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A long discussion about money is probably a good idea but I don't think that's enough to settle the issue. we immediately merged our finances into one account. No, you didn't. He presumably did, but you secretely only contributed as much as you could get away with. Maybe you should do some soul searching as to how you could think that this was ok.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 10:01 PM
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IANAL but I would look into suing the University in civil court if they kicked you out of programs you have paid for. You have a contract with the university to give you an education, you have paid for it, and they can't let down their end just because of some tweets. This seems to be a growing business for lawyers. If you have a strong case then you may be able to find a lawyer who will sue without upfront costs for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 01:53 PM
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He doesn't complain at all about me telling him to stop talking about work. There are different ways you can say "I can't listen to any more work talk." Maybe you picked the right way, or at least an acceptable way.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 07:45 PM
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"Shhh, we're having a staring contest" was kind of funny, tough.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:09 PM
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Not the person you were replying to, but feminists (not all feminists yada, yada) were involved in getting family court to where we are now.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 04:40 PM
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Don't worry, the little boys pass out from the pain /s
/r/MensRights20/11/19 06:33 PM
47

This is what it might look like from the guy's POV: After a few gym dates, two lunch trips, and what you perceived as a magical sunset dinner cruise, she never texted once. I guess she's just not interested, I'll move on. If you're interested, maybe let him know, with words AND actions?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 04:45 AM
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As long as you don't start with "I'm a girl" you'll be fine.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:48 AM
2

Tell her you want to try something different and you like the smell of burned rubber.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:24 PM
9

"Tattoos on their thoughts" Tee-hee
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 06:40 AM
7

Now kiss!
/r/MensRights14/02/19 04:44 PM
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Did you read the first post that she linked to? She admits she was drunk, sex was consensual at first, but then he wanted to stick it in her ass after and while she said no, slapped her face leaving bruises, pulled her hair ripping out some, choked her. Again, neither you nor me know if the story is true. But there are way better examples for false rape accusations out there.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:25 PM
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I don't know if her story is true but if it was then I would call the guy a rapist too. Her story doesn't sound like a made up accusation to me.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:56 PM
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When I first saw the Egard video it was at 50k views while Gilette's was at 4m. Happy it's at 1.5m now.
/r/MensRights21/01/19 05:01 PM
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Apparently you're only supposed to piss in the shower if you're actually taking a shower WTF
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/19 04:50 PM
10

Now kiss!
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/19 09:01 PM
12

Besides, it doesn't hurt lol, she's not actually trying to hurt me. Yeah, she only shows you that she doesn't respect you and you show her that you accept that.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/19 07:54 PM
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Tell them you have a business doing breast enlargement by massage. They can try it, 50$/30min, money back guarantee if not satisfied.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:45 AM
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Nope, a verdict that says "proven guilty" is enough.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 05:18 PM
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Women will fill the space you give them, that goes for your mom, too. She does this shit because you let her. Some women stir up fights because their lives are not emotionally fulfilled, a fight will allow them to live emotions. Maybe that's the case with your mom. How to stop it? Staying "stoic" and going home didn't work as you have found out. BTW stoic does not mean simply taking everything. To me being stoic means not being emotional at an inappropriate time. Maybe try something such as tell…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:46 PM
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If she'd open her mind to more types of men, she'd have a much better chance at finding a good quality man. Idk her requirements are Doctor, taller than 5ft6, not overweight, younger than 60, kind but also stern. Additional preferences (not requirements) are surgeon, her to be able to be a SAHM. If anything I'd advise her to go mid fourties max, preferably late thirties max.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/18 05:28 PM
51

Let's make 1984 fiction again!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 04:15 PM
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a butch lesbian with a beard. ...in your pants
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/18 03:59 PM
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Idk, angels don't nag their husbands so that they never want to cook again. Also angels don't have husbands that always need their approval. Your mom sounds like a woman who is nice to little children, but does not know how to handle adult to adult interactions, because no one ever taught her.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 04:45 PM
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In other words: AF/BB
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 05:37 AM
7

