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Bro this chick is frigid as all hell. Probably a feminist upset she can’t get a man so she has to do her best to try and attack their masculine nature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:20 AM
5

Why don’t you meet half way?
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:10 AM
2

Why doesn’t your comment read like it’s a thing of the past?
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:28 AM
4

I didn’t say there was beauty in all shapes and sizes wtf. Wearing certain clothes you don’t necessarily like just because other people wear them, is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/22 07:43 AM
4

You’re wrong about the clothes. You shouldn’t wear "clothes that people wear" that is sheepish, following, try-hard behaviour lol. You wear what suits you, and what’s appropriate for the setting that you like and find comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/22 02:38 AM
5

"she likes my instagram posts" Firstly that doesn’t mean shit. Secondly if you can go out with this girl, as in, you can physically ask her out, then do it. Fuck what your friend says. Just tell him she’s available which she is. Sounds like you and your friend are both insecure as fuck btw. That’s the only way I can see you being so perturbed by this kind of immaturity.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:40 PM
8

That’s what I meant, by actively seeking to meet people. You’re right that there is less naturally meeting people but i’d say it balances out, the people you naturally meet when younger are more likely to be one offs or people you don’t stay in contact with for long. People you seek to meet 30 plus, are more likely to stick around. And I wasn’t really thinking about going to a bar. There are meet up events for people to connect these days based on hobbies and in these cases, everyone is kind of …
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:40 AM
-4

I would say yes. As men age, the dating pool shifts along, but the number in that pool adjusts. Girls 2-5 years younger is generally going to be where you will find the most amount of women who will find you attractive. I think you arguably have the fewest number of women that find you attractive at 30. Women like guys a few years older, so over 30’s women aren’t interested in men at 30, early 20’s girls prefer mid-late 20’s guys, and then mid-late 20’s-30 year old women prefer men over 30. So y…
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:52 AM
28

Unless you actively seek to continue meeting people
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:14 AM
1

All two genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:34 AM
21

Are any of the women attractive and/or below 30 years old?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 07:32 PM
2

I think social media like instagram has some merit but it won’t work the way you think it would for most guys. Fact is most of them are average, don’t work out, don’t watch their diets, and genuinely don’t actually do anything worth posting about etc. I imagine for verified users like models or the more popular Love Island contestants, Instagram is a gold mine. It automatically gives those people status. Also, phone numbers are not outdated lol. That is crazy talk. Get a number off a girl, that’…
/r/seduction17/12/21 01:00 AM
2

No wonder you’re getting rejected with that kind of opener.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:39 PM
2

No, I said you don’t do that to make the point that attractiveness is what it comes down to, hence you wouldn’t go after girls you don’t find attractive. Brush up on your reading comprehension dipshit (that’s if you’re not trolling, and i’m starting to think you are now, nobody can be this unaware…)
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:23 PM
1

Are you even reading? I didn’t say to go after “ugly chicks” dumbass. Your problem is you are an entitled man baby, I can tell from your answers here. And no girl wants a whiny ass man baby like yourself.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:51 PM
0

Of course being attractive is all it comes down to. Don’t act uppity, you don’t try to hook up with girls you don’t find attractive do you? You are entitled.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:40 PM
0

You’re too entitled by the sounds of it. Like you expect results just because you “put the work in”. You need to be attractive, so either you are not attractive looks wise, or you are genuinely coming off as a weirdo even if you don’t realise it.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:41 PM
1

If she wants to meet you then you will stay relevant. Good luck on your date
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:18 PM
22

Small talk and “checking in” will do one of two things: 1: nothing 2: lower her interest It will not make her more interested. Her decision to see you is based on your looks and communication up the point that she agreed to meet.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:04 PM
0

You haven’t even got a clue what im saying have you
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:08 PM
0

Yeah but that’s not because they suddenly see the guy as confident for having them which is my point
/r/seduction31/10/21 05:48 PM
1

I don’t see how they in any way make someone think another person is confident for having them. I certainly don’t think that, when I see good ones I think they look cool, it can affect how attractive I think they are, but it has zero effect on how confident I think they are.
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:09 AM
1

It doesn’t take balls. I know people with tattoos who got them because they were just following the trend that "tattoos are cool", it had nothing to do with how confident they were.
/r/seduction30/10/21 11:41 PM
1

An unattractive person getting tattoos doesn’t make them attractive. A good personality is only gonna become a source of attraction after someone decides they like the look of you
/r/seduction30/10/21 11:32 PM
2

Stranger danger Were never really attracted to you Testing to see if you flip out One of those.
/r/seduction30/10/21 09:06 PM
2

My opinion on tattoos is this: If you’re not attractive without them, having them won’t do much to make you attractive. They won’t automatically make your social proof skyrocket. You have to be attractive to begin with in order for them to be a source of attraction themselves.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:58 PM
210

This is one of those things that can sometimes mean she will never text you, but it can absolutely mean she will text you. 50/50. You have to wait. Do not text her.
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:12 AM
1

To be honest if the first girl wasn’t sexually attracted to you, her friends probably won’t be either. But if you want to try all you can do is offer to remain friends with her and try to organize an activity where it will be you, your friends, and her friends.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:27 AM
2

You really don’t need much conversation tbh if they like you enough based on looks/presentation/general vibe
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:07 AM
1

Should I reach out to try to schedule a date? Hell no. I already said you shouldn’t do that. She left you hanging because she was meant to let you know and she didn’t bother. So the ball was in her court and she hasn’t thrown it back. If you text her again you just tell her she can ignore you and you will continue to pursue her. Then her interest (if it is there) will go down. How long would it take for her to realize I'm not falling for her shit test if that seems to be the case? Varies, depend…
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:11 AM
3

Possibly you didn’t make a move and she is now being distant either because she thinks you’re not confident enough or to prompt you into making a move. Only one way to find out.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:26 AM
11

You should not have said that about coming off as pushy, because you were not being pushy by just asking her when you can meet again. It’s almost too accommodating, and sends the message that you value her too much, which will push her away. My advice to you is to not say another word to her, just let her initiate and if she does then just arrange a meet. And less of the exclamation and emojis in your texts, it conveys a way too excited tone. Chill out
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:20 AM
8

I’m gonna offer a slightly different strategy: keep messaging her. Maybe she will finally reply to tell you how much she is not interested in you, and it will make you stop.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:25 AM
4

Well, she knows you like her and are trying to figure out how to ask her out. If she’s loitering near you she’s either wanting you to ask her out or she’s enjoying making you sweat. Your next interaction should be one that pushes towards meeting outside of the gym. You are greeting each other so you can easily just get her name now and give yours, then follow that with a suggestion to meet outside of the gym. There’s no right words or anything, try to act like this is easy for you and try not to…
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:55 AM
1

Do not send another message. One of two things have happened here: 1: she lost interest in you after you hooked up and was just being polite saying she had a good time 2: she is testing you to see if you start chasing her and acting needy Either way, do not say anything else under any circumstances. It is possible she is being wishy washy specifically to see if you get upset and bothered by it. Ignoring at this point will, if she hasn’t already ruled you out, bring her back.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:20 AM
1

It’s crucial because those bitches could stray very easily when they encounter a man with those qualities plus he lifts
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 05:45 PM
3

