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Rant/Ventingrayyaal/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 04:09 PM
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Metarayyaal/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:46 PM
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Red Pill Theoryrayyaal/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 07:00 PM
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CMVrayyaal/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:42 PM
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Discussionrayyaal/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:50 PM
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Discussionrayyaal/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:44 PM
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Question for BluePillrayyaal/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:40 PM
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rayyaal/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:47 PM
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Nah most guys are pussies that's all
/r/askTRP08/07/17 07:14 AM
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Hey bro I had a similar situation only she didn't follow through. She's not your responsibility. Her mental health is not your responsibility. Her family, social, and emotional history is not your responsibility. Everything in her life that led up to this is not your responsibility. You had no choice in this; you only control your own life. Take a little break and focus on yourself intently. Meditate and give it time... I know how it feels to be with a woman who wants to hurt herself and it's un…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 07:12 AM
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Theres millions of women and millions of opportunities to bang. Just focus on yourself and add women into the equation when it suits you.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:31 AM
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Motivation is porn, it doesn't solve your problems. You don't need a book you need to get off your ass and start taking action. Lift, approach, do some muay Thai or jiu jitsu and create your own system of self improvement. If you depend on a motivational seminar to get you off your couch every day you're never going to achieve anything. Dependence is cancer.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:28 AM
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Rational Male is basically the TRP bible, changed my life
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:51 PM
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LDR girlfriend kek
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:50 PM
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Don't see "text" anywhere in your post; more importantly why are you texting for anything but logistics?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:45 PM
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Actions over words, read her body language. What it comes down to is: Are you willing to spend time with this girl? If the shit test is like.. "I fucked another guy", the reaction is "K bye". The action determines the reaction. When she says something stupid you just ignore it, play it off, be cocky/funny or whatever you wanna call it (agree amplify and all the other ones I can't remember)
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:35 PM
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Yeah that's how you do it: don't take what she says seriously.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:32 PM
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Made my day bro thanks
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:31 PM
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1."What kind of discount do I get" 2.Grab her by the pussy 3.Get laid Stop taking what women say seriously.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:26 PM
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Chad is an idea, not a person.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:24 PM
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As in what you've been doing has been working, so keep at it. She's just trying to "connect" and "share" etc... You don't need to respond to anything she says in the way she wants you to.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 09:00 PM
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In that case she's just flopping around, keep doing you. You sounded sad tonight. I feel just awful to put you through so much. Yesterday night I saw you in my dreams and we were together looking into each other's eyes and it was a marvelous feeling. Kisses xoxo "That's cute babe, good night"
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:54 PM
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Yes, it fools men. Yes, men like it, and yes women know that. Women use make-up to make themselves look better because their SMP value is almost directly related to their attractiveness. Every single human being that has lived in a modern society can recognize between a face with make up and a face without it. I'd be surprised if you could, let alone "every single human being". Some women who wear makeup every day can't tell when makeup is expertly applied. Women know how to fuck with how you pe…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:44 PM
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Have you two slept together yet?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:41 PM
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I think you should be genuine. I wouldn't mention any of this drama, it really shouldn't have mattered to you. I might tease her for wasting some of my time or give her some shit in a playful way. Generally don't have a stick in your ass and try your best to just have fun - do things the way you want to. Just a normal date homie. Don't forget to lead and be loose.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:58 PM
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Right so just say "Can't do Monday, let's do x instead"
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:43 PM
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most likely be free and will let me know Her highness can't schedule you in? Why are you wasting your time with her? Why is it that you CAN schedule her in, but she just has to "wait and see"? Dude fuck this bitch, seriously. I would stop texting her right now and go find other women. Until you find abundance you won't be OK with losing a woman. Best case scenario you ignore her for a week or two, she texts you asking what's up, you arrange for a meet and go from there. Right now I'd advise you …
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:40 PM
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You might mate, you might also forget. In my experience if she is apologetic and trying to re-schedule it means she's interested. If she wasn't she would have just said "Sorry can't make it today! Maybe some other time!!!!1!!one" One of my plates stood me up on a first date, ended up leveraging that into her coming to my place literally sight unseen and we've been fucking for a year. Just because she fucked up in the beginning doesn't mean her intent was to disrespect me. You should always be tr…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:36 PM
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If she gave you an excuse & bothered to re-schedule, then stop being a butthurt aspie and just text back "Cool" or to another day that works better for you. Shit happens, people have other plans - gotta differentiate between a shit-test and just plain coincidence.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:20 PM
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Just find someone else, not worth your time. She drags you along with the hope that you're gonna start hamstering your way into spending more time with her/paying more attention to her (with texts, etc...) If a woman wants to be with you, trust me you'll know. It's really easy to differentiate between a woman who wants/needs your time vs. a woman whose time you want/need.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:18 PM
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Friend:"Lmao dude was that a neg??" [In-front of the chick I was approaching? Really?] Me: "..." Friend:"Haha he's on the 'eat nothing' diet" [Grilled chicken and beans are nothing? Nah gummie bears are better right] Me:"Stay fat, man" Friend:"Haha dude at least I know my girl isn't a slut" [You've had the same fat pussy once a week for 3 years and you're 24] Me:"Keep up the good work" Same guy tends to shy away when women or other dudes compliment me on how I look etc. The Jello-Bros are easy t…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:38 PM
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Yaknow, I stopped visiting this sub often because of life, but I still drop by from time to time and IllimitableMan is always posting gold. Thanks for the renewed clarity of purpose and for re-focusing my intentions.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:17 PM
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Move on, don't question every interaction with every woman - especially not an ex. Amused mastery all the time, every time. If you sounded butthurt saying that you probably looked like a spastic, if not you probably did good.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:26 PM
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No, but they all live with their parents. It's typical where I'm from to live with your parents till you're married.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:20 PM
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Besides car fucking and getting rooms how do you figure this out?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 09:09 PM
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My experience is most people quit lifting when they go "home gym" mode. It makes people lazy. I hate going outside but still do it for the gym 3x a week because it's somewhere else and I have to make time for it. If my gym was in my house I wouldn't have to make time for it, and that would probably disincentivize me from using it. TLDR: owning gym equipment don't make you lift more frequently or with more attention/focus.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:41 PM
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I know... It was futile. I think it's time for a break from this sub till shit goes back to normal.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 09:41 PM
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So do I man, it drives me to over-achieve or push further than my body wants to let me. It's not a bad thing, you just need to learn how to say "I tried my best, I'll do it better next time", and learn to forgive mistakes or failures.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:24 PM
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This might be relevant. If it makes you feel any better I worked out for 5 years before I started genuinely seeing progress. Some people just take forever to bulk up but when it gets on it stays on. We're all gonna make it brah
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:51 PM
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Thank you for the voice of reason. Sometimes it's an uphill battle.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 08:03 PM
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It's more like a church than a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 07:40 PM
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Trump ran a better campaign without a doubt. Hillary was also an awful choice, the DNC fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:30 PM
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In your particular case, I would agree. If the victory is yours because you genuinely played a part in it, then it's your chance to celebrate your victories. You earn the right to savor victory. But keep in mind, even given your greater than average involvement in the Trump movement you still didn't post a shit thread about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:27 PM
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Exactly, this is all I was trying to say put more eloquently. Somehow this post turned partisan.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:22 PM
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You're so far off the point you're lost.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:22 PM
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You need new friends. OR spend less time on facebook and concerning yourself with random peoples' opinions.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:37 PM
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Political situation update? *edit: I've been reading what's going on but I'm curious what it's like on the inside. Are you guys with Erdogan or is he actually as crazy as the media makes him out to be?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:47 PM
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I guess different chicks different tastes. It also depends how your chest hair grows and how it feels. Everyone's different!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 12:54 AM
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Dont shave your chest brah, chicks love hairy chests. Also fuck that, you're a man and you are supposed to have a hairy chest.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 07:25 PM
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It's been about seniority from the beginning; TRP is a church.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 06:06 PM
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Same boat, different story: You need to forget your ego and let things slide - not because you forgive them or they are worth forgiving, but because you don't want anything they do, or say, or imply to ever come back to you or bother you in any way. The only way to win is to be so amused mastery they can't fucking help but smile and be nice to you, because when they aren't you just don't give a fuck anymore. Tips: use the word "ok" to deflate and end conversations you have no interest in having,…
/r/askTRP04/11/16 06:01 PM
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Yeah, that happens with time. But if you can't let go of the idea of fucking her then you're already losing the game because you are chasing and she is the prize. Be self-evidently awesome. The point where you know people want to talk to you because you've talked to so many people and they've responded favorably. Know you can hold an interesting conversation because every week you talk to people and they keep talking and engaging and asking questions because you are interesting. If you don't kno…
/r/askTRP04/11/16 01:58 PM
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Talk to people everywhere all the time and not for sex, like everyone. Old people, people with dogs, hot chicks, fat chicks, douchebags, homeless guys. I mean once you can talk to everyone talking to a girl with intent is a lot easier. Also protip cuz I fuck this up: you have to keep doing it because when you stop for a bit it's a lot harder to get back into the groove.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 12:50 PM
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She had a party last night and I told her I wanted to end things over her behaviour and she started having a full blown 2/3 hour panic attack and was screaming and everyone was so worried. So I decided she was actually telling the truth and took her back Stopped reading there. She goes full fuckin' AWALT and you take her back? God forbid everyone be anything but "worried" when a woman loses her mind.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 12:44 PM
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You are being outcome dependent
/r/askTRP04/11/16 12:41 PM
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That's why I put it under the mod comment and not as it's own comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 06:02 PM
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The context is similar to drug use/sale though. There is criminal activity in drug dealing, but very little in drug using. Same is true for prostitution, in the sense that some women are in a situation they can't change (same as drug addicts), and instead of being persecuted they need to be provided with "clean needles" so they can get out. That being said, I don't defend Sweden. The ring may be criminal but the men paying for prostitutes probably have nothing to do with the criminality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:29 PM
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I would run for the hills, but I'd pass by Hills Hospital on the way to get my dick checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:23 PM
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Shithouse person. That's going in the holster, for science purposes...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:22 PM
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Unless someone states outright that they are opposed to men buying sex, I would assume that being for women selling sex has to entail being for men buying it... Unless we're talking lesbian prostitution rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:21 PM
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I would argue being redpill means being not blue pill. Or rather, being aware of "blue pill mindset" as an idea and being opposed to it. If sexual strategy kept it's original name for men, it would be called "PUA", but instead it's being called Redpill by some peeps, and I'm sure in 5-10 years it'll be called something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:17 PM
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TBH I'd be surprised if all feminists thought along these lines; this one article is hypocritical, and upon closer inspection: In short, the sex industry exists because we live in a capitalist patriarchy that places men, as a class, in a position of power over women, as a class. Within this system women’s bodies are seen as and treated as existing “for men” — for their use, for their pleasure. She's nuts. In her mind this is class warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:14 PM
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Keep hanging out with friends, keep socializing, keep talking to people. The longer you go not talking to people the harder it is to start again. Don't isolate yourself at all, just work on your SMV and have a good time with friends on downtime.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:07 PM
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Practice, practice, practice. Takes time, and everyone fails at some point. Goal is to get back in and keep learning. Good luck mate, I'd stay away from adderall but your life your problems.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:03 PM
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You're not trying to be a douchebag, you're trying to be genuine. There's a difference, but some people think genuine you is a douchebag. Some people really like you, so much so they fuck you. If you're just trying to game by being a legit douche no one will like you.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:38 PM
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That's not body language, that's posturing. I knew a guy who never sat down on the train and always had to be in front of the group. No one liked him.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:12 PM
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I assume you mean post-coitus. I tend to talk about whatever I'm passionate about, like music or my career or some book I read or some political or historical context I feel is relevant to the conversation. I rarely divulge personal information/what I'm doing who I'm seeing and where I am ever.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:04 PM
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I think you're on the wrong sub
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:26 PM
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I would argue men and women are conditioned towards different ends. Men are conditioned to take more responsibility and are expected to bear through such responsibilities without saying a word of complaint. I'm not talking about people's individual personalities, I'm talking about societal conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 04:31 PM
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No, not always, just more than women. Then again you aren't conscious of the differences between absolutes and conditionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 04:02 PM
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She either wants to fuck you or she doesnt. If she does, your double message is enough for her to respond. If not, then she wont. Leave it, find someone else.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 03:37 PM
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I have morals and principles and would never subject another person to that kind of torture, whether or not it works aside. You're basically asking if the ends justify the means, and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:33 PM
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Yeah I need more on this. Men generally are conditioned specifically to take responsibility. We are almost raised to look for it and carry it like it's our job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:31 PM
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I think the issue here is not understanding that men don't choose women for "romantic and emotional reasons" any more than women do. Women's mechanism for attraction involves getting value out of the men. Men with higher status > emotional connection will be more attractive. If a man her age is attractive, wealthy, intelligent, and can provide her with the life she wants, she will prefer him every time to the man who knows, talks, and shares feelings with her, and the woman will believe in any c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:06 PM
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Use a thimble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:38 PM
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I finally understand your username
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:35 PM
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So stop putting it on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:33 PM
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I like having sex, but there is more than that. Translation: "acting all gangster like "pussy ain't a thing." lelel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:31 PM
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The universe is governed by laws of physics not human consciousness. We would be very arrogant to think otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 10:42 AM
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Right, so you want the madonna/whore. You want her to have whore tendencies, but only with you. You want her to seem like a Madonna to everyone else.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:16 PM
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My point was to draw a comparison. I don't pick boxers or briefs cuz of my sex partners, I pick it based on comfort.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:09 PM
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I've never fucked a whistle but I guess it would be tight huh
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:03 PM
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This is the /fit/ sticky, and it is the only thing you will need to read on fitness.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:01 PM
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What's the difference between a man who wears boxers and a man who wears boxer briefs? I think it's a comfort thing. The underwear they choose when you guys are gonna fuck is specifically their 'good underwear', but it changes from woman to woman.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 07:38 PM
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mfw it's just american politics ヽ(´ー｀)ノ
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 07:29 PM
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I currently do Muay once a week, because it's only for the purpose of cardio. I'm cutting right now - I go to the gym 3 times a week and run twice a week. Plus Muay thai that's 6 days of exercise a week. I don't go over 1700-1.8k cals per day, but I'm relatively well built so that's pretty low for me. First things first, if you're bulking and not lifting you're just getting fatter. If you think you're skinny fat rn then I would focus on cutting first and bulking later. While bulking you definite…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 07:22 PM
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On it, thanks brah. Always looking for new shit to listen to
/r/askTRP19/10/16 07:02 PM
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Ummmm yeah you're wrong.... Because they are daughters? Who wants a whore for a daughter? Or a sister? Or a mother? I don't think people on TRP get this but the male fantasy is an oxymoron: we want the madonna/whore. We want a virgin who is also a whore. When it comes to dating, we want whores more than virgins, but with daughters/relatives we want virgins more than whores. We're wired weird.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 07:00 PM
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It was a few things. I started out floundering for the first two years (was in highschool), not really doing the right routine. I didn't control my diet once I got my routine in check, and didn't realize it's importance. Once I finally got all the information I needed and started performing the exercises correctly and eating properly I lost the weight in about 4-5 months. Couldn't see any of the muscle mass before I lost the weight either, which is why I phrased it "looked it". I was lifting hea…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:55 PM
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The thug/gangster shit Tupac put out was also great. (Can't C Me, 2 of Amerikaz Most Wanted) Lots of NWA (I Ain't Tha 1, A Bitch is a Bitch) Most of Ice Cube (It Was A Good Day) Special points for Kendrick - I and Futuristic - Too Easy I will give The Weeknd a shot, only ever heard the Hills.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:51 PM
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Sounds good to me brah, whatever works for you. I do muay thai classes too, try that or another fighting sport. They are a great way to get extra cardio in and to help give more confidence in the gym and otherwise. Also depending on your goals (gain mass or lose fat?) that might be too much cardio. Idk why you keep adding a vest either.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:38 PM
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I was 230lb @ 6'1, without any muscle mass
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:34 PM
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I get 8-9 hours on Friday and Saturday night, but on weekdays I settle for 7. I'm usually tired in the morning but it goes away after the gym - I guess 7 is enough for me though...
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:22 PM
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I think he means that gender is not a law, like gravity or entropy. The universe would be just fine without genders.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 06:12 PM
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I had the same issue for a while - friends and family telling me I'm attractive but it didn't help my game. Took some time but it internalizes slowly and eventually you think you're hot shit. Although, as with everyone, there's always low points where you don't believe in yourself or don't trust your progress or don't think you've got what it takes but those moments pass the moment you think about something else.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:59 PM
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So then you're relatively attractive at least, and a few more months (at least another 6) at the gym doing the right routine and eating the right food your confidence should rise. The thing about lifting that makes most veteran TRPers preach it, is that after you have made the progress and the gains you always wanted, you act in such a confident and charismatic manner because of all the energy and effort you've put in. You just like yourself more, and that makes game flow easier. So definitely g…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:47 PM
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There's nothing wrong with connecting with women bro, I feel TRP reader take things too literally sometimes. You can connect with a woman on a personal level, she will share information and you can listen and be 'caring yet distant'. You can provide advice, if you want to. I think the rule of thumb is just not to share too much on your end. Seeking validation/support for your problems from her is where she starts to lose respect for you.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:35 PM
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I sleep at 10pm every night, wake up at 5:00/5:30 every morning except for weekends. This allows me time to lift/run and shower and head out to work. I am usually tired, as you say, by like 4:30-5:00, but after work is done and you're home cooking or whatever it doesn't really matter. I tend to feel a second wind around 6-7 then I'm good till sleep time.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:30 PM
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I've been lifting for 7 years now, but it took me about 2-3 before I even looked it. It takes time, be patient. In terms of dates, you should be out trying to talk to more people; 1 date in 18 months seems low to me. If you are actively looking for sex/plates then start approaching more women and start making it part of your routine. In terms of your passions and hobbies, you should already be seeing an imporvement. Even in the gym, your lifts should be higher, you should feel better, you should…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:27 PM
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I'm never wrong though, even when she's right. I can't find the "post jokes here" mod post, so deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 04:05 PM
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We have a weekly troll meeting so I know who to avoid. Although srysly: trolls and fakers don't offer useful advice. Doesn't matter who it comes from - if it's rational and improves your life you take it in; if it's someone jacking themselves off then you leave it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:53 PM
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How am I supposed to waste time at work with science... You're right. I'm a part of the problem now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:51 PM
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First of all short women are attractive, not unattractive. It's not the same rule as men. Second, pics or we can't answer - I think the only harsh truth women need to understand is that men base their mating choices on attraction and attraction for men is based on looks. Tight body? Sure. Submissive personality? That helps, but there are tons of attractive women who have very dominant personalities who have the high value men because high value men, like all other men, care about looks.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:36 PM
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I mean having regular access to people who have achieved the goals you want to achieve actively responding to you is more likely to get you to change than if it was all archived and was a passing "idea" that you could consider. I think TRP intends to be a movement of sorts; it wouldn't retire itself because it wants to change more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:24 PM
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Wait... what are the other 10%? I would subscribe to those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:19 PM
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I happen to believe evolving past it means getting to the singularity, becoming computerized memories, and becoming Borg. Resistance is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:16 PM
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LEL Without sex none of us would be here, there would be no civilizations, and ASSUMING WE HAD ANOTHER WAY TO REPRODUCE AT THE SAME RATE, we would all have absolutely no motivation to do anything. Sex is a need, and it does trigger impulses in humans; in fact I would go so far as to say everything is motivated by sex. In that sense, we need it to keep the gears turning, keep the men and women competing, and keep propelling the growth of civilizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:07 PM
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I don't particularly understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:41 PM
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Unless that was the case across the board, en mass (i.e across all socio-economic and cultural boundaries) there will always be a difference. The reason being that taboos and value judgements are always socially conditioned. Case in point, if sex wasn't ever mentioned or restricted or controlled by parents, media, teachers, etc... (say, like food in most cultures) then you'd have a range of people from sex addicts (see obese peeps) to prudes (see anorexic peeps). I think that in the end anyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:33 PM
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I'd spin the plate if I were you, so long as it doesn't need too much energy. If the guy comes back into the picture you say you thought she was single - and you're done with her. I highly doubt any of this will come back to haunt you. You'll probably remember it fondly as that one time you were the chad.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:52 PM
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Well my point was more to illustrate the difference in context. Women who have a high n-count simply succumbed to many different partners without consideration, forethought, or reference to a personal standard for mating. Compare this to the glutton, who cannot control his desire for food. Men who have high n-counts tend to be high value, confident, witty, attractive, generally extroverted, and socially connected. Compare this to the prince, who is able to attain whatever he wants. The differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:47 PM
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Ohhhhh I see. You have to make that decision for yourself - I probably would depending on how hot she was. If she was worth the time and energy, then yeah. If the boyfriend is a crazy jealous person he could try to take out the anger on you; just to make himself feel better. Keep that in mind if you wanna move forward with her.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:40 PM
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TBH I wouldn't be surprised if both genders had an equally unsettled reaction to someone with a high partner count (20-30+) because the very value of sex is access, and access means nothing if it isn't exclusive. You wouldn't be flattered being allowed into a smoking room at an airport, because anyone can get into it. If you got access to the first class lounge, however, you'd have a change of heart - only a select few are allowed access to that privilege. The gender difference comes into play w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:34 PM
2

