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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 06:50 PM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 05:17 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:59 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 01:53 PM
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Question For MenSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:08 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:21 PM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:04 AM
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DiscussionSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:38 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:20 AM
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Question For WomenSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 12:27 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 02:10 AM
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Question For MenSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:12 PM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:43 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:14 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:25 AM
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Question For WomenSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:42 PM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:47 PM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:31 AM
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DiscussionSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:15 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 01:18 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:34 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:43 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:56 AM
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Question For MenSocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:42 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:33 PM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:16 AM
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SocialObserver01/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:15 AM
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Just shrink your dick bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:59 AM
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Orwellian Larger Dildos
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:11 AM
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Think it depends on location. Coastal cities where appearance is everything, then not really. In the deep south where they eat bbq all day and drive everywhere yeah it's a big problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:08 AM
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In the past 3 years I'd say twice - once in the train station, another in the mall. Most of the time though girls just use some excuse to put themselves closer to you but still expect you to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:04 AM
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This goes back to the very first post I made on here. Big pharma needs to fix this. This could be a billion-dollar drug in the making.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:51 PM
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They should probably be a bit less shallow in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:50 PM
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Jeremy Meeks has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:49 PM
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The men with large harems are mostly people like Dan Bilzerian and professional athletes who amass large flocks by using social media. It's not your average handsome chad working a 9-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:47 PM
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Main advantage of marriage to AFC would seem to be regular sex if you can avoid dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:19 AM
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hispanic is not a race
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:16 AM
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How do I profit from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 04:51 AM
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The same behaviors/patterns are observed in bonobos and chimps. It's more biological than you want to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:45 PM
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Yes. Twice. Once we already knew each other as friends so more straightforward there and the other didn't text back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:28 AM
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i'm 6"5. it's a huge advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:45 AM
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used car salesman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:44 AM
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Nah. Our family's pretty trad all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:53 PM
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There's a reason nobody in charge of DeBeers even wants to step on U.S. soil for fear of justice. I didn't know this. Are there warrants out for them or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:25 PM
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Lol no they'd been dating for about four years. They met at a family reunion - friend of a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:22 PM
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My cousin just got married at 32 after being engaged for several years and is having a baby in about 6 months. She lives in a nice upper-middle class suburb with her husband and works as a manager at a F500. Some failure ain't she...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:13 PM
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On something like martial happiness, I believe the strongest predictor of that is the number of sexual partners rather than an artificial waiting period. That's what your post says but the title could imply something else: after ho-ing, you can just artificially wait for sex and get these better LTR outcomes. If you're saying low n-count equals better relationship outcomes, this point was first made on TRP. Your title should say "research agrees with TRP".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:11 PM
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Studies are all flawed because they see marriage as "success". There are countless reasons why this isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:54 PM
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I know where you are coming from but that's a huge generalization in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:52 PM
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But millennial women have our shit together compared to men What is the basis behind this claim? From what I see, millennial men, despite not going to college as much as women, still earn more on average which tells me they tend to get more higher-paying degrees or go into trades which pay off faster. The male labor participation rate is still also higher than the female one amongst millenials.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:50 PM
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Which generation raise these kids to be this way though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:45 PM
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Yeah I agree the companies should be prosecuted. That's really the most effective way to crackdown on this. Massive fines. But then there's the whole subcontract to a subcontractor to a subcontractor and before you know you don't really have a clue whose building your building. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKC5uEB1i0U Majority of immigrants are also on welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:41 AM
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Lol @ the article flipping it around and blaming benevolent sexism aka men for women not proposing more in our more equal times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:59 AM
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If an immigrant who can’t even speak the language is a better employee than you, you fucking suck. They are having a disproportionate impact on blue-collar areas like the construction industry; you probably don't work in the blue-collar sectors that are affected. Most aren't coming here to pick lettuce. There are also many documented instances of low-wage african-americans being fired en masse and being replaced with illegal workers. You might want to be more judicious with your language choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:53 AM
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This count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:50 AM
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I lean more red but I was pretty liberal till a few years ago and still hold a few more "liberal" positions on things like drug policy, public transit, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:35 AM
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One is getting fucked and looks at it from a more self-centered pov and rationalizes the current state of the SMP. The other is not getting fucked and expresses his disdain for the women not choosing him. Pretty straightforward. There are also men(smaller in quantity) that get fucked fairly regularly but don't necessarily exalt high count women, and clearly see the unsustainability of current affairs. I'd probably count myself in this group while clearly acknowledging my hypocrisy. There's obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:29 AM
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Seems as though the men complaining about being made to wait should take advantage of and benefit from women who put out. If it were only this easy... You ever consider that there's a huge overlap between the men complaining and the men not getting anything remotely decent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:12 AM
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Lol you sound so defensive & reflexive in all these comments. No one is attacking you personally. Just saying high n-count woman wouldn't be their first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:17 AM
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The Wall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:10 AM
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It's already happened in China
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:10 PM
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You seem to be implying gender differences are biological, is that the case? Irrespective of that, which body parts do you think will prevail? Female or male?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:53 AM
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Just read her wikipedia. Just fucking wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:54 AM
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everyone is on welfare of some sort. home mortgage interest for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:35 AM