you swallow your pride and be more respectful Why do you think you have to swallow your pride in order to be more respectful? Being respectful to another person should not bring you down in any way unless they don't deserve that kind of respect.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/18 04:46 PM
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A normal response is for him to take pride in seeing him in his element and respecting him for being great at what he does. Maybe. However the following quote is from the original post: I'm not particularly a fan
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 04:28 PM
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You might want to add a section on different circumcision styles. Sometimes doctors fold back part or all of the foreskin preserving the nerveendings as well as the frenulum, sometimes they cut away as much as they possibly can. Different styles very likely will have different impact. Also keratinization and further desensitization due to lack of protection usually happens later in life. Last I would guess there is a difference between circumcision with vs. without anesthetics.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:44 PM
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If 5 drinks every night is the only bad thing about your husband then I would say yes, he is one of the good guys. And if you were nagging about this all the time then you were a bad wife. That said I think 5 drinks or getting tipsy every night is too much healthwise, but that's just me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:14 PM
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This is funny because your acquaintance probably typed her post on a computer or phone that was delivered by men on roads built by men, powered by electricity provided by men, sitting in a house built by men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 07:33 PM
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I am left quite an anxious and insecure individual because of the way my ex treated me in the past; my ex had a very bad temper and would often swear at me and hit me when he was unhappy. That's not your current guy's fault. But you act as if it was.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 03:07 PM
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First of all you may want to ask your husband if he wants you to join as well. If you do join, then: Don't worry about being a buzzkill. They probably invited you because they like you. Be the person they invited not someone else. Don't try hard to not appear boring. Don't try to be one of the guys. Don't think of "things to talk about on a guys trip". See above. Bring some books or something so you don't have to be with the guys 24/7.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 08:41 AM
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Men are bad at recognizing and dealing with toxic women. I think this is where women could contribute the most.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 07:43 AM
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Bullet points are even worse. You'll probably misword something if you wing it. If you are afraid of that, then there is something wrong. Hopefully it's just that you are currently LDR.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 10:58 PM
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You will probably get better advice from women on what to do. However, having you read a long letter to me via skype would probably creep me out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 09:46 PM
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"I don't want you to be familiar with X anymore. I'd prefer if you cut her out entirely for my comfort." This is a solution, not the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:44 PM
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Idk just don't fall into the trap "she gives me sex I buy her stuff". Remember: you're the price.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:02 AM
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If a man is really that worried about this, he can quietly and secretly take the child’s hair and his hair and get a paternity test. Problem solved. That depends on location. There are countries where it' illegal to take a mouth swab without the mother's consent. Don’t need to raise a child that isn’t your own, if you have legitimate proof. That also depends on location. Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA_paternity_testing#Legal_issues
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 10:00 AM
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Ask your brother. If you don't have one then ask your uncle.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:36 PM
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So your husband has a full time job and does tutoring on the side to raise more money. Maybe he subconsciously hands you these checks to make you put in some effort as well? Iow maybe he feels he puts in more effort than you? Re: leadership. Non-leaders do everything themselves, bad leaders delegate unimportant tasks, good leaders delegate important tasks. He delegates cashing the checks, you refuse his leadership. I am trying to step back so that he has more room to be responsible for himself a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 07:35 AM
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You could, just for fun, respond as if she was referring to your date's activity. If you were out for dinner you could text "WHAT? YOU WILL NEVER EAT AGAIN?"
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:51 PM
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telling them about other men just to show them I'm a "high value girl" Won't work. This is what men will hear: I'm currently only interested in fucking around.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 04:38 PM
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I think the answer to your question does not matter at all. Just assume that it is possible to completely re-wire and work to improve yourself to be the best man possible. Try it, it's fun.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 06:50 PM
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she is not the one in "control". I am driving the bus Are you sure? Are you sure you even want this setup (other than make your gf happy)?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 07:20 PM
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Is he obsessed with tattooed women or with pictures of tattooed women? I like Picasso's art but I don't like women with both eyes on the same side of their faces. Men usually choose partners they are attracted to and hope they don't change too much.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 05:44 AM
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From the trailer it seems to be a good documentation. The title seems to be misleading, though: The Red Pill for me means unlearning indoctrination and self improvement, the movie is about how society throws men under the bus and no one cares. Generating awareness of men's challenges in a feminist culture is a noble goal, even without a discussion about dating, hypergamy, and female sexual behavior.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:35 AM
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By 14 the little guy will have completed 6 years of blue pill training (which obviously already has begun). Why wait?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:27 PM
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I don't know if your girl actually has panic attacks, but panic attacks are a thing. Sometimes I wake up during the night barely able to breathe, and once my heart started pounding out of nowhere, cold sweat, chest pain (I called 911 because I thought I was going to die from a heart attack). Will power and mindfulness actually is the way I handle these panic attacks, for me it does work like that. Medication may be needed for your girl to handle the symptoms, but will not fix the underlying caus…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:13 AM
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To play it safe you could tell your mom that some guys and gals in school said you should date an escort. Unless your parents actually want an escort as a daughter-in-law they will take everything they might say with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 08:06 PM
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Guys sometimes act like assholes if they feel disrespected. Do you get respect from your peers? Do you do anything that deserves respect?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 07:01 AM
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Apparently someone else did a very similar study that gave the opposite result. See http://slatestarcodex.com/2015/04/15/trouble-walking-down-the-hallway/ for more details as well as some discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 05:27 PM
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European Java EE developer here. Yes there is a shortage of developers, and even more there is a shortage of developers that can write robust, maintainable that does what the customers actually need, and preferably finish somewhat close to the date they estimated.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 04:31 PM
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/r/fitness may be a better place to ask (preferably after you have read the sidebar and FAQ over there). TRP will help you about the part of your question "I'm sort of uncomfortable..." though. You should most definitely do stuff that makes you uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:47 PM
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He isn't asking me to not drink, he just asks me to not get very drunk to the point of having to get carried by people. Are you seriously asking whether your guy is allowed to ask this from you? If he was ok with you getting blackout drunk what would that say about your relationship? I think he is trying to take care of you because you don't seem to be able to take care of yourself. Also /r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:55 PM
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The way I see it is: TRP is amoral and you're supposed to add your own set of moral on top (or rather: your moral should be the foundation). I'm not telling you what YOUR moral should be. I know what mine is, and neither belongs here.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 07:55 AM
1

