08 PM |
| 5 | What is happening when initially she can't get enough of you and begs you to commit and then when you do she goes totally cold?Besides getting impregnated and raising children, a women's biological duty is to make an alpha commit to her. Women need commitment from an alpha. Once she's obtained it, she will decrease the amount of effort she puts into keeping you invested. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:37 PM |
| 2 | What would you think of a Girl that kissed 15 guys but only slept with one?Sounds like a girl from my middle school who was dating a new guy every 3 weeks, including myself (ayy my first kiss). I'm sure by the time she lost her virginity she'd kissed around that many guys. But I'm 100% certain that the girl you're talking about OP is lying to your mother fucking face. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:33 PM |
| 16 | Social Game: Do you kino attractive female friends?Nah, if a girl I don't want to fuck is giving me an invitation to kino, I'll decline. It'll reinforce your scarcity mentality and lower your standards. If you want to smash, kino. If you aren't attracted, then no. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | The shitty realityBut they're more miserable than us deep down. They require attention and validation. ALL they have going for them is their looks, and eventually their looks fade so then they have nothing. Us men we build skills and develop ourselves in ways that stay with us for the rest of our lives. Us men feel accomplished when we complete our goals. When we hit a new PR, when we excel in our career, when we've meditated for 10 days straight. Let girls be girls. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | I was stood up on the date. Her reasoning eludes me. Help me understand it! Details withinIt's a hard truth that I read about here but I still went on to learn it on my own from experience and failures. I moved to a new state in February so everybody I've met here is post-TRP obviously and everybody treats me with great respect. Guys talk to me at their level or even higher, they show genuine interest in talking with me. Girls either submit to my frame or I learn to get along with them, but never become a beta. I know it seems like a huge leap, but I recommend just starting a new lif… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | If a girl visits your SOCIAL MEDIA a lot, is that a sign of interest?Then just reach out | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The shitty realityTake action. Take it day by day. I write in my journal every morning when I wake up about what actions I am going to take today to improve myself and raise my value in the world (for myself). | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 12:07 AM |
| 3 | I was stood up on the date. Her reasoning eludes me. Help me understand it! Details withinI dumped an LTR of 5 years a year and a half ago and like you, I hit up every girl who I'd been wanting to fuck or who I thought I'd be able to smash. What's crazy is that most of the girls that agreed to meet up ended up flaking with no notice. They just ghosted me the day of. This one girl seemed willing to meet up for sure and hours before we were supposed to hang, she went radio silent. She later posted a story on IG of her at a county fair with friends. I was just like wtf, and just hard ne… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 12:03 AM |
| 10 | Do you go after girls who you know have higher value options?She's going to have sex with the guy who gives her the most tingles. The guy who gives her the biggest emotional rollercoaster. It could be you brah. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Just don't invest a lot into this chick. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 11:50 PM |
| 4 | The shitty realityThe shitty reality. It is what it is. You can label it however you want, but this is absolute. You can either be bitter about it and complain about it, or take action to live your best life. It's fine, if you don't want to apply yourself, other guys will just fuck the girls that you aren't fucking anyways. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 11:46 PM |
| 2 | I was stood up on the date. Her reasoning eludes me. Help me understand it! Details withinDamn, strong oneitis for this girl. Just next her and move on. You've been chasing this girl for over a year. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 11:43 PM |
| 3 | If a girl visits your SOCIAL MEDIA a lot, is that a sign of interest?She might be interested. Do you know her in person? If so, just reach out to her and tell her that you want to meet up. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | tinder vs bumbleDon't cancel. Just drive her back to your place or have her follow you to your place. Meet up with girls closer to your place. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How to go about finding plates> Dating Apps > Invite a (male) co-worker to a music show or local festival. Something that doesn't completely involve drinking. Just tell him you need a wing-man. Approach there. > Learn day game and approach random women. > Go out by yourself. I've gone to concerts by myself to see some of my favorite bands and I've approached chicks there. Don't be a coward. Take action. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Is there a way to incorporate negs on dating apps?You can, it's not much different than real life though. "You seem like one of those girls who doesn't kiss on the first date" | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:28 PM |
| 4 | should you control what LTR wearsYou NEVER control women. Trying to control a women is beta and you're never going to change her anyways. If you can't accept what your LTR wears, then you're just gonna have to next her. This should've been done during the vetting process of when she was a plate and you were trying to gauge if she was LTR material or not. You can try to influence her decisions a bit by mentioning something like, "I'd hate to be the boyfriend of a girl who dresses half naked in public." If she respects you enough… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:26 PM |
| 2 | tinder vs bumbleYeah it was one of the worst sexual experiences I've had. Like she wasn't even reacting to the sex and she was pretty loose too. I was just turned off by her lack of presence in it that I just pulled out and put my clothes back on. At least I definitely learned what some of the negative symptoms are of a girl with a high n-count or a girl being damaged goods. 1. Don't have expectations / big post-plans in mind. You want to try to f-close, that's cool. It's possible, but what if she's not as hot … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Gaming a woman at her job?They're paid to be nice and talk to you so if you want the practice, go ahead and have conversations with them. You can practice social RP principles like eye contact, body posture, voice tonality, negging, etc. that you can later implement when you start approaching girls who aren't obligated to be friendly with you. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:39 PM |
| 2 | tinder vs bumbleJust 1. She was like a 5 and was damaged goods. Sex was awful. I didn't even cum cause I wasn't even enjoying it haha | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [16M] Bitch flakedIgnore. Act like nothing happened. Give the impression that you're sleeping with 12 other girls and that her not texting you has zero effect on you. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Should I allow my female friend to approach girls for me in college?No. You can try this though. I was at a day club with my roommates. One of them is a HB9. Used to model, still gets offers, gets hit on all the time, etc. I approached this HB8 who was there with her mom. One of the hottest girls I've approached. I noticed that the HB8 was trying to seem uninterested, not giving me much attention. I was talking to her mom mostly. My HB9 roommate passes by us on the way to the bar (this wasn't planned) and I call her over and introduce her to the HB8 and her mom.… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:12 PM |
| 3 | I hate looking youngerGrow your facial hair out. Have a stubble. If you have chubby cheeks, lower your body fat % | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Got fucked drunk and fucked a random girl and i regret it big timeBe amused by it. Fuck it, it happened. There's this clip from Jackass 3.5 where they show a skit where Johnny Knoxville is putting lotion on his face. It turns out that the Jackass crew put horse semen in his lotion, which he was rubbing on his face for 4 months. Johnny Knoxville himself is watching the skit live and finds out about the prank on live tv. Instead of being embarrassed or disgusted, he stands up and bows to the audience and laughs it off. Amused mastery. Laugh it off. Shit happens.… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | tinder vs bumbleIf you have an above average attractive face you'll do okay. I had more luck with Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 08:44 PM |
| 9 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?A lot of the time it's for validation. They want to see how far you'll push to be able to see them. They want to be chased. Just next them and approach new girls. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Confronted about dreadRadio silence from both. I ended up getting more serious with the girl that came over after and I would post pictures of us so I'm sure the first girl got the hint. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:50 PM |
| 2 | how can you really tell if girls are checking you out?Only way is to approach! | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Confronted about dreadI've been in this situation before too. I had a date set up on a Saturday. I smoked a little too much and was too high to want to go out so I just stayed in my room and watched movies or something. I didn't even text her until the next day telling her that something had come up and I couldn't meet up with her last night but that I was free that day. I basically flaked with no notice and she seemed a bit off by it but it also made her curious as to what could have occurred for me to flake on her … | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:59 PM |
| 2 | How to effectively number closeWhenever I'm hitting it off with a girl, I'll hand her my phone nonchalantly and say something like, "put your number in". In a less direct manner, you can just ask her out.. "Hey let's grab a drink next weekend, give me your number" In your case, you could've said something like, "Let's work out together some time, let me get your number" and then hand her your phone. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | You’re meanIt's a shit test brah | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you exclusively date a girl who's been with a lot of guys??Symptoms arise from having a high n-count. There's the effects of being damaged goods. You just have to look out for these clues to figure out if she is damaged or not, or if she is an alpha widow. - Does she assume that all you want is sex? - Is she bitter about men? - Does she fear that you'll leave her once she gives you sex? - Is she paranoid about you having sex with other girls? - Does she have an unreasonable expectation from men? - Is she looking for a beta provider? These are some of th… | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I run for homecoming prince?Yeah I would. IMO I regret not getting more involved in more school stuff. It's fun and in your case you can practice your competitive skills and spend time with some of the alphas of the school (considering that's who is also running for prince). You get introduced to the girls running for princess and you get good social points during the homecoming dance, even if you don't win. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I pass a sexual shit test and get my girlfriend to suck my dick whenever I want ?Don't do that. Girls get hit on all the time, so if you're going to start trying to directly make your girlfriend jealous about getting attention, you're going to lose. Let her see girls flirting with you. Have her find out on her own that other girls are giving you attention. Things like, if another girl is touching you, girls are commenting romantic things on your photo post, etc. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What conversational ways can you snuff out a lying woman who actually has a boyfriend?It shouldn't matter to you. Ignorance is bliss. If she wants to fuck you, she will fuck you, regardless if she has a boyfriend or not. Escalate, and close. If you have a plate and you really want to know, then just go to Instagram > Discover People > Contacts From there you can see the Instagram pages of people in your contacts because most people have their numbers connected to their social media. Check out her IG and if she doesn't have anything about a boyfriend, then you're good. But again, … | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Lights offJust turn them off or have a dimly lit lamp. I do not like to have sex in pitch black. I'm very visual with sex (I like to see my girls eyes look up at me when she's blowing me. I like to see their tits bouncing when they're riding, etc). I have a red light bulb that I turn on. It's dim enough that I can sleep through it but bright enough that I can see everything in my room. My room looks like a darkroom where photos get processed. I'll also light candles for special occasions. Scented candles … | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Who here wants children?Difference is that your cousin isn't RP (or is he). I do want kids eventually. I'd like to be a father and raise my child to have the best life possible. I'd much rather have a child than get married though. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | I work with a woman who hates me and loudly laughs at everything anyone says about me, even if they are just joking and she isn't on it. How do I shut her up???Do you have an HR department? Go to HR department and file a complaint about her. It's not beta. You are at work and should minimize the amount of stress you have to put up with. Make sure to keep it strictly professional and keep your emotions out of it. Tell HR about how she ignores you when you request something from her and how she responds to your teammate and not you. Personally, you should just ignore any non-work content that comes from her. If she laughs at you, just pretend you didn'… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How do I pass a sexual shit test and get my girlfriend to suck my dick whenever I want ?Dread game is something you should definitely be aware of if you're in an LTR. Do some heavy research on it and start practicing what you learn. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Is commitment the killer of freedom and dreams?I'm 24, she's 21. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Is commitment the killer of freedom and dreams?The progress IS insane! I'm a COMPLETELY different person because of it. Like, for context, I was voted most shy in 7th grade. I continued this approach for a few years because I thought girls found it cute. Now though, I feel like I can easily be the leader of a group if I wanted to. I'm comfortable and social enough that I can approach people and lead them towards something I want to do. All cause of TRP. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Is commitment the killer of freedom and dreams?Yeah same here. My LTR will tell me how it is sometimes and she accepts that I consider what she tells me, but she understands if I make my decision against her advice, which is really great. It's amazing how great my current LTR is. Like, after my ex, I was spinning plates and dating around but I always felt like none of these girls were as good as my ex. They either weren't as attractive, had lesser personality traits, or just didn't want to impress me enough for me to consider commitment. I w… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I pass a sexual shit test and get my girlfriend to suck my dick whenever I want ?It seems like she's not in the mood to please you and that's your fault. She's lost attraction / respect for you. Have you been improving yourself to your full potential? Or have you (honestly) let yourself slide a little bit and gotten lazy. You can try dread game and make her fear potentially losing you. If you are a high value man, then she will do everything she can to keep you and work for your attention and affection. If that doesn't work, I would suggest nexting.. There are girls out ther… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | First date went well with K-close, who texts first?Doesn't really matter. If you want to text her, then go ahead and text her when YOU feel like it. Don't feel pressured to text her immediately or to wait whatever amount of days wondering why she isn't texting you first. I've texted girls the next day to set up another date, I've waited a couple days or a week because I was busy with other dates or with my personal life, I've even not texted back at all (some girls eventually text me, but some times you both just don't text each other back ever.… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Is commitment the killer of freedom and dreams?You don't have to get married. As long as you are a high enough value man you can find a woman who will allow you to pursue your dreams and ambitions. You can either have plates and not be affected by any negative influence because you don't give a fuck about them, or you can find a woman who supplements your life. I have an LTR who 100% supplements my life. She's not pushy about hanging out with me. She does everything I tell her to do. She actually pushes me to power through my procrastination… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Inviting girl I like out (along with her twin)Dis what I'd do: > Invite both > Have fun with both in a friendly way at first > Either bring other people with you, or approach other people and join their group / invite them to your group. > Once both groups are friendly and comfortable with each other, isolate desired girl and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:05 PM |
| 11 | what are your hard lines for breaking up with a girlMy ex LTR of 5 years (preTRP) always hung out with a large group of guys and she would often be the only girl in the group. I didn't like it since the beginning and I put up with it for so long because I thought I could change her. Some times when she would tell me where she was and with who I would flip out and make her feel really bad about it. Sometimes she'd be like, "you know, you're right. I'm sorry". But sometimes she'd something like, "They're my friends, and I've known them since before… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:01 PM |
| 2 | The main reason newbie PUAs don't improve fast (are you guilty of this?)Unfortunately it's just human nature to procrastinate and be lazy. Water, food, shelter, and safety are extremely easy to access to almost everyone in the world so it's conditioned us to just be lazy. Fight through it. Wake Up. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Im 17 and I cant stop eating unhealthy/junk food. Please help me on how can i start eating healthyWhen I was your age. I didn’t care about the damage bad food did to my body. What i did care about was improving myself. Having more energy, being more sharp, having better testosterone, etc. Look up the benefits of drinking cold water. Eating bananas, eating avocados, etc. all the healthy food you’re interested in eating, look up the benefits of eating them. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Did I handle the situation correctly? (hb10 advice)In your situation, I'd recommend that you just lay back and let the women come to you. Don't chase. Be indirectly flirty, be confident, be comfortable. Again, be indirect and if you're going to escalate with any one of them, give plausible deniability. "I was gonna go play Mario Kart at my place. Wanna come?" | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | What would you suggest for improving your mental fitness?Try reading and being more conscious about strong mental states like being present, finding joy in everything, social skills, psychology, etc. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Asked girl on date, all of a sudden “got class”?Not interested | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:48 PM |
| 3 | What is the purpose of girls pretending they don't want sex and putting up resistance only to give in.Shit test / ASD Will you get butthurt if they say that you're not getting sex? How will you react? Will you react needy / pushy? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl I know from high school is trying to start drama.Dude just block. If she's not bringing any sort of value into your life, then you don't need her in it. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Should you ask these questions?Nah, you want to lead her. Be confident in your actions and make her feel comfortable by letting her know that you know what you're doing by your attitude and actions. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Did I handle the situation correctly? (hb10 advice)Isolate somewhere more private. I don't know if you have a dorm or if there is some isolated "view spot" in your city you can go to. Because you are seeing her 5x a day, i highly suggest you be more indirect with your seduction and make plausible deniability a priority. If shit goes south, it will be awkward in your classes plus if you come off as creepy, she might talk to the other girls and it'll damage your reputation. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Did I handle the situation correctly? (hb10 advice)You're at a thin line between being attractive to her and being her emotional sponge. Now she feels comfortable with you which is good, but any more comfort from you will be met with LJBF. I suggest you maximize the alpha and escalate hard with her. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 06:16 PM |
| 2 | The main reason newbie PUAs don't improve fast (are you guilty of this?)I respectfully disagree with this. I do agree that the most important aspect of PU is practice, followed by reflection and then study. A week though to learn all these principles is too much for anyone. I am not saying that these things should take months or years to finally develop, but every person has their own pace based on their own experiences (if they've been successful with women in the past or maybe never even kissed a girl). A newbie here reading your post would be highly discouraged b… | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Grow a beard and get swole. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 07:21 PM |
| 10 | Anyone get a little disgusted by your girl's social media history?Red pilled guys will not feel disgusted at their LTR's social media because the smart ones don't become exclusive to those types of girls. With a girl like that, at best, just a plate. Complaining about your LTR is really just your own fault for committing to someone you didn't vet properly. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Social circle game fuck-up?You’re being paranoid. Just go out with the top 3 girls that you find most attractive from those 6. Escalate, push / pull, and then close. Managing 6 girls at once is wasting too much time and energy. If things don’t workout with the first 3 girls, proceed to the next 3 | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Have no game at all.Practice. Start talking to everyone. Even if it’s just to ask a basic general question like what time it is, just try to talk to everyone. Game is practice, like all other skills. You get better from your failures and from your success. I’ve embarrassed myself in front of my friends, I’ve burned bridges from approaching and escalating with the wrong girls, I’ve also opened and closed a HB9 at a Vegas Day Club, and I’ve gotten numbers from girls who I find out later are Instagram “models”. Practi… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Plate kind of ignored me for 4 days. I ignored her as well and ended it last night. Good or bad move?If you had 3 other plates, you wouldn't of cared if this one was hitting you up or not. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:52 PM |
