Smboos Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Beware of the scammers	Resources	Smboos	/r/seduction	15/05/20 05:12 AM

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3	Guys, I know that many of you are tired of not being replied, to have no matches, this is the explanation why probably this is happening, this is the other side Every time the last girl I was with were saying “oh ... you are so nice” I was feeling like I’m about fo fall off the cliff. She sounded very happy and pleased saying it over and over again but I knew that those statements were nothing but a danger alarm. Long story short, it didn’t take her a lot of time to decide to ghost me and go back to her ex who she always said that he was - guess what - a JERK to her. “Your too nice but I don’t feel a spark”, “your great as a person but I only see you as…	/r/seduction	04/11/20 07:34 PM
11	Guys, I know that many of you are tired of not being replied, to have no matches, this is the explanation why probably this is happening, this is the other side I'm sorry that you and ladies in general have to go through this kind of harassment everyday. It shouldn't surprise anyone that there are jerks out there tho. Many women, however, would take being nice as a sign of weakness and neediness. This is at least in my experience and I believe that many men would agree with me. They might even not realize it but a women will take an available man for granted, friend-zone him because he is not masculine enough and move on to someone who is a challenge. T…	/r/seduction	04/11/20 06:21 AM
2	Make yourself scarce instead of perceiving other's as scarce I see that many disagree with OP but I'm going to share one with story with you all. I started dating a girl when I was busy hosting an old friend from abroad and showing him around. the girl I was dating, who asked to be my gf used to ask me every day to spend the night with her I used to go to her few days a week and for the rest of the time I politely tell her that I need to spend sometime with my friend. When my friend left, the foolish me thought because she was always asking me to come ove…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 01:25 PM
8	Make yourself scarce instead of perceiving other's as scarce nothing would work if she is not already into you. but this might prevent someone who is already attracted to you from losing attraction over time.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 12:55 PM
1	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive. So his definition of productivity is stealing from people ha.	/r/seduction	22/07/20 05:17 PM
1	Women love assholes not nice guys Yes I get that point but I'm interested to learn more about the behavior rather than the labeling: asshole, bad boy, assertive or whatever. Can explain to me what practically and besides the beer run example what "don't put her above you" and "don't have her way with you" mean? It might sound a dumb question but for some reason which could be a language/cultural barrier I don't fully understand the meaning. Also how do you think someone can overcome his tendencies for the nice guy or whatever yo…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 04:22 AM
2	Women love assholes not nice guys You say the truth. Women don't know what they are attracted to and what they say they want is not really what they want. I dated someone who always told that I'm so nice and her ex was a jerk and asshole. Guess what? she left my niceness and went running to her ex the very moment she had a chance. She said that I'm nice and she said that it makes her happy, she thought that this what she wants but what she actually wanted is something else.	/r/seduction	06/07/20 10:01 PM
6	Never ever beg someone for attention, or beg for your ex Thank you for sharing this. Men should feel that begging someone who just dumped them is way more painful than losing someone that they care about and therefore avoid it at all cost. It doesn't help your case at all. On the contrary and as OP said; it invites her to disrespect you even more. There are actions that are way less than begging in demonstrating the lack for self-respect and I have learned the hard way that women WILL EASILY PICK UP ON THOSE ACTIONS and lose their respect for you and …	/r/seduction	24/05/20 10:02 PM
86	Never ever beg someone for attention, or beg for your ex If she initiated it NEVER contact her back, it won't change anything. Provided that you kept the door open when it ended, if she's still has an interest she will find a reason to contact you when she realizes that she did a mistake. Put please don't live on the hope that she will, she might not and in that case you call it her loss and move on. if you were the one who broke up then you can call her ONCE to apologize and tell her that it was a mistake and that you still want to see her. If she re…	/r/seduction	24/05/20 09:36 PM
1	How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally? Tripling down on this answer	/r/seduction	22/05/20 09:52 PM
2	How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!) Thank you for sharing. the point is train yourself to be confident. strike conversations with girls in a charming way and eventually it will work. Who cares about being ignored, or even if the question is dump. if the girl is interested she will play along.	/r/seduction	24/04/20 04:17 AM