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Discussion_anothergumnut_/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:03 AM
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Question For Women_anothergumnut_/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:18 AM
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Lol no you're delusional. I mean, just look at your username. Why would pick up even exist if women were just as horny as men? Why are there no pick up guides for women to go out a seduce a man into a one night stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:41 PM
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Well doesn't that make your comment meaningless then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:07 AM
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"I rely on studies except when they don't back up my beliefs"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:40 AM
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How many partners does the average woman have?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:39 AM
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a lady will chime in that men do it too Men do this too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:02 PM
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Not blue. Don't know where you got that from. Call it a warning, call it a "summary judgement", my point is that it is odd that TRP was the only sub to receive one. Dozens of subs were banned in this wave, and none of them got a message from the admins saying the ban was incoming. I'm asking in good faith - why do you think this is the case?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:11 AM
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Aw neg harder bb, you're almost there. I'm not the one who bases my identity around an internet forum. "Vanguard". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:52 AM
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Ah yes, you know best. Must be why you're running a soon-to-be defunct message board for foreign edgelords and not a $3 billion company. Regardless, to answer the OP, what they "should" do is whatever they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:05 AM
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The difference is that going to war is masculine and looking after babies is not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:53 PM
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For HIS FAMILY
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:52 PM
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That's nice. Masculinity is not defined as things you personally happen to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:43 PM
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There's a big difference between going to war and starting an orphanage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:25 PM
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Protecting and providing for their kin may be a "purpose", but collecting random children and rescuing them is not. It's very nice and an admirable thing to do, but I wouldn't say it's got anything to do with masculinity. If anything, that kind of nurturing of children is very feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:58 PM
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Yes of course. Why wouldn't get opinion be valid if it comes from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:56 PM
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Raising a stranger's kids is man's purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:37 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:30 PM
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That's very nice of him, but it's not a masculine or alpha act at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:27 PM
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You didn't say "my wife says it feels like this", you replied to a female and told me what female orgasms feel like. That's ridiculous and happens all the time in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:26 PM
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What makes you think people before us talked this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:24 PM
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Ooh it's a big boy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:14 PM
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I'm still super close with my ENFP and I tell her all the time that she taught me how to be normal haha. She's the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:07 PM
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Do you think there was a time when most 20 year olds were getting together to discuss philosophy and astrophysics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:03 PM
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I don't usually like JP but I think he's spot on here. I'm a pretty typical INTP female who struggled with social flow, especially among other women, when I was young. I was def at risk of going down the whole "I'm just too clever and deep! That's why I hate small talk!" hole until an exuberant ENFP decided I was her bff and dragged me out into the real world. Also lots of MDMA and acid in my late teens. It comes naturally to some people, and others, like me, have to learn it. The issue is when …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:58 PM
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I married him because I was in love and wanted to be his family and have children and become a single unit. The institution and tradition of marriage was important to both of us, so once we figured out we were in it for the long haul, marriage was the natural next step. Our families and communities and workplaces don't take bf/gf couples seriously, and rightfully so, so marriage signals our status as a unit to the rest of the world. All the practical advantages and protections are nice, but I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:19 PM
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Lol you literally just had a bunch of your comments removed for insulting me and other users here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:42 PM
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Ah my bad. I saw you mention a gf and assumed straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:03 PM
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Lol yes the two men here have convened and agreed on the nature of female orgasms. So glad you could join us and explain to me how my own sexual pleasure feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:55 PM
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When I get into a work groove, the rest of the world might as well not exist. I wish I had a dollar for every time I looked up at the office and found that it was 10 PM and I had a series of increasingly annoyed texts from Mr. Abrams asking where the fuck I was. (This kind of hyperfocus is characteristic of ADHD.) My husband has ADHD and this is way too real haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:27 PM
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It's really not fear, it's pity. I look at women who accept non monogamy in the same way I look at a disabled kid. I did the non monog thing for a bit when I was young, and yeah it was fun and I got along with the other girl and it all felt so wild and bohemian and yeah fuck what society says, we're like, so above that! I thought I was in love, but as soon as I truly experienced actual love and admiration for a man I understood that I could never accept less again. I'd rather die than share my h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:15 PM
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Like yeah you should figure out what works for you and make an effort to let your partner know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:58 PM
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As a result married women with kids have less "doing nothing" time, and they often look for ways to make things easier for their future self which can mean doing a little bit of work every day instead of saving it all for the weekend. Don't have kids, but yeah this is me. He'll see me gathering up laundry to put on before we go out for coffee and say hey why don't you just do that later, it's Saturday morning! And I'm like... Because then I'll just have to do it later! If I put it on now it'll b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:30 AM
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Ok sure maybe your wife feels something different to an orgasm that she calls "cumming", but in all my years I've never experienced this distinction or heard anyone else mention it. It's so weird watching guys intimately explain something they have never experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:53 AM
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Westsidemoonwalker's relationship sounds cute af
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:49 AM
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Yeah that's how I took it too and I'm really confused why she got all pissy at me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:48 AM
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Like, how quick I get there and how enjoyable/strong it is depends a lot on my mental and emotional state. I can get myself off just fine, but it's a million times better with a partner who's got me really mentally aroused. Sex and orgasms aren't just a physical, mechanical act for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:43 AM
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All of it's wrong lol. It's like you just invented something in your head. And even if you were right, why are you telling a woman about female orgasms anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:08 AM
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At a mutual friend's party. We were in the same extended circle and I'd heard (flattering) stories about him before we'd met.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:59 PM
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Keep talking til you believe it, sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:45 PM
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Yeah. I had to go in them a few times for work and just spent the whole time catastrophising over everything that could go wrong. And I was a fixed wing pilot at the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:44 PM
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I got really sick a couple of years ago and spent 2 weeks in bed learning about it all. Ended up making a nice chunk of money on it that paid for our honeymoon and about half our wedding. That was during the boom though. I don't bother with it anymore, last time I checked it seems to have pretty much flatlined.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:42 PM
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Helicopters terrify me. I would never ever get in one for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:39 PM
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Lol ok good luck finding people who like you with such a stellar personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:34 PM
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Lol have some self awareness dude. Read through this thread and every single person but you has been vulnerable and shared an actual flaw. You've just humble bragged, and then when called on it outright bragged. Social skills what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:16 PM
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Lol and haven't we all had a man like that. My first boyfriend (who was also a virgin when we got together) delighted in explaining to me which positions women liked best, based on the porn he'd seen. When I tried to correct him and say "well actually I prefer this" he'd double down and tell me I was wrong. Even as an inexperienced teenager I couldn't believe that he actually thought he knew better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:12 PM
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Yep. In my experience "I don't like small talk" ALWAYS means "I'm bad at small talk". Instead of admitting that they have some kind of social awkwardness or deficiency, they act like it's everyone else's fault for being too boring/stupid/basic for them. It's a terrible character trait, and this is coming from someone who's naturally a bit awkward. It took me ages to learn how to properly relax into small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:49 PM
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If your "problem" is that you're too good for literally everyone around you, your problem might actually be that you're conceited.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:01 PM
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Show me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:47 PM
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Do you understand how stupid it sounds when you (incorrectly) try to explain to a woman how a woman's orgasm works?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:43 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:16 PM
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What exactly do you mean when you say women should be "responsible for their orgasm"? Like figure out what works for them? Direct their partner? Get themselves off? Your question is very ambiguous. Honestly, I think if a woman legitimately can't orgasm at all she should just fake it. Guys get weird about making women come and often take it as a personal insult. I'm lucky that it usually comes quite easily to me, but I've faked it in the past because some guys just won't give up until they think …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:14 PM
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Yes, and? Most does not mean all. Obviously if a woman is physically incapable of orgasming it's not a man's fault. I don't know what you're getting at. What exactly do you mean when you say women should be "responsible for their orgasm"? Like figure out what works for them? Direct their partner? Get themselves off? Your question is very ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:02 PM
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Except that's not what the OP says. You guys are just inventing this scenario where a woman keeps this to herself for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:43 PM
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So we agree then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:01 PM
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Like yeah you should figure out what works for you and make an effort to let your partner know We're obviously talking about different things. I agree that women should know what gets them off and tell their partner. I don't agree that this is what "taking responsibility for your orgasm" entails. If I tell a guy what I like, and then he doesn't do that thing or tries and is no good at it, have I taken responsibility for my orgasm? Once he knows what I'm into, it's his responsibility to get me of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:50 PM
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All you guys are reading it as "men are responsible for figuring out how to make a woman come when she doesn't even know how to herself". Most women know exactly how to make themselves orgasm, that has nothing to do with taking responsibility for achieving that orgasm during sex. You're conflating two separate issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:36 PM
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How is this post femcel or radfem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:12 PM
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What's the point of having sex if everyone is squarely responsible for their own pleasure? Surely the point of sex is to pleasure one another, rather than just using the other as a tool to get yourself off with. Like yeah you should figure out what works for you and make an effort to let your partner know, but this whole "take responsibility for your orgasm" is really weird to me. May as well stay home and masturbate if that's what it's about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:51 PM
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I just googled my paradoxitype and it's enfj which is creepily accurate. My oldest friend is an enfj and she's, like, a platonic soulmate to me. We're such different people but we're linked in this really weird intense way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:17 PM
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Lol there we go. This isn't poly, it's a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:44 PM
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How is such a huge amount of sexual variation "awalt as fuck"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:17 AM
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Lol I'm actually not taking it personally at all. You said something that piqued my curiosity, I asked you to clarify, and you got defensive and deflected and turned it into a weird slapfight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:16 AM
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Yeah, sure. I can also get myself off quickly. I can show my husband mechanically what to do and it will have the same effect. What I'm saying it that my orgasms are waaay better when there's a mental aspect. And no, you actually did not answer my question, which was what enjoying mental stimulation has to do with "I know my body and what I like, Ive had thousands of orgasms, and I've long grown out of bullshit male/societal shaming of my sexuality"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:02 AM
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No one's attacking you, Poppy, it is a question. I'm genuinely curious, which is why I asked you, and then you got weirdly defensive and started talking about something that appears to be completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:50 AM
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... What does that have to do with orgasms not having a mental component? I feel like you keep answering a different question to the one I'm asking. I know exactly what I like, carry exactly zero shame about it, and it doesn't change the fact that much, even most, of my arousal and ability to orgasm with a partner is mental/emotional. I can get myself off quickly and easily, but my orgasms are a zillion times better with a partner who can get in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:42 AM
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That sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:37 AM
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I'm still curious what sex shaming has to do with orgasms having a mental component. I just can't see the link that you're drawing on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:32 AM
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Not sure what societal shaming of sexuality has to do with arousal and orgasms having a mental component? I'm in my 30s, have had plenty of sex with plenty of partners, and also know my body very well. No need to get condescending over a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:23 AM
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Settle down sweetheart. Different things work for different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:21 AM
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Seriously? Orgasms don't have a huge mental component for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:52 AM
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Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:57 AM
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So something guys do in private with the door locked and never discuss with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:46 PM
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Sure. It's legal where I live and the sky hasn't fallen in. I know a few girls who paid their way through university doing sex work and they seem fine. I'm not sure what you mean by making it socially acceptable, or how you'd go about doing this. Normal people don't advertise their sexual habits normally, I can't see why prostitution would be any different. I think that between men it's pretty well accepted, but of course most women are going to be iffy about partners or potential partners fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:10 PM
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I know a whole social circle that's all about orgies. The husband and I are regularly invited to sex parties and with these people, and always decline. I don't know why they keep asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 09:05 PM
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Sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:54 PM
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I deleted that cause it sounded mean. I'm not raging, you're just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:39 PM
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Are you 15? Why do you think every culture on the planet has a concept of love if it's not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:27 PM
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But prior to the 1700s nobody married for love. It was all about status. Ok this is wrong, but even if it wasn't, people marrying for other reasons does not mean that love doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:25 PM
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So is the guy in the OP loving her for who she is or what she does?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:58 PM
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What is the difference between who you are and what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:47 PM
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Why do you think it's "too much" importance? What's wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:47 PM
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What you do IS who you are. This is such a stupid distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:40 PM
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And my husband made it clear while we were dating that if we were to have kids he'd want me to quit my job and stay home with them for at least the first few years. Anecdotes are fun, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:11 PM
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I said when she FALLS for a man, not when she breaks up with someone she's meh about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:14 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:13 AM
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You have no understanding of women. When a woman really falls for a man she FALLS for him. No amount of tinder dick undoes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:20 AM
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Oh my god stop replying to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:47 PM
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Learning math doesn't affect a woman and who she fucks. That's a terrible analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:36 PM
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We both know that the concept of looksmatch is not that simple. It's regularly used by men to prove that women are punching above their weight. They claim that women "should" be dating men in their league, ie their looksmatch. It's a meaningless term when talking about attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:12 PM
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Plain looking women get attention from above average men because a woman's looks are worth more. Calling it a looksmatch implies that physical looks are just as valuable in men as they are in women, and that's not the case. An average looking woman and an average looking man are not equal in value in the SMP. Just like a 19 year man and a 19 year old woman are not equal. Just like a 55 year old male CEO and a 55 year old female CEO are not equal. This looksmatch garbage is just as stupid as if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:03 PM
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Yes of course there are plain looking women, but the idea that they have a male counterpart or equal based on his looks is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:44 PM
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You know what I mean, pedant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:00 PM
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Because having to learn these tricks to bed a woman seems manipulative and predatory. If a guy is naturally seductive and women like it, that's great. If he's an awkward shut-in who learns a script to trick a woman into thinking he's the first type of guy, it will gross people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:47 PM
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Then those perceptions are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:46 PM
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It doesn't assume anything. You've missed the point, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:45 PM
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... because it doesn't exist. Why is there no such thing as purple rabbits? Men and women are different and signal attractive traits differently. You can't look at an apple and an orange and decide that they're "equal". They're completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:44 PM
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No such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:52 AM
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Did you even read what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:17 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 10:18 PM
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Well it's up to you to judge how they'll react to it and whether you want the fall out from that. I have some friends I can be disgustingly honest with and others I just fib to keep the peace. I'm not really principled about this stuff, just pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:05 PM
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No, there was nothing about that the finances being easy. They can easily buy sperm or get knocked up by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:04 PM
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What do you mean openly being yourself? Like you want to go around saying controversial things to feminists? We all censor ourselves all the time to be socially appropriate and not be perceived as an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:56 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:52 PM
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If a man sees his SMV "equivalent" ending up with better guys, then she's not his equivalent. It's really quite simple. These guys are overestimating how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:50 PM
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Then why do you see women having families with average men rather than going down to the sperm bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:46 PM
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The second option is something almost any woman could easily achieve. If that's such a good deal, why are most women not doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:44 PM
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Not on reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:32 PM
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You feel that women take it "to a whole other level" because you are not subject to men doing this to you. You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:48 PM
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women take it to a whole other level tho Yes, it would look that way when you're only seeing one side of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:57 PM
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Every time a woman hears "oh you're great and I really like you, I just don't feel ~ready~ to settle down yet. It's not you, I'm just not in the right place for a relationship right now" etc etc etc, that's a man dressing up "I'd rather fuck around". Men are no more honest with women than we are with men about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:40 PM
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I dated people close in age to me because that's who I interacted with and who I found attractive. When I was 18, 30 year olds looked old and boring to me. I had nothing in common with them and would much rather smoke weed on the beach with the cute skater than listen to some old dude talk about his job. Young girls aren't thinking about provisioning, why would they prioritise that in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 05:49 AM
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Who here denies that women's looks fade with age?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:26 PM
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Right well I responded before you edited. Obviously feminists care about feminism. That's not the point of the OP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:25 PM
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I don't think he's talking about male feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:14 PM
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People in here are using the term best friends in a way that sounds very juvenile, like high school girls excluding and bitching each other out. This is not what happens with grown women. Friendships ebb and flow depending on life circumstances, where you live, your family, etc. It has nothing to do with women's friendships being less "deep".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:08 PM
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Why do you waste your time mashing at the keyboard if you can't be bothered making an actual point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:53 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:42 PM
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Eh, she paid the brothel owner to shut it down and let her film. That's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:08 AM
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Ok dude good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:13 AM
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I've actually been following a story about an indie film/doco that was recently made on a brothel in my city. The producer is very much a sex pos feminist type, but in order to make the film they had to shut down the brothel for a week and all the regular girls there lost a week's worth of pay with no recourse. They're mad and calling her a bad feminist, she's mad cause her film is meant to be pro sex work. There's less gender solidarity than the boys here like to think there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:12 AM
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The group you're talking about is getting smaller and smaller. It's now males who finished high school in the last 10 years or so. People meet people at college if they make an effort to be social. My husband has a young intern working for him, maybe 21 or 22, and he has a very active social life with his college friends. I have a much younger friend (23) who used to date a friend of my husband's, and her social circle is all people she met through the music and art scene. People meet people aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:50 AM
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He's 32. We're millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:37 AM
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Right. I don't think they ever have though. There's always been the stuffy Christian/sjw/concerned mom/whatever bitching about undesirables, regardless of their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:37 AM
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Mean girls is relevant for high school aged girls, where you're forced into a FSM you can't really escape. In my experience, post high school, women associate with women they actually like and that petty bs among friends dries up pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:30 AM
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Ta
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:27 AM
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What about the pussy pass? She's obviously not getting the pussy pass if there's still people railing against her club.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:26 AM
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I don't think it's any different. My husband's friends now are all guys he met at college or through work/sports/hobbies. I think only 1 or 2 of his friends are from high school, and he hardly ever sees them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:25 AM
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I found out what time I was born, can you do my birth chart for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:17 AM
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Well yeah I agree completely, but neurotic do-gooders have always complained about these things. I just don't know why he brings up that the owner is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:13 AM
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Of course it's possible. Almost all of my current friends I met post high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:02 AM
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Men relate to each other differently than women do... We are more social and when we don’t have those support systems around us it can be very depressing for a woman This is literally what OP is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:59 AM
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Not really. I've never acted like a bro and I've never been short of men who wanted me around. Likewise I don't treat my husband as an emotional tampon, I have friends for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:47 AM
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I mean that's great, but most women don't want to be a bro to their partner. They want to be and be treated like a woman. You're describing "cool girls" who will act like a dude to serve the male imperative, but for most women keeping up that kind of act is just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:29 AM
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I think you're mistaken
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:11 AM
3

