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I agree with this! My gf and I are always being asked how many years apart we are, it’s 16, and when they hear the answer it’s almost always a negative look. My friends all love her, her friends all love me. But her friends were definitely a little weirded out by it at first. Then they met me and changed their minds. Last night we were talking about it over glasses of wine. One of the things that was a major green flag was that I am fairly successful in life, I have an awesome union job with 30 …
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 06:50 PM
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I got divorced at 50, my wife was 35. I was always proud of landing the younger wife. I figured I would be alone the rest of my life because I am finally old and the girls I like are still 35 lol. Well one day I started talking to this girl at a brewery we both frequent. We just kept talking. She’s hot as fuck and way out of my league again. And she’s 35 lol. We are 6 months of dating and honestly she is the most normal person I have ever dated. Don’t give up. You will find the one you are attra…
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 04:06 AM
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My buddy has to pay 4k a month to his ex wife for life. And it’s hilarious. He’s a doctor and has a huge practice and makes over a million a year so it’s not really effecting him. The hilarious part is how they came up with the number. He way paying onlyfans girls on average 4k a month so that’s what the judge came up with. As his friends we have never let him forget what onlyfans ended up costing him 😂😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 05:36 PM
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I also come from a BPD relationship. And same story as you. With in 7 weeks of wedding she blew up my life. We have now been married for a year, but separated after the blow up. She moved out as fast as she moved in. I’m 50, 3rd marriage and won’t ever do it again. I probably won’t date ever again. The trauma she put on me will never heal. Good luck with your healing journey!
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 02:31 AM
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I’ve been there. I got everything in the divorce. Same situation, I’m a catch to just about any girl. My ex got several new men and probably a handful more. She’s hot as fuck. But I don’t want someone that is in to me for what I have to offer. So it’s been a couple years of just doing me. Then out of the blue,I went to lunch at a local brewery and the waitress had said something to another customer about dirt bike riding. Dirt bikes are my thing so I asked her what that was all about and here we…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/26 12:12 AM
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It turned into a she said / he said
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 10:53 PM
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Divorce process hasn’t even started yet. It’s a crazy story, short answer, she tried to hire some one to kill me, I had to get a protection order. That was 6 weeks ago. Because I’m a man, they didn’t grant it, and decided court would be the best place to discuss it. The sheriffs office is still doing what ever it is they do. So far she has filed so much documents that they keep having to continue the case. We are on #4 four now and the last. Because I’m out of money. Her tactics worked and waist…
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 12:54 PM
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My wife left me, out of no where on Saturday, showed up to work Monday and got laid off. Went to the bar after, cops called me, had something to give me. She filed a DVPO against me, banning me from going home until the court hearing three and a half weeks later. She moved out Wednesday morning. My house sat abandoned the entire time. She didn’t show up for the hearing and it was dropped. That was 2 months ago. I’m back in my house, still laid off. But enjoying the vacation of not working while …
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 05:40 AM
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Mine was 7 months, but should have ended at 6 weeks. I feel for you man ❤️
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 11:54 PM
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About 7 weeks. She already has a new guy that bought her a brand new BMW. Fucking hilarious.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 04:40 PM
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My STBX is a psycho. That’s really it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:22 PM
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That would be correct and court is Thursday
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:09 PM
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I’ve been working out a lot. I stopped drinking when my ex and I started seriously dating. She had a dui and blow n go and I figured it was only fair. I still haven’t gone back to drinking. I went and had a some beers three nights in a row when we first separated and realized I was starting the pattern again. Now I go home after work and do something. Projects, work out, clean, but what I don’t do is buy any alcohol. It’s been a few months and I’m holding strong. I did go back to chew though lol…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 05:44 AM
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Zero really. My STBXis Borderline Personality Disorder, and like a flip switched, Sunday she loved me, Monday she perceived something as a slight against her and by the end of the day I was the devil. That was the last day I’ve ever talked to her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 08:16 PM
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That’s how I feel. I may hate her. But would never have her killed. That’s just insane. I never have to see her again once the divorce is over. I’m good lol.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 07:38 PM
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The sheriff it’s hard to prove a he said she said. I wished he had recorded it
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 07:37 PM
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That’s what the guy who ratted her out told me. If she’s asking him she’s asking others.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 06:58 PM
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I have contacted the police and they’re investigating it. There’s an active ongoing investigation and a case number.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 03:09 PM