"I'm so sad, she only wanted sex" - said no man ever. Men don't get remorseful for having fun kinky dominating sex with a random bar slag you'll never see again - that being said I'd go for it, given she is willing to give you pussy for low effort/investment on your part. Pound that pussy till she decides she's ready for another 'Tender Caring Man™'
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:54 PM
2

You don't have to pay at the date. Venue doesn't matter too much, whatever works (bar, coffee, walk, picnic, etc...) and then try to escalate/get her back to your place. Once you guys have had sex at some point or another she'll try to figure out "where this is going", either by being OK with a purely sexual relationship or you have to tell her that's all you're looking for. Really she becomes a plate as soon as you two fuck, then after that is up to you to decide the direction it moves in - hav…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:48 PM
2

Try not to want attention from everyone all the time, maybe you won't be as unsatisfied with your life.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:18 PM
2

Sure, I'm just saying seeking an emotional connection is fine but seek it from a man not a woman. There's always hidden tension with women, either your end or hers.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:19 PM
1

Get a buddy or a dog then, not a woman.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:13 PM
5

Unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 08:08 PM
1

You want to trade sex for an emotional connection?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:05 PM
0

In the West? Dun look like it.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:57 PM
2

The value for men in virginity is losing it. Not having it = more perceived/attributed value. Opposite of women, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 07:43 PM
1

Agreed - Never set up the next date while you're on one. Let em hamster your image up a bit.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:53 PM
2

It's a typical us vs. them situation. You see it in politics, you see it between countries, you see it within an individual country, you see it between girls and boys in the school yard, you see it here on PPD and everywhere else. It's us vs. them and I think it's the primary reason we as humans are unable to move past our societally engrained violent and warring tendencies. There is honor to be gained from defending your own against the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 04:52 PM
0

Ohhhh, nah. Some dads are RP and poor, some dads are RP and rich. I don't think there's any relation whatsoever; if there was Beta Bux wouldn't be a thing.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:59 PM
1

I'm sure some of them were in some ways blue pill, and in other ways red pill. Everyone's on a continuum from super beta to super alpha and everyone has traits in both camps. No one is totally ascribed to one over the other; except maybe Genghis Khan.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:50 PM
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Dude who gives a fuck live your own life
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:47 PM
2

So is he
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:11 PM
7

Oneitis into confusion into TRP into anger into understanding what the fuck I couldn't understand for about 3 years. Before the oneitis though I thought TRP was a clusterfuck of misogyny, now I don't give a fuck and have a good understanding of gender dynamics.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 12:59 PM
2

When's the wedding?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:41 AM
3

Keep your comments to yourself, and don't stoke the flame if you like them as friends (source: same boat) Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:26 AM
1

Both men and women would appreciate this feature tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:51 PM
1

I'm 100% with you on Roissy and Roosh, and PUA is toxic trash but was necessary to reach Rollo levels of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:19 PM
1

But I should qualify this by saying that I wouldn't mix with most of the population. I only mix with intelligent people and they are in short supply. Ok Yeah, but I'm not talking about meeting in person. I'm not going to meet you in person. Hypotheticals are too complicated for a man of your intelligence? Did I say women should get together and 'shit on men'? No, but you equate men who do with neo nazis, do you similarly equate women who do as neo nazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:16 PM
2

So have I and many of my friends. TRP and firsthand experience has helped me get over the shame though, at least in part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:52 PM
2

Well said, /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:34 PM
5

I come from a conservative society and as such completely understand your predilection. I happen to agree with most of what you say; though I do think women getting more used to rejecting and men getting more used to approaching will make everyone so much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:18 PM
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So men can't handle relationships if they don't understand womens' covert methods of communication? What about women using men's overt method of communication? What about men learning the covert communication through experiences? Men have to approach to learn, they have to escalate to learn, and they have to take a chance at being rejected to learn. They can't do all of that if they are shamed for it from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:57 PM
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I've never walked up to a girl in a bar or club and gotten anything worse than a scoff and a "no", but while growing up for the longest time I didn't flirt, approach, or try with women because I was specifically told not to look at women the wrong way, and specifically taught not to approach/escalate with women because they don't want to be objectified. Now, as a kid, I had no experience so I had to base my actions off of the words of others. In a media that is saturated with feminist ideals and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:54 PM
4

Wow... neo-Nazis? For reals? Aight well that, like you said, is your opinion. You are entitled to it. I have had the complete opposite experience on TRP, and I bet you would never know I was 'rp' (as stupid as I think that identification is) if we ever met in person. Then again, I hate nazis more than I hate TRP. I'm not saying that to be inflammatory I'm sure you aren't [not being sarcastic], but it just sounds like you hate masculinity. Men aren't allowed to shit on women in their own spaces, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:46 PM
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No: you USED to be shamed all the time. Now for the most part, you aren't shamed. Now for the most part (I'm talking the west, not eastern or more conservative countries) women are encouraged to dress as they like, fuck as they like, and be as sexual as they like - men on the other hand are told to stop raping stop sexually assaulting and stop being toxic with their masculinity. There's your problem right there. Be nice to women because they are people and you should be nice to them. Sure, if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:36 PM
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All is opinion, and you are entitled to yours. My worldview was shaped by my experiences and the experiences of my buddies, who all had difficulty dealing with this imposed sexual shame. Based simply on a quick history search, you're just under 20 years my senior. We could have very well had completely different experiences growing up, but I promise you the shame is real and you can see it on the face of every guy my age. There are a few exceptions, but those guys are natural extroverts. You're …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:31 PM
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This has nothing to do with me, or bad approaches. This is about teaching men to want to approach in the first place. Why do you think so many men have approach anxiety? Because their whole lives they've been taught "be nice, be a woman's friend, and you will get what you want". Why do you think the friendzone exists in the first place? How many men vs. women in the friendzone, do you think? Men are ashamed of their sexuality, women are empowered by it. Men are TAUGHT to be ashamed of their sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:00 PM
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Not what I'm saying at all - though it's been misconstrued as that by two other people. I'm trying to say that men shouldn't have the burden of shame. I.e. men shouldn't be shamed out of approaching or escalating, and instead should be encouraged to do so. The rejection should be the woman's responsibility: i.e. the woman should accept responsibility of having to reject the advances of attracted men, and not take it as a personal attack or a sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:36 PM
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If you get turned down for asking someone out (man or woman) you need to be able to deal with that emotion like an adult. So yeah, you don't understand whatsoever. I understand that if I approach a woman and get rejected, there's nothing wrong with that and I can walk away happy knowing I did what I could. Let me rephrase: by burden of responsibility, I mean it is the woman's responsibility to reject a man, not a man's responsibility to reject himself before approaching, escalating, going for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:32 PM
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Again, you just don't understand what I'm saying... Instead of teaching boys to stay away from girls, teach boys to try approaching girls, and then walk away when they are rejected. Instead of teaching boys that they shouldn't look at women, or try and approach them, or try and escalate - tell them they shouldn't be ashamed of how they feel, and rejection is part of the process. It's literally the exact same thing as slut shaming: tell women not to be scantily clad, then blame them for getting g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:19 PM
2

mmmm I stand corrected
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:11 PM
2

mmmm I stand corrected
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:10 PM
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You are suggesting that men's sexuality revolves around being able to proceed with approaches, touches, and kisses... regardless of whether the woman is interested or not. No, I'm suggesting that men's sexuality is shamed. You aren't even trying to understand what I'm saying, you're trying to become outraged. Are you that unable to control yourself in public that serial groping is a reasonable thing to expect when you go out in public? What the fuck are you even talking about? You cannot handle …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:07 PM
3

Rarely, if ever seriously. If someone called me a stud I'd push my chest out and start listening to Stayin' Alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:30 PM
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This is what I intend to mean; I'm not saying all women I interact with are like this - I'm saying that this is what men are taught and why they have problems with the current sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:15 PM
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Basically, RP is an incredible tool for de-pedestalizing women in the minds of men who have overly pedestalized women. BP men are men who have never, or have only rarely put women on a pedestal; as such they see posts as 'common sense' or 'disgusting bigotry/misogyny'. Whether or not BP men use RP theory and tactics is a different inference, that would suggest cognitive dissonance - I simply suggest the harshness of the content is necessary for the de-pedestalization of women in the minds of fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:17 PM
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I think it all boils down to methodology. Blue pillers who are successful with women are generally repulsed by the dogma on TRP that AWALT and whatnot. They have a problem with the way we present the ideas. Blue pillers who aren't successful with women generally either turn to TRP/PUA/MGTOW sooner or later, or embrace their feminized mindset and continue into inceldom/watching anime and posting internet memes. In a BP mind, all the shit that guys learn over on TRP should be 'obvious' and 'come n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:00 PM
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It's about respecting the boundaries of the person you are talking to. What makes you think I'm not condoning respecting boundaries? Again you expect the escalation to be unwanted/undesired. In essence you teach men not to touch women - ever - because some women might not be into them. It's a scare tactic and it works on most men nowadays. If i don't want to be touched by you, don't touch and don't try to escalate How am I supposed to know if you want to be touched by me? All I can know is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 02:02 PM
4

telling people that it is OK to touch a woman without her consent when you first meet her, pretending that when she says no it mean yes, tractics to overcome LMR I responded very specifically to what he/she said. It implies that men can't be trusted with touching and flirting and trying to escalate with women because they will impose and create discomfort in some way - i.e sexual assault or rape. If men are taught to be ashamed of their sexuality then no one would ever get laid because men aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:42 PM
1

If it was easy for most men to get casual sex, then waaaay less people would be getting married. I'd argue that prostitution would lose it's taboo and it would become a choice entirely based on looks for men - in addition to approaching regular women on the daily for more personal/emotional/bonding reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:10 PM
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Do you expect men to ask before they touch a woman's shoulder every time they're on a date? How about before kissing? Should we just keep asking before we do anything "Can I touch you? Can I kiss you? Can we have sex?" Your response is the reason why men need TRP. Your excuse is probably "but...rape", and my response is RAPISTS are RAPISTS. Men aren't rapists. To expect all men to rape is literally the most revolting stance I've seen. And just to set the record straight: TRP doesn't say "when sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:06 PM
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For reference one of my exes was suicidal, and if there's one thing I learned from that experience it's that it isn't your responsibility to make people feel better - you do that by being there and chilling. If you want to be spending extended amounts of time with this woman in the hopes to one day fuck her, then you should cut your losses and walk. If you want to be her friend and listen to her talk about her boyfriend then just do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 12:50 PM
1

TRP does everything to show you why you're wrong, though. You might not agree with it, but you won't be kicked out for it. And no one is muted for asking questions, unless it's not on the right sub. People with stupid opinions are called stupid, and then corrected. Insulting people straight up without reason is rarely ever condoned, and TRP tends to also incorporate a 'big brother' mentality, where we're trying to shit on while simultaneously helping anyone who comes in with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 12:48 PM
1

Tinder pics: first one with another girl, one or two solo, two more with friends/family. No shirtless pic, because that's my choice and I don't seem to need one. I'm relatively muscular - 275 DL, though I wouldn't call myself swole. 10-12% bodyfat fluctuating back and forth, race unrelated imo
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:41 PM
1

Morning gym is best gym. Go lift before you do anything else. If you have to wake up at 7 for work, get up at 5 and go lift. It'll become so easy to do and so much more enjoyable.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:04 PM
1

I've had no problems. Latinas, black girls, Asian girls, white girls, the whole rainbow America has to offer.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:50 AM
1

You don't tell people to respect you, you show them they should through your thoughts, actions, behaviors.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:43 AM
1

Bro your oneitis is leaking. Go fuck more other chicks.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:36 AM
3

Bang some chicks, make some friends
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:33 AM
1

Read the sticky, it's starting strength. It's the best routine for the first 6 months of lifting bar none. It'll get you max strength gains for a newbie.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:28 AM
2

Nattyly
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:33 PM
2

Naturally
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:32 PM
1

Do you ever ask yourself, if she is just genuinely busy? And you should just table your high standards? I used to, all the time. I've learned that if they are interested and genuinely busy, the provide more of an answer than "I can't make it" or "No", rather they will say something like "I can't do Friday! But I can do Monday and Tuesday!! let me know if those days work for you!!!!!" and a whole litany of other exclamation marks/emojis. Basically, they will let you know if they like you and want…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:23 PM
1

