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Question For Womenfuckdr11/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 10:40 AM
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So in other words, virginity is not a "social construct", you just don't like how society treats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:26 AM
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It's possible to learn how to be good at sex without doing it very often. Just watch a lot of amateur porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:19 AM
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That's on par with "doesn't count if it's anal".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:16 AM
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I was sleepy when I wrote that and still I am,I edited my comment so your 70s old ass could understand it,you `re welcome! Your IQ needs to triple before you continue to speak at me. Bye bye now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:23 PM
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Pegging is a hundred times more "dominant" than any of those things. They're in different leagues, but both referred to as "femdom".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:17 PM
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you sound dyselexic lmao Your comments are nonsense. Either English isn't your first language, or you're a literal retard, or both. what do you mean by a woman wanting to be dominated? Which of those words do you not understand? physically its best suited if the man did all the work and pumping action,also they have more psychical power, a lot of women are lazy and for a lot of them sex is more about feeling sexy or desired than a not so much guaranteed orgasm, thats why they want to surrender a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:15 PM
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I'm not a dictionary service. If you don't know what the word "dominant" means, look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:21 PM
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Doesn’t negate the fact that she’s willingly being dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:50 PM
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Well first of all, he should be power-bottoming a little bit, unless he’s taking a quick rest. But anyway, she’s still the one with a dick inside her. So much of the culture of sex is centered around the male orgasm, it’s hard to come up with a situation where the woman is really dominating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:49 PM
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No fucking way you can be dominant when getting pegged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:47 PM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:43 PM
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because it's engraved in men to be thrown off by that type of behavior. Where, in Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:10 PM
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Warts? I've heard a pair of nail clippers will do wonders for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:57 PM
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Who defines what "bad" is? I don't think that's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:56 PM
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HPV is not that bad. And there's a vaccine available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:54 PM
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I don't know what that's supposed to mean. Sex is addictive as heroin? Sex has literally nothing in common with heroin, except that they both feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:57 AM
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Neither is good-tasting food, but we're not all eating cauliflower for every meal. Sex is objectively a fun thing, and for those of us that have access to it, we get accustomed to it, and don't want to have to go without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:50 AM
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It's possible to be unattractive without being fat, but it's impossible to be attractive if you're (sufficiently) fat. It doesn't matter how pretty your face is, how much makeup you wear, how nice your clothes are. If you're fat, you're unattractive. And in my opinion, all of your efforts should be on losing weight, rather than trying to "make up for it" with the other parts of your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:47 AM
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Hits vape I'll scratch your dopamine receptors if you scratch mine. Swings cape around shoulder and tips fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:45 AM
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r/im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:38 AM
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Do you put any effort into the sex in those scenarios, or is it basically like "masturbating" with someone else's body? The less attractive she is, the less effort I'm willing to put in to have sex with her. It's fairly common for me to have sex with women who are less attractive than I am, but it's pretty rare for me to have sex with one that I'm not even somewhat attracted to. When that does happen, these are the typical circumstances: I meet her on a dating app and realize that she's less att…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:57 AM
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How people behave in the job market depends very much on what field you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:05 AM
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Keep in mind that many of the women here are autistic introverts who've been brainwashed into only seeking long-term relationships with "Prince Charming". Their opinions are not representative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:04 AM
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Wait til you try sticking your dick in a warm grilled cheese sandwich. GYOW, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:42 PM
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That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:37 AM
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Nothing you’ve said has been correct. You should evaluate whether you’re worth the oxygen that you breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:24 PM
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This is it, then? This is your intellectual ceiling? Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:22 PM
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I don’t know what about my comments leads you to believe that I’m “emotional”. You’re not smart enough to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:21 PM
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I’m neither of those things. You’ve constructed an elaborate strawman in your head based on very little knowledge about me (and just very little knowledge in general, apparently).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:01 PM
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I guess I’d be angry too if I’d gone into a field that’s worthless to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:55 PM
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That’s probably not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:32 PM
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Butt out of the conversation that I started with somebody else? Why do you think anybody here cares for your input?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:30 PM
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I’m translate that for you: You’re old, and not very highly educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:15 PM
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I have advanced degrees in STEM. If you think that reading novels is “learning”, then you’re completely clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:14 PM
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Your opinions of me, whether correct or wrong, are not interesting in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:11 PM
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You certainly need to get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:07 PM
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Enjoy your 25 year reunion at ITT Tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:06 PM
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At least grammar correctly if you want to pretend like not wanting to read stupid novels (probably written by boomers) is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:04 PM
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She’s only talking about the people she’s talking about? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:04 PM
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I’m a lot smarter than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:03 PM
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“These dumb kids don’t do stupid boomer shit like I do ! What a load of idiots ! The world is sure to end soon ! ! !”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:52 PM
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If you’re an adult and you “need” some other, specific person in order to survive, you’re weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:56 PM
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The implication is that women who travel have sex with lots of people in the places they travel to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:35 AM
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You’re allowed to say “fuck” on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 04:05 PM
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What were you hoping that I'd do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:02 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:54 AM
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The only one of my "viewpoints" I've expressed here is that Trump is a pussy. And I don't know where you think I "pushed it on you". You seem like one of those braindead NPCs that goes around pretending like everybody around you is a "triggered liberal snowflake", when in reality most of us are just regular people who want the autistic basement-dwelling manchild (you) to quit with the unsolicited oversharing of his Fox-News-regurgitated political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:43 AM
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You're not really discussing anything, you're kind of just babbling. I think I'm going to have to demote you from turtle to some kind of beetle, maybe even a plant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:38 AM
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Wow, a brilliant subterfuge. Did some autistic PUA YouTuber tell you to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:21 AM
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So things are changing, but they aren't actually changing, but it's still bad that promises are being made, but the promises won't be kept. So what exactly do you think you're saying here? Really dig deep, get all 15 of those turtle brain cells working together, and summarize in a few (English) words what you think your point is. sick burn, i guess I wouldn't just said "turtles" in general, but there are few big ones at the zoo that give you a run for your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:20 AM
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I'm not even that liberal, but if we met in real life, I'd probably be disgusted by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:17 AM
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So he's Melania's bleached asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:10 AM
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You have to make her feel safe around you because her default is that you’re dangerous I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone that stupid. you have to be mindful not to hurt her physically during sex and when playing around. Are you Lennie from Of Mice and Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:03 AM
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why I had to pay for it, but people that took on student loans are now being promised forgiveness. shit didn't change dummy. What's that degree you've got, an Associate's in plumbing? How can I put this politely? You're about the smartest small to mid-sized turtle I've ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:00 AM
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For who lol. That's the whole question. So you've got the "best degree", but you don't know how to think for yourself. Can you eat and drink on your own? I've gotten the best degree buddy. I doubt that. I'm just wondering why I had to pay for it, but people that took on student loans are now being promised forgiveness. Because, hold your breath for this one, shit changes. We have medicine now, and people 10000 years ago didn't. Should we throw it all away to make it "fair"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:43 AM
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What do I do when I both despise Trump and his followers, and think left wing identity politics are pure cancer? Vote, or leave the country. and will I get a refund check for my college degree? Should've gotten a better degree. If you do, they pay for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:15 AM
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I'm high N and come from a somewhat estranged home. I have a low inclination to pair bond, and that's existed since before I reached high N. If I had to assign blame to a single thing, it would be to my family upbringing. My N does not cause my low pair bonding affinity, in fact it's the opposite. I reached high N because I didn't want to commit to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:09 AM
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Trump is a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:53 PM
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or one of those other states we like to pretend don't exist. So yeah, one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:06 AM
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Lack of education, lots of greasy food, and brushing your teeth with mayonnaise. I'm just going to assume you're from Mississippi, or one of those other states we like to pretend don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:39 AM
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What creates people like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:37 AM
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Damn, I totally thought you were a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:36 AM
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https://imgflip.com/i/35z4uf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:05 PM
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When you talk about “incels”, do you mean actual ones, or just “men I disagree with”? Because there aren’t that many of them here. Much moreso MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:29 PM
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Why are you so mad though xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:25 PM
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Your opinions are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:09 PM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:42 AM
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Fucking a lot of people doesn't necessarily mean you "have no loyalty".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:07 AM
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If he's my age then I wouldn't want to get down with him if he's at 5 or more. How old are you, 19?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:29 PM
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One or both of you is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:56 PM
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HPV is like the common cold of STDs, except a vaccine exists (not for all strains).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:54 PM
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I've had other people develop feelings for me, but not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:04 PM
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You've got old school toxic masculinity and also new school feminization of men. Mixed messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:02 PM
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I think it’s true. I’m not a neuroscientist, but it’s almost as if different parts of my brain process people I want to fuck and people I don’t want to fuck. Men, family, and unattractive women all fall into the category of people who I don’t consider sexually at all. I don’t see them as sexual beings, even though they are. It’s like a cognitive dissonance. The option just doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:16 PM
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I have no interest in marriage right now, not until I'm at least 30. We'll see what happens when I reach that age. Will the Tinder lake dry up? If so, I'll need to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:21 AM
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rights of all people. Including the ones you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:29 PM
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Then move to a dictatorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:23 PM
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You life would be a lot better if you'd learn how to identify low-quality people and tune them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:13 PM
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"Wronged by a woman" because she rejected you. If a woman "wrongs" you, fuck her sister and move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:11 PM
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That's a neat story, do you really think something like that happened to all 119,000 subscribers of /r/MGTOW? Most of them are what I said above.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:32 PM
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If only I had a few more swastika tattoos and a B.A. in humanities from the University of Phoenix, maybe I could be a learned social scientist like you. I read what you wrote, and responded in turn. Did you read what I wrote? See, I can ask vapid rhetorical questions too. Again, disguising racism in fancy big girl words doesn’t legitimize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:56 PM
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Oh, so you’re the cultured one here, not me? Interesting take. You can try to disguise racism with buzzphrases like “race realist”, but it’s clear what you are. I’m a white American, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:43 PM
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If you were to draw a Venn diagram of that with “people who have brown skin”, what would it look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:30 PM
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The internet isn’t a country, so I don’t know what you think “foreigners” means in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:23 PM
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MGTOW is "Women don't want me, so I bought a motorcycle and I'm pretending I don't care."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:53 PM
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Did you literally read any of the literal explanation I gave above? Because what I literally said is literally correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 10:34 PM
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A demonstration of social status is driving a fancy car, wearing expensive clothes, hanging out with models. It's about your family, your friends, your job, what you've got in your wallet, all traits which are external to your looks and personality. Big dick energy is a part of your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:50 PM
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I'm an ignorant bigot. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:26 PM
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Solid argument Jk Wow, what a twist. Take a seat there, M. Night Shyamalan, let's break this down for you. Big dick energy is about how you carry yourself. It's confidence. It has nothing to do with other people (i.e., your status in society as compared with others). If you take it "literally" (there's your favorite word), it's about dick size, which also has nothing do with with anybody else. Totally separate from your social status. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:25 PM
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Aren't you openly racist? I don't think IQs can go negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:22 PM
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No, that's literally not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 07:58 PM
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At this point in my life, I have no desire for a committed relationship. I think that will change eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:59 PM
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Nope, not that type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:47 PM
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If you're a woman and you're not related to me, the only "affection" I have for you is that I want to fuck you. And if I don't want to fuck you, I feel no affection toward you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:36 PM
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1.5: Big dick energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:33 PM
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Because RP are afraid of women who aren't virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:36 PM
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Reddest: Being attractive, lifting, having game, and being a little bit cocky makes you much more successful, both with women and in general. Bluest: I prefer women with moderately high N. Bonus blackpill: If you’re ugly (the aspects that can’t be changed), you’re at a serious disadvantage in life. Ugly/short men are seen as second class, and nobody cares to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:40 PM
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What is it about [overtly rude gesture] that [causes a negative response] in [any class of person]?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:00 AM
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It fluctuates, but on average, maybe like once or twice a week, in person. If you include all the messaging leading up to a date, then every date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:51 PM
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I think people who buy that shit are fucking idiots. Good for her for establishing that market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:21 PM
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Crossfitters use terrible form. It’s a “workout” for people who don’t know how to work out, and can’t be bothered to learn proper form.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:25 PM
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And also if you are on planet Earth, in the Milky Way galaxy. You don’t need to show up in every comment, mentioning every obvious thing. You aren’t getting paid by the keystroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:22 PM
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Lots of low key misogyny in most religions, and in Southern American culture. I don’t think it’s about where you live. The internet gives women a platform that they often don’t have in real life. In real life, a petite, 4’11”, pink-haired girl saying “Men are pigs” is ignored. On the internet, we’re all just anonymous usernames. It’s an equalizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:18 PM
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That's the one you focus on? Only two of the things they mentioned, money and status, can realistically be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:37 AM
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The internet is full of introverted beta males who buy into feminist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:34 AM
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you are not red-pill. You are the typical American woman living the typical American woman life. What do you think those things have to do with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:25 AM
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I hope the rest of second grade goes well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:21 PM
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I'm probably a lot more successful in life than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:19 PM
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Learn how to think, it may come in handy someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:21 PM
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That’s a stupid argument. “The question assumes that I’m fine with it, so I’m fine with it.” Alright, pack it up everybody, no answers necessary, the question is clearly tautological.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:03 PM
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What about this makes you think that the question isn’t serious? I know that many of you have been programmed to only ever think about committed relationships, and have never dared to question that or try anything else, but it turns out that men can seek non-committal sexual flings with women without lying to or misleading them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:32 PM
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You make a bunch of stupid posts on MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:05 AM
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Gender abolitionist I don’t think I’ll be needing your opinions, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:58 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:15 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:10 AM
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No. Women that I’m not attracted to can’t get me, and most other men I know feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:37 AM
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I don’t eat fast food, that’s a low status activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:34 AM
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What is low status in your mind? Your job, where you live, who you hang out with. But to what degree do you think a person can change their status? If you clean toilets at McDonalds, you can go back to school, get an advanced degree, and get a better job. You can climb the ladder to a higher salary and move out of a shitty neighborhood. You can surround yourself with higher-status people. Are there any low hanging fruit that can be changed with less effort? You can make yourself appear to be hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 12:26 AM
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I guess I’m in the top 20%, because I don’t need to “change the game”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:30 PM
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It used to be men, but now it's women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:36 AM
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Well you should think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:19 AM
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Who thinks about this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:15 AM
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Won't be doing that, don't want to catch the autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:14 AM
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I suppose, if your point is that you’re incapable of intelligent thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 03:39 PM
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Your opinion is also wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:31 PM
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A study done by who? Some PUA boner on YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:29 AM
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Your opinion is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:28 AM
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I'm a lot smarter than you. Let me guess, you sleep in a bed shaped like a racecar and jerk off to hentai all day? Did you grow up with a single mom, constantly bringing male "friends" home?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:50 AM
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Let me guess, you think it's a Jewish conspiracy? Or is the lizard people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:42 AM
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and was wearing red. Do you think women are bulls? If you wave a red flag in front of them, they'll be attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:34 AM
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You can spend the rest of your sad life pretending that sex is bad because nobody wants to have it with you. The rest of us will keep living in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:32 AM
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If your idea of game is memorizing a bunch of autistic "lines" that some shithead YouTuber made up, you're a fucking Melvin. Just talk to people normally, as if you have a shred of social wherewithal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:28 AM
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Doubling down on the autism, bold strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:24 AM
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Why do you think the American family is destroyed? It's not. Why do you think there's so many single mothers? Why do you think there are so many single mothers? What nonsensical bullshit has your goldfish brain concocted to explain it? Why do you think real friendship and long term commitment are rare? They're not. Why do think I'll take you seriously, if you are condescending? I don't care if you take me seriously. Most, if not all of your opinions appear to be the opposite of the truth, so I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:23 AM
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"You look cool, are you friendly?" Holy autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:13 AM
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it means sex with you is not special at all. Why should rubbing pieces of wet skin together be "special"? Because [insert religious text here] says so? Degenerates can hookup all they want, Why is hooking up "degenerate" behavior? What do you think the word "degenerate" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:12 AM
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I could see how you might find it ridiculous if you didn't understand anything about physical confrontations. What's your explanation then? Women are just too compassionate to commit violent crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:41 PM
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Most men are capable of physically overpowering most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:54 PM
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“Getting jacked” is not the only goal of going to the gym. It may not be your goal at all. Maybe you’re trying to cut fat, or you’re just farming your existing body without trying to change it. Going to the gym is a hobby. It’s a stress reliever. It’s a goal-oriented thing to keep you motivated. It’s a way to develop discipline. And it’s even a way to meet people (sexually or platonic). If you bought into the “just get yoked and you’ll automatically pull bitches” mentality, then you shouldn’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:02 AM
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Fine, the woman can be as scared as she wants to be, whether that’s rational or not. My argument is that her fear creates no additional responsibility on the man. I don’t have to go out of my way to make you feel safe just because you have an unwarranted fear of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 10:31 AM
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I don’t care about “feeling bad”. I don’t know where you got the impression that I “feel” anything about this situation. I’m not obligated to make you feel safe if you have an irrational fear of me. So what if you feel bad? Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 10:26 AM
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Again with the responsibility bit. That word is not the important part of my comment. Did you understand any of what I said? You can mentally replace that word with a synonym that you like better. Do you have an actual response to anything I've said? Maybe some men don’t want to scare women? I don't want to scare women. But if a paranoid woman is inherently afraid of me for no reason other than the fact that I'm a man, then that's her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 01:02 AM
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Women’s fear of men, at midnight, in parking garages is completely rational. No, I don't think that's necessarily the case. But whether or not that's true, the point is that the man is not obligated to do anything about it. You can be afraid of me or not, it's your choice, and your problem to deal with. I'm not a threat to you either way, so I'm fulfilling my social responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:55 AM
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He was an unknown man, much larger than she, approaching her at night. Which is not an inherently dangerous thing. To think that is irrational. Even if she was aware that this was someone else's parking spot, it's not like she would automatically know that this was his parking spot. If you're in somebody's parking spot and somebody is walking towards to to talk to you, it shouldn't take you more than a nanosecond to come up with that possibility. It doesn't even have to be the owner of the parki…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:52 AM
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She may or may not have known that she was in someone else's parking spot. Again, it's her responsibility to be aware of her surroundings. If she wants to just float through life with no situational awareness, irrationally afraid of everything around her, that's her choice. But it doesn't create any extra responsibilities for the rest of us. The point of my OP is that women are generally not paranoid when it comes to being cautious around unknown men. So you think that an irrational fear of all …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:40 AM
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Her first instinct was to be alarmed that somebody is approaching, when it should have been "Oh, I'm in somebody's parking spot, maybe this has something to do with that." There's no additional responsibility on men to "act safe" just because some women are paranoid. I'm not a threat to you, but I'm not obligated to go out of my way to show you that. If you're afraid of me for no reason, that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:31 AM
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It's not his responsibility to go out of his way to show that he's not a threat. If she's irrationally afraid of him when he's not actually a threat, it's her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:28 AM
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If you park in someone else's private parking spot, you assume that risk. She's the bitch, not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:26 AM
1