If you are getting that kind of resistance, the girl doesn’t like you enough. It’s that simple. She might ‘like’ you as a friend on the night, but she isn’t looking at you sexually. Your “vibe” could be the problem, maybe you give off a desperate vibe and not notice. All the other stuff you said: making connections, being told you are attractive, fun on dates etc all means jack shit. Truth or not, girls will often flatter guys if they are nice. And you sound nice, maybe too nice…the “meaningful …
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:54 AM
5

Well, she did react, so she has acknowledged you positively. So, a double text is fine in this situation to set up time/place etc (though that should really be decided beforehand). Are you still chatting in the app? If so get her number and ditch the app. Then there’s none of that liking messages crap. If you are in the app, that should be your next message: “give me your number”, or send her yours and tell her to text you back, that always worked for me. Then when she does, set up the date prop…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:28 PM
1

Then, there is no good answer for you, unfortunately. Move out. That’s all there is. Been there man, being under someone else’s roof just comes with that problem, it is beyond your control.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:53 AM
0

Bring her over at night when your mother is in bed. Don’t bring her home in the daytime? What are you gonna do in the day at your home when your mother is wide awake downstairs? It will be awkward for both you and the girl you are seeing. Cut all that crap out by seeing her at night. Plus the vibe is just better at night.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:29 AM
1

The fact that you’re asking this means that if you swore it would probably sound forced.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:03 AM
9

Girls are passive. As the man you have to get the ball rolling 9/10 times. If the attraction is there on her part she will be receptive to it, it’s not “created” by you it’s either there or it isn’t.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:32 PM
1

I just hand them my phone and say put your number in
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:01 PM
13

Probably girls that know they need to lock someone down before it’s too late so they can have a kid (basically all women want to have a child ultimately). Chances are they’re insecure and/or not very attractive.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:00 PM
2

There are different levels of course, but I think it helps mood to “look good” even if you are just sat at home chilling. If someone knocked on the door I could answer it without looking like a tramp. In the gym I wear clothes that I look good in and suit my style, these happen to be old t-shirts with holes in but it works for me and in that environment it’s all good.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:17 AM
3

No I would just block if it annoyed me that much
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:50 AM
2

Yeah it could be a cause and effect scenario at work in some instances
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:06 AM
34

General opinion is that tattoos and piercings are signs of promiscuity or at least the potential for it, and has been 100% bang on the money in my experience, but I still think it might be an over generalization. It could also be just plain insecurity, some people get tattoos to fit in or to follow trends, a lot of guys do this.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:04 AM
3

You’re right, but it’s the status part that is the real important factor, so just the money and power to do what you want when you want. The social side of it then becomes your choice. Obviously, high school is a different setting so what you said would absolutely apply there in force, but after that.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:20 AM
3

If it is 2, then it’s 50/50 depending how bad what you said was. But if she responded it’s leaning in your favour, she’s accepting the phone call to feel you out a bit more, to make you that much less of a stranger. As for not knowing and not having closure, I just don’t really give a shit to be honest. Closure is a load of crap imo, especially with dating apps
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:46 PM
12

Either 1. She was never interested in the first place and was just bored, 2. She was interested but you said something that turned her off, 3. She may have liked you but not enough to meet you as a stranger, 4. She is texting someone else she prefers It’s one of them. You can never know which. If she was interested she’d have responded
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:20 AM
15

Say "you"
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:21 AM
4

First I just gotta ask...why the letter O instead of a 0?? Anyway, you sounds a bit entitled to me. Like you are expecting things to just work for you because you have the car, the place and the business etc. So you might be giving off an entitled vibe without realizing it on your dates...
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:01 AM
2

Why would it ever be "you’re not hers...", when that’s never even in doubt? You can say it’s her turn if it makes you feel better but I think you’re missing the point. The saying relates to how men naturally want to own things, conquer and rule etc, and it’s basically a way of saying to yourself that you never really own a woman.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:27 PM
4

Well I made sure to say “woman” on purpose instead of “teenage girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:11 AM
0

No woman in her right mind would find the this guy attractive, as in sexually. If you mean "attractive" as in he went from looking like a dork to looking attractive as in socially, like you’d enjoy his company, then perhaps. But again, no woman in her right mind would want to fuck this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:09 PM
1

Imo you seem like you have got the body, got the car and got nice place etc and your vibe probably gives off entitlement, and i’m gonna say this because it’s what I got from your post: ....you sound insecure. You sound like you’re expecting your natural insecurities to vanish just because you have the alpha lifestyle and possessions. Your insecurities probably showed to this girl.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:29 AM
3

When you’re on top form like that you get more leeway for fuck ups I can tell you that.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:48 PM
3

She ended it with you, so just invite her over and drop it. No questions or dates outside and no “you’re gonna have to do this or that”. That’s all crap because she called it off with you. The the only effort you should expend is opening the door into your home to let her in.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:30 PM
1

I didn’t say that it is a sign of submission (that’s a whole other topic entirely) just that that line reads submissively regardless of the sexual meaning.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:26 PM
4

You really have your “face makes a good seat” in your bio? Jesus get rid of that. Whether you realise it or not that sounds really submissive and girls will pick up on that subconsciously. As for getting ghosted, if things were going well on text then two things happened: one you said something wrong and messed it up, or two, she’s too scared to actually meet a stranger online so she ghosted. I run into this because I don’t have instagram or Facebook, so the stranger danger kicks in and they’re …
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:12 PM
1

Let her text you first, then set it up and get off the phone.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:02 PM
1

Well, I'm just wondering what I should do if she mentions one day that she recently went to the club without me. That would be a major red flag. She would tell you beforehand of her plan if she respected you, seeing as you have been dating for a while now.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:02 PM
0

Seems like literally every girl online then...
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:56 AM
0

Out of those three options, definitely not the first or third. Advising on dating apps responses is difficult because there’s any number of things that will work depending on what she has on her profile you can play with. Playful innuendo wherever you can always works if she likes what she sees.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:42 AM
2

It’s like one of those before and after posts fat to shredded but in text form
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:20 AM
3

The guy she is seeing now is the one I feel sorry for
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:16 AM
7

I am always reminded of the tv version: I’ve had it with these monkey fighting snakes on this Monday to Friday plane!
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:43 AM
0

Literally conceded that what I originally said was not what OP needed. I have agreed with you on that. I was thinking too far ahead when I said it. Ok? How the fuck am I doubling down when I have already taken your point? Improvement takes effort, yes, I agree, on yourself. But you’re totally missing the point of what I meant by it being effortless. It’s not black pill do nothing everything is pointless type shit, it’s relax and let her come to you effortlessly because you’re such a catch type s…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:10 AM
0

I didn’t say you should “passively wait” though, that wasn’t the point of what I said. It was about getting to a position where the girl wants you so much that she basically beats you to it because it’s just a good feeling when that happens. You seem to want to be billy big bollocks though. You’ve interpreted this as “passively waiting” and “not putting in effort” ...wtf, go make a post about putting in effort when it comes to girls and see how well that goes down. It should be effortless! And t…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:55 AM
0