| 16 | Flirting with girl that's sleeping in the same room as me at hostel. How to close?"Hey, come watch this show with me" lead her on your bed and put your arm around her as if you're just trying to get comfortable and not trying to make a move. Then, slowly escalate. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What would be the best way to cancel a date utilizing dread game?You shouldn't of replied after that | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What would be the best way to cancel a date utilizing dread game?"Something came up, can't hangout this weekend" | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:44 PM |
| -1 | 10mins into the date, she said "we're going to be friends...i just know it"Sounds like a shit test. If you felt like it was genuine, you should've ended the date then and there. I've walked out of dates before. Your time is valuable. You really want to waste it on a girl who isn't interested in you? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 09:55 PM |
| 10 | What was your progression of plate-spinning?One mistake I made with plates was not handling "the talk" well. For me, I didn't want to lead my girls on. When we had the talk, I basically told them that I didn't want to be in anything serious and didn't give them the hope of some day being exclusive. I told one girl that if she wasn't happy with what we had, that she could leave, and she did and we haven't talked since. What I should've done was give them some hope. Saying something like, "I'm happy with what we have now, let's just keep th… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm at a low point and need some advice.I believe that you are just moving too fast in life. You are getting anxiety and burning out because you are not moving at a healthy pace. You've heard this before but just take it day by day. What can you do today to put you in a better position than you were yesterday? You're too caught up in the big picture. You have the big numbers of the bills in your head and you're making your mind think that you need to figure it out now. I realized a few things myself while writing this. Do this more. W… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Looking for some fresh & new sex techniquesI think this is the kind of approach I'm thinking of going with. Just be aggressive, rip her clothes off, and once I'm inside of her, I can switch it to romantic and emotional, tell her how much I missed her pussy, and then switch it back to aggressive. Thanks for the idea! | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking for some fresh & new sex techniquesI'm not strong enough to support her weight | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Looking for some fresh & new sex techniquesMy girl is like 5’9, can’t really do this but this would be a good touch, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Looking for some fresh & new sex techniquesI know, examples I stated are just some factors of variety that I apply in different intercourses | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you call a woman out on her shit but not sound butt hurt?An important aspect of this is to actually not be butthurt. It's near impossible to try to portray yourself as something false if you're feeling a different way mentally. This is why actors "get in character". Public speakers have a green room where they "get in the zone". How you feel inside is what you want to output to the outside. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:43 PM |
| 4 | What is the best response to "Why aren't you paying for my meal? Are you not a gentleman?""Who said I was a gentleman?" "Do you need me to get yours?" | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | LTR Talks / texts too muchI'm just aiming to have a genuine connection. Like, if she is talking, I want to give my full attention and actually care about what she has to say. Not just pretend to care, or act like I'm listening. I believe that I'm partly responsible for it in a way though. Just because some times I want to be alone to meditate or relax but I'll agree to see her, but I honestly don't feel like hanging out at that time so it causes me to not be fully present and enjoy the time with her. Maybe being more hon… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | LTR Talks / texts too muchI mean, it's just a trait that some girls have. One of my closest guy friends can talk for hours as well. I definitely don't want her to change how she is, I just want her to be more conscious about it. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 05:49 PM |
| 2 | LTR Talks / texts too muchI see what you're saying. Shut her down in a confident assertive manner, then give her some good dick after. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Is touching always an IOI?It’s impossible to know now. Next time you escalate. Only way to find out | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Good arm exercises?Hammer curls. Reverse grip barbell curls. Rope curls | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Ever had trouble penetrating?It’s ok for the first time with a certain girl to be mediocre or even bad. Every girl is different, even slightly. The second time will be better and if you end up plating her for months, the sex will be awesome. I’ve had a plate that was 4’8 and I’ve had a plate that was 6’0. I’m 6’3. I actually had more trouble with the taller chick for the first time | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I last longer??Wear a condom. 2. Wear a thick condom ( her pleasure) 3. Wear a condom that desensitizes your dick (extended) 4. Read sex god method. 5. Smoke weed | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 18 | Why women like getting cum in mouth?Some women like the thought of knowing how to please a man. They like to think it helps them be wifey material. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Got a couple of female orbiters. How do I make the best of this situation?I’d occasionally just have fun with them. Maybe practice RP principles like push / pull, treating her like your little sister, negging, etc. I mean, if you have no better options and don’t have anything to do, then just invite them somewhere new and get a good feel for the place for your next date in which you’re actually interested in. I had a girl obsessed with me last year. Like I could lick her neck and she’d be physically shaking. I wasn’t into her and nexted her but she would often reach o… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Found gf of colleague on tinder, do I tell him?Maybe she deleted the app when they got together but didn’t delete the account | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How to develop discipline?I get what you mean by being productive in the mornings and then being lazy in the evening. I get up at 5:15am weekdays and I have the most energy all the way up until lunch time, then I crash. By the time I get home, I'm able to pull myself on discipline alone. What works for me is writing a journal and keeping track of my thoughts / goals. I'll wake up in the morning, meditate for ~15 minutes, and then write in my journal. I'll write the cons of the previous day, like if I wasn't happy about s… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being the friend who gets picked onFirst you have to realize that all of it is your fault. You can blame everyone else for being bitter and mean, but at the end of the day, that is the reality. Some times you'll even catch yourself picking on someone subconsciously because that's just how we are naturally. You must have a very weak frame. You most likely react emotionally to people's comments. You're most likely insecure about yourself and very low confidence. I recommend you work on yourself for a while. Consider a monk mode app… | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 06:05 PM |
| 3 | gave random girl at gym a card with my name and numberDid you go up to her, give her the card without saying anything, and then walk away? I wouldn't recommend using this tactic for future approaches. This is a weak way of trying to get a girls attention. I fear that just because you were lucky and got a friendly (not flirty) response, you'll continue to repeat this approach. Most girls are going to think you're afraid of them. Instead of giving them a card with your information, just give them your name and ask for their number. This way girls wil… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | FR: 1st time ever approaching like this - Success - Mind OPENEDBecause cold approaching isn't just about knowing that you can sleep with other girls. Cold approaching itself caries a ton of pressure and fear for guys. It's the fear of the unknown. Fearing getting harshly rejected in front of everyone. It's social pressure. I've also been in OP's shoes. I used to get a lot of attention from girls in high school. A lot of the girls that I was crushing on I was able to at least kiss them or get them to be cool with me. One thing though is that I never cold app… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 10:30 PM |
| 2 | What is it that makes girls message you first, send extra long messages, reply in an instant? A lot of girls seem to be so interested at first but then treat you like hot trash the next day, how to avoid this?I don't really beat myself up about the result. You're not going to bed 100% of the women you approach. To me, just going up to a girl and trying to feel relaxed and present is enough for me. Even if she throws a drink in my face, I'd still be glad I went up to her. If you really feel like you're intruding a little, then just start with "excuse me". "Hey excuse me, do you know where the nearest coffee shop is?" "Sorry to interrupt" also works. And yeah I agree. Tinder girls are pretty introverte… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 10:20 PM |
| 4 | FR: 1st time ever approaching like this - Success - Mind OPENEDWell you can still get laid in other ways than cold approaching. There's online game and dating apps. Also, social circle game where you escalate with friends of friends. Guys can avoid cold approaching and still get laid, but because cold approaching is so difficult to do and difficult to be good at, the pay off is huge. This is why the quality of women you can pick up from cold approaching is so high. Because so few guys will cold approach a woman, and even fewer guys can successfully cold app… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 07:21 PM |
| 3 | What is it that makes girls message you first, send extra long messages, reply in an instant? A lot of girls seem to be so interested at first but then treat you like hot trash the next day, how to avoid this?Exactly. Having abundance is key. Having different options is key. It also gives you an IDGAF attitude because you're ok with a date not working out, because you have another date schedule later in the evening. Yeah haha I highly suggest getting good at approaches. I've had some pretty good luck with cold approaches. The quality of girls you'll get from cold approaching is much higher than girls you DM online or match with on Tinder. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 06:30 PM |
| 24 | What indirect openers do you roll with in bars and pubs and stuff?Some guy here said it best. Situational openers are key. If you're at a bar and a girl is holding a drink, go up to her, point at her drink and say, "hey, that looks good, what is that?" If at a concert, you can ask them if they know what band is playing next or if they think the band is going to play a certain song. Walking up to a girl and saying a generic opener will sell yourself short unless you're physically really attractive. Some situations I've opened girls in. Girl standing next to me … | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 4 | What is it that makes girls message you first, send extra long messages, reply in an instant? A lot of girls seem to be so interested at first but then treat you like hot trash the next day, how to avoid this?Most important aspects of this is displaying high value and limiting your show of interest. Things like waiting for her to text you first, taking longer than her to reply, replying with short texts, and some times, I don't even text back. Most guys don't get this type of treatment because they reply within seconds, they text too much / double text, use too many emoji's, etc. They also don't display a high value. Attractive / confident / fun / social / etc. | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | LTR is going on a trek with one of her guy friends. Next?Shit, not only that but all of your family, friends, and her friends would call you an asshole! | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to quit porn. Need some advice/tips.Whatever works for you man. Personally for me I feel gross after watching porn. I can fap every other week if I have an urge and I'll be okay. I get a steady source of sex (3-5x a week) so I'm ok sexually. Obviously to quit a addiction you HAVE to give it up for a while. At least 3 months. OP is struggling with a porn addiction and cold turkeying it is the best way. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:30 PM |
| 18 | How to start a conversation during a Festival?Start off small, work your way up. Start by saying hi to the volunteers, workers of the festival. Give high fives to the volunteers / workers / security / bartenders. Approach any stranger at first and ask them what time (blank) is gonna play. Approach a cute girl and ask her what time (blank) is gonna play. Walk up to a cute girl, say that you like her outfit, and give her a high five. Walk up to a cute girl, say that you like her outfit, give her a high five, and then ask her what bands / DJ's… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Is this a ‘Shit test’You can not reply. Or say something vague like, "ok I'll post more" It might be crab bucket mentality. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to quit porn. Need some advice/tips.Look up the benefits of no fap. There's a subreddit or you can youtube it. Focusing on the benefits of giving up porn and binge fapping will help you a million times better vs. focusing on the harm it does. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:39 PM |
| 22 | how to hold frame when she starts crying / complaining about her dayToo much texting, not enough fucking. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl said you rarely get excited about anythingYep. You did ok. What's important is that you're most likely being genuine about being "excited" or emotional about something. Whatever it is you're doing (lifting, meditating, nutritious eating, getting better sleep), keep doing it. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:34 PM |
| 25 | how to hold frame when she starts crying / complaining about her dayWho? Girl you haven't fucked - Ignore Girl you're plating - Mostly ignore, give mild comfort Your girlfriend - Listen to her, give her a hug, and tell her she's ok. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:29 PM |
| 4 | I asked for space but thinking about not replying.This is why you plate women and vet them, you fuck them so good that they beg for commitment. THEY, beg for YOUR commitment. She didn't dump you because of her ex. She dumped you because you're beta as fuck. Her ex was apparently a cunt but he's still better than you, in her eyes. This girl DOES NOT want you, and i HIGHLY recommend seizing all communication FOREVER. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | What next? HeyPersonally I think she's cheating on you. If not physically, then for sure emotionally. When someone cheats, they instinctively assume that the other person is cheating. It's a way of dealing with the guilt. Even if she's not cheating, I do think that you have to break up with her. You shouldn't be 25-26 and broke. You need to get your shit together, spin some plates, and make one of those plates an LTR way later down the road. You seem pretty attractive apparently based on your posts, so breaki… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:17 PM |
| 12 | Girl canceled date because she was bullied by my friends 10 years ago.Emotional trauma. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:02 PM |
| 2 | What should my frame be?Practice, review, learn. Practice, review learn. Apply these 3 steps constantly to your life from now on. It is the only way you'll see results and be the best version of yourself. The most important thing is to keep practicing, even when you end up looking stupid or get laughed at.. observe it, learn from it, and keep practicing. When I started this, I tried hard to become the leader of my groups. One time I got offered free tickets to a comedy club. I invited my ex and our friends. Everything … | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Would you ever promote a plate to a LTR if she posts regularly on Instagram?That's a tiny bit. She's just looking for attention. It's a basic girl trait to have in these times. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Texting questionDon't say "Noo ive just been super busy." You're pretty much walking into her shit test with that line. You're explaining yourself. Never explain yourself. Try anything else that seems genuine. "Aren't you glad it wasn't the 2 week waiting game?" "It's actually the 48 hour, but I lost track of time." "My week is bananas. Speaking of fruit. Let's grab a smoothie on Saturday?" | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 10:33 PM |
| 29 | LTR is going on a trek with one of her guy friends. Next?Hard next. That's a sign of disrespect. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Yeah bro it says removed. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Exactly. That is the kind of dynamic you want to have in every relationship. You want to hold the power and have the most options. Why is your post deleted? | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | FR: If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. First hand experienceI recommend giving a description of what your Tinder profile looks like and what you feel showed value in her eyes for her to invest so much in hooking up with you. This way, guys here don't respond with jealousy, they can actually review the steps you applied and they can work towards that. But I've also seen first hand what a girl would go through when she sees you as high value. When I first started sleeping with my current LTR, she immediately started giving some green flags. She would drive… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.I just want to point out that having other options available and focusing on obtaining new options is key here. No options - "Ugh, I haven't texted her in 48 hours! Why isn't she texting me" Options - "Huh, 3 new messages from cute red head. I can't remember the last time I talked to her" Also, keep in mind that nexting is when you actually let go of this girl. You actually cut your losses and move on. Some times they will contact you again. It's good and it puts you in her frame. You can either… | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 08:44 PM |
| 9 | Can we get those “Shit Test Buster Round” threads again on the main sub?*Speaks to app* "Hey Chad" *Phone dings on* "HB6 just said she has a boyfriend, but she's giving me fuck me eyes. How to approach?" *Phone Chad trying to impersonate old Chinese man* "oooooh, ask her if you can have his numbah, and smirk" | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Can we get those “Shit Test Buster Round” threads again on the main sub?Ever since I found TRP 2 years ago, I always felt like real examples were a huge help when trying to internalize these principles vs. just reading the theories and trying to figure it out on your own. Even the hard to believe field reports still helped out a lot. When I would read a post about a guy who gave a random girl strong eye contact and she walked over and kissed him on the neck I'd be like, "holy cow, I want to be this awesome, I'm gonna go approach!" | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How did YOU get your dopamine levels in control?In a situation like this, it's best to cold turkey it. Just give it up completely. Delete Snapchat & Skype for a few weeks. I have a bad habit of binge smoking e-cigarettes. I can not for the life of me just smoke them moderately or just take a few puffs here and there. If I buy one, it pretty much won't leave my hand until it's done. It makes me want to do things that I can only do if I'm able to smoke like sit in my room and watch Netflix. A few days of being off it completely, I'm able to fin… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How did YOU get your dopamine levels in control?I remember when I started lifting years ago I'd tell myself to just drive to the gym. At least make it to the parking lot. That was my minimum. I went home 0% of the time. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Virgin girl adviceWhy is she a virgin at 25? IF you do get her in bed. It's important that you make her feel really comfortable and take twice as long to escalate / foreplay than you usually take with other girls. When she is on the bed, get her REALLY turned on. Make her beg for you to fuck her (teasing, eating her out, fingering). Once you are about to stick your dick in, it's important to go very slow. This is the one time you want her to lead the physical escalation. Maybe you can let her lower herself on to … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you talk to a girl you haven't talked to in a while?Pretty much what everybody else said. Don't mention you have her number, just ask for it again as if you never got it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 09:00 PM |
| 24 | Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guysWhat's important here is the kino and escalation. Notice how Mayhem said to kiss her after the first drink? That's 15-20 mins after meeting her. What you really want to do is not waste your time. How do you know if a girl is attracted to you? Escalation and kino. Make a move, if she rejects you, laugh it off, pull away, and try again later. If she rejects you again, say that you gotta go, and hard next her. Obviously she isn't attracted to you so you just leave and try with someone else. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Got schooled by an alpha - interesting discoveryYah exactly. If you want to learn anything from a woman, just study their actions. I have an older sister and she's always trying to give me advice about dating. Telling me to be a gentleman and to never be an asshole to a women. Uh, you're a single mom and you've exclusively only dated assholes so how would you know xD | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Got schooled by an alpha - interesting discoveryIt's good to reflect on experiences you get yourself in. There's been times when I start asking something on askTRP and just be re-reading what I wrote, I am able to figure out what the problem was and discover the answer on my phone. Or sometimes we just need to vent and let our thoughts out. I highly recommend you start journaling. I read about the benefits of having a journal like 2 years ago but I never took it up until just recently I started writing my thoughts every day. It helps tremendo… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 10:35 PM |
| 7 | FWB asking about me fucking other girlsIf she keeps asking, get a little more serious (assertive) and say “you don’t need to know that”. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting conflicting advice on Condom induced EDTry different condoms. I lose wood if a condom is too tight | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 08:01 PM |