Most people are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:31 PM
1

If it’s somebody I really care about, I can get pretty jealous. That being said, it’s very rare that I care about somebody on that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:10 PM
1

This explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 09:37 AM
1

I can't tell if you're an autistic 13-year-old or a boomer with early onset dementia. But either way, keep going, this is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 12:58 AM
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You're just repeating the same braindead shit with no additional information. Why are you like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 12:50 AM
1

Everyone should be empowered to ask for what they want. Can I have $20?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 12:49 AM
1

Chad is a man in the top 10%, 1%, 0.1%, or whatever, depending on how conservative you are about it, for physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 12:13 PM
1

Why can't you use punctuation correctly? What is happening in your brain when you're typing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:24 AM
1

What language do you think you're speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:23 AM
1

Polyamory is a fad that’s mostly caught on among low-quality people, like fat acceptance, being an SJW, and dying your hair quirky^(TM) XD colors. So for the time being, I associate it with people that I want absolutely nothing to do with. Maybe it will catch on with the greater population, or maybe people will realize that simple monogamous relationships work out better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:16 PM
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Whether you think a hot dog is a sandwich or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:11 PM
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I picture them as mentally ill boomers who drink Monster energy drink and try to pick up girls at the local high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:02 AM
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If you believe that, then what you do doesn't matter, and making a good first impression isn't difficult, it's just rare. That being said, what you said isn't really true. So even if your viewpoint wasn't nonsense, it would still be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:56 PM
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Correct. So why do you think that making a good first impression is difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 07:26 PM
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You really just have to not come off as a creepy rapist. That'll get you pretty far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 04:34 PM
1

Why is that difficult? Just ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 04:33 PM
1

The girls in the pictures are right near the upper limit of how thick I'm willing to go. I generally find it easier to get with "curvy" women, but I value hooking up with them less. With a "curvy" girl, I'm more likely to get away with "just come to my place" for a first date rather than meeting her at a bar, or whatever more likely to fuck on the first date less likely to hang out with her again after the first date So sex with them is generally easier, but worth less. And the probability of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:11 PM
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No, I’m talking to at least 5 women at a time, at all times. All of the things you’re saying are things that I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:26 AM
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What do you mean by effort? Keeping up a conversation with her, because a lot of women simply don't/can't do that on their own. Establishing interest, and maintaining it until you have a chance to meet up in person. You have to keep her from ghosting/flaking, but also not come off as needy or trying too hard. Now with all this sexual assault culture, with some women, you have to establish some kind of trust that you're not a serial killer or rapist. Sometimes that means taking extra steps of que…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:46 PM
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She has to be hot enough either way. However for a serious thing rather than a quick fuck, she has to be more than just hot. She has to have a personality, and not be embarrassing to bring around my friends, and eventually family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:38 PM
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Some women are just a nightmare to pursue. Just completely uninteresting conversation, flake on plans multiple times, and so on. Some women actually make it fun and exciting. Either way, the ultimate goal and motivation is to fuck her though, not some kind of "thrill of the chase".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:36 PM
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Because the movies and TV taught mildly autistic people everywhere that they’re “supposed” to get a GF/BF/spouse, and many NPC people never have it a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:46 AM
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Penis in vagina/ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 10:41 AM
1

Wasn’t me, this is exactly what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:34 AM
1

So you would have no problem going out with a guy 6 inches shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:42 PM
1

Thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:40 PM
1

And how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:37 PM
1

What do you think is uncivil about my answer? Do you know what that word means?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:36 PM
1

Happy 14 birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:19 PM
1

Pro tip: Hinge has last names.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:33 PM
1

All of your opinions are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:45 AM
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Yeah, that guy's definitely extrapolating a small sample of women to the whole population. But you're also kind of reading too much into his comments, assuming he's choking them to near death, and that there's questionable consent involved. I'll back him up in saying that it's very common for women to be submissive, and to ask for these kinds of things. If a guy is choking his girl in bed, it's usually not because he gets off on feeling powerful, and harming women, or any sick shit like that. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 02:02 AM
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You're acting flabbergasted as if you've never heard of rough sex. What rock do you live under, and is it comfortable down there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:53 AM
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The things that you think are important are not, and you don't seem to understand anything. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:16 AM
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You need to fuck better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:34 PM
1

I'm not in the business of legitimizing stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:20 PM
1

Useless questions. Useless non-answers. So I'll assume the answer to the blowup doll question is yes, and I'll assume that you still don't understand why your opinion is wrong. It doesn't look any more realistic than professional porn, by the looks of it alone. Not true at all. And these "sexually experienced" women happen to be most women. I don't know what you think this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:18 PM
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I doubt it but interesting none the less. Have you only fucked blowup dolls? How can you not realize that this is obviously true? But what do you have to say about women complaining that the sex in porn is unrealistic? What exactly is unrealistic about porn sex? Amateur porn can be pretty realistic. Professional porn tends to be more fake. People who say "sex isn't actually like porn" have boring sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:11 PM
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How is letting a man do all the sexual work (she just taking a dick/get eaten out) her being experienced? Not all women do that. Are you saying women fuck like pornstars? Because they clearly do not. Yes, some of them do. Do you honestly believe that not a single woman does? How about literal porn stars? What if I told you that porn videos are, in fact, videos of them doing exactly that? (Amateur porn, at least.) They want men to lead, carry them, throw them on the bed, slap, spank, choke, pull …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:10 PM
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Maybe the last statement is true but the 1 partner woman will have much more than 10 total sex times lol ... MUCH more. Not necessarily true, but let's assume it is for the sake of argument. There's only so much you can learn about a single partner. Eventually, you know everything there is to know, and you start to overfit. Your sexual technique is not about what makes people get off anymore, it's what makes this specific person get off. And that's not necessarily applicable to the next one. Hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:36 PM
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Sex with various partners. I hope you're not under the impression that penis shape is the only factor in the sexual compatibility of two people. I bet most n = 1 women have as much practically useful experience in bed as your n = 15 woman. No. Sex once with ten different partners is worth more experience-wise than sex ten times with one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:29 PM
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How young are these people? Have you ever fucked a virgin? Have you ever fucked a virgin that didn't immediately cling on like a barnacle afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:25 PM
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What is the point of your argument honestly? The point is that what you said is completely, totally, obviously wrong. Or at least, that was originally my point. At this point, I'm just trying to determine whether you're a sentient being or a generative artificial neural network designed to produce nonsensical strings of English words. You're rambling for no reason and I'll be honest you're not making sense. If my comments are not making sense to you, that's a problem on your end, not mine. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:23 PM
1

Wha? No. Yes. Obviously yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:20 PM
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Because the age could be different for you, for me, for others. You mean every single person in the world doesn't lose their virginity at the exact same elapsed time since birth? Source? Don't try and be a smart ass with me. Don't be a dumbass with me. It's clear that there exists a certain range of ages where the typical person loses their virginity. If that concept is not clear to you, then become less incorrect. Argue valid points. I have yet to argue an invalid point. Try to understand what …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:01 PM
1

What are the pros of dating a high n count woman? She's experienced, she knows what she wants, she's less likely to be clingy and emotionally needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:52 PM
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Being a virgin woman beyond "virginity - losing age" is also a red flag to many men. Why did you put "virginity-losing age" in quotes, did you not understand what it meant? Anyway, this is not what we're arguing. You claimed above that women don't avoid virgin men, and that's false. Lmao I probably interact with more people than you on a daily basis my man. I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:47 PM
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You were a virgin who wanted another virgin, an outlier. Non-virgins don't usually want virgins in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:46 PM
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Men in real life who aren't religious low-N and insecure about it otherwise mentally ill don't really care about her N, unless there's some kind of exigent circumstance, where she was a hooker or a recovering sex addict or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:47 PM
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Of course you latch onto the little thing I mention in passing as an example. You lose your virginity the first time an erect penis enters your vagina. That's unambiguous. People who "aren't sure" if they lost it after a makeout session are dumb, and their opinions about this don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:45 PM
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They don’t care as much as men care about n count. If you're basing this on men here, then that's not representative of the larger population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:41 PM
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Then you must not know many women. Being a virgin man beyond typical virginity-losing age is a red flag that women tend to avoid. This is a well-known thing among those of us who go outside, interact with people, and participate in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:39 PM
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Virginity doesn’t exist outside of the male ego. Incorrect. Virginity has a clear and unambiguous definition for heterosexual sex. It can even have medical implications, like the breaking of the hymen. I don't know how anybody could possibly think that the concept of virginity "doesn't exist". The idea is a clear non-starter. Furthermore, this has nothing to do with the fact that some weirdo RPs and incels think that men should only be attracted to virgins. Those people are wrong too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:37 PM
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Because the question was asked, and answers were solicited. Why do you think people answer questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:33 PM
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However, what about men who are low status but can't do anything about it? Find a way to exist, or don't exist. Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 03:14 PM
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Yeah, fuck knowing useless and made up things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 09:30 PM
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The day I know what “pansexual” means will be a shameful day for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 04:00 PM
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Also, in what scenario, could you ever see yourself rushing into a marriage super fast? None. I know that RP advises against this, but have you ever felt that you were capable of going against that? No. And what do you think of people who do that? Reckless and stupid. Also when youre older, if youre single, would you get into a relationship and/or marriage just for having children? Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:05 AM
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I don't need advice on getting what I'm looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:17 PM
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seeking LTRs. Who said anything about that? People go on dates with the intention of hooking up too. Cold approach is not my style. I meet girls on dating apps, meet up for drinks (one-on-one), and seal the deal at the end of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:03 PM
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Because most normal women are ready to fuck on the first or second date these days. Not doing that is a sign of abnormality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:54 PM
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No, absolutely not. Because I can almost guarantee she's not the only girl I'm pursuing at the time. It would be wrong of me to expect that I'm the only guy she's involved with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:45 PM
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Without fucking? Maybe like 4 or 5 dates, if she's hot (the hotter she is, the longer I'll wait). Without any physical contact? Maybe 2, but probably 1. If you don't even kiss at the end of the first date, something went very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 06:37 PM
3

Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 03:39 PM
1

Stop having a fundamentally warped view of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 03:35 PM
1

At what age?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:31 AM
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If you really believe “AWALT”, you’re the braindead, one-dimensional NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:30 AM
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If he wants to have a fundamentally warped view of society, then he shouldn’t complain about his fundamentally warped view of society. But thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:28 AM
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Oh, then maybe. It's a weird situation, and my answer is that it depends on the specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:09 PM
1

Do you disagree that it's the current year? Otherwise, I don't know what you think that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:08 PM
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I'm the furthest thing from a feminist you'll find here. It's not the 1800s anymore. Monogamy doesn't exist until you're at least 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:07 PM
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Then move to Saudi Arabia and get an arranged marriage at 12 years old. The rest of us will keep living in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:19 PM
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No, just a few outliers who don’t understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:18 PM
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I’m a high-N man. I enjoy fucking new women, but my ability to do that doesn’t define my worth. I have many more important skills, which actually contribute something to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:17 PM
1

Women can sense it Not until it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:16 PM
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I wouldn’t put it past a crazy virgin girl. But on a more serious note, they get clingy and emotional. Taking a virginity was cool in high school, now it’s just a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:16 PM
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That doesn't exist, but maybe. I have reservations against taking a girl's virginity, but that's not a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:27 PM
1

An unfortunate reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:17 PM
1

How to escape the fuckzone: Do all of the above, and have an actual personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:15 PM
3

Then worry not, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:22 AM
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I don't know what you think you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:18 AM
1

Women who post on their Tumblrs about "deconstructing the patriarchy" like to be spanked until they're raw, and swallow cum. 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 01:57 AM
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From a man's perspective: Lots of women like to be dominated in bed. The "empowered feminists" sometimes moreso than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 01:44 AM
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Glad to hear it all worked out. I'm around N = 70 and still climbing. In a few years, I can see myself following in a similar path to what you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 12:40 AM
1

Then everybody on Earth dies... What kind of answer are you looking for here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:21 PM
1

Jesus, you're everything I never want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:19 PM
1

now that I've fucked enough to quench that thirst How many did it take?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:18 PM
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Those are not mutually exclusive, but fucking women is more enticing to me than leading men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 07:54 PM
1

“Just summarize an entire human upbringing in a comment. But keep it down to like 5-7 sentences, I won’t read if it’s too long.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 03:14 PM
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I'd probably be embarrassed to be seen in public with most of you. If you could somehow filter out the fraction of users here that aren't complete nutcases, I'd consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:38 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 10:00 AM
1

A 32-year-old divorcee with 3 kids looking for "true love" on Tinder doesn't have much room for "vetting". She'll take whatever she can get. I take it the downvoters are some of these post-wall creatures. Here are some tips for you: Make sure to put your astrological sign in your profile, guys really care about that. Don't show any pictures with your kids, but be sure to say "My kids are my world, you'll never come before them." Say that you're "Not looking for games, so don't waste my time", bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:14 AM
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Getting in fights, probably (and winning).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:20 PM
1

What would constitute "proof" to you? What proof is there that you want proof? Do you have any peer-reviewed sources to back up that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:31 AM
1

What the hell else were you thinking about at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:11 AM
1

