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| 13 | A woman who uses your shoulder to cry on is not a woman that is attracted to you, but to the emotional burden you can carry for her. Tell 'em no, even if out of self-respect for yourself.There is a famous Buddhist story about a woman who lost her husband. She comes to him in tears and looks in him for a shoulder to cry on, and begs him to make her pain go away. The Buddha instead coldly instructed her to go to every house to bring back a flower from every family who didn't experience the death of a loved one. She came back to him with no flowers. There are things in life that words can't fix or make better. The kind of person we are also referring to in this sub are ones that wi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/12/18 10:17 PM |
| 5 | She was with her high school love for 12 years. She divorced him because she got bored. Now she is sad that she can't settle down and have kids.there is something said about a bond that is forged young I would say it partly has to do with developmental psychology. Behaviors can be more easily shaped and molded the younger we are. As we get older, our personality gets more set in stone. I think partnering early during this time allows the two to make adjustments in that give and take dynamic and makes those adjustments more permanent to the personality. I would think partnering early also limits outside influences. It creates a cloistere… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | To all the men who have been asking "where are all the good women? " Finally she[31F] has been found, she is a good woman who comes with two kids (third kid on the way)In the fitness world we call that "skinnyfat". You basically see that with sedentary lifestyles that keep their caloric intake low enough to not pack on lots fat. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/11/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | "Still trying to figure out what i wanna do with my life. Swipe left if you are a redneck who cant even spell your grammar correctly or voted for trump. Don't even bother talking to me please. Why guys on tinder are so stupid and rude?" The pain typing that out, I can imagine hell listening to herBeing shallow enough to order someone away because they voted for someone you don’t like will get you left I've been on the fence about this myself. On one hand, having similar religious and political beliefs helps ensure compatibility. Even in daily life, our bigger ideologies govern our smaller actions. On the other hand, being with others who believe much differently than us helps foster empathy because we are forced to understand these positions out of love. It's sort of what Christopher Las… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/11/18 06:22 PM |
| 7 | What women say and what women do are reaaaaally different thingsI learned that she was a complete witch at work, always screeching at male coworkers for being lazy. Transference. If we can't confront the source of our anger we tend to take it out on other people/things. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/11/18 09:48 PM |
| 5 | [30F] "I'm a single mom of 3. Tired of BS and liars. I'm very picky and want a man who will text me good morning at 5:30 am for when I wake up."Also, please know the difference between your, you're, to... I remember a line from the play Agamemnon that goes something like "although the Sybil speaks in jebberish the god works through her". A lot of the Greek plays toy with the idea that you shouldn't be dismissive of a message because of the medium. You do so at your own peril. Just because someone may not be able to communicate using all the established rules of language doesn't necessarily mean that their ideas are invalid, or that they… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/11/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | The good man turns out to be big daddy government. Stepping up and saves all the single mothers. (With our tax money ofc).Sexual selection in our current culture and legal system encourages women to fuck alpha males when young, and high earning betas pay for it via welfare. It's still the same system. The problem is that the alpha males aren't often the most intelligent. Yeah. I'm just wondering right now if alpha fuks beta bucks is more nuisanced than I first thought. I remember another theory that looked at human vocabulary. Basically we have a far greater capacity for words than we need for communication to occu… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | The good man turns out to be big daddy government. Stepping up and saves all the single mothers. (With our tax money ofc).I remember reading a study back at uni that said our total cranial volume has decreased about 10% since 20,000 years ago (not sure of exact numbers. Too many years ago). Found this from Google though- http://discovermagazine.com/2010/sep/25-modern-humans-smart-why-brain-shrinking My theory is that as human populations grew, division of labour created less of a selection pressure on having general intelligence. The more specialized we became, the less we needed to have the high intelligence neces… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/18 09:04 PM |
| 14 | Vintage WAATGM from 1906Thinking out loud.. Interesting that both paths begin with the subject of study and learning. I think this was a mistake. Being learned doesn't necessarily correlate to being a moral person, and being unlearned doesn't mean that they will fall into degeneracy. I would even argue along the track that rationality can create it's own set of problems. This had been a criticism of that Aristotelian school of thought. I'm thinking right now that virtuous people have a different driving force that's co… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/18 08:52 PM |
| 20 | Uhh ohh, her last relationship didn't work out and now she realizes she is at the end of her rope. [See mod sticky for based video comments.]I'm pretty skeptical over the alleged impact we think mgtow is making too. Just looking at the thumbnail picture of her tells me there will be plenty of men pursuing her for quite a while. Hell, she's more attractive than probably 80% of the women I saw walking around Walmart today. Whether she will be happy with these men is another story. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/18 03:37 AM |
| 10 | [25 F] Dates out of her league ... fucks on the first date ... dude splits after he nuts ... "Idc if this doesn't make me a femcel because I still feel like one. A femcel with a used vagina, that's all."Just interested in what the possibilities might have been. My spin is much different and bigger picture than the others here but deceptively simple; some people just can't love. You can show support and give yourself to them but it won't mean to them what it meant to you. We always assume that love and commitment is something all people posses by default. But this may be a case of projection in the positive sense. This is the concept of "capacity". We have different dispositions for different th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/11/18 07:50 PM |
| 10 | [25 F] Dates out of her league ... fucks on the first date ... dude splits after he nuts ... "Idc if this doesn't make me a femcel because I still feel like one. A femcel with a used vagina, that's all."Yes, I'm impressed. It's not easy going into a place full well knowing how critical the audience will be. No doubt the ideas here seem very strange to her. No one is perfectly introspective, but as long as someone is making an honest effort we should be welcoming, right? How many of us tried to reach out to the other side only to have been ridiculed ourselves? I think there is a time for everything. There's a time for shame, but there's also a time for encouragement. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/11/18 07:10 PM |
| 17 | Study by women concludes that they are oppressed. Because men are forcing them to work hard to compete with each other for the 20 % of eligable men.I must say you got some grade A bullshit detectors. Sometimes the fancy language throws me off. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/18 04:00 AM |
| 42 | Study by women concludes that they are oppressed. Because men are forcing them to work hard to compete with each other for the 20 % of eligable men.This was actually really interesting. Conspicuous consumption has been a under developed idea, imo. As an example, consider how this increased competition plays out in online dating platforms. On Tinder, the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women. Why? It’s a matter of the breadth of selection. Offline, due to the constraints of physical space and time, any given woman would have a finite set of potential partners to choose from. Online, the selection is much more vast and most wo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/18 03:36 AM |
| 16 | AITA post from a Good Man!It was a point that really irritated me, but as I'm really antisocial and hate conflicts, I leave it be because I genuinely loved her. Yes, I've been there before. Introverted personality types really don't want to rock the boat. It's naturally really hard for us to draw boundries and generally just express ourselves to others, ironically, especially to those people whom we generally love. So what happens is we usually get walked on in some way or another and not necessarily just in our romantic… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/10/18 08:42 PM |
| 2 | List of teachers (from recent years) who've been convicted of seducing their studentsuptight religious gorgons who hate fun stuff like getting laid Ironic insult, considering it was Medusa's sexuality that got her into trouble to begin with. The Gorgon head was widely used as a symbol of protection, thus why it was painted on shields and used in amulets. So by that point, the so called "religious gorgons" may be protecting us from harm. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/10/18 01:42 AM |
| 13 | "In my 20s and 30s, I didn’t anticipate how quickly time would pass and how many fewer options I’d have as I aged"...but because his wife saw POTENTIAL, she has taken care of him and improved him to be the desirable guy you see. That's why I think love was known to ancients as "the winged one" in that it elevates, or lifts up, one another to greater heights of virtue and attainment. Later it was no coincidence that love sort of became synonymous with teaching or improving the condition of your partner. I would even argue that such an ideal laid down the foundations of many religions. To willingly descend in… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/10/18 09:45 PM |
| 3 | This is amazing. A MGTOW confronts a holier-than-thou Tradthot. She is being confronted about not settlign despite her age, her hypergamy and unability to pair bond.It is possible for one to provide expert knowledge without being able to carry out the advice themselves. Yes, often times, not having a natural talent or disposition for a thing forces the person to have to analytically break it down, whereas their more successful counterparts will have coasted by natural talent alone, and so will be unable to articulate back and teach others their methods (because of its intuitive nature). Things that come easy to someone will never do the soul-searching of on… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/10/18 03:10 AM |
| 3 | [26F] "Take it all the decent respectful guys are taken." Quit your bullshit. You're young, pretty, slim, and no kids. There's a 100% chance that numerous decent respectful guys have tried to date you. It's far more likely you're just very picky.With the caked on makeup, the bright colored hair, and wearing what looks like a tiara, she's not exactly giving me an impression of sweetness, kindness, and maturity. I typically avoided these types of girls like the plague. I like how she lists being a homeowner right up there at the very top. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I don't see how that's a selling point. Women aren't men, we don't judge them based on their material assets. And besides, being a homeowner doesn't necessarily mean it's all… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I’ve caught another oneMost of the time, women can decipher what is truth and what is possible, but present an image of misunderstanding. The most dangerous shit test of all, in my opinion. In the most benign sense it's a way to test the character of others, such as a police officer asking questions he already knows the answers to as a way to quickly test the credibility of a suspect. In the most beautiful sense, it's a teaching tool that uses leading questions to have the other person reach conclusions of their own. … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/10/18 07:19 PM |
