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This is just sad.
/r/askFDS07/09/21 03:16 AM
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I'm sorry to be blunt here but why are you putting him on a pedestal? You're objectively superior to him. You put so much effort into looking beautiful and probably tried your best to keep the conversation going, be positive and light-hearted, while he sits there like a pathetic manchild all negative with bad energy and barely able to hold a conversation. He's like a sewer rat with the emotional maturity of a 15 year old. Please don't base your self worth on whether this ugly worm likes you or n…
/r/askFDS07/09/21 12:10 AM
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He sounds like such a loser with no social skills
/r/askFDS06/09/21 05:09 PM
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Why tf was this study done only on men? Why is this thread so male-focused? Obviously men benefit the most from marriage. Meanwhile married women have higher rates of depression than single women. If happiness is love, then I would include platonic love and the love you have for your pets, friends, community, self, and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:09 PM
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Just sounds like you aren't ready to date yet, please work on your mental issues with a therapist. A HVW wouldn't worry about something so petty and small such as texting. Plus sending texts like this is literaly bare minimum behavior, the fact your putting this much weight into simple texts shows you have co-dependency issues.
/r/askFDS18/06/21 12:41 AM
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Just curious, what is your age range? I tried looking for events to go to on Meetup but almost everyone there is older than me and in their 30s or 40s (I’m 20), so I stick to Bumble BFF
/r/askFDS16/06/21 03:02 PM
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Girl how the hell have you not ghosted his ass already 💀 lmao you shouldn’t have even wasted time trying to argue with him, men like this are at the bottom barrel of society. He’s basically overcompensating for his insecurity and lack of masculinity, it’s always like that with these wannabe “alphas”. He already knows you can do way better than him, so he’s trying to bring you down with him. He’s so pathetic it’s not even worth your brain cells worrying about. Just enjoy life and let that loser r…
/r/askFDS21/05/21 04:52 PM
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Imagine caring this much about OLD... girl please put your energy someplace else, like your friendships , hobbies, or career. Men on there won’t care how you present yourself, they just want sex and a free ego boost lmao. Please read the handbook
/r/askFDS18/05/21 12:33 AM
8

Reading books
/r/askFDS16/05/21 10:22 PM
42

Ghost him. He’s legitimately insane and will never change
/r/askFDS13/05/21 08:09 PM
16

Predictable as always 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:03 PM
37

Reading this post is like taking the red pill in The Matrix I swear to god. Life-changing shit. Will never be a pickme again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:01 PM
12

Men are the fucking worst, the most despicable creatures to have ever existed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:43 PM
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Only the 4th date and you’re going to his house? Please ghost him. I’m serious. You could end up being raped/assaulted, he’s likely expecting sex and there’s the possibility he won’t take your refusal kindly. The fact that you met him from tinder is a red flag of this. It’s already bad enough that he already fingered you only on the third date IN YOUR OWN CAR after a low effort picnic date (like sorry but this sounds like something high schoolers would do). Don’t be scared of being rejected by h…
/r/askFDS13/05/21 06:14 AM
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Omg I can’t wait to try this the next time a man tries to ask me out while I’m in public. I’ll just stare out into the distance while they desperately try to get my attention, and then I’ll quickly walk away. Should be hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:29 AM
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This whole “cool girl” thing is cultural misogyny at its finest. Women are fearful of being seen as the “crazy/jealous girlfriend” so they play it cool to the point where they get walked over like this and weep in silence. They blame themselves. It’s so tragic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:09 AM
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“There’s no jealousy involved”, “he hasn’t done anything wrong”. The denial is too damn strong. Poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:07 AM
5