5% is very lowballed. There are some people who are just born with terrible genetics, and will likely never have a successful sex life. But it's not 5%, it's less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:11 AM
1

do you guys still believe your techniques would work regardless of what the women of ppd have to say? Yeah, there are a lot of stupid/autistic people here. A sample of PPD users can't be expected to be representative of the entire human population. if you saw a ppd woman in real life and she was hot , would you feel confident in your ability to attract her? How old is she? In what context do I meet her? Does she know that I post on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 09:52 PM
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There are lots of people here who openly admit to being ugly, what rock are you living under?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 10:58 AM
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I don’t care. I’ve fucked older women, and I’ll do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 10:57 AM
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Keep perpetuating the culture of "toxic masculinity". Society doesn't change overnight. We'll easily make it through the rest of our lifetimes with a significant fraction of the population viewing traditional masculinity positively. If you don't want to be feminized, then don't act feminine. The first step there is to stop whining about the "death of masculinity". The stupid shit that purple-haired "non-binary pansexuals" post on Pinterest and Tumblr isn't representative of what normal women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 10:55 AM
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r/iamverybadass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 01:16 AM
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I'm probably like a 7-8, depending on who you ask. But your assumption that nothing else matters if you're attractive isn't really valid. There's a certain threshold of attractiveness that you have to meet to get your foot in the door. Once you're above that, you can still fuck things up by having a personality mismatch, being creepy, things like that. Unless you're a 10/10 supermodel, you have to put some effort into pursuing women. You have to have some understanding of what she likes and what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 06:12 PM
1

And exactly how am I supposed to figure out all the different ways? Welcome to life. If you’re fixated on some kind of “push button, get girl” kind of solution, you’ll never be successful. Every woman has her own set of things she responds positively to. You need to figure out what kinds of women are within your reach, and try to read what each individual responds positively to. You learn from experience, and if you give up and stop trying, you’ll never learn how it’s done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 05:17 PM
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What's your sample size? I've had hookups and short-term flings with a lot of women, and there's a huge variability in how they flirt, how they respond to being "pursued", and how overt they are about expressing interest. If you're applying some cookie-cutter formula that only applies to a certain subset of women, you're potentially missing a lot of chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:20 PM
1

Then you and I must have very different conceptions of the "average" man. Either that or your standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:17 PM
1

That doesn't contradict anything I said. Some girls behave that way, and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:10 PM
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If I was hot enough, it wouldn’t matter. That's not true. Attractive guys can still blow their chances if sperging out or displaying some major personality flaws. If you're as ugly as you think you are, you're at a large disadvantage; there's no way around that. But setting up these mental roadblocks, and having the "it's impossible" attitude only makes matters worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:08 PM
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And besides those plain girls aren’t given me IOIs either. Plain girls aren't as quick to pick up on it when they're being hit on. IOIs are not a sure-shot metric anyway. Some girls will display none even if they're into you. Some will even act like they're not interested when they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:04 PM
1

I don't know how attractive you are, and how much effort you've put into getting ONS, but it seems like you've got some mental roadblocks that definitely won't help your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:01 PM
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It is easier for you to get casual sex or LTR? I don't know, I've never really tried to get a LTR. But getting casual sex is pretty easy. How would you interpret it if a woman agrees to have LRT with you but not casual sex? (especially when she is not against casual sex in principle) I'd take it to mean that she's trying to lock me down into a serious relationship, and is holding sex hostage as an incentive. Red flag; ghost and find another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:57 PM
1

But the ending will probably be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:04 PM
1