I take your point about what I said being bad advice for not helping OP overcome the approach anxiety, but not initiating is not the same as not having the balls to initiate, and letting girls go for the kiss first is not beta or submissive or lazy
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:35 AM
0

What part of me saying I let her go for it meant I don’t have the balls to go for it? It’s beta that you jumped on the chance to call another guy beta and cowardly for no reason
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:01 AM
1

In my experience, thinking back to the girls I clicked with the most, they always went for the kiss first and it was just out of nowhere. I think if you are confident that she wants you bad, you can practically expect her to kiss you first. This has made me expect it from her now and if she isn’t going for it, it’s probably because she doesn’t want it. It’s no coincidence either that those times I was at my peak (i’ve slipped since for other reasons)
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:08 PM
-1

Let her go for it, seriously the girls who really want you will jump you unexpectedly. One second you’re mid sentence and the next she’s kissing you. Aim for that
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:01 PM
3

You shouldn’t have texted first after, let her chase you Doesn’t matter how good you fucked her, texting her first will make her feel more powerful (just like guys do when the girl texts first) and start playing hard to get. She likely blocked you knowing you’d notice, you can’t let her see you noticed
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:54 PM
1

A week or two?? I expect a text the day after lol
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:51 PM
4

It’s not always the guys job, it’s always a good feeling when a girl beats you to it
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:47 PM
29

Put something in her mouth I dunno
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:20 PM
1

Lesbianism doesn’t exist naturally that’s why, it’s a mix of cultural, social and environmental factors throughout history. Every “lesbian” on Earth would fuck the right man if he came along. But male homosexuality does occur naturally, so they’re bound to be genuinely happier no pun intended.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:59 AM
1

I wouldn’t try to change, it would be going against your personality and you would probably just seem fake. From reading that post I think you’re confusing extroversion with confidence and introversion with a lack of confidence. Even though introversion is born from shyness and lack of confidence, it’s not defined by them.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:04 PM
2

You need to work on yourself. It’s easy to just say “move on” “forget about her” etc but if only it were that simple. But what you can do is accept that you cannot have RIGHT NOW (and maybe never will), but if you improve yourself then maybe down the road you can, and you’ll be a better version of you in every way. And by that time you really will have moved on.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:31 PM
2

The spiritual girls don’t seem to have standards either. Usually the hippie types working in vintage clothes stores or niche bars, because they date those scrawny hipster guys with that horrible bushy beard and glasses combo.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 07:52 AM
2

I imagine banging my oneitis against a dumpster with a Chad in it
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:07 PM
4

Small talk with randoms, cashiers, store assistants, etc, more recently guys in the gym who I see regularly. I don’t want to become a permanent chatterbox, just develop my talking skills for those times that I decide I want to talk more than usual. Depends what you want from it, what benefits do you think you’ll see etc
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:36 AM
8

I’m similarly introverted. I have been called reserved and i’m fine with that. But I asked myself these questions: Do I want to be more talkative? Will being more talkative benefit me? Both answers in my case were an astounding yes. So, I have since become a bit more talkative.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:17 AM
2

I’m imagining myself banging my oneitis behind a dumpster.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:41 AM
1

They were fwb so it wouldn’t matter to me if they were, but I think the simple answer is that they were just playing text games like all girls do
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:42 PM
1

She either lost interest or left you on read to see if you chase her. That’s literally it.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:32 PM
1

I would agree, except i’ve had girls take a day or two to text back and I was smashing them the next night.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:27 PM
6

Yeah, mentally she may have already checked out
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:13 PM
-1

“My first and second options are both ill/out of town”
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:41 AM
1

Weird. That guy you replied to says he has 8k followers and following 2.8k on a previous post. Way more than he is saying now
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:07 AM
0

Who are the people that tell you they get laid a lot online? Because I bet they are not that attractive, and they’re probably fucking other unattractive people. Being attractive on dating sites is a double edged sword for guys. You’re naturally gonna be swiping on girls who are objectively attractive and those girls already have legions of likes. And you can be intimidating even on a dating site, a lot of girls will left swipe you if you are way hotter than them. On the other hand, you get slowe…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:13 PM
2

Experience. You will probably be more solid in future, so that instead of pretending you’re not bothered, you really won’t be. And the girl will know that, probably because you won’t care if she left
/r/askTRP26/12/20 05:16 PM
13

Girls are intuitive as fuck. She senses it pisses you off, even though you laugh it off and she is pressing it because she has found your button and she is gonna keep fucking pushing it until you can no longer just laugh it off. The car ride convo confirms it, she knows she rattled you. To me, it sounds like you need to weigh up what you value more, either A) the awesome sex and “connection/maybe oneitis” you have with her, or B) your own feelings. A or B. You are sacrificing one of them no matt…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:44 PM
1

Not unless they have some sort of fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:50 AM
1

They can be, but not inherently.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:33 AM
6

She won’t give head to you. There’s a slim chance it’s a test though, but I only say that because you asked her for it.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:50 PM
7

You see girls dumping guys who fucked up in some way. Improving yourself doesn’t mean you can’t fuck up. Btw, that text your ex sent you... that means you’re doing something right.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:53 AM
55

Remember to say the emoji
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:58 AM
1

This is a test in disguise. She’s really stroking your ego. How did you respond?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 10:20 AM
1

200 reps is 20 sets of 10. If you’re lifting that kind of volume in a single workout, you could be lifting heavier.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 10:17 AM
2

There is never a perfect opening line, just something witty/teasing/sarcastic etc about her profile does the trick. Just saying “hey” is not good and especially with the kisses, you don’t want to do that. If she’s hot she’s got that a hundred times already.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:17 PM
2

Reading red pill can make you more aware, leading to better decisions, it alone can’t really fix your anger issues. You said you still have anger issues despite being rp for three years, therefore implying that you thought reading this sub is some magic pill for getting rid of your emotions. It isn’t.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:40 PM
3

You need more life experience. Just finding a subreddit and reading text isn’t gonna help you with your emotional issues
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:33 PM
1

You count protein and good fats first, they are what you need, get enough of those first and whatever is left is for carbs.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:31 PM
14

I think he’s talking bs tbh. Women do what men let them
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:34 PM
4

It’s not your mother’s fault
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:26 AM
6

If you can then both, but prioritise your independence above all, without that you are speaking to no girls.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 11:01 AM
9

Probably your pictures are not great if you have good looks but no luck. My pictures are crap, so my success is very limited but I have zero issues irl and get compliments on my looks often. I’m not photogenic at all and look like a mental patient when I smile.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:20 AM
3

Yeah I wasn’t implying these relationships were not without power imbalance. I’ve seen some where the woman (hot as fuck too) has been with the guy for over a decade, and has a kid with him...who knows if over that decade she fucked other guys? Red pill would say yes but it also says they don’t want kids with beta guys either, or guys that are maybe not beta in their actions but they’re not very masculine either.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:13 AM
3

Because these girls genuinely like these guys, which is something that gets overlooked on here. Seen it plenty of times, guy looks average, acts pretty beta, they’re completely harmless who probably couldn’t stand up for themselves, but they can talk, laugh, they have social skills and are genuinely nice people, not a crazy “nice guy”.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:11 AM
4