And men still get offended when we don’t want them near our children??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:01 PM
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For “men going their own way” they sure are absolutely obsessed with women and won’t leave us alone. Like what happened to going your own way? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:49 PM
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You know how I reject a guy who approaches me? I straight up say “I’m not interested” and walk away fast before he can even ask me for my name. Works wonders and they never get angry because they appreciate the directness. I don’t give them an explanation or explain why I’m not interested, because then they’d try to negotiate and change my mind. I don’t care if I come off as “rude”, I’m just breaking out of female socialization. But maybe I’m just lucky, since all of these instances occurred in …
/r/askFDS11/05/21 12:31 PM
63

Reminds me of the advice: If you ever want to stop liking a guy, just imagine the kind of porn he watches. You will most likely immediately be disgusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:22 PM
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His misogyny is so strong that he can’t even mask it in public or at work. Really pathetic. How hasn’t he been fired yet? He sounds completely unprofessional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:37 PM
14

This is horrifying. I really hope this is just a reach, especially for developed countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:36 PM
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The denial is too damn strong. Poor woman, I know what it's like. Denial is a form of self-protection because the truth is too painful and embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:07 PM
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Whenever I see posts like this, something within me is convinced she won’t leave or do anything to confront him, and it’s probably true. Remember, on average it takes 7 tries to leave an abuser. Even worse that she’s so young and actually thought their relationship was healthy despite the age gap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:51 AM
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Browsing FDS has convinced me to never have children and to never have a husband unless he benefits my life in almost every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:59 PM
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You leave.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 05:13 PM
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Whenever I go out I always make sure to compliment women while ignoring men’s existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:16 PM
30

You keep conveniently ignoring how alarming your husbands behavior is. Please leave him before he gets even more abusive
/r/askFDS03/05/21 02:00 AM
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It really sounds like you’re making excuses for your weird and controlling husband.
/r/askFDS03/05/21 01:59 AM
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If you go on porn sites there are COUNTLESS deepfake porn videos of Billie Eilish when SHE WASNT EVEN 18 YET. I hate this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:22 PM
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Do some of these things still apply to female friendships? Just recently I made a new female friend and I already did 1, and 4 because we got along pretty well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:13 PM
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This type of self-awareness is beautiful. Girl, you are growing spiritually and emotionally, the shame and embarrassment as you realize your pickme tendencies is a natural part of the process of levelling up <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:52 AM
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The same thing happened to me and it's glorious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:01 AM
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Yup, I would ghost her. Never feel guilty about ghosting someone who is genuinely toxic and hurtful. I'm already the type who is non-confrontational so ghosting is p natural to me. People make it out to be the worst thing in the world but why deal with confrontation if the relationship/friendship is done for and bad for your mental health anyway? No one is entitled to "closure".
/r/askFDS02/05/21 04:41 AM
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The amount of low value walk dates I see when I go to the park is insurmountable... and the dude is always on his phone or barely paying attention to her, and she’s always way better looking than him, all dressed up, and could do better. The same happens when I go to coffee or boba shops, always a low value first date and her pretending to enjoy it 🤢 (before the pandemic)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:53 PM
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This shit is why I quit my membership there. Still waiting for a women’s-only gym to open near me 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:55 PM
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I would murder him. No one fuckin speaks to my daughter like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:47 PM
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The time one would spend taking nudes and trying to have the perfect photoshoots, then spending money on lingerie/sexy cosplays, would be better used towards education, internships, levelling up your career, joining a club, levelling up social skills, and even a simple walk in the park.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:07 AM
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Still waiting to see the male equivalent....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:02 AM
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Does this also count with giving your number/social media out? Like never give it out first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:11 AM
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Thank you so much for posting this. I recently started having these pathetic fantasies about my coworker even though logically, I know he’s sort of a loser and I could do a million times better than him. I think it stems from a lack of self love honestly, it’s like you’re constantly searching someplace else for love instead of within yourself. I find this thinking automatic and hard to stop...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:26 PM
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I read reason #1 and was like: he sounds like a child. That’s enough reason to break up with him.
/r/askFDS27/04/21 09:38 PM
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Please send this thread to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:41 PM
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Oh my god I love this. I’m gonna start doing this in situations that don’t even involve the gym
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:33 PM
9