| 3 | [26F] "I will not go through another abusive relationship or being used anymore. I'm done with the childish baby games."profession: department store I read that literally. Well, she is a big girl after all. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | [19F] "Take me on a food date. 🥣 Take me to a festive activity. 🎃 👻 Im not necessarily looking for anything. But if I find something worth keeping that would be tight. 🙏" ... So basically, spend 💰 and you'll get to 🍆 on the 🛏️ as long as you are 😈. If you are 😇, then keep 💪 until you 💍.Definitely not odd when you're sleeping with the owner. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/10/18 07:09 PM |
| 8 | 32 year old woman was going to have a baby with her imprisoned boy friend. But now she says she is tired of criminals and want a good man.Funny how it's always them trying to change some asshole guy who gives off every sign of being a bad investment of time, and never a guy who is underconfident but has a lot of promise to make something of himself. Yes, plus those type of men are much more receptive to whatever changes she would want to make in them. But that's one reason why they don't do that, women deep down don't want someone they can get to jump through hoops for them. It's just a shit test. Prison Chad doesn't listen to any… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/10/18 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many smart and attractive women still rolling solo? It must be because they are too awesome! /sI don't think they actually intend to do that, just doing any dirty trick they can to win, that is all. It's hard to say. I know that the bigger or more abstract an idea is the more supporting ideas it takes to build it. Ideas often need other ideas to make it intelligible. Though, I can see how that can be interpreted as being disingenuous as off-topic and distracting. I know a good analogy is painting. We bounce back and forth between the background and the foreground when rendering an object.… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/10/18 03:25 AM |
| 7 | Why are so many smart and attractive women still rolling solo? It must be because they are too awesome! /sIt is true for the most part, that they equate bitchyness with intelligence. I wonder why, specifically? I think it's like how if you were to observe from a distance two known authorities on a subject talking, there tends to be a high degree of contention or disagreeableness between the two. Probably because the more in depth of a particular knowledge someone has, the greater it deviates from common knowledge. The gap between eachothers knowledge base grows wider and wider the more specialized w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 20 | Why are so many smart and attractive women still rolling solo? It must be because they are too awesome! /sYep. They want to share an Alpha than have a beta all to themself. Oh the irony here. They aren't compelled through force, there's no warlords like Genghis Khan kidnapping them, they are willingly placing themselves into harems. So this is what female empowerment looks like? What a joke. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/10/18 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Gents, make sure your occupation is posted in your online dating profiles. I don’t want to waste time having to actually ASK what your income is.To her, she’s the prize and only a man of sufficient caliber (and she will be the judge of that) gets her. You know, it hard to out my finger on it, but this whole thread is helping paint a picture of women that's very Victorianesque. The whole not wanting to date somebody beneath them might as well be "I can only marry within my caste/rank". It's so bizarre. It's like we as a society are moving back into those fluffy aristocratic notions again, complete with all the other things it encompassed … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/10/18 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Asian woman wasted her prime years on her career. She is now looking for a sperm donor. With the possibility of NI (Natural insemination i.e. sex). He has to be a straight White male, so the possibility for marriage exist.It will be the Freudian nightmare where the mother metaphorically sleeps with her child. The mother becomes emotionally dependent on her child, as that becomes her only source of fulfilment and companionship in her life. The child's identity becomes entangled with hers. It's very tragic. It's like the myth of Chronos devouring his own children. I suppose that's why the Greeks thought it takes 3 generations to undue a "curse" laid upon a family. The sins of the parent transcend a single generatio… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/10/18 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Ok then.....There's a corresponding, generalized coarsening that says all the niceties, manners, and courteous acts of society are masked aggression. Yes, there are many political philosophers who held/hold this view. All actions are driven by selfishness and nothing can ever truly be completely selfless. It's not the philosophy that I have a problem with per say, but that those who follow it apply it unequally, and only to others. They want to claim some moral highground when such an idea isn't consistent … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/10/18 04:18 PM |
| 50 | Ok then.....The vilification of so called "nice guys" are in line with this thinking - if a man presents himself as kind, he must be doing so out of self interest. Kindness is then synonymous with toxicity. This is what gets me about modern feminism. It presents a catch 22. All actions a man does, whether good or bad, is the result of "toxic" masculinity and "patriarchy". Another example is when men talk about the many inequalities that men face, such as homelessness and unfair treatment in divorce. Feminis… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/10/18 02:22 AM |
| 15 | When she is gearing up for 2 decades of carousel riding, but drops the clutch at the starting line.Funny. I didn't know I actually had any hope left for the human race until this made me lose it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/10/18 06:38 AM |
| 3 | [47F] "Single and desperate to have a baby, Leila Knox, opens her heart about her quest to get pregnant at any cost. Not having a child, when all your friends are married with children, can be socially isolating." Like a fein, chasing that baby dragon no matter what...just one more pump...I was propositioned like this once. I was pretty jaded over relationships and honestly flattered that a women would find me attractive enough to want my DNA for her child. I gave it about a minute of thought and backed out. Not because of child support fears or anything, but because there doesn't need to be any more children who will never know their dads. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/10/18 04:42 AM |
| 4 | [47F] "Single and desperate to have a baby, Leila Knox, opens her heart about her quest to get pregnant at any cost. Not having a child, when all your friends are married with children, can be socially isolating." Like a fein, chasing that baby dragon no matter what...just one more pump...Tell me, have you noticed any premature death or cancer? What we don't talk about here is that having children later in life has been linked to a lower life expectancy of the children. Something to do with the shortening of the telomeres on the DNA. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/10/18 04:33 AM |
| 4 | Orbiter asks girl why she won't date him, gets (poorly punctuated) dose of reality in response...the rest God knows. Enough with the religious virtue signaling already. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/10/18 12:06 AM |
| 14 | They just don’t get it do they?But she already said that she wants a man who also has a good career, with money, owns a house, and has his shit together, so she wont date those guys. I've always found that odd how they'd want things that become basically redundant. If their relationship becomes serious, they will most likely move in together anyway. Someone will have to sell off their home. It's not like they are retired and can make the second house into a summer home type deal. Or women who already make 6 figures and also w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/10/18 06:12 PM |
| 21 | They just don’t get it do they?Back in highschool sex ed we had to fill out an anonymous questionnaire. Things like have we had sex, done drugs, drink, etc. I believe this was either my sophomore or junior year, so we are around 16-17. I was among 2 others who kept themselves chaste in a class of around 30. I was also one of the few who never tried alcohol. Around half the class had done drugs. It was a very depressing point in my life because I realized just how alone I truly am and how high my standards actually are. The di… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/10/18 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Police body-cam footage of crazed underage woman at beach shows some male cops no longer scared to arrest them ...Yeah some chokes work on cutting off the blood supply to the brain. Source: judo student. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/10/18 03:53 AM |
| 10 | Dating only sucks when you have nothing to offer. (Anal in comments.)Yes, in a sense they aren't wrong. "The best lie is told between two truths", as they say. That's the source of power in female rhetoric. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/10/18 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Dating only sucks when you have nothing to offer. (Anal in comments.)What erks me the most about the whole thing is that they will try to pass off lowering their bar as some enlightening experience where they "matured". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/10/18 11:17 PM |
| 11 | Saw this circulating on FacebookWhy aren't you driven to the point of madness...? Odd that you'd wish mental destruction upon good people that have done no wrong to you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/09/18 11:09 PM |
| 59 | Let's quarantine r/TheRedPill then link to a site that perpetuates how "toxic" men are and how they should behave in ways that best serve feminist ideals.What? Is this a joke? Some feminist college gender studies professors are going to tell me what "masculinity" is? How insulting. Thank you u/where_muh_good_mens and all the other users that put up with my bullshit but I'm done. I'll just continue on my own without the liberal censor police. And I'm liberal! I can hang around you guys and put our differences aside. If I can do it so can anybody else. Isn't that what liberal egalitarianism is about? Everybody and everything has value and worth? Is… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/09/18 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Classy Cunt in Shorts [26F] is bouncing around the states looking for a new cock to cuck with her 4-times-a-charm mistake batting up next for his balls.Cock to cuck Off topic but... Say that 5 times fast. I got tongue tied in my brain just reading it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Single mom blames "ego" for not considering her. Compares her kid to me helping my disabled father.If they really cared about you, they would never ask you for anything that made you uncomfortable or precarious in anyway. Yes. If someone did love you, they would want to see you happy, even if it's not with them. They wouldn't want to make you worse off but only improve upon your life. It took me a lot if years to realize this. I used to blame my ex for leaving me, but then I realized how happy she is with the right one for her. She has everything I couldn't give her. I'm just a poor and sligh… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/18 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Why You’re Still Getting Shitty ResultsSorry to tell you, but we don't wield god like powers. Parameters exists everywhere in nature. I know I'm going against TRP doctrine here, but my whole point is that we need to set realistic expectations, not necessarily that we can't change at all. You get older. Your body undergoes physical and mental changes. This is a fact of life. Such things need to be factored in when assessing your own chances at succeeding in something because I believe in setting people up for success, not setting them… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 05:59 PM |