Does it being owned by a woman mean that other women can't find it misogynistic? I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:01 AM
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Lol what? Radfems running hetero sex clubs? Please at least Google the term before you try to use it. It's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:51 AM
2

Maybe you should be clear with what you're trying to say, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:43 AM
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Lol do you think my husband gets involved when my friends come over plan a big dinner or party? Do you think he brings us Aperol spritzes after a long afternoon of gardening? The solipsism is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:35 AM
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Answer the question rather than responding with cunty sarcasm and maybe you'll get a dialogue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:08 AM
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I don't think you know what a radfem is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:48 AM
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I have friends that I share hobbies with, and we still talk about feelings and stuff all the time. It's a female thing, not a lack of interesting hobbies thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:41 AM
0

Radfems don't want men to be feminine, they just want them to leave them alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:34 AM
1

And why would my husband lie to me about the depth of his friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:32 AM
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Lol you guys thinking you have any idea how my marriage works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:13 AM
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So in short, you've got nothing of value to add and are just talking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:12 AM
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And why would my husband lie to me about the depth of his friendships? What makes you think you know more about my husband than I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:01 AM
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Ok for one we don't talk in terms of "best friends" anymore, because we're not 16. But the person I'm closest to right now I've been very close to for 12 years. People fall off the radar because life gets in the way and priorities change, but that doesn't mean it was some dramatic mean girls blow out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:42 PM
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I didn't say it's all surface, but they connect in a very different way than I do with my friends. We've spoken at length about the difference between my friendships and his, I know how he feels about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:39 PM
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Unfortunately I have
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:32 PM
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My two best friends I've known for 25 and 12 years. The friend swapping isolating stuff hasn't happened to anyone I know since high school. Grown women don't carry on like that as far as I can see. What's more common is that when women have children they don't have time to socialise like they used to, and become occasional coffee friends rather than drop in a couple nights a week friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:31 PM
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Lol no the TRP texts are not in any way concise, they're blathering rambling walls of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:26 PM
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Anything that's not a Reddit sidebar or an editorial? Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:19 PM
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Yeah, my husband is perfectly happy with his beer and bullshit friends. They often help each other out with things and they like and respect each other, but there isn't really a deep emotional bond. I, on the other hand, would go nuts if I couldn't vent and cry and emotionally lean on my female friends. And I'm hardly the most emotional woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:13 PM
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Jesus have you seen the TRP essays? Intro, body, conclusion... Bullshit being long winded is a female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:34 PM
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Neither, it's just trash being trash. Who does this? Who talks to the Daily Mail rag about it? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:32 PM
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Well no, no one's going to understand if you don't explain it properly. We're not mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:29 PM
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Lol do you have anything more recent than 1989?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:25 PM
1

Well saying you want a woman to love you "like your bros" doesn't tell us anything meaningful if you don't also mention sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:23 PM
2

Yeah Adam would've got me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:05 PM
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How can you just ignore something as enormous as sexuality when you describe how you want to be loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:02 PM
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Joint custody is the default. There are no custody laws that inherently favour women over men, so I have no idea what you're talking about. Mothers tend to have more custody than men do because men don't want it/don't ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:00 PM
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Do they fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 09:51 PM
1

Then you should have said that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 09:29 PM
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No, this is what you said I don't know, though, how having a dad, who is in a monogamous marriage with the mom, around is helpful for getting casual sex. Western dads show and tell their sons how to act in order to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 09:24 PM
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How do you think you have any idea about how western father do or do not impart knowledge to their sons? I overheard my dad giving plenty of girl advice to my (not good looking) brother, and he ended up doing great with girls. I'm positive they shared even more when I wasn't present. You have no idea how normal western families operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:55 PM
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The majority of men, period, have had casual sex and can impart some knowledge. Becoming a dad doesn't make you forget how to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:37 PM
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I mainly get nervous. I try to play it cool, but usually fail. Once we know each other better/get together I get much more comfortable around them, and want to do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:36 PM
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Obviously no one here but you is talking about Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:31 PM
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Because most men had casual sex before getting married. Just because they're married now doesn't mean they don't know how to pick up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:17 PM
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If divorced men want to raise their children, they should petition for joint custody. It's typically not rejected unless there's something horribly wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:12 PM
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I've had the opposite experience with my husband. His sex drive drops when he's stressed, and he can't get enough when he's relaxed and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:56 PM
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You guys are nuts if you don't think a man loves a woman for the way she makes him feel. If you're somewhat attractive and make a man feel big, he will fall in love with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:55 PM
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Really? You want a woman to act like your buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:35 PM
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Yeah that's also a thing. But it's different to the fact that man who doesn't pursue you and waits for you to do the approach is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:49 PM
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There's a difference between being pursued and stalked lol. I usually think you guys are being paranoid about this stuff, but the fact that you can't tell the difference is pretty worrying, and it's probably for the best that guys like you avoid women. Normal men know where that line is, and know not to cross it if they don't want trouble. There's something defective about a man who doesn't see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 03:56 PM
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You see this overarching subtle to blatantly shocking theme virtually everywhere in media, professional, and even private life. Can you give an actual example? I think you're probably reading a little too far into things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 06:10 AM
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Oh good, another thread where men tell women what they're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 03:36 AM
2

Aw you upset bb?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 09:40 PM
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Right. So I'll disregard your input on what marriage is all about, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 02:29 AM
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Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 02:12 AM
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Paywall :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:50 PM
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As usual you're not making any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:34 PM
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"how do I get married so it's not like marriage?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:41 PM
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Honestly, this is what a truly equal, independent relationship looks like to me. What's the point of getting married if you want an "independent" relationship? The whole point of marriage is to not be independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:37 PM
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I heard a theory that gayness happens when a family/community is breeding well and doesn't need extra children. Having gay men around provides an extra male to help protect/provide for kids he's related to without adding more competition into the market. Don't know if there's any truth to it through. Edit: oops /u/ofourkind already explained this better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:31 PM
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I haven't read it, but a couple of my friends have talked about it and seem to like it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 04:06 PM
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That's not the same as being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 10:44 AM
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This is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 12:59 AM
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I had the weirdest experience just this morning. I'm waiting in line for my coffee and this dude starts flirting with me through broken English and a heavy African accent. Says he's just arrived from Cameroon or some shit. I get my coffee and go to the subway, and 5 mins later he shows up too, but doesn't see me. I watch him greet a friend there in perfect fucking American English lol. He was faking the whole accent/Cameroon story to try to pick up. Who the hell does this work on? It is not a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 12:58 AM
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Yeah wtf lol. I've never heard a Jamaican accent and thought ooh yeah that's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 12:38 AM
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You say they don't care about money and then list a bunch of rich people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:12 PM
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They obsess over rock stars, Hollywood stars, etc. Yep, all those destitute Hollywood stars
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:33 PM
2

Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:00 PM
2

"abortion should be banned because men can't have them"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:51 AM
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Yes, that's not what you said though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:46 AM
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quack
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:22 AM
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It's a book http://www.roxanegay.com/bad-feminist/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:11 AM
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Lol are you kidding? Highly educated women almost always marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:44 AM
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there isn’t anything about being morally bad that makes someone unattractive Yes. I don't understand these guys who equate sexually attractive with well-behaved. It's nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:14 AM
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Then why are all these guys complaining about girls who go on tinder dates to get a free meal? Obviously it's happening in some circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:41 AM
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Well yeah she'll think of her company as being valuable but for the guy obviously it's all about getting the chance to fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:40 AM
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Yep if you're attractive enough to get to her without taking her out, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:39 AM
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In exchange for her company and the (real or perceived) chance of fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:29 AM
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Paying for a woman has nothing to do with sexual attraction, it shows off your RMV. Men buy things for women they want to fuck because hot women can demand it. If you don't buy her dinner, some other guy will. It won't make her more attracted to you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:22 PM
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My thought process is that there are currently men using a lot of hookers and there are men addicted to porn and I'm not interested in fantasy thought experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:01 PM
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I'm not really interested in talking about pure hypotheticals. If you're not going to stay in the real world let's just leave it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:00 PM
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No, there's still the effort of physical sex involved. He's still confronted with a real life woman and is physically fucking her, not jerking off into his hand. Porn is completely sterilised of all the physical effort, smells, sounds, etc. Wanking to porn is too easy and too far removed from real sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:57 PM
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It's too easy and too accessible and I think too much of it makes men lazy and soft and unwilling to chase and have real sex. Read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:51 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:49 PM
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No, even if he's watching vanilla porn I think it fucks with the brain in a way that real sex does not. It's too easy and too accessible and I think too much of it makes men lazy and soft and unwilling to chase and have real sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:46 PM
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I'd be more concerned if he was exclusively doing weird fetish stuff with the hookers though. If it was just regular paying for a lot of sex before we met and he could afford that, I wouldn't care so much. Ffs read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:41 PM
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Prostitute addiction is not great either, but at least it's with a real woman. Porn normalises all sorts of weird shit that sex, even with a prostitute, does not. It's less about the amount of sex/porn and more about how that messes up his brain to desire unnatural things. I'd be more concerned if he was exclusively doing weird fetish stuff with the hookers though. If it was just regular paying for a lot of sex before we met and he could afford that, I wouldn't care so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:37 PM
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I don't think that either casual sex or porn affects your ability to be happily monogamous. I do think though that porn is sexually very damaging in ways that real sex is not. I would be more concerned with a former porn addiction than by prostitute use in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:30 PM
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My husband's stepdad married his mum when she was divorced with 4 young children. He's an also divorced high powered lawyer, very suave, charismatic, good looking guy. He raised the kids and my husband is far closer to him today than his real dad. But my mother in law was an incredibly beautiful woman, she's Cambridge educated, from a very respectable UC English family and was abandoned by her husband with no say in the divorce, so he definitely wasn't your classic "save a ho".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 01:08 PM
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I meant advertising as in making known, not in the commercial sense. Ok so your point is strictly about the purpose of journalism rather than the dynamic between TERFs and pride, and I'm not really interested in discussing the former. It's got nothing at all to do with PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:35 AM
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this photographer sought official accreditation Well there you go. They don't want to be associated with TERFs, why would they be happy about their "officially accredited" photographer advertising that they were there? He could have gone as a private participant and photographed them all he wanted, but it's really no surprise the parade didn't want him to make them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:27 AM
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The pride festival is pro-trans, they don't want their official photographs including a bunch of TERFs who are ideologically opposed to them. That's like hiring a film crew to make an advertisement for your restaurant, and then they go and start filming a bunch of unhappy customers saying how awful your food is. What's the question? Why doesn't the pride parade want to publically align themselves with people they don't agree with? That seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:10 AM
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Where did you get that from what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:39 AM
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Are you sure you're not just seeing the same calibre of guy but older? A few of my friends married guys who were absolute smokeshows when they were younger, then they let themselves go a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 01:16 AM
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Women are far more concerned with appearing happy and successful to other women. I have friends who I know are pretty stressed and miserable and lonely, but if you look at their Instagram or the way they carry themselves at happy hour you'd think they were hashtag blessed. Most women are proud and will hide gripes pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:46 PM
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You sound retarded talking like that. I had relationships with men I was attracted to and compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:53 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:03 PM
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And do what with it? Literally none of the women here have said anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:46 PM
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Nah that's silly. Bang the hot charismatic guy, and if he turns out to be bf material then great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:32 PM
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I've said this before here, but for me the LTR guy is just the ONS with extra good traits. For something casual he just had to be hot and fun, for LTR he had to be hot and fun and smart and emotionally stable and financially stable and have a similar worldview to me and want the same things in life as me and and and and.... All LTRs I've had were worthy of a ONS, but hardly any ONSs I had were worthy of a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:01 PM
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Yes grilld is the shit! If I want a treat when I'm on keto I get their grilled chicken burger on the low carb bun and and it tastes so much more indulgent than it actually is!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:01 PM
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Women are violent towards men just as much as men are violent towards women lol. I just can't with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 11:54 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:33 AM
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Yeah it's just semantics all the way down. An ugly woman is useless to a man. I've yet to see a man love a woman who is useless to him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:18 AM
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Out in the real world I think plenty of people are doing just fine. You get an overrepresentation of sad sacks in this place convincing each other that their miserable marriages are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:04 AM
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This what I am vs what I do dichotomy is so trite. If a man is rich, is that something he is or something he does? What about if he's funny and charismatic? Is that not who he is? You can fiddle with the words on both ends to make one side look shallow. It's totally meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:00 AM
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Nope. And likewise, men don't love women like women love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:32 AM
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That's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:46 PM
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It's not predatory lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:04 PM
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It happens
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:49 PM
2

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:44 PM
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I'm cat called a lot more here, but when I was in Moscow and St P I was full on groped on the train which hasn't happened here yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:37 PM
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Of course you can. It's not harrassment if no one feels harassed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 01:54 PM
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Women NEVER commit sexual harassment or any form of sexual crime or misbehavior? Stop being a pedant. If you can't deduce my point from that, then I'm done. I'm not here to explain basic communication to you. Because the idea is that men and women are equal, even before the law. You're saying women and men are not equal and therefore should be judged differently. That goes directly AGAINST the push for equality. Who's idea? Are you talking about the law or about social opinion? And why do you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:57 PM
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We can't predict how people would respond to this, because it never happens. It never happens because men and women are psychologically and sexually very different. Why would it be logical to treat sexual attention from men and women the same, when our sexuality is completely different?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:29 PM
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Are you a 4th wave feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:27 PM
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Haha yes he has a huge head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:07 PM
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Do you understand that people don't exist independent of culture and historical norms? Men in general are seen as more dangerous than women, because they are in general more dangerous than women. What you're describing is an extreme example where you're sexually harassing the 0.1% of the female population who could fuck you up. The social response to an outlier like that is not based solely that event, but also on generations of history where men have been the violent, sexually aggressive sex. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:06 PM
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No, I don't care. I'm not going to start some campaign to stop guys cat calling lol that's pointless. I said this because you're going on about how women are just as/more harassing than men, and any woman knows that's absolutely laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:00 PM
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Stop saying "allowed". It's a meaningless word if you don't explain what you mean by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:52 AM
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I posted in the chat thread about street harrassment just the other day. I'm in a big city right now and I'm getting harassed and cat called on the street near constantly. It's not even 8am here and I've already had a guy offer to show me his dick on my way to get coffee. I'm not exaggerating when I say I'm getting a sexual comment every 10 minutes or so that I'm on the street, and I'm in my 30s wearing baggy dresses and Birkenstocks lol. Any one of these guys could easily overpower me, and sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:51 AM
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Hi OP, You've chosen to identify your thread as a CMV. As such you are expected to actively engage in your own thread with a mind open to being changed. PPD has guidelines for what that involves. OPs author must genuinely hold the position and you must be open to having your view challenged. An unwillingness to have your view challenged may be inferred from one or several of the following: • Seeming more interested in arguing or convincing others than understanding opposing views;
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:45 AM
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Sure, try groping a female MMA fighter and see how that goes for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:40 AM
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You're pulling out wild extreme examples to try to prove a point. That's not how debate works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:39 AM
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"allowed" by who?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:26 AM
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Yeah I'm done, you're not interested in a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:22 AM
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We're talking about men, not children. Of course it's fucked up when a women does this to a child. Almost all pedophiles are men, though, so it's not something we talk about much. A man would have to be pretty profoundly disabled for a woman to be a threat to him, and yes if that happened it would be fucked up. I'm not going to respond to that Beckham child garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:18 AM
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Why? Why are there different moral rules for each sex? It has nothing to do with morality. It's different because men and women are different. Men are bigger, stronger, and have a strong predatory bent to their sexuality (whether or not they act on it). A man behaving like that is a physical and sexual threat to a woman. A woman will never be a sexual threat to a man. And what about female on female harassment? If a woman gropes another woman without her consent, is it less grave than if a man g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:07 AM
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is that it's not threatening or potentially violent or creepy when women do it. Sometimes it might be unwanted attention but it's not dangerous I can't believe the mental hoops that the guys here will jump through to deny this blindingly obvious fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:03 AM
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It being a workplace makes it 100% professionally inappropriate, of course. But ignoring the boss-employee context, yes a woman grabbing a man's ass is completely different to a man grabbing a woman's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:55 AM
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Women get away with saying things that wouldn't work in reverse because men don't care about it. When she pulls his shirt open, he looks smug and pulls it all the way off. She's not a threat to him, he's having fun with it and loves the attention. Men's sexuality is predatory, so making sexual comments/advances holds a very different implication than the reverse. A women stroking a man's chest will never ever ever be the comparable to a man grabbing a woman's chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:43 AM
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Bad teeth, bad smell, shorter than me, and that wiry, frizzy kinda hair freaks me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:59 AM
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theres a short body type I really dont like which is big head and stumpy legs. Lol I know exactly what you mean. My brother's FIL has this body and he looks like one of the 7 dwarves. Doesn't help that he's angry and a drinker and his face is always red.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:18 AM
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Yep I always wear mine! I did one trip without them last year and my feet wouldn't even fit into my shoes for a couple of days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:59 PM
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When I joined the air force they tested us all. They said my type was pretty incompatible with the military and turns out they were right lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:34 PM
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Kindle!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:33 PM
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5 Get deep vein thrombosis 😬 I used to do exactly this for long haul flights and then a doctor friend of mine freaked right out and said it's like the worst thing you can do for circulation. I was also on the pill at the time which makes it a lot worse, but ever since then I'm super careful to keep moving on planes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:32 PM
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You're overthinking it. Normal as is what 80% of women are going to respond well to. Almost all women are going to be turned off by that kind of approach, and if you want to split hairs about it you're missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 10:18 AM
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Well social intelligence is what turns women on. We couldn't care less about your computer science degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:54 AM
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Well I was trying to have an actual discussion with you about this, but I guess you're not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 01:42 AM
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Why though? Because someone told you dishonesty is bad? I'm not sure if it's you that said you were autistic in another comment, but are you aware that not all dishonesty is equal? There's outright lying where you actually intend to mislead someone, and there's what OP is talking about which is very different. In the kind of dishonesty he's talking about there's an unspoken understanding where both people know exactly why he's talking to her, but they're dancing around the subject without being …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 01:30 AM
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Accepting reality and doing what works in the real world is the definition of RP. Are you in a cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 01:12 AM
2