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I believe I also read Sweden one of the highest OECD single motherhood rates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:20 PM
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Depending on incomes and circumstances, marriage could actually be a worse financial deal by making you ineligible for government benefits like EITC, Medicaid, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:13 PM
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Stop posting this shitty out-dated article everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:07 PM
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In Texas you can get a new construction 2000sq. ft house for 250k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:02 PM
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It will never be fair because life isn't fair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:46 PM
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how to make racialized comments without mention race 101
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 07:42 PM
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Nightclubs have almost always been loud and lame. People just thought it was cool because the rappers kept talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:19 AM
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Watch it and find out next week on Dragon Ball Z
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 01:13 AM
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There's actually a CNN documentary on this this coming Sunday but I'd say in light of the current smp dynamics, it probably does provide a useful outlet to achieve post-nut clarity for a sizeable % of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:46 AM
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Female hairdressers have to answer for that one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:07 AM
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What. Who tf has $800 suit pants? You a millionaire? Jos A is average quality btw. I also wasn't aware women's clothes cost more to dry clean. That's news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:53 PM
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Yeah. I guess that doesn't require intercourse if that's where you were going with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:51 PM
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We women are valued for who we are. I think it's more because women can create another life so inherently women have more value. If you stripped away women's ability to create babies, I think society would treat women the same way as men. Good post though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:41 PM
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The pink tax. Everything from razors to dry cleaning is more expensive. And we literally pay to have periods - there’s no real way around that, but it’s still annoying. Not to mention, it takes way more skill to cut a man’s hair than mine, but mine is twice as expensive There is no pink tax. Women spend way less on their income on food, clothes, etc due to their smaller size. So on average, women should have much higher adjusted disposable income(net salary less food, shelter, clothes, etc.) Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:37 PM
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Funny how all the high-n-count people here are claiming to be std-free. Newsflash 50-90% of america has herpes. You're not fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:29 PM
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Much more women than men would imo. Women are less stuck up regarding n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:05 AM
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Sounds like a libido mismatch
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:03 PM
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I dont think this is a good article. About 60% of America is white-only, while current stats show white people carry out about 58% of shootings. But as a proportion of all races and shootings, white people far outstrip others. This quote doesn't even make sense Nevertheless I think young white men are much more likely to be involved in the batshit crazy shootings i.e. schools, theaters, churches, etc. Young black men are more likely to be involved in gang-related shootings related to turf wars, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 12:00 AM
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Not necessarily. It could also mean there are more attractive women than there are attractive men which is not an unreasonable position to hold considering how much more effort women put on their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:59 AM
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Depends on if you're Chad or not. Chads have never had it better. Bottom 20-35% have never had it worse. Lower middles are struggling for dear life. Upper middles and Chadlites are still where they were though fighting much harder than ever to maintain their position.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:53 AM
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Interesting articles. I think a big part is related to mass incarceration. Very hard to make a good living when you've been incarcerated. Society pretty much incentivizes you to resort to crime henceforth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:51 AM
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Pop culture. Ted Bundy, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:57 AM
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Women choose weaker less lucrative majors though even when they have the aptitude for stronger majors. When I was in business school(we got the best jobs), it was quite male-denominated but other parts of campus were very female-dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:43 PM
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Amsterdam?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:30 PM
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Or maybe they don't tell you. That's not something you're likely to broadcast to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:29 PM
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Interesting post. This is exactly why big pharma needs to produce a drug that zaps sexual libido from men without side effects. Furthermore, it should be socially acceptable to use such a drug. It's clear that a good chunk of women have no need for about 35-45% of men out there. Those men should be allowed to have their libido stripped from them and not be made slaves to it watching porn and fucking dirty hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:02 PM
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If you don't like the thread, then don't click and go about your day. What's with this fetish of banning everything you dont like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:39 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8wg7vf/what_would_happen_if_men_had_babies_and_women/ https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/91xh4y/q4all_what_would_society_look_like_if_women_had/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:38 PM
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At a time probably yeah. But with the all the shit I have seen in the past 5-10 years, the married women/women in relationships who have cheated with me, etc, I'd have to say much more unlikely but you never know what the world throws out to you tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:17 PM
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Just a level below that and above yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:37 AM
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sounds like i'm the odd one out. i just do coffee dates or drinks at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:49 AM
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Millenial. 4 years out of grad school. I was thinking more like fancy restaurants et al. Fast food doesn't count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:05 AM
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Vast majority of my relationships have been STR and FWB so I don't think that's a good barometer. But to answer your question, it's been two girls. One lasted half a year and the other one didn't look LTR-material for other reasons that came out after the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:38 PM
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No one goes on dinner dates anymore. At least not in my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:25 PM
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Many women want to eat their cake and have it. You will pay for the date. In all seriousness, I've been on dates where the girl proactively paid for everything as soon as the check was brought. Definitely upped my respect level for her. There's one thing to claim to be a strong independent woman; there's another to actually putting your money where your mouth is. Most dates in the past though I've paid primarily just due to societal obligation i guess. It's typically not too big of a deal - $20 …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:25 PM
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Not in this context no because the decision on whether or not to get married often comes down to what makes the most economic sense - so you can't use that as a some barometer of virtue as you were implying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 08:18 PM
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It doesn't matter how strong you are as a victim (so saying "if they're the weaker sex imagine if they were strong, more would abuse people because more could over powe men!"), abusive people will abuse because they find people they know won't fight back, regardless of how strong they are themselves. Of course it does. Who's a 5"11 bully more likely to pick on? A 6"4 UFC fighter or a scrawny 5"1 teen. Women, despite being much weaker, inflict violence at very high levels. This shows women to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 08:16 PM
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I give up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 08:13 PM
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you're not going to address my points are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:23 PM
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You accept the sexual assault "study" as bullshit though right? Looking at that study, the rates on female-to-male violence are also very high. 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner. If you are the weaker sex and yet committing similar levels of violence, imagine how much more vicious and destructive women would be if they were the stronger sex. I wouldn't want to imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:22 PM
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why is it? because you say it is? what if those who didn't get married didn't get married for economic reasons so they can have better resources to raise their child. depending on the incomes, you can lose out on certain refundable tax credits by combining incomes. you sound judgemental. a marriage fascist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:17 PM