Again, I'm fully aware of the oneitis that I am exhibiting, and I do know I have plenty of options available to me at this very moment One of my plates texted me earlier today telling me she can't make the date I set for this weekend, and I'm literally not even bothered to text her back - I have other women to replace her this weekend. I'll see if she's down next weekend, but the point is I'm not bothered if I never see her again. If I was ONEitised, I would care. If you genuinely had lots of op…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:13 PM
2

Who cares move on and fuck another chick. She sounds like an unstable complicated waste of time.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:02 PM
1

Complaining won't help you - just move out as soon as you can. Spend your time in the apartment away from him, or away from the apartment altogether. Stop going out with him. 3/3 problems solved. Just need to be patient.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:00 PM
1

SS 3x/wk Run 3x/wk Eat high protein, medium carbs, low fats Count calories until you don't have to anymore READ THE FUCKING STICKY
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:53 PM
1

Try being more direct and to the point with Tinder. Try approaching more women outside - I'm sure you've read enough about it on the main sub. Just talk to women you see who you think are attractive, and also make a habit of talking to everyone about everything that comes to mind.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:50 PM
1

Are you in commited relationship/fwb arrangement, series of ons, on a dry spell/a virgin/etc.? 2 plates atm Are you dating up/down? Are you happy with current situation? Both, including my exes are all dating down. content Do you feel you got lucky/worked hard to achieve it/are held down by some circumstances? Both fortune and hard work combined Do you plan to change something about it? Quality of girl? Time will tell - I've got time to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:38 PM
6

This I agree with. The first option was me for a while - well adjusted, athletic, hard working, and fell into relationships every now and then; the thing is until TRP I couldn't understand how or why, or how to control/guide that relationship in the way I wanted. I just think there's a subset of us who seeeeriously bought all the feminist crap we were taught - and needed TRP to reverse engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:21 PM
1

So last approach I did was someone in my building, so we had seen each other once or twice before. The one before was after my muay thai class. It's just as effective as Tinder, only Tinder needs me to put in much less effort. I text a few times, set up a date, and plate mode within a week or two. I prefer Tinder only because it's easier - without real life approaching I would've never learned how to be genuine in person. I don't even necessarily mean talk to women on the streets, but just getti…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:53 PM
2

I'm same boat as you, friends wise. The group I'm currently around is nothing like my old group of bros, it's a lot more BP and feminized. I use tinder, have a few plates from that. Approaches are mostly when I go out, and otherwise at my passions (gym, muay thai class, work area [not co-workers, just the building]). I'm super introverted though so I hate going to clubs to pickup, but you could always try solo game at a bar.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:20 PM
1

I've gotten good responses when we're sexting back and forth, or we're sending lude snaps. Thing is it's always a response to her wanting some attention, wanting you to see her body, whatever else. If you're OK with that, then go ahead. Also, I haven't done this with a non-LTR because it suggests commitment in my mind, but I know of people who do. I would never send a random chick a dick pic before ever being sexual with her/close/personal. That's just me, to each their own. I highly doubt a ran…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:16 PM
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The only real way this makes sense is if you gain self-esteem, self-worth, and value from having sex. If you believe sex is your end-goal, and that you do everything you do for sex, then obviously after you have the sex you worked for, you'll stop working for a bit. Focus on you. You are unhappy with skipping gym, you need to eat healthy to live a good life, you need to work hard and focus on your career/passions. It's your responsibility, and sometimes doing it when you don't want to is exactly…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:50 PM
2

Dude you need to find other women to pursue. You are talking about two other peoples' lives and think somehow your life is intertwined - just move on and find someone else.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:36 PM
1

Demote to plate and find other partners. If she's not comfortable with that end it. Or do yourself a favor: realize you have ONEitis, and dump her ass - the fact that she was an ex is reason enough imo.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:34 PM
3

If you're ashamed of your sexuality you will never get laid.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 02:37 PM
1

She mentioned she doesin't like serious commited relationships (but she says she haven't dated anyone before) Wat? that doesn't even make sense. Next time don't be so direct, escalate and amused mastery your way into her pants. I say move on and find someone else. If she wants to fuck she'll come back to you.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 02:36 PM
3

Be careful, your call if you wanna keep it going. Keep an eye out? I wouldn't LTR a CC girl.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 02:31 PM
6

Have you fucked another girl? The best way to get over someone is to get under someone.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 02:30 PM
1

No porn and cut down the fapping to once every 1 to 2 weeks
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:37 PM
2

I would say approaching people every day and talking to them is perfect practice for what you're trying to learn. Just get used to talking about anything with anyone. The more you do it the less frightening/challenging it becomes.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:28 PM
2

ummmmmmmmm I really don't know, but I'm leaving a comment because I'm so curious as to why this would happen...
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:22 PM
1

I mean it really shouldn't phase you right? If you have abundance she can say whatever and you couldn't care less; I usually would just say something along the lines of: silence or "mm" or "that's nice" "ok" "sounds like you were meant to be, what are you doing here?"
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:21 PM
2

It's all ego - you think her leaving reflects on your capacity to attract women; you're caught up in imagination and considering all the possible reasons why she left and how you could've done better and... and... and... Just distract yourself in the short term, and a more long term one is get more options. Start sleeping with other women etc, the ECs have already addressed your problem better than I could.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:35 PM
3

Mate speaking from personal experience: you want her to know you're interested grab her by the small of the back, put your hands through her hair, grab the back of her neck and go for the kiss.... She either pushes you away, in which case you're done and she knows your intention embraces you and kisses you back, in which case you're done and she knows your intention Going for the kiss/makout is the most efficient way for you to get your answer. You just need to grow the balls to do it - and trus…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:33 PM
3

I disagree with just about 95-99% of political and cultural views on TRP, and yet I'm active and follow the sub. I can take the sexual strategy and leave the politics; it's not like I'm forced to participate or believe what they believe. With regards to your question: I think most people who disagree with TRP politically or economically or culturally wouldn't ever bring it up because just like every other sub on reddit, it's a circlejerk and you're just asking for a torrent of downvotes - the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:03 PM
1

Bro just wear some clothes, don't worry about every aspect of it. Go and have fun.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:40 PM
8

She sounds toxic, peace the fuck out mate Either that or she has a seriously committed response to quid-pro-quo and hasn't treated you poorly at all and doesn't deserve any of the dread/nexting/whatever else. Somehow I doubt that though...
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:39 PM
6

Focus on being a man you would look up to*
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:37 PM
1

Yeah seriously, I'm just curious. What do you call the external input we get from TRP, or manosphere blogs, or books, or documentaries, or mark passio, or anything else? Doesn't that just make MGTOW another hive mind?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 02:09 PM
1

How can you gain self-knowledge without external input?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 01:35 PM
8

Where you meet all other women: outside
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:44 AM
1

Don't sweat it; think of it all as a part of your sexual strategy. You try something, see if it works, adjust, and try again. Any strategy has parts that will fail to achieve their desired outcome; in the end so long as you follow the strategy you will get laid and that's really the end goal here.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:48 PM
12

Slutty girls are the extroverted chads of the female population. That's like saying chads get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:30 PM
1

How don't they know your name from Tinder? Your name is right there... With regards to texts here's what I do, seems to work for me: 1- Start off light and flirty - something simple and nonthreatening 2- Rapport for 2-3 texts, maybe more maybe less depending on how receptive she is 3- Go for the number close and try to schedule something that same week/a few days down the line, you wanna see her face to face as soon as possible to start kino and escalating 4- If she pushes back, or tries to post…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:09 PM
3

Yo fuck your ex, bring new girl home and fuck her. Ex can stay mad if she gets mad; just reverse the situation: would she bring a man home if she could? Would she give a shit if you were hurting because of it? She'd probably enjoy the fact that she's fucking and you're sitting in the next room alone. Don't be completely open when new girl asks who your roommate is "An acquaintance" or something of the like. But bring her home and fuck her if that's what you want to do. Don't calibrate for the ex…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:44 PM
1

Next her, move on. Find other women.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:41 PM
1

she says it is because she is so busy in college and wants to find herself and enjoy the college experience without feeling guilty You don't buy that shit? She is effectively telling you outright she's getting ready to ride a bunch of cocks without a morsel of regret, so she needed you gone. Grow some nuts, forget about this chick, and find a bunch of new women to play with.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:22 PM
1

Plate the chick, I don't understand the question...
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:35 PM
2

Remember: Men show women the best of themselves: their humor, wit, intelligence, physicality, decisiveness, strength, protection, respect etc... takes all of that for them to fall in love with us Women show men their tits. It takes a low cut shirt for us to fall in love with them. TAME YOUR HIND BRAIN AND BE A RATIONAL MALE.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:12 PM
1

If you don't think you're worth dating, no one else will think you're worth dating. I'd suggest reading, trp sidebar, lifting, meditation, monk mode etc but all that shit is on TRP for you to read. Basically you were dealt a hand in life just like everyone else. The only difference is you have to be stronger and more resilient than others; doesn't sound like a bad thing to me.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:00 PM
1

I don't open my mouth. "To each their own" "Whatever makes them happy" "I guess it's just not for me" "Live and let live" There are hundreds of platitudes that we've invented that mean nothing and get people to shut up. It's weird and stupid but it works.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:53 PM
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Why would you care about someone before they invest time, energy, love, commitment, and attention? Don't give yourself up too easily; there's a time and a place for comfort and being 'good' to her, and there's a time and a place for being distant and setting boundaries. It's not that you're purposefully being mean to women, it's that you're so busy doing your own shit you can't be bothered caring about everything they think or do.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:52 PM
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Absolutely, don't get a membership till you can afford one... Start out running at least 5-10 minutes a day, and try to take it up if you can; most important thing is don't miss a day, be consistent, be patient.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:25 PM
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This is the best advice you can get rn. TBH most askTRP questions can be answered with "soft next and keep doing you".
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:07 PM
2

Don't talk gender dynamics using your newfound knowledge with anyone at all ever in any situation in real life ever period. It's a recipe for disaster.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:04 PM
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Men have LMR too, the less experience you have had the more our LMR pops up. It's basically your mind shitting itself for getting what it wants, and you hamster a reason to escape it. Same with everything else in life, it's hard, but worth it. Just power through next time and try to escalate.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:01 PM
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I've had my fair share of experiences with women who have psychological problems. IDK why but I seem to be very attracted to them before I know of their litany of problems. My advice is: break away and run brother. RUuuuuuuuuuuuUUUUN. My first LTR was a rape victim, same behavior, less disloyalty. Mine was a lot more committed to me and wanted me all to herself, she was open to me fucking other girls so long as I didn't 'fall for them', and so long as 'I was still hers'. The problem you're havin…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:53 PM
2

Drink water instead of soda. Food needs to be clean 6 days a week; one day off where you get to have some fun. On the 6 days, you eat only lean meats/clean protein (egg, whey, chicken breast) and small amounts of carbs (brown bread/rice, sweet potatoes, normal potatoes and normal rice is fine but keep it to 1 cup or less). The more cardio you do the faster you'll lose the weight. Remember it doesn't matter when you consume the calories, it matters how many calories you consume vs. burn. Keep tra…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:31 PM
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Let it go. Be better than the world, see it for what it is. TRP really changed my life and not in the 'now I know how to spin plates' way, but in the 'holy fucking shit everyone is fucked' kind of way.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:23 PM
1

I wonder if that's illegal though... I don't even think that's illegal esp if she sent them... And she's 18 now? Fuck it im not a lawyer.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 11:43 AM
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You're the only one who knows the relationship well enough to decide that. Make a decision yourself based on rational consideration of your experiences with one another. If the 50/50 dynamic doesn't change then I don't see a problem. If it does, you drop her then.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 11:40 AM
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Dynamic hasn't been sexual from the beginning, don't spend time trying to change it. If you wanted to bang her you should've gone in from the beginning. Doesn't mean you have no chances, but I'd take the money and do my job tutoring professionally.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 11:36 AM
3

Please introduce me to the little-known and undiscovered world of gym libraries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 06:06 PM
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I always hear a faint whisper in my ears whenever dealing with a maladjusted plate: "Take an L..." I like to believe it's Patrice speaking to me from the grave.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 05:15 PM
2

Only go if there's something specific and high earning that you can find employment in afterwards, and that requires a college degree. If you want to make furniture at a carpentry you shouldn't go to college. If you want to write music, you shouldn't go to college. If you want to be a personal trainer, you shouldn't go to college. Go to college to become a doctor, law, accountant, finance, psychiatrist, etc... things that are highly academic in their nature.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:13 PM
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If she postponed and left the city, then you just move on and do your own thing. If she's interested she'll get back in touch; that's when you schedule a meet, and go from there. The danger of being so committed to one woman before you've ever gotten anything out of her is you need to realize how irrational it is. She's probably hot, and that's why you feel the way you do. Remember being attractive doesn't mean she gets shelf-space in your brain. Respect begets respect, commitment begets commitm…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:10 PM
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Have you suggested meeting up? If yes: did she respond positively or negatively? If she responded negatively and gave a better option (other time, other day, other event) then she's interested. If she responded negatively but didn't give an alternative, she isn't interested. If she responds positively you don't need to be here.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:02 PM
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^ 1000000%
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:23 PM
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Read the following aloud: I am her bitch if I go back to her after she so blatantly disrespected our trust. Why are you so hooked? It's an emotional roller coaster and I really want to help you for some reason, but all I can say is she doesn't deserve your love. The best way I could describe this is ONEitis. She's fucking up, and you're for some reason very willing to forgive her even though she's trying to spread the blame across the two of you.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:10 PM
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Don't ever be overt, it's anti seductive. Text her to meet up, escalate at the date and gauge it. If she rejects the advance there's no shame involved so there's no downside. Enjoy fam
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:39 AM
1

So you're in control AFAIK, just be the alpha leader of the group, plan outings, shit like that. If you're the glue use it to gain social proof and approach outside. They will probably gain respect for you if you lead the pack, but again I don't think you should care what they think of you. There's always drama when living with women. They eat up reactions like we eat up complements.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:32 AM
1

I have been feeling a sort of depression with regards to how I feel around women now. It's almost comical how action/reactions work exactly as stated on TRP most of the time, and I go on dates and just feel like shit beforehand, game just fine during, make out, sex, whatever, then right after I feel just as shitty. I used to feel amazing after a lay, but now it's just... meh Life is full of fluctuations in your mood, primarily to do with chemical responses and shit we can't control, plus food, s…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:36 PM
1

How do the girls know the boys? My roommates and my 'other friends' never intersect. Hell my roommates have never met any of my plates either.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:26 PM
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Oh well that has everything to do with how you see yourself and what you actually look like. I get asked all the time - or I used to until some drama came about and I stopped interacting with the female in question.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:48 PM
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They are trying to get an emotional response from you. I am in a similar situation. Basically everyone's right, no cohabitation with women unless you're married in 6 months. My experience has taught me one thing above all else: just do your own thing, literally all the time, regardless of what they say or feel or imply. Don't change behavior unless they start speaking to you in contextual rather than subtextual ways. I.e: pls do this that or this other thing, thanks. Don't get in the habit of do…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 05:43 PM
2

Ah, but how much and when? That's my question.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 05:40 PM
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Cycles, every year the same thing. Winters are always slower and more depressing, especially in the Northeast. Only thing I'll add is keep following your daimon, and do what is righteous and true even when you don't feel as good as you did in summer. Slacking through winter will make next summer less epic.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 05:40 PM
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You won't feel good about it, probably because you're a good person. Let me explain: I told her I was done with her, she proceeded to cry (manipulate) and asked me not to end it with her, tell me she was sorry. But not once did she admit that she had done something wrong. Realising that I'd lost all frame and all control of the relationship... They will never admit to wrongdoing because they don't know they are doing something wrong. It's literally impossible for them to understand the mistakes …
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:29 PM
1

Aurelius talks about the daemon: the inner faculty, your personal god. If you finish the book he talks about it frequently, and it is what determines where inner strength comes from. The daemon knows what is true (good for you: lifting, healthy food, good sleep, hobbies, passions, work etc...) and false (bad for you: porn, drugs, alcohol, junk food, etc...) When your daemon speaks, it tells you "You shouldn't be playing games you should be studying right now" or "Get out of bed you have to make …
/r/askTRP04/10/16 12:29 PM
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narf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:25 PM
3