My parents want to go to the guys place get the keys and want to know what the fuck is wrong with him. I wonder whether this attitude is the cause of the issue. Why don't your parents talk to your sister?
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:38 PM
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I'm only guessing here. 30 years could mean that her husband died when she was 50+ and had grown children. So she would not be that attractive, had company (assuming that her children lived nearby) and probably not too much needs. So the goal could be to guilt her children into providing for her. My grandma was similar without the black clothes. Had a house, two daughters, one of them lived in her house with her husband, and she was seeing my mum once a week. Also had a small state pension. You …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 08:16 PM
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Why is this a blow to your ego? One of my flying instructors said, that a student outgrowing the teacher is a sign of a good teacher. I think I have outgrown him, still ask for advice from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 07:25 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if girls put guys in the friendzone or if it's the other way around: guys put themselves in the friendzone. The latter would be an explanation why it's so difficult to get out of the friendzone: because the guy would have to change his behavior. Cuddle buddy could be similar: if you act like a cuddle buddy you end up as a cuddle buddy.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 05:14 AM
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I found the top voted comments interesting. People start calling bullshit when they see bullshit, which is a nice change.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:30 PM
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I agree with your list regarding female attractiveness. Whether or not a woman will be approached seems different, tough. In my opinion this is mostly influenced by whether she seems approachable, to a lesser extent by her femininity, while pretty or not only determines the quality of men. Yes, you should try to improve all three areas, but when a woman is not approached at all, becoming prettier without any change to attitude probably won't change a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/15 10:50 AM
1

