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Fundamentals Slow_Ad9049/r/seduction05/08/25 06:38 PM
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Field ReportSlow_Ad9049/r/seduction11/05/25 03:17 PM
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ConversationSlow_Ad9049/r/seduction03/05/25 12:22 PM
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Inner Game Slow_Ad9049/r/seduction03/07/25 08:46 PM
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ConversationSlow_Ad9049/r/seduction10/05/25 07:08 AM
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actually I always pay for every first meet I've with anyone in my life date or not but she was just using me and idk why but I felt like fuck you I won't do this shit my bill was x her was 6 times mine :))
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:34 PM
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I always used to go to coffee dates then in this sub people started recommending going for pubs as the mode is different and it's true (I don't drink) but date in pub set very different vibe from coffee date
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:32 PM
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actually this is pretty good thing but when I paid my bill was x her was 6x so would you be willing to pay 6x just to take turn for half an hour?
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:31 PM
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actually now after reading some comments I can't guarantee she was dtf for sure
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:30 PM
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but paying when she was away I feel it's really weak move I want to be stronger, how would someone with better social skills act? how would a natural seducor act to this shit? I'm sure both won't pay while she is away
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:30 PM
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I can't disagree that she wasn't the smartest but as someone with seduction knowledge, isn't there away to actually make such a person like you, and cancel the using idea to actually I like his company let me not be an asshole?
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:27 PM
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Okay as someone who suppose to be able to seduce others, how could I have handled the situation differently? I'm sure running away is a bitch move (I don't regret not paying) but I think someone with higher social skills would have handled it differently, how could you seduce someone who wants your money for drinks?
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:26 PM
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I actually more curious how to handle it like a man, and a seducor, I think I handled like little boy, I don't like I paid when she was away as I was afraid of how crazy she can go, and that I actually left, how to turn this hard social situation around. Was there any possibility that a girl who wanted to use you for drinks could actually end up liking you?
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:24 PM
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I hate the comments on seduction subreddit is about morals You're homewrecker asshole but so she is! I hope there will be actual advice or story I don't know anything about these kind of relationships but I know there will be a man that will get to know at some point you've fucked his wife
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:11 AM
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Maybe that was her plan all along we will never know
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:30 PM
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Thank you for actually explaining
/r/seduction06/07/25 08:54 PM
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Not really. 2nd girl was a date that I met the day before, and she asked me out! first we were dancing together she had left her friend to come dance with me
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:19 PM
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I wasn't starting conversation I used this line in the time I should went for the first kiss!
/r/seduction05/07/25 09:27 AM
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That comment describe my case in details 😂
/r/seduction04/07/25 11:24 PM
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I heard girls love unavailable men ssoo many times
/r/seduction04/07/25 11:22 PM
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🤣🤣 Yeah I see how hypocrite and illogical this may seem, but I'm not asking about this specific joke in particular I'm asking how to handle any shit that may happen? if I decided never ever to say this again there will be something else dumb I will say that may shut down the interaction What I'd love to achieve is to be fully there and even if I did something dumb I can recover from
/r/seduction04/07/25 09:02 PM
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how should I have texted?
/r/seduction29/06/25 03:24 PM
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what would you text exactly? when she apologies for not showing up
/r/seduction29/06/25 03:22 PM
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Actually my date was super hot dancer but the place we were heading there was a super hot girl by herself which I wented to talk to after my date bailed and as much as she was nice and gave me chance to plea my case I was annoyed and in my head because I was bailed on so I couldn't actually enjoy the rest of the night, how do you get from such a rejection to okay cool I'm still in the mode
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:36 AM
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Okay I'd love to learn how would you handle it (my whole goal is to improve)
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:33 AM
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I feel this is a bit exaggerated to some extent, else how do you set up 1 on 1 dates? if you were to ask this girl out again how would you do it? (after she bailed)
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:21 PM
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hahaha my first experience ecer! I normally set the date 1 - 2 days from the interaction or confirm with them 1 day before, but she is a 20 years hot dancer and I didn't want to look intimidated going back and forth making sure she will show up (I definitely didn't get intimidated the whole night)
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:13 AM
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So I'm simp because I liked her, or because you think I liked her because she rejected me? I literally shared with her sensitive part from my past to be honest and not to lie, but can't you seduce a girl like this to make her want to change you? (even if you won't change) I continued cold approaching and dating but she is still on my mind, shouldn't I go for her, if that's what I want? (while still being transported with her)
/r/seduction12/05/25 07:12 PM
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This has nothing to do with being simp I'm asking how could you handle such a situation for the future! How to game such girls?
