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Personally, it is quite fulfilling to destroy society with the sheer power of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 08:25 AM
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That's alpha as phuck. My gina is all a' tingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 08:13 AM
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I'll give you a good workout, captain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 07:57 AM
-1

Why yes, he is! I overheard him talking to Roosh once. He taught me about SMV face to face 4 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 07:24 AM
1

God, it's like you can see right through me. I'm not extremely happy in my LTR and enjoying my amazing career in the performing arts at all. It is kind of like- I thought I knew everything and then some teenagers on the Internet said I was sad and I thought- Jeezus. They are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 07:16 AM
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Uncle of a two year old. Done. You win. Omg being an uncle. The struggle. The diapers. The sleepless nights. YU KNOW
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 07:10 AM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:37 AM
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I think about Vaginas a LOT. Therefore, I am a feminist because thinking of feminine things makes me think of feminine hygiene products. Anyway, how many of you Red Pill Men have "the red flag" you KNOW what mean. Is it tasty? What about the clots?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:37 AM
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Muffy Semens Gladys Panzeroff Connie Lingwis Fei-Li Ziaou Sadie Masquist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:19 AM
5

Yes, I purposefully act stupid and helpless at all times. It is my nature, even though my IQ is 160, I need someone to tell me what to do. My Gina Drippins' get in the way of my thought process. So yes, I need a high school boy on steroids to tell me what to do. It is nature's Way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:13 AM
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It has to do with acoustics and achieving resonance in the upper partials with the correct amount of breath pressure. Also, you need to use a fine crystal glass bought by beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 05:40 AM
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Especially the sex part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 05:37 AM
-2

I can break glass tho. For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 05:24 AM
1

Personally, I enjoy when fat people sit next to me. They are super snuggly and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 04:48 AM
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So, only red pill followers have the capacity to have healthy relationships? Out of the entire world, only 120,000 people can possibly be happy? Can you dread me a little? I thought I was happy, but obviously I need a captain who follows a very specific ideology to be happy. Don't give me bs about red pill being traditional. I grew up in a traditional household. If my father heard you guys spouting this shit, he would challenge you to a duel at dawn. Can I get a smirk? Just a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 04:46 AM
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Picture an overweight man with a drinking problem. He smokes like a chimney. He hamsters that all his plates "flake" on him, when they stop calling as soon as they find someone better. He still talks about his ex from 4 years ago. He brags on the Internet about all his college plates when, in reality- he's banging a chubby 36 year old who is using him for pure entertainment. He tries to ltr her. She finds someone better. He doesn't stop calling. A year later, she changes her phone number after s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:44 AM
-2

Can you break the sound barrier with your voice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:34 AM
0

Games are for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:32 AM
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Poo poo pee pee!! Poo poo pee pee! Weeeener!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:26 AM
1

I just like the word "feminist." It's fun to say in a really strident voice. Sometimes, I say it with a sexy lisp- "feminithhtt." It's also really fun to hiss: "feminisssssst." It makes me feel important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:17 AM
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I believe you. I can tell just by the way you wrote that sentence. You're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:12 AM
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Yes, but 700 pounds and covered with tattoos and piercings. I'm much louder, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:05 AM
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Hell, no! People are delicious, especially the salty, cocky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:55 AM
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I'm fucking huge! I weigh 700 pounds and I need at least four of my beta orbiters to hold up my fupa. Then my alpha captain makes sweet love to my sweaty cottage cheese thighs as my orbiters feed me Chicken McNuggets. It's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:14 AM
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Why, yes he does! All while I wrap my furry legs around him and he pulls my purple Mohawk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:11 AM
1

Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:05 AM
5

It's coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:03 AM
-1

We are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:01 AM
1

Have you made a substantial amount of money making people laugh for a living? I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 12:59 AM
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Ah, so you mean "high value" in a completely superficial way. Self improvement doesn't include ethical or moral development. Not the kind of man a traditional woman would look up to as a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 12:53 AM
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The red pill really hasn't been around along long enough to know the long term affects. It may "work", but at what cost? Did you know I dated one of the Red Pill founders? Would you like to know what his life is like at 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 12:50 AM
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yawn. My beta as fuck blue pill man does that to me all the time when I am cooking his dinner. You don't have the monopoly on fun relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 12:39 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:26 PM
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So, you admit to enjoying gazing at pictures of fat people and thinking about them for copious amounts of time? Cool fetish, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:25 PM
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There are no positives to shaming fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:23 PM
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Yes, but there are health advantages to being slightly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:22 PM
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Fat people are cuddly, fat people are nice. Fat people aren't picked up by douchebags. Fat people develop awesome personalities because they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:22 PM
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Agree and amplify! Maintain frame!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:16 PM
2

We don't hate you. We love you. We think you are hilarious, like children or adorable puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:15 PM
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Not everybody looks up to jocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:13 PM
1

Do you have objective evidence that women are not funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:12 PM
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It keeps the red Pillers away!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 10:18 PM
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Do you think it is normal to gain 40 pounds in one month?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 10:14 PM
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Of course you don't think it is funny. We are making fun of you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 10:12 PM
1

Cocky guys are more aggressive and they ask out more women. They tend to have more success because of the law of averages. That doesn't mean women prefer assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:38 PM
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You escalted, and you are continuing to escalate. I never said anyone should kiss my ass. I thought perhaps the viewpoint of someone who has lived the experience of dating at 36 would have some credence. I was snarky. You were rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:17 PM
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I suggest you open your mind to other possibilities. Things are rarely as simple as we would like them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:14 PM
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you think haes is contributing to obesity? I thought you were about self improvement. Haes is about making healthy choices and one of those is ending the drastic diets that are doing more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:13 PM
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No, you are misinformed. How many people do you know in real life? I've seen friends balloon 40 pounds in a month after talking medication. I've seen friends lose 5 dress sizes due to thyroid issues. Do you know anyone older than their twenties?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:09 PM
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What an utterly scintillating point. That remark shows great maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:07 PM
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I think people should mind their own business and not comment on other people's bodies. This is something that children learn in preschool. Fat people know they are fat and it is up to them to decide what and when or if they want to do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 01:25 PM
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So, weight gain due to medication is a myth? Thyroid? Hormones? Look, when I was in my 20's, I thought like you. My viewpoint changed. It's not that simple for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 01:21 PM
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Are you running under the assumption that you will have the same preferences in women when your testosterone drops? Or that all men agree with your preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 01:16 PM
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You don't get to assume I've just been given trophies all my life, and you don't get to tell me what I would think about you. Odds are, I would see you strutting around like a deluded peacock and think you were an overcompensating douche. You are not special because you work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 01:12 PM
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I used to be anorexic. That is a very indelicate thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 08:07 AM
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So you're cool with someone on meth or diet pills or totally lazy or eating disordered as long as she is thin? How much do you really know about health at any size? Are you aware that many people lose weight permanently when they join haes? That when the focus is on health, not losing weight, their quality of life greatly improves?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 08:06 AM
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Right, so all of a sudden people just happened to lose self control only in America at the same time corn and soy subsidies started. Do you think that is not a coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 08:02 AM
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So if she is thin and horribly unhealthy, it's ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:54 AM
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We do have something in common!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:48 AM
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"Obeast" would be more clear. Continue making up your fascinating language.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:34 AM
0

