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He should let all the women know that he intends to remain uncommitted, in the beginning. Lying about wanting a commitment, is cowardly pussy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:42 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:33 AM
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Men do their work and chase natural career progression, and are as physically active as they need to be. But there is a lack of masculine behavior from men when they engage with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:58 PM
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It's not Nice Guy vs Asshole. It's weak vs strong. All these guys communicate with women in a weak-ass way: https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/t6y4xz/the_first_texts_i_received_from_the_same_niceguy/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:14 AM
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I sympathize with your situation, but I cannot excuse your sexism, even if it stems from trauma. I have stood in her shoes (not literally, s&m is not my thing), and reacted in a very different manner. Am I not a woman? You're using his past trauma to unnecessarily claim victim status for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:26 AM
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I'm a man who constantly wants sex and there are plenty of women I don't want it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:05 AM
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Rejecting random men doesn't mean that a selective woman isn't horny. She can satisfy her horniness by frequently fucking the man she actually selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:36 AM
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Women lacking horniness isn't why the men are getting rejected. Women perceiving men as sexually incompetent is often why so many men get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:02 PM
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The post is referencing what The Red Pill commonly says about women Poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:40 PM
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If I'm not physically attracted to a woman at all, she will never be able to attract me with her other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:29 PM
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Have fun with that. Yes, sexual interactions with women are very fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:24 PM
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This is fundamentally horrendous advise. Wrong. You have to “turn women on”? What are they? Coal stoves? Why don’t they have the responsibility to do the same? Just leave women like this and let the toxic men have them. Plenty of well adjusted women around. Look up 'sexual tension' and 'arousal'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:17 PM
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That advice is verbose garbage. Dudes not getting laid because he doesn't know how to turn his girlfriend on. Blue Pill mentality gaslights men into being pussified and pacified. But it's inoffensive and politically correct, so people here defend it to the death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:17 AM
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Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us? Because there are positive views too and the good outweighs the bad at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:06 PM
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What would make you ignore a friendship boundary that's regularly enforced to think that a relationship is still on the table? Desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:22 AM
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A manipulative time-waster. https://youtu.be/jTXpsMC-dvM https://youtu.be/BtGqJwaEX2E Credit to ARC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:46 AM
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The bitches he got with were average looking bitches. It's fake indignance. They're happy about going viral and being temporarily selected by notorious Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:47 AM
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I'll fix you whenever I damn well please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:00 PM
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*Men who don't pull were equally as repetitive when I briefly tried OLD FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:05 PM
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We're bigger, stronger, faster, have more endurance, more resistance to fat gain and don't have to deal with pregnancy or periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:04 PM
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Women are horrible at initiating on Bumble. Nothing unique or interesting about their opening message most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:01 PM
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Redpill claims that working out and dressing better are exclusively red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:04 AM
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2) To the men - does this make you uncomfortable? No. Why would it Do you notice when women dress this way at the gym? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:23 PM
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Vast majority of the current top threads on the TRP subreddit are about self-improvement. Vast majority of the current top threads on FDS are women complaining, venting, blaming others and trying to agitate lurkers. I view FDS as immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:55 AM
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Provide sources for your claims. What posts, specifically are mIsAndRisT? Hard to provide examples because the sub is private. But posts like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rcdeg4/men_date_you_to_level_up_dont_date_men_to_level/ If a Scrote claims ONE MORE TIME that he hates gold diggers and materialistic women, spit in his face. If ONE MORE SCROTE dares to open his filthy mouth to say how much he despises gold diggers and hates how “materialistic” you are, fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:59 PM
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Yeah. And downplaying the importance of enjoyable sex to women is bluepill gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:23 AM
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Reddit seems to pretty much agree that cold approaching strangers in real life is weird. Reddit isn't an authority on how humans should behave. Fuck Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:42 PM
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FDS is also moderated. Doesn't help if they're biased participants in the sub's culture. They're not doing a good job if a post inciting violence is allowed to remain and collect rewards and 1.4k+ upvotes. This type of rhetoric doesn't fly on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:17 PM
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You would have to show me proof to prove this point. I don't visit those subs or know which ones you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:13 PM
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Most major internet platforms are moderated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:08 PM
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But you think it's unfair that FDS isn't getting quarantained over this? The incitement of violence and the hate-fuel that the sub pours down women's throats. And the justifications for financially exploiting and emotionally manipulating men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:07 PM
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YES they fucking are. Like they're miles apart. Nope. OH, so you do know how to differentiate between levels of bad... Then why the fuck is that shut off for comparing FDS to TRP? FDS is bad enough to quarantine. But it's not quarantined, because of bias and people like you defending literal calls-to-violence. You would not be defending TRP like this if they were the ones talking about spitting on and punching women in their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:46 PM
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I'm not saying that FDS's offenses are lighter then TRP Then it should be quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:30 PM
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Read edited post. The levels aren't different enough to justify one sub being quarantined and the other sub dodging quarantine. Also there's a fucking difference between "go and spit in a mans face" and them having a manual pinned for how you can spit a man in the face and get away with it by lying to the cops. It's still repugnant, it's still radicalizing rhetoric and it's still a sincere call-to-violence that's been significantly upvoted and rewarded. You also left out the part about punching …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:25 PM
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Going around spitting in men's faces and smashing men in their faces is bad. Sexual slavery and removal of rights are also bad. None are light offenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:01 PM
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What makes FDS's offenses lighter than TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:42 PM
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I never argued that TRP shouldn't be quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:30 PM
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The Redpill is already quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:44 PM
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All of the behavior we've discussed is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:28 PM
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It's supposed to be a discussion about why FDS has continued to avoid quarantine. What format would be acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:26 PM
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TRP has nothing to do with blaming other people for one's problems. TRP heavily emphasizes being accountable for your own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:10 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pzwnjb/the_sub_raskwomen_drops_the_blackest_pills/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:09 PM
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You keep posting the same comment over and over and I already responded to it. My side of the argument was won when you admitted that attractive women are going to be hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:56 PM
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Us agreeing that attractive women are going to be hypergamous is good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:53 PM
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I linked you to a comment discussing hypergamy because you and I are specifically discussing hypergamy LOL 😆 Us agreeing that attractive women are going to be hypergamous is good enough for me. ^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:43 PM
