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i hope u find inner peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:27 PM
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u just wanted to use this post to attack women, shame on you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:22 PM
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i made a post about this. normal people have not and never have used okcupid with any regularity. it is distinctly know as a site for offbeat weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 03:43 PM
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their faces bodies hair shitty clothes dork voices dork posture and dork mannerisms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:46 PM
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beach house is my go to sex music lol i wanna send him into existential crisis after he cums
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:26 PM
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jenny lewis, beach house, broadcast, metric, neko case, cocorosie, karen o/yeah yeah yeahs, st. vincent, au revoir simone, grimes, chvrches
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:53 PM
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your loss king
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:20 PM
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were gonna eat your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:17 PM
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taylor swift: never grow up best day the man you need to calm down soon you'll get better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:16 PM
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by female artists u mean popstars who don't write their own songs and are puppets for male song writers right? becuz if u listen to indie music/music by female songwriters this isn't true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:14 PM
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on a global scale im like a 9.999999999 in new york im an 8 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:46 PM
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cuz men are disgusting lol have you seen/been around them. part of arousal for women is the lowering of the disgust barrier allowing us to be okay being intimate with men. so when im not aroused im vaguely disgusted by the thought of being physical with them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:44 PM
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I was hypnotized by the mirror in my teen years too. damn i miss those days lol i thought something was seriously wrong with me for how enamoring i found myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:15 PM
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sucks for those girls whose boyfriends make them wait years for a ring. my boy is nuts for me and does whatever the fuck i tell him to, can't relate ur discussing my life, remember that before u call someone else a nobody :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:49 AM
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yes, marriage minded people who are pushing 30 often discuss marriage within the first few months of dating and set timelines. let me walk you thru the american courtship process since obviously you're not from here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:31 AM
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you spam the same thing multiple times a day, reported!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:51 AM
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wait im dying, what do you think is the typical projectery here...people generally go from being recently single to dating to being engaged lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:15 AM
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i'm actually referring to high quality men here and who they marry, i don't care about average joes. the men i'm talking about are literally some of the highest earning men in the country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:13 AM
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i'm saying it has been a good thing and less options have been better for me, do you have a personal experience as to how this wasnt the case for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:01 AM
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i know im describing the paradox of choice, since thats basically what the post was about without actually using the term, so i have no idea why you claimed my argument is as simple as "less options is better than more"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:41 PM
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i don't know, you should ask the 30something men dating 30 yos why they date them? my guess is because they're in love with them and want to grow old with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:58 PM
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ya he's kind of the love of my life lol 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:57 PM
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uh well i'll be married mom then so who cares at that point...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:40 PM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:01 PM
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oh i know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:59 PM
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i live in new york there are tons of people coming in and coming out at all times, i don't live in a static city where its like the same population of people to date from year after year. secondly, i'm not going to be dating forever lol, i've found a man i'm comfortable marrying already. even if it hadn't worked out with him, i would have found another guy by the end of this year. yes, postwall and all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:45 PM
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you really think im about to read something from /r/askwomen lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:33 PM
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yes it is current year, great catch girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:30 PM
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post-wall interview? i havent been contacted about this when do we get interviewed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:27 PM
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weird how stating ur demographic is shaming? lmfao. u are a gay black teenager didn't lady gaga tell you lot to love yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:25 PM
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once i stopped dating guys under 25 i found my future husband like whiplash 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:23 PM
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more sassy words from our resident gay black teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:22 PM
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that too. i have guy friends who bring around random college girls to be their "young pussy of the week" but any girl they actually LTR, bring to family dinner or post on instagram is some 30 yo bitch who works in publishing or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:16 PM
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well im happy you know what were talking about now so feel free to chime in on the actual discussion if u want to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:07 PM
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no i do not believe i will suddenly go from being easily attracted to guys to not being attracted to guys lol. the only way for that to happen is for guys to become entirely disinterested in me, which doesn't happen for any female
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:05 PM
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there has been plenty of discussion on how the wall negatively impacts women. if you haven't seen it fine but i'm sure almost everyone else here has. why you're acting surprised by this i don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:03 PM
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okay lets not pretend that people here don't say late 20s is the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:01 PM
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guys my age or a little younger realistically
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:01 PM
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and ill still have too many options. my dating pool isn't like 8 dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:59 PM
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i thought it was obvious i meant a good thing for women since the wall is generally spoken of as a net bad for women. i have hardly seen any discussion on how the wall actually impacts men negatively moreso than women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:55 PM
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ive definitely seen it with some of my friends that they become so numb to male attention that it takes a TON for someone to really ignite interest in them. i'm just really blessed that ive always been fucking boy crazy and as long as a guy met my vetting requirements it was all potentially a go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:53 PM
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i don't look very different at all from 20 outside of style and aesthetic shifts in fashion, but if a guy LIKES the inherent youthful glow of a teenage girl, i look different enough from teenage me for it to matter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:48 PM
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i don't want 30 yo men either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:44 PM
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is it a worse situation if the options that fell off were the ones that i don't want? because quite frankly outside of the guys who don't want to date a 28 yo, I could still date 18 - 25 yo guys if I wanted to. i just don't want to. cutting them out of my dating pool made dating better for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:44 PM
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well, i'm not saying its a good thing for men who are attracted to women, lol. (i've always felt like the female wall was more of a bad thing for men than it is for women. like they complain that women look like shit after 25 which means they're dating pool is restricted to a 7 year range of girls that every guys wants whereas for my old ass the skies the limit in terms of options lol) if i'm out and guys are more drawn to the barely legal girls in my crew (which yes happens), i'm like dope i do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:42 PM
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i feel like ive literally seen redpill men say the complete opposite, that its hot girls who suffer the most because they live life on easy mode until they crash into the wall and get the privilege of being the hottest thing snatched from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:34 PM
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statements like that come from women who don't like men as a class lol. like they inherently don't like the things that make men men, so naturally they believe there are only a few if any "good ones" out there. i love men, love being around men, love falling in love with men, etc, so for me, no, there are tons of good men out there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:29 PM
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unironically yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:28 PM
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I don't think my options are worse, they're just less. My dating pool was guys in their late 20s who like girls in their late 20s and I still had too many guys where I was like "I could be happy with him"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:25 PM
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average women never had access to HVM to begin with (as I define "HVM" at least), the wall is often discussed as a hot girl's dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:21 PM
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no its just that i wouldn't put "men i rejected" into any definable categorization. i'm in bars multipe times a week, there's no common traits of men who hit on me that i didn't like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:31 PM
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in the last year? nearly every guy i ended up rejecting for being too young for me for relationship purposes. i had actually thought that younger guys would be more than happy to just get some casual sex and fun with an older gal that wasn't really leading towards anything but that turned out to not be true. one of them still hate my guts for this even today, and he is probably the most stereotypical "chad" dude ive ever messed around with lol edit: well those are obviously the guys i was open t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:25 PM
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why do people keep saying "besides her puss". she offers her PUSSY. its not our fault that thats enough for us to be immediately sexualized while the inverse isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:08 AM
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no you all are definitely dumbfounded. and the question isn't about me, its about average women as a class. if you can't type "average women should be immediately sexually attracted to my face" because it sounds dumb to you, then thats a you thing, not a me thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:31 AM
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do you think women who go on testosterone and live as men exhibit the same rates of attraction as men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:07 AM
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if there is no one finding them attractive then they aren't "as attractive", attractiveness isn't some abstract concept
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:06 AM
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the person i replied to was asserting that by virtue of being on par with one another, sexual attraction should follow in terms of a "match up", and i said parity is not the basis of sexual attraction. the conversation was pretty easy to follow so i don't get what ur confused about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:52 AM
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If you are a woman who's hitting that Karen look in terms of the skin tone or have wrinkles everywhere, or you are closer to post wall woman's age... what do you actually offer to your potential suitor? nothing. but that wasn't my question. feel free to create your own post :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:40 AM
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you don't have to care but you also don't have to participate in the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:33 AM
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no its more like "i don't like the taste of pizza but you say i should, what is it about pizza you find so great?" most people who like pizza would be able to explain why. even i could do that. yet men can't do it here. fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:32 AM
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no, just like i wouldn't openly talk about my bowel movements if asked about them, and i'm not emotionally torn up about that either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:13 AM
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What do women offer besides coochie? coochie is enough, so... its not a stupid question when men are expecting women to mirror the qualities of their attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:41 AM
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i don't really care about the roles guys play out in the world as long as he's real with me. in fact, getting to know who a person is when they're naked in bed and its just two of us can feel really intimate when yo know they put on different masks for other people. getting to see all of the masks my man wears is one of my favorite things about being in a relationship then i can privately call him out on it when were alone lol. my bf acts so different around my friends vs. his friends and to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:35 AM
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no we have decades of sociology research and yes my lol makes my posts more valid than urs cry more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:28 AM
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well thankfully we have things other than your experience to gauge this with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:23 AM
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yes, that is the topic of the post, whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:21 AM
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lmfaaao its men who police and abhor male homosexuality, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:21 AM
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well thanks for actually answering the question. i agree that being sexually savvy, charming, socially adept, and fit and well groomed actually can make a man ONS material, but how common do u think it is for the average man to embody these qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:08 AM
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abundant and low value. women literally are disgusted by the penises of men they aren't attracted to, so just the existence of the penis alone isn't going to spark attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:06 AM
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tea!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:05 AM
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do ppl think sluts are like emotionally gridlocked about their slutty pasts? i dont think about the dicks ive hopped on, its not some core part of me im struggling to hide lmaaao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:04 AM
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i want ppl to list traits of the average man that lends themselves towards immediate sexualization
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:02 AM
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my brothers are like top 5% men and kind of just do their own thing and women have followed since they were 13 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:01 AM
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there's nothing about parity that obligates sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:00 AM
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another non answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:00 AM
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i would probably become morbidly obese thru eating whatever the fuck i want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:50 AM
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this is about immediate sexualization, not relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:47 AM
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men who can actually feel less anxiety about their ability and are more likely to be faithful men who can't/struggle to are more likely to leap at the opportunity to affirm themselves as having the option to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:46 AM
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well this is a discussion about heterosexual dating and men's expectations of women's desires for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:41 AM
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dicks don't really make women orgasm, so lets start there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:38 AM
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why can't you just say what the immediately sexual qualities are instead of being vague? you're basically saying what makes you a good long term partner which is great. you may not be the demographic of guy who is bitter about this, also great. but this is so interesting to me because if someone asked me what traits i think guys sexualize about me i'd be like "my tiny waist, my petite body frame that guys love pinning and fucking in bed, my lustrous waist length hair, my tight pussy, my bright g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:37 AM
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but chads have much better faces bodies and personalities, and women have access to these hotter guys sexually, so why would they scrape the bottom with guys less attractive than the ones they have access to for that? the point was about immediate sexualization. these girls WILL get with average guys for ltrs/marriage, but that isn't considered good enough by a number of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:33 AM
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im not asking what men want, i'm asking what traits do they have on par with the average woman that should be making them as attractive as the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:31 AM
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i mean i absolutely agree but again this is a good dynamic for LTR relationships, women don't look at random dudes across the bar and say "he would be such a good leader"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:30 AM
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a dick im disgusted by will no fuck me the same way as a dick im craving. men's "reality" is that they can't fuck the hot women they fantasize about so they adjust towards the women they can obtain. average women DO have access to hot guys, so this "adjustment to reality" point is kinda irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:29 AM
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its possible, but i don't think those sorts of men end up in discussions here. this is a question for the men of ppd lol. i think you're an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:27 AM
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alphas usually wind up that by happenstance , not thru forced determination
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:26 AM
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Well in an ideal world we all would find kindness, empathy, productivity, loyalty, etc. sexually attractive. I agree in the long term sense, but these are traits that only become visible over the course of long term interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:25 AM
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women find the dicks of average men disgusting, so thats not it. "dick is plentiful and low value"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:23 AM
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so these men know that they have nothing to offer in terms of short term sexualization, but simply wish they did, and resent women for agreeing with them. hmm, interesting i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:22 AM
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her available wet vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:20 AM
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how is dedication immediately decipherable? thats a beta bucks trait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:20 AM
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why can't yall answer the actual question lol. instead of jumping on chad's dick, why should they be jumping on the average guys dick instead? what are the traits that should inspire her to immediately want to fuck the average guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:16 AM
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well i understand "wanting" this, im more so asking to the men who rebuke women for going for beta bucks and think they should be getting immediate sexualization
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:13 AM
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the question is what traits about u should inspire women to treat you like men treat women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:12 AM
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yeah being attracted to cute guys is supeeeer shitty lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:25 AM
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there are virtually no straight male strip clubs. in the context that women usually entertain strippers, straight men act the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:48 PM
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i'm fine with my standards causing issues for men i don't care about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:47 PM
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lmao! what do you think the casual market was like before feminism exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:44 PM
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well women can genersally get someone more conventionally attractive than them in a hookup context. only men obsess over looksmatch shit, women just bang the hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:36 PM
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women are not attracted to an individual man by default regardless of how "out of her league" he is, women are not men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:22 PM
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its okay to be wrong bud
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:12 PM
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https://www.bustle.com/p/what-turns-a-millennial-on-8-things-that-are-hot-af-to-our-generation-35941 36% of girls of my generation report having anal sex ur entitled to ur weird projections about me, but ur not entitled to ur own facts lmao. sorry you werent invited to the party bud
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:00 AM
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.less than .01% of the population at large ever have engaged in this behavior yeah, no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:19 AM
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it would be a good point only if mouths were sexually dimorphic like genitals are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:46 PM
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i mean no not rly we just get bored sexually and want something new lol its really not that deep. i would say the difference between men and women is that chunk of women are content to just stop having sex with their partner when the novelty wears off but not look for it elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:46 PM
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they're so defeatist about the average guys chance of becoming hot enough to have a couple average looking fwbs no were not lol or even bang the occasional hot chick as i define "hot chick", yes, i am defeatist about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:15 AM
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literally dump on the spot territory for me lmfao that is so deeply disgusting and unappealing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:08 AM
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I know you and Helleniclady desperately want to believe that it can't be that good wait what? i have no idea why you're saying i have any desperation about anything pertaining to this topic. i only have what ive personally witnessed to go off of. you obviously are the one with the bias here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:25 AM
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seems strange to discuss the chinese in a post specifically about the koreans and japanese? young weebs men don't idolize or pedestal chinese women like that, and the same vice versa for japanese and korean women vs. chinese women towards western men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:55 PM
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Where are you located that your perception of white men married to Asian women can be generalized as “Tall men married to absolutely beautiful women”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:45 PM
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Lol almost every dude I’ve broken up with one of his boys made a move on me in the aftermath. Almost every time. Pussy > male friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:48 PM
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sure bud. good luck with ur adult braces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:45 PM
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Never. Why would I do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:42 PM
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They’re only whining about low white birth rates. My sister is mixing her white genes with a half Jew half Chinese guy and I might fuck around and mix mine with a Chinese too 🤷🏼‍♀️ Welcome to the future dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:12 PM
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My college bf took me on multiple international vacations. We dated, broke up, he’s a lawyer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:12 AM
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No but my boyfriend wants to do those things with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:21 AM
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Yes, those are things my boyfriend happily does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:13 AM
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So you’re homoromantic. Cool. Why on earth are you projecting this onto other dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:07 AM
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I get catcalled daily. I’m sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:54 PM
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Different women have different experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:10 PM
1

