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You don’t have to be completely emotionless but you don’t want to be a blubbering mess either. You’re not a child.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 05:07 AM
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Crying is okay just do it in private. Avoid crying in front of other people cause unfortunately it doesn’t matter what the situation is you will be judged. Cry in private. Easy solution.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 05:06 AM
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You’re already asking for a lot. Hope you realize that.
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:53 AM
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This shit right HERE
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:20 AM
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I think it’s less about material possessions and more about financial security but I see your point
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:36 AM
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27 here. Don’t fret
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:44 AM
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Yeah that’s a good point, if she’s sticking around for the whole date that’s a good indicator of interest. But if you don’t capitalize on that well of course she’s gonna give up. But I would ask for permission first.
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:43 AM
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Who was I kidding anyway lol
/r/seduction06/12/20 08:54 AM
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....still waiting for the right time. I’ll try again next week.
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:20 PM
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Exactly. Outcome independence is key. Thanks
/r/seduction05/12/20 03:10 AM
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Dang brother congratulations I appreciate the encouragement. ....hol up did you say drive in movie theatre??
/r/seduction05/12/20 01:20 AM
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Thanks for the reminder
/r/seduction04/12/20 05:56 PM
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Edited. Thank ya much
/r/seduction04/12/20 10:19 AM
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Truth. The more you chase it the more it evades you.
/r/seduction03/12/20 08:42 PM
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Guess imma be single forever then.
/r/seduction03/12/20 08:18 AM
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Studio Ghibli movies
/r/seduction03/12/20 04:57 AM
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I’m low value and have no confidence. Need to build the man first
/r/seduction03/12/20 12:05 AM
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Hey this is kinda old but can you elaborate on what you meant by inner game? Cause that’s probably what I need to work on the most
/r/seduction02/12/20 09:01 PM
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A healthy reminder. Thanks.
/r/seduction02/12/20 10:27 AM
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“Nice guys finish last. Only aggressive people conquer the world” -Sheldon J. Plankton
/r/seduction02/12/20 07:36 AM
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Sure if you don’t count for the fact that a lot of marriages are very healthy and happy
/r/seduction30/11/20 10:49 AM
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Try again only this time be outcome independent. Remember that the idea of going out is to have a good time, get some fresh air and experience life outside your comfort zone. If you meet someone, great. If you don’t, well that happens more than you think. Also be safe don’t go out too much
/r/seduction30/11/20 01:23 AM
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Who the hell said Im gonna be a simp for the rest of my life? That’s not gonna happen lol and that type of behaviour is entirely under my own control
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:37 AM
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Yeah I’m not gonna adopt a defeatist mentality thanks.
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:21 AM
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I needed this thank you. I’ve been in a lot of mental pain and emotional anguish lately and it’s purely because of how much I’ve been procrastinating and not growing. It’s really enlightening when you come to that conclusion
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:15 PM
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Find other hobbies to distract yourself until you do
/r/seduction29/11/20 07:56 PM
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I guess that is pretty weird when you think about it. Any tips on what I could have said instead?
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:48 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction28/11/20 01:12 PM
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So what you’re saying is I shouldn’t bother to put effort into my appearance...? I mean, it won’t lead to the best version of myself but it could improve my confidence. But you have a point. I could just be setting myself up for disappointment. I don’t really need to do anything to my appearance. It’s non-essential
/r/seduction28/11/20 10:55 AM
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Hence why I waited for her to finish her workout but yeah you right
/r/seduction28/11/20 10:43 AM
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Yea I am terrified. There’s a reason this stuff takes balls. It’s because you are going against the grain of what’s considered acceptable or expected when you cold approach. (Especially during a pandemic) I dunno if I’m right or if I can overcome the fear. It definitely is easier said than done and no I don’t have any plans to do it at all. I’m simply stating what I believe to be the more effective method but HOPEFULLY I can make something work at some point. I dunno. Nothing is guaranteed no ma…
/r/seduction28/11/20 10:03 AM
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No it’s that I literally don’t try at all. But I don’t want to cold approach anyway. I’ve decided it’s not for me. I know that sounds hypocritical given my previous reply but yeah. Gotta find a way to build that social circle instead.
/r/seduction28/11/20 09:43 AM
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I know my success rate is terrible but that’s probably because I rarely actually try
/r/seduction28/11/20 09:23 AM
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That’s a cop out excuse and you should never bank on it.
/r/seduction28/11/20 09:04 AM
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looks at my dusty green camo coats that I’ve worn for years ...y-yeah right? Who wears that kinda stuff..? 😬
/r/seduction27/11/20 02:16 AM
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YES. I AM! (Avdol’s voice)
/r/seduction26/11/20 11:16 PM
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Noriyaki Kakyoin is on this sub too it seems
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:03 PM
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Thanks but just so we’re clear it does not happen regularly at all.
/r/seduction26/11/20 10:11 AM
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Questioning the validity of cold approach? Yeah sure that’s totally been covered a lot. Asshole mods 🖕
/r/seduction26/11/20 07:35 AM
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Prolly back away slowly
/r/seduction25/11/20 10:59 AM
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BADA BAAAAAAA. BA BADA BAAAAAA
/r/seduction25/11/20 02:09 AM
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Get this degenerate crap out of here
/r/seduction24/11/20 11:04 PM
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This feeling will pass. Stay strong my friend.
/r/seduction24/11/20 11:44 AM
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writes down furiously
/r/seduction24/11/20 12:21 AM
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The pandemic happened. I also waited way too long. She was openly flirting with me two years ago and I never took action. But my areas on another lockdown so it’s not even safe to date if we wanted to which is the main reason she said no. So on top of getting rejected, I feel like an idiot for even asking. Was worth a shot I guess
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:43 PM
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Well nothing great will come out of this at all so that’s a pretty shitty promise to keep
/r/seduction23/11/20 08:51 AM
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exactly how I expected it to: 👎
/r/seduction23/11/20 08:45 AM
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If no one cares why should you? Stop caring what they think and stop living for other people
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:16 AM
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Agreed. I’m practising piano right now. Sure it cost me 600$ for the piano, and I gotta pay for internet connection to use YouTube tutorials, but other than that, the effort of sitting down and practising costs nothing!
/r/seduction23/11/20 02:53 AM
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I’ll just add to this. Stop thinking about women in general. Not even to focus on other things and hopefully attract them. Screw that. There is more to life than this. We need to wake up and realize that. Imagine for a second if you achieved all your professional and personal goals and became at least close to the best version of yourself. Good body, dream job, a home of your own and skills that you can be proud of. A partner would just be icing on the cake. At least for me it would be. I could …
/r/seduction22/11/20 11:05 PM
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BUD. Wanna meet up? I’m in van
/r/seduction22/11/20 04:55 AM
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I haven’t had any luck with therapy at all tbh. But that could be because I need meds. Everyone’s experience is different. You should definitely give it a try
/r/seduction22/11/20 04:53 AM
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Great ANOTHER book I gotta buy
/r/seduction20/11/20 07:47 PM
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This post speaks to my soul
/r/seduction20/11/20 01:15 AM
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Agreed. Well said.
/r/seduction19/11/20 08:13 PM
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This is actually a really good tip!! That’s some sound logic right there.
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:47 AM
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Just to add to this; If you don’t try, versus if you try and get rejected, the outcome is the same. You go your separate ways and never see each other again. It’s simply in your best interests to AT LEAST TRY
/r/seduction19/11/20 04:42 AM
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Don’t give up
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:21 AM
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Approaching someone randomly and sparking conversation.
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:20 AM
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He makes a valid point here. We do have to be careful with this. Don’t take cold approach lightly, boys. You may have the best of intentions but there’s a reason why you feel that initial hesitation.
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:19 AM
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...holy shit
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:14 AM
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A most auspicious post. Well said
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:08 AM
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Honestly both are pretty good. Thanks to both of ya’ll for taking the time to write this
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:14 AM
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You wanna tell us why you think that?
/r/seduction16/11/20 08:55 AM
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Thank yoooouuu!!! This all applies to me greatly, every single point I resonate with.
/r/seduction16/11/20 07:17 AM
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She’s a cheater and you are an enabler. This whole thing is a ticking time bomb
/r/seduction16/11/20 05:43 AM
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Problem is if you don’t have rock solid confidence there’s a good chance you’re gonna fail most sh*t tests pretty hard because you never know what she’s gonna say. She could flat out insult you and that’s probably gonna hurt, thereby hurting your frame and subsequently the interaction.
/r/seduction16/11/20 12:34 AM
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Good luck to you, get well soon.
/r/seduction14/11/20 09:14 PM
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They absolutely will NOT chase you but you can improve your self confidence with self improvement which will help boost your chances of them liking you. The idea is you’ll have some value to offer and this is both attractive and self-assuring.
/r/seduction14/11/20 08:17 PM
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I gotta work this afternoon but until then I am going to clean my room completely. And get a workout in and some good food. I also need to do some early Xmas shopping and piano practise.
/r/seduction14/11/20 08:13 PM
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I suppose some therapy couldn’t hurt. Maybe they can point out something you’re missing. Good luck OP
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:33 AM
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That shit is illegal bro I wouldn’t recommend it. Do not take my warning lightly. If you get caught by the authorities you WILL go to jail and good luck finding sexual satisfaction in there. Not worth the risk imo. But yes save your quid. I agree with that.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:26 AM