Prejudice and gender differences are two separate things. Men and women are different; stating that fact is not prejudiced. Whether or not people can be prejudiced is an entirely different and unrelated topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:25 PM
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TL;DR comments - TRP uses lots of anger and resentment to fuel the change from NiceGuy® to genuine person. Most people who just 'get it' or never needed the help will consider the content sexist. The moment it is labeled sexist, it becomes necessarily immoral. Some men need TRP to find truth, escape NiceGuy®ness, and become more genuine. There is currently no alternative to TRP available to them. When there are alternatives that work as well and achieve the same ends, then we can begin to discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 04:12 PM
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Only way you grow is by making mistakes and learning. Keep failing and remembering what you did wrong, keep correcting bad behaviors, and before you know it you won't be making as many mistakes. Also it'll help you get to the point where you do what you want for your own reasons, rather than carefully behaving around other peoples' expectations of you (which are often imagined, anyway).
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:51 PM
0

You balls shrink while you're on it, and though it reverses after you're done your cycle, it still sucks and seems unnatural to me. This isn't from fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 04:58 PM
2

It's super common; most really ripped guys (noticeably defined, with lots of mass and very little bodyfat) have used steroids/do use steroids. Up to a certain point it makes perfect sense to use it; you can cut without losing mass and you can bulk a lot more effectively. There's nothing like it. That being said, I'm never gonna do that shit cuz muh balls and I don't want a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 03:49 PM
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Oh dude good job. Yeah you should see confidence begin to uptick the more you talk to people, there's no alternative to practice. Also it takes a while to go from old confidence levels to 'shit I actually look pretty good/feel pretty good/am pretty good at this stuff'. Just keep at it you definitely have the mindset.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 02:56 PM
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I'm improving, lifting weights being friendly and funny and don't care too much about validation If you didn't care about validation you wouldn't care if they invited you. "You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend."
/r/askTRP30/09/16 02:34 PM
1

I thought incel just meant involuntary celibate? You can be normal and be celibate involuntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 08:01 PM
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Yeah but he's roided the fuck up too. You won't get a natty body like that in his timeframe, if ever. Natty bodies are a lot less insanely ripped.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 07:20 PM
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Mindset shmindset. Shit sets in FROM doing the work. That's like saying 'go to the gym when you feel like it'; No, just go to the gym and stop being a bitch. Incels need to be told not to be bitches. I've figured it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 07:19 PM
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How incels can improve: (list of 1000 things) Just lift, read, and talk to people (even though you don't want to). Bonus points if you have other hobbies and interests besides video games and Netflix. Bonus bonus points if you don't let other people treat you like dog shit and stand up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 07:13 PM
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I'm leaving the country in a few months, and by reduce the drama I mean in my life. I would care less what she shared with others if I knew I got what I wanted from her, and I know that what I want from her is pussy not friendship... I think by less drama I mean more peace of mind, for me. She's free to act whatever fucked up way she wants.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 07:08 PM
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Thanks, relevant to my current situation. Got about 4 months before I move out though, so maybe it's a bad call... I would love to just bag her though, it would reduce the drama she spits every other day and I'd finally stop caring what she told anyone.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:58 PM
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Zyzz died at 24 in a sauna mate, he was sexy af but he was a dumbass. All he was is his body, and he was definitely alpha as fuck. I just think there's more to life than that.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:34 PM
1

Could you elaborate on why not fuck? Even if the opportunity shows itself and you aren't living together for much longer?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:39 PM
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It's worth the effort depending on your environment
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:18 AM
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They are literally just coming over to fuck though; why does it matter? So long as they are attractive I don't see why you should neglect Tinder. It's way too easy to pass up.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:52 PM
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And the big meta is - I feel like im trapped in a perpetual loop of dissatisfaction, where If i take a break im dissatisfied, if I didn't push myself hard enough i'm dissatisfied and because i'm missing out i'm dissatisfied. The only way for me to reach satisfaction is If I get my side business up and running This is exactly how I am day to day... Thing is when I do the right thing consistently for a while I feel great. It's hard to be mad at yourself when you do all you possibly can all the tim…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:27 PM
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A question or two followed by related conversation. She will carry the conversation once she's comfortable; you just have to get her there. Ask a simple thing like how many siblings, then segue onto other topics that come up relevant to whatever discussion you're having.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:25 PM
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usually bullshit with women because they are experts at adopting their mate's views (evolutionary imperative). Every fucking woman I'm with has the same views as I do. It's what they do. Saaaaaame. Same. They all do this afaik
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:07 PM
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Maybe he'll try to ''neg'' me and I'll wind up terrifying the hell out of him because I like to troll neggers if you could tell he was negging then he deserves to be shit on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 06:23 PM
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Okay, I guess you make it subjective. But I think subjectively, predominantly, in general, for the most part, in most peoples' books, in the eyes of most beholders, younger women are more attractive than older women. Subjectively, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 06:11 PM
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Makes communication easier? Me and my best friend never see eye to eye on what a 10 is. I always think differently than he does, and we are the same age. I would, however, argue that both of us think there are more 9s who are in their 20s than 9s in their 30s. Same with 8s, 7s, etc... There is a larger majority of attractive women in the 20s age range than there are in the 30s age range. That's, I guess, what I'm trying to say in a less subjective way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:45 PM
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The scale is subjective, the question is subjective, PPD is subjective. Younger women are objectively more physically attractive than older women, in general. You can't deny it, like I don't understand how people have such a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:43 PM
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I'm talking broad strokes, and relevance is kinda lost on you here. You wanna compare the obese 20 year old to the obese 40 year old? Or do you want to compare Ferraris to pickup trucks? Apples and oranges man. If we're talking 'attractive people', then yes, 20 year old 'attractive people' are always without fail more attractive than 30 year old 'attractive people'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:18 PM
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The whole scale is subjective. This question is subjective, and all of PPD is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:17 PM
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It would be far too subjective to have any meaning. lmao it is mate, it's 100% subjective and a terrible way to "objectively" say how attractive someone is. can't be a 10 if someone else is better looking than they are we are literally comparing 30 year olds to 20 year olds. An attractive 20 year old is a 10 next to an attractive 30 year old, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:16 PM
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I'm at work, so I don't want to go around finding pictures of hot 20 year olds, but it seems to me you're trying to convince me Adriana Lima is gorgeous; I know she is. I am just trying to say there are 20 year olds more attractive than her, and you can tell by that second picture that she looks nothing like the other ones in real life. Case in point, find a picture of 20 year old Adriana Lima, back when I was in middle school. God DAMN was she fine. Much more 10 worthy than she is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:05 PM
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I think that Adriana Lima is a lot less attractive live and in person than she looks in that photoshopped, airbrushed, professionally lit, professionally photographed picture. I see women on the daily (big eastern city) who are in their 20s, with gorgeous faces, gorgeous bodies, and just out in the day. They aren't 'photographing' or 'lighting' or 'photoshopping', and I'm not talking about instagram photos. The only thing the women I see on the street have is their makeup, and every woman has ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 04:55 PM
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Man if you need a therapist just get a good therapist... It takes years of studying and even more years of practice. It doesn't matter if he's "redpilled" and spent some hours on a sub.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:48 PM
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You can't get away from your mom. She will always be a part of your life, even if you aren't living in her apartment. I say if she does that, go for it. You'll be living alone/with others your age and you'll be saving tons of money. I hate rent. I pay tens of thousands of dollars a year to some asshole and don't end up owning the place.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:47 PM
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Well let's say a 10 is standing next to another 10, and one of the 10s is more attractive? That drops the less attractive 10 to a 9 based on relative beauty. That's what I'm trying to say; people can link to 100s of beautiful 30 year olds but they probably all looked better in their 20s. I could find a 20 year old beautiful girl on the street that is more attractive than most of the women linked in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 04:39 PM
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We have baser instincts that need to be satisfied. There's nothing wrong with being able to satisfy them (whereas the typical BP would have these same instincts, but not have them satisfied).
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:42 PM
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TBH you can find a gorgeous 30+ who you could call a 10, and whatever you did wherever you were and whoever you were fucking, I could find an 18-20 year old who looks objectively better. There's no competing with younger women in terms of physical attractiveness. That's not to say they will make you happy, but they will remain much prettier than their 30 year old counterparts; without fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 03:40 PM
2

In this thread, we see the rarely-mentioned male hamster. Fascinating.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:36 PM
1

So you want someone to come hold your hand through the process? Nut up mate
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:33 PM
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We do it because it's hard and makes us feel good about ourselves, especially when very few others have achieved it. We lift because it's hard, and makes us look better than everyone else. We read because it's tiring, and can help educate you beyond the normal education everyone else has. In short, it makes you greater.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:32 PM
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^ not true, just swipe right on everything 2-3 times per week and you have a constant flow of pussy. You can vet the ones you don't like by unmatching, and talk to the ones you like.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:29 PM
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You're a lazy shit and you decided to post on reddit rather than take responsibility for your lack of conviction because you hoped someone on here would be nice and placate your weakness.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:25 PM
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Why are you letting her get to you?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:55 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. You fucked up m80, keep stoic frame and let her ostracize herself from every group she enters. If she's spewing vitriol openly towards you people will catch on. There's not much you can do except keep your cool and whatever 'evidence' you collected.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:46 PM
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For reals ^
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:44 PM
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troll post is troll
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:36 PM
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I think you made the right choice; are you interested in customer service? If not you shouldn't be investing your time in it just because some guy wants you to.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:30 PM
2

People offered to help you? Where the hell do they get off??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:17 PM
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I built my game around attractive women because I'm shallow as shit and have retarded standards. It took me a long fucking time to get laid but now I have no problems, it really depends on if you're willing to be patient enough to figure them out, or to just nut up and fuck a 6. I just couldn't bring myself to do that.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 12:03 PM
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You control the conversation in the beginning until she becomes comfortable then you let her speak her heart out. You don't need to constantly bombard someone with questions to have a conversation. Think of whenever you're talking to your friends/family and how little you ask them questions when talking.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:52 AM
2

Do something you would love to be great at but would hate to practice.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:50 AM
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Just work on doing better each time, keep guessing what's required, keep putting yourself in these situations. This 100%. I started improving dramatically in my self confidence when I started guessing how best to behave and calibrating over time. If you think of your approach as a sexual strategy rather than a means to an end you will realize every interaction is a learning experience whether you get pussy or not. End of the day your odds have improved and you can actually say and do what you wa…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:48 AM
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You probably missed your shot, approach other women.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:31 AM
1

Happiness is fleeting, it can't be maintained. You are realizing you're missing something, and your mind is telling you what you want. If you want something, go get it. When you have it, you will be content again.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:38 PM
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You probably need some high-quality, personal, and customized advice. Good luck! I wish you only the best. This is different from threesoms and stuff. I've never seen this happen before.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:28 PM
2

Honestly, the older I get, the easier it becomes. Fucking same. The moment you start the process you begin to realize how powerful our words are.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:26 PM
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You decide if you're willing to do that. We can't moralize it for you; it's a bad thing to do to her. There's no way around it. Either break up with her and pursue your interests freely like a man, or hide behind her pussy as insurance while you try to plow other chicks. At least, that's how I see it. To each their own.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:21 PM
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Different women are different. This applies to some and not to others. I think for the most part they like being dominated in bed but some of them prefer a demoralizing/demeaning kind of domination while others just want to be desired intensely. TL;DR: it varies from woman to woman. Gauge your performance based on their personalities. Also, stop watching porn. Shit's poison.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 05:16 PM
1

The guy suggests once every two weeks? Maybe every week is too tough? Also he doesn't elaborate on the scheduling w/ lifting and stuff involved. When do you schedule your fast days? If I also do Mon-Wed-Fri but have a MT class on Tues, it leaves only the weekend (?) for me to fast during? Or should I seriously just fast through a workout and forget the protein?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 03:22 PM
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Rational Male is a good place to start. It'll help you understand what happened more clearly. Instead of just reading tho get out and start doing. Start lifting, start running, start practicing your hobby, start studying harder, start reconnecting with friends, it'll get your mind off the ex.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:30 PM
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Good point. She was also glorified and followed for it in that weird show she did with her other rich hotel daughter friend. I'd say same with Kim Kardashian. She got famous because of the porn. I think it's all good marketing in the end. edit* SO I GOT SOME SHIT WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:22 PM
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Is just boobs and vagine. All else is same same, yah?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:20 PM
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Also, you're assuming that I don't have self-worth simply because I value different things to you. No, friend. I know you have no self-worth because of the way you write and describe yourself. confidence is extremely poorly correlated to attraction. Many people believe otherwise, but they're fundamentally wrong No, you're wrong. But whatever, to each their own... As Marcus Aurelius says: "All is opinion".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:17 PM
1

I've felt the same way with a few plates, it just takes time to become sexually comfortable with someone but once you do the rapport/connection is re-established. I usually leave it to them to make it mean more than sex (i.e they start asking questions, digging into my life, trying to bond) I'm sure another one will fall into your lap.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:14 PM
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Those percentages may not be correct, but all men will be rejected by most women all of the time. Sparknotes: "I'm wrong but delude myself into thinking I'm right." Mate you have some serious issues. I know we always say let go of your ego but have some self respect for fucks sake. whereas lifting weights would have made no difference whatsoever. Not gonna do that with you again People describe red pill as a cult, but the fact that you place an almost religious faith in lifting weights above all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:00 PM
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So even if you're the most attractive guy who ever lived, you can write off 90% of women (with the exception of really famous men) before you even begin to express any sort of preference. For many guys, the percentages will be worse than this. Probably the percentages are worse than this for me, realistically. That is the reality of life, and it's never going to change in the post-Tinder society. So there is no approach you can ever take to trying to attract women that will 'work' in any meaning…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 01:32 PM
1

It gets super easy to follow after a while though (IF, not your version... Will give it a read). I found that after about a year of it I'm never really hungry that often anymore.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 01:17 PM
1

Probably overthinking this like crazy. Yep, she canceled last minute. Onus is on her to re-establish contact. Just leave it and go try to find some other plates. If she really does want you she'll let you know when she's back. Please don't do anything long distance because that's not a real relationship.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 01:04 PM
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Get her to laugh, ask her when she gets off work, grab tea or ice cream or some shit. Or, go approach 10 other women and move on from coffee girl. It sounds like oneitis is round the corner.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:57 PM
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Men want to spread their seed and drive really fast, women want to insure their and their offsprings future. Also, if it takes a long time to get rich, men are less likely to sleep with an older rich woman just for the money. Some guys do that, but I think a minority. I'd bet more women are willing to be with an older rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 12:41 PM
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You're the same guy who posted last week talking guys out of lifting cuz "it doesn't help", and now you're saying it does help but it's useless in the sexual marketplace? You're also seriously trying to convince people men everywhere have 5% chance of getting with a woman they fancy "whatever they do"? Speak for yourself, don't try to drag everyone else down to your level. Stop trying to convince yourself that your level of self-rejection and self-neglect is not your responsibility to bear. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 12:37 PM
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This, focus on yourself rn and college will be plentiful
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:00 PM
1

How much foreplay do you do? Be very patient with them and tease before you ever go in or go down on her
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:57 AM
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So what if she moves her face away? Does she also push you away and walk away from you? That just means you can't kiss her right now. Keep dancing, keep flirting, kino, and try again later. Women will tell you when they aren't interested.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:48 AM
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Doing anything that provides you with a quick rush of seratonin or dopamine without having to work for it (sugar, fapping, social media, pot, vidya, etc...) makes your body fall just as quickly back down. When you're feeling down cuz you just fapped to some porn you feel the need to get back up so you smoke, then you go on Facebook, then you eat some candy and watch some Netflix. It sets a standard of failure that you have to avoid at all costs especially if you have an addictive personality. Do…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:44 AM
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Work environment is overtly transactional. Your time for their money. Smp is not overtly transactional.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:24 AM
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Why do you care what your mom thinks? Why do you think we care about some chick touching your shirt? Why do you? Just fucking lift and approach and focus on school.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:23 AM
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Gamer is not an identity. Build a new identity.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 11:02 PM
2

Well given I can't exactly tell you how to change, I can tell you about my father instead. I'm from a more conservative country, so my upbringing was a lot more traditional than most western families. You'll notice certain cultures (even the southern US) place a strong emphasis on honor (honor based cultures) wherein you have to defend yourself, your unit, your tribe, your principles, your reputation, whatever, from outside factors. From a cultural perspective, this is probably the only thing th…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:51 PM
1

They don't always text right after the date. When they don't, I usually text back before whatever date we agreed on during the date. So like, first date goes well, we make plans for sometime next week, I'll text her sometime next week. It's tried and true, but text for logistics early on. It's a good way to keep commitment low and your prospects focused elsewhere.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:40 PM
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She's cray and there's no escaping commitment with women like that. Sex is ridiculous with cray girls that's why it was nuts. Change your bio to like, 6'2 and something either short and funny or nothing at all.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:36 PM
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this, just fucking eat
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:31 PM
3