I'm sure you will be wonderful influence on an impressionable young daughter, Captain Next-A-Hoe. By the way, are you a gardener? I'm assuming you have similarly high standards for the replacement of your garden tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:33 AM
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How do you know? Can you read the future? Can you be positve that there is not a seed of determination germinating inside of him? How can you know what he will decide to do, or when or why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:19 AM
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For every reaction like that, there are many more that react by sinking further into obesity. There have been plenty of studies that show fat shaming doesn't work for the majority of fatties. Cool story, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:17 AM
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So, you would be ok with scarring your daughter for life by committing suicide over her fatness? Just curious, how much experience do you have with children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:10 AM
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How do you know that he is not trying to lose weight? When someone is that heavy, it takes a while to show. He loves to move his body and dance. Everyone should be able to move their bodies and not be shamed for it. Leave the fats alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:08 AM
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Being an asshole is incredibly overrated. People take care of themselves when they feel good about themselves. There have been plenty of studies done. Shaming people does not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 07:04 AM
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Show me proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:59 AM
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You shame them into gaining more weight with your nasty judgement. Do you honestly think you are a good role model and leader, speaking this way about other humans? Do you think that the fatties don't know they are fat? When you see a fat person, can you tell upon sight if they are in the process of losing weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:58 AM
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If you cannot bother to correctly spell the word "obese" before bitching on the Internet, I cannot bother to respect you. Do you guys really think talking this way will inspire others to want to be like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:54 AM
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You'd kill yourself if you had a fat daughter? Do you think that is the strong, loving example of the father you'd like to be? What if your daughter rebelled against your rules, as kids often do against controlling parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:49 AM
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Do you have a source for that, other than Red Pill and your "life experience"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:35 AM
0

What would you do if you had a fat daughter? Do you think shaming her into dieting when she is still growing is a good plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:29 AM
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I find a lot of it very funny. I find a lot of it pretty sad. I'm happy that there is a group calling out the Red Pill. You can't expect that crap to go unchallenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:23 AM
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I would love her and let her decide to lose weight when she is ready. I would set a good example, but I would not push the issue as many kids grow out of a chubby phase on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:18 AM
0

Oh, right. Because you're a part of the "asshole pride" movement? You think being an asshole will get you laid, and that is all that matters? You know what I think is pathetic? Being a human being that actively avoids behaving in an ethical fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:15 AM
1

Oh. Is that a fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:11 AM
1

When I hear your comments, I think- God, what a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:11 AM
2

No. If you had an ounce of awareness, you would know that shaming makes fat people fatter. You want people to be fat. Your entire belief system is based on the assumption that there are winners and losers and you are a winner. You are not a special snowflake, and shaming fat people makes you look like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 06:02 AM
1

Nice people don't bully others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:56 AM
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I've struggled with anorexia in the past. I am now 40 and about 20 pounds overweight due to some injuries and a seriously screwed up metabolism. I'm 5'8 and wear it well. I focus on health now. I stand up for fatties because I have fat friends. I stand up for anyone who is bullied or made to feel inferior by insignificant, superficial bullies. I don't want children, but if I had a fat daughter, I would love her and teach her to love herself no matter what the bastards say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:56 AM
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Oh what a shame to be rejected by you and your bros...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:49 AM
1

So you hate the idea of fat people focusing on health instead of stressing out about becoming thin? Do you really know what HAES is about, or are you just relying on your red pill dogma?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:48 AM
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Did anyone say telling a fatty that they are pretty when you don't think that is the case is a good idea? Just don't be an asshole and leave them the fuck alone. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:45 AM
1

Aha. Why do you think that is? I suppose it's because you think that the fats aren't trying hard enough and that it has nothing to do with screwing around with your set point/metabolism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:43 AM
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Bullying other people is a sign of strength? Have you ever bothered to get to know a fat person? Do you have any idea how much strength they need just to go about their day? You are the one who is mentally weak for feeling the need to be a jerk to fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:34 AM
1

I have fat friends and I will fight to the death for them, or anyone who is being bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:31 AM
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How much time are you spending thinking of and hating fat people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:30 AM
0

Keep telling yourself that buddy. I know plenty of fat women with seriously hot partners. Step outside the red pill think tank for a minute, you might learn a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:44 AM
0

Dieting is more unhealthy than maintaining a higher weight. Excessive dieting is very taxing on the mind and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:40 AM
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Nice try. You know absolutely nothing about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:38 AM
1

Lol. I've been hearing this shit before you are born. Please- don't think I haven't heard this. The truth is, we don't know all there is to know about weight gain. Hormones, genetics, thyroid, gut flora all come into play. Face it, you love feeling superior to fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:37 AM
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Do you think The Biggest Loser is an example of healthy weight loss? Are you serious? Are you aware that the majority of contestants gain the weight back and more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:28 AM
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No, you are wrong. It's more complicated than calories in calories out. You just want to hate fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:17 AM
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Shaming doesn't work. It has been proven. If you shame people, you want them to be fat. I think you like fat people. They make you feel superior. If you work hard, I bet you can be less of an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:15 AM
-2

Bullshit. It's the addictive, cheap processed food our goverment is poisoning the poor with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:13 AM
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If you work really hard, maybe you can become a nicer person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:10 AM
2

That is because of the connection between poverty and obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:09 AM
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Even worse are bigots who can't spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:08 AM
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If you want to do something, get together and stop the corn and soy subsidies. Shaming doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:06 AM
1

Precisely. Damn kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:00 AM
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Ok, thanks for the info. How about info for the costs of smoking? Tanning? Drugs? Birth? Skiing accidents? Fat people Pay healthcare too, you know. Also, aren't you 20? How much have you even paid into the system? Finally- fat shaming has been proven to increase obesity. By spewing hatred, you are making fat people fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:52 AM
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Do you have any concrete evidence or source regarding the healthcare issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:26 AM
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According to you. I think it's the assholes that are a blight. To each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:26 AM
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It won't, really. There are just as many fat men as women. The not fats will have impossible egos and the fats will try harder. As a side note- why are you guys so obsessed with fat people? It's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 01:39 AM
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Look, I apologized. You took it to the next level. Saying you'd rather die than be like me is beyond rude. I'm not going to sit by while a bunch of twenty somethings make shit up that just isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 12:37 AM
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I am sorry if I upset you. It's just odd for me to have guys half my age tell me what my friends and I are experiencing. Keep your chin up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:43 PM
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Why do you think I was chubby at 26? Lol. I was actually underweight at the time. Think whatever you want to, or what the red pill says you shoul think- but there are plenty of men with different priorities than you and different preferences. Have fun with with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:38 PM
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What you think is irrelevant is actually quite relevant. I go for men that I am compatible with. At 26, I was compatible with a music teacher near my own age. At 36, I was compatible with professional men in their 40's. I am not concerned with status as I am compatibility. Anyway, I'm lucky in love- I wish you luck as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:13 PM
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she didn't say fat, she said 20 pounds overweight. In many women, this translates to having a big butt and big boobs, a little tummy but still having a waist. Plenty of sexy, muscular men find that look very soft and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:33 PM
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It's actually fairly common, outside of Redpillandia.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:31 PM
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Nobody over the age of 20 reads Cosmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:29 PM
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Glad you liked it! :o) You haven't sold me on your point, either. As an older woman with friends around the same age, I can tell you- we think you're the delusional ones. Carry on, kiddos- keep swallowing those pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:29 PM
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Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:23 PM
0

If you are lucky, you'll find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:21 PM
0