Catcalls aren’t an approach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:07 PM
1

why don't you change the things you can, like not being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:35 AM
0

how if I could easily get one of the type of guys I dated in the past? You only understand dating as picking from limited options because that’s your life, it isn’t mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:54 PM
1

no lol i don't really bring guys to my place until they're my boyfriend, until then i always sleep over theirs. i basically moved into my bf's place after the second date tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:13 AM
6

its also the precursor to declining sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:12 AM
3

men don't consider making out sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:10 AM
3

a come on isn't sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:09 AM
1

5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:02 PM
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why do yall keep drudging up the obvious? yes, height is the most important attribute of male attractiveness. its always been this way, this isn't a new fangled 2020 phenomenon. it will never not be the case. as ive gotten older ive gotten flexible about things i would have never thought i would, but above average height is one consistent characteristic im not willing to budge on...ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:38 PM
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Your boyfriend's view of your experience changes simply because he is there.You aren't gonna be hit on while he is there with you ,you won't get out of hand ,you will be more down to earth etc. well i mean he's okay with me going out without him now because he knows that i'm not going to be twerking on a handstand on the middle of the dancefloor surrounded by a bunch of dudes. tho yes it is possible that guys in the section or what have you will hit on you still, its a lot easier to maintain you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:11 PM
1

they just don't get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:59 PM
1

so you do the same stuff that ppl who go to clubs do before going to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:58 PM
2

my bf asked me not to go clubbing without him because it made him uncomfortable, so I had him actually come out with me a few times and experience what its like for me at clubs. because i had the impression that his idea of my experience is like what you're describing, standing in the middle of a sweaty dancefloor having dicks rubbed on me he was surprised to see that i spent the majority of the time completely isolated from 95% of the club at a table surrounded by girls where guys couldn't even…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:53 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:03 AM
1

its actually a black twitter thing, so start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:07 AM
3

well i'm in my 20s and my bf is a selfmade millionaire in his 20s, wbu ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:26 AM
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not to be "that person", but i have it on good authority that he's a cheater. or maybe they're quietly open, idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:52 PM
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seriously lol. but that poster is always throwing studies at ppl as if in a rapid discussion format like this i have the time to actually evaluate and assess the studies methods and findings. like a study saying something makes it gospel lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:23 PM
5

well thats a valid reply, thank you, but the wall is usually talked about as being a 30s phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:21 PM
1

what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:57 PM
-1

who r u lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:50 PM
0

kk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:49 PM
1

nope, sorry, thats the conversation youre having in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:43 PM
1

We are talking about your comment and how it’s not representative of “women” because now even you believe the dating scene gets harder as women age. sir, this is a conversation about the wall. why do you keep replying at me if you're not even talking about the topic you always get yourself tangled in these convoluted webs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:41 PM
1

i haven't seen that to be true, so. in fact, a lot of the guys who we dated around with in our early 20s are still the same guys were dating around with now. ive seen my older 30something friends date from virtually the same pool of guys that they were dating from 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:32 PM
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The OP asked what it means for “women,” not the women in your friend group. The OP was specifically asking about women in the aggregate. okay, and he used his own personal attractions and experiences with women as a foundation for his own doubt, so I did the same. since you don't seem even to believe the wall is real in the way TRP conceptualizes it, i'm going to stop replying now. because were talking about the TRP's idea of the wall, not old people not being to find old people because everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:30 PM
1

i don't know, what is it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:19 PM
2

I am saying your personal anecdote doesn’t say much with regards to people in the aggregate. yeah, no ones does lol? but the OP was asking are opinions/perspectives so i gave mine i agree that the number of high quality people available does reduce, but not necessarily in corrletaion with "The wall", which is the topic of the post, hence why i menttioned women in their 30s, which is when the wall is commonly said to begin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:19 PM
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okay, and how does that invalidate my comment that "my friends in their 30s have not experienced a dip in the quality of men that they are dating" a reduced number of single high quality people doesn't mean that the remaining pool of high quality people aren't still dating each other u realize that right? there can be fewer of them to go around but that just means the pool becomes more incestuous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:11 PM
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you can tell i didn't read it because im saying " i didn't read it " all i said was my 30something friends haven't had a dip in quality of the men they are dating", i didn't say "the pool of desirable men doesn't shrink as we age"...we continue aging beyond our 30s fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:06 PM
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i didn't read it because your studies are boring and irrelevant, stop throwing them at ppl, no one cares someone along the way told u that studies are sacred and its really sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:01 PM
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thank u for another decade old "study" loll youre free to link your studies and im free to say "not good enough", whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:56 PM
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if youre here to learn then why are you proclaiming anything, maybe just sit back and read
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:45 PM
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the correlation between having a degree and being what i consider high quality is very weak, sorry. i'm a millenial, having a degree is like having a high school diploma for us. having a degree =! high quality man, especially in my generation. there are lot of tech guys and guys with family money who don't have degrees that you're leaving out o the equation. everyone lives in an enclave, i dont know why people who live in shitsville think their experienes matter more than anyone elses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:44 PM
3

you don't have to do anything, i'm talking about me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:40 PM
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so again, us being whores means that we shouldn't apply the wall to us? okay again very fascinating. my friends are not outside of the norm for my setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:34 PM
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i don't disagree that high quality men generally have educations, but the majority of men with degrees are not high quality by virtue of having one. so don't throw me stats about "men with degrees" and then summarize that as high quality men. most of the men on ppd have degrees. i also don't know how thats relevant to my point that the quality of men my friends are dating in their 30s hasn't dipped. i live in an enclave of high quality people in manhattan where the age of first marriage for MY d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:33 PM
1

office manager
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:30 PM
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i have no idea what you're responding to. where does this data say anything about "high quality men"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:28 PM
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are you saying being a whore makes you immune to the wall? that is a fascinating interpretation of trp's wall theory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:27 PM
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both, depending on their individual desires. my friends who are college educated get the former and my friends who do bottle service and nightlife get a mix of the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:26 PM
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well when you define it that way its pretty meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:25 PM
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that was literally not your point, considering you said she "still thinks she's too good to talk to me" do ppl here have strokes and forget what they said just a few hours ago? do yall have alzheimers??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:41 PM
1

its old enough to work 50 hours a week
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:40 PM
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how does my N count relate to the men my friends are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:38 PM
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ive seen no quality drop in the men my 30something friends date compared to when they were 20something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:35 PM
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or shes just not attracted to you lmao? when did not bein interested in someone become "im too good for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:32 PM
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idk but if being in your 30s is post wall then the wall simply isnt that bad as far as im concerned, judging by my friends in that age range and their lives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:30 PM
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28
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:27 PM
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yes lol thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:26 PM
1

in my experience they mostly prefer to date white guys. they might say its "just who they're around most often" which yes is part of it but i've seen my friends swiping on bumble etc they basically never swipe on nonwhite guys. in my very progressive group of female friends i'm like the first one to bring a nonwhite guy around in a long time tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:11 AM
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no, this is another work of fiction. those women are almost always married lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:06 AM
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This post is a referendum on the position “men are attracted to young girls” no its not, thats something you completely made up in your head. the post is about what the title and body of the post literally say its about: men's likelihood of marrying much younger early 20s women. if you want to talk about something else you're free to make your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:02 AM
2

okay but were talking about marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:19 AM
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my bf is chinese american and did just fine dating before me. he predominantly dated asian american girls though (. these minority guys who claim to struggle because of their race are probably only interested in white girls themselves who naturally tend to date white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:22 AM
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i'm just making a point. the men here aren't the only men in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:47 AM
1

"i want it to fester inside you"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:24 AM
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it would surprise me a lot, because ive never met a single woman who doesn't know that women are on a timeline and that you can't just go back to having the dating life of a 22yo when you are 36. especially a woman who already did it the first time and got married and divorced by 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:02 AM
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multiple women have told you "I divorced my husband because i wanted to date like a 22 yo again"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:46 AM
2

you could get a girlfriend too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:42 AM
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lol this is ugly ppl blabber
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:40 AM
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how do you know that was their thought process?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:34 AM
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I'm a 22 year old dude so I'm young, but I behave cocky funny and it works perfectly. Anyway, my point is as above....this is a terrible trade off for men. sounds like its actually only a terrible trade off for the ugly, uncool men who couldnt fuck girls in their early 20s. how is it a terrible tradeoff for the "douchebags" who got to fuck these women? or are you defining "men" in a way that inexplicably excludes "bad boys and douchebags"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:31 AM
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Lol women don't really get divorced to "get back on the market", they divorce because they already have a prospect lined up OR They are happy to be alone, they just want to get rid of the husband
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:25 AM
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when people talk about pickmes, what is the visual image of the type of woman that comes to mind, jw?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:23 AM
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Context: going out on a Tinder date, first date; they decided to go out to dinner, nobody invited anyone else, it was a common decision. how does this just happen, via tinder? anyway the second the guy said separate checks i would just pay? who challenges someone on that, do these things ever actually happen lmao. now would i ever see him again, no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:20 AM
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school, bars, parties, through friends, through tinder (fewer than you'd think though), through social media (when i was single i would just see a hot guy on instagram follow him then like a few pics and then moves would be made lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:16 AM
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it is high. its not too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:09 AM
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i will concede that, but its not simply a race thing is what i mean. i'm disputing that white inherently equals chad. were in the post college happy hour dating scene, not bangkok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:54 AM
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i'm 28 and have been sexually active since 14, its really not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:48 AM
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i did too!!! toner who?? my hair was elite tier once i found the right stylist in college though, i really miss the blonde but i feel like pushing 30 i didn't want to start leaning into real housewives territory lol so now i'm back to ashy dishwater and i think i look like a bb now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:42 AM
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but these are white guys....interacting with mostly white girls...white girls don't see white guys as "automatically chad", they're just dudes...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:38 AM
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they are white guys from midwest stock, average to above average height, no glaring physical flaws, they all work out are into fitness too, if you saw them you'd definitely think "those guys are finance bros" lol so definitely not like anything particularly standout worthy those guys ive been friends with for a decade since college. i also have a second group of guy friends i've accumulated thru social media/poaching from exes that are way more hipster/artsy/into fashion, but those guys ive alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:37 AM
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lol don't get me started. i was ice blonde for a decade up until recently, its basically a cheat code to stacydom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 07:43 PM
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i never saw my male friends as particularly attractive until i started posting here but apparently they are. they pretty much have zero issues plucking girls off of tinder (relatively attractive young girls for the most part). there is basically a revolving door of girls tagging along with us on nights out that they mostly met on tinder/bumble. when they do go out looking to score with someone irl they don't seem to have any issue doing that in the bars either. and getting girlfriends/ltrs is es…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 07:39 PM
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i did option 1 all throughout hs/college so i guess i'd pick that again no, i didnt actually "love" being a bleach blonde lauren conrad-clone but thats what boys liked so thats what i became
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:44 PM
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he called his gf retarded for dating him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:38 PM
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any average men probably worked hard during their 20s, got almost 0 dates and attention from women, no that is not the experience of "average" men that is the experience of ugly/below average men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:31 PM
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lots of men here say that, and im sure most of the posters here have seen it said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:49 PM
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why am i supposed to care about your desires, im talking about men as a collective not u. most men end up married at some point, its just a matter of when.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:20 PM
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most models have lithe young girl bodies, definitely no fake boobss and hot faces lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:19 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:41 AM
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well, you're a dude, why would the guys check you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:41 AM
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i think they still exist in vast swaths of middle america? most people don't live in coastal cities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:38 AM
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you need to break down how many of those "men marrying women 5+ years younger" are 30something men with 20something women versus middle aged couples with wider age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:37 AM
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where tf did you get that number from. ive fucked like 60 dudes maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:34 AM
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consider that the largest age gap marriages are between quite old men and younger women (meaning 60 year old men marrying 50 year old women) and not 30 year old men marrying 22 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:32 AM
3

c'mere 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:17 AM
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this overall hasn't been my experience dating guys my age in my 20s. 🤷 i've pretty much always found that guys who are closest in age to me are the ones who want to LTR me the most i dont really hang around people who cant get casual sex so the idea of marrying out of desperation for sex literally doesn't exist in my world and thats where im speaking from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:09 AM
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which she is entitled to even if they're married for one day. not really...you can protect pre marriage wealth a lot better than post marriage wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:04 AM
2

their are other social norms /desires outside of sex drive (and sex stigmas) that put a stop to this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:02 AM
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that has been the primary pattern for first marriages in the US tho. second marriages of divorced losers don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:59 AM
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I would think the likelihood of the commitment enduring would influence the value of the initial commitment? not necessarily? simply getting the initial commitment can mean a lot for a woman. especially if she gets with a man at a young age and is thus entitled to half of their assets at divorce 🤷 she may end off better financially than a second wife would. and a lot of women see marriage as a vehicle for raising children as well and may herself be itching for divorce once the kids are old enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:57 AM
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I think it's pretty ridiculous when some women on here start to argue that it is impossible for younger women to ever be attracted to older, high-value men. i don't see that said with any regularity. what i do see said is that young women aren't particularly interested in the majority of older men because they ARENT high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:54 AM
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such men aren't looking to settle down EITHER WAY. i didn't overlook that at all, its basically the thesis of the post lol? the point is that the prime demographic of "men who want to date much younger women" are not particularly interested in marrying a younger woman, so telling women that their best shot at marriage is to date from this demographic is wrong. not all men who date younger may be like that, but compared to the much larger pool of guys close to their own age who are interested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:52 AM
3

oh i cant speak for other places online
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:50 AM
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I meant the 30's guy 20's woman topic specifically yeah again the vast majority of these discussions are started by the men here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:47 AM
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because were talking about the likelihood of obtaining the initial commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:42 AM
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yes thats what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:41 AM
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i don't think all men would at all, i think most men would naturally seek a young wife while they themselves are young like theyve always done
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:40 AM
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most of these topics are started by men tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:39 AM
9

yes all men should date 22 yo models that would be a winning strategy them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:39 AM
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yes men can grow weary of their aging spouse, im talking about the thought process behind the initial commitment. a 34 yo marrying a woman close to his age is thinking "im going to grow old with her :)" whether that turns out to be true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:38 AM
2

he did a lot wrong on a social level
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:42 PM
6

support was widespread in the late 2010s, not in the 90s or whatever when most of this shit happened
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:39 PM
3

normie men are. stop speaking for normies!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:34 PM
1

where do you live
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:33 PM
10

except in the real material world that is not what actually happens my 30 - 35 yo male friends who "date" much younger women aren't looking to settle down, they're looking to fuck i only hear this biotroofs "fertility" nonsense from failsons on reddit who i suspect don't actually date younger women much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:30 PM
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i have never experienced this. these guys just aren't that into you. and 30-35yo guys aren't looking for anything that deep with you most likely, they're basically warning you "dont expect much out of this", and they're being truthful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:26 PM
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oh no, skinny women, how awful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:25 PM
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i don't know why men think i would deny hypergamy if it was real? lol it wouldn't be a bad thing for me in anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:17 PM
2

so no? okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:16 PM
-1

yes they wear makeup but very little
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:16 PM
12

if you think the majority of couples feature a more attractive male, then maybe you are gay quite honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:05 PM
5

be in new york during fashion week and see a gaggle of 19 yo models champagne drunk at the club and tell me 10s don't exist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:03 PM
3

the existence of underage victims is what he was prosecuted for literally, pissing on a 14 year old on camera started the outcry. so in other words, you can't cite a single instance of what you said happening happening. okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:02 PM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:45 PM
5

he unambiguously filmed himself fucking a 14 year old, thats why he got arrested
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:44 PM
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why would a young person post here? what do they have to reflect on or contribute exactly? from 18 - 25 i was busy being young and hot , its only now that i have a desk job and nothing to do for a chunk of the day that i just sit around posting much. the majority of the very young people posting here seem quite damaged in some way also the redpill discourse peaked years ago, it was largely a gen-x/millenial conversation. does gen z even know what theredpill was lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:41 PM
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no that assumes that "there is someone for everyone" which has never been a thing for all of recorded human history. there has never been an expectation that everyone is meant to find someone. historically a huge portion of men get killed off thru war and violence and a portion of women become spinsters. there is no such thing as an "objective" counterpart beyond what you can actually obtain in the material world. if a man can't attract a single mate, he has no counterpart, he is meant to be alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:34 PM
2

when has it ever happened once, can you find literally just one example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:32 PM
3

okay but even if you meet a girl you're eventually going to have to deal with being around her friends, her family, etc...thats whats involved in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:31 PM
19

do you people ever go out into the real world with this "women only date up" nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:23 PM
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so 5s who you only see as "bangable but not LTR material" are more resistant to you than women you don't treat that way? fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:22 PM
3

what grown adult has been jailed for sleeping with a young adult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:10 PM
4

it actually does make you a little bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:10 PM
5

