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This "cutoff" just keeps getting higher and higher everytime someone mentions height.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:41 AM
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You can't. That's why you make a move, to find out. Getting rejected is not going to kill you. And, in my experience, it is not going to kill your friendship. Provided you can actually stay friends with her and not use friendship as a cover to wait for the next opportunity. It is not a crime either. There is NOTHING wrong with liking someone. If you feel ashamed about your sexuality, you need to stop that ASAP.
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:53 PM
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Self confidence is a trust in one's abilities and judgement. If you don't trust yourself, no one will. And it is not common to like someone you don't trust. Quiet doesn't mean inconfident. I am sorry, it is harsh but no one likes a pussy.
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:48 PM
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If it's casual it shouldn't be a problem. Also I know this is not the right place to say this but I find friendships more fulfilling than sexual relationships, so make some friends.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:21 PM
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First of all I never ruined a friendship by stating my interest in them. But in your case it's probably not going to work out because it has been years as friends. How does she respond when you flirt with her or try to push the barriers by touch etc.? Finally are you REALLY a friend or someone who waits for opportunity? If you really also see her as a friend than friendship wont get ruined. But 99% of the time the guy is not really a friend and that ruins the "friendship" (that was never there).
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:25 PM
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"Whatever comes to mind" is a good strategy. Literally forcing yourself to say anything that comes to your mind will feel awkward at first but that's how you build such a skill. Fabricating sentences beforehand is a recipe for bland, tasteless, and artificial-feeling conversation.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:21 PM
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Because it's totally acceptable. You don't have to reply or talk to anyone. Whether or not it's unacceptable for you, that's up for you to decide. Though if everyone is ignoring you, you may need to take a step back and do some evaluation on yourself. Because 99% of the time they should be responding, even if it is to make up a false excuse. Most likely you come off as needy and/or have boundary issues.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:34 PM
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I thought that's what dates are for
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:21 PM
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a general probably. will be obvious from all the decorations and stars.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:19 PM
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"If I get x I will be happy" (x can literally be anything) is not a good way of thinking if you actually want to be happy. Dom't chase things for the sake of happiness and don't chase happiness directly.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:17 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting to look like a walking skeleton am i right?
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:30 PM
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It should be something that can be made social. Do you play an instrument?
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:23 AM
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Confidence is a result of your belief in your competence. Arrogant people are insecure in core and only act "confident" to get validation. People who are geniunely confident never come off as anything else. Confidence is also very context dependent and is pretty much only built by repetition and mental self-reinforcement. Someone could feel very unconfident in social situations but feel very confident making shots in basketball for example. Self-esteem is how much we value ourselves and affects …
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:41 AM
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That's his problem then.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:36 AM
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What good is there in being a man without women being involved? Who are you to decide that? You're just 21. I know people who were single until their 25. Not for one second I thought they were less of a man. If you think that sex is the only thing that is worth living for then you need to take a really good look at yourself, and it might just be the reason that you're not getting any.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:50 PM
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Chicken, Milk, Whey, Eggs these easily get me to 120+ grams
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:24 AM
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lifting heavy things and putting them down, playing guitar, reading, video games, going to random volunteering events I see online.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:17 PM
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It will probably sound cheesy but keep a gratitude journal. Most of the time we tend to downplay or even disregard our achievements/good experiences and exaggerate our failures/bad experiences. Every night, write down 2-3 things that you're grateful for about yourself no matter how small it may look at first. It can be things that you've done or things that have happened to you. This will help you shift your perceptions for the better and you will have a record of good things.
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:02 PM
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In retrospect, I should've possibly responded by saying, "Yes, you." This would've been unnecessarily rude and could've turned it into a fight. And it will make you look like a dick because you responded in an angry way and called her friend a problem. Always be kind against people who seek trouble. They are expecting you to respond aggressively and you will throw them off by being kind. Very quickly they will look like the asshole and you will look like a confident man who doesn't bother with p…
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:19 PM
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There's nothing you can do to change her mind. If she changes her mind it has nothing to do with something you did or said. You know, let everything out of your control go and perfect what is in your control.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:04 PM
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Yes. My self-esteem, the way I talk to people (not just women) and the way I view myself has improved significantly and my sexual shame has went down drastically when I tried to implement some of the advice from the subreddit wiki and reading "Models". I wouldn't say I'm "there" or qualified to give any advice whatsoever but when I compare myself to me 4-5 months ago, I can say I am proud of the progress I made. Improving with women also made me better in general social situations. I can be more…
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:54 PM
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I hate this argument that you should avoid things just because it is "too advanced" or "too nuanced". You can only get advanced by screwing it up a lot and learning from the negative results. And no, unless you are a total asshole to someone, it won't backfire horribly. They would at most tell you to stop it and then forget about it 5 minutes later.