Actually, it's not. But believe whatever helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:14 PM
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Check back when you are 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:07 PM
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Did you miss the part where I mentioned that I now wouldn't even consider a man under 40? I don't find them attractive anymore. They look and act like kids to me. Maybe you are right- a ripped, 6'2 lawyer is not as good as a catch as the chubby music teacher with long hair I dated in my twenties. Not being denigrating, I'm simply saying that people in my generation grew up in a different world. The Twitter generation isn't all that attractive for LTRs to us. From my perspective, the men I know i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:02 PM
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I absolutely agree, and I've never felt any desperate need to lock down anyone- even when I was single at 36. There are lots of women like me who don't want kids and don't see much point in shelling out tons of money for a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:42 PM
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There are an awful lot of assumptions going on here. Frankly, this post seems more suited to TRP. People can be with whoever they want to be with, whenever they want to be with. I thank my lucky stars I didn't marry the guys who proposed to me in my twenties. There are many, many men that are masculine, attractive and successful that do not want to date women in their twenties. Most of you guys are pretty young- you will be surprised how much your tastes can and will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:28 PM
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People's desires change. I wouldn't have believed it in my twenties either. Men are not a monolith. Hamster all you want, but I'm here to tell you that there are plenty of naturally masculine, successful and handsome men for us older gals. Men love that we grew up without internet and a smart phone and know how to listen. Sorry, we post wall grannies are not miserable. I feel sorry for the younger set- most people don't have the patience or attention span needed for a relationship. But believe w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:17 PM
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That is very true. A bitter, bitter pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:11 AM
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They were similar in that they were all pretty intellectual. At 26, I was dating guys my own age. I wouldn't have even noticed a 40 year old man. Now guys under 40 seem way too young to consider dating, although I got and still get plenty of attention from the cougar chasers.Never have dated anyone even remotely close to a data processor, I don't have much in common with that type. I dated a lawyer, a writer, a pilot and a classical musician.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:05 AM
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40 and chubby, can confirm that I had more options when I was single at 36 as opposed to 26. There were actually more men interested in me for relationships in my mid 30's. Mid 20's men just wanted an n count. The guys that were interested in me were all very attractive and successful and a wide range of ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 03:27 AM
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High speed internet Stunted my development Now I talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 11:55 PM
1

So much simpler. Be larger than a size two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 11:44 PM
2

They are all out to get you. Kill or be killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 09:19 PM
1