/r/seduction12/05/25 07:04 PM
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I'm getting the dates but we don't call them dates maybe this is a problem I'm not sure but I don't want to put this pressure on her to commit to a date (it's just a coffee!) I'm not talking to any girl who is under 7, I'm struggling in taking the date or the interaction into my frame, make her relax and enjoy the time I would love to follow a better plan, I'm even having a structure in mind but it's about execution, how to make the interaction great
/r/seduction12/05/25 07:02 PM
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Is it possible to pull her to her home?! Thank you for the advises
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:31 PM
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I'm based in Istanbul (and gaming in English) so I'm a bit under overwhelming pressure it's different culture and majority don't speak English
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:29 PM
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Yes I actually haven't had sex in a year but mostly because I didn't want to see any girl after my ex. Now I just don't waste time with girls I won't end up fucking But okay I can take this advise but some of it is unclear for me, let me not have sex at all in the upcoming month just cold approach and dates How can I learn how to build attraction? and who should I approach? I'd say I'm level -284 can you guide me to level 7+?
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:47 PM
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Okay I appreciate you read my post history and you reached the thing I mentione always, YES IVE ZERO GAME that's exactly why I'm here! How can I work on conversation skills and build attraction? (that's super generic thing to just say)
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:21 PM
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Appreciate your time for that response I cold approach mostly on campus or business convenients! (super 2 different dynamics but people there already speaking to everyone and anyone) I don't drink, so that's why I do coffee, also I choose coffee place near by sea or park to grab a coffee have some conversation in the cafe then we change venue I love the high 5 thing will try it Sometimes I feel it's super dry and there is no room for verbal escalation (which definitely means there is no room for…
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:19 PM
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I appreciate your time and effort for that response, I've some challenges let me know how would you deal with each I do change venue (this is why I start from the coffee and later go some other place, sea or park) I do live with my parents! and I don't drink so this is why we don't grab drinks (I hate it but if this is the only way fuck it I will, but I hate it and I don't like drunk girls) I was looking for casual hookups or friend with benefits type of thing I've been thinking what else would …
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:10 PM
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She was attracted to me btw, and I still like her, would love to date her
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:03 PM
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I like her
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:02 PM
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Did you read the game by Neil Strauss?
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:02 PM
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We liked each others! She genuinely the best vibe I had in all of my 2 weeks dates
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:02 PM
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WTF! how did you reach that conclusion?
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:00 PM
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I see your comment has attracted a lot of super smart people but I'm not convinced! You can't game such girls? in the game they were able to lay with any girl, even girls in relationships! This one was interested in me, she just had a different preference. So do you've anything that could actually be beneficial?
/r/seduction12/05/25 01:59 PM
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that's typo but I think if I say this she will leave I'm not that confident yet
/r/seduction12/05/25 01:55 PM
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Perfect point! I normally don't have a structure literally go with the flow. Friendly conversation, getting to know basics, trying to make it fun, cracking jokes here and there, teasing, make herself qualify herself, escalation (which I didn't reach successfully yet) start the date by a hug eye contact, and compliment (you look cute while looking to her eyes) light hand touches if she is wearing rings or have a tattoo, when we start to walk a light hand touch on her back leading her to the direc…
/r/seduction11/05/25 06:11 PM
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My main problem is in the spontaneousness or playing my cards right! Really need to improve my dates. What if you go for holding hands and she rejects that? (in my first date she just let me do that for 2 min then held something in her hand, I tried not to be reactive at all but 20 min later tried to rehold her hands as we were walking 2 min later she checked her phone) which shows I was doing something wrong but how to work with that and how to improve these things
/r/seduction11/05/25 05:59 PM
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"Your lips are disgusting me" I don't have the balls to say that yet 🤣 You can say this to random girl you met in the streets within 15 min?! ( just want to make sure I got your point) I think I'm afraid if I say date they feel it's too forward but I can give it a try (I'm based in Istanbul/Turkey) I take them to cafe near the sea, we grab coffee talk a bit then start to walk towards the sea or a park depends on the mode mostly, my first date was in a mall due to some logistic problems I think i…
/r/seduction11/05/25 05:34 PM
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Appreciate it, but I wouldn't say I'm confident at all, I only talk with girls when they are alone and I hate it when getting rejected! Definitely planning to start go for a set of 2 or 3 to develop my game and social interactions
/r/seduction11/05/25 05:29 PM
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I agree with you, I definitely need to improve that (English isn't my native language though) I meant it's totally not in my hands to put the date into my frame or enforce my frame (they aren't loose laughing and having fun, there is tension and unease) which makes it harder to escalate
/r/seduction11/05/25 05:28 PM
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I did casual hookups and got in 2 relationships just to get over a girl
/r/seduction10/05/25 08:16 AM
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Mid conversation I paused and stared to her eyes, she told me I won't kiss you in the first date, I told her why you assume I want that? I'm not that easy! we joked a bit but eventually I told her since you brought it up yes I would love to kiss you, and we did kiss (I don't do not makeout and always pull before her to keep building tension and she went for the 3rd one!)
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:36 AM
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I got that how do you make a girl wants to show you that without even asking! Maybe I need to learn how to socialize more
/r/seduction09/05/25 04:16 AM
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How do you make them that comfortable with you? (I've never ever asked how they look in bra or thongs not even during my 2 relationships!
/r/seduction08/05/25 09:35 PM
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I'm struggling with 2nd and 4th Getting shut down by women in front of people is so hard on me Recently ruined a date from cold approach so I'm so disappointed in my performance, didn't even get to a kiss!