But after the first date/fuck and they become a plate you don’t still keep texting and snapping them daily?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:10 AM
1

Texting for logistics still applies for real life though. Like, after the date you and they like you the last thing you wanna do is become a text buddy
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:08 AM
3

Yes! You haven’t lived until you’ve had a girl practically begging to suck your dick on the spot. Trust me if you get her turned on enough (simply by being a guy they really wanna fuck) she will be all over you.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:41 PM
1

Did you respond yet lol?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:36 PM
1

Shit tests. They came to your place, 2 of them went down on you, so they obviously were well into you, but they were getting a sense off you that maaaaybe you were not as solid as they thought...so they tested you.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:39 PM
1

No I don’t know any books. Sorry man
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:59 PM
1

Hard to help it when they dive on you lol. Nothing wrong with a kissing without fucking imo, plus more likely to fuck on the second date if you kiss on the first
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:36 PM
1

My thoughts are that if you wait long enough they will reach out if they are interested in you. The only way they won’t reach out, is if you gave them a reason to think you won’t be glad to hear from her i.e being too cold or aloof in person.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:33 PM
1

How so? You said you don’t make her wet anymore. Unless she’s got a problem, that usually means you are failing to to turn her on = interest level down The fact that she asked you to look it up means she is trying to save you before you drop too far and she really has no interest left in you at all
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:27 PM
1

20.5 yo Just say 20. Wtf? Anyway, you have self esteem issues and you didn’t used to have social anxiety, you currently have it. Blame yourself for being the kind of person they can or could manipulate, because you invite the way people treat you. Of course there will always be idiots who act in ways that are uncalled for, (and they have their own problems) but for the most part that rule holds true.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:44 PM
0

Good, your ex probably loves you for it
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:34 PM
0

A Trump supporter is good
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:34 PM
1

She is losing interest in you
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:30 PM
8

Kissing is good on a first date, especially when she goes for it. Wtf of course they know you are “interested”, you are on a fucking date lol Possibilities: - Your reply was gay and turned her off - she is leaving you on read to test if you double text and once she is satisfied you passed she will text you You can’t always know if you fucked up. I don’t think you did, because her interest from before is unlikely to go based on a text (unless it was seriously bad). Just wait, 5 days is fuck all. …
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:19 PM
3

You say and do nothing else.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:13 AM
1

I think the decision to have ex sex or not depends heavily on the reason for the break up. Eg; some people only break up because both party’s lives go in different directions. But if it was something like cheating, that would be a massive fuck no.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:26 PM
2

Depends if you wanna bang again. If so, some kind of response is probably necessary, literally a single line at most that ignores all the bs like “yes i’m well thanks” If you have no interest in her at all, no point saying anything really.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:15 PM
2

I wouldn’t be surprised if she texts you again tbh. You didn’t cave to her whims and didn’t chase her for not complying. However, if she does reach out again, literally only agree to see her if she comes straight to your doorstep
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:05 PM
18

Girls asses and mouths are for dudes that make them horny just from looking at them. They don’t value their pussies much and they may fuck beta orbiters out of pity/boredom/for the lulz.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:40 PM
2

She probably sensed that maybe you were not as confident/dominant in real life as you were acting over text, so she threw that at you to rattle your frame. “I’ll take that compliment. Number?” may have been a good way to respond, but since you said you have no idea why she thought that, it told her that you were not self aware enough of your own words, so your confidence so far was a fake or a fluke.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:21 PM
3

Not being picky gets you those numbers
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:20 AM
5

Your response idea is awful. Don’t say it. If you’re sure she has the high interest then you just back off. She will in time make an effort to move things forward once she noticed that she pushed you away. If the interest is really there. Happened to me, patience is the only way forward with these games, but really games are immature as fuck, don’t even bother is my advice. If she comes crawling back gagging for it maybe but other than that, you should put in zero effort with this girl.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:47 AM
2

Lol. But my dick works just as well this year as last. You’re in for a tough next year if that’s what did you in because things are getting worse
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:05 PM
10

Possibly underlying anxiety or stress over your current situation, an event that happened or you know is coming up and you’re not prepared for.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:03 PM
11

“My wallet wbu?”
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:58 AM
2

Oh does it? Not used it in a while. I didn’t know you could stop them too. In that case she’s checking to see if you are enjoying your life without her in it
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:42 AM
1

She may just be aimlessly scrolling through IG and watching stories of people she follows, you don’t stop her following you by unfollowing her
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:35 AM
14

“If I stick my dick in this blender is there any chance it will come out alright?”
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:17 PM
1

What if you don’t go bald and don’t get fat?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 06:02 PM
1

If you have “cool stuff” to post and you know it will be received well, then yeah go ahead. That is basically the ticket to leveraging social media. Just gotta know for sure that what you post will get likes and comments, shallow as it is.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:25 PM
1

There’s a fine line on social media between being seen as mysterious or just a weirdo who doesn’t have enough of a life to post on there. Seeing as you’re not a verified insta male model with social proof doing its thing in your sleep, your posts need to consistently gain attention. You got two girls commenting because you have been quiet for a while, start posting more often and you’re not that mysterious guy anymore.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:59 PM
2

Sounds like some context is missing, but ultimately I think you probably came off as too eager or desperate
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:11 PM
9

Train them really hard. Harder than other muscles, the abs are almost always working, so they need pushing to gain size. Mine did anyway. Weighted decline crunches made mine pop even at around 14-15% fat. Hold the weight behind your head not on your chest.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:34 PM
7

I always let them send the first text. If they never do, then they were not interested enough, basic logic. Not to say that you shouldn’t though, it might be better in some situations to take initiative in that way.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:25 PM
2

Guess what? You’re not as cold and psychotic as you pretend to be.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:43 PM
2

Would these female friends (acquaintances) fuck you if they had a shot? That’s the position you wanna be in with “female friends”.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:45 PM
1

She could be flaking to shit test you, to see if you act needy and chase her etc. Or she is simply not as interested anymore for some reason. From your post, both a plausible.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:34 PM
2

Not the answer you want, cause i’m still searching myself. I have no “passions” either tbh, so I wracked my head for anything that I might like, then enrolled on a related course. Time will tell if it pays off, but I guess when you’re one of the lost ones, you have to take some plunges, to see if one works out.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:20 AM
4

Do you always go in thinking “this will end sooner or later”? Isn’t that in and of itself a pre-emptive barrier for the feels, and a bit of an insecure mindset? Like you said don’t end a relationship early because of fear of the feels, but to me it seems that going in with the mindset that it will end and another one awaits, is kind of a defeatist attitude, and you are preemptively preparing yourself for the inevitable, so that when it happens you can just tell yourself “oh well it was fun onto …
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:04 AM
2

Every time I see guys trying to chat up girls in the gym I cringe. These guys are usually the ones who shadow box in the mirrors and shit, and punch the cable back rests like a bag
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:06 AM
25

Doesn’t pretty much anyone who deals in logic and reason get called a misogynist/bigot/phobe/ist these days?
/r/askTRP11/09/20 06:15 PM
27

Most people are stupid and naive. That’s why the divorce rate is so high. There is no “rush”, most just follow the typical lifestyle, leave school/college, party for a bit, get a nine to five, get married, have a kid, get divorced later.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:16 AM
0