. People lose friends and jobs because they do something considered reprehensible by society who has lost jobs for dating a young woman, which is what were actually talking about, not vague thing considered "reprehensible by society" and people are allowed to choose their friends, you can cry like a little bitch about people not wanting to be your friend because they disagree with your lifestyle, but that makes you a little bitch you're not entitled to shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:26 PM
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my point is that "shame" shouldn't matter to grown ass men intent on doing something that others think is shameful. they shouldn't spend their time defending themselves against shame because they're not going to change anyone's minds. just embrace being shameful like everyone else who does shameful things. i'm a grown ass woman who is fine being shameful because i'm an adult and don't need other adults to approve of my decisions because i'm not 4 years old and they're not my fucking mommy and da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:57 AM
3

you seem confused about your own argument so i guess we have nothing to discuss here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:23 AM
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Not all people want to silently conform to ridiculous norms imposed by society, people fight for their rights, I don't see anything wrong with this. again, what "right" are you fighting for that's under threat? do you have material evidence of feminists trying to raise AOC to 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:55 AM
5

You’re not entitled to affirmation or approval. If you’re that sensitive to social disapproval, Maybe don’t do the thing that the majority of people consider distasteful? I’m not aware of any movement to illegalize sex between young adults and older adults so what is being “infringed” upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:29 AM
2

So can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:27 AM
4

the AOC in most of the US is 16
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:30 AM
11

i think most adults see 18 year olds of both genders as children. its not really as gender coded as men here seem to think. people definitely aren't embracing women well into their 20s or beyond getting with teenage boys either. trust me i know lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:11 AM
11

yea, my friends roasted tf out of me when they found out i banged this 18 yo that we all kinda know from around town. i was p much like "u mad lol" and kept banging him. frankly i know i'm a good person and that he wasn't being taken advantage of and as long as the two CONSENTING ADULTS in the scenario are happy thats all that matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:10 AM
5

its a massive hit to their smv yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:01 AM
6

this is how you eventually end up with a rape charge from some salty girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:26 AM
6

because baldness is unattractive, and even more unattractive when contrasted with a youthful face, giving a sort of sickly look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:22 AM
27

i find it fascinating that men feel the need to constantly argue or defend their right to fuck young girls. like why do you need everyone to approve or accept every decision you make. its really immature and frankly feminine. its already settled law so no one is trying to take away your right to do it so...? i'm 28 and fucked 18 year old boys during my single phase and didn't then chase after people for them to approve of that decision. i'm sure some of my friends sideeyed me but uh okay, whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:20 AM
1

That isn't the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:38 PM
1

well you're an outlier. for most men they primarily focus on the body in their sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:37 PM
1

New York is one of the rare cities in the country that has a surplus of young women this is a strange myth i see repeated a lot but isn't actually true. from 18 - 35 there are more men than women in nyc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:32 AM
4

well most men aren't attracted to every woman the same age as them so you are an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:10 AM
3

you've never not been attracted to someone your age before?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:06 AM
7

well these people live in the sticks, u can tell by the way they talk about single people, their dating options, dating customs, and access to hook up scenes. the biggest problem people talk about in new york is having TOO Many options for both men and women, not a lack of options
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:29 PM
4

i literally don't see what this reply has anything to do with my comment, did u reply to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:21 PM
6

why do u all act like all 19-25 year olds are "hot" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:11 PM
5

why is it assumed that they're post wall? from the comments and posts ive seen there i would guess the vast majority of them are college aged or shortly past it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:41 PM
5

too many cocks my tits are a perfectly sloped handful idk what innie or outie pussy means i just lay there i don't really do much of anything. my bf came in after his shower and fucked me and then came in my mouth then cuddled me to sleep i'm actually a complete sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:24 PM
5

no my man needs to only use the internet for sports updates
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:21 PM
3

ama
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:05 PM
3

yes, true, women generally don't take vows of celibacy when they leave the country
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:05 PM
1

thats just cruel i would legit dump my bf if he pulled that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:23 PM
1

halloween is too on the nose
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:22 PM
5

well i'm not a person, i'm an angel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:52 PM
5

less than i did back home. if you're positing that women who go abroad also continue to have sex lives, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:19 PM
5

idk i'm a big whore and even i didn't really hook up much when i was travelling a lot in college/early 20s. i was more into shopping and food and clubbing than meeting boys tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:23 PM
7

white american female people say i'm buggin but my boyfriend is chinese and his dick legit tastes like chnese food
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:12 PM
1

lol iunno its just a song lyric
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:11 PM
2

no i need a guy to be obsessed with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:13 AM
2

"i'm blonde, i'm skinny, i'm rich, and im a bit of a bitch" - lady gaga, 2013 the guys who like me just really like me. then i pick from that pool of dudes. guys have to be crazy about me for me to even want to be with them lol. it all just works out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:59 AM
3

ghosted by a man i'd been dating after sex? no. i've not heard back from guys but generally it was a ONS type situation, and didn't want to see him again. i've never been the one dumped either in a breakup. lol i guess thats just been my luck of the draw
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:05 AM
1

no, i already feel like most of the guys i've dated have been "hotter compared to other dudes" than i've been "hot compared to other girls", at least in our immediate environment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:01 AM
4

never
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:42 PM
3

i've never been rejected before
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:36 PM
1

no, i don't think ive eer experienced rejection from someone of the opposite sex before tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:35 PM
7

people who understand female nature the most hate women the most. These are the red pillers, the incels, and the MGTOW Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:27 PM
3

no thats not a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:14 PM
0

women saying no when they mean "yes" is rare, it seems more like "no with conditions"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:04 PM
6

well no isn't a binding lifetime contract
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:03 PM
0

subtext and nuance are communication
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:00 PM
7

where's the "something he did" option? or the "because we were young and dumb and these things are designed to implode" option
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:59 PM
1

i dont consider this a bad character trait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:38 PM
6

oh yeh definitely but in the moment the no was factual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:17 PM
5

yes most non incels can have a one night stand, again its not a great accomplishment. and most of these guys aren't getting with very hot women so thats irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:57 PM
1

for any man who will never be my boyfriend (ie all men except a handful) you just need to treat me equally and leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:56 PM
9

well most non-incels get sex so thats not really an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:55 PM
9

no it looks desperate the second you step away from one disinterested girl and start talking to another
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:44 PM
11

you think women don't notice the dude whose desperately flailing at every girl in the bar lol. i wont even have to tell her anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:40 PM
9

i...what? who are you people? if a guy said that to me i would be so dumbfounded. i would probably laugh in a dude's face and feel embarassed to be associated with him if he said something like that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:38 PM
3

resistance is different from "no." i cant speak for other women but saying no to sex has never been a shit test or game for me. i have done coy resistance or teasing or playing hard to get but i've never rejected a dude hoping he'd keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:13 AM
20

The issue is a far more personal one of a guy needing to figure out how to effectively communicate with a female. "no means no" is for men who will never learn how to effectively communicate with women using anything but literal language. the idea that everything is teachable and that its possible to truly learn intuitive communication is foolish. for a subsection of men understanding female nuance is simply never going to happen because of how their brains are wired so its better for them to ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:10 AM
2

yeah i have no clue what american culture he's referring to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:56 AM
6

thanks for giving us the tea on this ambiguous eurppean country u refuse to name? such a great seed for discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:48 AM
17

online dating sucks because its impossible to replicate the magic of meeting a guy IRL for the first time. like the very format of OLD is more suited for men's attraction, women are never going to take to it as strongly for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:38 AM
3

exactly, women work off the binary scale when are men gonna get that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:05 AM
1

ive never been on a coffee date
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:55 AM
2

i live on the upper east side (for now lmao im moving downtown) no i had no idea my current bf was wealthy i assumed he was a typical 20something finance dude and i knew he didn't grow up wealthy. he's just been very successful quite young. we went for drinks at a speakesy and then dinner on our first date, all in all like what 300 bucks? thats typical here though. i have no problem just getting cheap happy hour drinks on a first date tbh but its usually guys who want to flex even a little bit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:31 AM
2

a guy doesn't "have" to do anything, i'm saying what they actually do. i've dated new money (current bf), sons of generational wealth, big business money, sons of big name art dudes, celebrity tier, and guess what they all splurge on pretty girls they're interested in i dont "need" a rich man either, but i live in a wealthy environment and thats naturally who i tend to date. i dont give a shit about money when it comes to attraction and have even turned down guys who come off like spoiled rich b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:14 AM
1

lol i make 95k base salary and 20kish supplementary income a year at 28 years old and save a third of my base salary and i'm 28, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:01 AM
2

Only rich dudes I know who did this grew up with or inherited money well yeah those are the legitimately wealthy and the guys were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:42 AM
1

lol sit this one out bud
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:41 AM
4

you can't shed that baggage. that literally was the entirety of your adult life. there's nothing wrong with owning what you experience. you weren't born a 47 year old. you can be an atypical 47 year old but that doesn't make you a member of my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:39 AM
4

Lol delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:37 AM
9

what about any of this is inherently "28"?? being a stunted 47 year old is not the same as being a 28 year old. to everyone with eyes you are just another middle aged man. 28 year olds don't have multiple ex wives. you may be a few years into your career but that comes with the 30 years of baggage wherein you apparently weren't building your career. i swear older people can be so creepy and delusional about this. as an actual 28 year old professional its jarring that a freaking 50 year old would…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:05 PM
2

okay were not talking about your son were talking about generational trends as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:27 PM
6

do you possess the male desirability equivalent of the traits you're looking for is a more important question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:25 PM
5

I am living the lifestyle of a 28 y/o early career professional. no you're fucking not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:23 PM
2

ok were talking about in terms of dating and relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:18 PM
2

cuz you're blind to having become outdated. things are definitely different culturally since the 90s lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:12 PM
3

yes i already said which part i said "you're wrong" to so why are you commenting the same thing at me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:03 PM
3

i don't disagree that a man's willingness to spend money is a poor filter for screening for exclusivity. i was responding to the insane notion that legitimately rich dudes don't spend frivolously on pretty girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:19 PM
6

she's right, you're wrong. weve actually been on the receiving end of being wooed by rich dudes, you haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:01 AM
1

super mature! wish you all the best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:58 AM
2

you reply wasnt actually a reply to anything i said, just a random ramble about a subreddit that isn't the one we are currently in. literally what does anything you said have to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:50 AM
0

yes quite possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:48 AM
3

i literally do not give a fuck about fds, why are you talking about that sub in reply to my post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:46 AM
0

i can just tell you dress like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:45 AM
3

yeah, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:02 AM
2

cuz i dont really have anything to say on the rest of reddit, sorry i'm not in the reddit bubble like that? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:01 AM
3

lmfao your username!!!! iconic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:47 PM
6

bald or remotely balding short (under six feet) darker skinned minorities like blacks and indians over 30 lol non-white collar professional (technically only developed this rule after my last boyfriend who was a DJ)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:41 PM
3

uh, may the best woman win? i don't know what else you imagine could happen in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:42 PM
2

i cant speak for other women but i am pretty and charming by default so i act like im the prize by default. i don't know or care about what ugly charmless women do. even for a plain woman its not hard to find an INDIVIDUAL man who sees them as a prize. blame male thirst and men have said they literally do not give a fuck about women's careers or education level and women see that and respond accordingly. if they mean something more nuanced then maybe they should just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:40 PM
2

uh, yeah, it is, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:37 PM
12

lol men think just having wealth is desirable or relevant to women. no they want a guy who is going to spend on them bb no matter how much he theoretically has in the clouds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:35 PM
17

why do men think they get to decide their value to women? by the standards of those women, a man who wants a low cost first date is low value. we get to decide that, not you. the rest of what you're saying is irrelevant (its also wrong, but its mostly irrelevant).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:34 PM
11

well men are the ones who say they don't care about our accomplishments education career and that just being pretty and charming is enough sooooo...??????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:14 PM
3

28 18 - 28 its increased as ive gotten older to include guys my age lol i socialize with 16 - 33ish year olds he was a decade younger than me. he was a fly kid lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:12 AM
9

no its really not that uncommon to not use social media, however if he's annoying and ~off da grid~ about it then stfu. i'm going to use social media regardless so i don't want to hear any bitching about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:55 AM
1

why cant u literally produce the data that you said exists. everything else ur saying is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:25 PM
2

no i don't know that, link them rn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:37 PM
7

i support the queer community
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:36 PM
1

are you thinking of katymaxx i believe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:34 PM
1

what was your impression of the population of people on okc compared to irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:33 PM
1

we all know what normal ppl means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:27 PM
3

but am i lying??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:27 PM
2

then present to me the tinder data not the okcupid data. its about to be 2020 why tf are we still referencing okcupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:25 PM
0

ew?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:24 PM
2

i don't really think about sex as a vague concept but i think about my boyfriends body and fucking him in particular all day lol. literally went in the bathroom and snapped nudes at work cuz i was bored and wanna annoy him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:23 PM
4

I'd be careful about assuming all MGTOW are low value though. If it was only low value men acting in a MGTOW fashion, it never would have registered on women's radars at all. mgtow has not registered on women's radar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:21 PM
4

i'm 28 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:18 PM
5

brad pitt looks disgusting to me as do all middle aged with a mop of dyed hair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:09 PM
3

as in i got there and he never showed up? yeah thats happened before. i always set up a drinks date as the first date so i literally gave no fucks and have no problem drinking alone at the bar and hey if im in the mood someone else will approach me anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:01 PM
1

im so fkin hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:58 PM
3

yeah thats called hitting the wall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:56 PM
3

its because women care about men's age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:54 PM
12

yep and they're still together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:51 PM
4

tom hughes isn't pudgy at all, his face just naturally spread from age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:47 PM
3

i don't mind crazy at all. i like a little crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:25 AM
6

i mean this whole quetsion is based on the premise of men abandoning their biological instinct to protect their women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:53 AM
3

old person opinion. u clearly werent on tumblr circa 2014
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:32 AM
2

occasionally but not super often? i'm not even outside in social spaces during the day often lol. i get catcalled a shit ton but guys just coming up to me trying to shoot their shot on the street or train or whatever is almost entirely the realm of latino teenagers, high school boys in groups, and ghetto black guys tbh (i'm a 28 yo white woman fyi). occasionally i will bump into a 20somethingish white guy who will be like "can I get your instagram/snap" but I don't know if thats daygame since th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:23 AM
4

makes sense to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:26 PM
3

idk i tend to define the relationship pretty quickly if i want monogamy. it was like third-ish date where my bf and i were like "were boyfriend and girlfriend!" after fuckin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:52 AM
3

i agree, for me its less about the physicality of sex and more absout the psychology and aesthetic of just seeing my man and his big giant dick flopping around lol. like "thats a fucking man"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:50 AM
4

no it isn't if, again, the clothes aren't measured well to his body, which isn't uncommon at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:30 AM
11

i don't get what the mystery is: most men dress like shit. especially men over 30 or so. i've noticed younger men nowadays definitely care more about the fit and cut of their clothes compared to men even 10 years ago so try walking around a college campus sometime. hair is also self explanatory. your hair should suit you and be distinct to your face, not a generic supercuts job that emphasizes just how much of a npc you are as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:00 AM
12

jeans and t-shirt can look terrible if the fit is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:57 PM
4

yes ive had lots of sex, did u think u were doing something there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:45 AM
4

sorry that as a thot i know way more about actual fuccbois than you do, stay tf out of my culture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:35 AM
3

god here yall go again boomering it up about a term primarily used for and by millenials in 2015
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:29 AM
-1

fuccbois are rarely chads lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:29 AM
3

fuccboi was never a synonym for "low value male" so idk what this post is even about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:28 AM
2

were not talking about men as a category were talking about men who get called fuccbois with any regularity, whats not clickin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:27 AM
3

actual fuccbois consider fuccboi an insult, or did when that was a term people still even used regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:26 AM
2

he was in a massively popular indie band, without being 2 specific he wasn't unattractive but i wasn't physically attracted to him, i was moreso just caught up in the moment and liked his music and liked how much he liked me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:23 AM
3

normal women have never used okcupid omfg. that fat poly queer theythem dating site
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:56 AM
6