| 2 | me (31m) and my LTR (24F) Guy is flirting with her at work.Apply dread game. She’s not respecting you. Dread game, and if she doesn’t behave, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Why you dont talk whats the best answer on this shit test guysI fight crime @ night and I don’t want anyone to recognize my voice | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Show my value by Hard nexting this one?Oneitis because you’re butthurt about a social media post. If you truly didn’t give a fuck you’d be able to see her posting a pic of her kissing a dude on the cheek and you wouldn’t even flinch. Hard next & study more | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Still not satisfiedIt's natural to feel guilty at first. But know this. She is 100% going to branch swing soon. I was in the same shoes as you last year. I wanted to focus on myself and spin plates so I dumped my LTR even though she was good to me. She cried, begged for another chance, told me she was going to wait for me. A few weeks later, she was already branch swinging to one of her friends that she told me not to worry about. This shit is real. You do you man. As long as you keep improving your value and crea… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How are so many people okay with their partners having such high N counts?That's highly unlikely honestly. IMO you'll never find out the REAL number of guys she's slept with. She's going to lie to you only all the time. BUT, if I WERE to hypothetically find a journal like you stated, and it was hard facts about the exact number (42 in this case), I may be a little bitter for a second I'll be honest. Who wouldn't? But I wouldn't break up with her. If the sex is great and the relationship is great, then her n-count shouldn't be that important. What about if you had an L… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to feel bad about leaving a plate?Mainly by having other options. If you have 4 other plates, you're not going to be that upset when one of them breaks. It's okay to be emotional about separating from a plate. Sex is usually very emotional. TBH it sounds more like you got oneitis for this girl and you're upset she's leaving. You should just admit it and build yourself from that. I remember when my first plate broke. I was pretty sad and because I didn't have much options, I kept thinking of her and I had to get over her. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | not seeing any progress in the gym. What am i doing wrong?Do you want to build muscle or lose fat? Figure out which one you want, find a nutrition plan that focuses on that goal, and STICK TO IT. Most people don't get results because they try to obtain both. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:22 AM |
| 12 | How do you react to "Who Hurt You?", "You Are Bitter." etc?"Please tell your mom to call me back" | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How did you learn to reflexively answer questions with funny remarks, opposed to actually answering?By not taking them seriously, and assuming that everything is a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | LTR holding me back with good food and wineNeither. I'm a good example of a binge drinker. Only difference is that I'm not impulsive with my drinking. I know that I am going to have 1 drink tomorrow night, and I know that I am going to have a few Saturday night. Then, I am not going to have any drinks for 4 weeks until the next planned social event. I tell myself when I am going to drink and hardly ever get influenced by someone to just have a drink or 2. It's all about self control and discipline. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | LTR holding me back with good food and wineIt's completely your fault | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 06:26 PM |
| 6 | How do you cope with your LTR's previous sexual experiences?Read Sex God Method. That book will make you think of sex differently. Don't talk about previous experiences. Just do them. Slowly though, and look out for signs of displeasure. For example, if a girl is giving you a blowjob and you want to deep throat her and she keeps pulling away, then stop doing it. It's ok to be a bit forceful, but always make sure that she is enjoying the experience. Don't be too forceful or aggressive with new girls. Build comfort first and then escalate to more extreme t… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 06:24 PM |
| -1 | How to respond back to “thanks for raising my self esteem”"Glad I can raise it from a 1 to a 2." | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How are so many people okay with their partners having such high N counts?It shouldn't matter IMO. I mean, if you know for sure that it's a ridiculously high number, then it's ok for you to feel repulsed by it. But first of all, how are you even supposed to know for sure? I'm almost certain that 100% of the time they're going to give a fake n-count. It's like Chris Rock said. They're not gonna tell you how many guys she's been with. She's gonna tell you how many boyfriend's she's had, but she ain't gonna count all those miscellaneous dicks. In my last relationship, I … | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Every guy feels deep shame when they fap. Especially to porn. Even if you're unaware of the damage excessive fapping does, it still causes shame, even at a subconscious level. Arguably, shame is the worst emotion one can feel. Shame is deep humiliation / embarrassment. Shame is catching your wife cheating on you. Shame is getting scolded at by your manager in front of all your colleagues and the cute new secretary. When you go on nofap, you avoid giving yourself that deep level of shame. This is… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Law 1: Never Outshine the Master, but what if I do?I wouldn't leave just because your manager is jealous. Just keep being professional. There is a job description about what he manages for you so stick to that. In your case, there's other higher up masters like the CEO and VP levels. You didn't outshine your master, you just got praised and promoted by the master of masters. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How to arrange 2nd "date" after hooking up?Don't text her anymore. Just call her, and ask her out. If you get anything besides a set date, hard next unless she reaches out. Maybe she has a boyfriend. Who knows. Just call her, invite, move forward or next. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is going deep into conversation bad with girls?It's not bad. But it increases the chances of you being in the friendzone. Talking that much or deep does not increase attraction and can actually decrease attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How to kiss close? and question about a girlThe OP suggest telling the girl 'close your eyes' Don't do this. My motto is "it's better to know than not know". Remember that your time, energy, and attention is valuable. Especially time, which you can never get back. So, when you're out on a date with a girl, it's BEST to just find out if she likes you or not. Don't you want to know? Do you really want to waste your time going on a second or third date with someone who isn't even attracted to you? I always escalate to a kiss when I'm on a fi… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Do I admit I am a virgin?You can't tell if she's LTR material until you've plated her. I wouldn't tell her, ever. She may be more comfortable giving her body with someone who she thinks is experienced vs. someone who also doesn't know what they're doing. Plus she'll lose attraction if you tell her you're a virgin because she'll think that there's something wrong with you. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Tinder match wants to meet, but not now. Not sure what to reply, help?"ok, let me know if you change your mind" and then just let it go. She seems like she's looking for validation. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Soo she finds me ugly?That's good. It does take time. It's really just more important about you being happy with your appearance. For example, I grew my facial hair out this year. I've always had a clean shaved face but this year I decided to try to grow out a scruff. It's still a bit patchy but I really like it and it boosts my confidence. With that said, I've had friends and family tell me that I looked better with a clean face, but even if it were true, I am happier with my patchy scruff and IMO, the confidence bo… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 10:30 PM |
| 11 | Pick up the phone and call her! If you haven't been doing this, you're MISSING THE FUCK OUT!Remember people that body language is important. I'm in a relationship now but when I was matching with girls on Tinder and getting their number, I would call them on my way home from work through my bluetooth. I would make sure that my body was open and not closed. I made sure my arms weren't crossing or that I had any tension on my body (check your jaw, neck and shoulders). Then I would stretch my right arm behind the passenger seat, to present relaxed and open body language. Being aware of my… | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Soo she finds me ugly?Yes, that is important. But what I meant by that is that if you are sensitive about what people think about your appearance, then you are still going to get butt hurt when someone makes a negative comment, no matter how much you try to improve. While you improve your looks (gym, acne, haircut, facial hair, teeth, etc.) also try to accept yourself as you are now. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Soo she finds me ugly?Girls will most likely not tell you you're ugly if they not attracted to you. It is a shit test and from your response to someone's comment, you failed. It's apparent that you're insecure about your looks, so you should focus on fixing that issue. Next time someone makes a negative comment about your appearance or imperfection say, "Imagine I was handsome though? I'd be having every girl on me like I was Justin Bieber" and then smirk. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 10:02 PM |
| 7 | How do you greet women?Depends on the context. If it's in a work area, I'll usually shake her hand. I'm fairly young so if it's a chick around my age, I might high five (I'm a graphic artist so I try to keep the vibe "fresh" and open). If it's at the gym, I might high five or fist bump (depends on how I'm feeling). If it's at a party, I'll high five, and when I'm I'm saying goodbye, I'll mostly hug, or give another high five, depending on the vibe. It actually just mostly depends on how you feel about it. Remember, yo… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 09:57 PM |
| -10 | Text FR with Gym employeePretty good. Me personally I would've said something like, "If you're fun enough to make it to a 4th date we can do karaoke." just to neg her a little bit but that's just a preference IMO. I always appreciate it when people post a real example. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | FIRST DATE - Make Her Come To My City Via Train, or Drive To Her?It really depends on what OP is lacking in. I mentioned that IF OP didn't have other options, meaning if it was difficult for him to get dates / meet up with girls, then he could go with option 2. IMO, if getting a date isn't easy for you, then I'd suggest bending your back a little bit to meet up with the girl (50/50 of course). Why? Because it's very important to practice other skills that you learn from experience during dates. Negging, shit tests, escalating, etc. Although, if OP is already … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any stories of seemingly innocent girls completely flipping the script and showing their true wild nature?There was this chick I worked with last year. (Early 20's) Extremely religious and conservative. She went to church twice a week and even wore those long skirts to work. We all went out for drinks one night and everyone convinced her to drink. After 2 drinks (very weak drinks), she got pretty buzzed and just danced with the girls. People tried to ask her about her sex life but she claimed she was a virgin. It was easy to believe her because of how conservative she was. A few months later when I … | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you "have fun"?With practice. You're so textbook in doing things. You're too technical IMO. Consider meditating so you can be less judgmental of yourself and of others. Start by giving yourself small challenges. Tell yourself, I'm gonna google a cool Tiki bar in my area, go have a drink, and I'm going to have a conversation with the bartender. Challenge yourself so that next time you're at the gym, you ask someone if you can work in with them, and then you find out some basic information about him (his name, w… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 10:28 PM |
| 3 | female friend DEMANDS more attentionIf you're trying to fuck her - invite her to hang out with you, set up a date, stop texting her until the date and escalate to sex. If you're not trying to fuck her - stop talking to her, you're wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Text Game Vs. Logistics Only.From what I understand and from experience. Texting puts you in her frame. I ALWAYS call to set up the date and end the call when the date is agreed upon. I don't have to text her back or anything. Often times I don't even text back for hours because I'm busy doing other things or I forget, and they'll either double text me, or I'll reply back later with something about the date. Use texting to get some witty responses in but try to avoid it. If she says something like, "you suck at texting", th… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 12:28 AM |
| 0 | How To Walk Into A Bar This Weekend?OP, post a field report of this. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Perfect job at good company in shit locationDo it temporarily. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Im moving 100 miles away for a year - girlfriend wants to stay together and says I can plate other girls as long as it's casual. Should I break up or keep things going?It's highly doubtful that you 2 will reconnect (which is a good thing). I broke up with an LTR of 5 years over a year ago. She told me that she would wait for me and that she would get back with me whenever. I considered hitting her up later on in life to see if I could plate her or if we could just be friends. Now though, I'm sure neither of us could care less. No contact. No happy birthday text. I think she branch swung (really quickly) to that guy she told me not to worry about, and I spun so… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:19 PM |
| 10 | Im moving 100 miles away for a year - girlfriend wants to stay together and says I can plate other girls as long as it's casual. Should I break up or keep things going?You're pretty much just going to have an annoying pen pal if you keep the LTR. She's going to want to talk to you every day. Texting, photos, calling, video calling, etc. Not only that, but you're going to greatly limit yourself. You're on TRP so you want to improve yourself right? If you have an LTR, you're going to rationalize so many important things that you can be doing. You're going to talk yourself out of cold approaches because you'll have that safety net in the back of your mind that yo… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | FIRST DATE - Make Her Come To My City Via Train, or Drive To Her?I would consider only 2 options. If you have other options, just have her come to your side of town. This will gauge how interested she is in you. If you don't have other options and feel like it's too risky to ask her to come all the way to see you, just meet her halfway. Make it 50/50. I wouldn't drive all the way to see her, even if you have no options. Especially because you don't even know if she's attracted to you. If you go all the way to see her, you're going to subconsciously be needy b… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 08:49 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyYou're completely blind. She is 100% cheating on you. I've been on both ends. In high school I would spend all day with this girl that I was fucking. We would sneak out at night and hang out at school (her boyfriend went to a different school). She would tell her friends / boyfriend that me and her were just friends. Even when he went through her messages and saw that we were texting romantically, she still convinced him that I liked her but that she didn't like me. Girls are pros at hiding shit… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl messaged out off the blue, don't know how to respond please helpCALL HER. Call her and let her know you’re man enough to have a phone conversation and set up the date through the phone. Also, her verbally agreeing to meet you decreases the chances of flaking. | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | My LTR got me off guard with thisBreak up with that LTR. She does not respect you. You are not ready for an LTR. You sound like a little girl. You are not ready to be a leader and handle adversity. Break up with her, read the sidebar, study TRP, spin some plates, and then MAYBE consider an LTR a year from now. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | My younger brother is turning into a loser. What do I do?It sounds like he's rationalized to himself that what he's doing is ok. Shit happens man. Sometimes men just fall into a hole and we have to hit rock bottom before we realize how low we've gone. If he's not actively looking for help or guidance, there isn't much you can do. Just check in on him, let him know you care, and just accept it. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:07 PM |
| 8 | How can I be as fun sober as I am when drunk/on substances?It's not likely that you can be THAT social and charismatic when you are sober, but you can definitely be more social and charismatic. The more you use substances to amplify your personality, the more boring and dull you're going to be when you're sober. It's a contrast. You want to try to meet in a healthy middle. Stop taking drugs and live your life more naturally. Go for a healthy lifestyle. Whatever that means to you, act on it. Also, stop doing things or going to places that you don't want … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | [NSFW - Personal Advice.] Is Watching Porn, Under Control, 100% Okay? DAE And Still Have High Self Esteem & Awesome Relationships?You are definitely rationalizing watching porn again. You sound like a recovering addict trying to convince himself that it'd be okay if he took just 1 hit. If you have had a problem with porn in the past, I would highly recommend that you cut it out of your life forever. It will be almost impossible to try and act on something moderately if you've had problems with it in the past. I've quit smoking. I was addicted to nicotine at 17 and I was on and off of it until I was 23. I would sometimes go… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Do girls sometimes use your friend to get your attention?Not often. This works on guys with girls because it causes pre-selection and it shows that you're able to talk to girls and be social, which can be attractive. Most girls don't want to talk to different guys because then they don't want to be seen as a slut. That's why when girls are in a group, they seem more bitchy and defensive. Because all of their friends are their watching and the girl doesn't want to show them that they're easy. If a girl makes eye contact with you and stays isolated for … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approaching & YouFrom reading your question, I realized that I never really think about changing. I really don't. Telling yourself that you need to change makes you feel like there's something wrong with you and just puts you in a deeper hole in which you're trying to get out of. NEVER think about changing. Because there is nothing wrong with you. You are who you are based on your experiences and mindsets. You are unique. With that said, you can always improve. It's much easier to have the mindset of improving y… | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching & YouMy God, you are an angel. Come here, let me kiss you! | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | 21 years old coming too fast.Unlike most of the guys here, I have a long recovery period. I used to be able to get hard again within minutes but now it’s a one hit wonder. Although, I do ejaculate an impressive amount. So because I only have one shot, I have to make it count. First, you should be having sex with your gf a lot more than once in a while. Second, you should read sex god method. That book will help you out a ton. If you are using condoms, get thicker condoms. Look for “her pleasure”. It will reduce stimulation … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:27 PM |
| 3 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?To me, as long as a plate is reliable and isn't disrespectful, she qualifies as a plate. She can have sex with other guys it's fine, I'm using a condom. Maybe some guys are screening their plates for an LTR which is why they get all butthurt when they suspect their plate is plating them. At the end of the day it all comes down to your preference and boundaries. I'm ok with plates sleeping with other people because I'm sleeping with other people and I'll be open about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | 18 and discovered TRP a couple months ago. Need advice on this girl giving possible LMR.Sex isn't something you discuss, negotiate, or convince. You physically escalate to sex. Always give her plausible deniability. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me her friend thinks I'm cute and I didn't know what to do"I think she's hella cute too!.. Wait, which friend?" "Cool, she can come help me pump gas" You should've asked for social media which girls feel more comfortable giving in front of their friends. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | 22+ year old's who don't have their own place, if you want to have sex, where do you do it?Message me. I'm leaving my computer right now. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | My family, mostly my Mother, actively work against my self-improvement constantly. I live with them. Is moving out a priority? Should I cut them out?I only read your TLDR.. Moving out is definitely a must for any man. Learning to be independent and having your own privacy will go a long way in creating your best lifestyle possible. While you're living at home though, I would say that you should definitely do your own thing. Unless your parents are extremely religious or will physically harm you for going against them, you should definitely do your thing. They will get over it. They will bitch and react negatively at first, but you need to ha… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Do women like to be fucked the mouth?You mean face fucked? All my previous plates were into it. I first did it with my ex LTR and I remember the next day she said it made her feel like a whore in a negative way. But we kept doing it and she got into it. Almost all my previous plates in the past I've face fucked and then came all over their face which is my favorite. I've gotten reactions like "I can't believe you did that. You're so lucky I like you." And "wow, first time anyone has ever done that, you ass!" Pretty great. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | I took a huge shit where I eat. Now I'm eating that turd. I need some advice!WELL.. In your current situation, although it is uncomfortable, I would embrace the discomfort and try to learn as much as I could from the situation. There's negative tension, there's shit testing and AMOG. In your current situation, I would do my best to apply TRP teachings and principles and see how they play out. This is a test of your character and how you handle adversity. Deal with it with a smile on your face. Look the devil in the eye and say, take your best shot. But also, get the fuck… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Newbie's First TRP date- sex with a much taller girl hb8.Good shit dude. I can't imagine how frame shaking it can be for shorter guys trying to game a taller girl. I'm 6'3 so my imperfections lie elsewhere. It seems like she was attracted to your photos, she saw you in person and confirmed that you were shorter, but still attractive. All you had to do was pass her shit tests, build some tension (like you did with the tattoo comment) and give her plausible deniability about coming over (banjo playing). Then just escalate physically and the most importa… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 06:15 PM |