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unless you are low rent you will never meet a white "single mother" in the US. you may meet a divorcee what's the difference except that one had a ring on at one time and the other didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:06 PM
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Ah the debunked 1 in 4 statistic again https://www.huffpost.com/entry/1-in-4-women-how-the-late_b_8191448 Why so eager to be a victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:41 PM
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Yes men and women are gasp.....not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:33 PM
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No that's a completely separate issue https://sites.psu.edu/brandilynheckmanrcl/2014/02/28/women-vs-men-pfa-physical-fitness-assessment/ Raw physical strength is absolete with guns, tanks, drones, ECT. Lol tanks are so 20th century. Do you know how many tanks we lost in Iraq from IEDs? Iraq and Vietnam have proved it doesn't really matter who has the most bombs if you can mobilize the entire country to fight your army in a terrain you're familiar with and defending. If women can't carry heavy as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:32 PM
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This is the demographic profile of feminism's founders
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:20 PM
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Lol we both know this isn't what's happening. What's happening is that the physical standards are being lowered in the military for women. Without injecting massive loads of testosterone, the average woman won't come close to the average men in terms of raw physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:19 PM
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Because every man is a drunk sadistic fuck who can't wait to get home and assault his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:15 PM
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Yeah sounded like fake news to me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:55 PM
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Nonsense, for the most part most battles were fought by mercenaries. Do you have a source for this? Also those soldiers were still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:26 PM
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Society was designed this way in the past because it was the most optimal way to maximize production, workforce participation and organic population replacement. Define oppressed? Upper middle class white women could lounge at home drinking wine and chatting with other women all day. These were the women who considered themselves the most oppressed and created the modern feminism. JFL. Feminism was and is always just a power-play. Anyways to your question, I think it's more of how feminism is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:22 PM
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we'll just copy whatever japan does since they're way ahead of us in all this - robot caretakers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:06 PM
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were you in a fraternity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:01 PM
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I'll take Elon's word over you anon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:29 AM
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The respectable name is casual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:11 AM
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Men cheat to expand not to replace Women cheat to replace Just wanted to point that out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:09 AM
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25% of millenials will never be married. This is not a bad thing. People being freed from societal constraints to focus on what makes them happy is good. With robots, AI and of-course UBI and I playing bigger roles in our lives, we will approach utopia in a few decades. It's been posted often here that women are supposedly happier without marriage anyways; the reason a lot of women want to be married is probably societal pressure to be able to flash the ring. Men are more low-maintenance so havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:08 AM
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your denominator doesn't make sense. you need to exclude <18, married women, >45, people who aren't in the dating market for one reason or another, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:27 PM
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I'd differentiate between the match.coms of the world and the apps. I think the apps are truly what made it mainstream and ok. And the apps largely came about during this time. See the stigma section in this article https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jul/22/why-childhood-sweethearts-no-longer-measure-up-and-six-other-ways-dating-has-changed You're right that I could be biased though - 2013 was when I was in college so it could be when everything was all appearing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:05 PM
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2013-2014 is when OLD starting to gain mass traction among the college crowd primarily through Tinder. Note it's the 18-23 age group that tends to predict what will eventually become mainstream(see: Facebook for e.g). Before this time period, there was still a lot more stigma attached to OLD. After 2013, the floodgates started to open - the key was getting attractive young women to believe it was safe and cool since the girls are what will bring the guys(the app revenue source) in. I'm pretty su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:29 AM
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From a male perspective: In the beginning(say 2013-2014), it was cool, edgy and different and definitely offered something unique and refreshing to the dating scene. Now in 2019 where it's seen as the go-to, it has become a piss poor time-suck for most people. It obviously works best for say 9-10 rated males and 6 and above women. I think comparatively though it provided the greatest boost for guys like me - conventionally attractive, not shy but not terribly extroverted. On a net basis, I've be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:06 AM
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If he's driving a ferrari, I doubt he cares very much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:18 PM
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You left up a post about a fucking zombie apocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:49 AM
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How is this not related to sex, gender and the dating economy????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:30 AM
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Look at how many teachers get exposed for former porn videos. Or those girls that were killed by men on sugar dating sites. They looked extremely plain and vanilla. You'd have thought they were regular college girls. I remember browsing through one of the sugar daddy websites(which they actually allow you without creating a profile) and a lot of the women were extremely "normal-looking".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:27 AM
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I remember someone saying women's number one category was rape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:21 AM
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Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:19 AM
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Let's say Trump, Clinton and Third-Party guy run for president. On a popular vote basis, Clinton gets 48.1%. Trump gets 47.5% Third-party guy gets 4.4%(numbers all-made up by the way) In this scenario, there is no majority as majority means over 50%. However, Clinton won a plurality of votes as she received more than anyone else. If she had gotten over 50%, it would be termed a majority. As it is, you can't say most people voted for Clinton. That would imply a majority. You CAN say she got more …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:14 AM
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Hmmm. It takes a long time to create habitable conditions in Siberia and a lot of energy expenditure in that cold. Vice versa Sahara desert. I guess the same could apply to going up to space.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:23 PM
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Username checks out. Imagine modern life without finance, technology and entertainment. Sounds like paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:59 PM
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Incels will finally be able to carry out all their rape and necrophilia fantasies on helpless women or perhaps even the subdued female zombies. You're right - status isn't the right word. Perhaps opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:39 PM
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Never been easier to share ideas and now that the MAJORITY of new relationships are from Online Dating It's not the majority. It's a plurality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:10 PM
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There will be few babies born in the immediate aftermath just like during WW2. It will be a mass strugge for order amid chaos. 90% of the city and suburban people will die within the first 24 hours. That means no more NYC, LA, SF,etc. Rural conservatives will be marginally overrepresented in the new United States. Wealth, as we know it, will be irrelevant as no one will respect paper money anymore. The only wealth that would matter is how many rounds of ammo you have immediately in person and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:29 PM
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Is this supposed to be sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:43 PM
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Who is this alleged supermodel shooting low-budget pornos?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:33 PM
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but you're incel though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 06:59 PM
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Following your mission and gaining accomplishments will typically lead to greater confidence which should translate to better dating success. Women by and large will never "throw themselves" at ~95% of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 02:47 AM
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Wrong framing of the question...Men aren't getting married because women are pursuing sex with the most attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 12:26 AM
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Yes partially true. Men should also maximize their income to be in a position to create financial independence to live off accrued wealth, start their business, rent out rental property, etc in their 30s. You can't be a true alpha working for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:14 AM
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pure degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:52 AM
2