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I’m there with you. I was raised with Christian values as well and was pretty much taught from birth that I’m trash and my needs will never matter as much as others. It’s a pretty defeating mindset and subsequently has led to my lack of progress in life and zero results with women. I’m also flat-out incapable of being an asshole. I would recommend sticking to the values and not treating women like crap at the very least. I’m sorry man I wish I could be of more help. At least you can say you’ve g…
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:21 AM
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Ignore him, that was the laziest reply I’ve ever seen. I don’t have much advice to give myself but all I will say is don’t give up. I admire your tenacity, and feel you should continue in your quest for a mate. You seem like a good guy from your story and I feel a woman would be lucky to have you.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:09 AM
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I really like your attitude about self improvement it’s motivating. A lot of guys can make it work but they need to put in more effort. Like me.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:08 AM
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Good job bro! Good luck with the- SPITS DRINK WHADDYU MEAN SHE HAS A BF??? .....oh this ain’t gonna end well
/r/seduction14/11/20 08:01 AM
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Own it
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:06 AM
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Honestly I feel like I’m becoming immune to caffeine. It usually helps to keep me awake but so rarely gives me that surge of energy and hyper-alertness that it’s known for.
/r/seduction12/11/20 09:23 AM
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Thanks. I’ll let it go soon enough. Pain is lingering a bit but I’ll take it as a learning experience
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:25 PM
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I had a legit shot with her though that’s what makes it worse.
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:54 AM
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It won’t be a total cure-all solution but it definitely helps in multiple areas.
/r/seduction10/11/20 08:55 AM
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I personally agree with this. That’s moving way too fast.
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:33 AM
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Let’s not forget it’s a super healthy and positive habit to develop regardless of any increased attraction
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:33 AM
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Upvoted
/r/seduction10/11/20 01:10 AM
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So basically don’t be needy or insecure at all. I’m starting to understand that. Also congrats on the big business success! Wish I could be like you senpai 😲
/r/seduction10/11/20 01:04 AM
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Pain in his back, his grandma passing, and work responsibilities? They’re excuses alright but I dunno if I’d call them bullshit
/r/seduction09/11/20 09:58 PM
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I feel like you actually made the right move in setting your priorities straight. If she has a problem with that then maybe it’s good that she left.
/r/seduction09/11/20 06:35 PM
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You could have left this exact same comment without putting moron in the beginning. You’re the only one looking insecure
/r/seduction09/11/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah it’s a lesson learned the hard way. I’m still recovering from a missed opportunity with basically my dream girl. But oh well. Moving on 🏃🏽
/r/seduction09/11/20 06:13 PM
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I needed this thank you
/r/seduction09/11/20 11:45 AM
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You and me both. Shes not gonna wait for when you’re comfortable. Either shoot your shot or don’t bother
/r/seduction09/11/20 07:06 AM
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Don’t waste any time and go for opportunities when you seen them. You can never get time back
/r/seduction08/11/20 08:13 PM
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To try to make myself feel better about an opportunity that I totally blew 😭
/r/seduction08/11/20 06:08 PM
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Stfu loser don’t try to bring anyone else down with you. Pitiful victimizing incel
/r/seduction07/11/20 08:39 AM
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Oi... senpai.... so in short, you’re basically saying I shouldn’t ask that girl out if I don’t have my life in order yet, right?
/r/seduction07/11/20 06:14 AM
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F...f f f f f f f FIVE HUNDRED APPROACHES?? NANIIIIIIIIIIIIII
/r/seduction07/11/20 06:12 AM
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I think THINK it’s satire. Like he’s exposing the main reasons why some guys can’t get women. I dunno if he’s being genuine about himself. But he’s speaking some facts
/r/seduction07/11/20 06:11 AM
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Oooooh this stings
/r/seduction07/11/20 02:41 AM
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In Soviet Russia; problem is you! 😂 I crack me up
/r/seduction06/11/20 09:07 PM
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I really need to change
/r/seduction06/11/20 07:11 AM
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Precisely. I’m not ready for a relationship but I keep wanting love. It’s not fair. My self worth needs to come from myself and my hard work. I need focus, discipline and determination. Not love
/r/seduction06/11/20 06:01 AM
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Yup I’m just realizing that now. Not good. But maybe it has more to do with the bravery of asking
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:37 PM
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It’s not being a drama queen if it’s facts. I’m dead serious, my efforts towards women are LAUGHABLY pathetic. I’m better off just being comfortable with being alone. That’s just how it’s gonna be for some guys. But I’d just like to stress that I am OKAY with it. I’m alive, I have my health, I may be an unlovable virgin, but I still have every right to be on this earth as the Chad who gets a different woman every week. I can live with that. It’s kinda encouraging, y’know? Knowing women find you …
/r/seduction05/11/20 09:03 AM
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I need to forget about women entirely. Self improvement takes years and by the time I get to that level they wont care. They’ll only want the young hot guy who got his shit together in his 20s. That’s just how it works. I squandered my youth and there’s no getting it back. I missed my chance. But I’ll keep the exercise in mind
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:11 AM
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It’s hard dude. It also sucks cause getting approval feels GOOD. Holy crap it’s like a drug, you feel so empowered and happy... like you did something right and you’re not a total fuck-up.... I’m already in my late 20s it’s never going to change. But that’s fine, not every man will attract high quality women sadly. But I can and will find other ways to be happy. “So why are you still on this sub?” I come here for the encouragement and the life advice, ok?
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:06 AM
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Man piss off and stop putting words in my mouth. I’m not gonna cry about getting rejected like a little bitch. Ive been rejected too many times to even give a damn at this point. You know what? Just to prove you wrong, I’m not even gonna bother. I changed my mind, I’m not asking her out. We’re hardly compatible anyway and I’m too insecure and underdeveloped. You think I need a woman? I’ll be just fine on my own thanks very much. In terms of boundaries, the idea is simply to take it slow and not …
/r/seduction05/11/20 07:53 AM
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I guess I’m hopeless then cause I’m not about to overstep boundaries just to escalate a possible relationship. I don’t care if it’s not seen as “manly.” It does not feel like the right thing to do.
/r/seduction05/11/20 07:27 AM
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Don’t count on a break up. Move on.
/r/seduction05/11/20 07:13 AM
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That’s great to hear, I guess it is better to be more upfront about your feelings. If you don’t mind me asking, what’s a good first date? How can I get over the nerves and set up something good? I tend to freeze up easily in social situations. I’m very shy and don’t have much confidence so I rarely ask anyone out, mostly because I have no idea how to keep them interested. Assuming she says yes, that will actually be more nerve wracking than exciting 😖
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:46 AM
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I appreciate the vote of confidence
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:13 AM
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Lol I wish. 27. I’m not expecting this to go well at all but it’s worth a shot
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:05 AM
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My intention is to find out if we’re a good fit and actually like each other, then go from there. But maybe it is better to just make your intentions known from the start so there’s no beating around the bush. Aaaargh
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:58 AM
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Agreed
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:33 AM
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Thank you sir. I’ll see what happens and get back to ya
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:33 AM
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Okay I see your point but isn’t that being a little too forward? You could potentially scare her off like that, it’s not unheard of to just spend some time together and see if you actually like each other’s company, in which case it IS just hanging out. I can’t expect to be making out with her on the first date, I mean it could happen but it’s not likely
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:32 AM
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Well said
/r/seduction04/11/20 06:26 AM
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Question about that, how can I increase the load if I’m not seeing results? If I’m not seeing results then I’m not seeing increased strength either
/r/seduction02/11/20 02:25 AM
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Gimme my yen back!
/r/seduction02/11/20 01:10 AM
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I’m in my late 20s. Only have about two friends outside the family. They’re good guys though so quality over quantity.
/r/seduction31/10/20 10:13 PM
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Sick! I’m halfway through my marathon of demon slayer, as well as season 4 of JoJo. And that new show Jujutsu Kaisen is getting good reviews as well, and Re Zero season 2. What are you watching? Yes I have a couple work books and a nice big 88 key piano that needs to be learned I wanna practise a song. What book do you recommend?
/r/seduction31/10/20 08:21 PM
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Mind elaborating on what exactly is so terrible about this advice? You sound a bit silly making a random claim without backing it up
/r/seduction31/10/20 07:09 PM
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Would you say getting some of them professionally taken and edited is worth the effort too? Might be pricey but hey
/r/seduction31/10/20 07:08 PM
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I mean this in the most polite way possible; you need to relax. Getting laid is not the be all end all. Nor should it even really be a goal tbh. Let it happen naturally, don’t go chasing it or you risk looking desperate and downright predatory. You already got laid twice earlier in the year, that’s more than some guys will ever get in their whole lives. Take what you got and direct your focus on more important things. Also, friendly reminder. Social distancing.
/r/seduction31/10/20 05:56 AM
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Anime, video games, reading books, singing, learning piano.
/r/seduction31/10/20 04:42 AM
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😂
/r/seduction29/10/20 08:09 PM
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Daaaaamn straight!
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:10 PM
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This kinda bums me out. How else are you supposed to get to know a person without asking about them?
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:36 AM
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Lol sure. Thanks for the encouragement lady but you’re just one person
/r/seduction25/10/20 01:59 PM
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I’m not posting a pic just to have you automatically rip it to shreds, thanks
/r/seduction25/10/20 01:57 PM
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I wish I was but I’m being disagreed with so vehemently that it may as well have been a joke
/r/seduction25/10/20 08:01 AM
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Seven
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:28 AM
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So my previous answer was deemed unsatisfactory so here’s a simpler one: Toughen up and focus on other things
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:32 AM
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All I’m saying is I’m concluding that seduction is not for me. How does that make me a simp? Did you watch the video or not? Forget women. I need to get my damn life in order
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:06 AM
6