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Why not go to a more leveled out sub like r/askwomen to ask this question. Speaking of that sub, here’s this question asked: /r/AskWomen/comments/13v0om/to_what_extent_are_women_attracted_to_rich_guys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf You linked me a nine year old post with sixteen comments because it fits your narrative. This doesn't do shit to disprove the link I posted, which is way newer, with way more engagement. Askwomen is bluepill fantasy land. Not a place for raw, unf…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:29 PM
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I dismissed it because it’s selective bias to fit your narrative You dismissed it because it doesn't fit your narrative. Why would you go to a niche sub dedicated to hypergamy to prove that all women in the world are inherently hypergamous? Why would I show you an example of women enthusiastically admitting to being hypergamous in a discussion about hypergamy? Do you get candid, unfiltered discussions about hypergamy on askwomen? Physically attractive women are going to be hypergamous. We agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:09 PM
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Can you prove that they don't? Earlier I gave you an example of women admitting to hypergamy and you dismissed it. Observing reality, it's pretty clear that physically attractive women are selecting higher earning men for marriage. This is observable from middle class to the top 1% MacKenzie Scott became the wealthiest woman in the world by divorcing Jeff Bezos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:43 AM
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If I was to generalize all men as being players, annoying, etc would that not be an indicator that I think poorly of men? Yeah, because it sounds like you consider "player" and "annoying" to be bad traits. Earlier you said that "hypergamous" ISN'T a bad trait. This is not an equivalent comparison. The red pill saying all women are hypergamous and only want alpha males is painting women in a bad light. It is a swift generalization. You, yourself stated that hypergamy isn't bad. By your own logic,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:36 AM
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You don't believe that the majority of women would prefer to date/marry men that outearn them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:28 AM
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Why are you ignoring the childish part? My original comment directed at you was specifically about hypergamy. I'm specifically talking to you about hypergamy. What’s more is that yes some women are hypergamous, but to generalize all women like that shows you think poorly of them. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:24 AM
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Why is the word "hypergamous" in there, if it's not a negative trait? How is believing that women want alpha males, considered hateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:18 AM
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If the majority of women were hypergamous then there would be no poor class because all the poor women would only wait for rich men. You could argue that these women eventually gave up but there’s nothing to show that they were hypergamous to begin with. Rich men are too rare for every woman to have one. But if it's her preference, she's still hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:13 AM
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Nope If you don't consider hypergamy bad, why do consider TRP hateful for describing women as hypergamous? You said this: The red pill thinks women are hypergamous, childish and want alpha males yet you think that they don’t hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:11 AM
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Do you believe hypergamy is bad? Do you believe it's unlikely that the majority of women are hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:02 AM
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The red pill thinks women are hypergamous Women admitting to being hypergamous and encouraging other women to be hypergamous: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rcdeg4/comment/hnunoj1/ That's why we should all practice hypergamy ruthlessly. There's zero - ZERO reason to date down. What benefit does dating down bring to you? To satisfy some sort of complex? Just to say "at least I have a man"? To be seen as the golden-hearted woman? NONE of those reasons benefit you in the sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:38 AM
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You're defending a call-to-violence with whataboutism. Like, if they do worse... I'll belief you but why aren't you commenting about the worst shit then? I'm commenting on what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:54 AM
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You're saying that 98% of the male population is beneath you, which is an incredibly wild take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:28 PM
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Men want to be lied to. And I don’t blame women for lying to them. Telling you the truth is too much work It's funny that your flair is "Red Pill is delusion", because Red Pill theory 100% agrees with the truths that you just spoke. Anyone dragging you for speaking those truths has a frail ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:19 PM
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These male characters sing love songs to the women they're obsessed with. That type of behavior usually does not end well for men in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:33 AM
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WHY as a young lad were you watching disney and not playing sport or outside with others kids getting knocked about? People on this sub frame arguments in weird fucking ways. As if kids didn't have time to watch movies AND play outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:36 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.insider.com/women-go-on-dates-for-free-food-narcissism-psychopathy-2019-6%3famp https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newsweek.com/foodie-calls-women-dates-free-meals-personality-trait-1445156%3famp=1 https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/594070/ What men are trying to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:49 AM
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Crazy to me that men just need to see a pair of boobs and thats it boom boner?? Don't even need to see the boobs. Recently hung out with a girl and got a boner just looking at her in pajamas with no makeup on. It's a good thing. Indicates high testosterone in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:16 AM
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Men have way more Testosterone. Extreme libido enhancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:57 AM
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Inviting a 6/10 over for sex and her immediately complying takes less effort than taking an 8/10 out on a few dates before getting the bang. It doesn't mean that getting the 8/10 was a "problem". This shouldn't be controversial or difficult to comprehend. Nobody's misinterpreting anything. You are. Or deliberately misrepresenting people's arguments. It's okay for you to back off 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:25 PM
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You said attractive men don't go for attractive women because it's too hard to get them so they go for ugly women. The person you quoted didn't say that attractive men aren't going for attractive women. They said that it takes more effort to sleep with more attractive women. You misinterpret.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:13 PM
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Do 'average' Women just bring more to the table today than 'average' Men? Women bring pussy and titties. Men just bring dick. 2 > 1
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:22 AM
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ARC produces the only red pill content I consume these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:21 AM
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But how often if ever do you want to contact someone but hold yourself back? Literally 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:52 PM
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The radicalization is the FDS echo chamber reinforcing hatred of men. And you're saying this is fine as a long as violence doesn't occur. This is like saying racism is fine as long as no one commits violence. Spending time in internet echo chambers spreading hate is so fucking corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:44 AM
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Was thinking the same thing. Not sure what they think they're going to get out of this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:21 AM
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All the dudes in this thread got burned for behaving like FDS' ideal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:07 AM
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No debate has ever been settled on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:35 PM
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For guys that need an online guide to tell them to clean their room, to take a shower, that looks matter and that social skills exist. Extremely dishonest oversimplification. It's a resource for a very specific kind of guy that missed some very important parts of growing up. You mean guys that didn't have effective male role models. Common thing. Single parent households exploded over the last few decades. Judging by your post history you seem emotionally fixated on punching down on people that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:59 AM
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Nah. That's like saying all women who look up make-up tips and skincare routines are automatically ugly as fuck. Everyone at some point is gonna think about what they can do to become more attractive. Some people are able get that information from an effective parental figure or role model. Some people will have to get that information elsewhere. TRP is just another resource. I told myself I would stop debating people on the internet, so I'm stopping here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:42 AM
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Unlike TRPers I actually leave my apartment and interact with women instead of just reading about them in the sidebar The lack of experience does. It's antisocial virgins that are most likely to believe in TRP, but not guys that are outgoing and successful with women. Seems like you want this to be true, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:32 AM
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Pathetic fucking clown subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:28 AM