I stand by my comment. Statistically, BMI and income are related. The higher the income bracket one is in, the more likely one has a low BMI. Red pill men seem to like lower BMI women, statistically these women will have a higher income. The hot bartender is not the best example because hot bartenders do make decent money. I bet a 4/10 chubby minimum wage workercould get to an 8 with 100,000$ and ample time to train her body and eat right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 06:39 AM
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Cool. We agree :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 10:30 PM
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Oh, right- those smoking hot bartenders that are working full time to put themselves through college and pay all their rent with no help whatsoever and certainly don't spend any time or money on their appearance? Ok. Even if this were the case, would you say the smoking hot bartender wouldn't be hotter still with more time and money to devote to her appearance? Or that money would allow her to stay hotter longer? Just so you know- those smoking hot bartenders already do spend quite a bit of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 10:15 PM
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If you are seeking out the most attractive women, they will tend to be wealthier on average. There are unattractive wealthy women and attractive poor women, however this is an exception to the rule. Check out your community college compared to an Ivy League sorority. Where do do think you find the most obesity? Bad teeth? Split ends? Polyester clothes that cling in all the wrong places? If you like the hottest women, the majority of these hot women will have money. Red pill men should be aware o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 10:00 PM
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Men are absolutely attracted to wealthier women, whether they realize it or not. The only difference between a "6" and an "8" is money. Wealthier women can spend more time and money keeping up their bodies and appearance. Brazilian blowouts, eyelash extensions, yoga, teeth whitening...if you are attracted to the hottest women, they will have the money and attitude to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 06:30 PM
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Hypergamy for Dummies The Moon Matriarch's Guide to Body Hair Obese is O-best: A guide to Power Eating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 01:53 AM
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It worked on me, when I was at a very low point in my life and felt like crap about myself. I came from a stable, loving family but life has ups and downs. The red pill man and pua I dated had the experience of me at my shittiest. I am not generally damaged or insecure, but I certainly was at the time. Luckily, I realized I was being self destructive and put energy into improving my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 06:28 AM
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1, I'm attracted to older (8-12 year range) lanky, balding guys with glasses and big noses. I like men that are stoic and intellectual with quirky humor. 2. I'm submissive, but I don't like overly dominant men as they scare me off. 3. Medium sex drive. I am more comfortable with LTR sex, but I think people should pursue whatever kinds of sex they prefer as long as nobody is hurt. I was monogomous until a brief single period in my mid 30's when I was more casual. It wasn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 09:21 PM
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Young. Very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 02:10 AM
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He writes for a website recommended by TRP on the sidebar. He was a major contributor to the beginning of TRP. Believe me or don't. I've been through all of this on the purple pill before, and I'm rather tired of trying to convince people that think I'm lying about the truth. Sorry if this comes across as snarky. I'm absolutely not going to reveal who it is, but he's fairly well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 05:59 AM
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Although it's satire, TBP has helped me enormously. I had a lot of toxic ideas about women and relationships after leaving a relationship with a red pill man. The Blue Pill helped me let go of some very harmful perceptions of my own potential, and helped me learn to laugh about ideas that used to limit me. I no longer think my life is over at 39, I cook and clean for my partner out of love, not fear, and I am not constantly worried in my relationship anymore. I learned to trust men again, I got …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 06:19 PM
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Traditionally feminine blue pill woman here. For me, I find many of the women in RPW quite judgemental and catty. It's not what I would call a nurturing, supportive environment - not feminine at all, in my opinion. I have a problem with the RP association as well because I find the "harsh truths" to simply be harsh. Love is patient, love is kind- regardless of gender. My partner respects me as an equal human, and we have a traditional division of labor in our house because I'm better at cooking …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 06:35 PM
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I'm fairly traditional and have had some dating experience with two Red Pillers. They were both incredibly unhealthy situations and I am thankful to have those men out of my life. It was a very negative introduction to the red pill and I want to make sure that either I or anyone I care about gets involved with this philosophy. I did not enjoy being on the receiving end of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 02:06 AM
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From my perspective, the brother was in the wrong. This is classic triangulation. Nikki had no chance to defend herself, and I do not see evidence that she was "slutting it up" (to use a very distasteful expression). Three white boyfriends does not a "slut" make (in my opinion), and it's a possibility that the interloping brother was being untruthful or exaggerating. This overzealous trumpeting of red- pill theory is what gives the red pill a negative reputation to outsiders. Finally, both guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 06:26 PM
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Traditional woman with an FTM best friend here. One of the reasons why I could never be associated with the red pill is the negativity I've seen towards the gay and trans communities, not to mention the disdain for older women the red pill seems to generate. I glean what I need to, but I don't need to think of myself as a barren, post wall hambeast. Best of luck, man!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 11:18 PM
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Personally, I do not think the Internet is where one should be learning about human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 08:59 PM
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That's all well and good, but the reality is that there is a negative collective impact that I cannot support. I'm a traditional, submissive woman and I believe that the red pill view is bad for society. We do not live in a vacuum and actions have consequences. I'm open minded, but what I've red directly on red pill sites is horrifying. Get a relationship or a prostitute. Stop stringing women along.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 04:33 PM
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Yes. I'm a traditionally raised woman and hate confrontation. I love being feminine. I wanted to like the red pill but they did not convince me it was a good and honest way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 08:50 PM
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Not a red pill man, so pardon me for commenting. TRP aims to attract the 80% of women that are supposedly attracted to alpha males. I believe you are attracting the 20% of women not attracted to "alphas". I personally believe this is the best 20% of women :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 05:07 AM
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I considered myself purple when I was considering the red pill. The blue side won me over, despite (or possibly because of) the fact that I consider myself to be submissive and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:48 AM
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I'll respond to you out of politeness, because I don't want to spend any more time on these "debates." It's all getting very depressing, quite frankly. I spend my "prime" ( because RP seems very stuck on the idea that women's major asset is physical beauty and youth) with Betas. Once again- I spent the ages 17-35 with BETAS. I dated two alphas when I was depressed after a breakup. I know for a fact that alphas are not with dating or being involved with. The sex is alphas is not as good as with b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 04:40 PM
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That's rude and disgusting. I have nothing more to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:22 PM
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I know, it'd never work out between us :( in all seriousness, I wish you well and best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 05:31 PM
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Do you think the traditional patriarchs would respond to the current situation by using these women for sex, all the while saying and thinking terrible things about them? There are plenty of good young women out there. You're just choosing to not associate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 04:46 PM
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Yes, and crash diets work in the short term as well. The movement is too young to really judge what the long term results are. Getting laid with promiscuous women you despise does not mean you will have successful relationships down the line- in fact, I believe you are cementing negative thought patterns. The red pill is a cheat code, the person who you are cheating is yourself, ultimately. However- I'll leave you to it. I think it would be wise to consider the long term ramifications to subscri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 04:42 PM
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Have fun, then. However, if you wish to date immature women, do not complain. Jeezus I'm glad I'm not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 03:40 PM
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Sounds like the red pill is an ideology designed to remove men from any kind of moral responsibility by enforcing the idea that the game is rigged in the first place. It's the easy way out, and I cannot respect that. This is not a way to learn how to be a man, or a responsible adult in the first place. As for the shaming, I'm trying to point out that this behavior would not be condoned by the traditional patriarchs of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 03:38 PM
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I think some very young and overzealous college feminists might shame traditional women, but I honestly don't see too much of that. I'm pretty darn traditional (I work part time as a nanny, and play classical music but I do all of the cooking and cleaning in my relationship). I wear dresses, makeup and heels every day and my hair is absurdly long. I hang out with politically active lesbians, transgender/gay/feminist activists..in fact, I cook for them at my house. None of the people that I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 11:33 PM
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You have to live in a major city like SF or NY. Sorry, kind of forgot my bias here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 11:17 PM
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YES. I never hear a good red pill response to this. Anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 11:16 PM
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We do? We will? Again, modern women or college kids? I went to college in the 90's when feminism was Mists of Avalon, floor length skirts and embracing our feminine power by making pot brownies and dancing under the full moon. The women I know in their twenties are classical musicians, dancers and singers. They are doing a crappy job of trying to be men with their long hair and pacifist ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 11:10 PM
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Try musicians and classical (not exotic) dancers. They are nerds but they tend to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 10:58 PM
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From what I'm hearing, it's a biotruth that women should be protected and coddled. Why isn't this particular behavior advocated by the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 10:54 PM
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On the contrary, I do believe my opinion is relevant. On a societal level, the red pill is not helping and I don't see how you can claim otherwise. The red pill is contributing to the very problems they complain about. You are like children high on sugar yet haven't gotten the stomach ache yet. TRP is all about using women for revenge sex. I am very happy for your individual penises, but collectively I am very disappointed. You are making women bitter and jaded on purpose to satisfy your need fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 10:41 PM
