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1

Really helpful thank you. What about the smaller things in between - like touching while walking, or do you just play that by ear?
/r/seduction18/07/26 04:33 PM
1

I guess that transition has happened largely while I was in a relationship but I'm not opposed to it. Any clear examples of what that looks like, and when you'd do that?
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:53 PM
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Yeah thats helpful. I think my concern is more around like not reading the room enough and overescalating - but then I go the other way and end up coming across as either disinterested, or friendly instead of direct. I have to do a criminal background check every year, so it's less reporting things to the company and more that if anyone did ever report me I'd be pretty screwed.
/r/seduction18/07/26 02:21 PM
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OP got "thousands of matches on Hinge and Tinder"...something makes me think he doesn't have the whole well adjusted thing down if he's complaining about dates not going anywhere.
/r/seduction13/05/26 07:38 PM
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^
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:27 PM
7

Agree. The OG RSD stuff was more about approaching life differently. I do have a few videos knocking around somewhere.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:22 PM
3

What am I doing wrong? Defining your self-worth by external validation is a fickle game.
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:39 PM
19

“Your jinx cosplay is right on the button. Are you mentally ill too?” Jesus 😂😂😂
/r/seduction03/01/25 01:28 PM
5

Thanks for the insights - it makes sense that it would shift things (whether for better or worse probably depends on personal preferences). I noticed that you are now a coach, and I'm wondering when did you make the switch from practicing pick up to becoming a coach and how did you find that? Do you notice any personality traits/approaches that are similar amongst the people you coach who go on to do well?
/r/seduction31/12/24 06:09 PM
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Out of curiosity, do you think this approach to dating (e.g., focusing on quantity and numbers) has impacted your view of LTR's or your ability to commit and settle down. I recognise this is a little bit of a loaded question, but as someone who focused much more on the inner game side of things, this has always intrigued me.
/r/seduction31/12/24 05:53 PM
3

You’re not going either independence of outcome and people can smell your desperation.
/r/seduction19/10/24 09:01 AM
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I think it shows a lack of insight into what dating as a woman can be like. Sure some may say yes, but I’d say in percentage terms you’ll probably close more doors than you open by doing this.
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:33 AM
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You can stop anything sexual when she doesn't want to. stop, i just sit down and play on my phone and kinda ignore her Nothing like some good old emotional manipulation to start a relationship / FWB off on the right foot. Edit: Clearly /s
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:14 PM
59

This is such a troll post its unbelievable.
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:13 PM
10

In many ways, the thing that separates the creepy weirdo who never succeeds with women from the one who gradually improves is the ability to recognise what unintentionally makes women uncomfortable and gradually adjust their behaviour to be 1. both provocative and interesting while remaining 2. safe and non-threatening.
/r/seduction29/09/24 06:39 PM
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It’s easy to say that as a man, but if you want meaningful relationships you have to be able to reflect on the impact your actions have on others - intentional or not.
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:20 PM
4

If you get to dates then the issue isn’t how you look
/r/seduction20/08/24 04:04 PM
5

Honestly, Real Social Dynamics back in the day was some good stuff. Most of it has been excised from the internet now.
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:13 PM
2

You can also say something like “I know a great coffee place near X. You game/when are you free/are you free this Friday?” When I was on hinge I would rarely send more than 6-10 messages in app. For me the timeline is establish a rapport (4-6 messages) get off the app (another 5-10 messages) and plan a real world activity.
/r/seduction11/06/24 03:17 PM
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Yo could you send please?
/r/seduction26/05/24 10:34 PM
4

We are biological machines. If you aren't optimizing your environment to use your neurochemistry to your advantage, then why not? It is easy to make a bunch of vague philosophical statements about being 'independent', whatever independent means. But, at the end of the day there is a hell of a lot of science that suggests that leveraging things such as community, nature, close connection is incredibly beneficial, both at improving the way you think, and the 'feel-good chemicals' in your brain. No…
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:11 AM
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For sure, having a good network of friends and family is weak and lame and none of the successful pick up artists have close networks of people that add to their lives. ..
/r/seduction21/10/22 08:35 AM
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Most welcome
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:43 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_T1In1fbHpXKEuW8a8-2pg Here ya go
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:17 AM
1