What exactly did you expect him to do in the intervening years between being an incredibly horny (and perpetually single) teenager to a depressed 30-year old with almost no romantic or sexual experience? yeah, totally "average"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:44 AM
0

probably the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 01:46 AM
2

is this an older guy thing to not like making food for your girl? i feel like millenial men are quick to want to show off their artisinal food skillz or whatever and would love to make you that sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:48 AM
2

then why is it that when guys are about to cum they push your head back to stop you from continuing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:43 AM
0

well lets see, when he tells me not to do something i don't do it. he told me to change some behaviors and i did it. he requested certain conditions for when i go out and i agreed to them. he doesn't want me wearing particular things, i don't to an extent. he doesn't want me communicating with my ex, i don't anymore. when he tells me "enough of that" or "were leaving" im like yes daddy lol. so yeah i guess in a sense i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:37 AM
2

ok and what about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:31 PM
1

thanks queen, you get it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:41 AM
2

no because ive trained him to just expect to get to fuck me every night so he knows to just wait until then. anytime outside of right before bed/just getting home from the baris like special sex and he knows when to read when i'd receptive to him boning me mid-afternoon or whatever lol (like if im being extra touchy or cutesy)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:34 AM
3

i would probably groan and say something like "No im baby u make me one" and then roll over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:37 AM
9

Another thing is looks are less important in high school. LOL i was with my hs sweetheart for nearly 3 years and i was mainly attracted to his hair and clothes and height lol. i definitely don't have an "emotional bond" with him either beyond occasional nostalgia for that time in my life, he's pretty irrelevant to me an adult i don't really think about him that much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:34 AM
-1

lol you're not seeing their finstas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:29 AM
3

my brother does lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:13 AM
15

considering that there are men who barely notice women of a different race than them, women older than them, women fatter than average, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:04 AM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:25 PM
1

lol you would never be in the position to be on a date with me, dont worry about it bud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:19 PM
2

no i said guys who enjoy it not "need" it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:43 PM
2

machismo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:37 PM
0

oh bullshit. i think any girl who has been close to a man in their life can see how men's behavior changes when they're around other men lol. all the posturing and bravado and forced masculinity that they put on with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:33 PM
2

guys who actually like taking girls out and being seen around town with pretty girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:46 PM
1

yes i am a product of my culture lmao so what
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:15 PM
1

well those men are irrelevant in a discussion about who pays on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:57 PM
2

for most guys paying for a date isn't a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:38 PM
2

it works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:35 PM
5

who said you had to care lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:34 PM
6

then idk why im having this conversation with u if u think ur inferior to a child, do u have a child who i can talk to as ur proxy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:26 AM
3

do u think children r superior to adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:22 AM
7

my sexual and romantic company is more limited and sought after than his, in the real world this is a ompletely uncontrvesial statement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:21 AM
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im a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:13 AM
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But if he views you as more precious than him, doesnt that make you superior? absolutely not and thats a fundamental thing trp and mgtows misunderstand about masculine and feminine interplay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:08 AM
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i have a responsive sexuality that is impacted by how a guy makes me feel not just his appearance anyway im too tipsy to continue talking about this we'll finish this later
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:07 AM
2

"in hunter gatherer societies" i live in 21st century manhattan doe do those societies even have currency?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:06 AM
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i dont care about equality and i want to view my man as being superior to me and i want him to view me as being more precious than him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:02 AM
3

being provided for by men is literally inherent to femininity like its one of the most basic aspects of behavioral dimorphism between men and women lol i love my simp :,)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:59 AM
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what makes you say im not a magical fairy? if i hit it off with guys who clearly pedestelize me in that way, if thats our mutual dynamic and makes us happy then whats the issue bebz there are plenty of women with androgynous personalities who enjoy being girllbosses and champions of egalitarianism and then there are women like me who enjoy being feminine and the ying and yang interplay between a masculine guy and feminine girl, men who want to split bills with chicks should seek out the former
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:52 AM
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tbh i was thinking more in terms of the casual dating scene, if ur looking for ur lifemate soulpartner or whatever then sure agreeing on money matters is important. i still think even in the scenario a guy should pay on the first date anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:40 AM
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ok then go find the bulldyke girlboss of ur dreams?? i like men who like delicate flowers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:39 AM
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i would be screening myself out of an LTR with a guy who didn't make me feel hot and turned on and feminine, not screening him out "on principle." not really interested in beta bucks and duty sex at this point in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:20 AM
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okaaaay, but if youre worried about encountering girls who go out with guys to get a free meal then the demographics matter. tbh anytime i did want to go out to dinner and wanted someone to take me ive never had an issue finding a guy i was interested in a date with anyway and having him take me out? i think that is pretty normal for any halfway attractive woman. going out with a guy i wasn't interested in solely for a meal? that literally sounds like tortrue half the time i cant be assed to dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:19 AM
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depends on the tier and type of bitch tho. if one of my girls was giving us a post date report saying she split a bill we'd roast the shit out of her. that just would not fly...ever. (inb4 "well i wouldnt want that type of girl anway", stfu men don't care about girls opinions on things when they're trying to fuck) i don't think fds gets it right about everything but i do think they have a point when they say a guy who is super attracted to you is going to cover the bill without question while he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:11 AM
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i don't want or need for men to do anything i'm just going to not have sex with them. my point was that i often see men online say things like this about sticking to their principles or how "well then we wouldn't be a good match anyway so blahblahblah" when it comes to topics like this but in reality, most men don't take girls out to test their "principles" or view dates as some gender equality battleground. they're taking the bitch out to get tipsy have fun and pound the bitch at some point. so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:48 AM
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because it simply does not make me feel sexy and feminine and admired when i have to pull out my wallet in a man's presence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:42 AM
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consider that "women" is a very broad category of people, and narrow it down to 20-30something college graduate women with career track jobs and you're gonna see much less of this behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:40 AM
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dope! my experience in REAL life is that a man who is taking me out absolutely does NOT want to screen himself out of sex with me so take that into consideration gents
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:35 AM
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i would absolutely never fuck a man who didn't cover the bill on a date. like that is absolutely going to be a dealbreaker for at least some portion of women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:28 AM
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i dont know why men would add more complication to their dating strategy (that they claim is already so difficult) by not paying for the bill. if you're broke or a college student whatever, but not paying out of "principles" or whatever is such loser pussy stuff. just pay the fucking bill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:27 AM
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for me its much better to have loved and lost. breakups and heartbreak? i hate it and love it. i love feeling things. the rawness and intensity of emotion....i couldnt live without it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:39 PM
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i liked the movie but it also cured my adam driver lust, he looked particularly hideous to me in the film it was like i suddenly saw what men see when they look at him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:38 PM
2

my relationship is mostly chillin in bed fucking and ordering seamless and popping his back zits tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:34 PM
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no i dont label them as anything, thats part of the whole ignoring them thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 01:07 PM
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no i dont want to be hit on generally speaking, life isn't a constant pursuit of dating and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:05 PM
2

well i ignore unfamiliar attractive men too so....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:30 AM
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i ignore unattractive men i have no reason to interact with but unattractive guys that i have to be around and interact with (like friends of my guy friends or something) i'm really nice to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 02:25 AM
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bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:42 PM
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yes i'd blame a hungry person for running after steak fascinating that a "sex starved" man would think chasing a highly desired e-girl is the most viable path for obtaining sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:54 AM
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"massive student loan debt" is generally a prole issue, not the issue of umc white collar men in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:49 AM
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i think the women here are generally pretty successful and thriving irl because a girl who isn't would not have the steel nerves to constantly see herself be shat on in a lot of the comments here. discussions here are like thought excercises that barely apply to my life i dont really see msyelf reflected in the dynamics talked about on either side so its really nothing for me to participate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:09 PM
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Lol have u been on twitter or instagram literally ever? tons of millenial and gen z normies basically hate on men all day long
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:04 PM
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because today's 43 year old is tomorrow's 50 year old and then 60 year old etc. age isnt just a number, its literally a countdown to death
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:50 PM
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marriage between large age gaps are literally less stable and also by mid late 20s most guys (at least un the "Stable, well adjusted white collar world" ) are also ature and looking for commitment? why do people characterize guys this way, what exactly do you think men are doing during this phase of life that makes them not good partners
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:48 PM
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they didn't get on with them then becuz they were married to other men... and these men, at least where i grew up, are pretty much exclusively wealthy and fit, i dont think it gets much better when you're fkin 50 and 60 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:40 PM
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actually she's in an optimal position to do that at 50 because her social circle will be other 50 year olds she's cultivated associations with for decades who themselves are also divorcing or looking for something new my parents' friends who have remarried in their 50s and 60s seem to universally get with men they've known for decades at least tangentially from the community and pair up quickly with them from what ive seen whereas there really isn't an equivalent pool (newly single middle aged p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:31 PM
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the obsession with working out/fitness as if muscle coated by stretched out old ppl flesh is hot and not at all uncanny vally esque
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:27 PM
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for most young women at least a shaved head is a dealbreaker lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:22 PM
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older women don't leave you to "go back on the market", they leave you when they've secured another man already and branch swing do i have to explain hypergamy to redpillers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:18 PM
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old sperm isn't competing against eggs....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:03 AM
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lol men reeeaaally overvalue the worth of their sexual interest in women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:01 AM
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your dick is literally irrelevant to anyone who isn't you or whatever middling becky ends up marrying you when she herself is post wall
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:55 AM
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same. basically all of my relationships have sprang from immediate fascination and infatuation with someone i barely knew lol for better or for worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:38 PM
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close mother and daughter relationships are different you don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:32 PM
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In other words: "The Wall" is not when women stop being attractive to men. "The Wall" is when women stop being attractive to YOUNG men. but this isn't even true. i actually think most of the wall talk comes from men who are like middle aged and were out of the dating market in their 30s and 40s because they were married to some frump wife and were blind to what the lives of single women that age were like i have very rarely irl heard a 20 yo guy claim that 30 yo women are unattractive, but i hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:22 PM
2

where is the "lie" in being a whore who boasts about being a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:53 PM
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that trend is actually pretty passe. soft glossier inspired makeup is the recent wave
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:57 PM
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then don't date women who wear too much makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:56 PM
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no its a trend. even my poly friends say poly ppl are ugly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:55 PM
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if a woman is boasting about being a whore then obviously she isn't lying about being a whore so wat are u seeing thru lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:03 PM
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of course i can handle guys hitting on me on my own but if my bf stands there while some other guy chumps him out by blatantly hitting on his girl in front of him it isn't attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:33 PM
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ive liked it in the past but for some reason with my current bf it makes me uncomfortable. i think cuz with him it seems to stem from genuine insecurity that he's not fully my "type" as opposed to normal male bravado. like he seems more nervous than protective idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:30 PM
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I don’t really like men who are older than me at all. I’m 28 and my bf is 28 and he’s actually the oldest guy I’ve ever dated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:05 PM
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Every man I’ve ever been with loves my lingerie. I also have a collection of costumes that men love telling me to wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:03 PM
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sure thing, poor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:18 AM
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yeah i'm not doing baby's first lesson on class here on ppd today believe wat u want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:37 AM
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actually UMC women writing think pieces for slate simply do not think about the poor at all, there is no conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:22 PM
2

tall and ugly but hgh isnt going to make you "tall"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:26 PM
3

hating from outside the club [2]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:25 PM
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he doesn't really get a choice, he's getting cuddled anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:24 PM
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hating from outside the club
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:22 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/yvx98m/a-reflection-on-the-culture-of-emo-and-scene-668 "straight guys kissing" literally in the headline. "emo boys kissing" videos from a decade ago are in the millions on youtube. https://twitter.com/EightBitDylan/status/1051498053302185986 tweets like this one are pretty common too just becuz u werent apart of it doesn't mean it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:29 PM
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thats funny, i've literally never called myself "insanely hot" or said that i hang out with gangsters but i luv ur projection and also the fact that you're obsessed with me dismissing you when you said that becuz ive seen u bring up that anecdote that happened months ago multiple times, let it go grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:07 PM
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idk but cant they be short and asian too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:58 PM
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your friends are probably chastising you becuz they feel sorry for u not because they think "men shouldn't reject women"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:14 PM
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when i was younger there was a big trend of boys making out at parties and no one considered them gay or bi if you start actually fucking members of the same sex then yeah but i'd makeout with a hot dog so idg what that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:13 PM
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short asian man iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:11 PM
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so literally like what just happened in the cliip. they were laughing becuz she put it in a garbage disposal or did you not watch the entire clip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:08 PM
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they reacted like that because these are the female equivalents of normie men who don't gaf about cancel/offense culture. these women aren't actually feminist scholars or activists and would probably be the type of women not very offended by any sort of offbrand humor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:05 PM
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no male physical characteristic is as inherently sexualized as boobs. not everything has like a gender swap
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:29 AM
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yes i'm completely stupid you got me 🤪 anyway no one is talking about you in this post so why you shoehorned in your boring ass middle class lifestyle into this discussion is beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:11 AM
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i assumed this post was about the actually wealthy, not umc strivers, and if saving your money means you have to live in shitty conditions and vibe as "rent poor" to people, then you're not who i'm talking about. rich people definitely spend money so who tf is the "nobody" you're talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:57 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:18 AM
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if he doesn't have access to the money then i don't consider him to have money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:17 AM
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women are not attracted to professions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:25 AM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:19 AM
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yeah no one believes u dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:07 PM
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it just dawned on me that the "women rated 80% of men unattractive" thing is the male version of when women say "women earn 77cent to a man's dollar"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:06 PM
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nah def pressured by men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:02 PM
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i should clarify i'm using sugar daddy as a shorthand, there may be a shortage of guys willing to be "sugar daddies" but there really isn't a shortage of wealthy men willing to hand over money and support to a young girl. i feel like we may be talking about totally different worlds, because you said "1500 a month" earlier, when that is like, the amount of money these guys have spent just taking us (his "main girl" and her friends) out for the evening this dude has actually been supporting her fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:46 PM
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i'm sure for girls who actively are involved in the "sugar baby community" things are different, but there are girls who just meet an older guy with money while out and about and take things from there, they're not like professional sugar babies they just get presented with the opportunity by a man who takes a liking to them its why i said that if you work high end service industry in new york its not very difficult to attract a sugar daddy because you are right there meeting them every day, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:27 PM
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i dont know all of them that well so maybe but the one i do know well, i know her situation. she's really not very attractive lol but her SD pays for her apartment and her schooling when she was still in school and even sent us to Miami once for a girls trip, all on him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:07 PM
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okay i dont know about these online weirdos im talking about rich men i know IRL and their sugar babies. just being young and dolled up seemed to be enough for them. these girls have their lives funded by these men and dont just shuffle through man after man or use those websites. they meet them IRL. its actually not difficult if you work upscale service industry in new york
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:11 PM
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girls just wanna
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:05 PM
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so again if he literally ever complains about "not having enough money" when he does then he is a grifter and i tend to spot bullshitters like that pretty easily you can follow money trails. people have careers that are pretty easy to track down, people have parents and family that are also pretty easy to track down, the idea that wealthy men can legitimately live "off the grid" in 2019 and mask how much they have is a pipedream and that's on google stalking luv. beyond that you can just listen …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:39 PM
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Frugality isn't supposed to be fun. yeah we know but life and relationships are supposed to be i'm not really into wealth hoarding, i save enough to be reliable and then i indulge with the rest of it. if a guy is a savings maniac to the point that it interferes with my fun then gtfo. idgaf about the constructs of being a "mature adult" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:35 PM
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"sometimes gets stressed he wont have enough money to cover bills and asks you for money" so in this scenario he's not lying by omission but actually presenting himself as a bum and asking me for money and committing fraud? this scenario requires so much fantasy world unrealistic stuff that doesn't happen in real life in order to be plausible lmao. in order for this to work the woman would have to be the kind of woman who financially supports poor men in the first place. like the question become…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:29 PM
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no we know what frugal means and it still sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:03 PM
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okay and what about beautiful hot women makes them lack this inherent female neoteny?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:49 PM
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maybe if the girl herself is poor, but money generally knows money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:45 PM
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in the event that i go retarded and A.) become blind to all of the signifiers of accumulated wealth and class and B.) ever find myself dating a man who would describe himself as "very frugal", i'd probably be like "you're a fucking weirdo dude" or maybe even "uh, okay? what made you assume i assumed anything about your finances lol" like i'd honestly be more inclined to believe he was larping as "a man of the people" or had trust fund shame like a lot of rich dudes do, not that he was trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:43 PM
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LMAO seriously, i'm trying to figure out how this hypothetical would even work because its something i've seen presented on reddit before, a man hiding his financial situation. dude i'm not retarded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:37 PM
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then why are yall so mad about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:28 PM
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femininity being "cuteness" is some foreign east asian weeaboo shit. that's never been a main facet of western femininity lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:23 PM
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It's simply that men have to fulfil their own emotional needs, while women get to lean on their partner. have you literally ever been in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:20 PM
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in my experience even that isn't really true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:24 AM
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I am Gen-X and i fuck young hotties all the time. I don’t fuck millennials though because most of them are 300 lbs with purple hair. Only generation Z for me! you guys reveal yourself to be liars so easily lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:12 AM
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nah 20something men look vaaaastly diferent from 40 something men (even fit ones) at least for white ppl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:02 AM
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this is true too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:10 PM
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lmao. men are so delusional about this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:44 PM
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my bf is 28 and dresses like shit but im not even talking about him lol i'm talking about general trends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:37 PM
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LOL younger men in 2019 dress much much much better than older men this isn't even debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:26 PM
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i actually do believe its not super difficult for middle aged men to fuck younger women because there is a group of damaged beckies who can't access attractive guys their age and give up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:09 PM
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who are the specific models you have in mind? i can think of some late 20s/early 30s girls who have this dating pattern but for like current generation of teen/early 20s girls i would say kaia gerber dating pete davidson is very "typical" relationship model they have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:07 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:04 PM
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i lowkey anticipate this happening with my sister and its sad to watch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:02 PM
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oh i thought we were talking about attractiveness since this is a post about who we date and fuck and not like a post about my career skillz or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:58 PM
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lmao my 16 yo cousin is constantly dragging me too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:57 PM
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The guys who get the top models into relationships are either rich old men, or wealthy average (or good looking enough) 30-35 year old guys with family money (basically the sons of the rich old men). not really lol. most actual models are dating 23 year old DJs, influencers, soundcloud dudes and rando eboys and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:50 PM
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the universal truth when it comes to younger girl/older guy pairings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:47 PM
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if 40 something you is better than 20something you that has more to do with you not optimizing your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:46 PM
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wait, you're in your 40s? i disntinctly remember you claiming to be in your 20s before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:44 PM
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lol bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:36 PM
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yeah but again you're like 50. "older men" to a 20something is like a 37 year old. literally no one sees a 50 year as in their "fun time"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:33 PM
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sounds good then!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:02 AM
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doesn't matter still got 3 months of free dinner and entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:58 PM
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hmm, no, i'm not going to, because you're really bad at this, and i think my morbid curiosity about what weird and tangled arguments you were going to make has been satisfied now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:46 PM
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cuz i don't want to or need to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:43 PM
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well you're comparing something thats illegal to something that isn't so... honestly you always have the shittiest arguments idk why i ever bother with you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:42 PM
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RP guys think immediate sex is some huge sign of "real immediate desire" becuz they have little to no involvement in youth party culture and don't realize the role that alcohol and adrenaline play when it comes to these interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:31 PM
2