| 15 | Why You’re Still Getting Shitty ResultsI can relate. I'm a older fellow myself. I took the "red pill" way before it was a thing (I was a bartender for years. Exposes you to female nature, that's for sure). I too, have been more or less just struggling to get by. Still. It all changes you. Once your innocence is taken it doesn't come back. Some people, I think, really get messed up for a long time once the pill is swallowed, especially those of us that were really invested in that blue fantasy, and especially those of us who lost a lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 01:00 AM |
| 5 | [24F] "I'm 12 weeks pregnant and a bit scared. I was recently left by the father of the baby. Looking for a best friend who can make me laugh through the hard times."That's a unique angle. I like it better than most of the explanations on here. They will put everything on the line for a chance at scoring that superior Alpha DNA. You blend this together with things like the halo effect and it makes for one hell of a concoction of extreme psychological fuckery. I would think most life on Earth would place reproduction above their own survival needs. In a general way, at least for us humans, having children is a detriment to our own individual survival. The ver… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/18 12:11 AM |
| 26 | [24F] "I'm 12 weeks pregnant and a bit scared. I was recently left by the father of the baby. Looking for a best friend who can make me laugh through the hard times."I've had quite a few women admit to me confidentially that they had sexual relations with their step-dads or mothers' boyfriends. Some of them consensual, some of them not (or so they say). I've heard it so frequently that it leads me to believe it must be rampant in society. A massive scandal just festering beneath the surface. If I had a daughter, especially a teenage one, left to the hands of her single mom and boyfriends I'd be a complete nervous wreck. Edit: I'll also say that women in gene… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/09/18 08:21 PM |
| 39 | Single mom blames "ego" for not considering her. Compares her kid to me helping my disabled father.Ego. It's a very interesting idea in itself. It's often interpreted as a negative facet of human nature that clouds our judgements and make us less compassionate. However, ego has a seldom exposed positive element. It propels us to achieve and buffers us against the harsh cruelty of the world. It's what makes us hold on to life in desperate times. In short, ego can protect us and provide that necessary self preservation instinct. In this case, from making unnecessary commitments to someone who w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/09/18 03:51 PM |
| 9 | I think Tom’s got this shit figured out.I have to say I admire how much of yourself you are putting into each comment on here. Even writing anonymously, I myself don't have the courage to put myself out there like that. Anyway, back on topic, I agree with what you mean here. Increasing male SMV and, to a certain extant, the Wall, have become more or less products of an almost religious nature - that despite the suffering we witness around us, despite the good struggling and the wicked rising to power, despite all of this, we somehow t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/09/18 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Oops she revealed female nature unwittingly and her peers are sure to put the kibosh on it.Those are great points. It's like transference in psychology. Sometimes we just take out our anxieties on others that are not necessarily doing anything wrong or casually related to what we are upset about. Like believing there is ever really an act of shaming undertaken for its own sake, and not sincerely in the service of some greater goal. Though, doesn't everything in nature have some over arching pattern governing it, and those things are in service to that larger force? The first philosoph… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/09/18 06:17 PM |
| 11 | [21F] "3 Bachelor Degrees 😁. I Have A Daughter ❤. Take Me On A Date To The Aquarium."A lot of people are questioning how authentic her profile is with her degrees and writing and all. She could be lying. She could be telling the truth. Truth is, I've worked with and went to school with women (and men) just like this before. Graduated valedictorian, been in the gifted program, ect. ect., yet they have the emotional maturity of someone half their age. I've also met plenty of people that graduated with high honors but can't think their way out of a paper bag. I've also met people t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/09/18 06:32 PM |
| 43 | "Straight to the point. I'm about 5 months pregnant currently and not looking for anything serious. But I got my needs and mama is hungry😉"I can't even imagine being that privileged. I've had to put in a tremendous amount of work into myself to even be considered approachable to others, romantically as well as non romantically. Every day it was like walking on eggshells, where even the slightest infraction chased others away. I just can't fathom getting that much free attention all the while purposely sabotaging yourself. It's insane. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/09/18 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Some thoughts on how to deal with hypergamy (as a woman)there is no such thing as hypergamy. Basic economics. The word itself doesnt exist in any scientific field because it's an oxymoron. Not true. Just do a simple academic google search on the word "hypergamy" and it's used in the social sciences like evolutionary psychology and biology. Look: Higher male educational hypergamy: Evidence from Portugal HR Correia - Journal of Biosocial Science, 2003 - cambridge.org | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/09/18 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Some thoughts on how to deal with hypergamy (as a woman)IQ 180+ I know this is just the thumbnail, but since when does intelligence have any bearing on attraction? If anything, I would expect high intelligence to be more of a liability in dating, not an asset. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/09/18 06:52 PM |
| 15 | How herbivores, hermits and stay-at-home men are leaving a generation…Yeah I found that line particularly interesting too. There's a lot of different angles and layers to it. These herbivore men don’t connect with others, they don’t establish their own families or have children and don’t really contribute anything meaningful to society, either tangibly or intangibly It's a odd statement to say. If something is intangible, by definition, it excludes it from being observed or understood. How can you arrive at a positive or negative assessment of something if it's no… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/09/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why people give you shit and how you should handle itReminds me of Nietzsche. Life itself is a battle of wills. "Will to power". | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 06:04 PM |
| 53 | How herbivores, hermits and stay-at-home men are leaving a generation…Well fuck. No one else did a long dissection? Ughhh. Fine. How herbivores, hermits and stay-at-home men are leaving a generation of Hong Kong women unsatisfied Well. Guess we all know the direction this is going by how she framed her title. Strange isn't it, how millions of men are becoming social pariahs, outcasts, and recluses, but it's always women who are suffering through all of this? It is this very solipsism in the title that gives the answer to its own questions. In a city already known … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/09/18 05:18 PM |
| 9 | How herbivores, hermits and stay-at-home men are leaving a generation…just looking at the author's photo tells us she doesn't want the guy she describes. As well as 99.99% of all the other articles on here | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/09/18 03:04 PM |
| 19 | "I'm a single mum and had relationships that ended badly. And I hate doing all the housework and financial responsibilities. I've decided to get to know the person first and won't have sex again until I'm truly in love. But every man that I've spoken to just isn't interested." (r/SingleParents)Both of these things seem to be causing me issues. Online men don't want a "pen pal" so I never get more than one evening's conversation and every man that I've spoken to just isn't interested when it comes to the point where I say "no". Notice how men move on in only a single day. She's not even worth playing the long game to them. Dollars to donuts she's only having this difficulty because she's a postwall landwhale that men only see as an easy pump and chuck. Once confronted with the shit tes… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/18 03:49 PM |
| 47 | Suicide Girls is a haven for this kind of stuff. Found in a "Dear (blank)" thread.I was always attracted to handsome, heavily tattooed guys. Musicians, artists - the creative type of person. men who did achieve something in life.. Because when we all think of successful, achieving men, we all think of tattooed artists? Here is a protip from a former figure painter - you don't make much money or achieve a hell of a lot from this. Another protip - chicks say they are into "creative types", but they really aren't. Real creative types have a sensitive and quirky nature that women… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/18 03:43 AM |
| 27 | [31F] "I'm a single mom looking for someone who understands my situation and willing to accept me and everything that comes with it. I'm not looking for sex. I need pockets that are better and deeper than that."must have: power You mean like how Tyrone had the power of invisibility? He disappeared one day and she never seen him again. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/18 02:55 AM |
| 10 | Meet Carol. "Opening my marriage saved my marriage!"I can almost anticipate the counter argument from the other side of the aisle. They would probably argue that attachment to multiple partners is the norm and healthy but it's social conditioning/expectations that cause jealousy to develop now. Once polymory becomes more diffused ("accepted) onto the population, they think our internalized negative feelings will just go away. That's why I think they are so eager to push this into the wider public sphere outside of their own niche groups. They thi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/18 11:39 PM |
| 20 | Everyone tries to tell her to stop being so damn picky. She responds by explaining that she has every damn right to be picky.Deserve's got nothing to do with it. Exactly. Whatever happened to "no one is entitled to love"? Guess that is something they just tell all the incels and betas to shut up and keep them in line, but doesn't apply to themselves. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/09/18 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Everyone tries to tell her to stop being so damn picky. She responds by explaining that she has every damn right to be picky.That's partly what's frustrating with some of these articles, especially the ones where they whine about not finding their beta buks or only getting P and D. It's not what they include, but what they decide to leave out that gives the most insight into them. Often, when you match a face with the writing, it's all we need to figure them out. "A picture speaks a thousand words". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 8 | A Muslim friend made this. He is very woke about the consequences of the sexual "liberation" movement.Yes. Just because something is old or traditional doesn't necessarily mean it's good by that virtue alone. The converse holds true too - just because something is new, doesn't necessarily mean that the method is better either. To determine if something is better, as you said, we need another way to measure it. I think the problem is that we don't always have the tools in which to measure or predict social outcomes the way we can correlate something like botulism back to some behavior that led to… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Retiring Feminist Realizes Something At The 11th Hour.Yes. You can only let them look at, or at best taste, the carrot on the stick, not let them eat their fill, otherwise they have no reason to come back to you anymore. You just need to keep them just enough interested in whatever it is they are chasing to keep wanting to chase it. So they will appeal to that sense of hunger, partially an already ingrained instinct, and partially artificially induced by the circumstances imposed by those social engineers. A vicious cycle indeed. It just so happens… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/09/18 02:18 AM |