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I really don't think that proves any point whatsoever, and it's a revenge fantasy to think older women that are unmarried are miserable or even wish to be married at all. I'm 39, so are most of my friends. Most of us are in LTR's, or happily single with no desire for a relationship. I went to 3 weddings last month, all couples in their late 30's and 40's. From where I stand, and I am sorry if this is disappointing- we aren't the ones that are bitter and lonely. I think the media perpetuates this…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 09:56 PM
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Is TRP solving problems? From what I can tell, they are making things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 09:29 PM
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Nope, I was 36- they were late 40's/early 50's
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:30 PM
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I only refer to a certain experience with an "alpha" was because he identified that was and was an early red pill theory influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:30 PM
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Sorry, but you are assuming you know me better than I know myself because you ascribe to TRP. This is part of the problem with TRP as I see it: there is a tendency to jump to conclusions and that can be dangerous. Finally, the terms "alpha" and "beta" can be interpreted in so many different ways, they are basically invalid terms, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:28 PM
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Also, the beta lied and cheated because he made lies of omission and was generally evasive. AF/BB is predicated on the assumption that alpha is intrinsically better because all men want is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:23 PM
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Where did you get that idea? Those three men I was in LTRs with from 18-30 were betas. None of those ended in marriage for varying reasons and the relationships ended amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:19 PM
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Why do you think they are too old for marriage? Perhaps for you, but that is quite a sweeping statement. I've got a friend who got married for the first time at 64.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:14 PM
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I'm 39. From 18-30? 3 all LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:06 PM
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Just curious, how old are you? How many women do you know over the age of 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:55 PM
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Not all women want to attract alpha males. Although I've dated two alphas later in life, I overwhelmingly prefer betas. Why is this? It's because I was raised traditionally. My parents ingrained in me the type of man to look for and it is not an alpha. The only reason I got involved with the alphas in the first place is because I was depressed and self destructive after I found out my partner was lying and cheating ( he was a "beta").
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:44 PM
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To further clarify my point: it appears that alphas are the winners, but they certainly are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:38 PM
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No, it's not the degree that gives maturity. It is life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:31 PM
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Let me clarify: I am glad, even though it traumatized me for life. I am glad because I know that it was demeaning, demoralizing, and debasing and I go confidentially into marriage with the knowledge that I never want any part of an "alpha male" ever, ever again. Just so you know, I cook and clean happily for my "beta" and worship the ground he walks on. In return, he treats me like a queen. In addition, I am 39 years old- at 21 I had 1 partner- the "beta" I lost my virginity to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:26 PM
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Do you mean modern women or do you mean sorority girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:12 PM
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Right, and not just young- 21 and under young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:11 PM
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I take her advice to mean: get it all out of your system before you make your decision. For me, I'm glad I had the alpha bad boy experience even though it was traumatic. I'm going into marriage knowing that the allure of the cocky playboy is an illusion and a fantasy, not worth sacrificing a loving relationship for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:05 PM
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Survey shows immature college girls are immature!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:55 PM
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Perhaps I'm out of touch with the current state of feminism, but I would not consider anyone who made light of any kind of DV not a real feminist. Feminism as I understand it, is a human rights movement for any group of people that is marginalized or disenfranchised.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:49 PM
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Make that 3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:35 PM
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I'll pipe in here: No. A fantasy is a fantasy. Just because thinking about something turns you on, doesn't mean it is a turn on when it happens in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:34 PM
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This is a very, very important point. It's asserting your will over another person. There is a difference between being a leader and being controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:30 PM
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You need to meet some different kinds of women. In my day to day observations this is entirely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:17 PM
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Misandry culture would be more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:11 PM
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First of all, there is no "blue pill culture." Blue pill is everything that is not the red pill. Second, Sharon Osbourne is not, last time I checked, a feminist role model. She kept her job because of the same reason that people like Howard Stern and Rush Limbaugh have careers: shock value and controversy generate audiences. Finally, laughter can be a common response for women when they are uncomfortable. Women aren't traditionally socialized to make waves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 06:00 PM
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I have a safety net and plan of action for when I am suidical because I know I'm not thinking clearly. I make sure I'm not alone, I have my SO or a friend lock up all the pills, booze and sharp objects. I certainly will not be calling you. When I am myself, I am not suicidal. When I'm depressed, I'm not in control. I really don't believe you know what you are talking about, and I don't think you are in a place to give advice. Do not criticize what you cannot comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 05:53 AM
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Depression is not rational. Suicide due to depression isn't a rational choice, because depression colors one's perception of reality. It's depression drowning out the individual's voice. There is no way you can tell what is going in through a reddit post, unless you are psychic or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 04:02 AM
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Here is the thing, as someone who suffers from hereditary clinical depression: pondering suicide in the abstract can be the start of a very quick decline. The line between philosophically questioning the futility of life and beginning to make plans can be very very fine. Suicidal depresson also comes in waves, the same person can be laughing and telling jokes one minute and uncontrollably sobbing in a bathroom stall the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 03:54 AM
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Well, yes- younger within reason is generally better for procreation purposes from a biological perspective, but there is an advantage in a mother that has more education and wisdom. There is a trade off. However, my understanding is that between 30-35 the drop is very very slight and the decline is gradual after 35. Obviously, financial security, modern technology, and a person's individual biology make a difference as well. My mother had 3 children, starting at age 33 with no problems whatsoev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 08:07 PM
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I'm not sure it is an advantage, at least it wasn't in my case waaaay back in the day (39, engaged). When it seems like every guy on the planet is throwing themselves at you because you're young and pretty, it's hard to ascertain who has a decent character and who actually loves you underneath the shiny exterior. In my case, it was overwhelming and confusing and easier to ignore guys altogether. Dating at 36, it was a little easier to weed out the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 07:53 PM
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I'm not sure it is an advantage, at least it wasn't in my case waaaay back in the day (39, engaged). When it seems like every guy on the planet is throwing themselves at you because you're young and pretty, it's hard to ascertain who has a decent character and who actually loves you underneath the shiny exterior. In my case, it was overwhelming and confusing and easier to ignore guys altogether. Dating at 36, it was a little easier to weed out the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 07:53 PM
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You should be the spokesman for the red pill. When I hear people like you describe the way they utilize it while retaining a core of humanity and ethics, I see the usefulness in it. The red pill would be much more accepted and accessible if people like you were the role models. You have my respect for using red pill but not using other people. Filthy casual seems like a good approach to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 06:42 PM
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Nobody skates through life, that's a falsehood. Famous people kill themselves. Wealthy people cheat and have addictions. It seems like some are skating through life, it's only because they have different problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 06:13 PM
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Ew, gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 05:35 PM
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This is why I think we should bring back the concept of courtesans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 05:30 PM
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Success and failure are both illusions. American capitalist culture is set up in a way so that it appears that there are losers and winners. There aren't. The "winners" assert their false superiority which is contingent upon "losers" accepting that they are "losers." We are all experiencing the human condition, some look better doing it, but trust me- "alpha winners" aren't intrinsically better. I've mentioned, I work part time as a nanny for an incredibly wealthy family of alpha type A's. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 05:28 PM
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First of all, you are not alone and you are not a loser. It sounds to me like what you need is to get help for your depression. I am saying this as someone who struggles with hereditary clinical depression. My brother is exactly like you: depressed, late 20's, a virgin. I know it's hard, especially when you are depressed, to get help. Forget about women, alphas, betas and the red pill. Read up on depression, get a diagnosis, get it under control. Don't worry about evolution for now- depressives …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 05:07 PM
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Ah, this makes sense. TRP should stick with "sexual strategy to seduce women under 30 without the hassle of relationships or responsibility". TRP philosophy gets messy when it tries to apply outside of young men's sexual conquests. Either way, fertility begins to decline after 35 (and then, it's a gradual decline for about a decade), not 30. Also, you should realize that women over 30 aren't desperate harridans quivering with arousal for younger men. On the contrary, most of us prefer older, mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 04:44 PM
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Was that in English?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 05:49 AM
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The women I know that are under 25 (dozens) are generally very mature. However, I know them because they are involved in classical music, ballet, and classical theatre. I see scantily clad women lining up in droves for the clubs, but there lots of other women that are mature, not promiscuous, as well as beautiful- at least, in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 04:24 AM