Call me what you wish. I don’t care anymore.
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:02 AM
3

I promise I’m only trying to be realistic. I don’t mean to discourage or be a downer. I wish every man here the best of luck in finding the lass of his dreams. But in my opinion, you’re probably not gonna find her in the grocery store or on the bus.
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:26 AM
7

Oh shit. Confirms what we all knew all along. Pack it up boys. Cold approach doesn’t work. Unless you’re exceptionally good looking and charismatic. It just. Doesn’t. Work. Women generally don’t like it, it puts them in an awkward, disruptive, defensive and extremely vulnerable position. Work on yourself and give the women a reason to like you, or at least find someone within your own social circle that you’ve actually taken some time to get used to seeing. I don’t know about ya’ll but I’m leavi…
/r/seduction25/10/20 02:53 AM
4

Yeah it’s also degrading and illegal.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:38 PM
6

This is one thing I’m severely struggling with. The important thing to remember is that even if you remain a virgin your entire life, you still have every right to be here on this planet and live your best life possible.
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:37 PM
5

I suppose the best bet is to just go for it regardless and keep your six feet of distance. And it might be wise to limit your interactions/approaches as well. Say no more than three per day. Or if you’re like me; three per week. Stay safe
/r/seduction24/10/20 04:25 AM
1

Good video. Short and sweet with sharp delivery and gets the point across. I like it
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:47 AM
1

I genuinely needed this right now, thank you.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:05 PM
1

I have had some girls into me but never knew how to escalate it nor did I have the confidence.
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:57 AM
1

Hold on a second what if I factually cannot think of fifty likeable things About myself...
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:01 AM
1

Inhale: no
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:36 AM
1

That’s sweet I appreciate that
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:49 PM
1

Thx
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:24 PM
2

Hey :) Just wanted to remind you of your inherent worth as a valuable human being regardless of your physical attraction. I don’t know if you needed the reminder, but here it is regardless. Be well.
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:23 PM
1

I can’t help but feel like this was sarcasm
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:26 AM
7

Plus you know, it’s just a terrifically healthy habit to develop for the body and mind, smv be damned
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:54 AM
1

Starting at the gym is great but it’s the results from consistent workouts that actually counts
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:53 AM
3

I gave you a sub
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:32 PM
1

It sounds obvious but every so often if you find yourself thinking about the future nonstop just pause for a few moments and focus on your breathing for at least four full deep breaths. Takes you out of the ruminating and puts your brain on pause in a way. Also pay attention to your immediate surroundings
/r/seduction20/10/20 07:24 AM
1

That’s terrific to hear seems I made a good purchase
/r/seduction20/10/20 06:12 AM
2

This is the best comment I’ve ever read
/r/seduction20/10/20 03:15 AM
1

wheeze
/r/seduction20/10/20 03:14 AM
5

Worry not. Second I catch the faintest hint of apprehension, Imma hightail it the hell outta there
/r/seduction19/10/20 05:46 AM
1

Thank you I will take this advice
/r/seduction19/10/20 05:44 AM
1

Can you give me an example please
/r/seduction19/10/20 04:06 AM
3

I don’t want to say it’s a significant priority for me either but.... it’s... up there I admit.
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:51 PM
1

I nod so often it’s almost neurotic so maybe that’s something I should try to do less. The problem is when you admire and take genuine interest in all the people around you. I guess that’s me being a people pleaser...
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:33 AM
1

Big fat 0 at age 27 but that’s because Im too much of a pussy to put in any effort so I really can’t complain
/r/seduction17/10/20 09:40 PM
0

This post is something every man needs to read!
/r/seduction17/10/20 01:32 AM
36

I hate to say it but the best strategy really might be to forget about women in general. Work on yourself and let them actually become attracted to you.
/r/seduction16/10/20 11:44 AM
1

Fax
/r/seduction16/10/20 04:08 AM
7

Lol I read the “me” in Plankton’s voice
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:21 PM
1

Get off tiktok and instagram!! Waste of time, build your confidence so that you don’t have to fantasize anymore. And also stop giving the females too much credit. The idea is to wonder if they will like you. Not the other way around
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:24 PM
3

Try to maximize your looks like grooming and clothing so at the very least, you look as best as possible
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:02 PM
3

You are going to get 1 of 2 answers. Both of which come in many different forms but all essentially mean the same thing; either yes or no. You need to be prepared for both. Just accept it gracefully and move onto the next
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:50 PM
4

Ignore him. Just a trolling incel that has no chill
/r/seduction14/10/20 06:36 AM
1

Well it’s a relief that I’m actually fairly good looking then.
/r/seduction14/10/20 06:34 AM
2

So play more M rated video games. Gotcha
/r/seduction14/10/20 06:30 AM
1

Yeah you’re right sorry for my beta comment. Was in a weird mindset
/r/seduction14/10/20 04:01 AM
2

Fair enough. On the positive side, 3 years is a pretty long time. At least you made it work for that long
/r/seduction14/10/20 02:33 AM
1

I’ve been addicted to Jane Eyre lately but NMMNG is sitting on the shelf just waiting for Me! Maybe I will make a post detailing my thoughts after finishing it
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:51 AM
2

I’m actually really grateful I’ve never been in a relationship so one day if it ever happens I know not to get too attached because I’ve read/seen too many stories like this
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:07 AM
3

Bruh that’s deep
/r/seduction13/10/20 11:47 PM
1

...as a nice guy, we mean well. We treat you like royalty because we adore you. Does it seem desperate? Sure, but we only want the best for you.
/r/seduction13/10/20 11:28 PM
1

Preach brotha
/r/seduction13/10/20 09:56 PM
1

Some rock solid advice right here
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:18 PM
1