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I need an FDS woman to describe what specifically makes an FDS woman appealing, in order for me to answer this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:01 PM
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You want a man that does the opposite of these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:49 PM
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1st rule of redpill is don't talk about this stuff in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:57 PM
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Fear of Me Too. Women want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:11 AM
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Never, I'm too scared to talk to women. Don't want to get metoo'd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:46 PM
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I'm not mad at the Will and Jada Situation. It confirms TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:02 PM
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^ Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:21 PM
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You want a man to honestly communicate about his instinctive desire for your ass and tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:27 PM
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Wasn't talking about me specifically. You don't want a man who's actually honest about what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:19 PM
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^ which is why a man might lie to you about wanting a strong, career woman. You don't want an honest man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:09 PM
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Men are NOT doing what they say, just like women. Have had many conversations about women with other men and I have never heard anyone utter some BS like "I want a strong career women". Big bouncy titties, thin waist and thick ass cheeks come first and I specifically make sure I let women know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:57 PM
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I'm banned from FDS and I've never posted there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:01 PM
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Why not start posting ways which you’d like to be treated, openly discuss how that would positively affect your lives and maybe the other women in your lives too. More to effective to just post on/read the TRP subreddit. PPD is not a good self-improvement sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:29 AM
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men here like hurting women. WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:03 PM
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No. Simping turns women off. If you're a woman, why would you want your man to revert to repulsive behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:02 PM
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^ bruised ego + cope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:30 AM
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I prefer the strength and height advantage of being a man and not having to deal with pregnancy and a monthly cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:31 AM
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Because women have insane sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:49 AM
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His focus is totally on her tone and not the “message.” It looks like he's addressing the message to me. Her message is that he's being misogynistic - he calls her out on being full of shit, or at least lacking self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:20 AM
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Funny how the OP thinks her boyfriend's advice is misogynistic - do women believe that their selection process is perfectly politically correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:54 AM
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If most women were honest this would never be the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:24 PM
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I hate male personalities and think they aren’t funny and are gross. Openly misandrist comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:04 AM
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Sorry, enjoying my night too much to engage in angry internet debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:50 AM
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Chronically online is the new smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:18 AM
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I think you meant to post this as a reply to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:26 AM
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This post really hit the nail on the head and illustrates why it's so beneficial for a man to level up everything about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:57 AM
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I could have made that point more clearly. I should have stated that it's blue pill mentality when women overestimate how effective their wealth, status and boss attitude are for attracting and securing commitment from men. Female blue pill is looking at the absolute state of men and still believing in men, still loving men, despite everything that's said and done. That is a gracious if fatal flaw of our sex. Nah. There are women who are completely satisfied with the men they have. And more men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:50 AM
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Definitely makes them more attractive to me, but I understand that this would be threatening to some men. Can't speak for every man, but for some of us, it's not about feeling threatened or insecure. It's just not a turn-on. If I'm not physically attracted to a woman, no amount of wealth, status or boss attitude will make me want her. I'll take a cute barista over Amy Schumer every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:28 AM
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It’s literally in your post. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:30 PM
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To anyone else reading this: I agree that this was a bizarre exchange between two people, even for this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:26 PM
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What question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:21 PM
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You can’t argue my point What point you’re creating a straw man Point out the strawman that I created. That was a very weak argument. I didn't make an argument in the post you're replying to. You're trolling to bait an argument for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:10 PM
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not me asking if women pursue careers for attracting men. I thought that was what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:47 PM
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Correct. And that's not the same thing as saying women specifically pursue career success to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:38 PM
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You might be shocked No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:30 PM
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Can we not be successful and ambitious without involving men in some way? Yes. I never stated otherwise in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:27 PM
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This place definitely won't help you figure out modern dating. The toxicity here doesn't align with what happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:17 PM
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The fact that women don’t pursue careers to appeal to men shouldn’t even be controversial in the first place. The OP did not state that women pursue careers to attract men and neither did the person you quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:06 PM
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You won’t but let it be known. I linked the video a few posts up, before you even replied to the thread. I shouldn't have to mansplain how to use reddit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:02 PM
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Please go outside and talk to actual women instead of making up these weird assumptions. You're the one who made multiple weird assumptions based off of an innocuous, single sentence reply from the above poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:43 PM
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I specifically said, We don't have to strictly stick to what TRP considers blue pill. So good job cherrypicking the post and ignoring context to engage in invalid bitching about the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:10 PM
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If it’s the same video I think it is that you guys keep bringing up over and over (I think you all secretly fap to it) Nah it's the video that misandrists high-key masturbate to. she’s not saying womens jobs make us attractive to men. She's saying that women's jobs should. Blue pill thinking. She’s saying women who are capable of being adults and supporting themselves are not interested in wasting their time on men who can’t. The video has nothing to do with this. She's complaining about being u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:07 PM
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If that’s what blue pill is pretty much every man here is blue pill Including you. Not a convincing statement. No woman thinks this. It’s a strawman tradcels keep bringing up to hate on women with jobs they’re not capable of getting. Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:35 PM
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This is an excuse people use to avoid doing the work it takes to self-improve or drop bad habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:21 PM
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And men at that level aren't quick to settle down. It takes men years to reach that level. They want to explore their options, not commit to the first willing woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:07 PM
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Her looks have the most to do with her appeal. If she were hideous, her ability to attract and keep high tier men would be greatly diminished, despite her status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:33 PM
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I know women who think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:26 PM
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Why should women care about what men find attractive? So that they can attract and keep the partner they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:21 PM
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No, but it's not an unpopular mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:19 PM
-2