Yes, why is that sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 12:46 AM
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You don't get to decide what social intelligence is. It's defined by the culture that we exist in and getting sad about it is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 12:46 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 12:13 AM
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I don't think it's that other cultures don't value social intelligence, it's just expressed differently. Social skills are relative to the culture you're in. Black men can get away with being more sexually forward (with black women) because they demonstrate social skills in other ways that are normal to their communities. White westerners just tend to be way more reserved for whatever reason (maybe T, maybe religious background, probably both and then more) and stepping outside of his culture's …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:24 PM
4

What third world countries are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:20 PM
11

Social intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:10 PM
21

But WHY? Why can't we just be direct with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:59 PM
10

Limited to the effect on you As opposed to what? Who else is affected by how he chooses to flirt with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:48 PM
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You’re saying that his honesty regarding what he first noticed about her is universally not appreciated and never a positive? Nope, not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:40 PM
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Why? Talking around the point and playing the flirting game has a clear purpose. Everyone knows what he's after, but him being able to jump through the hoops demonstrates something important to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:21 PM
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Why should the initial approach not demonstrate that? The initial approach is what hooks a woman's interest, why would you screw it up by being weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:09 PM
20

Why is it aspirational to not flirt and show off your social skills? How should a woman know if she wants to fuck you if you haven't demonstrated that you're a socially functional human?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:04 PM
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Women like men who can flirt because it shows off his social intelligence and charm. Saying "hi you're hot I'm talking to you because I want to fuck you later on" is very honest, and it also shows that he has zero interest or ability to be a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:40 PM
1

Do you think this happens more often than men laughing at the lonely cat lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:30 PM
3

Seriously? In the real world, you see men who live alone being mocked as loser incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:18 PM
3

Just recently a guy tried to stop me on the street "just to chat!" I said thanks but I'm married, and he goes "well that's perfect, I'm looking for a wife!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:03 PM
2

Yeah, I just can't imagine not being the intellectually rambly type so I don't know how I'd feel if I were in your gfs position. I also don't know a great deal about mbti and don't think I know any SJ types. I do think though that lots of women like a man more "stable" than them. When I was with my ENFP ex I loved all the charm and charisma, but when he let all his emotions take over it was really off putting and annoying. I almost felt like I had to parent him through his feelings. Maybe that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:53 PM
2

Umm I can't really imagine being an ISTP so I'm not sure. Early on I would get frustrated that my husband wasn't as interested in abstract theoretical thought trains as I am, but as soon as I understood his way of thinking it made sense to me and I was happy with it. My ex before him was an ENFP so going from an emotional wreck so someone emotionally very reserved was a bit of a shock. My husband on the other hand always loved my weird INTP ramblings and would feed me red wine in an effort to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:35 PM
1

The ones I've picked as PUAs come across as super formulaic and canned. They also didn't take a hint and would just embarrass themselves pushing forward with their script when it was clear I wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:26 PM
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I'm INTP and my husband is ISTP and it works really well. I feel like our positive differences have rubbed off on each other - I live more in the real world nowadays which I love. I find him very grounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:21 PM
3

Can you imagine the MRAs having a cry about women getting extra pats on the back? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:04 AM
2

Perhaps you're just confused in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:48 AM
2

Hahah nope not yet! Something to look forward to I'm sure. It's weird I'm in my 30s and back home the cat calling started to dry up years ago. These guys need to up their standards lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:06 AM
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Def cultural and mostly black where I am. The PR/DR guys are very forward but super polite about it lol. "Good morning beautiful enjoy the sunshine!" vs "hey mama come sit on this" 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:37 AM
2

In general I love New Yorkers and find them super friendly. Some of them cross the line though and become just a little too friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:52 PM
3

Ask vague questions and you get vague answers :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:16 PM
3

All men so far!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:19 PM
3

What's wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:37 PM
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I'm in NYC at the moment and anyone who thinks the cat calling thing is overstated should come spend a week in Brooklyn as a white woman. Holy shit it's unrelenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:43 PM
2

Lol no my dad convinced him that it wasn't a great idea
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:47 PM
2

I used to live in a Hasidic Jewish neighbourhood and I swear they all looked so sickly. Apparently they trade women between different Hasidic communities now in an attempt to increase the genetic diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:46 AM
3

You get what you pay for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:43 AM
5

I'm not trying to be a dick but why do white guys get Asian tattoos? An older friend of mine just went out and got a bunch of Chinese characters that he can't read tattooed on him. I'm baffled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:42 AM
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Boys crush on older women as long as they're young enough for that older woman to be hot and fertile. I remember my 11 year old brother writing love letters to his 25 year old teacher. Little boy hot for teacher/babysitter is a common trope. He's now in his mid 20s and I highly doubt he's looking at 40 year old women in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:37 AM
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Nothing you say is clear whenever you try to get more nuanced than "woman bad! man good!" Maybe stick to the MRA boards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:11 AM
3

Booty shorts are responsible for porn addiction!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:39 AM
9

At least he has a new topic. His abortion rants were getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:11 AM
1

My husband and their male friends have tried talking to him about it, but he's convinced there's nothing wrong with him and he's just got bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:03 AM
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Acting in porn is shameful. The women who do it just don't care. Even if modesty became the norm, the type of woman who works in porn wouldn't be phased be this. You're describing two completely different sets of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:00 AM
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I don't think that the women complaining about porn are the sluts that you're painting them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:59 AM
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Why do you think women are a monolith? How is it hypocritical for one group of women to dislike the effects of porn just because there is a much smaller minority of women engaging in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:24 AM
3

Do you agree though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:20 AM
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It's hypocritical for men to complain about "divorce rape", when it only exists because men have historically chosen to financially support women. You get what you pay for!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:19 AM
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I'm in stem and no if you're otherwise normal it doesn't make a difference to normal guys. Only real difference is all the nerd thirst you need to deflect. There's definitely a higher rate of weird/unkempt girls in stem, so maybe that's what you're seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:38 PM
2

Yes and?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:41 PM
2

I have a small frame and low body fat No offence but I always pictured you as a bigger kinda guy. I think I was projecting your cat onto you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:23 AM
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What makes you think women are seeking brute strength over everything else? Height translates to health, status, power, etc. There's no point being strong if you've got nothing else going.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:17 AM
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Are you actually trying to argue that height is not highly inheritable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:39 PM
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Body hair is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:03 PM
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The jacked up short dude has shitty genes and a load of steroids/gym time. The tall guy is showing something genetic that can be passed out. I don't understand how this is not obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:02 PM
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I've seen my husband on and off T and there is a big difference. He's always done fine with women either way, but I can absolutely see how it would be a total game changer for some timid, nervous dude. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:06 PM
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"great" sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 08:59 PM
2

If tofu had exactly the same chemical composition as soy milk, it would be soy milk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:06 AM
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They've collected and studied the stuff, it's pee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:44 AM
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Porn is representative of a very small segment of women who are willing to be filmed having sex for money. Even then, it's not. These women do what they do because there's a camera on them and they're getting paid. When they go home to their partner they're not wanting the same kind of sex they have on film.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:43 AM
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It's pee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:03 AM
3

Gross neurotic men might be scared to approach. No one worth dating is, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:38 PM
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A little girl kissed you without asking? I have no idea how you live with that trauma. You're a survivor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:59 AM
2

His brothers both come across very normal and are married with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 06:57 PM
1

Wrestler and DeGrasse Tyson are both gross
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:11 PM
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They like quirky social guys, not aspies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:10 PM
3

No sister, 2 brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:44 PM
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All the men I know who struggle are socially awkward. That's the only common thread I see. I've talked about our hot but probably aspie friend before. He's very good looking, tall, fit, makes a buttload of money, spends his time doing super interesting stuff, but he's just so awkward. I see so many girls interested from afar, but as soon as he talks to them they can't get away quick enough. It's sad cause on paper he's doing all the right things, but his whole vibe is just super unattractive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:08 AM
2

Look at his face. He's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:44 AM
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Lol yes I'd be mortified if my husband was the kind of guy to crash a girls night to talk about cuckoldry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:30 AM
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We're trying to pass on more than just brute physical strength to our kids you know. Genes control a lot more than how strong you are. A symmetrical, attractive face indicates good genes, hormones and health. The way that guy dressed and carried himself showed a certain level of social intelligence and awareness. There's a reason we find certain faces and mannerisms attractive. Your dumpy wrestler dude looks borderline retarded. Edit: looked at his picture again and there's nothing borderline ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:10 AM
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the thought of getting caught cucking makes women really uncomfortable subconsciously. That, or they were hanging out with your wife and not interested in discussing "cucking" with their friend's husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:44 PM
1

Have you never heard of all the issues with self-report studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:56 PM
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Because they're good Christian girls. They're not about to admit god sent them the wrong man and they're miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:38 PM
3

Yeah he looked like a cartoon character
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:24 AM
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If I said "men lie about their height because women prefer tall men", that would be an explanation. I'm not blaming anyone, it's simply a statement that in the dating sphere, people's actions are influenced by the people they're trying to date. I'm not sure why you're taking it as if it's a attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:50 AM
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they're also more satisfied in their marriages as well So they say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:41 AM
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I'm not trying to blame anyone. OP asked why some women do this thing, I told him. Not everything is personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:40 AM
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It's not an excuse, it's an explanation. Do you understand that people can explain something without being personally invested in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:38 AM
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Did I say forced? Women choose to lie because it gets them what they want. I don't know what you're going off about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:36 AM
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Why are you telling me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:22 AM
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Yes mum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:08 AM
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Virgin brides also happen to be devoutly religious with their entire community shunning and shaming divorce. That same study you guys love to cite also states that younger brides are the most likely to divorce you. Are you looking for late 20s girls to wife up? Where are you planning on finding these late 20s virgins, if so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:06 AM
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Should should should
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:03 AM
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Sure, I agree, that's what I did. Doesn't change the fact that you guys constantly crying about it creates a culture where some girls feel ashamed of their history and will lie about it to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:00 AM
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The more partners a woman has, the less she is capable of pair bonding Lol what garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:26 AM
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The answer to your question is because men like you cry about woman on the cock buffet. You and men like you being disgusted by sluts are the reason that sluts lie about their past. How is that not blindingly obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:22 AM
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Slut shaming is literally non existent Are you serious? This place alone is full of guys who are obsessed with purity. None of them are men that I'd personally be into, but there's still enough guys out there fretting over this stuff that some women feel the need to act like the good girl. If you're not concerned with a woman's count, why does it bother you if she lies about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:08 AM
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Lol and what did you do with your early 20s that was so much more ~meaningful~ than having fun and building a social life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:51 PM
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sometimes we have too much fun at the pregame and never make it to the actual party Haha yes this has happened more than a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:47 PM
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What? It's off topic. This is literally the whole point of the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:37 PM
2

I wonder if this was written by someone on the spectrum...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:22 PM
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I have no idea what kind of point you're trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:57 PM
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That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about men claiming that women are just as violent as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:32 AM
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You claim that a woman can beat her man all day long because she can't do any "real" damage. No I don't. I claim that they are completely different things. If a woman "beats" a man as hard as she can, he can get up and walk away. If a man does the same, she'd be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:46 AM
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No, I said that there are different degrees of domestic "violence", and that a woman pushing a man twice her size is hardly comparable to a man hitting her. If you define domestic violence as any contact, no matter how harmless, then sure you can say whatever you want. But it's not a meaningful metric by any stretch. I don't believe that women are as violent as men when considering actual, harmful, physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:40 AM
0

When have I ever wanked over studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:38 AM
1

What does that have to do with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:33 AM
1

What is 13/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:28 AM
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women are just as violent towards their male partners. Smoogs, like 5 minutes ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:12 AM
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Why are you arguing this with me oh my god. You literally said that no one on this sub says women are as violent as men and then turn around and try to convince me that women are more violent than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:07 AM
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Because this sub is about gender dynamics, not race.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:58 AM
2

I've dated a few, actually. Have you dated a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:58 AM
3

Oh, you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:48 AM
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No, it wouldn't be removed. Men make posts that are unflattering towards women all the time. OP isn't being Ryde, she's sharing stats and making an argument. It's not woe-is-me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:33 AM
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Here's a few just from the most recent thread on the topic https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bj7hsr/what_makes_men_and_women_different_in_terms_of/em5wwd3 https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bj7hsr/what_makes_men_and_women_different_in_terms_of/em5xgm1 https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cj2ej9/lacking_emparthy_towards_men/evaxfqy https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cj2ej9/lacking_emparthy_towards_men/evbptz2 https://www.reddit.com/r/…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:31 AM
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I'm not going to trawl through old comments for you, but I've seen it happen plenty of times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:55 AM
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Wow, great discourse. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:44 AM
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No, you should go back to your own sub.
/r/RedPillWives22/08/19 01:44 AM
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Then why are you upset that OP is pointing out clear stats regarding men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:40 AM
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How is this in any way femcel or woe is me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:38 AM
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No, but we can be honest about stats and trends rather than burying our heads in the sand when it doesn't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:37 AM
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Every single time this comes up there there's a swarm of so-called reds crying that women are just as dangerous as men, just as violent, just as rapey. It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:36 AM
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At least one of the female mods over there is currently a plate to a TRPer
/r/RedPillWives22/08/19 01:05 AM
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🍿🍿🍿 Waiting for all the boys who normally wank over ~studies~ to say that stats suddenly don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:21 AM
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Lol he did this while they were still together? I can see why he's an ex!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:30 PM
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Where do you live that it's not normal for a man to take a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:59 PM
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Why would you pay for someone else in the first place? Because that's how dating works for normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:54 PM
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Him having paid for dates wouldn't bother me. Pulling my own weight wouldn't bother me. A man who keeps a balance sheet of mine and yours and penny pinches and splits the bill would be an instant deal breaker. Men who come up with dumb, transparent gotchas is also a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:51 PM
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You know exactly what I mean. I'd normally be happy to explain it, but your cunty, sarcastic responses aren't going to get a serious answer out of me. It does confirm for me though the type of woman-brained man who obsesses over weight and form and appearance. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:39 PM
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Weight lifting is a vanity hobby. I find guys who do it feminine and gross. Climbing is an actual hobby, and I find it attractive watching him work at it and improve at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:31 PM
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As you admit, it was about his rock climbing performance. Ok for rock climbing but not for weight lifting, yeah? Yes, that's what I said Did you notice your husband preening when he was on test? No. He's not one to preen with or without test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:19 PM
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As long as he's not deformed, yes, and I have. One of my exes was objectively a pretty ugly guy, but he was so so sexy. His personality and mannerisms and so on made him hot. I would show friends who hadn't met him a picture and they'd cringe, but as soon as they met him in real life they got it. He just oozed sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:58 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:29 PM
1