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:05 AM
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They rejected you by not responding to you. Just act normal and don't mention it. Definitely don't apologize for asking someone out. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:43 PM
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Me trying to come with excuses to not shave my man bush.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:40 PM
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Probably. Who cares? If you obsess over whether you are not attractive or not, or worse, whether people find you attractive or not, you will never feel satisfied. As long as you care for yourself and feel comfortable in your own skin and don't give a fuck about the rest, you are good. As for HOW to not give a fuck, I have no clue. It is something I and pretty much everyone on earth struggles with. Some people manage outside opinions better, and some people let every word affect their lives. Just…
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:48 PM
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Insecurity, anxiety, playing hard to get, being nervous, being intimidated, past negative experiences, having trouble being vulnerable etc. Do not seek a reason behind every move of everyone. Sometimes people do/don't do what they are supposed to not do/do. You can't control people and you have to accept that no one is perfect.
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:41 PM
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Very true. I've been guilty of this in the past. Sometimes people just compliment you as a gift, with no agenda behind it, just because they felt like complimenting you.
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:37 PM
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You don't unless you're asked. Bragging about money is a huge turn off for most people. Just act like someone who earns 300k a year. Or if you really want to talk about it, talk about it indirectly (traveling abroad, expensive hobbies etc.). Also even if you do attract someone by mentioning it, do you really want someone who is with you just because of your salary and not who you are?
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:14 AM
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Wanting sex doesn't make you needy. Neediness is completely emotional. Neediness occurs when you place a higher priority on what others think of you than what you think of yourself. (I've read that here https://markmanson.net/how-to-find-the-one) Idk who told you that showing sexual intent makes you unattractive, but they're wrong. In fact, it is the ONLY way to build sexual attraction. If you act friendly to someone, they are probably going to be your friend at best (nothing wrong with being fr…
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:36 PM
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She possibly cheated on you and you are afraid that she will get mad that you went through her phone? Have some respect for yourself. Also I don't think this is the right sub for stuff like these.
/r/seduction22/09/21 09:00 AM
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Best answer.
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:36 AM
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You can't force someone to be attracted to you. I went through the exact same thing. Girl was interested in me, I got needy and she lost interest, then I got desperate and pushed her further. People are telling you to move on because it's the right thing to do, and it probably happened to them as well. Sticking around will only hurt you and deplete you. Don't contact her and move on. She will eventually forget about the bad stuff and may even miss you and contact you. But I'd keep my distance (n…
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:55 AM
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2 months is not a lot of time for things to cool down. You didn't interest her then, how much could you have changed in 2 months really? You say you sounded desperate, but you still want to ask her out again after she rejected you. Don't. If you have any chance of her being interested you in the future, you will seriously lower it if you ask out again at this time.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:06 PM
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If you were the one to ask this question, what answer would leave you satisfied? Just be honest. It seems like a question that a person with low self esteem would ask, but I am no psychologist.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:01 PM
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Mass Gainers are good at supplementing if you're really struggling. But I'd still steer towards healthy home-made smoothies, they still pack a ton of calories but they contain more micronutrients.
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:12 PM
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thanks fella
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:19 PM
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Well a forearm pic doesn't tell much. But if that'll make you feel more attractive, eat more and start working out. It is important to feel comfortable in your own skin so you can have confidence. As long as you're not suffering from body dysmorphia. Skinny people do have girlfriends. One of them is my best friend. He believes he looks good though. You say you're confident but ou probably are not. You think you are unattractive and no matter how hard you try to act confident, our body language w…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:14 PM
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It's worth it for the confidence it brings you alone and how it makes you feel about yourself. KNOWING that you look good is better than looking good but thinking you're ugly because you have a distorted view of yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:35 PM
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It is not a change that can be done overnight. It took me 6 months to start feeling good about myself after I decided I needed to change. But you're already on the right track. You just need to be mindful of your change. A counselor can't change you but only guide you, you need to make the change yourself. It is pretty much a battle you have to fight but when you win and look back, you will feel proud of yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:26 PM
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