Glad I'm not the only one that thinks this. Really dont get why girls do this Some girl I hooked up with last year was telling post-sex how she once threw up on a dick in college at a frat party. I'm just there like...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 10:30 PM
2

ew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:36 PM
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Like the data on what types of guys/girls get matches and then flakes on messaging, what guys/girls get no matches, what guys/girls get matches and are absolutely killing it. It would be very interesting to see what shared characteristics those groups would have and Tinder,etc. has that information
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:21 AM
2

Things that are genuinely fun you know like playing sports at rec leagues, going to museums, running 10ks, listening to new music,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:15 AM
2

Great read. Really liked hearing your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:10 AM
3

I would reckon a lot as the tax code, welfare system,etc. incentives cohabitation over marriage for low income couples
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:52 AM
4

Money doesn't mean she can't divorce rape you. Just means she can't divorce rape you as badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:22 AM
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How's that sad? You and your friend just sound a bit pretentious. Sorry I don't spend the extra hours of my day researching esoteric juice and vodka concoctions because it's "fun!!".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:18 AM
1

lol the us is improving by almost every statistical indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:58 AM
1

whatever due. not gonna convince you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:34 AM
4

So most women wish to be portrayed in one-dimensional roles as sexual props?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:34 AM
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If women want to be treated more as a person and a partner in committed relationships rather than a sex object, why do they market themselves as one with how much they focus on looks rather than personality, qualities, and traits that would make men want a long term companionship with? Men control most of the media. Women are disproportionately shown in sexual roles without depth to their character. Young girls growing up internalize this and on some level understand a significant part of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:07 AM
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Depends? If you rather jack off to porn than fuck a landwhale, I think most would sympathize? If you'd rather jack off to porn than talk to the cute little brunette giving you IOIs at starbucks, then yea dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:04 AM
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Guys who get to fuck sluts love sluts. Most manosphere men aren't getting laid thus are the ones likelier to thrash sluts and lash out at sluts. Personally I love all my sluts. They make great female companionship. Especially classy sluts. Trashy sluts i'll pass...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:45 AM
1

Many parents live vicariously through their children. You have a choice to make seeing as you can never be Chad. Would you want future genetic copies of you to have a better or worse life than you? If the former, do as I advised above. I'm much taller than my dad and I thank him for having the foresight to breed with a tall woman to create me. I know this isn't much consolation you have it much better than a woman in a similar situation. You can actually get a mate out of your league via beta bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:22 AM
1

You may not ever get to be Chad but your kid may. What's the biggest feature preventing you from being Chad? Face? Do the best you can in your career and engage in a Beta Bux marriage with a young Stacy(8-10). Very attainable if you can make $150k> and are not totally autistic. Height? Breed with a woman taller than you so that your kid will be a 6'2 Chad stallion. It's time to accept you personally can never be Chad but you can sure help your kid be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:14 AM
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Compared to the 1950s, the only people who are significantly happier are Chads, Brads, Tyrones and HL 5-7 women who can now get Chad, Brad and Tyrone, albeit on a non-commital basis. 8-10 women still have the same pulling power generally speaking but there are slightly more of them who are less happy because there are less Chads,etc now than there were 40 years ago due to women in the workplace, etc. but overall they're fine 5-7 women who are not HL are unhappier if they are not smart enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:02 AM
1

what does this mean? still relatively new here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 11:56 PM
1

Compared to the 1950s, the only people who are happier are Chads, Brads, Tyrones and HL 5-7 women who can now get Chad, Brad and Tyrone, albeit on a non-commital basis. 8-10 women still have the same pulling power generally speaking but there are slightly more of them who are less happy because there are less Chads,etc now than there were 40 years ago due to women in the workplace, etc. 5-7 women who are not HL are unhappier if they are not smart enough to prevent being pumped and dumped. This t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 11:23 PM
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The quality of the porn is so much better. Greg Lanksy changed the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:51 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5675356/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:50 PM
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james bond takes orders from an 80-year old woman. that is not alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:22 PM
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alphas are actually the good guys. obama is an alpha. but he became that over time. growing up he probably was a bit beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:21 PM
2

You're having fun yourself by having fun. It's not a one-sided "transaction".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:06 PM
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TRP has essentially written this bible of ideas, and their seems to be a tendency to explain it all through biological perspectives (i.e. alpha passes his genes, beta provider helps raise children, etc.). Who are they to say that any of this is true? This is just historical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 03:01 PM
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Depends on your definition of career woman. Barista at starbucks is not a career
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:39 AM
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Depends on where you are perhaps. In Europe, the tall thin look with skinny jeans could probably work pretty well but in the US, Australia, etc, the buff look would win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:25 AM
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Yes but they're all taken by age 22. At least the pretty ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:23 PM
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Except they aren't really starving. See: porn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:26 AM
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tinder is dead bro. use The League if you work white collar. otherwise hinge. yeah tinder's hayday was 2012-2014. i don't think many 7+ low-baggage women use it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:54 AM
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When you have fucked a lot of women, you learn an important virtue - women ain't shit, and no one woman is special If women ain't shit, why would you marry one?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 02:44 AM
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umm move to where the jobs are?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 09:57 PM
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I don't think many high-value men will go months or even weeks* without sex. Just my thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 10:10 AM
1