Yeah, I ask myself why I'm here pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:00 PM
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Great, if reading RP stuff on the internet helps a specific individual to reach the sex life that they want, good for them. But that's totally different than saying that you've "cracked the code", and understand all of human nature. The person I was responding to earlier doesn't seem to understand the distinction. I don't follow any "Pill" philosophy, although I'm probably somewhere closest to blackpill, if anything. A lot of things that people say here are just complete nonsense, on both sides …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:56 PM
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Nope. Moderate better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:43 PM
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I don't know, I don't follow the relevant scientific literature. But a bunch of idiots throwing darts at a wall is not the way to go about understanding human sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:42 PM
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We will never get it ,first of all because it will require intrusive and unethical methods to acquire the data (strap a camera to a chick and find what dudes she sleeps with for example) and because it's against the feminist agenda that silences any research that is portrays the female in an unfavorable light. Or... just ask her. And do the same with many other women, in a systematic way, forming a statistical sample that's representative of the population being studied. Yeah because these peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 02:41 PM
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You don't understand what shitposting is, or your don't understand my comment history, or (probably) both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 02:14 PM
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Do you think we will ever get a study like that? I don't know. I'm in the hard sciences, so on the one hand, I have a slight bias against the soft sciences, but on the other hand, I think psychologists et al are intelligent and qualified people. But anyway, if anything like that is developed, it won't be a bunch of below-average boomers in the dark corners of the internet who come up with it. Fact is you are allowed to have thoughts and theories without about the world without a group of scienti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 02:08 PM
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Yeah and we have to live in this world and make decisions with imperfect cognitive abilities on imperfect data. Yes. You have to choose some model that gets you the best results no matter how flawed. No. So no one has the right solution No one in this sub. and the problem is far more complex than anyone can grapple with? No. Wow so fucking profound you truly are the the most autistic of internet philosophers. You're not smart enough to breathe the same air that I do, but thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:54 PM
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Of course ,but there are trends and generalisations are very useful.There is also the fact that there are instincts and behavioral patterns that came to be after thousands of years of evolution ,and they don't only have to do with mating. And if we were talking about a systematic and scientific study performed by qualified people, I'd probably take it more seriously. A bunch of people on the internet extrapolating their anecdotal experiences to a much larger population of complex organisms is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:52 PM
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Let me break it down for you. "Red Pill theorists" are internet autists making shit up. There are 7 billion people in the world, so it's not hard for RPers to find examples of the things they claim are true. There are 7 billion people in the world, so it's also not hard to find counterexamples. It turns out that all of human nature is a little more complex than a few paragraphs in the sidebar of /r/TheRedPill. Who would've thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:43 PM
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How did you get that from my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:36 PM
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Lots of people do lots of things, and every once in a while, autistic internet philosophers will get it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:28 PM
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My tendency to pair-bond has always been low. It hasn't really changed over the course of my sexual progression. My N is around 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:27 PM
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You’re not smart enough to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 11:33 AM
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It's "meaningful" to me if I don't dread waking up next to her the morning after. In some cases, one or both of us is in a hurry to get out and never speak to the other again. And in some cases, it's actually enjoyable to be around her, even when we're not drinking and after we've had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 11:32 AM
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That's some vapid pseudo-intellectual nonsense, but congratulations on stringing together 12 words, I'd imagine that's a difficult task for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 11:31 AM
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The women you fuck probably aren't on my radar. Have fun jerking off to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:30 AM
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Get drunk with her, have fun, establish mutual interest, and at the end of the night, seal the deal (assuming she reciprocates).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 12:09 AM
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It means he gets to cum in her ass raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 12:03 AM
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there is no way you as one individual can know what a population average is with even the slightest degree of accuracy Why do you think that? That's nonsense. Are you under the impression that statistics require at least two people to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 12:02 AM
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So you’re worried about our bonding, but you’d let your future wife fuck other people? What caused you to form such backwards opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:51 PM
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So in other words, your dream is to land a woman from some religious family who’s been brainwashed into believing that she’s not allowed to have i dependent thoughts? Someone so naive as to believe that you’re the best man in the entire world just because you’re the first? And you want the rest of your life with her to be a perpetual masquerade, like Kim Jong Un making his people believe he’s a literal god? Have fun with that life, then. I’ll take a 20+ woman who’s capable of independent thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:49 PM
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Depends on how curious she is, and how good her partners are. But a completely pure virgin is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:45 PM
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Not in the civilized, adult world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:44 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:43 PM
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But the more she's been around before you, the better she knows the marketplace. She has some idea of what else she could get, and she decided to settle down anyway. A virgin girl has no idea what's out there, and what her potential is. It breeds curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:42 PM
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you went in not being her only, who the fuck cares if she fucks someone else at that point. That ship is sailed. That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:41 PM
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No, I have no idea where you think my comment implied that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:40 PM
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I didn’t realize we were playing a game of “pretend it’s 1942”, my mistake. Wanting a virgin is definitely related to fear of inadequacy. But if he’s a fraud of inadequacy, rather than holding women to unrealistic standard, he should become less inadequate. As for fear of abandonment, I’d be much more worried about that with a girl who’s never fucked anybody else and suddenly decides in her 40s that she wished she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 03:44 PM
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A woman who’s been around the block doesn’t have that constant nagging curiosity to see what else is out there. They know what’s available on the sexual market, and have made a bid for something that works for them. A virgin girl who just detalles with the first creature to put a dock in her doesn’t have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 03:24 PM
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This is the least useful contribution to a thread I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 03:20 PM
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Zero is most desirable if you’re some kind of religious fanatic, or otherwise mentally ill. Why would you want to commit to someone who’s never fucked anybody other than you? 5 years down the road, when she gets bored, and wishes she could’ve experienced other men, what happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 03:18 PM
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Who is "she"? Are you aware that there are about 3.5 billion females on Earth? Your viewpoint is that of a 10-year-old who's just learned that lying exists. "Everybody is lying about everything because I'm not smart enough to tell what's true and what's not."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:47 AM
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The women that I tend to be most attracted to for a serious thing are somewhere in the 10 - 30 range. As long as she has enough experience to know what she likes. And I'd prefer if her count is lower than mine (around 70), but that's not necessarily a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:45 AM
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Do like most other women, don't count sex you had on vacation, one-night stands, and handjobs and oral sex. Baseless dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:44 AM
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The underlying issue is that flirting isn't something that other people can teach you. It's something that you have to learn from experience. Based on who you are, and what you're attracted to, you'll find yourself involved with a certain subset of women, who respond well to certain things. You have to learn which women fall under your purview, and what flirting techniques they respond to. It's something learned from experience, not something you can read in a textbook. And definitely not someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:11 AM
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Women aren't attracted to pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:08 AM
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I was a "late bloomer" among my friends. I lost my virginity around 18. Now, about 9 years later, my body count is almost 70. So I'd say I've more than caught up. My past inexperience feels like a different lifetime, it has no effect on me today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 12:08 AM
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The advice isn’t “bluepilled”, it’s legit, it just comes with the implicit assumption that you’re attractive enough to get your foot in the door. Below a certain threshold, you just don’t have a chance with most women. That’s blackpill, no bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:29 PM
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Read through OP’s comments in this thread, he’s an autistic basket case, and unwilling to put in any effort to becoming less wrong. No hope for this kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:42 AM
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That's the least correct thing I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:27 AM
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No more like if he was a known contributor to PUA forums or the community it would be more believable. Really? If anything, I'd expect involvement in PUA forums to be anticorrelated with sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:24 AM
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This is another example of autism. If you don't understand the flaw in that logic, I have little hope for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:23 AM
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My advice to you is "don't act autistic", and you clearly haven't done that yet. So best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:00 AM
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I don't know what you think that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:54 AM
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I'm getting a very autistic vibe from your comments. Step number one for you, assuming you're not repulsive to look at, don't interact with other humans the way that you've been interacting with people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:50 AM
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I don't trust your judgment on anything. So you would've believed his facetious claim about gonorrhea transmission via the internet if it wasn't for his high N? Are you a literal retard? Sorry if you are, but I feel like it needs to be clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:49 AM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:45 AM
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Holy shit, those comments. Just when you think you’ve reached the bottom of the barrel on the internet...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:12 PM
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No, no none of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:00 PM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 11:51 AM
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It's grammatically nonsensical. Become smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:56 PM
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What kind of retardation makes one form sentences like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:52 PM
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The hardest part for a simple minded man like me is knowing where to start. First of all, cut out this self-deprecation bullshit. It's a technique for objectively ugly guys to try to pick up scraps by having a "funny personality". If you point out all of your flaws and make yourself sound bad, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy in the eyes of the people around you. Second, dating is different than it used to be. Throw away what all your childhood movies and TV shows taught you. Now, a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:35 PM
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What exactly is wrong with being shallow? Nothing at all. Weak people have turned "shallow" into an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 10:15 PM
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Attractive Willing and able to have sex as often as he wants Fun to hang out with, outside of sex (This is the key part that a lot of women are missing.) Not clingy, or annoying, or overly emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 11:29 AM
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So you argue that it's never beneficial under any circumstances to transition, but once you reach a certain level of ugliness, you should transition, because "whatever, might as well"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 02:02 AM
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That directly contradicts what you said before, so what exactly do you think you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 01:36 AM
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If your goal is to be a sexually successful heterosexual woman, looking like a man is counterproductive to that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 01:14 AM
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If by "all sub 6/10 males" you mean "the tiny fraction of sub 4/10 males who could ever have a hope of passing", then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 01:09 AM
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False accusations seem like one of those things that you never believe is real until it happens to you. It’s never happened to me, so I’ve never really worried about it. But I know that the phenomenon exists, so I have it in the back of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 10:55 AM
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What are you talking about? Lots of incels are Indian, Asian, or in the UK. Why do you associate it with being American?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 10:53 AM
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How frequently do you approach a new person with direct sexual/romantic intentions? What do you count as an "approach"? I message multiple women per week on dating apps. I don't really cold approach in public. How frequently do you ask a new person out on a date/to hangout for hook-up purposes? Depending on how busy I am, I usually shoot for like 1-2 dates per week. Sometimes less, sometimes more. Not all attempts are successful. How frequently do you put yourself in situations conducive to flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 11:54 PM
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I'm still getting it, so I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 11:48 PM
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What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you? I picture an ex-sorority girl who had a very similar lifestyle to me in college. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 11:44 PM
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You don't know where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 11:42 PM
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How often do you go for hair cuts Once every 2 or 3 months. how often to do you shave? Once a week or so. How often do you shop and do you know how to shop? Very rarely. Do you know what types of clothes fit your body? I know what my sizes are. Do you actually take the time to think about what you wearing? Not usually, no. Do you iron your clothes? No. Do you feel like personal upkeep is something that is always on your mind, as it is for a woman Or do you think you can wing it, look half decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 10:30 AM
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Do you find women who love sex to be disgusting sluts? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:39 PM
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The easier it is to get casual sex the less you want it that goes for both men and women. It's easier to get casual sex the more attractive you are. You could argue that there's an inverse correlation between attractiveness and desperation, but that's a slightly different claim than the one you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:13 AM
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Depends on the person, and the escorts you have access to. If you can fuck equally hot or hotter women without hiring an escort, then it's really just for the story or the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:12 PM
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I've been to a few strip clubs, and I've fucked a hooker once. Generally speaking, there's two classes of men to consider: those who do these things because they have to pay for them, and those who don't have to pay for them, but do them for the story. There are guys who don't have to pay a sex worker to have a woman demonstrate sexual interest in them, but just want to have the strip club/prostitute experience. These kinds of guys tend to do these things once or a few times, and then never agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 07:44 PM
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Strip clubs sound kinda retarded, like you are just paying money to get turned on but not actually nut? Yes, that's exactly what they are. You don't do it for the strippers, you do it for the story. Once you've been to the strip club once or twice, it loses its luster. There are people who are regulars at strip clubs, but those people are a whole other can of worms. I've come super close to getting an escort, but every time I rationalize my way out of it because it's retardedly expensive when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 07:41 PM
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Would you date/marry a sexually prudish woman? Most likely not. But say she never wanted to give head/anal, and has never tried it before with any guy and has no intention in doing so ever. Never even given a blowjob? Not a chance. Major red flag. Like she's sex-repulsed in that regard, but is willing to have regular intercourse multiple times a week/almost daily Nope. I like blowjobs and anal. Are these things that you consider essential to your sex life? Blowjobs are definitely essential. Idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:34 PM
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if getting head and anal and all that is something you want at all, why on earth would you EVER marry a woman who already doesnt do them? I wouldn't. But anyway, these days, it's not hard to find women who do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:29 PM
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Alright, so you think that it's over, and it's totally impossible for you to find what you're looking for in women. You can either give up or keep trying. It's your decision alone, and you alone will deal with the consequences. What more do you want from us?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 07:56 PM
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The internet isn't a country, so I don't know what you think "foreign" means. I'm American.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 07:52 PM
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What language do you think you’re speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 04:06 PM
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Well if that’s what you think is best, do that. Maybe some others would rather hold out for a 2/10 wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 04:05 PM
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Yes, that’s a true statement. But I don’t see the relevance to my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 04:04 PM
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Most people don't have that kind of money to piss about with. You have a very distorted view of how life works. If over the course of ten years or so, you can't come up with $10000 in disposable income, you've got problems. That's exactly what I'm saying. I refer you to my previous point: That's clearly incorrect, as there are a bunch of 50+ men (including myself) in this very thread. I realize now that you're heavily deluded, and probably coping with the fact that you sleep on a racecar-shaped …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 12:25 PM
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If you really think it’s Chads that are primarily responsible for perpetuating discrimination against ugly men, you should take a harder look. Maybe in middle school where, it’s socially acceptable for boys to overtly bully others. From my point of view, the biggest enemy of an ugly man is a slightly less ugly woman. She feels scorned by attractive men and wants to take it out on someone lower on the totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 12:07 PM
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100 prostitutes at an average of $100 per comes out at $10000, so add that to the ever-growing list of things you’ve said that are complete nonsense. There are a bunch of guys here who say they have 50+ body counts. Are you saying that every single one of them is lying? That it’s literally impossible for a Chad to use this sub? They burst into flames as soon as they click the link? You’re delusional, and trying to cope with the fact that despite how easy it is to have sex and rack up high N, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 12:05 PM
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Totally wrong. Even an incel could reach 100+ fucking escorts. Or a more common example: an attractive and outgoing “Chad” in a fraternity at a university in the US. Just go out partying 4 night per week for 4-5 years. They stack up pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:30 AM
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How do you determine whether they count as a “slut” or not? What are the criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:27 AM
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He has a higher uncertainty on his age than on his N. Priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:26 AM
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The only real advice for incels is to “looksmaxx” and set realistic standards. You lie somewhere on a spectrum of attractiveness, and there is some fraction of the female population who is within your reach. It may be a very small fraction, and that’s unfortunate, and unfair, but those are the cards you were dealt. I think a lot of the blackpilled stuff people say has merit. If I could trade lives with an incel for a day to let them see what it’s like, I would. But other than that, I don’t see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:23 AM
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r/nothingeverhappens. How small-minded do you have to be to believe that it’s literally impossible for someone on the internet to have 100+? Do you believe that nobody in the world has 100+, or do you believe that they exist but they somehow never use the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:16 AM
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That’s a cute metaphor, I guess, but living life as a boring prude is a pretty stupid way to exist. You can try to pretend like you have some kind of moral high ground, as if having sex with lots of people is inherently a bad thing (Bible says so, must be true). But in reality, most people like that don’t choose to live that way. They’re just not attractive or interesting enough to attract many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:11 AM
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If you actually ask us 50+ guys whether we care about the "carousel", I think you'll find that a lot of us don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 12:26 AM
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Male, USA, age in mid-20's, N in 60's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:01 PM
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Tattoos are not uncommon as a way of celebrating personal strength and/or getting over bad life stuff Tattoos are also not uncommon for totally different reasons. You're basing your entire evaluation of the idea on some half-baked, anecdotal picture of why people get tattoos, an an equally half-baked thought about what that would imply about their personal history. It's just shit. You metaphorically shit on a plate and tried to serve it as lunch. I don't know where you come from that that kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 03:52 PM
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Which of those words is confusing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 06:37 AM
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I wouldn’t know, I’m pretty high-value. What’s it like to be an autistic 15 year old and hose only interactions with living creatures are through PPD, and other Internet shitholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 06:37 AM
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Yeah, whatever wretched creature of a woman mated with that donkey and gave birth to you. Become smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 10:04 PM
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Lol nope. You show me someone who thinks that simply and I'll show you an intellectually stunted waste of air.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:46 PM
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That's a completely vapid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:19 PM
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Except it’s true. Completely wrong. Doesn’t show long term thinking Completely wrong. This is boomer nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:19 PM
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It seems the general consensus amongst the red pill sphere is that if a woman has tattoos and/or piercings, she is damaged. People who think this are dumb as shit. There's no reason believe that such a correlation exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 01:40 PM
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Well, I don't know what to tell you. If you're not comfortable, you should move out of Saudi Arabia and into the civilized world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:44 AM
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Yeah, and only a small percentage of men get enjoyment out of fucking a woman who feels disgust for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 08:46 PM
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RP sounds like it'd work pretty well in Muslim countries, and others that have a tendency to treat women like property.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 08:45 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? This isn't bluepill, it's blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:30 PM
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I'll concede that some people may feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 07:17 PM
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That’s an option too. But turns out a lot of people are unfulfilled by a life without companionship and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:18 PM
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Yes, of course. I’m assuming that they’ve already changed everything that’s changeable. If they’re still ugly at that point, it’s genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:17 PM
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Telling ugly men to "hold frame" or try some PUA bullshit is not good advice. Good advice for ugly men is just to say: You got dealt a shitty hand genetically, and that puts you at a serious disadvantage in many aspects of life. Just accept that you're likely not going to be fucking 9s and 10s (unless you hire high-quality prostitutes), and try to find somebody in your "weight class". Ugly women exist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 11:17 AM
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I don’t think you understood my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:45 AM
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Do I think that any pseudo-intellectual internet _____pill philosophy should be taught in schools? No, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:05 AM
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Why shouldn't women pursue sex with the most attractive men? They should. Men keep saying that marriage is a bad deal and so they are opting out. I don't really feel this way, so no comment. If that is the case, why do they still care about n counts and women pursuing the best guys? I don't really care about either of those things. If marriage is no longer on the table, it shouldn't matter to you that girls are enjoying casual sex these days. It doesn't. Given that I like to have casual sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:25 PM
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You're not smart enough to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:45 PM
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The premise of the OP is about PPD. You decided to redefine the purpose of PPD as being a gender dynamics debate sub rather than a Red versus Blue debate sub. Remember this, from like 3 comments ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:41 PM
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The fact that there are strong disagreements in basically every thread suggests that it is diverse. However you have to keep in mind the demographic who you're talking to. There are lots of crazies here, and very few people could probably be considered "typical" people. So experiences and opinions here may not be representative of normal people "in the wild". TL;DR: If you're here for facts, leave. If you're here to debate opinions with many people of varying levels of intelligence and neurotici…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:40 PM
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Lol you’d have to explain how Tuba players have opinions relevant to gender dynamics. Who said anything about gender dynamics? This conversation is now about tuba maintenance. I've retroactively changed the topic to make you wrong. Isn't this the game we're playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:36 PM
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Well to take a page from your book, I've now redefined the scope of this conversation so that tuba players are very important and you're wrong. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:32 PM
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There are many dynamics than just red vs blue - that is the point. Great, so go make a r/genderdynamicsdebate sub and invite all your radical feminist friends. Aside from blackpill and pinkpill, to have a true diversity of opinions, we would need to include all opinions on gender dynamics - not just red and blue. This is the same unjustified redefinition of the scope of this sub, repackaged in a different combination of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:10 PM
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It's obviously "diversity" in the sense of competing ideologies surrounding gender dynamics Based on your incorrect redefinition of the scope of this sub to be a debate about "gender dynamics" rather than Red versus Blue pills. What's wrong with you? I take issue with intellectually weak argumentative tactics, like trying to redefine the question in order to make a marginal or incorrect answer into a correct one. What's wrong with you that causes you to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:03 PM
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Would you/have you dated someone you'd consider at 3-5/10 in your personal rating scale? Date? Absolutely not. Fuck? Yeah, a few 5s and 6s. One may even have been a 4. But that only happens under non-standard circumstances, and it represents a small fraction of my experiences. What made you/will make you consider overlooking their looks? Some combination of drunkenness, horniness, or other exigent circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:01 PM
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Oh alright, so instead of redefining "diversity" to include the specific points of view you support, you just redefine the scope of the discussion in order to include the points of view you support. How silly of me not to pick that up; my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:58 PM
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where do middle class and upper middle class men who aren’t crazy and are willing to support a family congregate? They hang out with their families, in their houses in the suburbs. Where are you looking for them? PPD? Tinder? That Arby's bathroom with the glory hole in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:56 PM
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Millions of years of evolution has led to women to be the primary caretaker of their children, so no, I don't have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:54 PM
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Schizophrenia is a terrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:53 PM
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Then we need the opinions of unicycle-riding, tuba-playing astronauts too, or we'll never truly be diverse. If this is your actual thought process, you realize that "diversity" is unobtainable, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:51 PM
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Reality is not quite that extreme, but anyways...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:45 PM
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In my experience women will call you gross and gossip as a matter of course. ... but some of them would still fuck you, given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:34 PM
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Men, would you sleep around with women more if you had the opportunity to? I already do this, and I wouldn't mind doing it a little more often. Additional question, how would you feel if you were called a gross fuckboy by many women because of your high sex drive and woman count? I don't care at all. I'm not interested in an LTR with that kind of woman, and STRs don't know my N, so it's moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:33 PM
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It pisses off the have-nots because they aren't getting something that they think they should be. Similar to capitalism versus socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 02:02 AM
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I don't really care about a woman's N. In fact, I'd rather it not be low. I'd say around 10-20 is ideal for a serious relationship. For a temporary fling, I don't care at all. That being said, "You're insecure" (along with "You're jealous") is the go-to response from somebody who isn't smart enough to come up with an actual response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:38 PM
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What I don't understand is that birth control + legalised abortions have allowed women to have lots of sex without consequences. Why should there be consequences for having lots of sex? This isn't Saudi Arabia. Women want sex with alphas because of their genes. Or for any number of other reasons. But if it's protected sex, you're not getting those genes. Do you think that women are robots whose only function is to reproduce? Because if so, you should reevaluate your existence. Therefore, why doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:36 PM
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Which doesn’t contradict anything that I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:26 PM
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That has nothing to do with what I said. The average number of sexual partners for women is steadily increasing, which exactly reflects what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:08 PM
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What's all this bullshit about "sexual strategy"? I'm not going to read your wall of text, but if you have to think harder about this than "Women like to have sex", then something may be wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:31 AM
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always 100% control events or 100% indicate something. You can usually tell So in other words, not what I said at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:30 AM
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Why don't you try to explain to me what you think it means?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 11:37 PM
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I want to know how to best navigate female sexual nature to create an enjoyable relationship dynamic with an attractive mate, who will be faithful to and satisfied by me. Then get off the dark, stupid corners of the internet. Reading pseudo-intellectual drivel on the internet isn’t what you need. What you need is real life practice interacting with other people. You need to get a feel for what kind of women respond positively to you and what kind of women respond negatively to you so that you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:08 PM
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I don’t see how those two things are related at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:53 AM
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Nah. The fact that you can’t tell doesn’t imply that I’m wrong, it just implies that you’re kinda dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:52 AM
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You can usually tell by looking at someone whether they have high or low N. Just the way they carry themselves, the look in their eyes, you can tell which end of the spectrum they're closer to. Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:02 AM
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I find more that I have types that I don't like. As long as she's not one of those, we're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:44 PM
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I don't care at all about what women are talking/thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:48 PM
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Yeah, I’m saying that “just being friends” doesn’t really exist. I’m either willing to fuck her, or I’m not. And if I’m not, I’d rather be friends with a dude. Only major exceptions are family, and my guy friends’ girlfriends/wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:47 PM
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If I’m “friends” with a woman, 95% of the time, I’d fuck her if the opportunity presented. If she’s not someone I’d be interested in fucking, a friendship tends not to develop between us. It’s just hard for me to relate with women when I’m not sexually interested in them. They have different interests, different viewpoints, and it’s just much easier to find comaraderie with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 11:33 AM
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I'd guess fewer than 10% of all men are regular gymgoers Jesus Christ, where do you live? and of all the men in the gym not even half of them are there specifically to look better. What do you think they're there for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:40 PM
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For most men, we value our time too much to ever put effort into our personal appearance. What? Have you not heard of the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:36 AM
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But women sometimes say that men age well. A touch of gray in the hair, some experience lines on the face. To some, these are attractive features, not unattractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:35 AM
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How amazingly laughable that you think you know anything at all about sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:33 AM
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Nothing I read here changes any of my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:30 AM
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A lot of men also don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:58 PM
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Seems like there are like hundreds of things more important than that that you should probably be thinking about instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:55 PM
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Yaaass queen, deconstruct the patriarchy, one Reddit comment at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:47 PM
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A lot of men like "mature" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:36 PM
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Oh. Well then face lines probably matter a little more, but they're still not the most important thing by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:32 PM
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Is OP a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:27 PM
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Dude, face lines are not even close to being the most important aspect of someone's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:14 PM
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No, it's equally bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:11 PM
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Looks do matter, a lot. And some things are determined by genetics, meaning that if you're born a "have-not", you can't really fix it. Sometimes you just get ghosted, and you have absolutely no idea what went wrong. But then you just get back on a dating app and find someone else. The "hard part" of dating isn't the actual date, it's all the preparation of breaking the ice and establishing enough mutual interest to set up a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:26 PM
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I don't think you understand anything that's happened here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:19 PM
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If a completely different person were in a completely different situation, things would be different. Truly groundbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 09:50 PM
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How do you think that’s relevant to what I said? We’re talking about someone who isn’t cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:38 AM
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Then he's gotten old, and maybe a little soft, and he can't really accurately be described as an "arrogant RP SOB" anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:48 PM
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What's your point exactly? My point is that an arrogant RP SOB would cheat in that situation. How did you not pick that up from my comment? It wasn't much of a brain buster. His flair claims that he's an "arrogant RP SOB", but his actions seem to indicate otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:47 PM
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An arrogant RP SOB would just cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:27 PM
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Unbridled autism, interesting strategy. Thankfully I’ll never have to experience a face-to-face conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 11:08 AM
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They quite literally do not. What do you think "literally" means in this context? In your mind, what would it mean for someone else's unintelligible ramblings to figuratively compel you into action? I can see why you don't like to interpret the things that people say to you; because you don't seem to understand many words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 01:35 AM
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No, it doesn’t appear that you understand what’s being said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 09:36 PM
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Or they can find men who are willing and able to pick up on those cues. I think you're envisioning a situation that's totally unrealistic. Like two strangers meeting at a bar, the woman saying "Under no circumstances are you to initiate sex with me", then he whisks her away into the family restroom and bends her over the toilet anyway. Not the typical case. Here's a more realistic situation: A man and wife, married for 10 years, are going to bed for the night. He tries to initiate sex, but she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:28 PM
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What? What? Nope. Oh, because you implied otherwise. But most women prefer to have sex at a time of their choosing, rather than being dragged off to have sex randomly. You fundamentally misunderstand the situation. We’re talking about cases where consent is present, even if she verbally says “no”. This may seem completely alien to you, and it is indeed rare, but it happens with some people, on some occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:21 PM
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See above.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:20 PM
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I don't care what you do. But if you choose to do things incorrectly, and then argue that everybody else should also do things incorrectly, I take issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:20 PM
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So your argument is "I can't interpret social cues, so nobody else should be allowed to." Interesting outlook on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:19 PM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:20 PM
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You’re completely wrong about everything, “son”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:17 PM
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Incorrect on both counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:46 PM
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No, let's rephrase it correctly: "Sometimes people say things and mean other things, and that can even apply to sexual situations too. And those of us who are not autistic should critically interpret the full context of a woman's words and actions in order to determine whether consent is present. If it's not, stop." A lot of words there, I know. If it takes you a few days to parse them all, I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:45 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:42 PM
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That's the least correct thing I've ever heard. If somebody says something to you, it is your business to figure out what it means. I can't imagine what a conversation with you in real life would be like if you don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:41 PM
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Yeah, and some of them are here in this very thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:40 PM
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Apparently you don't. Incorrect. Because anyone will tell that the idea of consent is up in the air. That's what I said above. Were you trying to say the opposite? So unless you got a convincing argument that all this meetoo hysteria is just overblown without using anecdotes, many guys are not going to try. I don't care at all what you do. If you choose to live your life, and make your decision, based on completely incorrect viewpoints. It doesn't affect me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:40 PM
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and it's time for women to grow up and set those boundaries clearly and stop playing silly games. Keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:33 PM
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So you solve the problem by NO always meaning NO and any woman who has a problem with this can learn to use her words. Yeah, I can see how that'd be a good strategy if you're not perceptive enough to determine what she actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:33 PM
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I would HATE what your wife likes. Your wife is unusual. What? All women who have different views than you are unusual?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:30 PM
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No. “No” sometimes means “Yes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:12 AM
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You are incapable of thought, and are parroting back some SJW bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:11 AM
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I don't know what you think that means. Nobody should ever interpret what a woman says to decipher its meaning? What do you do when a woman speaks to you, just drop dead immediately? Sensory overload?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:45 AM
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and politely ask to work in. He did. And they should've done the socially acceptable thing: say yes. I've never seen anybody say no to being able to work in if they approach respectfully. So are you saying that OP is misrepresenting what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:41 AM
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Louis C.K. apparently got consent from the women he worked with to haul out his pud and start tugging it in front of them. In what parallel universe do you think that this in any way resembles the situation described in the OP? You're telling me that I should trust that NO means YES, when YES doesn't even fucking mean YES? Well you probably shouldn't be making these kinds of calls, because it seems like social cues aren't your strong suit. Since you don't seem to have understood my argument at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:39 AM
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None of the things you've said here make any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:35 AM
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No, because i stop at “no” So in your entire life, you've never observed any human being, under any circumstances, to say one thing, and mean another? Are you just totally unaware of this entire aspect of human communication? Or do you acknowledge that it exists, but somehow think that it's specifically can't apply to anything sexual, even between consenting adults? If ops gf has that kink, they can work something out, but Im sure you can see how this might result in actual non consent if applie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:33 AM
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I think you'll find a judge disagrees there, matey bucko. I think if you ever go outside and interact with humans, you'll find that sometimes people say things when they actually mean other things. I know this can be very confusing for people with astronomical amounts of autism, but it's just a part of normal human interactions. Just because women haven't pressed charges yet doesn't mean "when they say no, they really mean yes". Trying to change my argument to something that doesn't even remotel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:25 AM
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Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:21 AM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:20 AM
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Wow, thanks, you cured the entire female species!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:20 AM
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what ive read and heard No firsthand experiences there? the “no means no” view So you're just not going to acknowledge being playful, or hard to get? Are you not aware that people act this way? I'm not talking about with total strangers, but people who know each other well, and are comfortable with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:19 AM
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Also don't be a dependent ass pussy on a single machine at the gym. Learn versatility. Certain machines in the gym are very high-value. The whole routine for the day could be built around benching or squatting, you can't just "get around" your staple lifts. If these bitches were really hogging the only one, fuck them, take their shit off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:17 AM
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TL;DR: An aspie learns the concept of "implied consent".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:15 AM
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Men, when you call a woman a slut, are you meaning that as an insult? It's not a good thing, but it's not really a "traditional" insult either. It's just implying that your main use as a human being is easy sex. And presumably, you'd like to believe that you have other, more important uses. So in that sense, being called a slut is a bad thing. Yet when this is pointed out on PPD then all the RP men change their tune and insist they all love sluts, they would just not marry one. I have never seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:09 PM
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Ah, like IQ tests, and other "personality tests": a honey trap for stupid people. A person who can describe their entire personality in a series of four letters is not a person that needs to exist near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:57 PM
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Don't know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 06:58 PM
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That's gross. 21-23 is probably the prime age for women to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:54 PM
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Can someone explain to me, why some young adults are so obsessed with the high school and college years? Because those are portrayed in the media to be the best time of your life, and often are. If you talk to older people and ask them what their favorite time in life was, they'll often say that it was high school or college (cue the bombardment of anecdotes like "I liked being 35 more, blah blah blah", I'm speaking about broad strokes). And if you feel like you wasted your youth, why does it st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:52 PM
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I couldn't care less, because I'm probably not looking to be her man anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:48 PM
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Your title has way too many words in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:44 PM
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And possibly no interactions at all with the majority of the male population, who don't need to fuck hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 01:27 PM
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You don’t think that there’s any bias there at all, given that every single one of her clients, by definition, is interested in prostituís?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 11:21 AM
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If I needed hookers to get laid, I might care a little more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 11:19 AM
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That doesn't mean anything. You're just redefining the word "love" to force an incorrect statement to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:39 PM
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If you include kissing in your N, then single digits are ridiculous. I'd probably be in the multiple hundreds. N refers to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:37 PM
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According to SJW definitions, probably a bunch of times. Sometimes wanted, sometimes not. It's never really bothered me though, because I know I'm not in any actual danger. 99% of women are incapable of physically overpowering me, so there isn't really that physical intimidation aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 09:57 PM
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Women are more picky when it comes to physical/sexual attraction, in their assessments of male partners. Men are more picky when it comes to committing (as in a monogamous couple) to female partners. In other breaking news: the sky is blue, fish like water, and gravity exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:41 PM
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Oops, it looks like you’re still talking at me! How did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 11:17 AM
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What would you consider to be the average for a male and/or female in their: 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s+? From a sample of frat guys at a large university in the US, the typical range is between 10 and 100. This is not representative of the entire population of men, but since you're asking about high N, this seems like the relevant subset of the population to consider. How would you compare yourself to the average, and if you're different, then why? I think I'm above average among sexually active people…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:00 AM
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The implication is that you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:48 PM
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And apparently in your 14 years on this Earth, nobody has explained to you that we have the technology to remove residual poop from our asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:48 PM
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I don't know, I guess you were just born that way. Or maybe dropped on your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:35 PM
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You're not smart enough to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:31 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:30 PM
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No one ever discusses how women view their own bodies and how a lot of women out there hooking up have serious mental issues. A lot of people looking for serious relationships have serious mental issues to. If you're going to invent some correlation between people looking for hookups and mental illness, you should provide some evidence that it may be remotely true. With that being said, no one on here has considered that women participating in hookup culture are often using sex as a means of sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 08:39 PM
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Most men are disgusted by it. Do you live in Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 08:36 PM
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Brah...your argument makes no sense and contradicts itself... Incorrect. You're telling me you're an attractive male. If you believe you have it best because you are at the top of the ranking, do you understand that the other 3.5 billion men on earth aren't you, and that by your own rankings if you are not a hot male, it is better to be female? Let me break it down for you in terms you can understand: BE HOT MAN GOOD I HOT MAN GOOD What kind of mental contortionist nonsense leads you to believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 08:33 PM
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Pretty well. The better the sex is, the better I remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:41 PM
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What exactly is hookup culture? Emphasizing short-term relationships instead of the "traditional" ideas of long-term, monogamous relationships. Have any of you been a part of hookup culture? How did you find it? Yes. I find it good. Is there only a specific kind of person hat can be involved in hookup culture? Or is it broader than that? It helps if you're attractive, and able to be sexually involved with somebody without feelings and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:40 PM
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No, that's not correct at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:38 PM
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Your example is hyperbolic, but in reality, some guys on dating apps will regularly fuck below their "weight class". It's a balance of how attractive you are and how much effort I have to put in to fuck you. 9s are hard to find, and usually take a little work to fuck. But 6s are plentiful on Tinder, and I can often fuck them with negligible effort. So while I'm typically aiming for 7 and above, sometimes if I'm drunk/horny/in a dry spell, I'll just message a few 6s that have been sitting in my m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 08:40 PM
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My SMV is firmly above average, and my success is firmly above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 11:45 AM
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In broad strokes, the societal hierarchy goes: Attractive men > Attractive women > Ugly women > Ugly men. I'll give you 3 guesses as to which category I fit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 11:38 AM
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You'd have to be an idiot to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:51 PM
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Abso-fucking-lutely not. Very glad to be born male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:51 PM
1