Don’t text after you bang for the first time. Make it a rule. If her interest is high enough in you, she will text you first, usually the following day.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:28 PM
2

Girls do this to big themselves up to their peers or whoever happens to be in earshot. It makes them seem like they have value. They’re emotionally immature, insecure wrecks.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:28 AM
1

Except...there were rules. If a good grappler gets ahold of a guy stronger than him, he could break the grapple. Key word: Could. You couldn’t clearly, you obviously were not strong enough. I didn’t say skill didn’t matter, I said that muscle and strength matters more than what OP implied when he said the gym was overrated. People who haven’t been in fights always say to others “you haven’t been in a fight” because their view on the subject is challenged. Go and watch your sports.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 06:55 AM
1

Are you calling me here or the OP?
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:43 PM
2

If the weight is the same, it’s different. In that case, of course the MMA guy will have the edge. Your dad’s courage is probably what won him that fight. Also, I didn’t take any offense to your comment about gym goers bash them all you want. I’ve done MMA and boxing too and a lot of guys get cocky because they’ve done that and think they can take anyone.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:37 PM
3

A good punch can take anyone down if it connects right but in a streetfight proper technique is much less of an option if your opponent is bigger, stronger, knows how to defend himself enough and is not bound to the rules in boxing
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:36 PM
-2

It’s true that the gym is not the best place to make connections, but it is not overrated. Pure muscle and strength increases power, and that beats MMA or Boxing or any other martial art every day and twice on Sunday. Those skills on their own only matter in a controlled fight, in the ring or cage. In a real fight a bigger and stronger guy will win just with basic unskilled street fighting. Lol a guy who boxes would be able to beat the meanest guy even if he was 50lbs heavier? Just because he ca…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 12:39 PM
5

It was a shit test. If you didn’t reach out, she would’ve contacted you sooner or later at which point you could’ve just set up another date and picked up where you left off. Because you reached out, she knows she’s in your head, she removed you on social media to see if you notice and say anything about it.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 10:54 AM
3

If you were considering her as an LTR (or even just as a long term fuck buddy) then you don’t wanna be predictable, so she expects you to reach out every 10 days or so. You want her to start chasing you, get her investing in you. Texting her is investment on your part, and investment is fine if it is from both sides, but right now it’s just from you. But if you don’t give a fuck about her long term, then I would say it doesn’t matter if you keep reaching out first. Just know that she will call i…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:28 PM
2

To answer this properly we need to know how you view this girl. Is she just a fuck buddy or are you considering her for an LTR?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:48 AM
3

There’s a bad boy appeal with dealers. More muscle/strength still wins though, a skinny dealer isn’t gonna look good against a stronger and more muscular guy (who is also good looking and confident obv) I’ve also never been that lean, but have been big, and always had girls compliment my body.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:59 AM
2

It’s only disrespectful if they’re anything more than plain old fuck buddies, which by the sounds of it they’re not. What she did should of course cement her as never being anything more though.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:26 AM
12

Once, when I was 20, and had been drinking. I remember she was extremely good looking. It was fine but it didn’t do anything for me. Sex is a million times better with girls you put at least a bit of time into (and they into you), and the mutual attraction is its most intense. I’d take one round of that with a 6 or 7 over ten rounds with a 10/10 hooker tbh
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:52 AM
18

Had a cheeky peek at your history to find out its car sales...well holy shit you are making more money than most top level salesmen who are the height of their careers. At 22 no less! Congrats!
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:32 AM
6

20k a month!? So you make 240k a year?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:16 AM
3

Could do, but that wouldn’t be of any benefit at all to what the OP was trying to do.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:44 PM
9

Necessary? No. But it’s one tool that can be leveraged if you have a decent enough profile. I don’t currently have it, because I don’t have the necessary social requirements in place to leverage it. If you do, then I would say take advantage. You will need to make sure your photos get a decent amount of likes or comments from hot girls for it to be any use as a tool. That’s really what girls are looking for if they stalk your socials. If they don’t, it will backfire and you’re better off without…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:41 AM
9

If it isn’t total bs he probably didn’t say it as matter of factly as that and she probably put up some kind of LMR to prompt him to say anything in the first place.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:20 AM
0

I have had some weird philosophical conversations with girls. They actually are curious as fuck ime. Maybe you’re just meeting airheads.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:48 AM
2

Been there. Identify exactly the reason(s) you’re in the situation you’re in, that’s the first step. Instead of asking “how do I get out of this?” ask “why am I in this?”. Then once you know, you might find, like me, that you still can’t see a clear way out. So, then, start thinking of things that might get you out. Even if it is only a remote possibility, it’s still some kind of answer, and that is still better than no answer at all. Ps: tinder won’t help you. It will just keep you chasing sex …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:40 AM
3

3rd date and all you have done is made out? I don’t think you should text her at all.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:10 AM
5

If you’re applying for the army, I would cut. Lose some fat to make the running easier and just maintain current muscle mass.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:07 AM
3

Thought it sounded familiar
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 04:48 PM
2

Go ask the Lion king
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:25 PM
2

They don’t want to be controlled they just go blind to reality because they scored and make silly mistakes because they’re so scared of losing the girl.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:04 AM
16

You invest as much as she does. LTR won’t go stale if the relationship is actually strong, and you only get strong ones with girls that are not idiots. AWALT is said by guys on here usually about a girl cheating story, but she does that because SHE was like that, and/or the guy screwed up somewhere.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:57 AM
3

So you double texted her after she said she’d let you know? It was only a week, you didn’t wait long enough. Also, never do the “texting back and forth” shit. Text to set up dates that’s it.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:02 PM
2

Yeah, how would I know...better question; do you find it pretty fun pretending you have unfulfilling sex on the regular?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:37 PM
5

I know what you mean. But hobbies are actually fulfilling, at least mine are. I don’t consider them a way to pass time, but more a way to invest my time. Like working out, I do it as a hobby, but it’s a fulfilling one. I am enjoying it or the benefits of it. But yeah, not everyone has to get something out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:37 PM
2

I guess so. I have a friend who is “broke and lame”, to quote the above, and he seems too focused on getting his notch count up, than getting with girls he actually likes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:17 PM
6

But it’s extremely unfulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:12 PM
6

Laugh at them
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:41 PM
4

If you block her you’ll be tormenting yourself over whether she decided to reach out only to see that you blocked her
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:20 PM
3

Yeah the ego has a way of growing alongside your muscles. Just gotta acknowledge that’s what it is and control it.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:11 PM
1

Don’t eat 2-3 hours before sleep. Is what Elon Musk recommended on the Joe Rogan podcast, something to do with digestion and lying horizontally.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 07:54 PM
1

As reflected by the other wannabe alphas like you
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:31 PM
1

You definitely cucky
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:24 PM
1

Then you’re butthurt and probably cucky
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:25 PM
-10

You are like the guys I was referring to before. You care the most
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:10 PM
-8

Lol what are you trying to say?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:42 PM
10

I would advise against trying again in a week or two. Especially if she approached you for your number, because that is a precursor to shit tests. Girls who show their interest initially, are much more inclined to show disinterest later on to level the playing field a bit. Most guys will get confused and be like “but she asked me for my number!” and start chasing.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:45 AM
9