| 9 | How to get laid in highschool?Stop watching porn first of all. And I agree with someone in the comments who mentioned that you get a girlfriend. In high school, it's difficult to spin plates because chances are very high that people will find out and you'll be labeled as a fuck boy and that'll hurt your reputation. I only had sex with 1 girl while I was in high school but we had sex like 30-40 times. She wasn't even my girlfriend. It was a FWB thing but nobody knew about it. Just go out, cold approach, day game, night game. … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR throws a tantrumI very much appreciate your comment. It shows me that even though I've been on TRP for over 2 years now, I need to keep the principles and guidelines fresh and present in my mind. It seems easy to just one day have a sense of "I made it" and get too comfortable and before you know it, you're in a toxic LTR and you've lost all progress you've made. But for the past year, the "next" response was a priority for me. I went through a lot of approaches / dates / and even caught a taste of oneitis once… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | LTR throws a tantrumThank you for looking out man. I'm definitely being aware and conscious of her habits / attitude / etc. but I'm also finally just enjoying the relationship we have which feels great. Like, you know how we have to be 100% alpha with plates and stuff? And you know how it's suggested that for LTR's we do 80% alpha / 20% beta? Well that 20% "beta" can be pretty enjoyable. I'm not talking about telling her my feelings or getting butt hurt or being needy and shit. I mean like, finally just kinda being… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | 22+ year old's who don't have their own place, if you want to have sex, where do you do it?to be honest, most of these girls were from Instagram. In the past year I've slowly transitioned myself from online game to cold approaching with pretty alright success. Cold approaching takes much less time and the quality of chicks is higher. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 05:12 PM |
| 6 | 22+ year old's who don't have their own place, if you want to have sex, where do you do it?I never mentioned my living situation. I'd just say, "let's go back to my place blah blah blah and head to my parents house." As long as you have your own room, you should be good. Home - When your parents are asleep. My mom and her boyfriend went to bed around 9pm so I would just invite the girl over at that time. My sisters would normally still be awake, so if I didn't give a fuck, I'd just bring the girl over and before we got in my door, I'd say something like, "oh yea, just say hi to my sis… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 12:30 AM |
| 10 | LTR throws a tantrumDid you start the relationship before or after TRP? It doesn't sound like she supplements your life. If you aren't enjoying the relationship, then don't be in it. Believe me. I was in an LTR for 5 years. I found TRP after the 4th year and it took me a whole year to finally break things off. I read posts about guys saying that they had girls who would do anything and everything for them and that is what I wanted. For a whole year I practiced game + improving myself (SMV). I experienced a long ran… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Going out with a girl, she doesn’t drink. What are some ways to create plausible deniability.Most important thing is to be confident and calm about it. Assume that she wants to come over. The whole point of plausible deniability is for her to give herself (or her friends) an excuse as to why she went over. I usually just say, "Wanna come over and watch a movie?". I can say, "Let's go back to my place? We can grab some ice cream and dip our toes in my pool" / "Wanna come over and meet my dogs? If they don't like you I'm blocking your number though" / "I have Mario Kart back at my place. … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Going out with a girl, she doesn’t drink. What are some ways to create plausible deniability.Saving mine for emergencies during dates. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 11:20 PM |
| 10 | Going out with a girl, she doesn’t drink. What are some ways to create plausible deniability....protein shaker that hasn’t been cleaned for 3 weeks It's the new chloroform rag. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | "You are being weird,". Plate after I withdrew attention from her. How to respond?It really depends. All my girls know that I'm very sarcastic and silly. If any of them ever told me that I was being weird, I'd say something like, "Well who god darn said I was normal?" (In a southern accent if I was in person, and I'd put my hands on my hips). | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 11:18 PM |
| 2 | "You are being weird,". Plate after I withdrew attention from her. How to respond?"Thanks, I've been trying to be less normal" | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Shit test from plate - how to handle this?"Wait, I thought I was already in last place?" | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Going to a pool party later today, any tips?Dance! Play games / drinking games. Meet new people. Focus on having a good time vs. Trying to pick up women. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 06:55 PM |
| 20 | “Are you having sex with other people?”Step 1: Reply as if it were a shit test. Think of anything. "Does your mom count?" / "So far, you're the 8th girl I've had sex with today." / etc. Step 2: If she laughs, but says something like, "no seriously, I want to know." then it's time for you to have "the talk". I know that telling her straight up that you're not looking to be exclusive is a risk to lose her, but you need to be straight up with her. You can either say, "Yea I'm seeing other girls" or "Yea but maybe we can be exclusive in … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Getting her to dress betterPlate her, date one of her friends that dress better. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Asked out a girl for the first time over insta. She wasn’t interested. Is it weird to ask her friend.Ask them out in person. You met them in person. You will have a much better chance if you just do it in person. I would go for it for sure. I actually just started dating the best friend of this girl that I was sleeping with. I was interested in her and I just made a move and she confessed that she's liked me. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What would be a good answer to this shit test?"Yea but I'm the best boy scout in the world" or "you should see how well I handle a rope in the bedroom" | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 01:00 AM |
| 20 | First time with a new girlFirst times for me are always the worst sex I'll have with that girl. Every girl is different in bed and it takes time to learn each other's body to maximize the pleasure. I wouldn't be too dominant as she can later on not like how you treated her and decide to accuse you of something bad. Get her comfortable and wait until the 2nd or 3rd time before you get aggressive. I'd say that for the first time you just need to get it over with. Do your best but don't expect the best sex of your life. Foc… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 12:53 AM |
| 10 | Are dating apps worth it if you don’t have your own private place?last year I was fucking girls I met on Instagram while I lived with my family. Usually I wouldn't even mention my living situation to the girls. I would just say, "let's go back to my place?" And once we were close to my door I'd say, "Oh by the way, you might need to say hi to my sisters". It all depends on your frame. If you sincerely feel like it's no big deal then the girl won't feel uncomfortable as much. Sometimes if I knew the girl was uncomfortable, I'd bring her over when everyone was a… | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Quit my job and am looking for general life adviceHey! I was in the same exact situation half a year ago. I quit my job due to personal and reasonable reasons and I was in the exact same shoes as you. Here are my tips. • Don't procrastinate. Being unemployed and not having that steady source of income can become serious if you don't act on it. Just because you have so much more free time doesn't mean you can waste it "relaxing" or "enjoying the time off". I procrastinated for weeks to update my resume and fill out some job applications and it m… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Was I too paranoid about the possibility of a false rape accusation here?Geez, I can't imagine the amount of stress that goes into being in a fucked up situation like that. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 11:58 PM |
| 9 | I am addicted to cuddling!If it's a plate, then just start escalating to sex as soon as she's in your room. After some amazing sex, you can cuddle as much as you want. I also enjoy cuddling but I always escalate it into sex. Eventually I'll get really touchy and turned on. It's pretty much a MUST for the girl to lay on my chest after we fuck. I can't just leave or have her leave. I need a few minutes to just lay there with her hugging me. Also, if I'm falling asleep, I'll actually move away from the girl to get comfortab… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:32 PM |
| 18 | I am addicted to cuddling!eyy foo les cuddle ese? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Was I too paranoid about the possibility of a false rape accusation here?I mean, do you have some previous experience that you've gone through to make you a little more cautious of rape accusations? I think most men (even RP) would've just escalated it into a lay. If you really are afraid of rape accusations from a drunk ONS (totally reasonable), then just kino a bit with the girl, get her contact, and then go open another girl and get her contact too. Set up the lay for the 2nd date. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Regarding Iron Rule #9I think this would apply to all women, not just the ones you wish to me intimate with. If you agree and amplify, that's basically self-deprecating, but you are not lowering your value in her eyes because you are sarcastically breaking her test which in turn, increases your value. If you are admitting to a fault / flaw or genuinely agreeing to a negative claim about you, then you are then self-deprecating in a negative way that lowers your value and kills the attraction. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Ever been on the recieving end of these 2 manipulation tactics?I've heard from different sources that if a partner is paranoid about the other one cheating, it is because they have something to hide. The only time I personally ever went through this is with a FWB I had in high school. I was seeing other girls. My FWB made a big deal about it and confronted me about it but I think I denied it, I don't remember. But turns out that she was actually seeing her ex boyfriend the whole time we were "talking" as well as another friend of ours. I remember pre-TRP wh… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How I kicked my huge chance... (I really need help)Talk to more people next time | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Cool reply, text after sex?"We'll see" | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How to handle attention from other women when out with a plate?Depends on the relationship you have with your plate. If it's something new and you feel like getting / giving a number could rock the boat too much then how you handled it was great. If you're out with a plate who knows that she's sharing you and that she's just a pussy to you, then getting that girls number or giving your number would've been okay. Some girls are into being treated like trash. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How often is too often to see a plate?1-2x a week seems ideal. Just don't hangout with her for too long in one session and keep the tension built. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a pre-game ritual?I've actually found that if I have the mentality of "picking up chicks" when I go out, I'll burn out and I'll overall not feel good about being out. For example, me and my roommates noticed a few months ago that every time we all went out together, I always ended up making out with some chick. Each time that I went out with them though, I was focused on having a good time and making the best of the moment. After we realized this, I started putting a lot of pressure when I went out with them. We'… | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?You can learn a good magic trick or 2. Something that involves touching like having her hold something. Palm reading can be a good one but eh, not my cup of tea. IMO, all these tricks don't really mean anything if you don't have a confident state of mind or if you don't know how to escalate. If you want to learn how to read people, you can read "What every body is saying". I haven't read it yet but I've heard lots of good things about it. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Shows interest then goes completely cold. Shit test?No. Not all guys are the same. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Shows interest then goes completely cold. Shit test?Guys love to chase. We lose interest if it's "too easy". It looks like you displayed more interest than he did by making all of the moves and being completely available for him. Also, even if a guy is not interested, he may still reciprocate kino / touching + interest just for the fun of it, just to see how invested he can get you. I believe that guys are not straight up with women because we know first hand what it's like to get rejected. We know what it's like taking a risk and trying to hold … | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Deleting insta until you become high value enough?Yes. Learn Instagram game (look up Christian Grey Instagram Game) before you make a new account | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Met girl that lives in my building...how to proceed?yeah pretty much the only thing you can do. If you completely ignore them, it comes off as butthurt, and if you act too friendly, it'll make you seem needy and pushy. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Tattoos?Nah, tattoo's are awesome and a perfect conversation starter. You literally have an excuse to approach any girl with a tattoo and say, mind if I check out your tattoo? If it's on her arm or hand, you can grab it to get a better look and you're automatically stages into kino. I mean, you can already to this now, and say something like, "I'm looking into getting one soon" but it's more genuine and more of a connection if you have one yourself. I only have 1 but it's a large 10 inch diameter piece … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Met girl that lives in my building...how to proceed?It's a "don't shit where you eat" scenario IMO. The tiniest thing can make shit get awkward for example, if you ask her out for a drink and she doesn't reply, it'll be awkward. She'll know that she left you hanging and you'll know it too so you'll now need to be aware if you're acting butt hurt about it if you ever see her again and that's just such a huge waste of energy and for what? You're not getting anything out of it at all. Thread lightly with any kind of approach that you attempt that's … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Can one make a comeback from being a beta-boyfriend?Hm yeah exactly! I didn't really think about it like that but no one should be thinking about it because your focus should be on your life and fuck bitches get money. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Ex/oneitis contacted me out of the blue. Continue ghosting?DO NOT be there for her. You owe her nothing. If she starts dropping hints that she wants to hook up and you're up for it, then fine. But do not go see her because she's asking you to. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How to Use Your PC Muscle to Last Longer?Look up "The multi-orgasmic man". That book will teach you how to use your pc muscles to hold back ejaculation in depth. To put it shortly, it takes training and practice. Do 20 kegel squeezes 3x a day. Every other day before bed, try to masturbate yourself until you're right about to come, squeeze your PC muscles as hard as you can, and keep your eyes open (I do not know why but it helps). I think also bending your knees helps too. At first, you might hold back a small amount. It won't squirt o… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Is banging chubby girls worth it?IMO I would have at least 1 low SMV chick as a plate. This way if you're in a dry spell and you just need someone to nut in, you can give this one a call. Especially after a break up, it's important to start having sex as much as you can after because if you go on a dry spell after a break up you're going to really start missing that steady income of pussy you had. If you're on dating apps and you don't really have really attractive pictures, then you're just going to get low SMV matches. Best t… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 10:22 PM |
| 15 | Can one make a comeback from being a beta-boyfriend?I was in an LTR for 5 years. A year before I broke up with her, I discovered TRP. So for a whole year, I was trying to make a comeback. I was asking shit on askTRP about situations I was in and every time people would tell me to stop being a pussy and to just dump her. She was a decent LTR but I was mostly with her because I was comfortable and I had a deep fear of regretting a break up and living a life of mediocrity like I'm sure every guy is when considering a break up. I faced some HARD shit… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 05:51 PM |
| 0 | How to maintain woman’s submissive behavior in an LTRIt’s 2 months now since my Oneitis dumped me and I’m barely enjoying life again without thinking about her and how she could do it every fucking day. Jeez, that took a quick turn. First of all, you need to understand that women seek commitment. If you guys are not official, she is going to be in her best behavior to trick convince you to be exclusive with her because she's such a unicorn. In this stage, this would be her most submissive. After you LTR her, she has some power over you. She now co… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Clearly interested Girl wants to see my social media before meeting up"I'm not really on social media" IMO, a part of the reason why she's asking for your IG or FB is because she wants you to follow her on these sites. Unless you have thousands of followers, social media is always in the girls frame. She wants you to see all of her followers and all of the thirsty comments dude leave on her pictures. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 04:25 PM |
| 3 | What am i doing wrong with bumble/tinder?"Well you're not gonna get any more sleep with me" | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Will most likely see plate at a party after no sex for a month. How to act?Yeah just let it go. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Lads, how do i kick a drug addiction?How often do you do coke? and how many times have you tried to quit? I have an addiction to nicotine. I always go smoke free Mon-Thursday telling myself I'm going to stop but on the weekends I always hamster into smoking again. I've been doing this for months. I'd say you try to quit the cocaine first and then ease off of the weed. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest confidence boosters and confidence breakers you know?I'm at my peak when I've been getting some good workout sessions in at the gym and I have a good solid streak going with meditation + feeling great about following intermittent fasting + meal prepping. Also taking vitamins like Vitamin D + Omega 3 + ZMA Maybe reading a field report on TRP or watching a youtube video about a guy who starts acting silly and comfortable with himself and having amused mastery and ending up in a 3 way or some shit. It's all just like personal internal shit. confidenc… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Will most likely see plate at a party after no sex for a month. How to act?DEFINITELY do not engage her. Especially because you have oneitis. The best possible scenario that could happen is that she sees you talking to other chicks and other chicks are interested in you. Be very aloof and indifferent and most importantly, just have fun! If I were you I would just accept that this plate is broken and just let it be. Don't try to make her jealous or put all your energy into ignoring her. Just accept that she's not trying to fuck you anymore and move on with your life. Sh… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get laid a lot while living with parents?I had plates when I lived at home last year. My mom and her boyfriend would go to bed around 9 so that's when I would invite the girl over. My sisters would stay up later but I would just ask them if they could go to their room for a few minutes so the girl didn't feel awkward or uncomfortable. By the time the girl went home my sisters would be asleep. I would have the TV or a movie playing when my plates were over. In the morning if my mom asked if I brought a girl over or if someone asked what… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Texting a girl if I don't know her?It's a numbers game for social media. If you have really good photos and are attractive you can get some success on social media but if you're attractive you're better off just cold approaching. I got a few plates and dates last year from girls I DM'd on IG but there's been hundreds of girls I've DM'd and only a fraction of those that respond, then only a fraction of those that give me a phone #, then only a fraction of those that are down to meet up, etc. If you're going to try to game girls on… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 12:15 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkFirst of all, this chick travels a lot so I hope OP didn't consider a long term relationship with her. Second of all, if he did want something long term with her (he hardly even knows her) he would've mentioned it on his post. Holding hands / kissing on the first date or after an approach is not going to ruin anything long term. It's actually going to make her see that he is into her and that he's confident enough to make a move. Escalating back to his place really just depends if he was down to… | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkStill though, the hardest part is approaching and you seem like you have that locked down. Just practice escalating and you'll start seeing a lot of success. | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the parkGreat job! This girl spent 2 hours with you after you cold approached her? She was definitely interested in you. If I were you, I would've escalated during that time and held her hand / kissed her. If things went smoothly, you could've invited her back to your place. But kudos to you for approaching a cutie and getting her to spend 2 hours with you. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you experienced this feeling of not giving a shit about any type of romance/sex?It comes and goes. Some days like this week I'll just be in the mood to focus on myself (gym, work, hobbies, plans with friends) and pussy will be the last thing on my mind, even though I'll still approach a cute girl just because I know I need the practice. Some days maybe when I have all my shit together and I'm feeling happy with myself I'll hop on Tinder or set up a meet with a plate and I'll be a bit more focused on trying to get laid. I think I just don't like hanging out with girls when I… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | No one listens to what I have to sayYes correct. Start off slow and build momentum. Talk to your bartender. Talk to a security guard or volunteer. Approach a friendly looking guy and ask him what time the next band is playing. Approach a friendly looking girl and tell her you like her shirt. Approach a random group of girls and ask them if they think the next band is going to play (song). And go from there. Every new approach that you do, try and increase the amount of time that you're talking to them. Eventually if you're feeling… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Is planet fitness better than nothing?Yes do it! I got pretty big at planet fitness. You can do heavy compound exercises on a Smith machine. There's nothing wrong with planet fitness but upgrade as soon as you can | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What is to best response to “Are you mad at me?” Shit test from a flirt.send her a picture of an angry cat | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 11:16 PM |