Like breakingmom? I totally see it. Poor woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:39 AM
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LMAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:19 AM
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"I'm way better than your boyfriend," The audacity. I would've straight up told that guy to go fuck himself at that point. Men are so fucking rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:17 AM
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Don't be ashamed!! We've all been there. Usually, I use my intuition to be able to tell if the guy is the type who would react violently if I told him off. So if the guy looks generally unkempt, douchey, homeless, or as if he has nothing to lose, I try to get away from him as quickly as I can. However, I still make strong eye contact and use confident body language to show power but I do not show a face reaction at all, as if he is invisible and I'm just staring at nothing. Avoiding eye contact …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:05 AM
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I never lift weights at the gym because I’m afraid of men staring at me, hitting on me, taking photos, or commenting on what I’m doing. I would love to lift weights at a women’s only gym. For now I’ll have to stick with doing it at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:38 PM
5

This one sentence is such an eye-opener. Just further solidifies that I made the correct decision in leaving my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:54 PM
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It’s still not enough sometimes because of the internet... I had an ex who paid money on some website to find my address. I even opted out of these websites and it still wasn’t enough because I live with my parents and he somehow found out my parents name and found our address through the website. Literally all you need is a person’s name and city (or even just their phone number) to find out where they live if you’re good at internet stalking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:39 PM
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THIS is why I never want to have kids. I know it sounds selfish but the stress and emotional labor isn’t worth it. I feel like 99% of men just will never bother putting the same amount of effort that mothers put in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:31 PM
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That’s an interesting perspective, it’s as if the relationship revolves around the age gap. Almost all her videos are about how she’s young and he’s old, there’s only one that just shows them doing normal couple stuff like eating at a restaurant but it’s still tagged with #agegap. It really highlights how shallow their relationship must be and how he views her (as a kink sex object for his pedophilic fantasies).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:47 AM
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99%? More like 100% of the time it’s a grooming situation. I can’t think of a scenario where a man two decades older would genuinely have good intentions and not be predatory at all. If a grown man is going for someone that young, there is seriously something wrong with him and he sees teens as objects. There’s no exception here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:42 AM
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Emphasis on modest too. Modest being code word for submissive, docile, and meek. “Modest” girls won’t stand up for themselves and scream at him for being the piece of shit that he is. “Modest” girls won’t fight for themselves and choke their abuser back. I also hate when men put an emphasis on women being “pure” and “innocent”, it’s all about control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:38 AM
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Yeah it's cringe-worthy and I'm just predicting that one day he will get sick of her "teehee i'm so young and cute" act and physically hurt her or something. He just seems like the type who would do that. He looks like he's frustrated by her naivety and only there for the ego boost and sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:08 AM
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Really sick of men grooming women into thinking they're somehow superior for not partying or drinking like normal young adults. It's such a common grooming tactic to make the girl feel more special and unique than people her age. Like damn, get a social life, have fun with some girlfriends for once, you aren't mature and cooler than people your age just because you don't drink. I don't know how this is legal, if I were her mother I would do everything I can to prevent this. That dude groomed the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:04 AM
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I'm 20 and never see any people around me age act the way she does in the video. It's embarrassing and cringy, probably a part of the daddy/daughter kink. Honestly, she seems super weird and stunted for her age, so no wonder she sees nothing wrong with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:01 AM
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All the positive comments under it makes me want to barf. That poor girl is gonna end up with PTSD once she finally wakes up and leaves this predator. That man literally looks like an evil manipulative molestor/groomer, you can see it in his eyes. He views her as an object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:29 AM
64

Why waste time dating multiple men when you could be using that time to level up? It just sounds so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:56 AM
34

“Good girl”? Scrote, I’m not a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:15 AM
28