/r/seduction07/05/25 08:19 PM
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yes exactly I agree with everything you say seduction isn't number games seduction or game is dating out of your league or seduce attractive high quality women beyond your norms but I don't see anyone here say or someone demonstrate this, it's mostly just go to a zillion girl and eventually you will find someone willing to give you sex! which has nothing to do with game
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:00 PM
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but she may bail on you later on
/r/seduction03/05/25 03:53 PM
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but why the numbers won't bail on him later, if they just met for 2-4 minutes?
/r/seduction03/05/25 03:52 PM
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Okay I do that but it doesn't go farther this is my problem, especially with cold approaches, they don't reciprocate, I understand to go to the next step you want her to be okay with that and also starting to get physical as well right?
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:03 AM
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I'm stuck at generating attraction. I actually can use any line as opener direct or indirect "I opened before with I just got rejected did you see that?" Number close or dates are kinda happens or don't because I don't know how to generate attraction so I can't say I get them by intention
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:00 AM
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Okay I don't like girls to be under the influence unless we had sex a couple of times before, but I also never say "hey let's go on a date" I suggest meeting for coffee, is this a turn off? I know if she had a drink or 2 shots would be more fun but I want her to like me when she is sober first (idk if I overthink it)
/r/seduction02/05/25 08:47 PM
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I met this girl in real life chat for 20 minutes took her number and asked for a coffee (I don't say let's go on a date) I don't know if this is right or not but she saw me before, I don't get why she is going out if she doesn't like me
/r/seduction02/05/25 08:44 PM
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yeah I'm sure of that too! The question is should I try to change this or just move on
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:29 PM
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I started this phase by claiming I will fuck unlimited number of girls but this girl was the first number and the first date after 1 year of no dates so most probably I won't see her again 🤣
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:28 PM
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so what do you recommend?
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:16 PM
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there have 11 hours passed since her text I said nothing should I send this now or a day later I genuinely would love to date this girl
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:16 PM
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wtf? do you ask someone to keep their hands in yours after checking their rings, or react if they break a hand hold (please hold me hand back 🤣) Its show uncomfort into this so if you keep doing that it's shitty my question was how to change this state, as you can see they are still in the date following your lead but not so comfortable to get touchy
/r/seduction02/05/25 12:46 PM
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What do you do when she doesn't reciprocate your physical escalation
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:54 AM
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I don't want her to think I'm looking for a friend this is why I started to use that opener, also I wanted this to be clear from the start, but tell me a better way. My method isn't great, yesterday I had a date from these 5 numbers and the girl didn't like holding hands and we didn't even kiss after all this clarification
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:50 AM
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Thanks man for sharing I'm based in Istanbul so kinda Europe, but I worked on sales at some point and I disagree with anyone says "number game" because it's true at some point if you talked to 100 girl you definitely will end up having sex but the whole idea of "game" "seduction" and using anonymous accounts posting about insecurities online is to just talk to 10 girls and have sex then be a bit better from every 7 you get 1 that's would be game not looking for someone suffering in life and was …
/r/seduction01/05/25 02:24 PM
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My biggest problem was from the 2 most interactions I felt the tension and future success ended up blocking me! I really feel there is a very big thing I'm not seeing (how can I think it was positive and great and she just wanted to leave to block me, why they give me their number, not even fake! I know because I'm in Istanbul and WhatsApp is very popular and most people have their pictures there) I'm confused but want to fix whatever problem so I can improve
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:38 PM
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I send it end of the day when I'm on my way home not right after
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:28 PM
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I did on my day 2 I talked with a girl on specifics and she still have her actual number and ended up blocking me (when I wrote the post she just hasn't text back) but I check she blocked me, it's disappointing because I believe it was a positive interaction (I'm not sad at the girl as much I'm sad I even don't know why I think it went positive but end up being blocked or no text back)
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:27 PM
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I love you broke it down for simplicity, I just need to state I'm gaming in Istanbul, while speaking English, it's different culture it's not normal to be stopped middle of a mall or campus (this is weird and because it's in English you get a lot of eyes checking what does this alien do, my looks aren't attractive either so it's not her charming knight that stopping her either, she is under the pressure there is someone speaks English to her, some people are looking at her, and she consider is i…
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:36 AM
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Would calling be more positive making her remember me
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:17 AM
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Eye contact and body language is generally positive, I lead successful teams in work, but when it comes to making woman wants me I fail, I don't have a witty personality and a funny response for everything she says as of teasing I'm based in Istanbul, so gaming them in English is a challenge in its own
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:15 AM
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I know this will sound dump from 30 years old but I've no idea what would make a woman wants to sleep with me I've been with just 4 girls and it wasn't game, normal dating sex wasn't in the first or the 2nd date so far from what you do here. What would make actually beautiful girl in her early twenties choose me?
/r/seduction30/04/25 07:42 AM
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Do you call or text, and would you recall or text if they ignore or directly delete?
/r/seduction30/04/25 07:36 AM
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I want to know do you call numbers like this (or text again)after they don't respond before deleting or directly deleting these numbers?
/r/seduction30/04/25 06:29 AM
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