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My attorneys take forever and I don’t talk to them until tomorrow morning at 10, but all of this is getting discussed and then they will be coming up with a plan on what to do with the restraining order and protection order
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 03:08 PM
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I already brought that up to the sheriffs department and told them that if they had a guy that could say he would do it she would pay them immediately. But I’m not sure that they’re the type of people that want to set somebody up which sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 03:08 PM
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All of those things have been done. I sleep with my Glock 10 mm under my pillow. I have my shotguns at every door and my ring cameras are at their highest sensitivity and I added six more. I am an avid elk hunter and that lives on 20 acres and I have filled it with my game cameras. Her last relationship ended when she lit his car on fire then got caught for that went to jail for the night. The next day got pulled over again and she had Xanax in her car so she went to jail for that and then the n…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 03:07 PM
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She was already getting nothing. We were married 8 months.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 02:16 AM
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I just want it documented. I don’t care what she gets. She’s in a custody battle with her first ex hubby. Not my problem. But it’s all Public record now.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 02:13 AM
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My bachelor pad is my house. All 2500sf of it. Wife moved out in February, divorce will be finalized on the day we got married a year ago 😂. Which is coincidentally the same my first marriage, only on the ten year mark. I’ve been redecorating since the day her stuff was gone. My bed room now has walls with Supercross and Motocross posters framed. The bedroom across the hall is now my home office. Complete with a 65” TV 😂. My living room now has framed movie posters from the 80’s on the walls. Al…
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 04:23 PM
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Yep, and owning my house, and it’s nice with a hot tub. My tinder has three photos, me, me at the beach in shorts and a tank top, and a picture of my backyard with the hot tub included. Seems to work pretty good.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 04:35 PM
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Same as mine. Im all alone on ten acres in a huge house with a great job and no bills. She went scorched earth, said I was abusive, touched her daughter, tried to light my house on fire. All fucking lies.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 03:04 PM
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Mine did the same thing, only I owned my house for 20 years and we were married for two, so she didnt get anything. Zero. Now she sleeps on her parents couch, has no job, didnt have to work with me, I gave her everything and never said a word when she spent way to much. I treated her like a princess, and some how she thinks she won. She's told some of the worst lies about me to our friends. Blew up my life, tried to get me arrested, instead they took her. Im sad about the good times we had, but …
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 02:51 PM
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My soon to be ex wife moved to her parents house, about 3 miles away in a rural area. I see her driving all the time, I our kids to school together and will until they are 18. We run into each other constantly. I wished I could forget.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 06:35 PM
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I got one three weeks ago. Same thing, she lied about everything on it. I had to wait 2 weeks to go home. In that time she and her kids moved out the first day of the protection order, abandoning my house, and it just sat empty for the 2 weeks.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 04:38 PM
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Mine lasted just over 8 months. Dated for 5 years before that. The crazy didn’t come out until after the wedding. I’m 50, with a ten year old I have 50 percent of the time. She had two kids, a ten year old and an 11 year old. I remodeled my house to add an extra bedroom to accommodate my new family. We split up 3 weeks ago and my house is so empty. And I have the same feelings you have. It was my last chance at a real family. I’m going to have to be ok with it. At 50 I have no desire to put in t…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 04:23 PM
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Just to update everyone, the money is going to a bank that she has never used. She won’t have any access to the account. I opened it after we separated at a new bank. And to add more to the story. When we met I had 40l in a savings account to remodel the house before I sold it. She found out and used the money to remodel the house I live in and furnish it before she moved in. Then I had to borrow 40k to remodel the rental house, the only thing she did was coordinate the contractors. That’s it. A…
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 11:55 PM
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No that was not the reason lol. She was a starfish and will always be one
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 03:52 AM
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Straight up answer: I’m 50, she is 36. I didn’t know any of this or what I’m supposed to do. She’s running. Circles around me.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 03:52 AM
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I would say both. Also throw in borderline personality disorder. The.n Add Xanx, acid, DMT, shrooms, MDMA, Adderall any thing she can crush and snort.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 03:50 AM
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Dude I’m 15 years older than her. I was long gone at college and doing 20 something stuff when she was growing up. Our age difference scared me but she came after me. To make it even more complicated, I work for her dad in a large construction company, but I did that before I dated her. He just happens to be the President of the company, about 3000 employees across the IS, I’m just a union heavy equipment operator. He is on my side and knows his daughter is crazy. He gave me the next two weeks o…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 03:49 AM
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