I already explained my opinion on that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:28 PM
1

You sound a lot like a lookist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:27 PM
2

I think true bisexuals date men and women. What else would they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:45 PM
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But if sexuality for women is fluid then a woman can go from lesbian to straight or from straight to lesbian or from bi to lesbian or from bi to straight correct? No, I think that we have an inherent or natural sexuality that can then be redirected without too much fuss. I don't mean fluid in the sense that you can change from straight to gay, I mean fluid in the sense that a straight women can have sex with another woman without being disgusted. If a guy has feelings towards women as a kid but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:41 PM
1

I think men tend to be more binary with their attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:18 PM
1

If her natural state was to fuck dudes before she was traumatized, then she's not a lesbian. More like a damaged straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:18 PM
1

I wouldn't call that an actual lesbian, but you're welcome to if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:11 PM
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Do you think many women are claiming bisexuality just to be trendy or liberal? Yes I think that a not insignificant portion of women claiming to be bi are just trying to be the cool girl. I have friend who have admit to doing this. I haven't heard of febfems, but I do believe that when some (straight-ish/bi) women are traumatized by men they're able to redirect their sexuality toward women. I just think that female sexuality when not restricted by shame and social norms is quite fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:10 PM
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My attraction to women felt very different to the attraction I experience with men, and I think it's very different to how lesbians or true bisexuals experience it. Like I said in my post, it felt more like an extension of friendship than raw desire. I feel like it was just a product of my (straight) sexuality being fluid and like "hey why not" than actual gay feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:51 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:32 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure there are actual bisexual women out there, but there's just too many girls who think that having a girl crush or sex dream about a woman makes you bi. My best friend is a lesbian who refuses to date bi women, and I don't blame her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:06 PM
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I think that most "bisexual" women are just sexually open straight women. And I say this as a straight woman who has previously identified as bi and been in longish term relationships with women. For me, sleeping with women was like an extension of friendship. It was nice, but very different to being with a man. Lots of my "bi" friends have said the same, and it seems very different to how actual gay women feel about lesbian sex/relationships. I think that straight women without sexual hangups a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:54 AM
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No, actually I think for guys on the spergy end of the spectrum, personality is a lot harder but a lot more important to fix. Bodies are predictable and quantifiable. If you do the right things, your body will look better. There's no such list of improvements to make for personality - if it doesn't come naturally they need to be able to actually get out of their comfort zone and loosen up and probably make a fool of themselves in order to get better. There's no guarantee that reading this book o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:11 AM
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Yeah that's different though. Calling a mother that is just a description of her role as an actual mother. It's not about the dynamic between the man and woman. When a woman calls her man daddy (minus the kinksters), she's being playful and cutesy and flirty. She's specifically placing herself in a younger, submissive role to him because it turns them both on. Has nothing to do with him being an actual father.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:19 AM
5

Yup. When I was growing up the weird kid was a minority and was thrust into some kind of actual social life, even if it was with other outcasts. They'd more or less be forced to learn how to think and act somewhat normally. Now they're all retreating to the internet and instead of trying to fit in with normal people they're only talking to each other. And the worst bit is that they're congratulating themselves on not being "normies". It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:15 AM
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New? Women have been calling their men "daddy" for ages. The weird age-play stuff is a gross internet kink that's taken a normal kind of cutesy, playful dynamic to a perverted extreme. All these things just get played out and intensified thanks to weirdos being able to talk about it together and convince each other it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:03 AM
2

What rule? I have no idea if you're actually trying to say something or just disagree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:53 AM
2

Yes, so? Do you think the aim of any guy is to take a girl for coffee then go home alone? My point is that if a man has an unattractive personality, then his looks aren't going to get him far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:06 AM
1

What does being a "bad person" have to do with having an unattractive personality. ??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:28 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:17 AM
2

What does being a "bad person" have to do with having an unattractive personality. They have nothing to do with each other. Why do you guys equate "sexually attractive" with "behaves like a good boy". It's so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:54 PM
3

Yes, you've described him breaking the law. What makes that an unattractive personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:49 PM
2

What makes you think Jeremy Meeks has an unattractive personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:42 PM
6

That's lookist bs. I know a couple of guys who are objectively great looking but have unattractive personalities, mannerisms, etc. These guys are getting plenty of tinder dates but not getting laid because the way they act is a turn off and kills their SMV. I've personally been on dates with guys who looked great, but as soon as they opened their mouth I couldn't get away from them quick enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:39 PM
1

Coq au vin is chicken braised in red wine. Ramen is a heavy pork broth with noodles and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:46 AM
3

If it was a vanity thing, yeah I'd probably be put off. I'm not into guys who preen and most guys into steroids are definitely preening. Saying that though, my husband dabbled in pinning T for a while because he loves how he feels with a bunch of extra T in his system and it helped with his rock climbing. He doesn't go to the gym, so it wasn't about bulking up or anything. It didn't bother me because he's not an idiot and knows what he's doing. Also the sex was great. Drugs don't bother me, we'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:40 AM
2

Coq au vin, or if I feel like an all day affair I'll do proper ramen from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:29 AM
6

My husband bought me a soda stream for Christmas one year and it's still one of my favourite gifts ever. I use it literally every day to sip sparkling water. Seriously though it's the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 02:40 AM
1

Dude if it's explainable and consistent then it's not magic. By definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:49 AM
1

Then it wouldn't be magic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:23 AM
3

Yeah at 23 living with his parents would have been weird for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:27 AM
2

Try and guess. It's a thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:07 AM
0

Yeah Wikipedia is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:51 AM
0

Social science is not a science. I don't up or downvote here, you've upset someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:27 AM
1

Sociology is not in any way science
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:11 AM
2

Of course most men could overpower most women. What planet are you guys from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:02 AM
2

Did you read my next comment? Do you not think you'd feel differently about that sexual attention if it was something that happened to you every day since you were 14, and several of your close male friends had been raped by a big gay man? What if of all the rapes that occured, almost all of them were gay man on straight man? Would you still laugh it off, or do you think you might take it a little more seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:43 AM
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Oh settle down. The OP asked for a situation that would give a man a similar feeling. I did that. If you want to cry that it's offensive to you, you won't get any sympathy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:09 AM
1

Do you not realise that you don't experience the same disgust that women do because rapists are overwhelmingly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:36 AM
2

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:58 AM
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Yep. And also ask them to imagine getting that attention every day from age 14, and knowing that several of their close male friends have been forcibly raped by a big gay man, so it becomes an actual possibility that you have to consider. Rape is something that concerns women because it happens to women. We're the ones that hear all the stories that turn it into a "real thing" and not just a vague thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:20 AM
14

Overt, sinister sexual attention from a gay man twice his weight/strength who's capable of impregnating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:44 PM
5

No, it shows that a photograph is a useless way for women to judge attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:41 PM
6

He looks like a child and his pose makes him look...Smarmy? Like the kinda guy who thinks he's a big shot because daddy's a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:40 PM
1

Why do you guys need a study to show you that you yourselves like young women? This is bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:10 PM
1

Yes, stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:27 PM
1

I don't believe that AI can reach personhood, so no I don't consider it magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:19 PM
1

What is wrong with you. You just asked what bf meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:17 PM
1

Botox
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:16 PM
1

LKF said this, but maybe conception?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:04 PM
1

Quantum computing still relies on logic gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:03 PM
1

Hahahaha that's amazing. I often feel that way, that I'm describing human behaviour to a bunch of Martian anthropologists or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:55 AM
1

I am a woman. I know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:06 AM
4

What's a tell if it's invisible?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:06 AM
7

Not really. I've known them both for years and we were both surprised when he suddenly stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:20 AM
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90% of posts on PPD don't even bother to back up anything up with sources I don't know about that, the guys love to brandish half-baked and misinterpreted studies to "prove" just about anything from men being more empathetic to sluts being the devil. The rare occasion they do attempt to cite a source, it's clear they either didnt read it or didn't understand it, because when you clikc through and read it, it rarely backs up the claim they're making. Agreed Such a privileged western view. In MANY…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:18 AM
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Sure, but whether or not their conclusions are actually logically consistent, they show a very male obsession with logic and systems and order. Trying to "prove" their feelings right with stats and studies and theories just confirms this. Magic is a female dominated thing because it rejects and exists outside of the frame of spergbro logic. It's based on intuition and feelings and the guys get upset when they see people respecting a system that doesn't make sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:02 AM
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It's really not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:23 PM
3

Conception and the creation of a brand new life and consciousness is a hell of a lot complicated than a computer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:16 PM
3

What does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:13 PM
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Computers are, like, anti-magic. They're built entirely on hard logic. There is absolutely no space for intuition or feelings or narrative or the unexplained, which are all things that many women are drawn to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:11 PM
11

Just because you don't understand physics doesn't make it magic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:05 PM
10

I don't think the housework makes him unattractive. I think that it's not in men's nature to do that stuff, and men that do are often the ones who's wives were able to nag them into it. No one wants to fuck those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:02 PM
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A guy doesn’t suddenly become childish when you get married. He was like that the whole time you were dating and you just choose to ignore it. Not necessarily. I've seen men look after themselves perfectly well and as soon as they marry become a slob because that stuff is "wife work". I literally have a friend going through this right now. Her new husband has quite suddenly stopped cooking and cleaning and she's very quickly getting tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:00 PM
1

So it is about gender then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:36 PM
2

Why don't you see women leaving their children in anywhere near the numbers that men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:14 PM
3

By that logic, should men who accidentally impregnate women be forced to marry her? Should divorce be illegal when there are children involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:25 AM
1

Yeah wow. I didn't realise the evangelical types made up such a big chunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:03 AM
1

Surely there was a lot more going into their decision to vote that way than abortion reform? Just an assumption as I'm not American and whenever I do visit it's the big coastal cities, but I can't imagine more than half of white women seriously caring about ending abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:11 AM
2

capuchin monkeys and /u/Lordb0lton, the ultimate SJWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:39 AM
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The 52% of white women who voted for Trump did not do so based on him banning abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:32 AM
3

You're nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:28 AM
6

Abortion isn't going anywhere. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:17 AM
6

This reasoning is insane. Women are capable of aborting that thing in their bodies, men are not. Having unprotected sex when you don't have a biological out is just objectively dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:41 PM
2

That's cool. Is it for someone famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:34 AM
2

I have no interest in what she said, which is why I replied to your comment and not hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:08 AM
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Well it would be a pretty boring post if every reply was a one word answer. I don't see anyone weaseling, just explaining their answer in a little more depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:56 PM
1

Lol ok whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:54 PM
12

What squirming? Almost all the answers from women here are just saying yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:59 PM
0

How is that selective if it's the first girl they connect with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 07:43 AM
1

Yes, that's not what I'm asking. You said that women get less flak for cheating - coming from women or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:42 AM
1

makes them more vulnerable to falling hard for the first girl they really connect with Men seem to be more selective than women about who they fall in love with How is this not contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:20 AM
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his view of a morally just world shattered Don't start from here, and you'll be fine. Guys like you work yourself into depression because you expect everything to be fair, and some higher power to direct the good boys to the happy life and vice versa. This is obviously not how things work and has nothing to do with having a dad. My husband grew up without a dad, and he did just fine. In fact, being the eldest of 4 kids it turned him into a man a hell of a lot quicker than most boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 01:04 AM
1

women tend to get less flak for cheating From who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:21 AM
2

Lol you had to go all the way to Swaziland to get an example? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:10 PM
2

No, he just misused the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:03 PM
5

OP is very obviously describing polygyny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:51 AM
2

Pick a UMC guy who's as attractive as the guys you were with on the 'sel. That's exactly what I did :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:22 AM
3

Yes you're right, I meant polygyny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:21 AM
3

Boring and fat is AF?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:20 AM
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If I married the kind of guys I was seeing as a teenager my life would be an absolute mess. My first love has been in jail for the last 12 years, my second is a fat slob, third is just boring and blah. My taste definitely improved as I grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:41 AM
2

Swinging is not a kind of polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:01 AM
4

Did you read the OP? It is literally about POLYGAMY. Not casual dating/fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:29 AM
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No, swinging and polygamy are not at all comparable. Swinging serves the female imperative, polygamy destroys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:21 AM
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Can you show me an example? The stigma is definitely part of why women won't do it. Swingers hide their lifestyle because it's considered shameful, a woman sharing her husband in marriage is a million times worse and would ruin her status. So unless you're going to also change the entire culture around women and marriage, your harem is going to consist of gross defective women who have already been rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:17 AM
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Pointing out the difference between marriage as an adult and plate spinning in your early 20s is not nit-picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:12 AM
1

Yes I know you're saying AFBB, I just don't know what it has to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:05 AM
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I was talking about women sharing a man in the context of marriage. Sharing of resources, having children, etc. Having two girls at once when you're 21 is not a "harem", and is just not relevant to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:01 AM
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You're 21, so you have absolutely no experience with commitment or marriage, which is what this post is about. Look, I'm very happy for all you boys who are jumping on this to shout that you have sex. Really. Good job. It just has nothing to do with the topic at hand. Feel free to make your own post where you talk about your sex life, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:54 AM
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Right. So you're not talking about polygamy at all then. What you're describing has nothing to do with my point or the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:47 AM
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I don't think you're talking about what OP is talking about. Spinning plates with a couple of girls who are begrudgingly hoping you lose interest in the others is not polygamy. These girls either come to their senses and find a normal marriage, or they end up as single mothers. Do you know women who have settled down into marriages/LTRs where the man is openly committed to other women? Where he's loving and supporting and having children with other women, and everyone knows about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:35 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:26 AM
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I've literally never seen a woman who wasn't trash and/or hideous willingly share a man. And I run in some pretty open-minded circles. I have no idea what the second part of your comment means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:24 AM
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Yeah in most swinging couples the woman is getting laid a looot more than the man is, and she doesn't need to share his resources with anyone. I have no idea why the op is comparing swinging to polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:22 AM
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These women are capable of finding men who don't humiliate them. I'd honestly rather be alone forever than live like that. What makes you guys think women would be ok with this? Why aren't they doing it already?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:13 AM
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Swinging is not like polygamy lol. Do you really think a non-trash woman would be open to a one-sided open marriage where she's sharing all her man's time, attention and resources equally with other women? You think this woman would be ok with him impregnating another woman and then paying for this random kid? And do all of this openly for everyone to see? Swingers hide their lifestyle for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:02 AM
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If they're able to, great, but quality women know they don't have to settle for this set up. The kind of women who are willing to stick around in a harem are probably not the kind of women he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:36 AM
2

I had a certain Russian in here insist that my Catholic, girls-only high school would have shielded young women from sex and raised a class of prudish good girls. I guess I hallucinated all the things I saw in my teen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:05 PM
5

It touches age of consent because it involves children. It becomes criminal when it's a child, and beyond that it's treated like cheating. Gross, but not the government's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:59 AM
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I can think of a million legal actions that are frowned upon. For lots of these things we do rely on social pressure because people don't want every aspect of their personal lives legislated. Sure, a 16/18 year old is probably capable of choosing who she has sex with for the most part, but that's not going to prevent people from thinking the older man is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:54 AM
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A quick google confirmed what I thought. Billie Eilish's managers Here you have two older dudes sexualising a 17 year old girl to other older dudes because... Sex sells. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:26 PM
1

Yes Karen, it's definitely your job to stick your nose in everyone's business. It's definitely for the "greater good".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:58 AM
2

This whole mentality reminds me of Karen at the office water cooler bitching about things that don't concern her. Every one wishes she would just mind her own business, but she just can't help herself. You do you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:20 AM
2

AFBB implies that the woman is begrudgingly taking on a stable guy because she can no longer get the alpha, or can't get him to commit. I'm saying that the stable guys that women grow into are what they want. Their preferences change as they grow up, and the hot cad is not their first choice anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:01 AM
6

Attraction is not rational. As soon as you stop trying to frame it in that way it'll all make a lot more sense. I would never fuck a male sex doll. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 01:47 AM
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Fucking a doll is viscerally disgusting. Men with an interest in fucking dolls are viscerally disgusting. I would rather never fuck again than fuck a man with a sex doll. It doesn't need to make sense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:49 AM
3

Nope you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:59 PM
2

Oh yeah? You know me better than I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:58 PM
5

You can be grossed out by something without getting angry about it. I'm the same. I couldn't care less if dudes want to hide away with their sex dolls. It doesn't make me "angry". But I would never in a million years fuck someone who had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:31 PM
4

