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Slow_Complex9685/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 09:09 PM
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Slow_Complex9685/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 09:52 PM
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RantSlow_Complex9685/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 11:14 PM
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RantSlow_Complex9685/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 04:15 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. For me it was 18 years total. I basically tell people the same thing. 18 fucking years I'll never get back. It's really depressing to think about. At least I have some pretty awesome kids out of the deal. So I'm winning there for sure. Good luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 12:05 PM
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I am with you. The amount of money I've lost and continue to lose is depressing as fuck. On avg I need to work at least 55 hours a week to recoup the money from cs alone. I was forced to sell my house, having to find a place in a shit area, and take a huge hit on my quality of life. Meanwhile, she collects my money, qualifies for state assistance, has a nice house, plans nice vacations, all that. Which is bullshit. And I feel for you with a social status, or with dating even. I've felt the same.…
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 03:02 PM
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Got to be kidding me. Where did this happen, where are you located? I truly feel for you. A judgment like this would have devastated me too, I would imagine anyone for that matter. What about a possible career change so you can move closer? Do you think your current employer would be empathetic enough to allow you to work from home and closer to that city?
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 02:09 PM
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This is fucking ridiculous. An event like this shouldn't leave someone virtually homeless. Have you considered a room for rent, incorporating a roommate maybe, maybe a friend to stay with so you can save up, ? In my situation, I had to bring in a roommate for the first time in my life just to keep up. It makes me livid with situations like this. We bear the brunt of divorces and expect to just suck it up and adjust, somehow. I wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:21 PM
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I agree, complete bullshit. Where I am they can take up to 60% of income. 60fucking%. I'm not saying we shouldn't support our kids, it's just we get absolutely fucked by the slimy ass system and expected to just change our lifestyle, endure a reduced quality of life (some being absolutely broke as fuck), etc.
/r/MensRights21/08/24 10:25 AM
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This post strikes a big fucking nerve with me. Rant (and it might cause some backlash): It's utter fucking bullshit it's allowed to happen. Our quality of life takes a huge shit and it seems impossible to get it back making the money you currently are, or was. I'm living it. Basically finding the need to bring in a roommate for the first time ever, living off of what little I can afford on groceries, bdays and holidays will be terrible, utilities will be reduced slightly, other expenses remain t…
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 04:32 PM
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Congrats!
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 03:47 PM
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I've got something penned for once the divorce is finalized. It's got a LOT of colorful language lol It's either that or "good riddance"
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:43 PM
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Solid advice. Wish I had it before I married my ex....to top it off, she sucked at this job too.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 10:17 AM
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Lol. Your first paragraph sounds pretty much like what I became. The American Dream is bullshit. Now it's going into a huge amount of debt, being miserable trying to live it, divorce, therapy, trying to make ends meet, trying to advance professionally, maybe start a business or hopefully having financial freedom, etc. I didn't sign up for this shit. Too much stress. Much like you I have a pretty much non existent network of friends, some family here but seldom stay in touch. I, personally, reall…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 06:11 PM
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A resounding, fuuuck yes.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:21 AM
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Sounds similar to my story.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 07:48 PM
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I'm living it right now. It's a very, very, very sore subject for me during all of this. We're in settlement discussions and I've asked for a higher equity stake in the house if/when it sells. Still haven't received a response. I've been dealing with it much like you. With anger, frustration, sadness/depression. It's a very unfair system.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 07:53 PM
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9 actually. Oldest is 28 haha
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 10:35 PM
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Sure have. Though it's helping with the "dad bod", it's also a little concerning. Maybe work out to tone up? That's what I've been doing.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 02:29 PM
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My friend, I'm about to find out what my future is going to look like supporting two households. I'm nervous as fuck and I'm sure there isn't going to be an ounce of fairness about it. All I had to do to get/deserve this kind of support obligation? Being cheated on. So, it was definitely worth it for her on many levels. I know this means shit after all is said and done, but you'd be able to downsize, maybe a roommate, ? It fucking sucks at realizing there needs to be alternatives to a lifestyle …
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 09:40 PM
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I've been thinking about this too. I'm in the midst of a divorce and expect to pay most of my earnings on alimony and cs. It's fucking devastating to think about. Now I've gotta figure out where to go. Have any suggestions?
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 08:16 PM
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I'm about to find out the harsh reality of the same thing. Why not get fucked over at least twice, eh?
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 02:42 AM
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Jesus. Going through a divorce now and reading all of this is depressing as fuck. I'm screwed. Sorry OP, sounds like we're fucked for being our gender. I fucking hate my stbxw, I mean with every part of me. You should consider her your adversary, not ally or friend in all of this. And hopefully she's not vindictive and tries to claim some sort of abuse or something like that against you. We are cohabitating for now and am just waiting for the court to decide when to kick me out. Sounds like ther…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 06:11 PM
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This is the exact type of shit my ex did/does. I'm sure this is her narrative for her side of family and friends. Instead of confessing to cheating she gets to play victim and martyr. Fucking disgusting.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 10:49 PM
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Jesus. What a maniacal bitch. Good riddance, well not before you stop her from taking everything from you.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 09:02 PM
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I'm glad to hear this. Especially since I figured I wasted 10yrs, and some good years, by being in this marriage. I often think I'm getting too old, getting up there, desirable, etc. Í haven't joined any dating sites. Seems like they're unneeded right now. I've met some really cool women that are great to talk with, and pretty openly. Great inspiration and encouragement.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 10:55 AM
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Here, here. How did you find him? Good for you breaking it up like that!
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 08:48 PM
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Just bullshit to justify her reasoning. She can't be the bad guy in all of this...same with my stbx. Sounds like you did a hell of a job on your end.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 11:55 AM
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Jesus, youve been through a lot. Thanks for the encouragement!
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 02:32 AM
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All of what you said is the same here. The fucking audacity. I can only imagine the narrative she painted for her friends and family. I want to expose her for the person she really is.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 12:18 AM
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Interesting. One of the few letters I wrote her (all spewing my detest for her) said thank you, for allowing me to be free of her. It's like a weight has been lifted after all. And for good reason(s). Much like you, I feel so many years were just fucking wasted due to what's happening. I'm waiting for that sunshine 🙂
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 09:55 PM
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I can only imagine the narrative she has shared with her side, friends and family. A lot of me wanted to collect as much evidence then send it to them to expose exactly what type of person she really is. Sounds like you went through your own hell. I also feel used, shit on, unappreciated for all of these years of busting ass to provide a very good living for us. What a load of shit and it was all for nothing. I'm glad the kids at least appreciate it, they deserve it. I don't think you're wrong f…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:51 AM
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Thank you 🙂 I truly appreciate all of the support from this community. looks like I will never forgive, do I want physical harm done? No. But I do want her to be emotionally fucking miserable for a very long time, if not for the rest of her life. I'm so glad she has to carry whatever guilt she might have for that long. I'm starting to feel myself moving out of rage into indifference. Maybe it's because I've exhausted the amount of rage, hatred, disgust, etc I have for her. Ive also found myself …
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:41 AM
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No. In fact, just starting the process. This is all recent.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 12:14 AM
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My stbxw and I took the test every year or so. Obviously didn't matter.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 12:22 AM
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It's a no fault state. I'm working on getting more access to her phone. That's where I already got some info.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 09:30 PM
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