Well I’m sorry you have to put up with that bullshit. Those guys are not only total cowards for saying that behind a screen, but complete assholes for treating you like that. There is such a thing as being honest while being civil at the same time. Some people...
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:15 PM
2

Ahaha.... y..yeah point taken. anime sweat drop
/r/seduction11/10/20 02:54 PM
1

Good post and nice article
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:16 AM
2

Yeah I’m not expecting it to be a total cure-all but it’s a pretty short read so hopefully I can get at least something out of it
/r/seduction11/10/20 01:01 AM
1

It’s pretty fucked up when you really analyze it but there’s not much we can do about it. Just remember, you deserve to live your life to the fullest, regardless of who’s getting laid and who’s not.
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:55 PM
2

Because let’s face it humanity puts too much stock into idealistic romantic relationships and when it doesn’t play out the way it does in the persons head things can take a turn for the worst.
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:35 PM
3

You won’t get very far with looks alone if your life isn’t in order. At least in terms of committed relationships.
/r/seduction10/10/20 10:56 PM
1

Smart my man. Smart. I know this is the unpopular opinion but I’m the exact same as you. There is no need to respond with more violence. This world is often cruel and unforgiving and if people treat you in such a way, there is (usually) a reason. Better thing to do is to take it as a wake-up call or a sign to do some self-improvement or inner work and just become a better man. Remember to forgive others and you can turn that relationship with your coworker around believe me. Plus the last thing …
/r/seduction10/10/20 01:26 AM
3

Put some effort into your physical appearance, i.e. the things under your control, grooming/shaving, haircut, nice clothes that fit, make sure you smell good etc. And make sure to walk with a straight back.
/r/seduction10/10/20 01:07 AM
1

Look I’m sorry this is a well-written post but you can’t just brush off the pain of rejection as if it doesn’t biologically exist.
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:39 PM
2

I haven’t deleted it I still keep it just because my cousins/relatives pester me to at least have an account but I basically never use it. I know better than to go down that rabbit hole. Plus Instagram is just lame dude I don’t understand the point of it, is there anything on there that you can’t already do on Facebook?
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:58 AM
1

Sorry to beat a dead horse but can I ask what you mean by emotionally strong?
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:30 AM
1

Thumbnail cracks me up for some reason
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:06 AM
1

I suppose but I didn’t see the need to add anything so I gave thanks for the word of encouragement. I guess on the surface it looks kind of stunted
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:38 AM
1

That’s the truth. Gotta build the man first
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:30 AM
1

No this is actually very eye-opening thanks so much for writing all this. You’re a good man for doing that. I feel like I would do that stuff too but I rarely come across the opportunity. Maybe I should see if I can volunteer for something
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:17 AM
1

I think my real question is how do I stop depending on others so much... how can I both gain some confidence and also be comfortable with being alone? .....also what’s wrong with me in general?
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:52 AM
1

I’m not sure if you’ll see this, but if she’s not willing to go on any dates with you, then I would recommend you tell her straight up to stop flirting with you. What good are flirtatious advances if you’re not gonna take the next step
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:48 AM
1

I’ve been to therapy countless times. It’s honestly not helping much. I have to deal with my shit on my own
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:43 AM
2

Good on you bro. Wish I had that confidence.
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:26 AM
1

That’s very true. It’s just easy to look at these other couples and feel like I’m missing out but I guess I’m viewing like 1% of the full thing
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:07 PM
1

I actually do have a couple of close friends that I met through work. We don’t hang out too much but we talk fairly often and I hung out with one of them a couple days ago for a few minutes. And I got a couple cousins I’m close with as well so it’s not terrible. And my siblings are pretty great friends as well. But believe when I say that most of the time I’m on my own, but I’m realizing I need to fill that time with more hobbies, chores and productivity. I’m almost always craving a romantic rel…
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:41 PM
2

So wha happan
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:10 PM
1

Thanks Edit why the downvote?
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:09 PM
4

Well there is always going to be someone better than you no matter what. We can’t all be insane productivity gods lol. What I’m saying is that if you can still make yourself into a pretty good or even great man, then as long as she has good reason to be with you, you can improve the chances of her staying. Relationships are hard work
/r/seduction06/10/20 07:45 PM
1

Of course it’s true. Why would a self-respecting woman ever want to settle. Would YOU want to settle? Of course not, it works both ways. That said, if you put in the work, you can become one of those men that they actually want. This is kind of a competition at the end of the day. Many men and few desirable women, you want to know them intimately? Give them a reason to find you irresistible. I’m not saying it’s easy but it’s not impossible
/r/seduction06/10/20 07:07 PM
2

Sometimes it really is just better to swallow the pill
/r/seduction06/10/20 07:04 PM
4

Good luck
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:06 AM
2

Thank you for these great tips. I’m gonna snag that book first chance I get
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:14 PM
1

Good point I better stop whining
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:54 PM
1

Okay this is great and all but by the time I actually become interesting and likeable let’s be honest, I’ll be 35. No big deal I guess but still
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:44 AM
2

Hey just wanted to say I hope things get better for you soon. Sorry for what you’re going through. Good luck to you
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:10 AM
1

Was being too needy... he cut ties with me because he’d had enough and rightfully so. Plus we were just growing apart anyway. Meh... it happens
/r/seduction03/10/20 01:55 AM
1

Because when you search for it, it evades you
/r/seduction02/10/20 10:33 AM
1

I mean this is pretty much exactly how I broke up with my friend recently so yeah giving someone your needy emotional baggage without there consent is one of the dumbest things anyone can do in my experience
/r/seduction02/10/20 06:23 AM
1

Facts. That’s really all there is too it. Victim mentality never helped anyone.
/r/seduction01/10/20 07:53 PM
7

❤️
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:07 PM
-4

Alright whatever...
/r/seduction01/10/20 10:09 AM
-2

Wha...?
/r/seduction01/10/20 10:06 AM
1

Thiiiiiiis. We all have our struggles.
/r/seduction01/10/20 10:05 AM
7

Not really. I would prefer being called “dear, dearest, darling, honey or beloved.” I guess I’m more old fashioned that way
/r/seduction01/10/20 07:19 AM
1

How about that salt shaker WHEEZE
/r/seduction30/09/20 05:45 AM
2

Good post thank you for writing this
/r/seduction30/09/20 02:20 AM
4

Imma write this down and see if I can discuss it with a therapist. I’m definitely far too nice and agreeable... I don’t know how to respect my own boundaries and it makes me look like a total insecure doormat
/r/seduction29/09/20 10:20 PM
1

Okay I’m glad I’m not crazy when I see not-so-great looking guys holding hands with beautiful girls because I see that at least once a day
/r/seduction29/09/20 05:38 PM
2

Thank you for this.
/r/seduction28/09/20 11:20 PM
1

Don’t give up. If you’ve done what you need to do for yourself, your chances are that much higher
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:48 PM
3

....I think it means she’s crazy
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:46 PM
2

Don’t give those morons the time of day
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:24 PM
2

Bless this post!!
/r/seduction26/09/20 11:05 PM
3

I’m the last person to be giving advice but just remember you cannot control her reaction. If she screams fuck off, then fuck off. Simple as that. At least you tried.
/r/seduction26/09/20 04:46 AM
1

I needed this, thank you 💗💗💗
/r/seduction26/09/20 03:44 AM
1

Thank you buddy! You take care now
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:36 AM
1

Okay actually yeah I don’t think I’ve given up BUT I’ve framed my mindset to be much more realistic
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:29 AM
1

....... jots down furiously
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:03 AM
2

It’s painful that’s for sure, but it won’t last more than a couple day’s. props to you for taking it like a champ. Good luck to you! At least now you know so you won’t agonize about “what ifs” and all that
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:36 AM
5

THANK YOU SIR!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:31 AM
1

That’s great that you are working on improving though! Best of luck to you
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:13 AM
1

Facts bro.
/r/seduction21/09/20 04:32 PM
1

Good stuff my man. Ride that wave!
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:31 AM
1

MY EYES!!!
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:14 AM
1

Disagree
/r/seduction19/09/20 11:04 PM
1

That’s kinda what I’m thinking too. But oh well it’s not a big deal.
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:16 PM
1

Just said okay no problem and left it at that
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:47 PM
7

Yes you will be fine, buddy. Meditation, hobbies and improvement is exactly what we all need to focus on. More power to you
/r/seduction19/09/20 04:37 AM
1