| 6 | No one listens to what I have to sayYour mentality needs work. Your frame / vibe / energy / whatever you want to call it needs improvement. I used to be like this too. I'm 6'3 and I remember my voice was weak and soft because I was needy and lacking confidence. Whenever I would try and give input in a group setting I would just be ignored or if I made a joke, one person would hear me, then they would repeat the joke I just said and everyone would laugh (sad face). Have you ever done this to someone though? Occasionally now when I … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | ScarsWho's she? You should've replied with "they're from your mom. But don't worry, they're from before you and I met" | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:50 PM |
| 2 | When a girl is acting very sensual and lovey dovey around you, how do you respond to it?Isolate and escalate | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | just got told I am bed at sex? help mePlay some music next time and smoke some weed | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 08:57 AM |
| 1 | "Text me when you get to town and I'll see how I feel"I'd set something up with other girls and once you're in town, just text her " I'm in town" and leave it at that. If she doesn't respond with an invite to meet up then next her | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Does being more relaxed and mindful make you more attractive to people?Yes. Your inner emotions and attitude get displayed through your body language and micro expressions. If you're in a positive energetic mood, your presence will show it and you'll be more attractive and approachable. If you're feeling anxious and uncomfortable, people will not notice you. | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal for 16 yo male?You're good. Do not worry about not getting hard before sex. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal for 16 yo male?I think that when you were watching porn and then you saw the hot girls in your class, you subconsciously objectified them and pictured them being like the girls in the porn videos, so you would get an erection. Your mind was manipulated into thinking that fantasies were possible. In the beginning of porn videos, especially scripted ones, you see the sexy chick fully clothed acting normal and then she has an interaction with a guy and then it just escalates into that porn sex that you were watch… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Girl asks me to text her more oftenMeh I mean I'm pretty sure it was just a shit test. She found out a few weeks ago that I'm seeing other girls and according to her, I'm the only guy she's fucking and she hasn't had sex in a while (I don't have a reason to prove otherwise but awalt). I'm assuming that this shit test of trying to get me to drive her home and texting cold was just her attempt of trying to make sure I was a confident "can get other chicks / don't need you" guy which I passed. She lives on the other side of town and… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | What activities help you stop caring so much and bring on the IDGAF attitude?Are you trying to quit something or are you dependent on anything? (caffeine, nicotine)? IMO, the less dependent you are on shit like caffeine / nicotine, the better your "energy" will be and you'll naturally have a DGAF mentality. When I'm on a good roll in my life (lifting, meditating, eating clean, IF, no nicotine / alcohol, etc.) I'll naturally just feel great and have a very strong frame. I don't feel anxious or uncomfortable in situations. It helps a lot with the DGAF attitude because I'm … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Girl asks me to text her more oftenYeah I mean, at first it's good to follow some sort of rule like "never do anything for her" because most of us were used to bending over backwards for any chick with a pussy. I actually have a pretty good example of this. So this plate came over on Saturday and after we fucked, we both fell asleep for a little while. She woke me up and told me she had to go home. I told her she can sleep over and she said she couldn't because she had to wake up early. I told her to order an uber and that I woul… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Girl asks me to text her more oftenThat's a detail you should mention in your post. I've never taken a girls virginity, so I don't have any experience in it, but just from my overall experience and knowledge, I would assume that she needs a little more comfort than most girls. She probably doesn't "know the drill" meaning that most girls give shit tests and just make sure that the guy is "alpha" enough to fuck them. If the girl really is a virgin (you shouldn't believe her 100%) then she has this fantasy idea in her mind of how i… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks me to text her more oftenIt sounds like she's trying to BB you. 90% of the time I have sex on the 1st or 2nd date. I personally wouldn't go on a 3rd date with a girl if I hadn't fucked her already, especially if all I was getting was a middle school handjob. AND, she's demanding that you contact her more? She hasn't earned anything OP. If I were you, I would just text her to come to your house soon (whenever you think she'll be off her period) and escalate from there. If she doesn't give you sex, then just drop her. She… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Video game addictionIt's good that you're taking a break from it because you're removing the habit part of it. The last game that I would play every day and was sort of addicted to was COD: Modern Warfare 2. All my friends played it and I wanted to be the best at it. It became so bad that we spent the better part of a summer just eating pizza, smoking weed, and taking turns playing online. That's when I realized I had to break free from that. Playing video games isn't really bad. Just think of it as a reward. For m… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 04:52 PM |
| 6 | askTRP Megathread June 13If I were you, I'd take the head and make her do it somewhere kinda public (rooftop, behind the bleachers, teachers classroom, etc) that way you not only get off but you also get a fun experience / fun story to share at parties. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted about the girl I've been dating the last 2 yearsIf that's the only reason that you feel like you want to end things, then the break up is going to be kinda rough. I broke up with an exLTR of 5 years. It was 2 weeks before I turned 23. Same reason as you. I didn't want to get married / have kids and she did, but I did have other minor reasons like, she had a lot of guy friends, I wanted to spin plates and increase my n-count, her family was very toxic, and a few other reasons. I'll be honest with you, even though I've spun 6 plates since the b… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 06:37 PM |
| 2 | I just got firedI think the most important advice I can give is to start taking action NOW. Last year, I resigned from a job with no notice for personal reasons. First few days I was excited for new opportunities and wasn't worried about finding a new job. 1 month later I was sitting at home all day playing video games, binge smoking e-cigs, and jacking off. Taking NO action towards my income. A month after that I finally managed to weasel my way into a job and move out of state and begin improving myself all o… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 06:27 PM |
| 10 | Are women over 30 permanently damaged?All single women over 30 that I know have something wrong with them. Either ugly af or mentally damaged. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?alright man I will. I know the Trojan ecstasy condoms fit really well but any other Trojans are too tight | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | My repeated tinder situation: match, say hi, get number, recommend getting a drink, then she says she’s busyTry calling them. After you get the number, exchange a few messages and then give her a call. I usually give them a heads up. If by text they start asking questions, I'll tell them that we can talk on the phone and we can ask each other 3 questions. One of those questions I'll ask what her work schedule looks like. Calling should help you stand out but it won't be 100%. You're gonna need to learn some phone game. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?Yeah now that I'm thinking about it.. I can't really trust a Tinder chick. Maybe one day I'll jizz a little too early and she'll be a little too disappointed and she'll drink a little too much the next night and get a little too attracted to the handsome Cuban who's visiting for the weekend and end up having a ONS and definitely not tell me about it and I'd probably bee a little too eager to get my redemption for the bad sex I gave her and boom, wake up dead. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 05:57 PM |
| 3 | What's with that slight resting bitch face most women have these days?One of my plates has a bitch face mask for days. Not only that but she has a huge PDA sensitivity. Luckily for me, on our first date I displayed huge SV and physically escalating is fortunately easy for me so getting through her shit tests went smoothly and I figured that most guys would've just taken the L. This girl claims she hates getting approached (we met on Tinder) and claims that she's slapped a guy before for approaching her and her friends. Anyways, now that you know what kind of girl … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?Nah she's 23 and she's only talked about definitely not wanting kids right now. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?Yeah truthfully most condoms fit me really tight. I can't even use the free clinic ones anymore. I doubt I'm big enough for magnum although I've never seen how big those are. Tight condoms are probably a reason why I dread condoms. Thanks for making me aware of that bro | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?Not really worried about pregnancy. I'm more worried about STD's | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Advice on talking about other plates?If she's not straight up asking if you're fucking other girls and expecting a straight answer, then you don't need to tell her. You should be indirect with it and give the impression that other girls want your dick, but without verbally saying it. If she asked who I went to the movies with, I would've said "with your mom. Tell her I found her necklace under my bed" or some other shit test response | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | This is prob a noob question. When you say you bench XXX, does that weight include the bar?yes. Or you can just name plates. I bench 3 plates for example | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Getting out of vanilla sexIf you aren't giving her great sex, some other guy will. Sex is where you take control. Sex is where you lead 100% and show your dominant aggressive side. Sex is where you bring out the caveman. The way I see it is.. she doesn't want to give you head? I bet she'd give Chad head in a portapotty. She doesn't do anal? I bet she'd let Chad to anal on the first date / etc. I mean, you want better more aggressive sex right? If you don't want it, then there's no point to even posting this question. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 12:46 AM |
| 50 | I lost all interest in engaging with woman, what now?It sounds like you're lacking game and you're trying to rationalize to yourself that you don't have enough interest to pursue it vs. the reality of not having the skill to achieve it. The problem (and the solution that you had when you were younger) is that you no longer HAVE FUN. I'm on the same boat as you that I used to get more dates and attention when I was a teenager vs. now that I'm a young adult (23). Because I was more careless and didn't have money so I had to be creative with my lifes… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Been two months at the gym and i start to see the changeFake it till you make it is great advice. You are who you pretend to be. Of course, being genuine is very important and you want to be as natural as you can. For example, last year when I started TRP, I was trying to be more alpha. I remember I was out with my friends co-workers and the girls were like, "he's soo meeeean" and one of the guys was like, "he's just pretending to be mean, but deep down he's actually a nice guy". He straight up called me out and after he said that, the girls started … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:18 PM |
| 6 | "I only meet guys I trust and trust me" don't know what to respond. Help?Normally I'd do a soft next, but this is a HB9 and I haven't had sex in 6 months. This will give you a very needy mentality. I'd probably say something like, "don't worry, I'll blindfold you and hold your hand during our hike so we can build that trust. Just a heads up though, I'm gonna be blind folded too" but usually when I get a response like that from a girl, she most likely is flaking, so don't worry about your response too much because she's already decided if she wants to go or not. I agr… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 08:56 PM |
| 0 | How to bring up sex on a first dateI personally am not very direct about sex on the first date. I just escalate physically and have logistics set up to go back to my place. I'll hold her hand > Have my hand on her thigh > kiss her > move my thigh up her leg > grab her ass while I kiss her > and it goes from there, all while verbally negging her or responding to her shit tests. This has worked well for me. Perhaps I can try to add some sex talk since I'm not used to it. Maybe neg her about something and say, "Wow you probably suck… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Texting for logistics only with girl I've been seeing for 6 months?As long as you have the next meet up set up, you should be fine with sending a few texts here and there. I personally just make sure that everything I text has some value and purpose behind it. Either it's a flirty / dirty talk text or a meme that I feel like she would enjoy. Just avoid things like long texts, emojis (a few here and there is ok), and very quick replies. You should either be busy doing shit that it takes you 10 mins to 1 hour to reply, or you should give the impression that you'r… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | LTR birthday is approaching, not sure if I should give a gift and what it should beIn my last LTR, I noticed that most of the materialistic things I bought my ex she'd eventually stop using. Stuff like band shirts / jewelry / a guitar / etc. They wouldn't last and it was all shit she probably threw out when we broke up. Because you are going on vacation with her, this may be hard to apply, but still useful to keep in mind, but I found out that it was much better to give her experiences vs. objects. I bought us tickets for Disneyland. I bought us tickets to see Aries Spiers. Th… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Meeting this girl tonight - how to ask her to my place without sounding needy.You just need to have something. It doesn't need to be great. Me personally I have a few options. My roommate has decorated the house really nice. It's like a vintage and gothic style. Everyone gives compliments when they come over. I also have a pool, Netflix, and Mario Kart. It helps if you have drinks or weed if they smoke (or if you smoke). If we're out, I'll say something like, "Hey I bet you suck at Mario Kart. Come over and prove me wrong". I also like telling girls to meet at my place if… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else kind of enjoy swallowing TRP?Yea it's kind of a roller coaster at first. You start reading the sidebar and you feel like you just learned the secrets of the universe and you've become more "enlightened". TRP definitely solved most of my social and some personal problems that I was dealing with for a long time and I just thought "well, this is just how my life is" but I learned that no, it's not. Some shit will really grind your gears though. Like the fact that there is no "ONE". Learning about hypergamy. Learning about comm… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 12:11 AM |
| 3 | What to do when you get easily intimidate by men?Well yeah. These dudes have some annoying qualities but they still have attractive qualities. Like I said, focus on yourself on being less of a bitch and this shit will be less of a problem. Me personally, dudes don't mess with me unless I give them a reason to which I don't cause I'm a fairly kind guy. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Girl rejected you but comes back a year later and realizes your SMV has increased and shows interest, do you go for it or ghost her out of respect to yourself?If she's fuckable, I'll just escalate and see if I can fuck them. I will be more cautious though and do my best to not waste my time. If they rejected you before, they'll probably reject you again. They might just be leading you on enough so that when you show interest, they can pull back and just prove to themselves that they can still get you. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you stop girls from being "intimidated" by you?Try being a little more charismatic and slightly more "fun". Be the leader of the group and just have a smile on your face. The more people these girls see you with, the more they'll feel okay with talking to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with being ghosted?It sounds like you got some oneitis for this one. It stings a little when plates break. You're not a robot. You're not going to be 100% unreactive when someone you've been making love with straight up abandons you. If I were you, I would use this experience as a lesson for future plates. Now you will KNOW that any plate you're spinning can potentially straight up abandon you without notice. I was most hurt by my first RP plate because she also ghosted me out of nowhere and I never found out why … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 11:57 PM |
| 10 | What to do when you get easily intimidate by men?Lifting helps a lot. Usually when I'm done with my workout, I feel like I can square up with anyone. Just looking like you know how to defend yourself should be enough (having some muscle mass, standing straight and tall). Usually when I'm around AMOG in a group setting, I'll just ignore them when they're being arrogant and be unresponsive. These dudes love to get reactions out of people. If you act indifferent and like they have no influence over you, they'll be cool with you. I've had dudes st… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being goofy funny and become sexy funny?My dad is goofy funny and it fits him because he's a "family" dad. In high school I was also a goofy funny. I was funny enough that I got attention from girls but I was too goofy so almost every girl I talked to friendzoned me. Now that I've discovered TRP and I've been implementing the principles as much as I could, I've actually become less funny.. Or I put much less effort in being funny. When I'm with my closest friends and we smoke a little weed, sure, I'll be goofy funny and it's a great t… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you date this girl?It's really up to you. I occasionally buy gifts for plates as well. Just as long as you're doing it unconditionally (no covert contract). | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you date this girl?From what I've studied here on TRP, you want her to work for months for commitment. My roommates are a couple and the girl told me that she baked / cooked / was really nice to him for like 6 months until he finally decided to become exclusive with her, even though she was exclusive to him for that time. You giving her commitment gives her a lot of power. It's like her giving you sex for the first time. Once you get it, you don't need to try so hard to get it again because you already know she's … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:32 PM |
| 3 | When does one become an orbiter?Escalating is what lets you know you're an orbiter. This is why I always go in for a kiss on the first date. I NEED to know that she at least finds me attractive enough to make out a little bit on the first date. This lets me know that she's interested and I can proceed to set up the next date / meetup. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:30 AM |
| 13 | Is texting too little ever a problem?After you guys create a sexual relationship (plate / FWB), you may text them a little more than just for logistics. You can flirt, push / pull, neg, etc. but make sure everything you say has some sort of value. Don't text them cause you're bored or want to make small talk. Eventually you won't even need to be mindful of this stuff. Having your attention focused on your goals and new potential prospects will cause you to naturally "forget to reply" to texts, seem important and busy, and different… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:27 AM |