Well why don't you corner the market then, you innovator you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:50 PM
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So what about weaker men? They should've hit the gym a little harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:48 PM
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I support it, because children and women are typically physically weaker and slower than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:05 PM
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No, the optimal male sexual strategy is to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:02 PM
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I guess I’m not surprised that he’s insane too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:43 AM
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But, don't you WANT an enthusiastic sex partner? Yes. People who say those things and slut shame tend to be the same guys that don't really get much action. If you talk to the guys who actually get a lot, they usually don't really care if she's "slutty". I might not marry a mega-slut, but I don't hold any disrespect or ill will for her, and I'll certainly fuck her (assuming she's attractive). It could be argued that I'm a male "slut", but I'm not ashamed of it at all, and I don't think the dicho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:23 PM
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But do you do anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:19 PM
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General looks (hottie?) Mid-20s, tall, athletic, handsome. Education/Work/Income Pursuing higher education in STEM, making a very comfortable living, and will likely earn much more in the future. Hobbies/Interests/Skills I like to go to the gym, I like to watch football, basketball, and hockey, I like to hike, travel, and so on. I think I stand out for STRs because I'm attractive and outgoing. I'm not really sure how I stand for LTRs, I'm not really into those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:18 PM
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Commitment issues. Are they things you can work on? Yes. Are you working on them currently? Not really, but there will probably come a time in my life where I want to. Do you ever wonder why on earth the people you date/have dated/married are okay with those red flags? No, I know why. It's because they either didn't pick up on them, or they were physically attracted enough to me to look past them. How do you think you have developed them in the first place? Parents divorced when I was young, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:12 PM
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I don't care, because I probably don't want a relationship with her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:25 AM
1

Where do you keep finding these incorrect opinions? Is there a store somewhere selling them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:14 AM
1

You don't know what contradictory means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:14 AM
1

Yeah, that makes it easier for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:45 PM
1

DO NOT FUCK HIM ON THE FIRST DATE. True, but also probably don't wait more than like 3 or 4 dates. He'll lose interest pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:45 PM
1

Why do you think that's funny? There's a spectrum between a prude and a slut, and you should stay somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:42 PM
1

Spoiler alert: She doesn't know about the 5 other women he's talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:41 PM
1

Those aren't contradictory. She stands out as one of the 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:40 PM
1

Why do you assume he's looking for a commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:40 PM
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You must be talking to too many internet guys who want virgin girls. I also prefer women with experience. I don't know if I'd say "as many guys as possible", but I prefer if she's racked up a solid body count before we meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:54 AM
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Guys, what do you think girls can do to improve their dating life? If you're looking for an LTR, stay away from me. If you're looking for something really fun but temporary, match me on Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:52 AM
1

Men ride a carousel and hit a wall too. Fabio didn't ride the carousel, he is the carousel. And even if you'd like to pretend otherwise, lots of women would still line up to get a piece of him. Men hit the wall and lose their chances too. Yeah, maybe 20 years later than women do. I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:00 AM
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Your idea is just obviously not true at all. Why do women like Ed Sheeran, Justin Timberlake, Justin Bieber, the guy from Maroon 5? These are not "hyper-masculine" men. The latter three are prettyboy types. I don't know how you can possibly pretend that prettyboys aren't desired by many women, unless you live under a rock and only know one person who gets women, who happens to be hyper-masculine. Or is your only exposure to society through Rambo and Arnold Schwarzenegger movies? Your ideas just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:28 PM
1

Your opinions are baseless and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:00 PM
1

Being hyper masculine is a lot more important than being cute/handsome/pretty as a man. No, that's totally backwards. Different women look for different levels of masculinity in men. But if you're not physically attractive enough, it's over before it even began.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 01:31 PM
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that's sociopathic. Incorrect. this is the type of misogyny that culture appropriates and it needs to stop. This isn't misogynistic. This kind of attitude is the reason why nobody takes feminists seriously, and it needs to stop. women aren't sex toys. Strawman. Come up with an argument that's actually worthy of a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:09 PM
1

It may be ethically wrong for him to willfully ignore signs that she may be expecting more, but ultimately the onus is on her. If she decides to have sex with him based on the assumption that he'll stick around, she's setting herself up for a letdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:36 AM
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Did he forget to feed her dog? Otherwise, I don't see how. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:29 AM
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Because it's obviously not at all. Her opinions don't affect whether or not his actions were cruel. What determines whether or not his actions were wrong are the objective facts: did he mislead her about his intentions or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:26 AM
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I never said or implied otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:24 AM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with this. If he lies about his intentions, leading her to believe that he's interested in a serious relationship, that's wrong. But if she just assumes that a hookup is going to lead to a relationship, that's on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:04 AM
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I don't know what kind of autism is causing you to roam around this thread telling everybody that they're not Chads, but it isn't contagious through exchanging comments, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:38 AM
1

what is your sex life like? Good, I can't really complain. Things tend to come and go in waves, but averaging over time, I get a steady stream. When you go out on the weekends, do you get IOI's from the majority of women? I don't know about the majority, but it's hard to go to a bar/club kind of scene without at least one person displaying interest. That may be a 5 smiling/staring at me, or it may be a 7 having a conversation with me. Is it pretty trivial to meet a woman at a bar/club and escala…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:28 AM
1

"Bluepilled" means blissfully unaware of how anything works. "Redpilled" means to be some kind of Dunning-Kruger with "deep insights" about how sex and relationships work. I think people who can sum up their philosophies, lifestyles, or personalities in terms of some internet meme are typically fucking idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:21 AM
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In your mind, what do those things have to do with each other? In porn, it takes negligible effort to find a video with a hotter girl in it. In real life, it usually takes more effort to have sex with a 9 than with a 7. Also people jerk off to amateur porn all the time. A lot of guys don’t like Brazzers/“high quality” porn because it seems too fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:55 AM
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Q4All: why do women believe that a male friend asking her out or making a move (after a breakup) is some nefarious thing? Because they think it implies that the only reason he was friends with her was because he wanted to fuck her. In any given case, it may be true, or it may not. But if the only reason people like you is that they want to fuck you, you should probably become more interesting/useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 10:12 PM
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Q4Men , have you ever been used for sex Yes. when you wanted a relationship? No. Q4All do you prefer casual sex , fwb, or relationships? Casual, or FWB if she's really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:55 AM
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Male, no, because that's for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:54 AM
1

Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:52 AM
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Yeah, chemistry definitely exist. It's not "unconscious", it's clear as day when you're hitting it off well. And yes, personality and chemistry factor in to my overall attractedness to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:05 PM
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Your view is very warped. Here's you. You were unattractive in high school and college. You typed in "how to get laid" in google, you landed in this part of the internet. You've read these "game" blogs and redpill blogs, now you're ready to get the sex you always wanted and felt you deserved. No. Here's me: I've always been naturally attractive (although a little chubby up until middle school). I had a normal upbringing and normal sexual development. I played the "Awkwardly hit on girls at the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:20 PM
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Is it just me or is a lot of this sub just people stating their opinions as fact and people who know better just going along with it? What were you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:12 PM
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What makes it great? Just the way the profiles are structured. You naturally have conversation starters in the profile, and you can like individual parts of somebody's profile rather than just the profile as a whole. Bumble has implemented icebreaker questions as well, but Hinge did that first, as far as I'm aware. And I feel like Hinge just has more activity from women in the age range I'm looking for. I'm mostly looking for mid-late 20s "young professionals", not 18-22 year old college student…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:36 PM
1

Hinge is great, in my opinion. How would you say your success rate on Bumble compares with your success rate on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:24 PM
1