it behooves a woman who wants the kind of man who waits 10 years for sex to make a guy wait 10 years for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:28 PM
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not if the impracticality of it is part of the appeal for the person doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:22 PM
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How does wanting to make a man wait 10 obviously behoove her? idk, i would ask her and find out? she's the one who made the choice. and no you don't have to justify someting impractical. you can literally do whatever you want lmao there's no governing body for the choices you make in your love life bb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:18 PM
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so in your mind women will succumb to any amount of "doing it right"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:16 PM
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it obviously behooves her if she has decided to make the unconventional choice to wait 10 years for sex in a society that doesn't promote that idea whatsoever. if someone told me that was their choice i'd say oh interesting and ask about it but it would basically end there. things can be not practical for most and still perfect for that person. not everyone is a sheep. you didn't bring up practicality at all in your initial point though fyi. you said is it "justified." and things can be unpracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:14 PM
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how are her personal reasons for how long she wants to wait not "Justified", who does she have to justify them to beyond herself and her partner lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:08 PM
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yeah many women are fine with that actually but the second you try to go anywhere beyond that she will say no. then what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:06 PM
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i don't advise other women about their love life but if thats what she wants to do i'm sure she has her reasons for making such an unconventional choice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:05 PM
2

explain what you mean in literal terms then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:56 PM
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idk, why does the guy think its a good idea? You'd have to ask the man who actually waits 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:56 PM
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you're never going to get them to agree to your point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:56 PM
2

why do you need to be told that. like what does that do for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:51 PM
2

yeah dude its her pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:49 PM
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or maybe you're 50 and obviously don't care about a womans virtue in the same way men half your age do. you realize most of the guys insecure about a girls number are in a younger age group lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:41 PM
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that honestly always strikes me as kind of desperate beta behavior. i get hornier when a guy is just like "dope, lets get food then" or whatever when i get coy about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:39 PM
3

yes they do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:34 PM
4

idk probably like a month or two? i can't recall if its ever played out like that (like a messy situation where there was intentional ambiguity). it honestly could have easily gone that way with my current boy since i hopped on that dick expecting ZERO interest for more on my part then fell for him retardedly within two weeks. if it wasn't mutual idk what i would have done lol probably still let him fuck on me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:32 PM
6

i'm friends with high end escorts, some who are pretty well known because they're porn adjacent, and they're all crackheads to some degree and clearly traumatized lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:03 AM
3

women are just as thirsty for a subset of men as men are for all women? okay cool so men are thirstier then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:33 AM
2

i paid for broke male friends too when i worked in the service industry and was around more broke men. right now i'm really not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:32 AM
0

im also fine paying for my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:09 AM
-1

meh im fine with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:24 AM
1

lol i once said my guy friends cover tabs when we go out and ppl here insisted they were just beta orbiting me despite the fact that weve been friends 4eva and majority of them date girls at least as hot or hotter than me i myself LOOOOVE covering tabs when i go out with my girlfriends who make less than me i'm basically their sugar daddy so to me the fact that my guy friends like it isn't that weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:03 AM
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yes it sounds like they are trying to replicate the "meeting a friend of a friend and evolving into dating" thing but doing it with rando guys from tinder or something?? bitch just make friends wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:00 AM
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uhhh by the three month point ive generally met up with him over 100 times ?? be that for dinner, drinks, art viewings, sleepovers, etc? i had four "dates" within the first week of meeting my current how do you even get to know someone or build chemistry with someone you see once a week lol no wonder so many of you hasve bad dating experiences or cant seal the deal from tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:58 AM
4

you know so much about my country and i couldn't tell you a single thing about yours lmao. the power that has
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:49 PM
2

so woke , love that for u
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:49 PM
1

i care about my look and my friends lol you can always go back home
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:33 PM
3

i think spaces for low value women to strategize are fine. i don't agree or disagree with any of it, the stuff talked about there is not really my experience with men because i dont get treated like shit by guys, but if i did yes i would probably want to better my situation too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:23 PM
2

i dont care about what happens in 20 years when i'm old and irrelevant myself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:18 PM
4

maybe be born a decade earlier so i could experience early 2000s nyc music scene in its full glory and also get to fuck young julian casablancas
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:17 PM
1

america is the world hunny europe is the equivalent of the dumpy older sister who hates that their little sister grew up to be hotter and cooler. sucks to suck. and the rest of the world outside of europe isn't even in the family
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:11 PM
2

does my bf know that i was sexually active in hs/college? yes my bf knows that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:09 PM
2

i'm not blaming anyone for anything, i literally do not care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:07 PM
6

are yall dating 35 year old suburban women from the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:20 PM
1

americans don't really give a shit about other cultures that much, its other cultures forcing themselves into our conversations and dynamics and expecting us to care about them or be learned about them when its just not going to happen. like you are literally on an american website crying about TRP being "applied to the rest of the world", no you forced yourself into the conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:13 PM
5

Just look at India (the way they treat men is horrifying) to see how awful women can be. l m f a o
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:11 PM
5

judging by the number of men who stay with women they hate so much that they want to beat them? i disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:49 PM
2

two nights ago at happy hour lol. my big scary bf chased the dude off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:46 PM
2

well okay, and? i don't post there lol. but isnt that kind of the point. why would high value women need a sub like that. do they pretend to be high value? i didn't get that vibe when i've checked it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:17 PM
2

no, most of the dishes you listed are not typically consumed with regularity in the states. also, the US is not the fattest country in the world and lots of europe rival the US now in terms of weight, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:55 AM
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that wasn't a response to my question i very rarely eat at places that serve that kind of food and its not very difficult to avoid at all. i don't know why someone visiting here like you said you were would predominantly eat low tier diner food. america also has the most diverse culinary options in the world if you want to go by rankings
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:47 AM
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tell that to men my experience with men tells me that they have a deep enduring need for relations with women that women just don't have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:47 AM
3

were u only eating in roadside dinners?? lmao and most of those are explicitly salty-n-sweet novelty dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:36 AM
4

no they have definitely pioneered most of the worlds evil lol. if youre gonna take responsibility for their historical wins then they are also responsible for the historical tragedies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:21 AM
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ppl can do good things and bad things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:35 AM
8

ive never noticed much bad hygiene in guys (at least not particularly) but what i have noticed is bad grooming, which i guess is different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:27 AM
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considering the stories ive read of guys "saving" women from being raped and then raping her, please send a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:23 AM
9

being rightfully attributed for all the bad things you've done isn't "shame" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:21 AM
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lol whoops i didn't finish that thought, it was awkward because i was out with my sister and her sorority sisters and i was literallly the teenage little sister who visits campus and gets crazy. i vanished for a while and it was a Thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:17 AM
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i mean you should be getting approached by guys at least as attractive as you are at bars/clubs/parties pretty much every time you go out. that seriously never happens to you? or do you just not go out very often at all. i don't think thats a "Redpill" thing to say even necessarily lol i would honestly not take people's ratings of photos seriously, people rarely truly look like their pics in the flesh even in an objective sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:01 PM
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21 year olds approach girls at bars wtf lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:58 PM
4

You probably have closed off body language and a resting bitch face. if youre above average looking that absolutely doesn't stop guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:57 PM
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i seriously doubt you're above average looking just based on how you describe your experiences i was gonna say i could see how you could feel this way if you didn't go out to bars or parties often, but if thats how guys hit on you when you're there, yeah something is not adding up here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:56 PM
0

what revenge? what is the action thats being called revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:53 PM
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i've fucked plenty of people after just a few hours i think maybe the shortest was like 25 minutes? it was a frat party so we just disappeared into a bedroom. he didn't really ~pull anything off~ we were drunk and started grinding then got horny and fucked lol. it was awkward because my sister the shortest time in which i knew i'd fuck a guy tho was like 5 minutes as we were exiting the club and i told him and his friends to get in my uber lol. this guy was my type to a T and my friends pushed m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:46 PM
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not really, chad generally has a stacy gf and a stacy bootycall lol. nonchads do what youre talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:29 PM
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if there is a noticeable attractiveness gap between the guy and girl, the guy isn't going to pedestalize a girl to try to get a fuck out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:22 PM
-1

FDS is good actually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:20 PM
3

i've had high value guys wait forever for me, even just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:19 PM
3

no, women know that lol. why would we assume a guy we barely know is celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:18 PM
2

herpes itself isn't even dangerous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:17 PM
4

yes, low value men do that, not average or attractive men going dumpster diving for a fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:16 PM
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no they don't i don't know why you believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:09 PM
3

lol @ thinking men have to find you likable to want to dump a load in u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:06 PM
1

yikes why would anyone go there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:03 PM
6

being treated like "shit" is not the norm for everyone, if everyone is treating you like shit then maybe assess your community and social circle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:58 PM
3

new york lol. we dont really do fat ppl in the northeast
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:50 PM
2

statistically they are fatter tho? like its an objective truth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:48 PM
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as with a lot of the gender disparities talked about here you will find that most of it is coming from whats happening in minority communities, but i guess were not supposed to talk too much about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:46 PM
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god blessed me by making me a bit too old for the hsm craze but i was in love wth jesse mccartney. any boy entering my room and seeing giant shirtless jmac posters everywhere could never claim to think girls werent interested in looks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:37 AM
3

licking at a vagina for a minute is not foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:35 AM
8

what about porn sex makes you think men learn to prioritize female pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:12 PM
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and he'll get sex when she thinks he deserves it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:10 PM
3

nothing is that diferent unless im both single and drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:09 PM
5

what culture are you talking about? it can't be american culture. did you grow up in a culture without television, film, coed schools, music?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:02 PM
3

which is a real thing? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:01 PM
2

Lol uh most asians look young?? my bf is 28 but looks college aged. its not that. there's something else unattractive about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:59 PM
3

Lol wat, who cares about what men on reddit send you. i hope youre not dating ppl from here??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:56 PM
1

kratom is addicting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:15 AM
5

yeah in ~ the wild ~ i find that guys my age think i'm a lot younger and initially approach/talk to me like i'm a naive younger girl. i don't really care because looking young is clutch lol but its definitely a thing more likely than not your styling is too young. you're dressing too young for your age. it could also be your voice and mannerisms. 95% of the time you can look/vibe as your age if you want to. also where are you getting messages from guys that young? don't set your age range that l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:14 AM
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yeah they have experienced that. you know our boyfriends actually talk to us and tell us what their moms say right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:04 AM
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Actually no lots of mothers do exactly what you’re claiming they don’t do when it comes to their sons and I’m sure most of the women here have experienced it. Just admit you were wrong and go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:25 AM
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Mothers Will. Not. Ever. tell their sons about the ways they can be hurt by women because “team women” and “male privilege” lol my experience with the mothers of the guys ive dated lets me know that a fucking lie the fact that you think average suburban moms across america are going around talking about "male privilege" makes me believe you're out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:12 AM
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as long as she doesn’t mind being a single mother that sounds like a father son issue, maybe boys should take it up with the dude who took one look at them and said “yeah it’s gonna be a no from me”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:00 AM
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it's not a woman's fault if a man decides he's not interested in raising you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:11 AM
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i knew a guy with autism (like afaik he was just straight up autistic and not ~aspergers syndrome~) and he got laid pretty often tho lol. what would happen is he would meet a girl and sleep with her rather quickly and then as time went on the girl would realize he's retarded and gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:55 AM
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no my mother encouraged me to give various guys i grew up with a chance and also suggests i move back to chicago and date various sons of her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:47 AM
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not lots since i ignore the ones who aren't realistic which is most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:57 PM
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they want us to lie and virtue signal so that they can call us out on being lying virtue signalers. when we don't do that they just end up left with hurt feeling and resentment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:50 PM
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there are guys here who ive talked to privately who can tell you i've been willing to help anyone who i think actually wants to be helped, but the real pill to swallow is realism, not idealism. certain people here prefer to just sell a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:40 PM
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you dont really get "advice" from your peers, you gain observational knowledge and you learn through experience along with your peers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:36 PM
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lol @ being a prop for your mothers social clout being "empathy"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:20 PM
6

lol again with these 2000s era shaming tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:20 PM
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mothers help their daughters because they see their daughter as an extension of themselves and also mothers tend to be closer to their daughter's offspring than their sons so its purely selfish motivation for grandchildren and wanting to brag to their friends about who their daughter snagged, not about who "deserves" anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:12 PM
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you don't have to wear skinny jeans u kno that right. also its 2019 the trend is over and my bf was balls deep in my moms 14 yo daughter every afternoon while she was calling him gay so how right was she really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:10 PM
3

in the comments, not in the DMs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:47 PM
9

fresh 2006 era take there beb
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:45 PM
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no i trusted my parents guidance on things like education career and even friend drama to an extent, it was specifically romantic and sexual things where i was like "absolutely not", it wasn't anything about them in particular it was a simple extension of them being old as fuck and irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:12 PM
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yes like most normal teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:07 PM
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yeah but i'm happy and wouldn't change a single thing about my dating or sex life, i don't think the men here who say these things can say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:06 PM
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i can't relate to how difficult it is break free from it because it wasnt hard for me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:05 PM
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that's why you're supposed to ignore your mothers advice like a normal person. normal people detach from their mother and look to their peers for guidance by the time puberty happens. basically everything my mom told me regarding boys and dating and sex was met with "okay mom lol" after 12
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:46 PM
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no some have earnestly argued this is a mother's role as a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:36 PM
4

and? most men aren't interested in fucking curling lol. i could list a bunch of rando female interests too. the vast majority of men are interested in the same sports. but if "men are just as boring but just in more varied ways" is your argument then um ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:18 PM
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u think ugly people need their moms to tell them theyre ugly? whats the motive here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:15 PM
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whats with these posts that assume having a loser son is like a call to action? if my son is a loser who can't get a girlfriend you can still catch 60 year old me retired and in paris with my husband and/or lover getting fat on steak frites my love! that's a him problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:12 PM
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they're boring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:11 PM
4

yes, correct, they're all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:01 PM
4