| 3 | [34F] Translation: "I'm a strong independent woman looking for a well-mannered man in the top 20% whose money I can control." (analysis in comments)keep it pg and respectful I've never been on this dating site, but I'd imagine the headliner is supposed to pertain to yourself and your interests, perhaps even provide a "narrative hook" to draw readers to your profile. It's very annoying when they instead decide to talk down and insult their audience. Talking to me like I'm a child isn't going to make interested. This is the internet. Not everyone wants to be polite. If you have a problem with the way some people talk to you, I'm sure you can … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/18 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Retiring Feminist Realizes Something At The 11th Hour.Except, what they didn't say is that this "success" comes at the same price for women as it does for men: less time for family, harder time finding a mate... For something to increase, something else must decrease. It seems to be that nature is a series of finely tuned forces and counter forces. Life itself operates as trade-offs. Some organisms are fast, but at the expense of size. Some organisms are gifted with intelligence but lack strength. Reproductive strategies favor quality or quantity, … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/18 09:26 PM |
| 19 | Retiring Feminist Realizes Something At The 11th Hour.A marketing agent told me once, "you see, we're not selling products. We're selling feelings. We want them (the consumers) to think of us when they get lonely or when they feel sad, and know they can come to us". What he was describing is basically the psychology of association. From that perspective, reproduction and the primal drive to have a family presents a golden opportunity for business to sell that bluepill narrative back to us. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 2 | [28F] "I've been through some pretty messed up stuff and am a little damaged. And my son comes first."Thank you, learned something new today. For anyone else who didn't know: Self-licensing (aka moral self-licensing, moral licensing, licensing effect, moral credential effect) is a term used in social psychology and marketing to describe the subconscious phenomenon whereby increased confidence and security in one’s self-image or self-concept tends to make that individual worry less about the consequences of subsequent immoral behavior and, therefore, more likely to make immoral choices and act im… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/09/18 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Carol calmly explains to all the ladies why guys don't have balls anymore and how the miserable courtship scene is all their faultIn ethics, there is a problem called "reclassification of the virtues based on its adjacent category". What this means is that the virtues, such as honesty and courage, can be instead seen as a vice depending on the perspective. The author presents many examples of this in her article. Let's take, for example, a man who doesn't approach a woman. Such men are seen by her to be cowardly. A man of weakness who denies himself, or, how she says, is "dishonest to himself". However, it could be argued … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Leaving a man at his lowest is empowering. However if you can’t handle a woman at her worst, you don’t deserve her at her best amiright?Perpetuates a very harmful ideal, as in a continuation or prolonging of something previously in existence. Unless I'm mistaken, have women ever been told to stay in relationships to "save" them? The only thing I can think of is a marriage vow "in sickness and in health", but I don't think that's what's she's referencing. Really, where or when have women ever been pushed to do this? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/09/18 12:11 AM |
| 10 | Woman hates dating in her 30s and wonder where all the good men are.She needs therapy. For real Yeah. Most of the women featured on this sub need therapy in various degrees. Some need shock treatment. But getting help would require them having to be alone for awhile as they work through their problems, and I don't think they can handle being alone for the length of time it would take to accomplish that. That's why they monkey branch so fast from guy to guy. Not dating isn't even a thought for them. It's almost like they can't stand being alone because they have … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/09/18 08:50 PM |
| 6 | We did a book review of "Sons of Feminism: Men Have Their Say," a compilation of essays edited by Dr. Janice Fiamengo. The submissions were made after she'd made a request for men to speak their minds about life a feminist culture.Historians seem to think the Minoans were matriarchal, but it's still somewhat controversial and critics argue that proposition has been ideologically driven. Any historians in the house? I know Aristotle talks about Sparta being a matriarchy, but only near it's collapse, which would help support your point. Though, Aristotle leaves a very cryptic message: But what difference does it make whether women rule, or the rulers are ruled by women? The result is the same. If we live in a gynocratic sys… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/09/18 07:07 AM |
| 22 | First one found in the wild.Imagine how long this kind of thinking bubbled just under the surface of civil society; now that women can do whatever they want, whenever they want, this vicious cycle is seen everywhere. The Ring of Gyges is a myth about a man finding a magic ring that turns him invisible. The intent of the myth is to define human nature while asking the question "what would you do if you could do anything and get away with it?" We as a society have collectively given women this magic ring that shelds them fro… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/09/18 06:42 AM |
| 16 | She is not really looking for a bf. She wants some status symbol to "brag" as she out it.What's depressing is not what she is saying, but the 3 or 4 guys volunteering for this. No wonder they act the way they do. I wish someone would tell these guys that they deserve better than to even associate with women like this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/09/18 09:58 PM |
| 4 | [28F] "I've been through some pretty messed up stuff and am a little damaged. And my son comes first."The "reader" you would ask this question is best off staying the fuck away from such a woman. There is no certainty of any such psychology.. Yeah, my point exactly. Read through my comment again. We are in agreement. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 11:44 PM |
| 6 | "What Happened to Chivalry??"Hey! Didn't know you came around these parts much anymore after making that sub. Big fan of yours by the way. You put a lot into each and every comment. But people just assume that's me using big words and trying to sound smart. It's much easier to destroy then it is to create. Don't let others get you down. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 08:46 PM |
| 9 | [28F] "I've been through some pretty messed up stuff and am a little damaged. And my son comes first."It's more than safe to outright stamp a single divorced post wall mother who is CC rider as not even worth considering. Sadly yes. Even if readers disagree on what degree or range a person can change and give these women the benefit of the doubt, why should they take that risk at all? I'd ask such a reader are you so sure of your own understanding of the psychology behind all this that you'd bet your life on it? Cause that's what's at stake, one way or another. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 08:01 PM |
| 8 | [28F] "I've been through some pretty messed up stuff and am a little damaged. And my son comes first."I'm going to add too, that it's basic behavioral science that personality is generally only so flexible. Personalty is more or less set in stone with a surprisingly small range of wiggle room, and gets increasingly less flexible as one gets older. What this translates to is that how one acted in the past can and does provide a good indication of how one will act in the future. That's why I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims to be a reformed so and so, especially these older ex carousel ridde… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 06:39 PM |
| 45 | "What Happened to Chivalry??"I see this as a part of a bigger structure, which is the way social change happens in gradations. Or, more generally, the science of growth - each layer building upon the layer that came before it. We are currently in an ongoing shift away from conservatism, which means we still collectively have one foot in the door and out the other. The result of this is that women benefit both from conservatism and liberalism when it suits them, cheerypicking which elements of conservatism they like and igno… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Wine grapes, snack grapes and sour grapes!To that I say: If they are going to be upset about accepting responsibility, then nothing is lost if they are scared off. If they do, we will know they were never good for marriage in the first place. Yes, a very insightful and overlooked point from the others. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Wine grapes, snack grapes and sour grapes!Marriage can only be mutually beneficial IF it's within the context of a culture that strongly shuns divorce as an evil that should be reserved for the most extreme situations, strongly shames promiscuity and that practices male authority in marriage. Yes, much more broadly speaking, "the just can only exist in a just state". I suppose to follow your analogy of the grape, some climates are better for the growth of wine grapes as opposed to others. Some soil will be so poor in quality that sour, … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 03:45 PM |
| 10 | [28F] "I've been through some pretty messed up stuff and am a little damaged. And my son comes first."have a blessed day Find it interesting that she choose to indirectly reference herself being a born again Christian right after her most shallow and somewhat insulting part in her writing. Perhaps some internalized guilt coming to the surface, or just coincidence? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 02:01 PM |
| 17 | None of the Chads she is fucking wants to commit. Instead of lowering her standards she proceeds to shame men.I'm willing to bet a lot of younger men wanted ltr with marriage in mind until they found out the hard way that girls their age don't want the same thing. So now it has become an arms race where the most detached wins. How far will it all go? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/18 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Why are good men so hard to find? If you're a gender studies major, stop reading here. You're going to hate what I've got to say next.Thank you for replying back! I actually whole heartily agree with you on every point you made. I suppose I just accept these problems as a necessary evil used to facilitate communication and intelligibility. I have energy today, let's go balls deep! What always happens is that these places form their own sub culture, invent their own vocabulary and phrases. Yes. Modern language calls this "tribalism", part and parcel to division of labour I wonder? A natural reaction by a social species that dep… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/09/18 07:07 PM |
