I'm reading a lot that I should hold my frame, but what should that be exactly?

I mostly want to click with girls, escalate, and in a couple of dates, f-close. But I need something more specific. When do I dominate, push and make her chase me? When do I pull and make it special? When do I read the situation and when do I just keep holding frame? Do I do both in the same time?

Yeah, basically a pretty vague question. Theory materials will be appreciated.