No one said it is for her. It's for a bunch of loser virgin foreigners, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:10 PM
3

lol she's not wrong. Red pill existed long before you made a subreddit for it, and your particular brand of it is pretty fucking embarrassing these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:04 PM
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There's absolutely no way to know what really happened when you're only getting half of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:40 AM
5

"it's not faaaiiiirrrrr"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:43 AM
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Tomato, tomato. Same shit. Not really. Do I need to explain causation/correlation to you, or have you finished high school? AF/BB is highliting the fact that women want to have their cake and eat it as well Of course we do! Why wouldn't we? Don't you? In this case, it means enjoying casual dating when that's what we want, and then enjoying stability and married life when that's what we want. AFBB is used in a way that implies women are begrudgingly taking on the stable guy they can't stand becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:16 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:08 AM
1

Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:46 AM
3

If you're no longer attracted to him why would you stay with him? Because we're married? Because he's hot enough to recover that attraction? Because I love him? If it was just some boyfriend and I lost attraction to him, then yeah I'd probably leave. how would you feel if it was you who got beaten and humiliated and he left you said it was unattractive? Yeah it would suck. And? The truth of the matter is, women's attitudes change when the shoe gets on their foot. Men aren't looking for a big tou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:28 AM
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And it's fine if she has a change of preference. But it's amazing how often this change tends to happen after she's been pumped and dumped several times, after she's wasted a decade or more on men who were never going to commit, after she notices her friends getting married, and usually closer to 30 rather than 20. Yes these are all things that tend to happen with time. It doesn't mean that it is the cause of the change in preference, just that as time progresses, so does maturity and sexual exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:23 AM
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Did I say anything about leaving him? OP asked if it affects attraction, and the truth is that it does. That's the red pill for you. Would you rather I lied about it to make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:49 AM
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That's just men misinterpreting a natural change in preferences as a woman matures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:30 AM
5

Oh good. This question again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:08 PM
-2

1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:07 PM
8

Yes, getting beaten up and humiliated by another man is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:28 PM
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I don't know. There do seem to be a lot of guys spending a lot of time complaining about the behaviour of women they'll never have anything to do with. Whereareallthegoodmen dudes are mostly married, as are many of the guys crying about female promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:00 PM
2

Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:34 PM
3

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:34 PM
5

Did you honestly think it was a man thing and not just a sex drive thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:48 AM
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To women: Is it something you would ever consider doing? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:10 PM
3

Why is a diamond merchant driving a Lyft?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:43 AM
1

I'm not sure about that, it's never been a goal of mine. check out /r/ketogains though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 12:40 AM
10

You really think boys want their mums to sit down and tell them the ins and outs of getting laid? I would shrivel up and die if my dad ever tried that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:15 PM
10

A woman can still show her son attention without teaching him how to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:57 PM
11

I wouldn't. If anyone's having that conversation with him it would be his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:41 AM
3

Why are you taking these girls you don't know out on dinner dates? My husband's workmate does the online dating thing, and his go to is chatting over a bottle of wine in a park. If it goes horribly he just takes his wine home and enjoys it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:00 AM
4

Except that women aren't violent and typically don't go around stabbing people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:51 PM
3

Lol good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 07:47 AM
3

Thank you for putting all those words in my mouth and responding to all those things I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:56 AM
1

its a passive form of murder mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:18 AM
5

Sure. I could stab someone in their sleep. The difference is that most of these attacks happen spontaneously in a fit of rage. If a man loses his temper at something she did/said and lashes out, she's in big trouble. If I freaked out and pummeled my husband, or any man who isn't disabled, it would take one punch to incapacitate me. Further, men are more likely to reach the point of violent rage due to their testosterone. That's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:13 AM
1

Oh for heaven's sake. No. Read it again and try a little harder. I'm not going to do all the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:29 AM
3

Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:28 AM
2

Beachredwhine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:28 AM
1

It doesn't open on my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:19 AM
5

Um no. You go tell them if it upsets you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:18 AM
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You may not have directly said otherwise No, I didn't say so at all. You made that up. Ask me a question if you like, I'm happy to answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:18 AM
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Still doesn't make it right to slap your husband I never said otherwise If a woman is violent, she deserves to be punished by the court system the same way a man would be punished. I never said otherwise Please show me where I'm saying these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:08 AM
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Where did I say otherwise? Please show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:00 AM
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propeganda Dude seriously you just had an aneurysm over someone misspelling you're
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:57 AM
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Sure. I thought you were calling men a minority. Of course it would be better if no one hit anyone. I'm not saying that no woman has ever hurt a man. But the reality is that men are violent more often and with more serious consequences than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:55 AM
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You really think women are capable of inflicting the same harm that men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:48 AM
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Have some sympathy for a minority Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:48 AM
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Oh please. If a woman hits you, you just fuck off and leave. Poor little victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:37 AM
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And I just gave you a site that links dozens of papers from unbiased institutions saying the exact opposite. I don't trust papers on either side of the fence, I'm just demonstrating that you whipping them out means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:36 AM
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It's no more biased than your list of "women are bad" papers. I don't "hate" male victims. I'm sure they exist and it's bad that they were abused. But I do not believe for a second that men are abused by women at anywhere near the rates or severity that women are abused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:00 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:57 AM
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https://www.ourwatch.org.au/understanding-violence/facts-and-figures
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:45 AM
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Where's the feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:17 AM
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Even if that were true, which I don't think it is, how much damage are these women capable of? This is like saying there are more kids who steal candy than adults who rob banks, therefore kids are the ones we should really be worried about. Your logic is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:01 AM
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Yep, and like I said there's a million studies out there saying the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:38 AM
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Woman are far more likely to initiate domestic violence. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:32 AM
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Ok bye
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:32 AM
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Women can initiate violence, but it is rare and when it does happen she can't inflict the same damage that a man can. You're just finding a million little exceptions that don't change the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:20 AM
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Yeah you're off on a weird hamster tangent now that has nothing to do with my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:14 AM
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Yep and I could pull up just as many papers that say the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:12 AM
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I honestly don't believe that you guys are legitimately afraid of a woman inflicting physical harm. Even if I ran at my husband with a frying pan he'd easily be able to disarm me. This whole argument is a bunch of boys ignoring reality because it's not "equal". And yes I deleted my first response because I knew you'd take it the wrong way and get sidetracked. But it's true that a man threatening a woman with violence is "worse" than a slap from a woman. That woman knows that the man is fully cap…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:04 AM
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Yeah I'm talking about violence, not teasing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:52 AM
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Ok so now you're comparing a slap to a threat? What is your point? If I slapped my husband as hard as I possibly could, he'd have a red face. If he did the same to me, I'd be concussed at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:50 AM
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Of course it matters. If my niece hits me I would be annoyed at her, but she's never going to be able to do any real damage. If my husband hit me, I would fear for my fucking life. He is capable of killing me with his bare hands and we know that. Of COURSE violence coming from a man is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:39 AM
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Where did I say women are not dangerous at all? I didn't. I said that male and female violence are treated differently because they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:37 AM
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What kind of damage? Physical damage. Since we're taking about violence, and not bullying. On the other hand, men are much more "heavy-handed" when they resort to violence. This leads to more hospitalizations and DV shelter use. EXACTLY my point. Thank you. Men commit violence more often, and when they do, the consequences are far more severe. Every guy gets slapped at some point by their girlfriend or spouse, but its a bigger issue if you swap genders. Yes, because a slap from a girl is nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:35 AM
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You're deliberately missing my point and I can't be bothered explaining it to you again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:32 AM
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Depends on the people involved and how hard it is. Show me a video and I'll tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:30 AM
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I'm not only talking about murder. Men are more violent than women are, and when they act on it they are capable of doing far more damage. There is no "apples and apples" when you compare male and female violence. They are inherently different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:23 AM
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I don't know what you're trying to say. Have another go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:06 AM
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Do I need to know what time is was born? Cause I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:51 AM
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I watched that this weekend too! I did like it, but the fantasy aspect felt a bit off to me. I wish they'd either canned the idea or gone all out with it. Dropping in a couple of scenes like that here and there just felt a bit disjointed. I really wish Baz Lurhmann had done it. He would have elevated it into a masterpiece imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:50 AM
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but women are MUCH MORE likely to be the perpetrator in cases of domestic violence I don't believe this. I'm talking about actual domestic violence that causes damage, before you go and expand the definition to the point of meaninglessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:37 AM
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Female on male violence is seen as comedic because 1. It's so rare and 2. They can't inflict a fraction of the damage that a man can. A man hitting a woman and a woman hitting a man will never be the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:35 AM
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Ok but what does that have to do with the topic at hand? OP is crying because women make the accurate assessment that men are a danger to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:51 PM
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And who are these men killed by? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:26 PM
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pedant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:16 PM
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And how many men were killed by their female partners? I'm not making a point about how many women are killed. My point is that there is a very real asymmetry between men and women when it comes to violence, and THIS is why men and women are treated differently. Not some boo hoo meanie girls lacking empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:00 PM
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Men are almost always portrayed as the perpetrator Men almost always ARE the perpetrator, and are about a zillion times more likely to kill their female partner than the reverse. A violent man is MUCH more dangerous than a violent woman. Stop trying to pretend men and women are the same. We're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 10:47 PM
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We kept in touch off reddit for a while, but the last I heard from her was maybe 9 or 10 months ago. Been silent ever since. But yeah she was looking after her sick partner for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 03:58 AM
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Getting pregnant has nothing to do with reproductive equality Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:39 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:30 PM
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If the old crew were in I'd gladly go back, but I tried resurrecting it alone about a year ago and it didn't go anywhere. Stingray pops up from time to time and it's always nice seeing her name there, but otherwise, meh. Without them it's just the same 5 homemaking/dating threads over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:29 PM
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Yet the top female mod there is literally a plate to a trper
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:14 PM
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yeetus that feetus right out of the oven omg lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:03 PM
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The concern I have is that future-personhood and therefore the rights/protections of the fetus is only determined by the wishes of the mother Not quite. The future-personhood is determined by whether or not it will ever become a realized human, and it just happens to be that the woman carrying it is the only one capable of influencing that by virtue of it existing in her body. It's a subtle distinction, but a relevant one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:28 AM
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I liked Camille. We're very different but she had some interesting thoughts on things. That Beautiful space cadet or whatever was the beginning of the end for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:34 AM
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Yet one of the mods is a plate lol. Do as I say, not as I do I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:25 AM
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I said poor because cainprice asked what social class I was in. I do think that class has much more to do with it than age, though. Rich kids are brought up with a million activities, and well-off young women have the time and funds to do these things. Like others have said, look at Pinterest and Etsy and see all the crafty shit these girls are making. Go to a yoga class. A pottery class. Just because they're not out in your dance class doesn't mean they're not doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:43 AM
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Hardly anyone in RPWives is a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:00 AM
2

Tasmania produces some amazing gins and whiskeys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:53 AM
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Yeah I've never liked the violinist analogy because in that case you did nothing to warrant having him steal your kidney function. A woman (or man) who willingly has sex knows that pregnancy is always a risk. I don't care about abortion personally because fetuses are cognitively not much of anything yet. It's on par with killing a dumb animal for me. Or turning off the life support on a vegetable. Yes I believe it's human, yes I believe that abortion is killing, but it's such a basic blob at tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:25 AM
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I fucking love a good gin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:13 AM
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Australia. Artisanal gins are really popular here right now, there's lots of microdistilleries doing really fun stuff. My girlfriends and I actually bought a still together last year and have been distilling our own gins from my husband's failed beer brews, playing with different botanicals etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:12 AM
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Yeah, it's a common thing in PPD. The guys here seem to think "women" = "young cute girls 18-24 in my immediate vicinity" We don't cease to exist at 24, you know 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:02 AM
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Early 30s, mostly married or paired off, and UMC. When you said "women don't have hobbies", did you really mean to say "young, poor women don't have hobbies"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:57 AM
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You claimed that women don't have hobbies, and then went on to list a bunch of your own basic bitch hobbies. Most women I know do all of those things, and have actual interesting hobbies on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:50 AM
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My mother in law was struggling to put on weight while she was pregnant with my sister in law, and the doctor prescribed her a can of Guiness every second night lol. This was England in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:47 AM
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I do jiu jitsu yoga, grow an herb garden, and love to cook. I'll buy strange meats and produce from farmers markets and learn how to work with them. I mix drinks, too. I've recently gotten into whisky gin drinks. I make my own syrups for them. I'll sometimes have some guys from the neighborhood the girls over for grilling, whiskey drinks, and poker or maybe watching a UFC fight wine and TV. I bought a piano recently and have been brushing up on musical skills I haven't used since high school. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:43 AM
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I'm not saying anything about the OP. I'm responding to geyges' bizarre idea of how women interact. It seems he's talking about teenagers though, which makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:50 PM
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No, you've missed it. If you take the stance that it is currently not a person, then aborting it is fine. Just like flushing sperm down the toilet is fine. If you plan on gestating this thing and turning it into a person, then your actions now affect that future-person and you could consistently argue that you have a responsibility to treat the fetus correctly. Again, these aren't positions that I personally hold, but the logic is not inconsistent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:46 PM
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Is your sister 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:40 PM
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Yeah same here. I mean I'm def pro-vax but I do kinda see how the reasoning is different. Anti vaxxers truly believe they're damaging their kids by vaccinating them, and even if unvaccinated the chances of contracting something awful are now pretty slim (thanks to vaccines lol), so the govt just step back and say ok do what you want, just don't infect other kids. The drinking example is just selfishness. I went to school with a kid who's mum boozed a lot and FAS is no joke. That said, I don't ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:12 PM
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This line of thinking essentially starts by assuming that the difference between a person who deserves protection and a fetus that doesn’t have those protections is defined by whether or not the mother wants the baby I think it's a little different to that tbh. I think they're saying that either way the fetus is not a person yet, so if you want it out of your body you're welcome to do so. But, if you're intending to keep it it will one day be a human and by drinking or whatever now you're ruinin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:07 PM
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Lol you've never been privy to a female conversation and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:00 PM
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Where I live you can't send a kid to daycare or school if they're unvaccinated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:53 PM
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Where is the cognitive dissonance? Ending a pregnancy and damaging something that you're going to birth and be responsible for are completely different things. I don't think we should have laws about what pregnant women can and can't do in any case, but there's no logical inconsistency among people who agree with abortion but not damaging a future human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:49 PM
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Oh this guy was capable of looking after himself, he was just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:39 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:43 AM
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Yes. A man's attractiveness often changes significantly once you see how he behaves. Or rather, I'd say that women are incapable of assessing a man's attractiveness isolated from his behaviour and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:07 AM
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Nada
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:27 PM
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In a wife? Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:49 PM
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Attractive, smart, fun, kind, interestingcan manage a household, listen to his rambling, be emotionally supportive, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:04 PM
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Read my comment again. You're getting all bent out of shape over a straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:00 PM
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This has nothing at all to do with my point but carry on I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:59 PM
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Have you ever looked into the suicide and domestic violence rates of men in the army? It's astronomical. Mentally fragile men should not be conscripted for any length of time in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:04 PM
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Yep, that's how it went for me. At 19 he just had to be hot and fun. At 29 he had to be hot and fun and smart and employed and emotionally stable and have similar values to me and want to get married one day and be able to talk about art and and and and...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:59 PM
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Who cares what's socially important? When did men become so fucking mild and well behaved? Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:55 PM
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Sure they do. So do women. That has nothing to do with my point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:53 PM
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Yeah possibly, but it would need to be a lot longer than basic training to have an effect. I saw some guys man up through their service, and I saw others get completely fucked up and do horrible things. The military is incredibly hierarchical and cliquey and if you're not able to get along with your peers, which I suspect incels would not, you're in for a fuckload of isolation and bullying. Like high school times a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:51 PM
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Yes of course it was his business. But he'd get grouchy at me if his shirts didn't magically appear clean and ironed in his wardrobe. Somehow he'd decided it was my job, so I quit. Regardless, the attitude itself is unattractive. I wanted a man who was able and willing to feed himself without me swooping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:00 AM
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Because they're getting married later
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:07 AM
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Yeah some boys are gross like that. Thank god my husband mostly takes care of his stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:06 AM
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Yeah I don't understand their complaints that "these days" it's so hard to get laid and women's standards are too high etc etc. I don't think average dorky men have ever had a smorgasbord of women jumping at the chance to have casual sex with them. Do they actually think this was a thing in the past? If so, when?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:47 AM
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Yeah that wouldn't fly at my husband's work but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:21 AM
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Aren't you a lawyer? Doesn't an unironed shirt look slobbish? My husband wears an ironed shirt every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:16 AM
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The choreplay advocates get it wrong. It's not that him doing chores is in any way hot, it's that having to baby a man who can't get his shit in order is a turn off. Picking up your own part of the chores just brings you up out of the negative into neutral territory. I mentioned my slob ex earlier today - if I didn't wash and iron his shirts, he'd just wear dirty ones. If I didn't cook him dinner, he'd order a burger. Every night. If I didn't wash his dishes, they'd sit there until we had flies.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:10 AM
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Yes I agree. What does that have to do with waatgm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:49 AM
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I'm red. It isn't a case of better or worse or positive or negative, it's about looking at things as they are. Complaining about female nature while closing your eyes to the less flattering parts of male nature is not red pill. It's modern feminism in reverse, and it's just as gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:42 AM
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There's no "rules". No one's forcing these guys to outdo women at their bitching, yet they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:39 AM
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Lol you're exactly the type I thought you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:23 AM
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I define Red the acceptance of biological truths around gender and attraction Same. It seems like for a lot of the red guys here those truths only go one way. It's in women's nature to be liars/manipulative/hypergamous, but say something less than flattering about men and they'll jump on you. And what is the "sad MRA view of masculinity"? I see a lot of oppression Olympics out of these dudes. "Women are afraid of rape, therefore I have to be too. Because women are just as dangerous and likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:21 AM
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Nah I don't have any interest in discussing with you. Try not being cunty next time and people might talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:18 AM
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Why ask a question if you're just going to put words in my mouth? No. Not choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:00 AM
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No, I mean the mentality that men can do no wrong and women are evil bitches just waiting to swoop in and rape/murder/divorce you. There are so many guys in here with this idea that masculinity=honorable and refuse to see the negative aspects of their own sex. There's nothing red about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:51 AM
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The definitions of red and blue have become so twisted here that they're basically meaningless now. According to a bunch of the reds here, I'm blue because I don't subscribe to their sad MRA view of masculinity. If you're going to spout off about gender differences it goes both ways, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:23 AM
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I went to an officer's only mixed basic training so I don't know how that compares, but I did see similar. Women went in soft and very quickly toughened up, the men just sorta kept being them. The weird anime kid got through basic and then went back to being a weirdo. I think what you say further down is true that deployments change guys a hell of a lot more than basic does, but please don't give incels guns and send them to the middle east.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:21 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:14 AM
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They don't need a fixing female if he's happy to live like that, but if he tries bringing a woman into his life she will try to train it out of him. I dated a guy for a while who was like this, but realised it was gross and put on a really good front. When his slobbishness and inability to adult became clear to me I noped out of there, but somehow I was the bad guy for not liking the "real him" lol. Like no buddy, the real you is gross and you just tricked me for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:39 AM
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Yeah ok well we fundamentally disagree here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:14 PM
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That's nice, but it has nothing to do with the kind of bitchy, woman-brained man that hangs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:09 PM
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Do you think it's odd that every single animal seems to have innate and sex specific mating behaviours, except for humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:09 PM
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I'm talking about men, not children. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:30 PM
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Yeah no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:20 PM
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No, they shouldn't be treated the same. Men and women are different, and respond to sexual violence differently. The boys get triggered every time this is brought up, but male sexuality at its base level is predatory. Female sexuality is not. Men are physically and mentally capable of taking something from women that is not reciprocal. Anyone who claims otherwise is 🐹
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:23 AM
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When you thought he was a friend, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:05 AM
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My old gym used to play this on loop lol. Very motivating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:05 AM
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Both happen and neither are great fun to be on the receiving end of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:44 AM
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Just go there and see examples of everything unmarried single women want in an ideal partner sad married dudes in dead bedrooms mocking poor people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:41 AM
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The entitlement!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:35 AM
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I can't tell if your tekashi thing is a joke or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:34 AM
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She doesn't like being de-chonked. Hah can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:23 AM
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She sounds like my cat! Has two completely different personalities and our friends don't believe us when we say she's got an evil side. It's usually when she's playing, she just gets overwhelmed and freaks out a bit lol. She also does the kitty parkour up and down the walls. She's only 2 though and it does seem to be settling with age thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:22 AM
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Yeah there's definitely good and bad debt. I have lots of debt, but it's all in investment properties that will look after us down the track.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:17 AM
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My best friend from high school shacked up with her first serious boyfriend, and ten years on was living with him. He was a loser "artist" - smoked pot all day long and was financially supported by my friend and his mum. She was gorgeous and bubbly and always had great men crushing on her, also a real good girl and did whatever her idiot boyfriend said. Stopped hanging out with us because we didn't like him, but would often call me in tears after one of his violent outbursts. For a decade she tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:49 PM
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No. If you're losing weight then calorie intake is less. Keto works because it stabilises your insulin and you don't get hungry as often. You're eating higher density foods, but much less of them and you end up losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:26 PM
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Maturity comes from experience, you can't just will it into existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:46 AM
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Right, well I guess I'm the wrong person to be asking about this. I don't believe in purely platonic close male-female friendships, so if any dude is trying too hard to befriend me I'm going to assume he wants to fuck. A far more natural way for these things to go is that two people in an extended social group click and end up together. I've never gone on to date someone I've been friends with for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:03 AM
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Usually these are the men that ditch the friendship as soon as they're rejected. Surely if they were friends for friendship's sake in the first place they'd try to preserve that? Your post is not Q4W, but its entire premise is based on discovering a way of dating that women would approve of. Why? Why not just do what works, and let women deal with their end of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:47 AM
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No one's complaining about an attraction that built over time. They're complaining about men who befriend her with the sole intention of fucking her, and then ghost when she turns him down. Why are you asking women how to date anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:40 AM
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Lots of water and make sure you're getting your electrolytes!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:57 AM
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All carbs convert into glucose. As usual you have no idea what you're taking about and I have stuff to do so bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:14 AM
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Read about insulin and leptin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:05 AM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:01 AM
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Good luck with it! Let me know if you need recipes or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:59 AM
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Keto is being in the metabolic state of ketosis. You don't need to eat spoons of lard for it to be keto.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:58 AM
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I'm convinced that /u/rus9384 is actually a Russian AI bot trained to disagree in the most daft, irritating way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:57 AM
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Oh my god shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:55 AM
3