How do you do on Tinder and Hinge?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:07 PM
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I thought I said, doesn't bumble help you weed out men more? Like you have to list your earnings and etc? I don't think there are any requirements like that, although there are options to include various things in your profile. But anyway, my Tinder and Bumble profiles are basically identical. Hinge is a little different than the other two, so I haven't really been including it in the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:53 PM
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Why do you think that the number of options is greater on Bumble than other apps? Your hypothesis doesn't explain the fact that I've done very well on Tinder and Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:38 PM
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Because they're not "throwing themselves at me" like you imagine, and there's a significant difference in my success rate on Bumble versus other apps. I argue that it's due to the extra rules about conversation starting on Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:34 PM
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I think most reasonable straight women would rate me somewhere around a 7-8 out of 10, with some spread, obviously. I check a lot of the boxes that women look for on dating apps: height, build, level of education/earning potential. Getting matches, starting conversations, and getting in-person dates is not really a difficult thing for me. So I feel like my personal experiences on these apps, while anecdotal and a sample of one, are fairly representative of what a typical attractive guy experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:03 PM
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That's less common than you think. You can find screenshots all over of women throwing themselves at people like Justin Bieber or Usher on social media, but when you're talking about non-celebrity guys on a dating app, that kind of behavior is a lot less common. I'm a fairly attractive guy who's used Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge all quite a bit. While I've been able to find success here and there on all three apps, I've found that Hinge > Tinder >> Bumble in terms of success rate. I have the same p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:59 PM
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Bumble failed because it "gave the power to the woman" to start conversations, but it turns out that women aren't very good at cold-starting conversations with strangers. The fact that men are "supposed" to start the conversation has been ingrained into dating apps since their conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:51 PM
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I don't know what you think you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:09 PM
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I’m telling you that to some degree all the women I’ve ever experienced or had conversations about the topic - all of them - prefer rough sex over nice sex. That's totally different than your original claim that "women want to be used" and "men want to be wanted". Yeah, lots of women enjoy and prefer rough sex, my personal opinion aligns with yours there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:01 PM
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You honestly believe that you've never met a single counterexample to your statements above? You can't be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:56 PM
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What if I told you I’ve been right 100 percent of the time based on information such as the op provided ? Oh, wow! Are you a salesman? I'm in the market for some snake oil. Why would I base my opinion on something I haven’t experienced ? I didn't say or imply that. However you should acknowledge that your opinions are not all-encompassing facts. You are not the all-knowing oracle of the female gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:41 PM
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What if I told you that your experiences aren't all-encompassing, and your opinions about the subset of the human population you've interacted with, and the way you've interpreted those interactions, aren't the same thing as facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:35 PM
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Why doesn't it not not? Don't forget to include sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:33 PM
1

What if I told you that there's more than one person in the world, and each one has its own set of opinions? Please, hold your gasps until the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:23 PM
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Tinder sucks now anyway, it’s all about Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:03 AM
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So you're trying to use your own (incorrect) argument to verify your argument? I don't know when the last time you went outside is, or the last time you spoke to a man under 30, but your claim that young men simply aren't horny anymore just obviously doesn't remotely resemble reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:41 PM
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Then you clearly don't know any young men. They're just as horny as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:33 PM
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theres no indiciation in these studies that young men are TRYING. You think young men are just suddenly not interested in sex anymore? I'll give you a hint: that's definitely not it. i think vast swathes of young men are satiating themselves with porn, depleting their libidos and not trying for sex. That's not how it works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:30 PM
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you go on a one week business trip. when you come home your wife refuses to have sex with you until you get the results of a full STD panel including HIV I hope my future wife isn't ignorant enough to think that HIV would show up on a test less than a week after infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:32 PM
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Lot's of guys turn out fine, but just as many end up lacking masculinity. And just as many guys who grow up with male influence in the household end up feminine. You're inventing a correlation that I don't see any evidence for. Taking action by itself is not dangerous, but when you start doing things and start registering on women's radars, you'll also register on men's radars. And then you'll likely be "challenged" for the "pecking order". You have a very warped view of reality. Do you think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:31 AM
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Your baseless projections and irrelevant opinions are not required here. Move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:34 PM
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Lots of men are like this though. Is that supposed to be an excuse? Grew up with nary a strong male presence in his life at best. Grew up in a single mom household, and I turned out fine. And really, being honest, I am a beta male. Whether by nature, nurture, circumstance or even all 3. And I don't have enough energy or strength to put myself on level with alpha males. It's too dangerous and the payoff is not really worth it. Well you've identified a problem, implied that you want it to change, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:33 PM
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Spending time with, and having sexual relationships with, many different women teaches you a lot about female nature, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 12:14 PM
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The first step to getting over that is to stop saying beta shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 12:12 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 12:11 PM
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If she's willing to blow me, and willing to maintain her downstairs hygiene (as I do with mine), then I'm totally willing to go down on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:42 PM
2

"Did stripping".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:15 PM
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You're just asking the exact same question again. See my answer above. I really don't care. I hope she's experienced both. That way by the time we end up together, she knows what she wants in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:56 PM
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Having an ugly ex doesn't change how attractive she is to me. If I'm physically and emotionally attracted to her (as I would have to be to begin a relationship to begin with), an ugly ex doesn't change that. And all the stuff about being over 6'2", going skydiving, and having a big dick, I meet all those requirements, so if her ex does too, it doesn't make me jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:45 PM
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I would like it less if he were very attractive, but I wouldn't really care much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:30 PM
1

Ignoring the dubious implication that "roast-beefness" correlates with N, do you really think that women's N changes that drastically between 22 and 30? Women can easily rack up a high N before 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:48 PM
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I’m mid-20s, and I usually look for women who are at least 21. I don’t have a strict upper limit. If she’s hot and fun to be around, I’d go for a 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:54 AM
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Nothing about this is a red flag to me. It depends on the specific individual, obviously, but I would definitely consider a woman like this for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:54 PM
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I prefer a group with a small number of my close male friends, and a somewhat larger number of (attractive) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 09:38 PM
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So I am curious do you guys even like partying, going out socializing all that jazz? Yes. If you do, do you have any good experience with hook ups? Do you go out to hook up or to have fun? The primary goal is to have fun, but pursuing and hooking with someone new is one of the things I find most enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 09:35 PM
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Women manage to get pumped and dumped just fine even when the man pursues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:11 AM
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Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 01:19 AM
1

Shitting with the door open.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 01:18 AM
1

So you'll eat food off of her but you won't date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 11:24 PM
1

has anyone been able to deal with these images in their head and pursue a relationship with a woman who's had sex with men before them? Yes, although my "relationships" aren't really long-term, and my N is usually still much higher than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 11:21 PM
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Neither is sexist. If you're fat, or ugly, or for whatever reason you don't attract me sexually, I can reject you for it. And if you feel that way about me, for any reason, you can reject me too. It's unfortunate, and maybe even unfair, to the people who aren't typically seen as attractive. But I'm not one of those people, what do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 04:57 PM
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This is not a job. I am not a professional. You can save me all the soapboxy whining about how hard being a mod is. For the hundredth time, I am a moderator too. I mod much higher-traffic subs than you do, and I manage to do a much better job than your mods do. As a whole, your team is lazy, you're not very good at moderating, and you're making excuses. The site has always been a site that was explicitly modded on the basis of user reports. Reports make your job easier, but they are not necessar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:53 PM
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Sometimes we do and sometimes we don't. Sometimes, the comment just by itself is such an obvious rule break that ewe just remove it. I'd say that I look at context about 50% of the time I'm modding a comment. You should never not look at the context. If there are insults going one way, there's a good chance that there are insults going the other way too. This is exactly what the "context" button is for. When you're looking at a reported comment, take a few nanoseconds to glance at a few parent a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 08:42 PM
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I really don't know how I'd react if a woman tried to spit game to me, but I doubt it would affect whether or not I want to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 08:26 PM
1

I'll preface by saying that I mod multiple fairly high-traffic subs on my main account, including a default with "heavy comment moderation" (one of those where you often see strings of "[removed]" a hundred comments long). So I'm very familiar with what being a mod entails. We don't read every comment. We may "trip across" rule breaks occasionally as part of our normal browsing. But 90%+ of the time we're modding from the report queue. In my experience, your mods don't even read the context of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 08:13 PM
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As it stands, users are perfectly happy to whine and moan about the content, but don’t bother to click a few buttons to make sure mods are aware of the issue. Is reading the comments in your sub too difficult for you? Why do you pretend like you're blind to every rule violation that isn't reported. Your sub only has about 20,000 subscribers. You release maybe like 5 threads per day, and each one gets about 100 comments, so you get maybe like 1000 comments per week? You've got plenty of moderator…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:47 PM
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Easily women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:20 PM
1

She thinks that sex will imply feelings, and then is disappointed when he doesn't have feelings for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:17 PM
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Spoiler alert: They're the insecure ones. It's a go-to argument for weak people who can't come up with anything better. "I'm insecure about everything, so therefore you must be too."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:21 AM
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She thinks that sex will imply feelings, and then is disappointed when he doesn't have feelings for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:19 AM
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I was giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you could come up with up an argument a little bit better than just picking apart words. I guess I overestimated you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:17 AM
1

A lot of men think they are alphas either too. Yeah but with men, there's actually a chance that it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:13 PM
1

A lot of women think they're "alphas". It's kind of cute, and rarely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:44 AM
1

I will act the way that I think is right. If my family disagrees, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:06 AM
1

If it was a LTR but still early lets say 3 months? Probably. If it was a LTR for years? Maybe not. If you were married and have been trying to have children for years and your SO is unable to, would you leave? No. Regardless of your decision, leave/stay/adopt/surrogate/ivf/other options etc...Why? In the situations where I'd stay, I'm sure we'd explore other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:04 AM
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I'd continue making fun of the vapid strings of nonsense you so effortlessly produce, but I have a policy against shitting on literal retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:01 AM
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I'm not ugly at all, I'm pretty attractive. You, on the other hand, are probably disgusting on the inside and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:54 PM
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You're a terrible person, and something is deeply wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:52 PM
1

Source confirming that they got you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:16 PM
1

I don't have any moral problem with them, and I'm glad that they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:16 PM
1

All unattractive men are maggots to you? You should improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:15 PM
1

Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:48 PM
1

What is the difference between withholding sex and playing hard to get? The actions are often the same, but the motivations can be different. Also, playing hard to get isn't just about withholding sex, it can just be about flirting. In withholding sex, the connotation is often that she's trying to push him into a more committed situation than he may be looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 10:43 PM
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Whys this an issue for rp? Is it because you dont have the power and it makes you sad? I'm not RP. Dont you pussies like a challenge? Don't call me a pussy, you cunt. Only ones who should care are the ugly men. I don't really have a personal issue with this system (assuming for the sake of argument it's true) because I'm not ugly. But I feel for the guys lower on the food chain who are at a big disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 10:39 PM
1

Women do the same now though. Women choose between multiple men. Men pursue multiple women in hopes that at least one chooses them. At least within this paradigm where women are the "gatekeepers" of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:41 PM
15

I would want to know, and I would end it immediately. Time, kids, and whatever else have no effect. If she cheats, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:16 AM
1

What's up with you Boomers and liking bush? The technology to remove hair from human bodies has existed for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:23 PM
1

Well if he's average or below, I don't know what to tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:21 PM
1

How should I approach dating life after college ? Tinder/Bumble/Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:58 PM
0

Unfortunately, I don't think they make a trash compactor big enough for your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:45 PM
1

assimilating into the trash human profile heap If you write people off as "trash" when you know nothing about them, maybe you're the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:42 PM
1

Only thing worse is a PPD woman. I'd say they've come out of touch with reality, but I'm starting to wonder if they were ever in touch to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:41 PM
1

I'm not familiar with the intricacies of makeup, but they wear a lot of it to make themselves look hot on Instagram, then you see her in real life and she's significantly less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:34 PM
2

http://www.quickmeme.com/meme/3u1ssc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:12 PM
1

Sorry, your comment isn't really coherent. What do you think you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:11 PM
1

That's a common train among them, yes. Also women who are really into makeup, and drop a few points on the attractiveness scale without the huge amounts they wear for their pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:10 PM
1

Read my original piece of advice to OP. The one you downvoted and tried to criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:32 PM
1

Sure, that's always a possibility. But there also exist women who meet all the conditions described above, and are legitimately looking for short-term sex rather than a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:31 PM
1

What? Do you think we're talking about fish here? These people, on average, have the same level of cognitive ability as any other kind of person. They have the ability to form thoughts, and see things from other perspectives. If I'm looking for short-term casual sex with no lasting feelings or commitments, I know exactly what a woman should say and do to steer me away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:30 PM
1

What part of that would you like explained? Men who have frequent casual sex with multiple partners are the opposite of sexually frustrated. And she is trying to avoid a certain class of person. If that person shows up and says "This is how you avoid me", that could be very useful information.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:24 PM
1

The thing is you don’t know their inner thoughts. Really weak argument. It's clear that she's significantly less attractive than her pictures. It's clear that she's very eager to get sexually involved with me. In some cases, it's clear that they're not looking for a serious relationship. Maybe those dots are difficult for you to connect, but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:22 PM
1