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I only say that in general, terpers have little life experience because the majority are in their early 20's and haven't even met the quarter life mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 04:10 AM
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Let me preface this by saying I really do see a need for something like the red pill, and there are aspects of it that attract me and repel me. I am an agnostic and enjoy learning about systems of beliefs and ideologies. I am not saying this with any judgement, and this is just a theory. Here goes: the US has a strong Puritanical influence on the way we think. There are aspects of the red pill that line up with the beliefs of atheistic Satanists and this makes us uneasy. From the church of Satan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 04:01 AM
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I'm sorry you feel that I am demonizing all of you, as it is not my intention. I do think there is some value to aspects of the red pill but negative thought patterns can be difficult to break, especially when instilled at a young age. It's hard to know how something will affect you 10 or 20 years down the line, especially with a very young ideology that has not yet withstood the test of time. I've been following this movement since it's inception and my overall feeling is that, while I see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 03:38 AM
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I guess I'm noticing that there are lots of varying definitions of promiscuity. To me there is an incredibly huge difference between a former porn star and someone who was tricked into a ONS during a rough patch. Each to his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 11:25 PM
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Lots of factors because I'm almost 40- my parents being happily married for 45 years, being the oldest girl in a traditional family, living with gay and trans roommates, being in an abusive relationship, being preyed upon in the dating scene while suffering from suicidal depression, having a whirlwind career, being a nanny to very wealthy children with power couple parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 03:09 PM
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Also, wanted to add that the numbers of college students majoring in the arts or humanities are dropping every year at a considerable rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 07:50 AM
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I'm sorry I came across as boastful, I truly thought I was being factual. I was a musical prodigy, I am also an idiot savant who doesn't understand technology whatsoever and struggles with a lot of things that come easily to others. I'm far from encouraging others to major in music, however a music degree can actually be much more useful in terms of practicality than most of the arts and humanities degrees. It's not for everyone, but I hate to say it- STEM is not for everyone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 07:45 AM
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The captain/first mate concept inevitably makes me think of them dressed in HMS Pinafore costumes. The mental image of a woman being in sassy sailor drag just kills it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 07:31 AM
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Agreed. The red pill preoccupation with the sexual aspect of relationships seems a little off....but the majority of terpers is 17-23, something like that? They are at an especially horny stage in life, and I suspect steroids and testosterone could be clouding their perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 07:16 AM
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TRP claims to promote free thinking, but they are often incredibly rigid. They claim to know the truth yet seem to have very little real world experience. There is a very dark and negative quality to their discourse that reads as unbalanced and unhinged. I don't find any of trps "truths" to be convincing or accurate, and I am, by nature and nurture, very feminine. I don't wish them ill, but I do think that the red pill is not going to serve them well in the long run. Sometimes I'm actually quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 07:02 AM
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Ok, I see your perspective. What I am trying to point out is that you cannot logic your way out of the human experience and life throws you curveballs. If you think you have it all figured out, you probably don't. I'm viscerally repulsed by alpha males after a traumatic experience with the red pill. I'm glad in a way that it happened because now I appreciate my man so much more. He thinks my partner count is adorably low. I hope you find what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 06:09 AM
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From my experience, I prefer the "beta" over the "alpha"- although I don't believe that humans are that binary. As I've mentioned, my guy is alpha to me but the rest of the world would perceive him as beta. From my observations and direct experience. relationships with charismatic alphas burn bright and fast. I frankly find sex with betas to be better because they communicate better and make an effort to please. I perceive cocky arrogance as insecurity, and I'm not overly concerned with social s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 05:57 AM
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It's like watching someone have all the cake and eat it, too- all the while knowing the cake is poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 05:19 AM
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Actually, I don't think many women are aware. I certainly wasn't, I was under the impression that female sexuality was no longer demonized and- although it is not my personal inclination, having a fling or two wouldn't make me an irredeemable hussy. I was under the impression that a partner count of 5 at the age of 39 was quite low statistically and yet I'm being judged by men with partner counts in the hundreds. Thanks for admitting women have the capacity for critical thought, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 05:14 AM
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Actually, I don't think many women are aware. I certainly wasn't, I was under the impression that female sexuality was no longer demonized and- although it is not my personal inclination, having a fling or two wouldn't make me an irredeemable hussy. I was under the impression that a partner count of 5 at the age of 39 was quite low statistically and yet I'm being judged by men with partner counts in the hundreds. Thanks for admitting women have the capacity for critical thought, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 05:14 AM
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Stay sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 05:04 AM
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I respect that opinion, but from what I've seen people do change all of the time. I've seen the most masculine of men come out as transgendered. I've seen 22 year old virgins turn into prostitutes. An 18 year old virgin bride could very likely wonder what she missed out on and think of rebelling in her mid twenties. Also, If you expect to wed a virgin from a traditional family, she will likely be religious. Her family will be highly critical and you will be expected to convert. You will absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 03:04 AM
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Hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 02:40 AM
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There are lots of different kinds of "smart." Smart women are not all driven corporate career workhorses. The type of intelligence I have is compatible with my SO's- we love words and literature. He gets physically aroused when I get some of his obscure references. He's thrilled to be with a woman who doesn't fall asleep during a four hour documentary. I fully admit that I'm a bit of an idiot savant and technology confuses me. He's very patient with me on that, and he's secure enough to ask me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 12:55 AM
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I see that point as well. My SO definitely definitely gets discrimination as a straight white man in his particular workplace. I've seen discrimination go both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 12:22 AM
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Yes, especially when it looks to me like they are jumping from one matrix into another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 12:18 AM
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The more I read, the more I'm convinced that I'm an anomaly. When I was on OKC at 36, I was bombarded by a huge age range but I'm pretty much exclusively interested in older men, preferably by a decade. It's not a daddy complex as much as I'm more compatible with old fashioned types that reject pop culture. I had lots of younger guys interested, even though my profile specifically said over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 12:04 AM
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Agreed, feminism was much less controversial in the 90's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 11:56 PM
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I think when a group of people that are generally quite young passionately claim an ideology to be the absolute truth, people whose life experiences prove otherwise tend to get upset. They want to be taken seriously as dominant, masculine men yet use incredibly childish verbiage that is hard to take seriously. The difference is that nobody is claiming necrophilia to be the natural order of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 11:55 PM
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Tatiana from Eugene Onegin, Sonia from Crime and Punishment ( That's going to be controversial) Lysistrata, Charlotte (Goethe- Werter).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 11:29 PM
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It's also relevant to point out that as a former student and a current educator in music, it's pretty standard in a music conservatory to be routinely warned about the financial reality of a typical classical career. . I am not particularly wrapped up in capitalist consumer culture, so I'm not bothered that I can't make frivolous purchases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 08:50 PM
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Interesting, but irrelevant to my situation. I was a child prodigy, my master's in music allowed me to have a decade of international success. The traveling grew tiresome and now I nanny and continue to perform and teach locally. I have no regrets. A master's in music was an still is completely useful to me. Why do you feel the need to undermine what I feel to be an extremely satisfying and fulfilling accomplishment? Not everybody has the same definition of success and the need for material rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 07:51 PM
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Interesting, but irrelevant to my situation. I was a child prodigy, my master's in music allowed me to have a decade of international success. The traveling grew tiresome and now I nanny and continue to perform and teach locally. I have no regrets. A master's in music was an still is completely useful to me. Why do you feel the need to undermine what I feel to be an extremely satisfying and fulfilling accomplishment? Not everybody has the same definition of success and the need for material rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 07:51 PM
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I do not think that the humanities are falling by the wayside because of feminism. I think it's because of technology, love of wealth and power, economics as well as a digital divide that has caused great inequality. I've studied Homer, Shakespeare, the great poets and philosophers and have a Master's in Music. I don't make a lot of money, but the knowledge I have is worth more than gold. Schools often encourage thinking critically about the author's context in society. It's up to you to read th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 07:06 PM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 06:48 PM
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As a woman who is not red pill but who identifies as traditional, I have to say that the blue side has been much more respectful of my opinions. The most judgement I have had was from the RP and RPW, which is ironic (especially from the RPW as I view a lack of compassion and empathy as very unfeminine). I hope this doesn't come across as snarky, I am more disappointed than anything else. As a side note, I received some disrespectful comments about my partner count which is quite low for my age a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 06:36 PM
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Thank you for your patience, you've explained a lot. Briefly, it wasn't 3 partners in one year and I am 39 years old. I am sorry if this is disappointing, and perhaps I run in very different circles- but my sister and I are the most traditional women I know. I think I'll butt out of these debates- I don't think I am ever going I wrap my head around this. I wish you happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 07:40 AM