Cheating isn't always the cause of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:14 PM
8

Prenuptial agreements don't guarantee protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:13 PM
10

I selected her because this is a notable example that went viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:12 PM
25

A lot of women do. https://youtu.be/M6QQm6VtOAA This is Tomi Lahren believing that the career success of her and her friends entitles them to higher quality men and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:04 PM
12

If she wants a committed relationship with a man that eventually leads to marriage, she better be ride-or-die. Why would a man risk half his wealth by marrying a chick who is quick to bounce?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:58 PM
3

OP did not claim that men are entitled to attention, sex or relationships. OP also did not shame or insult women. You posted an angry strawman, but have no reason to be angry about the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:53 PM
2

It isn't even clear to me whether you think this supposed advantage women have is in getting sex or in finding long-term commitment. Both. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pq1knf/comment/hd7w0b2/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:32 AM
6

A man can believe that women have this advantage, without it affecting his mentality or self-esteem negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:59 AM
6

It's these tropes and myths that keep getting brought up over and over and presented as blanket truths. Like saying that women have all these options that aren't available to men. Not a myth. Or that all young women are non-committal sluts. That is just stupid. Not stated in the OP. Or how when women reach their 30s, they panic because of age and settle for any man because they 'hit a wall'. While in reality, there's no wall. Not stated in the OP. a relationship is preferable but it isn't the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:48 AM
5

She needed to be put in her place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:35 AM
7

The OP isn't even negative towards women. How could pointing out that there are upsides to being a woman, upset someone enough to quit the damn sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:52 AM
2

Blue Pillers are down voting, but OP is correct. Women run from men who give off boyfriend energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:51 AM
1

Sounds flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:46 AM
1

Video about the sexual underworld I've watched multiple times: https://youtu.be/axmp5_XIA9k Dominant men live in a totally different sexual world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:26 PM
3

You don't know what people are really doing behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:49 PM
19

This why you can't ever take the women on this sub seriously when they say, "women hate casual sex". Why the fuck do sexually inhibited women insist that they speak for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:46 PM
1

My sexuality responds to seduction. Meaning I get aroused by seduction. I am not in a constant state of horniness. Someone asking me “let’s fuck” isn’t seductive to me. So I probably wouldn’t be dtf if they did that unless it was a very sexy or playful vibe and I was still aroused. Saying "let's fuck" is a clumsy way to express desire. Better to express it in a sexier way, after some increasingly provocative build-up. But I’m never going to promise to have sex in advance. I don’t know if I’m goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:36 PM
7

Woman: The Most Responsible Teenager In The House: http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html?m=1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:12 PM
2

Are the crossed legs a subtle sign that the guy is making her wet? I've heard other people say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:17 PM
3

How would you react to a guy suggesting physical foreplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:26 PM
3

That's the assumption. You like the guy, you find him attractive and you want to have sex. You'll still say no, if he directly suggests sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:03 PM
3

If you want sex, you'll still say no if the guy suggests sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:54 PM
3

You know what turns woman on? You know what is on every wattpad fantasy? Him spending an hour winding her up by being just so hot. so masc. Then telling her EXPLICTLY how she effects him to. The exact dynamic I like to have with women, as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:49 PM
2

Instead of saying "let's fuck", TRP recommends dudes say, "let's go back to my place and listen to the new Kanye album", and escalate from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:24 PM
3

It is. It takes 2-3 haircuts a week to prevent an unkempt look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:11 PM
1

Not specific enough. Men need specific guidance on this, otherwise strong chance they end up like the dudes on CreepyPMs and NiceGuys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:34 PM
6

I did not. I pointed out that both genders behave badly. Foolish/disingenuous to deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:36 AM
7

Women engage in amoral sexual strategies all the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:30 AM
4

I critize both porn and FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:16 AM
6

Nah, load of crap. I've seen women accuse men of being effeminate for ordering dessert at a restaurant. How do you think these women would react to a man crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:33 PM
2

Pretty good. I would be a little more forward though, because that tends to get me better results and better represents what I'm genuinely thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:34 AM
3

I agree with most of what you said. I'm interested in hearing what you specifically consider good flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:04 AM
5

If you're interested in attracting a woman, you have to have empathy for her. You said that women constantly get screwed over by men. It sounds like you're inclined to give intimate opportunities to men who don't have empathy for you. They don't want anything from us besides our bodies and our validation (but not too much, or then it's clingy!) A man gets friendzoned if he doesn't express desire for the woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:40 AM
23

^ redpill confirmation that women have no interest in hearing men's actual complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:11 PM
1

Your post says “all men would generally prefer unlimited sexual partners given the opportunity” and I’m telling you this isn’t true. Wouldn't you prefer to bang your office colleagues if there were no social or professional consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:52 PM
3

I jack off to all sorts of weird shit I don’t actually want in the bedroom. Difficult to believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:38 PM
2

You are correct. I've even seen people on this subreddit make the shockingly absurd argument that men are also hypergamous because men "want the best woman they can get". This is false and demonstrates that a lot of people here don't even understand what hypergamy means. Yeah. I don't just want the best possible woman I can get. I want sex with every single woman that I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:05 PM
2

Your fixation on him indicates that you want to lock him down in a committed relationship and it sounds like he doesn't want that. He might want the freedom to date or sleep around with various women. If he does want a committed relationship, he might have another woman in mind. He might not be physically attracted to you. He could be secretly gay. Some type of FWB situation might be possible. Don't take it personally if a man doesn't want to jump into a committed relationship. We have a tendenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:46 AM
3

I keep asking him an he keeps rejecting me Asking him for what, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:05 PM
2

The most mentally unhealthy men out there are simps who pedestalized women and received nothing in return. Bad route to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:49 PM
1

The "FDS" subreddit is young but the tactics are not. Simping only leads to sexual dissatisfaction for both sexes + exploited men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:51 PM
2

Actually, anecdotes are reality. Just not necessarily reality for everyone. When men fail to inspire extreme sexual enthusiasm in women, you put all the blame on women? Men shouldn't be held accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:02 PM
1

If this was true lesbian women would have more sex than hetero women right? They don't, explain. Going on anecdote. I've known women to be uninhibited, dick fiends. Hell explain why women masturbate less than men whether they're in or out of a relationship? They don't masturbate less than me. I'm on NoFap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:21 PM
12

Or they want sex just as much, but attach additional requirements because sex is riskier for women and most men are unattractive and bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:28 PM
2

Unlimited access to porn is more detrimental than beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:43 PM
1

Disagreed. I've approached and gotten dates with women who were wearing headphones and/or at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:41 PM
7

Fear of being labeled a creep, fear of criticism has kept a lot weak-willed men out of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:04 PM
0

You're on a debate forum. Everything you say is open to criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:59 PM
0

You have developed a self-limiting belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:57 PM
1

My sex drive is sky high and I don't find most women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:35 PM
11

Do women actually have lower sex drive or are the vast majority of men extremely underwhelming and unsexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:08 AM
2

They're probably depressed because they're sexually unsuccessful and constantly criticized and talked down to for being sexually unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:05 PM
2

I have never attempted to date or have sex with a fat woman. Haven't even looked up fat girl porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:11 PM
5