Going to try this 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:10 PM
21

In these situations I always save my dignity and don’t respond at all. I walk away. If someone responds in those ways, it means they’re emotionally immature and nothing you say will make them change their mind, so there’s no point in engaging. They view any constructive communication as an attack on their ego, that’s how fragile they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:16 PM
47

The age difference is already a red flag. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:58 AM
71

This is so inspiring and it’s amazing to see more women in their 20s leaving their pickmeisha days behind. I’m 20 about to enter nursing school and recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I have officially quit dating ever since I’ve joined this sub and I can’t even stand having male friends anymore. I’m gonna fill my 20s with a focus on career, female friends, exercise/health, hobbies, and becoming financially savvy. Relationships are a waste of time to me at this point unless I’m truly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:02 AM
105

Don’t forget it also messes with your REM sleep and sleep quality. Coffee dates truly are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:56 AM
82

Men aren’t visual. Women are. Women are visual in that we know what looks beautiful and know how to make ourselves look like pieces of art, we know how to decorate and make our rooms cute and tidy. Women know how to style themselves and make every aspect of their life as visually appealing as possible if they wanted to. Men could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:51 AM
11

Thank you 😌 I kept doubting myself but this helps me know for sure that I made the right choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:25 AM
21

My ex had abs and was perfect in almost every way according to FDS standards but I still left him because I didn’t like having to plan dates even though he would take me anywhere I asked. Am I too picky?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:01 AM
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Hell, I’ve even read disgusting stories of men with female roommates who c_m in their shampoo bottle or facial cleaner because they like her and want to have a power trip. So fucking inhuman. SO EVEN OUR SHAMPOO ISN’T SAFE. Also our food isn’t safe too because there’s men out there who will c_m in that too and serve it to us. These are extreme examples but honestly men aren’t even human to me at this point after knowing the shit that they do behind closed doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:24 PM
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What I’m confused by is does this mean that if we’re in a long term relationship with a HVM, we shouldn’t bother getting married since it only benefits the man and puts us at a disadvantage? But isn’t it also a red flag if he doesn’t want to marry and never proposes? Seems contradictory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:15 PM
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Me realizing I have some of the red flags: 👁 👄 👁 Thank you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:13 PM
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Because everything about a woman’s body has been made into a sex object. Even hair. Porn videos of men cmming on hair. Porn videos of men cmming on women’s armpit/pregnant belly/a stranger on a train/on women’s sandals or socks, just literally anything related to femininity is an object to them. Men can’t claim misandry exists when men are just never ever seen as objects in this way ever. Men are fucking DISGUSTING and don’t deserve our presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:58 PM
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Calls himself a minimalist (hint: he’s a cheapskate) Watches Joe Rogan or respects Elon Musk Thinks men are logical and women “emotional” or “materialistic” Takes pics of himself at the gym or shirtless Likes misogynistic comedians/humor Consumes self-help videos/books/quotes or only books he reads are self-help garbage Talks about how he’s a misunderstood “introvert” (hint: he has no social skills and thinks he’s more intelligent than everyone else)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:55 PM
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This woman is gonna learn the hard way years down the line when she realizes he never liked/loved her to begin with. Women should never chase a man like this, just block and delete the second he showed how emotionally unavailable he is. Desperation is never cute, and I’d be surprised if the guy still had respect for her at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:56 AM
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I remember in one of my college classes the professor was typing something while his laptop screen was projected onto the white board, and when he typed “P” in the search bar there was instantly a bunch of porn website he had previously visited. He even admitted to being abusive to his wife and also there were photos of marijuana on his laptop. I was a dumb 19 year old and didn’t complain to the dean or even leave a negative RMP review
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:09 AM
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Temptation is such a stupid and widespread excuse men use for cheating. It has nothing to do with “temptation” or “a man has needs”, at the core it has to do with disrespect, low morals, and selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:17 PM
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Would you recommend working at a homeless shelter anyway even if you have to deal with these men? Is it dangerous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:15 PM
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Omg I swear at this point it’s a weird consumer cult. There’s a reason self-help authors make millions of $$$. I used to be into self-help too and it definitely made me feel “productive” and successful without actually doing much. Looking back, it strangely gave me an ego, especially with books that were basically full of manipulation tactics for social situations. The people I’ve met who are actually high value, confident, and successful don’t even go near self-help books, they actually take ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:50 AM
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To be fair, they’re both being pick me’s here. A woman shouldn’t just rely on a man for money and not work at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:02 AM
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I don’t have anything to add but I just want to say that this comment is motivating af and I’m saving it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:44 AM
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Also to add to this: if he ever talks positively about Jordan Peterson or Elon Musk, RUN. Men who read self-help books in general are more into the idea of self help rather than actually improving who they are. Basically they never take the advice but reading it strokes their ego into thinking they’re some superior alpha male. Men who are obsessed with productivity are the worst, ironically they are slaves of capitalism whilst thinking they’re an enlightened God or some shit. And don’t get me st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:50 PM
8