Yup. Agreed. Don’t get so hung up on one person. Let em go and move on. Not the end of the world
/r/seduction19/09/20 04:33 AM
47

Not just attraction but even applies to platonic friendships. If you’re an annoying, needy friend, prepare to get ignored
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:55 AM
82

Had to upvote for the fancy font.
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:21 AM
1

Meh
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:09 AM
5

Okay this is well said and all but there’s one problem. My parents were pretty much the complete opposite to me and I still feel timid, shy, low self esteem and as though I am unworthy love. So wtf happened there? Is it because I was mollycoddled and spoiled too much so I’m not strong enough to go after what I want? Because my mind has been conditioned to believe that obtaining things shouldn’t be difficult? I don’t know if those are even connected. I guess I was also kinda shunned from social g…
/r/seduction17/09/20 04:04 AM
6

this is very true. I often struggle with trying to decide the right things to say or how to win her over. When the simple fact is, if she liked me in the first place, i probably wouldn’t need to think about those things. It’s a tough pill to swallow at first but it’s pretty liberating when you do. Sometimes there is nothing you can do, that’s why self improvement and being your own man is so important. Because most of the time, we’re all we’ve got
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:31 PM
1

Rule number 1. Keep your back straight and eyes up at all times! No slouching, hands out of pockets. Rule number 2. I don’t know what else to say. But rule number 1 is helpful
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:46 AM
2

Hate to say it but you might be too deep in the friend zone but it’s maybe worth a shot
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:45 AM
1

........
/r/seduction12/09/20 04:40 AM
7

Not to sound like a chump but.... what if you don’t bring a lot of value to the table...?
/r/seduction12/09/20 04:35 AM
3

Well said. Nothing in life worth doing was ever easy.
/r/seduction11/09/20 11:35 PM
3

I think the intention of the saying is don’t try too hard to be somebody you’re not. But you have a point
/r/seduction11/09/20 11:26 PM
4

You can improve the teeth and work away the belly though...
/r/seduction11/09/20 12:38 AM
2

Everything man.... my life, my fitness, my income, my skill set, I’ve squandered my early twenties doing shit all towards self development. Maybe I could get a way with it at 19 or 20, but 27 is just too old to be so far behind in life. But it’s okay, admitting this has awakened a renewed sense of vigour within me. I’m not going to give up on anything, I’m a work in progress and I will continue to do so FOR MYSELF first and foremost. Maybe a relationship can still work for some underdeveloped gu…
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:01 AM
1

It do be like that sometimes
/r/seduction09/09/20 10:52 PM
1

Lmao hey thanks for the reality check :D
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:30 PM
1

Fax
/r/seduction09/09/20 06:50 AM
1

Easier said than done
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:43 AM
1

Coworker which makes it complicated but there’s others in the same workplace that are dating so it probably wouldn’t be an issue but yeah I see her at least 4 times a week. It’s driving me mad
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:58 AM
3

Meeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:57 AM
5

Goddammit the nice guy examples are me to a tee. This is the best post on this sub I have ever seen thank you very much.
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:46 AM
2

Facts bro
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:35 AM
1

I’m really sorry you have to deal with that.... all the best to you. If it makes you feel any better, good looks are by no means a guaranteed free pass
/r/seduction06/09/20 05:26 AM
2

“I’ve seen men with NOTHING going on in their lives.” And I would just like to point out that there is positively NOTHING good about that. Regardless of how good they are with girls. They are probably depressed as hell when their head hits the pillow at night. Don’t chase women, chase excellence.
/r/seduction05/09/20 04:47 PM
2

Bro at the end of the day, no one said this was gonna be easy. Accept what you can’t change and work with what can be changed
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:19 AM
1

That’s not true at all the right amount of grooming and workouts would boost his chances. Don’t be a dick
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:50 AM
2

How did you work on becoming non-needy/desperate I really really struggle with that. That and just finding a general direction in life. I want to become a carpenter for example. How do you ignore the neediness and longing for social connection and affection and just do your own work?
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:44 AM
2

See this is the truth right here. What good are good looks if you’ve got nothing else going for you
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:41 AM
1

Unfortunately some people can be judgemental, harsh and shallow. But as cliche as it sounds, you would not want any sort of relationship with that kind of person anyway. Sucks to hear you are unable to weight lift. Could you try non-arm related exercises? Such as squats, sit-ups etc. I don’t know much about body building but we got muscles on more than just our arms
/r/seduction01/09/20 08:27 AM
-1

Yeah that’s pretty good.
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:36 AM
-3

Thanks for reaffirming the truth
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:55 AM
1

Also you CAN sense when other people have their shit together. Either by what they are doing, how they carry themselves, or how they speak. It depends, but it’s possible.
/r/seduction27/08/20 07:37 AM
4

Well I’m 27 if that’s any indication. Also I never said looks don’t matter. What I’m trying to say is, you can be good looking. But if you’re a loser, and a socially retarded deadbeat with no direction in life, no one is gonna care for very long. Cause guess what? We age. We start balding. We gradually lose that edge the looks gave us. And then what? You think a below-average looking guy won’t have a chance with women if he is an experienced carpenter? Or a psychiatrist? Or a pilot? Self develop…
/r/seduction27/08/20 07:35 AM
11

Great article thank you for sharing!! You are right. In short, nobody is perfect but EVERY person has something to offer, and they should not let those flaws get them down.
/r/seduction27/08/20 06:58 AM
1

Man stfu the only bully around here is you
/r/seduction27/08/20 02:57 AM
2

It’s not impossible. But learn to prioritize it less. This attitude you’ve displayed risks coming off as desperate and needy (no offence) and people will find that unattractive.
/r/seduction27/08/20 12:26 AM
1

Alright to each his own. All the best to you
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:25 AM
2

You can make women not the priority without giving up entirely. Look I’m just gonna say it, I feel like you’re victimizing yourself to get some sympathy. I gently ask you to GROW A PAIR and buck up. Improve yourself so that you’re attractive enough for the woman of your dreams. YOU CAN DO IT.
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:07 AM
1

As a 27 year old single man, I can assure you that last part at least is possible.
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:06 AM
1

Don’t give up. It helps to focus on yourself, but you never know what the future holds. At least you know you’ve had positive experiences in past. If you’ve done it before you can do it again.
/r/seduction26/08/20 03:22 AM
1

Thanks for writing this
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:07 AM
1

Like stop kidding yourselves lmao if this shit was possible we would all be rich. You do however, need to be financially stable. But do NOT give in to the toxic mindsets attributed by posts like this. Just. Work. On. Yourself.
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:13 AM
1

Garbage post. As if it’s possible for every single guy to achieve that level of financial success. By all means work towards your goals, but it’s a well-known fact that this is not the only thing that attracts women.
/r/seduction23/08/20 09:51 PM
3

You know what else is facts? Not every guy is going to become visibly rich and famous.
/r/seduction23/08/20 09:42 PM
-2

“You need to have everything in your life sorted out before you can start dating” I mean.... it’s true.
/r/seduction23/08/20 04:19 AM
1

I’ve had a similar experience and sadly I’d say there’s a good chance she is simply comfortable with you and not necessarily interested in a relationship. But I could be wrong, your best bet would be to ask her directly ONLY IF her flirtatious behaviour persists. Call her out on it and ask if she wants to go on a date of some variety. Just don’t make the same mistake I did, which was to not say anything at all and live with that regret for the rest of your life...
/r/seduction23/08/20 04:16 AM
1

K fine
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:20 PM
2

I guess if it’s too inconvenient to meet up in person there’s no much point
/r/seduction22/08/20 06:03 PM
0

Yup. You never know when the other one is gonna get bored and pull the plug. Enjoy em while you got em, cause chances are they gon dip at a moments notice. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be happy that they were yours for a while
/r/seduction22/08/20 10:04 AM
2

Wait we were fish once..?
/r/seduction22/08/20 02:41 AM
2

Maybe look at it this way. You were together for two whole wonderful years with a nice girl, no matter how you look at it, that’s a victory my friend. okay you broke up, but it’s okay, break ups are common. You will be fine
/r/seduction22/08/20 02:40 AM
2

Probably not very far...
/r/seduction21/08/20 07:11 PM
1

Yup. This is correct. As unhelpful as it may sound, the alternative is to sit there and take no action.
/r/seduction21/08/20 02:11 AM
1