Curvy women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:30 PM
4

Sounds like you got redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:18 PM
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No one learned anything new from this post. How is it not pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:16 PM
1

Abandonment? I went to sleep and woke up a few minutes ago. It's 6:43 am in my time zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:44 AM
1

Because RPers are delusional about what they bring to the table, when I point out they're delusional about what they bring to the table, of course they'll say I'm wrong. They're actually high value. And women claiming to be high value are actually wrong. I can't comment on random conversations you've had with random men on the internet. All I can do is reference the guidelines that promote genuine self-improvement. Also, there is no top 1% (in the "SMV"). That's a Red Pill myth. Hey, you're the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:45 PM
5

It's arrogant for a man to claim, "I'm already masculine, I have nothing to learn from other men". My clients and past employers consider me an excellent personal trainer. I still make an effort to learn from other personal trainers and strength coaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:26 PM
6

Adapting to social challenges is not mate trickery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:46 PM
1

No, it doesn't. Yes, it does. TRP is not about being delusional about what you bring to the table. It's about actually bringing something to table. Red Pillers crave being treated like the top 1% of men yet they know they are not and never will be. Most people want to be treated better. Not exclusive to men or TRP. It's not up to you to determine who gets to be a top 1% man. It's up to the individual men to get themselves to that point. So they pretend that they're "working on themselves" by tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:37 PM
12

Yes, which is another form of mate trickery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:02 PM
1

Exactly. The way red pill men talk is that they literally want groupies without having to be a rockstar. They want women literally throwing themselves at them when they aren’t that much different from the next dude. It’s nonsense. Strawman argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:46 PM
1

It contradicts your first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:34 AM
1

Prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:29 AM
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TRP doesn't say that men bring something to the table by default. TRP tells men to stop bitching about their lack of success and and to do the work to improve themselves, so that they do have something to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:25 AM
11

Between parents, peers, female family and acquaintances and internet feminists, I received extremely vague advice or had it hammered into my head that you had to spend a significant amount of time getting to know a woman before thinking about escalating towards sex. Had it hammered into my head that it's creepy, thirsty and disrespectful to bring up sex or comment on women's bodies when initially interacting with them. Also, boldness has different levels. Be specific about what you consider a bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:39 PM
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As a jacked fitness enthusiast and personal trainer, I have used both "normal" dating advice and TRP dating advice. Listening to "normal" advice, I took no risks during conversations with women. Stuck 100% to safe, neutral topics to avoid offending or creeping out women. Didn't want to give women the impression that I was just another guy who wanted sex. These conversations were entertaining, numerous, led to increased rapport and revealed a lot of similarities the women and I shared. Despite th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:01 PM
5

Women are generally way better at making themselves look more attractive on social media than men. They know the poses, mannerisms and facial expressions. They know the angles to make their ass and tits look bigger. Men just put up a shitty selfie and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:45 AM
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OP, have you ever heard of Mode One? It's a book/mind set about how to use a ballsy, direct approach with women to get the kind of sex and/or relationships you want, without anyone being manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. Just don't lie about it, G.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:09 PM
1

I'm calling you a misandrist because you literally said, "I could give a fuck about other people’s judgement of me, especially mens’ judgement." I'm choosing not to believe you because you've displayed overt misandry and I've experienced and observed what works and what doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:40 PM
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You just stated that men's judgment of you is less relevant than women's judgement of you, which reveals misandry. If you're not lying out fear of being judged, you damn well could be a misandrist lying to avoid validating men's issues or to avoid having your own confirmation bias deconfirmed. You have never been a man who's experienced what's worked to attract women and what's failed to attract women. I was mocking the idea that being nice and accommodating were enough/relevant qualties for att…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:07 PM
1

The majority of women don't publically get into all the honest, nitty gritty details about what they actually desire in a man. Probably out of fear of judgment. Instead they give the same old, squeaky clean, politically correct list of preferences that you did instead of keeping 100. What's exhausting is men repeating that those things have failed to produce results and women like you never believing them. Apparently men can grasp concepts like quantum physics and thermodynamics but can't grasp …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:50 AM
4

Many men have all or most of the qualities you listed and are invisible to women. Men are not BSing when they say it takes more than this or different qualities altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:57 AM
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Because it's easy as hell for women to get boyfriends, due to so many men being thirsty/desperate. The more selective a woman is, the more rewarding and validating it is for a man to get with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:21 AM
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The guy gets tricked by the woman giving the misleading impression that intimacy is a possibility, when she's only interested in using him for his attention or resources. Women behaving like this is a foundational reason for why TRP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:31 PM
6

It seems like it might be based on the post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:03 PM
2

They make a man spend three months taking them on dinner dates, before she puts out. Meanwhile, she's still sucking and swallowing Chad, because she's not going to ignore her libido. A man would have to be a compete fucking fool to fall for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:18 AM
2

Dinner is the most generic and uncreative first date you can take a woman on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:30 AM
-1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:16 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:07 AM
6

A true "HVM" has options and doesn't need to put up with "FDS" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:33 PM
1

There are good direct approaches and bad direct approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:15 PM
1

Your first point is a misinterpretation of TRP. You're saying that TRP encourages men to engage in Covert Contracts to get things from women. TRP considers this a "nice guy"/beta tactic and actually highly discourages this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:28 PM
1

Even if you can afford filet mignon from an expensive restaurant, sometimes you'll order fast food if the restaurant is closer, delivers, stays open later and has a shorter wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:56 AM
3

Blame the absent fathers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:38 PM
5

It's regularly mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:55 PM
2

I challenge the idea that women don't want sex on the 1st date. Or before the 1st date. I will continue testing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:07 AM
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1: I have provided multiple paragraphs that add context to my original post. You dismissed and ignored them, because they strengthen my position too much for you to form a valid criticism. 2: Not "feeling the need" to address my questions is BS. You're dodging them because answering them honestly destroys your position and sense of moral superiority. 3: You asked three questions. I answered two of them in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/opbm1g/comment/h66qv76/ You i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:31 AM
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The additional context I've provided and questions I've asked you, are too difficult to respond to, so you've gone back to addressing the original comment. You have not answered a single question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:36 AM
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Enjoyable sex with a man she's attracted to, if the dude knows what he's doing. She also simultaneously has the freedom to pursue other options, if she wants. Being a plate means she's sleeping with a guy who's good at attracting additional options, so it's easier to get extra women in bed, if she's into that. The guy has options, so he's less likely to become creepy/stalky/needy, if she wants to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:58 AM
4

