We all can agree that this topic is somehow controversial and many people are claiming through their books, websites, youtube channels, etc. that they will teach you how it works. I want to ask you to be very selective of whom you are going to listen to because:

  1. Not everyone knows what they are talking about.
  2. Unless, its a fundamental a person technique not necessarily going to work with everyone else.
  3. Most importantly, some people are not genuinely interested in helping, they just want traffic to their websites or customers to their products.

The reason that led me to write this post is an ad that keeps popping when I watch youtube videos. There is this dude spanking a chick's ass while she is all over him and says that he can teach you this and that if you click on the link.

I'll be honest, I have no idea who he is and what is the quality of his work but the way I see it that he is using his girl, or whoever she is, to gravitate the emotions of those who think they are incapable of being in similar situation to buy whatever he sells. I find it a cheap way to go, and funny that someone who is supposed to teach a subject which is all about confidence and treating women properly will show tinder screenshots, spank a girl and almost make out with her on Youtube to Prove that whatever he is about works. An important lesson one learn about confidence and seduction that you have nothing to prove to nobody.

I don't wish for anyone to feel bad or depressed if they see this or a similar video. Please feel strong, confident and happy that you are working on yourself to find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved. Be masculine and full of yourself so you are indifferent about such video. Trust that you will eventually find love, no matter how long it is going to take, do not give up, do not accept the fact that some people will live and die alone and it is okay. It is only okay if thats what you want, otherwise IT IS NOT. Trust that there are people out there who are genuinely going to help you. They might be harsh on you with facts, which is fine, sometimes we need pain to learn but those good people will never pour salt on your wounds.