A lot of the old-old RSD stuff focused on that. Particularly Tyler and Todds old stuff. Tbh the system by Todd which is free on youtube is a great intro into a lot of concepts like being sexual.
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:54 AM
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I know a lot of people don't like outer game here, but cocky-funny pickup techniques really helped me when I was younger. Nowadays its just pretty automatic, but as someone who struggled with the same thing it helped me understand how to be playful.
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:41 PM
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Sexual energy isn't weird sexy spanish dancing. Its unwavering eye contact when appropriate and feeling comfortable in expressing your intent. ​ The opposite of sexual energy is being 'nice' because you are worried you will upset / scare her away. ​ The perfect balance is having the EQ to express your intent in a socially acceptable way without putting her off.
/r/seduction06/10/22 05:29 PM
150

Sexual energy is part of the package my man.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:40 PM
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Sex for women is high risk high reward. More chance of it being terrible or outright rape / assault. Also more chance if you pick the right guy of it being mind-blowing. Their pickiness makes total sense.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:19 AM
1

Cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing. Black pill is essentially raging against perceived injustice. At the end of the day most of us just want to either feel attractive / find someone who we are happy with.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:09 PM
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Looking through your post history you have a lot of rather warped views on women. While I am not saying that some of those views might not be factual, I don't believe that holding them is useful. It is the equivalent of being stuck in 1970s America and complaining about Racism as a non-white person. Is it true? Probably. Will complaining about it improve your life? No. The only thing you can do is take action, and ironically red/black pill views only serve to make you less attractive to quality …
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:02 PM
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There is a search function on reddit. There are countless YouTube videos on this. Please put in the bare minimum of effort and come back if you have any specific questions after doing your own research.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:35 AM
1

I can actually feel Owen and Julien crying out in pain at this post.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:33 AM
31

Lmao. Act like trash and question why you ended up in the bin?
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:12 AM
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Mid 20's - I go with a shirt (normally blue), white / black chinos, and brown clarks desert boots. ​ I love CDB - very versatile and I feel like they set you apart from a lot of guys who just walk round in converse/trainers. A shirt can vary in levels of formality which I like depending on how rolled up the sleeves are, how many buttons you leave undone, and you can't go wrong with chinos.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:35 PM
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I would guess your issue is a lack of vulnerability? Have you read Models by Mark Manson. Like someone else said it sounds like you are focusing so much on what you should be instead of just being.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:31 PM
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The projection is strong with this one.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:26 PM
1

My go to is to meet for a couple of drinks and then roll it into dinner if you’re vibing. Having said that, have you guys made any tentative plans? Also congrats on getting a date!!
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:57 AM
1

How much do these guys typically charge?
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:18 PM
3

Initial hellos -> establish common interest -> some kind of banter / intrigue -> ask for number / date if you already have number -> few more messages -> ask for date. Think I’ve gotten 90% of the dates I’ve sought by doing this.
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:28 AM
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I think this is terrible advice if you’re not generically very attractive
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:04 PM
2

This is very similar to the 'just be yourself' thing. 'Just be yourself' works if you aren't a raging asshole with no social awareness. If you are, then you need to work on yourself first.
/r/seduction02/07/22 08:14 AM
1

I completely agree that it’s best to be honest about intention - I guess I’m wondering when / how to say it
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:15 AM
1

Going on a date today! She actually made a joke along the lines of "its so funny, I gave you my number but you're still messaging me in the app?"
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:00 AM
3

I sent it - said we should skip the chat and get a drink and she said she’d be down! Yes boys, get in. Maybe she’ll flake anyway but still, seems it was worth a shot so far…
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:29 PM
2