TRP is intended to level men up, which benefits women. Sounds fair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:09 AM
1

It's not enough for me to be polite and courteous to you, a random stranger? I also have to commit to plans with you, otherwise you perceive me as lacking respect? It sounds like you are extremely entitled to other people's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:00 AM
1

I don't view women as ONLY potential sex partners. I PRIORITIZE women who are potential sex partners over platonic relationships with both men and women, because I have a high libido and sex is one of my favorite activities. If you had to choose between spending time with someone who values you for who you are and what you bring to their lives And Someone who values you for who you are and what you bring to their lives, turns you on and sexually satisfies, who would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:44 PM
1

I have to choose because I don't have an infinite amount of time. Yes, I prefer sex with women over the company of male friends too. What's your answer to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:28 PM
1

I appreciate your desire to have a respectful conversation, but you have ignored what I've said about allocation of time and the question I asked you in the previous post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:03 PM
1

This isn't about viewing people as "incomplete" people. I'm detecting some insecurity and projection here. This is about allocation of time. If I have to choose between spending time with an unattractive woman with a great personality and an attractive woman with a great personality, who can provide a great sexual experience, please tell me why I should choose the unattractive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:34 PM
1

There is no lack of respect in what I said; I am still courtesy, polite and jovial with women I'm not attracted to. I don't owe them more than that. As far as male friends go: A. I don't have to worry about them developing feelings for me. B. I prefer the company of attractive women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:09 PM
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No sex: women in their 50s or older. Women with poor hygiene and grooming. Women with too much body fat %. Women with below average faces with unremarkable ass and tits. Physically and mentally handicapped women. Women with poor mental health. Women covered in ugly tattoos. Women who build excess muscle with performance enhancing drugs. Only sex: attractive women in their 40s. Commit: women my age (34) or younger who are down with other women being involved. Marry: none
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:30 PM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:49 PM
5

OP is correct about men like me who only approach women for intimate activities, and never for friendship. OP is confused about why this is the case. My answer: There are only 24 hours in a day; obligations, hobbies, working out and dating are time consuming. I don't have time to regularly entertain women I'm not going to be sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:50 PM
-1

This is why as a man, you take the conversation in an extra provocative direction. When you have her talking about sucking your dick and swallowing, ambiguity and plausible deniability become much smaller issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:41 AM
0

Yes, it is true and reasonable. They don't have to sleep together on the 1st date, but it benefits both parties if the woman perceives the man as high libido and skilled in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:14 AM
1

Women treat men like they're gay, asexual or low libido if they don't try to sleep with them on the 1st date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:48 AM
9

Factual. I once ghosted a chick because she somehow made the BJ painful. Without using teeth. Don't even know how that's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:13 PM
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They possibly perceive this as matching feminine energy with feminine energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:58 PM
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Two theories: They see it as soft/effeminate if the guy matches their energy and behaves in an attached manner They see it as you trying to lock them down, which feels like a restriction of freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:56 PM
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Why decent looking female teachers cheat on their husbands with high school students.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:48 PM
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This is definitely a justified loss of attraction. A lot dudes don't realize how terrible their hygiene is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:39 PM
1

This doesn't reflect what I've seen online or experienced offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:33 PM
6

You can build a physique women go crazy for without steroids. Slower process and less potential than a steroid physique though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:23 PM
2

Guys who want to max out their sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:21 PM
2

How much can you squat, bench, deadlift, overhead press and weighted pull-up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:16 PM
22

Would you rather share a million dollars with 1-2 other people? Or have $100 all to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:00 AM
14

Men having higher sex drive doesn't mean that women's sex drive isn't excessively downplayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:33 AM
3

You might get exiled if you hit on someone poorly. But if you do it well? Different result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:34 PM
10

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:30 PM
30

Being hot, dominant and knowing how to fuck will stimulate a woman's brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:25 PM
39

The way to a woman's heart is through her vagina. Anyone who denies this is BSing or ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:51 PM
28

People extremely underrate/understate women's sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:44 PM
2

Any city with an Ikea. Then do the 1st date at Ikea
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:41 PM
3

You sound familiar with Mode One.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:19 AM
4

Men should be honest and direct. Women shouldn't find it disrespectful or sleezy if a man is honest about only wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:05 AM
6

Better to err on the side of boldness. Have lost girls by playing it too safe. Have also reattracted lost girls by showing more sexual intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:18 AM
5

By behaving more sexually and less like a gentleman. One of my female friends did recommend this, but other women suggested the gentleman route.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:22 PM
3

Plenty of men can tell you how they shot themselves in the foot by displaying emotional weakness to women IRL. Not recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:43 AM
2

Already been tried. Doesn't work and isn't needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:58 AM
3

You can be conditioned to not cry. Evidently it is nonessential.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:06 AM
4

It's completely useless for men. As someone who's been homeless, in prison and in near-death situations, crying would have helped nothing. Solutions were the answer, not tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:43 AM
3

Women are significantly less emotionally available than men. This subreddit is a good example of how women react to the things that actually bother men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:36 AM
6

Encouraging men to cry results in behavior that is: Useless and counterproductive Kills female attraction Women who encourage men to cry don't know what the fuck they're talking about and are helping push one of the most destructive components of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:31 AM
6

They encourage men to act like useless little bitches, then wonder where all the "high value men" have gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:20 AM
3

I typo'd in the above post. Should read: Most men don't have a problem with how feminism affected women. They have a problem with how it affected men. The Bruce Lee approach works for everything. "Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, add what is essentially your own." Embrace whichever aspects of feminism you find useful, reject the aspects that have made men more unattractive and beta. Don't concern yourself with endorsing feminism. Try to do better than feminism instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:00 PM
7

Most men don't have a problem with how feminism affected women. They have a problem with how it affected men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:37 PM
1

Gotcha. The increased risk taking boost helps me with approach anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:07 AM
2

Not sure how you say it's pure imagination, but also say it increased your risk taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:57 AM
5

NoFap feels great, highly recommended
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:18 AM
3

Men, if they avoid video games, porn and weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:10 AM
2

Question for women: what was non-creepy about the men who approached you and slept with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:38 AM
5

Your world view is fucked if you believe women have low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:40 PM
2

I said there were exceptions and we ended up agreeing on those exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:34 PM
1

Having access to efficient waste disposal is desirable. Having no access to waste disposal is undesirable. Criminals don't want aggression or subjugation directed at them, but it's necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:25 PM
0

I was talking about the examples you just gave, so I have no other examples to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:52 PM
0