That’s a paradoxical thought to me. The world needs blue pill in order for there to even be a red pill, so if everyone was red pill, there could be no blue pill...and without blue pill
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:18 PM
2

I’m kinda in the same boat. Similar age, same just one good mate from school days, with others i’d call acquaintances. But, I am an introvert. I would be interested to see you report back after doing what others are suggesting.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:14 PM
2

Even if she’s legit busy, you should not be agreeing to her rescheduling over and over. Once or twice is enough, after that, you just communicate that you are available at her beck and call and have no other plans each time you agree
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:07 PM
0

That millionaire would also date the cashier girl if she was physically attractive enough and wasn’t stupid. Those other jobs you said are not average level jobs at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:10 PM
13

Only if you’re prepared to fight off the white knights that come to save her
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:41 PM
12

No I never did, but that was by my choice. We stayed on good terms and I enjoyed teasing her that she missed her chance with me by playing games. I probably helped out the next guy who asked her out lol
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:08 PM
4

The answer to that might vary from person to person, and their experiences and beliefs etc. For me it was maximum mutual attraction mixed with my circumstances, I was least stressed and most carefree at the time
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:58 PM
23

I had the same “lets slow down” speech once. I just said cool and left calmly, as I was driving home I got a text basically telling me that she was confused and all that, and basically she was catching feelings so wanted to slow down. I said i’d contact her in the future and I did about two weeks later, anyway, it led to the absolute best sex of my life for the next few months before it ended (I fucked it up for other reasons).
/r/askTRP14/05/20 01:14 PM
41

Others have bad experiences, but I did this to a girl who played hard to get with me when we met, so I simply moved on. But she regretted it and spent the next 6 months trying to get me to fuck her, but in a good way, as in she didn’t get vindictive she just acted more open to me. Another I did this with after hooking up, and she too just became more available seemingly in hopes that I would change my mind but never got nasty about it.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 01:07 PM
-1

I’d send a short text back to acknowledge the situation. I’d rather she didn’t think I was butthurt, but that’s just me
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:12 PM
2

Did you reply to the second one or stayed silent? In this situation I think she’d read your silence as butthurt and trying to act cold and like you dgaf
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:26 PM
2

No that wouldn’t make you evil it would just make you incapable of rational thought or empathy, like a psychopath Others might say it’s “evil” but if it really was then you’d not bother rationalising it, you’d know what you did was wrong but wouldn’t care
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:51 AM
78

That first paragraph is like heaven and then it just goes straight to hell no inbetween
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:04 AM
3

Exactly this. I’m similar in age to you and I’ve definitely tasted the bitterness that is oneitis but i’ve never been properly torn up over a girl. I’ve read some stories on here of guys who have been properly damaged, stories that go way beyond what I felt.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:59 AM
2

Tbh girls are submissive if you are masculine enough and you turn them on enough. If a girl is bratty towards you or acts in any way dominant it’s either a shit test to see if you cave or you’re acting like a bitch, forcing her to take the lead.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 05:29 AM
6

Same, not into it myself. But it’s not hypocritical lol, girls like giving head because it’s submissive.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:37 AM
2

She’s testing you and you are failing. You should be throwing some sass back at her, not getting annoyed. Keep it playful and just wind her up. Play her at her own game.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:30 AM
2

If you’re worrying about being her number one option, you’re not it. When you are you just know you are. If she isn’t getting more attached to you, then it’s already over. At that point you need to ask what you want from her, if just meaningless sex, it doesn’t matter if you’re number one. If anything more, time to end it or step up your game so that you become number one. That’s if it’s not too late for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:20 AM
4

Blue pill guys in LTR’s are just too naive to even consider the possibility cause everything is sunshine and rainbows in their eyes. Red pill guys know the possibility but for their own reasons deem LTR worth a go. I believe quality girls do exist, ones with high self esteem, same as men. I think it’s about compatibility ultimately. If either one of you cheats, the compatibility was lacking or one of you fucked up. I’ve never been in an LTR, but wouldn’t be opposed to it. Imo, it sounds like you…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:53 AM
2

Girls fantasise about being the main girl in a rom com movie, but it’s more about their own desire for validation, the feelings of gratification, the fame, ego boost etc they imagine they would feel if they were one of those movie girls. It’s all rooted in the want for attention. It really isn’t about the actions of the man in the movie, he’s totally irrelevant on an instinctive level.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:11 PM
2

True, they’re not lying, most of them just cannot explain their instinctive wants and desires. Much like how humans in general cannot explain why we find attractive things attractive, we just do and we can’t even begin to understand why.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:07 PM
11

Could have something to do with their interactions in person. Or OP just has massive SMV with social benefits that the girl doesn’t want to give up.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:31 AM
1

You’re crazy op. The redpill has no hate towards women at all, they just recognize female behaviour. That is a butthurt picture made by some butthurt loser
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:50 AM
6

Don’t change your behaviour basically.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:13 AM
2

If it really is insecurity, she’s broken, there’s nothing you can do except have fun while it lasts
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:32 AM
4

She’s either extremely insecure or she’s shit testing
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:23 AM
2

Forget about it. Just set up another date with her and get off the phone.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:58 AM
2

If you haven’t yet said anything, this is easy. Say it’s cool/nice to hear from her, if she fancies catching up to let you know and you can plan a time and place. Then leave it with her. If she says sounds good, suggest a time and place. Job done.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:55 PM
4

Sounds like you care more than you let on, and in trying to hide it you acted almost too cool. Exact thing happened to me. I even did the same “ok cool” text after and then backpedalled just like you did with another text to try and get her back. You can do only one thing: move on. I know from experience that this doesn’t necessarily mean it’s over.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:29 PM
1

Seriously? Please tell me some more because I have always been of the opinion that guys who delete social media is because they don’t have enough reason to be on it, not enough friends, not enough likes from hot girls etc. My FB has no activity, it’s a 10 yr old profile pic, with like 6 likes. I don’t look mysterious I look like a nobody lol. Now I don’t care about that itself, I’ve had no troubles with girls in reality, and I have my personal friend group, I am genuinely more private and even i…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:52 PM
3

Why would you ask him that? If he’s actually making money off instagram that’s good. No shame in capitalizing on something
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:43 PM
1

Both, but mainly in person. On text you just have to not be a weirdo
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:41 PM
2

If she’s into you and you didn’t fuck anything up then just wait until she reaches out and set something up. You get her to chase you by repeating this again and again, but you have to keep her interest for her to repeat it. You will get games and tests thrown in there, she’ll ignore you longer than usual one time (can be weeks or months on end), she’ll text you back immediately and then wait four days, text some bullshit that is not something she would usually say etc. As long as you keep her i…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 01:40 PM
5

It’s nothing to do you with you being boring they can just sense you lack confidence and self esteem and automatically you go from a really hot looking guy they want to fuck to a good looking cutie that they totally wanna set their equally insecure friend up with
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:05 AM
6

Being able to recognise beta traits and knowing why they’re beta, and not exhibiting them not because you know they’re beta, but because you just know that they’re absolutely pathetic.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:17 PM
1

Look at the pictures closer, who is dominating the picture? That usually tells you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:53 AM
6