"all the different sports" hits the same as "all the different makeup products", its samey and boring and men display their interest in sport in near identical ways because most men are carbon clones of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:57 PM
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"Caring deeply about the details of the things you like" is really fucking boring tho lol? like thats why a lot of men can barely make friends or keep anyone's interest socially lol, because yall are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:54 PM
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its been shown that men perceive women as "talking more" when they talk the same amount as men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:53 PM
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yeah i'd be fine with that? i tend to sort guys into potential boyfriends or just fucks rather quickly, i dont really fall for guys because the sex is just so good or whatever lol. in my experience, its guys who want more because of our "sexual connection" moreso than me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:46 PM
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he's not my dream man if he's not my man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:43 PM
3

yeah i'd basically think of him as a loser. this is something i've only heard from failsons
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:40 PM
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What I would classify as FWB would be someone who you are actually close to and decide to start having sex on top of the original close friendship which I think is pretty rare and that is materially different from having casual sex with your friend how? it is literally friendship + benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:51 AM
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well he said fwb/fb which runs the gamut between those two things and also, i've noticed both being quite prevalent. people who are apart of the same social scenes/wider friend group who hook-up for extended periods of time in between relationships or for however long as they like. and then remain friends after. like this is basically the status quo for people 21 - 35ish lol i'm in the nightlife scene and the street/niche fashion scene and both are basically sexually incestuous and everyone basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:52 AM
4

okay well then whats the confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:13 AM
4

millenial transplants in nyc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:46 AM
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in my circle fwbs are like the norm and they are plentiful. no one expects monogamous relationships to be a "next step" from a fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:23 AM
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lmao what? i had a korean roommate in college and that bitch always had a man, chad-tier ones too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:18 AM
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they're not complaining they're simply opting out of abandoning their previous skillset for a different life and explaining why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:16 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freddie_Oversteegen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:15 AM
0

omg this scene is too much lmfaaaao im dying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:10 AM
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no none of the guys ive dated have been like that. the closest was just a garden variety hipster narcissist when i was in college and tbh he was prob the bf i've been least overall into lol i do genuinely date and like guys who would overall be described as pretty nice dudes by most people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:04 AM
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well if its always the personality for you then i don't expect you to understand what i'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:52 PM
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actually no i get aroused by height alone, height difference and the interplay between his giant self and my tiny self is viscerally arousing. idgaf about muscles lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:41 PM
4

Remember they're free thinking nonconformist and enlightened normal women don't pretend to be those things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:16 PM
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i am not sexually aroused by "health and lifestyle" im sexually aroused by bodies and height IS apart of how your body looks, tall guys look hotter and better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:13 PM
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socially threatening. not everything is death and doom related
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:58 PM
1

i'm a white girl who watches hentai
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:56 PM
3

its not for you and thats okay. not everything is for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:44 PM
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oh is this another one of these posts where "guys" is meant to be understood as "unattractive guys" ? yes i'm sure an unattractive guy hanging out with random girls sparks no concern for their gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:11 AM
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However, in Sarah's case, a man might try to make a move on her, or she might be letting him know she's open to something if she's going out with him one on one. but i thought she's in a ~ * committed ~ * ~* relationship so its understood she's not interested in these men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:06 AM
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no my current bf is short (6'1"ish) i'm broadening my horizons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:59 AM
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how old are you, just wondering?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:44 PM
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lmao not my experience at all! my guy friends have zero problems getting laid and genuinely love girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:03 PM
2

i tell my friends this too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:03 PM
1

and yes just lie about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:43 PM
3

go do it sis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:28 PM
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i dont know if turned on is the right word but when my ex used to cry i would feel really bad and offer anything to make him feel better so it was basically a lot of "would u like sum pucci rn" and i would feel amazing watching his ravish me while sniffling??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:17 PM
1

lol i have resting sad face too its so fucking annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:14 PM
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i use public transport multiple times a day every day and i can't remember the last time i saw a girl crying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:11 PM
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i have literally never noticed his at all lol, like not even a slight trend of this being the case
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:09 PM
1

wow i honesty don't remember that was like....7/8 years ago at this point?? life comes at you fast lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:56 PM
2

now imagine having the option of going to a new amazing buffet everyday but being expected to eat one meal from the first buffet everyday anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:55 PM
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thats just what boyfriends do? lmao how do you think attractive guys treat thier girlfriends exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:50 PM
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yeah but chads are pretty much sweethearts so this doesn't check out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:46 PM
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lmfao @ "midwit"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:45 PM
1

if you want to wear lifts and they have benefitted your life then i think you should keep doing that, but if you're also pushing the idea that virtually no one is going to be able to tell, then you're selling your fellow short men a lie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:49 AM
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i don't spend money on any man tbh and i don't think that's how most women express attraction so what a random thing to shoehorn in there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:38 AM
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oh okay then keep doing it? i thought u posted this as a cmv becuz u wanted your view changed whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:26 AM
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well, i'm not talking about photos, i'm talking about in real life, which i'm assuming is what you're proposing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:22 AM
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i notice lifts quite quickly maybe because i've worked with men who wear them. i think they're tacky and kind of sad (and definitely unfuckable) that said you do you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:16 AM
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thats inconceivable. i'm 5'6" but i have a very delicate bone structure. i've very rarely (if ever??) seen an adult man smaller overall than me. how many men does the average woman even encounter who fits that description?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:05 PM
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where did "twice his size" come from. people aren't either skinny or obese. i said fat, not mortally obese
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:46 PM
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oh you don't say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:45 PM
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idk why you keep bringing up height, ugly knows no height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:20 PM
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what "chad friends" do you know who act like that, because the chads i know are actually encouraging and sweet when their ugly friends find a gf who they like. unless by chad friends you mean guys who don't really like the low smv guy and are making fun of him for being ugly and having an ugly gf, but even that is a different sort of making fun than if say one of the chads himself pulled up with a fat ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:17 PM
0

no it isn't as peculiar lol sorry but it just isn't "thin" on a man is not really like inherently good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:56 PM
2

yeah i corrected myself and said the only people who mock ppl for this are other low smv males
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:55 PM
2

still prob isnt happening lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:51 PM
1

you want to believe that an ugly guy with a fat girl as as peculiar as a tall girl with a shorter boyfriend for some reason when im telling you to normal-to-hot people it isn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:50 PM
1

so you don't actually like her as much as you think lmao yes absolutely i can tell you the names and body types and relative SMV ranking of all of my man's exes and vice versa, thats what crazed infatuation makes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:49 PM
1

ladies and gentleman welcome to the male spotlight effect no one notices or cares about what some ugly dude and his fat girlfriend are out and about doing. literally the two most invisible sects of society and yet these men still think people have ongoing inner commentary about them doing the most mundane thing: being a low smv male with a low smv gf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:49 PM
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no they don't because no one is puzzled by seeing an unattractive guy with a fat girl. that just isn't weird or unique. people look at tall girl/short guy couples because they are RARE. unattractive/fat couples are not rare. the only people who find it ridiculous and mockworthy are other unattractive men who are irritated to see a man of their level "Give up" (read: submit to reality). to 100% of girls seeing these couples and to 100% of more attractive men, they will look at those couples and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:45 PM
3

don't know don't care you do know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:39 PM
2

no they don't, this doesn't happen. those couples look like they belong together. men probably want to feel like they would be mocked if they were seen when a fat girl when in reality everyone is like "they make sense together" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:36 PM
1

i didn't say "tall girl, short guy" couples i said fat girl and unattractive guy. literally 99% look at those couples and don't register them because they make sense together, they are of equal social and romantic value lol. people are mocked for things that are embarrassing or weird, not things that are normal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:35 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:20 PM
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lmao literally no one is going to mock an unattractive guy with a fat girl. like what do these men think other people see when they see such a couple. you're not more attractive than a fat girl bud
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:19 PM
4

"six foot tall aspiring model" could easily just be an awkward giantess, i'm sure you adore her but would you say you are more or less attractive than the guys she dated before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:14 PM
19

no because this still contains the delusion that these men are going to level up to hot chicks at some point when that isn't going to happen because they are average looking men (read: not attractive) and not socially desirable. there is no light at the end of tunnel, they need to get comfortable dating the tier of girls that will always be available to them, the girls on their level, meaning fat or unattractive girls. men really think of life as a movie where everything ultimately works out in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:51 PM
2

no i assumed everyone was having sex with each other like musical chairs because thats what the casual sex situation was at my high schoool/college lol. i thought even the ugly nerds were having sex with the other ugly nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:03 PM
3

nah im gonna keep using this one thanks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:01 PM
4

THIS HAPPENED TO ME. except when i met the guy IRL and he started talking i literally laughed out loud thinking he was doing a bit lmao. he sounded like his balls were in a vice grip the entire date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:28 PM
9

i hated turning 8 too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:15 PM
4

yes they do because i'm doing it rn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:04 PM
4

i'd probably just be quietly embarrassed and/or emotionally coddle him out of pity of him being unfuckable. i definitely wouldn't "do" anything directly, like what is my presumably middle aged+ ass going to do or know about the dating dynamics of generation alpha in the year 2050 or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:03 PM
1

lmao got his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:00 PM
4

yeah i do post my face in places where good looking girls post their face, ie not reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:54 PM
2

the vast majority of these cases don't involve kids as young as 13
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:51 AM
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it happens to me all of the time? i am cute and thin and young looking, sorry if u cant relate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:48 AM
1

rape is a crime not a ~moral belief~ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:22 AM
4

idk why people think teenage boys see an attractive 20something woman and think "mature elder i need to respect" as opposed to "another bitch i want to bang" i dont even like being outside when school lets out because school-aged boys will 100% aggressively approach and flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:19 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:15 AM
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what makes you think those women give a shit about feminism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:41 PM
4

arguing that both should be eliminated for the sake of equality is different from arguing that eliminating one will necessarily eliminate the other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:40 PM
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i wasnt talking about ur little study sweetie lol i dont care about studies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:46 PM
-2

probably the part where you think women are generally overcomplimentary on the looks of any woman who isn't their friend or another drunk girl in a bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:48 PM
-5

lol every man calls himself "slightly above average"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:47 PM
1

you don't have to intentionally lie to not look like your pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:40 PM
3

we'll never know since you actually believed her when she said "12 to 15 guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:07 PM
1

u spent nine months rotting in a crackheads womb and then grew up to fuck trannies, something in the brain just went wrong its not your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:26 AM
5

no but my man's gorgeous downtown loft does. perhaps one day you'll have a man take you out the ghetto and experience this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:07 AM
7

self identified "high quality" guy marries a whore anyway, what was the thesis of this post again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:23 AM
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no because i'm straight and thus not attracted to hairy women on steroids. its part of the whole "being straight" thing OP is obsessed with trannies and bisexuality i have no idea why he's claiming to be straight beyond his repressed ghetto upbringing not making just being gay acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:08 AM
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lmao @ straight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:02 AM
2

men complain all the time about girls not looking like their pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:51 AM
2

lmfaaaaao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:36 AM
5

its impossible for me to think of it that way but lets say in a crowded bar full of people of my demographic (college educated millenials who are relatively fit and social) i generally find one or two guys attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:39 PM
3

ncapable of looking at a guy and saying, “yeah if we met at a bar and started flirting and vibed, i would fuck him. i dont feel that way about a guy unless ive even heard his voice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:36 PM
5

yeah i think this is the sort of autism a lot of men here struggle with. these are the sort of conversations you have laying in bed with your SO doing nothing that brings you closer and increases intimacy. when there's no real motive behind the conversation and youre just babbling together and basically thinking out loud. thats basically how you really get to know a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:24 AM
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idgi. its just basic boyfriend and girlfriend banter??? whats so peculiar about any of that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:01 AM
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lol why would we think he's an incel. he's 6'2" and strong framed with really distinct features. that's unconventional. and fyi he met his relatively hot wife in college long before he was famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:55 AM
6

there are definitely guys who talk like adam irl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:50 AM
1

uh i'm quiet now because im preparing dinner for my king after a long day's work not becuz of whatever ur talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:08 AM
1

ok bud
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:16 AM
3

apparently so!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:40 PM
1

no it just sucked dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:38 PM
5

you thought your mom was giving you advice on how to slay pussy? what was your relationship like with your mother. what was her disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:31 PM
6

well no one said you'd be getting your make believe dreamgirl. but the advice your mothers gave you is unambiguously true for finding someone to start a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:15 PM
2

hmm, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:14 PM
3

girls will like that when they're 30 and its time to start a family
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:12 PM
1

because your hypothetical is awful. you have presented no reason in this hypothetical for why the police can't tackle both
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:01 PM
8

when your brothers have been banging your friends and schoolmates since you were 14 yeah you tend to know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:01 PM
0

in your hypothetical do we have a limited police force? because we don't rn in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:52 PM
6

i think most men absolutely do need to shape their brows :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:43 PM
6