"Fucbois" are not sexually frustrated, by definition. But anyway, I think the advice of a "fucboi" would be pretty useful for somebody who is trying to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:18 PM
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Sure, it's happened more than once. I meet a girl on Tinder, meet up with her in person, she's heavier and less attractive than her pictures led me to believe, and she's hoping I'll just go with it anyway. She's nervous and eager, wanting to seal the deal sexually. This is really not nearly as uncommon as some of the women here claim. Maybe they're 40+ post-wall and don't understand the Tinder dating scene, or maybe they've just never tried to misrepresent their looks to attract men above their …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:17 PM
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will often say they want a date 1 sex, woman approached first, submissive, sweet, and chill and not needy / clingy gal, but IRL they don’t really respect that and find it boring. If you pay attention, I didn't say any of those things, and actually said the opposite of some of them. But that's a cute strawman! Edit good male advice is especially from older men who are married or have less raging hormones, particularly if they have daughters. Might be more valuable if she's looking for an older ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:12 PM
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I don’t know what a “Machiavellian sociopath” is. Dating culture pushes men to pursue multiple women at a time to maximize returns. I don’t see this as sociopathy, or trying to hurt them in any way. It’s just numbers. The probability of a guy getting his ideal result in any given “attempt” is low, so he tries with my women to increase the overall probability that he finds it somewhere. This often requires “juggling” multiple different women, hiding them from each other, and possibly misleading h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:33 PM
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Can we get a TL;DR of the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:28 PM
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It’s not a “ridiculous outlier”, it’s more common than you think, and it’s a completely legitimate way to interpret the original question (although in later comments from OP, she confirms that this is not the situation she has in mind). If you want to completely change your argument from “This never happens, ever” to “Actually you’re right, it happens, but I don’t like you so go away”, then be my guest. I don’t find it productive to talk to people who don’t understand/aren’t able to form correct…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:25 PM
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Your opinion is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:23 PM
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No, what I said above is completely valid. Your thoughts and opinions don’t reflect those of every woman. Your sample size is one, only yourself. My sample size is many. Being overly eager and worrying about the thing I’ve described above does happen. It’s rare, but it happens. If you disagree with that, your opinion is irrelevant and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:22 PM
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Some of them, yes. Do you actually think that no woman in the history of mankind has ever thought such a thing? Because that’s obviously wrong, and doesn’t merit a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:20 PM
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After further discussion with OP, yes, that’s what she’s looking for. As a guy who regularly pursued casual relationships with women, being overly eager is actually fairly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:19 PM
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We're talking about a situation where the woman is worried about seeming too eager. So this could be, for example, a case where the woman managed to get a date with a guy much more attractive than her, and might have doubts about whether he's interested in sex. I'm confirming that if he is willing to go on the date, he's probably willing to have sex (assuming it's not a catfish situation).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:26 PM
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So basically, you want to eventually have a meaningful and committed relationship? Then here's some advice from the kind of guy you want to avoid: Don't be the clingy relationship type, just be casual and fun to talk to/be around. Don't make it a chore to have a conversation with you, and don't get on his case if he doesn't respond to texts immediately. You don't have to start coming up with names for your future kids on the first date and plan out everything that will ever happen. Just have fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:24 PM
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If she's significantly less attractive than he is, and not sure if he's going to go through with it or not. Catfishing happens. Women can be 20 pounds lighter and 2-3 points higher in their dating app profiles than real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:15 PM
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I think a girl would only text that way if she's really into the idea of being your girlfriend and/or a "bright" part of your day, That's one example of when it would occur, but it happens too even if she's not looking for a relationship. Even in a no-strings-attached hookup situation where the guy is significantly more attractive than the girl (yes, this happens), she will sometimes act really thirsty. She knows she's way above her weight class and is eager to seal the deal. and so the thought …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:19 PM
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I can't define it in words, but it's easy to see if she's too eager. Over text, it's about frequency and content of her messages. If you're texting him everyday stuff like "I hope your day goes great!" when you weren't having a conversation at the moment. When you send 3 or 4 texts in a row when they've had time to respond in between, but haven't done so. And in person, it's about body language. And it's about acting nervous like the date is a huge job interview for your dream job. Just relax an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:09 PM
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Oh sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:04 PM
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I'm on dating apps like Tinder daily. Taking to a few women at a time, seeing which ones pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:12 PM
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45% Zoltan Harcsa, 42% Axel Bachmann, 40% Marlon Teixeira, 40% Dave Dennis. I think you could make a pretty good me with some combination of those ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:07 PM
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Where exactly did I give anything up in this hypothetical situation? If she wants to leave for someone "better" than me, I'll fuck her friends, and maybe her sister, and move on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:05 AM
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I'd like to think I wouldn't be dating the kind of girl that'd just leave on a whim for potentially greener pastures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:01 AM
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I'd try to help them build up their confidence. Being unnecessarily self-conscious is a turn off, but it's something they can work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 02:58 AM
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I don't really see men wanting to date "asshole" women very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 01:03 PM
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it was my own opinion in response to the OP. And it is wrong, and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:39 AM
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Do you think that yours was anymore insightful? Since I honestly have doubts about your ability to point your eyes a few inches upward on the screen, I'll quote it here for you: no it doesn't. girls only expect more in this situation if they actually knew the guy beforehand. What insight do you think that this string of barely-coherent words conveys? Why do you think that your incorrect opinions on this matter are even relevant? How many one night stands have you had with women? I don't know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:33 AM
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no it doesn't. Completely incorrect. girls only expect more in this situation if they actually knew the guy beforehand. Completely incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:26 AM
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By and large, cold approaches don't work. In my opinion, the best situation to meet women is a friend-of-a-friend kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:16 AM
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that is LITERALLY not a thing. No, it very much is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:13 AM
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You lost me about halfway through. Why would you not want to lose weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 01:52 AM
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Cheating is extremely low value. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:29 PM
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They were gifted with an innate seductive charm seemingly from birth. In other words, they look attractive, and they're not totally autistic about how they approach women. Likely a lot of men that are perceived as "naturals" are actually just highly skilled imitators. The same could be said about any kind of human behavior. Everything we do is an "imitation", why is approaching women different? What do you consider to be a natural? Everybody has to learn and practice. Nobody is "born with it". W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:32 PM
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Male. Absolutely not. I wouldn't date somebody if I hadn't already had sex with them. Reason: The sex could be terrible. You could be totally incompatible. This is the kind of thing you want to know before making any commitments. "Try before you buy." And it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:10 AM
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how do you decide whether or not you want to be friends with them? I don't consciously think about it. But if we enjoy each other's company, and for whatever reason, we aren't/can't be sexually involved, we become friends. Does their attractiveness matter? People tend to gravitate towards people in their same "weight class", looks-wise. This is no exception. Are your standards for male friends different than for female friends? I don't have a predefined set of standards that I evaluate people on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:08 AM
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women want to be "young, wild and free" So do men. We have Tinder now. Our society has looser morals now. It's socially acceptable to rack up 20, 30, 50 sexual partners. We spend a short amount of time on this Earth, and an even shorter amount of that time attractive enough to get casual sex. Why would you not at least be interested in trying out many different people before you eventually settle and start a family? It has nothing to do with men or women, it's a natural tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:24 PM
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And handjobs are rarely better than what I can do to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:11 AM
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Ever tried to communicate effectively? If he's not picking up your signals, it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:33 PM
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covert signals That's an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:13 PM
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Nobody is 1000+, except Lemmy from Motorhead. You can't seriously be taking the 1000 literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:35 AM
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I've read multiple stories about high N count men losing the ability to feel genuine love for a single woman. Or, those people never had the tendency to commit to a single woman to being with, which is how they reached such high N. Can you find me stories of the opposite? Do you really believe that there's never been a case in history where a guy with a high body count ended up in a committed relationship? If you want a collection of anecdotes to counter yours: there's a top-level comment in thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:28 AM
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It's a lot less difficult to reach very high N than you might think. I'm not in the hundreds personally, but a few of my frat brothers in undergrad graduated with 100+, and that's at age 22-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:35 PM
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Unfortunately, the stone wall can be very real. For whatever reason, maybe she's talking to many other guys at the same time and doesn't have time to write out well thought-out responses, or you're on the low end of her acceptable standards, or she just uses it for validation via matches with no intention of talking to them, or whatever. Even if you try to have a normal conversation, a lot of the time they simply won't answer at all, or they'll just respond with brainless one-word answers. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:33 PM
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Not just PPD. But askMen. And red pill. Oh, so a few other disreputable Reddit subs as well? That changes everything. If a persons pattern of behavior is to desire novelty and different women all the time why is that suddenly going to change? Because he gets older and his priorities change. He's tired of a new girl every week. Wants to settle down, start a family, whatever. Are you under the impression that no person can ever change any aspect of their life? Because if not, I don't know how you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:27 PM
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It's been self reported by many men in the same position. So in other words, you've seen a few anecdotes posted on PPD before, and think that constitutes legitimate evidence? I didn't make it up. Well you certainly didn't form an educated opinion about it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:28 PM
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when he hits a certain number as he loses his ability to connect as closely with a woman That has no basis in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:24 PM
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His desire is not objectively wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:23 PM
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Does this guy sound like he's interested in a long-term monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:20 PM
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Well in my personal experience, unicorns could exist, or they could not, I have no idea. It's all just our experiences. What does "wrong" really mean anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:19 PM
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I don't know why you're splitting hairs dude The conclusion you've drawn could be the complete opposite of the truth based on whether or not your premise is true, and you admit that you have no idea whether your premise is true or not. So what do you think your claim contributes to the discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:14 PM
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"My experiences suggest either A is true or the complete opposite of A is true, and I'm not sure which, but I'm pretty sure it's A." Got it, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:57 PM
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Well if you have the causality reversed, then your argument doesn’t hold any weight. If the “consequences” were actually the cause, then there’s no reason to think that there were any consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:36 PM
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How do you know that you became that way from having lots of casual sex, and not that you ended up having lots of casual sex because already were that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:16 PM
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Not in the hundreds, but I'm in my mid-20s with an N of 60+, and steadily increasing. The number one thing you need: be attractive. That's not necessarily just physical attractiveness, you can compensate somewhat for physical attractiveness with personality/status/whatever. But your overall attractiveness should be above average. If not, you'll have a much harder time getting a foot in the door. Second thing: numbers. If you focus on one girl at a time, it'll take a lifetime to reach N = 100. Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:10 PM
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People thinking that men want to marry young virgin women. Maybe in fanatic religious third-world countries, but not in the real world. Most guys want a woman about their age, with a "normal" number of partners for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:52 PM
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Ah, a Neanderthal, are you? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 02:22 PM
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Don't want someone inexperienced. And I don't want her to wonder later in life if she's missing out on better sex with other people. I want her to get out there, try it out with some other people before me. By the time we start dating, she knows what she likes, and knows how I compare to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:17 AM
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Nope. I'd prefer if her N is not too low, and not too high. Maybe somewhere in the range of 5 - 20, at an age of mid/late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 11:37 PM
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Absolutely. It's called being a man under 30. You can be attracted to someone without wanting to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 01:22 PM
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You seem to think that "beta" and "desperate" aren't synonyms. How did you come to believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:23 AM
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I didn't say otherwise, and I don't see the relevance of what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:22 AM
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My opinion is correct and yours is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 11:34 PM
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That's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:28 PM
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Do they live in Syria?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:28 PM
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I don't know what you think the difference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:01 AM
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It's not that not being desperate is attractive. It's that being desperate is extremely unattractive. Not being desperate is just normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:34 PM
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That's sexist. No. Man of the house comes under traditional concept of masculinity OK. which also adds. Into the problem. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:33 PM
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This being said, men who grew up with a single mom basically were in built emotional tampons who had to watch their mother be promiscuous and constantly had their own mothers attention taken away by random men that you had no connection to. Single moms are not necessarily promiscuous. And on the contrary, sons of single moms are often not "emotional tampons", but rather they become the "man of the house" at a young age. They're often more mature and more masculine due to the pressure of having t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:28 PM
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I don't know, when I think "rebellious", I think of high school and college. I think these kinds of women are typically good up until around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:26 PM
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There are women who still don't do these things. They're a dying breed, because everybody else around them will, but they still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:26 PM
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It's very true. The crazy ones are willing to do anything. They have loose morals and adventurous personalities. They're probably already tried many of the "taboo" things that men want (swallowing, facials, anal, etc.) during their rebellious phase, so it's been normalized for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 07:15 PM
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What people here are actually like: reds and blues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:17 PM
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“Orbiter” is a state of mind. Don’t be another expendable NPC. If she starts to treat you in a “friendzone” kind of way, just drop her and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:11 PM
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“But not me, I’m one of the smart ones.” - Everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:08 PM
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There you go, doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:06 PM
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It means she has a zero-dimensional personality, and is prone to being pumped and dumped. The opposite of relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:54 PM
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If you just assume people like having their boundaries pushed Nobody said or implied anything about "assuming". You're assuming that they're doing this without discussing it beforehand. The only assumptions are on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 01:20 PM
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That's a terrible mindset. What about that statement makes you think you understand their mindset? You admit that there are situations where people enjoy having their boundaries pushed, but you try to argue that that statement is inherently wrong. Those can't simultaneously be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 02:42 AM
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Don't know, I can't relate with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:58 AM
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For you, maybe. Every girl is different. Some like to be treated like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:52 AM
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Were you surprised by how bad they look without the make-up and clothes? It's happened. Did they simply look way fatter than in the pictures, or just less good looking? It's happened. It's not really a big deal for me, because I'm not looking for anything long-lasting. Worst case scenario is she wastes a night that I could've spent with somebody better. When this happens, I just go with it, finish out the date, maybe even have sex with her, and then immediately ghost. I haven't had any catfishes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:50 AM
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When dating a woman, don't ever listen to anything she says. At best, it's wrong. At worst, it's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:50 AM
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I never said they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:08 AM
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We often hear about how men like more chaste women or even prefer virgin girls This is very commonly-heard thing around Reddit (/r/braincels, and the likes), but normal guys in real life really don't emphasize this at all. You have a selection bias in that you're talking to Redditors. Outside of the internet and certain religious fanatic groups, guys don't want virgin wives. If anything it is almost as weird for a woman to be a virgin at 23 than it is for a man, and men probably think of it as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:29 PM
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There's a lot of ways to handle that situation that don't end negatively. And if it ends negatively anyway, irrecoverably so, then it wouldn't have worked out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 06:03 PM
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Nothing to be self-conscious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 11:49 AM
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What incentive do women have to be explicit or to be randomly forthcoming with their romantic history? I don't know, but a lot of them do it. When that conversation comes up, the woman is usually the one to start it, in my experience. I don't care too much about her history, she can choose to tell me or not (but don't expect me to tell if she won't). The one thing she shouldn't do is lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:30 PM
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I agree with you completely. Reddit has lots of prudes (voluntary and involuntary).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:27 PM
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Alright, let's play out the situation you're proposing. You go nuclear, and decide to drag down everybody around you, innocent or not. What happens? You have no plan, other than "Me good, everybody else bad." You have no money, no transportation, and no power, just a pocket full of anger (Do women get to have pockets in your country?), and no specific target for it. You cause some moderate level of annoyance to your arranged husband, you shame your own family, and you end up getting stoned to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:46 PM
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It does tho. I can take his money and escape... id build a new life probably So you have a concrete plan to "take his money and escape"? What happened to you needing your dad to sign papers for you to leave? If your plan right now is "I'm just going to ruin this possibly innocent man's life and somehow get money from him", you're most likely diving head first into a catastrophic failure. Thats the thing life is not full of good people. You can't just assume everyone is evil. I just wanna save my…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:36 PM
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The only way out is this and i cant be a moral person in this case life fucked me up why cant i fuck other people up.? "Fucking other people up" is morally wrong. It doesn't get you anything. Any anger or malicious action pointed anywhere other than you dad is wasted. If you want to blackmail your dad, and threaten to ruin his reputation, that's one thing. But to take out your anger on everyone else is just weakness on your part. It's "I feel bad, so everyone else should feel bad too." That's co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:27 PM
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Can you leave your country? Or just leave home and move somewhere else within your country? Have you met the arranged groom? What if you like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:19 PM
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The whole concept of arranged marriage is bullshit, but your problem is with your dad, not the whole world. Figure out where to point your anger before you do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:14 PM
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Oh, well then you're a terrible person, and you retroactively deserve the things that have happened to you. Become better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:11 PM
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i wanna destroy myself and everyone around me too Is this a troll post? Are you setting me up for a Muslim joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:09 PM
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I wanna take revenge by marrying him and making his life a living hell and taking his money. I dont care i cant ever love someone like that. So you want to fuck over your arranged husband to get revenge against your dad? That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. How's the education system in your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:06 PM
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You mean living in a first-world country?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:28 PM
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Yeah, that's one example of the kind of people I'm thinking of. The IncelTears posters who are basically incels in denial, trying to white knight their way into some Reddit woman's PMs. "I don't care that I'm a 26 year old virgin, at least I'm not an incel." Well, you're involuntarily celibate, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:35 AM
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The last three mean the same thing, and people saying that thing often really mean the first thing. And the second one is a legitimate meaning of "I don't care", but it doesn't really make sense in the context of my original quote, where the speaker is not attempting to end an unwanted discussion, but rather making a proclamation about their thoughts about their virginity. I think people beyond the "normal" age for losing your virginity who claim to not be bothered by their virginity are not tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:31 AM
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Well, a lot of people say "I don't care" to mean a lot of things. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:19 AM
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Then my answer is that if I want to marry her, I don't really care who asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:18 AM
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I think deep down, most of them want to lose it. They're curious about what it's like. They wonder why most other people can get it by age ~20, but they haven't. They can repress those thoughts, or replace them with other hobbies, but they're still in there, somewhere deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:17 AM
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"I'm X years old (> 19) and still a virgin, but I don't care."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:04 AM
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The faithful one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:02 AM
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What do you mean by "having the ability"? Are you envisioning a situation where the woman forces the man to agree a priori that he can never propose? Or do you mean to ask "How would you feel if she proposed to you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:02 AM
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A complicated, person-dependent set of things that can't be described in a Reddit comment, especially by some of the more delusional people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:01 AM
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while the drug dealer was feared and intimidated everyone Is this what you think high school drug dealers are like?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:27 PM
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Nope, 5 is too much of a compromise. If you replace the 5 by a 7 though, I'd agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:26 PM
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If you start dating now never having had a girlfriend, women will smell that a mile away. A man cant get laid has zero value to me. These are very different things. What about a guy who's never had a longterm relationship, but has had many flings, and is very sexually experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:21 PM
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Depends on the nature of their relationship. Is it a fling, or something committed? If the former, it doesn't matter. If the latter, it might, if it's something that he cares about. And the same is true if you reverse the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:33 PM
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That's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:16 PM
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It’s not a problem for us, it’s a problem for you when we won’t settle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:03 AM
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Wow, this is disgustingly wrong. My guess is that you’re jealous and insecure about your low N.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:00 AM
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Nope, cute girl from work. We were both in high school. Did it a few times, then moved on. We stayed coworkers for a while after, but it never got awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:57 AM
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Actually, E is for elbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 01:04 AM
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I think people most universally accept the base system. Oral and manual are considered "third base". "Sex" to straight people is a home run, which is PIV or anal. I don't know how gay people define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:05 PM
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I don't really care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:02 PM
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It means they've recently done a bunch of stupid shit, and they went to hide away for a little while until the shame subsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:01 PM
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If P goes in V (or A), it's sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:47 PM
1

the guy is more likely to count it as a sexual encounter ("I was pretty much in, it counts") and the woman is less likely ("he wasn't all the way in, it doesn't count") How often does this happen to you? Sex is pretty unambiguous. If your theory hinges on everybody having many marginal sexual encounters, it's a non-starter. I don't really understand why anybody would lie about their number. Do guys think that inflating their number by a few will be the difference between being seen as a stud and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:27 PM
11

No, you’re completely wrong. It’s not hard for certain individuals to reach the 100s, but if you honestly believe the average woman has 100 partners, you’re braindead and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:43 AM
1