| 5 | I’m a mid 30s female banker. My male colleagues are making me infertile.My male colleagues don't have this dilemma. Not only are they able to have children easily (often with women who work outside banking) but their ability to start families is making it even harder for female bankers like me to do the same. I don't quite understand why she sees this as a zero sum game. Because her coworkers are picking women outside of banking, she somehow thinks this makes her overall prospects for reproduction worse? Is it because she had her sights on them? Her hypergamy only a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/09/18 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Why are good men so hard to find? If you're a gender studies major, stop reading here. You're going to hate what I've got to say next.It puzzles me why you guys answer a white post with a bunch of black, while claiming you are all about gray. As in only examining one side of the gender dynamic with missing the bigger grey picture that includes both? I'm not sure what you mean here, could you elaborate please? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 17 | Why are good men so hard to find? If you're a gender studies major, stop reading here. You're going to hate what I've got to say next.Yes, a very important point. Respect is based on fear - fear of repercussions, fear of retaliation, fear of hurting someone's feelings, fear of disappointing someone. Men have been defanged to where they don't elicit that fear reaction. So women walk all over men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 63 | Translation: "I had all my fun riding the CC, and now I have none left for my husband-to-be... but he's an insecure asshole anyways."Looks like she tipped her hand too soon. She didn't get the memo that you stop having sex after the marriage, not before. Okay let's break this down. Yesterday in the afternoon my fiance started "making moves" on me, where his mood was clear that he wanted to have sex. I told him that I wasn't exactly in the mood and he got irritated because we hadn't had sex for a while and he felt like I wasn't satisfying his needs. I told him that I'm just not a super high libido sexual person, and he immedia… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 03:48 PM |
| 23 | 200 lb alpha widow in love after one night with ChadThis is a very interesting case study of not only Alpha widowhood, but shows a remarkable cross section of many other things. He told me he will be leaving the next morning. For some reason this made me more comfortable about seeing him. This is insightful. Odd isn't it, that she develops a sense of security from a most insecure situation? A stranger offering no more than casual sex taking her, alone, to a hotel with no future of prospects of a relationship?Paradoxically, it's this lack of secur… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 05:01 AM |
| 15 | The progression from Alpha Fucks to Beta Bucks in picture format.Its that "It's not who she's had, but who she ends up with" bullshit that society vomits. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 03:14 AM |
| 24 | The progression from Alpha Fucks to Beta Bucks in picture format.Maybe we should go back to nature. Judging by the feral state of women, I'm not sure we ever left it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 03:10 AM |
| 8 | AWALT....AF/BB IN ACTION STRAIGHT FROM THE MOUTH OF A USED UP STACY.Some women see it as "you don't shit in the same river you drink from". Or, Aka: "I noticed that after I branch swing to a different guy, my old bf's get angry and ghost me, and I don't want to lose all the attention and gifts of my beta orbiter if I date him and it doesn't work. So I'll have this stranger pump me instead. That way, when I get bored or he dumps me, I still have something out of all of it." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 5 | AWALT....AF/BB IN ACTION STRAIGHT FROM THE MOUTH OF A USED UP STACY.Yeah I hear ya. I come here to poke fun and have some laughs, but sometimes it does kick up things. When it's not fun anymore it's time to take a brake and think about other things. I see it as a form of training. Fighters condition themselves to go against many of their natural instincts, as our natural instincts are to simp. And just as you have to rest your body after a difficult workout, we have to rest our minds when it becomes overstressed. This all isn't easy by any means. We are confront… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/18 10:19 PM |
| 14 | [23F] "I don't like people that lie or beat around the bush. Honesty is key. If you're not family oriented don't bother messaging me. Because I have A DAUGHTER. Yes, you read right! She's 5 years old. And just like her mama :$"and just like her mama :$ Hum... was that $ sign a Freudian slip? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/18 03:07 AM |
| 16 | A Shocking Twist: My Hookup Buddy does not want to be my BoyfriendYou know, this is the 5th night in a row we’ve spent together. We’re definitely not hookup buddies. I just can't get over the whole 5 day thing. So this is the measure of how we are to evaluate LTR material as opposed to a fling? 5 days together? Oh I'm sorry, 5 consecutive days? So if you spend 4 nights with a guy and miss one, that's still a bang buddy? How about 2 nights on and 2 nights off? Still bang buddy? This sounds so absurd. How about you evaluate LTR material based on character and lo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/08/18 04:11 AM |
| 3 | What happens when you stick your dick in crazy (Or another example of how hookup culture damages women).There's a good expression I find more true as time passes: a man's character is his guardian angel. Now that I'm older I can reflect on the crazy psycho women I was able to curve when I was younger because I was that full on romantic beta chump looking for commitment and love. I hear stories about them from time to time and I thank the stars above that they aren't in my world destroying my life. At the time it hurt, but now I see that it was a good selection mechanism to weed out all the party t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/18 08:38 PM |
| 6 | "cheat on him and if you feel bad then he's really the one"Thank you for that write-up. I thoroughly enjoy all your writing. Good catch with The material world is of no consequence to justice Because justice exists as an idea right? And also with that the afterlife is subjective. There is this obscure myth in book ten of The Republic that touches on this and I think about it all the time when I come to this sub. It depicts an afterlife where the deceased draw "lots" to pick their next life. Men who had formally been rich and tyrannical yearn for the pea… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/18 05:19 AM |
| 30 | Feminists: "It's 100% mens job to educate other men on how to be Good Men" --- Also Feminists: "Listen to us, we're trying to educate you on how to be a Good Man" --- "Toxic men don't listen to women" --- But they sure do get to have sex with them!!!Like I have the power anyway to convince some testosterone fueled jacked up PUA to stop plating his harem. He will laugh in your face as he speeds off with the prom queen sucking his dick in the passenger seat. Might as well be asking a billionaire to stop making money or an elite athlete to stop winning. Why should they stop when it's working for them? I've been that guy a long time ago that used to stand up for women, but they taught me how little they valued there own words. They say one thin… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/18 04:18 AM |
| 2 | "cheat on him and if you feel bad then he's really the one"I hate it when Christians answer to all the problems they have and in society is, "well the rapture is coming anyways" That "Justice will be meted out in the end, in if not in this world then the next". Christianity tends to hold spirit above matter, that suffering in this world takes a backseat to the rewards and punishments of the afterlife. The material world is only a temporary stop on the journey of the spirit to its eternal destination. The problem with this is that we tend to resign ourse… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/18 03:13 AM |
| 39 | Tara Reid >>42-years-old<<, sees children and a husband in her future, but not right now as she is having fun!When I started out, I wasn't aware I would lose all my privacy, so I was doing everything that your average 21 year old does, but it was there for everyone to see. Would also add that she is trying to deflect blame off herself by saying that "well, it's just what everyone else does!" What she's trying to pass off is the observation bias of "the streetlight effect". It's sort of an inadvertent red pill. If what she says is true, then it means that, by her own logic, the average 21 year old acts l… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/18 04:36 PM |
| 6 | “Why can’t I be a thot and have a meaningful relationship??”She just wants guys to fight over her. My guess it's a sexual selection mechanism. Antagonize a few males into fighting for the female and this allows the female to better discern which male is the strongest. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/18 09:24 PM |
| 4 | [mid 20's F] "Everytime I meet someone new and they come across as 'nice' or like me without a challenge, something switches off and I'm put off by them." Burnt to a crisp in the comment section there... basically just ashes nowThanks for the help. It was a bit too subtle for me to unravel alone. Quite complex. It's scary how even the most uneducated women with no training in rhetoric will naturally come by these techniques on their own. It makes me question whether certain things, maybe what we would call "communication skills(?)", can be consciously taught and malleable, or if they are more or less inherited or just passively learned through the environment. This question has some relevance to this sub because one of… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/18 05:39 AM |
| 28 | "Mid-40s to mid-50s white men don't comment below and tell me how worthless and undateable I am."I was doing a reading of the Symposium again, and there is odd passage where Socrates is learning from this woman Diotima. What's odd is that the Greeks were extremely redpilled and had a very low opinion of women. What would a woman, who has no education, no philosophy, be able to tell Socrates about love that he doesn't already know? Then it hit me. Women teach men about relationships. They show us through their actions and behaviors how we are to act and behave. We learn from them about what … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/18 04:41 AM |
| 13 | [mid 20's F] "Everytime I meet someone new and they come across as 'nice' or like me without a challenge, something switches off and I'm put off by them." Burnt to a crisp in the comment section there... basically just ashes nowLast thing I want is for a guy to think he can "keep me" by providing.... what happens when he can't? That's not a nice guy, that's insecure and exactly the kind of talk that's off putting. I found this reply particularly interesting. It was so disconnected from the point HardPiano was trying to make. Is she just pulling pre-stocked arguments from a mental shelf, or does this reveal something more? Ranting because of so many generalisations here... where do I even start mate? 😅 You can't put all… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | The Misunderstanding of Unconditional LoveNo I know exactly what your were trying to do and your point. You set out to redefine unconditional love usinging a mixture of red and blue pill ideas. What I'm saying is that the definition can't be divorced from all the other baggage we associate with it, and these two schools of thought are antithetical to eachother. It can't be reduced to just "not expecting anything in return". When we say "conditional" in conditional love we know it has a series of dependences and predicates associated wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 10:47 PM |