whats HL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 12:42 AM
1

Should it be banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:05 PM
1

I fucked it up tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:25 AM
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We haven't agreed anything or talked about exclusivity. I guess it's been implied sorta maybe... But i liken to this to how girls would have their A preference they'd want for LTR/marriage and a string of orbiters(not necessarily beta orbiters) that she keeps on tap. Once she realizes her preferred has gone for good, she activates the next best orbiter. Now I wouldn't call her an orbiter. I like her but I'm just brutally honest to myself that I have been with higher SMV and RMV girls so my brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:24 PM
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I am looking for an LTR though. Not marriage ofcourse but perhaps something stable. Just about being open to the possibility that someone better could come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:20 PM
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General SMV and RMV characteristics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:19 PM
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Not actively looking so I wouldn't say leading anyone on. Just open to the possibility of better things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:19 PM
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It's not really stringing though. I'm not actively looking but i'm open to the possibility that there's more out there. I like being in a relationship and having on-tap sex, someone to take out places, etc. but I feel like I'm capable of getting higher SMV and RMV mates. I know this sounds so douchey but I can't change how I feel. Marriage is out of the question completely for anyone.+
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:18 PM
1

here we go with the class thing again. i lived in a suburb with a median income of $115,000 and i saw families at twin peaks all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:22 AM
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Yeah that's why they all have their pet mistresses on the side and are known for on-the-job drug use
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:39 AM
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penn state's a working class school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:12 AM
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not necessarily. the more money you have, the more you can afford to buy well-fitting clothes, go to the nice gym to work out(and looksmax) ,etc. money should be a catalyst, not the end goal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:10 AM
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If you have 1m in net worth, you technically dont have to work anymore. But i agree we're arguing semantics a bit. Is elon musk upper class? What about zuck? Bezos? Or do you have to descend from george washington and andrew carnegie?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:19 AM
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in fact, that's probably the true defining feature of the UMC; this constant effort to convince themselves and everyone else that they're part of the rich, the powerful, and the elite. bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:45 AM
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depends on the profession accountants- probably blue pill bankers - probably red
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:41 AM
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UC = 1% If income>1%, you are 1% https://www.cnbc.com/2017/11/06/how-much-you-need-to-earn-to-be-in-the-top-1-percent-at-every-age.html
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:38 AM
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what about the offspring of the gender studies major? do they still get the special title of "umc" conferred onto them? just trying to figure out how this all works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:36 AM
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24 Preferred: 18-22 Yes the competition for girls in this age group is fierce but I love me a good challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:55 AM
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If your parents can dump out $200k on a bs liberal arts degree, you're UC. Any UMC person doing this is going into massive debt and will be working at Target post-graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 08:52 PM
1

smp Sexual Market Place
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 08:34 PM
1

what new benefits aside from access to casual sex from chad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 08:33 PM
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those are absolutely UMC values. i don't know why you find this offensive. next i'll here drinking smoothies and eating blueberries & kale is a umc value that doesn't contradict anything i said. marriage is not exclusive to UMC. not just marriage but everything you described regarding oow, college, etc. you just sound like you have an unnecessary superiority complex - which is a very american thing. we are very status-conscious and this is inflated in these times of stagnating wages and high deb…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 08:29 PM
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These are not UMC/UC values. That is so classist. It's simple smart person vs not-smart person values.To put in terms of socio-economics is extremely pretentious. so you plan to get married to an educated woman with similar (UMC) values of marriage, no kids OOW. those ARE UMC values. While I would prefer she went to college, it's not a strong preference. If she started a business and has shown drive and smarts, that's worth a lot more than some piece of paper. I've fucked a lot of dumb girls wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:00 PM
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That's around 80th percentile based on this In NYC, Miami, LA probably not. In Dallas, Charlotte, Minneapolis, heck yea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:47 PM
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What way though? Almost all the girls I see around me dress in tight yoga pants. UMC sluts are just classier sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:12 PM
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UMC people are married, dont divorce often, have few kids all with same partner, and are focused on building generational wealth. They are relatively low n count, their actions all basically align with “k style” evolutionary strategy of having a low number of high quality offspring Maybe because i played sports in HS and college, but a very healthy % of my male peers were hooking up left and right. Most people in frats/sororities are UMC and definitely dont have low n-counts. And no i dont think…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:08 PM
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my dad was in banking. my mom is an entrepreneur. there are no universal umc values. i graduated college with no debt because yes my dad paid my in-state tuition. i paid for grad school with loans. i went to a private school(nothing special). it is expected that i eventually get married like everyone else. because i like to fuck sluts doesn't mean i intend to have kids out of wedlock. i plan to get married late 30s to a woman in early 30s/late 20s with a solid prenup. this is my plan for now and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:02 PM
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How is it vastly different? In what ways? I'm UMC and I fuck around with sluts. How would I be different if I wasn't a mythical "UMC"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:53 PM
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Wasn't about you. I've seen numerous people do it but you're probably the most guilty but glad to see you feel so strongly about the topic. Typically it's people who just joined the UMC/UC who will feel the need to harp on about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:51 PM
-1

There's actually a fault there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:48 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:48 PM
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NFD is literally the opposite of a domestic violence scenario though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 02:07 PM
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The overall % of high value guys didn't increase. In fact, it probably went down with women in the workforce so in aggregate, women didn't get happier. They just compete more for Chad giving him very disproportionate market power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 02:02 PM
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But women are less happy now Doesn't this lend credence to the adage - women don't really know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 01:54 PM
-1

Funny how you couldn't answer the question. Who upset you? And why does every disagreement have to turn into some spiel about how an (male) OP can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 12:53 PM
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How is this different from before? Previously 5s to 7s would have had absolutely no access to Chad for the most part but now at least, they can have him albeit only for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 12:07 PM
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I know what a high value beta is and that's not what I'm talking about. There are guys who work corporate jobs yet are still alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 11:19 PM
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Neither. I would want a woman who had no sexual partners before me. The thought of me putting a ring on a woman who was licking some other man's balls earlier nauseates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 11:17 PM
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I would say naturally charismatic guy with above average attractiveness that is attractive to 70-90% of the female SMP but as the other user described, operates within a bluepill/traditionalist frame e.g. prioritizing marriage and traditional nuclear family-building over casual sex, hookups, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:05 AM
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I dont understand sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:48 AM
1

What's the solution? Ban porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:52 AM
1