What an insecure sack of shit. That’s a prime example of negging. I hope you left him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:26 PM
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I’m literally a product of that 40 year old white man traveling to the Philippines to take my 18 year old Filipino mom (at the time) home to the US to exploit and marry her. Surprise surprise, he was abusive as fuck and a deranged piece of shit to her for most of my life and has prevented her from getting a passport to see her family to this day. I hate old white men who travel to these countries. They are always exploitative and abusive, searching for an easy victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:22 PM
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Why do abusive ex’s do this? This happened to me too but he only sent $700 lol. Do they really think they’ll win you over just by sending money? So stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:11 PM
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Posts like this lowkey make me feel better about myself when I realize I’m only 20 and don’t think like this at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:09 PM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:30 PM
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Completely agree. Leveling up doesn’t mean being materialistic and falling for what beauty ads and Instagram defines as “self care”. Buying stuff isn’t leveling up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:26 PM
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Imagine the exact same post but with the genders switched. Men would lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:02 PM
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Watch him lose his shit if she were to tell men that she’s single. Watch. Men like this are the ultimate hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:39 PM
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This shit is why I’m paranoid of men making me food at restaurants. I legit remember browsing 4chan 6-7 years ago and seeing threads of men bragging about how they ejaculated into a sandwich for a woman to eat. How people can see women as having life on easy mode or as being “misandrists” is beyond me when shit like this occurs on a daily basis. Men will never understand the fear we have to live through, despite how much they tout about how “men get abused too!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:50 PM
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I can't hate them when their choice to do porn likely stems from self-esteem issues due to the patriarchy, needing male validation, hyper-fixation on pleasing the male gaze, and manipulation. I blame the consumers of porn and the pimps who advocate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:53 PM
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Please send this thread to her. The only comment telling her to leave him and giving good advice gets downvoted, which could discourage her from listening to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:10 PM
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This is why I am never friends with men. 💅🏻 Ever. They rarely ever care about genuine friendship with women, it's all a game to them. The few male "friends" I've had in the past all inevitably ended up objectifying me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:50 AM
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I felt like this when I was watching a movie with my boyfriend and I couldn't help but verbalize how hyper sexualized the female characters are and how they cater to the male protagonist. He didn't act like it was a big deal and I felt even more as if I was over reacting, but I wasn't, the sexualizing of women is just so normalized. Becoming a feminist and critically analyzing the way women are seen as objects in media really changes you and can make you come off as "bitter" to others when in re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:26 AM
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They hate women yet ironically consume the most porn of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:10 PM
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Men get triggered by this because they feel personally attacked and because they subconsciously know that they are exactly a part of the problem, so they feel defensive and insecure. Here's one thing I'd like to ask them: If it's not all men, then why have ALL women experienced abuse and harassment from men at multiple points in their life? (Seriously, just ask any woman). Like, at this point it might as well be 90% of men if the problem is this bad. The whole "not all, but enough men" is a way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:42 AM
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