Thank you, although I agree that in principle most of the time moving on is the option, I guess people are so busy in this day and age that sometimes this happens?
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:10 PM
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I sent it - said we should skip the chat and get a drink and she said she’d be down! Yes boys, get in. Maybe she’ll flake anyway but still, seems it was worth a shot so far… Worth mentioning: I sent the message on hinge to just avoid any possible technical difficulties and basically if she never read my message by mistake it now looks like I accidentally forgot to message, and if she knows I messaged then hopefully my approach comes off as as non-needy as can be for the situation.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:59 PM
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Her number?
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:15 PM
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Thanks guys I appreciate the tough love. If people want to, they will make time is very true in dating 95% of the time
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:50 PM
2

Fair, probably good advice.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:28 PM
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Yeah checked WhatsApp- same person
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:07 AM
1

Be slim and healthy. Be positive and have your shit / mental health handled. Be outcome free and don’t feel like you need other people to be happy.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:01 PM
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braincels is leaking from VOAT again. What is the point in your bitterness and resentment?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:13 AM
1

Dude forget the outer game. You need to make some inner game gains and stat.
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:35 PM
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This is 100% gonna end in monkey branching. It’s dangerous enough when you’re single, but sleeping with a work colleague is a terrible idea. I think you both need to go back and set mutual expectations and ground rules: e.g. no sleeping with friends, work colleagues, etc. You can have sexual energy with 1000 people in a town. Don’t choose the path of least resistance because it will cause problems later.
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:09 AM
2

My friend and I live in London - he’s massively into game and cold approach. Whereabouts do you live? We’re both 24 so drop me a dm if you wanna swap deets
/r/seduction28/07/20 09:12 AM
1

Dude, if you’re not over her why are you even in a relationship? You’re looking for other people to validate you. You’re not “not over her”, you just miss the way she made you feel about yourself - which, by the way probably wasn’t real - you were 15, it’s been 6 years. It’s all rose tinted glasses.
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:00 AM
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I think you need to take time to work on yourself. Have time to self reflect, and then if you want to hire a coach hire a coach. You don’t want the coach to be fire fighting years of baggage when you can deal with that yourself and get some more useful lessons - that maybe you can’t get yourself - out of it.
/r/seduction13/11/19 09:55 PM
1

You’re still choosing to be the victim of your circumstances.
/r/seduction24/12/18 11:52 PM
2

Do you play it safe on the dates? And by that I mean stick to safe conversation, try not to say anything provocative and so on. Also, read models by Mark Manson if you haven’t already.
/r/seduction24/12/18 08:41 AM
1

Stop using ancient pickup techniques. Most clued in girls can smell routines from a mile away nowadays. Some will even call you out if you neg them. Just get good and escalating / building rapport / holding frame. Those three + inner game are literally all you need.
/r/seduction23/12/18 12:18 PM
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She’s 14, you’re 16 - enjoy the sex offender registry, bud.
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:50 AM
3

Asking a lot of questions is generally bad advice. It needs to flow like a conversation not an interview, and you need to find ways to create intrigue. Create in jokes etc.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:55 AM
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No wonder she doesn’t like you. You, out of nowhere start flirting with a girl that you’ve been friends with for six years and when she doesn’t feel the same way you become a butthurt little child.
/r/seduction16/12/18 09:16 AM
1

Max and Tyler are great, Julian is good - the rest are hit and miss
/r/seduction04/12/18 12:38 PM
8

Absolutely fucking not.
/r/seduction04/12/18 08:45 AM
1

Then you’re going to keep ending up second best. Someone who’s happy being a party to cheating is not good relationship material. Girls know that.
/r/seduction07/11/18 01:26 PM
3

Easy. Stop sleeping with girls that are already taken.
/r/seduction07/11/18 01:01 PM
3

Your life sounds fucking miserable.
/r/seduction04/11/18 07:16 PM
1

Did you send her a long message or a short message when you got blue ticked? If it was a long one then send another one in two days - send a funny picture / meme / dog animal and a short witty caption. If it was a short one I say wait till she replies.
/r/seduction01/11/18 03:08 PM
1