Lol my cold ass emotionally detached mom spent 0 time talking about anything remotely love or sex related with my brothers and yet they were/are slayers some guys need to admit that they're just natural born sexfails and the only thing mommy did wrong was contribute shitty genes maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:41 PM
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thankfully i don't have to theorize about chad's sexual behavior, im on the receiving end of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:38 PM
2

demonstrably false lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:20 PM
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you can wait because there's nothing stopping you from banging all of those other multiple women while you wait i dont expect nonchads to really get this so i understand ur confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:19 PM
3

yes im sure aggressive bulldykes beat each other up a lot but there are other forms of intragender violence beyond lesbian romantic quarrels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:05 PM
2

and, in my experience, also being a high value man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:47 PM
2

appreciation for delayed gratification is correlated with a lot of high value traits
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:39 PM
36

intragender rates of violence determined thats a lie. do u think violence only occurs between people of the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:25 PM
1

i actually love men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:11 PM
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no, obviously not. you'll know who chads are by 7th grade at the latest. there's a second tier of very physically attractive men who bloom in high school once they meet their full height or post puberty or whatever, but you would know if you're in this group. every other guy has that glint of insecurity in their eyes when they're around these men, no matter how much they work out or pull out dumb red pill/pua shit from their circus clown bag, they know it, we know it, its sad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:05 PM
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high value men LOVE being made to wait. sleeping with him right away is the worst thing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:01 PM
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everything about them down to a molecular level and im not kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:59 PM
4

i dont have to tell women to settle, their mothers will. ugly loser males lack the brutal scrutiny produced from the mother daughter relationship and if anything are coddled by mommy into thinking they're good boys who deserve the world despite literally no woman remotely more attractive with them ever being interested
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:55 PM
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they don't have the tools or range for betterment, "self improvement" is neolib nonsense lol these men are at their core truly unlovable but maybe there is some supbar woman willing to cohabitate with them for kids or to not die alone or sumn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:51 PM
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maybe they should stop trying to get hotter and just accept the ugly women on their tier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:38 PM
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lol what are you putting me on the spot for, your posts so far have been irrelevant to anything this post is about. idgaf if you find my comment shaming i never claimed to be antishaming, please next time just address the actual point jesus and dont try to speak in metaphors, u dont have a poetic mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:54 AM
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i didn't say anything about money???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:12 AM
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yes i do believe they make up the majority of the demographic, what about it. if i believe that to be true i'm going to say it whether its unflattering to the demographic or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:01 AM
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yes but that wasn't apart of my point and was thus irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:45 AM
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i didn't say aanything about "all" young women who date older men actually, that was your interesting misreading
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:14 AM
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yes, correct
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:14 AM
4

just identifying a demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:53 AM
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yeah i neg guys, but i'm fucking adorable and guys think its cute. no one thinks its cute when a mouthbreathing dork negs them. it doesn't come off charming and flirty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:47 AM
1

it extends down into the labia not the fucking vagina lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:39 AM
1

i think guys don't like girls who are socially known as sluts but actual n-count is a small part of that. and its true, i've only been asked once so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:33 AM
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fine, i won't tell you what i believe then ¯\ (ツ)/¯ do you also cum from giving blowjobs jw?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:13 AM
1

lol @ "mind orgasms." believe it if you want!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:09 AM
3

women actually do fool themselves quite consistently about this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:03 AM
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no but sounds interesting. i have a hunch that the vaginal orgasm was created from dumb neolib sex positive thinking combined with a malecentric lens on female pleasure. both men and women really want this to be a thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:02 AM
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NO, the vagina and clitoris share no relationship!!!!!! they are literally just two separate structures near each other. they are as related as the vagina and the butthole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:59 AM
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The "inner clitoris" suggested by some researchers does not exist. The entire clitoris is an external organ, composed of the glans, body and root (or crura). There is no anatomical basis for a "clitoral-urethro-vaginal complex" (which others claim supports the idea of the "G-spot"). The vagina has no anatomical relationship with the clitoris. The female erectile tissue responsible for orgasms is composed of the clitoris and its vestibular bulbs, the pars intermedia, labia minora and corpus spong…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:59 AM
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yes thats what i'm saying lol. look it up! there is literally no physiological support for the idea of a vaginal orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:55 AM
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the minority are women either faking it or mistaking something else for an orgasm https://www.huffpost.com/entry/g-spot-vaginal-orgasm-myth_n_5947930
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:33 AM
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well speaking of myself guys can generally piece together what my sexual behavior has been like just based on my demographic, jobs i've held in the past, my friend group, etc, no one gets with me thinking "this girl has been chaste" and if they do, well, they're retarded, but i don't get the impression that guys have that impression i dont even know my real number because i stopped keeping track a long time ago, so i just say a number that i know is lower than the real amount that basically incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:58 PM
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yeah i'd lie. i'm not proud of my number, i'm not like a "proud slut" or sluts rights activist or whatever i'm a normal girl who doesn't want people to be like "you're a slut" ??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:52 PM
1

body is more important times 100
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:50 PM
5

i like seeming innocent and pure as part of my personal aesthetic regardless of men's preferences. i lie about my number to my friends and stuff. i've never even had the oppurtunity to lie to a boyfriend because again they don't ask!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:49 PM
2

no, i'm going to lie, but that's a separate topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:23 PM
2

right, well, men don't ask me for a number, so i can't relate to that. and i've dated a lot of guys here so...no one asks??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:54 PM
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i'm sure people think they care about a lot of things but then practically speaking don't care when the reality hits them in the face. you can ask a guy hey would you rather date a girl whose been with less guys and they'll say yes, then they'll meet a slut, fall for her and that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:40 PM
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i'm against the n-count debate because i hate having to pretend something that isn't a thing is a thing. i've only ever been asked my n-count once by a dude and it was in college. none of the men who have dated me seriously have ever asked me about this. it doesn't come up. n-count preferences are pretty much imaginary
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:35 PM
2

today you learned that slang is often linguistically illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:15 PM
2

i'm one of the shallowest girls i know and thats not even how it works for me sry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:14 PM
6

yes, them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:10 PM
3

you realize that such a woman would be fucking a new guy every week if that was the case right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:06 PM
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yes there are lots of dumb plain-to-unattractive young women out there who think an older man is the cure for their lack of success with men their own age. i've seen this often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:04 PM
12

there has always been a portion of the female population immune to slutshaming. they just have cameras now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:31 PM
1

this pussy isn't vapid and that's all that matters bb 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:49 PM
1

he's a hedge fund trader
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:01 AM
1

do you want the truth or do you want pretty little lies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:00 AM
1

i do and he is from this same demographic of guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 01:29 AM
2

ime were more likely to talk shit on the attractive guys we turned down than the low value ones who might as well not exist. yes we ignore them even after they talk to us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:48 PM
3

its never been the idea that most males do that. just that those who do definitely aren't shamed about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:37 PM
2

yes i said "social loser"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:30 PM
11

i get that but these conversations are often framed in a way that implies its upwardly mobile careerist women who are facing these problems and not like janet the nurse from fargo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:12 PM
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"this crazy weirdo who i went out with like twice told me she knows how important sex is for men but said she would give me a handjob instead so she doesn't feel like she's weaponizing sex against me" "lmao bitches are wild man" "yeah she keeps textin me too ugh" it has nothing to do with the action and everything to do with the bizarre framing and script YOU said she should say before giving the blowjob
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:32 PM
11

i know more guys who are into crazy girls than i do girls who are into bad boys. "crazy girls" can be anything from wild hipster crackhead chicks, party girls who wear their emotions on their sleeves (moi), to like relatively normie ass white dudes who exclusively date psycho puerto rican chicks from the bronx
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:41 PM
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no woman with a college degree and a good job living in an urban enviorment with anything resembling a peer circle has a "shortage of eligible men" i just...fucking go outside. i can't turn a corner without bumping into a finance bro, can't fire up bumble without having to swipe through a zillion different startup dudes, engineers, accountants, can't go to a dinner party without being introduced to these guys, what the fuck are people talking about!!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:27 PM
6

someone's never been to college i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:22 PM
4

the problem would have been avoided if he approached her in a casual sex manner in the first place and not tried to date her. it doesn't matter how high value the guy is, if you approach me asking me to dinner and gallery hopping I'm going to put you on the date path. If you WANT to bang me quickly then approach me from that angle, don't try to wine and dine your way to pussy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:12 PM
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a normal healthy man would spend the next day at happy hour saying "You would not believe what this weirdo bitch said to me last night" and then ghost her for saying some weirdo shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:10 PM
3

100 dollars in billy beta currency = 1 dollar in chad currency
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:59 PM
3

but if nsa casual sex is so much better than having to commit, why doesn't billy beta just do that? because he CANT AFFORD IT. but chad could. its less like paying new car prices and more like paying for a cheaper service offered by someone who also offers higher tier service to customers who can afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:16 AM
0

it does, hence why ur slaving away in the scorching sun destroying ur body lifting things while i sit in my air conditioned lux apartment enjoying the fruit of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:32 AM
3

i'm saying you're not paying new car prices. nothing you're giving is higher value than what chad did. your commitment is not worth more than the tingles provided by chad. chad paid more. he got more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:22 AM
2

he is offering less. less tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:14 AM
2

you're not paying new car prices because you're not giving her anything she considers better than the tingles that chad gave her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:07 AM
8

lol @ men believing that low intellect manual labor makes them important
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:02 AM
6

lets put it this way, i've only ever approached guys when i knew i just wanted sex. because thats a fine way to just end up getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:46 PM
2

i dont disagree with that necessarily lol, i wouldn't do it again. it was the booze the first time it happened, then after that it was like well weve already done it once so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:39 PM
2

i hate how the word grooming has been bastardized. grooming isn't "i knew this person when they were underage and now I'm having sex with them as an adult." i did NOT nurture a relationship with him over years to make him more vulnerable or emotionally manipulate him to be interested in me. he's just a kid i knew, who grew to be an adult i knew, who i then had sex with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:36 PM
2

She got FUN, and that's the most important thing a guy can give a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:34 PM
1

how is it a swindle. the man in this scenario is offering less than the other guys did. you're getting what you can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:00 PM
0

so basically what he's saying only applies to a social loser who is inexplicably dating a slut, okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:58 PM
4

as an actual slut my boyfriend likes being my boyfriend. i'm never even the one to really push or propose monogamy. we almost always are having sex before that even happens so if a guy doesn't want the expectations of being in a relationship he doesn't have to. do you think sluts set out boyfriend beartraps or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:57 PM
2

19 when I was 28 lmao. it was a rebound thing after my last relationship. but i was the oldie obv. it was kind of a messy situation and maybe a little effed up on my part because i'd known him for a few years, do the math lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:53 PM
2

i stare at guys all the time lol. one of my favorite things to do when i'm walking to work is to make eye contact and smile at the cute guys also headed to the office to brighten up their mornings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:34 PM
5

nice essay bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:32 PM
3

its absolutely not true. you just ignore the unattractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:29 PM
14

if i'm ever offering to split with a guy its because i'm not interested in seeing him again so it doesn't matter what he says
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:03 AM
2

if they had the balls to approach me i might decline but i might know a girl who digs them or i think would dig them and could make the connection. i've done it before
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:55 AM
2

no one believes you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:52 AM
3

you could date younger, isn't that what you say you want to do anyway lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:52 AM
1

i truly don't care if i'm "low value", tell that to the men i want to date, who seem to have no problem with it lmao. like i don't give a fuck...i'm still getting what i want love!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:50 AM
3

Lol no but I do have a large following
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:00 AM
2

i do see them a lot. i go to a lot of parties and events. i know because i can tell when a guy is into me and also people talk. he may not have the balls to approach me but he may have the balls to talk about me to someone we know mutually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:51 PM
2

i'm an influencer sweetie!!!! lol a lot of them are vague business contacts. nightlife dudes and IG dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:31 PM
1

associates meaning literal people i associate with but would never call friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:58 PM
2

they mean the same three articles written by women's lifestyle journalists that have been cited for a decade now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:57 PM
4

then this is men's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:51 PM
1

why would that be "honest" of the mom to say? remember that mom had her son with her son's father. the son is a reflection of his father and whatever attracted mom to the father in the first place. she's probably saying "you should be nice and get a good job" because thats how the father got the mom. sorry but most of your dads aren't asshole chads who seduced your moms. they're billy betas who mom looked at and said "good enough" when she was 27
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:48 PM
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its wrong to me because it goes against my moral code, that how i decide if things are wrong or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:39 PM
4

they get upset because a lot of men (and ill guess this demo is overrepresented here) don't actually approach girls in any capacity. they just become infatuated with a girl and then develop little headcanon affairs with them so they're personally affronted when you suggest they're not that into their brainwife i have male associates who i know are basically in love with me but they've never said anything i just know lol. but they can barely even look me in the eye. who wants that in a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:37 PM
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I'm 28 so... Mostly I just find them more boring and careerminded than younger guys, and I have to eliminate a quarter of them because they're balding and another quarter of them because they have dadface or oldface already. The ones who don't have any of these things are the perfect demo for LTRs. My dream guy is a guy my age who just looks a lot younger, which i've actually managed to find lol No hate for guys who date younger girls because when it comes to casual sex or flings I prefer younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:28 PM
2

lol i do NOT "like asians", he's just perfect and happens to be asian
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:42 AM
2

yes i'm late 20s with the body of a teen, we exist and he's my bf now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:23 AM
1

not really, there's no choices or lifestyle that's going to change how men percieve my adorable face, gorgeous hair and petite teen body
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:03 AM
0

Bitter about what? I can both fuck chad and fuck girls hotter than u ever could lmfaaaao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:43 AM
-2

not really, stacies are born, chads are made
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:58 AM
1

there are zero chads here, give it up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:44 PM
6

Lol my mom and dad were whores and are celebrating 40 years together, and are still very much in love too, not just "still married and living together" like lots of couples
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:02 PM
4

right, i'm not dating "men", i'm dating "a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:52 PM
3

this isn't real, but if it were, so? don't do cartoonishly hr-bait behavior in the proximity of your coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:59 AM
2

Everyone? No. But Multiple people exclusively using it responsibly? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:53 AM
3

Idk as a high n count woman i don’t think I’m a catch, men do, and if they believe that and treat me as such (however faulty that is) then that’s on them. I’m still gonna reap the benefits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:16 AM
3

no you obviously don't know how men think if you're saying shit that a little girl would say after watching cinderella
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:42 PM
2

"they are less likely to cheat if they think wifey is of good quality" LOL are you a 7 year old girl?? life isn't Frozen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:38 PM
11

well ive said slutty things so people think im a slut. it would be like me going on a different web site and saying "yeah ppl call me slutty on reddit simply because i have a different view of sex from them" and leave out the fact that ive shared slutty stufff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:37 PM
1

men cheat on everyone and at least these sluts will be cheating right alongside him and also get the house and alimonany when she decides to bail. sounds like success to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:26 PM
2

its hilarious being actually 28 and seeing all of the actual sluts ive known since middle school being wifed up by loaded chads while guys on reddit screech about how doomed they should be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:21 PM
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if youve been called a pickme multiple times then i am left to believe that you are overtly annoying and are unreliable and in conveying just how annoying youve been
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:08 PM
1

yes weve established that you're wrong so where do we go from here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:07 PM
2

who told men that jobs were attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:55 PM
3

its hilarious being actually 28 and seeing all of the actual sluts ive known since middle school being wifed up by loaded chads while guys on reddit screech about how doomed they should be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:53 PM
3

isn't that a man's problem? that doesn't really have anything to do with the woman's ability to get married in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:52 PM
4

you seem really triggered with this response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:51 PM
0

men in new york aren't like this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:46 PM
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no pick-mes are just overtly annoying. no one is calling random stay at home moms or whatever a pick-me. its almost universally used against women who themselves are attacking other women for not catering to men in some way. most women called pickmes aren't really successful in getting picked so i don't think its a reaction to feeling threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:21 PM
3

well just because a woman is expressing attraction doesn't mean she actually wants it to go beyond there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:08 PM
2

how was he mocking her by agreeing with her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:07 PM
4

i'm not really interested in pursuing anything with a guy who needs me to say "i like you" outright. if he isn't savvy enough to catch what i'm giving then i just move on to the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:36 PM
1

thx for the confirmation that men (though probably just you) are unreliable narrators! tagged and ignored now~
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:57 AM
4

I only mentioned Britney Spears because another user did exactly what I said and it was so predictable it hurt whats funny to me is how men here literally create false realities of things that didn't happen, that i myself wrote and posted so remember exactly what i said and can go back and read at anytime, so i know they're either lying or poorly interpreted something, and then they expect us to take their interpretations of life, gender, dating, sex seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:25 AM
2

maybe they do work on unsuspecting women but i do distinctly remember being like "whats this little thing that guys keep doing when they talk to me?" before i even knew what it was. and was definitely put off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:19 AM
4

this conversation doesn't seem like real life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:11 AM
5