| 0 | The Misunderstanding of Unconditional LoveThere is a difficulty in reading through the writing. It passes back and forth between (what I'm assuming) two different forms of love without maintaining a clear distinction of either. This could be a symptom of the common problem with idealists, to pass between how things are and how things should or could be, without keeping the two camps completely separate. A common misunderstanding is that a "yes" is not necessarily a yes forever. You do not have to continue to love when you no longer choo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 22 | Another #MeToo accuser, Gretchen Carlson - CEO of Miss America Pageant, becomes the victim of her own witch hunt: Using her high position to bully women on a daily basisI see this as a shadow of a much greater social problem. Those who attain power and that apex success couldn't do so by playing nice. I'd imagine if you dig a little bit you'd find a whole treasure trove of abuses committed by these elite groups of people. Additionally these people score very very low on behavioral traits like empathy and agreeableness, and very high in Machiavellianism. Not a great combination for someone in a position of power over others. Interestingly too, they also score ve… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/08/18 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Takers and receivers • r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAreThis "boxing in" occurs naturally by humans because we think in terms of patterns and associations. And additionally generalizations are necessary for language to function. If we weren't allowed to abstract from the particulars we couldn't communicate at all. All language depends an certain varying degrees of generalizing. What if we couldn't talk about "chairs" without making a reference back to an individual chair? There's a point where we no longer need a real world "model" of a single chair … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/08/18 12:39 AM |
| 2 | [19F] "Mommy to be next month - Sick of fake love - I'm on ssd/ssi - I don't have time to waste - I respect honesty, integrity, compassion, and empathy - Serious inquiries only! - Pansexual"... Well, at least you admit to being a shallow, wide, open container used to butter your eggs with.sick of fake love Yet you are fishing for a beta provider, complementary of your dual mating instincts. If that's not fake love, what is? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/08/18 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Marriage rantDon't get me wrong. I did my share of errors but I took no shit. Slowly I started to tolerate. After tolerance I started to accept. Then it became the way of things. "That's just how women are - LOL" became my stupid mantra. It sort of becomes your "new normal". You slowly become more and more miserable and you chug through, but your pain tolerance increases with it. That treadmill effect can be a blessing and a curse in life. It allows us to plow through difficult times and accept the inevitabi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 02:38 AM |
| 8 | I created this graphic to simply explain hypergamy.What society should worry about is the 'non-chad' men finally wising up to the shit hand they have been dealt and deciding to no longer provide resources or energy into the system. An aside, I find that there is a vague common denominator in both the current left and right narratives: hierarchies are formed on top of an exploited under class. The difference being to whom they identify as the oppressor. My prediction is that there will be another smaller global economic crisis. The mainstream eco… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/18 10:41 PM |
| 6 | She's contradicting herself. She isn't attracted to 99 % of guys, despite their personality. But then again, she isn't picky about looks like "other girls" want men for their personality instead?I agree in general, but I was extrapolating a bit for this particular example. I assume those girls she "knows" are also some of her friends, and we know that they like to party, assuming fairly frequently by her use of "at every party". We all know what kind of girl that leads that type of lifestyle. Additionally "birds of a feather flock together". We know she goes through men like water, so we can assume that there is a high probability that her friends do to. Hence, slut. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/18 08:54 PM |
| 19 | She's contradicting herself. She isn't attracted to 99 % of guys, despite their personality. But then again, she isn't picky about looks like "other girls" want men for their personality instead?Lots of hypergamy, not to mention with at least a silver medal in the hamster Olympics with all the self deception going on. Here we go again. I've just ended yet another fledgling relationship because I wasn't attracted to him (and was actually increasingly repulsed and annoyed by him, even though he's a decent guy who will probably marry the very next person he dates... because that's what always happens when I dump people). So these men are highly desirable or at least desirable enough for so… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/18 02:36 PM |
| 3 | FR: If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. First hand experienceYeah I was suspecting that she might be thinking beta bucks as well but I think she might have other issues. OP has this under control. He sounds hardly like the beta type to me so he should be okay. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Rose McGowan backpedals after hearing that #MeToo leader Asia Argento was accused of sexual assault.That's a good point. Not to mention that they are actors that literally get paid to put on a show. How reliable can they possibly be when their entire livelihood revolves around giving a convincing performance. Essentially deception incarnate. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/08/18 09:51 PM |
| 13 | Asia Argento, a #MeToo leader who accused Harvey Weinstein of sexual assault, quietly made a deal with her own accuser, a then 17-year-old boy.Yeah. They aren't really angry about the double standards and the assault on rule of law, but rather worried that their movement, and by extension their ideology, might suffer from having some sloppy performances from some of its leaders. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/08/18 09:21 PM |
| 3 | [38F] "I have 3 kids and a newborn. Looking for someone honest, loyal, trustworthy, and a father figure for my kids."To me, she just sounds lonely. She goes out of her way to not deceive readers and make sure that it's clear what they'd be getting into.. I'll follow you up until this point. She's not on there looking for a friend or other companion type relationship. She's explicitly looking for a replacement dad 2.0. There are many other ways to cope with loneliness without having to drag a beta provider into it. People don't have to be in a relationship after all. Honestly, we don't know what happened betwee… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/18 11:04 PM |
| 6 | [38F] "I have 3 kids and a newborn. Looking for someone honest, loyal, trustworthy, and a father figure for my kids."Good catch. Sounds like she borrowed a bit of marketing technique. It's not 50 bucks it's 49.99! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/18 10:35 PM |
| 4 | [38F] "I have 3 kids and a newborn. Looking for someone honest, loyal, trustworthy, and a father figure for my kids."Yeah first time I've seen that as a profession. What a weird thing to put down. I'm not sure exactly how "starting over" pays the bills, hence why she is begging for betabuks to come bail her out I suppose. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/18 10:31 PM |
| 16 | That's very nice of you to say, but had a man said it, it would have ended up on r/niceguys because he thinks he should be owed sex just for being nice.Reminds me of a line from one of Euripides's plays beware the well articulated. They will stab you in the back and dress up the murder with words. Deception is also the premier arsenal in the female playbook, the single most threatening device they employ. If that's taken away, they lose most of their tools for manipulation. So yes, I'd rather these things are exposed out for the public to see. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/18 07:16 PM |
| 18 | [30F] "Looking to see if there are any gentleman left because it's been a LONG time since I met one and treats me with the respect I deserve."A model, so pretty much the epitome of hypergamy and all that's terrible in a woman concentrated into one person. At least she has enough class not to display all of her bad attitude on her dating profile. looking to see if there are any gentlemen left because it's been a LONG time since I met one and treats me with the respect I deserve. I know some people are trying to defend her but you have to read between the lines. I guarantee you that her inbox has at least a dozen or so "gentlemen" that … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/18 03:22 PM |
| 20 | [20F] She's young and pretty but the entitlement mentality is so through the roof it's laughable.I'm just looking to live my dreams. Nothing worth comes easy, or so I'm told. You better work hard... Guess the irony was lost on her. She wants nice things and a lavish lifestyle but wants someone else to work for it to make it happen. Nothing worth comes easy... So does the converse hold true? If it comes easy, is it not worth it? To bad she will translate this through the lens of hypergamy and miss its application as a work ethic. ...or so I'm told I wonder if this was meant as sarcasm and a … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/18 02:27 PM |
| 8 | Social Media whore shows us the socioeconomic phenomenon of accumulated advantage: Societies with less gender marketplace inequality have greater cohesion and trust while those with greater gender disparity corrodes individual and communal quality of life for allThe very destruction of economic incentives for an individual to be motivated beyond the minimal requirement for attaining those benefits is what created the environment to allow for gender disparity. I've always thought it was excess that leads to disparity, not deficiency. Excess of wealth and democratic freedoms. But yes, I see now. It's a zero sum game. Excess of freedoms created a deficiency in work ethic. Thanks for the more technical talk. I've been kinda down lately, and it made my day. … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/08/18 05:27 AM |
| 9 | Social Media whore shows us the socioeconomic phenomenon of accumulated advantage: Societies with less gender marketplace inequality have greater cohesion and trust while those with greater gender disparity corrodes individual and communal quality of life for allThe growing disparity in wealth between the rich and poor threatens health and wellbeing, inhibits social mobility, and is the most powerful social determinant of violence and criminal activity in modern times. The reasons are due in large measure to the socially corrosive effects of inequality on community life. This is what frustrates me so much about the modern discourse on inequality. We have these blinders on how we look at it. Inequality is seen as something only particular to race and eco… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/08/18 04:03 AM |
| 25 | Social Media whore shows us the socioeconomic phenomenon of accumulated advantage: Societies with less gender marketplace inequality have greater cohesion and trust while those with greater gender disparity corrodes individual and communal quality of life for allHey you been reading Marriage and Civilization: How Monogamy Made Us Human? The title you made reminded me of his point that a group stands to benefit more from less sexual competition, using the Nash Equilibrium and studies done on certain species of monkeys. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/08/18 01:45 AM |
| 2 | [35F] "I feel a sense of clarity in my 30's and will never settle or lessen myself in any form ever again for the sake of a relationship. I don't drink. No fun since I had my girl. I'm blunt, like really freaking blunt, tough yet still moody"know thyself, love thyself, for no one will ever do either as well as you will. Just screams single mom facebook addict looking at shitty "live laugh love" memes. This doesn't come off as insightful and doesn't make you look like a deep thinker at all. Maybe you should take this meme to heart and go love yourself off of the dating scene. Put on your big kid pants and own your shit. Interesting coming from a chick who never outgrew her moody Goth phase. looking for someone to add to my life for b… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/08/18 10:11 PM |