Game outside greek life
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:28 PM
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No, not disrespected necessarily. I think some (a minority, probably) pass judgement, but not disrespect. In most other cultures being a housewife is an honorable thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 06:09 PM
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Plating is a response not a chosen behavior for most RP men (can't speak for everyone, but visiting the sub on a regular basis tells the same story).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 06:06 PM
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Makes the fat around your junk recede, so you look longer. End of the day your dick stays the same size.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:52 PM
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IF you can afford it there's no reason not to add something positive to your life. I say go for it, try it for all 7 months before deciding if you want to keep doing it though. Introverts tend to go once and then bitch out afterwards. USE the 7 months you're paying for.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:36 PM
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I pay $60/mo for my gym membership, gives me access to combat sports and other classes as well. I can pay for muay-thai classes at a discounted price, too. Maybe the price isn't too great? Idk what city you're in/what your profession is. In terms of athletic activity yoga is great, don't listen to any haters. It's seen as more of a girl's exercise but that's just social stigma. Shit's good for core, and helps control breathing/meditative state. It's also a great workout, much harder than people …
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:58 PM
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Don't ask don't tell mate. Wear a rubber and enjoy the ass while it's on your dick, think of other things while it's gone.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:15 PM
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I'm super introverted naturally, but I've learned over time to push away the introversion when I am being social. This also means I don't put myself in highly charged social situations unless I plan it ahead of time, and I only do it often enough not to exhaust myself. This means twice-three times a week max. That helps with the mental exhaustion when it comes to interaction. What you're afraid of is based in shame. Think of it this way: if you don't approach you don't get to do what you want, i…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:43 PM
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Great comparison here, men and apes just so indistinguishable from one another. Men don't have self-control, and all they do is attack women for no reason, right? Men have no compassion, and have never been hurt by a woman. Women are just the epitome of kindness and rectitude. You're full of hate, person. Your vitriol is completely unrelated to the topic we're discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:59 PM
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Good analysis, who determines what direction the society is to move in though? Two parties always ends up being a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:50 PM
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sry not first language /excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 09:53 PM
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She can say she 'hates charity' and still take it from you without feeling any kind of societal or familial consequence. She can say she 'hates black cock' and still take it from a 12" stripper. My point is, treat her (with regards to money) as you would your buddy who's broke. If my friend is broke, I will sometimes pay for him because fuck it, we're having a good time, he's out right now but he'll get me back eventually. Just don't expect the money back, and don't do something you'll regret wh…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 07:43 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahaha I lel'd irl at work *edit: he's right, just let her go
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:39 PM
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I have plates who I have conversations with, who I respect a great deal, who respect me a great deal. It's kinda like I would be in a relationship with lots of these girls, but I choose not to because where we are at (casual sex, casual conversation, casual outings) puts no pressure on either party and can actually just be fun. Getting into a relationship is an incredible feeling at first, then that feeling slowly fades and you start to realize you are two different people, and all of a sudden s…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:37 PM
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^ Patrice and Dante just understood shit tests on such a fundamental level. They demonstrate how you can catch and call chicks out on their shit. Perfect material.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 04:59 PM
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As a movement feminism in the Middle East has been on the rise but you can already see the discussion is different here than it is there. There is, like you said, a lot more focus on the collective tribal/traditional expectations, and an understanding that there is both importance and value in the recognition/continuation of that culture. So much to read, so little time. Thanks again!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 04:26 PM
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Middle East actually, so Islam and its cultural components are both very relevant. Thanks for these suggestions I'll take you up on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 04:02 PM
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I'm actually asking for a version of feminism that is more focused on verifiable truths/laws than one that is based on de-facto feelings of inequality. Also, not a single post I've made signifies me as a misogynist, that's just your knee-jerk reaction to anyone questioning your worldview. You've been so thoroughly (and deeply) penetrated by the dogma you can't even open your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 03:32 PM
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Cool thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 03:25 PM
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So men become the metaphorical bourgeoisie and women become the metaphorical proletariat? I guess that's a good way to create a gender war. Just out of curiosity, do you have any basis for this analysis or is it homegrown?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 03:06 PM
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It's already been introduced - can't prevent it from spreading and gaining traction. The question is how to guide a movement in the right direction. Though I do see your point; it may be hopeless. No harm trying!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:57 PM
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Oh, I do; it's why I am so interested in inter-gender dynamics. I just want to understand how to prevent it from reaching that tipping point where responsibility for women falls on the state and families are deconstructed; in traditional/conservative societies our inter-familial bonds even within extended family are very important and a big part of our lives. It's something I don't want to lose, but it's hard to create a balance between interconnectivity and judgement/shaming from said family me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:55 PM
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Mm affirmative action is definitely a focal point. Thanks. I think all your other points flow out of affirmative action and its acceptability as a mechanism for 'equality'. It's precisely trying to 'give a hand' to the 'oppressed'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:52 PM
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So the schism in your opinion happens when they shift from inequality in the eyes of the law (suffrage) to a more de-facto 'principle' based view on inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:50 PM
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Think where you'll be when you feel alpha with a dad bod, and then all of a sudden 6 months down the line you have swoleness? I say keep practicing, it's like playing with a handicap. Or, like training in high altitudes to make normal altitudes become ezmode.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:00 PM
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All you need to worry about is how invested she is in you. Dread increases her investment in you because she tries to keep you to herself. You don't need to flirt with women, you just need to talk to women. Make her see there are women around you who want to spend time with you. It's not that complicated or that immoral. It's really just fun and jokes.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 12:21 PM
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Things being laid out in such a bleak manner is the only way to get beta-ized feminized men who've spent 18-25 years being indoctrinated to stop pedestalizing women. I would argue it is the quickest and most effective way of equalizing the sexual playing field, and makes men who were convinced to oppose it to become content with playing it.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 12:15 PM
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If you feel like you will fail then it's inevitable. Nothing that your mind tells you is real, it's all imagination and past experience. Set a new standard and start slow. Eventually you will set a standard of not giving up, and that's the only way to find success in anything. Positive feedback from small baby steps brah, start with something like gym 3x per week and make sure you do it with consistency.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 11:20 AM
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No problem :> just stick to it!
/r/askTRP21/09/16 11:41 PM
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Dude just enjoy how little shit you have to worry about. Talk to girls at school, talk to girls in the mall. When you hit 16 go get a hooker with your cousins or whatever. You've got so much time to learn game you don't need to be worried at all
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:51 PM
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umm... yeah dude edit* you don't say shit like that unless you're playing it off as a joke and actually pull it off
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:34 PM
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So after every class my shirt is a different shade due to all the sweat. The workout kicks my ass every time, and I've been lifting for a while. I think that's the thing I still dread beforehand: just the fact that for the next hour I will have my ass kicked with cardio. Thing is: riiiight after the class is done I feel fucking amazing. For the rest of the night, I feel amazing. Sleeping is easier, and the next morning I also feel amazing. It's just dreading the workout part/exhaustion right bef…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:18 PM
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I started muay thai ~ 3 months ago, and every week since I've seen people come in and drop out and come in and drop out. The fact is most people don't have it in them to commit, and everyone walks into it afraid. I was terrified before my first class, but that's part of TRP. Do shit that makes you uncomfortable, and all of a sudden after a while uncomfortable things won't be so hard to do anymore. The guys I've met at muay thai (instructors and experienced students alike) LOVE to teach the newbi…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 07:58 PM
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Brazilian girls are generally more commitment oriented afaik. They don't like being the plate or the fwb. I'd bang a few hookers till you get a car then start clubbing once you can. Drinking is huge in Brazil, just get in on that clubbing/dancing scene.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 07:32 PM
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I don't think it's getting aroused, I think it's a mix of confirmation bias and lifting with more purpose. Think of it this way: when you are listening to music, doing DLs, and all of a sudden your favorite tune comes on and you get pumped, your next set of DLs will be so much more powerful. You're lifting with more purpose.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 07:25 PM
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Identify why you are frustrated.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:43 PM
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My rule of thumb is have them come over to your place. Establishes your time is precious, you can also always be like "I have to get up early tomorrow" and that gets them out the house.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:42 PM
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I just am having trouble investing less because I actually like having this chick around and fear that if I stop giving her attention, she will just start fucking someone else Nope, if you give her less attention she will do everything in her power to regain it. I don't understand how someone can see the same chick every day for hours on end. Every day? Jesus christ what about lifting and reading and my friends and my passions?! Spend. Less. Time. With. Her. If she leaves she's doing you a favor…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:39 PM
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I quit league about 6 months ago, haven't looked back. Unless you're trying to be Faker you shouldn't play league. It takes too much time and energy for a pastime. You don't need to stop playing vidya, you just need to limit vidya time to weekends/certain hours. I don't play video games during the week, which makes Saturday morning vidya time hella fun for me.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:30 PM
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I'd forget the GF, try to focus on work and your life, and try to be a part of this kid's life. Why can't you live in NYC without her around? Would she also have to move out? I'm too young to give you advice that affects your relationship, I've never had a child. That being said, I also don't think I understand the dynamic too well given you cheated on her and she might just want to get back at you. End of the day figure out what your priorities are (child? being alpha? the gf/relationship? your…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:27 PM
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Learn to fight, only advice imo. Pick up a muay thai or kickboxing class. Confidence goes up, fitness goes up, and you won't be so worried about people fucking with you. He's probably gonna go find someone else to bother. He seems kinda nuts, just leave it and don't respond to anything he does ever. Also, don't let someone else cripple your life. Just go out.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:12 PM
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Depends where you're from. Conservative or liberal? Western or Oriental? What kind of culture?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 06:09 PM
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I don't have an LTR, but if I did I would treat her the way I want to be treated. Think of it this way: a shit-test is something that makes you feel like shit and has no purpose coming from her mouth. If you were tired, and she wanted to fuck, you would tell her to fuck off because you're tired. She reserves the right to do that too. When I'm with my plates, though, I don't let them make a decision like that. If they are on their periods, we don't spend time together. I text them just to schedul…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:52 PM
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I find following the content of words/verbiage in pickup videos to be the most incessant waste of time on the planet. He's projecting an emotional state; he's projecting a good time and a loud, confident, unpredictable experience. Everyone has something they are good at; use it to your advantage and make yourself comfortable with that persona. It's all about what you make them feel, not what you say. I don't call women sluts; rather I slowly stroke their cheek/neck and stare into their eyes. Jus…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:45 PM
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Dude chill the fuck out. I don't understand how to even with this. My only advice is there is a difference between being assertive and being a complete asshole. If you guys are in an LTR she doesn't owe you a blowjob every night. I think you are confusing plates/fwb with LTRs.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:39 PM
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I mean, she's free to walk. Understand: you give her sex too, it's not just her body being used; if she's your toy you're hers. I don't see anything but shit.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:27 PM
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You either do what you need to do for your 'dream' to come true, or you don't and sit back and watch your life fall apart over the course of years. It's always easier to start now than 5 years down the line. It's always hard to start, though. Also, you're 27 and you're giving up? Jesus man you have so much god-damned time. You have 8 years before you begin passing your prime. 8 years is plenty time to stop being a slob. If you spent 3 days a week not watching youtube for 45 minutes and lifting w…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:17 PM
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Confidence begets confidence. In my experience, small steps lead to bigger ones. First you start lifting, then you start getting attention, the attention makes you confident. Same with something like fighting classes. You suck, you go anyway, you get beaten, then eventually you don't. That makes you more confident. I didn't get honors at my uni, I'm doing fuckin fine brah. Just control what you can and leave behind what you can't control. IMO the culmination of being a man is "don't make excuses…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 04:04 PM
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Hahaha there's no 'control' involved. It's like everyone outside TRP believes we are all manipulative puppet-masters. Some of us are, but most of us aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:57 PM
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Why do you think we are somehow different from men in your life? I genuinely think most people here have RP friends who just never talk to them or even broach the subject of TRP. That's for me, my buddies, and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:43 PM
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Right, I'm saying that's the only situation where that used to happen in an acceptable way. In every other instance, rapists are murdered. Even in prison, which you could argue there is a clear hierarchy of strong vs. weak. If a man from your tribe rapes a woman from your tribe, your tribe kills that man. If another tribe comes in, that tribe is stronger and 'deserves' the spoils. There's a difference between the two situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:51 PM
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I think anyone who has to take by force what they could get by trial is weak. The only alternative where what you say could happen is in the case of an invading army because in that case all the men of your race have been cucked and shown to be weaker. Day to day though? No way. One of my ex girlfriends was a rape victim and I only got searing hate from her for the man. Think about it, a man drugs you or carries you wasted to bed. That's a weak man 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:27 PM
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I genuinely think men when confined to their own spaces are a lot more extreme in their reactions with one another. Things are absolutes, and everything has a logical conclusion. Because of this, communication is a lot more overt, and often aggressive. It's a good way for men to feel out their position in the hierarchy. Having a hierarchy in masculine groups also creates an ideal, something to strive for, and eventually beat. It's just a lot more angry and competitive and argumentative and explo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:21 PM
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Man you are so full of bullshit excuses. If you want a body like that, you can have it. Because you don't want to try, you won't. Excuses piled on excuses. Everything in life works like this, someone works harder than you and you say he's gifted. Genes determine success, in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:07 PM
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I guess that depends on what you consider gains. I lifted for 4 years before I looked like I lifted. 4 years for me to see the gains. I already had better posture, more stamina, healthier sleep schedule, and less bodyfat. Muscle takes a long, long time to build. Resistance over time. There's no excuse for giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 12:57 PM
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It is possible for most guys, maybe just not you. You don't need to eat 3,000 calories to gain muscle. Most people don't have your condition. Did you look at the dozens of threads where people have lifted weights for months and even years and made no gains? I lifted for 4 years before I saw gains. It takes a long fucking time for some people, and I know that. Also, most people have no idea what they're doing with regards to routine and nutrition. My comment is targeted at men who read this and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 12:36 PM
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It is possible for most guys, maybe just not you. Thermodynamics work a certain way and if you're too lazy to eat more every day then take responsibility for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 12:18 PM
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Facial Features 10 Height 10'10" Body 10/10 Penis Size 10" Career 10 Residence 10 Intelligence 10 Sex Experience Don Juan Life Experience 10 Charisma 10 Hypergamy in action!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:36 AM
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This is ridiculous. Rapists are the weakest men. Edit. She may leave her man but he also failed there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:30 AM
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I've been lifting for 7 years and it took me about 3-4 for my body to reflect that. But guess what? After 7 years of consistency and patience I have a great fucking body and because it took so long, I have a more balanced physique, it takes me a lot longer than my friends to lose the gains if I take a break, and I have made it a lifestyle that I love. I can also eat more liberally than my friends who lift and need to be super religious about the macros they consume. You don't want to lift? Fine.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:20 AM
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Playing roulette with genes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:10 AM
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Think of all the attractive people's kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:45 AM
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Got em!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 10:46 PM
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I'll take intelligence too don't worry I have hella skillpoints
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 10:43 PM
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I think I'll be OK without paying for it. But thanks for the option :P
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:49 PM
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I'd rather my kids are 9/10s than 7/8s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 06:55 PM
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I'd much rather my progeny be attractive and healthy, so I'm pretty sure this doesn't apply to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 05:27 PM
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Bah. Good wakeup call. Been lifting for 7 years and I've been stalling on bench and squats precisely because I'm getting too comfortable in the gym. It's like going to a spa surrounded by old people, so it's already my space. I should go back to feeling like shit after every workout. Time to hit lmao4plaet and stop this 4 month cut.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:32 AM
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You don't need to be an asshole, but people might call you an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 08:52 PM
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People I meet day to day don't realize I'm not a white American unless I tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:26 PM
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I'm olive skinned, basically white.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:14 PM
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^ Arabs are considered ethnically white, at least by US census.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:04 PM
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So, you want to remove male spaces, ban athletic activity, and refuse people the opportunity to lose weight and get healthy? If all men were shittier, it would be easier for already shittier men, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:10 PM
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White (Middle Eastern), Northeastern US, urban/metropolitan.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:52 PM
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Evil is a human construct. It falls down to opinion. I'm saying there's no good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:19 PM
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Some people are proactive enough to get on with it right away, while others would rather talk about it than do it. I still maintain its a perfect starting point to get incels to move and behave in a more confident way, especially around women where they lack the most grace and style.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:05 PM
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Wow you are missing the point again. This has nothing to do with your gender, I wasn't even aware you were a woman. For fucks sake read what I'm writing. A. Whether or not you're comfortable with what I'm saying is irrelevant If you hate everything I'm saying, it doesn't make what I'm saying wrong. You want to argue, use rational arguments not "I don't like it, therefore it's bad and shouldn't be said". Get over yourself. And the only way to combat that is to tell them No, I'm not doing anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:32 PM
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nothing good in RP is original We can agree to disagree Most of the original ideas I've read in any RP post are shocking oversimplifications and knee jerk reactions to heartbreak This, I can agree on. Most of the content posted day to day is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:09 PM
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Umm, no you missed the point. What you think doesn't matter because it's not a rational argument and holds no water. Second, yes I do think women should behave like that. If I was a woman I would. Third, no. I meant what I said. Incels overvalue pussy and put it on a pedestal by thinking that the woman is always the victim never the perpetrator. They believe women are held back by society, and that women need to be provided for and catered to because they always get the short end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:04 PM
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For you to say it's all common sense is you doing the "alpha" thing. You're virtue signaling because you want to show the world how much more you knew, and how straightforward and 'obvious' the TRP advice is. In fact, you've said it in two of your posts so far in this thread alone. It's all common sense to you, so it's all good. Also the only reason I'm telling you that is to demonstrate there's more to it than just "improve yourself". It is a sexual strategy. Not a life philosophy, a sexual str…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:47 PM
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I am confident that my feminism is what made me start pedestalizing. I was completely fine for a while (elementary and middle school), and then as I got into HS and my sisters were more proactive with their 'teachings', I got more and more afraid of approaching or giving women the wrong opinion. When you're told over and over again not to be "one of those creeps who just stares", or a "weirdo" for approaching someone, or told to "just be yourself" regardless of how pathetic you might be, or how …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:39 PM
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That's a really interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:31 PM
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Red, for sure. I think only nature can dictate what is good and what is bad. If something can happen equally to both a bad man and a good man, it can neither be ascribed as good or evil. I have my own principles and beliefs that I act on and defend insofar as I am capable of defending them. Good, to me, is following your daimon. Doing what is right by your principles. Morality probably comes from my parents and my upbringing. I think I'm generally moral, if I was looked at objectively. I don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:29 PM
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RP's core concept isn't just being fit, RP's core concept is about sexual strategy. Now whether or not, outside of sexual strategy, self-improvement was useful is not relevant. Let me put it this way: I was a high value man before I started reading TRP. I had already been going to the gym, cultivating my passions, and being highly disciplined. The problem was I didn't equate my value directly with sexual strategy. When I started reading TRP and internalizing RP concepts, I started to understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:54 PM
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The problem is that you're also dealing with people whose ability to understand nuance isn't that great. they literally have to believe all of the audience members are secretly wife beaters and thieves to amass any confidence at all, which suggests they can't function around people they can't devalue, and I'm pretty uncomfortable with that and you saying that's ok becuase that's just how some men have to be to relate to women. A. Whether or not you're comfortable with what I'm saying is irreleva…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:37 PM
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This is what I'm looking for. Would you be opposed to a RP friend approaching you with ideas about TRP? How would you respond to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:56 PM
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Well if you were patronizing in your tonality, it might be no surprise you guys didn't vibe. If not though I'm just really curious if the two can be friends. I guess in your case no. Also, there's no need to feel bad for us. We're doing what we know works best for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:51 PM
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I am RP, so clearly that's not what I mean. The question implies that BP people need to deal with RP people, because BP people are vehemently opposed to RP principles. At least that's what I got from reading the BP sub for all of 20 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:48 PM
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I dunno, I feel like the PUA scene early was trying to take that 'in-between' stance, trying to be protective of womens' image and still teach men to be confident and charming but it didn't have as powerful a sway as TRP does. It's not convincing to say "some women are cruel, be careful", when society tells you "women are the fairer sex" over and over again your whole life. You need something equally generalized to help men stop pedestalizing. I also think the crux of our disagreement is a matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:46 PM
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No, because these concepts are based in reality. These aren't experiences none of us have had, these are experiences that resonate with us because we've seen them first hand. The point is demystifying not shock value. You pretend like all women are angels and are incapable of riding a carousel of cocks or behaving like children. It's not "all women are dickheads and eat baby boys for dinner be afraid", it's "women have the capacity to be cruel, selfish, egotistical, and heartless". If you think …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:09 PM
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No, the core concepts are there to maximize success. If you walk in thinking all women have more value than you, you will fail at attracting them. If you walk in thinking you have more value than the women, you are likely to be a lot more confident and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:01 PM
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First one is interesting because it outlines first, that this is a plate (i.e a fuck buddy). This is a woman who doesn't need to know everything about your life and your decisions. If you read the interaction displayed, he isn't lying he is just avoiding straight up answering her question. Second one is also interesting, up until the point you were probably talking about: Hell, a few of them might actually benefit from a good beating now and then. Think of it this way: does man never deserve a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:56 PM
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You can't deny that users help define what the sub actually is, not just what it wants to be. Fair enough, point taken. Not every woman is the "oldest teenager", not every woman rides the CC. I understand where you're coming from, I do, but I'm saying that it's not how the conversation goes on TRP. In general the community believes that these are methods for de-pedestalization, they are meant to be broad because they increase chance of success, and male sexual strategy is about quantity. Or do u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:40 PM
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You don't think some men are more capable, dominant, assertive, compelling, charismatic, and attractive than other men? You don't think women prefer these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:34 PM