| 2 | "Do you have a girlfriend?"Girl friends don't last. Every girl friend I've had was attracted to me at some point and was just waiting for me to make a move but I actually wanted to just be friends because I was a gentlemen and I didn't want to ruin our great friendship so they eventually ghosted me or distanced themselves because I couldn't take the hint or they thought I didn't like them. Your guys' friendship isn't going to last. I mean, eventually y'all are going to get bored of going to the same bar. This shit isn't H… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Anger Phase while in LTRYeah do this OP. I was in an LTR for 5 years and I swallowed the pill a year before I dumped her. Spinning plates and learning these principles as a single man is extremely necessary to have a RP LTR in the future. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Anger Phase while in LTRI'd probably end the LTR and then get past the anger phase. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Are women turned on by ROMANCE?Girls like working for that shit. Romance = comfort. Comfort leads to commitment (In her mind). It's just like how dread games works with attention. If she's being a "good girl" and you want to reward her, give her some romance. She should be sex crazy for you, wild, and dirty for you before you give her romance / comfort / attention / whatever you want to call it. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How to stay motivated?Start meditating and working out. Stop victimizing and feeling sorry for yourself. Ask out other girls to the dance or go with your boys. Motivation does not last. Motivation is like an espresso shot. It'll get you going but it'll wear out. What you need to keep going is discipline. Discipline is what makes you see things through to the end. If I were in your shoes, I would make the best of the dance. I would try to have such a good time that the girls I asked would be jealous of not coming with… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Asking a girl out in Front of her Colleagues - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 3I agree. Especially a 30 minute meditation. If anything do a quick five minutes or just take some deep breaths. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you date this girl?Yeah no problem. I'd say that the "text for logistics only" rule applies mostly to the first few dates / meetups. Keep her on her toes and make her wonder about you. After you guys have a sexual relationship going on (plate, FWB) then you can text a little more (as long as it's not pushy ex: double texting, paragraphs, stale convos, emoji's). For example: My plate texted me yesterday saying she was off her period and she was ready for me to set up a day for us to hookup. I told her to be at my p… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Whats your take on mixing weed with red pill?I know that. It's much easier said than done though. I've been on TRP for 2 years now so I'm no newbie. Context with this girl, she's come to my house parties twice and both times we've made out. She tells me she wants to date me and stuff but I know better and watch her actions. One of my house parties was 6 days before this hotel party I last saw her. I texted her after my house party and got no reply, then I see her at the hotel party with some other guy. Like I said, I did my best to not gaf… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Whats your take on mixing weed with red pill?The blunt made everything worse, that's my point. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Whats your take on mixing weed with red pill?Yeah smoking can be negative sometimes. I'll feel pumped up ready to go out with friends and if I smoke, I may begin to feel anxious and nervous and I'll be too afraid to go out and be around strangers. Some Indica strain will give you a body high and can help you sleep though. I wouldn't recommend a 100% Sativa strain though. That's all head high and will most likely give you anxiety if you aren't used to it. I recommend a hybrid strain. Half body high and half head high. Especially before sex. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Wrong panties"Sorry I think those are your mom's" "Sorry I think those are your grandma's" "My bad I think those are my wife's" "My bad I think those are my husband's" "Nevermind, I forgot that I wore these last night" I always give my guests a hard time when they leave something, accidental or not. I had a girl leave a hair clip in my room and I sent her a picture saying, "Is this your way of getting invited over again? This past Saturday my guest said that she couldn't find her ring (not wedding lol) and s… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Whats your take on mixing weed with red pill?It depends. If I'm with close friends and we're just chilling and kicking back, I'll smoke a little. I become more "clever" and "witty". Like I just know the perfect things to say to make everyone laugh or the perfect replies when people talk to me. I'm also more "present" and focused in the moment if I am doing something. This can have the negative effect though. I was at a hotel party this weekend and this girl who was all up on my Peter a few weeks ago was there with her boy. I did my best to… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you date this girl?I wouldn't apply dread game (text less) unless she was misbehaving in some way. If you just withdraw your attention out of nowhere, she may not react appropriately. You also don't need to be so contrasting about it. You can still be flirty and "yourself" in text, but make sure 95% of texting is for logistics. Once you set a date, tell her you have some things to take care of and you'll hit her up later or something. Just let her know you're busy. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Any solid advice on the LMR text?Something like, "nothing is gonna happen that you don't want to happen" if it's a comfort test. If it's a shit test, say something like, "Low key I just can't watch scary movies alone". Me personally though I don't invite girls straight to my place for the first fuck. I just don't have that much sauce. I'll probably tell them to drive to my place and then I'll drive us to grab a drink or go to a drive in movie or something. I'll escalate when we're out and get her more attracted and turned on. T… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you date this girl?It sounds like you're getting oneitis for this one. Fucking other girls and texting her less might make her more interested. Study more of TRP. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm feeling sorry for ghosting girls after the first date..I've been on both sides and in IMO it's better to just ghost. In the past, I've let them off easy and I would text back when they hit me up again but then I wouldn't text back or something. It's like leading them on. I've also dated girls I was interested in and they would text back after the date but then not reply or just come up with excuses not to see me. Ghosting just saves everyone time and makes it clear that there's no interest. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | To those in a LTR: Why do you do it?It seems like a lot of the guys here get bored and tired of the hookup game. Me personally I'm getting disinterested in going out. I had a bachelor party last night and I decided to stay home (i had a 4 hour tattoo session on my chest so I was pretty beat) I do want to practice my approaching and pick up so that's my main motive for going out but my main motive should be to have a good time. If I were to get into an LTR it would be with someone who enhances and supplements my lifestyle. Food, su… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:16 PM |
| 2 | How does an Alpha deal with aggressive guys?If it's personal, I'd probably fight. If it's some random dude, I'd probably just laugh and ignore it. I think about it like Brock Lesnar in WWE when someone like the Undertaker tries to intimidate him and he just laughs at them | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:09 PM |
| -2 | Gift from another guyGo, but have a bigger reason for going. Either going out for lunch or something. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you have any questions? How to answer this during a interviewI usually ask what are the company's goals for the next year | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Do you have any questions? How to answer this during a interviewI'd use this for a job that I'm not really too interested in. Let them tell me how to improve for my next interview for a more desirable position | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Would you date this girl?after a week of texting You shouldn't be texting every day. Do some flirtying, push / pull, set up a date, and then cut contact until the date. I'm 21 Too young for an LTR IMO. I wouldn't get into an LTR until late 20's. we usually talk about our days this is blue pill. If you're gonna talk, do it after some rough sex when she's in need of some comfort. losing this one would probably feel like losing a gem. A good way to avoid this mentality is to assume that she is fucking other guys. I can see… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Setting expectations - splitting the bill. Help!I don't do dinners on first dates first of all. If you're out getting drinks, offer to pay the first round and tell her she needs to get the next one. The times I've done this I've gotten positive responses. I paid for the first round and she said that she didn't want another drink but she still ordered me my 2nd one. Another time this girl told me that I could get whatever I wanted when it was her turn to pay (basically saying I didn't have to get a cheap beer). Try to establish it first before… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Setting expectations - splitting the bill. Help!Curious sir, what kind of errands? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Virgin, cant get it up?Quit porn for sure, masturbate occasionally, and don't get drunk. Buzzed is fine, but if you start spinning when you close your eyes, you're gonna have a hard time getting hard. I made a huge mistake the last time I was drunk in bed with a girl that could've cost me gravely. I met up with a tinder date at a Italian restaurant. I know the owner so everything was free so I over indulged on the wine. I brought her home, got her naked on my bed, but as soon as my dick touched the condom, it went lim… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Gym ioi, not sureTry again | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpYeah I remember one time I was heading to the beach with some new friends like 6 years back. I wanted to pick up my skateboard from a friends house whom we were friends since I was like 8 years old (I was like 16 at the time). I asked for my skateboard and he was like, "can I just say something.. you're a BITCH". and I actually reacted indifferent. I was like, "okay?". He changed his tone and replied sincerely but in a low voice, "how come you don't hang out with us anymore.." and I said, "Cause… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Gym ioi, not sureCarry some body spay in your gym bag | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 12:31 AM |
| 2 | All my old friends started hating me since when implementing trpI've ditched all my pre RP friends and I've found new ones. It doesn't matter how much you improve, your old friends are not going to treat you with the respect that new friends can offer. They see you at a certain value and they've grown accustomed to it. When your value rises, they reflect that improvement on themselves and hash out the negative feelings towards you. I was in an LTR when I found TRP. I had friends and she had friends. Our friend group joined together. When I ended the relation… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Gym ioi, not sureYea I've had IOI's at the gym. There was this really hot chick who worked out every day at the gym I worked out at and we would make eye contact every day. Eventually I grew the balls and went up to talk to her. After I approached her, I told myself that the next time I talked to her I would ask her out. Weeks went by because I was looking for the "perfect moment" and giving excuses (nah I kinda smell today I shouldn't talk to her / I don't look swole in this shirt, I need to wear my other shirt… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?Start with guided meditation like "headspace" or "insight timer" (both free). You begin to feel a difference after 3 days. After 10 days, others will feel the difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Added plate of 6 weeks on FB. I saw that she still has pictures with her ex.Thanks for your answer man, I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 8 | askTRP Megathread May 30A soft next isn't going to do shit. She's not going to stop drinking / smoking because you stop talking to her for a few days. My advice is to make her a plate only. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Anybody 100% Caffeine-Free? What are the benefits?Yeah that sounds like a good idea. If the symptoms get too bad I'll have a small doze of caffeine. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Anybody 100% Caffeine-Free? What are the benefits?Yeah I'm definitely going to be saving a good amount | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Anybody 100% Caffeine-Free? What are the benefits?Maybe I'll limit myself to some iced black coffee before work. But for now I want to kill the dependency. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Added plate of 6 weeks on FB. I saw that she still has pictures with her ex.Ok, so just let it go and keep fucking her. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How come I can not get girls even with a high SMV?Game > Looks | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 11:57 PM |
| 9 | [Field Report] How I went from 3 matches in a week to 22 matches and an f-close the same day of downloading Tinder. - The Importance of Lifting and Frame.And it's easier for shorter guys to look like they have more mass because they have shorter limbs. Example: Every NBA player looks "skinny" | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Getting your ass kicked.You reacted to what he said. That was your first mistake. I get it though. She's your girl and your instinct is to defend her. Next time, just have the mentality that this dude is so beneath you and he doesn't even deserve a reaction. I would've just looked at him, chuckled, slapped my girls ass, and then walked away. Afterwards I played it off cool and laughed about it without being bothered. I honestly feel so defeated and unmanly but obviously I didn’t show it to her. You know, it's basically… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?I only watched the 2nd half of season 2. My plate said that the first season was more emotional. The show is pretty much about a girl who was raped, made recordings about why she is killing herself, and then killed herself. Then her parents and her friends try to sue the school and get the rapist arrested. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who use Tinder/Bumble, what age range do you use ?She was like a soft 5 but her shit tests and attitude were as if she was a HB9. I handled the shit tests well IMO but she still never showed any IOI's or sign of attraction. We met up at Chipotle and she was acting very childish. Not in a cute way. Like in a psycho way. She was slamming her cup on the table demanding I get her more water. She moved and sat away from me and started giving me the silent treatment. She started balling up napkins and throwing them at my face. All this happened withi… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who use Tinder/Bumble, what age range do you use ?I had an awful date with a 25yo so I bumped it down to 18-24. I usually match with 22-23yo (I'm 23). | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Got two numbers, need advice on date setups7 - Have an abundance mentality. Give off a vibe that you have other options. When I go out with a girl, I give a vibe that I bring girls to that venue all the time (indirectly), even if it's my first time there (obviously it helps if you know the employees / regulars there). Example: I went out with a plate on Friday. I invited her to a popular outdoor mall area that I hadn't been to yet (I'm new in town). I told her that I had never been there before (I gave the impression that I had plans to … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some Ways That You Guys "Ask" For Blowjobs?Yea but sometimes I want to be laying down or have her be laying down while I face fuck her | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I whined like a bitch, how can I make sure I don't do this again?Yeah man I completely get it. Unfortunately shit like that is going to happen and you're just going to have to learn to be okay with it. Don't plan it so officially days before. The times that I got disappointed / upset the most was when we planned the whole sex thing and shit didn't end up going through. Don't mention sex. Let it "just happen". Towards the end of my relationship, I remember that sex wouldn't happen sometimes for different reasons and I would just be cool with it. She'd feel bad… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | What Are Some Ways That You Guys "Ask" For Blowjobs?I don't have my girls trained like that yet though | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:09 AM |
| 0 | What Are Some Ways That You Guys "Ask" For Blowjobs?This last girl was super into it. She made me cum quick. I had to wait a few minutes before I could get hard again to fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:09 AM |
| 4 | What Are Some Ways That You Guys "Ask" For Blowjobs?Okay, so snap my fingers at her and point at my cock?? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | I whined like a bitch, how can I make sure I don't do this again?I was like this too at first when I was with my ex (I'll call her Bananas). I remember this one time I was going out of town for a few days and me and Bananas tried to have sex the night before I left. We were trying to have sex in the car and I was getting frustrated because we kept driving up and down some very dark streets looking for the "perfect" spot. We finally picked a spot and we were in the back seat. This car pulled up behind us with it's headlights but I knew that they couldn't see u… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls tell me I look 18.. I'm 21.My ex was 18, other girls I've dated were 18-19 This is why you don't LTR or "date" teenagers. You PLATE them. If you want to look older then just dress / look a little older. Wear dressier shoes, button ups, grow your facial hair. Ever since I've grown my facial hair girls tell me I like 2-3 years older than I am and I get more IOI's | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 10:18 PM |
| 2 | I'm not happy with my overall choices, 23 years old now.I'm 23 as well. They way I'd see if is, I'd want to look back when I'm 25 and say, "I'm happy with the overall choices I've made in the past 2 years. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?13 reasons why. It was pretty intense | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?Are they ONS? After I have sex with a girl for the first time I usually don't feel anything after. I'll kick them out and send a text saying I had a great time but I don't really mean it With plates it's different. After I get a liiiittle emotional attachment (not oneitis) but after I start to actually give a fuck about her, sex is so much better and I feel really good after | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:30 PM |
| 11 | Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?Same here. Busted an all nighter and had a plate over the next day. Told her she could watch Netflix while I slept. We fucked and I was wide awake after. Ended up watching Netflix with her | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | BulliedSame | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Have you noticed the brightness of your clothes?I mean, not really. I was a metalhead in high school and I kept the dark colors through my adulthood. I pretty much only wear black, grays, & blues. I have however began to add "touches of pop" for example: I started wearing a pinky ring, I grew my facial hair out, and I'm planning on buying some all white sneakers. That's just my style. I'm brown skinned so I personally don't think I look good on bright colors. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 09:38 PM |
| 24 | The ONLY "instant fix" for attracting Women is your style... Here's how to dress to kill for dirt cheapTLDR; Research what style you like and decide on what pieces you're gonna be looking to buy. Try on a bunch of different stuff & make sure it fits you well | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Its still painful, any way to relax ? Should I even relax ?Honestly I appreciate rejections. Why? Because I KNOW that she isn't into me and I'm not going to waste any of my time chasing her. I can move on to a different girl. The only thing that hurts though is messing around with a girl (2nd / 3rd base) and then she ghosts you. It's happened a few times these past 2 months and it confuses the shit out of me but I move on in a few days. Yes you're going to see upsetting shit with RP lens, but best thing you can do for yourself and for everyone is to jus… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:30 AM |
| 3 | My pecs are more sore than my backSometimes when I'm doing back exercises, I can feel my chest being incorporated, like the straight arm pulldown. I would stretch before your workout so you're more flexible and have a better range of motion. Lower the weight a little bit and really focus on squeezing your shoulder blades back and pulling your elbows behind you. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Saying "I fucking love you bby" during sex with plate ?Also the rule that you never txt a girl first after sex. Where TF did you hear this? You're fine. She just took it as sex talk. If you bring it up or start acting weird about it, then it's going to fuck you over. I don't remember half the shit I say during sex, it's all just in the moment and she probably forgets what I say too. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Manager micro-managing me, need advise.Definitely be professional about it. Be stoic and make sure your frame is rock solid. Do not act or react emotionally. Don't give a large sigh or have closed body language. If he keeps doing his job poorly after you've talked to him, talk to HR. I had a good high paying job last year and I walked out on it because I couldn't stand my manager anymore. I don't regret leaving but I should've talked to the HR manager. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What to do when friends stop inviting me over?Yup exactly. Lots of toxic people who do toxic things just to pass the time. Especially women. I've learned from a few experiences from trying to get close to a co-worker and getting too comfortable, it ends up biting me in the ass. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | How crucial is social proof, big circle of friends etc?Your plates don't need to see your friends to know that you have a big social circle. All you need to do is give the impression that you do and not provide any reason for her to think that you're a loner. I moved to a new state 3 months ago and my plates ask me how I have friends already if I've been here for a little while. I'll reply with something like, "because everybody loves me" or some shit. But in reality, I really only go out with my roommates and I have like 2-3 friends in town. Edit: … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | What to do when friends stop inviting me over?How do I best deal with this situation? Would confronting them about this be any good? No don't do that. That's just gonna make you look like a pussy bitch. Honestly I've never gone out with co-workers. Sure we'll go to lunch together but I don't hit them up on the weekend to see how they're doing. If you just moved into a new town and you know NO ONE, then sure, try and go out with your co-workers for a little while until you build your own social circle. But honestly, you definitely NEED your … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Guys in late teens/early 20s, what does a typical Saturday look like for you?Usually Sundays are my lazy days and for doing chores around the house. My usual first half of my Saturdays are productive. Gym, go shopping for shit I need, play guitar. Second half I meet up with friends and go out or probably go on a date if I'm trying to keep it chill. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Having trouble holding frame.Start meditating and stop victimizing yourself. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | the red pill and TV/MOVIES . is watching shows with blue pilled main characters hard to do for some of you ?I just don't watch it. You know you don't have to watch that show right? And you don't have to feel a certain way about blue pill or red pill examples. You observe them and appreciate that these examples just help you understand the concepts better. Examples are always good. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Alternative ways of escalatingJust go up to her and talk to her. It's not like you never see people having a conversation in a library. Just keep it short and get her contact info. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Plate broke, and I felt sad for the first time.Yeah she just stopped replying. I learned from it though. I was trying too hard to be alpha but my actions weren't really backing it up. Like through text I would have a dominant persona (short texts, taking hours to reply, telling her to be ready at a certain time, etc.) but I was honestly getting oneitis. The pussy and the head game were out of this world and I still wasn't over my ex-LTR of 5 years so I was craving some comfort. When I would go over to her place, I would try and stay as long … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..That's all folks! I felt the same way when I lost my virginity. It gets better if you keep fucking the same girl (plates, LTR) cause you learn each other's bodies and personal pleasures. Obviously sex isn't tofu neither. It's still great. It's still something worth chasing (softly). Once you get your first plate and can get steady sex, you'll naturally think less about sex and you'll be able to focus on your other goals | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:11 PM |