Just realized she’s actually living super far away from me... would be impossible to actually see her. Maybe I should let it go? I mean I can’t uproot myself to go to where she is and she won’t do the same for me. But maybe I should stay in contact just in case..? Uuugh ☹️
/r/seduction20/08/20 05:48 PM
2

What did you end up doing to improve yourself into a high-value male?
/r/seduction20/08/20 05:03 PM
15

No it’s on the other side of mind numbing, gruelling hard work
/r/seduction20/08/20 05:02 PM
1

Thanks so much for writing all this I appreciate it. But there’s one thing, she replied almost immediately and we had a pleasant conversation even if it didn’t really go anywhere. Is there any merit to that?
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:49 PM
2

Bro she’s so cuuuuuute she’s just my type I hope I can make something work but I doubt it cuz she’s too far away and I gotta get my shit together anyway
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:47 PM
1

I guess if she’s long distance away that alone kinda cancels this. It’s fine, I can live with that. Imma go lift some weights
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:18 PM
1

I’m posting too much again I will give it a break
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:53 AM
5

Admittedly my experience hasn’t been great but then again I never actually made the effort to approach so... I think a lot of it comes down to confidence, grooming, charisma and social skills rather than just pure physicality.
/r/seduction18/08/20 06:38 AM
3

You got a point
/r/seduction13/08/20 04:37 PM
1

...honestly tho if we don’t watch our asses one of us is gonna get convicted. These are some murky waters we’re treading
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:52 AM
3

O___O this man has seen some SHIT
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:49 AM
1

Dang it’s THAT good eh..??
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:17 AM
1

Well then get fit
/r/seduction12/08/20 03:27 AM
2

This post is straight 🔥
/r/seduction09/08/20 09:18 PM
5

And to make matters worse, it just makes men as a whole look monstrous and untrustworthy. Not saying that matters more than the girl’s safety but it’s true. This kinda shit keeps up, women will eventually want nothing to do with men. Mark my words.
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:48 AM
1

I’m not a black pillar. Thanks
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:34 PM
1

Plus not to mention it’s kind of unsafe.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:56 AM
1

......I can’t even get one woman and now I’m expected to get multiple? Lol I need to let this shit go
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:55 AM
1

I’m not in shape yet but I have two friends who are and they’re ladykillers soooooo yeah imma say yes. It makes you look better but it also shows that you are a man who takes care of himself. That alone is attractive I think.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:41 AM
3

Personally can’t relate. My hair is mediocre no matter what length it is. Not gonna attract women that way at all
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:39 AM
1

Fair point but I’d rather just work on myself. If my life is a mess I’m not gonna approach. Just my two cents
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:22 AM
16

How in gods name anybody is scared of rejection is beyond me. Rejection is the LEAST of your problems. You should be worried about what to do if she says yes. Like “aight, you think you’re hot shit? Take me out, make me a nice dinner, show me a good time, tell me about yourself and what you do.” If you are not prepared to tackle any of those requirements, you’re in trouble. It’s important to remember that just because she didn’t reject you doesn’t mean you’ve suddenly got a partner for life. Tha…
/r/seduction31/07/20 04:42 AM
1

Thank you for saying this. I’ve heard it a million times but I never get tired of it.
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:59 PM
1

Where a mask, and keep a respectful 6 feet. Then get out that laptop and plan a virtual date. That’s how it’s gotta be until corona gets dealt with. Adapt, my friend.
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:35 AM
2

Thanks a lot
/r/seduction23/07/20 10:52 PM
1

That’s the plaaaaaaaaan buddy
/r/seduction23/07/20 04:24 PM
1

Actually no I take that back. I still stand by it cause I’m not cut out for seduction. I’m better off working on myself. Period.
/r/seduction22/07/20 04:41 AM
1

Fair enough, maybe I posted in the wrong sub
/r/seduction21/07/20 09:19 PM
2

I suppose it wouldn’t hurt to try and SAFELY get a little bit of practise.
/r/seduction21/07/20 05:29 AM
4

But you get my point, right? I don’t think seduction is for me right now. Even if I got a match on a dating app, I think it would fall flat. I don’t have the social skills or the self-assured confidence that it takes. It kinda sucks, but I really do need to fall in love with myself. Women won’t care otherwise...
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:55 AM
3

Imma say sasuke. Maybe mixed with some Kazama Kiryu
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:14 AM
7

I mean unless you’re illiterate I doubt it’s that difficult to put more effort into a text convo
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:59 PM
1

Just my two cents, there’s a mid 20s guy working at my local supermarket, he’s like 5 feet 4 inches or something, pretty damn short for a male, but no one cares. Everyone likes him and he’s the coolest guy working there cause he’s confident in himself, smiles, has a positive vibrant energy, and treats customers with kindness always. Height may put you at a disadvantage at times, but you absolutely CAN counteract it with the right amount of confidence. Plus other stuff.
/r/seduction12/07/20 11:19 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction02/07/20 07:11 PM
1

Yes as in it’s inappropriate right?
/r/seduction02/07/20 05:45 PM
2

Lmao 😂
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:37 AM
1

Maybe just tidy the place up for next time. Honestly, you never know
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:37 AM
0

I don’t mean to discourage or disrespect anyone who may not have that great of a job. And I recognize a lot of people maybe out of work due to the pandemic I am sorry for my insensitivity. I simply meant that from my point of view confidence comes a lot easier when you have a base. Doesn’t even have to be a job really. Could be a skill set or something
/r/seduction23/06/20 05:19 AM
-7

See that’s the main thing. Get a good job and the confidence will follow
/r/seduction23/06/20 02:45 AM
1

I dunno if it’s a lame excuse but I see your point
/r/seduction16/06/20 01:54 AM
1

K thank you for your insight. I’m gonna relax and get some work done. You won’t be hearing from me for a long while
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:08 PM
1

Fuck you like always
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:05 PM
1

It doesn’t matter!!! It literally doesn’t matter if the ugliest motherfucker in the world gets infinitely more pussy than I ever will! The simple fact is THATS NOT ME. That NEVER will be me! I can’t just “get” decent women. I’ve NEVER been capable of charming the pants of a decent woman and would not be able to if my life depended on it. It’s high time I bite the bullet and accept that fact!! Maybe it’s got nothing to do with my life position, or my looks, or anything. Maybe there’s some divine …
/r/seduction31/05/20 07:51 AM
1

Thanks I really appreciate this
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:07 AM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction31/05/20 01:10 AM
4

Well you’re in a better position than me! I’m 27, decent looking and a virgin. I think you’re doing pretty good tbh.
/r/seduction30/05/20 08:36 PM
3

Spittin’ facts! You’ll have a much easier time finding a partner when you’re actively advancing your life and self development.
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:27 PM
1

Thanks for this
/r/seduction26/05/20 12:45 AM
5

This right here
/r/seduction25/05/20 05:29 PM
1

Ya need to have muscles on your muscles! You need to have muscles on yer eyeballs!
/r/seduction25/05/20 05:05 PM
1

Thumbs me down all you want assholes. I meant well
/r/seduction21/05/20 06:15 AM
0

Be patient, man. No one knows for certain what the future holds. Just remember it is all for health and safety. All the best and stay well.
/r/seduction18/05/20 01:59 AM
3

I love this so much
/r/seduction16/05/20 03:10 AM
1

Thiiiiiiis
/r/seduction16/05/20 03:08 AM
1

The second half of the post was very encouraging thank you
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:48 AM
3

Good point!
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:17 AM
2

WHAT IS THE POINT OF THIS SUB IF YOU ASSHOLES ARE GONNA FLAG EVERY SINGLE POST??
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:16 AM
-2

Amen 🙏
/r/seduction16/05/20 01:18 AM
12

And that’s exactly when you become more likely to get one. When you cease to pursue it.
/r/seduction16/05/20 01:14 AM
1

PREACH BROTHA. I don’t care how may times I’ve heard it. The truth needs to be said.
/r/seduction16/05/20 01:11 AM
1

See this right here is the reality we need to all accept. Relationships and love are far from easy and under no circumstances should be viewed as permanent. There is simply too much in flux at all times
/r/seduction14/05/20 08:21 AM
1