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Eyyyy that's your sexual strategy! A lot easier than having to deal with all this shit, kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:32 PM
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"Women will like you better if you just lie to them, and tell them whatever they want to hear." This is probably so rare, or so unsupported that I can't actually remember seeing this on the sub. "Wife beaters are right about the nature of women, or else they'd just respect them." Idk where you got that from, but it's way off base. This is just never being said by someone sane. Just becomes someone drops a comment doesn't mean it's supported by the mods and the contributors who cultivate the sub.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:30 PM
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Sure, but who stops them from hanging around, wallowing in self-pity and never progressing past the anger phase? Who gives a shit? Natural selection can do its work. If they are too weak to seek the change they need they don't deserve sympathy. It's also simply incorrect. There's nothing that simple or straightforward, especially when it comes to the mating dance. These women do exist. Maybe you haven't seen them, but the reason why we become convinced is because we think, "hey, I saw this befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:24 PM
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One of my best friends is female, but I'm not attracted to her. I'm pretty sure that's been covered on the sub. But she hangs out with me probably because she's attracted to me. It goes one way or the other. If I happened to meet a perfectly good female who I was also attracted to, I wouldn't become her friend because that's not what my body wants. My body wants her body, and lying to her about my intentions ends up deluding me and changing my behavior from natural to fake. The politics thing ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:14 PM
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I completely agree with your first statement. Most of TRP is not representative of the red pill, but probably in a different way. The 'edgelord nonsense' is seen as such by people who are morally opposed to it. The reason it's out there is because it's "an option". But yeah, most of the people on TRP are pretending to be RP to make themselves feel better, while still fapping playing video games and spending all hours of the day on the internet instead of improving themselves. They post for valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:02 PM
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I think it serves more of a purpose than that. If someone is 'unmoved' by the idea that they are part of the 80 rather than the 20, then they don't belong on TRP. It's a filtering mechanism imo. Also, with regards to sexual strategy and TRP: you can be a high value male without TRP. What TRP does is de-pedestalize women (which you admit is useful), and that happens because the advice is so broad, over the counter, and generic. It also means to over-generalize. If we all believe that women ride t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:57 PM
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3 points, 100%. I don't understand who visits this sub anymore.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 02:45 PM
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I am capable of prescribing to the sexual strategy and not the political discourse. I think very few people who visit TRP align 100% with all the ideas and contributors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:43 PM
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I'm generally left-wing (though I have a range of views that diverge), and I visit TRP. Don't think the two cancel each other out. Though the right-wing fervor on TRP is kinda fun to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:39 PM
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What makes you feel sorry for them? Particularly talking about the people who become RP to improve their lives. Why not feel sorry for the friends who aren't trying to improve their lives? Or rather, would you prefer self-improvement without TRP being behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:38 PM
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Not true. I think everyone suffers from insecurity, but beautiful people are judged for being insecure. It stands out because "how could you possibly be insecure about your looks?". Because fuck you we're human. When someone is unattractive and insecure everyone just says "improve yourself, do this, do that". Doesn't work on attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:28 PM
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Option 1 is always an option. Especially if you don't give a shit what she says. I use my facial expressions most of the time. The "the rock" eyebrow raise works wonders. So does the wink, or the squinting eyes "the fuck you talking about" look, lots of others. It's a way of not really saying anything and having them take it in whatever emotional direction they want.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 01:12 PM
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Yeah she's lauded, same with Cleopatra and Marilyn. The fact is being seductive and in control of an entire country/army through a man is quite the feat. Most women can't do what she did.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 01:00 PM
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Way more people have died of actually being fat, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:05 AM
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Green Privilege!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:26 PM
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Objectively speaking, kitchens are pretty hot. But yes I do, and now I want to watch that movie again too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:19 PM
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This I cannot deny. There's definitely a side benefit of having women become less intimidating to the average chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:17 PM
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Asks people what they would do Shits on answer and poster in same comment You lack ideas, and are full of criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:04 PM
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There you go, be proactive! It alternates by week, for anyone who's just reading the comment thread.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:08 PM
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If you want to be strong, you can start doing 5/3/1 depending on how long you've been on SL. That will help you hit your PR goals on the big 3. If you want to add dimension and size, hypertrophy is the way to go. I tend away from hypertrophy and have been doing variations of SS, SL, and 5/3/1 for about 3 years now and I love it. Strength gains up and down, but my body always stays tight and strong. Also, it takes less time in the gym than hypertrophy does. Edit: Read the fucking sticky! This is …
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:52 PM
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What I would be interested in seeing is the disparity between individuals within a gender group. For example, what percentage of men adhere to these standards vs men who don't. Same with women, I'd love to see the variations within the gender. In fact, age would be an interesting variable too. Thanks for writing this up, shit like this never gets posted on TRP. All we get is 'I am redpilled, give me validation' posts now.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:11 PM
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What TRP ends up doing is not making you more depressed, but less concerned. After a while you just don't care about anything but your own world. Now, this sounds really arrogant but the fact is 'your own world' includes your principles and your staunch beliefs. Being a principled, self-sufficient, and totally present individual in a world full of chaos. It just brings order and calm to an otherwise destructive whirlpool of confusion and misinformation. Kind of like seeing the code behind the pr…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 04:40 PM
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So this implies direct and coordinated attempts at belittling your position to maintain their power. I refer you back to my previous comment, and the dogmatic oppressor. It's not the responsibility of anyone but the oppressed to carve their path out of their dire circumstances. See: Nelson Mandela and apartheid. He created his opportunity, he didn't expect it from others because his situation was 'unfair'. Tough shit, life is unfair. The lion will eat the gazelle even if the gazelle loves its fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:25 PM
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I got a lot of attention from her, but it wasn't worth the emotional turmoil. She gave me more attention than anything because I was TRP as fuck with her. I just don't like being emotionally abused, and wasn't unplugged at the time so I stuck with her for way longer than I should have. Sex was great, though.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:24 PM
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But women are in places of leadership. Why do they need to be equally represented? If they can't make their way up there, they don't deserve to be up there. Compete like the rest of us. Deserve is a really powerful word because it implies that these people are born with the right to have equal representation. No one deserves anything at all, and rights are created by and for humans. They don't exist in nature. Nothing in nature deserves anything else. Trees don't deserve sunlight, they fight oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:22 PM
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Please elaborate, I am confused where you are going with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:11 PM
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Sure, but are you legit trying to say that most men aren't hornier and more desperate for sex than women? If you gave all men the option of choosing between commitment with no sex, and sex with no commitment, they would choose the sex. You can call me out all you want, but just basic observation will make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:08 PM
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I don't think gender determines the speed of maturity. I think life experience does that, and for women the justice system has created a huge fluffy pillow where men have a concrete floor. Let me put it this way: a trust fund baby (let's say male) will never mature as fast as an orphaned slum baby (let's say female). In this case, gender doesn't matter. The degree to which a person is responsible for their own actions, words, and behaviors is what determines the speed at which they will mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:06 PM
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Are you surprised that I'm not consuming everything everyone on TRP says as gospel? Or that I have a mind of my own to make decisions and conclusions with? It's in my power to interpret the advice on TRP in whatever way I like. Anyone can write on TRP. EVEN FEMINISTS (GASP)! The goal, for you as well as the rest of the world is to read things without assigning it to a 'side'. This isn't about your camp vs my camp. This is about general discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:00 PM
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I don't crave commitment, I can't speak for other men. While I am getting all my sexual needs satisfied, I'm content with the commitment I get from my friends and family. Maybe one day when I want a kid, but until then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:52 PM
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I said "broad over the counter bits of wisdom", not lies. Wisdom is rooted in truth. The point of wisdom is to recognize a pattern and create a 'rule to follow' that prevents you from hitting a pitfall on your way to success. For example, "Go to college!". Some of the richest people in the world didn't go to college. Doesn't mean it's bad wisdom, because for the most part going to college is a good choice for specializing and having a successful future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:50 PM
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The TRP 'assertions' are meant to be broad over-the-counter bits of wisdom to help the basic bitches of the male community (BP betas) to stop being basic bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:42 PM
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That's true, I think where the 'women are children' trope that TRP talks about comes into play is with regards to responsibility. The general consensus is that the societal burden of responsibility doesn't fall on the woman, especially if there's a man in the mix. For example, women tend to get the kid in divorce proceedings. This makes them have to answer for their failed marriage less than the man. If a woman is attacked on the street, men are responsible for rushing to her protection. If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:36 PM
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I think what he's getting at is: men crave sex, women offer the release. Women crave commitment, men offer the release. It's like a valve switch. Both men and women want committed loving relationships with amazing animal sex. The thing is, men (predominantly) seek out sex by 'auditioning' to women all over the world with pickup lines and approaches. Women, on the other hand, don't (typically) approach men. This is because what they are looking for comes after the approach, after the sex, and aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:30 PM
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OP needs to answer the question: Why the fuck do women deserve equal representation at all levels of government and positions of leadership? No one deserves anything. Least of all respect and representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:22 PM
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My father was a natural stoic, so I picked that up from him. Keep a cool head, regardless of the situation. The only thing that can perturb your faculties (your mind, your consciousness, etc) is you. No one can reach into your brain and force you to be angry or regretful. You choose to be angry or regretful. Look at it this way: when you're stabbed with a knife the pain is physical. You can see it. It hurts, your body gives you a response to what it's going through. Now, when you get confronted,…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:05 PM
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I was with a rape victim about a year after the incident. It wasn't the incident that was the problem, though. I understand the trauma (only insofar as I can imagine how traumatic that is), and I completely sympathized with her situation. But even then, a woman should be aware of how traumatic it is to constantly pellet your LTR with details of the rape. The problem arises when she starts using her situation in order to gain more validation, sympathy, and attention from you. The most important t…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:49 PM
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I think you are confusing your ego with RP theory. First off, don't talk to people about TRP outside of TRP. It's a recipe for disaster. Second, your mom is Indian. She's probably conservative. As someone with a conservative mother I can tell you 100% of the time: hear the words coming out of her mouth, and understand that she is only trying to help. Whether or not the shit is useful, you hear it, nod with a smile, and walk away. Now, calling your mom a prostitute has got to be just the dumbest …
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:27 PM
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Follow these guys' advice. Keep banging her, but don't go hiking with her. She's your distraction too, now. Don't take it personally. Once you have 3-4 distractions she won't matter.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:16 PM
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That was interesting to read because it accurately describes the one plate I have who has a low n-count. I find they also front-load honesty because they want it back.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:00 PM
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Just think about the following facts: You love her and she loves you and cares for you, but she could at any moment feel 'slighted' by something you've done, and withdraw all her affection and support. You and her both believe a sexless marriage doesn't work, and she is making no efforts to add sex to the marriage You are going to be permanently hitched: financially, emotionally, physically, and if you get children we're talking permanently. Don't do this for her, her family, your family, your p…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:53 PM
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This 100%
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:45 PM
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Also very little more humiliating. I've seen grown men cry after losing a fight and it's not because of physical pain.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:44 AM
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That last sentence is why I started Muay Thai. If I can learn to hold my own, I really fucking should have already.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 07:32 PM
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Yep. Being influenced by outside actors is irrational. Everyone presents a very particular image of themselves, and no one is truly happy. There are only those who know their direction and those who are lost and seeking breadcrumbs of validation. Limit the sphere of outside influences to your conscience. Everything outside of that can't be affected by thought. The only thing you can change with thought is your own actions and words. Stay strong, keep being awesome.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 01:07 PM
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Everyone has their own way of cultivating discipline. I like to tell people that there's no one stopping you. It's literally as easy as stop playing vidya, stop fapping, and browsing Reddit. You have the will and the way, you are just avoiding the responsibility. Eating well can be cultivated when you know you have a cheat meal once a week. Lifting, for me, is easiest in the morning (5:45 am). If you wake up super early for the sole purpose of lifting, you don't have anything else lined up. You …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:58 PM
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I will definitely check that out. Thanks for the suggestion!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:36 PM
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First things first: questions on askTRP. Based on the few seconds I spent on your post history: stop doing opiates. Stop blaming the world for your problems. Pick up a fucking weight, run a fucking lap, and read a few pages every day for the rest of your life. In a year you'll feel like an idiot. OH MY GAD A YEAR? Fuck you change takes time. Be disciplined, be patient, and stop fucking worrying what other people think of you. Everyone dies and none of this actually matters outside your own head.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 11:04 PM
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Works a bit better, but doesn't flat out just work. Also, if you are an attractive male and you want to attract 9s/10s then you have to be TRP minded and have solid frame. Being attractive just gives you more room to flounder at the bottom without feeling like you are floundering. Being nice is anti-seductive. edit: words
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:12 PM
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I tend to have an easier time just following the No Zero rule. I'm glad you brought up cheat meals though, because that applies roughly to all the different avenues you're describing. Reward isn't bad, it just needs to be taken in moderation. You WANT to play WoW for the next 8 hours, but if you went to the gym, socialized, did your hobby/passion, read a bit, then played for 2-3 hours instead you wouldn't feel bad and you would still receive the reward. The best days for me are days when I know …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:22 PM
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A wild moderate appears! Edit: It's super effective!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:44 PM
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I would agree, but I'd say it's a minority of people. (who have absolutely no chance and shouldn't be pressured into feeling they don't belong)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:02 PM
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It's retarded to think this sort of specialization is genetically coded. You aren't saying "we don't know", you're saying "we know, and there's no natural factors". Again like I said, I'm not trying to convince you, but you can't convince me it's entirely nurture when you state that we can't even prove it (unresolved science). You make a claim, too. Defend it, or don't make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:26 PM
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Mate I did provide proof, what are you doing? The proof isn't to your liking? You believe it's unsubstantiated? It's not enough? That's your right. But if you want to convince me otherwise, provide your own damn sources. I'm not trying to convince you. I'm giving you what I can see. I would love for you to prove me wrong. Nothing would make me happier, because my mind would be directed towards the truth. I am waiting for that moment. The thing is, you aren't. The main point of this post was to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 08:17 PM
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I can't claim it isn't unresolved science. But your claim that nurture has a much more prevalent effect is also unsubstantiated, and this nature vs. nurture debate has been ongoing for some time. Just look at the Norwegian gender equality paradox. Outside of sociology and social sciences, these questions are rarely asked specifically because it's a taboo to say "this is inherently male" or "this is inherently female". The fact is we don't fund that research much because "we don't want to know". …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 07:50 PM
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https://books.google.com/books/about/The_Essential_Difference.html?id=N9BgBL0JtgUC&hl=en "...there’s an extreme “female brain” which is high in emotional empathy—but not so good at systems analysis. By contrast, the extreme “male brain” excels in systems thinking and is poor at emotional empathy (he does not mean that all men have the “male brain,” nor all women the “female brain” of course; many women are skilled at systems thinking, and many men at emotional empathy)." Read this book, or look …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 07:10 PM
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Imo do what you want the way you want to make yourself happy. Don't start/stop lifting or reading and educating yourself for women. You are smart because you don't want to be stupid; you are strong because you don't want to be weak. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:46 PM
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A man can hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:08 PM
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He is speaking metaphorically, obviously. This is the kind of personal attack that means nothing and gets us nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:07 PM
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That's a very interesting perspective. This concept of alpha and beta is fascinating mostly because they are such eclectic terms. They have been used in both negative and positive lights, and I would agree that a mix of both exists in everyone. I would, however, disagree that most men are natural betas. I think men are conditioned to become beta, and for one primary reason: little boys are basically alpha as fuck until their parents pound beta tendencies into them. I had a gradual slide from nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 03:20 PM
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Make them scream, make their legs shake, make them call you amazing, make them want to suck your dick because you fucked them so good.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 07:33 PM
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As Patrice O'Neal said: "It's easy to like a woman, but it's impossible to love them."
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:01 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32UGD0fV45g I mean, I lel'd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:56 PM
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What makes me interesting in my opinion: humor, creativity, and open mindedness. In other peoples' opinions: humor, creativity, and focus/discipline. What I am passionate about: design field (my career), guitar (my hobby), weight lifting (my activity), and video games (my pastime).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:49 PM
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You need to consider context here: I'm not saying women aren't rational or are incapable of rationally coming to decisions. I said specifically that when the situation becomes emotional it becomes near impossible to convince a woman to behave rationally. At that moment, in the heat of emotion, reason makes no sense to her. And you're right, maybe I have had the worst experiences. But the fact is a majority of women behave like that, because if they didn't I would've found an exception (at least …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 05:39 PM
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I'm 24 years old, and I've had multiple relationships throughout middle school, high school, college, and afterwards. I've never had problems meeting new women, and I've dated everyone from 14 (when I was that old, don't get creepy) to 27 thus far. Maybe that isn't 'mature' enough but it's a big enough sample size. I started reading up on TRP a year after graduating college (about 6 months ago) after a particularly backwards series of relationships (3 in particular, one after the other, that did…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:24 PM
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What? No. She gave you a service you paid for. If you want to take the shot and never go back there again, that's fine. I just don't see that as any indicator of interest.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:53 PM
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That platitude is 100% of the reason why I swallowed the pill. It was shoved down my throat my entire life and I believed it, but practice makes perfect and experience is the ultimate teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:58 PM
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Absolutely, unless he's a sociopath. If you share interests with someone, you will be more likely to have lengthy conversations of substance. The more someone talks to you and shares beliefs, ideals, goals, and passions, the more you connect on a psycho-social level. My intention is just to point out that no, it isn't necessary for the man in a sexual relationship. Also, to say that you should seek those things out for yourself, not for your man. It's the only way you will truly care about those…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:49 PM
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I think if women started to think more rationally (specifically when they are in an emotional state) that would provide the man with enough value outside of sex. I only play the 'game' because I have to. If I could, I would be totally real and down to earth with every woman I got with but experience tells me it just doesn't work like that. The more you make that a reality, the more of a fantasy you become. This means avoiding cornering-questions (will you leave me if I get fat?), demonstrating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:23 PM
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For a man who has a value system, his value system is capable of providing him with all the fulfillment he needs. His social ties and his passions drive his life. Are men only interested in women for sex? No, not necessarily. But if you're in an LTR the primary difference between you and his best buds is that you fuck him and they don't. The other things women offer in an LTR are, in my opinion: 1- Loyalty 2- Respect (limit the shit tests as much as possible) A 'keeper', if you will, is someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:01 PM
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Extroverted women will be more attractive to shy men because they're pussies. See, if you believe this then you will never understand TRP and should stop spending any more time trying to understand it. There is something genuinely wrong with the way both men and women are conditioned, and if you were never shy you would never understand how it felt for people who were. If TRP changes that for them, and you have a legit problem with it, then you have an inconsistent mindset. Let me explain: 1-Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:01 PM
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I think that men don't need any of that extra passion to be attracted to a woman. What it boils down to is physical attractiveness. Seduction can come into play, and conversation plays a big part in seduction, but for the most part if you gave men an option to take out seduction, conversation, and 'bonding' they would. The equation would actually be a lot easier for us without all that extra legwork. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be adding value to your own life. But the fact is whether or not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:42 PM
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Nah y'all shoot down everything with unilateral force. The same way we do. People need to start reading and stop making judgements so quickly. Don't be part of a 'camp'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:24 PM
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They protect their views with the same voracity that we protect our views. People are just consistently stubborn all across the board. We're all the fucking same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:23 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but I don't believe it's a deliberate attempt by anyone. I just think people don't like listening to people who don't agree with their viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:16 AM
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Lots of PUA is snakeoil trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:07 AM
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That's probably more accurate than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:02 AM
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If you don't understand something but it has been shown to help people tremendously, does that make it bad? That being said, I don't think there's some grand BP conspiracy to repress men. I just think people only seek out new information when they are looking for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:45 AM
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TRP doesn't suggest that it does, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 09:49 PM
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Ah, understood. Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:02 PM
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I'm talking natural masculinity, not forced masculinity. That forced masculinity comes from a place of insecurity and doubt. Natural masculinity doesn't mean getting in peoples' faces and being an asshole, it just means confidently going your own way; defending your principles and being confident. I think the primary issue I had with that part of your post is the general 'toxicity' that masculinity is associated with. People nowadays generally tend to associate femininity with purity, and mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:56 PM
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Stop fapping more than once every two weeks, see if that helps (note: it will) Stop watching porn completely. That should help with approaching. Also, start meditating anyway.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:47 PM
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Trust me brah, you carry yourself right and blush women will fall for you because they will inherently see trust and love and admiration on your face. I'm not joking when I say you can abuse this as a tactic for improving your game, it really doesn't need to be a bad thing.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:46 PM
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No Zero Days is what I think whenever I fail at doing something I needed to do (eg. get sick and can't go to MT class). I just make sure to use that time reading, practicing an instrument, or socializing. Then the next week I make sure to go to MT practice :'( because otherwise I get crippling depression for not having done what I was supposed to.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:45 PM
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a sense of ease within himself (ie isn't obsessed with his sense of masculinity) A sense of masculinity is natural to any man. The way I understand that, ease within oneself is confidence, and confidence can come from hefty boat-loads of masculinity (read: testosterone) more than anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:34 PM
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without using money There's the difference. Men can increase their SMV through means other than looks, whereas for women it is primarily physical. Flip the script to see what I mean: an attractive woman with billions in the bank is no more alluring to me than an attractive woman who lives on the streets. The degree of my sexual interest is based purely on physical attributes. A woman wouldn't be seen dead fucking a gorgeous homeless man, but would tell the entire world if her gorgeous man was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:35 PM
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The purpose of the statement is to say that men have to have a sexual strategy on improving their value. My point was entirely to say: women can leave the womb pretty and find casual sex easily; she literally need do nothing else. She can just 'be herself'. A man who is beautiful doesn't have the same access; he has to be responsible for developing his mind and his body and his charisma and his wit in order to have as much casual sex as his female counterpart. This isn't about scoring people and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 04:00 PM