| 4 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..My favorite | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Should you eject after she says she has a boyfriend?Maybe if you were in a nightclub. But you're at work. You have a great excuse to talk to her. Getting a co-workers snapchat is also a "friendly" thing to do. I have my co-workers and my manager on Instagram. I hope you learn how important being indirect can be. You pretty much burned the bridge with her, making future interactions feel awkward, and didn't get anything out of it. If you had been indirect, you could've played everything off as "just being a friendly co-worker" and who knows, you c… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | [Date Report] LMR with hot asian girl, initial frustration but the show goes onIt depends on your success rate and how well it works for you. I personally like to know asap if this girl is into me or not. I'll hold her hand and go in for a kiss on the first date, that's minimum, before I consider a 2nd date or inviting her over to my place. Going in for first base at your place may also backfire because she's going to be on edge when she's in your house. If you're out in public, she's more comfortable because you can't really harm her or do anything too creepy. Being in a … | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Tried to flirt over text. How bad is it?Yeah well the best advice me or anyone can give is "less is better". I've had girls tell me that I suck at texting or that I "seem like a serial killer". Almost every guy texts too much. They use emoji's, they send selfies on Snapchat or just share too much information before a date. Girls are used to leaving guys on read. Girls get hit up on social media all the time and leave all of those dudes on read. If a girl is left on read or if you take your time to text back, it's going to throw her of… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to build attraction in loud environments?Well if you're going with a girl, I would just be touchy and escalate physically. Set changes during a concert are the perfect time to have a conversation and take a soft break from the kino. Approaching a girl in a loud environment can be more difficult, especially if you have no good excuse to talk to her. For example, let's say you just met some dude at the bar of the club you guys are at. He mentions that he came with his cousin and her friend. You see him later on with these 2 girls, so you… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on shaving or trimming different parts of the body?Don't shave your legs, you can trim if you'd like. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Lets go on a date or would you like to go on a date?I never mention "date" and I always state a meetup. Hey let's meet up this weekend. Let's grab a drink tonight. Come with me to this bar on Friday night. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to break the awkward textsOnly text for logistics (meet ups). The more you text a girl, the less attractive you make yourself seem, especially by you being the one trying to keep the conversation going. You should've invited her for a meet up, set up a place and time, and just end the conversation with something like, "okay so I'll see you Saturday @ 7pm" If you have so much shit to say to her, just wait until you see her. Better yet, why don't you call her and invite her out. That's what I do. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Tried to flirt over text. How bad is it?Text less. Only text for ligistics (meeting up) The "perfect thing" you could've said is, Me: but it depends on how saturday is gonna turn out Her: ohhh are you aiming for something? 😏 Me: depends Me: Im usually aiming for cute girls Her: well, do you think I am cute? Me: We'll find out on Saturday Her: 😤 And I would've stopped replying to her after this. I would've just texted her on Saturday and let her know what time I was showing up to the party and stuff You're over thinking this shit and r… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Should you eject after she says she has a boyfriend?Should've gotten the snapchat. And yes you ejected too early. You also stated your intentions too early by saying "let's just pretend this didn't happen then". You want to be more indirect, especially at a work place. I would've replied with something like, "oh that's cool, I've never had a boyfriend", she would've laughed or replied with something meaningless then you could've proceeded as if she never mentioned it. Indirectly of course. IMO you fucked this up already and I personally wouldn't … | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 06:48 PM |
| 3 | [Date Report] LMR with hot asian girl, initial frustration but the show goes onThis is exactly what I was thinking. Did you guys even kiss OP? There wasn't enough comfort built for her to lay on a bed with someone she just met. Next time do some more kino and escalation before you bring her to your place. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Plate broke, and I felt sad for the first time.I was also sad when one of my best plates broke last year. We met on IG. We fucked on the 2nd date. She was cute and submissive for me. It was great. She was "special" because she was the first girl I fucked after a 5 year relationship, so it was extra exciting. She was petite (4'10, I'm 6'3) so her screams during sex were awesome. She's #2 on my top list of girls I've fucked and #1 for blowjob performance. The relationship only lasted like a month and things quickly began to die down. Taking lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 06:32 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread May 16You're probably being too bold without building up attraction first. If a hot guy were to do something "creepy", the girl would say that he's being sexy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 16Look up an app for guided meditation like "Headspace" or "Insight Timer" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 06:57 PM |
| 10 | askTRP Megathread May 16I was actually on the bodybuilding.com forums and some guy was talking about benefits of NoFap. Mostly muscle and energy gains. I didn't think much of it, but it planted a seed in my mind about what would happen if I stopped fapping (I was fapping like twice a day for years, and I knew that it wasn't good, but I never knew how bad it was). A quick google search of "benefits of NoFap" brought me to the NoFap subreddit and my first time on Reddit actually. I was on NoFap for about a month and I st… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Is there an endless stream of things that can break your frame?Meditation 100\% If you don't meditate then you're a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 08:25 PM |
| 2 | A letter to the procrastinatorRemember that starting is the biggest issue with procrastination. If you start at least you have created something real, you have planted a seed. I remember when I started going to the gym after high school I would have a lot of trouble convincing myself to go. I worked at a warehouse job doing labor so I was always tired when I got home. Luckily I wanted muscles and pussy bad enough that I would tell myself, "just drive to the gym and park in the parking lot. If you still aren't feeling it, you… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/18 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?If it's once in a while, it's great. IMO guys like the thrill of the chase. Seeing a girl they find attractive and approaching her is very nerve racking but also exciting. With that said, like someone mentioned, it is a breath of fresh air to be approached and "hit on". It rarely happens to me, but I do get a lot of eye contact and girls wanting to be close to my proximity. Basically I get a lot of signals but I hardly get a girl to straight up ask me out. Also, if she is really attractive and s… | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing it wrong?Meditation helps me tremendously | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | 33 years old first time out "gaming"Meditate and keep practicing | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I'm being used or she's just waiting for sexBe more direct and tell them to come over and escalate | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Recipes a man should know how to cook?Well the first time it happened, we were having a bbq for my sisters baby shower at a park. My dad decided to put me in charge of cooking all of the meat and chicken. I was like 14-15 and it was one of my first times grilling. I didn't know that chicken takes time to cook so the first batch came out a little under cooked and this dude just walked up to the grill and put his chicken back on lol. Besides that, I got some compliments from other people so I guess it was good. The other time it happe… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:59 PM |
| 2 | LTR bullshitThis is just one of the issues in relationships. Dread game isn't meant to be used so consecutively. Eventually she'll just assume that that's just how you are. Dread game is meant to strike fear in her that you may be sleeping with other girls or you're planning on dumping her soon. If you dread too often, she's gonna be turned off, stop chasing, and she's going to start doing more of her own thing (which sounds like that's what's going on). 2 choices: either accept the relationship as is and j… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I'm being used or she's just waiting for sexYou know by escalating. I always go for a kiss on the first date. If she pulls back or says she wants to wait, I'll hard next or maybe soft next if I don't have a lot of options at the time. The reasoning for this is the "fuck yes or no" rule. Basically, why waste your time on people who aren't "fuck yes" about you? If a girl won't kiss you on the first date then she doesn't like you that much and you aren't really going to get much out of her. By the 2nd or 3rd date you should already be in a b… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | 33 years old first time out "gaming"Decent night honestly. Next time don't get so drunk. If this story is true, then you're bold as fuck. Going up to the guy and then touching his girl while talking to him. That's some ballsy shit. IMO, don't just start touching random girls. That seems creepy and you're gonna get kicked out. Just make eye contact with girls, smile, approach and say hi, then go up to a different girl and say hi, how's your night going? then go up to another girl and extend that conversation a little bit more until… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Feeling horrible and guilty for breaking up with LTRSame boat as you almost a year ago. Broke up with an LTR of 5 years. I was with her since I was 18. I found TRP and I wanted to live a lifestyle of spinning plates and spitting game. I felt the same way as you. I felt really guilty and I felt really fucking sorry that I hurt her like that. She was crying, she was begging for another chance. Honestly though, your ex is going to get over that shit QUICK, and she's going to either start riding the CC or she's going to jump into a different relation… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Idk how this is going to turn out but what do you think I should do next ?If she replies negatively, just ignore and text back in a few days like nothing happened. If she replies positively, set up a date to meet. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Strong body odeaurAre you a big boy? If so, don't be a big boy. Make sure that all of your clothes are clean. I just found out that these pair of nikes that I've had for a few years stink pretty bad so the few times that I was wearing them they would stink my feet and I would be able to smell them even when they were on. Clean socks, even twice a day. Wash your jeans and shirts more often. Do you wear a hat that you've never washed? Wash it or buy a new hat. Are you really hairy? Trim some of your body hair. Appl… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 10:16 PM |
| 7 | How to get laid at a high school party?Good way to get laid is to not focus on getting laid. If you go to this party with the mentality that all you want is to get laid, you're going to make it even harder on yourself. You're automatically going to give off needy and desperate vibes. Girls aren't into that shit. At a party, girls are most turned on by the dude who's having the most fun and the leader of the group who's hosting the most fun. If I were you, I would go to this party with the mentality and attitude of just having a good … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Recipes a man should know how to cook?IMO just knowing how to meal prep is pretty good enough. I guess a good masculine skill to have is knowing how to grill. Whenever I'm at a cookout I always volunteer to grill even though I'm not that good. I've gotten some good compliments and I've gotten some people who go up to me and put their food back on the grill lol. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:58 PM |
| 13 | Am I doing it wrong?The only thing you're doing wrong is giving a fuck what other people think of you. If you're genuinely confident in yourself and aren't self-conscious about how you dress / walk / talk then that stuff won't bug you. Ironically, once you start not giving a fuck, people will stop giving a fuck and you'll get less negative attention. Whenever I'm out and I see people judging me or reacting negatively to me, I really just laugh it off. It is pretty funny to me. Like these people don't know you yet t… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Recipes a man should know how to cook?Lol. Dude, there's no "recipes" you need to know to be a "real" man. Just know how to cook the shit you like. I know how to cook most breakfast foods and just the foods that I eat for meal prepping (steak, chicken, salmon, shrimp, vegetables) etc. If you're trying to impress a girl or something, just ask her if she has any allergies, and then just youtube a recipe that you like and make that. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Am I being shit tested by LTR?I don't have a kid so take my advice softly, but if I was in your situation, I would just consider what would be best for the experience. If it was a "romantic" getaway or something that you feel is intimate that you'd like to only share with her (and your kid) then I would just say, "Hey hun, I planned this trip for just us. We'll invite your friend to the next one" and leave it at that. Don't negotiate or explain. Although, if your plans are something that can be more enjoyable with more peopl… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl takes several days to initiate text convo, seemingly updated Tinder as wellHonestly if you haven't had sex from a Tinder girl by the 3rd date then I would just hard next. Especially if she isn't replying to your messages and not showing interest. If she contacts you one more time, you can just tell her to go over to your house and try to escalate there but don't invest any more on her. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I practice holding frame?There's different synonyms of frame that might help you understand it better. • My favorite is "State of Mind" - feeling confident, happy, calm, at peace, etc. • Keeping your "Chill" • He's "like a rock" Can't think of any other ones at the moment but you get the idea. Frame is not something that is strictly TRP taught. Some people learn to build and hold frame on their own through experience and adaptation (sales jobs, CEO of a company). Some people practice it in other ways (stoicism). | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:56 PM |
| 7 | How to go for the kiss smoothIf she wants to kiss you then there's really no strategy or plan to do it. All you have to do is go for it confidently. Don't ask to kiss her either. Just go for it. To help with the fear of her pulling away I always tell myself "it's best to know as soon as possible if she likes you so you don't waste more time." So just go for it. Hold her hand, go for a kiss, put your arm around her. If she pulls away then she's not into you so just laugh it off and go try with a different girl. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | I find that texting girls more gives me better results...why?It also depends on how you met them. If it was a cold approach or you met in person, then texting only for logistics is fine because she's already met you and doesn't need that comfort. If it's tinder or other online apps then talking a little more should help and make you seem less creepy. Just don't write paragraphs and reply in 2 minutes | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you respond to “what are you looking for here?”I've been on tinder and bumble for months and I've never gotten that question. I would just reply with "some fun" | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Is holding hands beta behavior?Lmao. Pretty much what everyone else said | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Did i do it right?bringing it up and having that convo fucked you up. You always want the girl to tell her friends the next day "it just happened". Always apply action, not words. You should've escalated to a different venue or your place or her place. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What could I have done differentlyShe didn't give a f about you and you shouldn't of given an f about her. EDM events are great for meeting girls and dancing with them. Were you really so hung up on this one girl all night that you didn't talk to other girls? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | “You’re such a girl” shit testThanks. I couldn't remember it word for word | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Want to hang out? VS Want to go on a date?I'm 23. Yea I have been focusing more on cold approaching with good success. Just hit up friends and ask what they're up to this weekend. They'll probably invite you to whatever they're doing or why don't you host something. Invite some group of people you know and go to the beach or to the canyons or hiking. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 0 | “You’re such a girl” shit testThere isn't really a gap missing. I just met up again with the group feeling very calm with good energy and a "let's party" attitude and the rest of the night turned out like it did | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Want to hang out? VS Want to go on a date?which is better to ask. Try not to ask. For sure DO NOT use "want" in your question. Say, "Let's grab a drink this weekend?", "Meet me for a coffee tomorrow?" LET'S & MEET ME are the only 2 I use. You're showing dominance and leadership but you're still asking her. I agree with all of your points under "Hang out pros" Makes sure she doesn't have a boyfriend when she's with you [ probably haha ] If she's "hanging out" alone with you and she has a boyfriend, then she most likely is DTF. She's eith… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Eye contactPractice. And, are you watching porn? Stop watching porn if you're watching porn. srs. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:40 AM |
| 2 | How do I not cum in 2 minutes?How do you guys last long when she's on top? That's my Achilles heel. Anyways, here's some tips. • Stop watching porn • Meditate (being more in the "present" moment will help you worry less about your performance which will help you last longer, and the whole experience will be more enjoyable) • Weed. I know you said to stay away from drugs but honestly when I smoke, sex is 10x better. It feels way better, I fuck her way better, and I last like 10 minutes. You don't need to smoke a lot. Just a h… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Anal sex testing shit test - how did I do?First, I would try what someone in the comments said. Fuck her really good and when she's really into it, say that you're going to put it in her ass. If she says "no" then she's really not about it and I would just give up. Then you can try some light dread game and give a "idc, after you leave this girl is coming over who likes it in the ass" attitude, but don't say that of course. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 15 | “You’re such a girl” shit test"that's why I'm so hot" "you are what you eat" Doesn't really matter what you say. After slipping up and breaking frame, it's not easy to just come back and say some red pill alpha shit test response. Your state of mind / frame is already cracked. Whenever I'm in a situation where my frame is weak for whatever reason (I haven't slept well, stressful day at work, etc) I just remove myself from the scene and try and be on my own. Either go to sleep, go to the gym, meditate, hit up a plate. Remembe… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Is being angry means breaking frame?Yes definitely. Reacting emotionally is stepping in to that persons frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls have one night stands? Why won't they fuck you again after the first time? Girls never want to keep in touch after we fuck and I'm starting to think I'm a fucking weirdo.ONS is completely situational. She was horny in the moment and she fucked you in the moment. The next day when she's sober and has a logical moment, she'll either regret the encounter or just tell herself that it didn't happen. Remember, sex is the only thing that girls have that we want. When she gives it away that quickly, she feels powerless. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:36 PM |
| 3 | I ghosted a girl who treated me like a beta, she randomly hit me up today. Should I do anything?Unless she's inviting you to hangout and gives IOI's that she really wants to see you, keep ignoring. She just wants attention and validation. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How should I (17M) handle my fuckin parentsShit sucks but you're reacting very emotionally. I recommend meditation. It will help you adapt to your situation and not feel so negative about the environment you are in. When you are unhappy in life, start working towards ways to improve that. Get a job, try and go to an out of state college that has dorms. Be stoic and indifferent. Next time they accuse you of being on drugs, say something like, "I'm just high on life" and laugh it off or some shit. No need to explain and defend yourself. IM… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Went on a date today. Realised that my date for tomorrow might be her sister.2 ways I would play this. Depending on how well the date went today, I would either cancel or follow through with the date for tomorrow. If you think the date went well and there's a good chance you can plate this chick, then I would cancel tomorrow's date and just take it as a comfort test. If the date was so & so and you're not sure if the girl is DTF, then I would follow through and approach with the next choice. Go on the date with the 2nd sister and you pretend that you had no idea they wer… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 11:20 PM |