Yes, you are jealous and you’re on here asking this hoping someone tells you it’s normal. You’ve caught feelings, your apparent loss of interest is an illusion. You want her more than she wants you.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:31 PM
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It’s not really, texting is not a good way to convey honesty of any sort. If this was in person, then it would be different. Texts are calculated. Anyway, the only person he should be honest with is himself, and sending a text that you don’t need to send and then reflecting on how much of a dick you are, and telling your friends about it, is not honest at all.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:50 AM
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There’s being a dick and then there’s making an effort to be a dick, which is the one you want to avoid. Telling that girl you didn’t like her seems like a calculated move so that she thinks “what a dick”, and cause her to wonder why you don’t like her. She’s irrelevant, but she demonstrates where your head is at, you could’ve just ignored her. You don’t want to fall into the trap of doing dickish things for the express purpose of being a dick, it’s try hard and sad.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:37 AM
3

Are the good looking girls not just popular and “adored” because they are good looking and other girls want to be them? Unless she got some self esteem issues then she knows she’s hot and doesn’t need some alpha guy having fucked her to confirm that lol, because every normal guy would happily fuck her and she knows it
/r/askTRP09/03/20 01:40 AM
1

Every day and it will persist until you have better things to think about.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:23 AM
1

Could be cries for attention, it makes a girl look attractive and will garner sympathy from losers if she can say she was the victim of sexual harassment at work. Usually the girls self esteem is low if this is the case and you are just unlucky. Or it could be pure narcissism, if she is attractive and she knows she is, but doesn’t find you attractive.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 06:18 PM
1

No its just that low fat makes muscles way more defined so they automatically assume you are a beast even if you’re not really that big, just low fat. You have to think of a girls perspective too, they are used to seeing their own small bodies every day, so even an average male will be “big” to them if he has a bit of muscle
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:01 PM
1

She’s only an annoyance because OP is weak mentally, hence why he screwed up and sent an angry text. If you’re getting annoyed by girls, you’re the problem, not them.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 08:17 AM
0

He should go no contact and focus on himself for sure, but burning bridges with her is pointless. She could come back in the future, and boom, that’s an easy lay and probably a good laugh if OP happens to be available that night. Burning bridges is a weak mentality, stemming from a sore ego. No girl should ever be someone you get all uppity over and deny
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:26 PM
0

Burning bridges implies some history with a person. If a person can’t be trusted then you simply don’t bother, it doesn’t even become a bridge to burn because you don’t build a relationship of any sort with such people. OP is talking about burning a bridge with a girl, to which I say there is not a single upside. Just leave it, move on and maybe he can hook up with her once or twice in the future.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:13 AM
4

I had a similar situation, I would sometimes go weeks without texting to see if she would reach out and she wouldn’t, but when I did she would be down for it immediately without any hassle, and would always drop hints that she wanted more than fwb, suggesting future date ideas, trying to do couple stuff like cuddle and watch films or whatever. I didn’t buy into it and was perhaps a little colder than I should’ve been, so I guess she eventually just lost hope and she ended it
/r/askTRP20/02/20 08:10 PM
1

I would definitely be going there with every intention of fucking one or more of them at the end of that night. And trust me, those girls are going there to see if their old classmates are worth fucking now.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:28 PM
6

Some might say take some time off but that will just make you miss her more, because if she doesn’t seem too bothered that you’re not seeing her as often, i.e. if she doesn’t text or whatever wondering why you haven’t reached out recently, you will start having thoughts of her with other guys and you’ll just invest even more. The trick is to keep seeing her like you do anyway, and just be acutely aware of oneitis at all times.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:21 PM
6

What upsides are there to burning bridges? Anyway, you screwed up with that text and I have made a similar mistake before, but it’s far from major damage. Long term, it’s nothing, it will be forgotten. Let it fade, go no contact, if it comes around again you can start fresh and you’ll probably be in better place mentally and circumstantially
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:11 PM
3

If she got back with the other guy it was not the flowers, that would just repulse her. If she said he was mad at her, it means she was actually mad at him, so she probably did go back to him and knows it was you who sent the flowers. Female intuition is on another level.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 06:47 PM
2

Learn from it and move on, that is all that matters.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:43 PM
3

Her: “I have a boyfriend” You: “And?” Regardless of whether she has one or not, her response to that will tell you whether it was a shit test or a polite way to get you to go away.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:28 PM
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The way married guys or guys in relationships joke like “the wife/missus will kill me hahaha” or “she’ll have my balls if she find out” is cringeworthy. Not that they say it, but that they joke and other guys relate and they all laugh like it’s just how it is
/r/askTRP15/02/20 02:45 AM
1

Oh I can see that link. There’s a post a bit further up in the same thread that’s gone. Someone said it was the worst post in the history of trp and I was curious
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:16 PM
1

You sure you got the right post? What does the one you think im talking about say and i’ll tell you if i can see it
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:49 PM
1

Please share what that now deleted post said
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:21 PM
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I think most people just lose the ability to control themselves in public or social interactions. All relates to self esteem and most people lack it. When they go home, all that lost awareness probably comes flooding back and they have regrets about their actions or words, but it’s about not losing it to begin with. Either they learn...or they don’t. Worst part is seeing men in their late 30’s 40’s still making schoolboy errors. It’s like, how haven’t you learned?
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:04 AM
5

Is this the post you meant? From my reading it sounds like you were trying too hard to get respect you had not earned. Old girlfriends (and anyone) will see you in a new light if you genuinely change, from the sounds of it you had not. You were merely acting like you had. Perhaps your life had changed, your body, etc, but your attitude didn’t.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 08:12 AM
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I guess that would depend on the circumstances. You would want to earn the respect of others if they were for example higher up in your field of work, that’s a place where it is definitely worth putting effort into. In this situation though it’s not really a changing of opinion, you start neutral. Not sucking up though obviously. What you mean is it’s a waste of time trying to regain lost respect, but the OP didn’t really make that clear. In this case, I think it’s doable, difficult but doable. …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 08:05 AM
1

I think this is partially true, as it is possible to earn respect from people.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 05:44 AM
3

With low enough fat anyone can have abs whether they work them or not. If you don’t work them, they’re not very strong.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 09:28 AM
3

Any ab exercise you can add resistance to, and keep adding it.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 11:01 AM
2

This is all that matters, bulk or deficit - Set adequate protein for muscle gain/maintainence - Set adequate fat for optimal testosterone production - Drink water From here, it’s IIFYM. Have a chocolate bar or cake if it fits your calories. Discipline is all well and good, but you’re not a machine so being too strict is doing one thing and one thing only: setting yourself up for failure later on. The irony of this post is that it’s written by someone who let himself go because it was thanksgivin…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 02:54 PM
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No you got that backwards, abs are made in the gym, via heavy weight training, and the diet gives them definition
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 02:32 PM
3

You obviously wanted her to go through your phone. Everyone who is a ‘victim’ of a girl going through their phone secretly wanted it to happen. If you didn’t, you’d have a lock on it.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:35 PM
5