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I'm not talking specifically how someone looks, I'm talking perceived value. I would have to assume that you have other qualities besides your looks that define your value. How much are you worth vs. how much is she worth? Value can be determined by lots of things, not just physical appearance. It's often subjective, too. A 7 for you might be a 10 for someone else, or a 3 for me. The point is how she sees you and you make her see you when you first met. That's how sexual strategy works for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:53 PM
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re·spect rəˈspekt/ noun a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. aka. exactly what he said edit: bolded for clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:36 PM
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Sexual strategy can be defined as a set of tactics for attracting the best value partner you can. This applies to both men and women. An average guy can only attract an average (or below average) woman. This is primarily because average men often date down (perceived scarcity of the vagine, high supply of other dicks, blue pill conditioning) and average women date up (perceived value of the vagine, high supply of dicks, pick of the litter). The goal of TRP is to get men to realize they don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:31 PM
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See this is part of the problem. You shame men for not being able to find a partner, calling to question their maturity and social aptitude. Their natural 'fitness' comes into question, and they feel like something is inherently wrong with them. This is why the Red Pill exists in the first place. The goal is getting men to understand their potential and give them control over their bodies and minds. Of course any average guy can find casual sex with some random chick who he isn't interested in. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:05 PM
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Cultivate discipline don't seek out motivation.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 11:39 AM
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Gotta be witty and quick to flip the script from normal conversation to more sexual in nature. This means segue conversations from normal topics to sexually charged topics. Use eye contact. Use kino. Read the sidebar, top posts, there's lots of good material on this.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 07:50 PM
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I didn't really recognize it as a mistake but I told my chick that she was my first. She was hella into it and it ended up taking off all the pressure from me. If you cum in 20 seconds, you came who gives a fuck. Take a 3 min break and get back on that. I personally lasted way longer my first time than subsequent times, I think it's because I was more focused on the movement than the feeling. I would say tell her its your first time unless you're worried she won't fuck you because of it. I just …
/r/askTRP06/09/16 07:42 PM
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100% sounds psychological. I have buddies who have the same issues, hell I've had the same problem with certain girls. Sometimes you're just so focused on getting hard that nothing you do will get you hard. If you felt no pressure whatsoever to perform, your dick would get hard (see: watching porn, wanting to fap, waking up in the morning...)
/r/askTRP06/09/16 07:02 PM
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I lost my v-card at 22, I understand how you feel. Once you're naked together it literally becomes so easy. It's like: hey that shit hot. Wanna bang it. Pretty simple, nothing to worry about. Kissing is even easier. Set up a date and try to keep the rapport up and escalate. Don't be mad if you lose her, just use her as a way to hone your text/date game.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:57 PM
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Nah, it happens fast with some of them. If the sex is REALLY good, it's cuz she has daddy issues.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:51 PM
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So you try to pursue what is true, which is the I? The authentic whatever the fuck is inside and behind all that was programmed or indoctrinated?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 12:44 AM
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I don't think it's a waste of time, I think it's just something that's hard to wrap your head around. There are some people here who do care enough to try and understand why the TRP revelation was so profound. I can understand that there have to be other revelations waiting to happen, but don't know how to direct my life towards those realizations. What do you mean by "To see you, challenge yourself."? Does this imply self improvement again? Or is this about mindfulness and objectivity?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 12:34 AM
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kind of easy to find excuses
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 05:10 PM
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Resentment is natural. You would be resentful if some fat chick friend of yours started cutting, got real sexy, and started fucking other dudes. You would also be resentful if one of your buddies took control of his life, started making money, and slaying pussy left and right. It's natural for us to be assholes, and not want anyone else to surpass us. You just have to judge the value of the criticism. If someone is saying "hey man, if you wanna lose weight you should cut out those soft drinks!" …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 06:24 PM
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How do you separate ego from self-actualization? How do I separate the fact that my ego tells me I need to be a certain way, and that's what motivates me to become that certain way? Eg. I lift, do cardio, and practice MT because my ego (since child) has been big enough to make me feel I need to satisfy this image of myself. But then again, I can't separate that ego from the ego that makes me feel jealous or angry at a fallen plate or a missed opportunity. I find what puts my mind in a state of f…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 01:18 PM
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If you genuinely believe you were physically incapable of going and still beat yourself up it means you need some serious meditation, and you need to read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. He's one of the best reads on stoicism. And before you start shitting on philosophy because boohoo this that or the other, remember that one of the greatest stoics was Epictetus and he was a fucking slave.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 12:12 PM
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Lets talk about facts and forget feelz for a sec. You had two options after getting home: Go to the gym Stay home and cry Option 1 would have gotten you one day closer to your goals (fact), pumped dopamine into your system (fact) and gotten your mind focused on the lift (fact) Option 2 got you covered in nasty bathroom floor tears (fact). All because you see yourself as pathetic (feelz) LOOK AT YOUR OPTIONS, AND THE FACTS. Wipe the fucking tears off your face and go do what the fuck you know is …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 11:55 AM
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To his credit, I watched the video and Passio lays things out differently than you might think. Ignore mentions of the occult and it's actually a very interesting viewpoint. The video also seeks to find a solution, he even suggests some.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:51 PM
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Black Phillip Show, it's all on YouTube.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:49 PM
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The facts: You got head You thought she was female You never have to see her again I don't see any problems. Move on, call it a 'fucked up college story' to keep with you or share as a joke.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:28 PM
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Meditations - Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:45 PM
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Sex God Method
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:38 PM
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That's all I'm asking. My intention was to counterbalance your comment with one that supported the idea of changing viewpoints. The efficacy of the content is up to you as an individual, I haven't even seen it yet! Also, primarily the hypocrisy of being on TRP and neglecting opposing viewpoints. Just seems wacky to me. Edit: If you have content that disproves 'conspiratorial' narratives, pls link. Like I said, I'd love to see that viewpoint too.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:59 PM
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Do you have any talents and passions? Are you focused on your studies? Do you know what you want to do with your career? Where are you going to for college? What major? Why? Do you lift? Do you run? Do you fight? Do you eat right? You have so much shit to figure out, forget what other people think about you: what the fuck do you think of yourself? If you have nothing to be confident about, of course you're not going to be confident. Everyone has a certain idealized image of themselves... If you'…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 01:55 PM
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Contextually speaking, I agree with you James. Subtextually (thinking), I am consciously choosing to open my mind to any possibility. I don't deny myself information; fact or fiction. The point is analyzing the information after you have consumed it, rather than assuming its farcical nature and closing your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:46 PM
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I'm a skeptic, but I'll catch the video (in bits probably, that's 4.5 not 3.5 hours...jeeeeeeezus) I watched the Rich Man's Game video that you posted in a comment about a month ago, and though I don't believe most of the information that's provided, I do tend to believe that being amenable to new information is key in developing yourself internally... It would be hypocritical for anyone on TRP to shut down a differing viewpoint, because TRP was at one point a differing and unconventional viewpo…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:33 PM
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I haven't whipped my skippy all week Best way to beat approach anxiety in my humble opinion.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:24 PM
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This has nothing to do with TRP. This is about personal ideals and actualizing them.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:49 AM
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I can't help you if you keep missing the point. Your LTR's opinion of you shouldn't fucking matter. If your standards are low and you have no purpose, you will never understand what I mean. If you have high standards and clear passions and purpose, everyone can see it. You don't even need to say anything.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:51 PM
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But that's the thing: you don't need to outshine everyone on the planet. You have an image of yourself, some ideal conceptualization. Do everything you can to get there and once you do no one else can tell you you're not great, because you define that for yourself. And if you think Bill Gates is satisfied with his accomplishments thus far, he isn't. That's why he keeps creating more value. That's the goal: to always be creating value for yourself and others and not comparing yourself to other pe…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:43 PM
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It's not about being more attractive physically than every other male on the planet. As Marcus Aurelius would say: "All is opinion". You can believe some billionaire somewhere is better than you but I choose to live day to day doing what I can to improve myself. To get back on point, I don't look for an LTR because I'm working on myself.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:28 PM
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I am as attractive as Brad Pitt though. Edit: and it's not just about looking good, it's about being a great man.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:58 AM
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But that number will never become 0. Speak for yourself. This is why I live day to day. Women are an added benefit like chocolate cake or brunch.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:45 AM
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I also find telling friends about your passions forces you into a corner if you have a big ego. You don't want to disappoint yourself or your friends and it adds social pressure to stick to your guns and follow through.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 11:27 AM
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Drop the bitch, never talk to her again. That is bordering on fucking insane.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 05:51 PM
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So for me, I was so focused on my studies before graduating. Really just focused on doing well before I finished up college, had an LTR at the time. Stayed with her till I graduated, then I was focused on the job hunt so that kept going. Once I found a job I left her and started focusing on my work and setting myself a tight schedule so I can get done all the things I like to do (guitar, lifting, MT, reading, etc) and have spun a few plates since. I think the main thing is: stop focusing so much…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 05:43 PM
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You style in this photo you linked here is pretty typical of what TRP's community is ballsy enough to wear imo. The accessories I feel come from within you, not without. What I mean is that I accessorize my wrists for example, but I always have. Sometimes my neck, but again it's because it goes with who I am and how I act and what my talents and passions are. But good on you for writing something that isn't exactly what someone else said last week (unlike the rest of TRP's posts).
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 05:30 PM
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100% confirmed
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:16 PM
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“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese Proverb
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:13 AM
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Everyone fucks up, point is to get back on the horse. It's normal to have a wet dream, get over it. I don't see you going wrong anywhere, you're just being impatient. It takes a while to mould yourself into the thing you want to become. Keep at it brah, we're all gonna make it. edit* haven't read Manson, but I have read Rational Male. I think the purpose of that book is to unplug, so it has a different approach. As someone who was thoroughly indoctrinated and 100% feminist, I needed a book like …
/r/askTRP26/08/16 08:16 PM
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Something about BP conditioning makes BP men think that women are fragile, and any 'real' emotion that she isn't protected from makes you an asshole... I definitely had this problem. It's a man's place to define that for himself, not to have it defined for him by society. We wouldn't be considered assholes for behaving in the exact same way with a guy, but because it's a woman all of a sudden we aren't being fair or equitable enough. Basically pandering has become 'nice', and standing your groun…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 08:03 PM
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Then it shouldn't phase you if they leave or stay right? Just be content.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:51 PM
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"Rather not lose them just yet" Go hunting man.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:40 PM
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Talking to other women produces dread, which is never a bad thing in an LTR. Would I be unhappy in a relationship because my woman has slept with 50 other men in the course of what can only be a year or two? Yeah, I would be unhappy. Would I talk to her about it? Absolutely not. Would I commit to her? Absolutely not.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:03 PM
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It's about grabbing life by the reigns and not letting time pass by without taking action. Live life without regrets, etc. You could read it, too. Don't expect other people to do your work for you.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 03:29 PM
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This is the sticky from /fit/ on 4chan. It has everything you need to not be retarded in the gym READ THE FUCKING STICKY http://liamrosen.com/fitness.html#part3
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:02 PM
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100% pay her whatever you owe her, close any loose ends, and make a break for it. Remove her from social media, delete her phone number, all her texts, snapchat, instagram, whatsapp, I don't care what else you're connected on. Excise her from your life like a cancer. Also pat yourself on the back for seeing the lack of respect and the threats and walking away. Just be confident in your choice. First one's always the hardest (I got fat and lazy and regressed into video games for years after my fi…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:43 PM
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Design field
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:22 PM
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"Do I look as hot as Brad Pitt?"
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:05 PM
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Instruments! Guitar and Piano. Edit: cultivated by playing the instrument 3-4 times a week for 1-3 hours depending on how much time I have.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:55 PM
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Breathe from your diaphragm, speak from your diaphragm. Don't be nasal. Try closing your nose with your fingers and talking using only breath you take from your mouth. You can also look up singing tutorials because they try really hard to focus all the singing voice from the diaphragm (which is considered the more stable, consistent, root source for the sounds we make)
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 02:37 PM
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I'm a minority and I have absolutely no problems. Don't bother yourself with popular opinion.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 12:41 PM
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Seriously though, a public bathroom? Dark corner in a park? Bathroom in the club! Or her place man.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:09 AM
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That's a good point, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 09:01 PM
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So it's less a question on the efficacy of imitation and more about awareness, mindfulness, and the pursuit of true authenticity despite the overwhelming influence that society will project onto individuals.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:30 PM
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And I can appreciate your efforts to do that, but changing your posture to "attack" from "educate" is highly ineffective, especially when one of the people you are trying to expose to this novel and relevant concept is trying to understand it through discourse. Copying everything you see is bad, my argument is: imitating some things is good; I would even go so far as to say necessary. Whether you follow things that speak to truth (non-fiction, researched and sourced material, some of the advice …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:07 PM
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Actually my intention was to have you clarify the part of your post that differs from that platitude, not to offend your writing capabilities.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 07:53 PM
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Imitation of fiction is an exercise in futility because fiction is inherently scripted. You won't get any argument from me there. I would say that media and entertainment have skewed the global perspective and truth has become harder to grasp through that medium, while at the same time the proliferation of information has made truth easier to find (though possibly harder to grasp given the saturation of information available to us). It's up to the individual whether they choose to mirror the tru…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 07:38 PM
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Imitation isn't the problem though. Imitation is natural and necessary for the progression of any and all forms of understanding. When you're born you imitate your parents, you imitate your siblings, you imitate your friends. Hell even everyone on here is trying to imitate someone who embodies the image they see themselves attaining. There's this book called Mastery by Robert Greene (TRP suggests a lot of his books). A big part of mastery is the Apprenticeship Phase, which is described as a phas…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 06:56 PM
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I really like your posts PRT. Keep it up. My personal method for sharpening my discipline is to make a clear schedule. The schedule has everything I have to do every day, including time off for relaxing and socializing and the like. It sounds really anal but the fact is so long as I'm following the schedule I have nothing to worry about/decide. It's not that I have to convince myself to do Muay Thai after work, it's that it's on my schedule and if I want to relax instead of doing MT I just have …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:06 PM
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Everyone goes through rough patches. Your job is to get up and keep going. You either die of thirst or crawl to the oasis. I think something TRP doesn't harp on enough is how important having a good friend is. I mean, maybe you want to have hundreds of friends but for me just one trustworthy compatible buddy who you can talk to and share your shit with goes a long way.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:42 PM
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What's hilarious is you won, and you're hamstering your way into losing. lelelel
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:35 PM
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Color of (anything) Sound of (anything) How (anything) feels How (anything) thinks Current events Incongruities in American politics Pubic hair Don't walk in with anything in mind, just walk in.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:33 PM
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Find a nice bush in a dark corner.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:18 PM
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Im a minority and have been with high smv women. You wanna give up go ahead brah but if you're not doing this shit for yourself then you deserve to be pathetically complaining on an Internet forum.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:11 PM
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I think for me the go-to response when dealing with women in any capacity (sexual, of course) is to consider how you would act if you had 10 plates and could find a ONS at the drop of a hat. "If I had all those women, how would I treat this one?" TL;DR just walk away and be happy you nailed her and got a morning blowjob. Those are the best.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:28 PM
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From the great Rollo: "Always be aware of the subconscious balance of who’s frame in which you are operating" Key note: you're operating in a frame, you're not breaking any frame. Either you operate in her frame, or she operates in yours. IMO I agree with you, OP should've just not gone to the bar tbh. Also OP why aren't you just spinning her? I don't really ever go out with my plates.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:17 PM
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Never tell any girl your n-count. That's figuratively just ammo in the chamber for them. 7.5 and she's getting chased a lot? Man I've been with 9s who try hard to impress. Basically stop pedestalizing her. You and your friend can just go back out and find more women. Follow the rest of the advice, either close with this 7 or walk away and find another opportunity. edit* also stop shitting on your friend if he's the one out sarging with you. Either help him or realize that being negative about hi…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:07 PM
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A few months ago on this sub I found a long documentary with a bunch of conspiracy theories that go back to WWI. Was kinda hard to believe most of what he said without doing the research myself, and I cba to fact check all his shit. Either way, I started to consider how people in power manipulated society. Not saying it's true or false, just something worth considering. It was called something like the Rich Man's Game. Had to do with Kennedy.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 02:16 PM
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Every day I write down my affirmation and my focus in my journal. My affirmation is "Seek fulfillment over happiness" and my focus is "mastery". What those mean to me are unique, obviously, but still it's what I've distilled from life and TRP thus far.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:57 PM
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All I know is sugar is an addictive substance. Treat it like crack. Shit makes you want it 10x more if you have it, and the moment you stop having it you stop craving it. Don't fucking buy chocolate wafers. Don't fucking pay for the candy. Don't allow yourself the opportunity to consume it. I remember like 8 years ago I used to eat an entire 33oz. thing of Nutella in a couple days. The only way I stopped is by not even considering buying it anymore. At this point I don't even like sugar anymore …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:36 PM
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The only evidence you need to prove this is all true is to take a quick look at the BP subreddit. You won't need to look long, because all of their posts are responses to our posts. They basically spend all their time rationalizing everything we say. It's like they use our content to reinforce their own belief system which, if you think about it, is a very effective method for keeping people ignorant. “Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it” - Adolf…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:00 PM
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The best therapy when it comes to ONEitis is seeing your preconceived notions shatter in front of you at the hands of a 5'-2" parasite. That feeling of being tread on, being manipulated, receiving emotional roundhouse-kicks from someone who should have no access to your wellbeing. You begin to see what she says doesn't correspond with how she acts! You begin to see that literally every 'contribution' she has to a conversation is something that's been thought, done, said, and contemplated hundred…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 12:38 PM
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Humans weren't meant to fly, go to space, create civilizations, invent AC or live in a box 400' in the sky. The Internet and entertainment and screens all have their place the goal is understanding moderation and not losing sight of the value of your time. I suggest you design a schedule. Schedules are the shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 11:38 AM
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If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; This is the hardest part of trying to live philosophically through stoicism. I've just started reading Meditations and this tendency for "allowance for their doubting too" is the hardest thing to internalize.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:40 PM
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I am a woman No one cares men don't want to have kids You are a woman, what do you know? If you wanna post at least read the rules and spend a couple weeks familiarizing yourself with the content and popular opinion.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:30 AM
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Rally your energies into appreciating the attitude you have, into making pain a motivator. Value your growth and don't depend on feelz for progress. Feelz pass and then you find yourself lacking proper motivation. The equivalent beta attitude is lifting for women. Lift for yourselves gentlemen. What feels good is knocking down a deadlift PR and feeling like a fucking conqueror. I just wish conquering was still a thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:25 AM
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Don't be a sacrifice slut
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:14 PM
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Be high value according to your own values. I don't mean the values you read on here, I mean your values. If your values are to get 100+ pussies wet, then go do it. If you value pussy over success, then fucking go for it and don't bother needing to justify it. If your values are to be a chef in a michelin star restaurant, or to conquer a fear, or to climb a mountain, then fucking do it and don't try to justify it. BUT If you quit a lucrative career because years of shaming and neglect have made …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:43 PM
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Well getting to the high value part is the difficult thing. No shit, that's why 90% of the guys don't do it. Don't be the 90%.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:30 PM
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It's really not that hard once you're high value. Women will literally shoot burning hot IOIs at you while commuting, while grabbing a sandwich, while walking to the table to meet your friends in a bar. The only time consuming part of the courting process is the first date. After that it should be established that you're looking for sex and for further dates to be a waste of your time and money. Set up a day or two in the week where you are free to fuck, and the rest of your time should be devot…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:21 PM
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They aren't fun at first but they are very eager to please. They may be squeamish at first but you can teach her to love the dick. Just be ready for her to leave for another one at some point.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:07 PM
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your DATING/SEX LIFE needs to be your #1 priority and NOT your job. ...What? No. Sex isn't mythical and all important. Women won't make you happy, but being fulfilled in your career and your life and the thing that you do for most of your waking hours will make you happy. Don't consume, create.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 12:53 PM
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Just swipe right on everyone till you hit the limit, you can sift through the fish you caught when the week's over.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 10:15 PM
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Women want to attach themselves to men of value because they know that other women want men of value. If you are a man of value, you are selling value by offering your time. They are buying that value with sex and support and whatever else you want from them. Just for clarification, you're saying that If women want character virtues that you don't agree with, you shouldn't need to change your character/personality to accommodate them?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 01:27 PM
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"I want to be fit and sexy and fuck like a God but I want to do it by playing League of Legends for four hours a day." What we're selling is what we want in ourselves. The women either buy it or they walk.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:24 PM
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Good post! The only thing I can think to add is regarding your comment on muscle mass and strength: It takes a long time, patience is key. The thing that surprised me about muscle mass is how fucking slowly it piles on. I have been lifting for 7 years and for the first 2 I just looked 'less like shit'. Diet is arguably the most important thing besides doing the movements, and sleep well every night. It's those 3 things: food, consistency, and sleep. Never lose focus and keep up the grind. We're …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 12:43 PM
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It'll take the full force of the patriarchy to remove me from TRP at this point.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:38 PM
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Agreed. One of the most difficult things to understand as a BP male is how effective self-love is at making others love you. We're so conditioned to sacrifice we don't for a second consider what we get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:36 PM
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Anyone in their right mind would downvote you for failing 3rd grade English.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:11 PM
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I think that the single greatest boon to my confidence and self-worth as a man was the week I spent on here after having spent close to a month trying to understand why my ONEitis and "best-friend" at the time was treating me like dirt. She was someone I talked to on a daily basis, and after "sharing my feelz" she distanced herself, made me insecure, and was maliciously manipulating everything I had come to trust and adore. She had no respect for me, AND she was in control. I felt like my abilit…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:24 PM
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Welcome to TRP! There's loads of information on the sidebar that is likely to help you achieve some measure of personal happiness.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:09 PM
7