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I view married men as more masculine. Alpha playboys with a harem seem childish to me. Just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 05:34 AM
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I'm very sorry if you feel like I was shaming men's sexuality. You are free to do what you want, I'm just trying to understand how the red pill rationalizes perpetuating the exact behavior they condemn. I'm also letting you know how I perceive promiscuous men as a traditional woman from a traditional family because I feel that it is useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 05:05 AM
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For me RPW doesn't really apply. Even though I am a traditional woman, my SO and I both value intellectualism and free thinking. To both of us, RP thought is just another thinking box. Yes, physical attraction was first, but what sustains us is compatible values. He gets turned on when I quote TS Elliot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 12:48 AM
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I dislike that expression regarding the cow, but I've certainly heard it before. My problem is this: cows have to be milked, and if free milk is plentiful nobody is going to buy the cow anyway. What do you suggest a woman should do while you are all busy glutting youselves? I'm just curious, I am happily engaged in a very compatible situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 12:43 AM
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It worked initially, but I knew I couldn't respect him in the long term. Again, I'm older, raised traditionally and I am now in a normal, traditional relationship as I understand it. Sexual attraction is only one component of a relationship. I've had relationships where I was the parent and one where I was the child- neither are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 12:15 AM
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Ok, I see your point. However, there is an issue that the red pill doesn't address- it's that women, and especially traditional women, are socialized to be people pleasers. A good girl type can easily be convinced to have sex with a man because she thinks will please him...it's particularly difficult to turn down a man who is an expert at seduction. Good girls get nexted because they won't have sex. "Good girls" or girls who enjoy monogamy see that the girls that get the attention are the ones t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 12:05 AM
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Fair enough, however the problem I see is this: If you wish to be in a relationship with a woman who respects you, you should realize that there are women such as myself that do not see this behavior as worthy of respect. If I know a man has a past of taking advantage of women, I cannot respect him. I also cannot respect a man who doesn't have the intellectual or moral capacity to override their base sexual instincts. It shows immaturity and irresponsibility. These very traits are very appealing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 11:38 PM
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In other words, I'm not looking for relationship advice I'm looking for intellectual stimulation and different ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 10:31 PM
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Sorry, let me explain better. I'm coming from a place of intellectual curiosity. I don't subscribe to any belief system, as I prefer to keep learning. This is why I am also an agnostic. I enjoy seeing different perspectives. I was introduced to the red pill by a red pill writer I dated briefly. He was not at all my type, and there was something very disturbing about the relationship. I'm trying to understand why it worked on me so it doesn't happen again. I hope this helps clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 10:23 PM
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Ah, I see. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 10:17 PM
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I like to have the whole picture, the entire truth. I have a fantastic relationship that works as it is. I'm not interested in ideologies that come in one size fits all..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 09:21 PM
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So you don't believe women have the capacity to change or improve? Isn't that setting the bar very low? Sorry, I can't accept that. Rpw has nothing to offer me I don't already know- I'm seriously old enough to be most of your and their mothers. Also, you should understand that if "you can't turn a ho into a housewife, the opposite should be true- you can't turn a housewife into a ho. I understand that having the expectation that women will sleep with you is useful in projecting confidence, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 09:18 PM
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I say this with all due respect, but if that was the case and TRP truly wanted women to understand the consequences of their actions- why would you, to use a distasteful expression, "pump and dump"? You could always pull a woman aside and tell her that she'll be used and disrespected if she behaves that way. If educating women was TRP's goal, it would be more effective to reject a woman that you were about to sleep with and tell her exactly why and what she should do to get her life on track? Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 08:42 PM
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I was taught to be sweet and kind at any cost, not necessarily subservient or meek. I have a huge problem standing up for myself as it was ingrained in me since birth to not be a bitch. That would have been ok if I had been married off at 18 to a wealthy man and rarely interacted with the big bad world. I chose another path because I value other things more than wealth and security. However, in the US today the economical reality is that I can't stay at home all day making the house pretty- I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 08:11 PM
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Moderate here- SO and I have one day every week where we spend the day doing both things- they are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 12:36 PM
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You can always walk away. I think that can be the most alpha tactic of all anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 07:18 AM
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I thought he was interested because he was pretty fat himself. This happens a lot! I'll be the first to admit I struggle with my weight- I'm not fat, not obese but I my weight fluctuates and I'm not skinny per se. Statistically, I am very close to ideal range, but I have to work on it. The only dudes who have ever been rude about it have been, pound for pound more overweight than I ...yes blah blah blah it "matters more for women to look good" (as in whatever is in fashion or status building) bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 07:13 AM
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I do think it works, but it isn't really sustainable and LTR's require a different strategy. It works if you want notches with girls who are open to it. It could be that more women are likely to be open to it today. Maybe we all are becoming more primitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 12:02 AM
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I think most everyone is pretty cool, and this sub has gotten me to see quite a lot of valid viewpoints. I'm starting to see that the Red Pill is an amoral strategy because it really depends on the individual and how he chooses to implement red pill theory. However, I think the red pill can appeal to some men who choose to behave unethically. There do seem to be some moderate and sensible terpers and their voices get drowned out by the most controversial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 11:47 PM
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I have some rpw woman tendencies but could never pick a side because I like to be open to different ideas and possibilities. I personally find it difficult to entertain the possibility of a LTR with a man who is promiscuous. I want to respect my partner, and in my mind it's difficult to respect a man who is a slave to their baser instincts. I have to remind myself that my guy and I are quite a bit older than most people on this sub, however. Priorities change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 08:19 PM
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As a side note, I've mentioned on this sub that I dated two red pill men. They were the shortest relationships I've ever had (I ended it with both).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 06:12 PM
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I'm like you, although probably more traditional (almost 40 and from Russian parents). My relationship with my fiancé is a lot like my parents is in that we take on the traditional male and female division of labor yet respect and value each other as the most important person in our lives. It's not a case of one being dominant. This is easiest for me personally because I learned from my mother to show my love by cooking and taking care of housework. It's grounding for me, and it comes naturally …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 05:40 PM
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I think there is a contingent of the red pill that is making success with women a vehicle in which to achieve a higher social status. It's not just the frustration with women, is a desire to be a "winner" in the American culture of "winners" and "losers."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 04:56 PM
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It seems like the red pill attracts a fair amount of men who had parents that divorced. They experienced a loss of security and stability and now they are trying to gain back their power. I think a lot of men grow up with the burden of having to control their fears and sadness. It gets bottled up, and has to be released; anger is an acceptable way of doing that.They build walls to protect themselves, but to me it reads as unwilling to let their guard down and are trying to hide something. They s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 04:32 AM
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As to what attracted me in the first place, it was the interesting banter and illusion of confidence. What became clear in both cases was they were damaged and bitter and it was hard to relate to them. I'm lucky to be from a relatively stable family, my parents have been together 45 years. It was too much work to convince them to trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 10:01 PM
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To further clarify, I don't think the red pill "truths" apply universally. In addition, by believing something is the truth, one stops seeing the potential for other "truths." For example, if one believes that all women are sluts, one will not be able to believe the women who are not- and I'm not saying that being a slut is necessarily bad. We all have different experiences in life, and while some might find red pill observations to be truth, some may not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 08:07 PM
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Ok, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 07:51 PM
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Well, the very well known writer did explain a little about it, I was curious about his writing and asked him questions. I am not dominant in relationships, but I do enjoy thinking and learning- I don't think he thought I would actually read any of it. When I read some of the stuff he wrote, I was intrigued and frankly a little grossed out. It got me thinking, and that's why I am here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 07:36 PM
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Nice point, and thanks all of you for believing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 07:25 PM
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I did leave them. I met those guys during a very dark time in my life when my self esteem was zero. My life was out of control, and they were appealing because they seemed to be in control. I accomplished a few things unrelated to dating that raised my self esteem, and didn't need it from someone else anymore. Both guys were actually very emotionally unavailable and damaged. I met someone masculine and kind with no knowledge of pua or red pill and who was willing to take emotional risks. While I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 07:00 PM
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Also, I said I "tend to do long term" not "only"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 11:24 PM
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Ok, I've explained this before here and it's been disastrous, but here goes.This is the truth: it was three years ago, I live in a major city. The first is a very well known professional PUA writer who contributes currently to red pill sites on a regular basis. For ethical reasons as well as personal safety, I refuse to name him, his pseudonym, or any of his books. You'll have to take me at my word, although I doubt you will ( this isn't personal, it's just that nobody has believed me yet- but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 11:22 PM
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Educated, hardworking women with unique personalities can be very fun, feminine, joyful and loving. I know lots of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 09:55 PM