But to answer your question in general yes you should keep your distance. This is not a time to be physically approaching anybody unfortunately. Safety first.
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:33 AM
1

I honestly don’t know what kind of world you guys are living in. I’m not bad looking at all but I NEVER find opportunities to cold approach whatsoever. I get that you need it just “do it” but I swear where I live, approaching damn near anyone feels equivalent to a mortal crime
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:28 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:25 AM
1

Also keep in mind, the context of the songs are usually not meant to be taken literally. If a song is good, than its good. Regardless of the context of it’s lyrics. It’s best to just enjoy it as a piece of art I think
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:23 AM
1

Which is why I listen to mostly instrumental music. Classical baroque stuff. There’s a wealth of masterpieces to choose from as I’m sure you know. Nothing lifts the spirits quite like music played on live instruments. Modern lyrical music of any kind never did much for me. With a few exceptions.
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:21 AM
3

Thanks for the reply. I guess you cannot very well expect anything to come to you right?
/r/seduction06/05/20 11:54 PM
3

In general yes. Well apart from the current situation that’s making socializing unsafe, it would be my own insecurities and lack of confidence holding me back. But mostly my social anxiety and people-pleasing habits. I’m honestly pretty hopeless when it comes to women
/r/seduction06/05/20 11:34 PM
2

See this is exactly what happened to me with this one cute girl at work but I never made moves cause I felt scared and not ready and now she’s over me 👌
/r/seduction01/05/20 05:45 AM
11

If anything you should be making a plan for what the hell yo ass is gonna do if she says yes. That’s when the REAL challenge begins. Like aight, you think you’re hot shit? Now you gotta prove it to the girl on the first date.
/r/seduction21/04/20 06:28 AM
1

HEAR HEAR!! I just worked out for an hour at home and practiced Portuguese on Duolingo for 30 minutes!! Gonna do that everyday after work. Godspeed gentlemen. We will get through this
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:16 AM
1

Absolutely. I welcome it in fact
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 09:10 AM
1

Okay imma bout to sound like a mad simp but.... I would have just said “leave me alone please.” I feel like there’s a way to still stand your ground while being civil at the same time. Women are still people, gentlemen. Don’t forget your kindness, that’s how a real man does it imo.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 06:44 AM
1

Nice 👍
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 04:15 AM
3

Over 30 I mean shit that says a lot right there. It’s simple. They don’t give a shit about us. They’re only in it for themselves. Well then it’s high time we showed them that two can play at that game...
/r/MGTOW02/03/20 10:37 AM
1

Get out of it ASAP my guy. Making a rude remark at your haircut is the biggest red flag I’ve ever seen.
/r/MGTOW02/03/20 12:21 AM
2

Gamer for life! Fuck the haters!! Final Fantasy 7 Remake hype!!!
/r/MGTOW01/03/20 11:51 PM
1

Fine thanks a lot. Glad I managed to get a decent reply before the post got removed. I swear reddit is way too strict
/r/seduction22/02/20 12:18 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/seduction22/02/20 12:02 AM
1

none. At least not in terms of flirting or whatever... but I’m asking what would improve those specific chances
/r/seduction21/02/20 11:53 PM
1

Wtf man...
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:29 PM
1

Ugh why do I bother
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:59 PM
1

Yes I know I agree I just feel bad about it
/r/seduction30/01/20 07:28 PM
2

Okay thanks. I’ll keep that in mind. Fingers crossed the number wasnt fake
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:20 AM
2

Thank you for your insight. I will try to be kinder to myself and others regarding this topic. But I will say this. At the end of the day, a good sense of humour and a likeable personality are never going to pay the bills.
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:26 AM
1

well then they have low standards and it’s a relationship that won’t last more than a couple months. You have to be offering some kind of value as a man. Plus I just wouldn’t feel good about myself thinking I’m good enough to date a women if I have a mediocre job. Your occupation is a moderate part of what defines you as a person.
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:35 PM
1

You’re quite young. Trying being in that exact same situation but in your late twenties lol. I’m working on myself but in terms of women I’ve borderline given up. You have to offer them some kind of value. Period.
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:56 AM
1

I really hate to say it, but I would say no. I just have standards for myself. Like “wattaya doin’ bringing home a girl you ain’t even got yo licence yet lmao.“
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:24 AM
2

Hey Kenpachi from Bleach replies to my post my life is complete
/r/seduction22/01/20 07:47 AM
1

It’s just because I’m posting too much and can’t make up my mind. But thank you. I will try that
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:14 PM
2

Thanks for that
/r/seduction21/01/20 01:26 PM
1

I just can’t make up my mind. One minute I’m confident, remembering all the compliments I’ve gotten from females, and the next I’m feeling completely hopeless
/r/seduction21/01/20 01:05 PM
1

Who am I kidding. I’m a lost cause and I should just give up
/r/seduction21/01/20 12:42 PM
1

Hey this is great thank you
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:45 AM
2

I can’t even begin to tell you how happy I am you sent me that. Great fucking video. It’s the truth
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 06:50 AM
1

You have my gratitude 😊
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 05:15 AM
1

Thank you 😊
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 05:15 AM
1

Hey I’m so sorry for lashing out like that god I need to calm down
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:30 AM
1

Honestly, yes that’s part of it.
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:02 AM
2

Piss off douche. Not everyone is good at this shit. It helps to get a bit of moral support. But if I’m getting replies like this maybe I should take my business elsewhere...
/r/seduction30/12/19 12:59 AM
1

Gaaaaah you’re so luckyyy XD
/r/seduction30/12/19 12:57 AM
1

Thanks... he is being a bit of a troll I think.
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:29 PM
2

Hey thanks for the encouragement
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:24 PM
1

Thank you 🙏
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:24 PM
3

When something starts off small and then gradually gets bigger and/or more effective. Like when a snowball rolls down a snowy hill.
/r/seduction29/12/19 09:17 AM
1

well, I’m average height, not fat but thin, and a 7 in looks. Maybe an 8 on a good day. ...for some reason I still feel screwed.
/r/seduction29/12/19 09:14 AM
4

No one asked for your shitty input
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:31 AM
2

Well I’m 5” 9. I don’t know how bad that is, but I know I’ve had a few good looking women find me attractive in the past. And this stuff honestly don’t matter as much as you think. I’ve seen at least 3 couples this month alone where the guy was shorter than the girl. So....
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:30 AM
0

^ me as fuck
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:27 AM
3

Thanks for this. I was just feeling down this morning. I really need a major attitude shift
/r/seduction28/12/19 09:05 PM
0

Right there with ya
/r/seduction28/12/19 06:30 PM
2

LOL when you said gaming I thought you meant video games I didn’t realize you meant approach game. XD
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:38 AM
1

Alright alright
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:39 PM
1

So in other words depending on where you live it’s virtually impossible
/r/seduction27/12/19 03:52 PM
3

Yeah that seems to be the best option.
/r/seduction27/12/19 01:41 AM
1

I suppose in theory it makes sense. In practice, debatable. But thank you
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:19 AM
2

Thank you so much that helped a lot.
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:28 AM
1

Yeah nothing for it. I still need help.
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:19 AM
1

As I should..? It just feels more realistic to assume that you’re gonna get turned down
/r/seduction14/12/19 06:40 AM
1

Yeah...
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:36 AM
1

Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you
/r/seduction12/12/19 08:19 PM
2

[email protected] thanks in advance. No rush
/r/seduction12/12/19 09:25 AM
1

There are many upsides to being single. Research them and live them every day of your life. You are enough and you are valuable.
/r/seduction12/12/19 09:24 AM
1

Kk thanks
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:32 PM
3

Nice what you playing
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:32 PM
2

Good point actually. Couldn’t hurt to try. Doesn’t always have to turn into a full blown relationship.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:10 AM
1

Yeah true. I really need to get out of my own head
/r/seduction10/12/19 04:46 AM
2

Not that women should ever be the driving force of what we do, but if we’re looking at that specifically, then yeah. I’m just running out of time.
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:41 AM
1

Are you kidding me? It’s not just the physical act of approaching. It’s actually maintaining an interesting and engaging conversation and that can be extremely challenging no matter how you look at it
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:25 AM
1

Thanks spidey
/r/seduction07/12/19 09:54 PM
6

I’m literally about to grow a pair and go out by myself for basically the first time in my life. That alone makes me not a pussy, thank you very much.
/r/seduction07/12/19 07:07 PM
122