No, she's right. I eat keto most of the time and my appetite is almost nonexistent. If I eat carbs, I'm hungry an hour later. If I eat a small amount of fat and protein it keeps me full much longer. Read about insulin and leptin if you're actually interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:54 AM
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Nope they're fine, carb free is carb free. Some people don't like artificial sweeteners for whatever reason, but I love me a coke zero!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:32 AM
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Also - I personally feel like it's an all or nothing thing for me. Going low carb without actually entering ketosis just makes me feel tired and grouchy. Give it a go, but consider just going cold turkey, getting through the keto flu, and getting the benefits of ketosis straight up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:21 AM
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I've eaten keto like 80% of the time over the last few years. I feel way better on it and has just sort of become my norm now. The subreddit tends to be full of very overweight big dudes who can eat bacon and cheese three times a day while still losing, but for normal people that's no good. I avoid all the keto websites and blogs because it's gimicky and the recipes are shit. It's all some variation of wrapping meat in cheese in bacon and frying it and just yuck. I also hate keto baking. You sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:17 AM
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Do you have many male friends? Like actual close friends and not just acquaintances. How many of them, if any, do you think secretly want to have sex with you? Like 5 or 6, and they're all gay. So no. We hang out with plenty of guys, but they're all my husband's friends or my friend's partners so there's always a respectful distance. We don't get too close. I had some close straight "friends" in the past but they'd always evaporate when I got into a relationship. Does that make you feel any diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:28 PM
1

You entirely missed my point, but carry on I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 08:38 AM
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As long as he's not repulsive to look at, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:26 PM
2

Stop commenting at me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:56 PM
6

Yes that's it. You're just too smart for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 09:54 PM
2

We have an "intuition" but it's targeted at socially inept guys, not rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:08 PM
2

Reread what I said and consider again whether or not your response has anything to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:02 PM
1

Of course we do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:37 AM
2

How so? Every single time you see one of these deranged shooters/killers it's a guy, usually one who's bad socially/with girls. Does it not make sense that people would be less sympathetic of guys making these complaints?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:35 AM
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Ok I have better things to do with my Saturday afternoon than trying to explain my schooling to a Russian stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:16 AM
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Because I lived it and I saw it all around me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:25 AM
3

Yeah I was a teen in the early 00s but my mum said much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:20 AM
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I do. Because I'm a western woman who went to a girls school. Not a clueless Russian dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:56 AM
2

Ugly women don't shoot up schools. Disaffected mentally ill men venting about their lot are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:04 AM
1

Yeah that's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 11:49 PM
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What makes you think you have any insight whatsoever into girls schools in the west. You don't need to give your input on every single topic, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:22 PM
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First quote is mine, and it comes from my experience growing up in single sex girl's schools where there was a huge dichotomy between the good girls and the sluts. The good girls settled down soon after high school or college to their first or second partner, and these are the neurotic ones who have sex once a month with the lights off. Maybe a little more frequently if they're trying to conceive their next kid. They're the women who have strict mom's-the-boss rules about what hubby does with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:26 PM
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Lol yeah to be honest I'd probably be a bit put off if my husband swapped his regular beer or whiskey for a strawberry daiquiri. I like that he has taste and can appreciate good wine and whiskey, girly drinks don't mesh with that part of him at all. Edit: put off probs isn't the right word. I'd just be puzzled cause he's a snob with that stuff and you couldn't pay him to drink a fruity girly thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:47 AM
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Yeah maybe. I really don't think there's much of a correlation between n count and how easily impressed a woman is. I do know that even as a teen I knew exactly how bad bad sex was. I also know that women who love sex tend to go out and have a lot of it, this trope of the innocent virgin turned porn star sex kitten for the right guy is total BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:06 AM
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When I see that mentality in here it comes across to me as an insecurity thing. These guys think that if they nab an inexperienced girl she won't be able to tell if he's lousy in bed. Like she'll be easier to satisfy and he won't have to work as hard to keep her committed to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:44 AM
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In Australia it's mainly the loud, annoying American trope. My husband works with an overbearing, obnoxious Texan dude, and when he says "he's very... American" everyone knows exactly what he means. Trump gets a lot of eye-rolls and there's definitely a big mood of "please don't bomb anyone, we don't want to get dragged into another of your wars".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:40 AM
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I'm also a female INTP. Best thing for me was befriending a super warm, social ENFP in high school and letting her guide me through my social life. She almost single handedly turned me into a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:11 AM
2

Yeah so like I asked in the other thread, are you planning on doing anything else about these grave injustices? Or are you just doing the complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:47 AM
1

Feminists did more than whinge at each other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:30 AM
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It did! Among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:55 AM
7

Ok so what's your solution then? Beyond complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:28 AM
4

TRPs will defend male preferences while shaming double-standards. But they are essentially the same thing. Both sides are equally hypocritical. It's not just a BP thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:46 AM
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Yeah and guys shame women for changing their strategy while defending their own. Where is the asymmetry?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:37 AM
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Men get upset about women changing their preferences, and women get upset about men changing their preferences. I don't see the asymmetry. Why should someone listen to your seething and cease pursuing something that they feel makes them happy or would make them happy? I would say the same to men who cry about AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:30 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:28 AM
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Do you think 19 year old girls dating the hot drug dealer DJ are planning to settle down and have kids with him? I dated all sorts of broke rough types when I was young. Hell, I dated women when I was young. I never had any intention of marrying someone like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:24 AM
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That is not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:26 PM
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No, I said I could complain about him but I would not. Refusing to talk shit about the person you love is not lying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:21 PM
5

Where did I lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:14 PM
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Practice your English before you come in here. I have no fucking idea what you're on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:41 AM
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I've considered making an art installation with them. Stringing them up around the living room and seeing how long it take him to notice. Probably when he's got no clean socks left haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:39 AM
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I actively try not to think badly of my SO because I believe in the "how you think is eventually how you act" thing Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:37 AM
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Choosing not to air your dirty laundry is not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:35 AM
7

You're not making any sense. You keep talking about women lying - show us where this is happening or shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:28 AM
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Where are women lying about their husbands being perfect? Not going out of your way to insult someone is not the same as lying about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:21 AM
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For my husband, it's the socks. He just drops his socks wherever he happens to be when he feels like being barefoot, so I'm constantly finding dirty socks under the desk, in the kitchen, in the hallway. Every day is a brand new game of hide and seek with his damn socks lol. But you know, it's just socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:48 AM
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When you care about someone you don't want to talk shit about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:44 AM
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You're overthinking it. Women in relationships tend to respect the men they're with and keep any grievances to themselves. I don't think any woman here would say that their man has no bad qualities at all, but they have better taste than to bitch about it online. Once you've broken up with a guy you don't owe him shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:13 AM
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I could, but I won't. Why do you want so badly for women to talk shit about their men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:33 AM
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Yeah we were in our late 20s when we met, so I expected him to have a history. I'd be worried if he didn't!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:57 AM
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Do you ever examine yourself and wonder why that is and if its healthy to make such dramatic judgement on something superficial? Nope. Why would it not be "healthy" to be turned on by something superficial? I'm not marrying a guy for his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:29 AM
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I don't care about n count at all, as long as he's not a virgin or super low n.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:52 PM
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Yup. I liked him a lot, enjoyed being around him, the sex was great. I was young and he kept dropping hints that if I stuck around long enough we'd be together, so I just carried on hoping like hell he'd eventually come around and be my bf. This went on for like a year before my friends talked some sense into me and I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:51 PM
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I get turned on by the idea of a big penis. It just feels manly and substantial and hot compared to regular or small sized one. The actual sensations it gives during sex aren't really any better though. It's a psychological thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:48 PM
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Enjoying sex is entirely wrapped up in how much I like the guy, rather than the physical process. A strange good looking man could come along and fuck me and give me the exact same physical sensations that my husband does, and it would be shit. Sex is so emotional and psychological for me (and most women, I think). It's all about the build up and the context and the psychological attraction, you can't just say "do you like sex Y/N" and get a meaningful answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:50 AM
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Haha yes. I'm married. Most of my friends are married. We all had slutty phases and we're all doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:29 AM
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The construction workers where I live are mostly pretty gorgeous. Tanned, young and strong. When I was a teenager my friends and I would often honk and wave and carry on when we passed them on our way to school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 06:59 AM
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Whenever it rains we get huntsman spiders coming into the house. Our cat loves to collect one and leave it right next to the bed for me to step on first thing in the morning. I really wish she wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:29 AM
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That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:50 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:25 AM
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A man twice your size in prison who is capable of impregnating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:16 AM
1

Have you asked, or are you just being despondent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:16 AM
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I can't help you there, chat to successful guys and ask them where you're going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:51 AM
2

Then you obviously need to change your approach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:42 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:59 AM
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There's approaching a woman, and there's approaching a woman, and you do need some social skills to be able to tell the difference. Looming over a woman and incessantly bugging her while she's on her way to work is probably not going to be as welcome as flirting with a girl at happy hour with her friends. This is one of those things where you just need to understand nuance and context, and even if you do you'll still fuck it up sometimes and you need to be ok with that. I feel like you guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:52 AM
2