All aggression and subjugation shouldn't be viewed negatively. It's necessary for society to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:42 PM
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I don't blame you for being done with this place, but FDS literally has a flair called 'Things Scrotes Say' - what do you mean you absolutely don't see the misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:07 PM
5

It's not men good women bad. Women are great. Look at the top 25 threads on FDS and TRP right now. Tell us which sub has a higher quantity of sexist threads or threads bitching about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:39 AM
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Damn. Shows that people really need to get off reddit. Self-improve, go outside, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:46 AM
2

I condemn that kind of extreme rhetoric. Looking for archives of those posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:54 AM
1

In your own words you just said that FDS is just as similar as TRP. Which means it should also be quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:33 AM
2

Female Dating Strategy (Pros) sub was created as a parody sub because ppl were so shocked at how toxically sexist FDS sub was that they wanted to talk about it in their own space.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:23 AM
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FDS parody sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStratPros/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:17 AM
1

That would make it less of a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:04 AM
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Go to FDS and TRP at any time, on any day, and FDS will have significantly more active disparaging threads about the opposite sex. Prove this wrong, if any of you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:54 PM
4

Earlier you asked why shouldn't you hate TRP. My answer is that it encourages men to have a backbone and become physically, mentally, fiscally and socially stronger. Get better at turning women on and having better sex. It also encourages men to leave when things aren't going well with a woman, instead of sticking around and harassing like a creep. Like anything else, best to utilize the good aspects and reject the bad aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:16 PM
1

There's no need to keep going. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:00 PM
2

Literally go to FDS and TRP right now. Tell me which one has more threads disparaging the opposite sex on the front page. On TRP right now, there are literally more active threads calling out/criticizing men, then there are criticizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:29 PM
1

I didn't say those things should be ignored. I said the sub is primarily about disparaging the opposite sex. It's significantly more sexist than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:16 PM
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I think you're conflating rhetoric from some of the dickheads on the sub with what TRP actually is. Addressing first paragraph: do women not prefer superior men? Taller, stronger, more muscular, richer? Do you want a physically inferior man that would cower in the bedroom, while you went to confront an intruder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:09 PM
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No, it seems as if you're not understanding. I'm talking specifically about the main FDS sub compared to the main TRP sub. Not secondary subs. The lack of self-improvement content on the primary FDS sub, indicates that FDS isn't primarily about women self-improving. It's primarily about women disparaging men. TRP is primarily about self-improvement. Not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:41 PM
6

The lack of level up content is why FDS isn't equivalent to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:00 PM
1

Finding someone less attractive doesn't mean you respect them less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:42 PM
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His verbal seduction game is Level 999. If you know, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:48 PM
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Reddit is more for entertainment than intellectually honest discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:54 PM
1

I can't believe people take that sub seriously. The men there behave extremely soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:31 PM
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Some times I want to level up or straighten out my personal situation before hitting a girl back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:54 PM
0

I don't blame all or most women for this because they get judged insanely harshly when they display their true sexual urges publicly. They're just trying to maintain a good reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:38 PM
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Part of my personal growth was realizing how restraining my sexuality was damaging my relationships with women. These women wanted the uninhibited version of me. Had to tone it up. I've noticed that the women who perpetuate the idea that male sexuality is destructive and shameful, often try to speak for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:34 AM
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The vilification of male sexuality leads to cognitive dissonance in men. It's heinous. Also a disservice to women, who want that full-blown, unfiltered, concentrated sexual energy from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:41 AM
3

Thought I did that a few posts ago haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:52 AM
3

Only enjoyable stuff plus extra. No traumatic stuff included.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:47 AM
3

Equality or better if it was enjoyable. Already said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:41 AM
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There's no real argument or disagreement here. I'm only interested in the type of sex that both parties extremely enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:31 AM
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We're not talking about sex that triggers horrible memories though. Just trying to maximize enjoyment of the activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:10 AM
5

It would be dope if she enjoyed that particular act way more with me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:05 AM
7

Sex in general could remind her of a previous lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:47 AM
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We don't want to be valued less than a woman's previous lovers. Equal treatment or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:55 PM
1

FDS talks more shit about the opposite sex than TRP. And focuses far less on self-improvement than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:01 PM
1

You're intentionally using hyperbolic language to frame TRP negatively. If men apply some "TRP" concepts and the women enjoy it, what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:50 PM
1

Kevin Samuels is redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:26 PM
3

Exactly. A personal trainer, barber and friends can only take you so far, if you don't have the right attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:24 PM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:04 PM
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Women care less about high political status because politics is Hollywood for ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:36 AM
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I haven't seen TRP state that the media is 100% blue pill. The TRP concept is even named after one of the biggest film franchises of all time. TRP's aims criticism at common tropes you'll find in shows like The Simpsons, Friends, Family Guy, Everybody Loves Raymond, The King of Queens, etc, where you have a fat/lazy/incompetent/idiot/weak husband and a strong, fit, intellectually superior wife who typically runs the show. This type of dynamic doesn't match the couples I personally know that have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:23 AM
1

Fury is cool. I would consider good shit talk part of a skill set though. Some people are terrible at it, some people are great at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:26 PM
2

I don't follow MMA but I completely agree with the gist of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:09 PM
1

I'll take that no as a concession. Thanks. Don't bother responding to the point that broke down why Aladdin isn't equivalent to a rapper who made it. Let's do something more productive than argue with people on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:02 PM
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I agree with you, but you left out the word set when you quoted me. A skill set is set of multiple skills. Marketability would be included in a skill set. Looks and charisma take years to develop and are necessary to improve marketability. You mentioned physique. Building an aesthetic physique requires grinding and multiple skills; actual lifting technique, training program design, kinesthetic awareness, understanding movement compensations and how to fix them, pain management, knowing when to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:54 PM
1