But there are no 10/10 out of them. elena koshka ivy wolfe alexa grace
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:52 AM
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6"5. I'm a guy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:13 AM
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Now that I think of it, most of my partners(female) have been 5"8-5"11 which is statistically abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 12:09 PM
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There are about 4x as many gay men as gay women (IIRC) Don't think this is true.. https://www.statista.com/statistics/719697/american-adults-who-identify-as-homosexual-bisexual-or-transgender-by-gender/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_demographics_of_the_United_States
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:41 PM
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Once you also take into account that males are much more likely to be gay/transexual and that males are much more likely to be in prison the amount of "heterosexual men on the market" compared to "heterosexual woman on the market" is about 0.98 so modestly "women heavy". Is this actually true? Seems to me every girl nowadays is bi...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:22 PM
1

Call me old fashioned, but I believe men should go after what they want. Maybe I'm nostalgic for a time that never was, but what ever happened to romantic gestures and bold moves? What ever happened to a guy going after a girl until she agreed to give him a chance? The MeToo movement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:57 PM
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This is the real answer. Porn has satiated 40-60% of the single male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:51 PM
0

With Chad yes. With you no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:39 AM
2

googles pink collar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:02 AM
2

Ok never going down on girls again got it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 11:21 AM
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Those are joke stds. Just get vaccinated for HPV. Estimated 90% of Americans will get oral herpes. It's beyond common and is more annoying than anything. Genital herpes is a bit fucked though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:13 AM
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She wouldn't have sex even though we did just about everything except actually me sticking it in her vag. The old saving it for marriage bit. Except she wasn't a virgin though. N-count about 2. It was also long-distance and were both 19 at the time. Lasted about nine months overall. Long-distance was what probably doomed it. You have no idea how horny a 19-year old can be and without any release for several months, a man strayed. Looking back, I should never even agreed to any of this in the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:05 AM
1

Is hypergamy really a thing considering that women date mostly inside their social circle ? Can a high value man without a social life be successful with women ? Yes it's called online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:34 AM
2

As someone who has cheated before yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:32 AM
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I'm getting to the point where I acknowledge that I DO want more than just hookups, but I'm not really sure what options are even out there. Monogamy seems fatally flawed. I tried poly, but then the girl I love caught an incurable STD from elsewhere so now not only did I lose a beautiful connection but I also lost the feeling that poly is a good solution to the problems monogamy has. Only incurable STD is HIV/AIDS and even that has been cured twice now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:30 AM
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Absolutely yes. But with a caveat. I don't particularly find fucking a bunch of random thots enjoyable but it's kind of how the cookie has crumbled. My ideal in this current SMP would be to rotate a new GF every 6-7 months with something on the side just in case. But in the cases where I wasn't going to offer committment and just got sex, it was almost always because I was dipping wayyy below my SMV level for sex. Some of my lays, for some reason,(maybe it was machiavellianism) thought this woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:29 AM
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Getting a number really doesn't mean very much, women will give them to you as a conversation ender. A lot of guys really don't get this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 05:28 AM
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The 2nd hottest girl I ever hooked up with I met at the gym when we were both leaving. Tbh it was very spontaneous. My gym bag was at the same column as hers and I said something to light up the spark. This was back in college when I was shredded to the T so that obviously helped a lot as I had already noticed her looking towards my way a few times while I was working out. So my track record for the gym is 1 out of 1. Though I haven't tried this, I would say you probably dont want to outright in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 05:19 AM
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I think you're really wrong. This very scenario has happened twice to me in the past 7-8 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 05:04 AM
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If porn is cheating, then most men have long cheated past the point of no return
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 11:25 AM
4

I bet Bezos wish he had a prenup...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:41 PM
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Online dating apps has been a huge boon for me. I was always sort of physically a Chad but had big approach anxiety during teen years. ODS is very convenient. Half the struggle is having your shit together(good job, social pictures, etc.) and the other half is being attractive enough. I'm a big fan of Hinge. It shows you the girls who have already liked you and from there I select who I'm interested in and start messaging her. If she liked one of your pictures or q/a, you have a lot of common gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:31 PM
0

that's quite immature from those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:40 PM
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How many of these girls are fuckable though? I could quintuple my n-count in the next two months if that's all that mattered but see, there are these pesky little things called standards...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:10 AM
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You should have a greater purpose than just getting laid. Get a solid degree at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:08 AM
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If you have no standards then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:07 AM
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underrated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:04 AM
1

so rape. k...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:39 PM
1

If everyone did this, we'd have no girls though and end up like China :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:43 AM
1

They'd be more focused on killing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:06 AM
2

So you'd let humanity fade away...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:03 AM
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I was unaware that being a asshole was an alpha trait. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4s3mE7gTf2A How? This simply isn't reality. In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:01 AM
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to pass on their genes...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:33 AM
1

Damn some of you women are pretty mean. Men wouldn't do that in the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:25 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:19 AM
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This is a stupid question to post here. Obviously survival is the first priority. I could have asked "Women, is there any scenario in which you'd considered drastically lowering your standards" but that wouldn't have been as fun, would it now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:14 AM
1

Reproduction...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:12 AM
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Believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:12 AM
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Interesting. You the real MVP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:46 AM
1

I never said I was TRP...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:28 AM
3

kill billy too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:52 PM
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Why would you need to do this? This island has everything you'd need. You don't really need Billy as a provider or protector(to a degree). All you probably really need from Billy is his sperm. Just probing...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:51 PM
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TRP does say what women say isn't necessarily how they'd act so I guess some of these responses may be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:49 PM
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Lol what if Billy builds a massive wall around the island? Is there anything Billy could do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:47 PM
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It's just math. There can only be so many Chads and Tyrones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:26 PM
1

Sorry what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:22 PM
1

I think the equivalent would be a guy who did some expensive complicated leg lengthening surgery to appear say 5 inches taller. The woman, who was perhaps outside the range of previous SMV, would think she'd be getting tall babies but when little Joey comes out and maxes out at 5"6, it'd be a too late. So in the same vein, the woman who pretends to be far more fertile and naturally beautiful than she actually is only to give Matt ugly babies has deceived Matt. I think it depends on degree too. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:03 PM
1