You do understand that anyone who is at any level of intoxication is considered incapable of consenting, right? So your thoughts and opinions beyond that are irrelevant, according to the definition of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:37 AM
3

If he's been drinking, he's not capable of consent either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:43 AM
7

It doesn't matter, if either one of them has had even a drop of alcohol in the last 10,000 years, they're considered "intoxicated", and therefore incapable of consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:01 AM
6

https://i.redd.it/xmulu1f6urt11.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:25 PM
3

Can you provide a peer-reviewed and published source proving that you want a peer-reviewed and published study?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:55 PM
3

Newsflash: Stupid people love to share their stupid opinions. And like any group of people, "childfree" people are sometimes stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:38 PM
2

I’m also not a drinker, don’t plan to ever be drunk, and the last thing I want is to have a hookup and then wake up with a sexual assault accusation. Life is not an episode of Law and Order: SVU. If this is your only reason for missing out on a typical college experience (drinking, partying, casual sex), you should probably reevaluate. Even then, I’d rather get with a girl who isn’t that wild partier type and is a little more stable and not so risky in what she views as fun. What should I do in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:36 PM
12

Would you ever marry or ltr a woman who has had a MMF threesome? No, probably not. The act itself isn't necessarily a dealbreaker. But the type of woman who does this probably isn't the type to wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:32 PM
1

None.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:07 AM
20

he is 'innocent until proven guilty'. Not in the court of public opinion. Not in the eyes of "Believe Her" people. His reputation is potentially ruined over an allegation, whether or not it has any basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:02 AM
2

If sex is really important to you, you should love being with sluts. It is, and I do. No arguments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:06 AM
1

There is no amount of money that I would do that for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:05 AM
0

As an ISTP female Your opinions about this don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:03 AM
2

MGTOWs are what became of the incels of the Boomer generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:51 AM
2

Because sex is a pleasureful experience. Are you really going to pretend that you aren't aware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:15 PM
6

"Well now I'm thinking of how things might've gone differently if I'd gotten together with your sister instead."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:34 PM
9

If we seem cold and unemotional, it's not because we're hiding our soft side and trying to act tough. It's because we don't have nearly as many emotions as you do. If I say "I don't care where we go" or "I don't care what we do", it's true. Sometimes you have to make decisions, because I truly don't care what the outcome is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:11 PM
1

Sexual submissiveness is hot (to an extent). Regular submissiveness is just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:07 PM
1

F
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:06 PM
3

That's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:42 AM
2

"Hot girls don't want to fuck me, so clearly they don't want to fuck anyone else either."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 11:54 PM
1

How do you get a man to fall in love with you? What a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:03 PM
-1

How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:01 PM
3

When I’m ready to stop “fucking around”. If I’m attracted to her, and we’re sexually compatible. If she’s worth settling down with, and I can see myself with her for the long haul.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:35 AM
2

Just move quickly. Don't spend 50 messages on small talk. A few messages for small talk, just to learn the basics about them. Then say "We should grab a drink sometime.", or something like that. If they agree, exchange numbers and carry the conversation to text. Then you can keep talking about mutual interests, or whatever comes up during the initial small talk, while making plans to meet in person. In person, just act how you normally would on a date. Be charming and funny, ask her questions ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 01:44 AM
30

If you think it'd be embarrassing to go back to college at 25, but that it's not embarrassing to be waiting tables, you've got it totally backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 10:33 PM
0

"Believer her" is nonsense. Believe the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 07:14 PM
1

"I can't define it, but I know it when I see it."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 07:13 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:17 AM
1

Reds are on the left, blues are on the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:11 PM
8

The woman. Look at something before you sit on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:23 AM
1

1) What's your N count? About 60, my age is mid-20s. 2) Age you lost virginity? 18. 3) Current number of partners/relationship status? Depends who you ask, but let's go with 2 at the moment. 4) Ever have a hookup or FWB as a teen? Yes. 5) Pill identity None.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:20 AM
1

She was very clingy and obsessive. If I didn't answer a text, she would go crazy and send a frenzy of follow up texts trying to get my attention. If I still didn't answer, it would be nudes, and dirty texts about what she wanted us to do. She would literally beg me for sex when I'd already told her that I'm at work, or busy with something, and I couldn't do it at that time. It was like she would have manic episodes. She liked things rough, which I normally do too, but I was extra cautious about …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:20 PM
1

Yes. She had major issues, and it didn't last very long. She's a nice person, just a little too intense for me. I don't know if that's related to her past or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:14 PM
3

However, in my dating life, no matter the “type” of guy or wherever I meet him, after about two months of dating (~ or 3-4 dates), when I won’t sleep with them So many questions here. Why does it take 2 months to go on 3-4 dates? And yeah, it shouldn't come as a major surprise that guys lose interest when you won't have sex with them. That's your choice to make, and there's nothing wrong with it. But you should realize that it's going to turn a lot of guys off from you. Early 20's guys usually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:08 PM
2

Where are their error bars? Within uncertainty, there may not be a gap at all. This is Statistics 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:50 PM
2

I think that for any given person, there are tens or even hundreds of thousands of people in the world that you could have a happy life with. The idea that there's guaranteed to be one and only one person for everyone is just nonsense. You may really love your SO but chances are, if you'd never met them, you would've eventually found somebody else that makes you equally happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:48 PM
7

I won't get romantically or sexually involved with someone who is trans. It's legitimate to not want to date/marry one, because I eventually may want to have children (my own biological children). But in this stage of my life where I'm mostly looking for short-term sexual relationships, I don't have any "biological" reason not to be interested in post-op trans women, I'm just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 03:01 PM
3

Oh wow, so your opinions are really wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:56 PM
5

Oh yea, chances are, the waitress who makes her money off tips sexual being who sometimes feels attraction to other humans, and sometimes serves people she finds attractive is flirting for real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:28 PM
1

Are you sure? Can I get a source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:27 PM
2

How not so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:01 PM
10

What if I told you that sometimes they are flirting for real? If the guy is attractive, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:00 PM
5

Major projection going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:58 PM
1

Because many men find short hair unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:05 AM
1

Sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:14 AM
1

Do it with the lights off. Don't call attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:05 PM
1

26, 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 12:32 PM
2

Get some self control. Vet your partners, get to know someone before you stick your dick in them. No. That’ll lessen your chances of fucking crazy chicks. Crazy girls are better in bed. That’ll lead you to have a much more calm and stable dating life. Mine is always calm. If she gets crazy, I just drop her like a rock and keep moving. And as for "stable", it's stable enough the way it is. Jerk off before you go on a date so your sex drive doesn’t blind you to red flags. Already do this. Ask your…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 08:48 PM
1

I've had multiple female friends state that this is true for them. To quote one, "It's unattractive when they put up with my shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 08:46 PM
3

Greasy facial hair, manbuns, the type of guys whose whole personality is the fact that he smokes weed, hipsters, "numales", guys who don't exercise regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:24 PM
9

Why is a razor company talking about something other than razors?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:22 PM
5

Gosh, 23 is late bloomer? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:21 PM
1

When you say "relationship", do you mean a committed relationship? If they've had a bunch of hookups and flings but nothing serious, I wouldn't consider it that weird. If they've had no romantic/sexual contact at all by 30, I would find that very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:31 PM
1

I don't know, TRP seems like a bunch of boners to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:55 AM
2

Alpha frat stars who lay pipe on the reg don't hang out in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:59 AM
2

alphas who lay pipe on the reg brag as well. Not to strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:52 AM
2

I have no intention of fucking a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:50 AM
1

Having STDs has nothing to do with your physical attractiveness as it pertains to this question, so that's complete nonsense. But yes, you should indeed take steps to get rid of your curable STDs, and do whatever is necessary to mitigate the effects of your incurable STDs. Not that has any relation whatsoever to what you asked, or how I answered. While you're working on self-improvement, maybe work on your grasp of the English language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:33 PM
4

I don't know what you think that means, or how you think it relates to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:13 AM
1

Is being a beta provider in a low sexual satisfaction marriage who is eventually "divorce-raped" (paraphrasing) better than not reproducing at all? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:30 AM
6

I think everybody should take all steps they think are necessary to make themselves as attractive as reasonably possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:30 AM
9

Relatively high N man. Have you considered that we get high N because we're commitment-averse, and not the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:17 PM
2

HR in America is low on the totem pole. All they do is file paperwork. No idea why you’d need a degree for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:58 AM
2

Namely: Americans think that the only reason why a woman works is for kicks. American here. That's not true at all. Nobody believes this. Some women are very career-oriented, and some women go to college to get an "MRS" degree, and get some dumb job in HR or something until they get married and have kids. And there's a whole spectrum in between. American life is not the life of characters in American TV shows. There are over 300 million people in America, you can't generalize over a population t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 11:21 PM
2

She decides whether she's attracted to you or not long before you start to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:01 AM
1

No. Younger women seem ditzy. It has a lot to do with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:34 PM
4

Girls 10 years younger than you tend to seem ditzy. Why would you want to date someone that much younger than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:49 AM
1

I don't really find my childhood crushes attractive anymore. I became more attractive through puberty and development, so my standards have changed since I was that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:48 AM
1

Manual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:47 AM
2

Just watch some stereotypically masculine characters in movies and TV shows, then tone it down a few notches, because things are exaggerated in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:50 PM
1

I think it's fine. I've ghosted and I've been ghosted. It's part of the game. When it happens to you, move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:14 AM
1

Bumble is the worst of the dating apps, in my experience. Tinder and Hinge are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:28 PM
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>7. MEN MY AGE OR OLDER ARE STILL SINGLE FOR A REASON. So is she. Don't know where she got the sense of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:41 AM
3

Nope. If she cheats, it's over. I wouldn't cheat, so I expect the same. Never forgive, never forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:39 AM
2

I mean other than wearing makeup and the whole skin care hair care routine. Is there a certain way of acting or "personality" that can attract guys?? Don't give completely empty, one-word responses. Hold up a conversation. Show any semblance of a personality, and you'll already have half the girls on Tinder beat. I act really insecure around guys is that a turn off? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:38 PM
1

I can't think of any instances of it happening to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:35 PM
0

Depending on how attracted I am to her, maybe I'll give her up to three dates to have sex. But if it hasn't happened on the third, there won't be a fourth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:30 PM
1

26 year old guy here. Live with 2 roommates so inviting women over is off the table Why? Do you share a bed? Should i even bother with women? What else is there to life? Of course you should. You have a late start, and it’s only getting later. You’ve got to dive in. Download Tinder or something, get a feel for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:56 PM
1

Yes, words need standardized definitions. Thank you for the insightful contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:34 PM
3

Oh, because that comment of yours sounds a little bitter and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:31 PM
3

I agree with the title, but if you’re still doing “creepy” things past the age of like 14 or 15, I’d say your development is abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:26 PM
3

Hmm, whose bitter hatred were we talking about again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:13 PM
1

However, spending your life hating on women and avoiding relationships is self-destructive and self-defeating in my opinion. Who said anything about hating women? You can enjoy the company of women (sexually or otherwise) without getting into a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:20 PM
1

At 40 years old, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:50 PM
1

No, you don’t understand anything I’ve said here. But by all means, continue to be completely wrong about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:13 PM
18

Assuming everything/almost everything TRP philosophy suggests about female nature (that women are manipulative, calculating and utilitarian when it comes to relationships by nature) and about how society treats women more favourably compared to men to be true, how can a man form an LTR and still allow himself to experience emotional attachment while minimising the risk of pain and being used? If you believe all those things about women, why do you want a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:20 AM
1

Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:46 PM
2

How many links are there now? 30? 50? 100? At what point does it stop being "cherry picking"? You clearly don't know what cherrypicking means. If it's "cherry picking" why is it IMPOSSIBLE for bloops like you to provide any studies to the contrary? Surely if we are "cherry picking" then you should have NO PROBLEM finding plenty of studies to disprove us? You know, since our "cherry picked" studies must be few and far between? This is exactly the brainless kind of behavior I'm referring to. You h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:24 PM
1

If a man pussy gets hit and is traumatized for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:59 PM
4

Marriage and sex are supposed to be something special. Marriage and sex are two very different things. I don't know how it makes sense that 10 guys have been inside the woman you call your wife or vice versa. So she's rubbed wet skin with some other people before, who cares? You're allowed to fuck other people before you get into a relationship too. Do you really want to live in a world where you only get one chance to find someone you're sexually compatible with? What if the sex is terrible? No…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:56 PM
6

What was the first thing your mother said after you were born?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:48 PM
1

No, I couldn’t see myself having sex with (or any kind of romantic relationship with) somebody who used to be a man. Call me transphobic if you want, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:01 PM
2

Neither of you have any understanding of how scientific research works. You can create a sub to cherrypick scientific sources that seem consistent with your worldview, and remain blissfully ignorant about any results that contradict it, but at the end of the day you’re still just some dumbass armchair scientist, and the world doesn’t change based on your beliefs. I think some aspects of the blackpill are clearly evident, but this whole culture of “I assembled a wall of text with a bunch of links…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:59 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:55 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:54 PM
1

But if you had a day off, you wouldn't be skipping a day, it would just be a scheduled rest in your routine, and you'd still get through all your cardio and lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:37 AM
2

Is this supposed to be a self help sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:23 AM
1

What happens if something comes up and you aren't able to make it to the gym one day? Wouldn't you rather have the flexibility to have an off day that you can take when necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:22 AM
3

So you do a weak ass half-workout every day and don't have any rest days? Yeah, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:18 AM
1

Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:48 PM
6

You need some rest days.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:25 PM
2

If you think there's a problem with everybody else around you, maybe you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:23 PM
8

Just because a man doesnt get sex he is seen as a good guy. Haha where the fuck do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:23 PM
9

This here, kids, is what we call a "terrible person". Don't be like him!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:47 PM
10

Porn is the reason men are pressuring women into anal sex. It most likely plays a role. Most women don't like anal sex, yet a man will ask her for it anyway. And she can say no. Also what woman likes a man to cum on her face? Many. I can't imagine women would be into sexual degradation of their own volition, porn fucks up women's own views of herself too. Have you heard of fetishes? And then we got women bleaching their assholes and cutting off their labia to satisfy a man who's watched a thousa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:43 PM
12

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:46 AM
10

Girls with low self-esteem, daddy issues, and don't mind being treated badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:34 AM
1

Around 60 women for actual sex (vaginal and/or anal). If you include oral, I don't know, but you can probably increase it by like 10 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:27 PM
1

I'm in a similar situation to you, although my number is around 60. I used to strive for numbers back when I was young enough to think that was cool. Now the number doesn't matter anymore, I just meet people, and if we hit it off, it happens. I'm not trying to reach any particular number, but I could totally see myself breaking 100 if I continue with this pattern of relatively frequent short-term flings. The bottom line is: Who cares? There are people that think 30+ is "gross", so what's the dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:25 PM
2

People who don’t want to be judged, for starters. And people who take issue with others saying things that just obviously aren’t true at all. I’m a mid-20s man with a number around 60. I’m not a liar. And judging by this conversation, I’m a better person than you are. You should fix your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:19 AM
3

It's not nonsense. It's certainly not sense. There are groups of men dedicated to men lying to women in order to have sex. So you're generalizing to all men with high counts based on a subset of the population that you claim exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:22 AM
2

so what else am I supposed to think? Something that isn't complete nonsense, maybe? Rather than inventing a correlation between number of sexual partners and being a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:59 PM
4

Why do you assume she doesn't want a short-term fling too? Are you aware of Tinder culture? Asserting that somebody is a liar because they have many short-term partners is completely ridiculous. Would you say the same thing about a woman with 30+? It sounds like you're just trying to invent a reason not to like the 30+ guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:03 PM
1

Mid-20s male. 100 is very high, but I definitely wouldn't go with the virgin. I want her to have some experience, and know what she likes. I want her to have had her fun with other people before settling down, because that's exactly what I've done. I'd prefer less than 100, maybe like 10 - 20 would be optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:55 PM
5

High body count != low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:41 PM
4

Why do you assume he lied about anything? This isn't the 1950's, where you had to tell someone you wanted to marry them before they'd have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:35 PM
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