| 6 | "Why is it so hard to date as a single mom?"Women typically (and many men) are really bad at something that might be called threat assessment. Women will sincerely be flipping out when some geeky beta guy tries to talk to her, shaking in his pants, but oh so eager to jump in the car of some slick pua guy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/08/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | [27F] "YOU MUST BE READY TO DATE SOMEONE WITH A CHILD. My son comes first, always."please don't be creepy. If a person doesn't respond to you or message them you don't refer to them as "shy" it's weird. It's not rude if people don't respond. It just means they aren't interested. Have some pride. OK spending a fourth of your profile telling people not to get upset when they get rejected isn't going to convince them to want to take the risk to approach you. You come off as an insulting mega cunt who lacks any passing semblance of compassion or sensitivity towards the feelings of… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/08/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of the Alpha FemaleWith the huge population numbers today and the presence of technology,there are no defined alpha females today. This is a problem that often gets overlooked. Humans are wired for small, tight nit isolated communities where social hierarchies are not very big. There was a cognitive study helped support this. Humans have the ability to successfully manage only about up to 100 relationships, presumably the population of a tribe. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 04:30 PM |
| 29 | The Myth of the Alpha FemaleThat might be a good example of the zero sum principle. For feminism to rise it had to come at the expense of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 45 | The Myth of the Alpha FemaleTake this message to the bank: the sexes evolved to be complementary to each other, not adversarial The problem might be that relationships naturally involve a power struggle, and power is a zero sum game. So there will always be an element of conflict built in. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 07:19 PM |
| 8 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanHi. Read my comment at the bottom. My analysis is predicated on the self interest of human nature as its sole motivation and not exclusive to women. Females do, however, have a unique biological imperative that sets her apart from males. That is, they are dependent on the male for protection and have unique evolutionary adaptions to aid in selecting fit males. This is known in this sub as a "shit test". For future reference, when challenging a claim someone makes, use logic and reason and not im… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 06:29 PM |
| 3 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanPeople are self interested. They don't really care about eachother. Like Hobbs said life is "all against all". If we show pain people will either try to capitalize off of one's misfortune or monkey branch to something more secure. People have long memories, and each and every slip up is jotted down in their mental notes to be stored away for future use. It takes a level of self mastery to be able to pick and choose which emotions to express and at which time and for what duration. Practically sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 13 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanA woman asking you to open up is just a shit test. She's vetting you for weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 05:11 PM |
| 21 | The reasoning behind our posts and observations; an amendment to its purpose.The reason why women's profiles, articles, or discussions make it here, is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self destructive, feminist ideology that it is. I just want to be able to have an actual public dialogue about female reproductive strategies in the way we already have with it's male counterpart. Why should it be okay to be critical of mens sexuality but socially taboo to be critical of the sexuality of women? When we open up the hood and really take a look at sex, we m… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/08/18 01:29 PM |
| 21 | The reasoning behind our posts and observations; an amendment to its purpose.If you're Chad, you don't need to pursue girls. If you're not Chad, you don't need to pursue girls. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/08/18 01:02 PM |
| 5 | [29F] "I have a son he is my everything, and I want him to have a new daddy. Looking for a sweet good guy who knows how to treat people good, mature, good looking and likes kids."Well, she looks like a porn star. I'm sure being that attractive she will have the pick of the litter. Though, something tells me she's not gonna end up with a betabux. Realistically, she's not done with the carousel yet. It usually takes the wall or needing a bailout to eject them and make them settle for a beta. She hasn't hit the wall yet and I'm sure she has an army.. No, a small nation state of orbiters that she can prey on for resources. Additionally, her pictures are advertising herself e… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/08/18 04:34 AM |
| 7 | [30F] "im a very outgoing and opinionated girl. im known to have quite a wild streak. I have 2 beautiful daughters. im looking to meet someone willing to put up with my shit. For now I just want some fun.. but my end game is to lock down a real long lasting relationship...but I'm in no rush."personality: free thinker Then proceeds to be as basic as possible. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/08/18 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Found one, started laughing hysterically at "I only want to talk to people who have no interest in talking to me" followed by "You're kind of a doucher but also kind of nice and really loyal to those with whom you're close."Looking for people with similar mindset: you can date or not, it makes no fucking difference This is off-putting. Why would I want to date someone who is totally indifferent about the state of our relationship? Why should I commit my time or energy to you if you're not going to appreciate it? Who would want to be with someone who doesn't find them valuable and not worth giving a shit about what happens between them? Maybe she didn't mean it like this considering the context of the rest of her pr… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/08/18 02:40 PM |
| 11 | Good Men Don't Date. They Audition.You will be expected to tell her everything about yourself while she keeps herself closely guarded. This is known within circles like political science and business as "information asymmetry". Typically, the party that has the greater degree of knowledge wields power. Sometimes this is more accidental, like the consumer of a product will always know less about the product than the manufacturer. Sometimes it's more deliberate, like governments placing certain key operations as classified. In any … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/18 08:37 PM |
| 18 | [29F] "I am a big woman... I mean let's be real here. I'm fat. Plain and simple. I know it, I'm embarrassed about it but that's who I am at the current time. I AM looking for a reasonably attractive MAN (because for once I'm being selfish and unreasonable lol) who can make me forget my insecurities"True. In today's day and age it's sad how "not as bad as it could be" passes as some kind of virtue. If being honest about your intentions and fatness is something we should start praising women for, then what is the point of calling them out at all. Baby steps. She may be a horrible person, but she is at least not guilty of deceit. I would rather have a criminal open about their misconduct than one who passes themselves off as a saint. Who is more dangerous? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/08/18 04:22 AM |
| 59 | [29F] "I am a big woman... I mean let's be real here. I'm fat. Plain and simple. I know it, I'm embarrassed about it but that's who I am at the current time. I AM looking for a reasonably attractive MAN (because for once I'm being selfish and unreasonable lol) who can make me forget my insecurities"Well, gotta give her kudos for being more creative than "my kids my world". Rather than saying "looking for a real man" she just capitalizes MAN, subtly implying it. She openly admits to wanting casual sex instead of the usual shit test of "NO HOOKUPS". That's unusual. Instead of "Curvy" she admits to being fat. Probably the least cliche profile I've seen here in awhile. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/08/18 03:55 AM |
| 14 | Insta-Thot found a way to gather more beta followers to her instagram account. Showing her goods on tinder. While demanding not to be objectified.We were all born into this fucking world working and dying just to be told we're not good enough Ever wonder why we give female attributes to nature? Besides the obvious that nature creates just like a female gives birth, nature also rejects. Nature is in a perpetual state of shaving off it's weaker members. How many creatures have the Earth nursed only to have them butchered by her own hands? She then sifts through the bloody reckage and makes from them a new home in the body of another. Nature… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/18 03:35 PM |
| 3 | She has been dating for 30 years, failed to find Mr. Right. When told she is too picky. She says she hasn't been picky enough!High powered career women are some of the worst people on the planet. Seriously, I think they are worse than single moms, and that says a lot. Control freaks that have this eternal chip on their shoulder thinking they have to out compete all the guys in their field. And they absolutely will not hesitate to throw you under a bus if they think it'll get them ahead in some way. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/18 04:04 AM |
| 7 | [27F] "There's something innately weird about men having short flings with me but never calling me their official girlfriend. So seeing other people having serious relationships makes me feel really empty, depressed and that I've somehow missed the boat." (r/TwoXChromosomes)The fact that she gets so upset after seeing her ex with his new girlfriend doing things together and (presumably) happy really proves the maxim: The best revenge is a life well lived. By the way, lol at the one chick who tells her to date hundreds of guys. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/18 02:38 AM |
| 7 | Where is my Jason Momoa (i.e. 6'4 jacked Chad) why is everyone on here under 6'0"?!?!?!?!Women want a man taller than them, but they arbitrarily choose the 6ft number because it is more round of a number and easier for women to discuss their wants and needs with that. Wonder what would happen if we switched to the metric system. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/18 02:19 AM |
| 8 | Excuse me. I laughed so hard I got the hiccups.the perfect is the enemy of the good. I wonder if that is why the noble lie exists. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/08/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Understanding The Purpose of r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMenWomen are followers. They are not trend setters. We are in charge of that. I would respectfully disagree on that. Women are the gatekeepers, and men generally will be or do whatever women want them to be. The only reason the manosphere exists to begin with is a reaction to the world created by feminism, made of men collectively scratching their heads and asking "what did I do wrong?" We are the monsters that they created. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/18 06:40 PM |
| 47 | "but where have all the good men gone?"There is a certain sting of truthfullness to it. The world is a harsh, uncaring, brutal place that is not made for sensitive people. You have to have tough skin and a devil may care attitude just to make it by. If you don't, the world will eat you up and spit you out. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Yes. It's you.Great. We are giving them ideas :l | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/18 04:52 PM |