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What about feminine intuition, people pleasing, spirituality, nurturing, cooperation...all the other "feminine stereotypes" that we hear about? Red pill, from what I can tell does not address any of these and yet they are all stereotypes that have been around for ages. Why not? I would like to know why the red pill does not include "truths" about women that are positive in any way. It seems like these "red pill truths" cannot be the entire truth. This is just the way I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 09:41 PM
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Yes, that's pretty much what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 08:56 PM
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Not a red pill man, but I'm curious as to why a woman's partner count matters if you don't believe what women say anyway. I dated two red-pill men, neither believed my partner count (they both thought I was lying as it was quite low for my age. I tend to be in very long term, monogamous relationships). I hope you don't mind me asking here, I am genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 08:32 PM
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I love conspiracy theories and they are fun to think about, but I don't believe any are the definite truth. Once a decision is made, the thinking is done. So many conspiracies reference the Matrix, the rabbit hole, the red pill- conspiracies that have nothing to do with male sexual strategy. I can't think of The Matrix without Keeanu Reeves and his horrible acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 07:34 PM
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Assuming that all women have a biological code which causes them to behave like slutty brats, don't you think women have the capability of overriding their impulses? The red pill cites the Pareto principle in that 80% of women will compete for 20% of the highest status men. Red pill men aim to be in that 20% of men. However, what about the 20% of women who are not interested in high status men? Do you think it's because they happen to be the 20% of women that are the least desirable? What if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 07:26 PM
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Maybe this sort of thing just doesn't happen as much in my particular social sphere. I'm older (39) and I don't know anyone personally who has gone through that particular situation. I don't doubt that it happens, but I wonder if this phenomenon has something to do with the type of women Red Pillers target.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 08:07 AM
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All the "truths" the red pill teaches about women are negative. It would be more credible if some positive "truths" were talked about as well. If you only focus on the negative, you are not presenting all of the information about women there is to know. Unless, that is, you truly believe that everything about women is negative. If that is the case, why waste your energy on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 07:41 AM
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Personally, I want to shield people from the truth about women because I am an illuminati reptile priestess of the highest order and I want to keep all the power to myself and the 12 other priestesses. Just because red pill is your truth, doesn't mean it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 02:28 AM
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Upon reflection, I'd agree that "fitness test" is a better term than "loyalty test" in general. I'm happy to hear that trp is working for you, and that Red Pillers generally are up front and honest about their desires. I have no problem with plate spinning if a man is clear from the beginning that that is what he is doing. I do have a problem with lies of omission and secretive behavior. I think "agree and amplify" as a method for dealing with fitness tests tends to be a little evasive and could…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 12:49 AM
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I think some types of red pill men get loyalty tested more than the average guy ( call me a prude, but the other term grosses me out). If men that are displaying behavior that is making a woman question their intentions, they will get loyalty tests. If a man wants to spin plates, not commit and not communicate his intentions, that is the price he should expect to pay. If he is tired of women behaving that way but he wants to continue a single lifestyle, he should seek escorts. I think some aspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/14 07:50 PM
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Thought of one more big one: Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 07:58 PM
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I think SMV is very misleading. When I was at the height of my SMV (prob 8 or 9- I was in amazing shape due to obsessive working out- that's another story) I feel madly in love with a chubby dude 5 inches shorter than me. In addition, I once got rejected by someone because he perceived me to be beneath his level. He was 15 years older, a single father of 4 young kids, 30 pounds overweight. The next week, I started dating a gorgeous, brilliant man who couldn't believe I'd give him the time of day…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 08:01 PM
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Purple-ish woman here. I have a problem with the notion that women prefer alphas over betas, I am also not convinced that the terms "alpha" and "beta" are even relevant. I wish the suggestion of spinning plates would emphasize the need for honesty and being forthcoming. I have a problem with asshole game, dread game and emotional manipulation of any sort. I am starting to realize that the red pill perspective seems to be much more about getting laid with lots of hot chicks, rather than building …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 06:01 PM
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Honestly, it tends to be the upper class types that I consider the most rude. Examples: talking over, interrupting, negging (I do not enjoy that- I am insecure enough) being dismissive, belittling, inappropriate questions and monopolizing the conversation. I find that the internet, driving and dining out bring out rudeness most often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 05:20 PM
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Once or twice a week in real life, that number was much higher when I was single and dating. I live in a major city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 04:08 PM
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No, I am done with you and your red pill brethren because you don't believe me when I tell the truth. You cannot understand my point because your ideology is doing the thinking for you. I am not interested in human beings that lack empathy and have a false sense of superiority. I cannot continue communicating with people that view me as worthless. I hope you grow out of this and learn to relate to women in a functional manner. Have fun getting in the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 03:26 AM
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Ah, so you feel it's unethical for me to suggest the red pill can and does hurt people? Your comment indicated your belief that a women's value is based on her fertility and attractiveness. Mr. Writer drilled this into my head as well. This is a core red pill belief. Mr. Writer to me that I had better get used to degrading sex as well as rough anal sex because this is all I have so little to offer. This led to me feeling I deserved to be raped, and suicidal thoughts. This is how the red pill hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 02:09 AM
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Actually, if you think about it- I am showing a high level of ethics in not revealing the identity of someone who wishes to remain anonymous. Nice try trying to insult me because of my age, this is why I am staunchly against the red pill. I believe in self improvement as well. If I choose to believe I have nothing to offer my partner except for sex, that is a very limiting belief and self fulfilling prophecy. It's not my truth, it is your truth. You can believe what you want. I have a feeling yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 01:42 AM
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Let me be more clear. I do not wish to be stalked or receive death threats. I have no doubt that this is a possibility if I reveal any more information about this person. Besides, what kind of proof are you suggesting? DNA? Recordings? Why is it so hard to believe that a published PUA would hurt a woman? If you don't believe me, fine- it sounds like you're pretty set in your ways. All I am trying to point out is that the Redpill can and does hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 12:56 AM
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This is the point: Redpill hurts people. Redpill hurt me. Is is so hard to believe that a traditionally raised, feminine woman in a major us city would run into some Red-Pill types? I was a red pill woman until I realized that I was miserable. I can be feminine, have long hair, wear dresses and cook and clean for my man- but I don't need to think I'm an inferior hag that deserves to be raped. I value compassion and empathy, and I feel that a masculine man can have those traits as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 08:52 PM
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Proof? No, thanks. I'd rather be safe than prove myself right. The writer is very well connected and has not demonstrated ethical behavior. As for your other comment, let me try to clarify. Red Pillers are so focused on the image they are presenting, that they are closed off from being able to experience or receive anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 08:45 PM
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Absolutely, this. I would have married my bf at 18, also my bf at 20. They both wanted to "play the field." I like monogamy, so I ended up in several LTR's with women. When I started dating men again, most of them were not relationship material. That said, I'm glad I waited and met my fiancé later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 09:18 PM
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I am a woman who was very damaged and hurt by a well known red pill writer. He absolutely brainwashed me and lowered my self esteem to the point where, when I was date-raped, I truly thought I deserved it. On the flip side, the Red Pillers I dated never got to know anything about me other than my body. They didn't seem to care about me at all, so I invested nothing in them either. Too bad, because I'm an amazing cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 08:36 PM
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To clarify, the most important traits I consider that a good man or a good woman would have for a LTR are unselfishness, patience, reciprocity, and dedication. My guy and I are 47 and 39, respectively. I thank my lucky stars to have grown up before the digital age, people relate to each other differently now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 08:09 PM
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I think Red Pillers and PUAs hear that phrase more than the average person. A woman will know on some level if she is being used for sex, or if a man has that intention. It's a passive aggressive technique for the woman to either slightly insult the man for being a cad, or to get him to prove otherwise. As far as criteria for a good man, it varies from person to person. After sifting through a lot of puas, my fiancé caught my attention from the beginning with the following: 1. He made direct eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 07:53 PM
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I am glad you are in therapy, and I hope that you learn to take steps to get your head right. Concentrate on something else. Go voluntarily celibate for a year and come back to dating/sex. Stay away from the club scene, stay away from the manosphere, maybe try some antidepressants. By the way, I adore balding men and my partner is balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 03:02 AM
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39 year old woman here in a partnership with a 47 year old man. I've mostly been in monogamous relationships since I was 16. Sex is even better and more frequent now than it's ever been; It's actually only gotten consistently better. I'm happy where I am in my life, and I still get carded regularly. I've taken decent care of myself, but I know a huge component is good genes and a youthful spirit. Yes I was cute when I was 25 ( I was a very late bloomer) but I was also very annoying and full of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 09:07 PM
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I've been a plate twice and both men I discovered to be Red Pillers. It took me a while to realize what was going on, as I'd only ever been in long term relationships and had never dated casually. For a few months, it was fun but it was obvious that I was being used. Both times, the men in question seemed dodgy and insincere, and I kept looking. I found a wonderful man, and we've been together for 2 years. Both Red Pillers called from time to time until I blocked them. Being a plate made me feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/14 12:30 AM
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