Alright fine. I mean, doing nothing in the corner would still mean I actually made the effort to put myself out there. But thanks! I’ll do my best.
/r/seduction07/12/19 09:10 AM
1

It certainly is suspicious
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:54 AM
1

TRUTH HUUUUUUUUURRRTS lol
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:44 AM
2

That’s true I wouldn’t either. But I feel like as men, as the traditional providers, we don’t get a free pass as easily
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:15 PM
1

But that will only get you so far. If you’re looking for something long term, you need to be at least somewhat accomplished and financially stable. Like come on people this is a well known fact
/r/seduction04/12/19 09:27 AM
2

Don’t let that deter you. I’m sorry if I sounded conceited. Good luck out there
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:19 AM
2

Yes this is accurate. Thank you
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:55 AM
2

Let me just clarify, it’s rare that I get a compliment on my looks from girls, they are certainly not fawning over me left right and Center. But it has happened on a number of occasions
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:41 AM
3

I wouldn’t say I creep girls out. And have even been told out right by women that they find me attractive. Especially when I was in high school. But I definitely do not have a large social circle of any kind. And my life is kind of boring which is why I’m tackling all these new hobbies. But thanks for replying.
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:19 AM
3

HA. XD
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:30 PM
3

alright you know what I’m sorry I ever made this post. Time to move on and regain my stride. Being single is not the end of the world. I will be fine. Back to the grind tomorrow morning. Thanks for your time
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:33 AM
1

Because I need to get over the emotional part of it. And the fact that she’s a dang knockout that I had a chance with and no longer do.
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:24 AM
1

Because when I really analyze myself. Deeply and truthfully. history has shown that I’m simply not interesting enough to 99% of women. I can improve myself and maybe become more attractive, but I’ll never be good enough to cheat someone out of their current relationship. Thats out of the question. Some guys have it some don’t. I believe I’m one of the latter
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:22 AM
1

....I can love myself as much as I want. I’m never gonna get to that level lol
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:54 AM
1

I’m not really the approaching type if you couldn’t tell
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:33 AM
1

I’m sorry... what?
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:26 AM
2

Sir yes sir!!!!
/r/seduction17/10/19 01:21 AM
1

Sorry about this! I’m working on it
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:58 PM
1

I just don’t think I’m ready for a gf whatsoever
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:35 PM
1

Preach
/r/seduction18/09/19 07:45 AM
1

Tell that to HER
/r/seduction03/08/19 06:12 PM
1

Agreed! Which is why she needs to stop making moves on me!!
/r/seduction03/08/19 06:12 PM
1

I wanna tell her how I feel so badly but is it even worth it if she has a boyfriend? Like what’s the point, she’s not just gonna drop him just like that for me. And I’m not even ready for dating.
/r/seduction02/08/19 07:53 AM
1

K but it’s driving me nuts. Pun intended
/r/seduction02/08/19 04:24 AM
1

Sorry I don’t know why I thought I saw downvotes. Forgive my rudeness
/r/seduction21/07/19 06:27 AM
1

Why in the FUCK am I being voted down?? God you guys are a bunch of pompous assholes!!
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:24 PM
3

I need to get me some new shoes lmao
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:20 AM
1

THIS MAN GETS IT
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:20 AM
1

I agree but looks will only get you so far. unless you’re RIDICULOUSLY handsome, you gotta have the badges to back up your looks. Have a good job, be a gentleman, be well dressed, show off some talents, make a name for yourself. Otherwise in my experience, they literally won’t care.
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:19 AM
3

Alright thank you very much I appreciate your response.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:02 PM
0

Okay I get that but can you elaborate just a bit more please? How can I become more interesting? I get that I need to step my game up in terms of my own professional development and career goals which I am beginning to map out but is there anything I can do at this moment? What sort of attitude should I adopt?
/r/seduction06/07/19 06:46 PM
1

Good point. I need to focus and block out the noise. Thank you
/r/seduction12/06/19 02:49 AM
1

Great advice thanks. You’re right it was kind of overload
/r/seduction10/06/19 05:36 AM
2

Yes agreed.
/r/seduction09/06/19 09:36 PM
1

Too true
/r/seduction08/06/19 07:08 PM
2

Okay okay gotcha thank you.
/r/seduction17/05/19 09:07 PM
1

Alright alright thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:53 PM
1

Okay thanks
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:52 PM
1

I’m sure you do too
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:54 PM
1

Guess I’ve got no game then. Good to know. Now I really can kick back and give up. Thanks!
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:54 PM
6

You are what you eat. It’s that simple. If you eat shit you’re gonna feel like shit.
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:52 AM
1

K the porn I can definitely cut out no problem, but the sugar and fast food is going to be a legitimate challenge because I currently work at McDonald’s and get free food all the time. I could go for the salads and just not get the dressing. And pack my own lunches more. Yeah maybe I’ll do that. Ack you’re so right about the porn god it’s so awful...
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:49 AM
3

Hey this is great thanks for the solid advice bro 👌
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:32 AM
1

Agreed! I knew there were some benefits to not having my drivers licence lol!
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:09 AM
1

True but things are a lot less lenient than they were during our parent’s day
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:45 AM
1

Well said. Thanks for clearing this up.
/r/seduction20/04/19 06:16 AM
1

Of course not and yeah no I’m not gonna bother. Too risky
/r/seduction18/04/19 04:16 AM
9

Alright we can do without the name calling thanks. Jesus who pissed in your cornflakes this morning?
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:39 AM
8

At least what I’m considering is actually legal??
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:37 AM
3

Probably both
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:31 AM
1

EDIT. Of course it is, what am I thinking
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:14 AM
2

Trash comment
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:31 PM
3

I wasted 5 minutes reading this trash I would like those 5 minutes back please
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:24 AM
2

This is the truth.
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:24 AM
10

I beg to differ. You clearly have not met my goddess of a boss.
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:42 AM
2

Thank you. Thank you so much for understanding.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:20 PM
1

Fine wrong sub I’m out ✌️
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:58 AM
1

I’m not I swear I’m not. I apologize if it comes off that way. Again, you do you. I’m not trying to change anyone.
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:52 AM
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I’m not waiting around for luck thank you very much. I’m abandoning the idea altogether. But you do you. I don’t see any law that says I can’t say what i want to say. I’m proud of my honesty.
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:46 AM
5

I dunno just came to the realization, wanted to express it. ...guess it was kinda pointless lol
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:35 AM
5

Good luck man you got this. Sorry to hear it disn’t work out. That’s good of you to choose to be respectful though. I do think that’s important. Just don’t let it cripple you from filling in the gaps next time I guess. But what do I know? Anyhoo, take it easy, take it in strides and keep growing my man.
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:32 AM
1

👏this.👏man.👏has.👏got it.
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:14 AM
1

Well for one thing, working on my life so I have more reason to be confident, and approaching in situations where it’s slightly more acceptable, like class or various other social extra-curricular activities.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:17 AM
1

Too seriously it seems. It’s not the end of the world.
/r/seduction01/04/19 12:42 AM
1

*if
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:10 PM
1

No. Guessing I should?
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:39 PM
1

Exactly that’s literally all I need is exercise and I’ll feel better
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:30 PM
3

Thank you for answering
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:36 AM
3

........no But it’s just what my mind always settles on
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:26 AM
2

Why the fuck would I kill myself lol I’m not about to commit suicide over something as trivial as getting a woman lol but thank you for the honest comment.
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:57 AM
1

Thanks that was terrible advice
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:49 AM
1

I appreciate all the feedback but I’m getting conflicting advice
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:58 AM
1

I mean generally, yeah I would start with small talk, maybe give a light compliment and ask for a number or something along those lines. But in the moment it just feels like “no bro, what are you thinking she’s a total stranger yadda yadda”
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:53 AM
1

Maybe because I’m not al that attractive? (i’m a 7 at best. Or valuable? (I’ve got a long way to go in life...)
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:51 AM
2

Alright well I’ll try it and if she calls the cops on me I’m blaming you.
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:53 AM
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And that’s exactly why I hope this girl you’re currently with breaks up with you asap. You’re a cheating, dishonest prick. Or you’re about to be, anyway
/r/seduction28/03/19 05:32 AM
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