Tbh many of the people i’ve known with tattoos have had some major social anxiety issues and insecurities, that’s both men and women. A few girls i’ve hooked up with would put up a very outgoing and try hard front that was easy to see through (thus making it easier to hook up with them because I could read them). And a few associates, this time guys, I know have tattoos are either from when they were young and dumb, because they want to fit in with the cool crowd and current trends, or they thin…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:14 AM
1

I’d presume there to be no women on the fourth, fifth and sixth floors because they realised men stopped on the third. In other words, they had to go to them.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 04:09 PM
2

What age group are we talking here? I ask because in my mid twenties I don’t go older than myself and fortunately it’s been plain sailing. And i’ve even worked in nightclubs for years too so i’m more “at risk” so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 04:17 AM
3

Nah only be indifferent to things you genuinely couldn’t care less about, that’s true indifference. You don’t need to practice that. I would heavily advise against trying to act indifferent to something when you know inside that you’re not, it’s being fake with yourself. Nothing wrong with having an opinion on something you can’t control, you don’t have to blurt it out. Still acknowledge how you feel about it and process it and form an opinion cause it keeps you self and socially aware. And shou…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 03:03 AM
2

Just treat your SMV as sky high (within reason of course, don’t be thinking you’re top shit if you’re a skinny bitch). But as long as you have a decent place and car, in shape, have confidence, charisma and enjoy a fair social life, then you have maximum SMV. Beyond that is details that delve into personality and lifestyle choices rather than the basic principles above. This behaviour is what creates that fabled ‘connection’ anyway and it’ll stay no matter who else comes along, as long as you st…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 10:22 PM
0

No I agree the logic is sound if you are just banging whoever and not being picky at all, the phrasing just seemed bitter. Everyone fucks around like you said, some more than others. Less attractive girls are gonna be more careless, very attractive girls are gonna be more picky anyway and if those ones let you finish in them (or the best when they ask you to finish in them) it’s most likely because they think you’re fucking hot, therefore their guard drops and they trust that you’re clean. It’s …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 09:40 PM
2

Reads a little bitter that
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:54 PM
5

Are you in the US? Are all girls over there stage 5 clingers who want to trap random guys they hook up with by getting pregnant?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:48 PM
1

Best part is that the dad says his kid is too young to understand the concept of nail polish being a girl thing but the kids in his fucking class clearly understood it. Maybe his kid didn’t understand it, I can buy that, but then the dad should’ve stepped in immediately and told his son what he needed to know.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 09:41 AM
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He doesn’t say if he banged the ladyboy or got banged by it. The guys stupid for agreeing either way, but if he went that far....
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 07:23 AM
1

You changed the “your” to “youre”. Well, you’re nearly right. And adding “feminine” to your senseless conclusion doesn’t make it any less senseless. Who calls someone “kinda gay” based on a very non-sexually oriented answer anyway? Weirdo.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 02:56 PM
2

The problem is obviously not being able to simply stop overusing the apps without having to resort to deleting them. You disagree with that?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 02:37 PM
3

One thing about the mysterious aspect, if people have no way to check you out via facebook or instagram, you may be seen as strange, it is too common and these apps are no longer just for social interaction. Most workplaces have fb groups etc. It’s extremely easy for people, girls especially to assume you do nothing if you have no fb, instead of thinking “oooh how intriguing!”. And don’t underestimate people’s intuition, they could easily think you’re playing the mysterious card because your lif…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 10:24 AM
1

There’s nothing wrong with video games unless you’re only playing them because you’ve got fuck all else to do.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 10:11 PM
4

They’ll know it for a fact from how you present yourself normally, day to day, that’s enough of a sales pitch man.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 03:20 PM
9

What happened to “you are the prize”?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 02:36 PM
6

This is only a problem if she’s on the fence about you. She’ll check to see if you viewed her story and like guys do she’ll post a few more to see if you consistently view them. If you do she’ll probably lose some interest because she was able to predict you. But, if she’s into you already and you view it, she’s not just gonna think you’re a bitch just because you viewed it, the girl’s into you. As long as you don’t view it like 2 secs after it’s posted. If she likes you and you never watch it s…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 08:32 PM
1

Tension creates the attraction, but a certain level of comfort is what keeps it, but that’s where the balance comes in. Tension in the mind i.e. she will doubt herself when you’re not there and wonder what you’re doing, but comfortable physically.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 02:39 PM
1

If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. True, as long she’s not blocked by low esteem, shitty circumstances, family problems, whatever it is. But any of these things can cause a girl to go to either extreme.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 02:27 PM
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One reason: to look better. And I can’t say I even like it, but the benefits I do like, making it a requirement.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 02:23 PM
2

This is only true if you’ve got your instagram attached or something in your profile that can lead her to your facebook, so they can verify you are real. Otherwise, you’ll just end up with a load of numbers, very eager and positive texts that set up a date arrangement, then a flake a few days later.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 02:15 PM
0

Agreed, the MGTOW bullshit is cringeworthy sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 12:20 PM
1

Ignore the erection/loss of dick size comment, since all men with normal health have about 4-5 boners in a typical night’s sleep.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 04:51 PM
2

And I said that if the girl was happy with that then it may work out. Personally, if I thought that above scenario was a possibility, I would not call another girl at all, that would be stupid. I would just either go out with friends or chill alone. Sex or no sex, i’d be content because in this example the OP was already chilling alone, and the girl texted him first only for him to get a bit pissy when she rejected him. I think inviting over another girl while the first one is still there is a b…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 07:34 PM
1

And the thing you’re not understanding is that I was simply explaining a scenario to be considered. I was not lecturing on the fact of whether getting dumped matters or not.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 07:08 PM
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The only thing is if that happened, the situation is that one girl denied you sex, so you asked another over and she also denied you because the other girl is there, and you do not look like a guy who is fucking other women now, you look like a guy who is getting dumped by two girls at the same time. The first will think you were a bit desperate, and the second is not exactly going to be turned on knowing the first one refused to fuck you. Like I said, that’s one scenario. The second girl may we…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:49 PM
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But if she did decide to stay, the success of this would be heavily riding on the morals of the other girl, which means you’re not in control. If she came over only to see the first girl and have a problem being second best, which is likely, it’s all over. And the first one would probably be out of there laughing her ass off as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:32 PM
1

Ultimately it’s the girl’s self esteem and level of self respect that will determine how long you can be the second kind before she ends things. At the end of the day, if you’re her top option she’s going to know she has competition, as do we when we have a top option of our own, it’s natural. She needs to always have a certain level of doubt, but this will raise continuously and if you don’t occasionally push it back down some, that doubt will become a truth in her head and she will convince he…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 12:43 PM
1

Just wear what you can pull off (within reason of course, i.e if you pull of baggier clothes then you will look better in them, simple as that). I see so many guys wearing super slim pants, that end above the ankle, with loafers and no socks, and it just looks terrible. Loafers are fucking terrible, just no.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:01 PM
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There’s two versions of “top option”, one where she is at ease with you and feels like you’re being real with her, which is the one you describe here. She has no reason to delay texts on purpose, or play any sort of game. Usually to be this you have to have experienced the second version of the top option. And that is where you are the one she wants the most but isn’t sold on you because you haven’t given her enough reason to be at ease with you. Even if you’re fucking regularly and she really l…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 09:38 PM
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