So you're saying I should invest in cat stocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:49 PM
1

Pretty quickly because guys will assume she's a slut and even guys that dont meet that criteria will message her because she wont know how big it is till its bedroom time and for her, at that time, it'd be too late so long story short, bad example...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:46 PM
0

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:41 PM
0

Her n-count and her cheating on her LT BF "ruined her" more than anything but ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:33 PM
2

TIL women don't compare lovers. Every experience is a blank state with no mental references made towards past experiences. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:25 PM
1

It has its disadvantages too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:10 PM
1

Never said she's sitting at home dreaming about me but she will compare him, consciously or unconsciously, to previous lovers. The effect of this will be exacerbated if he is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:08 PM
1

Well people dont necessarily put their dick size on their tinder bios. That'd be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:06 PM
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Read carefully next time. Because I was the biggest she ever had without a doubt. That makes me unique. Yes I am proud of my sexual prowess. She does like variety. But I fucked her on and off for three years and she's sending me risque pictures so there is some sort of long-term connection she feels perhaps. Lol she's not occupying any unique space in my head. I threw in an example to answer OP's question. You sound upset for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:46 PM
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Maybe. Only time will tell. But she sent me nudes on snap a few months ago when she perhaps already had met this guy lol. Also toys like me don't come around too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:35 PM
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You just completed a basic logical fallacy. If someone is obese, they are by definition overweight. If someone is overweight, they are not necessarily obese. Swap obese for subpar If someone is “subpar” they are by definition, incompatible.... If someone is incompatible, they aren't necessarily subpar You're trying to switch it towards incompatible when the OP clearly stated subpar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:32 PM
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I believe she said subpar not incompatible but okay...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:20 PM
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subpar male /u/azngirl7689 Similar sentiments?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:16 PM
1

Try immigrating to portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:15 PM
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Women who incorrectly label themselves as one who is involuntarily celibate , or a female version of an incel. For one reason or another the real cause is that such women really want guys a few SMV points above them and routinely friendzone or ghost men at or below their SMV, but then complain that they are invisible to men. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:11 PM
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Depends on attractiveness. But even if it's say 2 a day- OP's general point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:05 PM
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Some people are subpar. Or do you think everyone deserves a participation trophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:03 PM
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TRP would also recommend toastmasters. You're conflating TRP with PUAs. They overlap in some ways but they are NOT the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:02 PM
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You're obviously a woman so you don't understand how important sex is for guys. How could you? You don't have testosterone bursting through your veins 24/7. And TRP is not about having ONS. If she's attractive, why would you only smash for one night. TRP is about having a rotation of attractive woman(say 7-12). This is peak TRP. It's also not about validation(maybe it is a little bit). It's because sticking our weanies into girls' vaginas feels very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:02 PM
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I had a fwb recently in my rotation for about two years. HB8. Now she has baby rabies and she's getting married later in the year after freaking out for the past two years. I haven't seen the guy but I'd be willing to bet he's pretty beta or she has done a good job in hiding her n-count.(She's easily 20+). Here's one of the issues: Sexually - I was one of the biggest she ever had(I'm 98th percentile). I stretched her as far and deep as those walls could go. Now she's marrying this guy who probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:56 PM
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They aren't really that attractive. Maybe the 2nd one. They seem fake and heavily reliant on makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 03:44 AM
1

That is true. Even then there is a bit of a social stigma attached. It should be encouraged not shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:56 PM
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Chad is more of a theoretical being. Chad is the guy on the top of the attractiveness scale, the social status scale with apt intelligence to bring to the table as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:54 PM
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How do we take care of their needs? You didn't even look at this question. Send them off to Iraq and Afghanistan or to fight ISIS. I envision a role similar to that of the Nightswatch in Game of Thrones. Because it maximizes paternal investment in her children by the father, which confers a survival advantage. After a certain level, paternal investment becomes moot. Not necessarily diminishing returns but extra investment hours does not increase "survival advantages". Those extra hours would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:52 PM
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Nature and passing on the best genes has nothing to do with fairness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:26 PM
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Not to be mean but if you if you have a BF% below 30% for a woman, you're almost pretty much guaranteed to be a 6 at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:36 AM
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That will be the arrangement for betas and less fertile women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:24 AM
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It's how its played out historically. It's how we got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:23 AM
1

No Chad could raise multiple children of multiple women in the same household.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:21 AM
1

Why exactly do you want a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:27 PM
1

Because at its core, it's a battle with other men - primarily betas. Most women are going to have >7 n-counts at the very least; the male strategy now is to be the one who they have the n-counts with and then toss her back to the beta for LTR. Women's n-counts have really just become another avenue of male competition. Even "good guys" who probably didn't want to play this game(and I'd categorize myself in this) are kind of forced to do so so as to not end up in absolute last place i.e. newly ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:21 PM
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I bet you most of them are just overweight women who would gain 4 or 5 points if they got to sub 30 body fat percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:27 PM
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At that height you're probably a pro athlete of some sort so it probably does hold true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:14 PM
5

There's an entire dating app dedicated to isolating the top 20% of women and men together so yes leagues do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:00 PM
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There are a lot more 20-30 year old women dating 30+ men than there are the reverse. I know most young women date guys their own age but I believe that there is a significant enough chunk of young women taken off the market by 30+ men that it affects the cohort of men in the 19-25 group. I'm 19, and no, the 30+ man is not more attractive than the 20 year old man. My friends and I choose guys very close to our own ages. Because who wants an old man? You're still barely an adult(no offense) but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:25 AM
1

high school love romantic movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:30 PM
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Some guys just need to get "stuff" out of their system. Don't judge him. Source: a guy
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 02:22 AM
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Yeah for gay girls, it's obviously different. I meant this from more of a perspective of "women think they know what women want(hetero-wise) so why aren't woman successful in playing the stereotypical male role of the aggressor(prob not the best word).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:03 AM
1

