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Escalation & CalibrationSocial_Teapot/r/seduction19/08/24 09:06 PM
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LogisticsSocial_Teapot/r/seduction31/07/24 08:00 AM
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Fundamentals Social_Teapot/r/seduction06/09/24 06:46 PM
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Social_Teapot/r/seduction17/05/20 10:16 AM
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Fundamentals Social_Teapot/r/seduction13/08/24 02:30 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationSocial_Teapot/r/seduction25/08/24 09:58 AM
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No, it’s about getting space and being able to communicate if you’re in a loud club setting. It’s just a tactic to get a 1 to 1 conversation.
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:11 AM
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This isn’t direct escalation but a tactic I think is super effective. I’ll prefix it by saying, that I’m not proud as a predominantly non smoker (socially smoke if drinking). Ask to for a smoke… smoking area are gold mines + if she says yes she’s clearly interested. Also in a smoking area, asking if they have a lighter is a good way to create chat. My country you can not smoke unless in a designated area of a club or outside.
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:57 PM
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I will direct you to the “about” section on the main page of this sub. That will have your answer.
/r/seduction08/09/24 10:21 PM
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I personally feel this topic isn’t relevant to that sub and take any advice on breakup with a pinch of salt. However, short answer is… time, it get better with time. Long answer, you can write down all the shit things your partner done and all the amazing things you. YT has a lot of great content and therapy (if you have access to it).
/r/seduction08/09/24 08:22 AM
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Hope this isn’t a rhetorical question? If not for me personally, if I’ve got the luxury of being around the girl in the same spot for a while, I’ll smile, say the off hello, small talk. If that gets reciprocated well I’ll ask on a date. If it’s a random encounter the chat would really need to flow well and a good energy. Otherwise, I don’t think I would ask out etc. Conscious, I have area’s where I perform well/confidently and other where I might not. Hence, why it’s really good to hear from tho…
/r/seduction07/09/24 01:14 PM
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Thank you - really bold move and so glad to hear it paid off. Bravo sir!
/r/seduction07/09/24 01:09 PM
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Good quote and I agree. I think I may just playing it safe and wait for equal or greater than response for a girl before I escalate.
/r/seduction07/09/24 01:08 PM
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Well done for the attempt and your input. It can often be more challenging if you’re not “striking the iron when it’s hot” so to speak. I respect your confidence and error tho!
/r/seduction07/09/24 01:03 PM
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Thank you, however, I disagree. I know from first hand experience girls that have tried to purposefully walk past me, come into the area I’m in and I’ve not noticed the signal. I for one don’t have the energy of brain capacity to analyse every subtle move a girl makes. I agree in terms of when chatting it can become more clear, however, these are often very obvious.
/r/seduction07/09/24 01:01 PM
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Thank you. I totally understand the whole polarise/seduction method. If you have any field reports of a unexpected win or risk that paid off please share.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:36 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I’m pretty confident when a girl is showing interest in me when we’re talking. There have definitely been situations I would have missed, but that’s another discussion entirely. I’m more interested to hear those unexpected win’s or bold escalations when you can’t tell if they are interested or not.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:34 PM
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I can relate as literally just came back from travelling! Happy to go into more detail but what really helped me (not just with woman but social situations in general) was positive words of affirmation. You sound like a really interesting, fun and overall cool guy. Girls and guys would be lucky to have the chance to spend with you. Just remind your self of that and know that sometime we do have off days/weeks or even months.
/r/seduction30/08/24 01:20 PM
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Any chance a mod could ban this guy? Noticed he posted some garbage on one of my threads. I get we need the occasional werdio like him, however, this guy has definitely ran his course and it’s time to go.
/r/seduction30/08/24 01:15 PM
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Models by Mark Manson. You’ll see that Neil Strauss has a lot of regret from his experience with pickup and he’s really open about that now. The Game is only good for those who genuinely want to be a pickup artist and can use tips to try and seduce a woman into bed. Models has far more tangible advice.
/r/seduction29/08/24 09:57 AM
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It’s more cold approaches where I faced this issue, especially in bar’s as it’s often escalated quite a bit before I realise I’m not that interested.
/r/seduction26/08/24 11:20 AM
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As much as I would try avoid using that, I have to admit, that’s a seriously good bit of advice and reckon would be really effective!
/r/seduction25/08/24 08:11 PM
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You should take your own advice…
/r/seduction25/08/24 08:09 PM
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Great advice! Thank you.
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:07 AM
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Definitely heavily overlooked! Being around another friendly and receptive people you can chat with is huge!