Kim Kardashian's next long-term relationship is not going to be with a charming, adventurous homeless guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:49 PM
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https://youtu.be/bJDk0sVCzhs You claim that his skill set is remarkable and helped him survive the cave. Which wasn't the case. It was his companions that saved his ass. Then you downplay the importance of the genie, by vaguely stating he's just a metaphor. Aladdin does have a skill set. Does it get him anywhere in life, prior to him meeting the magical companions that provided extreme assistance? No. Dr Dre or Sean Combs aren't obligated to help a struggling rapper succeed. The genie was comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:27 PM
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Higher testosterone. It makes men naturally more compelled to seek sex. Even if it involves chasing, settling or putting up with poor behavior from women. It's easier for women to receive "prize" status because they are offered sexual opportunities more often. A man has to go out and persuade and create sexual opportunities. A man has to be more active to be the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:25 PM
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Of course he wasn't a regular bum. He relied heavily on the literal magic of a genie to stand out, receive opportunities, and save his life, the girl and the kingdom. A real-life, successful rapper, boxer or actor is a man who spent years grinding, developing a skill set, leading to status and attention from high value women. Aladdin gets a princess overnight, without doing any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:45 PM
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Aladdin. Homeless, broke dude ends up with princess in the end. I haven't heard of too many royal women or extremely high status, filthy rich women selecting homeless men for marriage in real life. I watched the hell out of this movie when I was kid. Never wanted to see Cinderella, Snow White or Beauty and the Beast because they were girl movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:59 AM
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Video games, porn, weak physique, poor grooming, poor fashion, lack of ambition, lack of socializing and not knowing how to turn a woman on. Lack of grit and determination to overcome any of the above deficiencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:53 PM
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The latter. The former is more likely to manipulate, exert control over other people and shove their dogmatic beliefs down people's throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:33 AM
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It's a claim made from observing the culture and talking to people. I would argue that a lot of simps, incels, blah blah are men that were fed bad information. So, what sounds like common sense to you or me, sounds like non-sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:50 AM
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The vast, vast majority of people don't get up in the morning with the intention of making your life more fair, specifically. You have people actively competing against your best interests. It's not about fair, it's about competing and succeeding. You directed that comment at someone who has no expectation or need for fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:35 AM
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If it were really common sense, there wouldn't be so many simps, incels, divorce raped men, cheated on men, men left on seen and men getting little to no matches on dating apps. There are a shitload of men with the wrong mindset for attracting the kind women they actually want in their lives. There are a shitload of men that have a woman, but aren't that woman's first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:07 AM
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You say The Red Pill is bullshit, then immediately say it's mostly common sense. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:45 AM
2

Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:38 AM
33

Being selected by women is superior to paying for women's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:20 PM
2

The world would be very interesting if men only selected the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:21 PM
3

I'm gonna throw in that a woman can currently be involved with a less masculine man and still prefer more masculine men. The less masculine man might just be the best she can do at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:11 PM
2

I think women in general care much more about their online presence than men. I don't know how or why they always have multiple IG stories up every single day, zero downtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:05 AM
4

Probably true but majority of masculine men aren't gonna want to spend time optimizing an online dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:47 AM
1

What is the point in acknowledging any type of perceived privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:48 AM
1

Not alpha or beta. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:24 AM
26

Why would I bring food to the beach when I can rip fish out of the water with my bare hands and BBQ it on the fire I made with nothing but flint and steel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:24 AM
2

Men don't put Onlyfans in the same category as those other things? That's news to me, a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:03 PM
2

In this case, assuming that every man has it as good as the men on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:19 PM
1

Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:05 AM
1

I've seen how average men dress their character in Tekken 7. The average man doesn't know shit about attractive visual presentation. Women tend to know more about grooming, hygiene, clothing and color coordination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:20 PM
7

The hot dog buns on the ground think they're too good for the hot dogs on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:31 PM
7

Excellent way to handle someone passing a away.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:59 PM
2

I gained most of it back on purpose. Lost fat, gained muscle. I'm a male personal trainer. I enjoy the fat loss process because I hate cooking and washing dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:18 AM
2

Yes, if you know how to make it easy. My biggest weight loss was 47 lbs. It was a matter of reducing my daily caloric intake by 700. I was spending less time and money on food, which made life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:10 AM
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They lack knowledge and aren't uncomfortable or dissatisfied enough to make drastic body composition changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:42 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:29 AM
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Bizarre assertions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:33 PM
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More limited but more trustworthy. I trust the women I socialize with in real life more for three reasons. Because they're not desperate to push an agenda or influence people on a wide scale. Their actions are congruent with their words. I see them overwhelmingly select men who display masculine traits. I have seen plenty of women deny men or look down on men for being too effeminate. I have never seen a woman deny or look down on a man for being too masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:22 PM
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It's the bitter, neurotic woman's response to TRP. Not a legitimate sexual strategy, nor is it based on reality. Check their front page any time of day; it's majority man-bashing and very little self-improvement discussion.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:01 PM
1

You could tell from briefly reading her OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:51 PM
1

When I converse with women in real life (not the internet), the #1 thing they complain about is lack of manly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:47 PM
3

This person is literally arguing with you for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:05 PM
5

She could be a smartass and say that you do smell
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:43 PM
2

Another question for the men in this thread: Do you consider yourself better looking than the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:57 PM
3

Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:01 PM
3

TRP can and should be used for good. There are bitter men out there that don't, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:18 PM
1

What made you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:13 PM
1

Girls might be detecting desperation in you. Also you use the word doggo.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:22 AM
2

Excuse to talk to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:16 AM
4

It's a sexually repressed person thing. They think they speak for the majority of people for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:40 AM
2

It sounds like dating app culture was established to covertly screw over the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:28 AM
3

Widespread rhetoric of woke motherfuckers and sexually inhibited motherfuckers has fucked up the dynamics between men and women. They don't care if you succeed sexually and should not be listened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:37 AM
1

Yeah we have to spend more time and money on food to gain weight/ muscle. But we also have far higher muscle and strength building potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:31 PM
18

No. Men experience harassment and violence, usually if they end up in the wrong neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:18 AM
45

Men: We're bigger, stronger, taller, faster. Higher testosterone = more motivated. We can consume more calories without getting fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:41 AM
1

Girls move from guy to guy fast as fuck. Girl I know posts a new boyfriend on Instagram every 3-4 months. Add in the guys she's banging that don't get posted a and that's a lot of bodies. She probably has these guys thinking like you - wondering how she detaches and moves on so quickly. That's what abundance looks like.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:01 PM
1

Is the FDS woman exclusive to the man she's making wait three months or is she sleeping with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:18 AM
1

What water filter do you recommend?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:02 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 04:52 AM
1

Same for me.
/r/seduction12/03/21 01:11 PM
7

Sounds like funclubbing and a way into the friend zone: http://modeone.net/archives/FunClub_Test.html
/r/seduction12/03/21 06:57 AM
1

This is why it's recommended that men stay the fuck off social media
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:09 PM
1

She revealed her shitty personality.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:46 AM
3

Do what you want to do. You don't need the the subreddits permission.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:54 PM
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