Actually it doesn't even have much advice ,mostly "you go girl " memes. then where are you getting the first impression from? i literally see nothing like that on there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:07 AM
3

i have a lot more experience with PUAs irl because i feel like redpillers are too lame to be in my social spaces much but there was a period where annoying college dudes started learning a lot of that PUA shit and would use it around campus and at parties lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:50 PM
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i don't relate to that because in my scenario we are in a monogamous relationship, have met each others friends, and publicly present as a couple and do couple things. i'm taking this as seriously as i've taken any other relationship, in whatever "Serious" means for me, so its not like something im doing in between finding the one. were not looking for other people at all because were boyfriend and girlfriend lol. and were not waiting to see if we develop feelings, we fell for each other hard pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:49 PM
6

i think maybe she means PUA tricks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:43 PM
5

i dont feel repulsed so no. i feel more like "oh great, this shit again"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:41 PM
2

right and also i dont want a hard muscle ass sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:24 PM
2

i'm not describing that necessarily. i'm describing hopping into genuine relationships, just without a known end game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:13 PM
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i mean my male friends never say any of the stuff i read here either but i also don't doubt it happens. my guy friends have literally said before that they get bored when the girls aren't around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:39 PM
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in 2019 its not really a choice between "casual" and "marriage and kids", ppl get into long term partnerships and cohabitate for years together
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:32 PM
4

no its a very common complaint amongst women when women talk to each other about interacting with men lol (and i'm not talking about in a dating context only either)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:26 PM
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i dont feel the need to clarify that stuff when i start dating someone new. but ive been wondering recently if that is something that changes when you're in your late 20s. i still date with a very much "live in the moment and figure out the rest later" attitude but i have noticed that men aren't like that in my age bracket anymore. like everyone truly is interviewing for their wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:25 PM
6

but what she's saying is also a extremely common thing women say about interacting with men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:18 PM
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it really does just take ONE conversation for that to happen lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:15 PM
5

do men think men are different in this regard, im so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:19 PM
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i could totally see most men feeling this way about me because i don't really want to talk openly and be vulnerable with random dudes. i save that for my girlfriends and my mom and my boyfriend or when i want to stunt at mixed gender dinner parties. i'm very short with men one on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:12 PM
7

its literally not rare at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 06:03 AM
5

no. i said i don't like it not that i cant follow it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:51 AM
4

no like literally sitting there and watching a person talk uninterrupted for an extended period of time. i dont like little routines
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:33 AM
5

i dont like being talked at
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:29 AM
4

have you ever heard the term badbodied
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:27 AM
5

i was the same way, i basically had a straight up child's body up until honestly quite recently and im 28 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:57 AM
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female beauty isn't just the face why do ppl hre act like were just floating faces and ignore how much body impacts attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:54 AM
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i think for a certain type of female beauty the peak is at 17ish and that there is another type of female beauty that peaks at 26ish. people who say women peak as teens obviously like a really neotenous babyfaced aesthetic in women but there are plenty of women who look more sexually attractive right after that overly neotenous look melts off speaking even for myself alone any man who liks a girl with boobs and curvy thighs/ass would not have liked me as a teen. i pretty much did not even have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:49 AM
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i think atlas explained it better. if you're not a feminist then of course you don't see them as wrong because it doesn't conflict with your belief system so....? nothing i or any feminist could say would change that unless they change your fundamental belief system about gender relations lol. i have no reason to believe you're a leftist feminist so, if this was a feminist space and you were arguing there was nothing wrong with these things then i guess i could see the point you were trying to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:38 AM
7

i love that men believe the lies these "hypersexual low ncount" women tell about their partner history
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:59 AM
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i have almost never heard sexual objectication described the way you seem to be using it, especially in a feminist context. it almost always refers to the image of women in in capitalism and art and media, not about people's personal sexual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:55 AM
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i don't need people to believe they're funny to be funny my girls crack me up without ever feeling the need ~try standup ~ like every third millenial male having an existential crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:46 AM
8

i don't believe that and i don't believe those women believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:33 AM
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"as long as he isn't socially retarded" yeah hun lots of men are socially retarded thats what were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:32 AM
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stand up only requires that a person believes they're funny and is willing to test it in that format. lots of people just think stand-up kinda sucks including people who work in and do comedy in some other fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:31 AM
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what exactly do you think "sexual objectifaction is" because you keep describing it as a belief and not an action.. what men are interested in is irrelevant to the behavior that makes women feel objectified. if u act like a retard in your sexual objectification then society will believe its wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:24 AM
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stand up comedy is for men. its not the only kind of humor. and the crowd is male dominated at those shows
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:17 AM
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i find women much funnier than men. i don't really find men to be funny very often so maybe its a perspective thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:16 AM
2

i don't think it does. should women keep shaving their legs if they want equality? men don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:15 AM
1

its both, im talking about men who look average or above and still can't get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:14 AM
0

nope :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:13 AM
1

i don't think so, but i think men are bad at them because men are bad at being conniving
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 08:02 PM
3

so basically you run a shit test that is in itself shitty because you didn't know that the shit test involves a well known scam that most women know about, fascinating thanks for clearing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:54 PM
4

how is that demanding they change? i can make an observation (which is true, a lot of men don't have social skills) and then just leave it there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:51 PM
2

im a woman and i have a shit ton of online friends (or at least friends who started that way) but we actually link up irl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:44 PM
6

no one is demanding anything were just saying that its an essential part of securing casual sex and dates, which is something men complain about not being able to do, women don't complain about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:42 PM
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im asking you specifically what are you trying to glean about their character by making a joke that sounds like you're trying to pull a financial scam
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:40 PM
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for casual/nsa sex i almost exclusively meet men at bars friday night my friends and i went out and one of them left with a boy who approached our group. another girl swapped numbers with a guy and then he came out with us saturday. this is pretty standard/normal for my girl friends i mean if you just go to bars/clubs and look around ppl are blatantly connecting with each other so anyone who says this kind of stuff just doesn't go out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:34 PM
4

you do a joke where you pull a very well known scam move and you test their reaction to determine what exactly? you're the one seeming autistic here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:28 PM
4

ive been on like a hundred first dates in my life and ive never had a guy not pay before so this whole idea that men are hating having to do that doesn't even ring true to me. this isn't an issue for the vast majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:25 PM
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i don't think its ironic. i don't like starving children but i would be pretty put off if someone used a first date to grandstand or virtue signal about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:12 PM
7

no a feminist woman would definitely make fun of this guy to her friends after the date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:56 PM
14

if a guy told me he forgot his card id be like damn that sucks what are you going to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:55 PM
4

lol this is such fake news. men compliment each other more than women in the US? no they fucking don't lmfaaaao what!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 02:49 AM
8

that sounds like a male fantasy and not real life and a really dumb thing to do in a "was i raped?" culture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 01:41 AM
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not really because as a woman i have both. my friends look out for me, strangers look out for me, hell even girls who don't like me have had my back in dangerous and iffy situations, especially when men are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:55 AM
6

agreed, men don't even like or care about other men yet they expect women to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:53 AM
2

manual labor isn't important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:48 AM
2

no you're definitely the wrong one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:39 AM
3

materially speaking how is "hatefucking" different from "fucking"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:34 AM
2

it's how low value guys measure a woman's value
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:33 AM
1

its freaky that ppl dont like obese ppl?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 11:45 AM
2

i'd have an open relationship if my husband and i are choosing to live functionally as "platonic life partners" for the sake of assets/children etc but that'd be decades into a marriage presumably. i would spear myself before i ever entered into a poly relationship as a young woman with a poly identfied guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:54 AM
2

its pretty split between just young and feminine. like julian would have looked like a chick if he had longer hair. gerard way was very feminine and played it up with eyeliner etc. he also isnt looking too hot these days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:46 AM
0

metrosexual80sfan is dat chu baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:42 AM
2

i think young julian casblancas was pretty feminine and he aged pretty bad. you need to look at the pretty band boys of the 2000s to see truly feminine males, mainstream male celeb are rarely truly feminine looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:39 AM
6

he's actually done some pretty groundbreaking tinder experiments
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:33 AM
4

why would that comment bother women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:31 AM
2

this is how my attraction works which most men fail to understand. if you're a 1 i can be as attracted to you as the other 1s even if one guy is super fit and the other has a dadbod
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:58 PM
3

i'm going through a weird flux in my own perceived attractiveness because i was ice blonde for a decade and felt like i was cosplaying as a 9/10 but ive gone back to my natural color and feel more basique (but also younger and fresher??) now so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:09 PM
3

Lol everytime that subreddit is mentioned here i check back there to see if its evolved from something beyond the basic cherry emoji twitter "know your worth queen" stuff that ive only witnessed and nope, it hasn't, the dudes here are seriously projecting when it comes to fds. iots almost like they WANT it to be a female redpill sub because that would be more interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:13 AM
3

ur free to lobby ur representatives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:02 AM
6

okay so? i love my daddy and brothers and care about them and all oher men can die and a fire, does that make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:01 AM
2

same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:00 AM
11

because men cared about the women in their own lives, not women as a class. just like i care about my brothers and my daddy and boyfriend but not men as a class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:56 PM
8

i'm not positing that men need to care or should care about womens issues, im just saying that they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:59 PM
2

well disingenuous support to gain clout and pussy isn't real concern imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:59 PM
6

who was preventing certain men from voting jw. identify exactly who that was. the fact that men don't care about other men is irrelevant to how much they care about women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:58 PM
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society was created by men to protect their women. i know my dad brothers and male friends care about me, joe across the street could not give a single fuck about my ~issues~ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:54 PM
9

forced to care is an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:53 PM
11

you think men pay taxes out of concern for women or out of legal obligation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:45 PM
12

women finally being able to vote after a millenia of not being able to means that men care about women's issues lmao? okay then i guess we should wait until the year 3000 to get around to fixing mens concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:44 PM
2

well this is a new era and a new generation and this the path thats been decided. if you don't iike it youre free to go retire somewhere else but this is our country now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:42 PM
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what percentage of the male population do you think the "lining up and petitioning on behalf of planned parenthood" portion make up? cuz i went to pussyfaggot school nyu and can probably name six ppl that applies to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:41 PM
2

i thought we were talking about america not sweden and sorry but immigration has always been a facet of american culture so maybe you're the one who should gtfo :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:18 PM
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men already don't care so lets start from there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:07 PM
1

minus the multiple breakups thing this is exactly how it happened for me lmao. i think some women are turned on by devotion from a man, i'm one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:06 PM
3

Are you aware of what mass immigration has done to cities and communities throughout America and the West as a whole? made them way cooler? i would fucking suicide in most homogenous communities in rural or suburban america
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:46 PM
6

who are these families dying to take in abandoned bastards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:44 PM
2

men should have zero say after conception. mother nature knew what tf she was doing. and yes you still have to take care of it. women and children come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:26 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:36 AM
3

mans really said "I have done extensive experimentation creating new Facebook accounts and using burner numbers to create brand new OLD accounts, GPS spoofers to try out different areas, the whole 9 yards"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:27 AM
2

again wat does that have to do with the topic at hand 💀 next time u have a bitch attack keep it to urself unless its relevant. coming on here with ur little faggy catty digs lmao men really are bitches these days like imagine being a man who self-reports as having spent a shit ton of time doing "tinder experiments" and thinking your assessment of ppl holds any weight....i cant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 11:23 PM
1

yes in fact and i see that quite a bit. usually those are the guys saying shit like "i'm 6'3 and it doesn't seem to matter girls still don't like me"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:43 PM
1

can't relate cuz i date hypebeasts but yes the phrase "clothes make the man" didn't sprout from nowhere yet guys still walk around wearing shit their mom bought them from target and still think girls are going to be into them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:42 PM
2

how is this related to my comment and why are you so pussyhurt about this lmao. plz set your gps spoofer to somewhere besides my inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:28 PM
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lmao no. i have a high sex drive in that i basically want to fuck every day and that still hasn't been enough for most of my boyfriends. men will meet you at your level and then exceed it once that becomes their normal. like ive had guys be amazed that i want to have sex everyday and say thats their dream but then after a few months it becomes "Okay well we can fuck before work in the morning too or how about a quickie before dinner"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:23 PM
2

i agree, i think the "talking to" stage has replaced the casual bf/gf for younger millenials/gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:15 PM
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i just changed my relationship status for the first time in a decade to my boyfriends (i was married to a college friend on there for all of that time and forgot about it lol). honestly women don't want to change it because its a fucking lame thing to do especially in 2019 but ill do it if it makes him happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:12 PM
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i honestly feel the opposite. im compatible with too many people and can't date all the amazing guys ive met and got along with. i simply don't have the time and i'm not a pussyfaggot so i can't be poly lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:02 PM
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Well you probably have low value ugly friends and acquaintances so that makes sense. Birds of a feather and all. Y'all probably went to one of those ugly people schools. "Top 20 graduates" lol 🤣 no actually they're pretty hot. you seem weirdly personally and emotionally invested in this given the way the rest of your post is written (and all the loser shit u claim to have did experimenting on tinder, tf is a gps spoofer???) so im going to wish u your peace and bounce sskskjsjs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:26 AM
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ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:58 AM
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okay and what have you posted? you realize anybody can make a post right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:36 AM
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Lol I'm 5'6" so smack dab in the middle of short and tall and still obsessed with tall dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:24 AM
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i used bad bitches in particular cuz their girlfriends are often the knockout klardashian-adjacent types tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:20 AM
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hmmm okay i see literally every guy i went to college with and work with on the apps when im swiping but okay. and i know for a fact that EVERY ONE of my single girlfriends who are all top 20 graduates use these apps for dates cuz we talk about it. these apps are geographic and algorithm based so if you're only seeing "sigle moms and fat women" its about your location or swiping habits something. ppl like that dont even exist in my swiping range lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:19 AM
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ew imagine not being american lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:04 AM
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becuz like ive told u before among white, college educated, upwardly mobile urban dwellers who often switch cities and social enviorments often for grad school and new job oppurtunities the dating apps (if not tinder then hinge and bumble) are still very active
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:27 AM
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well it seems like natural order is telling these men that they shouldn't be in the market then, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:25 AM
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time to leave whatever "sub-urb" you're living in and get to the city
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:20 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:05 PM
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if u want a guy with a vagina those exist too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:23 PM
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most of them actually report to be happy within their own relationship. if you disagree with them u should just say that instead of inventing a baseless narrative of the women here being single and miserable and unable to find love lol and are most of the men here young? there's like a scattering of college guys and then most everyone else is over 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:20 PM
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triggered by wat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:18 PM
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or if you're low n count you will have the feeling of sex not being very essential and give your husband duty sex on his birthday every year and thats about it staying married doesnt = sexually active or fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:25 PM
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lol i dont care what anyone says, 50 years from now when its all said and done and the sex partners of women born around the time i was born (so early 90s) the number is gonna be off the charts not fucking 7
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:06 PM
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PPD is highly populated with women who fucked up and went the I will fuck my way to a relationship route, racked up a huge number of pump and dump dicks and are now on reddit projecting their decisions over to all women and also raging that sluts should be the preferred choice of quality men for marriage and LTRs...they aren't as these women have discovered. literally most of the women here are married or partnered lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:01 PM
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i literally majored in psychology and gender studies. i wanted to be a sex columnist and interned at women's magazines hoping to get the chance. that was a flop but the interest in the topics are still there. i think dating and sex are interesting topics to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:35 PM
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lmao sit back it gets worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:21 PM
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its not rare at all if by short guys you mean "guys from shorter ethnicities/communities dating within their ethcnity/community" and not "whining white cusping incel who is ugly in lots of other ways besides his height anyway" go to literally anywhere with a large community of jews and italians and latinos and you will see short ass guys with bad bitches daily. i see couples like this on the train and in the club all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:19 PM
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"prostitution, the act of exchanging money for sex, should be free"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:51 PM
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just wow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:50 PM
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lmao mte these guys just don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:36 PM
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yeah a white blouse knee socks and black skirt are certainly elusive wardrobe pieces
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:35 PM
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yeah OP how dare you complain about things relevant to your own dating pool when somewhere out there is a retarded middle aged woman who can't tell her boyfriend is married 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:28 AM
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well were talking about tinder so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:36 AM
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and you believed them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 02:18 AM
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tinder is whatever girls decide it is. women control the actual climate of the app
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:10 AM
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"easy sex without jumping through hoops" okay well grindr is that way. people expecting this dynamic out of any dating app involving women are being delusional. who told men that women are just guys with vaginas??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:04 AM
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why should hi or hey be enough. most women barely use tinder as a hot or not validation source, actually moving off the app to meeting up requires active incentive. a few cute pics and "hey" isn't really an incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:01 AM
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works on me ¯\ (ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:21 PM
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she swiped on you and like 20 other dudes in the last hour and matched with 19 of them. then half of those dudes send her "hey" and her eyes glaze over until one of the other half says something like "i really dig that x you're wearing, nice fit queen" and she starts talking to him instead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:16 PM
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i do irrational things all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:09 PM
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no im dating him cuz we have been virtually inseperable since the second date. havent you ever just really became infatuated suddenly? you don't think and plan ahead like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:03 PM
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the guy im dating is not someone i see myself marrying for cultural reasons so it doesn't even add up in that regard. my guy friends are just being assholes because to put it simply he's asian and normal looking and not white and "cool" like other guys ive been with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:56 PM
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they really showed their asses today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:46 PM
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i am absolutely flexing on you depressed hoes, stay melancholy sweatie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:44 PM
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probably cuz im skinny af and flat as a board but could still make myself look like a thicc bih~ if i pose right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:35 PM
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