From what I've been reading on here, it's mentioned and basically ignored. There is nothing you can do to change your height, there is a lot you can do to change your physique, status, confidence, game, wealth, etc... Taller girls won't go for you, shorter girls will. Don't let what one chick said get to you. Women have a way of saying whatever it takes to get the most visceral reaction out of you. The fact that you're still thinking about what she said is a testament to how effective a shit tes…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:59 PM
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THE REGRET OF NOT APPROACHING FEELS 100% WORSE. CAN CONFIRM.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:53 PM
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Shitting on others for doing things with their days is really quite remarkable. Type away, soldier!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:51 PM
1

I would say think about sexuality as an activity that allows YOU to get off, and don't worry so much about her. What I mean by this is do what makes you feel good in the moment. Over thinking makes you want to back off, and your hamstering is giving you excuses not to escalate or try to get physical. I felt the same way for a while but really once I stopped trying to cater the experience in bed to her, or the experience in the bar to her, or the experience on the date to her, I began catering it…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:30 PM
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met·a·phor 1) a figure of speech in which a word or phrase is applied to an object or action to which it is not literally applicable. 2) a thing regarded as representative or symbolic of something else, especially something abstract.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:50 PM
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I have personally friendzoned women who were genuinely my friends and I just wasn't attracted. This has happened to me twice, and both times the girls are still around talking to me and making efforts to continue being my friend. I think they do go through it, but for them it's a different experience. Not that I know what it means to them, but they stick around being good friends after. Shrug Alls I'm saying is women do get friendzoned.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:39 PM
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That fear you get for a day before you do something new or hard or competitive can be turned into "progress fuel". If you're afraid of doing it, do it, and see how good you feel right after. I don't live more in the moment than right after doing something I never thought I could/would end up doing. Courage is underrated.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:12 PM
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