Man. Break up with this girl. She’s an attention whore. On top of that she’s shit testing you whilst you’re in a relationship with her and practically walking all over you.
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:24 PM
1

Piccadilly institute. Central, near soho and the perfect age range.
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:20 PM
10

You’re framing this in a very negative way. If you framed it as a positive or just deflected then you could have turned the situation around, instead you come across like a self conscious hard-case. You’re a virgin. Own that fact. I lost my virginity by flirting with a girl by telling her I was a virgin - when she found out she wanted to be the one to change that. Being a virgin isn’t good or bad, it’s just a thing dude.
/r/seduction28/10/18 07:10 AM
1

Fucking terrible advice. Good way to get unfriended. She just broke up with her boyfriend.
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:19 PM
3

“Get a female of my own”. Here is your problem. You don’t just possess a girl (or guy if you’re into that side of things). You make a mutual social pairing together. Also, don’t fucking call them females. You say that your incel views don’t come out, but trust me, in some way they will.
/r/seduction05/10/18 07:11 AM
1

Should have kissed her before the end instead of putting all the pressure on that one moment.
/r/seduction01/10/18 06:56 PM
1

My exes father was a ladies man at 58. Two or three girls every week, and he had plenty more he could have slept with but didn’t want to sleep with. Was he good looking? Debatably. Was he charismatic? Definitely. It’s all a state of mind.
/r/seduction30/09/18 08:05 PM
-1

I have to ask - what red flags do you look for?
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:00 AM
4

Dude, seek help.
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:24 PM
1

RSD Tyler is solid but not mentioned by OP.
/r/seduction06/08/18 09:10 AM
3

You’re being an idiot. Just ask her out. Stop overthinking. Ask her when she’s free.
/r/seduction03/08/18 08:19 AM
2

I think you’re overthinking this. As long as she knows you’re not interested in a relationship pay for (or don’t pay for) whatever you want.
/r/seduction29/03/18 03:24 PM
1

One thing I notice about your posts (had a quick look through your post history) is that you believe you are a victim. You constantly define yourself by what you think you are, and not what you could be. I think that is the biggest issue you have right now. You need to stop giving this shit power over you. You don’t have friends but you’re going to get friends. You haven’t gotten laid but you’re going to get laid. You used to be depressed but now you’re fucking killing it homey. You lost weight,…
/r/seduction29/03/18 03:19 PM
1

What happens during the conversations - do they seem happy to be talking to you or does it seem like they’d rather leave? Cus positive emotions are key. Also, coming from a place of abundance or at least not neediness/scarcity is so so important. If you are overly invested in these interactions or in the destination instead of the journey you’re going to come across as expecting and creepy. Have you been working on your inner game? Also, I know it’s unconventional but you could try giving them y…
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:53 PM
1

How do you talk to girls. How do you ask for their number? What does your conversation consist of? What’s your opener? Do you kino?
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:39 PM
3

What do you think you're doing wrong?
/r/seduction29/03/18 09:46 AM
2

You forgot /r/incels
/r/seduction01/10/17 11:00 AM
15

Hemmingway was serially stuck in the friend zone, as were many of his protagonists.
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:25 PM
3

Sometimes you can hurt your chances by playing the game. Girls know what negging is nowadays. The whole point of not replying for three days is not some asinine rule, it's because it conveys that you have abundance and a busy life. If you don't actually have a busy fulfilling life, no amount of time added before your text will change that. Just be you, be a tease, be an upstanding gent and cultivate self esteem. If you do that you won't be a creep and you won't be a "mrniceguy" either. You'll be…
/r/seduction06/09/17 10:56 AM
-1

That's a very solipsistic way of viewing the world.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:58 PM
1

Hey
/r/seduction19/11/14 05:50 PM
5

As someone who used to go for the incredibly serious look and make like no progress I need to apply this more often! Thanks op.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:25 PM
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