| 19 | If you date me you gotta be out wallet, it is one packageI always enjoy a good rant. Rant for a rant? Doing the right thing (according to their immature romantic notions) actually ends badly, both emotionally AND economically, and the government is in on this. You know, this reminds me of a Dawkins lecture where he talks about the ideal distribution of things that buy into the system and things that take advantage of it. Of course he's partially speaking in biological terms of like a predator and prey relationship, however this could be applied to hum… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/07/18 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Sick of slut culture. Give it ten years and this whore will be bemoaning her lack of partners not named "Boots" or "Mister Whiskers".another soulmate? Plural? Isn't that a contradiction? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/07/18 04:08 AM |
| 41 | "Men Prefer Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos." Or the article that went viral and ruffled a lot of feathers because the idea that a man might want a woman who no strong, independent, self-respecting feminist could ever be is a bad thing.Well that article unexpectedly went a little extreme. I don't think women need to be sent back to the kitchen and pulled from college to make a great partner again. We just want you to not drug and slut it up. Keep your legs closed for Christ sake (pun intended). I think deep down we all want to be able to be that nice guy again and give you flowers without you losing all respect for us in the process, without relying on PUA mindfuck techniques to get and maintain your interest. I don't know wha… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/07/18 12:20 AM |
| 10 | #BackUpPlan"no honey, no money" What's great about this is that it can apply in a general way to things other than specifically sex and dating. Anytime your putting more effort into something than your getting out, that is a bad investment of your time. I've terminated one sided friendships with my bros before and quit shitty jobs that didn't compensate enough for the work involved, for example. The greatest power a man has is his ability to walk away. On a different note, if these women were virgin unicor… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/18 04:17 PM |
| 42 | #BackUpPlanPlus if he does show signs of being impatient or frustrated, she will gaslight him by accusing him of lusting after her and wanting her for sex. I call this the "your not entitled to sex" defense, which typically shames and embarrasses the guy into falling back in line. At the same time as shaming the guy, it also virtue signals that she "isn't like that", that she wants something serious and not just for sex, ect. But in fact we all know that isn't true, but this helps contribute to the carrot … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/18 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Single Moms = Jews in the HolocaustI hate to say it but you can pretty much tell what kind of life a child will have just by looking at the parents. It seems like we just don't want to admit this level of determinism as a culture. Also there is this taboo around adoption, that "no one can love your child as much as you can". Single mothers who will give up the child for adoption are socially shamed as parents who didn't love their kids. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/18 10:05 PM |
| 9 | Single Moms = Jews in the Holocaustsingle mom stereotype bingo You know, we should market this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/18 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Career woman never managed to have a relationship with Chad! Because she is too attractive for it! She wonders why talking about kids freak Chads out.I would hazard to guess that there were a lot of good men you passed up in order to pursue the hottest, most exciting guys. Well those guys have options, and you are just the next one on his list She's having done to her now what she's been doing to others. Karma then? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/18 05:04 PM |
| 14 | [30F] "If your profile has pics of you throwing up gang signs, do not message me. I'm no longer interested in dating someone who is involved in the fast life like that. I'm looking for that one guy who will stand out from the typical asshole who will try to play me."At the bottom of her profile, she at least considers the idea of what she has to offer instead of being 100% demanding. It's pretty sad that this is what passes as "the good" nowadays. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/18 08:08 PM |
| 28 | "Guy no longer has interest in me because of my number of sexual partners (70+). I'm broken up about it." (r/TwoXChromosomes)He finally asked me if I liked him, I told him no, he said it was fine. He hasn't talked to me since then it's been over a year. So she rejected him and is actually wondering why he's moved on? She really has to go on reddit to ask this? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/18 03:43 PM |
| 21 | "Guy no longer has interest in me because of my number of sexual partners (70+). I'm broken up about it." (r/TwoXChromosomes)Asking even a moderately attractive woman to abstain from the CC? You might as well ask them to cut off their arm. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/18 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Nothing more. Nothing less.Not just the human female, but most animal species on Earth have some kind of way to test the male. We just happen to be social monkeys that formed strict dominance hierarchies, so the shit tests correspond to what best suits that environment. I kinda think we always subconsciously know about this. How many stories have been written where the guy has to go slay a dragon, or defeat some other creature to woo over the girl? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/07/18 04:56 PM |
| 14 | "I went to Harvard! Why can't I find a husband! It's all because of immature MANCHILDREN! REEEEE"Haha that NAWALT is all yours dude. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/07/18 08:09 AM |
| 3 | “I had a good life with my soulmate. Then Chad made eye contact with me at the gym. We had unprotected sex in the bathroom. It was SO random and now I’m scared to lose my daughters’ and my provider!”We're all prisoners to biology Yep I think so. Can't undo 100,00 + years of evolutionary programming overnight simply by willpower. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/07/18 01:38 AM |
| 3 | “I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we’re on our way to marriage. However, Chad found me attractive and I’m considering risking it all.”Yeah I think there is something in the way humans make choices out of a need for security. Machiavelli's a good read for this. In a uncaring world governed by violence people will try to cling to any sense of safety they can. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/18 11:29 PM |
| 7 | “I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we’re on our way to marriage. However, Chad found me attractive and I’m considering risking it all.”Yes it has the appearance of an easy lay, but those are also the most potentially dangerous women. When they feel that your moving on, they are the ones, out of desperation, most likely to be regret raped or try to baby trap you to keep you around. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/18 11:00 PM |
| 5 | “I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we’re on our way to marriage. However, Chad found me attractive and I’m considering risking it all.”One of the best pieces of advice I've heard on here was just this. "Give um enough rope to hang themselves with". People will reveal themselves in time. Just have to be patient. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/18 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Could men of MGTOW actually be wrong ?That's like asking if biology and evolution is "wrong". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy does its thing again and she straight up admits it.We shaved apes are interesting. We tend to define and appropriate value based on other people's interest. We only desire those things that other people desire. If it's in short supply, we call it "scarce", and the drive to obtain it goes into overdrive. If it's common, it's easier to obtain and with less effort and so the drive to posses it wanes. Ironically, what this does is we tend to assess worth based on factors outside or extrinsic to it. We never will see the thing for what it is. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/07/18 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Just another, "Tired of hook up culture" post.Interesting, it functions like a selection bias. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/07/18 10:25 PM |
| 4 | [25F] "Mummy to a gorgeous 5 year old, work in a b&b, done some photoshoots too. Not looking for a guy after 1 thing. Who doesn't love a good cuddle up watching movies with a munch ?? . My daughter does that job for now!! For a first date has to b out for a nice steak would be lovely then cocktails"There's a lot to it. I think it's partly a form of virtue signalling to the potential man. She's trying to snag a quality responsible man, so she's trying to depict herself as responsible from doing an irresponsible thing, at the same time disclosing that information. In a way it's damage control (in that if she doesn't acknowledge having a child, it may be interpreted as being deceitful, so she tries to spin it to make it sound better). Also I find these women to be internally conflicted. To sn… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | "Pretty sure I'm going to be single the rest of my life." - analysis in comments.I'm a 36 F Not put all my eggs in one basket This made me chuckle. Wonder if she's aware of the irony? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/18 02:25 PM |
| 3 | 47F dating.. yes dating.. a younger guy. She knows it's the final countdown and is ready to jump ship.I think it has to do with the longing for a sense of justice. We all want to believe good and bad will be rewarded and punished in the end. Just something we do as humans to cope. It could also be a vestige back to religious thinking. I would guess most members in the manosphere are atheists, and that sense of justice that would normally be occupied with a cosmic diety punishing and rewarding in a afterlife has been replaced with a more karmic slant that's easily digestible. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/18 04:40 PM |
| 4 | What a fuckin' surprise. After the six month mark, hypergamy sets in.I don't have a problem with people fucking around, I have a problem with lying and hypocrisy.. It's interesting how we shaved apes can sit and watch a nature documentary about some other mammalian species, but when human reproduction is put under the microscope things get heated, people get offended, ideologies get tossed around. We can watch that documentary and most people will never be able to extract those human corollaries. I think it's like a magic trick. It only works if you don't know th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/18 02:26 AM |
| 2 | I don’t date guys under 6’3 because according to scientific calculations my ideal man is six inches tallerAll governments are predicated on religion? Never thought of it that way. The only other thing that comes to mind is social contract. In that case it's more transactional thus probably fits under wealth redistribution. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/07/18 05:14 AM |
| 3 | I don’t date guys under 6’3 because according to scientific calculations my ideal man is six inches tallerWe call that "fun sized" from where I'm from. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/07/18 05:02 AM |
| 2 | [18F] "I'm pregnant and the baby's father is not in the picture for me, but would like to be for the baby, so I need a guy who doesn't get jealous, trusts me, [and has a job]."I suppose people only want things they themselves don't already have. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/07/18 01:03 AM |
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