| 3 | 5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - More Guys Need To Know ThisLol well then you showed me | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - More Guys Need To Know ThisSeriously just copying & pasting a video? Why don't you at least give your own personal thoughts and opinion on each key and if you really want to make a quality post, give examples in your personal life that relate to each key. This just seems lazy. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A Beardhaha I agree those look terrible! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardLmao. Try it out and see how you feel | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What's the first thing to say when approaching a new woman?When I approach, I'll say something about the environment or be genuine about something I noticed. Girl at the gym - "Hi, I noticed that you come here a lot. I'm Peter" and then just go from there. Ask if she goes to work straight after, where does she work, what's her nutrition plan look like, etc. I just moved to a new state so the main opener I use when I night game is simply, "Hey are you from this town?" I can play different angles with this. I can either give a tourist angle and ask questi… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A Beardprobably not. Look up the solution online and see if you can find a review or FAQ about using the product at your age. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardI wouldn't recommend it. Look up the product and search for reviews or FAQ about using the product at your age. If I were you though I would just let grow what I can and just trim it and see how much hair you can grow. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardThat's great man. IMO it's okay to trim it. Let the other hairs catch up. It will help get rid of the patchiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Tips On Growing A BeardTime can definitely affect how your beard grows. Like I said, my dad said he didn't grow a full beard until he was 30. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardThis is pretty much a TLDR for my post. I suggest giving yourself a time frame for sure for how long you're NOT gonna shave for. 6 weeks - 3 months is a good goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A Beardfor sure. it's whatever works for you. I mean there's dudes who look good with just a mustache. I recommend trying different looks and not stick to the first one you try. All my friends are older so they all have facial hair or they have that 5 oclock shadow. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Tips On Growing A BeardI guess my tips are more on how to START growing a beard. I did some research on the neck thing and I agree. You only want to shave like below your adams apple. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardYou're right, I have noticed some flakes. It's not a big deal though I kinda like scratching my facial hair, I've never done it before lol | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Tips On Growing A BeardDepends on what you're looking for your lifestyle. For me, I wanted to move somewhere where rent was cheaper. I wanted to move in with people who I can learn from (sort of like mentors) but who also like to have fun. My roommates are the best wingmen I've ever had. I live with a couple and they're both very attractive. When I go out, I get good social points for being close to them. They're very fun and social so when we go out, they're often the center of attention and me just being around them… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Tips On Growing A BeardSimilar here. I have a longish face and not a sharp jaw. IMO if you don't have good face aesthetics, growing a beard can increase your SMV but a whole point probably. If you have a "pretty" face, being cleanly shaven may work for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Tips On Growing A BeardIt varies. IMO once you do that first trim, that's when it'll start looking good. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Tips On Growing A Beardexactly. I can't wait until I have too much hair and I can start trimming it and shaping it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Tips On Growing A BeardThis post is for facial hair growth. If you are going bald on the top of your head, then I would also recommend to shave it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Tips On Growing A BeardRogaine is exactly the same as the product I bought but just name brand. I agree about the genetics thing. My grandpa and my uncles from my mom's side can grow beards and my dad can grow a full beard so I'm not worried, I just need that "help" like you mentioned. Thanks for the input! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What if i live with my parents?Bring the girl over and dgaf and hold frame and deal with the consequences afterwards. Or tell them you're just going to watch a movie or hangout. Sneak her in late at night. This is how I got girls into my bedroom and they wouldn't get ASD because no one would see them come in. Fuck in your car or your parents car if they let you borrow it. public sex can be an option. I've probably only done this once. Jumping the gate into a public school and hanging out in the playground. Good coverage, good… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing went to an event with another dude whilst I'm on vacationPotential LTR's should be convincing. She should be begging you for giving her the title of "girlfriend". This sounds like a plate at best but I would probably hard next. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 12:06 AM |
| 3 | What does your daily diet look like?6am - greek yogurt, peanut butter, 1 scoop protein, 1 packet oatmeal, 1 banana (all blended together) 7-8 workout 8am - 2 scoop protein w/ honey 11am - 4 scoops of mass gainer (1 serving) 1pm - 6oz chicken thigh meat, spinach, brown rice, 1/2 avocado 4pm - 3 string cheese 6pm - 6oz steak, spinach | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | how to get over penis insecurityYou just gotta accept it and just focus on what you can be impressive with. Impress her with how hard you are. Impress her with how long you can last. Impress her with how hard you can fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do some days I feel super confident other days socially anxious?Numerous factors. Sleep, your mood, your attitude, your motivation, your looks, your mindset. I feel like meditation helps a ton with being consistent with feeling confident and wanting to talk to people. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Confessions of a guy that has ruined his mental game with Hookers, Steroids, Videogames, Drugs, Porn and in general taking the easy way out.I'd cut those out or unfollow those pages | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Rejections makes you a Man.I don't really have time to go out with the sole purpose of approaching girls. I think I can handle a healthy judgement call on what girls to approach and which ones to just let go. What I meant by "I need to be aware of every potential approach opportunity" is basically to just be more mindful and "ready" when I'm out in public. Instead of going to walmart with the mentality of "just get in, get your shit, get out", I can just kinda slow down and be more aware of any attractive girls and any IO… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Rejections makes you a Man.That is true. Instead of feeling embarrassed about it, I should've felt prideful with a dgaf about our surroundings attitude. I'll keep that in mind. Well I did approach a HB6 at my gym the other day and got her number. I only had 2 whiskey shots before coming to the gym so I wasn't too drunk (joking), so I guess that tells me that my sober day game isn't shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Rejections makes you a Man.Well yeah duh of course I would've loved to be balls deep in her in the shampoo isle but like I said in another reply, I have not day approached. I just started night game a month ago and I've just been kinda focused on that. It's like weekdays = goals, healthy habits, career, etc. & weekends = night game, going out, hanging with friends. Yesterday I just kinda came to the realization that I should be aware of doing day game. I am ready. I bitched out from approaching this chick but I guess you … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Rejections makes you a Man.Yeah I know. I just gotta be more conscious about it. I gotta tell myself that I need to be aware of every potential approach opportunity. I guess I wasn't mentally "ready". I was too focused on my shopping list, goals for the rest of the day, chores I gotta take care of when I get home, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Rejections makes you a Man.Yeah I'm sure I could've gotten a number or at least her instagram. I need to work on my day game. I started approaching only like a month ago but it's all been night game. I'm usually drinking so I'm less nervous and approaching a girl at a bar / social event is totally ok and I've been mostly successful with my approaches. Approaching a girl at Walmart next to the tampon isle is much less ok lol. But I'm not gonna get good at day game if I don't fail, and you definitely need to start cold appr… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 06:14 PM |
| 13 | Rejections makes you a Man.I try and keep this in mind as much as I can. Unfortunately, fear of rejection outweighed regret for a moment yesterday. I was at the market and I noticed a HB7 with a great ass. I could tell she was a gym girl cause she had on an athletic outfit and she had bananas and water bottles in her cart. We made short eye contact but I didn't think much of it. I was just observing. I go to the other side of the store and she passes me again. We make eye contact and she passes by. Again, I'm kinda just f… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | "He has a small dick" - said Plate to My Friends"yeah well you've seen it bro so you know she's lying" | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Plate tried to hamster herself after I saw her with another guyIt really depends on what you make of it and how you feel about her. If you genuinely DGAF, then I wouldn't sweat it. In my head I'd just think, "she's not mine, it's just my turn." and maybe my turn is over now. Oh well. And if she hits me up that night to meet up, then "oh, I guess it's still my turn". If you're honestly hurt by it, then that should tell you that she should never be more than a plate and I would soft next for a while until you internalize the situation and see if you can conti… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I get out of head and have fun when going out?I use "Insight Timer" It has thousands of guided meditations. You filter the type of meditation you want: stress relief, anxiety, depression, happiness, sleep meditation, mindfulness meditaiton (my favorite), breathing meditation, etc. You can also filter the topics by how long you want to meditate (i usually do 6-10 mins in the mornings and 11-15mins at night), if you want a male or female teacher (for some reason I'm able to focus more with males), and if you want background music or not (I us… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I get out of head and have fun when going out?Meditation stays with you for the rest of the day. Look up mindfulness guided meditation. Get a daily streak going. After 3 days you should feel a difference. After 10 days others will feel the difference. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 01:22 PM |
| 9 | How the fuck do I get out of head and have fun when going out?MEDITATION for sure. Definitely. I was voted most shy in 7th grade and a good solid streak of meditation makes me want to get in front of a group of strangers and give a speech. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Does this shit get easier when you’re older?Some things do get easier as you age (I'm only 23 but I've had this curiosity for a while) like better facial / body hair, a genuine DGAF attitude, more money = better opportunities to raise SMV. Older dudes are just more put together and they emit that to the world. The most important thing IMO is just experience. Of course older dudes have been on a ton of dates, they've learned from mistakes. They've done LTR's, they've probably been engaged / married, etc. They subconsciously learn that wome… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Wearing a hat on dates?IMO I'd learn to be comfortable in both. Shave your head or do whatever you have to do to feel good without a hat. It's ok to wear a hat, but make sure you get to the point where you can take off your hat and still keep frame / have game. I used to be insecure about not having gel / product in my hair. I wouldn't leave my house without a style. I decided to go with a "sexy over my face" g-eazy look and it works when I don't have product in my hair. Also, I used to be insecure about being shirtle… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread April 25You will need to live your lifestyle around those goals. This means getting 8 hours of sleep daily, having your daily nutrition strictly support your athletic goals, not drinking alcohol or anything that will not help you burn fat. This means getting up early to go for a run or forcing yourself to go for a run when you don't want to. You're gonna have to tailor your lifestyle to fit these strict goals. It's possible depending on where you are now. The fasting should help but expect to lose muscl… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread April 25I was and still am like this. I'll be consistent with my hobbies / healthy habits for a few weeks and feel amazing and then lay in bed all day on a Sunday binging on an e-cigarette and watching porn. Just keep moving forward and teach yourself discipline. Teach yourself to do things when you don't want to do them. Especially when you don't want to do them. Try NEW things that you feel follow TRP. For example, and this may not be the best example, I've finally scheduled an appointment for my firs… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread April 25I'd practice some charismatic or "power" skills. Body language, posture, eye contact, etc. In a way, try to game without being directly flirty. Be very indirect and if you're hitting it off with someone, indirectly get their contact information. If you're certain that it won't blow up in your face, move forward with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I've been destroyed and am new here.Well, you're in the right place. Shit sucks. I've been through it. I plated this girl in high school. One of the most beautiful girls in school, she modeled. She had a boyfriend in a different school. We were friends and she would complain about him all the time. I never in a million years thought I could have a chance with her so I didn't give a fuck when I was with her and turns out that she was into that shit. I lost my virginity to her. We were sneaking out at 4am to have sex for a few month… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to Setup a DateThat's my point. A girl who is interested would give a counter offer or alternative to meet up. If a girl just says, "I'm busy" then she's most likely not into you and you don't have to take her out on a date to find that out. This is just my opinion and personal lifestyle mentality that saves me a lot of time and ensures that most of the dates I go on go really well or successful. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Alpha bitch and her minions at work got me firedIMO, working with women is always bad. They bring emotions into the work and start drama just to pass the time. I quit my last job where I was making good money because my immediate manager was the worst women I've ever met in my life. I handled her for 2 months and I honestly couldn't take it anymore and I had to walk out with no notice because I couldn't stand her anymore. She got fired a month after for getting drunk at a convention, having a client bring her to her room, and the next day she… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 02:55 AM |
| 3 | How to Setup a DateI'm definitely a butthead. If a guy asked you out and gave you a certain time and day, and if you were busy, maybe you'd give a counter offer right? | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 02:45 AM |
| 8 | How to Setup a DateIt's cool if you text her as soon as you get her number. I would not text her "hey beautiful". Just texting her your name is fine. It's better to just setup the date while you're in person, before you get the number. Everything is better in person. A phone call is also better than a text. Call her to set up the date. A girl verbally agreeing to a date results in less flakes and more attraction. It's ok to ask for a schedule, but I personally prefer to just give her a date & time and tell her to … | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Are all women this stupid?All women are women. Accept it and live with it. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 01:26 PM |
| 7 | I don't have a fear of being rejected. I have a fear of people seeing me being rejected.You're mostly just coming up with yet another excuse on why you aren't approaching. I know it doesn't seem like it, but your brain is rationalizing excuses on why you don't do something you're afraid of. Either way, I will provide some tips. If your friends are actually going to banter you and not have your back if you go try to game a girl, then do not go out with them if you're interested in approaching. I wouldn't hang with them at all but that's up to you. Find some friends that want to game… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriendsThey have an attractive state of mind | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for quitting pot?I smoke weed occasionally so I don't have a bad habit problem, but I do have a nicotine problem. I smoked a disposable e-cig in 4 hours once where as my roommate made one of them last for a week and I think he ended up losing it so he didn't even finish it. The way that I stop is, first of all, just cold turkey. I've tried "easing" my way off it but taking just one hit a day or some shit but it just makes it worse. I cold turkey and then I just do my best to keep my mind off it. I wake up at sun… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Plates text me a month after ghosting me “I wish you weren't so hard to read you actually made me happy”Unless she hits you up to meet up, I would ghost her back. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 12:19 AM |
| 5 | How to respond to being roasted by someone when girls are around?I would say, "don't worry, he really needs the attention" | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl who ended FWB situation gets back in touch with meYou seem pretty attached to this one. I would just text for logistics and when you do meet her, make sure to game her as if she was a tinder date. No "catching up" shit. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Went clubbing for the first timeThat's actually not a bad night (Except for the dude dying, that shit is tragic). You got IOI's and you noticed the IOI's. You met new people and even seemed cool enough to be invited to the afterparty. You realized that having fun and doing your own thing is more important than trying to focus only on chicks. You had a girl giving you kino and you potentially could've had a ONS. That's a really good start IMO. The first time I went out by myself I went to see a free show for one of my favorite … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | I’ve noticed holding frame physically(posture,dominant positions) makes it easier holding frame mentally.The body controls the mind as the mind controls the body. Take care of both and they both will take care of you. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 03:12 PM |
| 23 | I did it. I approached 2 girls. Just gave compliments and walked away. Gotta crawl before you can walk before you can runGreat job. Approaching is pretty much half the battle. Next time, just stick around and continue the conversation or try to lead the conversation into something flirty. I've been getting a ton of success with cold approaching. I moved to a new state 2 months ago and the first girl I went up to I ended up dancing with her all night and we were kissing. I got her number and we went on a 2nd date. Another approach I did was a tough one. I was at a day club pool party and I was just walking around t… | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety in high schoolbut we both looked away quickly Never look away first or "quickly" It was much longer than a normal glance, and it felt different. This is when you should've approached, but I totally understand if you were nervous. I would go up to B and introduce yourself to A. It's high school so you probably can wait for an opportunity where you'll end up talking to her, but I wouldn't wait around for it. The longer you wait around and exchange looks, the less she's going to feel attracted. I'd make a move a… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety in high schoolThis would be my same advice. This is called linking and it's one of the best ways to meet new people. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Interesting situation; need help getting a read about n-count; should I believe her in this instance or AWALT (ignore what she says about sexual history)?Idk man after TRP I really don't give a shit. It's impossible to find out the actual amount. Just assume it's a lot and proceed as is. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What to text out of the blue to show you’re not ghosting?A whole week is rough. I probably still wouldn't contact until the day of the date just to confirm that we're still meeting up. If she contacted me though I would reply but I'd leave her on read after a few replies. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell somebody to put their phone down if they’re looking at it when I talk to them?Depends on who it is (boss, girl at the bar, your children) But if it's a girl I'm gaming or friend / acquaintance, I'll probably just stop talking and put my attention elsewhere. Plate came over last night and she was on her phone. I just grabbed her phone and threw it on my carpet and started kissing her. Worked perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with stress and anxiety?meditation is the most red pilled advice I give. It can seriously change your life. 3 consistent days of meditation you'll notice a difference. 10 consistent days of meditation, everyone will notice a difference. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | First Tinder hang out with girl, how to arrange meet upOutside a coffee shop you can play music on your phone or an ice cream shop. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Potential plate is hesitant because she's friends with my last ex. How do I get past this?She's sleeping over so you have all night. Play it smooth and play it well. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | What's Up With This Chick, Anyone Else Go Through This?What do you mean by free spirit? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 06:39 PM |
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