There was a post on Red Pill Women recently about how the women met their partners, and the answers were near universally that they knew them through their social circles, through families etc. None of them said that he approached me on the street, or even the library or pub. Now, this could be a bias as these women were describing their LTRs. Maybe they only slept with men who cold approached them. The question, however, remains: does cold approaching work?

Recently, I've began methodically going out for an hour most days to a few central locations in my city and approaching women. It has greatly helped with my approach anxiety, and I have found a definite greater control in holding frame and demonstrating value with women. It's becoming second nature. Results have been...ok? i haven't slept with a woman through cold approach yet, but I've closed a lot of numbers, made out a few times (in the street!) and I've had fun conversations with people. It does however feel like I'm putting in a lot of effort for little back. I'll get their numbers, we'll text, but there's not much to go on. We're told women have the rom-com fantasy of meeting the love of their life at Blockbuster, by accident, but I don't know. I'm now thinking to change tactics and develop social circle game, as it seems a far more effective way to vet, have common interests and greater connection/plausible deniability. I already have a vibrant social circle.

I wanted to know your experiences and opinions of cold approaching and it's effectiveness in your lifes.

And hey, I hope you have a good day, yknow.