The only reason women aren't treated as property is because men didn't want their daughters and mothers to live that way... Interesting point of view. Now I feel stupid that I didn't think of that myself.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:23 PM
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This may or may not have a desirable outcome, but how about: Go on a few dates with these 9-10s and get rejected. You will not die from this. Also: if you message them and they don't answer, you will not die either. And you are definitely ruining your chances by doing nothing. But the most important thing is: I am talking out of my ass, I have no idea if this will give you abundance mentality or if it will crush your self esteem. I wrote this hoping that it will lead to discussion, so that I can…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 07:06 PM
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If I was a girl and got your standard text I would think "This guy was kinda nice but not that hot. Now he sends this zero-effort text and I'm supposed to jump when he says so? This does not make me feel good." As several other posters suggested, re-establish rapport using 1-2 texts, and when her responses indicate you made her feel good then go for a meetup. Regarding your SMV: even if it was too low what are going to do? Wait? Stop worrying about that, also at 6'4 you're lucky anyway.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 08:28 PM
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Why are you so afraid that this guy might read an internet forum? Is he unable to think for himself? In case you win him back: do you plan to control everything he reads?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:33 AM
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Funny how I read the post you linked to in a totally different way. I read about a guy whose girlfriend doesn't seem to try anymore. He asks for help how to make it work. He wants to be loyal because of her support in the past. Only one of the responses said next her, and that response got downvoted. The lesson in the linked thread can be either: "marriage can lock in a guy even if you don't try anymore" or it could be: "support your guy to earn his commitment and loyalty, and never stop putting…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 08:07 AM
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TL;DR: "I am so happy that my GF second guessed my offer to move in with me in my place that I pay for anyway and rather keeps her net debt" - SAID NO MAN EVER. I can't speak for your SO but to me it would look like you were wasting 10.000+$ per year of our future money, and I would want you to stop doing this without any additional expenses on my side. Seems like a no brainer for me. If you really are uneasy accepting his offer then don't just ignore his offer by offering money for rent and uti…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 05:11 AM
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I guess they were shit-testing him...
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:53 PM
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I don't know what you explained and waht he disagreed to, but this may be another case where men and women talk different languages: He said "nice girly girls, and submissive chicks are cool.. but a feisty side isn't bad either." Now you go ahead and look for the hidden meaning behind this and for some strange reason end up with "cool equals undesirable". To me his statement reads as "I want an girly submissive chick that is not a total doormat", but what do I know...
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 06:41 AM
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Redpill: Use your agency to do what makes you happy unless you hurt anybody. Feminism: Use your victimhood to demand that reality changes to make you happy unless it hurts any middle or upper class, preferably white woman who is not a SAHM.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 08:11 AM
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http://judgybitch.com/2013/04/05/husband-%E2%89%A0-friend/ is an article on this very topic which you may find interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/14 10:55 AM
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Hmm, seems to me that at least from her point of view you acted as if her pussy was made of gold, therefore rewarding her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 01:33 PM
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http://www.rtkconsort.org/pua-openers/ Scroll down to "Opinion Openers", it's the first example given. BTW, I don't think you're a naive idiot.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 11:56 AM
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http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/997341
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 07:15 AM
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Disclaimer: Having a sexual activity with someone against their will using or threatening physical or emotional force is one of the worst crimes I can think of, and I'm sure most will agree. Having said that, the rape laws you guys have in the US or Canada are there to demonize sexuality and to dehumanize men in order to make way for female supremacy. Don't want a dick up your ass? Say so. But don't play along and cry rape the next day. And if you're terrified of rape then get to know the guy be…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:38 AM
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Maybe he has the potential to lead but has been brainwashed into believing that he is not allowed to (women and men are equals, relationships must be between equal partners, ...). Maybe he simply doesn't know that some women don't enjoy making decisions as much as he does, so he says "up to you babe" thinking you will appreciate the chance to decide. If the following is really what you want you might want to tell him something like this: "I want a complementary relationship, I don't care for equ…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 08:27 AM
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I think you are confusing things. Going to a metal concert and enjoying the energy can be a very feminine thing to do. Going to the same concert and trying to be one of the guys is not. Some men may be turned off by a woman having masculine interests, but lots of men would kill for a SO that shares their interests. But they will want a woman, not a guy with boobs. Preferably a woman that is pleasant to be with, so no nagging, no emasculating, no withholding of sex for manipulation purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 05:20 PM
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I guess I'm pathetic too, because I agree with OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:22 PM
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... and this period of years can be as short as 2-3 years up to like 20 years at most out of a lifetime. I think most women know this at least at a subconscious level, and I can see how this can mess you up. But women are free to choose whether they make good or bad use of their short period of superpowers. Still wouldn't want to trade, though.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 09:13 AM
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No need to write what you think of him as a person. A bouquet of flowers says "I see you as a woman and don't want to treat to as a man" loud and clear.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 09:58 AM
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