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:04 AM
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Good luck bro!
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:43 PM
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Great advice!! I think it’s so easy to overlook how big an impact a little foot shuffle can do, especially for those of us that aren’t great dancers!
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:42 PM
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It’s about 1/4 of the questions, there’s much more than goes in to a successful approach than just walking up to female. There will be a lot of guys on this that don’t have the luxury of going to bars multiple times a week. Therefore, any tips that could maximise their chances would be beneficial.
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:36 PM
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I don’t think anyone that’s got the intention of seduction is doing that… if someone is sitting like a glum old man then they have bigger challenges they should be addressing. You have painted a poor narrative and not really contributed a meaningful answer.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:54 PM
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I’m in a situation similar, I’d you plan on travelling don’t date. It’s not fair on the girls and can complicate things if you travel. My advice leave it from your return (or last leg of of your travels!)
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:33 PM
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Work related romances are more complexed as your with the individual so much. In your case, I think you continue to do what you’re doing, you’ve obviously got chemistry just don’t force anything otherwise you’ll get a reputation.
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:34 PM
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Dancing is a huge one! It’s pretty hard for most guys, I also think gets less effective with age. I’ve noticed having smile goes a long well
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:52 PM
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Normally in a social setting like bar, if I’m having a good time and giving good energy and confidence that’s always been a good one for me. This might seem a bit wrong but I’ve noticed in the work environment it’s so much easier to flirt if the girls are new or hold less authority over you (need to be carful with this one tho!) More specific, I once was at the the gym wearing a really tight pair of track suit (joggies if your from the UK) - there’s a story behind this but not sure if relevant.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:45 PM
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My take is that some of the posters that give “advice” have no real experience. This really dilutes the great advice that can be found. Hence, why the field reports are valuable as you can learn from the success and mistakes made. There is a lot of well meaning posters here, that give great advice/stories and help build confidence. However, sadly, I feel there’s a substantial amount that don’t have a clue or are looking to make “funny” replies for likes.
/r/seduction18/08/24 11:04 AM
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I’ll keep this respectful. I suggest you take some time to think about what I’ve said… otherwise we’ll go round in circles.
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:33 PM
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If you measure result by how many girls you see “naked” your metric is skewed. It’s small win’s that lead to achieving big goals. So as long as you build upon your small wins.
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:27 PM
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It was the guys first cold approach and he’s scored digits, that’s a success and a great foundation build upon.
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:20 PM
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Ask for assistance lifting weights from a bar or shown how to do a certain exercise. I’ve got my own explain last time I was in a gym before I went travelling. Was on the leg press, girl came in we made eye contact and I smiled, she smiled back all good. She then starts her set on the smith machine, I can see her looking over every so often I look up again we lock eyes and smile. At this point I leave to a different section of the gym and she comes out to go into the changing room, we have a bri…
/r/seduction17/08/24 11:58 AM
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Going okay so far! No thanks to your comment tho!
/r/seduction14/08/24 02:43 PM
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Sooo happy to report an update already!! Was at the pool side bar at the hotel earlier, girl beside me compliments my accent saying she love’s the Irish accent (I’m not Irish, but good way to start chatting). Told her I’m solo travelling and if she knew any good places around here, currently have her IG and planning on messaging tonight, only thing is she’s in a group of about 6 girls on a Hen so I’m slightly nervous if to meet them all as there is a few big personalities or if I get ghosted as …
/r/seduction14/08/24 02:42 PM
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Well done on the approaches, it’s hard to say where things are going wrong without talking in my depth. My recommendation would try this out in more social settings like a bar/coffee shop etc. In terms of the cold approaches on the street, just keep at it, just don’t go with the intention of asking for a date/number. You may be getting too focused on a result and the conversation comes across as unnatural.
/r/seduction14/08/24 09:40 AM
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Thank you - I feel sometimes my overconfidence can be my downfall as I’ll wait for someone to make an approach on me and escalate from there. Will try this tonight and report back if you would like to hear outcome.
/r/seduction14/08/24 09:31 AM
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I agree with the conversation point 100% you’re right. I have to disagree with the asking on date. Especially in the first interaction in a gym.
/r/seduction13/08/24 03:32 PM
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Dude, the confidence is good BUT why are you cold approaching at the gym? I get if there’s one girl that you have been getting good vibes from for a while but multiple approaches seems creepy and you will most likely get a reputation and banned. Not sure if anyone else agree’s?
/r/seduction13/08/24 02:21 PM
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