Hey it wasn't me saying those things, tell someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:32 AM
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I don't care if they like it or not, the ones I want continue to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:27 AM
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Waiting for a man to approach screens out the men who are too passive to do so. It's also just enjoyable being pursued. No woman enjoys feeling like she's chasing a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:37 AM
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OP is making a point that while it's easy for a woman to get laid, that isn't what women actually want. It's a CMV, the point of these threads is to discuss the topic at hand, not complain that there's a discussion happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:31 AM
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I think lots of men who do an equal load of housework have been brow beaten into it by wives who aren't attracted to them in the first place. I do maybe 80% of the day to day housework, but we hire a cleaner for the heavy cleaning and I also work from home so have a lot more time on my hands. I'm also far fussier about tidyness and healthy food and so on so it just works out that way. My husband does the gross stuff - cat litter, bins, etc and he's otherwise not a slob so that's fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:41 AM
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I'm pointing out how silly your reasoning is, not responding to OP. Just because you're whingeing doesn't mean you're hard done by.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:21 AM
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if men have it so much better why are they the ones primarily complaining? "If women have it so easy these days why are feminists still complaining?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:24 AM
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Dude you're banned get over it. Why are you so obsessed with RPW? They can't stand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:59 PM
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RPWomen or RPWives? Yeah one of the fundamental principles was that if you've got the right guy, a male-led relationship is going to be more satisfying on both ends. Nothing about submission to any other man, which is what's going on in redpillwomen. RPWives sidebar is here https://www.reddit.com/r/redpillwives/wiki/about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:44 PM
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Atlas has explained it a million times in here and could do it better, but basically it was successfully married/LTRd women helping other women manage their relationships through an RP (not TRP) lense. There wasn't this weird obsession with virginity or 1950s cosplay or BDSM and there definitely weren't a bunch of gross dudes in there lecturing to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:13 PM
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RPW is destructive to the self when it's run by a bunch of TRPers and their girlfriends. It was just fine before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:55 PM
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I was the last truly active mod on RPWives, not the creator. I made one last attempt at resurrecting it about a year ago and it didn't work, so I ditched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:54 PM
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Because they don't learn to socialise in real life and then no girls want to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:08 PM
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Men turn up at the women's march because they want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:00 PM
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No woman ever is offended if you tell her she's a 10. Do you really think men are less offended when they're told they're unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:23 AM
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That's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:09 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't call that an "anger phase" in the way TRP uses it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:47 AM
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What differentiates your "anger phase" from just being just another angry, unsociable young person? Did you have some kind of realisation about men that triggered it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:31 AM
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True. I went on an internet date once with a guy who was great looking, successful, social, etc, but when he opened his mouth he spoke with this whiny nasally twang and it turned me off immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:11 AM
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Oh don't get me wrong, I'm jealous! Every time one of my friends announces she's pregnant or I see baby photos on facebook I feel sick to my stomach out of jealousy and sadness that I can't have that. But there's a huge difference between that feeling, and feeling comfort when they suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:04 AM
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Honestly, it's not something I get. If an individual has done something to hurt me, then yeah it's satisfying to see them taken down a notch. But what you're talking about - finding comfort in a group's suffering just because you feel they have an unfair advantage, is totally foreign to me. For example, my husband and I can't have kids. There's nothing I want more than to have a family, but I can't. Couples who are able to naturally fall pregnant have an "unfair advantage" over us, but I can't i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:47 AM
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Ah it's this weird fairness obsession that I don't understand. "My life is shit but that's ok as long as yours is too".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:21 AM
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Why do you need a woman to tell you how you feel about women? I don't understand how that's comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:01 AM
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Lol I'll be remembering this next time I'm told men are the romantic sex, who love women "for who they are".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 01:43 AM
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Why would intersectionality offer a straight white CIS guy anything? It's not for you. Do you understand what it means? It's whole purpose is to help other people reach your level. You're the goal, not the victim, according to intersectionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 12:15 AM
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Yeah I agree. I've asked about it before and didn't really understand the reasoning the mods gave. At the very least it would give us some new content beyond the slut/single mum/lookist cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 12:10 AM
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So are there or are there not 1000 "socially weird, shy, nerdy, unfashionable, fat" guys for each girl like that? Because you've just contradicted yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:45 PM
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That's a lot of words to say very little. I asked OP what he meant by entitlement because it pops up here all the time and always seems to mean something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:02 PM
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So does entitlement mean "unrealistically high expectations" then? I'm not trying to be difficult, I legitimately don't understand what people here actually mean when they accuse people of being entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:35 AM
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That's not what OP is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:32 AM
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I don't think this is a thing that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:06 AM
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What do you mean by entitled? I keep seeing this word thrown around and I don't know what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:41 AM
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You literally asked people their opinion on your disgusting, MRP fantasy response and then get upset when we say it's gross. Ok sorry. You're a big tough boy and you're very, very good at dominance and this would pull any woman into line in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:52 PM
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It's not "companionship" they're after, it's specifically the companionship of a young, hot thing who giggles at his bad jokes and is able to make him feel more interesting than he actually is. The good escorts are brilliant actors and alongside sex they sell the ego bump, not "companionship"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:38 PM
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The male TRPs and their BDSM "slave girl" plates 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 12:24 AM
5

Yeah I had that exact same fear of not being able to shoot to the top of something went wrong. I tried to persevere because I wanted to impress him, but he actually refused to take me out again once he learnt how scared it made me. Almost all scuba accidents happen because someone panics apparently. Just ditch the lessons. It's not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:49 PM
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My husband is a really keen scuba diver and tried to take me along when we were newly dating. I thought I'd love it, I'm all about the water, but I had the same experience as you. Just hated it SO much. Just drop out. If you're feeling nervous it's actually really dangerous. Tell him you got a sinus infection or something and couldn't continue if you don't want to tell him the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:15 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:49 PM
2

A fuckboy is a guy who only wants casual sex Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:40 PM
2

Nothing you say ever makes any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:59 PM
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So if she's acting repulsive just dump her? Why do you feel the need to outdo her and be even more gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:29 PM
3

Some do, some don't. That's irrelevant to OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:14 PM
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I think she'd be leaving you if you carried on like that. Do you have any idea how repulsive that weird roleplay bs is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:34 AM
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Yes of course it's ok. Why wouldn't it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:27 AM
0

Hahaha good on him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:20 AM
13

Your whole post is about how women call men fuck boys to indicate they don't want to date them. This is not what fuck boy means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:09 AM
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Women have always sold their sexuality to men who want it enough. No one's forcing them to shell out. This is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:03 AM
1

Why is easy a bad thing? Why do you guys all glorify hard work? It's so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:01 AM
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This is not what fuckboy means, you're reading into it all way too much. A fuckboy is a guy who only wants casual sex. It has nothing to do with what the woman wants or doesn't want from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:59 AM
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I mean clock the flair - I have no problems with male dominance in a relationship, in fact I require it, but this whole "I'm a BIG BOY" MRP fantasy roleplay is just so transparent and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:48 AM
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Yeah this weird faux dominance fantasy of his would actually make me vomit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:42 AM
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If my husband sat me down to chastise me like a child with a pre-prepared speech I would cringe so fucking hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:31 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:03 PM
2

Yeah I'm a city person and have always lived in big, expensive cities. It's in my blood now and I think I'd go nuts living in the suburbs or a small town. I'd move to NYC in a heartbeat if my visa allowed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 08:22 AM
3

I was in Russia last year and I actually couldn't believe how angry everyone looked in public. It was something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:43 AM
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Yes I'm a woman. Stop listening to what people say and watch what they do. RP101 Or you can keep crying over the fact that women can tell when a guy's trying to fuck them and that's not faaaiiiirrrrr. Because that's all this post comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:40 AM
3

Sexist men get laid plenty. I have no idea what you're on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:30 AM
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Because y'all seem to be vehemently against fucking men who have any hint of sexism in them Lol who is y'all? Have you seen the kind of men that actually get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:23 AM
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What is "fair"? Make whatever assumptions you like about women. Why do you need women's permission?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:43 AM
5

Where is "here"? You can't compare the London real estate market to some rural Midwest town. Have a look at some of the cupboards for lease in NYC, it's just as bad. https://m.ranker.com/list/worst-rooms-ever-offered-for-rent-in-nyc/ashley-reign
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:36 PM
1

An idea being labelled as transphobic does not stop it being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:24 AM
0

I don't know how what you're saying relates to my comment but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:22 AM
0

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:48 PM
3

It's so bizarre watching you guys all froth over the idea of a sexless marriage with a mentally ill lesbian to financially support you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:46 AM
1

I love cows. It's the only meat I won't eat. Do you eat beef?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:49 AM
2

IIRC they don't have sex and her husband is likely going to be celibate until he dies. I can't see many guys jumping at that kind of life, even if it means they're provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:42 AM
3

No he's just making shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:55 PM
6

Clothing that specifically accentuates or shows off the body is for men. The rest of fashion is to show off to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:04 PM
2

I have no idea wtf you're on about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 12:43 PM
2

It's treated as a joke because it is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:18 AM
1

Do you have any idea how neurotic you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:43 AM
4

It's honestly no wonder these guys can't get laid today. Do you have any idea how revolting an attitude this is? That you're not confident in your ability to protect yourself against a girl? If my husband ever said anything like this I'm convinced I'd never fuck him again. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:15 AM
1

Ok sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:00 AM
7

It's a joke because women can't do shit. Ffs you're all so fucking fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:39 AM
9

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:35 AM
14

The public shaming tactic has actually worked really well in some spheres. Look at all the neurotic guys who are too afraid to be alone with a woman, let alone touch her, since metoo, college inquests, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:02 AM
14

You're kidding yourself if you think women pose a fraction of the risk that men do. This whole discussion is the epitome of male hamstering. "Men and women are different except when it comes to violence - any difference there is just a feminist myth." Uh huh. You know you're full of shit, I don't know why you guys keep pushing this garbage. You sound like a bunch of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:57 AM
10

Women on male violence is treated differently because it is different, not because it's been normalised. Of course a woman shouldn't hit a man, but you're kidding yourself if you think she poses a real threat to you in the way a violent man does to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:28 AM
9

I guess he's irrational and paranoid just like women are. Yeah, my husband is waaay more vigilant about my safety than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:26 AM
1

You're very irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:17 AM
4

Not sure if it's the same in the states, but in Australia almost all uni students end up needing to take some sort of ethics 101 class. Nerds like formalising things to sound clever, so instead of "that's a dick move" you get a lot of "well akshually according to consequentialism blah blah blah". I think it's just nerds being nerds. There's also this weird obsession with fairness and "justice" on here that I don't see in real life. Guys being more concerned with a (real or imagined) inequality t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:15 AM
2

Yeah you're right. Women would be grossed out and men would just feel sorry for the poor dear. Women are wonderful what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:42 AM
1

Most men would feel awful for the women who felt she needed to stuff her bra I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:07 AM
5

Um they'd probably be a bit grossed out but whatever. Your examples are not comparable. A man can see that a woman is wearing heels. Men love the look of a woman in heels. Short women are not unattractive. There's no deceit. A bald woman is far more unusual than a bald man and it's always the result of a medical condition. Sure she'd be hiding her condition with a wig, but it's very different to a man hiding his baldness. Let's say a flat chested woman stuffed her bra and went on a date with a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:27 AM
6

Since when is wearing lifts or toupees "unethical"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:01 AM
1

Yeah I experienced plenty of the super persistent/aggressive flirting in Brazil, but this case was different. These were real hoodlum types in a group. I explained it to a Brazilian friend I was with later and he said they were likely drug runners down from the favelas. Definitely the dangerous type when you're a 25 year old blonde girl in a strange country.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:37 PM
2

Oh, the West. What made you think anyone here was discussing Russia and not the West?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:35 PM
1

that’s actionable sexual harassment against the university Yeah, I know. It was reported and he denied it. I had no proof so nothing was done. The cafe job I was a teenager and didn't give a shit, so I just walked out on my lunch break and didn't come back. As for the rest of it, I'm not calling it one thing or another. OP asked if we'd been cat-called, groped, followed, etc so I explained a few situations where I had been. It doesn't make a difference to me personally if these things are define…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:33 PM
3

Yeah I burn and go back to white. Summer in Australia is rough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:22 PM
5

Words officially mean nothing in smoogsland. I don't know why anyone engages with this garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:17 PM
2

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 06:31 PM
3

I was in Russia last year and there's plenty of cat calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 06:23 PM
-1

Did I say one was better than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:20 PM
8

cat-calling always feels worse from someone in a car for some reason It just feels weak and snivelly to me. Like they only do it cause they know they can keep driving without giving you a chance to respond. This old guy slowed riiiight down once to make gross kissy noises at me, and then got stuck at a red light right infront of me lol. I was in a shitty mood that day so I stomped over to his car and caused a scene in front of all the kids leaving school and the 180 he did was hilarious. Stutter…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:00 AM
23

When I was younger it was pretty regular. I was a young tall blonde woman working in a big city and would get cat calls/cars honking/etc pretty much daily. Occasionally a grope on the train or some guy trying to pick me up and getting weird and aggro when I didn't bite. I had guys follow me home at night and try to grab at me, but it was usually in busy areas with plenty of people so it didn't go anywhere. At 16 I worked in a cafe and the owner would "accidentally" grab my ass every time he pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:51 AM
3

Why is it a problem if it doesn't bother him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:20 AM
1

I refuse to believe that 40% of men on tinder are roidy bulimics on diet pills and laxatives. What garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:13 AM
7

Maybe she wasn't giving you looks? Maybe she was just fucking around and had no intention of going home with you? Maybe your breath smells? Maybe your opening line sucks? I've never been turned off because a man didn't approach menthe the instant I made eye contact with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:10 AM
5

I hate this trend of renaming things in an attempt to draw a comparison to the other sex. Financial abortion. Divorce rape. Now emotional gold digger? 🙄 They're different things. Just call them what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:00 AM
4

And women rape men and boys at very significant rates. Lol no they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:55 PM
1

Ew no young Momoa was gross
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:24 AM
1

Something I have noticed about women is that its all perception (true for men as well I guess). Yup. Just look at all the guys going on about how tattoos/blue hair/revealing clothes are "slut tells".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 05:31 AM
0

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 01:01 PM
0

Uh yeah, it shows he can read social cues aka he has social intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:04 PM
6

I don't care if people quit the game, I'm out and got what I wanted. It makes no difference to me. I just don't get people who are well and truly grown but still define themselves by a reactionary online movement. That's why I was surprised to learn your age - that kind of clique-hunting is very adolescent. But whatever, it's got nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:00 PM
7

Yeah I guess so. Sorry to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 11:28 AM
7

I just don't expect grown men to hang out on the internet talking about Chads and MGTOW and crying about women. I assumed you were a teenager who would grow out of it in due course. Guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 11:13 AM
10

Oh wow, that's actually really sad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:58 AM
11

How old are you, and how much time do you spend out socialising in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:25 AM
10

Do you really think that 80% of men are that socially crippled that they can't flirt with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:07 AM
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I've never had any trouble finding men who enjoy and are very good at the game. I agree that the internet has fucking decimated social skills, but luckily the men I've been into have either not been into it or have been too old to have been heavily affected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 09:52 AM
2

Right. You asked a question and I answered it. Not sure why you're moping about love at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:13 AM
71

I suspect your friend is talking more about the flirting and banter that build attraction rather than straight up manipulation. We like men who can play the flirting game well because it shows he has social intelligence and can engage in nuanced conversation. If you want a girl to fall for you, you need to make her feel something. If you can't do that, you're just a list of pros and cons and that's not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 07:37 AM
3

You replied to me first? I think you're lost honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 04:01 AM
3

Dude we're saying the same thing I don't know what you're getting so upset over. Men and women are different. Yes. Agreed. Are you trying to make a point, or are you just complaining about women at me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:23 AM
3

Do you understand the irony of what you're saying? Did you even read the thread you're responding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:58 AM
3

Uh, yeah when I lived in Brooklyn I would definitely cross the street when I approached a group of black guys at night. Assuming Hispanics speak Spanish is just not being dumb. Jesus you guys are just looking for stuff to be offended by.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:30 PM
1

That's not sorting it out before the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:15 PM
1

God you're all such pendants
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:14 PM
5

It's got nothing with society being anti-man, it's just reality that men are the ones that do these things overwhelmingly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:14 PM
2

The teacher actually does a lot of animal rescue and fostering in her spare time so she gets her fix :) My parents were the opposite, and pushed me to succeed in whatever my current obsession was. To the point where they actually dropped tens of thousands of dollars on flying lessons for me lol. I still feel kinda guilty about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:46 AM
3

Reminds me of the parents of a friend of mine from school. She desperately wanted to be a vet, and had figured out she needed to take biology and chemistry to be accepted. Her nervy parents were so afraid of her failing something that they forbid her from taking the classes and enrolled her in home ec and drama because they were "more her speed". She's an elementary teacher now and very happy, but her parent's neuroticism stopped her from even trying to get into vet science.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:48 AM
5

Well men do rape a lot more than women do. If you had a young daughter would you feel safer leaving her with a strange man or a strange woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:41 AM
2

That's a great doco
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:35 AM
1

fallacy man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:30 AM
4

You think Melania is sexually attracted to Trump? Oh honey...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:51 AM
4

Yeah, well if he can actually gain the sexual attraction of a stunner despite being physically ugly, then his SMV matches hers. Though I think OP is just ranking looks or something, which is pointless and tells us nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:41 AM
2

Yeah despite your bitchy way of talking you do make a point. I didn't consider guys buying sex when I said that. Obviously a gross dude who books a stunning escort is not a 10. I'd reword it to say that a man's SMV is defined by the SMV of the hottest woman who wants to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:36 AM
3

I've always thought of a man's number in the SMP (as men are the chasers) as being defined by the hottest woman he can get. If he's only able to pull a 5, then he's a 5. Similarly, a woman's RMV is defined by the RMV of the best man she can get a relationship out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:19 AM
4

By that logic so too is sexual pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:29 PM
2

Going Dutch has nothing to do with feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:23 PM
2

You don't debate much, do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:58 AM
2

You don't know what feminist means
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:07 AM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:14 AM
8

Lol I'm officially old. I have no idea what any of this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:03 AM
2

Sure, if you all refuse to pay. Which will never happen. I dated for 15 years before getting married and never once gave a second date to a man who was weird about paying for me. I was never left wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:01 AM
0

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:04 PM
13

Testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:49 PM
-1

Good luck getting a date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:47 PM
0

I will discuss budgeting/finances and would like to form an agreement about what they would be willing to spend a meal on. Is different to it's not even likely it would be brought up. I was only speaking about in general that I wouldn't go out to eat anywhere without having a good idea about how expensive it's going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:47 PM
3

Way to backtrack but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 01:14 PM
3

Wasn't this exact question asked like 12 hours ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 12:08 PM
3

Also, I will discuss budgeting/finances and would like to form an agreement about what they would be willing to spend a meal on. This is really weird. I would not go on a date with someone if they started carrying on like that. Have you actually tried this on a real life woman yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 12:04 PM
4

Lol how would these even happen? "Let's go for dinner and split the bill" Smooooth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 11:41 AM
5