Why not work on your physique. Lift weights. Bench press. Run cardio. It will do wonders for your confidence. Definitely did for me. I used to be near-obese about five years, then I made a conscious decision to eat much healthier, work out five times a week and within a few months, my body was chiseling out. Just saying this is probably the part of your life(that affects dating) that's easiest to change. Income = probably can't increase that by a great amount within a year. Social status = same.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:29 AM
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Height helps a lot I can't lie but it's not everything. You still have to approach, be confident, etc. which become a lot easier for me when I started making good money. I also have very high standards(which I partially blame porn in part for too tbh). I exclusively go for 8-10s and they're not very easy to find - most of them are taken and have a ton of orbiters. I've had six partners(including ONS, FWBs,etc). My ex-s and casual lays ranged from 7-9s(well with the exception of one fattie in col…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:21 PM
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I just want a lot of men to stop being so pathetic allowing women to use sexuality to exploit them out of money and resources. Less competition would be an added bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:01 PM
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Man. 6"4. Athletic Physique. Near six-figure income at age 25. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:35 PM
1

It's more of a theoretical thing than an actual scientific breakthrough i.e. theoretically if such a drug existed without any side effects
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:32 PM
1

Pussy was why Einstein developed the Theory of Relativity?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:29 PM
1

Thirsty for Chad, not for incel slobs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:59 PM
6

What is hypergamy actually? Women wanting to find the best possible mate for their offspring? Wouldn't you want the same for yourself? If you had a choice to impregnate a VS model or plain jane from the street, all things equal, which would it be? It's not unique to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:30 PM
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Not literally obviously but it would be very skewed. Simply making women more horny won't make them any more likely to fuck Elliott Rodger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:26 PM
1

What's incel language? I only heard about the sub after it'd been banned so genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:24 PM
5

Hypergamy always existed. Most men historically did not pass their seed. Betas just had it good in the 1950s and deluded themselves into thinking this is how it always. Newsflash it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:47 AM
1

So no more coffee runs then? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:31 AM
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The DM article doesn't give the whole story. He was a bit of a creep - leaving creepy IG messages or just didn't get the hint she wasn't interested. https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/university-missouri-student-suspended-sexually-harassing-stalking-woman-sued-school-racial-discrimination-002315908.html At the end of the day, it probably also has to do with attraction which is why it's important to know your ranking. A 40-year old(probably broke) Ph.D student with a dad bod unless he has superhuman…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:08 AM
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Better than the alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:59 AM
2

I'd argue the reason more men don't do this is the fact it is illegal and the risk of social shaming and social ostracization is way too high for the reward if caught. If there was an Amsterdam-like district in the US where very attractive women sold sex for relatively affordable prices in very well-regulated environments, I believe prostitution would easily be a hundred billion dollar business. Probably already is now that I think about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:40 PM
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Because that would result in most of that sex going to the top 20% of males. Or top 10%. Whatever the number is irrelevant. The point is simply making women hornier won't do much for the bottom 50% of men who, due to their unsatisfied sexual urges, shell, in aggregate, billions of dollars and billions of productivity hours on fantasies of women. I believe they should have a technological option to temporarily reduce that urge that leads to all that wasted time and money and leads them to spend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:38 PM
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Even assuming your numbers are correct(which I place serious doubt on), there's a significant cost to all the time watching free internet porn. It's not just those things though - it's also the way men, in general, are malleable to various manifestations of sexual urge e.g. giving attractive women unwarranted passes for a mishap, etc. Essentially men's overall innate horniness prevents them from thinking straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:36 PM
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I think you misunderstood/misread what I was trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 08:55 PM
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It's needed because there are way too many beta-orbiters clogging up the market without really adding much value(yet) due to their status(or lack thereof), lack of attributes, etc. Why leave them clogging up the market and gassing up the orbitee's ego with unlimited validation when they can just park off and work on themselves and come back when they actually realistically have a chance at getting the women they desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 08:22 PM
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Pretty much all your assumptions were wrong. Congratulations. 1) I'm a guy 2) Not shaming men. Just calling out basic biology. 3) I actually lean red but I wouldn't identify with the sub. I 80% agree with their assessment of things and 10% agree with their solutions. 4) Men are very horny. Unless you're >40. Perhaps I should have clarified that this post was meant primarily but not exclusively for the 18-40 age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 08:18 PM
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Good point but this is being said with a 2018 view of science and technology. If in the future, male sex drive and just sex drive alone could be isolated and targeted while leaving everything else intact, that'd be the key but yes testosterone is very important for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 08:07 PM
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Yeah it will all depend on the price point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:59 PM
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STDs, risk of social shame/ostracization if caught by police, wasted time, wasted money. I can think of many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:58 PM
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Love isn't sex so we're not talking about the same thing here. I hear your point but I believe that's an unproven thesis. There's plenty of single men still in the workforce in the 30s and 40s being very productive with jobs from construction to corporate law. I think your reasoning applied more towards the early-to-mid 1900s when men were 100% supposed to be "providing" for women and the children. I don't think that applies as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:57 PM
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I agree so why not switch off those distracting impulses while men are gaining the capability/status in career, physique,etc and then switch it back on when they are ready to mate. Look at all the hopeless orbiters out there and how pathetic they look. Such a tool would do wonders for them and would free up the male excess in the SMP which is arguably increasing the standard of females that are easily sub-7. I think everyone would win except the women who would lose their orbiters. Alphas wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:41 PM
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The opportunity costs of all that wasted time. Also a lot of it is free but a lot of it is paid for - billions actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:38 PM
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> 70 percent of all Internet porn traffic occurs during the 9-to-5 workday, according to SexTracker. This means that one in five employees access cybersex at work. ​ https://www.shrm.org/hr-today/news/hr-magazine/pages/cms_006514.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:29 PM
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What's terrible about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:27 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:26 PM
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It costs money and time though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:26 PM
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