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[–]Yashugan0015 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The reverse is called cuckquean
[–]rayyaal10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You probably need some high-quality, personal, and customized advice.
Good luck! I wish you only the best. This is different from threesoms and stuff. I've never seen this happen before.
[–]TrumpSpeech5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If my LTR suggested this to me I would automatically think she was cheating and wanted to justify it.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
What is this?
[–]lord-denning7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
With respect to your question, you need to read up on "trickle truth" and apply it in reverse. You should have told her that you had a great chat with the Russian but decided not to pursue since you value the LTR so much. Then give her a little sexy talk about how hot it would have been or whatever turns your LTR on. Basically, pull an inception and let her push on this point. I suggest a cautious approach because you guys have kids and you want to ensure a stable home environment without this chick freaking out.
More generally, however your situation is unique and could be unstable. Again, if you are concerned about it blowing up I recommend proceeding very cautiously as you are playing with fire.
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[–]Late30sMasculist1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
/u/lord-denning is right. You are treating your woman as if you're dealing with a man. "But baby, we talked about this and we both agreed that this was OK." You are trying to reason her into acceptance. You need to manage her feelings and get her to not worry so much about the specific rules.
Frankly, her rules 1 and 3 are bullshit and if you abide by those restrictions it will make it many times harder for you to get action.
Figure a way to get her to give you the green light, then do what you do, and as far as she is concerned, focus entirely on managing her emotions. This will probably mean telling her stories about what happened that you know will turn her on, and the following up in the next day or 2 with a lot of comfort. "I'm so lucky to have a girl like you that let's me explore this part of me." Shit like that.
Don't bother negotiating like it's a business transaction. Manage her emotions instead, and keep frame if she does get butthurt. Wait for her to blow off emotional steam and then proceed from there.
[–]trancedj2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A man with options is attractive. Maybe this is just her way of confirming she's with someone who can fuck whoever he chooses? Either way, be careful because you're definitely playing with fire. Personally, I'd make her watch. But that's just me ;)
[–]trancedj0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well there ya go! If she's into it, and willing to watch and (most importantly) it gets her off then go forth and slay! What could go wrong?
[–]theimmortalmortal 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
break her rules...what the fuck is she gonna do except drool more?
[–]theimmortalmortal1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
okay
[–]DevilishRogue1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
r/cuckquean
r/CuckqueanCommunity
r/CuckqueanPlay
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[–]SexistFlyingPig1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She's not into you fucking other girls.
She's into you humiliating other girls.
She's not into it for you to have fun, she's into it so that she gets to control you while you control the other woman. With your attention in two places at once, she gets to have all the power and control.
It's sounds pretty fucked up to me. If you're coming here for advice, then you probably don't have the frame to not fuck this up.
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[–]SexistFlyingPig1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're not getting it. She doesn't want to humiliate others, because that would make her a horrible horrible person. She wants YOU to humiliate others. Then she gets to pretend like she's not a horrible horrible person.
[–]outplayedRP 2 points2 points2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
No one is being straight up with you..
Your long term girlfriend is mentally ill.
[–]ventuspilot0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
she is not the one in "control". I am driving the bus
Are you sure? Are you sure you even want this setup (other than make your gf happy)?
[–]adam_varg0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Had that dynamic before.
Easy as fuck to blow it. Consider yourself walking trough the landmine field. Until it become routine for both of you, you are one or two comfort test from breaking her.
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[–]wont_tell_i_refuse0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nice. Is your wife actually a used-up slut, or is that just some degrading dirty talk?
[–]Bascome0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This combined with the cuck thread makes me think this sub is being studied. I doubt very much either of the posts are real situations given the timing of the posts and similarity of the topics.
[–]Bascome0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/54d6sk/i_agreed_to_let_my_wife_have_sex_wither_ex/
Several posts by the same user all on the same topic and only that topic.
https://www.reddit.com/user/cubfanbrian/submitted/
Same post, same topic, different subs of all the same sort. This is systematic. A study.
The follow up comments are not emotional at all, it looks to me like a class of girls figuring out something to study.
[–]PIGamer860 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When in doubt...
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She just likes to talk about it. Nothing more really.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Interesting she reacted that way with the number then. Maybe she picked up on some pedestalizing you may have done with the 9.
[–]All_Ads_Deceive0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Cuckqueening is natural. Women hate pathetic men who commit to women and treat them like royalty. Nothing turns on a woman more than a man who dominates and uses women for his pleasure
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AGREED! A+
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