One point of communication is to share information, but it also has many other purposes. Just because you only care about one of those purposes does not make the others any less valuable. I just spent an evening out with a group of men and women, and we talked all night. Maybe 10% of that was transferring information to each other. The rest was joking, building and solidifying relationships, having fun. All very valuable stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:24 AM
5

Is it conceivable to you that most people enjoy conversation and words for their own sake, and that it is usually about a lot more than transferring information? I get that you don't value it, but do you understand that you're in the minority here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 09:48 AM
3

Yeah I should have clarified I was talking about women. I agree that what men are into stays the same. And yes - social status is always hot, bit what defines status for an 18 guy is very different to a 30 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 03:16 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 12:29 AM
11

Or a much older man who weighs twice as much and has the potential impregnate or kill them. But sure, getting your dick grabbed by Becky in the club is exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 12:16 AM
2

Agreed. They've taken on the exact same mentality as the fragile feminists they hate so much. It's gross. Finally a top quality post from a woman. Right. Because the men in here are just brimming with intelligent discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 12:02 AM
3

I've said this many times in here and the boys always get triggered. Male sexuality is inherently predatory. Women are not predatory, we are biologically wired to protect ourselves from unwanted men because the consequences are dire. Having a man force himself on you (groping, rape, etc) is psychologically damaging to a woman for a reason - so that we avoid these men and try not to get impregnated/killed by some dude. If you want to believe that there are differences between men and women, this …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 11:52 PM
6

Yeah. The attractive personality is still there, he's just not dealing drugs anymore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 11:36 PM
7

Can you imagine the bad boy who settled down a bit rather than going full thug? In terms of the big 5 traits, has the attractive high openness, low neuroticism thing going on but is also a functional adult making money and doing grown up things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 11:28 PM
7

I have seen people on this sub claim that these factors aren't that important They're wrong. My taste in men became more masculine as I got older. As a young teen I liked the fresh faced, boyish, non-threatening type. In college I liked the alternative bad boy, after college I liked the grown up bad boy who's got his shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:56 PM
0

I find it gross, but I don't think it's as damaging as the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:47 PM
3

You mean why are girls attracted to masculine guys who are high up the social hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:41 PM
8

I think the dating preferences of teens show you who teenagers are attracted to. These things change with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:20 PM
8

Men respond differently to this because (shock, horror) men and women are different. Especially when it comes to sexuality. Male sexuality is inherently predatory so unwanted touching by a male illicits a very different response than the opposite. A female will never be a physical and sexual threat to a male, so men will never understand the female experience of being the target of unwanted sexual attention. For most women it's incredibly intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:35 PM
18

It happened a lot when I was young. On the train, at a show, your aunties creepy boyfriend tickling you a bit too long in the pool. It started about 11 or so for me. Not all men(TM) but enough men that it becomes wise to be pretty wary. What can be done about it? Creeps will be creeps. You can't stop them. Most effective strategy is probably to continue shaming men who do this and warning young women about the predatory nature of male sexuality. It won't stop it happening, but worked in minimisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:32 PM
1

Only a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:23 PM
3

Sluts tend to be sluts because they're masculine-minded, and most women want a man more masculine than they are. So yeah, makes sense that sluts go for guys with strong alpha traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:01 AM
8

Lol tell me more about the female subconscious, you must be an expert 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:46 AM
7

There's some pretty dumb 20 year olds out there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:45 AM
7

I don't think that coming of legal age makes you more or less of an adult. Some women are mature and smart at 16 and won't come to regret things they do. Others, like me, are still idiots at 18 and get talked into shitty situations. Like I said, let people date and fuck whoever they want and make those mistakes for themselves. It doesn't change the way I feel about it or the advice I'd give to young women I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 04:59 AM
2

It's not like a switch, one day she's naive and the next she's not. Obviously. But I know that when I was 18 I was pretty useless at making good decisions and got talked into doing plenty of things that I would never dream of doing now as a 32 year old. Women should be allowed to date whoever they want. What makes you think I'm trying to place restrictions on anyone? But that doesn't stop me from thinking it's gross when I see an older dude cracking onto a young girl. Or from telling younger wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 04:39 AM
-1

So do you think men and women are inherently the same then? Because if so then we're not going to get anywhere here so I'll just bow out and let you crusade for "equality".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 04:34 AM
10

Younger women are easily manipulated. Anyone who's been a young woman knows that. How is that sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:22 AM
1

Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:56 AM
1

Which was?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:37 AM
1

Who decides what is and is not a valid pursuit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:25 AM
5

I love talking to serious math majors. I know a couple of math PhDs and they speak like philosophers. The way they see the world is so fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:57 AM
3

By that logic, anything in the arts or humanities is not a "real" degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:47 AM
2

Aw sounds like she's in good hands. We have the opposite problem with our 2 year old kitty. She's hyperactive and not interested in food so the vet's always telling us to fatten her up!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:45 AM
3

How's his diet going?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:37 AM
1

Ok so if you don't want to be the kind of guy she won't go Dutch for, then don't go on the date? Ruminating over it isn't going to change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:50 AM
1

The why doesn't matter, if it gets results
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:25 AM
2

Yeah I went to primary school with a guy who definitely had something wrong with him. I don't know if it was autism or some genetic disorder or what, but he was definitely a little bit impaired. His parents refused to put him in "special" school and just thrust him into every sport, class, activity, social event, they could find. I thought it was a bit cruel at the time because he did flounder and just wanted to stay home alone, but I ran into him recently and he is now happy and social and almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:51 AM
3

Go find yourself a mommy then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:59 PM
2

So what do you have to add to a thread about a phenomenon that doesn't exist in your part of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:58 PM
2

It's a norm where I live, and obviously where OP lives too if he's gone to the trouble if making a post to complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:10 PM
6

No, I don't care if they like it or not. They're robots for not understanding that people do this because it's a norm and that's how people successfully socialise and date. Life isn't a balance sheet of give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:18 AM
5

I'm not explaining how men feel about it or whether it's fair, but like it or not a man paying for a date is a social norm. If it's so lopsided then maybe men should stop doing it? No one's garnishing their accounts to pay for some tinder date's meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:04 AM
1

Blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:42 AM
2

Oh my god you talk a lot of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:39 AM
9

Honestly I feel like I'm explaining humans to martians sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:38 AM
5

Women wear lipstick because men like it. Men pay for dates because women like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:07 AM
3

Expectation is different to entitlement. Expecting your man to protect you and being turned off when he doesn't is not the same as feeling entitled to his body. Like atlas said, I chose my husband specifically because he is protective. If he one day ran away and left me in danger I would be surprised and disgusted by him. Entitlement is a different concept altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:04 AM
5

Yeah was the same when we were studying. No one had much of anything so we usually paid our own way, or skipped going out altogether and just have a joint in the park. Though I remember my little brother saying as a teenager he was planning on asking some girl out and my dad slipped him a 50 so that he'd be able to pay for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:24 AM
2

Whatever. I'm not interested in talking to you. Every conversation we have goes down the shitter because you don't know how to discuss honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:21 AM
3

It still exists because women like feeling taken care of and men are willing to do it. Even now when we go out for dinner my husband always takes the cheque, even though our finances are totally shared. It's just how non-robots flirt and date and romance each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:21 AM
7

It has nothing to do with pride, it's to do with attraction. It's hot when a man takes the lead and takes care of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:05 AM
1

lol ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:58 AM
2

There's a difference between feeling "entitled" to it and being turned off by its absence. The OP was about a woman who was turned off by her husband's actions. This is a different phenomenon to entitlement - both the dictionary definition and common usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:57 AM
13

It's called social norms. Why don't men wear lipstick on dates boo hoo where's the equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:54 AM
2

Lol I am so not interested in your smoogisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:51 AM
2

Nevermind I read the rest of the thread and can see you're not at all interested in a good faith discussion. No wonder no one likes debating with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:38 AM
10

I grew up in a happy, loving household with pretty rigid gender roles. Once I started dating I was part of a pretty progressive crowd (still am) and none of their views on relationships, gender, sex, etc ever made any sense to me. I stumbled on TRP years ago and would read bits and pieces, but when the old RPW was created they talked about these topics in a way that clicked with my experience. That led me to some of the older manosphere stuff before it got gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:12 AM
2

A coward feels like he has something to prove so he stays and fights. Lol this is some bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 01:45 AM
0

Lol yep when I was in the military they locked us all in a shipping container and pumped it with CS. One of the requirements of being allowed to use the stuff was knowing what you're inflicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 01:44 AM
1

There's a difference between feeling "entitled" to it and being turned off by its absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 01:36 AM
1

And blocked. Ciao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 09:06 AM
1

Oh I see, you're stupid. Nevermind then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:19 AM
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You think that's all that TRP does? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:14 AM
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If you can't admit that TRP is sexist, you're a coward. Why are you all so afraid of being called that? Just own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:10 AM
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Lol of course it's sexist. You're all just too chicken shit to come out and say it in case mommy tells you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 07:46 AM
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Coward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 02:50 AM
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So if she stops working to care for their children? She leaves with nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:14 AM
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That's pretty much what happens. What about stuff that is accumulated during the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:09 AM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 12:54 AM
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The ownership aspect is irrelevant. Most women earn less partly because they're staying home to care for children. This has been discussed ad infinitum here, do you have a point besides "I don't like it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 12:45 AM
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Which family laws exactly are you talking about? I don't know of any that explicitly favour women over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 12:37 AM
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Because they're pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:52 PM
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there are general rights that encompass these sorts of things. No, there are not. The word abortion has a meaning, you can't just inflate it to mean "avoiding the results of an unwanted pregnancy". Women cannot financially unleash themselves from an existing biological child either. Unfortunately for men, pregnancy occurs in women so they happen to have more options. It's not fair, it's biology. "Financial abortion" is an entirely different right that men should be fighting for if that's what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:49 PM
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I honestly can't tell if you don't understand my point or if you're deliberately engaging in bad faith. Let leave the analogy behind because you clearly don't or don't want to understand it. There is no male equivalent to an abortion because men do not get pregnant. It is not "unfair" that women can have abortions, because a man could not have one even if we wanted him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:27 PM
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Yeah I relate to this. My parents were obsessed with each other and were huge on manners and respect in our house. I've always been very quick to walk out if a guy shows signs of bickering bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:39 PM
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I'm talking about what is, not what feminists say. Cutting a bit of the clit off is not analogous to a male circumcision. I brought it up because there are some things that men are able to do, ie, chop their foreskin off, that women are not, due to biology. Same with abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:35 PM
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Why are you telling me what feminists say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:37 PM
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Show me a law that says by default the woman gets primary custody. If both parents want equal custody and are willing to fight for it, the there's no reason a man can't get it. More often than not men don't want or pursue primary custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:36 PM
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Because of biological asymmetry, if there's an accident a woman can protect her own interests by having an abortion. A man cannot. It is in a man's best interests to wear that condom, because once conception happens, the outcome is out of his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:20 PM
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why doesn't the law say that parents who want equal time with their children will be given equal time when it is reasonable to do so? It does
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:17 PM
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Lol you're just making stuff up now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 01:24 PM
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What does warfare have to do with citizenship? If men wanted to take women's rights away by force, they could. Take it up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 12:44 PM
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Men who fight for joint custody tend to get it, unless there's something wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 12:42 PM
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It has nothing to do with "worthiness", women hook up with men who are attractive to them. If you're not physically attractive, then you've got to build attraction in some other way. Why wouldn't a woman go for the hot guy over the ugly one? What is there to be confused about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:15 AM
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I have never once said that abortion is an equal right. Of course it's a right that only applies to women, ie the only sex that is capable of having one. Does that make it special? Is being able to have a circumcision also a "special right"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:00 AM
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Men can have abortions when men have uteruses. Biology is asymmetrical, and by extension so too are reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 05:21 AM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 05:13 AM
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Blacks are not Anglo Saxon or Mediterranean, so no. It's an attraction thing, nothing to do with culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:02 PM
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I've only ever been attracted to anglo-saxon and Mediterranean types
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 07:30 AM
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Yeah, I'm talking about an orgasm without any external stimulation at all though. It's happened maybe 4 times in my life and always been a surprise. I'm not sure what to do to recreate it annoyingly, but it has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 09:14 PM
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I agree with atlas about PIV orgasms being fake news, I thought the same until I had one, definitely real. They're super rare for me and I don't go seeking them out, but occasionally when the stars align it happens and it's a nice surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:57 PM
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I can't imagine being older than 15 and having oral but not actual sex with someone. Do people actually meet up for a blow job and then not fuck? And to answer the question, I don't calculate my notches at all cause that's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:59 AM
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Yup 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:39 AM
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Please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 01:40 AM
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No. Effort doesn't turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 01:38 AM
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omg lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:48 PM
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Feels > reals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:44 PM
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Husband and I are super similar in a lot of ways - had a very similar upbringing, from the same part of the city, our families are both very English and from a similar social class. We're both the oddball alternative faux bohemian born from an uptight, fussy family and I think that's what we initially bonded over. We're both engineer types professionally, but with a very strong creative element that is slowly taking over. We both dream of dropping the career part altogether and living off our ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:34 PM
1

I just watched those videos and imagining you two together is so cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:19 PM
1

Women get respect in a "she has a great heart" or "she's hot". That's not respect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:17 AM
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You're not ready to be independent and you're just about to start studying - what makes you ready to take on the responsibilities of a traditional marriage where you'll be supporting and looking after a wife and kids?
/r/RedPillWives05/06/19 02:56 AM
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Even the most "progressive" woman will play traditional wifey to a man who inspires that in her. It's in our nature. I'm in a very progressive social circle, and my leftie girlfriends who are smitten by their men will out-RPW any conservative church girl. Your job is to be that guy, and stop looking for a unicorn who you think will go easy on you.
/r/RedPillWives05/06/19 02:45 AM
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that's not what virtue signalling means
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:12 AM
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Haha yeah our friends nicknamed us the Swedish ski team because we're both tall and very blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 11:53 AM
1

Ouch!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 09:31 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 08:54 AM
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Yeah that'd be fine. If he was shorter than me, I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:29 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:27 AM
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Whatever dude. I feel feminine when I feel small, and at 5'10 it's not often that I do. A tall guy triggers that feeling in me and I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:21 AM
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Lol I was just talking about this with a friend the other day. She slept with this friend of ours who is super smooth and confident for a tiny scrawny dude. Apparently he's well hung, so now we jokingly put his confidence down to BDE. I do think that hung guys tend to have a certain swagger to them. Most of my bfs have been on the large side, and they've all had that cockiness. Heh. Who knows. Could just be a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:20 AM
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Lol why would I get therapy for it? I never struggled to find taller men and am now married to one. My husband would never date a fat woman, or one who was taller than him (admittedly rare at 6'2). If I could beat him in an arm wrestle, yeah he'd feel less masculine. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:10 AM
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Yeah Mick Jagger's a good example. Ugly as sin but see him in action and holy moly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:08 AM
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I doubt it. The guy I mentioned I hadn't even been close to when I developed my attraction to him. I'd only ever seen him on stage. And what about women who are attracted to ugly looking celebs? It's behavioural.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:59 AM
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That's nice. It has nothing to do with my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:28 AM
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No. The guy I spoke about was still objectively ugly to me. I could see that he wasn't a good looking guy, but was still very sexually attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:06 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bwiqkv/q4w_have_you_ever_been_sexually_attracted_to_a/?sort=top
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:45 AM
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Gross lookists claiming that a woman cannot feel sexual attraction unless he's conventionally good looking. I'll be referring them to this thread every time they spout their defeatist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:28 AM
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Sure some guys are nice to look at, aesthetically. But I don't feel that pull, that fire in my loins, until he interacts with me in a way that sparks my attraction. Same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:56 AM
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It has nothing to do with whether or not you wanted to date them. I'm just asking if you've been sexually attracted to someone who is not good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:30 AM
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White, about 5'11. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:29 AM
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Either way. Just someone who's not physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:22 AM
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The SMV/RMV topic comes up a lot, and I think a lot of the guys here are missing the point that for most women, SMV and physical looks are not as closely tied as they are for men. When I was in my early 20s I dated this guy who I was SO sexually attracted to. I lusted over him for about a year before we finally got together. He had an ugly face, a skinny body and really bad hair. I'd show my friends his picture and they'd actually grimace. But he was so fucking smooth. As soon as they met him in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:22 AM
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Agreed. But the ones that do age well are far more attractive than their young counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:17 AM
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🤷 I thought the boys here would be into the whole "age like wine" thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:59 AM
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There is a threshold, yes. I've never said otherwise. That threshold is a lot lower than these guys think it is, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:53 AM
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That's so annoying. We had the same problem when we were shopping. Only snagged the place we did because it went to auction and the big developer who wanted it got stuck in traffic and missed it lol. House hunting sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:50 AM
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I have a friend working on the ket trials for drug resistant depression and the results are actually mind-blowing. Amazing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:49 AM
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I have never ever said that looks mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:44 AM
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